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"description": "wedding drama - MIL insisting on a get together the night before even though it's totally inconvenient for everyone else",
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} | AITA Wedding drama - MIL (70f) insisting on a get together the night before even though it’s totally inconvenient for everyone else | First time poster, long time reader.
Just looking for some advice on a soon to be M-I-L.
So I’m (31f) getting married in 2 months to my SO (35m). His family (2 older brothers, mum and dad) run a business together, we all live in very close proximity. They are EXTREMELY close - the opposite of how I grew up so it’s t... | HISTORICAL | {
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"description": "wanting to choose my own birthday plans",
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} | AITA for wanting to choose my own birthday plans? | So my boyfriend of almost 2yrs tends to be immature and a bit of a control freak. He tends to hijack every free moment I have to do him favors and drive him around and loves to find ways to get me and other people to pay for what he wants, and I'm getting really tired of it.
My birthday is coming up (Im going to be 38... | HISTORICAL | {
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FBNf8fEjjV3UmtlDPtMVbR8XVtwXXAii | aaj475 | {
"description": "getting angry at my friend for laughing at me",
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} | AITA for getting angry at my friend for laughing at me? | So for context, I'm in a chat group with my best friend and some other friends, and today they started talking about suicide and stuff like that, so I just left for a while until they stopped with that subject as I didn't feel that comfortable with all of them talking about their reasons to die and all that.
Fast forw... | HISTORICAL | {
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3RLJlfbtIPYrOKgDu0PBjF79LnR0CjIZ | b514xm | {
"description": "basically telling a guy that he doesn't look like he lifts",
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} | AITA for basically telling a guy that he doesn't look like he lifts? | I was at my local gym the other day, pretty early in the morning usually I go in the afternoon. Decided to go for a bench press PR which for me was 115 kg. Since we don't have a power rack I asked the only guy I saw around if he could spot me, he looked pretty skinny but I figured it would work out and I was pretty con... | HISTORICAL | {
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szbDxLKkMQaVDfnXpvGjk9eaM27VAaNt | atl6gv | {
"description": "getting to write 3 pages because I got the first word of the spelling bee wrong",
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} | AITA i got to write 3 pages because i got the first word of the spelling bee wrong | Like the post says i have to write 3 pages because i did not try in the spelling bee the reason i was chosen for it was because nobody wanted to do it so i did it i went there go the word wrong and went to go talk to my friends aftwr this i saw one of my teachers furious and thought not much of then when i get to my cl... | HISTORICAL | {
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XWqidyv2j34rifKiPfOUmB8cCSOJUlsr | af6wh4 | {
"description": "not mowing my lawn to my neighbours dismay",
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} | AITA for not mowing my lawn to my neighbours dismay? | Now at first glance yes I obviously ATA in this case. My yard is strewn with weeds and the grass comes up halfway between my knees and ankles. It’s something I’ve been trying to rectify, attempting to save up for a lawn mower and whippersnipper since before Christmas, and almost coincidently I was going to purchase bot... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | AUTHOR | {
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} | WRONG |
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"description": "changing my name despite my parents' objections",
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} | WIBTA for changing my name despite my parents' objections? | WIBTA for changing my name?
My dad was raised by his grandmother, who was apparently a saint. She helped him through the death of his dad and being abandoned by his birth mother, she taught him everything he knows from cooking to fixing a car to (legend has it) playing baseball which he got a scholarship to a great sc... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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"description": "answering phone calls from my boyfriend in jail",
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} | AITA for answering phone calls from my boyfriend in jail? | sorry this is long, it requires a little bit of back story...my best friend/roommate has never cared for my boyfriend. Before he got into trouble, she didn’t care for his personality but she has literally spent 5 minutes total with him a single time 3 years ago (when him and i were just friends and i was living somewhe... | HISTORICAL | {
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FhyON7fyOQ5N6ATTGMLVhvfLn1MsxNcR | aizvh1 | {
"description": "splitting from my wife after she changed her mind about having kids",
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} | WIBTA for splitting from my wife after she changed her mind about having kids? | So my wife and I have been together for 8 years, married for 4. A year after getting married, we started trying to have a baby and she got pregnant soon after. Unfortunately, she had a miscarriage midway through her 2nd trimester. That time was really hard for her, and I gave her time to grieve and did not pressure her... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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} | NOBODY | {
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} | RIGHT |
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"description": "buying myself a laptop",
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} | AITA for buying myself a laptop? | Hey all, long time reader first time poster etc. etc. so sorry if my formatting is an issue.
So to get the proper context for this I'll need to start from august last year, when I was preparing to head off for my first year of university. I was interested in buying myself a laptop for note taking and coursework since ... | HISTORICAL | {
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"description": "reporting my former manager leading to her being fired",
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} | AITA for reporting my former manager leading to her being fired? | Starting this with an explanation of the situation.
I was previously employed as a desk jockey in a company where the department was roughly twenty people of particular demographics and I was the sole member of a polar opposite demographic. I had worked there for about two years with half of my duties being transferre... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 5,
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} | RIGHT |
nX661VT162aC7T2kFy9PtAgUpwyFMqwF | azmehk | {
"description": "calling out my roommate's fiancée on her manipulation and selfishness in-front of a crowd",
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} | AITA for calling out my roommate’s fiancée on her manipulation and selfishness in-front of a crowd? | Long story but this is a couple months worth of build up so I got to vent
So for some context I live in a house with some great people, among them is my roommate. His fiancée however is a complete nightmare, she’s passive aggressive and plays the victim on issues where there shouldn’t even be a victim.
I’ve been very... | HISTORICAL | {
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"RIGHT": 11,
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CSpcSOZdvTsm10qoHgFp8nva2bu67WbL | an67ja | null | AITA? Story of my ex and I's history | Alright, hey. I'm Blake and this is my first time around on this sub. I'm actually loving it so far, and I figured all of you would be the fairest about whether or not I overreacted or went out of my way to be a dick.
SO. Long story, there will be a TL;DR at the end, so you may skip this detailed story if desired.
