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{ "description": "refusing to pay someone when I broke his gift by accident", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For refusing to pay someone when I broke his gift by accident
So I had a friend,let’s call him Peter,whom I accidently broke his headset by kicking I apologised profusely afterwards of course but however at the end of the day he asked me to pay him $300 in damages(despite the headset only costing around $150-$200) of course I refused to pay him and he kept harrassing me for weeks...
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{ "description": "making him pay for my eyeglasses", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 2 }
WIBTA for making him pay for my eyeglasses?
So I've been seeing this guy for about a month now. He has a 6 months old golden retriever puppy that I love very much, but since it's a puppy, it has a lot of energy and jumps a lot on me. When I'm at his place, I try as much as I can to push the puppy back and tell it "no" when it's too hyper, but it always come back...
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{ "description": "not wanting to hang out with my dad", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to hang out with my dad?
A bit of context before I get in to the real story. I am 33 years old. I've been married for 7 years and have lived away from home since 2005 or so. I grew up in a family that is not affectionate. I have two brothers and my parents stayed married. They both loved me, but there was never I love yous, hugs, kisses, etc....
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{ "description": "cussing out my sister in public", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA For cussing out my sister in public?
This is my first time posting so there might be some spelling mistakes and such, Sorry A background : This was around 3 years ago. Me being 12, and my sister being 17 and my brother being around 2. My sister has bi-polar disorder but had her medications at the time from what I remember. She’s gets angry when in publi...
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{ "description": "going on a birthday trip to another country without my husband", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for going on a birthday trip to another country without my husband?
Me 28 (nonEuropean) and my husband 31(European) are living in his home country which I have lived in for two years. Almost all of my friends I have met through him because it's not easy to make friends here. I work freelance so no colleagues to be friends with. My husband told me that he's got a bachelor party the wee...
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{ "description": "laughing at kid being beaten up in front of a bunch of people", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for Laughing at kid being beaten up in front of a bunch of people
There’s this kid on my team for show quior he constantly calls everyone gay and fosters a real anti-gay culture in the place always “screams no homo” or “if you look your gay” Cut to yesterday, we where changing and he slaps a kids ass and starts harrasing him And saying things like “omfg I know you like it stop lying...
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{ "description": "wearing box braids and being not black", "pronormative_score": 17, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I wore box braids and I am not black?
This is my first time posting to reddit so please let me know if I’m in the wrong place. I am Filipina, was born in the Philippines and immigrated to the U.S. when I was a kid (elementary school age). Recently as my hair has been getting longer I’ve been trying new things with it besides wearing it down or in a bun. ...
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{ "description": "complaining about a free keyboard", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA for complaining about a free keyboard?
I bought a new gaming computer around $2000 and it came with a keyboard. Ive had this computer for about 3 weeks and the keyboard it came with is already messing up. WIBTA for sending in a complaint about it? I dont want another one in return or anything, I’m just annoyed a new keyboard broke so quickly.
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{ "description": "asking my girlfriend to get an STD test", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for asking my girlfriend to get an STD test
Hello, everyone. I (22M) met my girlfriend (29F) online a few months ago. In our first date, I went to her house and eventually we started to made out. A little background: I had a trauma in my past so I'm so afraid of getting an STD such as HIV. I tested multiple times over a long period and I developed a severe an...
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AITA My sister hasn't talked to me in over a year.
Alright guys and girls first post here so please don't rip me a new one if this isn't perfect. So before I get into this let me give you some perspective on the situation. (I'm being a little vague on some details to protect identity). Also this story takes place over 2009 to present. Hopefully it doesn't get to confu...
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{ "description": "parking my car in the street in front of a school", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for parking my car in the street in front of a school?
My mother and I live in a duplex across the street from an elementary school. We live directly in front of the parking lot for parent pickups. Street is one lane each way, but it’s wide enough for parents to make a “turn lane” and let neighborhood traffic through. Neighborhood traffic *cannot* go through, however, if ...
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{ "description": "not wanting children in our college apartment", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA for not wanting children in our college apartment?
I live in a house apartment with a total of 5 people (three upstairs, where this takes place). I've been in the house for almost two years, and for as long as I've known it, it's been a pretty "college" house. Some of the decor is rather *tasteful* (read: sexual), and the living room is pretty regularly used for drinki...
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{ "description": "writing down every time me or my SO does chores", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 5 }
WIBTA If i wrote down every time me or my SO does chores?
So me \[25M\] and my gf \[25F\] have been together for almost 8 years and lived together for almost 2, we're engaged and are very happy together. As in any relationship we are not perfect and we both have flaws, we can talk about most of them and try to improve for each other. However lately i have been growing more an...
