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{ "description": "demanding repayment", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for demanding repayment?
Backstory, last weekend my friends and I went out to the bars (i was DD). After the night ends I’m driving everybody home when all of a sudden my friends vomits all over the passenger side of my car. After a serious eruption of rage i managed to calm down and drive everyone home. I cleaned most of it up when i got home...
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{ "description": "telling my friend about his ex and our friend", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for telling my friend about his ex and our friend?
I have a friend, we'll call him "B", that recently had his gf break up with him for "not loving him anymore". X was devastated and went to talk about their break up with another friend of ours, we'll call him "R". B talked with R about how he was still madly in love with her and how he couldn't bear to be away from her...
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{ "description": "changing my daughters schedule", "pronormative_score": 171, "contranormative_score": 9 }
AITA for changing my daughters schedule?
My daughter is 3 years old, and her mother and I were divorced when she was a little less than a year old. mother had substance abuse issues, which was packaged with a ton of infidelity, which led to me having full custody (she gave this up voluntarily.) Her mother started straightening up little by little and request...
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{ "description": "leaving my single mother to go join the military", "pronormative_score": 18, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for leaving my single mother to go join the Military?
So I’m a 19 year old asian male and I just recently dropped out of college to enlist in the military. I just feel like college isn’t the right thing for me to do atm and the Army is something I’ve actually wanted to be a part of for a long time. Now here’s the thing: My 50 year old mother and literally my entire fami...
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{ "description": "being pissed off at my gf about hating my potential engagement ring", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for being pissed off at my gf about hating my potential engagement ring?
Well.. my girlfriend is about to propose. We were talking about marriage, and have pretty much everything set, because of the legal issues around it. She is American, and I am European from a small country, one of few that are still not part of European Schengen Zone. ​ Anyways, long story short. I know s...
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AITA in this case?
Quick background here, I'm in a few tarantula groups because I keep tarantulas and in one of the groups, someone posted a picture where due to the lighting, angle of the camera and reflection on the hide of the tarantula, it looked like there was absolutely no substrate which is a big no-no for T's as it stresses them ...
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{ "description": "breaking up with my girlfriend because of her having an older friend", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for breaking up with my girlfriend because of her having an older friend.
So, me (16M) and my ex 14(F) were dating for about three months when I met this friend of hers who was 19. Now when I initially met him he seemed nice enough and I didn't really have an issue with him, until about 2 weeks after meeting him my gf had started telling me that they used to date and send explicit pictures t...
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{ "description": "being offended that people thought I was gay", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 9 }
AITA for being offended that people thought I was gay?
Couple days ago a close friend of mine asked me if I was gay, which I was offended by. I kinda stormed off and was a bit pissed at her for the rest of the day. I'm being accused of being homophobic now, but that isn't true and I'm getting even more annoyed. Am I the asshole here?
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{ "description": "dumping my gf after her unannounced backpacking trip", "pronormative_score": 654, "contranormative_score": 334 }
AITA for dumping my gf after her unannounced backpacking trip
Ok so this happened maybe three days ago, but first some context. Me and my (now ex) girlfriend of 3 years lived in a 2 bedroom apartment which I pay for by myself, as I make enough money to afford it and I didn’t want to trouble her by pressing her with a bill for a place that is a tiny bit out of her price range, in...
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{ "description": "openly hating my brother-in-law", "pronormative_score": 14, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for openly hating my brother-in-law
So my sister and her husband have been married for maybe 3 years, I’m not too sure, and they have baby that’s about a year and a half. A little backstory, they met online and this guy is significantly older than my sister. Sometimes that’s not an issue but my sister went to a special school and though she is by all m...
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{ "description": "asking my parents to introduce themselves to my boyfriends parents", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For asking my parents to introduce themselves to my boyfriends parents?
This was something that happened at Christmas, but its been troubling me since it happened. Over the holidays, my boyfriend was meant to stop by my parents house to stay for the night before we both headed back to his place. Because he doesn't currently have a car, his parents would be driving him to ours. When he to...
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{ "description": "not sending my condolences", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 2 }
WIBTA for not sending my condolences?
I am in medical school on a generous scholarship. A local congressman (CM) was instrumental in getting my scholarship program set up, and without his action I would be in a much deeper pile of debt than I am currently in. (If it makes a difference, it's a publicly funded scholarship and not from his personal fortune). ...