... | HISTORICAL | {
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QWpB9NG1lQwoHlEA5Vww8fm0ux2vv6qt | b1t3h7 | {
"description": "trying to get my gf to uber",
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} | AITA for trying to get my GF to uber | So me (28m)and my girlfriend (21f) have been together 2 years. I work in a kitchen $12/hr 35 to 45 hours a week. She is a cosmetologist gets 7.25hr 25 hours a week plus tips and commission. This is in Pennsylvania btw. From what I've gathered she makes about half of my pay in a week give or take. I walk to work literal... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | AUTHOR | {
"RIGHT": 1,
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} | WRONG |
RXvmmL8ddqnmIG2rgn42Vz8Dw5KMEfPe | akgq4v | {
"description": "calling someone fat after they insulted me",
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} | AITA for calling someone fat after they insulted me? | This person pretty much insulted me for no real reason, and I responded by calling them fat, not out of the blue. It was relevant to what we were talking about. | HISTORICAL | {
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"RIGHT": 0,
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IBLiEwAFp3RZ3D6l5WSNZaUBd2aSB4L2 | an5323 | {
"description": "withholding someone's money cause they owe me money",
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} | AITA for withholding someone's money cause they owe me money? | I let a friend borrow $500 a month ago for an emergency where he needed a last minute flight. I lent it with the hope that he'd pay me back, but knew that it's very likely it would end up being a gift.
Fast forward to yesterday, I was hosting the Super Bowl Squares and was the person collecting the money and distribut... | HISTORICAL | {
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"INFO": 1
} | OTHER | {
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teu4Sht2D52AVlKb1T1sypvRVdQRLC8x | anqiov | {
"description": "stopping giving my friend a ride to school to save my feelings for them",
"pronormative_score": 2,
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} | WIBTA if I stopped giving my friend a ride to school to save my feelings for them? | So now that I'm driving, me and my friend agreed that I would take them to school, and to their house after. We agreed on this because we never get to hang out after school or on weekends. I've had a small crush on them, for a while now, and when i confessed last time, they said no. I feel the need to ask again coming ... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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5WkcFFJWZs8vSC04ceMbhiEdOLYVUjQ9 | aseuza | {
"description": "getting upset at boyfriend for saying to his ex that he bought his gift hoodie",
"pronormative_score": 7,
"contranormative_score": 2
} | AITA for getting upset at boyfriend for saying to his ex that he bought his gift hoodie? | Hello there, first time posting here! Posting from phone so sorry if the format is a little weird.
TL;DR bottom
Now, to elaborate this, I(20F) got my boyfriend (21M) ,who we will call A, for Christmas a Nintendo white hoodie cause I knew how much he liked it and wanted one and he was really really happy with it.
*S... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 1,
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"EVERYBODY": 1,
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"INFO": 1
} | NOBODY | {
"RIGHT": 7,
"WRONG": 2
} | RIGHT |
BTvfb0sMXN3FQpz1wgQNm7kz2A1SFtJW | b32jjv | {
"description": "stopping a friend from talking to an ex",
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} | AITA for stopping a friend from talking to an ex? | So earlier today, I was talking to my friend, who recently dumped his girlfriend after only a couple days because he found he just wasn't interested in her. This ex is not very relevant to the story. The relevant ex's are ex's 1 and 2.
My friend here seems to have been recently having some sorts of mood swings, where h... | HISTORICAL | {
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5clajLotDiRoUH7R3j9ek1mTVacpI0uG | b8urry | {
"description": "wanting to get a tattoo even though I still live with my parents",
"pronormative_score": 9,
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} | AITA for wanting to get a tattoo even though I (25F) still live with my parents (58M/F)? | Hey guys so some context is necessary. About a year ago, I decided to finally gain my independence and get my dream tattoo. It never happened due to a stupidly massive argument with my parents. I really want to get this tattoo done as it represents my childhood and is very meaningful. It wasn’t going to be a large tatt... | HISTORICAL | {
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"INFO": 1
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 9,
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} | RIGHT |
QirQtfCgsb8Y0rdD31S4UIF3SfB1ko6U | al1t4q | {
"description": "being mad at my parents for buying expensive things for my brother when to me they said to earn my own money",
"pronormative_score": 6,
"contranormative_score": 2
} | AITA for being mad at my parents for buying expensive things for my brother when to me they said to earn my own money? | Throwaway because my bro knows my real account
A few months ago my headphones broke. I decided to buy another pair but better and more expensive. So I went to my parents and asked them to buy them. I chose a 160$ pair. They refused.
Dad started talking about how when he was my age he already had a part-time job. So I... | HISTORICAL | {
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"EVERYBODY": 1,
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"INFO": 3
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"RIGHT": 6,
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0t98e231YXmZ7cQMbRrcpolWK2GseRxB | adap91 | {
"description": "being upset about my boyfriend's continued relationship with a girl he almost dated",
"pronormative_score": 4,
"contranormative_score": 4
} | AITA for being upset about my boyfriend’s continued relationship with a girl he almost dated? | Backstory:
My boyfriend and I have been good friends since we first met in middle school. The summer after graduating high school, we both admitted we kind of had feelings for each other and started kind of hooking up (ie. we watched Futurama and made out in his basement). Then we left for different colleges, leaving... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | AUTHOR | {
"RIGHT": 4,
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} | RIGHT |
9aKetmSmnLE211EJcEItUHZfPMbmWSuV | ahhlzx | {
"description": "laughing at my so during sex",
"pronormative_score": 547,
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} | AITA for laughing at my SO during sex? | 2 things first:
-She just got a smart watch.
-She is not the most active during sex
So my SO and I were having sex. I'm on top and it's the usual, which is fine. I am always the one to suggest other positions and stuff, otherwise it would just be missionary/done. I've already got her off and I say "hey babe, wanna get... | HISTORICAL | {
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"INFO": 5
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 547,
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} | RIGHT |
jVotkxmTktN9dtpO5naEOhLzvLipBsUO | 9wjgp7 | {
"description": "staying silent after feeling insulted by a guest in my house",
"pronormative_score": 10,
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} | AITA for staying silent after feeling insulted by a guest in my house? | I called a "friend" in the morning to plan a small gathering with our own daughters. She would pick us up at my daughter's school and buy something to go to eat it at my place.
This friend knows where I live and she even knows one of my neighbors, an old lady who dislikes me profoundly and with whom I've had several p... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 10,
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} | RIGHT |
NXUlRFsOOVLaRcBO4nLtDOqRlmlD7MVw | b7zs6d | {
"description": "telling my best friend everything he touches becomes worse",
"pronormative_score": 2,
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} | AITA for telling my best friend everything he touches becomes worse? | So I’ve had feelings for this girl for about 5 years now, and he knows I’m head over heals for her but I’ve made it into the ‘bro-zone’. I’m okay with that and for the most part I’m ‘over her’, but I still don’t feel okay about any of my friends being with her, which is selfish I know.