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{ "description": "coming late to my mothers surprise party", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA for coming late to my mothers surprise party
A bit of background first. My mother's side of the family isn't really close. She and her brother and sister haven't been in one room for a long time. She turned 50 recently and I tried organising a surprise party and invited her whole family, only 3 showed up and there were more people from my father's side than my mo...
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{ "description": "masturbating in bed a morning before I get up for work", "pronormative_score": 62, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for masturbating in bed a morning before I get up for work
My SO will be half asleep at 6:30am, I’ll pop my phone out. Jack it and then get up and dressed for work. I never used to do this infront of my SO but one day I just thought I’d do it and see if she said anything. She hasn’t said anything bad yet mainly just “Did you just have a wank?” And I’ll be like “yeah” and giv...
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{ "description": "not wanting to seriously date a sex worker", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for not wanting to seriously date a sex worker?
A group of us were having a conversation, and sex work was brought up. I mentioned that years back I knew someone who did escorting and camming. We saw each other casually and had a FWB type situation, but I didn't want to go any further than that due to her work, so she broke it off after a few months. Some of my fr...
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{ "description": "wanting my neighbors to park in front of their house rather than mine", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for wanting my neighbors to park in front of their house rather than mine?
I'll disclaim there's nothing illegal about parking on the street. There's no signage saying it's prohibited, so legally they're in the clear. My rightside neighbor is a student rental. I think there's 3 or 4 students living there. They have no driveway but I do. They have some kind of parking behind the house but AFA...
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{ "description": "wanting to be paid more for babysitting", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for wanting to be paid more for babysitting?
AITA? Im a student (18), and sometimes when i go back home to visit, i'll babysit my dad and stepmums kids ( 9-10 ). Last time i did I got £20 for like 4 hours work which is fine. Ive been babysitting tonight for 10 hours, made dinner and put them to bed, the lot. They are late back by an hour and a half now. minimum w...
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{ "description": "being frustrated that my bfs dog sleeps between us every single night", "pronormative_score": 15, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for being frustrated that my bfs dog sleeps between us every single night?
I adore his dog, think of her as my own and treat her as such. My bf and I are both very physically affectionate people. I thrive on it. His dog is also very affectionate to the point where she insists on sleeping in between us in bed every single night. Sometimes I may complain and he tries to move her but she al...
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{ "description": "quitting my job", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I quit my job?
Hello, first time posting so my apologies if it’s funky. I currently work for a small shipping store and the owner is someone I’m related to. I have two coworkers one who just got hired (we will call her Jen) and the other who I’ve worked with for the past 4 years (we will call him Tim). I recently got an unofficial of...
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{ "description": "breaking up with my gf because I've hurt her too much and don't think I can measure up to the potential she sees in me", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for breaking up with my gf because I’ve hurt her too much and don’t think I can measure up to the potential she sees in me?
I’ve been dating this woman [27] for a year on and off. I have serious feelings for her, and she for me, but she brings out the “jealous guy” in me, and there are times I don’t trust her. I don’t like feeling this way towards her, and I’m not the type that she would normally seek out.
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{ "description": "thinking my family should have left a bar we were at after I was yelled at by the staff", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for thinking my family should have left a bar we were at after I was yelled at by the staff?
Okay, so there's a lotta context to this. It was my mom and aunts' 50th birthday yesterday, and after the main party us adults decided to go to a local bar to finish the night off. There's about 8 of us. So I'm 18, my cousins' boyfriend who is 19 was also there, as was a mutual friend of our family who is also 19. The ...
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{ "description": "telling my sister I'm pissed that she asked me if I owned any of the utilities that were fraudulently charged to her account", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA if I tell my sister I'm pissed that she asked ME if I owned any of the utilities that were fraudulently charged to her account?
I'm annoyed. This morning my (half) sister dramatically busted into the garage while I was smoking a cigarette. She walks up to me and asks in an ACCUSATORY manner"Do you own a Sprint Wireless or Comcast account?". I reply, "No, why?". I'm totally oblivious to what's going on. She then says, "Well, I don't know where ...
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{ "description": "not listening to my gf", "pronormative_score": 16, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not listening to my gf?
We’ve been together for almost two years and have very different opinions on what to do in certain situations. When I want to do something (that will not effect her or harm me in any way) and she thinks I shouldn’t do it, she always tries to guilt me into doing what she thinks is right. Usually I do my thing, dependin...
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{ "description": "not telling my bf that I got abortion when I was 17", "pronormative_score": 17, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not telling my bf that I got abortion when i was 17?