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{ "description": "wanting to live alone with my so", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA because I want to live alone with my SO?
My boyfriend and I have been together for 5+ years, and have recently decided to move in together. I was so excited to spend some alone time with him. Roughly after a year of living alone, his brother hits a rough patch and needs a place to crash while getting on their feet. As family should do, we told him that he ...
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{ "description": "not apologizing to my mom", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA for not apologizing to my mom?
For context, my parents are divorced and I am in my early 20s and in college. Yesterday I had to say goodbye to my 14 year old dog whom I loved dearly. She was my dog at my dad’s house and the first dog I ever trained and took care of myself. After saying my final goodbyes to her I was very upset and was crying. ...
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{ "description": "not buying my girlfriend a ticket to a gaming convention", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for not buying my girlfriend a ticket to a gaming convention?
So I've been going to PAX East basically since it started. Normally I go with one of my friends, but this year I wanted to go alone, so I only bought myself a ticket. I haven't told my girlfriend yet. I'm afraid that she would get upset at me for spending a weekend away from her. We're both seniors in college and this...
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{ "description": "being mad at my ex for making a bumble profile at least two days before we broke up", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being mad at my ex for making a bumble profile at least two days before we broke up?
We met on bumble about a month and a half ago, and dated since there, I disabled my account and she left hers up, I didn’t really care. About two weeks in she had a bit of a mental shutting every one out, dumping me for about half a day and deleting her Bumble account because she wanted to be alone. Later that day she ...
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{ "description": "not returning to work after maternity leave", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not returning to work after maternity leave?
A little backstory: I’ve been at my job for over a year, it’s an entry level registration position at a local hospital. The work environment is toxic, you’re just a number to management, and there’s absolutely no flexibility. However, the job is relatively easy and the pay is very good for the work. I found out I was...
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{ "description": "reporting a coworker who accidentally spilled coffee on my laptop", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 24 }
AITA For reporting a coworker who accidentally spilled coffee on my laptop?
Theres not a whole lot to this but ill provide a background anyway. I have an older 50+ coworker who is just now entering my field, i am in my 20s. I work at a higher pace than him, while im also responsible for training and evaluating him. In general hes a good guy but hes clumsy as all hell. Tripping, bumping into ...
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{ "description": "not resolving sharing personal information to resolve a conflict", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not resolving sharing personal information to resolve a conflict?
Last semester, I was in a group project with a friend and another classmate. Classmate has a learning disability, which is very common and has a lot of online tools to help. I’m a transfer student, who has a double workload to catch up to my own year. I also have social anxiety, but due to recent improvement, this is s...
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{ "description": "telling my colleague not to sing at work", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for telling my colleague not to sing at work
Hi so for a year i've been working at a restaurant with this 60 something lady she does the cooking, i do the service, at 10 when everyone left we start to do the cleaning and recently she started singing while doing do, she sing in a high pitch voiced and like in a loud whisper, idk if i'm the only one but i find this...
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{ "description": "calling out my roommate for not adequately caring for her cat", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for calling out my roommate for not adequately caring for her cat?
Currently I live with 3 roommates. Roommate 1, I’ve lived with for many years and we get along awesomely, we moved together to a house with one of her friends, Roommate 2 and her cat, about 7 months ago. At first I was annoyed because the cat’s claws were long, and she loves kneading the people she lays on, and it h...
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{ "description": "getting back together with my ex-girlfriend while she's separating from her husband", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for getting back together with my ex-girlfriend while she's separating from her husband?
I dated a girl all throughout college. It was great, we were totally in love. But we were too young to get married at 22, and so we had a painful break up and she ended up marrying the guy she dated right after me. ​ Ten years later, their marriage is ending (no kids, mercifully), and she calls me the day ...
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{ "description": "not wanting to be around my girlfriend whilst she's on her period", "pronormative_score": 24, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For not wanting to be around my girlfriend whilst she's on her period?
**FIRST TIME POSTING ON REDDIT I DON'T KNOW HOW TO AGE BRACKET THING PROPERLY** I've (20M) been dating my girlfriend(20F) for a little over two years now and this has been a problem for at least 6 months. Whenever 'that time of the month's rolls round my SO becomes, as i say, rather toxic towards me. Suddenly everyth...
