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{ "description": "\"cheating\" on my boyfriend", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for "cheating" on my boyfriend?
I say "cheating" because i really didn't see it as that and i thought it'd be okay. Anyway so I had this acquaintance who I didn't know all that well, but I was her best friend cause she didn't have anyone else and I think she really liked me. She was also terminally ill and asked me to come see her at the hospital la...
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{ "description": "not greeting the owner of the house I was invited to", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA For not greeting the owner of the house I was invited to?
So my friend was getting her hair done from a hairstylist, (she does her business at her house) Since she didn't want to be alone she asked me to come over. Me and my sister came and went inside. About 3 minutes later she starts asking me if I was from Africa. I was like..."yeah why?" Then she starts a lecture abo...
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{ "description": "telling off someone who used to be my friend", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 4 }
WIBTA for telling off someone who used to be my friend?
So there's this girl that I used to date and after we broke up we were still friends for awhile. The thing is I really always felt like she ever really cared about me or really anyone else she knows. She is also someone who struggles with anxiety and depression but she uses it to get her way sometimes which always piss...
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{ "description": "distancing myself from my friend", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I distanced myself from my friend?
I've been getting closer with this person this year (let's call her V), and while we've had some happy memories, there's a lot of incidents that make me wonder if this friendship should be ended. (Please don't judge her too harshly, we're in middle school and she's a good person. I wrote this more to question our pers...
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{ "description": "being mad at my friend because she doesn't want me to move to another country", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for being mad at my friend because she doesn't want me to move to another country?
I am 30, my friend "Amy" is 29. We have pretty much been best friends since we were in first grade. As adults we haven't hung out too terribly often because of work and life and such but we've always kept in touch, always interacting on facebook and usually hanging out once a month or so. The last two years we have g...
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{ "description": "wanting a clear answer about whether we are still friends, when he seems depressed", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for wanting a clear answer about whether we are still friends, when he seems depressed?
My really good guy friend was in a relationship and got cheated on and dumped by his girlfriend. I was one of the few people he talked to about it. Two weeks after having discovered his ex was cheating, he found out I had feelings for him, by reading a blog post I'd written about having a crush on someone and pushing ...
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{ "description": "saying screw this friendship", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA if I say screw this friendship?
I've been friends with her for half my life (Friend A) There was actually three of us that were really good friends. Then one of them (Friend B) slept with my significant other (you can check out my past post.... it was a mess). I dumped the friend that slept with my husband. And everyone else associated with her. Bu...
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{ "description": "making a small joke", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA for making a small joke?
girlfriend has been trying to eat healthy, avacado toast and veggies for the past few days. this morning she said shes making french fries for breakfast. i said, "i thought you were trying to eat healthy." Cue tears and getting called insensitive, rude, i dont understand women, i can't joke like that. i just feel like ...
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{ "description": "explaining something to my teacher in passing", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for explaining something to my teacher in passing?
I missed Monday, which is the day they announced a special schedule for the next two days (Yesterday, Today). I walked in an hour late to my first class of the day today since I didn't know better and thought the schedule was the usual, and my teacher deadpan said "You're an hour late." I handed him my pass, and in pas...
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{ "description": "breaking up with my so because of bodily changes if I made it clear before", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA for breaking up with my SO because of bodily changes if I made it clear before?
We were having a discussion about this earlier. I know it's not my body, not my choice, but I want to figure out what is an acceptable treshhold to break up with. My partner said none, as it is their body and they would love me regardless of any bodily changes I do. Now I want to ask about three things, for the voilat...
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{ "description": "never upvoting/downvoting the posts I read", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA For never upvoting/downvoting the posts i read?
So i have been browsing reddit for about 3-4 years now and made an account 1y ago. The thing is i never(or 99% of the time) upvote or downvote the posts i read. Are most redditors like me and the upvoting/downvoting & commenting part is the minority and is not upvoting/downvoting considered an asshole move?
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{ "description": "telling my stepdad to clean my room", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA if I told my stepdad to clean my room
Basically my stepmom got a dog, the dog chewed up some papers in my room, and my stepdad told me about it when I got home. I thought he meant he cleaned it up when he told me but he didn't. My stepmom is handicap and can't really move, plus she just had eye surgery so she can't see, so I wanted to tell him to clean my ...
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{ "description": "being upset with my bf", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for being upset with my bf?
My bf (30) and I (28) live together since November. We have a very good and healthy relationship overall, where communication plays a very important role. We speak about everything and we tell each other everything. We only see each other at night (around 21.30h) when we arrive home after a long day. It's the moment wh...