Me(19F) and my bf (20M) have been together for just over 1 year. Our relationship is the best thing I ever had, a dream relationship for me. I want to marry with him in future. Of course we never lied to each other. However, I have a huge secret. I got abortion illegally when I was 17. I was a terrible teenager and s...
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{ "description": "screaming at a Tim Hortons worker", "pronormative_score": 16, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for screaming at a Tim Hortons worker?
Okay so i'm going to explain this and give a bit of background information, also a throwaway account just in case. So I have celiac disease an autoimmune disease where when I eat gluten it will trigger an immune response in my small intestine and damages the small intestines lining (villis). Celiac disease is differe...
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{ "description": "skipping Thanksgiving with my family, to be with my wife and dog instead", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for skipping Thanksgiving with my family, to be with my wife and dog instead?
Kind of a longer one- I (29 m) have been living for the past few months at my parents with my wife, and our almost 2 year old dog Lily. Our dog Lily is an Australian Cattle/Lab mix, who takes medication for anxiety. She’s always had lots of energy because of her breed, requiring a ton of exercise. We bought her as a p...
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{ "description": "saying \"what's up\" to my assistant boss", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for saying "What's Up" to my Assistant Boss
Obligatory on mobile and further apologies for crappy writing. I don't make long winded internet posts often and I tend to ramble and jump around. I'm a young guy. I have been saying "what's up" as both a greeting and a colloquialism for "what's going on" for a few years now. To be clear I don't say"whassup." That is ...
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{ "description": "not telling my half-brother who his real father is", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not telling my half-brother who his real father is?
The main players: Me - on 23andme Sister - full-blooded sister, younger than me and has our father on a pedestal Father - deceased for 17 years, was an alcoholic and possibly a sex offender Half-brother - in jail for 10 years, convicted rapist. Will be released in 2 years. So thanks to the miracle of 23andme and DN...
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{ "description": "not willing to pay my friends for taking care of me when I was high", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not willing to pay my friends for taking care of me when I was high?
It was Friday night and my friends had plans with themselves, but I ended up getting high. They inserted themselves into the situation, saying me and the person that I got high with needed help and they stayed to take care of us. They really didn’t do anything to help us except cleaning up a bowl of vomit and sitting b...
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{ "description": "offering to give my disabled classmate a ride", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for offering to give my disabled classmate a ride?
I’m currently working on a group project with a few classmates, one of whom happens to be disabled and uses a special type of wheelchair. We were discussing days to meet up outside of class, and she mentioned that it’s hard for her to meet (she commutes) on days she’s not on campus because she needs to get a ride from ...
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AITA - Made suggestion to wife that caused her to have a depressive episode
I've been with my wife for a long time now, though we've only been married about 4 months (lived together for a little over a year). She has suffered from depression for her whole life. It hasn't been easy for either of us, but I try to handle it with tenderness and care. I don't always succeed in this, and today was a...
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{ "description": "not allowing a child who messed w/ machinery on a ski lift", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not allowing a child who messed w/ machinery on a ski lift?
The kid had the idea to stick his pole in the bull wheel of a ski lift - the lift and pole came out fine (somehow) and I didn't let the kid onto the lift and clipped his pass. Later learned he had autism and now feel like shit. Opinions?
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{ "description": "getting ticked off by stupid and disrespectful people at work", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for getting ticked off by stupid and disrespectful people at work ?
I work for a major company that prides itself on how smart their workers are . In my department I’m responsible for systems that many people use and unfortunately many of them are just plain stupid . Many of them can’t read , can’t write , lack any competency in their simple jobs and have no way of conducting themselve...
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{ "description": "not finding our speaker when my sister told me to", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not finding our speaker when my sister told me to?
Context: My sister and I had a cool pocket speaker that we share. Most of the time, she uses it since I have a bluetooth headset. We also had a bit of rivalry when it comes to lost items, my sister was the favorite sibling between us and my parents dote on her. She often forces me to find HER lost items. Now onto the ...
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{ "description": "taking my homework back from a girl who wanted to help", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for taking my homework back from a girl who wanted to help?
This happened a while ago and we’re good now, but I just want to settle this debate within myself once and for all: I was doing homework in the library when she walked up. She said “do you need help with that?” and I said “no, I don’t think so”. So we just sat there for a bit. Then, she said “just let me help” and too...
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{ "description": "refusing to stop eating junk food around dieting friends", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for refusing to stop eating junk food around dieting friends?
tThrowaway account. Will try to keep it short, but feel free to ask anything. First time posting on Reddit. **TL;DR at the end**. ​ I'm a woman in my mid-twenties, and so are most of my friends. I've always been pretty thin, skinny even, but most of my friends are now either a bit chubby or simply fat, and...
