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"description": "getting upset at my self-deprecating girlfriend",
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} | AITA for getting upset at my self-deprecating girlfriend? | (Tldr at the bottom)
So, quick backstory. I(17F) have been friends with my current girlfriend(16F) for about half a year, and have recently started dating a month ago. The "honeymoon" stage of our relationship passed fairly quickly, and we began to have disagreements.
My girlfriend in general, is very hard on herse... | HISTORICAL | {
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"description": "following people to Denny's",
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} | AITA for following people to Denny's? | So I went to a bar earlier because I wanted to talk to a girl that I have a crush on, April. I wanted to ask her out at an album release party that was at a dive bar probably three miles from where I live. Long story short I saw her there but I got scared (yet again) and I didnt talk to her. Plus she was busy talking t... | HISTORICAL | {
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"description": "getting upset with my mom for planning on a new puppy",
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} | AITA for getting upset with my mom for planning on a new puppy? | Some background. We have a small female, un neutered (or however you say it) cockapoo who is great. Shes calm, good with people, and obedient for the most part. We've had her for about six years now. When we originally got her, it was my mother's idea. The dog, let's call her Megatron, was extremely disobedient the fir... | HISTORICAL | {
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"description": "not disclosing my pregnancy during my job interview",
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} | AITA for not disclosing my pregnancy during my job interview? | Wife doesn't have a reddit but I've told her about this sub and she had a question for everyone. Let her know your thoughts!
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Okay, so I recently became licensed in my field and began my job search in December 2018. At the end of December I found out that I was pregnant (I don't currently have any kids).... | HISTORICAL | {
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"description": "wanting closure on a guy I cheated on my ex with",
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} | AITA For wanting closure on a guy I cheated on my ex with | So some time last year I met this guy (I’ll call dan) we got on brilliantly and spent nearly all our time together. At this same time I was with my boyfriend (now ex, I’ll call him Alex) and the relationship was abusive and I really felt like I couldn’t leave, I struggled to think I could be happy with anyone else and ... | HISTORICAL | {
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"description": "applying to a job my office mate got recruited for",
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} | WIBTA for applying to a job my office mate got recruited for? | I’m currently a graduate student in an engineering program in America. I share an office with another grad student whose from a different country. She recently received a message on LinkedIn from a recruiter for a rather large computer/tech company advertising a few openings in there manufacture sector for chemical eng... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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"description": "engaging in sexual acts with a guy in a long term relationship",
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} | AITA if I engage in sexual acts with a guy in a long term relationship? | Title explains it basically. All of our mutual friends will tell you that he's loyal to his girlfriend of two years, and even though he tends to joke a lot, he would never cheat on her. That's what it was at first, but it's certainly not just joking anymore. It's approaching that point of DEFINITELY crossing the line o... | HISTORICAL | {
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"description": "wanting to return the ring",
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} | AITA because i want to return the ring? | So my SO has been super excited and hinting about getting me something in the mail for a few weeks and it finally comes in... it's a promise ring. It's something I mentioned wanting to get (not for chastity but like, a symbol of our love for each other and I just like the idea). However, after a bit I felt something a ... | HISTORICAL | {
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"description": "leaving my parent's house after they looked through my bags",
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} | AITA for leaving my parent's house after they looked through my bags? | Growing up with my parents, I never had any privacy. My mom would say that me wanting privacy was just me being up to no good. She would frequently kick open my door when she knew I would be getting dressed for something, and she would stand there stare at me, and call me fat, ugly, repulsive, etc. And I wasn't allowed... | HISTORICAL | {
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"description": "being to have sex with a girl in a relationship",
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} | WIBTA if i were to have sex with a girl in a relationship? | So some backstory:
I met this girl, well call her julia, through a mutual friend. At this point i should mention we are both 19 and dorm at our college, both of us are hours from home. We really hit it off and quickly became close friends. Since i play guitar and she has a great voice we would really often get togethe... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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"description": "not helping my \"friend\" in her time of need",
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} | WIBTA if I don’t help my “friend” in her time of need. | So my friend and I have been “friend” for the past 10 years. We have been through a lot together, both personal trials and friendship tribulations. For the past 2 years things haven’t been as good between us, and I’ve felt like I’ve been putting in effort for nothing.
I’ve made my feelings clear when I felt we were dr... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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"description": "selling something over the internet and not paying the delivery",
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} | AITA for selling something over the internet and not paying the delivery? | I had more "consumable" items which I've recieved from someone for free,and decided to sell them. A few months ago, someone called me and bought 3 items, which are roughly 30$, and I've paid the shipping, which is another 10$. 2 month ago, the same thing,3 items, 30$, and 10$ the shipping which I've paid.
Now 3 days a... | HISTORICAL | {
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mVfStm2oLnVn85zv0fOCSHLo1pPFq5zl | b25kt3 | {
"description": "not wanting to marry my gf purely for financial reasons",
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} | AITA for not wanting to marry my gf purely for financial reasons? | I’ve been dating my gf for three years now. Ive been upfront about not wanting to get married, though we’ve never talked about exactly why. I grew up with divorced parents and the contrasts in our lives before and after the divorce has always stuck with me.
My gf was on the same page as me as far as marriage I tho... | HISTORICAL | {
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GK8dIOs1ilIXiQFLSHUMZPDGdmKh22bu | b67suc | {
"description": "driving on the left lane",
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} | AITA for driving on the left lane? | I was driving in I-95 (MD)on the left lane going with the flow of traffic. There were several cars ahead of me and I was keeping up with them, we we're about 5 MPH over the limit.
I then notice a car right behind me, following very closely/tailgating. The car would every now and then swerve further left perhaps to i... | HISTORICAL | {
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NgFKg2sqV62W5pbjCGPPlbF7y0wKnFsz | acdd0t | {
"description": "not staying on the phone with my husband while he's commuting",
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} | AITA for not staying on the phone with my husband while he’s commuting? | I think this may be an actual gray area with some different opinions, and not as clear-cut as some posts here. Or not! I guess we’ll see!
My husband (m, 48) and I (f, 49) have been married for 25 years. I’m legally disabled with multiple sclerosis and rheumatoid arthritis. We have two kids; son, 15 and daughter, 13. ... | HISTORICAL | {
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YHH34KnA70ThlXCNfhr12hUuW37p0z8z | ak8vrm | {
"description": "not paying the tuition without being noticed beforehand",
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} | AITA for not paying the tuition without being noticed beforehand? | I'm a student from a middle-income family in a selective public high school which charged a freaking high tuition and fees. Because of that the students here are crazily rich. But my family managed to merely pay those fees for my education, and we're not talking about that.
