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{ "description": "not paying", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not paying
I just heard of this place and I wanted to know if I am in the wrong. So recently I purchased a new phone for $749 and I showed it to a family member who also loved how it looked. She was currently using my old iphone 6s (perfect condition) that I let her borrow because her phone broke. She decided to upgrade to the sa...
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{ "description": "holding a door open for a guy in a wheelchair and saying \"you're welcome\" when he rolled past and glared at me", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA for holding a door open for a guy in a wheelchair and saying “you’re welcome” when he rolled past and glared at me?
i was walking out of a set of double doors that were heavy at the library at a university and the guy is a student i have seen before. he does not have any cognitive handicap, to be clear. am i the asshole for thinking everyone should at least smile when a stranger helps you out?
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{ "description": "dating my ex's brother", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for dating my ex’s brother?
I was dating a guy (let’s call him James) from mid October to mid December. We broke up, and James started dating someone else about a month later (mid January). We’re still close friends and everything is all good between us. Me and his brother (Chase) started dating recently (mid February) and I feel kinda bad cause ...
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{ "description": "asking my dad to make me breakfast", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 8 }
AITA for asking my dad to make me breakfast?
This morning, I walked into the kitchen after hearing “Hey boys, breakfast” while I was sitting in my room. To my dismay, there’s no food for me. Only for my little brothers. I ask my dad why and he said he thought I’d still be asleep. I asked him to make some for me and he tells me to to make my own.
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{ "description": "telling my subordinate essentially, \"it's an Executive, deal with it\"", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for telling my subordinate essentially, "It's an Executive, Deal With It"
So background, I got a random skype message from a person that reports to me asking if one of our executives (specifically the one I report to directly and the one she indirectly reports to) had issues with his printer. He's been apparently asking the receptionist to print some emails throughout the day. She started o...
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{ "description": "smoking outside of my home", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AItA for smoking outside of my home?
So I'm a 19yo full-time student who lives at home for a lot of complicated reasons that make it difficult for me to leave right now. I still contribute money towards the household (as rent, more or less)b as well as help with many chores and errands. Don't know if this is important to share, but who knows? Anyways. Co...
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{ "description": "not understanding why my GF is so upset about a sensitive subject", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not understanding why my GF is so upset about a sensitive subject
So at a party one of my friends asked my GF about a small scar she has, asking "What happened?". My GF explained and the night went on. Later, in private, she ended up crying to me about it saying it really upset her that he would ask about it. I tried to explain that he meant no harm and that he didn't know it was suc...
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{ "description": "being excited about all the Black Friday fight videos about to happen", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for being excited about all the Black Friday fight videos about to happen?
Is it wrong that I find entertainment from seeing shoppers try to kill each other this holiday season?
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{ "description": "not telling my best friend happy birthday", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for not telling my best friend happy birthday?
It was recently one of my best friend's 21st birthday. Us and our other best friend were supposed to go out to dinner for her. However, I got my hair bleached and dyed that day and got chemical burns from the bleach (I used to have psoriases on my scalp and I still have bleeding sometimes) and was in a lot of pain and ...
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{ "description": "just trying to move things along", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for Just trying to move things along?
The scenario: Convenience store/bodega type place where a lot of the local business folk go to grab stuff for lunch because it’s really the only place close enough. There are 5 of us obviously trying to grab some lunch and get back to work on time and at the head of the line is a little old lady who is arguing intens...
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{ "description": "not wanting my girlfriend to smoke weed", "pronormative_score": 14, "contranormative_score": 9 }
AITA for not wanting my girlfriend to smoke weed?
My girlfriend and I have been together for about 5 months now. She talked to me about she used to smoke a lot of weed but now doesn’t because she doesn’t like it anymore. However, the past week she started to smoke again and has smoked 5 times this week. I for one am NOT anti-weed. All my roomates smoke and all my frie...
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{ "description": "not inviting my aunt to my 16th Birthday Party", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 2 }
WIBTA For Not Inviting My Aunt To My 16th Birthday Party.
Hello, I am back again. This isn't a shitpost or a validation post. I am having trouble figuring out if I will be the asshole if I did this or not. Sp. Let's get to this. ​ So, my aunt is a member of the small town I live in. I will be turning my sweet sixteenth next month, and my mother and I are trying ...
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{ "description": "making my roomate cry", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for making my roomate cry
This happened yesterday and I'm kind of conflicted over it. For some context, I am currently in the process of transferring to a different college. I've been in the process since the beginning of the semester but only just left my roomates know this past Thursday. We're pretty friendly but we aren't that close so I did...
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{ "description": "telling someone the flaws that I see in their life that they seem to be oblivious too", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA For telling someone the flaws that I see in their life that they seem to be oblivious too?
