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"description": "wanting my sister to return the Christmas present she got me",
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} | AITA For wanting my sister to return the Christmas present she got me? | To give everything a frame of reference, my sister is 2 years older than me. She is currently 27, and i am currently 25.
Growing up my whole childhood, my sister and I have never gotten along. We would fight often, mostly because (according to what she's told my parents) she's been jealous of me her whole life. I have... | HISTORICAL | {
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HRePcfquTIwK9q2J9SZgpEfjAhCt5YkM | ab1hds | {
"description": "I got banning from the NoStupidQuestions sub over a Michelle Obama quip",
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} | AITA, I got banned from the NoStupidQuestions sub over a Michelle Obama quip | The question was something like 'what would a future same-sex spouse of a president be referred to?' (Obviously, calling them the First Man or First Lady wouldn't make sense b/c the president is the same sex.) I responded, 'Well, we already referred to Michael Obama as the first lady." The comment wasn't merely delete... | HISTORICAL | {
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d9nf0RS9mtlhOwnAkwFaGLmoW0Gzwcio | a5o2t7 | {
"description": "getting this guy towed",
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} | WIBTA for getting this guy towed? | I'm a recent grad who lives in an apartment with other uni students and I pay to park my car in the garage. The spots are small and there are columns everywhere like most uni garages.
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description of my spot: To the right side of my spot on the line there is a column, to the left another free spot, then t... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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3q3uxuymrIZUIRGWlKlyZqUxVYrOpACA | aw21kb | {
"description": "not ever using tongue when I kiss my so on daily basis",
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} | AITA For not ever using tongue when I kiss my SO on daily basis? | My GF and I are breaking up. All stories and explanations aside - her 2nd biggest grievance of *all* things is that I don't use tongue when I kiss her ever.
I do during sex sometimes, but never just regularly when I kiss her everyday after work, before bed, etc.
She thinks our relationship failed mostly because we ne... | HISTORICAL | {
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T0nIZdRqzgAeG1xtGBL7ESXi6QE0SKy4 | ata4ib | {
"description": "planning on cutting my brother and his girlfriend out of my life",
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} | AITA for planning on cutting my brother and his girlfriend out of my life? | There is a lot of back story here but to sum it up, the person he is with is not a good person from my point of view. We all live in a small town and I don't want anything to do with that person because ultimately it just turns into drama.
About a year ago my brother's girlfriend left him less than a month before they... | HISTORICAL | {
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"description": "saying I don't always enjoy my parents company",
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} | AITA for saying I don't always enjoy my parents company? |
For context I’m 18 and growing up, my dad would tease me and my older sisters a lot about various things. Because of that I’m not really comfortable talking to my parents about relationships and dating. I’m the youngest and both of my sisters are away for college and work, so I get all the attention, positive and ne... | HISTORICAL | {
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0e6RZtLwkFrulBK3pJPRdljvoAqIKyDQ | avkda2 | {
"description": "pouring out water on a downstairs smoker",
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} | AITA for pouring out water on a downstairs smoker? | So I live in the top floor of a student dormatory where smoking is strictly prohibited (and there are no balconies anyways). All smokers I know will just go outside under the roof and smoke there and that's just fine by me. But since a few months some guy one (or two?) floors under my apartment is regularly smoking out... | HISTORICAL | {
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K0dH3tqlHTHCrTcauy5HuWKUrpsvoRal | b4dy8v | {
"description": "accidentally bringing up someone's dysphoria on an online chat website",
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} | AITA For accidentally bringing up someone's dysphoria on an online chat website? | Okay, I just wanted to get out of the way that I'm a pretty sensitive person, and I don't know if I am overreacting or something like that.
A few hours ago I went on sham.chat to talk to some random strangers with stupid usernames and roleplay. I called myself "FBI" and entered chats with strangers. The first few pro... | HISTORICAL | {
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99k0kmmULFOm8ecLCb3EWPh6i4Pq5p1f | a4vy5w | {
"description": "leaving my friend",
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} | AITA for leaving my friend? (Long post) | Oh God.. this has been on my mind for so long. Ever since I cut off contact with him. I'll explain our friendship in full.
So, we met around.. two years ago. At the time I was trying to recover from depression and was going to therapy. I was 13 years old. My only friends before that were people I met online, usually ... | HISTORICAL | {
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vG2p3XCgJd3RRkgs48KDm5bJ64GUi25F | avlfjq | {
"description": "asking my cheating husband for a divorce",
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} | AITA for asking my cheating husband for a divorce? |
Throw-away account. English is not my first language so please excuse the grammar.
My husband and I have been married for 12 years and we have two young daughters. We've had a good marriage overall. The last year, I've been struggling personally.
After a three month dry-spell, my husband asked me to either go to c... | HISTORICAL | {
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RUeJh3SZRAkSajZtZauAb1Azpb4ZnNrZ | b5oxbo | {
"description": "agreeing to go on a date with another guy even though I'm seeing someone else",
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} | AITA for agreeing to go on a date with another guy even though I’m seeing someone else? | I’m in a predicament here. I’ve been dating a guy for nearly three months now and he’s still insisting that we ‘take things slow’ and ‘see what happens.’ We had a chat last weekend about where things are heading and he said he’s not seeing anyone else but he said I am single and I can do what I want, although he would ... | HISTORICAL | {
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"description": "not going to Church with my wife",
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} | AITA For not going to Church with my wife | So a little backstory, my wife is very religious and I am an atheist. We have two kids together and our marriage is wonderful.
We have struggled with the above however since day 1. She has always had trouble knowing I was an atheist. I have always told her I would never let it affect anything and I respect her belief... | HISTORICAL | {
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ftdNuAXXZZmgsaGj9FIadWcADsUDHWX2 | ajp72d | {
"description": "not waiting for a seemingly friendly guy I just met at the airport",
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} | AITA for not waiting for a seemingly friendly guy I just met at the airport? | This one is sorta complicated, but I’ll try to explain this the best I can.
I was early to check in for my flight from Manila to Tokyo, and an older gent (about 50s) who came early too started a conversation with me (I’m a 19F traveling alone). He was friendly and he started talking in Tagalog (I understand tho don’t ... | HISTORICAL | {
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jCGvzQDG5EmRQPhaE95TuIc0HxGHjVqK | alkv35 | {
"description": "telling my best friend I need a break from her a week before her seventeenth birthday",
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} | WIBTA if I tell my best friend I need a break from her a week before her seventeenth birthday? | I'm not going to get into all of why, but my best friend and I have a very rough and toxic relationship. We have for a year. It's mostly her and certain mental health issues that she refuses to change that she knows are hurting me and causing her to not hold up her end of the relationship. This is probably the fifth ch... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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dVYkjZe9b6bhV6Bpx4kjK2lWKGa656ZX | afg59o | {
"description": "wanting to break away from some of my friends",
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} | AITA for wanting to break away from some of my friends? | First off, I want to break away from four of my friends, all for different reasons. I’ll split this into four parts so it makes more sense.