The thing is, after multiple selection round... | HISTORICAL | {
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IdWjt1T9Et1ejOmfM8HqBMtIa4mqLS6v | b4c5ko | {
"description": "talking to my doctor",
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} | WIBTA if I talked to my doctor? | I had some medical testing done about two weeks ago about Problem A, with the understanding that if something showed up the doctor’s office would call. I hadn’t heard anything so I figured everything was okay.
Today one of their admin staff called me to book a follow up - I’m not sure if I sounded a little surprised o... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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G3tka3h5kyAbOVQ6DVWk6pehaNgYdhVd | 9t5dpm | {
"description": "not telling",
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} | AITA for not telling? | AITA for not telling an abusive ex that a video of him showing off his dick is the first thing you see when you google his name? It was uploaded to a non-porn site, by a username that seems male... | HISTORICAL | {
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gAAQ6grNLzicuF2kdnO6Dlua8ycDyQpV | adetcs | {
"description": "locking the bathroom door in my own home",
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} | AITA for locking the bathroom door in my own home? | Long time lurker, first time poster.
I recently had an arguement with my fiancee because I always lock the door to the bathroom when ever I have to use it.
Her and I live in a single bedroom apartment with one bathroom that isn't connected to our bedroom in any way.
She told me that it makes her feel like I'm not co... | HISTORICAL | {
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9uuDOt69vfE2EKRIXBEA7157M86f1F0z | 9yzjsq | {
"description": "completely refusing to let my parents' friends stay the night in my room in their house",
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} | WIBTA if I completely refused to let my parents’ friends stay the night in my room in their house? | So I’m 17 and live at home with my parents. They have some friends that will be coming down next week and my parents decided that because they live so far away they could stay the night at our house. Fine so far. Except, staying the night implies that they both get to sleep in my room because I have a queen sized bed. ... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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9uI8Janfpeu5FTs9Xomp1Wy1zP5VsF7c | a64k8c | {
"description": "telling my girlfriend a girl is hot",
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} | AITA for telling my girlfriend a girl is hot | So I’m in high school and I’ve been doing long distance with my girlfriend for a year and a half, we usually tell eachother everything that happened in the day, and usually have a good time, I was telling her about how at my lunch table some of my guy friends thought a girl was like a goddess, and they were waiting for... | HISTORICAL | {
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fvcaZ6mRTrr0NEgU0CPIWYti6tNTele8 | 9y3ukc | {
"description": "being bored",
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} | AITA for being bored? | I am a 20 year old who just took a family trip with my mom and dad out of state to visit family. Recently I started not liking the trips because I’m just expected to babysit and hang out with the kids only. I understand that I can’t go out with the adults because I’m not 21, that’s fine but I also don’f want to just ta... | HISTORICAL | {
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9MucxGslAK5oSoDDIFXZZDhU7ktrG297 | 9w2cyt | {
"description": "not wanting my husband to Pee in front of me",
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} | AITA For Not Wanting My Husband To Pee In Front Of Me? | On mobile. Sorry for errors. So my DH and I have been married 6 years, together 8. We've always said we aren't ok with openly going to the bathroom in front of each other. Tonight I was brushing my teeth and he knocked on the door. I told him to wait. He knocked again louder. I opened the door. He says "I have to pee" ... | HISTORICAL | {
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zAtcQUyWkxxrJYbitrB3UGt8QdJSn3rZ | a3jyn8 | {
"description": "not tipping",
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} | AITA for not tipping? | So I was walking around the mall, just browsing, possibly for some shoe cleaner Ive been looking around for, I see a shoe cleaner booth nearby and check it out. Guy who works there goes up to me and asks if I would want to try a sample, I accept as a way to get my shoes cleaned for free and to check out there product. ... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
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ONOxPl3R5NpwyFQe9T0YcyHHJLAOA7cD | a68t4v | {
"description": "wanting my mil to do my dishes",
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} | AITA for Wanting My MIL to Do My Dishes? | Ok so here's the situation. My wife and I both work full-time, with day jobs and a very time-consuming side hustle that is not yet profitable. We live by ourselves in a city, and the rest of our family lives somewhere else. My wife has a brother who is much younger than her (he's 14 years old).
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Over time... | HISTORICAL | {
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4EsOhpzif70YDTEWPVukFMkdYx06GSvM | avcvdw | {
"description": "snapping when someone said my cooking looks disgusting",
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} | AITA for snapping when someone said my cooking looks disgusting? | I live with my room mate and boyfriend, and we all contribute to the groceries for food. Room mate walks in to me cooking the filling for a pie for us three and said it looks disgusting. I snapped at told him "What the hell *name*, you wouldn't say that to someone's cooking. I'm the one cooking it". He said it was a jo... | HISTORICAL | {
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IeGTGTMbeSL43iVXkKXco3IzNpyQrpJt | b8jeyj | {
"description": "talking to my sister's friend without her knowing",
"pronormative_score": 6,
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} | AITA for talking to my sister’s friend without her knowing | i searched her instagram account because i knew the username, i liked a few pics on her account and dm’d a meme. i didn’t think nothing of it, but then she wanted to know me more so i told her things about me, but i knew a few thungs about her but i didn’t want her to get weirded out so i acted like i didn’t know. i ju... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
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0ZPrHjxn3nyvzNWyYDPY3ZOxqm37lHuF | b3904e | {
"description": "yelling and getting angry at my friends for not drinking liquor",
"pronormative_score": 34,
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} | AITA for yelling and getting angry at my friends for not drinking liquor? | So based on my name, I can’t drink. I don’t have anything against it, I have a super low tolerance and get really emotional (anger issues, start crying) if I drink alot and vomit. To me drinking is a sensitive topic.