Last night he was getting pretty... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | AUTHOR | {
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} | WRONG |
bITYc1m1A5IyYTgBJInfmlSkm1kUzoCX | b0sgbs | {
"description": "cutting someone else's bike lock",
"pronormative_score": 7,
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} | AITA for cutting someone else's bike lock? | My bicycle was locked to a public cycle rack for a couple of hours, but when I went to retrieve it I found someone else's bike on top of mine with their cable lock passing through my frame. I'm pretty sure the person didn't do it maliciously, but since I had easy access to some tools I decided to be selfish and cut the... | HISTORICAL | {
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"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
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} | RIGHT |
dj3tVumhldrN0iDCybVdieNttDX3agV2 | as4i3n | {
"description": "taking legal action against my landlord",
"pronormative_score": 3,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for taking legal action against my landlord? | I feel guilty this has already happened to me.
Backstory: Last summer my husband and I were renting a house with a pool. The laws inQuebec state that a landlord can only repossess a dwelling if they intend to live there themselves or a direct family member. In this case our landlord was very rude and I once had to kick... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | NOBODY | {
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} | RIGHT |
Cm9tF27x7sxeiEBHacaxfb7KpWhj5r0j | a266e0 | {
"description": "getting emotional after my husband said he is too tired to have sex",
"pronormative_score": 4,
"contranormative_score": 12
} | AITA for getting emotional after my husband said he is too tired to have sex? | I'm 34 years old and my husband and I have been trying to start a family for 4 years. I recently had investigative laparoscopic surgery in which they found endometriosis which explains why I haven't been able to get pregnant. This is my first cycle since the operation. We've had sex twice this week and I was hoping we'... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | AUTHOR | {
"RIGHT": 4,
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} | WRONG |
vh9FDn4c4lB9uhEKXXueRIhumuuH8kJ3 | a8z314 | {
"description": "answering post and getting into a back and fourth with another redditor",
"pronormative_score": 0,
"contranormative_score": 4
} | AITA I answered post and got into a back and fourth with another redditor. | [comment chain in question](https://www.reddit.com/r/NoStupidQuestions/comments/a8qpmt/would_it_be_bad_to_tell_a_girl_sorry_im_an/eccuz9h)
I answered a post on /r/NoStupidQuestions earlier today and an unexpected argument broke out with another user. I normally try not to engage too much but i felt the need to voice m... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | WRONG |
ldpj6CCHzlKtTH5GrqR9nXfvm8dqKIP9 | aikfra | {
"description": "making my nephew cry",
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} | AITA for making my nephew (12) cry? | Should say, not intentionally. My family talks shit a lot but I’m on the gentler side of shit talking. None of my nephews or nieces really have a mother figure, and I just grew up being that for them. It doesn’t feel right to talk shit back, ya feel?
But anyway, one of my nephews is going through a rebellious phase wh... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
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qi99zHH9t1BRhRAkAHDh1uogLqim4yBA | b7xs7b | {
"description": "getting angry at my friend's advice",
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} | AITA for getting angry at my friend's advice? | Me and Jessie lived in different countries, and we were back in our home state on the same weekend so we decided to arrange a meetup. I always admired how confident Jessie is towards life, and thought of her as a good friend.
So as we were discussing about our lives, I brought up that I felt suffocated and miserable ... | HISTORICAL | {
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IlQHC9Td5J5iBX3PpFJ5GQsQliVrryrX | ayvd76 | {
"description": "being upset at how my husband laid tile",
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} | AITA for being upset at how my husband laid tile? |
Hey all,
To get right into the issue at hand: my husband and I gutted the house we purchased and he and his dad are laying the tile. Before they started we laid out quite a few to see how they would look. We discussed which way they would run and the design. They have a sort of cloudy pattern that i asked him to pay ... | HISTORICAL | {
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ttehtxk1QVFZRIHa5Y421nFn700PGleZ | aoy2d9 | {
"description": "not paying for a pre-purchase inspection",
"pronormative_score": 3,
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} | AITA for not paying for a pre-purchase inspection? | I am in the market for a used car, and I prefer to buy from a private seller rather than a dealership. I contacted a seller from Craigslist and we chatted a bit about the car. We set a meeting time for the following day. I confirm with him 30 minutes before the meeting that we are still meeting at 1:30, and he sa... | HISTORICAL | {
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HCyhwTwy9s7tNasvWfALmD7cWwnoKWdE | axc58n | {
"description": "lying to my mom",
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} | AITA for lying to my mom | Heres the story and its a bit long (or at least it looks that way on my computer):
I was a non-believer in god for many years. I stood very firm in my beliefs and would state it clearly when asked.
My mom believes in god and once sat me down and told me flat out she was afraid i was going to stab her because of my ... | HISTORICAL | {
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NktI6xzffIThcFA9K0iNwGBAY3G2oW8k | ai90qf | {
"description": "wanting to see her becausei don't feel well",
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} | AITA For wanting to see her becausei don't feel well. | For context, she is depressed and in a really bad place, I sweared that i would help her. I confessed my love to her but she told me she didn't had the energy right now and I understand.
Worried about her I proposed to come see her multiple time and every time she told me she wanted to be alone.
Then on a Sunday I fe... | HISTORICAL | {
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j7ObDYzXfCqVbG1u3Uw3YBxxvh8PFnac | ahu6xu | {
"description": "accidentally misgendering a doctor",
"pronormative_score": 10,
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} | AITA for accidentally misgendering a doctor? | AITA? I work at a clinic, I've been there about 8 months. I'm the only dietitian and work exclusively at one of our four sister clinics so I don't know most of the employees including 70% of the doctors. Tonight I attended a work function and there was a pretty decent band playing so a lot of people were dancing. A few... | HISTORICAL | {
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phe4J5y0hOnviZBA1Bn93W2P1YMb514c | adu3sy | {
"description": "telling my wife to stop commiting my spare time",
"pronormative_score": 36,
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} | WIBTA If I tell my wife to stop commiting my spare time | A little bit of background. I've been married for 3 years now, I love my wife and like to consider myself as relaxed/zen kind of guy. I rarely get angry at her and try to please her to the full extent of my abilities.