First friend:
This friend, I’ll call him Jacob. I’ve known Jacob since we were in the fourth grade, after he started following me around because I was nice to him. I was fine with... | HISTORICAL | {
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lrwQxn0U14d8s8wqTSwylhFvU49uPtFP | b6qdm1 | null | AITA for the way I reacted to my cousin trying to embarass me? | I was having dinner with family and I haven't really seen any of them for a few years. I graduated last year and have been working at a Hedge Fund since. The topic came up at dinner and my waiter Cousin asked which Hedge Fund I worked at. I respond. He says he's never heard of it. I ask him which Hedge Funds he has hea... | HISTORICAL | {
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VH3eSqZ9xI1J4SEDYUbC2bFsgGKiBmzp | aj3ym2 | {
"description": "leaving the bus by saying \"have a good day!\" instead of \"Bus Stop!\"",
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} | AITA for leaving the bus by saying "Have a good day!" Instead of "Bus Stop!"? | I'm nearing my stop on the bus, and traffic is a bit slow as the bus is approaching a roundabout, and the cars on this line do not have priority, so things are taking long.
So I stand up, and hand the bus driver money, and say "Have a good day." He looks at me which an annoyed as fuck face and says, "Have a *nice day... | HISTORICAL | {
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SvLxt7J2jFLuojg9kLutcnAXXVDnXfbv | as479a | {
"description": "feeling like my obligations aren't prioritized as highly as my siblings'",
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} | AITA for feeling like my obligations aren’t prioritized as highly as my siblings’? | I’m 15 and can’t drive yet. On Tuesday nights, one of my parents drops me off at my youth group, and my younger sister off at her dance class.
This youth group is currently my only recurring club/social obligation that doesn’t take place within school hours. (Yes, I need to get a life, but that’s a different story.) ... | HISTORICAL | {
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NxNEt1vgtAWkjDE9iFrZiqeH30q1iFw2 | 9wkbc6 | {
"description": "asking my neighbor's caretaker to stop parking right in front my of house",
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} | AITA for asking my neighbor's caretaker to stop parking right in front my of house | I live on a quiet street in a town pretty far outside the city. There are about 25 houses on my block and its not dense (maybe an acre per house). My neighbor across the street has a disabled child and they have a caretaker come five days a week to watch the kid. Because of the way the caretaker drives in, in appea... | HISTORICAL | {
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zBBJDxYcX8gNlPHjxWG9TK1BbY81Hf6W | atxprm | {
"description": "kind of blowing up and being offended after being accussed of being a part of the church of scientology by a family member",
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} | AITA for kind of blowing up and being offended after being accussed of being a part of the church of scientology by a family member? | My brother was concerned for me because he deducted from a misinterpreted look that I'm part of this shit show cult. According to him, four or five years ago during one of his visits, I looked at my girlfriend, who then looked down whenever Scientology was mentioned and this was enough proof to be legitimately concerne... | HISTORICAL | {
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RjoBVAvnygkT7vuLOcabSk1NSl6Vn4zS | b53lbz | {
"description": "not buying my friend the housewarming item she wants",
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} | WIBTA for not buying my friend the housewarming item she wants? | I asked my friend a while ago if she needed anything for her new place and she sent me a link for a $30 lamp that she wanted. I thought that was pretty reasonable so I agreed, I just haven't purchased it yet.
Then I get a text asking if I can buy a $60 video game as a house warming present instead. I know it's not c... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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ZtyatLAgVg1GSH85fUdWX3vgcv3NXUIu | azay16 | {
"description": "keying my dad's car after he insulted my friend",
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} | AITA for keying my dad's car after he insulted my friend? | So my friend came to my house earlier. He has to come round when my dad is out because my dad \*hates\* him. Unfortunately he came home and found my friend in our house and kicked him out, calling him a homophobic slur (you know, the 'F' word that dickheads seem to use all the time).
I was so angry at this that I scra... | HISTORICAL | {
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Oyvmbr41dX4DZNh6nL1pjXnHIQwBTnF8 | azievo | {
"description": "wanting to end a relationship due to lack of sex",
"pronormative_score": 10,
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} | AITA for wanting to end a relationship due to lack of sex? | I have been with my boyfriend for over two years now, over seven months ago we stopped having sex.
To give some background information, we started the relationship as teenagers and were eachothers first. We waited 7 months the first time to have sex because we were both too nervous about buying condoms in case our pa... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | NOBODY | {
"RIGHT": 10,
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} | RIGHT |
YLoYHkNPYv4Oymfx922FbExOyUtC5sSe | b46r3q | {
"description": "telling my friend how I really feel about his behavior",
"pronormative_score": 5,
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} | AITA if i tell my friend how i really feel about his behavior | So to make a long story short a friend and I got into a new friend group consisting of about 6 people. Almost instantly i hit it of with 2 of the women in the group and i started to hang out with them alone and not only within the group of friends. Ive even developed a huge crush on one of them that i let my original f... | HISTORICAL | {
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"RIGHT": 5,
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RFhtbwI3P0oVpKWLLIezLDIavLM4Fm1x | aa32hw | {
"description": "not wanting to look after my boss's kid",
"pronormative_score": 5,
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} | AITA for not wanting to look after my boss’s kid? | So my boss from work asked me last week if I could watch her 3y/o so she could pick up an extra shift at work, just a couple of hours so I didn’t mind. She’s a single mother and I’m very empathetic so I wanted to do her a solid. Next day she asks me if I can do it again on Friday (today) but i would have to cancel my o... | HISTORICAL | {
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krxcOtsAS5q1kZDpg8B7cvVj5GklgjD1 | 9ta82q | {
"description": "wanting nothing to do with my partner/baby mama when she is on Xanax",
"pronormative_score": 7,
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} | AITA for wanting nothing to do with my partner/baby mama when she is on Xanax? | Backstory is we are very much in love, very happy, have a wonderful life and a wonderful son. Last weekend I had a scary situation at work that has her all stressed out, and a friend gave her an undetermined amount of xanax to help smooth her over.
But ... She is not an easy person to be around on any benzo. It inhibi... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | RIGHT |
dHD2jOZM8k9iNhuTRjfYOACnISenpfmi | azznfq | {
"description": "expecting the neighbor to pay for half the fence",
"pronormative_score": 2,
"contranormative_score": 17
} | AITA if we expect the neighbor to pay for half the fence? | I guess it should be "Are We The Assholes" cuz it involves the whole family but whatever
Ok, so for a little backstory I've lived in the house I'm in for basically my whole life. It's a little house in a small town with a nice backyard. Growing up, I was friends with my neighbor's kids (We'll call him Bert.) We grew a... | HISTORICAL | {
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uCljIPT7OhmHQaNk23qSIj30wkmppfJG | acf7mw | {
"description": "asking my boyfriends ex-gf to say hello to me in the same house",
"pronormative_score": 6,
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} | AITA for asking my boyfriends ex-gf to say hello to me in the same house? | My boyfriend was dating me and another girl at the same time, neither of us knew. My bf decided to just go with me, and not tell her at all. Then he asked me to move in with him and briefly said the last gf wasn’t really a gf just a girl he hung out with a couple of times.