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{ "description": "parking my bike at 8pm with the engine on", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for parking my bike at 8PM with the engine on?
Ok so, the situation is this: I was driving home tonight, and arrived home roughly around 8PM, and leave my bike idling for approximately 30 seconds with my lights on so I can actually see where I am parking (tricky gravel parking space with a concrete slab for the kickstand) Shortly after I turn my bike off and put a...
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{ "description": "wanting to elope", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for wanting to elope?
My fiancé and I recently got engaged and I couldn’t be more excited but I really don’t want a large wedding, I would be happy to run off and elope. This thought was reinforced by my parents who offered to give us money for the wedding and we are free to use it how we want to they even suggested that if...
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{ "description": "assuming a guy I'm not talking to anymore left flowers in front of my house and planning to tell him to leave me alone", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for assuming a guy I'm not talking to anymore left flowers in front of my house and planning to tell him to leave me alone?
This is sort of an update/continuation of the post below. https://www.google.com/amp/s/amp.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/aqqc3r/aita_for_telling_people_why_i_cut_off_my_friend/ This is a guy I used to be friends with, but he told me he liked me even though I have a boyfriend and he started venting to me aboout...
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{ "description": "breaking my friend's sunglasses", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for breaking my friend’s sunglasses?
This happened many years ago but I still feel bad about it. I was travelling by coach with a group of friends and was sitting on the last row (the one with 5 seats) right next to the middle seat where my friend was sitting. During the journey I left my seat for a while (maybe 10 minutes) to chat with another friend. W...
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{ "description": "refusing to avoid a girl that makes my gf uncomfortable", "pronormative_score": 20, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for refusing to avoid a girl that makes my gf uncomfortable?
My GF [22F] and I [24M] have been dating for about 6 months now. I’ve known that she has trust and abandonment issues from her past relationships. She dislikes one of my best friends [25F], whom I’ve known for about a year longer than GF. Let’s call her “Jane.” There has never been anything (sexual or romantic) between...
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{ "description": "thinking that a prescheduled dnd session is more important than new plans with my grandma", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA for thinking that a prescheduled dnd session is more important than new plans with my grandma
Okay so for some context my family and I have a biweekly DND session every other Tuesday and they decided to schedule going and seeing my grandma for that same day and time as our session. My grandma is in pretty good health for her age so I tried to tell them to just reschedule it for the next day if it meant that muc...
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{ "description": "telling a future doctor to be careful about how revealing her pictures on social media are", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for telling a future doctor to be careful about how revealing her pictures on social media are?
There’s a girl that’s a mutual on one of my social media’s, and I just found her. She has in her bio that she’s a nursing assistant now, and a future doctor. I scrolled through her profile, and saw some pretty revealing pictures, and also some talking about her using cocaine. I messaged her asking if she was aware...
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{ "description": "saying he showed a lack of respect for my belongings", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for saying he showed a lack of respect for my belongings?
Throwaway account as a lot of our friends use reddit and know our usernames. Mobile user, apologies for bad formatting etc etc. So me and my SO are having an argument and decided to write this post together (for fairness so we are both repesented equally) to see who's in the wrong. We know it's a small issue but it's ...
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{ "description": "letting my dog use our doggy door", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for letting my dog use our doggy door?
We got an aussie shepherd mixed mutt puppy a few months ago, and she is the sweetest thing in the world. Never met another human or dog she didn't get along with. Now, she is noisey and likes to boss all the other dogs around. Herding breed through and through. We have two neighbors with dogs on each side of us, an...
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{ "description": "keeping my dogs off the leash", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA for keeping my dogs off the leash?
I own two medium sized mutts that are so loyal and would never hurt anyone unless that person tried to hurt me. Because of this I keep them off the leash on walks in the park. Most people seem neutral but some individuals will mildly panic and yell that my dogs should be on a leash AND muzzled. One of them is naughty a...
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{ "description": "feeling bad about my relationship (unsure of whether to continue) after learning about SO's bad history", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for feeling bad about my relationship (unsure of whether to continue) after learning about SO's bad history?
I'm going through a lot of pain right now after learning my girlfriend was sexploited basically in middle school online by someone she doesn't know. That and the other things in the past (some physical, some not) hurt for me in multiple dimensions at once and I'm not sure I could ever be at peace with it. I'm strongly ...
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{ "description": "not giving my manager money for their birthday", "pronormative_score": 15, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not giving my manager money for their birthday?
TLDR: I'm poor and paying off my debts. I refused to give my boss money and co-workers got on my case for it. ​ I make the least among the people in my department. It's livable but I'm not popping champagne and caviar. My manager however does make over $200k per year before bonuses. His birthday card...
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{ "description": "asking for my dad's birthday present back", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 7 }
WIBTA if I asked for my dad's birthday present back?
