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{ "description": "getting extremely annoyed with people for using the internet", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for getting extremely annoyed with people for using the Internet?
Vague title because I didn’t know how to put it all in there without it being superrrrrr long. So I work in a resource center of a very large hospital in the downtown area of a larger city. This resource center is for patients and family members to come and use our computers for research, find hard copies of education...
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{ "description": "thinking have adhd", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for thinking have ADHD?
I'm not self diagnosing myself, but from the research I've done that seems to be it. And not like just looking at WebMD symptoms, I really looked into it. When I tried bringing up to a therapist he seemed annoyed. I know self diagnosing is looked down upon in the ND community, but I don't feel like that's what I'm doi...
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{ "description": "asking my boyfriend to wash up before a bj", "pronormative_score": 148, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for asking my boyfriend to wash up before a bj?
He asked for a blowjob, I said yes but could you clean it first? He got beyond pissed and now it’s off the table. He basically thinks I said he has a dirty penis. I explained it was only because we’ve been out today and everyone sweats so I just wanted it rinsed off or something. I told him I would’ve done the same i...
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{ "description": "rejecting a girl that I told her that I liked her the past", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for rejecting a girl that I told her that I liked her the past.
Okay so I'm 15 a freshmen in highschool. Their was this girl from the 8th grade I really liked her and I asked her out in the 8th grade. She rejected me. I got over her well 2 days ago on my 15th birthday she asked me out I told her I'm not interested. I thought at first she took it well Intel I heard that she told ev...
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{ "description": "standing in a parking spot of a busy parking lot so I could save it for my friends", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 16 }
WIBTA if I stood in a parking spot of a busy parking lot so I could save it for my friends?
Ok, I'm not the one doing this, but I did see a girl pull this stunt recently. It was a very busy lot and I (on foot) was walking through a parking lot when I saw an argument. A girl was physically standing in an open spot while a car was trying to pull in. The car was yelling at the girl that since she didn't have ca...
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AITA for laughing....
I work for a major car manufacturing company. We have numerous supplier companies and their employees working in our plant. Well a couple days ago one of the suppliers employees was wearing sweat pants that were to big for him. So at the start of the day as I look to my left to put my part on the frame I see a huge bla...
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{ "description": "wishing that my bf didn't drink? I have previous familial trauma, severe anxiety and mild PTSD concerning alcohol. but I don't want to be controlling", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA if I wish that my bf didn’t drink? I have previous familial trauma, severe anxiety and mild PTSD concerning alcohol. But I don’t want to be controlling(?)
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{ "description": "ending things with my toxic best friend after he was there for me during a hard time in my life and encouraging me to get help", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA if I ended things with my toxic best friend after he was there for me during a hard time in my life and encouraged me to get help?
Hi! This is my first time posting and I’m on mobile so I apologize in advance for formatting issues. Also, throwaway account, my friend is an active Redditor. Also, very long story ahead, so bear with me! Last year I (F25) met my friend PJ (M31) while we were both studying for our MBA. We became good friends and ende...
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{ "description": "yelling at my sister for making fun of my girlfriend at a party", "pronormative_score": 48, "contranormative_score": 21 }
AITA For yelling at my sister for making fun of my girlfriend at a party?
This saga has been going on for a week but it feels more like a dbz filler arc, except worse because at least at the end of that i can expect a reward. This is kinda long so tl;dr is i have a shy gf and my bitch sister made fun of her, so i called my bitch sister a bitch. My sister is dating my best friend. Thats pr...
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{ "description": "expecting some kind of thank you", "pronormative_score": 14, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for expecting some kind of thank you?
My partners parents have quite a bit of land and a few animals (sheep, pig, dogs), about an hour drive from the city where I live and work. They made travel plans to go to Europe for a month to visit on of their daughters. Initially my partner was going to house sit, but he just recently found out he had epilepsy after...
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{ "description": "honking at these people", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for honking at these people?
Dashcam video: [https://gfycat.com/WeightyMeaslyGannet](https://gfycat.com/WeightyMeaslyGannet) ​ They start crossing at the end of their green light, but the walk sign is red before they start. My light changes to green and I tap, and then honk when they don't get a move on. ​ Am I the asshol...
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{ "description": "not buying some skis because they were too \"girly\"", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not buying some skis because they were too "girly"
Posting on behalf of my brother who just had a AITA moment. So my brother (31M) just came back from buying some ski's for an upcoming trip at a local secondhand sports shop. He knew one of the staff members that worked there through a mutual friend but a different staff member helped him try and find some ski boots. S...
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{ "description": "making a calling a girl fat and making her cry", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITAH for making a calling a girl fat and making her cry?