Fast forward, I move in and the ex-gf star... | HISTORICAL | {
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rxalBWKEAZg3tTrZ6VnIRy1ySFOfe8fs | 9u9ucl | {
"description": "waking up late due to daylight savings and being annoyed at my long distance girlfriend who was effected by it",
"pronormative_score": 2,
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} | AITA for waking up late due to daylight savings and being annoyed at my long distance girlfriend who was effected by it? | My girlfriend (long distance) and I have been dating for 6 months now and talking over over a year. She doesn't live in the states and doesn't have daylight savings so she doesn't fully understand it.
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I wakeup at 8AM and we call and chat for about 2 hours almost everyday. Well yesterday I h... | HISTORICAL | {
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GQEn6AJFq6RIx9ITwulH2Tl9IFj34yP1 | b7xvye | {
"description": "telling my close friend she has literally no chance of getting into med school",
"pronormative_score": 0,
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} | WIBTA if I told my close friend she has literally no chance of getting into med school? | So I've known this girl for about 3 years now. We met during college orientation and have been close friends since then. She was premed from the start whereas I'm non-traditional and started taking premed courses after freshman year. We've only had two courses together and in both instances, I performed exceptionally b... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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rGsOSW6IjAIKDiEPUNnqkOtWKA0NiaHR | a58cnn | {
"description": "wanting to break up with my depressed girlfriend",
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} | AITA for wanting to break up with my depressed girlfriend | My girlfriend of 3.5 years has been depressed for about the last 2 years. I have been trying to help her and offer her all of my support, but she does not try to help herself. Her depression is affecting her friendships, her academics, her job, and her relationship with her family. I have provided her all of my support... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
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vcf6hXDTYP0hP23qeJSfkNWITGjY3sCT | azerzu | {
"description": "flirting with my friends, while I am in a relationship",
"pronormative_score": 2,
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} | AITA for flirting with my friends, while I am in a relationship? | oof, okay. Before you judge I beg you to read the whole post and not just the title. Thank you before hand.
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I was talking to my girlfriend lately and I told her about this girl I worked with in my hospitality year and that I found her on IG. We chatted back and forth on what we are doing job wise now and... | HISTORICAL | {
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Iuywb5jqqiyTKsuwghw4nWsFHHD1DkBN | aaelg5 | {
"description": "telling a girl to get out of the men's bathroom",
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} | AITA for telling a girl to get out of the men's bathroom? | First off, LTL FTP.
So I was out drinking with a few friends in my hometown. It was late in the evening and everybody was pretty drunk, I go to bathroom to answer natures call when I see a girl doing her make-up in the mirror.
Everyone else seemed fine with it, but I've been getting pretty fed up with the double-stan... | HISTORICAL | {
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sESTAFWRSBvAmyn9FmGVU5YtuHNsAYFy | b4mw4u | {
"description": "telling my friend it's weird to give his daughter a nigerian name when he isn't nigerian",
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} | AITA for telling my friend it's weird to give his daughter a Nigerian name when he isn't Nigerian? | One of my best friends from child hood, we'll call hime Jake is having a baby with his fiance. My friend is biracial (half black half white) but he was entirely raised by his white mom and white step dad. His girlfriend is black, but again she's not Nigerian or from Africa. I am white I mean no offence to my friend b... | HISTORICAL | {
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"INFO": 0
} | AUTHOR | {
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lRHP2kmn0EGoW3QW0gxSPaX7lWUhSWPF | b4blud | {
"description": "not helping the women with dishes",
"pronormative_score": 13,
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} | AITA for not helping the women with dishes? | My in-laws have large family holidays (40+ people). The first time I met his family, I noticed there were no women! At mealtime, the women suddenly appeared. After dinner, the guys migrated to watch the football game, and the women disappeared again. I thought they just didn't like football. It turns out that the women... | HISTORICAL | {
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JLSkTRD4q7iwR7ha4LCM5xGsA5P7PZ5k | azik63 | {
"description": "kind of wasting my parents' money",
"pronormative_score": 5,
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} | AITA for kind of wasting my parents’ money? | My family moved from New York to Florida when I started middle school. They enrolled me in a private middle school that costs $23,700 ish for a year. Surprisingly this is way more cheaper than the private schools in New York and the Northeast region of America.
I had a hard time fitting in. I was younger than everyone... | HISTORICAL | {
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"INFO": 0
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V6fuDHiGyZhxUEehv7OU8iGPKGICg0RG | b4yfvd | {
"description": "being uncomfortable with my genderfluid partner's social media accounts",
"pronormative_score": 6,
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} | AITA for being uncomfortable with my genderfluid partner's social media accounts? | I have known my boyfriend for ~15 years (we have been dating for two) and been aware that he has thoughts of wanting to be a girl, which moved to being transgender during the early part of our relationship.
We went to buy clothes, to a makeup store so he could learn and be recommended products, we even went to a wig ... | HISTORICAL | {
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"INFO": 0
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"RIGHT": 6,
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NJvcXBgeeiCvsjpByrXVsa9mEpfaBgHc | af6fnm | {
"description": "occasionally saying, \"that's retarded\" in reference to a situation",
"pronormative_score": 5,
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} | AITA for occasionally saying, "that's retarded" in reference to a situation | Okay, so. For starters, I don't believe I am an offensive person by any means. I'm very soft spoken and in fact, most people ask me to repeat myself in conversation.
I don't curse in public and I'm typically very polite to people in general. Mentioning this because I feel as if it plays a role on whether or not I am a... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | AUTHOR | {
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0T7ymY7w1RYQJXgi7ppdeo4mjPbRjNIT | affh7v | {
"description": "wanting my boyfriend to ditch his best friend",
"pronormative_score": 3,
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} | AITA for wanting my boyfriend to ditch his best friend? | My boyfriend and I have been together for 5 months and his best friend has been unsupportive from the very beginning. On multiple occasions he has “told me to eat shit, called me a hoe, accuse me of not caring about my boyfriend, etc” he even texted me on my birthday explaining in full detail how terrible I am, how I m... | HISTORICAL | {
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"INFO": 6
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"RIGHT": 3,
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rXHn05CfAeLgEZ3f1tOhrKUgYneYfk6K | advkep | {
"description": "selling the gun he bought me",
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} | WIBTA for selling the gun he bought me? | TLDR ex bought me a gun after he quit his job, and I don't want it should I sell it?
My former boyfriend bought me a gun, and I don't want it, I'm not going to use it, and we have two kids on the house, and no safe. He said he dosen' t want it I need money for well everything, he told me he would be upset if I sol... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 7,
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} | RIGHT |
rkqWIjhQluR0You24n6EKqqq4f3vNwUv | aytypf | {
"description": "forcefully refunding games that I then got to keep",
"pronormative_score": 1,
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} | AITA I forcefully refunded games that I then got to keep | I'm having an actual moral dilemma about whether or not I'm an asshole, so let me explain.