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{ "description": "not wanting my film in an LGBTQ+ festival", "pronormative_score": 85, "contranormative_score": 67 }
AITA for not wanting my film in an LGBTQ+ festival?
A more accurate title would be: Am I The Homophobe. So here’s my situation; I’m an indie film Writer/Director, based in Australia. Myself and my crew have recently completed a short film, and have just launched our festival run. For this film, I was the Writer as well as Co-Director (important). It’s also worth note ...
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{ "description": "taking my amigo to a trap house", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for taking my amigo to a trap house
AITA for taking my “homie” who seemed to be well involved in the “street” life to a trap house and him saying I dont want to be hanging with people like that or maybe that was a realization he came to but he kept pressing it as if I enjoyed the home and the people it was not a bad place normal home couches tvs xboxes b...
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{ "description": "fighting against dad", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for fighting against dad?
I like playing tennis. I'm far from the best players, but I love the sport. Dad did, too. He'd get involved in my matches, taking videos of me and whatnot, you know, standard dad stuff. Except for that right after every loss, when I was most devastated, he'd list out, very bluntly, all the things I did wrong and tell m...
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{ "description": "going to my mates house after being told not to", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for going to my mates house after being told not to?
‘Ey Reddit, recently some events from my past have started creeping in my mind, making me feel massive regret and just feel like a general asshole. So, I guess the general idea is to just get it all out and hear from others what they think. So about a year ago now, I had a best mate. For context, we’re both bloke...
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{ "description": "ditching my classmates when they tried to sneak someone out of school", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for ditching my classmates when they tried to sneak someone out of school?
My school lets students leave early if they don't have any lessons left that day but only if you have parental consent. Every time a student wants to exit the school they have to go to the school Secretary to get a permission slip, this was a very busy afternoon and a lot of kids wanted to get a permission slip So t...
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{ "description": "not going to a family wedding", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for not going to a family wedding?
Back in January my partner asked if I wanted to stay with him and his family at a hotel for about 4 nights for a family wedding. I told him at the time I wouldn’t know what my schedule would be like, so don’t book for me. It would be 4 weeknights, and I’ve just started my post grad and am on the job hunt, so I’m tryin...
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{ "description": "not sharing Toilet roll", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for not sharing Toilet roll?
This seems really petty but I feel like in the house share I'm in, I'm the only one who provides toilet roll. For example, there are 10 empty rolls and at least 8 of them are mine. Am I being an arsehole if I start taking my toilet roll back to my room after using it? It would leave the house with no toilet roll b...
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{ "description": "skipping the line at a grocery store", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for skipping the line at a grocery store?
AITA for skipping the line at a grocery store? For context, we're shopping in the grocery store with my friend and the way the lines work in the basket lane is that there are 2 cashiers that has 1 major line and people will pick either of the cashier to form another mini line of 3 people where you will have to wait. ...
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{ "description": "not letting my older sister to be next to the driver", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for not letting my older sister to be next to the driver?
So my family was driving for vacation and me and my older sister are always fighting about who should be next to the driver( my dad). So before we drove my sister said that she should be in front for half of the drive, and I should be in front on the other half of the driving to where we slept. I thought she meant that...
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{ "description": "not wanting to sleep in bed with my boyfriend every night", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to sleep in bed with my boyfriend every night?
Throwaway account because he knows my username and I don't want to bring it up unless I'm sure I'm not being unreasonable. My boyfriend and I don't live together, but I spend two to four nights a week at his place. We're polyamorous, so on weekends where his other partner and I both stay over, we take it in turns to s...
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{ "description": "reminding someone they've asked me the same question before", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
Aita for reminding someone they’ve asked me the same question before?
Maybe this is kind of dumb, but as I lack certain social skills I wonder if this was rude or a social faux pas. I only said something because from time to time people will ask me the same get-to-know-you questions, as if completely forgetting previous conversations. It’s become a pet peeve because it makes me feel li...
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{ "description": "being concerned about my girlfriend", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being concerned about my girlfriend
Girlfriend is currently finishing up placement for school. Her shift starts at 6pm. She texts me whenever she arrives at work/placement everyday without fail. Today, she did not. I received no contact from her after 5:20 pm, didn’t text back, didn’t answer phone calls etc. Around 9pm, after three and a half hours of ...
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{ "description": "ignoring my friends after they chose not to go with me to a Music Festival", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for ignoring my friends after they chose not to go with me to a Music Festival?
Long post. I apologize in advance. Backstory: This entire dilemma is a trivial first world issue but I cant seem to shake off how upset I am. I am in a friend group of about 4 couples (8 of us total) but only 6 of us are involved in this situation. This friend group likes to go to music festivals. We generally go to t...