For starters this happened when I was around 10 or so which was 13 years ago. I think of this event often and while I do fell bad I also feel like it was justified. ​ So one day during late elementary or early middle school I was going home with my best friend for the weekend. During this time I would get ...
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AITA ror not wanting to go to my boyfriend's house every time I have a day off?
My (19F) boyfriend (20M) and I have been dating a little over a year, and we are very happy together. We both live with our respective parents on opposite sides of town, and neither of us drive so we rely on public transit/Uber. Our days off don't always match up (I have a schedule that changes weekly) so we want to ...
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{ "description": "telling my pregnant wife that her vagina stinks and she needs to clean up", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 17 }
AITA for telling my pregnant wife that her vagina stinks and she needs to clean up?
So, my wife is heavily pregnant with our daughter. I'm not really into having sex when she's pregnant because I'm afraid something might happen to her and the child. She told me that she wanted to have sex badly. I was also in the mood for it and I agreed. So we got into a position she was comfortable with and we try...
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{ "description": "ghosting my ex boyfriend", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for ghosting my ex boyfriend?
So me(20f) and my ex(20m) dated for two years. He was the fist and only guy that i had ever been with (even kissing). I broke it off (because i was unhappy with the relationship) in june 2018 but since im stupid I slept with him a couple of times until august. Then i decided that i couldn't put up with it so I just ans...
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{ "description": "not telling my friend that his gf is not the girl he thinks she is, and not feeling bad about it", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA Not telling my friend(m20) that his gf(f20) is not the girl he thinks she is, and not feeling bad about it?
So my friend had to go away for a little while due to some reasons I'm not gonna disclose (nothing bad). He told me, while he was gone, to hang out with his gf and to make sure she didn't get super depressed. We became fast friends. Before you ask, this is a totally platonic thing, I have no intention of being anything...
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{ "description": "blaming society for my nonacceptance", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 14 }
AITA for blaming society for my nonacceptance
I'm an 18 yo creative freelance developer. I've been freelancing since I was 14, self taught CSS/front end dev, Graphic Designer, and i'm cert. in Google Adwords. I have worked with many small business and larger orgs so I have a pretty dope portfolio...better than most adults tbh. In fact my portfolio is so good I rec...
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{ "description": "refusing to put my seat upright during my overnight flight", "pronormative_score": 26, "contranormative_score": 9 }
AITA for refusing to put my seat upright during my overnight flight?
On a recent flight a woman asked me to put my seat upright because her husband (who was directly behind me) was tall. His seat was in the last row and therefore did not recline. I explained that I had chosen my seat ahead of time to ensure that it reclined so that I could rest. She continued to argue with me that I sh...
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{ "description": "not driving my neighbor to court. which might result in her being evicted", "pronormative_score": 34, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for not driving my neighbor to court. Which might result in her being evicted?
So let me start out by saying my neighbor is in continuous hardship. Me and my bf have given her food and pet food numerous times. Jumped her truck 6 times in one week. Twice we had to jump it every few blocks to get her home. We occasionally paid her to do yard. We had stopped because she asked us for an advance and t...
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{ "description": "breaking up with my girlfriend over her ex", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for breaking up with my girlfriend over her ex?
The ex and I had been together for 9 months and she recently brought up that the last guy she'd been with was one of the friends she'd first introduced me to from her friend group. She'd been going round his place most nights and take free drugs from him and he'd coerce her into sleeping with him, which went on for at ...
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{ "description": "accidentally saying that a trans looks like her other friends", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for accidentally saying that a trans looks like her other friends?
Not a long story but tl;dr at the bottom. I have (well, had if you can say) a friend who's a transgender. And we built quite a good relationship with each other, and I really do respect her decisions and give her compliments about her looks sometimes. So she usually sends her selfies on Twitter, and one of those twee...
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{ "description": "wanting my brother to replace what was destroyed under his supervision", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 7 }
WIBTA for wanting my brother to replace what was destroyed under his supervision?
Okay, so a couple of days ago I had to go to work and I left my pencil pouch filled with my art supplies on my bed behind a closed door. Note that my door doesn’t fully close and it used to have a latch on it but the latch broke, so there was nothing to stop my door from being opened. My older brother was in char...
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{ "description": "banning my best friend from my Minecraft server", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for banning my best friend from my Minecraft server?
Geez, who knew Minecraft could be so dramatic? A week ago Saturday I told my best friend from middle school (we are 18 and in college now) about a server I’m running (let’s call him T) and T joined the server, and I made T an OP. Our server has some rules like no building in creative etc. and T isn’t a part of the di...
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{ "description": "cutting of my friend", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for cutting of my friend?