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{ "description": "letting my friends sleep in my bed", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for letting my friends sleep in my bed?
Last night was my final day of working in a bar that I have been at for almost 3 years, we had drinks when we finished and then went back to mine to carry on drinking. At the end of the night I let 2 of my workmates (1 male and 1 female) sleep in my bed and I slept on the floor in my lounge. My girlfriend is very upset...
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{ "description": "helping my brothers ex-bestfriend", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for helping my brothers ex-bestfriend
On mobile sorry for the format or mistakes. Kinda long so TL;DR at bottom. Here goes. So my brother used to be really good friends with this guy (let's call him jason). So one day out of the blue my brother tells me that he needs me to do something very important for him and that is to block jason on everything and ...
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{ "description": "refusing to be a photographer for my relatives in their every events", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for refusing to be a photographer for my relatives in their every events?
To be clear, I am 18 and still relying on my parents for a living. My family is asian. Last year, my dad bought me a nice camera which i really liked and had a lot of good photos with it. At first, I agreed to take pictures of 2 or 3 weddings of my cousins with the reason to train my skills which I had absolutely no p...
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{ "description": "not meeting my new girlfriend's brother", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I don't meet my new girlfriend's brother?
She (32f) and I (28f) have been dating and it's still very new. I asked her out on our third date a while ago and she let me know she also made plans with her brother after me. She has a rule that partners don't meet her family until 3 months in, which totally makes sense. I get it. She approached it really weird, but...
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{ "description": "not defending my friends from a crazy girl", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 9 }
AITA for not defending my friends from a crazy girl?
So I am very bisexual and in a relationship with an awesome guy I love (both 22). I do wish I could be with a girl on occasion. We decided if an opportunity came along we would go for it, but never seek a threesome out. ​ We were hanging out with our friends and met this cute girl (19) that was super fun....
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{ "description": "expecting someone home at the time they'd tell me they'd be home", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for expecting someone home at the time they’d tell me they’d be home?
My bf goes out sometimes, albeit not frequently, but we do live together and it’s usually on work nights for me. I like to know roughly what time he will be back, just so I’m not worrying if I wake up and realise he’s not there or something, especially if he’s drinking bc my area is trash and I like to make sure he act...
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{ "description": "not liking a guy but not straight up telling him to leave me alone", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not liking a guy but not straight up telling him to leave me alone?
I (13 F) am a 7th grader, and this year managed to get into the 2nd highest level of theater, it's fun but there's this guy, he is not terrible, but I just don't like him, he is an 8th grader and judging by his height is 14, for a lot of this I was 12 since I only recently turned 13. This guy was weird, for the first m...
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{ "description": "not pushing back through the crowd at a concert", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not pushing back through the crowd at a concert
So full context, my friend and I were invited to a concert by a mutual friend who had free tickets. I found out two old uni friends(who I hadn’t seen in awhile) were also going so I meet up with them and introduce everyone to each other at the venue. When the concert started my old uni friends wanted to move to the fr...
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{ "description": "unintentionally hurting my s/o by not being aware of her core values", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for unintentionally hurting my s/o by not being aware of her core values?
Our long-tangled relationship is at a crossroads with where we are in life. Counting this time, it’ll be the 3rd time we have broken up and tried again. We started dating in Highschool. This went on and off for most of three years, with all the hurdles and challenges that one would associate with a relationship in this...
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{ "description": "stop dating a woman for what I perceived as red flags", "pronormative_score": 35, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for stop dating a woman for what I perceived as red flags?
I matched a woman on dating app, and all went well as we have similar interest on movie, TV etc. We even met up once beforehand and feel that we match. However all seems changed on the second date. (This may be long) In the beginning of the date, she brought me a present for my birthday, and I was pleasantly surprised...
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{ "description": "believing people shouldn't use the elavator for only 1 floor", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 8 }
AITA for believing people shouldn't use the elavator for only 1 floor.
AITA for thinking people should not use the elevator in the office for only one floor. I think it is wasting everyone times and make you look lazy.
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{ "description": "not liking my gf's friend", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not liking my gf's friend?
Ever since i met this girl, i havent liked her. Our personalities just didnt match, which has created some small arguments between us. I also have been getting a feeling that she is somehow jealous of our relationship. Both the romantic aspect and the non-romantic aspect (the friend is bisexual). She is almost always i...
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{ "description": "not giving a two week notice", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 6 }
WIBTA for not giving a two week notice?