​
The thing is lately she's been making plans like going to her father's, her mother's, f... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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YsGjRLZMG9TepJ3Q3fNdkWPCqOrCpvwd | 9x2uqw | {
"description": "sabotaging an old classmate's chances of getting hired at my workplace",
"pronormative_score": 8,
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} | AITA for sabotaging an old classmate's chances of getting hired at my workplace? | I work at a law firm as a law clerk. The career of lawyer is very competitive, and as any recent law grad knows, your first job is not only the hardest to get, but what could make for break your career. Luckily I found a job and I've been here for two months. I hate it here, honestly, the boss is disorganized and awful... | HISTORICAL | {
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i8qxNzZ6tPbV2acudOSekR8D1OO7XW5J | 9yk3pi | {
"description": "culling my Facebook friends list and deleting old contacts from my phone",
"pronormative_score": 3,
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} | AITA for culling my Facebook friends list and deleting old contacts from my phone? | Recently, I went through my contacts list in my phone and got rid of a bunch of phone numbers of people who I haven’t spoken to in a long time. These were people who were old coworkers or acquaintances I fell out of touch with, people who I’ve messaged several times in a row with no response, or people who I legit forg... | HISTORICAL | {
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jzYhuHFMkQUOc7de9zUy2NhJ04VnlJSn | am9l0r | {
"description": "using the mobile order curbside pickup in the rain",
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} | AITA for using the mobile order curbside pickup in the rain? | So as I sit here waiting for my food to be brought to my car in the rain, I sort of feel bad that the fast food worker is going to have to come deliver all my food to me in the rain. The main reason I do the pick up is because my diet requires me to be a bit specific with how things are ordered, and ordering through th... | HISTORICAL | {
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4IUeXlCksLOzMKqq3L9d9rsODJZJjEqS | aihyx7 | {
"description": "getting rid of a long time friend for sexting me after a misunderstanding",
"pronormative_score": 5,
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} | AITA for getting rid of a long time friend for sexting me after a misunderstanding | TL;DR: Long-time friend sexts me inappropriate messages after misunderstanding a text, despite believing I was still with my bf (his close friend), so I tell him I won't be moving in with him anymore. AITA?
Hey guys! Need some genuine guidance for this. I am a female in first year of university, Just finished the firs... | HISTORICAL | {
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HtIziA0P4ocNGGCeQwRy1JZK5jaHbJM9 | aug377 | {
"description": "getting angry my grandparents took my toys without permission",
"pronormative_score": 1,
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} | AITA for getting angry my grandparents took my toys without permission? | Sorry for making this too long but I feel it's important for you to judge this with the full story
For a little backstory, I don't have the best relationship with my family. I grew up living with my mom, my grandparents, my aunts and my uncle, my dad abandoned the family when I was 3 so I only had my mother's side. I ... | HISTORICAL | {
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omzPrXzpVFJ625qUmoYIZWvbcg448Ur8 | a90mmt | {
"description": "wrapping clothing items for Christmas without using boxes for them",
"pronormative_score": 16,
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} | AITA for wrapping clothing items for Christmas without using boxes for them? | Maybe it's just the way I grew up. For Christmas clothing gifts we would just fold them and wrap them. No big deal. Recently a new in-law of mine has confronted me about how tacky that is. I said sorry and that it's not something my family does. She looked appalled, like I just spat on Christmas. She continued to chide... | HISTORICAL | {
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W6Te41JElgImNV8BlQJiTV02w1NmdQ1G | a92zuu | {
"description": "constantly being disappointed in gifts from my husband",
"pronormative_score": 7,
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} | AITA for constantly being disappointed in gifts from my husband? | He sucks at gift giving. I know it’s the thought that counts but he isn’t good at it. He is really easy to shop for because whenever he mentions he wants something, I make a note then next gift giving holiday give him what he asked for. He always complains he gets the best gifts and he can’t do the same for me. Thi... | HISTORICAL | {
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MRaHkbw5yLJGuasDhcE13RrVnAeVzeey | aqgtpc | {
"description": "being pissed at how my bfs ex handled this situation",
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} | AITA for being pissed at how my BFs ex handled this situation? | All names have been changed.
Background: I’m 32F, my bf is 32M (Harry). We’ve been together for 4 years. He has a son (Ben, 10yo) with an ex wife (Amy, 29). They’ve been separated for about 6 years, but because of lack of money and other situational issues, they’ve only very recently started the divorce process. They ... | HISTORICAL | {
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3OJj4unP5GZm3hF5UVU5F40W0ZMnIOIN | b2lxne | {
"description": "not forgiving my dad when everyone else did",
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} | AITA for not forgiving my dad when everyone else did? | Because of the 3k words limit, I can't post everything I'd like to so just believe me that my father is genuinely not a good person.
Here's the story that happened last summer. In the middle of August, during a weekend, we got into yet another fight. This one ended up with me trying to escape and him pulling on my ... | HISTORICAL | {
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R63JoOOfEIpC4QbLSG9FkfKO1fPmOHqD | a03jpb | {
"description": "getting upset that my girlfriend wants to use Plan B after everytime we have sex",
"pronormative_score": 31,
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} | AITA for getting upset that my girlfriend wants to use Plan B after everytime we have sex? | I know this sounds bad, but this has bugged me for a while now. I've been dating my girlfriend for almost 3 years and we've had little sexual intercourse, but after every time we do, she wants to get a morning-after pill (I don't know if plan B and morning after are the same). We've probably had sex 4 times and we had ... | HISTORICAL | {
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YSNIX3ZMKHMj0YjLHT5znrxLSpKGodDv | 9ucwiy | {
"description": "kicking our two kittens out of bed with my gf at night",
"pronormative_score": 9,
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} | AITA for kicking our two kittens out of bed with my gf at night? | My girlfriend and I adopted 2 kittens a couple months ago. At night they get hyper sometimes and it keeps me awake, they never fight on her side, is always on top of me. My girlfriend is upset and wants to sleep with them every night.
I try to sleep with them but nearly every night I end up locking them out of our roo... | HISTORICAL | {
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JaeldZlIENQCPYfKSE39VVNmS3Y2Segd | 9w7hkz | {
"description": "getting upset when people try to thank me for my \"service\"",
"pronormative_score": 144,
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} | AITA when I get upset when people try to thank me for my "service" | To preface, I don't have any service. I went to boot camp for 2 weeks, then got separated for suicidal ideation and was sent home.
With today being veterans day, a couple people said it to me (maybe slightly jokingly?) And I've had a few others thank me in the past. Every time it happens, I feel shitty for it. I'm alw... | HISTORICAL | {
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6QD1f50tBB2MSEsRQhFEmD29ehkz8I3v | ah4t6j | {
"description": "asking for context on a message that wasn't meant for me",
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} | AITA for asking for context on a message that wasn't meant for me | I've been with my girlfriend for 11 months, we haven't had any real problems in our relationship, ups and downs like most, but the downs rarely happen, and when they do we usually get over them pretty quick. Not sure if it matters much but here's a little backstory: We both kind of had trust issues in the past, as we'v... | HISTORICAL | {
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I0ZLYpnzSePI3Us6xjKTNPxUKm0420yD | b4bpyq | {
"description": "brutally rejecting girls at a nightclub in front of my cousins",
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} | AITA for brutally rejecting girls at a nightclub in front of my cousins? | So I (21M) come from a South Asian family (Indian) and my older cousin (28F) just turned 28 recently. Her sister is 21F.