This could be a longer one So before i start i'm german and my english isn't the best so sorry in advance And i'm 15 and friends with this girl since wie were 12 So it all started when we were in 7th grade we got along very well and became 'best friends' and in the beginning our friendship was alright and stuff an...
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{ "description": "talking about my fiend without her knowing", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA For Talking About My Fiend Without Her Knowing?
Tl:dr AW 'copies' me and my friend's interest and styles and we talk about it without her knowing. Here's some context: Me: A semi-extrovert who likes anime, manga, writing, reading, and recently BTS and K-pop. GP: My friends who talks about my other friend with me. She likes to say she's an emo kid and she lov...
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{ "description": "taunting my dead dad's girlfriend", "pronormative_score": 81, "contranormative_score": 10 }
AITA for taunting my dead dad's girlfriend?
throwaway for safety So my father died yesterday morning. I went No-Contact with him and that entire side of the family about 15 years ago and haven't looked back since. He was violent, abusive drunk to me, abusive to my mother, and abusive to my half-brother, who I don't really have nor want a relationship with. He ...
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{ "description": "not wanting to go to an event because someone I didnt like would be there", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for not wanting to go to an event because someone I didnt like would be there?
Long story short I had been looking forward to an(public) event for about an year and I invited my friends to join me. A girl I didnt really like, call her A kinda got invited or invited herself? I dont really know but as a result I decided I would either go alone or not go at all because I didnt really want to share r...
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{ "description": "not helping my s/o pay for our $1,400 deposit on our apartment", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not helping my S/O pay for our $1,400 deposit on our apartment?
Alright, so a **huge** difference between me and my s/o, is that she's incredibly great at saving money. I have worked for 4 years (I'm 19 going on 20), and she's only worked for a year making the exact same amount as me, though constantly having loads in her bank account (she didn't have to pay rent prior to us moving...
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{ "description": "not contesting a parking ticket", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA If I didn’t contest a parking ticket?
So recently on a Sunday night I got a parking ticket for being parked in a space that became a no parking space after midnight. Thing is, I parked right next to a sign that clearly stated “no parking 8-5 Wednesday for street cleaning” and the sign about no parking past midnight was at least 100 feet away (I didn’t noti...
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{ "description": "not making the egg how my dad likes it", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for not making the egg how my dad likes it?
My parents and I have a very rocky relationship, and I am extremely into the culinary arts and such. Today I decided I would make some french toast, some hashbrowns with a few spare potatoes, and some fried eggs. My mom wasn't hungry, so I just cooked for my dad. I make the entire plate of food, and then I serve it to ...
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{ "description": "\"agreeing\" that I cheated", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for "agreeing" that I cheated?
So last night I went to a party with some friends and the guy I’m dating exclusively did not attend. While there I had drunk quite a bit but I was just dancing and talking to a female friend I hadn’t seen in a while, generally having a good time. ​ My dad had told me that he was picking me up at a specifi...
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{ "description": "repossessing a concert ticket", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for repossessing a concert ticket?
So basically I bought two tickets to a concert for me and my girl to attend and she paid me for the half but I still have both the tickets in my email but then she cheated on me and wants to sell the ticket to someone else bc obviously she won’t wanna go now. However I want to sell it to someone else so they can attend...
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{ "description": "calling my girlfriends dad when I thought she was going to kill herself", "pronormative_score": 17, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for calling my girlfriends dad when i thought she was gonna kill herself
Throwaway for reasonable reasons. My girlfriend was talking to me last night about how she was super depressed, etc, and that she wanted to kill herself. She sent me a snapchat of her with cut wrists and I immediately phoned her dad and told him to go and check on her. He caught her with a razor in her hand and now sh...
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{ "description": "not caring too much for my family", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA: I don’t care too much for my family.
I have a really loving, caring, and supportive family who would do just about anything for me but I just can’t connect with any of them. The only one who I do really like is my brother but I’ve only talked to him maybe 50 times in my life. I don’t dislike anyone in my family but if it were up to me, I would rather hang...
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{ "description": "not wanting to pick my friend up every time we hang", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to pick my friend up every time we hang
I live in a small town about a half hour from a city. There is more to do in the city, so when I hang out with my friend (who lives in the city) we typically make plans to do something in the city. It never fails that a few minutes after we make plans, or shortly before I'm going to leave my house to meet her, she'll m...
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{ "description": "cutting off my best friend who has become toxic", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA for cutting off my best friend who has become toxic?
Hello, this is a throwaway account and I'm gonna do my best to keep my story vague because I don't want the person I'm talking about to find this. I have a best friend, let's call them J. J and I have been very close for about 3 years now, and for 1.5 of those years, I have been living in a different state. I have com...
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{ "description": "not taking my sister to the hospital", "pronormative_score": 16, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not taking my sister to the hospital?
