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KI4PSgCN76dLXOeMYiAIyfPDdypfmWd3 | awxoiq | {
"description": "lying to my parents (,) for their money",
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} | AITA for lying to my (21F) parents (55M, 56F) for their money? | TLDR; scared that homophobic parents will cut me off financially so i've been lying to them about being straight
My parents immigrated to the US after my dad's job led him here. I'm incredibly lucky to live in an upper middle class family, and they've always told me that money was not an issue.
About 8 years ago, ... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 8,
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} | RIGHT |
u0w2X35OBsy3CpRAy4coDM709PTFpjtm | aty5w1 | {
"description": "insisting my BF changes his offensive language",
"pronormative_score": 17,
"contranormative_score": 8
} | AITA for insisting my BF changes his offensive language? | My BF (26) and I (23F) have been dating for 3 months. He Likes a lot of right-wing meme pages on Facebook (Count Dankula style stuff) and watches lots of comedic offensive YouTube videos. I can date someone with different political beliefs or humour to me as long as they aren't hateful.
​
I hate r\*pe and... | HISTORICAL | {
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"OTHER": 15,
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"NOBODY": 2,
"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 17,
"WRONG": 8
} | RIGHT |
rAh2faO9GqrVo7gowvQxHmnXpP2PXOYM | b3knyd | {
"description": "not letting my daughter stay at her friends house because I get weird vibes from the father",
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} | AITA for not letting my daughter stay at her friends house because I get weird vibes from the father? | My daughter is 9 and wanted To sleep over at her friends house. The girl lives alone with her dad and I’m sorry but I get very creepy vibes from him, I also have a feeling he might be an alcoholic. Maybe he’s fine but I honestly don’t wanna risk if. My daughter is confused why I won’t let her stay there but will let he... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | NOBODY | {
"RIGHT": 17,
"WRONG": 0
} | RIGHT |
HJAYwnbOZUW0mJq3BHBMNYTvCybp2Npm | b6bkqr | {
"description": "breaking up with my boyfriend because he still refuses to delete the dating app",
"pronormative_score": 11,
"contranormative_score": 2
} | AITA for breaking up with my boyfriend because he still refuses to delete the dating app? | OK, so I met this apparently wonderful guy through this dating app (not Tinder) and then dated, until we're official.
I told him that because we found each other, we got to delete the app.
He said he doesn't want to.
I confronted him and asked him "What are we?"
And when I asked "Am I just an option?" I damn cried.... | HISTORICAL | {
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"EVERYBODY": 1,
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"INFO": 1
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 11,
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} | RIGHT |
YAxUOofUEo9YaamIfHytXDQuiuHwPyZw | adib91 | {
"description": "causing my friend to drop out of the top ten of the batch",
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} | AITA when I caused my friend to drop out of the top ten of the batch? | Obligatory "phone post, bad format" warning.
This problem starts a month ago: In mid december, We had a project where we had to make a christmas-themed dessert.
This period in our school is project hell week with deadlines for seven projects in the same three day period, followed up by our periodical examination, bef... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | RIGHT |
qECFp4xHc0ByiZctiAespSEQcJXmIMD9 | awnlmp | {
"description": "yelling at mom for not making any dish for the weekend",
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} | AITA for yelling at mom for not making any dish for the weekend | I yelled bcz I got really annoyed that she rarely makes any food any day, especially at SAT and SUN. BUT if a neighbour/s comes at our house she always acts like a housewife serving guests with food and drink non stop.
College just started and I already have 2 big projects to make, learning 4 new programming languages... | HISTORICAL | {
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"INFO": 1
} | AUTHOR | {
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} | WRONG |
9KdqXh97yDswthSiYT3QelaRDerwQCad | a2d1ua | {
"description": "ending the friendship with my best friend of 8 years",
"pronormative_score": 2,
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} | AITA for ending the friendship with my best friend of 8 years? | We'd been friends for 8 years and she had a hard life and went through a lot of shit in her life - narcissistic mother who was manipulative and kicked her out often until she managed to move out at 20ish years old. I tried my best to be there for her and support her, talking and letting her stay over my uni house for a... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | EVERYBODY | {
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"WRONG": 5
} | WRONG |
VVi3SN9Bg3yZ8qTUAqFehGSufDIts2vV | b1iepq | {
"description": "not giving the 'correct' answer",
"pronormative_score": 1,
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} | AITA for not giving the 'correct' answer? | friend1: friend in front of me
friend2: friend beside friend1
friend3: friend in front of friend2
​
A couple of days ago (like one or two at the time of writing this post) I asked friend1 to answer the question: what is the square root of -1. He told me to tell him the answer while friend2 was trying to ... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | EVERYBODY | {
"RIGHT": 1,
"WRONG": 3
} | WRONG |
0FUbD8axCPLfqVWLzEtcJgox1a0SECL4 | ano4h5 | {
"description": "not being grateful",
"pronormative_score": 7,
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} | AITA for not being grateful? | So, I’m disabled and normally that isn’t too much of an issue. I can do most things on my own and my family and friends know that and they treat me pretty normally. If I really seem to be struggling they might ask if I need help, but they don’t push it if I say I’m fine. And unless I’m literally about to drop all my st... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 7,
"WRONG": 0
} | RIGHT |
vQ9llS1o2bgJJLgxvQ3HkXKMjK4TNAMi | b6h1qq | {
"description": "making people \"beg\" whenever they want something from me",
"pronormative_score": 2,
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} | AITA for making people "beg" whenever they want something from me? | Ok so sometimes when Mr friend is being annoying or I feel like dicking around and he wants something I make him "beg"
So the contract goes like this. F=friend me=me
F - can I borrow a pen?
Me - say please.
F - please.
Me - please what?
F - can I please borrow a pen?
Then I give it to him. Usually followed by h... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 16,
"OTHER": 2,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 0,
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} | AUTHOR | {
"RIGHT": 2,
"WRONG": 16
} | WRONG |
dzkGINtGktOGOnrCG7rpyrRSltKxaZSd | aqacky | {
"description": "offering to push a man in a wheelchair",
"pronormative_score": 13,
"contranormative_score": 1
} | AITA for offering to push a man in a wheelchair? | I was in an airport terminal after landing when I saw a gentleman in a wheelchair, his lap laden with bags. We were at the base of a pretty decent incline about 100 yards long(the incline allows aircraft to taxi under it). He seemed to be alone and a little tired from the lengthy trip to this point. I noticed a slig... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | NOBODY | {
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} | RIGHT |
NPTQKe9h6mArJFp14JY9VAfzjfLOp506 | aua7pt | {
"description": "getting upset when my GF told me she was only applying for a few jobs every few weeks and giving her an ultimatum",
"pronormative_score": 4,
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} | AITA for getting upset when my GF told me she was only applying for a few jobs every few weeks and giving her an ultimatum? | For context, we've been together roughly 4 years, living together for about 3. For the last year or so I've been supporting her 100% financially while she looks for work and (more recently) going back to school (mostly online).