​
I decided to buy the "Jackbox Quintpack" for me and my buds to fuck around with, and this was during a steam sale. I noticed that the steam sale wasn't as good as the sale on a site called "Fanatical" so then I pro... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | AUTHOR | {
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FpsHElMZUXnjxfur7IxNkdAeH9vYwiFa | b1nykv | {
"description": "not wanting to depend on my Girlfriend's Mom's schedule",
"pronormative_score": 3,
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} | AITA For not wanting to depend on my Girlfriend's Mom's schedule? | My Girlfriend (22) and I (24) have known eachother for 3 years, we've dated on and off during that time, but only now has it been pretty serious. When we started going out I knew her family was somewhat dificult. Specifically her mother. (Her Father is deceased)
My GF likes to boast about her independence, but at t... | HISTORICAL | {
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"RIGHT": 3,
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KURejVGzkRgDcEz1CwoSHLgXd8wxZ3n7 | b6yp3e | {
"description": "reporting my coworkers to their manager",
"pronormative_score": 11,
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} | WIBTA if I report my coworkers to their manager? | So I work in a male dominated environment. A few of the men sitting close to me always joke about hating their wives; women deserving being hit to STFU; banging other chicks etc.
The problem is I have severe CPTSD and anxiety. I was abused in two previous relationships and all those things these coworkers joke abou... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 11,
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} | RIGHT |
pJbl6oij3CxlZodAsskZrz3CJCtGawqE | avnfu7 | {
"description": "talking to my friend about my relationship",
"pronormative_score": 6,
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} | AITA if I talk to my friend about my relationship... | Background: my significant other and I have been together for sometime and been through some turmoil. But who hasn’t? With my personality I am the type of person who needs to talk things out with someone. My man doesn’t share anything with me. When an issue arises with us I try to talk it out and he blows it off and do... | HISTORICAL | {
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"INFO": 1
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 6,
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cV1vNXE16iDSbaODYX7RO3Kd9CwMkIv8 | 9wm7pv | {
"description": "not wanting children",
"pronormative_score": 5,
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} | AITA for not wanting children? | I’m a 25 year old guy. I had moved away for college and medical school a while ago but I’ve been back in town for a bit. On more than one occasion I’ve been asked about my plans for children and I don’t want kids. The reasons are multiple - not interested in parenthood, really interested in my career as a doctor, don’t... | HISTORICAL | {
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"OTHER": 5,
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} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 5,
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} | RIGHT |
YYj6uzfPgGlpfFneJKCxZpR6v59v1XIg | a6jujv | {
"description": "thanking myself for my birthday present to my husband's face",
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} | AITA for thanking myself for my birthday present to my husband's face | Today is my birthday and over the last week or so my husband has been asking me what I'd like to do. My only real reply has been to go get my hair done. Day before last I told him I hadn't made an appointment so it probably wouldn't happen.
Last night a co-worker reinvited me and the hubs on a brewery crawl but I jok... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
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8T5rfn1KZVSVMduab38A5nqhlo6hjtOT | alfpg7 | {
"description": "wanting to break up with my gf because she doesn't want to come visit me",
"pronormative_score": 8,
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} | WIBTA For wanting to Break Up with my GF because she doesn't want to come visit me? | So me and my GF have been dating since October, and we live 2 cities apart (2-2:30 hrs) and I come to visit her every weekend (since I work during the week Monday - Friday), if not, every other weekend by car. Last time I was over at her place (so this last Sunday) I brought up the fact that I wanted her to come over t... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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"RIGHT": 8,
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E4t5BDO5j2OGFO3NLLqW1uuUReDcUNIp | aif74a | {
"description": "\"bullying\" my nephew and calling my sister in law a little bitch",
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} | AITA for "bullying" my nephew and calling my sister in law a little bitch. | First off, he's six. So, I'm absolutely certain he understands nothing I say to him.
Second off, I despise his mom but I didn't say it to directly her hurt feelings. It just came out.
I'm living with them because I'm still in college and we're orphans. So, there's nobody else. We're moving closer to my college and ... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | AUTHOR | {
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"WRONG": 27
} | WRONG |
nS6QriDhcM0A9VMtiPKmtG4edOCOSEwy | b1k74z | {
"description": "putting in my 2 weeks notice while on vacation",
"pronormative_score": 10,
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} | WIBTA if I put in my 2 weeks notice while on vacation? | I've worked for my current company for about three years and have never had a vacation longer than a simple 3 day weekend. My department is so small and has so few people that it's hard to schedule extended periods of time off, so I currently have about 2 and a half weeks of vacation time saved up. Would it be a total ... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 10,
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} | RIGHT |
RzxE0838ogJQkATcLxbpsB62nmF2hwTE | alhka4 | {
"description": "not paying more than the deductible for my SIL's snowmobile",
"pronormative_score": 19,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for not paying more than the deductible for my SIL's snowmobile? | All parties involved are in our 20s. Fiance and I are 5 years younger than SIL.
​
A few weeks ago my fiance and I were at his family's property. My fiance and his brother were going to go out riding. I asked fiance's sister if I could ride her sled. She said yes.
It is known in the family that I do NOT ha... | HISTORICAL | {
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"OTHER": 19,
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} | OTHER | {
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RUyjGQ4NtIPCIxtKsVIirx1zVFN39LtK | b9t9m2 | {
"description": "keeping 10% of the discount",
"pronormative_score": 7,
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} | AITA for keeping 10% of the discount? | AITA for not giving my friend the full discount?
So I work for a company that gives pretty good discounts. Essentially, I can give 15% discounts to friends/family unlimited but I can get 25% discount for myself for each type of product every year (so if I bought a phone at 25% off this year, I no longer have 25% disco... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | AUTHOR | {
"RIGHT": 7,
"WRONG": 11
} | WRONG |
QBDDsa95505o9RvKLywbvZCD5DrMCjiN | ayksz5 | {
"description": "reaching out to my ex through linkedin",
"pronormative_score": 1,
"contranormative_score": 10
} | AITA for reaching out to my ex through linkedin | My ex and I were on and off for 5 years from high school into college, and frankly, our relationship was toxic. We kept finding our way back to each other, but after a few months, we would start having the same fights where she accused me of not putting in effort even though I was spending time seeing her/talking to he... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 10,
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"INFO": 0
} | AUTHOR | {
"RIGHT": 1,
"WRONG": 10
} | WRONG |
QTcxuPAbCPoUn70rYp3Vy83h5rBK6HL0 | az3c1w | {
"description": "telling my boyfriend's mom about our 4 month baby",
"pronormative_score": 28,
"contranormative_score": 16
} | AITA for telling my boyfriend's mom about our 4 month baby? | We are together for 9 years, our baby was born in November 2018. I am 25 and he is 26.
He is muslim and I know it's "forbidden" to have a girlfriend. But 9 years is no joke, it's a a lifetime.
I don't work for now, and it's hard to get a job where I live.