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{ "description": "not speaking to my friend after she gave me an intervention", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not speaking to my friend after she gave me an intervention?
So my sophomore year, I was face timing with my best friend from 7th grade. Long story short, our families both moved and so she ended up going to college in the south and I ended up going to college in the north but we stayed in touch by visiting each other every year and FaceTime, phone calls, etc. So one day when w...
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{ "description": "kind of inviting myself on a trip with my husband and being a little hurt he said no", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for kind of inviting myself on a trip with my husband and being a little hurt he said no?
This is my first post if I apologize if I don’t do this exactly right. My husband and his uncle ( who is going through a rough divorce, that’s the reason for the trip) planned a trip to a concert about 4.5 hours away. The concert happens the day after my husband is on shift (24/48 shift work) and he is notorious for f...
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{ "description": "logging into my gfs Snapchat because I was suspicious that she was cheating, and I was right", "pronormative_score": 26, "contranormative_score": 38 }
AITA for logging into my gfs Snapchat because I was suspicious that she was cheating, and I was right?
My girlfriend and I were going through some troubles recently and I noticed one of my close friends (her ex) starting to talk to her more, I noticed that more text notifications popping on her phone when never she used it in front of me. Due to this, after a big argument on a Friday, we weren’t texting as much over the...
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{ "description": "mixing up housesitting dates", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA - Mixing up housesitting dates
Heya everyone, I have a slight conundrum for you all. Three-four weeks ago a family that I know pretty well asked me to housesit and watch their 3 dogs, 3 cats and 4 fish from February 15th to February 18th. I said that I would if I didn't have work at those dates, and we agreed upon it. Flash forward to about a week...
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AITA Christmas Edition
Let me preface this by saying I feel like the asshole. I was at my mum's recently and while she was out I was tidying and found a gift that was for me. I shouldn't have opened it, but I did. I am a very picky person. I know this, so if someone makes it known to me that they are interested in getting me a gift, I tell...
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{ "description": "not dismissing people's opinions unless I ask for them", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not dismissing people's opinions unless I ask for them?
I have some friends as well as most of my family that keep trying to offer their opinions without me having asked for it. If I didn't ask for it then I don't care about it. It's so annoying. If I wanted to be criticized I would've asked. The only person's opinion I welcome at all times is my husband's, and that's becau...
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{ "description": "asking my study buddy if she was transferring schools", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA I asked my study buddy if she was transferring schools
I have a friend that I study with because we're the same major. While I wouldn't say we're close friends, she was the first friend I made in college and we meet up from time to time for lunch and study sessions. Recently in a text exchange, we set up another study session over the weekend and she lamented about being o...
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{ "description": "wanting my sister to tell her friends the full truth", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for wanting my sister to tell her friends the full truth?
About a week ago, my sister and I got into a fight. She almost broke my leg (on purpose), and I punched her in the face in anger. She didn’t leave a bruise, but I did. A few days later, we took a trip to the mountains with her friends, where I saw her tell her friends that I punched her. No explanation, nothing of the ...
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AITA Banned from AskScienceDiscussion because I thought I was discussing but misunderstood rules
I thought I understood the rules but apparently did not. I should have asked for clarification the first time but I don’t think I did. Won’t be unbanned. It’s been over a year. Am I the asshole? [imgur link to message](https://m.imgur.com/YTkKVhP) Message Transcript: Unban Request (Between xbxbxb123 and AskScienceDi...
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{ "description": "being someone back to my apartment while a friend is crashing on the couch", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being someone back to my apartment while a friend is crashing on the couch.
I (30F) have a friend (30M) who has been crashing on my couch for the past 6 months. Usually when I hook up with people I go back to their place but last night it didn’t quite work out that way and we ended up at my place. I have a side door to my room, so easy in and out without the rest of the house knowing, but we...
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{ "description": "going off on my boss/father for now knowing english after living in the us for ~20 years", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 2 }
WIBTA for going off on my boss/father for now knowing english after living in the us for ~20 years.
as the title says, boss barely knows a lick on english and decided to instead learn it, he surrounded himself with other native russian speakers. Now that we need more workers, he is expecting either russians, or english professionals so he doesn't have to talk with them. He has already declined, and scared away...
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{ "description": "not wanting my boyfriend's daughter at my moms funeral", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for not wanting my boyfriend's daughter at my moms funeral?
I (28f) have been with my boyfriend (27m) for 2 years, we have lived together pretty much the whole time and actually have a really awesome relationship. He has a daughter who just turned 7, and she is incredible and the best kid ever but her mom has her the majority of the time about an hour away from where my bf and...