I've been with my company for 7 years and after a whole lot of corporate restructuring, many managers in my position and above were eliminated. Our (new) regional had a meeting with me and informed me my position "is not essential" at my branch, and "I was lucky to still be here." Hearing that put my last seven years ...
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{ "description": "wanting to change my behaviour and be on good terms with someone", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for wanting to change my behaviour and be on good terms with someone?
**I’m interested to see what others think of this situation. I’m not able to give an outsider opinion.** Today I was made aware that a friend’s (L) boyfriend (H) was not very fond of me as a person. For context, we are in grade 12. I decided to speak to H online. We just went finished our last day before a two week...
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{ "description": "getting kind of sad that my husband passes out sporadically", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for getting kind of sad that my husband passes out sporadically?
I am a grad student who just finished classes for the semester. My schedule is more flexible now so I sleep in and work late. During the semester I wake up based on my class times. My so wonderful husband works every day during the week from 6am to 3pm. He is biologically set to sleep early and wake up early as a resu...
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{ "description": "stopping payments on car my friend sold to me", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for stopping payments on car my friend sold to me?
We agreed he would sell me his 2003 Pontiac Grandam for $900, with $400 down and the rest paid before 2019. This was in October, and a few of things have soiled my enthusiasm to finish the payments. I have given him $600 cash so far. He said he would give me the mirror that was missing. He never did. The window was mis...
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{ "description": "confronting a group of girls who were chatting shit about me", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for confronting a group of girls who were chatting shit about me?
I (20M) am at university and in my 2nd year. Anyway my friend (20M) lives in a house of about 9 people and they always seem to be gossiping about people (my friend doesn't though...but the other housemates do, a mix of guys and girls). Their house usually host large pre-drinks/parties before nights out. Anyway, a grou...
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{ "description": "expecting a cut of a referral bonus", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for expecting a cut of a referral bonus?
My friend told me about this job and I put down her name as someone who referred me. After I got the job I learned that this is a $500 bonus for her for me staying with the company for a period of time. She told me months ago that she would split it with me but she hasn't mentioned it, and I think she hopes I forgot. I...
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{ "description": "lying to my family about my studies", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for lying to my family about my studies?
Some time ago I was seriously sick and ended up in a hospital. After that I found it extremely hard to focus on anything, my attention span was short and, to top it all, my IBS got worse at that time due to stress and I failed a few subjects. During that time my family was having various troubles, some health-related,...
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{ "description": "ghosting my friend", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for ghosting my friend?
I know just from the title you can give an answer, but let me explain from the most neutral position possible. So, my best friend has always been my go-to for entertainment, talking, and just chilling out in general. Recently though, I haven’t enjoyed his company in the slightest. I’ve already explained my issues with...
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{ "description": "wanting to ask my boyfriend to spend less time/even quit on his hobby", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for wanting to ask my boyfriend to spend less time/even quit on his hobby
Some info here, I'm 20f he 21m. We haven't exactly discussed this yet because I feel like it would be unfair to ask of him because he loves is a lot. But right now it's so time consuming I'm getting a bit mad. So my boyfriend is a scout, he is in the oldest group which means that his group has to take care of everythi...
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{ "description": "not wanting my partner to get muscly", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for not wanting my partner to get muscly?
Long time lurker, first time poster here so I apologise in advance if anything is wrong here. My partner (24M) wants to build his body muscle and while I support him in all his endeavours, this one puts me off. He's very sports and fitness oriented whereas I'm some scrawny, nerdy type guy. I wouldn't necessarily ha...
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{ "description": "snitching on my teacher", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I snitched on my teacher
Obligatory on mobile warning, so sorry for spelling and formatting Anyway, my math teacher is quite something, I had him first period on Thursdays and missed the first 20 minutes of a 70 minute lesson because of a music lesson (the recorder btw, this is important later) and it turns out during my music lessons, he wou...
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{ "description": "being sarcastic out loud during class", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA: Being sarcastic out loud during class
Let me explain here: I read another post about teachers so I wanted to look back on the past. 6th grade- During science near the end of the year, my science teacher was "doing fun stuff" so we didn't have to work. She couldn't take a joke when it required thinking. That's sounds douchey, but she tried to much. So nea...
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{ "description": "being angry that my husband's party guests stayed 9 hours longer than I wanted", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for being angry that my husband's party guests stayed 9 hours longer than I wanted?
For full background, see my comment (I realized I went on way too long). **Background TLDR**: My aunt and dad both died this year, and my husband was not as supportive as I needed him to be, putting our relationship on thinner ice than it was before (we have been discussing divorce/separation for years). We have be...
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{ "description": "keeping a bonus to myself", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA For keeping a bonus to myself?