Last night we had a fight where I (24M) told her that the effort she (23F) has been putting... | HISTORICAL | {
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"EVERYBODY": 0,
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"INFO": 3
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 4,
"WRONG": 1
} | RIGHT |
15FbHbAg8lBQvkJfI1HRyY9DP4RKErxz | b20q0c | {
"description": "asking what my sister is doing in my room",
"pronormative_score": 5,
"contranormative_score": 1
} | AITA Asking what my sister is doing in my room. | My little sister, 4, has her clothes in my room, even though nothing else is. I was listening to my music loud through my headphones(I have anxiety and music helps), and I asked her what she was doing in my room, since she comes in here and makes messes all the time. I wasn't being rude or anything, but my mom got supe... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 1,
"OTHER": 5,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
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"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 5,
"WRONG": 1
} | RIGHT |
snCZozoCyjQVPwDgZWhdnbUdERe2xV5M | b161rg | {
"description": "not liking to visit my dad",
"pronormative_score": 5,
"contranormative_score": 1
} | AITA for not liking to visit my dad? | My fiancee seems to think that I'm a jerk for not liking to visit my dad, who lives an 80 minute drive away.
I can't place my finger on it lately, but the gist of it is this: While I respect him, I don't really like him.
He's a complete slob when it comes to keeping up his house. Everything is held together with bits... | HISTORICAL | {
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"OTHER": 5,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
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} | OTHER | {
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} | RIGHT |
OoDbAwM4O5rPpi7ipk27Qh1KUM4U6rxj | a7qyb2 | {
"description": "claiming an african dish is \"my\" recipe, as a white person",
"pronormative_score": 29,
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} | AITA for claiming an African dish is "my" recipe, as a white person? | I work in a cafe, and am always pushing for more vegan options (my personal form of activism). Last month, we added a stew that I adapted from recipes online. It's called African Peanut Stew. I tweaked it a bit for taste, and to be easier to prepare in our small kitchen, so I didn't think twice about calling it my reci... | HISTORICAL | {
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"OTHER": 26,
"EVERYBODY": 1,
"NOBODY": 3,
"INFO": 1
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 29,
"WRONG": 5
} | RIGHT |
eEilTGAxMMnUw4S8KPyVDF0v6N5cRgdO | aycyf9 | {
"description": "covertly trying to help people my friends have ripped off",
"pronormative_score": 2,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for covertly trying to help people my friends have ripped off? | So I just recently found out that an old friend I went to school with (and am still in the same social circle as) and their spouse have been habitually selling sub par / unsafe products (of high value) in their business. It appears to be either flippant carelessness or deliberate misrepresentation of the state of the g... | HISTORICAL | {
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"OTHER": 2,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 1
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 2,
"WRONG": 0
} | RIGHT |
3TR1PHhgXTR0AFUY1y0Rqwf8QIIsb01o | 9ynlhi | {
"description": "telling my brother to kill himself",
"pronormative_score": 6,
"contranormative_score": 115
} | AITA, I told my brother to kill himself | Trigger Warning: Suicide, Mental Illness
I get the part where it's generally wrong. I feel like in the situation it was kinda okay though. Basically, he has bipolar disorder and he's always moping around about everything and just in general he's always thinking irrationally. We were just talking about this thing on th... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 114,
"OTHER": 6,
"EVERYBODY": 1,
"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 1
} | AUTHOR | {
"RIGHT": 6,
"WRONG": 115
} | WRONG |
rFlhWJ5bcFafcmqZsFT5IZXCu3cviu1G | 9zlgp2 | {
"description": "not telling my BF the extent he physically hurt me",
"pronormative_score": 1,
"contranormative_score": 4
} | AITA for not telling my BF the extent he physically hurt me? | ***Please note: I am simply asking if I’m the asshole for how I handled things, NOT if my BF is the asshole***
My BF (36M) and I (38F) have been together over 4 years, and friends 12 years before that. I’ll call him Joe, to ease storytelling.
One night last week when Joe was drinking at home, he took his Ambien and... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 4,
"OTHER": 1,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 0
} | AUTHOR | {
"RIGHT": 1,
"WRONG": 4
} | WRONG |
qGCJaqGCNLbPVTJeJg7GNKkR7pwvBLo6 | b2qd0e | {
"description": "charging high amounts for snacks",
"pronormative_score": 11,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | WIBTA for charging high amounts for snacks. | So at my school teachers don’t care if kids sell stuff between them. Would I be a asshole for charging 3 dollars for a item that costs me 1 dollar. Last year I had it down to science raking in about 40 bucks daily profit but I feel like a ass overcharging them. Most of them are from very wealthy families who give them ... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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"OTHER": 8,
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"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 11,
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} | RIGHT |
3yaQYsoI49VPb1V0Bc072Fl19G9tA7Re | arqrf3 | null | AITA Wife left me and now she's mad/hurt | (M36) My wife (F29) left me a couple months back stating I did nothing wrong and she's unhappy and needs to find herself and how to be happy. We've talked the entire time and remained civil even as far as going to dinner or out for drinks. I never wanted any of this and its definitely not the first time she's left. I'd... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 1,
"OTHER": 10,
"EVERYBODY": 2,
"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 10,
"WRONG": 3
} | RIGHT |
QaYnt9KmIJy6x3Z2cmL6kFyj3ZzboA47 | ab3x9o | {
"description": "not knowing how to treat my sick cat",
"pronormative_score": 6,
"contranormative_score": 2
} | AITA for not knowing how to treat my sick cat? | My pet cat, who was my childhood pet, is very old (about 17 years old) and she is starting to show signs of being very sick (urinating and pooping in areas of the house, losing weight rapidly, matted fur, losing hearing, etc.). My parents believe that the only option at this point is to euthanize her, which they almost... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 2,
"OTHER": 4,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 2,
"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 6,
"WRONG": 2
} | RIGHT |
yXsvs9JqAsCpwURWGQGTMKiwKWOUk5D4 | ajs9eq | {
"description": "not giving up my seat on a plane so a mom could be with her kids",
"pronormative_score": 142,
"contranormative_score": 11
} | AITA for not giving up my seat on a plane so a mom could be with her kids? | I was on an eight hour flight from Hawaii to Orange County. My parents and my siblings were on another flight since it was cheaper for me to fly separately. My dad asked if I wanted to switch tickets with him but since I knew he'd be taking care of my baby brothers during the flight, I felt like flying separately so ... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 6,
"OTHER": 140,
"EVERYBODY": 5,
"NOBODY": 2,
"INFO": 1
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 142,
"WRONG": 11
} | RIGHT |
PMhVp73pj3pRWSga6mtJB2AWiSwoXv3d | adu2go | {
"description": "sending back my parents to their place when they came for an unexpected visit",
"pronormative_score": 50,
"contranormative_score": 1
} | AITA for sending back my parents to their place when they came for an unexpected visit? | Me and my wife (and daughter) live in a small town around three hours drive from my parents.