During parties and outings my friends who are all heavy to medium weight drink like mad. They don’t fo... | HISTORICAL | {
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zqsD88gZCFC378mDtOTcuvFpRFI8zpUx | a11i62 | {
"description": "cutting relations with an old friend",
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} | AITA for cutting relations with an old friend? | Backstory:
I've known this friend since sophomore year of highschool and we both just graduated from college this past May. Her and I were both good friends and I used to date her best friend in highschool. After everyone went off to college, her and I kept in contact often and would skype or so a few times a week un... | HISTORICAL | {
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QfCyqDSWonre9phCOTGK4matHLm3R1fE | auigmq | {
"description": "denying my husband sex unless he helps me with chores",
"pronormative_score": 6,
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} | AITA for denying my husband sex unless he helps me with chores. | I and my husband have been married for 7 years. We have 3 kids and I take care of them. He has a full-time job.
I do understand that he has a lot up his sleeve at work and works long hours. But I can't manage everything alone with 3 kids. So I started to ask him for some help around the house. But he always tells me t... | HISTORICAL | {
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Gg9UzMofemsQDBFnvXEssYMvU7XBsEbL | adc0jz | {
"description": "telling my brother's gf she's not family and hating her",
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} | AITA for telling my brother's gf she's not family and hating her? (Long) | I do not deny that i can be an asshole sometimes, but AITA for this specific stuff?
I left for the Army in early January, and while I was gone my older brother's GF "Jane" moved into my room due to the abusive and drama of her living with her step-father and mother.
Shit happens while I'm in the Army and get entry se... | HISTORICAL | {
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azpZpLFK4I1UFiiUzU9kivRN7BguUspK | 9uh69o | {
"description": "distancing myself from a friend who was once really good to me",
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} | AITA for distancing myself from a friend who was once really good to me? | Throwaway account just in case friends see this.
TLDR at the end.
Backstory: I've been friends with my college roommate for about 8 years. We had some problems living together, but now that we're not, we've gotten really close and for a while, we were inseparable. When I got divorced two years ago, she was my rock.... | HISTORICAL | {
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RqfFIXuurkUTRd2qJg8EM5Z9JwmBY6a0 | a5skfi | {
"description": "not understanding why I need to leave the house one day a week so my wife can have her alone time",
"pronormative_score": 14,
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} | AITA for not understanding why I need to leave the house one day a week so my wife can have her alone time? | I work from home as a software developer. My wife works at a hospital, with Wednesdays and Sundays being her only days off. We have one child. He goes to elementary school. We mostly spend Sundays together doing family stuff.
This is about Wednesdays. This is about the only day of the week she has time for her to just... | HISTORICAL | {
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fsXDfzI1Cs7kiHhkso2KBChJAM8q5MYL | apr84b | {
"description": "calling out a girl at school",
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} | AITA for calling out a girl at school | Okay, so I am in twelfth grade in high school in Australia. We get a HSC (High School Certificate) for completing. The thing that is different is that we are all ranked against each other and scaled as well. Meaning say if everyone in the class got 100% and one person got 10% everyone would get 60% (basically communism... | HISTORICAL | {
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"description": "refusing to support my wife through her diagnosis after her infidelity",
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} | AITA For Refusing To Support My Wife Through Her Diagnosis After Her Infidelity | My wife and I had a pretty normal marriage. No kids, both employed and really happy together. For 99% of our relationship we didn't have any major problems, we made time for each other, so on and so forth.
She recently went away with her friend for a girls trip. The first two days after she came back everything was f... | HISTORICAL | {
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OTdYW4WOvLuslyoHZIFF7xyJVnVTKNHf | awcoyl | {
"description": "being offended by the fact that my family thinks I am acting like a bitch",
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} | AITA for being offended by the fact that my family thinks I am acting like a bitch. | I’ll try to be clear but English is not my first language so please be patient.
I (32F) had a 6 year relationship with my ex (28M), let’s call him Joe.
When we broke up we keep on being friends, I know that’s kind of stupid but we used to work together so it was important to keep things peaceful.
Few years of friend... | HISTORICAL | {
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MCYGn4MGUcZflyzuJucudw5r7hVJAyuN | b8mrl7 | null | AITA A family matter | Last year for father's day, my husband and his very white family (mother, father, brother, brother's wife) celebrated it at a local diner. I worked at a neighborhood pharmacy at the time and the busboy (He came to the country less than 18 months prior and only spoke Spanish) was one of my patients. He came over to our ... | HISTORICAL | {
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3jhEZvhbyE5fo54i97bFEpqxdiJrPOiY | 9t9iwj | {
"description": "telling an online person to chill down when a troll insulted them",
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} | AITA for telling an online person to chill down when a troll insulted them? | So a while ago I was on Amino, which is a pretty cool platform. So on one Amino, I was pretty active and kept in touch with a few people around there. One day, a troll, and I mean, the most obvious troll I've ever seen kicks in and starts shitposting. Then a person with whom I chatted with tried to cool him down but t... | HISTORICAL | {
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Ewpk8p5RL4RrYK0T89LmQ8tWCZ16VGDb | 9y18m6 | {
"description": "not wanting my gf to drink on her birthday",
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} | AITA for not wanting my gf(17) to drink on her birthday? | We're spending the day at her cousins for her 17th birthday and she asked her mom if she could have a beer, her mom said that she doesnt think its the best idea but gave her one anyways. Now ive (16) voiced my opinion very strongly to her on why im against underage drinking and smoking and i told her if she ever did an... | HISTORICAL | {
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k6otPr0H83jeQLbVXIbtoPOioLVg1GvS | 9wbqbk | {
"description": "being this Upset over dirty dishes",
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} | AITA For Being This Upset Over Dirty Dishes? | Hi, I'd like to first give a disclaimer because I am on mobile.
About a year ago when I graduated highschool I moved in with my sister who is 6 years older than me and has a daughter who is 10 years younger than me. It was great because she had an apartment with an extra bedroom, and I had no idea where I wanted my li... | HISTORICAL | {
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0AxhMMyFVTD2C6aF0PZ94OGAHomysp0u | awdj9e | {
"description": "calling animal control on what could potentially be a neighbor's pet",
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} | WIBTA to call animal control on what could potentially be a neighbor’s pet? | My husband and I just bought a house in a neighborhood and we have 2 young kids (toddler and infant). The other day I was loading my kids into the car when a very large dog appeared in our driveway. I don’t know much about dogs and it scared me. I jumped in the car and finished buckling my kids from the inside. The dog... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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BMxPc8f102EqikPb2N9N0ftSdUyI4ayP | 9tl8ff | {
"description": "not driving my co-worker to lunch every time",
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} | AITA for not driving my co-worker to lunch every time? | I drive an electric vehicle. At my office we have free electric vehicle chargers, which are usually in use by the time I get to work, but most of the time available in the afternoons, after lunch. This information is relevant.