A little back story about those friend and me vs bonuses: We usually do the same job with three or more, in which one joins and he refers the others, because those jobs usually give a bonus varying between 50 and 200 bucks. I've always been fair at the deals we made, where the first person refers the others and splits ...
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{ "description": "ignoring my grandma", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for ignoring my grandma?
So last year my grandmother came to visit (she lives overseas and came by herself). She's the last of my grandparents and for the whole year she stayed with us, I ignored her, and only spoke to her If she asked me something. Now I feel bad because she moved back and I don't know if she'll be alive for me to see her ag...
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{ "description": "firing my personal trainer because he wanted me to eat better", "pronormative_score": 16, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for firing my personal trainer because he wanted me to eat better?
About a year ago, I was in an accident and was injured. After working with a physical therapist for a number of months, I was discharged. In addition to continuing to do my physical therapy exercises on my own, it was suggested to me that I also start strength training. Since I don’t have any experience strength traini...
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{ "description": "talking to two girls at once and bringing one to my game without telling the other", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for talking to two girls at once and bringing one to my game without telling the other[making this for a friend]
Before anyone rags on me, **this story is not about me**. It is about my friend. I apologize if this isn't allowed, but he is convinced he wasn't in the wrong here so I decided to get reddits opinion about it. ​ Background: My friend is a nice guy who over the summer was talking to this one girl(**Female ...
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{ "description": "being frank with my so about her threats of suicide", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for being frank with my SO about her threats of suicide?
I posted here roughly two months ago with a story about my girlfriend. She had some serious issues, threatened herself and I called the police and had her committed to a hospital. As I said, it’s been two months now. She briefly improved and tried to work on herself but never did anything but blame me for more problem...
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{ "description": "going over to a guys house that I was just friends with and leaving early because I felt awkward", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for going over to a guys house that I was just friends with and leaving early because I felt awkward
Warning ⚠️ long post Okay so this was sometime last year but I still see him at school and can’t help but feel bad/annoyed. My friend has recently started speaking to him and I don’t know if I’m making a big deal out of nothing. We’d been speaking quite a bit and I wanted to make new friends after starting a school...
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{ "description": "not forgetting about the traumatic event", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not forgetting about the traumatic event?
I live with two housemates, both guys. A little over a month ago, there was an incident where my housemate threatened to kill me. To explain in brief, he furious when I decided to not listen to him talking about a sensitive topic about me so he pushed me and told me that he can easily kill me at that moment. It was ver...
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{ "description": "playing Uno rather than working while our teacher was gone", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA/ Are we the assholes for playing Uno rather than working while our teacher was gone?
To add some context, physics Uno is a form of Uno that me and a few other friends created that has a bunch of random rules that we normally play during our work time in physics. So now that you know what it is Ill begin. Yesterday we had a substitute teacher who was given fairly vague yet clear instructions. We were to...
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{ "description": "being in my room during a party", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for being in my room during a party (alone)?
My family had a party at our house about two weeks ago. They invited a lot of their friends. Two families had boys who were close to my age. Let's call the one I don't like B and the one I am okay with A. As soon as I greeted everyone who was coming, I went to my room and shut the door. I was watching anime with m...
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{ "description": "wanting to contact an \"ex\" after 1 year of no contact to try and make her realize that the breakup was unnecessary", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 20 }
AITA for wanting to contact an "ex" after 1 year of no contact to try and make her realize that the breakup was unnecessary?
This is gonn seem like such a damn shitpost, but I need to know. I met a girl on an online game where she sent me her contact details because she really liked me. Within 3 days, she confessed that she thinks she loves me and I kinda freaked out. Eventually though, I started liking her so much that I reciprocated. We ...
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{ "description": "wanting to spend NYE apart from my boyfriend's family", "pronormative_score": 15, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting to spend NYE apart from my boyfriend's family?
Hey everyone. Just looking for some outside perspective here. ​ I've been dating my boyfriend for almost two years, and he is amazing. I love his family as well, and we spend a ton of time with them, which I am generally totally fine with. We go out to dinner at least once a week, have family dinners at hi...
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{ "description": "getting my cousin fired", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for getting my cousin fired.
So I went out with my cousin to a bar. She works with my little sister at a behavioral therapy center. My little sister was just recently within the year diagnosed with autism on the high functioning end. Feel the need to state that my sister is — although I would never refer to her this way normally— is my half siste...
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{ "description": "leaving a 50 cents tip", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for leaving a 50 cents tip?
This was at an airport restaurant. My flight was at 2:30pm and I as always, decided to reach the airport a couple hours early and go through the check in and security process (because I’m paranoid like that and don’t want to miss any flights). The cost of this comes in terms of me having my lunch at an airport re...