Now, given that I come from a South Asian family, its really taboo to talk about sexual things that openly. I think it's normal for most families/sibling type relationships to not talk that openly ... | HISTORICAL | {
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rohAoIUhAzlWjdsjSeEJGZh4sQ61SpMI | a9p68t | {
"description": "never telling some of my friends what I've been up to",
"pronormative_score": 3,
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} | AITA for never telling some of my friends what I've been up to? | This only happens with a small select amount of friends but, anytime I say things along the lines of "oh I went drinking with..." or "I went to ____ alone" etc, etc... I am greeted with a guilt-tripping line, "Aw why didn't you invite me?" Or "No one invites me anywhere."
I'm the kind of person who can get along wi... | HISTORICAL | {
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MHWJUgYwtCa8Lw6kWcbMzWnZZPDsoRYa | axsdn3 | {
"description": "ignoring my friend over a test",
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} | AITA for ignoring my friend over a test? | This all sounds like stupid high school drama, cause it is.
Little backstory, I’m in a honors class for math, it’s not crazy b/c a bunch of people in my grade take it as well. I’m usually a sold B- to B+ student in that class and haven’t gotten a test above a 90 all year. While she always got 90s and above.
I was ... | HISTORICAL | {
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FNGfxkQpqCihTgbpUN6bnX9AvIKyP9g1 | aty5iq | {
"description": "taking stay at a friends house for some space away from my fiance",
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} | WIBTA if I take stay at a friends house for some space away from my fiance. | I'll try to keep this short.
Since we've been together, I have always been the one to do laundry, do the dishes, clean the house and keep things tidy. Also, I find myself cleaning up after him *a lot*; i.e he will leave dishes, clothes and everything in general where he feels like it and leave them there
That's whe... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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zex16vXgHFV3wcIxj3O3zRt1iGgnAIXz | 9zjqtl | {
"description": "not wanting to go on a family trip",
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} | AITA for not wanting to go on a family trip? | I lurk, but this is my first post. I apologize if I’ve inadvertently broken any rules. Some background: I (24F) am the only one in my age group in my whole family (immediate and extended). There’s the grownups, and then the preteen/teen kids. So I’m the loner in family settings. I’m also the black sheep of the family, ... | HISTORICAL | {
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3jvFDMieDyNRkU1OwmzyrfmepwBJe9Ld | anboj1 | {
"description": "not giving my classmate $20",
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} | AITA for not giving my classmate $20? | Today, we had a test during Calculus and I along with this classmate, Mason, were some of the last ones to finish. I turned mine in and started talking to my friend who sat a bit close to Mason but no where directly near, around 5 feet away from him.
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It's important to know that I used to have a part tim... | HISTORICAL | {
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E0lw5L8HODuGThuz748PpSIMyAyHAaNL | a4z9bl | {
"description": "thinking you shouldn't have to pay your roommate to borrow their textbook for the semester",
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} | AITA For thinking you shouldn’t have to pay your roommate to borrow their textbook for the semester? | This didn’t happen recently but I still don’t know who’s the asshole here.. It was sophomore year, my roommate (RM) from freshman year and I decided to room for the second year. (Side note, everyone we knew were surprised, were polar opposite people but were respectful of each other’s differences, and having each other... | HISTORICAL | {
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MFcFxHxT15carpdvRgGaBY1wqyJf1RGX | b0c8nf | {
"description": "not liking animals",
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} | AITA for not liking animals | i'm looking for unbiased opinions regardless of your personal feelings, not memey answers from pet lovers please.
i've never been an animal person. the regular pets annoy me to no end, i strongly dislike cat and dog behaviors, I dislike being around them, I don't enjoy places like the aww subreddit and never got on bo... | HISTORICAL | {
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A0BCo9eexqVyHBLiujeHmXo8limRSIiY | azxiqc | {
"description": "getting mad at my friend",
"pronormative_score": 4,
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} | AITA for getting mad at my friend? | I (16F) have a few close friends and one of them (17M) is the person i've been friends with longest. (also before any comments on this: I like girls, he has a wonderful gf, and we are so close we see each other as siblings so one of us liking the other wouldn't ever happen). We tell each other everything and talk all t... | HISTORICAL | {
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HJG78GAvdFupjDrBvj1rWB6Y6UNCP1yN | anazts | {
"description": "not wanting to give up personal sentimental objects to grandparents",
"pronormative_score": 8,
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} | AITA Not wanting to give up personal sentimental objects to grandparents? | Sorry for the formatting I'm on mobile.
Former lurker (had to make a new account) first time poster.
Apologies for the length, it's a lot on my chest.
My father passed away last year suddenly/borderline expectedly, he had many many many health issues over the years and was declining finally his body had enough. The ... | HISTORICAL | {
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xQT2B98aQMq2WS2Cc1XjTvy2cu3DbakP | alugan | {
"description": "wanting to be told when the camera is on",
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} | AITA for wanting to be told when the camera is on? | I've been nannying for my niece since she was four months old. Now 16 months. It's in an actual job capacity where i get paid and everything.
There was an absolutely bad start I will admit where I didn't know what I was doing and I didn't take the job seriously enough. So they had a nanny cam installed.
I suffer fr... | HISTORICAL | {
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9bWz2p5GivHQrXFQb4CoydIgzNpW9NCM | aln6ud | {
"description": "not allowing my grandmother in law to smoke cigarettes inside the house",
"pronormative_score": 13,
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} | AITA for not allowing my grandmother in law to smoke cigarettes inside the house | Smoking is a pretty normal thing in my SO's family. This means smoking inside is also considered a normal thing to do.
I however don't like the idea of smoking inside the house, because the smell lingers for a while and I'm not the biggest fan of secondhand smoking.
My grandmother in law is however very old and can'... | HISTORICAL | {
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nJCDIiNs45x5vN3V6IulMxH7JE30OcZ9 | au6y8d | {
"description": "getting a negative staff member fired",
"pronormative_score": 10,
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} | AITA Getting a negative staff member fired | Background: I work as a lead bartender at a small restaurant. I have a good rapport with the owner after I took over a bunch of responsibilities when the bar manager left. We currently haven't found a replacement bar manager so the bartender on shift and the chef are the ones in charge.