I have a card that I paid $100 for which gives me free unlimited meals at a local restaurant... | HISTORICAL | {
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FaP53SvCzwamhYY9dgmZDgnqbTb2nn6I | b9wjdk | {
"description": "getting upset with my mom and her new boyfriend for blatantly having loud sex while I am home",
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} | AITA For getting upset with my mom and her new boyfriend for blatantly having loud sex while I am home? | I live with my mom while going to college. She has said multiple times she does not mind me staying there while going to school, especially since I receive little to no financial aid.
My mom got divorced literally 3 weeks ago and has already basically moved him into our home.
To give the situation, this guy still has... | HISTORICAL | {
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8A46aRgLpLrKUq4buoGBD5ARZruJgsEJ | b41y2m | {
"description": "\"reneging\" on moving in w/ my best friend",
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} | AITA for "reneging" on moving in w/ my best friend? | TL;DR: Circumstances have changed w/ the other party's love life and living plans, yet I'm still expected to follow through with moving across the country.
My best friend (of almost 30 years) and I had started making plans on becoming roommates, last summer. This would involve me moving to them, which is over 2,500 mi... | HISTORICAL | {
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nB8vhshM2V5JKItlleebtLBF57O7aFuo | b8vl5b | {
"description": "\"not seeing/reacting\" to a weird situation between my family and gf",
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} | AITA for „not seeing/reacting“ to a weird situation between my family and gf | So, I never thought of using this sub, but apparently my time has come. I will try to keep myself as short as possible.
My brother „X“ and I were at a concert. we met there the girls which later became my girlfriend and his girlfriend. Our gf‘s are friends and usually spend a lot time together and because we all get a... | HISTORICAL | {
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JLk8Srtl6b3AC0bk2KZG7YqO9VSCHit0 | az86ww | {
"description": "telling my friend her crush is a player",
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} | AITA for telling my friend her crush is a player | So to start off my friend doesn't get a lot of attention from guys. Shes pretty quiet and reserved when it comes to dating. She was discussing this guy she had a crush on and mentioned that he had been hitting her up a lot lately, texting her and commenting on her stuff basically letting her know he was interested. The... | HISTORICAL | {
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"description": "not letting my neighbor from the building next door climb MY roof",
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} | AITA for not letting my neighbor from the building next door climb MY roof | TLDR at bottom
I’m on mobile and I’m also angry typing
So I live in a big city in a very lively neighborhood. I live across from bars, strip clubs, live music...it’s great. That being said, I know that there will be noise from neighbors, and I’m totally fine with that to a certain extent.
The building next door has... | HISTORICAL | {
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csvTiDMKyQ0mTQORMfnNDq5kvtZZMymO | a10aog | {
"description": "not giving my friend 10 cents which he was short of",
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} | AITA for not giving my friend 10 cents which he was short of? | Me and my friend are traveling in Spain, enjoying the sun in Barcelona , I had already eaten but my friend is hungry so he decides to get a bite to eat at this burger place and I tag along, when we enter I notice that there is a rather long queue. An old lady with a walking stick gently taps me on the shoulder and ask... | HISTORICAL | {
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84kmHpx1B43eNVzLSHicDdQKIv8GJvZb | a1fhz0 | {
"description": "calling out my friends for their bullshit about a problem between them, where I was supposed to just be the moderator",
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} | AITA for calling out my friends for their bullshit about a problem between them, where I was supposed to just be the moderator? | Hi there! I'm fairly new to this subreddit, so please forgive me if I'm not the best at explaining the situation. Also, English *is* my mother language, but I live in a Spanish speaking country, so my spelling might be off. Sorry in advance!
So, here's my dilemma. I (16m) have two very close friends who we can refer t... | HISTORICAL | {
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tzLxmUc7jfBGSJF0MKqjvd4IjgbfKDmY | ah0rqt | {
"description": "not letting my fianceé sit in on my class",
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} | AITA for not letting my fianceé sit in on my class? | My fianceé has this weird desire to come watch me teach, to the point that she wants to take a day off to sit in my class.
For context, I'm a PhD student, not a tenured professor. I feel like it diminishes the value of the class, would be a distraction for me, and would take away from the learning experience of the st... | HISTORICAL | {
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erBC7DRcRLS628aXbaubTJVp7qIdQH82 | an7tgw | {
"description": "refusing a \"friend\" a second chance",
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} | AITA- i refused a "friend" a second chance | first off, backstory
my group of friends used to include a girl who i was not particularly close with, she was probably the person i spoke to least come to think of it
anyway a couple of months back a large amount of drama broke out between her and the rest of us (which continues to this day, it's a very long persona... | HISTORICAL | {
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Y3WGeE908OisIXgSPDlMSberyLcX9n3v | at5vjp | {
"description": "bailing on a ski trip with friends",
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} | AITA for bailing on a ski trip with friends | My friends and I have been planning a ski trip for a few months. I’ve bought the lift tickets, plane tickets, etc. I have also been going to physical therapy for the last two months due to some knee pain. This morning, a week before we are supposed to leave for the trip, I had an MRI and it turns out the physical thera... | HISTORICAL | {
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gGW8tT8fWZttTili6HOv6saXw7j44iSH | az7pd2 | {
"description": "being frustrated with my s/o for getting sick",
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} | AITA for being frustrated with my s/o for getting sick? | This might sound dumb, but I genuinely feel bad and like an asshole for having these thoughts.
To preface, my so and I have a great relationship. There are bumps, but we are best friends and respect and love each other, which is why I feel bad for being upset right now.