The relationship with my parents is mostly good (with their hiccups) and my wife gets along well with them too.
I got into an argument (not a big one but also not a trivial thing) with my wife and she went to her parents beca... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 1,
"OTHER": 48,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 2,
"INFO": 1
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 50,
"WRONG": 1
} | RIGHT |
BnhFC3n6D9BVwrKEAoGraG3pTC34UUcg | akluw0 | {
"description": "telling off one of my classmates at an outdoor theatre",
"pronormative_score": 1,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for telling off one of my classmates at an outdoor theatre? | throwaway account
Just for reference, there are three key people in this dilemma. Me (17F), my best friend A (18F), and my classmate B (17F). We all attend an an all-girls Catholic high school. A whole group of us girls (~10 girls) just finished a major volunteering project, and we wanted to go to an outdoor cinema to... | HISTORICAL | {
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"OTHER": 1,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 1,
"WRONG": 0
} | RIGHT |
Oqgk2Tbf1M6tpffmLRrC2NiO5EVMMF6g | a4zvmm | {
"description": "wishing my friend would stop throwing a pity party and get some help",
"pronormative_score": 7,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for wishing my friend would stop throwing a pity party and get some help? | Mental illness is a real problem, and I am in no way trying to imply that people suffering from depression aren't doing their darn best. I just want to help my friend.
I am in highschool. My friend texts me everyday telling me "I had X amount of breakdowns today" and "I can't go to school today, because I'll just hav... | HISTORICAL | {
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"OTHER": 5,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 2,
"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 7,
"WRONG": 0
} | RIGHT |
1YIslEMpAruNxxPdxltxdLJpWCAqCAuR | apfvvp | null | AITA for how I responded to being ghosted by my friend? | First of all, this is absolutely really juvenile/high school level stuff.
So I’ve known this girl practically as long as I’ve been alive. Went to all the same schools, families did stuff together, etc. Six or so years ago, we were briefly “together” but I at least was too young to understand what that really meant so ... | HISTORICAL | {
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"OTHER": 2,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 1,
"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 3,
"WRONG": 0
} | RIGHT |
f6pyeZoJnJFjpRR4ZRcYZmJGMaupoKEw | ah1jvr | {
"description": "telling my boyfriend I won't ignore my 3yr old while on the phone with him",
"pronormative_score": 43,
"contranormative_score": 2
} | AITA for telling my boyfriend I won't ignore my 3yr old while on the phone with him? | I went through a divorce where my ex got our 3yr old and 14yr old because of financial reasons (I was a stay at home mom and he's an engineer) so he can afford to have them. This leaves me seeing my 3yr old, who until September 2018 lived with me full time, only seeing him every wednesday and then every other weekend. ... | HISTORICAL | {
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"OTHER": 42,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 1,
"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 43,
"WRONG": 2
} | RIGHT |
PVRSicqUSmVcAS7l1WQqlhacSJ2VAw14 | aomm53 | {
"description": "catfishing gone too far",
"pronormative_score": 0,
"contranormative_score": 5
} | AITA Catfishing gone too far? | So my friend started a fake account on instagram called Carly grey (a porn star) and started cat fishing our friends. It got to the point where he was actively fishing for 2 of our good friends and he even sent his own booty pic. One of the friends found out but we kept it a secret from the other. The other found out ... | HISTORICAL | {
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"OTHER": 0,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
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"INFO": 0
} | AUTHOR | {
"RIGHT": 0,
"WRONG": 5
} | WRONG |
hcjMVtUE5nlH6xWryTvnuy3lgcQZ2m9E | amdtiy | {
"description": "getting mad at my fiance and our cats",
"pronormative_score": 18,
"contranormative_score": 1
} | AITA for getting mad at my fiance and our cats? | tl;dr cock blocked and cucked by two cats.
So we got these cats a bit ago when they were kittens. She wore me down and I agreed to getting one cat; as they are not allowed where we live and we already have a dog. I asked her to not go without me to pick them up or to see them, because I know all too well that we're... | HISTORICAL | {
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"OTHER": 18,
"EVERYBODY": 1,
"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 18,
"WRONG": 1
} | RIGHT |
SEAE0lMHg2Lthdb29LWXhF8BooT56eno | awomty | {
"description": "telling my aunt she has to pay for what her son stole from me",
"pronormative_score": 10,
"contranormative_score": 5
} | AITA for telling my aunt she has to pay for what her son stole from me? | My aunt lives in a different country than I do and I occasionally visit her. After I graduated college, I decided I had a little bit of time off and decided to spend a couple of weeks at her place. I should add that she has 2kids (my cousins). One of them is around my age and he’s an overall great kid with a lovely fam... | HISTORICAL | {
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"OTHER": 10,
"EVERYBODY": 2,
"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 1
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 10,
"WRONG": 5
} | RIGHT |
5vfQEnKkaAk0EcK7vZTCgMSPEETLbyS1 | a9t1w3 | null | WIBTA if I - falsely - told my daughter's paternal grandmother that she might not be her son's biological child? | I'm pretty certain that I'm an asshole here, but I don't think I'm *the* asshole. I'm certainly a long-winded one, if I'm anything. TL;DR at the end.
**Exposition:**
When I was a young adult, I was in an incredibly abusive relationship with a man in his mid twenties. His abuse ranged from slaps and punches to cheating... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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pZLxNrZAel4vApuNK3scj8lGy0zUV7Iq | 9ykkl5 | {
"description": "wanting to spend Thanksgiving alone",
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} | AITA-For wanting to spend Thanksgiving alone. | So my parents are going to a family friends house instead of doing a meal. I've been invited to that Thanksgiving and it's going to be a big celebration. I have also been invited to a couple other celebrations with other friends. But if I'm being honest a whole day to myself doing nothing but ordering some Chinese, ... | HISTORICAL | {
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bFunEmG5sA132cY2XaQEkqSMstsjxcrp | b0dcrp | {
"description": "telling kids to become a garbage man",
"pronormative_score": 25,
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} | AITA I told kids to become a garbage man | Currently having an arguement with a friend and I thought what better way to solve this than posting it on here.