The owner has been asking me a... | HISTORICAL | {
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318FopJW0AgeO3eLmD79rDxrkFOUwXRO | alu44j | {
"description": "getting my professor in trouble",
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} | AITA for getting my professor in trouble? | So this happened last semester, but I only just found out about the results and I'm sorta feeling like what I did might not have been as good as I thought it was.
In Spring of 2018 I took Pre-calc with a Professor, we'll call him Dr. Smith. Dr. Smith was a very nice person, very friendly and very humorous, but as a pr... | HISTORICAL | {
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fqTALRAGE009zbg1hQvDARtodNMxGkJV | aeilrt | {
"description": "asking a stranger to give up his table to me at a cafe",
"pronormative_score": 42,
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} | AITA for asking a stranger to give up his table to me at a cafe? | First real post ever because this has been eating at me all day.
For some context, this is lunch rush hour in the CBD (central business district), about 1 PM. It was a casual dining type of cafe that had smashing sandwiches (really just out of this world), so the crowd would get pretty intense.
There’s usually an e... | HISTORICAL | {
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7YAjxNbXkKAx5aBrF6sGBKUjUQenMxRW | atx8ky | null | AITA or is the new coworker a jerk? | I work at a local sandwich shop. I've been working there for almost a year now and I enjoy it. I get along with pretty much everybody in the store. We all respect each other and treat each other pretty much like family. One of our coworkers left the store to finish her degree so we needed an extra person during afterno... | HISTORICAL | {
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NdLITPWRnpdlmbqtS5mSlxotG3Cvlej8 | aoj1w9 | {
"description": "not giving up my train seat to someone with a kid",
"pronormative_score": 17,
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} | AITA for not giving up my train seat to someone with a kid? | The subway where I live is really hard to find seats in so we consider it a blessing of god to find one.
Earlier today I was on the way to college when someone with a really worked-up kid walked in and sat next to me. the kid was being really pissy and screaming and stuff but she was young and the mother couldn't do m... | HISTORICAL | {
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XMYVeY6Er50TLFMOQryBBZoUPuXpHmp4 | an9nhr | {
"description": "not wanting my grandpa's ashes",
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} | AITA for not wanting my grandpa's ashes? | My Grandfather was by all means an incredible man. He served in WW2 in the Army Air Corps and throughout all of his stories and mottos he always seemed to be a spectacular person that I never got the opportunity to meet. That said...
My only memories of him were as a young child since before he got sent to an old folk... | HISTORICAL | {
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2xhqRWNvaVhiDSEacGiJ8DlHhBUkImHd | aqdxii | {
"description": "not wanting my wife's other child",
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} | AITA for not wanting my wife's other child | On mobile and all that, so sorry about that.
Ok, I'm in this dilemma. When I met my wife 10 years ago, she had a 1 year old. His real dad is a complete dumpster, never wanted to have anything to do with her or her son.
I love them both, and I marry her a year later. Then we have another son, B, who is healthy and amaz... | HISTORICAL | {
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Yso73qjFv0dGrZoJUbvTIQFNBPmTLAC8 | ayuc7i | {
"description": "saying I don't want my mom's bf to ride 12 hours to Florida with me and my girlfriend",
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} | AITA for saying I don't want my mom's bf to ride 12 hours to Florida with me and my girlfriend? | So I have a trip to Disney coming up soon, we leave on Sunday. My girlfriend and I have been planning this trip for a long time, she has never been to Disney before, and we have never been on a vacation on our own before. Of course we are very excited. Well my mom also happened to be planning to go to Disney few days a... | HISTORICAL | {
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Kte6QWCurSWvm8igF7hW3r2akxig3YWA | aqyvm4 | null | AITA for Valentine’s Plans? | Heya, so I recently just got with my girlfriend, she and I have been dating for about 3 weeks now, and yesterday was valentine’s! I was super hyped, I got her a really soft teddy bear that was pretty big, and a nice bouquet of flowers with a cute little heart thingy in the middle. (we are seniors in high school).... | HISTORICAL | {
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LZsVMojpdjn7qi08CLLGIMm8K3ol7m8Q | au581f | {
"description": "being upset at my boyfriend of a year for not communicating well",
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} | AITA for being upset at my boyfriend of a year for not communicating well? | (im on mobile bear with me)
background: boyfriend [17M] and I [17F] have been together for a year. prior to this relationship i was in a different (shorter) relationship where i was cheated on lots before i found the confidence to leave. i’m a timid person and i recognize that i need assurance because of my previous ba... | HISTORICAL | {
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571O2Yu28QoD7NPGnKeBLYqsKZIYkSYK | aheaqt | {
"description": "making \"racist\" jokes",
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} | AITA for making "racist" jokes? | Let me just say that not me or any of my friends are racist. In history class the teacher asked "what would you do if the government took all your money?" And as a joke I said "I'd run away and join the natives to live off the land" and my friends started laughing and the teacher screamed "NO! STOP! I'M SICK OF YOU THR... | HISTORICAL | {
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7JLUUqcomTlXVBsgQqMellsHxBUigR8C | ajwf2l | {
"description": "expecting an extra class to be free when the teacher called me to apologize for forgetting to teach important things in previous lessons",
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} | AITA for expecting an extra class to be free when the teacher called me to apologize for forgetting to teach important things in previous lessons? | Hi everyone,
My husband and I started taking dance classes about a month ago. The center where we take classes offered a free private trial class. After we took that we signed up for their "new students" course/level which was 4 private classes and a few group classes for about $500. Once we completed that we entered ... | HISTORICAL | {
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DjUzAYyz7FmR4ittjRScuxiIIRAZwSHz | b9pu2q | {
"description": "cutting my \"child-free\" kids out of my will",
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} | WIBTA if I cut my "child-free" kids out of my will? | Note: Please my thought process first. This is not an attempt to manipulate them into having kids
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I am in my mid 60's and have 6 kids (all adults, 4 daughters 3 sons).
I grew up in a very poor family and have worked incredibly hard my entire lif... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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ECSah7qSqyjatC6WqKvO93KN5WVDIWAV | aa4bx5 | {
"description": "not wanting to stop working and babysit my partners son",
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} | AITA for not wanting to stop working and babysit my partners son? | My partner moved into my apartment last year and , and him and his son have already taken over most of my house. (Changing my workshop and my guest room to be a play room and bedroom for his son) i never really cared about them taking over my space. I loved the feeling of a small family. However I do work from home. I ... | HISTORICAL | {
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ZmpR6M3K0rtqJ6yVT97SDrQGVSvdGSoh | alc9hb | {
"description": "ruining the relationship of my fiance with her mum",
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} | AITA for ruining the relationship of my fiance with her mum? | Throwaway account because some friends are on reddit and might recognize us.