We were planning to go on a short weekend long... | HISTORICAL | {
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AlZ91HzIHSOKd0PrzJ5ksly0K9IBVhvy | aqhdsm | {
"description": "saying dinner sucked",
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} | Aita for saying dinner sucked. | We were at a friends for dinner and they were serving spaghetti and meatballs. THE MEATBALLS were raw. And the sauce was nasty. The host at the end asked if it was good. I said it was disgusting. Host gasped and I said sorry you asked I answered. My family said I was rude. Host was shocked. Aita? | HISTORICAL | {
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q6MxrhEFOID0516EjbFa2xKsySblcYnZ | b5fyz3 | {
"description": "asking out one of my best friends from high school's ex",
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} | WIBTA for asking out one of my best friends from high school's ex? | So HS was a weird time, my friend and I were really nerdy and didn't start doing any of the normal HS things (sex/drugs/drinking wise) until our senior year. Basically she randomly decided in the winter that she wanted a boyfriend and she picked this guy who had quietly liked her for two years. She constantly told me t... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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u4RaKbXC76sfciRanIHDTd33aC39XZSy | apn3e7 | {
"description": "telling my classmates to back off the racists professor",
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} | WIBTA if I told my classmates to back off the racists professor? | I go to an inner city college and for one of my classes the professor is very racist. She has made several rude and stereotypical comments directed at the African American students. Not to bring politics into this but she is a very outspoken Republican. Our professor is a caucasian older female and the rest of us (myse... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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2G1J45FTEq9piPVdsH03z0JdjEPloIQ4 | 9zi5lh | {
"description": "letting my friend play the race card",
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} | AITA for letting my friend play the race card? | A few days ago I was with my black friend and we were at a grocery store and we were using the self checkout lane.
He scanned an item and put in his jacket. One worker noticed this and came over to see what was the item in his jacket and asked to see the receipt. My friend went apeshit, made an entire scene and accused... | HISTORICAL | {
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Q9rcGCoiLheeHrU3JQHCWLyBoIxGB2U5 | ad17ld | null | AITA [Petty but still] This moderator got on my nerves | Me: Unremove my post I broke no rules
Moderator: a please would be nice
Me: please?
Moderator: you know as opposed to barking orders at us
Me: I just said please. Anyways it’s not like I said It with intention to be rude there’s a difference between “unremove my post I broke no rules” as opposed to “YOU BETTER UNRE... | HISTORICAL | {
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EfHHIBzQTxjB3NLod35En3GVEvSOoBZ3 | ayvmsm | {
"description": "cutting a compulsive lier out of my life, even though he's sorry",
"pronormative_score": 8,
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} | AITA for cutting a compulsive lier out of my life, even though he's sorry? | I just started college last fall and the first person I met was a guy we will call Bark. We became friends the first day even though I really thought he was incredibly annoying. He told me and fellow hall mates all these stories about great things he has done in his life, but us not knowing who the hell he was, had no ... | HISTORICAL | {
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QdwTOzqc8wycQuAIcsi8Tf8pNhQRCeOH | a1ky60 | {
"description": "expexting my friend to do more to help themselves",
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} | AITA for expexting my friend to do more to help themselves. | To do more to hp themselves.
To give some context to this story. My best friend lives a few hours away from me whom I'll refer to as K, she has lost her job and has been unemployed for a few months with a shitty paying, inconsistent babysitting gig, married with a young kid and is young mother. With only her husband ... | HISTORICAL | {
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BGCQQGjfMWZPwDwuXMYMn4lEpBFM3ADZ | a744ou | null | AITA: DISHWASHER POLITICS AND WHOS REALLY THE CLEAN ROOMMATE | Some preamble...dishwasher politics are real people. Some say you have to scrub your plate clean before putting it in, some just go for it food particles and all, and some (like me) prefer to make sure all the big chunks and hard stains are gone but are just fine with essentially a quick rinse. My roommate falls in the... | HISTORICAL | {
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S2YcnIbr5fBZ1JNso5dIQTpy4c73JsOb | a552sw | {
"description": "peeing in the tub",
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} | AITA for peeing in the tub? | No, not on the regular. I'll explain the situation.
My BF has a family friend that is practically his Grandfather. "Granpa" describes my SO as an "adopted son/grandson." Granpa has invited me to stay the night on the couch tonight since the heat at our place will be wonky until the 28th and it's supposed to be especia... | HISTORICAL | {
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6ieogbtotdt9PX2eVZm9meGOpxYNPiZk | ay4dcz | {
"description": "limiting someones toilet time",
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} | WIBTA if I limited someones toilet time? | Ok simple question here we have a work experience guy coming through his school and to put it simply he's the worst person to work with. An ok guy but lazy and moody (the moods are fine it's the unfiltered attitude I hate).
So here's the issue: he goes into the employee bathroom (the only bathroom in store, we're in a... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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ZEDXoudSjVb7fZkKmBdxqrlYdbxYJhdb | aqlo6a | {
"description": "going to a bar on my 21st birthday without my 20 year old bf",
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} | AITA for going to a bar on my 21st birthday without my 20 year old bf? | I apologize if this is incoherent, I’m still pretty upset.
So some context. I [21F] had been dating a guy [20M] for almost a year. He was very sweet, and I liked spending time with him. He lived an hour and a half a way and would drive up all the time and stay at my house. My pet had a vet appointment near him (long ... | HISTORICAL | {
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Fi0IXUV5jDX7NwfICGL74vH4ybn6P2kj | ae2nj9 | {
"description": "not wanting to attend church group with my wife now that dhe found religion",
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} | AITA for not wanting to attend church group with my wife now that dhe found religion? | So my wife and I have been married for roughly 15 years. She and I really haven't been "traditionally" religious , her being a non-practicing Pagan and me being agnostic/atheist. She recently realized that her spirituality has been lacking in her life and started to delve heavily into the Pagan side of things. I promis... | HISTORICAL | {
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8VCCj4JgnQ5OqX8T6Zf9hwfNNPFByVtQ | ahbd1g | {
"description": "telling this girl I don't want to be her friend",
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} | WIBTA if I tell this girl I don't want to be her friend? | So like 10 years ago I worked at a place and became friends with a coworker, Charity.
After I stopped working there, Charity and I stayed friends and would see each other for lunch or to watch movies or something every couple months. We weren't like \*best\* friends, but we were decent friends.
So then Charity asked ... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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v02ToICl3DEhrOAQRcwQtzxAov2oL1GL | a6qj9s | {
"description": "backing out of my friends wedding party",
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} | AITA for backing out of my friends wedding party? | Hey all,
A buddy of mine is getting married this upcoming spring and we’ve been dealing with some drama regarding his groomsmen.
The 4 of us have been in a group chat for about 8 years now and although we don’t live near each other anymore we still communicate regularly through text and like to play Xbox when we can... | HISTORICAL | {
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hsKUwluZ5FGMIojNY4df8vTySBz9xR78 | ag1r18 | {
"description": "breaking up a family unit and living my own life",
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} | AITA for breaking up a family unit and living my own life? | (So there's alot to unpack but I'll be clear, what I'm trying to get here is perspective and resolve to make a life decision here. Unbiased perspectives are appreciated and why I'm here.)