I am a teacher at a school for students with social/emotional disabilities. We have 20 yo students who will just barely make it out of high school. I told my friend that last year I suggested to a few stud... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | RIGHT |
j3vn0moTgm7niMuJDEyWXnqiiJiqQAha | aauho8 | {
"description": "buying what I want",
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} | AITA for buying what I want? | So, a few weeks before Christmas, my Mother asks me to make a Christmas list for my relatives. I didn't want my relatives to pay a lotta money on me, so I put a few cheap things I kinda wanted but was too lazy to buy. Come Christmas, I get everything except two things. No big deal, I was happy and respectful, and we ha... | HISTORICAL | {
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UwRyrLcezP4yG7tKWEwIirWrCWvtgbun | akjuay | {
"description": "caring for some else's child",
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} | AITA for caring for some else's child? | My dad's girlfriend moved in recently, and she brought her daughter. Neither are native speakers, and as the only person proficient in english, I have to help her with her assignments. It is not uncommon to spend 3 hours on half a sheet of math homework. Due to our economic situation, the mother is hardly home due to w... | HISTORICAL | {
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SLetyCUsWhWJhXNRPlnw28BJc7q3gh4s | 9unu7w | {
"description": "disliking my boyfriend's mom",
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} | AITA for disliking my boyfriend's mom? | We're together for over a year and I have met his family on multiple occasions.
Now, she's not a bad person or treats me badly.
Problem is, it's super boring to me to go there for several reasons. First is, the only person who really makes conversation is his mom but she'll ask some courtesy questions and then she'll... | HISTORICAL | {
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1maWr7AXtFYeVoPOjJi6FHMhADLGu4rK | afa4a9 | {
"description": "telling my mother I don't care about my brother",
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} | AITA for telling my mother i don't care about my brother | Here's some context into why i feel this way about my brother.
I grew up with my father and step-mother who had custody of me and my older brother Kyle(fake name) my mother got to have us every other weekend. I grew up loving my brother we spent countless hours playing D&D and video games together. When i was ab... | HISTORICAL | {
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WwnM7nuGs5DXW2u9nZTFdsqEn9eFhfIr | b3dtn3 | {
"description": "telling my bf that maths is used in engineering",
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} | AITA For telling my bf that maths is used in engineering | I'm not even 100% sure what the specific apprenticeship was but it was vehical engineering related because he was talking about how he knows how to fix an engine and do X and Y.
He was frustrated, I think, that in applying for an apprenticeship he had to do an online test with a lot of written maths questions. He sent... | HISTORICAL | {
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uWMH7v8rR2CUd5Bp2eBay9a3Jgjnp0SE | b7txyk | {
"description": "calling my sister a fake vegan",
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} | AITA for calling my sister a fake vegan? | My sister and I are both vegan, though she has been for much longer. She recently made the assertion that it's fine to not ask if something has dairy/eggs/etc. if there isn't any other possible vegan option to eat when traveling. I thought that was irresponsible as a vegan, and that she was being lazy. Her response was... | HISTORICAL | {
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OoMvcYxqaHzwZvFQ6D6qDj4ICOMneuAu | avn409 | {
"description": "not wanting my roommate's girlfriend to move in for three months rent free",
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} | AITA for not wanting my roommate's girlfriend to move in for three months rent free? | I'm 23 and have been living in New York City for about 7 months with three of my best friends (all male) from college. All is great, right? It was until one of my roommates (let's call him Michael) recently asked us about having his girlfriend live with us this upcoming summer. She's still an undergrad but is going to ... | HISTORICAL | {
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a5B1gSByjUHvxl4bUvR1c5pSYTCnHnoi | aq9yy3 | {
"description": "not kicking my close friend and her fiancee out, despite the crazy stuff they've done",
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I've been friends with this girl since we were 14 (call her R). We went to different high schools and never saw each other much after graduation but kept in contact on social media.
This past October, she calls me out of... | HISTORICAL | {
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uMd0JVRYVFvPFooNCGFGqEcvqlfUxFZb | afe84p | {
"description": "not wanting to talk to my best friend for a long time",
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} | AITA for not wanting to talk to my best friend for a long time? | First of all, I'm sorry if there's any grammatical errors, I'm not a native speaker. Also, this is my second post so please bear with me if I'm doing something wrong.
A little bit of context : I've been friends with my Alex for more than 15 years already, we're both 19.
So, two weeks ago he was in a relationship wit... | HISTORICAL | {
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UDlboBI7CurDFSWrjZgBrN2g02Shm4IW | b1cl01 | {
"description": "transferring to another dorm room because I can't stand my roommate, effectively forcing him to move with someone else or live alone",
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} | AITA for transferring to another dorm room because I can't stand my roommate, effectively forcing him to move with someone else or live alone? | During my first semester in October I used to travel every week from my home town to my dorm room every Tuesday. He had invited people and they apparently had a party up until 3AM and the surrounding dorm phoned the manager of all the pandemonium they were making. That was a on Monday, when I’m not there. So, I'm on th... | HISTORICAL | {
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N03jwvVnXta621Jv5Cy5bjnM54lVCYzl | 9y3rdu | null | AITA for feeling? | I've noticed lots of posts here asking "am I the asshole for feeling hurt/angry/upset?" and I wanted to respond.
Having a feeling does not make you an asshole. You are allowed to have feelings, even if other people don't like them, and there is only so much control you have over raw emotion in the first place. There'... | HISTORICAL | {
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oy7qcjH1dIJcVL5DPxfBJFf6NxW4iNzO | a8r2bw | {
"description": "thinking it's selfish of my friend to not negotiate events for a competition with me",
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} | AITA for thinking it's selfish of my friend to not negotiate events for a competition with me? | Sorry for the title. My friend and I are both actively involved in speech and debate at our school, and we host a tournament every February. This year, we take four competitors for each event, and the one that does the worst gets cut for our **serious** competition in March, which we travel for. However, I got cut fro... | HISTORICAL | {
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l909dC8EK4ELHIqIFSoqcU3r8gYL2skt | avv88x | {
"description": "burning my friend's minecraft house down",
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} | WIBTA If I burn my friend's minecraft house down? | My friend burnt my house down in minecraft and burnt all my valuable items and blamed it on some random person. I got in touch with that person and it turns out he DIDN'T burn my house down. I confronted my friend telling him I know he was the one who burnt my house down and he's like so what? what are you gonna do abo... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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J3RnfcIZ2PLx6Yaa9pHqgKj7gAOuoDAi | afazjq | {
"description": "saying Shhhhh at the movie theatre",
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} | AITA for saying Shhhhh at the movie theatre | Wife and I went to see Aquaman last night. We went to a 10pm showing and decided to try out D-Box (moving seats) for the first time as well.