So I have a genetic condition causing a noticable assymetry in my face. When I was younger I used to get very self consious about it and I hated how I look. Since growing up though I realised that my self worth is not only determined by how I... | HISTORICAL | {
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bja9kPhksBKLWLnGaP4PLoC78lwzhUpO | 9ztk1i | {
"description": "being mildly upset with my so for playing Fortnite",
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} | AITA for being mildly upset with my SO for playing Fortnite? | My SO (30M) and I (20sF) have two kids, a 4 year old and an 18 month old, with a child on the way. I decided this year, to my SO’s dismay, that we were not going to get a real tree because I do not want to deal with the pine needles and having to water it. I dragged him along with me to pick up a tree, so I did not hav... | HISTORICAL | {
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1H9cYjD96uOHrsGiLsadGjRYBQOuXHcF | b7ic7e | {
"description": "not paying for my friends D&B card on her birthday",
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} | AITA for not paying for my friends D&B card on her birthday? | Clarification:
We're teens, not adults. Her dad invited me to the party and payed for both our cards the first time around.
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So my friend invited to her birthday party at Dave and Busters, and I brought my wallet so I could recharge my card (I run out of credits fast).
After playing some games for a w... | HISTORICAL | {
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x2kqfLpXdZWVbNcMU0sDkwvmSfjAN0S0 | au7vxb | {
"description": "letting an alcoholic friend make her own choices at a party",
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} | AITA for letting an alcoholic friend make her own choices at a party? | To preface, this girl (22f) and I (22f) were friends for awhile a few years ago. She got engaged while we were still friends, and was on a good path. We had a falling out, and awhile after, she was dumped and started to spiral. To my knowledge, she was getting drunk every night, etc. but TBH I don’t know the extent or ... | HISTORICAL | {
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TaGBnU4gRUx03ioWOpIE8oifmbvMWBIg | b90h1y | {
"description": "yelling to my aunt and grandma because they forced me to cut my hair",
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} | AITA For yelling to my aunt and grandma because they forced me to cut my hair. | Ok I HAD normal-long hair and If I never wanted to cut them I would go by myself to the barber, but my grandma didn’t like them so she told to my Aunt to ask me if I wanted to cut my hair, I said no so she renounced. The next day my Aunt and Grandma asked me if I will never cut my hair I said yes but I’ll go by myself ... | HISTORICAL | {
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e1xDKlzWiX47XDVR8Xf2ifyaAERFNmN1 | b9uf86 | {
"description": "leaving school",
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} | AITA For leaving school | So emm I 15m this happened earlier and its messing with my head
So I was in class(french oui oui) and somebody was messing or doing something honestly I dont know what happened I didnt think anything did but the teacher absolutely flipped. Complete mad FUMING anyway I start to laugh because for some reason getting re... | HISTORICAL | {
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KWHhNkiFYvcL8T03up47x2LD7CTERvqq | anffg3 | {
"description": "asking my girlfriend to pay rent for the 1 month she will live with me",
"pronormative_score": 17,
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} | AITA For asking my girlfriend to pay rent for the 1 month she will live with me? | So my girlfriend and I are both juniors in college. this summer I am planning to spend 2 months away 3 hours from home taking classes so that I can get my pre-med classes out of the way. I plan to take 8 credits at a time, and work part-time to help sustain myself.
When I told my girlfriend (of 4 years) of this plan,... | HISTORICAL | {
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kVdziRcRBUxqgmsNIMiUQedLSdd5L35r | alts5n | {
"description": "not wanting my Mum to date",
"pronormative_score": 5,
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} | AITA For Not Wanting My Mum To Date | Okay, context is required for this, because otherwise, this would be an easy yes, I am the huge asshole and even I can see that. But there's more too it than that. So much so that I really can't tl;dr this, because I really do feel everything is important.
I'm 18 years old and I live with my mum and my 12-year old sis... | HISTORICAL | {
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qqYRurZBtlnVoyVwq4ZopOTWUpGsSCqq | abjmef | {
"description": "asking my trans GF to top me",
"pronormative_score": 4,
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} | AITA for asking my trans GF to top me? | So I’ve been dating this girl for about 2 months and I was always the top. However, I guess I just thought it would be OK if I could ask if she could top me and now she is threatening to leave me because I just asked it. I’m fine that she said no but I never expected this reaction and now she thinks I only like her for... | HISTORICAL | {
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h5PMG4h5FcQNPJjavBQ0rKCo0FkIGBq5 | b867r3 | {
"description": "not wanting to see my brother for the first time in a decade",
"pronormative_score": 6,
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} | AITA for not wanting to see my brother for the first time in a decade? | TL;DR at the bottom.
My oldest (half)brother is now 31 years old. We met when I was 9 and he was 19. He showed up at my dad’s with his newborn son and girlfriend, so my parents took them in. We built a good relationship and I absolutely adored him. Suddenly, he took his family and left town when I’m 12 (I was outrage... | HISTORICAL | {
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4gQ7HrrbfQTuUR2wRmRysit9Xi29wc9E | a224bc | {
"description": "telling my mom to leave",
"pronormative_score": 9,
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} | AITA For telling my mom to leave | For context I’m 14
I was in my room finishing of 5 hour model kit of an robot. I had it standing up on a table behind me while I finished off the arms, my mom drunk, walks in, looks at it and says “what is this crap” gesturing to my model, she then knocks it over breaking the legs off (which took me 30 minutes to attac... | HISTORICAL | {
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OVd02w1U9KVFOwmwc9HIuP1YRObUrdkw | b3osee | {
"description": "asking my boyfriend to not go on vacation with his mom",
"pronormative_score": 6,
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} | AITA for asking my boyfriend to not go on vacation with his mom? | My boyfriend (27m) and his mom go on vacation together pretty regularly. I (21F) usually don't mind, since they are pretty tight due to it being just them for years and they both like heat/luxury vacation which I absolutely don't.
However, a few days ago, when he asked me if I minded if he went this summer. To which I... | HISTORICAL | {
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ERrjJJemCXLqHzwCooOBKSCWDrF0I2Gp | avj4qn | {
"description": "indirectly hurting my wife before sexy time",
"pronormative_score": 27,
"contranormative_score": 9
} | AITA for indirectly hurting my wife before sexy time? | Tldr below.