This is a bit of a follow up from my previous post where I got upset at my mother for spending my money on a "gift" for me. In simi... | HISTORICAL | {
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lKuHYRV32125uj90WpmHwnZUdS9KfwPr | b7rgvw | {
"description": "not buying a pen from a poor little girl. :(",
"pronormative_score": 4,
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} | AITA for not buying a pen from a poor little girl. :( | So, i was walking towards the subway and this really poor lady with her kid was selling ballpoint pens near the stairs to the entrance of the subway. The lady was sitting down with her stocks of pens and her daughter (probably 5-6 years old) was wandering around trying to sell the pens. They were there trying to earn a... | HISTORICAL | {
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x4s4zj8SpYxhpwCLE2aaX6SuOJjTCQnX | avc2mg | {
"description": "insisting that my best friends needs medical help even if it ruins our friendship and makes her feel terrible",
"pronormative_score": 6,
"contranormative_score": 4
} | AITA for insisting that my best friends needs medical help even if it ruins our friendship and makes her feel terrible? | My best friend has not seen a doctor in 10 years. She is 22 years old and has never seen a gynecologist. She is not a virgin and had multiple sex partners. Those sex partners both slept with women in the past who have had HPV type 18 and 16. These types are the most cancerous ones and also usually completely asymptoma... | HISTORICAL | {
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wAYFU7Uyzven7vJ09Butn2xpgEQwb8UE | 9z6dp1 | null | AITA. Dropped off his stuff to pick up. | my ex broke up with me after 6 years suddenly. He called me and told me to take my stuff out of his apartment one day and that it was over because of a list of reasons. My guess is he was harbouring frustrations and it just became too much one day (I won’t list the things he said to me here because they are things I ca... | HISTORICAL | {
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"RIGHT": 10,
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RHAKyXWMVHc6URCzGcD44SUZWoLO2Mgw | b7arzf | {
"description": "turning down a \"well-endowed\" woman",
"pronormative_score": 4,
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} | AITA for turning down a "well-endowed" woman? | Throwaway since close friends know my main.
Brief Sidenote: I've always preferred more boyish-looking women, e.g tall, smaller breasts, short hair, etc. Now, onto the story.
I recently broke up with my girlfriend, and decided to try blind dating. I started chatting with this woman - she was great: funny, snarky, a bit... | HISTORICAL | {
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rTwO2JgCM2RQ9jIUuFEObzz2wOl0K4P7 | ajbo1q | {
"description": "pushing my boyfriend to take viagra",
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} | AITA for pushing my boyfriend (26) to take viagra? (22F) | Throwaway account for obvious reasons; tl;dr on the bottom. Apologies for the wall of text, however the issue has been bugging me for weeks.
​
A little bit of background: I am epileptic and take medication to control my seizures. I used to be in a commited relationship 2-3 years ago, and at this time I was... | HISTORICAL | {
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Am9bVXRbBi3nTZxKvQFPL1y4dxSbA0Fi | atdbx9 | {
"description": "being annoyed that my boyfriend doesn't wear the expensive coats I've bought him",
"pronormative_score": 11,
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} | AITA for being annoyed that my boyfriend doesn’t wear the expensive coats I’ve bought him? | To give some context, my boyfriend and I both like investing in nice items for our wardrobe. Two years ago, he tried on a very nice down jacket at Patagonia. It’s one of their nicer, more technical jackets - extremely light and perfect for cold weather. At the time, this jacket was out of his budget ($450), but he kept... | HISTORICAL | {
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"RIGHT": 11,
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2YRIhlTQ1ESvjjXKrjBuYTTJERhpXU3W | aln89w | {
"description": "not giving back my ex's stuff",
"pronormative_score": 12,
"contranormative_score": 2
} | AITA for not giving back my ex's stuff? | So i don't know how else to word the title where I don't immediately sound like an asshole but here's the run down.
I was recently in a terrible relationship for 4 months or so with a guy I met off Tinder (already a red flag, I know). We didn't click emotionally, even from the start, he was extremely immature with hi... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 12,
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EksiwEnkSS9cssL5PNwEFErq506S82l4 | aqviyk | {
"description": "expecting my parents, who want the best for me, to understand my self destructive thoughts",
"pronormative_score": 5,
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} | AITA for expecting my parents, who want the best for me, to understand my self destructive thoughts? | Disclaimer: Hopefully i formulated my question correctly, not seeking help regarding my mental issues.
I'm a 24 yo student. I resent my academic life. After high school i rationally chose to study something that matched my "capabilities". Now i am paralyzed by lack of motivation. Had many ups and downs. When i lose ... | HISTORICAL | {
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"RIGHT": 5,
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SoiaJ44GH7DETDmMEbJWSWFCabvZNxcY | b8u176 | {
"description": "withholding chips",
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} | AITA for withholding chips? | Me and my step sis work at the same fish and chips takeaway. After work, we get a free bag of chips or a couple of potato cakes. When we bring chips home, we share them with the family. After a lot of pushing from my step dad, he got my step bro to get a job coaching soccer (⚽ not 🏉).
After getting the job, he'd boa... | HISTORICAL | {
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7ImstRlFkM3K7F3RVGBZAuuiL9u31GYq | b9senr | {
"description": "getting rid of my Netflix and Hulu accounts that my family has been using for the past 6 years",
"pronormative_score": 48,
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} | WIBTA for getting rid of my Netflix and Hulu accounts that my family has been using for the past 6 years | So I have been paying for my Netflix and Hulu for a long time. Netflix I watch a lot, but Hulu I barely look at.
Now the other day I did the math just for the cost of Netflix every month for 6 years and ...it came out to a lot. Like it really added up. That’s not even including the Hulu account.
The thing is... I do... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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yWOl2SZ0ifceHwz8pAn5brfTiEPzsYVa | 9tc86i | {
"description": "not moving to the edge of the lecture hall",
"pronormative_score": 3,
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} | AITA for not moving to the edge of the lecture hall? | tl;dr: Group of 3 girls enters a lecture late and tries to get me to move to the very edge of a lecture hall, then don't even stay for the full lecture.