He has his own store but doesn't make any money. We don't live t... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 2,
"OTHER": 28,
"EVERYBODY": 14,
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"INFO": 2
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 28,
"WRONG": 16
} | RIGHT |
oZjK1bsmuBr2bsunYZ37XQ0gGgv8BBRC | ayu5sb | {
"description": "being inefficient while serving my notice period",
"pronormative_score": 3,
"contranormative_score": 3
} | AITA for being inefficient while serving my notice period? | Long story short, i hate going to where i work rn. I have resigned and supposed to serve my notice period of 60 days.
Liked the work initially but since a year now the work has become really uninteresting and the team mates have become difficult to deal with. This has become very stressful now. Will i be the bad guy n... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | AUTHOR | {
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} | RIGHT |
4xREWH7M8U9ih88lVyDwd7sOkKILsxyd | b67jv5 | {
"description": "ghosting my friend",
"pronormative_score": 7,
"contranormative_score": 1
} | AITA for ghosting my friend | Background is that we have been friends for almost 20 years, literally since we were in diapers. We’ve been through several formative events together and were inseparable through middle school.
We fell out of touch for awhile and reconnected a few years ago. However recently it’s really dawned on me that she’s super s... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 1,
"OTHER": 7,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 1
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 7,
"WRONG": 1
} | RIGHT |
gkk7D4DOfxAliZ4e4Edu1FXIyVoOEIzE | arfckj | {
"description": "telling my girlfriend that I don't like the way she acts when she drinks",
"pronormative_score": 7,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for telling my girlfriend that I don't like the way she acts when she drinks? | Me and my girlfriend are together for a few months. Everything is going well except for one thing - when she drinks, she turns into a completely different person: makes offensive jokes about people's weaknesses (sometimes to their face) and doesn't consider how they might take it, casually shares very private informati... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 7,
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XO2BK6pTnC5BJ0jmlqnqiRC4gCSIgjgm | at99c2 | null | AITA for my malicious compliance with my controlling boyfriend? | So last night my bf and I had plans to go out on a triple date with a couple of his friends and their SO's. Well unfortunately I got stuck at work longer than expected so I got home roughly about the same time the other couples got to our house to take off. I apologize and rush to the bedroom to get ready.
I put on m... | HISTORICAL | {
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"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 2
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 63,
"WRONG": 22
} | RIGHT |
q1GfbLjKdaO4AI18971WOFbPTXslGIPf | av2vo4 | {
"description": "continuing to sleep around despite my FWB catching feelings",
"pronormative_score": 8,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA If I continue to sleep around despite my FWB catching feelings? | It’s a little complex but I’ll try to keep things clear.
This girl and I were friends for a while before things ever got intimate but we were definitely into each other. We finally hooked up after a few months knowing each other, it was fantastic, and it’s become a regular thing while remaining casual.
After I believ... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | NOBODY | {
"RIGHT": 8,
"WRONG": 0
} | RIGHT |
e7JYEvDMZIUvC7c1JtEPLG6k7dQ4k1fp | b62azc | {
"description": "cutting off financial support to my mother",
"pronormative_score": 8,
"contranormative_score": 1
} | WIBTA If I cut off financial support to my mother? | I’m basically at a crossroads and I’m considering the possibility of cutting off my mother’s financial support as soon as next payday hits. To give a bit of background, she doesn’t make much and neither do I, but I get enough to get by and still have some money left that I use for groceries, medicine, other things we... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 0,
"OTHER": 8,
"EVERYBODY": 1,
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"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 8,
"WRONG": 1
} | RIGHT |
YlN2HKuJAYrB1i0c0Ld9yelvRYjL3dVa | avn8f8 | {
"description": "breaking up with my boyfriend for sleeping",
"pronormative_score": 14,
"contranormative_score": 27
} | AITA for breaking up with my boyfriend for sleeping? | The title sums it up. My boyfriend has a problem with staying awake when we have plans to call. We've been long distance for 6 months, and had this problem the entire time. He says he can't help himself if he's in bed and tired and I've said that it's fine as long as he says goodnight first, so I'm not anxious about hi... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 17,
"OTHER": 8,
"EVERYBODY": 10,
"NOBODY": 6,
"INFO": 2
} | AUTHOR | {
"RIGHT": 14,
"WRONG": 27
} | WRONG |
mvKawOQqfICTkqNwReOdjpTiKZcyFGxb | ao90ak | {
"description": "leaving my birthday dinner",
"pronormative_score": 2,
"contranormative_score": 3
} | AITA for leaving my birthday dinner? | Me and my boyfriend have been together for years and I feel like he doesn’t know me. Tonight we have been out for mine and my sisters birthday meal and she LOVES fuss, I on the other hand do not. I knew something was going on and found out he arranged for a cake and for everyone to sing happy birthday but this stressed... | HISTORICAL | {
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"EVERYBODY": 2,
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} | EVERYBODY | {
"RIGHT": 2,
"WRONG": 3
} | WRONG |
6H59maS8iBIrziLfcRYZdL5HWAnlTUzU | 9vl3ac | {
"description": "wanting my boyfriend to marry me",
"pronormative_score": 14,
"contranormative_score": 1
} | AITA For Wanting My Boyfriend to Marry Me? | My boyfriend and I have been together for 9 years this January. We have never broken up or anything like that, and have lived together for 7 years. We even moved across the country together three years ago and have two cats together. I am establishing all of this to illustrate that our relationship is very stable and s... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 1,
"OTHER": 14,
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"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 14,
"WRONG": 1
} | RIGHT |
lMNKGvBI96s8fqL3i218NWpUpnIEdWck | ahj8na | {
"description": "berating my mom for berating my brothers",
"pronormative_score": 1,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for berating my mom for berating my brothers | So, my brothers(14 and 11yrs old) were figthing because one of them was listening music too loud, so i go to their room and stop the fight and make the one listening to music loud put on headphones and the problem is fixed then 5-10minutes go by and my mom goes to their room and starts asking whats happening and berati... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 1,
"WRONG": 0
} | RIGHT |
vNAPBmEykpkouXRozHef8O34yuKQpyCV | a7iy74 | {
"description": "calling out my professor in a letter to him on the exam for ruining a class, despite being told by the department head/other professors and students that he was ruining the class, yet still not doing anything about it",
"pronormative_score": 8,
"contranormative_score": 1
} | AITA for calling out my professor in a letter to him on the exam for ruining a class, despite being told by the department head/other professors and students that he was ruining the class, yet still not doing anything about it? | Resubmitted, first one got removed because I used AMITA instead of AITA.
Using a throwaway because idk if anyone I know browses this subreddit. This is a pretty specific story, and I don't want anyone I know finding my reddit user. I'm starting to think that this is one of those cases where I wasn't the asshole initi... | HISTORICAL | {
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"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 8,
"WRONG": 1
} | RIGHT |
W5fx4wsIK8hL9y1HnfR4B2yVG1gBr51t | aknwcu | {
"description": "firing a new employee for missing their first shift",
"pronormative_score": 15,
"contranormative_score": 3
} | AITA for firing a new employee for missing their first shift? | So, this happened around two years ago. Last time I mentioned it on reddit I was surprised at the negative response I got. I was thinking about it today and decided I'd ask here to maybe get a wider pool of responses.
