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UK6lWFLCAEC0mVI19XSARyOyKsVE3l9i | ax40ez | {
"description": "most likely causing my Ex to go Homeless",
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} | AITA For Most Likely Causing my Ex to go Homeless? | I'm not trying to brag or anything, this is relevant to the story. I was fortunate enough to be born into an extremely wealthy family. I'm talking levels of wealth that my future grandkids would not need to work for a single day of their lives. I own a bunch of properties that I buy and sell.
I met a girl about 4 year... | HISTORICAL | {
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hAyyYzU0JRhALPaEDor4yyAOzZFm5fQf | a61x1u | {
"description": "asking a someone \"at their lowest\" to finish paying the their rent share",
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} | AITA for asking a someone "at their lowest" to finish paying the their rent share? | I have a housemate that I don't know terribly well, but recently they leased another flat and let our house know that they would not be paying rent on our house anymore and it is up to us to find a sub-letter, no compromise. The only reasoning they are giving us is that something has happened in their personal life. It... | HISTORICAL | {
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lPBH7jeYYehTYhtlovLLH9Il8o7HMGZY | b4ros3 | {
"description": "getting angry over drinks",
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} | AITA for getting angry over drinks? | Not really sure if this appropriate for the subreddit, but here goes. We have a Game Night (Jack Box, tabletop, etc.) and I usually get drinks to have something besides water and alcohol. Problem is, our host/GM's brother goes through all the drinks I buy so I have to bring drinks every week. AITA for getting mad even ... | HISTORICAL | {
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Ca9b5MWQEycq50mNnLxEn1O1zYGs3GaV | aemrc4 | {
"description": "stopping all communication with my ex-best friend",
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} | AITA for stopping all communication with my ex-best friend? | About 2 years ago I stopped all communication with my ex best friend - a guy I was friends with for 10+ years. My only childhood friend that I kept with me to adulthood. (We’ll say his name is Chris)
Reason: I was in a friend group with Chris and another guy (for story purposes lets call him...John). I always felt lik... | HISTORICAL | {
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FY3q0A90a13N0yfTjJ67eNvXpQ3K0g66 | ap9vtd | {
"description": "telling my daughter she's acting just like her mother and no one believes a word that comes out of her mouth",
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} | AITA for telling my daughter she's acting just like her mother and no one believes a word that comes out of her mouth? | Some back story: my girl had a really rough life until she was 14 and finally came to live with us. I've known her since she was 7 because I lived with her mother and we were both heroin addicts. There's a whole lot of back story so I'm not gonna get into it, but I realised how shitty of a person her mother was and sep... | HISTORICAL | {
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J0K8JCLX2J4Nrlmg8rzmhGn71gioJuEI | akaw13 | {
"description": "blocking an internet \"friend\" after she started to get very weird in her texts",
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} | AITA for blocking an internet “friend” after she started to get very weird in her texts. | So we started talking not too long ago about random things. The first thing she really said to me was “I’m a little I hope you don’t mind” I didn’t really care and we continued talking. I feel we really clicked and we were talking for a whole day. Things started to get kinda weird when she insisted on calling me Daddy ... | HISTORICAL | {
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UNlzW4eDcz7Jp5QXAF2QqiDC8ekwzJyF | 9x90c0 | {
"description": "telling my boyfriend thay he should slow down on buying games",
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} | AITA telling my boyfriend thay he should slow down on buying games? | TL;DR boyfriend keeps on spending money on games but is very stingy when it comes to important things. told him that he needed to have a limit on how much he spends on gaming but ended up in an argument.
This is a throwaway because I just pretty much wanna remain anonymous so he would not found out. My boyfriend is a ... | HISTORICAL | {
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A5hFxlMTkLwoillGnpSmORY11XTRyzg2 | ak7062 | {
"description": "resenting my mom's boyfriend for his birthday gift/card of $200 to my 1 year old son and him declaring himself godfather",
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} | AITA for resenting my mom's boyfriend for his birthday gift/card of $200 to my 1 year old son and him declaring himself godfather? | I had my son back in January 2018 and this man has been a constant in my son's life. He gave me money for a crib (that I didn't end up buying due to lack of space), he 'gave' me his car to drive while pregnant with the understanding he would financially help me get a better car for the safety of the baby (he kept telli... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | RIGHT |
tzozjzup0nWxJ1HRWs2m5t9b13F6mfQc | 9wt0vu | {
"description": "being annoyed at my friend's relationship",
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} | AITA for being annoyed at my friend's relationship? | Two of my best friends got into a relationship with eachother over the summer. They are really happy together, and I'm genuinely really happy for them as well.
​
However, I'm beginning to resent some aspects of the relationship. They eat lunch with our group of friends, but spend the whole time engaging in... | HISTORICAL | {
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Pkn04d3J3C2kk4AU0IldchCvBdzNNrx2 | akdbz0 | {
"description": "buying my son a gift",
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} | AITA for buying my son a gift? | My partner took my son over to his grandparents over the weekend to give me some space as I work very hard both at my job and in the family home and never get any time to myself. My partner is often very ill and I'm often looking after them both when she's feeling worse.
My son was not brilliantly behaved over the wee... | HISTORICAL | {
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VcjXdBP1w6MHM1PURcThybCSscIB4SUM | akz65l | {
"description": "drinking milk from the carton",
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} | AITA for drinking milk from the carton? | I’ll keep it short. There’s a lot of British in this post.
I live in a rented uni house with 4 housemates that are friends of mine, I am the only person that drinks whole milk, I always buy the same size bottle and it stays in the same part of our shared fridge, we do not share without explicitly asking.
One housemat... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
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} | RIGHT |
5THIATlWopz973ATaZK44l24HiVmMN6V | av6jgv | null | AITA - My ex-GF called me at 2am on the day of my final-round job interview | Throwaway.
**TLDR:**
1. I took keys to my apartment from my ex-GF's keyring without telling her (she lent me her keys for some unrelated reason).
2. When she noticed, she called me at 2am in the morning.
3. That day I had a super important job interview towards which I worked for many months, very very hard. She k... | HISTORICAL | {
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pxdn8xPUYSitrwn2TFdEu5sPocTBVImL | az7f83 | {
"description": "accusing a moderator of \"being salty\" on a forum",
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} | AITA for accusing a moderator of "being salty" on a forum? | So I found an article about healthy, non-rabid wolves attacking villagers, so I screenshotted it and posted it to an unnamed forum about wolves. (Keep in mind the title was a little passive-aggressive. Something like 'dont use only sick wolves attack humans as a defense.')