Last year for my dad's birthday, I bought him a FitBit Ionic which ran me about $300. His doctor told him he had to lose 30lbs because he has fatty liver, and he likes watches, so I thought it would be a thoughtful and useful gift. He was very touched and wore it for a month, but now a year later he never uses it. He ...
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{ "description": "reaching out to an ex", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA for reaching out to an ex?
This one is really playing on my mind, idk if I'd be pulling an asshole move if I do it and I'm interesting in what y'all think. TL;DR at the bottom. So a couple years ago I dated this guy for about a year. We'd been good friends beforehand and had amazing chemistry, and overall a really good, fulfilling relationship ...
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{ "description": "making too much noise", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for making too much noise?
To preface this post I would like to give some information on the house set up. I live with two other roommates in a 3 bedroom house. Two of the bedrooms are upstairs with one being connected via a small hallway to the living room downstairs. So last night all three of us where in the living room watching tv together...
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{ "description": "declining to date a guy even though we'd probably be great together", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for declining to date a guy even though we'd probably be great together?
I'm finishing up my freshman year of college and this guy has been very straight forward about liking me and possibly wanting to date me. At first, I thought I liked him too, he was funny, into the same things as me, and attractive. He is a really sweet guy, he talks with everyone and is very outgoing. What really t...
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{ "description": "changing my pair the last second", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for changing my pair the last second?
I don't know how to start this but if I'm wrong don't hate me. So this week we got an assignment at school to find a pair to make a comic about our city's history and at the time I thought we had to make it the same week so I was quite desperate. I wanted to be with my best friend but this time she said she already...
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{ "description": "not wanting to go on a trip", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not wanting to go on a trip?
First time posting and on mobile. My friend asked a friend group on facebook messenger if we wanted to go skiing next winter. I said "nope, I'd rather go sledding". I was then called a 5 year old and other insults. So in return I said he was trying to show how manly he was since his ego was hurt. He then said I should...
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{ "description": "ignoring someone at the bus station", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for ignoring someone at the bus station
​ My friend (15) and I (17) were approached by a guy in his early 20s. Let's call him J. He thought we were college students and from a very good art college in our state (RISD). We told him we were just high schoolers. We basically begin to talk to him every morning at the bus station waiting for our bus w...
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{ "description": "not reciprocating affection from my \"friends?\"", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not reciprocating affection from my “friends?”
That title makes me sound like the biggest douche of all time but that’s really about the long and short of it. I have several friends who I don’t see often due to our separate lives, but we all share a text group chat together. Often I will be bombarded with messages expressing endless love and adoration for the enti...
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{ "description": "refusing to give up my dog? my boyfriend doesn't like my dog", "pronormative_score": 59, "contranormative_score": 11 }
AITA for refusing to give up my dog? My boyfriend doesn’t like my dog
Two years ago, my boyfriend and I lived separately. At the time, I had my dog, she was 12 years old and my best friend of life. Shortly before we were to move in together, she passed away. It was at this time that my boyfriend adopted a puppy. When his puppy was six months old I told him I wanted a puppy of my own beca...
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{ "description": "asking someone to pay repairs for damage accidentally caused", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA for asking someone to pay repairs for damage accidentally caused?
Let me preface this by saying that I’m a university student. Today a friend accidentally knocked my coffee over, spilling it all over the keyboard and trackpad. I cleaned up it as best as I could, and everything seems to be working fine. However, if it does need repairs, WIBTA to insist that she should pay for the re...
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{ "description": "refusing and getting annoyed that my brother constantly nags me to drive 4 hours each way to baby sit my 2 nephews", "pronormative_score": 16, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for refusing and getting annoyed that my brother constantly nags me to drive 4 hours each way to baby sit my 2 nephews.
Backstory: My brother lives with his fiance and their 2 kids, both aged below 5. I'm the godfather to these kids. They live around a 4 hour drive away from me. My brother doesn't live near anyone else in my family who are also around a 4 hour drive away. He does live near quite a lot of his fiance's family. My family ...
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AITA to my neighbour?
My neighbour downstairs is a friend who we're normally on great terms with. She is generally very reasonable, and we help her out A LOT. As in, I clean her house and litterbox for her b/c of her illness. We don't bitch about the noise she makes or the fact her partner hotboxes the goddamn building everyweek. On Friday...
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{ "description": "randomly playing anonymous music at work", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for randomly playing anonymous music at work?
I secretly have access to the music at many of my work’s locations. They have control as well, but I can add songs to the queue or change the station completely. So it started innocently enough. Prince, Lets Go Crazy Europe, The Final Countdown Etc. Some songs were allowed to play through. others were clea...