I used to work as the front desk manager for a medium sized economy hotel. Due to no fault of our own... | HISTORICAL | {
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"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 15,
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} | RIGHT |
JBksaJbpUTmWmtKbxSCyHaXB2ozjbXcr | ambtky | {
"description": "arguing fabric softener is not a substitute for detergent",
"pronormative_score": 3,
"contranormative_score": 1
} | AITA for arguing fabric softener is not a substitute for detergent? | Am I the asshole for arguing fabric softener is not a detergent while my wife says it's just a marketing trick to sell more products.
Since we ran out of detergent, she's using the fabric softener in the detergent compartment in our washing machine and says it's sufficient.
| HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
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} | RIGHT |
ngRsB2kzSn5GQBRNcoUOqHrAevM9POt1 | amagia | {
"description": "\"ruining 3 relationships\"",
"pronormative_score": 381,
"contranormative_score": 46
} | AITA for "ruining 3 relationships" | I am a married woman who was happily married up until a few days ago. Recently my husband started talking about a new girl at work. I thought, fine, I trust him, and he has other female friends.
Soon I noticed the way he talked about her was different. He seemed really giddy, almost like when we were dating. It ... | HISTORICAL | {
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VF8mmEu3vtpOub0vTDIznX9uXIdHOSQY | 9zg0e8 | {
"description": "deleting my cousin's bully's gta online account",
"pronormative_score": 9,
"contranormative_score": 9
} | AITA for deleting my cousin's bully's GTA Online account? | My cousin is still in high school and is getting bullied by this kid. So, I'm looking online and I find his account, which I decide to try to get into. I manage to get it right (password was his name) and decide to delete the account. Now he hadn't invested money into the game but he had spent 50+ hours on it. AITA for... | HISTORICAL | {
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"EVERYBODY": 0,
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"INFO": 0
} | AUTHOR | {
"RIGHT": 9,
"WRONG": 9
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hJ3PQUGCGf7UxcHyUCKbyb3EJtJp5aMg | b2x6gl | {
"description": "lying to my friends about a \"discount\"",
"pronormative_score": 1,
"contranormative_score": 18
} | AITA for lying to my friends about a "discount" | First off I know that it is wrong and frankly I don't care, I'm just curious if other people think I'm an opportunist or just an asshole. So it goes a little something like this, I believe everything has a price because my Dad taught me that and even showed me a few tricks on how to barter. So I never pass up the chanc... | HISTORICAL | {
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"INFO": 0
} | AUTHOR | {
"RIGHT": 1,
"WRONG": 18
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YbFko188Pte5fF2TVQp9rWE0DBf5vseE | b6ymw1 | {
"description": "telling my mother not to come to my wedding",
"pronormative_score": 16,
"contranormative_score": 1
} | AITA for telling my mother not to come to my wedding? | Hey people of Reddit, I'm nearing the big day of my wedding and certain aspects seem to be going to hell.
To start off, my fiancée and I have been dating for 8 years and engaged the last 2. After all this time we finally decided last month "Screw it, we're getting married in May" and have been planning our wedding si... | HISTORICAL | {
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oQ4yz9i8z8zvET1GKuDyyeDS0OotjE2d | b3pg3s | {
"description": "cutting my friend off for saying this to me? is this me being dramatic",
"pronormative_score": 4,
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} | AITA for cutting my friend off for saying this to me? Is this me being dramatic? | 23F and my friend is a guy, 23M. Had a date today with a guy and it didn’t turn out well because the guy turned out to be kind of weird. I texted my friend (who I’m pretty close too, known him since highschool) about how the guy was weird and such. And then my friend texts me saying I ‘lowkey should start tricking guys... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | AUTHOR | {
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yLkAvdqw853f63vJaD3FSOHEURBgqVdp | abx5he | {
"description": "not putting my future in laws in my wedding party",
"pronormative_score": 7,
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} | WIBTA if I didnt put my future in laws in my wedding party? | I'm on mobile so sorry for any mistakes or stupid formatting.
My fiance and I have been together for about two years and just recently got engaged. I have a few years to actually plan out our wedding, but when it comes to our bridal parties I'm a but worried his family is going to throw a fit because I dont want his s... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 7,
"WRONG": 0
} | RIGHT |
bz3UuMPcLkCV5NsS1hYpo2EDyRy58FjZ | afo38j | {
"description": "skipping my Grandma's birthday",
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} | AITA for skipping my Grandma’s birthday? | I (20M) honestly don’t like that side of the family much. They’re the type of “classy” alcoholics who get drunk every family gathering. They were drinking at my mothers wake and she died of alcholism.
But on the other hand they’ve tried hard to maintain a relationship with me and I truly don’t have *a lot* of reason t... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | AUTHOR | {
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} | WRONG |
ZUrXdXWoYKCQ3xqvqqKn3QIn6gC8QMvE | aasmx3 | {
"description": "using my biological father's Netflix account without him knowing while he ignores the fact that I exist",
"pronormative_score": 6,
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} | AITA for using my biological father's Netflix account without him knowing while he ignores the fact that I exist? | Some background - 17 year old guy, biological parents divorced when I was at least 5 and I went to live with my mom. In court it was determined that my biological father (will refer to him as biodad, reasons later) would be the one to pay alimony if anyone was going to, but my mom, being the kind person she is, decided... | HISTORICAL | {
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"OTHER": 6,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
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"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 6,
"WRONG": 1
} | RIGHT |
U2cjNgqZmAiFyAvAP5D2if4LVZu8Qoa4 | b70ksj | {
"description": "asking my gf if she has her fb set to in a relationship",
"pronormative_score": 2,
"contranormative_score": 6
} | WIBTA if I asked my GF if she has her fb set to in a relationship? | I don't use Facebook. I have a Facebook, however I'm not even friends with my GF on it that's how much I do not use it. That's why I can't just check. My GF does use FB quite a bit. We've been dating for a few months now. I'm just curious if she did it or not by herself without me asking. WIBTA if I asked her if she di... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 6,
"OTHER": 1,
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"NOBODY": 1,
"INFO": 1
} | AUTHOR | {
"RIGHT": 2,
"WRONG": 6
} | WRONG |
j1UQWmlb89qxv1c4ozXgTETrqo1pd2UK | apzfyj | {
"description": "encouraging my depressed son to go to college 1500 miles from home",
"pronormative_score": 8,
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} | AITA for encouraging my depressed son to go to college 1500 miles from home? | My son is 17 and a junior in high school. He has been receiving treatment for depression and anxiety at a psychiatric practice for about 2.5 yrs. He usually sees a Physician Assistant(PA) for meds every 2 months and a Therapist every 2 weeks. I see changes and think it's helping, but our son doesn't talk about it ofte... | HISTORICAL | {
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"NOBODY": 5,
"INFO": 1
} | NOBODY | {
"RIGHT": 8,
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} | RIGHT |
U35dEQQ72GDmAFstDRxIykwOtRD8OGEX | b5x2hi | {
"description": "kicking a diabetic girl out of my forensics class group",
"pronormative_score": 1,
"contranormative_score": 20
} | AITA for kicking a diabetic girl out of my forensics class group | In forensics we are working on a big project where we are supposed to solve a fake crime scene. We had a group and were working on it today, but we noticed she did nothing to contribute at all. Halfway through class she got up to go to the nurses office, something about her sugar dropping, but I know it was an excuse t... | HISTORICAL | {
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"OTHER": 1,
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"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 1
} | AUTHOR | {
"RIGHT": 1,
"WRONG": 20
} | WRONG |
1L1Bod8NRJTWbcaQkBjQJSMq4am6Bcd5 | a5arv7 | {
"description": "leaving my friend at a movie theater",
"pronormative_score": 3,
"contranormative_score": 1
} | AITA for leaving my friend at a movie theater? | This happened a few days ago but is still bothering me...