I entered the lecture hall and grabbed a seat 10 minutes before the lecture started (my uni starts classes 10 minutes after the hour), and my friend (who I usually si... | HISTORICAL | {
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DYw9R3lmDkMBrTRCgCGhuXQ1u7IiX5GU | al90vq | {
"description": "telling my bf's friend's gf that her bf cheated on her",
"pronormative_score": 10,
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} | WIBTA for telling my bf’s friend’s gf that her bf cheated on her? | My boyfriend is currently living with a close friend of his and his friends gf. I have gotten to know them fairly well and we hang out often.
Recently my bf’s friend confided in him that he cheated on his gf while he was on a trip home visiting his family. Rather than tell his gf this, he has decided it is too late t... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
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1YRvZ5n4RY9kLh37QDapK1PAhYJGrqY6 | anory8 | null | AITA for beighn mad at my friend for leaving me for his gf | So, the context is that I am not really a social person, and I rarely even walk out of my home unless for school. I have one friend, lets call him D, and hes essentialy the only person I talk to.
He spends most of his time either for studying or his gf, but every tuesday we hang out at his home.
But this time, he a... | HISTORICAL | {
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CZ2Da5mwGvku6Apmi0yS72pKHOC5pdKs | ay8u4q | {
"description": "signing up for dating apps and having anonymous convos about sex with men and women online? I don't consider it cheating but my wife does. I think she is being dramatic and stupid",
"pronormative_score": 1,
"contranormative_score": 35
} | AITA for signing up for dating apps and having anonymous convos about sex with men and women online? I don’t consider it cheating but my wife does. I think she is being dramatic and stupid. | Long story short, I have been diagnosed bipolar with severe PTSD from a shit childhood.
About a year into our marriage, shortly after we had our son, I started cruising personal adds on Craigslist (not a thing anymore), signing up for hookup sites for men and women under hidden emails.
My wife should be a private d... | HISTORICAL | {
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"OTHER": 1,
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} | AUTHOR | {
"RIGHT": 1,
"WRONG": 35
} | WRONG |
y4CmkHsfR01ABb1o687k53d8ApY9lpPe | abqqr9 | {
"description": "'pushing in'",
"pronormative_score": 2,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for 'pushing in'? | Ok so this is not one of those posts where i really dont expect anyone to actually think i'm an asshole, but just want validation. I'm 80% sure i'm not the asshole, but i can kind of see that some people might think i am the asshole. So please let me know what you think.
So i've been in hospital recently for a medica... | HISTORICAL | {
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tN12ojyTwCWhqsg9MrQVhN0KZtUo1zYv | 9vlo9q | {
"description": "cutting in front of people who jumped the line",
"pronormative_score": 3,
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} | WIBTA if I cut in front of people who jumped the line? | There’s s Tim Hortons I go to at much that’s really busy because everyone from my school goes there. A lot of the time a huge group of people will just jump in line right in front of me. Would I be the asshole if I just cut in front of them? | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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AkQ6G11N2m9C9N4EkRdDtuCQP0Gx6eXl | b4gr3c | {
"description": "letting things go too far with my close friend who's in a Long Term relationship",
"pronormative_score": 1,
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} | AITA for Letting Things go too far with my Close Friend who's in a Long Term Relationship? | I started working with this girl around 3 years ago. We quickly became close and would go to events that were slightly left-of-field together (indie theatre shows, 80s dance nights etc). For the first year it was mainly platonic between us but with time we grew more and more intimate. It got to the point where I though... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | EVERYBODY | {
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} | WRONG |
uHx3lXFsZBjKQelJobkpxucld6rjTYB3 | ahvgit | {
"description": "texting an ex on our birthday in front of my current girlfriend",
"pronormative_score": 0,
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} | AITA for texting an ex on our birthday in front of my current girlfriend? | Background: 5 years ago, I dated a girl while abroad in Europe. She was south American and very conventionally attractive. We have birthdays on seperate days, but due to the time zones when it is her birthday in my country, it is my birthday in hers so we wish one another on the same day and we have for years. Last ye... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | WRONG |
fBIv8xD5zNE3vbgacw4lJWHllD75QxLF | b51f4u | {
"description": "telling my crush to gtfo if she talks about other guys",
"pronormative_score": 2,
"contranormative_score": 27
} | AITA for telling my crush to GTFO if she talks about other guys? | So me and this girl have been talking for a few weeks now, and I'm crushing on her a fair bit. According to her friends, she likes me too. Anyway, we were hagnin out at my place just talking about life, sort of cuddled up when she mentioned a guy she thought was kinda cute. It sort of fucked my vibe, and I just kind of... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | AUTHOR | {
"RIGHT": 2,
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} | WRONG |
GfGX5cgEEkCo964vp6maWAYsAZCH6jMH | agw3zp | {
"description": "being upset with my husband for \"not wanting to talk about\" what he's angry at me about for four days straight",
"pronormative_score": 10,
"contranormative_score": 4
} | AITA for being upset with my husband for "not wanting to talk about" what he's angry at me about for four days straight? | My husband and I are usually best friends. Lately things have been a bit...off. I have tried confronting him but he says he doesn't want to have an argument and he "knows" that if he tells me what's wrong it will start an argument.
I've been upset and anxious because he's been so passive aggressive lately but refuses... | HISTORICAL | {
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"EVERYBODY": 1,
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"INFO": 1
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 10,
"WRONG": 4
} | RIGHT |
3tC01OmkT4XQ8p8ZMi6RXgfVIxs5KQzj | a7bs1f | {
"description": "losing a friend's dog while on their honeymoon",
"pronormative_score": 5,
"contranormative_score": 12
} | AITA For losing a friend's dog while on their honeymoon? | This happened a few months back. My mom's co-workers (the dog's owners) went on their honeymoon and my mom offered to take of their dog. My mom brings this up to me and I agree to help take care of the dog (being 16 years old). By the second day we had the dog, he did not leave his cage for a split second. This dog was... | HISTORICAL | {
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"OTHER": 5,
"EVERYBODY": 1,
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"INFO": 2
} | AUTHOR | {
"RIGHT": 5,
"WRONG": 12
} | WRONG |
A08co2TH9uX3glSMk7byKmHxPqDc8pIa | ahdfx4 | {
"description": "assuming I knew my multiplication tables",
"pronormative_score": 3,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for assuming I knew my multiplication tables? | Unconventional post, but this happened when I was in third grade, and it's something that has stayed with me for the last 16 years.