Sister calls me at midnight. She says that she just had the worst chest pain she ever had in her life and needs to go to the ER. I ask her if it's still happening and she says no, it stopped about 20 minutes ago. I asked if she thought it might be heart palpitations and she gets upset with me and says "just tell me if ...
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{ "description": "doing what I said I would do", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA for doing what I said I would do?
My ex-girlfriend and I broke up because of no common interests, I didn't like making plans with her, having one of my interests come up, and then I was having to miss out on those. Which happened more then I would like. I felt she tried to monopolize my time which took away from my interests/hobbies. So I broke up w...
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{ "description": "being honest", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being honest?
Some time ago I met this guy whom i dated once and it was weird right from the beginning. He didn't wanted to talk about anything. Just sitting and "feeling" the presence of the other, which made me feel uncomfortable. And he wanted to decide on everthing, like my drink or my menu. After we had dinner, we went to a ...
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{ "description": "telling my sister I am worried about her being pregnant because I'm not sure she is financially stable enough", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for telling my sister I am worried about her being pregnant because I'm not sure she is financially stable enough
Basically I just returned from a holiday with my parents when my sister announced that she is pregnant. I wish I could have been in a more congratulatory mood for her but I can't help feeling that she and her husband have yet to be financially stable for them to afford a newborn so soon after their marriage. My sister ...
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{ "description": "skipping Thanksgiving on my moms side", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for skipping Thanksgiving on my moms side.
My aunt purposely schedules thanksgiving at a conflicting time with the one on my dads side. For the last 20 years my dads done thanksgiving at the same time and has family from all over come over. For the last 20 years my aunts scheduled it at the same time and bitched that we come over see everyone and leave after an...
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{ "description": "not letting another group perform", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for not letting another group perform?
Just to preface, I am in high school and was the co host of a relatively large charity event that will be a part of this story. The way we make our money is we charge 7 dollars for dinner and show. So quite a while ago, I was in a dance group that was interested in auditioning for the event I was also co hosting. Coinc...
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WRONG
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{ "description": "telling my friend off for asking too much from me", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I told my Friend off for asking too much from me
So basically I have a spare monitor at home, I was planning to sell it off online for some cash. I thought about it and decided it would be better if I gave it to my Friend who might want it. I asked him if he wanted the monitor for free and he said he would be happy to take it off me. He went on to asked me about spec...
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{ "description": "not buying my significant other the kind of propposal ring they want", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 2 }
WIBTA if I didn't buy my significant other the kind of propposal ring they want?
My SO and I have had many discussions about how I am not comfortable with buying "real" (as is dug up from the ground) diamonds or gemstone rings due to moral and ethical issues I have with them (blood gems, artificial inflation, and general shitty nature of the gem trade). I'm more than happy to spend money on someth...
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{ "description": "asking a special needs man's caretaker to wait with him in his apartment for his transportation", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I asked a special needs man's caretaker to wait with him in his apartment for his transportation?
Background: I live in an apartment complex that has a decent amount of people with special needs, from people who need daily in-home assistance to people who are a little socially awkward but are otherwise well-meaning, nice people. Perfectly fine, and I've never had any real problems with anyone. Maybe six months ag...
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{ "description": "I stopped doing errands personally not signing up for", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I stopped doing errands I personally didn't sign up for?
(Sorry for possible mistakes, English is my second language and I'm on phone) So, me and my family live in a town on the coast of Mexico and we rent a room to a foreign lady and her dog(she comes, stays 6 months here and goes), we've been doing this for at least 10 years now, everything was fine the first times she ca...
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{ "description": "not wanting to fly home to dog sit", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not wanting to fly home to dog sit?
Throwaway because people I know are aware of what my main account's username is. I (M20) am a college student, and I go to school out of state - my family live a couple states away, about 2 hours by flight and about 12 hours by car. My little sister (F18) has applied to a couple different schools, and her dream school...
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{ "description": "confronting my roommate over whether or not he used my bodywash", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA for confronting my roommate over whether or not he used my bodywash?
I normally and by normally I mean in 99.9% of all cases when I shower close the lid on my bodywash and shampoo. This morning when I woke up I went in the bathroom and saw that my bodywash was open, which was a little concerning. There are two other people who live in the house, and only one of them was in at the time s...
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AITA for my last minute travel plans
So I am currently in a long distance relationship, my boyfriend lives in Ottawa for school and I now live in Toronto. I went to Montreal with my mom and brother to visit family and we planned to drive back, drop my brother off in Ottawa (where he also goes to school) then continue on to Toronto. I spoke to my boyfriend...
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{ "description": "hanging out with a person one of my close friends hate", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA for hanging out with a person one of my close friends hate?