I obviously expected a reaction, and I got a ... | HISTORICAL | {
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6C73yEwns7urJtqhQEBhpwJJFsgnKdcw | b0plsn | {
"description": "refusing to lend my parents money when they have helped me",
"pronormative_score": 14,
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} | WIBTA if I refused to lend my parents money when they have helped me? | Hello,
This may be long, I appreciate everyone that took the time to read this.
Important details to note:
My parents (56/55) are very loving however both of them are alcoholics, irresponsible with raising children and irresponsible financially. My dad constantly gets DUIs and is an abusive piece of shit most of the... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 14,
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} | RIGHT |
ahuy77yLgvhOhCWIVgSyf7j28SNQu2A9 | a5f3yj | {
"description": "calling my Boyfriend's best friend out",
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} | AITA For calling My Boyfriend's Best Friend Out? | For pistols at dawn. Well... maybe not. But almost. My Boyfriend’s best friend has been an asshole lately. BF hasn’t seen him for months and he barely texts or calls. BF had a birthday party for a major birthday this past Saturday and asshole best friend- henceforth known as ABF, who was supposed to come didn’t show... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | AUTHOR | {
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} | WRONG |
FBWM4a7InGPqYrq3EEwgXMrPnHNDUK9m | ahg9gr | {
"description": "getting annoyed at friend constantly bringing up other friend's death as an excuse for everything",
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} | AITA for getting annoyed at friend constantly bringing up other friend's death as an excuse for everything? | 3 years ago K died. I didn't know her, K didn't go to my school. Fast forward a year or so and I meet J, who was close friends with K. K's death made J severely depressed and has only recently overcome it. J and I became close, and often talked about K. The whole situation is sad an awful, and I'd like to think I've be... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
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} | RIGHT |
k2OjLQ1uOgAQ5eil2v6S35PllLARFWvS | a5ntvh | {
"description": "dropping my friend after he sent disturbing messages to some people at school",
"pronormative_score": 5,
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} | AITA for dropping my friend after he sent disturbing messages to some people at school? | it's been months since this happened but i still feel really bad.
so there's this guy i was good friends with a while ago. i found out that he had been sending girls in my class unwanted sexual messages. i saw screenshots from one of my other friends and i was really upset. i confronted him about it and he said that i... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 5,
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} | RIGHT |
BT0ZX8NJMlm2KBc2QVGUmf0VCwfRKhhQ | a5ka60 | {
"description": "getting pissed at a newly made friend who kept on bugging me about his picture that I took to be uploaded",
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} | AITA for getting pissed at a newly made friend who kept on bugging me about his picture that I took to be uploaded? | I take pictures and videos for other people for a living. I’m just starting out so it’s nothing big.
I had to take another job at a local restaurant to help with expenses and recently made friends with some co-worker there. We hung out last Sunday and I brought along my professional camera. I took pictures of them be... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
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} | RIGHT |
kXPSJc3ePaMJYZkaRx07WqTdEXbfLHwf | b1ai9k | {
"description": "being upset boyfriend goes drinking and clubbing after I'm back from a long trip instead of coming to see me",
"pronormative_score": 7,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | WIBTA for being upset boyfriend goes drinking and clubbing after I’m back from a long trip instead of coming to see me? | Hey guys; been dating my (25F) bf (27M) for almost 4 years now and we’ve lived together for 2.5. This has been happening for a while now and I’ve read books and tried to be understanding that my boyfriend should be able to do what makes him happy and if it’s not a huge deal then I should just let things be... and that... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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"NOBODY": 2,
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} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 7,
"WRONG": 0
} | RIGHT |
XNheS6HoVf5CsLjjpH7kFIKltr2IAeiQ | ajbvxo | {
"description": "not wanting my boyfriend to go to a Knicks game",
"pronormative_score": 6,
"contranormative_score": 4
} | AITA Because I (f40) don't want my boyfriend (m38) to go to a Knicks game? | This is my first post ever and I'm on mobile. I hope I'm doing this right...
Ok, so we've been dating for a few months (oct 2018) with no major problems. He told me when we met that he had 2 kids from a previous relationship. That was fine with me. When I asked why him and his kids mother broke up, he told me she caug... | HISTORICAL | {
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"INFO": 1
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 6,
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} | RIGHT |
S3gMPHOcqVly2dtVNe6Ns5L9emwNaxVU | b9wq7t | {
"description": "thinking about taking advantage of crazy people for endgame tickets",
"pronormative_score": 8,
"contranormative_score": 4
} | WIBTA For thinking about taking advantage of crazy people for Endgame Tickets? | A story just popped up on my [local Patch page](https://patch.com/new-jersey/baskingridge/s/go9hf/avengers-endgame-tickets-bridgewater-ebay-1k?utm_source=facebook.com&utm_medium=social&utm_term=arts+%26+entertainment&utm_campaign=autopost&utm_content=baskingridge) where a man sold his Adverts: Endgame t... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 8,
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} | RIGHT |
DRJ5qseHXzA3WZvjXv8YbrhXqFJ405kz | b9roop | {
"description": "taking a baby away from her grandmother",
"pronormative_score": 50,
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} | AITA for taking a baby away from her grandmother? | First of all sorry for the title, couldn't think of anything better.
Context: So, two close friends of mine had a child together recently, and named me godfather. They had some requests that I 100% agree (like vaccines, washing your hands to pick up the baby etc) and some that i don't necessarily do (like no cursing w... | HISTORICAL | {
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"OTHER": 50,
"EVERYBODY": 3,
"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 50,
"WRONG": 8
} | RIGHT |
B6xMSrGkLqpW6FKwuBFyiwma6DisLu8V | aht3bv | {
"description": "taking a dime out of the take-a-penny leave-a-penny dish after I had already completed my transaction with a debit card",
"pronormative_score": 0,
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} | AITA for taking a dime out of the take-a-penny leave-a-penny dish after I had already completed my transaction with a debit card? | I’ve always been under the impression that the change in the dish was for the taking anyway, as I’ve seen other people do before, because it was left by the previous owner, therefore it is up for grabs and there’s no attachment to it.