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{ "description": "not being interested in women with a kid, even though I have a kid from a previous relationship", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not being interested in women with a kid, even though I have a kid from a previous relationship?
Throwaway account. Am I the asshole for not being interested in women who already have a kid? I am 22 and have a kid from my only long term relationship that happened when I was 16 in high school. We broke up after high school due to many different reasons and I moved away to go to uni while she and my child moved away...
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{ "description": "not going to lunch", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not going to lunch.
So I just got a new job in a different city and I’m about to leave for who knows how long. I told my friend and he insisted we go to lunch. We had already been tried to go to lunch twice this month but he would also fall through and it wouldn’t happen. So today he said he could go but he forgot had to do an audit at hi...
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{ "description": "working for an isp", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA - I work for an ISP.
I am a white collar professional. I feed my family and provide a good home life. my particular job is in networking secure systems internal to the company and when I do it well nobody knows anything about it. here's where the AITA comes in. I work for a company with a remarkably low customer service reputation. the co...
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{ "description": "explaining to my gf that Pit bulls can be more aggressive toward other dogs", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 10 }
AITA for explaining to my gf that Pit Bulls can be more aggressive toward other dogs...
For starters, yes, I know that "Pit bulls" are not a breed of dog, rather a group of different breeds that all get lumped together into the "pit bull" label. Her dog is an American Staffordshire Terrier, a dog found in that group. ​ This morning my girlfriend received a text from her mom saying that her do...
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{ "description": "telling my friend who hooked up with a guy who is a senior and leaving soon to not get too attached", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for telling my friend who hooked up with a guy who is a senior and leaving soon to not get too attached?
So this was 2 weeks ago, my friend hooked up with this senior boy and they explained to everyone she knew it was just a hook up and she wouldn’t get attached. Fast forward these past 2 weeks and she’s been texting everyone saying how she just saw the person and is making posts on her Snapchat about seeing him in the ha...
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AITA? Lied to a friend about being busy
I have been having issues with a friend for several months now. Since she met a guy this past summer, she has pretty regularly forgotten about plans we've made, been noncommittal in terms of making anything but last minute plans, fails to respond to (or even read) texts with any regularity and, when we do spend time to...
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{ "description": "sometimes randomly wanting to end a friendship", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for sometimes randomly wanting to end a friendship?
So, in this case I feel like I'm going to be the asshole. I have a friend, and he is really nice. He hasnt done anything wrong, exept for trying to talk to me a lot randomly, and sometimes he would follow me a bit, while talking to me, even though its lunch time, and we don't eat together. He is a nice dude, and he has...
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{ "description": "taking my money back from a kid", "pronormative_score": 113, "contranormative_score": 22 }
AITA for taking my money back from a kid?
Alright so I'm picking up some pizzas for dinner, after getting the order I'm on the way back to my car when a little girl maybe 12 and what is probably her younger sister around 6ish? approach me and ask if I had any money to spare. I figured yeah I probably do, grabbed $5 from my wallet and handed it to her. She loo...
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{ "description": "lying to my mate about what time I'm going to the cinema", "pronormative_score": 38, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for lying to my mate about what time i'm going to the cinema
The title sounds really bland but basically, i'm going to the pictures tonight with my girlfriend as a date night. My mate asked what i was doing and i told him and he decided he wanted to come along too.. i told him no cause its just me and my gf going out. He kept reiterating how funny it'll be to come up and see us ...
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{ "description": "talking to my friend about him being angry", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I talked to my friend about him being angry?
One of my friends has been mean in calls with our other friends lately and it's been bothering me. I wanted to try and talk with him about the stuff he's said and if anything is bothering him but I don't know how to do it, or even if I should say anything at all. The first time it happened, two of my friends and I wer...
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{ "description": "feeling jealous over my wife's past experiences", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for feeling jealous over my wife’s past experiences?
So I (M23) had a spat with my wife (F22) about one of her past sexual experiences. When she was younger, before we were together, she had a threesome with her friend and that friend’s husband. That alone isn’t so much what bothered me because I’ve been in threesomes myself that she knows about. The issue for me is that...