I will be regarding the person inviting me to the party as L The person that hates L with be S L has invited me to a party with some of her other friends. L and S were both best friends but now S hates L because of a "toxic relationship". I'm not really sure what went down but I want to stay out of it. I love S as a...
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{ "description": "not wanting my friend to use my computer", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA because I dont want my friend to use my computer?
I'm not the best with words but I'll try to explain this the best I can. I have a friend who I've known since summer of last year, and when he comes over to my house he likes to use my computer. I'm OCD about contamination (mostly things being greasy, sticky, slimy, etc.) And his hands are slightly greasy, so every tim...
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{ "description": "not wanting to pay for a driving lesson after a car switch", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for not wanting to pay for a driving lesson after a car switch?
I’m learning to drive in the UK, I’ve had about ten hours, and I’m at a point where I stall maybe once in a two hour lesson, but I still make quite a few mistakes, but I’m not going to act like I’m a great driver, I’m just careful and slow. I had to cancel a week due to other business I had to do, so I had a gap we...
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{ "description": "asking my girlfriend to go to bed a little earlier than she has been", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for asking my girlfriend to go to bed a little earlier than she has been
My girlfriend has a habit of staying up and watching the office till 1 in the morning. She typically has to wake up pretty early in the morning every weekday (5am). I care about her a lot and i'm worried it's gonna start affecting her over all well being. does that make me an asshole?
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{ "description": "going annoyed at my mom's behavior", "pronormative_score": 18, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for going annoyed at my mom’s behavior?
For Christmas this year I went home to see my family. One of our big traditions is we always go and see a movie on Christmas Day. This year we decided to go see Mary Poppins Returns. I decided to be nice and I bought the tickets for everyone who wanted to go. We get to the Theatre and everyone is pretty excited. I’m si...
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{ "description": "telling my friend that his girlfriend cheated in a past relationship and she lied about being a virgin", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA because I told my friend that his girlfriend cheated in a past relationship and she lied about being a virgin?
My Friend "Dan" got into his first serious relationship 5 months ago, (his first relationship in years) at college, and ever since we only see him when he's going to bed. She has also one by one decided she hates me and my other 2 roommates and now we rarely see him unless she's busy. I remember months ago when he happ...
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{ "description": "asking girls two questions during first date", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 11 }
AITA for asking girls two questions during first date
I have been meeting girls from tinder for the past few months and I been having some luck when it comes to landind a first date. There’s provably a better way for me to ask the following questions, 1. “ Do you have kids?” And 2. “ Do you have herpes?” What I do is that when we are on a date, let’s say a pub and we c...
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{ "description": "refusing to sign a contract with ridiculous expectations and request", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for refusing to sign a contract with ridiculous expectations and request?
I recently moved counties and started looking for jobs straight away. I got my first interview about a week after I handed my resume in. It was for a position at a local grocery store in the bakery. It went really well and I started training the next day. Within two days I was pretty much fully trained, fully integrate...
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{ "description": "not buying my ex-friend food which ended up breaking up the friend group", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for not buying my ex-friend food which ended up breaking up the friend group?
This is a past incident but I am curious what you all think about it. This is high school. So I was very much a quiet follower type raised in an upper middle class family. I had two best friends, queen bees who I will call S and L. L is in the same economic bracket but stingy. She rarely paid for anything. S was lower...
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{ "description": "not accepting that she's meeting her Ex", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not accepting that she's meeting her Ex?
Throwaway of course. So the Title already makes everyone say run away but there are some weird circumstances. We have a long-distance relationship, about a 4 hour drive. Hard or impossible to be spontaneous with our Jobs. She has mental health problems, she can't even leave her apartment alone to get groceries. If s...
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{ "description": "making an exception to our Lost and Found policy", "pronormative_score": 58, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA For Making An Exception To Our Lost And Found Policy?
For context: So at work we have a policy, if something is in the lost and found for longer than a month than the person who found the item can keep it. I'd say a solid 90% of the time the lost and found is client stuff, but there is the odd occasion an employee's item gets in there. I'm the IT guy and I have someone wh...
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AITA My boyfriend and I just got into a fight about not having sex tonight and I'm angry.
TLDR: I'm upset because I haven't had sex in 3 days and my boyfriend may have been faking a toothache so he didn't have to do it, so we got into an argument. So, here's the background information, my boyfriend and I are hitting a rough patch with sex. Like, meaning he's refusing to have sex with me. We had an STD scar...
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{ "description": "being short/not socializing with my classmate", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being short/not socializing with my classmate?
Yesterday I started a new course at university. Another woman in my class, whom I don't really like, picked the same class. The reason I don't like her is that I have friends who work at our uni department and I know that she's treated them very badly, however I don't have a personal issue with her and we've neve...