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{ "description": "thinking of excuses to avoid my friend's sister's wedding", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA? For thinking of excuses to avoid my friend’s sister’s wedding
She did not invite me yet since they just started planning but when her sister got engaged she was like “im gonna invite you to my sister weddings she just got engaged!!!!” You guys might say “it’s her sister’s wedding! Not hers! Not a big deal”. In my culture it is a big deal honestly. They usually throw huge wed...
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{ "description": "asking for a selfish request", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 10 }
WIBTA for asking for a selfish request?
throwaway for my friend checks my main sometimes and i rather he not know this Context: I (16M) have feelings for a girl (17F) that I like and so I asked her out, but she rejected me. I was fine with this and thought that over time my feelings for her would dissipate. Its been almost 6 months now and we are still good...
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AUTHOR
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WRONG
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{ "description": "telling my gf to call off her people who are going to jump me or I'll break it of with her", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for telling my GF to call off her people who are gonna jump me or I’ll break it of with her?
My GF is really popular among the guys and I’ve just caught wind of plans to jump me because they don’t like the way I speak to her or something like that. I just told her to tell them that if they hurt me, she’s done associating with them. She’s really passive and I don’t know how she’ll react, but I feel as though I...
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{ "description": "telling my mom that if she commented on my weight again that I'd cancel my wedding and just elope", "pronormative_score": 127, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for telling my mom that if she commented on my weight again that I’d cancel my wedding and just elope
So my boyfriend and I got engaged last month and we are so happy. However I am ready to cancel the wedding and instead elope because my family (primarily mom and grandma) will not stop bringing up my weight. Full disclosure, I’m not in the best shape I’d like to be (I weigh around 170 pounds and am 5’5 ) so I could def...
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{ "description": "taking this vacation", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for taking this vacation?
So I am the oldest and moved across the country (USA) for a job away from my parents and I am complete financially independent from them. I recently was invited to take a trip to Asia with some relatives on my dad's side of the family (paying my own way) and I told my parents and they are mad (almost livid) that I woul...
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{ "description": "sending Jesus packing", "pronormative_score": 23, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for sending Jesus packing?
My wife and I live in the same small-ish town as my in laws. We get along fine, they mostly keep their distance, we have dinner or hang out probably once every 2 weeks. About 15 years ago my mother in law was in a very serious car accident and ever since has been strictly catholic, my father in law and wife are catho...
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OTHER
{ "RIGHT": 23, "WRONG": 1 }
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wibta if me and my friend told a mate he needs to go to a class on how to better use your money.
so my friend can't save for shit he is 23 and we live together he has 0 savings and whenever he needs money for anything he calls up his mother and she "lends it to him" he never pays it back no matter how often he says he will. she has given him 500$ over 7 months to help pay rent and Bills ect. she also bought him ...
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{ "description": "asking for a rent reduction because my roommate's girlfriend is here all the time", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for asking for a rent reduction because my roommate's girlfriend is here all the time?
Backstory: I rented a very small room in this dude's apt last summer and all has been going quite well other than my dog *really* not liking him for some reason. This past month and a half my roomie's friend-now-girlfriend I'm assuming by the smell of ass and humidity that occasionally wafts from his room in the morn...
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{ "description": "wanting to talk about my anxieties before seeing my exes parents again", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA because I wanted to talk about my anxieties before seeing my exes parents again?
So boyfriend and I broke up/went on a break back in September. Pretty much since the break up we have been working on ourselves and our relationship in hopes to be back together one day. We lived together, but both moved back with parents after we split. We see each other either out and about or he will drive 1hr to m...
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{ "description": "starting a friendship with someone my fwb is insecure about", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for starting a friendship with someone my fwb is insecure about?
Throwaway because reasons and sorry for the poorly phrased title. And sorry for long backstory, tldr at end. I started dating a guy (L) a couple months ago but it’s casual. We’re extremely different when it comes to our views of the world, politics, all that stuff and have little in common. For those reasons I could ...
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{ "description": "not caring about an ex's suicide", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not caring about an ex’s suicide?
My ex and I were together for a little over a year and when we got together I was 17 and they were 19. Based on the age thing alone my family was iffy about it but I didn’t listen because we met when we were both in high school and it was only 2 years. However I think the age thing was a cover for what they really want...
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{ "description": "reprimanding girls at my school about mocking people with mental health issues", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for reprimanding girls at my school about mocking people with mental health issues?
So, I am 13 and in Middle School. I am pretty arrogant and a bit of a hot head when it comes to subjects that are sensitive to me. A lot of things that people say at my school about mental health issues and such definitely don’t sit well with me considering my Mom has Bi-polar disorder, and Schizophrenia. I, on the oth...
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{ "description": "responding back with sarcasm in response to a customer's sarcasm", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for responding back with sarcasm in response to a customer's sarcasm?