So 15 minutes into the movie after the trailers are finished a family of 4 walks in which consists of a boy no more than 10 and a girl the same age and what I can only assume is ... | HISTORICAL | {
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i6MsUDt2FMiCZeLaH4tLc8OOgRqSmtrG | a3nrd3 | {
"description": "asking my neighbors to keep the volume down when they have family and friends over",
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} | AITA for asking my neighbors to keep the volume down when they have family and friends over? | I know that this already seems like a fairly straightforward question, but I feel that there a few things that could skew the situation in either direction.
For context, I’m a senior college student swimming in the midst of finals right now. I’ve admittedly been having a tough time with the amount of coursework I’ve b... | HISTORICAL | {
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our6zzICYyguQ8rb7Qb2idD9wZRzVgdM | aqvbfp | {
"description": "hanging out in a video chat room, even though I'm married",
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} | AITA for hanging out in a video chat room, even though I'm married? | Throwaway because my reddit name is a bit similar to my chat name. Tldr in the end.
When my husband and me started dating, we spent some time as LDR. I'm an introvert and just started living alone again and sometimes would go a few days without seeing another humans face. So I started to go into a video chat room, whi... | HISTORICAL | {
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mLl01UFkoIR15egnikSnUnrXOg9on6wz | b678lo | {
"description": "not wanting to go to the UAE",
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} | AITA for not wanting to go to the UAE? | My (21M) best friend (22F) wants to visit the UAE during holidays for whatever reason. She doesn't want to go alone and I'm pretty much the only one who could come along (finances, holiday dates, willingness to travel). Normally I'd jump up and say yes immediately because I usually struggle to find people to travel wit... | HISTORICAL | {
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wHYj7T28d4RxfzhQDkL4RMCy9EDIJwG5 | afzk6g | {
"description": "mentally rolling my eyes every time I see a sob story online",
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} | AITA for mentally rolling my eyes every time I see a sob story online? | Every time I see any sort of sob story anywhere, whether it be on a TV show, or Reddit, or any other social media, I think "God, doesn't this person have something better to do than beg anonymous people online for emotional support?" I understand if it's your close friends, and you ask them for advice on how to handle ... | HISTORICAL | {
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lFclrSXSfkRRL6sjK2Jz8Z1LoKZUrUVN | 9xwwjh | {
"description": "ditching my friend and cutting ties",
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} | WIBTA if I ditched my friend and cut ties? | I sound like the asshole in the title, but let me elaborate. Let's call her Beth.
Beth and I were closest friends for the last year or so, but have distanced apart because she has spent 95% of her attention on her boyfriend and 5% on me and other friends. Beth has seemed to, for some reason, grow clingy to her boyfrie... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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JC3TReI2fbmtf3Rim97sHJ6ATiQbUFm1 | ate82s | {
"description": "calling out my friend on Facebook",
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} | AITA For Calling Out My Friend On Facebook? | TLDR: Friend lied to our friend group for years. I eventually call her out on Facebook, it causes relationship issues for her.
I was in a friendship for over 8 years with a person. We were very close, but she was very manipulative and a huge liar. She made up things on the spot, even faking two suicide attempts to me ... | HISTORICAL | {
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FOS5sCnvWeOS2wGEBwHJBkYiyj7tFe5u | atcqjx | {
"description": "ordering perscriptions with my pharmacist when older man comes within half a foot of my face",
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} | AITA Ordering perscriptions with my pharmacist when older man comes within half a foot of my face | First timer here please be your awesome selves!
I was at Walmart with my 2 kids getting a few medications when a gentleman of about late 60's comes really close to me, like touching shoulders close, to ask for a price on a product. When I noticed him there, I turned and said "can you please give us space, we are discu... | HISTORICAL | {
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xDD9WzpricWWiafqCamZAw8PTSGVtpOA | b7sm20 | {
"description": "killing my sister's pet mouse",
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} | AITA For killing my sister’s pet mouse? | Hello Reddit
I’ll get right to it. My sister got a pet mouse last month for her birthday gift. While I am absolutely terrified of mice, since I did get bit by one as a kid, my sister would constantly bring the mouse to me, unannounced. (Such as when I was in my bedroom, or even when I ate dinner)
Last Friday, it wa... | HISTORICAL | {
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hw0ZRXkNU1RliGvn45F7hZoDRcwPmFfH | a6drsd | {
"description": "not liking that my SO vents to someone else other than me about their depression",
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} | WIBTA if I don’t like that my SO vents to someone else other than me about their depression? | Say I had a SO who’s going through a lot emotionally. If I tried everything to be open to them and talk to them, but they go vent to someone else and subsequently feel better, would I be an asshole if I felt jealous?
I understand if they need girl/guy talk with their group chat. What I’m talking about is 1 on 1 with a... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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RcfBG1vfeq5TjG07pfWGCEeOKLwtXju1 | amk1nj | {
"description": "not wanting to go a to a party",
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} | AITA For not wanting to go a to a party? | There is a party tonight, which I do not want to attend, I will be going (against my will) and I was told I am shitty for holding the group back/ not participating. I view this differently, I have no close friends that will be attending the party, and didn't have fun at the same party last year. It'd be different if it... | HISTORICAL | {
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2MQ47oVUNF8PPWVhZLyQUVCROH5FyttD | b6aqmg | {
"description": "not letting my wife's younher brother couch surf at my house",
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} | AITA for not letting my wife's younher brother couch surf at my house. | So my brother in law, who is 21, recently picked up his girlfriend and took her away from her home when she turned 18. For the sake of the post, let's call him Jake and her Bella.
Bella was in a supposedly bad situation at home, in which she lived under the rule of her evil stepmother who took all of her kids money.... | HISTORICAL | {
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b8lX17MiPs5lTN8p3R1J4FfXZsNw6kwA | ai5nar | {
"description": "ghosting my (then) \"boyfriend\" who I've known for 7 years",
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} | AITA for ghosting my (then) “boyfriend” who I’ve known for 7 years | Some background: I(21F) met (let’s call him Sean(24M) online when I was pretty young. Let’s say I was 13 years old, he was 16. We were internet friends or whatever because he lived a few hours away, but in the same state. Eventually when I was a little older (I was 15, he was 18) he came to visit me and we “dated” for ... | HISTORICAL | {
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y6YARHXDMVfRaljz4cNC5Yp1AxLq6pHD | ad1sqj | {
"description": "discussing a relationship (between my friends) with one of them",
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} | AITA for discussing a relationship (between my friends) with one of them? | So this might sound a little complicated and I think I am the asshole here but just stick with me for a moment here. Last night I had a lengthy discussion about a guy my best friend was interested in. We can call her Sabrina. She talked to me about a lot of revealing things and that they went out together. However, it ... | HISTORICAL | {
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nveJ5E4MwtG35oby2a1KHYMfxhEj8YMY | arnng5 | {
"description": "not liking my stepfamily",
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} | AITA for not liking my stepfamily? | I’ll keep this short. My “stepfamily” has basically taken over my life. They call MY dog theirs, act like they can do anything they want with no care for others. My stepdad uses my bathroom attached to my room regularly without even asking and frequently goes in my room. I talk to my mom and she says I need to accept c... | HISTORICAL | {
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lqglCbd0HwAEMOZLC1cX1GHPEod8VVW3 | are9lz | {
"description": "asking my friend if she wanted to continue or friendship so I can know if I should move on or not",
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} | WIBTA if I asked my friend if she wanted to continue or friendship so I can know if I should move on or not | I had a fight with my friend last Friday and long story short it ended up with me saying "if this bothers you so much we don't have to be friends anymore" that upset her and she said she would talk to me later and wanted to cool off before saying something she regretted.