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{ "description": "calling out my \"friends\" for being fake and then blowing up on them", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for calling out my “friends” for being fake and then blowing up on them.
For some background I’m 20M and the fake “friends” I’m referring to are M19-20. So we all graduated high school together and I didn’t really start befriending and hanging out with these guys until the beginning of senior year. To note before I started befriending them. I had (and still do) have another group of frien...
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{ "description": "not being as inclusive as my sisters in family arrangements", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA For not being as inclusive as my sisters in family arrangements?
Sorry for my poor english. I have always been slightly sosial awkward, and normally dont take much part in setting opp parties or arrangements with familiy. Whenever sombody asks me to go get this, or drive there buy this, i do that i an instant, no arguments about how far i need to drive or how much something costs. ...
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{ "description": "sabotaging my friend's relationship", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for sabotaging my friend’s relationship ?
Back in summer 2018, I introduced one of my classmates to my best friend. To make it easier for you to follow, let’s refer to my classmate as P and my best friend as U. After weeks of getting to know each other, they dated. At first, I was genuinely happy for them, because at the time they seemed to be a well-assort...
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{ "description": "getting mad at my best friend for dating the girl he knew I liked", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for getting mad at my best friend for dating the girl he knew I liked?
This happened about a month ago and we are still best friends but I want a second opinion. ​ I'm in high school and I liked this one girl since about a month and a half before this incident happened. We were really good friends and I developed a crush on her. My best friend, at the time had a girlfriend so...
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{ "description": "feeling like my boyfriend sees his family too often", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA? I feel like my boyfriend sees his family too often.
Wait, before you make a decision, please hear me out. It is not as bad as it sounds, or at least I do not mean it to seem so. S- Sister of my boyfriend. B- Boyfriend PA- Parents of the boyfriend and sister We have been together for nearly 3 years My boyfriend’s sister (S) recently got married, and moved away to anoth...
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{ "description": "thinking a friend was being sarcastic", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for thinking a friend was being sarcastic?
A friend had what I thought was a sarcastic post on Facebook, and commented thinking we were on the same page. I was apparently wrong. Mentioning race and gender because there was a point made of it. [https://imgur.com/a/XoMRyt6](https://imgur.com/a/XoMRyt6) Red = friend, white female Blue = me, white male Gree...
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{ "description": "telling my friends gf that he cheated", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for telling my friends gf that he cheated
So my friend (16) cheated twice on his 11yr old gf bcs he was pissing me off so I jokingly catfished him thinking he wouldn't actually go along with it and he did soooo I have screenshots and my friend talked over vc with him to make him believe it was real so I had voice recording too and sent them bcs she deserves to...
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AITA Friends Going Out Of My Way
I'm not sure if this is the right place for it, and I'll keep this short. This is a throwaway account. I've been friends with this couple for several years now, and we've been rather close. We moved together, have been roommates for several years, etc. So I started dating this woman. We've been dating for two years,...
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{ "description": "beaking up with girl after having sex for the first time", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA: For beaking up with girl after having sex for the first time ?
So, I met this girl wich is a friend of my old classmate at a party, the day after I add her on instagram, we talk and joke a bit and decide to hang out for a beer the next week. Everything's fine we talk a lot about ourself and the date is going fine. I ask hee if she wants to come over my place, she come and at the e...
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{ "description": "getting into a \"polyamorous\" relationship with two monogamous men", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for getting into a “polyamorous” relationship with two monogamous men
Long story short: I (20 at the time) started seeing two guys (27 and 23). After getting to know them, but not wanting to get into another exclusive relationship with anyone after the disaster that was my previous relationship, I made it clear I had zero intentions of getting into another exclusive relationship....
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{ "description": "experimenting with Drugs and Alcohol after a breakup", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA For experimenting with Drugs and Alcohol after a breakup?
Throwaway account FYI. I think I should give some of the story about my relationship prior to this event. I am 17M and she is 18F I was driving my sister home from her Boyfriend's house and was in the area of her home. She texted me and asked if she could call me to talk, and I said that I was near her and had time t...
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{ "description": "complaining about the my apprenticeships", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA when I complain about the my apprenticeships?
in my company We were recently on a business trip after four hours drive we had a stop in between, I tore a stupid joke and he was massively aggressive and threatened me with violence, he has often become conspicuous and many have complained about him. every private solution attempt he blocked and threatened me with "...
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{ "description": "not wanting a wedding", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting a wedding?