My friend Karen invited a group of us (some mutual friends and some friends of hers that I didn't know) to a movie. We all met up at Karen's house and before we left for the movie, Karen and I planned to see each other at a party at our friend Andrew's house la... | HISTORICAL | {
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"INFO": 1
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 3,
"WRONG": 1
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zpawAFjr7N1b6vciAusoXfRshzXiCf52 | 9vavvc | {
"description": "having stopped talking to this girl",
"pronormative_score": 2,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for having stopped talking to this girl | Me and her started talking about two months ago and we went on a date and she said she was excited for our next date. Well she lives about 4 hours away from me but it's not that bad because the town she lives in I have family there. Anyways so I drive into town back in early October to hangout with some friends for the... | HISTORICAL | {
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"OTHER": 2,
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} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 2,
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KVuoRJuXsKFg9XGH7pBbjgY5FQZ8xV3x | auo8mq | {
"description": "saying its a dick move to purposely get less sleep",
"pronormative_score": 2,
"contranormative_score": 5
} | AITA,for saying its a dick move to purposely get less sleep. | Context im 19(M) roommate is 19(M) both college students in our final year.
​
short simple to the point. my roommate has decided he is going to restrict his sleep to 5 hours a day. I said that that's kinda a dick move since him being low on sleep is going to make him more irritable and easier to set off. ... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | AUTHOR | {
"RIGHT": 2,
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Q6gN2KKnDMID3DD50YxCcUSwj1MBMPcK | aqdpt1 | {
"description": "cutting contact with my friend",
"pronormative_score": 1,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for cutting contact with my friend? | I struggle with a variety of emotional disorders that make life difficult, and there are certain things that can completely ruin my entire day; lack of sleep, and negative interaction at the beginning of the day are the ones that. I also have seasonal depression in the wintertime, which doesn't help. I've been under a ... | HISTORICAL | {
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"EVERYBODY": 0,
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"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 1,
"WRONG": 0
} | RIGHT |
MHyK2H3XB4jFonc46wihZqKx85NQmmDV | ashln6 | {
"description": "complaining to the parents of kids who were Mean to my Son",
"pronormative_score": 7,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA For Complaining To The Parents Of Kids Who Were Mean To My Son? | My eldest son (8yo) just got back from a friends party and was visibly upset, when asked what was wrong he said some of the other kids were pushing him around and jumping on him on the bounce house, another kid grabbed him by the neck and punched him.
He said he told he the mother of the birthday boy and she brushed ... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 7,
"WRONG": 0
} | RIGHT |
XTHuSwTus2zoU3cl3jTYgIXARZGLXuwW | a64cln | {
"description": "not wanting to work for my dad's company anymore",
"pronormative_score": 2,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for not wanting to work for my dad's company anymore? | The first term of college ended for me and it's going to be a few weeks until the next term picks up in the new year. Without this job I would not be working during my winter break.
Right now they are overloaded with work and I've been called in to help for a few days. I've done this sort of this before. I've also wor... | HISTORICAL | {
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"INFO": 1
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 2,
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aMgfoZOz0DjBJ4L8itH0EL2gb3b5hLRe | axwl5g | {
"description": "telling sister to fuck off",
"pronormative_score": 4,
"contranormative_score": 2
} | AITA for telling sister to fuck off | Me and my sister have a close relationship due to how we relate to each other and our experiences in life. My sister usually asks me to do stuff like getting something from the store or helping her out, reason for this is because in a few years I'll be moving to a different country for a job and don't want things to e... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 0,
"OTHER": 4,
"EVERYBODY": 2,
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"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 4,
"WRONG": 2
} | RIGHT |
r0VU1Af3tIAKBP6rFQ7d6Cd7ktUjWBtm | awlnx9 | {
"description": "ending a friendship because I was uncomfortable",
"pronormative_score": 11,
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} | AITA for ending a friendship because I was uncomfortable | For about seven months I was really close friends with a guy my age (early 20s). He's always been kinda disrespectful of my boyfriend, more specifically telling me I deserve better and "he's not smart enough for me". On Christmas day we were hanging out, and this friend kissed me on the lips and then physically tried t... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 0,
"OTHER": 11,
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"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 11,
"WRONG": 0
} | RIGHT |
xruSArSJZCSDlwsGLMveiIz5YINRKwRe | ajs7qm | {
"description": "wanting my privacy",
"pronormative_score": 0,
"contranormative_score": 5
} | AITA for wanting my privacy? | I’ve been in a new relationship for a few months. My partner loves me very much. She’s met my mom, friends, etc.
About a month ago, we talked about infidelity in past relationships. I had an affair while in a long distance relationship and prefer not to talk about it. Specifically, the woman I cheated on.
My ex gir... | HISTORICAL | {
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"INFO": 0
} | AUTHOR | {
"RIGHT": 0,
"WRONG": 5
} | WRONG |
RqzqDbitArxRuuzExcp3nwGEG4UutDZM | b9s8mv | {
"description": "not sticking up to help a r/niceguys",
"pronormative_score": 4,
"contranormative_score": 1
} | AITA for not sticking up to help a r/niceguys | To elaborate, this kid in my class is getting bullied by two of my classmates, it’s most mostly teasing and such such as slapping his desk when he falls asleep, threating him (but not actually hurting him, which is quite common in our school, mainly cause the stigma is just all bark and no bite). But at the same time, ... | HISTORICAL | {
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"OTHER": 3,
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"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 4,
"WRONG": 1
} | RIGHT |
IP2lrIyHEwSozvcDWraHj6TMzMyynFnp | a8fn2x | {
"description": "purposely telling my stepbrother the wrong time for Christmas dinner",
"pronormative_score": 13,
"contranormative_score": 1
} | WIBTA if I purposely told my stepbrother the wrong time for Christmas dinner. | My step brother is always an hour and a half late no matter what sometimes later if he even bothers to show. Every year we wait on his ass to start family dinners and myself and the rest of the family is sick of it. This year I'm trying to convince my family to all tell him dinner is at noon when we really plan to star... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 1,
"OTHER": 13,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 13,
"WRONG": 1
} | RIGHT |
5HKYxEytsHa4cZnzenHiBGxbfP7BJjSc | 9zhzlh | {
"description": "ghosting the guy I was dating",
"pronormative_score": 2,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for ghosting the guy I was dating? (NSFW mention) | I met this guy on Hinge, a dating app that's geared towards serious dates and \*relationships\*. We really hit it off and had a great first date together after a few weeks of chatting. He was new in town and starting his graduate program at my uni, so I was kind of showing him around a bit.