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{ "description": "being upset that all my friends are having sex with each other", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 8 }
AITA for being upset that all my friends are having sex with each other?
Hello, all. So, for context, I [22F] have a small group of three other friends [23F, 22M, 21F] to whom I have grown close with over this past year. As someone who has pathetically struggled to make and retain close relationships this is a big deal. The other three have always been more open emotionally and physically t...
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{ "description": "not spending time with my girlfriend", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not spending time with my girlfriend?
About 6 months ago I 22M) met and started dating my girlfriend (21F). Sadly its a long distance relationship, about 6 hour plane ride away from each other, but we make it work and I even visited her once. I work full time and she's unemployed, she also demands a lot of attention, which im usually okay with but sometime...
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OTHER
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{ "description": "taking my kids from their mom", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA, I took my kids from their mom
AITA, I took my kids from their mom. She has 2 hours per week with them. They are 5 & 1. She's a crack and heroin addict that's been trying to get clean for 3 years. Off & on, balls to the wall when ON. She keeps slipping up every 4 or 5 months. She's tried it all from residential programs to just cheating on t...
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OTHER
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{ "description": "not wanting to go through with my husbands ultimatum for a reward", "pronormative_score": 22, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for not wanting to go through with my husbands ultimatum for a reward?
Long story short: I have body insecurities. I am currently working on those by working out. I asked my husband to give me an incentive. He told me that he would pay for me to get a tattoo if I worked out long enough. I asked him how long, and he told me as soon as I'm comfortable enough to wear a bikini to the beach,...
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OTHER
{ "RIGHT": 22, "WRONG": 4 }
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{ "description": "licking my food that I know my roommates been eating", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for licking my food that I know my roommates been eating.
I have 2 roommates one of themselves fine but the others a terrible roommate in a lot of ways. The shitty roommate has been eating my food and isn't even subtle about it. He drank half a carton of milk and put the carton back. I put a thing of apples and a thing of oranges in my fridge and forgot for 3 days when I came...
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{ "description": "giving away my ex's tv", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for giving away my ex's tv?
So me and my gf at the time had been together for about 2 months. Around this time I was moving places and had very few belongings (just the stuff i used regularly). She insisted I took her 45inch TV that he hadnt been using for years and bought 8 years ago. I kindly rejected the offer several times knowing I wouldn't ...
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OTHER
{ "RIGHT": 8, "WRONG": 2 }
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{ "description": "offering a friend a tickt to a place, but being a lower ticket than my own", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I offer a friend a tickt to a place, but it’s a lower ticket than my own?
I bought a lollapalooza ticket for myself, it was the cheapest one. I was thinking, if in a couple months I’m in a better financial standing maybe I’ll get myself the more expensive and nicer ticket, and then give the one I already bought to an aquaintance to bring along. But is it an asshole move to ask someone to com...
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{ "description": "spamming a hacker", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for spamming a hacker?
First post so be patient pls. ​ I have two groups of friends and with the first group we all chipped in around 10 euros a month for a minecraft server. However recently we got hacked by 3 players and one guy left his IP address so we found his facebook page. Now I wanted to make sure it was him and make ac...
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{ "RIGHT": 0, "WRONG": 6 }
WRONG
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{ "description": "not telling my girlfriend I had sex with a friend before we met", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 8 }
AITA for not telling my girlfriend I had sex with a friend before we met.
I have this relatively close friend of mine who I’ve known for almost 4 years now, let’s call her Alice. We hang out quite a lot together and have mutual friends. Me and Alice got really wasted once and had sex (summer -17). We both decided that this isn’t going to happen again and didn’t mean anything for either of us...
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{ "description": "wanting him to be AIDS tested", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting him to be AIDS tested ?
Long story short, met a new guy, like him alot, he's from Zambia, has been here in Australia for ten years, he goes home to visit his family every few years. He tells me his brothers have had children with girlfriends/ wives who have died from HIV or AIDS defining illnesses. And his brothers still test negative, his...
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{ "description": "being upset with my ex", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for being upset with my ex? (I promise it's more interesting than it sounds)
Super detailed title, I know. I wouldn't know how to word it well enough, given the context. ​ Alright so basically two weeks ago, this girl (18F) and I (19M) broke up after almost a year of being together. She said that there could be a future for us, but for now she needed time to herself. Understandab...
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{ "description": "slamming a car door a few times", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 8 }
AITA for slamming a car door a few times?
This happened three weeks ago, and was almost the final straw in a weakening friendship with a best friend. Him, another best friend that we made our freshman year, and I went on an adventure to a lake. He offered to drive us. His car is fairly old, and has definitely seen better days when its parts were newer. I am ...