My friend thinks I shouldn’t take it because I already paid with my debit... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | AUTHOR | {
"RIGHT": 0,
"WRONG": 9
} | WRONG |
sHvZ4zpBFonu2vs8pqbGWUZw7KynQ72t | a1sld0 | {
"description": "saying I don't respect drug dealers",
"pronormative_score": 1,
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} | AITA for saying I don't respect drug dealers | So in class we have some classes that end up with us doing nothing except talk, and we were having such a class recently, when we started talking about the gucci scarf someone was wearing. I asked if it was hers and she said it wasn't hers. We immediately knew who it was. A girl who was the nephew of a now imprisoned ... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | AUTHOR | {
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} | WRONG |
V35Ej7mLIw7UdudSC5zOZz8s8gX2tIH7 | a9qhe6 | {
"description": "getting tired of my depressed friends",
"pronormative_score": 8,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for getting tired of my depressed friends? | For some context I will give you some backstory first. I am a 18 yr old girl diagnosed with depression, anxiety, OCD, and ADD. My inner circle of friends all have some form of depression as well. My friends are always talking about how depressed they are and how much they want to die. Most of the time their just joking... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
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} | RIGHT |
QhCBnPcVj1dtPVvWNr8Gjka8EcAUCuyI | b5qdrs | {
"description": "not wanting to shovel my mom's friend's huge driveway",
"pronormative_score": 11,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for not wanting to shovel my mom’s friend’s huge driveway? | So we recently got a lot of snow. Usually it melts away but it’s stuck rn with about 5 inches. I (17M) usually shovel our driveway if the snow doesn’t melt. Our driveway is a single lane and not that long.
Today, someone came and used a snowblower on our driveway. No idea who, but maybe my mom knows. Anyways, now my ... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 11,
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} | RIGHT |
USGwsobFte4QSsYofWTXBIetqSUbzGP9 | 9ua5na | {
"description": "basically telling my sister to fuck off",
"pronormative_score": 5,
"contranormative_score": 2
} | AITA for basically telling my sister to fuck off? | So my whole life, my parents have treated my sister like she’s never done anything wrong. For example, when she was 13 she came home pass-out drunk with weed in her pocket, and they grounded her for a week. I came home barely drunk an I got grounded for a month and no phone for a week. She has also always gotten things... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
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} | RIGHT |
08R8pwh39mdqsaUbjS82qulVZDUHzVsN | a6t29s | {
"description": "being upset that my step dad usually brings expired pop to parties he hosts",
"pronormative_score": 2,
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} | AITA for being upset that my step dad usually brings expired pop to parties he hosts? | I mean the alcohol doesn't go bad obviously but if you don't wanna keep drinking and you're thirsty you have coke that expired months ago or mountain dew a year old. To me it taste awful and it's undrinkable. My mom and brother in law act like I'm being spoiled. Ironic since my step dad isn't hurting for money, in fact... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | AUTHOR | {
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} | WRONG |
h8BQQJ2ONgKY8L72Ktrp8VX5F6HnSIK9 | 9uvevu | {
"description": "not feeling happy for my pregnant friend",
"pronormative_score": 3,
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} | AITA for not feeling happy for my pregnant friend? | So we’ve been best friends since middle school, and it wasn’t until University that we started to drift apart. We were still good friends, but because of our conflicting and busy schedules we wouldn’t talk as much. In my opinion, this was due to lack of effort on both parts, but whenever we’d see each other it would be... | HISTORICAL | {
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dTjEhnljWlZMC0UwiITO7H3QNuxuN9cl | aovrea | {
"description": "blowing up on my roommate's friend",
"pronormative_score": 2,
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} | WIBTA for blowing up on my roommate's friend? | The first time I ever met this guy, the second he walked through the door he mentioned a quilt I had folded over my couch in the front room was ugly. "Wow, that's an ugly blanket!" I wrote it off as maybe he was just socially awkward and was looking for something to say and that's what came out of his mouth cause he wa... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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} | EVERYBODY | {
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r2Q9ciHjd4FaHrxCXUfjxSyxKatgpnyq | ayjhh3 | {
"description": "not inviting my parents to my wedding",
"pronormative_score": 1,
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} | WIBTA if I didn't invite my parents to my wedding? | hypothetically, if I were getting married WIBTA if I didn't invite my parents? Over the last year some very important events in my life have occurred, First one being the first in my family to graduate college. And since then two more big things have happened (not relevant) and one to come in a few weeks which they hav... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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} | AUTHOR | {
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} | WRONG |
gw50pZZWQr9FavWD7jeHHADgcgKFpWFv | aj3lon | {
"description": "making fun of my housemate for saying that homeopathic remedies, or 'wellness', could cure cancer",
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"contranormative_score": 5
} | AITA for making fun of my housemate for saying that homeopathic remedies, or ‘wellness’, could cure cancer? | So, my housemate & I, have a rocky relationship to say the least. In fact, there are many times I feel like posting here if only just to prove my own sanity.
So, for bg; he’s been working at a cosmetic-type dentist clinic, (it offers teeth whitening, lip implants, etc...as well as normal dental work) decorating ... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | RIGHT |
Gbcuhh5t92yyLvoHozSD15Ueiwncmvuj | ao9tj4 | {
"description": "completely cutting off a close friend because of one concise conversation",
"pronormative_score": 5,
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} | AITA for completely cutting off a close friend because of one concise conversation? | I met a girl over the summer and we hit it off almost immediately-we had a few things in common and we shared a similar sense of humor so we quickly grew fairly close.
I knew she had suffered a lot in her life; her family had disowned her and her significant other had been abusive, not to mention her own battle with ... | HISTORICAL | {
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2VCt7RoqTK9VeQRYLiJhBEHQWmycIbj0 | b20ifc | {
"description": "despising parent's religion",
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} | AITA for despising parent’s religion? | So I’m not old enough to live alone and therefore have to live with my parents. My parents, mainly my mom, are very religious (Muslim). My dad is laid back but my mom forces religion on me.
I personally do not believe in anything Islamic nor do I call myself a Muslim, unless I’m with my parents that is. My mom forces... | HISTORICAL | {
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5GqXBvl5wh5RAEAoOZbrmxe2XRyKhzXh | atkz4l | null | AITA or is my collegue odd. | Ok. Throwaway. blah blah.