My wife and I just came from a romantic night where we watched the opera. When we got back, she went to the toilet. I sat in the room to settle down before I prepare to get myself cleaned up.
While I was undressing myself, my wife walked in with sexy lingerie. Hot af, teasing me. I was already in my boxe... | HISTORICAL | {
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b6IFEuXouepycsTYYcUYKPE5YKL9a2kn | aaxmhc | {
"description": "going back to my ex",
"pronormative_score": 7,
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} | AITA for going back to my ex? | Hey guys sorry for formatting errors, on mobile here.
So a little back story here, basically me and my first ex (we will call her Ex1), dated for about 2 years in highschool. We broke up at the beginning of senior year. Towards the end of senior year I started seeing this different girl (Ex2), we dated until summer e... | HISTORICAL | {
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OKeS8BdNRos7uLP4oXGCkEN7KOFq5llj | awrfpv | {
"description": "not chasing after a drunk friend who stormed out",
"pronormative_score": 6,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for not chasing after a drunk friend who stormed out. | Long story short a friend of mine (26m) can't handle emotions when he drinks. We tell him not to get super drunk since he had no car and I have to drive home home every night. He always over drinks and gets into a slump and we have to baby sit him and keep him from spiraling.
Tonight he drank half a bottle of rum and ... | HISTORICAL | {
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5G39W8ouDIXU4hTiBNNQeYPgVPYAvUCm | ahm8bp | {
"description": "freaking out the neighbours whilst exposing their kids to bad language",
"pronormative_score": 3,
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} | AITA for freaking out the neighbours whilst exposing their kids to bad language? | A few hours ago (around 9pm; I live in australia) my neighbours started blaring ed sheeran hits at a pretty nasty volume level - to the point where even if I closed my windows and put on headphones on It was still annoying. This was made worse by the fact that my window looks over the bordering fence and onto their poo... | HISTORICAL | {
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doKeeXt9Z1PzMrL056AIX0w01Lh5iauB | a50yxh | {
"description": "deciding not to spend Christmas with my boyfriend and his family after he told me I'd be one less thing to worry about if I didn't come",
"pronormative_score": 7,
"contranormative_score": 1
} | AITA for deciding not to spend Christmas with my boyfriend and his family after he told me I’d be one less thing to worry about if I didn’t come | He tells me we’re arguing semantics after this whole thing started and says I’m blowing it out of proportion. Last night we were talking about going to his grandmas house for Christmas which is 7 hours away. At first he invited me and I said yes I’d come, then we were talking about making a pit stop to see my family w... | HISTORICAL | {
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"OTHER": 5,
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Mq0WAtDcckklozhA7aJCe2HbklNmNwTZ | aut4gs | {
"description": "not helping someone getting beaten up on the streets",
"pronormative_score": 14,
"contranormative_score": 1
} | AITA for not helping someone getting beaten up on the streets? | This happened a few days ago after a concert. I (an average build male) went outside of the club for a smoke with one of my friends, when she suddenly told me to turn around.
As I turned around I saw a guy, probably between 25-35 getting pushed to the ground by another man. 2 other guys, probably the aggressors frien... | HISTORICAL | {
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6f9FY1dkMlRLLdjyElNyas1Msr5g75K2 | anqi15 | {
"description": "telling my abusive mother on her deathbed that I prayed god would give her the appropriate punishment",
"pronormative_score": 78,
"contranormative_score": 12
} | AITA for telling my abusive mother on her deathbed that I prayed god would give her the appropriate punishment? | I don't really want to give specifics. But my mother was physically violent with me, and even enlisted help from her brother in law to beat the shit out of me.
I thought saying this to her would lift weight of my shoulders, but I feel like it's fuelled the fire.
I wish I could just die too.
| HISTORICAL | {
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W2Zm7ZJYSzT8O9iGSmmWheEdwZTMaG3k | ahelz0 | {
"description": "not wanting to get used to my messy roommate",
"pronormative_score": 12,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA if I don't want to get used to my messy roommate? | I know that in order to be a good roommate, I have to let a few things go. I can't have it my way or the highway because I'm sharing a space, and my roommate is a great person. Unfortunately, we have very different standards of cleanliness, and I am having a difficult time lowering my own standards: I don't like dirty ... | HISTORICAL | {
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KRYy8TgLqVlkvuzCDxyPrYswULJxelOX | a368tn | {
"description": "not wanting to pay for tickets on a car in my parents name",
"pronormative_score": 7,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | Aita: for not wanting to pay for tickets on a car in my parents name. | AITA: As the title suggests I do not want to pay for tickets on a car that was neither in my name or possession. My grandma gave me a car when she passed. They put it in my mom's name. My mom would not let me put it in my name.
Fast forward to me moving out. I could not garage the vehicle at my new place so, per an a... | HISTORICAL | {
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3jSPONRj2MgPcVhQhxKR2BC17fG6chRf | a4cish | {
"description": "telling my husband to take less time in the bathroom",
"pronormative_score": 4,
"contranormative_score": 1
} | AITA - telling my husband to take less time in the bathroom? | Newlywed here and burner for obvious reasons.
My husband and I live in a apartment with one bathroom.
We both work from home and have appointments with clients (out of the home) starting at 12.
Each morning at 8 am my husband goes to the bathroom for 30 minutes. Fine I have time before my next appointment. He the... | HISTORICAL | {
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UKZ7tpWJT7TjGUaSp0nlZFvXfeGRhyZE | asfkyq | {
"description": "being mad at my roommate cause his dog chewed my fav shoes",
"pronormative_score": 7,
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} | AITA For being mad at my roommate cause his dog chewed my fav shoes? | So my roommate got a puppy who he promised to train when he first got it. Well 5 months later and she’s still peeing in the house and chewing on things. The ‘incident’ happened while I was gone visiting my parents. From what I can piece together the owner was outside smoking and left the dog to roam in the house while... | HISTORICAL | {
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umeUfzWxc03HIRHwWdGg2AMgHTCspHVg | aecm8v | {
"description": "not living for my job",
"pronormative_score": 10,
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} | AITA for not living for my job? | Here’s a little backstory. I work retail, and my best friend and I are both assistant managers. Our General Manager is out covering for a District Manager while she is on maternity leave. My best friend was appointed to be the “Acting GM” making her now, my boss.
Things started out really good, as my best friend was m... | HISTORICAL | {
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