5 1/2 years ago I moved by myself across the country. My whole family is still back in my home state. I come from a big family, lots of cousins and we were all very close growing up. Since then things have changed. We all still love each other, but my visits home are short and few. Six months ago I got married at a c...
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{ "description": "not returning an attorney's call", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA if I didn't return an attorney's call?
All right, I'll set the scene a bit. The TL;DR at the bottom will explain the whole thing like you were a coworker, otherwise enjoy the rare embellishment of my very ordinary life as an introverted nerd; this all happened in like 15 minutes.. ​ It's a cold, wet morning in Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania. It's an ...
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{ "description": "destroying my group of really close friends", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for destroying my group of really close friends?
Please bare with me, this is a very long story. So, for the sake of keeping things less confusing, there are 4 people involved in this, these are their fake names I will be using for this post. - Myself, and I will be writing in the first person. - Arthur, a friend I met my first year of college. - Brandon, a friend...
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{ "description": "not wanting to hang out with my friend", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for not wanting to hang out with my friend?
I have a friend who I have been friends with since late elementary school who we'll call A. A was a part of a larger friend group who I hung out with almost every day, but once middle school rolled around, our group was put in jeopardy. I was a year older than the others, including A, so it was pretty hard to keep regu...
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{ "description": "choosing to pursue my happiness", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for choosing to pursue my happiness?
So I met this girl from my class, let’s call her girl A ,and I instantly liked her a lot and had a huge crush on her. I would ask her out to drink coffee before class, and I just felt like she was comfortable with me. But I doubted that I had a chance with her for some unknown reason. Then comes this other girl, girl B...
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{ "description": "getting upset that my ex went back to her old fwb after we broke up", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for getting upset that my ex went back to her old fwb after we broke up
It just doesn’t sit well with me that she went back to her old fwb. she was doing this with him right up until we met. AITA for feeling like she was doing things with him during our relationship?
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{ "description": "saying don't buy me a valentine's day present", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for saying don’t buy me a valentine’s day present?
Today is Valentine’s Day already here in Australia. My husband wants to go out today and buy me something. I said I don’t want anything because we’re really short on money and have a lot of expenses coming up this year. I really don’t want anything, I’m not being passive aggressive and expect him to buy something anywa...
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{ "description": "pushing my friends away just because I feel like I worth nothing", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for pushing my friends away just because I feel like I worth nothing?
I keep pushing some friends away, leaving our chat group almost everytime just because I'm lonely, needy and feel like worth nothing in this life. I think that they don't really want to spend time with me and they're not gonna be losing anything if I just vanish. I know if they like me it's their choice to hang out ...
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{ "description": "not wanting to go somewhere with my family when my girlfriends just come over after not seeing her for 1 and a half months", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not wanting to go somewhere with my family when my girlfriends just come over after not seeing her for 1 and a half months?
My dad just asked me to go somewhere 40 minutes away to have dinner and I don’t want to go because my gf has to leave tomorrow and I’d like to spend time with just her AITA
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{ "description": "not wanting to talk to one of my friends", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to talk to one of my friends?
I've known this friend for about two years now, and for a while, it was nice. Fluid conversation, sharing funny jokes, the standard fare. Ever since they moved out to college, they've just changed. Conversations turn into debates, jokes turn into snipes at each other, it sucks. It goes back and forth. Here's where it ...
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{ "description": "announcing a move without telling certain people personally", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for announcing a move without telling certain people personally?
I'm moving away from a city that I hate. My two 'best friends' hadn't made an effort to see me or contact me in months. I understand the winter months are hard, and I have been going through some heavy shit that may be difficult for others to wrap their heads around and support me through. I don't hold it against anyon...
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{ "description": "bothering someone I want to buy clothed off of", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For bothering someone I want to buy clothed off of?
Read before basing it off the title, but I use Depop as a source of clothing to buy. Well, I came across this goregous Levi strauss Windbreaker with faux fur inside. Only 33£+ shipping. I message him because he has to give me a shipping price and I messaged him on Tuesday. Get back to me around 4 hours later and says h...
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{ "description": "telling off my friend's future roommates", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for telling off my friend’s future roommates.
So my friend and I are currently rooming together in a apartment. However I have to move in a few months so my roommate decided to room two of our other mutual friends in the next few months. I was cool with this at the time as it really didn’t affect them. However, over the last few weeks our friend’s have been at our...
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{ "description": "getting a literal boulder thrown at me", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for getting a literal boulder thrown at me?
Okay so this happent 7 years ago but for the simple fact that this was my first time gettung my head crushed and cracked my a giant rock I still remenber.I was with a friend at the time ( 4 th grade) and I was alone with friend and she was telling me lots of things and down the road we started arguing for some stupid r...