​
So here is the deal. Yesterday at work we were clowning on Jussie Smollett for obvious reasons. Then college in question starts talking and says "I don't know why liberals think that they need to do things like that." I informed him that this wasn't a liberal issue and Jussie i... | HISTORICAL | {
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kfKCZ5E9UgZjWcquQQIjSEkHgwnXQSKO | a8k7f3 | {
"description": "telling my coworker the truth about what we all think of him",
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} | AITA for telling my coworker the truth about what we all think of him? | A new hire at my job is very very not well liked. He only works stock and doesn’t know how to do anything else. He is extremely sarcastic and entitled and I have heard complaints about him from literally every employee at our workplace. That’s not an exaggeration, people say he’s mean and rude and stuck up and an assho... | HISTORICAL | {
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mEm0rXvEwZnzG2ltqsOQDoPkAXEFiLZa | a4gvob | {
"description": "breaking up with so",
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Hello all M28, I just broke it off with my SO F25. I was in a relationship for 3 years... exactly 3 on Wednesday the 12th... My SO suffered from a very advanced case of anxiety and depression. At first I was very accommodating and I was able to calm her and help her through her struggles. After the first year sh... | HISTORICAL | {
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EvdHQ10XP8wcBK2VqYUFGA52625Z5FpK | a0y66v | null | AITA Wife got me nothing for my birthday. | So I turned 43 the other day, and my wife didn't get me anything, not even a card. We had lunch (15 dollars) that I paid for out of the birthday money my parents sent me. The rest of that money was spent on a live Christmas tree, which is all her, I prefer fake ones. She threw together a basic brownie for after dinner ... | HISTORICAL | {
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Ggwz4X6UH2slzzeFhlNU8OrCVdwlTSRA | arhre1 | null | WIBTA in this rent/utility situation? | Disclaimer: This is being posted for a friend's situation (I'm not one of the parties).
So my friend "O" lives in a 3-bedroom apartment with 2 other people, "V" and "N". They split rent and utilities evenly. Over winter break from school (which started the middle/end of December), "O" went back to her hometown to work... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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bs7SewQPoJwkIIDE8mhGi4s2FQN75Qwf | avegj0 | {
"description": "mocking my friend",
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} | AITA for mocking my friend? | Context: Friends with "T" for about 7 years, met "W" through T. I've known W about 4 years. Over the past 12-18 months, T & I have slowly drifted apart, W & I are still close friends. I don't believe that T is jealous because she still sees W a lot. Both T & W have very fucked up sense of humour like me. Or... | HISTORICAL | {
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x6kTgKu1qCF81Qixf8xfCwmIKbgVZOVn | a4t0mo | {
"description": "skipping out on my rent",
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} | WIBTA for skipping out on my rent? | So, my landlord has been angrily texting me because I haven't paid my rent for this month. I'm unemployed and I can't find a job, but I am starting work at Disney at the end of January.
I've also never stayed in that apartment. I've been out of state when the lease started and haven't been back, and won't stay beca... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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DhBXcDq8KC6kOKP85izD1M830HmyjkKz | b8v1v0 | {
"description": "not believing my mom when she says she's not homophobic",
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} | AITA for not believing my mom when she says she's not homophobic? | A little bit of background:
I was raised in a Christian church in California. My church in particular had the stance of "Being LGBT+ is okay as long as you don't do anything about it". Personally, I was never sold on Christian values as a kid, and that's continued throughout my adolescence. Good for you if you believ... | HISTORICAL | {
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9ATOABzLbDU3D6xifZbWhvWnMGG61deA | al90l5 | {
"description": "not going in to work on my day off",
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} | Aita for not going in to work on my day off? | I know it sounds like a super mundane situation to have but it's something that eats at me.
Over a month ago I started a new job that had set hours and set days off. Rarely do these set hours happen but the days happen for the most part. Yesterday a coworker called in, I came in early. Another coworker has called... | HISTORICAL | {
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m7eHzzfeGRaFOGbTF1WchaXOld8jaGeh | ab32fo | {
"description": "changing laundry",
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} | AITA For Changing Laundry? | So tonight I was doing a load of laundry (it was towels if you must know). In the laundry room on my floor, there are two washing machines and two dryers. I live in an apartment building, with two washing machines and two dryers on my floor.
A wash takes 30 minutes, and a dry takes 45, for a total runtime of 1hour, 15... | HISTORICAL | {
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j09PenTAbFJ9XokqgcCJZmqNsLci9bXt | a6hq4n | {
"description": "complaining about my raise at work",
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} | WIBTA for complaining about my raise at work? | So, I (21F) recently had my one year anniversary working at a daycare. My boss called me in for my evaluation on Thursday, and it went very well. She told me how much they value me as and employee and said I was one of the best (not trying to brag, I think it's applicable to the situation). She then informed me that I'... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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lQqK6ttQUNNDWroE2XplbytTiinFzMuu | b9fi34 | {
"description": "feeling burnt out on a friendship",
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} | AITA for feeling burnt out on a friendship? | I'm posting this with my secondary acct because my main one gives me away by the username.
I'm a college student and made friends with a girl in our club. We have the same interests and I like talking to her. She moved to a different state, but she now calls me...a lot. In the past two weeks she has called me/video c... | HISTORICAL | {
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EBhMd0CET9b58tMqCFpa6x2UXUP87YKn | b9y3m4 | {
"description": "getting upset about a coworker working while off the clock/on break",
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} | AITA for getting upset about a coworker working while off the clock/on break? | I work in a coffee shop and I have a coworker who is a total workaholic. She's an incredibly hard worker and a good one at that. There's no question that she goes above and beyond, which is appreciated and acknowledged. She has a habit however of stepping off break to do small tasks, which range from sending a load of ... | HISTORICAL | {
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q2uzyOjcBKTKlv8GixKzOaB9CjubWLEA | aktwo2 | {
"description": "refusing to take my mother's sick cat to the vet to be with my boyfriend during his father's surgery",
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} | WIBTA if I refused to take my mother's sick cat to the vet to be with my boyfriend during his father's surgery? | Long story short, my mom's 16-year-old cat is very ill and needs to go to an animal hospital an hour away from where I live, 2 hours away from where my mother lives. My mother has asked me to meet her halfway to take her cat the rest of the way because she's scared to drive that far of a distance in her car.
I'm fine ... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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xduEdtGtFoukIQaBGn0PCrgjs8jlkZDI | azbeeh | {
"description": "not tutoring a classmate",
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} | AITA for not tutoring a classmate? | please forgive my lack of grammar skills
a bit of background: I recently met a classmate and we hit it off really well and we are kind of friends.
recently: they decided they wanted to take a class with me and I was fine with it and didn't think much of it honestly. well, after the first class they tell me they are g... | HISTORICAL | {
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7iMIsYuUEvH1jB0pVCTZdxRdaT9SGiTs | b9vm74 | {
"description": "restricting my daughter's computer use",
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} | AITA for restricting my daughter's computer use? | I am a 53 years old father and have a 19 year old daughter. She's in her second year of college vying for computer science, but still a pre-major as she finishes her core credits.
At home, she's been on her computer for an average of 10 or 8 hours a day when she doesn't have class or work. As soon as she comes home sh... | HISTORICAL | {
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HXhfNhcASI75QxbLCrT76VhSh6FkjsdB | aurrpt | {
"description": "telling a girl I liked her when I knew she had a boyfriend",
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} | AITA for telling a girl I liked her when I knew she had a boyfriend? | Ok, apologies if this gets a bit rambly.