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{ "description": "wanting to get a personal trainer", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting to get a personal trainer
My mother is adamant on me not getting one as it 'wastes money'. Thing is, I'm not using her money. It's my own savings from the part time jobs I've been doing since late December. To her, I'm wasting my time and money which I could be using for other stuff(??) I explained to her why I wanted a personal trainer and t...
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{ "description": "not thinking I should have to tip almist everytime I go out", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 17 }
AITA because I dont think I should have to tip almist everytime I go out?
Hi there everybody! Some backstory, I am a cashier that works at a fast food chain establishment, so I have a pretty firm understanding on just how crazy and exhausting interacting with people can be, even if it's just at work. Anyways, whenever I go out to various Dinners, I don't feel that my waiter deserves a tip, ...
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{ "description": "using the word faggot", "pronormative_score": 29, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for using the word faggot
I was at a party the other night, and a friend of mine suggested inviting a particular person, who we’ll call Mike, to the party. I’ve known Mike for a couple years, and he’s generally an asshole. As I was relaying this to my friend, I said that always calls me a faggot. This prompted a girl sitting nearby to immediate...
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{ "description": "refusing to put money towards a \"farewell\" gift for a person I haven't worked with or seen in over a year", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I refused to put money towards a "farewell" gift for a person I haven't worked with or seen in over a year?
About a year ago I left my job for a new one. I haven't really stayed in touch with many of my old colleagues, just a select few. About 2 weeks ago I received a text from an unknown number, saying it was Girl N from X workplace and she was inviting me to a farewell dinner for another ex coworker. I thought it was a ni...
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{ "description": "refusing to talk to my friend and making her sad", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for refusing to talk to my friend and making her sad?
A few weeks ago, my friend told me she liked me. We were “seeing each other for about a week until I found out she had changed her mind and was into someone else. We stopped talking until I was over her because she had moved on. We started hanging out again recently but I realized I’m still not over her and told her I ...
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{ "description": "not going to a friends funeral", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA if I don’t go to a friends funeral?
I met this guy a while back while playing baseball in our youth but bonded more in our first year of college. He was a great guy that everyone really enjoyed being around! He always had a good time and just overall was a good guy. That’s why his suicide definitely took everyone by surprise. We haven’t seen each other...
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{ "description": "not saying \"I love you\" to my so", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not saying “I love you” to my SO?
My SO and I are long distance, have been for a year and a half. We talk almost everyday together, so saying we love each other is very frequent. Last night, I just ended my first day of an extended road trip, and fell asleep before telling him “I love you” that day. I woke up to a slew of messages about how terrible ...
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{ "description": "being angry at my boyfriend for asking for space", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA- For being angry at my boyfriend for asking for space
Ok so for context, me and my boyfriend are long distance, so all this was through Skype. The other day my SO and I were spending time together and things were really good he was happy and we were chill. He fell asleep so I just layed there with him until he awoke. When he woke up he was withdrawn and quiet and ...
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{ "description": "uninviting someone to dinner because she is a vegan", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 11 }
WIBTA if I uninvite someone to dinner because she is a vegan?
I've been talking to this cute girl for a couple weeks and yesterday I invited her to a date, eat something then go to a movie. Today I asked her what she thought about salmon and she said "eewww I would never, ever eat fish". Don't get me wrong, my best friend is vegan, but I don't think things would work with someone...
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{ "description": "indirectly saying no to my friend's roommates to come over", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for indirectly saying no to my friend's roommates to come over?
My best friend is coming over to my place for a week. Another of my friend told her to bring her friends too if she wants. There's not enough space at my place to accommodate everyone (her 2 friends) apart from her. And I have lots of project work to do too, which I cannot if so many people are staying at my place. So ...
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{ "description": "recording two girls making false rape allegations", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for recording two girls making false rape allegations?
At school I overheard a conversation between two girls about a guy who had cheated on one of them. One was mentioning that the other girl should report the guy for rape. And that she should bruise herself to make it look like he has been hitting her. Knowing how dangerous these sort of accusations are I recorded the co...
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{ "description": "not wanting to move in and take care of my fiancé's little brother", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not wanting to move in and take care of my fiancé’s little brother?
This is a whole long list of drama so I’ll try to keep it short. My fiancé and I have been engaged for a little under a year. Recently his mother died and his father was never in the picture to begin with. He has a younger brother that is about to turn 18. His mother lived about 45 minutes away from us. She died r...