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{ "description": "saying things impulsively", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for saying things impulsively?
I will admit sometimes I can be an ass. But I do try to mean well. anyway: I started my anthropology course this semester and made a pretty good and uplifting friend (She was awesome). However she decided to stop being friends with me because I called her crazy (We were talking about our respective religions and she s...
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{ "description": "not wanting to call my grandson after the sleezy hotel he was conceived in", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 3 }
Aita for not wanting to call my grandson after the sleezy hotel he was conceived in
After insisting that we do this, it is just a nickname and not his given name, my Dil sends scathing text to aunt and uncle (husband's siblings) that they only want to raise kind respectful kids. They can no longer refer to each other as gross aunt and mean uncle. They both have kids too. Aita for thinking the disrepse...
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{ "description": "lying to a friend about not being able to go with him to a place just to go with another friend", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I lied to a friend about not being able to go with him to a place just to go with another friend?
So, one of my friends went on a trip with me to Algarrobo (I live in Chile, and this is like going from Orlando to West Palm Beach) in July for 2 weeks and we had a pretty good time. A few weeks ago we were talking about making another trip to this place for the good old times, and I agreed, but one of my friends (that...
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AITA - For this argument with my partner
Was texting my partner earlier and the conversation turned into religion. I gave my personal thoughts that I am (as she knows) non-religious like her. I then talk about the various battles and attacks and terrorism occurring today against numerous religions, alongside this I also mention how it obviously doesn't affe...
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{ "description": "blocking a mentally disabled girl from contacting me", "pronormative_score": 14, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for blocking a mentally disabled girl from contacting me?
We attended the same highschool around 4 years ago, we were in chorus together. She's a wonderful person, and she would text me a "hello" every day for a few weeks after I graduated and I would respond with short conversation, and then she'd stop texting me for the better part of a year, and repeat the "hello" again ev...
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{ "description": "being jealous of one my best friends new friend", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being jealous of one my best friends new friend.
Ok so this is my first post here so this may seem a bit odd but recently my best friend ive know for the last 10 years since Year 4 in school has been talking to another friend of hers to points where it feels like im not really needed. Most things i say recently are just laughed off and are ignored for stuff the new f...
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{ "description": "getting upset about GF smoking in bedroom and needing the tv on to fall asleep? -long Post", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for getting upset about GF smoking in bedroom and needing the tv on to fall asleep? -Long Post-
*Sorry for an formatting issues, I’m on mobile! A little backstory. When we first started dating, I (27M) would visit her (29F) at her apartment and never commented on anything because it was her place and I felt as if she is entitled to do whatever she wants in her place. After coming over more frequently and spendin...
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{ "description": "lying to wife about going to lunch with former boss and wanting to go back to that job", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 14 }
AITA for lying to wife about going to lunch with former boss and wanting to go back to that job?
First AITA post. I left my job of about 4 years back in February for a new gig. After about a month, I’ve decided that the new job is not a good fit for me and met me with my former boss to boomerang back. They want me back and I want to go back. My wife told me that I was a fool for doing that and not to go to lunch....
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{ "description": "letting my mother bury dead animals in the frozen ground", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for letting my mother bury dead animals in the frozen ground?
My mom is an animal hoarder. She lives on 8 acres. Recently an ill stray cat started sleeping in her barn. She took it to the vet and discovered it had cat AIDS or leukemia or something, and it died. The vet wanted another $45 to cremate the thing to avoid letting it's disease infect her other cats. She didn't want to ...
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{ "description": "choosing to confront and report hr person at job where I interviewed today for making offensive statement", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for choosing to confront and report HR person at job where I interviewed today for making offensive statement?
I say interviewed for a job but it was a standard meet and greet and fill out papers for substitute teaching. I already knew subbing for this district wasn’t going to be something I could depend on to pay my bills when they described that vacancies for the day would be given first right of refusal to retired teachers...
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{ "description": "being annoyed by by GF's timeline shift", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being annoyed by by GF's timeline shift
Hi, 1st post here. Tl;dr at the end. My (31/M) girlfriend (32/F) got a new cat from the shelter last Friday having had hers put down about 3mths ago and losing her dog about 3wks ago. She makes a habit of picking the LEAST desirable, worst tempered pets available as part of a personal crusade to help the "less fortun...
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{ "description": "limiting conversations with my dad", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for limiting conversations with my dad?
First post on this sub, on mobile. For a bit of backstory, my parents are both conservative Christians, and raised me the same way. My dad is infamous for his temper, and he tends to project his frustrations onto my mom and I - though I should also mention that it is never physical. Over the past couple of years I've...