I (25M) met this girl (22F) through mutual friends when we were all on a night out together. Spent a lot of time chatting to her that night, she was also being quite flirty I thought and asked me to dance and I thought I had a chance with her. At this point my pal told me she ... | HISTORICAL | {
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w22xoZOBrAy3qhKIlH9Q9sQmf5jTqcCw | awtpt4 | {
"description": "not wanting to go on a trip and getting it cancelled",
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} | AITA for not wanting to go on a trip and getting it cancelled? | The standard on mobile so please pardon my grammar and spelling errors.
I'm part of an organization where in order to go and do stuff you need to have at least two people over 18 going on the trip. The team I'm a part of has 3 18 plusses including me. The team has a trip planned for a weekend that the week leading up... | HISTORICAL | {
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BE7kWINolQs9HgJnSMh0C76hvdSNW61u | b91yrs | {
"description": "wanting to uninvite an (ex?)-friend from my wedding for shit-talking our marriage",
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} | AITA for wanting to uninvite an (ex?)-friend (26F) from my (28F) wedding for shit-talking our marriage? | Long time listener, first time poster.
(tl;dr, AITA for uninviting a friend from my wedding for consistently telling me, and others, that my marriage is a huge mistake)
Let's start with the good news -- I'm getting married next year! I'm thrilled, my fiancé (28M) is thrilled, we're stupidly in love -- all that good s... | HISTORICAL | {
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0yzgkbdjnHwvCmdLlXrJqr0pvzTMQ4Cp | aon89e | {
"description": "not helping my disabled ex stepfather through depression",
"pronormative_score": 1,
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} | Wibta if i don't help my disabled ex stepfather through depression | Obligatory on mobile and tldr at the beginning
Tldr I moved out years ago i recently bought a house got married and we are soon looking to start a family. Sounds great in writing but was quite stressful and almost pushed me to the edge. Fmr stepfather broke leg kinda badly 2 years ago is likely disabled from that an... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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bysMOXqztCXLRGwC57j0w3oR0weQJM8T | a2cd0y | {
"description": "quitting my job without serving the 1 months notice",
"pronormative_score": 4,
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} | AITA for quitting my job without serving the 1 months notice. | I used to work in this company that involves going around the country when cargo is damaged or missing to do a report for my clients to claim from insurance. Company was small, 10 people in it, director was an Uncle-in-Law, let’s call him John. My department had me and my manager, let’s call him Larry.
Now this is my... | HISTORICAL | {
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5LnLOUvYbk9FFDbuFCDjdMCQbOccJk2q | avme7e | {
"description": "asking a 15-45 minute addition on my computer",
"pronormative_score": 1,
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} | AITA For asking a 15-45 minute addition on my computer? | So, some backstory. I have some pretty s*itty grades and being in highschool (junior) that means my mom gets to punish me. So she limits my computer time, the one that I built and payed for, but whatever. Nothing out of the usual for us as we butt heads ALOT.
So this all starts out as a normal day you know, me gettin... | HISTORICAL | {
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EtEZvkT3texuBHyOg50eCdWknzKuJDJz | b3h36y | {
"description": "siding with my husband",
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} | AITA for siding with my husband? | Hello everyone, I created a new account so that this wouldn't be associated with my regular one.
Three months ago I discovered that my husband was emotionally cheating on me and had plans to meet with her. She messaged me every bit of contact they had ever had when she discovered he was married and made a Facebook pos... | HISTORICAL | {
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UobMufE0RFr33a9Zt2EOuPFyyqbzf1y5 | apn2jh | {
"description": "telling my boyfriend I no longer want to go to dinner on Valentine's day if we're not going to spend Valentine's day alone with each other",
"pronormative_score": 8,
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} | WIBTA if I told my boyfriend I no longer want to go to dinner on Valentine's day if we're not going to spend Valentine's day alone with each other? | Me and my boyfriend have been dating for about four months and live together, quick I know. A few weeks ago I suggested me and my boyfriend go out to Denny's for Valentine's day because he loves their burgers and I want to treat him to something special. Now my boyfriend is one of those type of people who don't really ... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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OlW7zo9BRuQvmd6CWpLSMUtcmokCshHD | agmuz4 | {
"description": "wanting to break things off with my depressed fiancee",
"pronormative_score": 7,
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} | AITAH for wanting to break things off with my depressed fiancee? | My fiancee and I have been together for 3 years but we have known eachother for almost a decade. We've been doing well but this last year has been rough for us.
At the beginning of last year she lost her mother. It was sudden and hit her really hard. Since she already suffers from depression this made it a lot worse.... | HISTORICAL | {
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x4cYC4Sie3noRtmfNQBcSzj1tiSt5rDm | ahb44s | {
"description": "making fun of my fwb for not making me come",
"pronormative_score": 1,
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} | AITA for making fun of my FWB for not making me come | So i (24f) really like the guy (29m). I don’t want to be FwB forever, eventually I’d like to earn the title of GF. Maybe not today, but eventually . So with that logic, i feel like we should be open about everything.
A little about myself, no matter who I’m fucking (unless it’s myself), I really only cum 30-40% of th... | HISTORICAL | {
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21k61bIPXuWd9FflMnRrQcMhQk6kq9E2 | anvq64 | {
"description": "not feeling comfortable with my girlfriend going on a sleepover",
"pronormative_score": 5,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for not feeling comfortable with my girlfriend going on a sleepover? | So I'm not really that old, both me and my girlfriend are teens, but since a lot of shit has happened to both of us we are quite mature, and sustain a mature relationship that one would have in their 20's or 30's. We have been dating for quite awhile, almost a year now. We study in different schools quite far apart but... | HISTORICAL | {
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k1eEWvwxD4hZxtANj6C5eczRLs5aSmio | aa06bc | {
"description": "wanting to break up with my so for multiple small reasons and her pessimism",
"pronormative_score": 12,
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} | AITA for wanting to break up with my SO for multiple small reasons and her pessimism | **Long post ahead. (tl;dr below)**
​
So I've been with this girl for around 3.5 years now. She and I are both each other's firsts. The first couple of years were great. I felt like she was a little clingy at the start, but I realized that it was just my not ever having another human being in my life before... | HISTORICAL | {
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ASOFkHaiK4RPrandsLC2yrzUibqoMQLn | are5rx | {
"description": "not wanting to buy my mum a flight ticket to vietnam",
"pronormative_score": 4,
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} | AITA for not wanting to buy my mum a flight ticket to vietnam? | Long story short, my mum raised me and my older and younger brother by herself. At a young age i understood that i had to get a job at a young age to offload any financial stress off my mum, so i worked at maccas at the age of 14 (legal age in australia) , 16 i quit and joined KFC and 18 i joined woolworths. Now that i... | HISTORICAL | {
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ThyYH8co6yV3y8mredNin0c97I6h6o7N | ae163v | {
"description": "hating when people drop by my house without an invitation",
"pronormative_score": 26,
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} | AITA for hating when people drop by my house without an invitation? | For context, this just happened over Christmas - I live alone with a dog and two cats, a short walk from my parent's house. My parent's house is very large, so they were hosting Christmas for our extended family. I agreed to help my parents out by spending Christmas Eve and Christmas Day cooking sides and desserts fo... | HISTORICAL | {
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ar6lxQn20uRA3rSXVYoHMqtOBLlrWoCc | aq00gs | {
"description": "asking that our friend change into nicer clothes before joining us for dinner",
"pronormative_score": 17,
"contranormative_score": 12
} | AITA for asking that our friend change into nicer clothes before joining us for dinner? | Myself and a group of 5-6 friends were planning where to go to dinner together that night. We all live in the same building and were meeting at one of our places to decide. The restaurant we decided on was a fairly nice place with a more upscale atmosphere.