After the first date we bo... | HISTORICAL | {
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"OTHER": 2,
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"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 2,
"WRONG": 0
} | RIGHT |
FWKZucfRMJhsH4oBXMLa5rPaJB10c95O | b943h8 | {
"description": "not telling my mom I smoke weed",
"pronormative_score": 11,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for not telling my mom I smoke weed? | So my sisters car is in the shop being fixed. She’s 24 I’m 20. I allowed her to drive my car for the morning since I’m off work. She went to the grocery store and I guess found my weed paraphernalia in the trunk. (Mind you I don’t smoke anymore and haven’t in 8 or 9 months.) I have left it in there and forgot. My mom i... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 0,
"OTHER": 11,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
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"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 11,
"WRONG": 0
} | RIGHT |
4J30RFKOjdcvVDlQu2JK6FptSUc428E5 | a24kx8 | {
"description": "not allowing my mother to have access to my bank account anymore",
"pronormative_score": 12,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for not allowing my mother to have access to my bank account anymore? | Throwaway in case I am. So, basically, my mother has my card programmed to receive money from FaceBook since she doesn’t have her own account. Lately, she has been receiving a lot of payments because of things that may or may not be illegal (peep the throwaway), and it’s been getting annoying. Last night, she looked a... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 0,
"OTHER": 12,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 12,
"WRONG": 0
} | RIGHT |
rWMSPpGpWNaJQoKbEETwkrWmj2P9FNit | aipgau | {
"description": "making new friends",
"pronormative_score": 3,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for making new friends? | AITA A friend of mine confronted me the other day, she started by apologizing to me saying that she didn't really like me when we first met because people had just assumed that we would be friends because we were close to the same age (we are both expats living in a small country but we are from different countries. We... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 0,
"OTHER": 3,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
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"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 3,
"WRONG": 0
} | RIGHT |
zQDrFyY02MqVfYvvbnJhlcMOsoQk1Vf2 | b19nmm | {
"description": "breaking up with my girlfriend after he came out to me as being a guy",
"pronormative_score": 33,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for breaking up with my girlfriend after he came out to me as being a guy? | Heyo not sure if the title made sense but here's the jist of it
​
Couple weeks ago my (Ex) girlfriend came out to me and told be that he was a guy (Gender wise, physically is a girl mentally isn't, and was a girl when i was dating him) . After a few days of deep thinking and a night out with the boys I de... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 0,
"OTHER": 33,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 33,
"WRONG": 0
} | RIGHT |
cx5eSWeywCwM7VbEG2RL5d2msYIowG4l | a0lrid | {
"description": "not liking that the dog only follows and likes my dad and he denies it",
"pronormative_score": 2,
"contranormative_score": 8
} | AITA for not liking that the dog only follows and likes my dad and he denies it? | Hi - so we recently got a really cute dog named reddy - but the thing is my dad pampers her way too much. to the point where she only cares about him. I do so much for her - build her stuff, make treats for her, feed her, Give her a lot of attention - and the minute my dad gets home she ditches and bites me and runs to... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 8,
"OTHER": 1,
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"INFO": 0
} | AUTHOR | {
"RIGHT": 2,
"WRONG": 8
} | WRONG |
AfBiDvoWrw5iIvE6RG29tQRSH0A1qTGY | ar5u72 | {
"description": "not wanting to give my so my 800 tax refund",
"pronormative_score": 24,
"contranormative_score": 1
} | AITA for not wanting to give my SO my 800 tax refund? | Six years ago, my mother bought me a laptop for college. It wasn't a beast or anything but it could play simple games like csgo and dota. Those were basically the two main games I played with my friends. Well a year after getting it, my roommate at the time was drunk and tripped, knocked it off my desk and landed on it... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 1,
"OTHER": 24,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 2
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 24,
"WRONG": 1
} | RIGHT |
8Z0jodH1Dyg1j0kgLOt6rzmveeXLgqsk | 9tq69n | {
"description": "feeling upset when a coworker relates quitting smoking to quitting chocolate",
"pronormative_score": 2,
"contranormative_score": 3
} | AITA for feeling upset when a coworker relates quitting smoking to quitting chocolate | Tl;dr at bottom.
I’m trying to quit smoking. My work involves a lot of van travel with other people and I’m tired of both smelling like a casino in a closed van and adding the extra time of a cigarette break to every roadside stop. I have a coworker who is trying to cut down on sweets. She is constantly talking about... | HISTORICAL | {
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"EVERYBODY": 0,
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"INFO": 1
} | AUTHOR | {
"RIGHT": 2,
"WRONG": 3
} | WRONG |
wmKeY2t30Dr1ufU9GpDm5I6kTNDLGlRG | b68x6x | null | AITA Former friend thinks I led her on and has friends call me a fuckboy | I was introduced to this out of school organization that did plays and stuff. Since I was new, I didn't have many friends which is why I chose to join a project of theirs. I was assigned to a team with people I barely knew so I decided to talk to the friendliest face there. We got to chatting and seemed to vibe pretty ... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 0,
"OTHER": 4,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 4,
"WRONG": 0
} | RIGHT |
pPCo0DvHJbzbKs7NhvwfbZ6rtGrUjOQm | anbplc | null | AITA : Dinner Edition. | TL;DR: My aunt says she cooks dinner after I get done working but I come home to find she's only cooked a giant-sized portion for herself. I decide to burgle myself some dinner before I go to sleep for work the next day. Relatively minor compared to some stuff I've seen here but still potential asshole territory.
A l... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 1,
"OTHER": 1,
"EVERYBODY": 2,
"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 0
} | EVERYBODY | {
"RIGHT": 1,
"WRONG": 3
} | WRONG |
4noixt83ahNbAHYJTg0jmW38WVEfUBxP | ajrwhu | {
"description": "asking a co-worker to stop chewing with their mouth open",
"pronormative_score": 6,
"contranormative_score": 3
} | WIBTA if I asked a co-worker to stop chewing with their mouth open? | I work at a university in Ontario, Canada and there are hundreds of staff in this school. So I don't know the guy in question, have no relationship with him. Frequently he takes his lunch break in the staff room at the same time as me (which is pretty large, could seat around 20-30 people).
Very rarely does anyone ch... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 3,
"OTHER": 4,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 2,
"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 6,
"WRONG": 3
} | RIGHT |
f6uBhZRdNttGHCLqLX0Cc2c6FD0w4D34 | afga3z | {
"description": "liking it clean and cool",
"pronormative_score": 2,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for liking it clean and cool? |
So, context, I'm a 21 year old female living in a university apartment with 4 other girls. As this was a university apartment, I ended up with random roommates. I really like and get along with 3 of the girls, but one girl, I'll call her Ella, and I never really hit it off. She likes to stay in her room and doesn'... | HISTORICAL | {
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"OTHER": 2,
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"INFO": 1
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 2,
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