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{ "description": "not writing a tribute to be read out at my Grandmother's funeral", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for not writing a tribute to be read out at my Grandmother’s funeral?
I live on the other side of world to my family. When other grandparents passed away I didn’t attend their funerals. I called family members and did my own thing. Last week my mother asked me to write something to be read out at my Grandmother’ funeral(this is her mother). I tried but found it really awkward and uncom...
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{ "description": "making a fake craigslist post", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 16 }
AITA for making a fake craigslist post?
For reference, I have a common name, and my e-mail address is \[firstname\].\[lastname\]@\[domain\].com. The person in this story shares the same first and last name as me So about a year ago, I got an e-mail congratulating me (by my full name) on my new car purchase. Opened it, and it all looked pretty legit. Thinkin...
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{ "description": "asking a group of girls to be quiet at the library", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for asking a group of girls to be quiet at the library?
This was at the reference section of a university library. These three girls were two seats away probably preparing for a presentation. They weren't even that noisy. But I couldn't not notice their slight whispering once I had heard it. There on, the only thing I could concentrate on was their muted mumbling. I usually...
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{ "description": "conpletely cutting my annoying friend off when everyone wants the group to stay together", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 2 }
WIBTA for conpletely cutting my annoying friend off when everyone wants the group to stay together?
Last Friday, my former friend (we’ll call him Ebert) shared that our one female friend made out with a guy to a guy said female friend hates. We told him to get lost, and I assumed this was permanent. I blew up on Ebert (i hadnt really been fond of him for a while, he’s a huge narcissist who changed his whole personali...
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{ "description": "being mad at my girlfriend for telling her friend that I have autism", "pronormative_score": 14, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for being mad at my girlfriend for telling her friend that i have autism?
I'm on the spectrum, but this is something i've never told anyone outside my family about - not my closest friends, not my co-workers, not even my extended family know. It is something i'm really insecure about but i didn't want to keep anything from my girl so i told her. This was around 4 months ago and last night we...
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{ "description": "being mad at my mom for calling my cousin's child a mistake and leaving his dog with an abusive woman", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for being mad at my mom for calling my cousin's child a mistake and leaving his dog with an abusive woman?
I rarely post on reddit at all, but I think this is the maddest I've ever been in my life and I need to vent. So, my family is kind of messed up. By that I mean, mental illness and drug/alcohol addiction runs in my family. Recently my cousin was arrested for selling drugs. My cousin is 28, he's incredibly mentally ill...
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{ "description": "not liking how he asked", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA if I didn't like how he asked?
AITA if I don't like the way he asked a question, and I want to tell him why it's rude to invite himself over? ​ I am texting this guy, and he has been over a few times. MY apartment is definitely better, we both agree on that. We are in Russia, so spacing is weird anyway, but basically his room is also ...
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{ "description": "making recommendations in a coaches group chat as an alumni", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for making recommendations in a coaches group chat as an alumni?
This was at least a year ago, so I don't have a ton of details. I was a member of an FRC team, specifically the team programmer. After I graduated, I joined the group chat for coaches. Fast forward a year, it's week 3 of build season and I notice the github account I set up for the team has zero activity on it. I m...
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AITA my sister forgot her clarinet and she missed the bus
so basically... my older sister forgot her clarinet when we were waiting for the bus, and she ran back into get it. i told my bus driver this and she said she’d wait a min. even tho i haven’t mentioned this yet, please keep in mind, i share a bus stop with my neighbors. i saw someone else get on the bus and assumed it ...
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{ "description": "telling my boyfriend he shouldn't get a tattoo right now", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for telling my (F22) boyfriend (M23) he shouldn’t get a tattoo right now?
He’s been saying he wants another tattoo for over a year. Spur of the moment, he booked an appointment, put down a deposit and everything. The tattoo is going to be at least $700, maybe more. He still lives at home, has less than $2k in his checking. I tried telling him he should wait, and he said I wasn’t being suppor...
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{ "description": "not investing time in a long standing friendship", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA for not investing time in a long standing friendship?
Hey all. Thanks for taking the time to read and potentially respond. Little background: I have a long time buddy of ~ 10 years. We grew up together, went to high school and university together, and now live within sneezing distance of one another. So... my current dilemma is this. He texts and calls saying things l...
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{ "description": "saying something about my sister-in-law's behaviour towards my mother and father-in-law", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for saying something about my sister-in-law's behaviour towards my mother and father-in-law?
I said something to my boyfriend about how I noticed that his sister was yelling at their mom and dad for not picking up what she wanted at the corner store when she went out. She got an attitude about it and was saying no it's fine but clearly had an attitude about it. She also comes in their house and tells them how...