Working in fast food can be very busy. Recently we were busy to the point that we had to stop taking orders at the register until the already pending orders were completed. A customer was waiting in line during this point. When I was finally able to take his order, the conversation went like this: *proceeds to take ...
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OTHER
{ "RIGHT": 13, "WRONG": 2 }
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{ "description": "wanting a partner that motivates me to be a better person", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting a partner that motivates me to be a better person?
Is it unfair to put that on someone's shoulders? I realize happiness should come from within yourself but a person has to find a way to push themselves somehow, so is it unjust to want your partner to be this way, even if you don't expressly tell them to do this?
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{ "description": "answering my boyfriend's question about my large \"bodycount\" honestly", "pronormative_score": 194, "contranormative_score": 12 }
AITA for answering my boyfriend's question about my large "bodycount" honestly?
Hello AITA...I loved reading this sub but always thought the times when I was an asshole was pretty cut and dry...yet here I am. Dating an amazing new guy for about 2 months, definitely developed feelings for him and I find myself trying ways to squeeze in "I love you" to see how he responds, but so far haven't. He i...
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{ "description": "breaking up with my (ex) boyfriend after becoming close friends with someone else", "pronormative_score": 26, "contranormative_score": 29 }
AITA for breaking up with my (ex) boyfriend after becoming close friends with someone else?
I was in a relationship with my ex for 8 months when I met “Kyle”. Kyle was a mutual friend of my ex and we quickly became friends. I realized that Kyle and I shared a lot of interests and humor when we would hangout in group settings (my ex included). The more time I spent with him the more I realized I wasn’t a match...
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AUTHOR
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{ "description": "reminding my fiance that I am worth it", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA For reminding my fiance that I am worth it?
Throwaway post for obvious reasons. Just like every other couple, my fiance and I were going through a rough time. It all started with him wanting to talk. He claimed he was not happy and that I am not motivating him in other areas of his life. Initially, I thought that one of his friends hacked his account as I tho...
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AUTHOR
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WRONG
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{ "description": "telling a kid to me my clothes back", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA for telling a kid to me my clothes back?
My mom has a less fortunate friend to whom she donates my brother and I’s clothes to. She accidentally donated some stuff I still wanted and still wore. I told her I was going to go over and ask for my stuff back. She told me I don’t need the clothes back and that I have plenty of other things to wear. It’s true that I...
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AUTHOR
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WRONG
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{ "description": "not using the gift my secret santa had gifted me", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not using the gift my secret santa had gifted me?
I have this very high quality travel mug that I bought a while back and is very expensive. I like to drink certain kind of teas and coffees that we don’t have at work so I literally bring it to work everyday. I was talking with my coworkers about how I wanted a new one because the paint started peeling of the one I ha...
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AITA? Special needs, special treatment?
I still feel bad about this even though it happened when I was around eleven years old. We had a school dance an I wanted to partner up with a good male friend of mine for a dance we were being forced to do. He already had a partner. They both offered to go in a three but I declined. I turned towards the food table a...
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{ "description": "having my submissive cake and eating it too", "pronormative_score": 16, "contranormative_score": 10 }
AITA - Having my submissive cake and eating it too
I have been in a happy and loving relationship for over five years with my boyfriend. I have also been dabbling in a dom/sub role play with an external party for the past six months. To date, my boyfriend has been open and agreeable to this arrangement, until this week. My boyfriend has provided me with an ultimatum ...
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{ "description": "insulting a friend", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for insulting a friend
I have a friend who regularly comes to my room. He is a tad bit irritating. He acts like a naughty child even though he's 18. I've told him to not act like that many a times. For example, he once cut loose the rope on which I hang my clothes, he once shut down my laptop while I was working on it and I hadn't saved my ...
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AITA or is my dentist?
Okay -- so, this is more of a "am I overreacting?" (Does that exist as a sub out there?) So -- I haven't gone to the dentist in years. I have had bad experiences and the whole ordeal makes me anxious. On top of that, I have absolutely no dental coverage. I'm disabled and on medicaid and medicare. Going to the dentist b...
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{ "description": "not telling a coworker that they are getting fired", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not telling a coworker that they are getting fired?
Backstory: I am one of two administrators in my office. I've become very close to the older woman I work with over the last two years. A lot of stuff has been happening in her personal life (Her mother died 2 years ago, her husband died a year ago, and now her brother has been diagnosed with the same cancer that killed...
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AITA ex friend says I led him on?
Okay so this happened almost two years ago and I don't think I did anything wrong but during a fight a girl I used to be friends with said I was in the wrong. September two years ago I started a college course and there was a guy there that I really got on with. I had just gotten out of a long relationship so I wasn'...