We were doing our daily multiplication quizzes, and the teacher had us grade the quizzes ourselves. It was towards the end of the year, and I hadn't missed a question all term. These qu... | HISTORICAL | {
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vTAhoaALKT3Ogzl6Q21eVBt3Hh7oGyGq | b5l1jd | {
"description": "asking whether we are staying together when we go overseas",
"pronormative_score": 4,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for asking whether we are staying together when we go overseas? | I am seeing this guy and we have been close friends for 3 years and decided to start sleeping together in the last 6 months. I have planned a 4 month excursion overseas with 3 weeks to go the countdown is On.
I had told him he was welcome to come with me since he's not really doing anything. This was about 6 months ag... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 4,
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} | RIGHT |
DdjjTxzJ5oVZ9UC8iTQKLKSaSY3ccQKF | ava421 | {
"description": "telling my wife that her breasts were saggy",
"pronormative_score": 8,
"contranormative_score": 14
} | AITA for telling my wife that her breasts were saggy. | All right guys. Now before you think I'm an asshole please read this.
I and my wife are in our late thirties. We've been married for 14 years. Now, before having sex we decided to play a game highlighting the features we had which would classsify us as old. I had to point or hers and vice versa.
She started off by t... | HISTORICAL | {
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"EVERYBODY": 9,
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"INFO": 2
} | EVERYBODY | {
"RIGHT": 8,
"WRONG": 14
} | WRONG |
eoFB74op9lypifWc82yYavW42liJDS0l | auugri | {
"description": "being upset that my best friend told me she's going to Florida with my other friends",
"pronormative_score": 3,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for being upset that my best friend told me she's going to Florida with my other friends? | I want to clarify: my best friend, I'll call her P, since 1st grade (we're 21 now) and I made close friends with 2 other girls in college, who i will call M and S. All of us had plans to get an apartment together last semester but i sadly had to drop out of school due to health issues. They all got a 3 person apartment... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | NOBODY | {
"RIGHT": 3,
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} | RIGHT |
VUMwzK6m4Ji4l97qsYeYLPelynpdtzHV | ayi01o | {
"description": "being mad @ my gf for agreeing to take another girl to prom",
"pronormative_score": 5,
"contranormative_score": 1
} | AITA for being mad @ my gf for agreeing to take another girl to prom? | (Background: our school has a rule that undreclassmen can go to prom, but only if a senior takes them)
So this story starts back in January of this year. My gf and I had been together for a few months and prom was coming up. She had never properly been asked to a dance before so I wanted it to be special. I spent about... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 1,
"OTHER": 5,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
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"INFO": 3
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 5,
"WRONG": 1
} | RIGHT |
Z6H66lLMLyWXGugCNy9UrQdFwuMK2VT7 | b6zj70 | {
"description": "not letting an acquaintance know that her boyfriend might be cheating on her",
"pronormative_score": 8,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for not letting an acquaintance know that her boyfriend might be cheating on her? | I am part of a runner’s group. Over the past two years, I made some friendly acquaintances with some of the members of the group. I wouldn’t call them good friends since none of us talked outside of the group. We would sometimes stay and chat after running, or chat before if some of us were early.
Two of the members ... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 8,
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} | RIGHT |
dhyyruQPmy1qtHYSQJRovoIWmsUALnk8 | akhgsg | {
"description": "stealing back money from my brother",
"pronormative_score": 0,
"contranormative_score": 5
} | AITA for stealing back money from my brother? | So about 2 weeks ago my brother stole $50 from me (and I can prove it) Along with spending his $50, in total he spent $100. Anyway yesterday I decided to take back a little bit and I stole his credit card which had $14 left on it, I ordered about $6.50 worth of products and deleted his card and never touched it again. ... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 0,
"OTHER": 0,
"EVERYBODY": 5,
"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 0
} | EVERYBODY | {
"RIGHT": 0,
"WRONG": 5
} | WRONG |
P7pybblMs9XkvBlDrmOvdA39amfgvGIY | afwess | {
"description": "wanting to end, what I perceive to be, a friendship that is just becoming mentally draining on me",
"pronormative_score": 1,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA For wanting to end, what I perceive to be, a friendship that is just becoming mentally draining on me? | This is just a throwaway and I'm not sure if my post title is really enough to understand so I'll just explain the situation in better detail.
Basically for some background info, I've been friends with a guy now since grade 10 and recently finished school and graduated. We always got along well and we'd message ... | HISTORICAL | {
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"OTHER": 1,
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} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 1,
"WRONG": 0
} | RIGHT |
j9M4U5EuyVm1orFQTC8Woc05cgmU1VNm | b8tzwb | {
"description": "not wanting to use a gift my grandparents got for my birthday",
"pronormative_score": 3,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for not wanting to use a gift my grandparents got for my birthday? | The gift I received was an Alexa. I opened the gift in a restaurant. My grandparents took me out for dinner and I was eating with the family as well. I open the gift towards the end to find out that it was an Alexa. I pretend to like the gift.
While riding home with my parents, I told them I didn't necessarily want to... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 0,
"OTHER": 3,
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"RIGHT": 3,
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} | RIGHT |
kYhdgcXbUEUudXxTW44SAYbH6qDE8BN4 | b671i8 | {
"description": "not helping my coworkers",
"pronormative_score": 8,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for not helping my coworkers? | So hear me out. I (21M) work at 2 vet clinics, both are owned by the same doctor and have the same set of rules and way of doing things. Lets call them Red and Blue.
I’m a veterinary technician/ assistant, basically the equivalent of a nurse. My main duty involves medicating, helping run appointments, and assisting t... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 0,
"OTHER": 7,
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} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 8,
"WRONG": 0
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9yQE5Vq03jkBGTtR6zGUa3FQbQAj39cg | axeaj5 | {
"description": "asking for a higher starting base salary in a commission based role",
"pronormative_score": 7,
"contranormative_score": 3
} | AITA for asking for a higher starting base salary in a commission based role? | So I had a job interview today that was more of an informational interview/ them trying to sell me on the job, because they knew I was unsure about accepting the job, and they wanted someone to convince me to want the job. They have implied that I am their first choice, and the job is mine if I want it (but I have... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 2,
"OTHER": 6,
"EVERYBODY": 1,
"NOBODY": 1,
"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 7,
"WRONG": 3
} | RIGHT |
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