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{ "description": "setting my yoga mat near someone", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for setting my yoga mat near someone?
Hi reddit, just got back from a weird situation at my local gym and I'd appreciate some help determining if I was in the wrong. I arrived at 5:40 for a 6 PM yoga class and found myself with some extra time before the class. The group class was currently occupied by a kickboxing class, so I was standing outside of the...
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{ "description": "being a little bit annoyed my brother still won't forgive me for being a bit of a bully as a child", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 339 }
AITA for being a little bit annoyed my brother still won't forgive me for being a bit of a bully as a child?
My bro knows my actual account so needed to make a throwaway for this one. ​ In short, my brother was always the nerdier one of the two of us and as a child and young teen, I was a bit of a bully towards him. In all honesty, I never meant any of it maliciously and I never let him go to sleep upset with me...
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{ "description": "making a bad joke at the funeral of a friend's mother despite warning them first", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 9 }
AITA for making a bad joke at the funeral of a friend’s mother despite warning them first?
I was at a friend’s mother’s wake service not too long ago. After the wake, a group of us were talking to our mourning friend who seemed to be taking it fairly well (or at least better than how I took it when my own mother passed away not long before this incident). This friend was talking about his work for a bit and...
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{ "description": "escalating the situation first by calling my landlord on my neighbours", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for escalating the situation first by calling my landlord on my neighbours?
For backstory this issue has been going on for over a year when my neighbours first moved in. They are both in their 30's and had a toddler when they moved in, then had a baby around 6 months ago. Our complex is small, theres only 4 apartments, which are also small. The complex is on a main street above stores and bars...
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{ "description": "leaving a restaurant because they were serving a homeless person", "pronormative_score": 33, "contranormative_score": 126 }
AITA for leaving a restaurant because they were serving a homeless person?
I'm a huge sushi fan, so whenever I hear about a new japanese restaurant in my town, I always make sure to check it out. Recently, a new one opened up in a kind of sketchy part of town, but the reviews were amazing, so i decided to go check it out with my dad. We walk in and the place is packed, so we had to sit at the...
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AUTHOR
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AITA / WITA for letting a coworker from my part time job sleep over in my apartment?
I (27F) worked part time at a convenience store within a 10-minute-cycling distance from my then-apartment. I got acquainted with a coworker (30M, we'll call him Tandy) who already had a girlfriend at that time. I have never met his gf in person since I only met Tandy on work shifts. At that time I also had a boyfriend...
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AITA roommates S/O refuses to pay
AM I THE ASSHOLE???? A little back story : I am in college (21/M) and I work at a small airport full time, and part of the deal I have is that i get a 3 bedroom house for 75 hours of work a month, anything after that i get paid for. So for me i live rent free but i don't have much money cash wise, I have 2 roommate...
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AITA My mom left our disabled cat in the care of my 17 year old sister without telling us to drive 2 hours away on an impromptu visit to her boyfriend’s.
My boyfriend and I have a disabled cat, Menow is her name. Menow has a degenerative mouth disease in which her brain thinks her plaque is attacking her gums, so she’s constantly in pain. My boyfriend and I were going to his parents in Ohio for New Years and asked my mom if she could watch our cat. She agreed to watch...
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{ "description": "not moving allowing someone personal space when they chose to sit up against me, instead of at one of the other spots available", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for not moving allowing someone personal space when they chose to sit up against me, instead of at one of the other spots available?
So I'm sitting at an airport bar with my partner, waiting for a flight, and there's a long line of like 6 two seater tables alone the window. My partner and I were at the end one, and this couple comes in sits at the table right next to us. Our backs are facing each other and hers is rubbing on mine. I can feel it's he...
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AUTHOR
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WRONG
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{ "description": "not sharing my tip with my fellow waiters at my \"non-tipping\" restaurant", "pronormative_score": 61, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not sharing my tip with my fellow waiters at my “non-tipping” restaurant?
Okay so the restaurant I work at is pretty high end. Food is expensive, wait staff makes more than at a normal restaurant in terms of base salary. A few times a week celebs or obviously rich people will come in (it’s located in a pretty popular LA location so we expect it). Most of those people follow the no tip rule. ...