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{ "description": "avoiding my friend in an attempt to not upset him", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for avoiding my friend in an attempt to not upset him.
I want to start off by saying that I know this might be a little selfish but I don't think my mental state could take it. I should also mention that we had a bit of a flirtationship last year so our relationship is a bit complicated as is. My friend has been job hunting for a year and a half now with very little luc...
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{ "RIGHT": 5, "WRONG": 1 }
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{ "description": "being mad at my dad foe not lettting me buy a ps4 Pro", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being mad at my dad foe not lettting me buy a PS4 Pro?
Okay, here we go, So, this happened a long time ago, but I still question it from time to time During the summer, I was running low on cash, and I never liked getting an allowance, since I didn't like taking cash from anyone without feeling like I earned it. Thankfully, my dad offered me an opportunity to help out at...
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NOBODY
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{ "description": "telling a \"friend\" that at least \"my breasts aren't saggy like a pair of rotten melons\" over a joke she made", "pronormative_score": 1438, "contranormative_score": 157 }
AITA for telling a “friend” that at least “my breasts aren’t saggy like a pair of rotten melons” over a joke she made?
I’m a “small” chested woman. Not even that small, I like my boobs. There is this “friend” of mine who has like F cup breasts. For some reason, she likes picking on my breasts. She is always saying passive aggressive stuff like “well, it’s not like you’ll ever feel real back pain, considering how small your tits are”,...
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OTHER
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{ "description": "being annoyed at my husband for going in to work on all of his days off", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being annoyed at my husband for going in to work on all of his days off?
My husband is coming up on his one year anniversary with his company. From the very start he’s been obsessed with it, and generally very excited to be working where he is. I wasn’t that keen on it from the start because it was a pay cut, a 1.5 hour commute, and they were very unorganized when it came to plans. (The 1.5...
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{ "description": "not visiting my mom while she's in town", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not visiting my mom while she's in town?
I am an adult. My mother isnt in my life. When she divorced my dad,there wasn't a reason to keep her in it because she is toxic to her kids and abusive to my dad. At first I didnt feel bad. But its now the first christmas I wont have to see her, and despite no one telling her to come visit us, she has come to visit us....
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OTHER
{ "RIGHT": 8, "WRONG": 0 }
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{ "description": "complaining about staying with my gf's family in a private conversation", "pronormative_score": 63, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for complaining about staying with my gf's family in a PRIVATE conversation
My gf and I have been in a long term relationship (3 years) and have had our ups and downs. Her family pretty vehemently dislikes me due to the fact that 1. we are in a same sex relationship and 2. they feel that I am more "privileged". My gf's step father became very ill recently so we both cancelled our vaca...
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OTHER
{ "RIGHT": 63, "WRONG": 3 }
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{ "description": "wanting my D&D group to split price of books", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA For wanting my D&D group to split price of books
When i first started with my freinds i made it clear that when i needed campaigns to run the group would pay half and i would pay half. It works out to 7 bucks for the 3 of them and 26 for me. They are now telling me to just torrent pdfs online and that they wont pay now. Am i the asshole for telling them to pqy half f...
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{ "description": "asking for a refund", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for asking for a refund?
Last Christmas I started my Christmas shopping the day before Christmas, and was put under severe stress. I decided to turn things around and started extremely early. At the midst of October (say around 16th of October), I stumbled across the perfect item in Etsy for a family member. I immediately ordered it. And so ...
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OTHER
{ "RIGHT": 5, "WRONG": 0 }
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{ "description": "telling my friend maybe he shouldn't call an entire subfandom toxic", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for telling my friend maybe he shouldn’t call an entire subfandom toxic?
So there’s a webcomic that’s pretty popular that’s a loose adaption of an old public domain story. My friend draws a more to the text adaption and has made it very well known he does not like the other comic for reasons ranging to its too happy in tone to the fans flood the tags for the original work with ship art. T...
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AITA for leaving my GF behind?
AITA? A little context: Me and my girlfriend go to college about an hour apart. We see each other almost every weekend. This particular weekend my friends were coming up to visit and for a football game. My girlfriend (Lets call her GF) also came up as usual for a game weekend. On Friday night we found a party to go...
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AITA for not helping my parents because they don't help themselves and take me for a fool?
My whole life I’ve been obedient to my parents. During college breaks, I would return and help out at my parents’ labor intensive dry clean factory. (60-70 hr/week) I was verbally abused on a daily basis by my father who was a potty mouth and blamed everything on everyone else. I tried to implement ideas to their old s...
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{ "description": "not helping a lady and refusing to speak English", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 11 }
AITA Not helping a lady and refusing to speak English
I was in the store on the phone with a friend, we were practicing Spanish ( language is a requirement it our major and we refuse to take another year of Spanish since we took it in middle and high). I got into one lane and noticed a lady climbing on the shelf to get something and immediately went up to her. I pointed...