One guy in our group was wearing flip flops, sweatpants, and... | HISTORICAL | {
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SAKOUbHa1GjSjsgkZkHHVFoEA9Q0LC2K | b1xmgd | null | AITA A job missed, because I am too young to drive | So I am nearing 16, which means I am going to start to work drivers ed. I got an offer from my grandpa to come work, and he lives right across the road from my dad's house, all Good, right? No, as I live the weeks at my moms, and the weekends at my dad's, my mom lives about 5 miles away [close enough to drive, too far ... | HISTORICAL | {
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sCJPWYyrsPbRjHAEzWhkWbGKGaSIJBxl | am6kt9 | {
"description": "being mad at my parents for not getting me a car for graduating",
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} | AITA for being mad at my parents for not getting me a car for graduating | My parents are separated, and have been for many years. I don’t know how relevant that is but it might come up later on. Anyway, I’m in Canada, and I’m not sure about all the provinces but In mine we have grades 1-12, grade 12 being the last year. So when I was in grade 11 my mother said I would get a car for graduatin... | HISTORICAL | {
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VwKvctc6JWefRMNqyWxmIriNoDGpqoxl | b4dp17 | {
"description": "being short with the company director of the chain restaurant I work at",
"pronormative_score": 4,
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} | AITA for being short with the company director of the chain restaurant I work at? | My place of work is part of a large chain of restaurants. Our establishment is split into a bar area and a restaurant area. I work on the bar but do interact with the restaurant customers.
I’ve had a lovely group of ladies in for a birthday and they are sat in the bar having drinks after their meal. Many drinks have ... | HISTORICAL | {
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zoGMTeQdU7TO6DoZXSTWI0z4KtWLtBXm | afijrs | {
"description": "spending time with my family",
"pronormative_score": 10,
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} | WIBTAH if I spent time with my family? | Three things to know:
1) tomorrow is my brothers birthday
2) my other brother is moving halfway around the world in 2 days
3) my boyfriend has a severe anxiety disorder
My boyfriends anxiety has been acting up really badly lately and I need to be there for him. However he was meant to have a shift at his volunteering... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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ubmEm0qsBQBOKiZKGmDJnEklxorMVtIu | afb40g | {
"description": "bringing up topics I know will get us into arguments",
"pronormative_score": 3,
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} | AITA for bringing up topics I know will get us into arguments? | My boyfriend and I have very different personalities. The thing we both have in common is we're both stubborn and opinionated. The problem is our opinions are VERY different on just about anything. Politics, spirituality, morals, relationships, etc. The issue is I LIKE talking about different opinions but he doesn't. P... | HISTORICAL | {
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ezGnVWX6NarnSxsMUdjeKqDySszGWhmR | b6sox4 | {
"description": "driving around a pedestrian",
"pronormative_score": 3,
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} | AITA if I drive around a pedestrian? | So today on my way home from class, there was a middle aged man standing in the middle of the lane. (Btw I'm not on a very popular/busy road). We made eye contact as I approached him and I slowed waaaay down. He gave me the "f*ck off" look, so I politely smiled and went in the oncoming lane to by pass him (which was c... | HISTORICAL | {
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d18IwaTzh23cZhcNFQc9qR46m1FaRVJs | arunie | {
"description": "going back and helping my former employees after we all quit",
"pronormative_score": 1,
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} | AITA for going back and helping my former employees after we all quit? | I doubt the responses to this are going to completely change my mind on what I've decided to do, but I'm looking for someone to "check my work," if you will. It's a rather... complicated situation.
About two years ago, I started dating my wonderful girlfriend (we'll call her B in this situation). Not terribly long bef... | HISTORICAL | {
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ITBqAsG0Y3AaF4g8CEQ8RsFCJH7GamUs | 9w6vd7 | {
"description": "not being excited about being partnered with a kid with down syndrome who I wasn't friends with in 6th grade",
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} | AITA for not being excited about being partnered with a kid with down syndrome who I wasn’t friends with in 6th grade? | Had a partner project in elementary school. All of my buddies got paired up and I was matched with a kid who had down syndrome. I had no problem with this kid nor his condition. However, I wasn’t friends with him or really even knew him.
I wasn’t mean nor did I complain, however I was noticeably sad and not my energe... | HISTORICAL | {
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GrKZVZU62OUCDZOFfsb18mj0ut2y8udQ | 9x6ma5 | {
"description": "not giving up my window seat",
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} | AITA for not giving up my window seat? | So, boarding to fly from San Francisco to Europe for an 11 hour flight. Pretty happy that I booked a window seat and fully prepared to do my pass-out-until-landing act.
Arriving at my seat, I see an elderly couple occupying my seat and the aisle seat next to it. I point out the older woman is in my seat.