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{ "description": "making people think a gift I gave them means more to me than it really does", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for making people think a gift I gave them means more to me than it really does?
I am part of a young adults ministry program that focuses on biblical education and real world application. As a part of the program we go on a 3 week international trip around the time of spring break. This year we went to Ukraine to be a part of local college ministry's American week. Turns out Ukrainians love Americ...
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AITA for how I reacted to getting something back from my brother
TLDR: had an argument with my brother because he won't give back something that belongs to me So, a while ago I lent my brother something. I told him if he damaged it he would have to buy me a new one or fix it. He damaged it. It's still usable. He stopped using it a few months ago, I found out it was damaged then...
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{ "description": "blocking my brother's internet connection", "pronormative_score": 18, "contranormative_score": 24 }
AITA for blocking my brother's internet connection?
I (18M) have to share a room with my little brother (9M) because there's no other room available. He plays fortnite with his friends all day and SCREAMS/POUND THE TABLE EVERYTIME HE DIES. So I downloaded a program that limit other user's internet from a wi-fi and completely shutdown his connection when he starts to bec...
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AITA boyfriend staying out late
My boyfriend and I live together. We're in college. It's hard for me to sleep when he's not here. He likes to stay out late, and I want to be okay with it, but him coming home anywhere from 1:30-3:00 wakes me up, and I already have sleeping issues and an autoimmune disease, so sleep is important. Am I the asshole? Is i...
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{ "description": "backing out of a pre-lease with plenty of time for to-be roommate to find new person to lease with", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA if I back out of a pre-lease with plenty of time for to-be roommate to find new person to lease with?
TLDR at bottom Some backstory: I (23M) live on the edge of my college town in a 2bd/1ba apartment with my dog. The rent is cheap at $630/month including water and none of the stupid pet rent stuff. While rent is cheap and the area I am living in is not the best in the city, the apartment is not rundown (nice hardwoo...
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{ "description": "being happy that my best friend and her boyfriend broke up", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for being happy that my best friend and her boyfriend broke up
So my friend (Alice will be her name) broke up with her boyfriend (I’ll call him John) and I honestly didn’t like John all that much after awhile because I saw how he actually was with his friends and around Alice all that stuff. He had no respect for other people’s things(he would leave trash and messes in someone els...
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{ "description": "questioning someone on their finances with an ex", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for questioning someone on their finances with an ex?
I’ve been seeing someone who still has a phone plan and shares other bills with their ex. They’re still friends as well, which seems like a major red flag for me. They got super upset when I asked about it. I didn’t accuse them of anything, I just said that it seemed weird. Am I over reacting? I told one friend and he ...
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{ "description": "breaking up with my ex after telling her I love her the day before", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for breaking up with my ex after telling her I love her the day before?
This was last year, I was 14 at the time and this was the first relationship either of us had. Background: me and my ex (let's call her "M") were in the same class in 8th grade, she was very shy and socially awkward and I was pretty much her only male friend, There were pretty big hints that M had a crush on me, and ...
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{ "description": "being upset my friend with anxiety won't come over", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for being upset my friend with anxiety won't come over?
So i have this best friend we'll call her ash and like i've recently started going over to her house and she's shy and has anxiety so it's hard for her to make new friends so she's always so excited when we hangout. Here's where the problem starts, my mom is doing this event thing and she wants my friend to come over ...
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AITA :Get Banned From All Tourneys With Rewards
AITA story. Here are details Backstory: My club recently started Smash Bros tourneys. In the last two tourneys (first one I didn’t participate), N wins the tourney, then I win the next. In the tourney I won, I did talk smack, boasted about how it would be N and me to decide who wins (It would likely end that way). ...
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{ "description": "slapping a little kid", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for slapping a little kid?
this was a few months ago btw. im 17 and I went to the park to play some B-ball with my cousins. This one little kid who is my mom's friend's son was there and i hate him. He's very, extremely annoying, rude, and disrespectful. I'm 5 years older than him (He's 12), he would shove me and act very aggressive to me. Anywa...
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{ "description": "reading my younger sisters messages/texts? she always complains that I don't care about her privacy but I found out something dangerous", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for reading my younger sisters messages/texts? she always complains that I don't care about her privacy but I found out something dangerous?
English isn't my first language. ​ I know it was wrong to do that but what I found out is shocking and I don't know if I should be happy that I read them or not. So.…. My sister was using my laptop, she was whattsapping in my laptop. She lost her phones charger, her phone was battery low. So she was wai...
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