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{ "description": "not wanting my son calling my dads girlfriend \"grandma\"", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 14 }
AITA? I don’t want my son calling my dads girlfriend “grandma”
My dad and his girlfriend have been together for about as long as my son has been alive. A little less than 2 years. Tbh, it’s not that I don’t like her. It’s just that she’s not his grandma. Everyone is getting so offended that I don’t want my son calling her grandma, but at this point, I just don’t understand what’s ...
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{ "description": "wanting to play my own game", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting to play my own game.
Notice: This was about seven years ago so it might be a bit of a fuzzy memory. I acted a little childish back then since I was 7 so don't say that I am being a child. I was at a day care once and a lot of people would bring their own board games. I decide to bring my new Lego board game (you know about those?) that wa...
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{ "description": "wanting my two roommates' live-in girlfriends to help out with the bills", "pronormative_score": 60, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for wanting my two roommates' live-in girlfriends to help out with the bills?
I'm a college student and I live in a house with 3 of my male friends. Two of my roommates have girlfriends that basically live here. They stay here every night, they eat our food, use our wifi, drink our beer, use our shower, etc. I've jokingly asked them if they're going to chip in on the rent and other bills a fe...
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{ "description": "asking my girlfriend not to spend so much time with her friends", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 11 }
AITA for asking my girlfriend not to spend so much time with her friends?
My girlfriend, “Sam” (I’m 24 and she’s 23) and I have been together almost two years. She is very bubbly and outgoing and attractive (obviously!) and so has no trouble making friends, especially with guys. I have never said anything up until now about who she hangs out with as it’s not my business however the other d...
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{ "description": "blocking my alcoholic brother because I can't take the mind games anymore", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for blocking my alcoholic brother because I can't take the mind games anymore?
He's my older brother, I am 51 years old...so we aren't kids. And yet I've had to hold him up, be his rock through all of his bad times, take care of him. I'm talking HOURS on the phone so he can relieve our childhood and talk about our alcoholic/abusive mom (something I've made peace with decades ago and don't want ...
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{ "description": "wanting a nice Christmas", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting a nice Christmas?
So, I love Christmas (Like most people) And I always want to have a nice Christmas. I always like getting and receiving gifts, - and my mom does too - but my dad is the opposite. He had a (no other word to describe it) Shitty childhood - and so the effects rub off on him. All he did was go to church (so he hates church...
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{ "description": "backing out of plans with my gf because she wanted to go an hour later", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 10 }
AITA for backing out of plans with my gf because she wanted to go an hour later?
The conversation I will be talking about took place yesterday (Wednesday) for time reference. I bought annual passes to universal studios for me and my gf a while back and have been meaning to use them. Our schedule allows us to only have 1 day of the week to spend a full day at universal studios. Unlike my gf I prefer...
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{ "description": "having 2 valentines", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for having 2 valentines?
I'm using a throwaway account for privacy reasons. I'm (F15) and I game on Xbox pretty much everyday. It's no secret that the main Xbox demographic is male, so naturally I receive a lot of attention. I have a friend on Xbox that I've known for around 7 months. A few days ago he asked me to be his valentines. He specif...
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AITA? Mom gets mad at me because I asked my dad for a little favor
My mom is ALWAYS shit talking about my dad because he doesn't pay child support as much as he is supposed to, was never really involved in our lives, and never really treated her right. I asked if he could paypal me $20, and he did. My mom had previously told me not to count on him for anything, so I feel like that mig...
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{ "description": "not wanting to sublet our apartment over the summer", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to sublet our apartment over the summer?
My fiancé and I will be moving across the country (Philadelphia --> west coast) for the summer for his MBA internship. The company he is interning with gives interns $2,000/month post tax to spend on living expenses (i.e. rent). The area of the west coast we will be in is pretty expensive and we will likely end up h...
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{ "description": "parking wrong", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for parking wrong
Kind of long but I would appreciate any insight. I go to a state college and live at my fraternity house off campus. I had to move my truck, which I am trying to sell, out of our driveway for a day and so I parked it in a lot right down the street from our house. We live pretty far off campus and usually use this lot ...
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{ "description": "still being upset at my best friend", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for still being upset at my best friend?
Six months ago I moved 11 hours away from my hometown. My best friend who still lives there has been planning to visit me for a few months, but always rescheduled the dates. I eventually offered to help pay for a ticket for whenever she could come, and she said okay. We kept trying to plan but something always came up ...
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{ "description": "complaining about old people", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for complaining about old people?
English is not my first language. Because I have a fulltime job and go to school as well, every weekend I go to the library to do the following weeks readings. Today a couple (F60, M 70 maybe) came to the library as well. They were discussing some class material and they were talking at a normal voice tone. I wasn’t ...
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