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{ "description": "not telling any of my extended family members about my graduation ceremony", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not telling any of my extended family members about my graduation ceremony?
tldr; my older cousin was hurt when I told her I didn’t want anyone to know that im graduating, and told her mom (my aunt) that I didn’t want her to attend the ceremony. the long-ish version: a month back, I had submitted an application to graduate from college and in the moment, posted to snapchat that my applicatio...
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{ "description": "getting mad at my best friend because he refuses to spend time with me outside his home", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for getting mad at my best friend because he refuses to spend time with me outside his home?
A bit of backstory: He and his gf moved recently and I helped them a couple days to renovate their new place and get their stuff into their new home. He was also unhappy with his current job (truck driver) and since he was always interested in computers I started teaching him programming and got him an apprenticeship a...
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{ "description": "not wanting to match my girlfriend's social media activity", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not wanting to match my girlfriend's social media activity?
I'm 23, my girlfriend is 21. She is moderately active on social media, primarily Instagram and posts once in a while. I, on the other hand, am a bit of a recluse and prefer not to share my life on social media, whereas she enjoys doing so. I have no problem with this at all, and I support her completely. However, throu...
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{ "description": "changing my mind at a frat party", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for changing my mind at a frat party?
As a precursor, I was pretty intoxicated and so was everyone else. ​ I went to the weekly frat party with a couple of my friends last night. As the party progressed a bit, I started dancing and making out with some girl that was obviously trying to get with me, and we were about ready to leave. Before we ...
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{ "description": "not inviting my siblings so to my graduation", "pronormative_score": 17, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I didn't invite my siblings SO to my graduation?
Throwaway in case anyone involved is on Reddit I'm graduating uni in a few months, and my brother is flying in from out of town to see me graduate, and is brining his girlfriend. My dad, sister, and boyfriend also plan on attending, but since we only get 4 tickets, the first three we're going to go to my family and th...
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AITA For what happened to me on New years two years ago?
So ive been pondering the situation that happened to me new years Eve of 2017 since this year I stayed in for just fear essentially. So I want to explain my situation and see if I'm an asshole or not. So in 2017 I got a call a few days before New year's from a friend asking if I wanted to come DJ a party at his house. ...
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{ "description": "leaving my bf due to how he views the future", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA for leaving my bf due to how he views the future
So TL;DR, this all deals with him and how he envisions his future, but I don't know how to word the title correctly. Anyways, a background of myself is I'm in college rn with 6 classes and no free time to work. He is working a technically full-time job at a country club, doesn't want to go to college, and doesn't thin...
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{ "description": "not wanting to watch my Moms kids", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA For Not Wanting to Watch My Moms Kids?
For context, my mom is 63, single and works full time, typically late nights, with children in foster care. I am 20 and have four older siblings. They all live hours away while I live about five miles from my mom. I work full time, Monday through Friday. My mom also has an ex boyfriend, John, who lives in a travel trai...
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{ "description": "being upset/irritated with my boyfriend for living with his ex-girlfriend", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA For being upset/irritated with my boyfriend for living with his ex-girlfriend
So, yes right off the bat this sounds bad. There is some context. They go to the same college, 5.5 hours away from my college. They dated for a year and a half (before my boyfriend ever knew me) and they agreed to live together (school housing, apartment style dorm) in the spring before a pretty rough break up. I met ...
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{ "description": "not wanting to throw my step kids birthday parties", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 21 }
AITA - I don’t want to throw my step kids birthday parties.
Okay, now hear me out. I have 13 yr old and 11 yr old boys from a previous marriage. My husband has an 11 yr old and 6 yr old from a previous marriage. Together we have a 3 yr old and 8 month old. My sons have a birthday party at their dads and then I throw them a small party for just us where I cook them their favor...
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{ "description": "not listening to my brother", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not listening to my brother?
We were at the supermarket to buy some stuff and mid way my brother decided to left our shopping cart and didn't go back to get it. I took the cart to his place simply because I thought he forgot and he punched me (because my brother isn't an asshole and I don't want anyone to think so I'm gonna say punch is rather too...
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{ "description": "thinking my friend is annoying when they talk about how good they have it whenever I complain", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for thinking my friend is annoying when they talk about how good they have it whenever I complain?
Whenever I complain about something or just mention an inconvenience to this certain friend the conversation somehow always ends up about them. I'm not sure if I'm in the right for finding it annoying sometimes. Like, don't get me wrong, I'm glad that she has a nice life but sometimes it just makes me feel like its bei...
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{ "description": "wanting one day a week for family time", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting one day a week for family time?