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{ "description": "insisting my roommate investigate the electric bill she's responsible for before I pay my share", "pronormative_score": 16, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for insisting my roommate investigate the electric bill she's responsible for before I pay my share?
In my (32f) defense, my roommate (32f) just hit me up for $86 for our electric bill that she says is due 3/2. In two days. She is in charge of the electric bill, and I'm in charge of cable/internet, we don't pay for heat. She also sends the rent check because I don't have a check book. I freaked out and insisted she ...
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{ "description": "asking my boyfriend to come to bed with me once or twice a week", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for asking my boyfriend to come to bed with me once or twice a week?
We've been together for five years and lived together for the majority of the time. Two years ago though, for a year, we lived separately and in different states. Just over a year ago, we moved back in together after our bout of long distance. ​ He's never been very affectionate and it doesn't bother me us...
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{ "description": "not wanting my girlfriend to use my food to feed her friends", "pronormative_score": 20, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not wanting my girlfriend to use my food to feed her friends?
A few days ago, my girlfriend hosted a brunch day for her and her friends at our house. My girlfriend bought some food and wine so they could make a whole event out of it. I don't have a lot of spare money and so what I spend on food is usually all I have. Usually what I buy, I have to make last until the next payda...
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{ "description": "not wanting to hear about my friends sex life", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to hear about my friends sex life?
I'm not a prude by any means, but I swear this girl doesn't understand that sometimes too much information is, well, exactly that. I don't want to hear about how horrible your fwb is in bed, or how you cheated on him when you two were actually dating, or about how you plan on continuing to bang with the guy you cheate...
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{ "description": "being upset and disappointed about the change of house rules", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for being upset and disappointed about the change of house rules?
For the start I have two sisters. One is 29 and the seconds 16 years old. I am 25. Its holiday season and I am visiting my parents. They have some house rules. For example no boy or girlfriend should stay at my parents home after 12. No sleeping over at boy or girlfriends house till you are 18. And what do I hear aft...
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{ "description": "stopping sex in the middle of it", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for stopping sex in the middle of it?
So a little backstory, I’ve(23 m) seen this girl(25) around town and we matched on tinder. After we match we exchanged numbers and we began texting. She invited me to sleep over but I work over nights at a treatment center where I sleep at work. Today, she asked me what I was doing and invited me over. We talked for aw...
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{ "description": "telling the truth", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for telling the truth
So, my dad and my step mother broke up, after 8-9 years of dating and being together. I consider her my mother and will call her that going forward in this post. My father has had three major relationships (bio mom, step mom 1 (yuck), and mom. They all overlapped. Well my dad moved out of her house into his own house...
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{ "description": "pushing a special kids books in his hands", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for pushing a special kids books in his hands?
So here's the situation. A kid who I'm fairly familiar with at my old high school is autistic. I was always nice to him and we even joked around every now and then. I'm in study hall and he walks up and the first thing he says is "move your hand". I told him I wasn't gonna do that. He slams his book as hard as he co...
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{ "description": "asking my gf to have better hygiene if she wants to be intimate", "pronormative_score": 16, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I ask my gf to have better hygiene if she wants to be intimate?
I’ve been with her for 3 weeks and I realized she isn’t the cleanest person. At times because of her work schedule and grad school stuff. She doesn’t take showers for 2-3 days unless I bother her enough about it, so although she doesn’t smell bad I think it’s a good habit. Secondly she brushes her teeth like once a day...
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{ "description": "not considering a child my sister in law watches my nephew", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA for not considering a child my sister in law watches my nephew?
Hey, I’ve been a long time reader on this sub and thought it’d be time to share my AITA story from last weekend. So, my sister is pregnant and due in a few weeks with a son. He and my brother in law are super happy for them. We live about two-three hours south of them (and my parents), so we don’t see them that often. ...
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{ "description": "telling my girlfriend I dont want her dancing with other guys at parties", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 9 }
AITA for telling my girlfriend I dont want her dancing with other guys at parties?
Title explains it all. She was telling me that one of her guy friends is teaching her how to dance which I don't really care too much about cause it's teaching and her girlfriends are also getting taught, but then she told me she would go to parties and sees no issue with dancing with guys that aren't me. I told her I ...
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{ "description": "slapping a guy for not letting me go when while dancing. but I approached him first", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA for slapping a guy for not letting me go when while dancing. But I approached him first.
This happened at a party last weekend and people are STILL dragging me all over my social media. I've even seen it posted to a few local comedy pages on instagram and everyone I know has been tagging me in them. I'm getting shit on and found out that one of my best friends is the one who sent them in. This was some par...
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{ "description": "giving bottles to a homeless person", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for giving bottles to a homeless person?