She hasn't said anything to me yet since last w... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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wEv4uKfJjkUoW2aZIHsGpyS0jgJGiP36 | a64elc | {
"description": "telling to my roommate that she is overreacting",
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} | AITA for telling to my roommate that she is overreacting? | So with the new year incoming I wanted to organise a lil’ meeting to my apartment, with 3/4 friends, we would just leave our stuff in the apartment, maybe drink a few beers and then go out in the city and come back to sleep (my friends live not in the same city),
so I asked to my roommate what planes did she have for... | HISTORICAL | {
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4OrOhZhWXn6giYkKoWqKC564NYiR6Ly0 | aozpzr | {
"description": "being mad at my best friend for liking someone",
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} | AITA for being mad at my best friend for liking someone? | I want to make this clear, this is one of my **BESTEST** of bets friends, and the person they're sticking up for is a bitch to me and my other best friend. This person at first began to make fun of my best friend's (BF1) clothing and body shape, which they are extremely self conscious about, causing them to stay home c... | HISTORICAL | {
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2ihKzUB1raS7PrNgMxwxe3XlRJt995WX | atx0ko | {
"description": "getting mad at my girlfriend for hanging out with her friend instead of me",
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} | AITA for getting mad at my girlfriend for hanging out with her friend instead of me? | I'm a freshman in college, and I've known my girlfriend and her family since we were little kids. We both come from super conservative families, so when we first started to like each other we knew that going out was a big no-no.
We started texting about 3 years ago, and we've gotten to know each other pretty well. We... | HISTORICAL | {
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5I8DB7Yz2H7nBDZTXoNTIb639s92AWSn | acapnk | {
"description": "feeling undervalued",
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} | AITA for Feeling Undervalued? | As mentioned in the title I feel undervalued at work. The person I sit next to was in my new-hire training class and we started out at the same amount. Through continuing here I have taken the next level of training and received a 2% increase for it. She did not take the next level of training.
Through the course of ... | HISTORICAL | {
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9NtiEA3VGYF3gvwKjlLyUgTPStilUuex | ar6hgh | {
"description": "getting mad at my boyfriend for ignoring me on Valentine's day",
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} | WIBTA for getting mad at my boyfriend for ignoring me on Valentine’s Day. | My bf and I celebrated valentines a day early because he had to close and I had a test late that night. We had an amazing dinner and he got me an amazing present that shows how well he knows me.
Valentines comes along and I bring him lunch and hang out a bit before heading to my test. After i finished, he texted me a... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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Bmt3PCjWPObK6wtcKkhpstseYDNdrb3M | ay5dtm | {
"description": "spamming a friend knowing that was the only way he would answer",
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} | AITA if i spammed a friend knowing that was the only way he would answer? | i used to play with this dude some time ago and when he wasn't playing the only way to get any kind of answer from him was to spam him.
i asked him if it bothered him and he said no its fine, while i said if it ever bothered him he should tell me and i would stop. then a couple weeks later i did the usual and he bloc... | HISTORICAL | {
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OnCB3K6xoG6RCsEauR1ONxedNXozLdlk | ananfg | {
"description": "telling off my brother for getting back into a relationship",
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} | AITA for telling off my brother for getting back into a relationship? | So my brother broke up with his girlfriend because they hardly see each other and don't have enough time for themselves anyway. Hell, I never even heard him call her. So, naturally, I'm with him on this situation.
Next day he's bad-mouthing her, saying that she's spoiled, stuck-up and never even helps him or their rel... | HISTORICAL | {
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3nlC7xcdWVGLNQlg5zsUsJoyRKYKTaKC | ausvmr | {
"description": "yelling at my aunt for trying to sell my mother a pyramid scheme",
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} | AITA for yelling at my aunt for trying to sell my mother a pyramid scheme | So basically I have a lot of allergies and I take shots every 3 weeks and so my mother was talking about how I was making so much improvement and so I would have to take those shots for 5 years (I’m 3 years in) and my aunt put in the comments “you can have great results in only a month if you buy these oils” I didn’t r... | HISTORICAL | {
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ONtIG1VKj39epgAyKoe3DYWE3lqAUaaF | b11frc | {
"description": "not appreciating my job and wanting to quit? or aita for staying",
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} | AITA for not appreciating my job and wanting to quit? Or AITA for staying? | So I recently graduated last spring with a BA in a major many would consider useless, and had trouble finding a job. I finally found a place that hired me after an extensive interview process. I took the job, but now that I’m about 6 months in I found out I don’t like it that much. I like the “core” of what I do (it’s ... | HISTORICAL | {
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hpFoQf2l34cWp46JLpOg8VrStrg2Pipw | afqcuw | null | AITA in this conversation with my mom? | Context: I am staying the night st my Dads to watch football ( I am a teenager and my parents are divorced, my dad likes football and has cable so I go there to watch it) and after football I get into a call with my friend whom I’ll just call X and at around 1130 he mentions going to a dog show tomorrow ( this was yest... | HISTORICAL | {
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Dj77iYg8ClRtbMSsrryJ3gsMnoj6t6EE | a2f6z0 | {
"description": "wanting to sleep in while my wife takes care of our baby",
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} | AITA for wanting to sleep in while my wife takes care of our baby? | Yesterday my wife went out with some friends for the day which left me with our 8 month old son. No problem there, we had a grand old time. She left around 2 and got home around 10pm But in the middle of the night (he’s been sick so he was up a bit at night) she explains to me that she expected me to wake up early wit... | HISTORICAL | {
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CN0ehJH2lFMbdYoVXae8XoMVvo7flxR7 | anhwb2 | {
"description": "declining to work with someone",
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} | AITA for declining to work with someone? | I powerlift competitively(relatively new at it). A few weeks ago, I began taking tips (that I didn’t ask for) from some older guys at the gym. These guys are strong and I definitely believe they know their stuff. However, the old school of powerlifting and the new school of powerlifting have a few different opinions I’... | HISTORICAL | {
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0MiYlQbZtXc0G6p4Qr7U5cacufxLUqP1 | ay505r | {
"description": "getting mad at my bf for watching amvs and porn if he promised he'd stop",
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} | AITA for getting mad at my bf for watching AMVs and porn if he promised he'd stop | We're both quite young and we've been together for about 10 months now. We both used to watch a lot of anime few years ago but don't really anymore. My bf still has a thing for anime girls though and for the first 4 months i didn't really care. Then i started taking birthcontrol and it made me mad over every little thi... | HISTORICAL | {
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aAPOAHFpDXZlHoguP6uJQ2Lzngd7NpiE | a9t39a | {
"description": "thinking actions speak louder than words",
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} | AITA for thinking actions speak louder than words? | My partners grandma is Eastern European, very old fashioned, casually racist and believes the world is evil. Everyone is the enemy, especially me. She badgers my partner a lot, always picking on his hair, his weight, his health and his career. She thinks I over/under feed my partner and don’t look after him (I’m 20f he... | HISTORICAL | {
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"description": "asking a guy in my friend group to meet us a bit later than the others",
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} | WIBTA if i asked a guy in my friend group to meet us a bit later than the others? | There's this guy in my group of friends (let's call him john) who has been going out whit us in the last few months.