We both work from home. Run two successful online business. Which means we make our own schedules. We have a 6 and 4 year old that I do all the parenting, cooking, playing anything they need. My husband doesn't do any of that. And leaves on a business trip for 4 days every two weeks. We work our butts off and we have t...
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AITA - People with thick accents frustrate me on the phone.
I work in a job where I spend my days calling to doctor's offices all over the USA. I usually leave a voicemail, but 10-20% of the time I speak to an actual person instead of an automated system. It doesn't happen often (once a week at most, and I make about 50-60 calls per day), but when I speak to someone who has a...
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{ "description": "deciding not to continue my family businesses wherein I'm expected to be the next-in-line and go abroad to study in College and work there", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I decided not to continue my family businesses wherein I'm expected to be the next-in-line and go abroad to study in College and work there?
Basically, I'm the only boy in my family and my relatives have been preparing me to inherit the business from day one. I really want to work abroad but I know my parents are expecting me to continue to stay in the Philippines and help them out with the businesses and such. My family is Chinese so they expect me to beco...
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{ "description": "thinking it's selfish for a person sitting at the end of an empty row of seats as people are filing in to a soon-to-be-packed event", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for thinking it’s selfish for a person sitting at the end of an empty row of seats as people are filing in to a soon-to-be-packed event?
I love conferences. I love conferences and concerts so much! I get so frustrated when people sit on the very outside seat of an empty row! It’s a reasonable expectation that people move to the middle, or at least not roll their eyes when everyone has to climb over them! I posted about this on Facebook and someone I kn...
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{ "description": "constantly questioning my friend if his Dad was gay", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA for constantly questioning my friend if his Dad was gay?
This is more of a Was I the Asshole, but going forward. WHen I was about 7 or 8 I had this friend, who we'll call "E". Anyways, E had a gay dad, which I didn't know about at the time. Whenever we went upstairs to his Dad's house, (E's divorced but still on good terms mom and dad lived in a duplex) I would always see hi...
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{ "description": "not coming in to work on my second to last day for a school event", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 6 }
WIBTA for not coming in to work on my second to last day for a school event?
Hello friends, I have already put in my two weeks at my current job, so this weekend holds my last two shifts. However, today (Sat 12/1) is the same day as an all-day event for my high school. For the last week I've tried talking to all my co-workers to get someone to cover me, but to no avail. I asked my boss as well...
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{ "description": "bankrupting my parents to study in Cambridge", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 82 }
WIBTA if I bankrupted my parents to study in Cambridge?
20M in an Asian country. I have always dreamt of studying in the University of Cambridge, and this year I got a place to study social and political sciences there. Problem is that my family's finances has taken a hit after my mother lost her job, so paying the >150k USD (over 3 years) of international student fees w...
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{ "description": "telling woman I've never met that her husband was trying to hook up with me online", "pronormative_score": 15, "contranormative_score": 2 }
WIBTA if I (F29) tell woman I’ve never met that her husband was trying to hook up with me online?
Apparently I’m the last person to notice that the Words With Friends game is also a way to hook up (women take note)! I recently downloaded the app out of boredom and got talking to what seemed like a lovely guy. We got on well and swapped numbers, this soon turned into a LOT of flirting, him suggesting we meet, he sen...
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{ "description": "telling a friend that I expect them to pay their share for car trips", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA If i told a friend that i expect them to pay their share for car trips?
Long time reader, first time poster (so sorry if the format is off)! English isn't my first language either, so grammar/spelling/phrasing might be off. Anyways, this question have been bothering me for a bit, so i thought I would seek some opinions here. A bit of backstory: Me and two other childhood friends moved ...
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{ "description": "being annoyed at my tutor for sniffling and coughing", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA For being annoyed at my tutor for sniffling and coughing?
So while we work my tutor has a habit of doing things such as rubbing his feet coughing and sniffing over my macbook for example. Also frequently has the habit of rubbing his feet which is also frustrating. He has a need to touch alot of stuff and I find it to be kinda annoying since his hands are dirty. He says its fi...
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{ "description": "having no compassion for a man going through a tough divorce", "pronormative_score": 38, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for having no compassion for a man going through a tough divorce?
I have a group of pals who I’m not exactly close with, but we hang out together from time to time. Among them is a man who I don’t particularly like because he’s a massive misogynist. He often spouts sexist bullshit like “women are dumber than men, all they care about is shopping, they’re too irrational and full of dra...
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{ "description": "wanting to cut off my best friends girlfriend", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for wanting to cut off my best friends girlfriend?
Sorry, I’m on mobile do formatting may be weird. English is not my first language either, so forgive me for any mistakes. Anyways. About 3 weeks ago, the day before my birthday, I was quite distressed from working a stressful job and not really being able to rest at all for the whole weekend. I started panicking and w...
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