This happened last year but I got reminded it of it recently. On my commute home from work there are a few homeless individuals who hold signs ‘Anything helps’ ‘God bless’ etc. One particular drive home I felt like I wanted to help but I NEVER carry cash with me; it’s just not really the world we live in anymore unfo...
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{ "description": "being \"forgetful\"", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for being "forgetful"?
Dear community, ​ Some background information. I have been with this girl for a bit over 2 years, relationship has been rocky at best 90% of the time. She got pregnant, we kept the baby, and rode this beautiful wave. ​ For her b-day, I got her flowers. She complained to me that I don't listen...
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{ "description": "helping my daughter's future ex-husband? **long", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For helping my daughter's future ex-husband? **long
AITA My daughter and I have had a rocky relationship for the past 10 years. Prior to that we had always been very close. She is married but separated they have three children. I divorced her biological father when she was six months old. Her paternal grandmother and I were extremely close (important) closer that m...
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{ "description": "telling my best friend how I felt about her", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 8 }
AITA for telling my best friend how I felt about her?
Ok so basically me (16M) and this girl (18F) (we'll call her S), had been friends for a decent amount of time, like a two years, and we really hit it off. We liked the same kind of music, watched the same movies, wrote music together, etc. S is gay, not that I have a problem with that, but it's important for later on. ...
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{ "description": "not wanting to take my friends to France", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to take my friends to France?
There's a lot of context to this one, so I'll do my best to summarize. At home, I live on the border of France. I have been to France "just for lunch" once, which was great. At university, I live about 300 miles from home, making it more difficult to get to France. However, I was invited along to a trip with my uni fri...
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{ "description": "cuddling with my best friend who has a bf", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 8 }
AITA for cuddling with my best friend who has a bf?
Well hi guys. I made this accound because I really want to be anonymous because most people I know do use reddit ^^' So lets start: As you can see in the title, I (male) am kinda cuddling with my best friend (female) who has a bf. She says she has no problems doing it because she knows i don't have any feelings for he...
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{ "description": "getting upset for being kicked out of the house by my boyfriend", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA because I got upset for being kicked out of the house by my boyfriend?
This happened this morning. My boyfriend of 5 years and I are house/dog sitting while his parents are out of town. We wake up and good to work at different times. Roughly 2 hours apart. He told me he would give me a key so I didn't have to get up earlier. I still have yet to recieve one. So he gets up and starts his ro...
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{ "description": "ignoring my ex", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for ignoring my ex
I had started dating this girl before a year for around 6 months. She dumped me since she didn't have "much feelings" for me. We were friends before dating but had grown closer as ever during the 6 months. She had become my closest friend who I shared everything. After she dumped me, I was in a very bad state. She told...
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{ "description": "not wanting a man to bring his daughter into a men's changeroom", "pronormative_score": 25, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not wanting a man to bring his daughter into a men's changeroom?
I was just finishing up a nice, afternoon swim at my university's pool. While I was resting at the side, about to get out, I noticed a father bring his 6 or 7 year old daughter into the changeroom with him. My first instinct was: "Uh-oh, they went into the wrong changeroom" (the gender neutral door was somewhat close...
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{ "description": "changing the lock code to keep the kids out of the house", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 27 }
AITA for changing the lock code to keep the kids out of the house
BF and I live together. Everything is better than great in our home. Merged families. Handful of kids 10-16 years old. BF has an ex that is difficult. Takes advantage of his availability, puts the kids in the middle, etc. Last month, BF leaves on a weekend boys’ trip. I have the house to myself. No kids. No ...
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{ "description": "reporting my cousin to an animal rescue", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for reporting my cousin to an animal rescue
On mobile. Yadda yadda. Backstory - I worked in ER/ICU at a specialty vet hospital overnights prior to getting married and moving. Whenever someone has an issue with a pet they ask me, and also people tend to complain to me when others mistreat animals and ask what they can do to stop it. Enter my family. My cous...
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{ "description": "not telling my girlfriend her car got broken into", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not telling my girlfriend her car got broken into?
I've been thinking about this for the last few weeks, figured I'd post to hear other people's thoughts. A couple weeks ago, I went out to my girlfriend's car to drive somewhere, and as I got close to it I saw a bunch of junk on the driver and passenger floors. Didn't compute for a second, and then I realized that the ...
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{ "description": "getting upset at my dad's comment on my mental disorder", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for getting upset at my dad's comment on my mental disorder?
I was helping my dad with a few things at home, he wanted to fix some issues with the walls and, while we were working, I brought up the fact that an actor I like was going on a tour in theaters with a monologue I wanted to see, so I invited him. His reaction was basically "youngsters today can't stay focused for that...
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