Her husband m... | HISTORICAL | {
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D2vuvi99nhCbgN7uRs1sMCFywjYoW1jT | ahyoyj | {
"description": "kicking my roommate out after they pay rent next month",
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} | AITA for kicking my roommate out after they pay rent next month? | It's my apartment since July 2017 and per the lease I signed rent is officially due the 1st, and last day is 4th. If paid after there is a $95 late fee. My landlord says even if I'm on time and someone else is late, he wants all the rent + late fee at once not separate, and since it's solely my apartment I'm solely res... | HISTORICAL | {
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UQJuNR25Kcf7IBSMAOPze8ajcYgr0Dqa | am05in | {
"description": "getting angry when people tell me to smile",
"pronormative_score": 12,
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} | AITA for getting angry when people tell me to smile? | I don't walk around with a smile on my face all day like some sort of moron. I don't feel that I need to be happy at all times, especially at my job, witch I don't enjoy. There is this guy at work that every time he sees me he tells me to smile. I guess the thinks he is the happiness patrol. Every time he does this it ... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
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2Q2azV674ATj1Z088UpGXOfjrMcDDffH | b240jn | {
"description": "not wanting a 21st birthday party",
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} | AITA for not wanting a 21st birthday party? | I used to be what I’d consider myself an alcoholic (wake up 2pm, drink all day through to 5am, wake up and go again etc) and have been clean for the last few months.
My 21st is coming up somewhat soon and all my friends keep asking what I plan to be doing for it, truth is, I don’t want anything. I’ve been telling the... | HISTORICAL | {
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QoTgvzNafhcPBT0Mgjy8gKmMjeJVUiEL | 9ztd6z | {
"description": "telling my mom she only believes in God bc it benefits her",
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} | AITA for telling my mom she only believes in God bc it benefits her? | I’m really conflicted with how I handled the situation and I’d like some honest opinions
Basically, I told my mom I’m an atheist. We’re not a religious family, I rarely went to the church, am not Christened(major religion in my country) and my mom always seemed agnostic to me, so I truly didn’t think it would be somet... | HISTORICAL | {
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hj4h3N2NmdwggRGeqS0DZCV6JWIquHpS | b0lrsi | null | AITA? A girl gets mad at me for basically nothing(In my opinion) | A little bit of backstory.
I was getting along with this girl pretty well. We talked every day. We weren't like super close, but pretty close.
​
One day she was making stupid jokes about me, and grabbed her by her arms and lifted her up, laughing and saying "What's with this stupid jokes". She was just jo... | HISTORICAL | {
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npE97DcfIMM0Z3lWDUxnmhN8bYDRMFuC | amsdw1 | {
"description": "for being vexed with my friends because they didn't text me for a long time",
"pronormative_score": 4,
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} | AITA For for being vexed with my friends because they didn't text me for a long time? | I had 3 friends and we know each other like 10 years. If you consider that I'm 19 that's a very long time. Lately so many things changed in them. I don't know what exactly happened to them because three of them were in the same school and we couldn't find much time to see each other.
I had a hard time last year. It ... | HISTORICAL | {
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Ne9yIwNAxVozoH77oSY5qTIP0bb62I2u | b1dr2l | {
"description": "not giving my mother any money",
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} | AITA for not giving my mother any money? | Context:
I (F, 24) work abroad where I moved to after studies. I'm still in junior positions, but in IT, so I earn some nice money enough for a comfortable life. When I was studying I was getting state money, since my father is dead + mother unemployed and I was full-time enrolled in studies (I live in Europe).
My m... | HISTORICAL | {
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VHAIVGYhYGuU9NdrEgH1lOm57QsMMBtl | a3fl1h | {
"description": "wanting my roommates girlfriend to start paying for practically living with us",
"pronormative_score": 8,
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} | AITA for wanting my roommates girlfriend to start paying for practically living with us? | I live with three other people in an apartment, and for a long while things were okay. We respected each other within the house, everything went smoothly.
Recently, one of my friends (let’s call him George) found a girlfriend (Denise). George and Denise instantly hit it off, and after they first met, Denise stayed at... | HISTORICAL | {
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SBMI5vJevGqttqgFxrssCpnirj02cYNp | b6y89x | {
"description": "telling off a coworker",
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} | AITA for telling off a coworker? | First sorry for the format I’m on my phone and fairly new to posting on reddit.
Anyways some backstory before beginning I work as a kitchen manager in a small bar that is relaxed workwise but can get very busy very quickly depending on the weather really. My coworker is in her early 30s and drinks atleast a 1L bottle... | HISTORICAL | {
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WlQ9DqhSVAwEN2F2HAgUPMDrpySPAQVU | a9to7u | {
"description": "issuing an ultimatum to a subordinate due to lack of effort, poor performance, and insubordination",
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} | WIBTA if I issue an ultimatum to a subordinate due to lack of effort, poor performance, and insubordination? | Context: I’m an officer for a high school club. I have a handful of “subordinates” that report to me.
I have a subordinate that we will call “A.” Over the last few months, A’s performance has degraded. When I ask A to do something, he either does it after a long delay (and another request), does it poorly (not followi... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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} | AUTHOR | {
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} | WRONG |
a4d1XK45iPbIozCKAEdjvbG22b3jI0er | b9d249 | {
"description": "being pissed at my Ex",
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} | AITA For Being Pissed at My Ex? | First time ever posting to Reddit so sorry if I mess up on something. Friend told me I should post here.
Okay so I recently got out of a pretty bad relationship. It didn't last too long, only a couple of months. Before me and this girl got together we were pretty close friends. We always argued, but we had a lot of fu... | HISTORICAL | {
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ADJWnjxx4q580qtrC9HAARHEUmOBpbAs | apybx4 | {
"description": "missing my highschool graduation ceremony",
"pronormative_score": 5,
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} | WIBTA for missing my highschool graduation ceremony? | Title says most of it, hope this doesnt come off as seeking validation. I recently had this discussion with my group of friends and most of them were very put off by the suggestion of missing graduation. Their joint decision was it would be a huge asshole decision for me to miss graduation. I will be graduating with hi... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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} | AUTHOR | {
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8vyGVGNqVFK1cWdVI9IyhdLfed4P1HZi | b3tq80 | {
"description": "breaking up with my dates over his anger management issues",
"pronormative_score": 12,
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} | AITA for breaking up with my dates over his anger management issues? | I’m using my friend’s throwaway account for obvious reason.
I met this guy, named T, through Tinder. After 3 dates we hit it off really well. He seems to be a reserved, polite and sweet guy.