I don't really like him but everyone else seems to enjoy his company so I don't really complain about him.
The problem is that I recently found a boyfriend and I would like to introduce this new bf to my... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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RuuKtywhZLf3IvKb9HThDCtZbaCSY5IE | az13r4 | null | Aita if you look at this from the outside |
playing a discord bot were you can claim anime characters like cards but there is only one of every character. this guy gets angry for reasons im not fully aware of and decides to quit. so he allowed me to choose 3 characters that he owned and gave them to me. no one forced him to do this i was even against it askin... | HISTORICAL | {
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qstLAh7HE8XI2JEAaJftr0SromtIQguj | b1wytg | {
"description": "holding the door open for a dude chick",
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} | AITA for holding the door open for a dude chick? | So this happened years ago, just now thought about it. So im about to get on the elevator and this clearly a chick but butchy chick walks up just as the elevator opens and well being courteous i put my hand in front of me as if to say you first and she gives me this god awful look as she gets on and i think to myself h... | HISTORICAL | {
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WzSJkLNfcmQhDnwc102yvLjdylb2yfLK | avu28h | {
"description": "getting myself pizza and not my boyfriend",
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} | AITA for getting myself pizza and not my boyfriend? | Basically, me and my boyfriend went grocery shopping. We were supposed to eat ”leftovers” from my moms restaurant, or better said food she had literally paid for to give me and my boyfriend to eat.
I decided i wanted pizza instead and eat my moms food tomorrow, and told my boyfriend il get pizza. Nothing happened. Unt... | HISTORICAL | {
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RQ73o3eCUxwhhzVbQl1PGXNpq64XzraN | b0k386 | {
"description": "blocking an ex friend without saying anything because I just can't handle them anymore",
"pronormative_score": 3,
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} | AITA for blocking an ex friend without saying anything because I just can't handle them anymore? | So there's this person who I used to be really close to. Then one day they stopped replying to my messages. They'd read them. I'd ask if everything's ok, what's wrong? Nothing. No response. Just showing that they read it. They wouldn't directly address me either when we were with friends .
After 6+ mos they started re... | HISTORICAL | {
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lPBi9fyYTEOTIyzxwDF62iBgB7J3IcG3 | alh54m | {
"description": "brake-checking a tailgater",
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} | WIBTA for brake-checking a tailgater? | In another subreddit a user who will remain anonymous said:
>I always brake check. People need to stay off of other people's fucking bumpers. The nice part about it that as a brake checker, I'm always right. "Whoops I saw something in the road and panicked. Idk about the guy behind me. He was too close and wound up... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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EODooI5L4KS6lnJWDpdy7CeF8sdRge0j | agyovr | {
"description": "telling my friend that his sci-fi manuscript, that he's been working on for almost 4 years, is a bad beat for beat rip off of Star wars",
"pronormative_score": 9,
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} | WIBTA If I tell my friend that his sci-fi manuscript, that he’s been working on for almost 4 years, is a bad beat for beat rip off of Star Wars? | I have a friend who basically put his life on hold to right his Sci-Fi opus for the last four years. He hasn’t dated, he turned down a promotion at work and he’d essentially been a shut in. I know he is very proud of his labor. His dad is pretty well connected in the publishing industry and he was able to get a litera... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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WohqPHxfvwGALgUPRyUA6gTi0wQfLEBB | a5uvsd | {
"description": "feeling like my mother spends too much time with my diseased sister and her daughter",
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} | AITA for feeling like my mother spends too much time with my diseased sister and her daughter ? | Semi-throwaway acct.
So basically, my sister has MS (Multiple Sclerosis). It’s a degenerative auto-immune disease that worsens little by little over time.
I’ll try to make this a simple as possible
I grew up in another country, my memories of growing up were basically I was a happy kid in a problematic family. My fa... | HISTORICAL | {
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peq0UhhXbku6U3OSm16kF3bVegylbdBH | 9xn9y3 | null | AITA (21F)for being angry at my best friend for ignoring me after a traumatic accident ? | Back in April of 2018 my best friend (20F) had gotten into a life altering car accident. She broke her leg pretty bad and needed pt to learn how to walk again. So during her recovery I would visit her in the hospital, then when she got released we would chill at her house and eventually she was able to be mobile in a w... | HISTORICAL | {
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LzO6WVlOH923Ig7CFfLcoV5LaSSt42ZP | 9xfu94 | {
"description": "making a joke about someones girlfriend",
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} | AITA for making a joke about someones girlfriend? | Okay let's start this off with there are 4 main people involved in this situation all of which I am friends with and a lecturer. I should also add my personality is rather sexual however I know the limits.
My 3 best mates ether have boyfriends or girlfriends. Now me being the good friend likes to make jokes to them a... | HISTORICAL | {
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qa1FLuFgdWa2J0RwqJjWpAlpRvKJQtwL | aqrrw4 | {
"description": "being annoyed by my Roommate's Loud sex",
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} | AITA For Being Annoyed By My Roommate's Loud Sex? | I live with my partner and and another couple that I was friends with prior to living together. I would consider the girl to be my best friend.