For our 4th date we went to this rather lavish restaurant, we made our order and my date told the waitress to not put onions i... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | AUTHOR | {
"RIGHT": 12,
"WRONG": 14
} | WRONG |
LQ84DpKZ1dsbRFxP6EgrNhPi6RNe9XFj | a08hey | {
"description": "confronting my stepdad about not doing shit around the house",
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} | WIBTA if I confronted my stepdad about not doing shit around the house? | On mobile so bear with me
I’m 17. My mom has a 2 year old and a 9 month old child with “f”. F is an absolute leech. He has a “job” at a shelter where he comes in roughly once every two weeks (no exaggeration). On days where he goes to work he depends on other people for rides and gets very upset if we’re late. This is... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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Si45aM1p2GBXpXchN0LBtYCWSOQZbadp | 9xgj9n | null | AITA Girlfriend keeps calling but I won’t answer | I’m in the bath. I’m watching Jeopardy. I’m enjoying time by myself. I need this time. I told her I need this time. It’s the one time I’ve been even remotely happy all day. She won’t stop calling. I just need to be alone. Am I the asshole? | HISTORICAL | {
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O5SnpIbRYpZqBPrLSIB4ufNQO53PQaOU | b1yen2 | {
"description": "scaring my friends to the point of crying",
"pronormative_score": 3,
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} | AITA Am i the asshole for scaring my friends to the point of crying? | Ok so this is my first ever post so go easy on me.
So let me set the scene, im at a friends birthday party and we are 7 girls in total ( everyon is under 15) it's about 9 pm and we are playing a game and we end up talking about who is the bravest in the group, so i want to prove that i am brave by going outside in the... | HISTORICAL | {
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WkLuQjplsGA8UdsPgg6XmwiLGqUPfR3T | b8r2yj | {
"description": "asking my grieving friend for help",
"pronormative_score": 3,
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} | WIBTA for asking my grieving friend for help? | A little backstory, my friends cat died on Monday and she hasn't taken it well, that cat was her best friend for a long time. He (the cat) was only about five and very Healthy and street smart, (she let her cat's outside) she was not ready at all, her nextdoor neighbor is an complete asshole, he let his dogs run around... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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} | NOBODY | {
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kNDill15rPVDaBJFpdp9YCUaWpCuLHIF | b73gq6 | {
"description": "being angry at my friend when she expects empathy from everyone",
"pronormative_score": 11,
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} | AITA for being angry at my friend when she expects empathy from everyone? | Okay the title sounds bad but please here me out.
So, I will refer to my friend as X, as I don’t want to use her real name.
X is a girl I’ve known for many years, she’s a sweet girl, and she does have some mental problems, similar to me, she has depression, however it hasn’t been diagnosed. She claims she has anxiety... | HISTORICAL | {
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phtEfzUYt4EW5k35fT0iH6jXObhKmOpy | an4750 | {
"description": "not wanting my white friend to say the n-word",
"pronormative_score": 7,
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} | AITA for not wanting my white friend to say the N-word? | Alright, here's some context. There are a few friends that are involved, who I'll be giving nicknames for anonymity. There are Deer and Toad, people who I am still friends with, and then there's Neon, the one I've been having a conflict with.
After Deer and Toad brought up how Neon said the N-word in front of him whe... | HISTORICAL | {
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z99gJbPlyvoFElMo0VNsqzfVABHSgS22 | b3fjhl | {
"description": "crashing rent-free while they don't live there",
"pronormative_score": 1,
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} | WIBTA If I crash rent-free while they don’t live there? | I am doing summer school at my college so I cannot go back to my home town. The place I live closes over the summer, but luckily I have some good friends that have an apartment. There are 4 of them, none of which will be living there this summer. I need to ask them to stay over the summer (which they will say yes to), ... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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} | INFO | {
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} | RIGHT |
Erit20XzWgynZmBj7qFPrtNENmyiu6GG | atxvnr | {
"description": "canceling lunch with an old friend shortly before",
"pronormative_score": 1,
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} | AITA for canceling lunch with an old friend shortly before | I'd like to state that I am asking this on behalf of my girlfriend. I didn't see any rules against that but if there is one, sorry, I can delete it. (Obligatory I'm on mobile and I absolutely suck at writing. I'm more elegant in person, trust me.
When I met my girlfriend, who we will call Steph, over ten years ago, s... | HISTORICAL | {
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c4ECIdJ5qB4h6AyPJA0ZDy4kgVf8dfvk | 9tu9x1 | {
"description": "leaving the door open",
"pronormative_score": 2,
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} | AITA for leaving the door open? | Ok. So married for 10 years, we have a 2 year old. We live in a pretty slow part of town. Like, we have a huge backyard and chickens, so you know it's not busy. Lately my husband has been absolutely going off the rails at me over leaving the main back door (in the kitchen) open with the glassed-in screen door closed an... | HISTORICAL | {
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boJUAUYkrx9L71NSBWlHBZudEFFadI9x | b90frf | {
"description": "not wanting to go on a date with someone I \"woohoo-ed\" with",
"pronormative_score": 3,
"contranormative_score": 3
} | AITA for not wanting to go on a date with someone I "woohoo-ed" with? | Now, I know what some of you may say. "You are not obliged to go out with someone if you don't want to". And I know it, that isn't why I'm second-guessing myself. There is more to it. Also, i want to thank you for taking your time to read my case in advance, i appreciate it.
So, essentially, let's say there's this gir... | HISTORICAL | {
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5SclBSnT04BU4f9WDQJRHpirZYes8DBY | 9zdh8d | {
"description": "'cutting the line' at a gas station",
"pronormative_score": 5,
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} | AITA for 'cutting the line' at a gas station? | So to preface this this is obviously something incredibly minor but I just want to know some honest opinions so don't hold back :)
So I was pulling into the gas station and all gas pumps were occupied and there was one car kind of sitting at the side with the guy being at his cellphone. I just figured 'oh he might jus... | HISTORICAL | {
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F4q4nQXwvNgFsGQKT8qCRKVSjLa8yOeI | akq873 | {
"description": "ignoring a text from a coworker",
"pronormative_score": 8,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for ignoring a text from a coworker? | I’ll try to keep this short, but I’m pretty good friends with this coworker of two years.
She’s a young mother with two kids.
Pretty bad work ethic, calls out constantly because of her kids or mental health. Puts minimal effort in to make up for her truancy. (Yes sounds harsh, but work ethic isn’t the sole reason wh... | HISTORICAL | {
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ocYxB61AoPc0V3D2wOd5Ed8brw61vUyn | apvwrp | {
"description": "not telling a girl I have feelings for that I'm platonically with a girl on valentines",
"pronormative_score": 1,
"contranormative_score": 2
} | AITA for not telling a girl I have feelings for that I'm platonically with a girl on valentines? | So, it all started last summer when I asked out this girl, A, and got rejected: no big deal. However, from there we started texting and meeting up, and became good friends, completely platonically. (all of my friends know this)
This year I discovered that me and a girl, B, both have feelings for each other, which was ... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 0,
"OTHER": 1,
"EVERYBODY": 2,
"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 1
} | EVERYBODY | {
"RIGHT": 1,
"WRONG": 2
} | WRONG |
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