For the most part, everything is fine. However, the biggest issue that I have is when they have sex, my best friend is ridiculously loud. Like, over the top loud and sometime... | HISTORICAL | {
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nlpZ2les5SnSHss5azP4wezDLtsriNCP | ayhcxw | {
"description": "forgetting it's Lent",
"pronormative_score": 6,
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} | AITA for forgetting it's Lent? | I am an atheist, and i was raised in a pretty areligious household. My girlfriend is non-denominational, but likes to partake in Lent.These past few days i have offered her sweets (as i do frequently), forgetting she gave up sugary junk foods. I am not offering these things to be mean or torment her, i honestly just do... | HISTORICAL | {
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kAuXu91pDHmXoiy2RmHOzucXRWrLQjmo | b4ld2t | {
"description": "kicking my mum off a shopping trip",
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} | AITA for kicking my mum off a shopping trip? | So today I went to meet my mum and her friend in town to send her friend off on a train. I said from the very beginning that after this I am going shopping, alone as I know exactly what I want to buy and where and so I want to do it quickly. They asked which shops I want to go to so I told them and my mum was like "and... | HISTORICAL | {
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Qc9dBUCvq5FrZZDGRuFjJESOGkeucpbI | b8pl0f | {
"description": "being honest about my friend's music taste",
"pronormative_score": 8,
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} | AITA for being honest about my friend's music taste? | Hi, so my friend and I went out for a girls' hangout day. I don't drive so my friend picked me up with her car. It went alright the entire day. I'd like to believe we had fun until the drive back home. Since my friend's car has a bluetooth feature, I asked if I can connect my phone to play some songs from my Spotify. A... | HISTORICAL | {
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nVNKFoRhSgcIHnOwoPoJbR2TUTqqsmyG | acrj2j | {
"description": "getting mad at my so for not making me brownies",
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} | AITA For getting mad at my SO for not making me brownies? | My SO (26F) and I (27M) went on a brownie run tonight. I have been saying all week how much I’ve been craving them and finally convinced her to get into the car and grab some to make. While leaving the store I asked if she would make them and she, in exchange for quick drive through McDonalds, agreed.
We get home and ... | HISTORICAL | {
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qbigFgczKse7eckEklSx59RVJj12iBZe | b4kc2b | {
"description": "accidentally pissing off a friend",
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} | AITAH For accidentally pissing off a friend? | Bit of context; I play a VR game similar to VRChat called Rec Room, I play on PSVR (important later). I have over a year created and got into some friend groups. I met one guy on it, for privacy I'll call him A. He's autistic and makes things on Rec Room just like me, we quickly bonded and I joined his clan, I helped h... | HISTORICAL | {
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rbwrLr2U88LN0Yb8wqrOUFxeKI8I1G0U | axl3te | {
"description": "refuaing to put my backpack under the seat on an airplane",
"pronormative_score": 8,
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} | AITA for refuaing to put my backpack under the seat on an airplane? | This happened yesterday. I was flying with a rather large backpack and carry-on. At the gate, they announced the flight was full and that people in later boarding groups may not have space in the overhead bin, so anyone who would like to check their carry-on for free could do so. I took them up on their offer, and sent... | HISTORICAL | {
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mS7gVpDojFTaMsvyXikAgop53deRyPbb | a0k36n | {
"description": "refusing to let my sister get away with not wearing a seatbelt",
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} | AITA for refusing to let my sister get away with not wearing a seatbelt? | My sister and I are on a long backpacking trip through Central America and any time we take a long bus or shuttle ride, we get in a screaming argument (in front of everyone) because I think it’s important she wears a seatbelt, while she doesn’t want to because it’s “uncomfortable” but mostly because she doesn’t like be... | HISTORICAL | {
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sPge85McCtfHklziQBFUAOA0vb4hfjGl | amypcm | {
"description": "trying to help my friend with depression",
"pronormative_score": 2,
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} | AITA For trying to help my friend with depression? | Alright, so for context I met this friend almost two years ago, and we're very close. We even dated for a short stint, but decided to remain friends. However, this friend has depression. I am one of those people who will talk to you until 4 AM if you're in a bad place. But we have some few days long periods where we do... | HISTORICAL | {
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AOFbYS9LvQQVIkHhSzFA4ziF8UhnVJvo | ad1onx | {
"description": "ending friendship",
"pronormative_score": 2,
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} | Aita for ending friendship. | Friend who I knew had feelings for her invited me to hang. She then invited 2 other guys later and kicked me out because she wanted to have sex with them. I was enraged and cursed her out over text the next day and ended the friendship.
Aita? | HISTORICAL | {
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KCnpUvj7LihsiPTHu0AIvEPxjjA3IqxK | a7vuc0 | {
"description": "informing my fiance he did not get me a Christmas gift last year",
"pronormative_score": 4,
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} | AITA for informing my fiance he did not get me a Christmas gift last year? | Hey guys! This may be long so I'm the asshole for that and I'm sorry.
When I go christmas shopping for anyone, I'd like to think I put a lot of thought and love into what I get for someone based on what I know about them, as most people do.
Last year for Christmas, I had gotten my fiance several sweaters, Rayban sung... | HISTORICAL | {
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XfyzLGB0znQy6Rl0AB4aGZ3T18TR6XE7 | 9wfmcx | {
"description": "feeling like when someone walks off mid conversation they are using it as a tactic to not allow me to explain myself",
"pronormative_score": 1,
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} | AITA for feeling like when someone walks off mid conversation they are using it as a tactic to not allow me to explain myself. | Here's what happened, I have a young Toddler who uses the restroom on his own and sometimes he makes a mess and as his parent when he makes a mess I realize it's my job to clean it up and not be defensive when people point it out, particularly since he regularly uses my room mates bathroom since it's closer to the livi... | HISTORICAL | {
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I9gYh8mifu4imHKltsUrl2NusHbKMFCu | ap6f2m | {
"description": "not using 'they' to describe gender-neutral persons",
"pronormative_score": 9,
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} | AITA for not using 'they' to describe gender-neutral persons? | Pretext - In college I had a friend group which occasionally involved a gender neutral person and an ace / trans. Statistically the percentage of non-cis non-hetero people in the group was pretty high but I didn't notice, or did I really bother to find out the specifics of each persons situation. Just didn't seem super... | HISTORICAL | {
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W5rzUFzxHj7LR9GzILV9Nfd9Uou78bXx | 9v94dk | {
"description": "having sex with my gf in my mom's house if I don't have anywhere else to do it even though she told me not to do so",
"pronormative_score": 5,
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} | AITA for having sex with my gf in my mom's house if I don't have anywhere else to do it even though she told me not to do so? | The title says it all. We both are 19 and we don't have our own places, I usually spend one week in my mom's house and the next one in my dad's (they're divorced) and so on. My dad is always at home because he works from there and I can't just ask him to leave just so we can have sex confortably.
The same applies to ... | HISTORICAL | {
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