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{ "description": "ditching a friend for inviting someone I didn't want to come", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA If I ditch a friend for inviting someone I didn't want to come
So me and a friend (let's call him Fred)and his girlfriend and her friend have a plan we've been planning for over a month. We finally are able to do it. Yesterday Fred ask if he could invite this one dude (let's call him FA) to hangout because he recently got dumbed and is sad. I told him no because he's a dick and I ...
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{ "description": "not wanting to go to Kenya with my girlfriend and her family", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 21 }
AITA for not wanting to go to Kenya with my girlfriend and her family?
My girlfriend is half Kenyan and half Italian and was born in Kenya. She lived there until she was 11 years old then she moved to the UK (after her dad died). Every summer she goes to Kenya with her mom to visit family for a month. We’ve been together for 3 years and she wants me to come to Ethiopia with her for at le...
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WRONG
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{ "description": "being upset because my wife won't let me come to our newborn gender reveal ultrasound", "pronormative_score": 58, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA For being upset because my wife won’t let me come to our newborn gender reveal ultrasound?
Basically title.
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{ "description": "demanding a pay back date from an \"old friend\"", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for demanding a pay back date from an "old friend"
So this is what happened: About 1.5 months ago some dude from HS (4 year ago but I have stumbled upon him a few times on town) asked me money ( I don't want to say the exact amount) to help him pay his GF's medical bills after a work related injury. I said sure why not, just make sure to pay on time. He agreed to pay m...
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{ "description": "not stopping after I saw a car go in a ditch", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for not stopping after I saw a car go in a ditch?
I was driving home at night when the snow and ice really started coming down. I have a long stretch of highway to tend and I still have an half hour before I’m home. The roads are covered in snow and ice to the point I couldn’t see the lines anymore. The speed limit is 65 but I’m going less than 35 and I’m scared shitl...
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AUTHOR
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{ "description": "fidgeting at work", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for fidgeting at work?
AITA for fidgeting? I have a bad habit of fidgeting. I have anxiety I'm seeing a therapist for but I still constantly need to be doing something with my hands. It manifests most often as playing with my hair. I shower and wash my hair daily, I don't have lice or dandruff, I don't pull it out, I just play with my hair....
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OTHER
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{ "description": "asking my GM to kick a player from our game", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I asked my GM to kick a player from our game?
I'll cut straight to the chase: Not a fan of this guy. He is: -Always late -Always saying he might not make the session and then never making the session -Always muting/deafening himself in the voice chat til the end of the session or for at minimum 30 minutes. -Always saying "brb" and never coming back -Always "pret...
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{ "description": "having my GF skip out on her favorite restaurant on her birthday", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 20 }
AITA For having my GF skip out on her favorite restaurant on her birthday?
Bit of context, couple of days ago was my GF's birthday, so naturally she wanted to go out to her favorite restaurant for dinner, which is Olive Garden. I have stated multiple times to her whenever we go there that I absolutely despise that place, but I continue to go whenever she wants to. This instance I made it appa...
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{ "description": "supposedly being racist in Year 3 / 2nd Grade", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for supposedly being racist in Year 3 / 2nd Grade?
This is the only place i could think to post this. In year 3 (or 2nd grade for america) we had this display on the wall that had all our faces on it. Because of the way it was positioned in the corner of the room, one half was on one wall and one half was on the other. This caused a shadow to appear on only one half o...
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{ "description": "refusing my friends to watch boxing at their own homes", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 12 }
AITA for refusing my friends to watch boxing at their own homes?
AITA for not letting my friends enjoy their boxing and mma matches while i'm over at there places? For some background let me explain, when we were younger my friends and I used to watch boxing and sometimes mma (like ufc) matches together and enjoy them but I lost contact with the group for a good few years. I ki...
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AUTHOR
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WRONG
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{ "description": "not attending the tuition lectures my parents pay for", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for not attending the tuition lectures my parents pay for.
This is probably not gonna be as intense as most of the other posts on here but his is something that really make me feel very guilty. I guess it'd be helpful if I talked a bit about my background. I'm from an upper middle class family in India. I (19M) live with my parents in their house. I've never earned any signif...
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AUTHOR
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{ "description": "being annoyed because my girlfriend pees so much", "pronormative_score": 268, "contranormative_score": 2100 }
AITA for being annoyed because my girlfriend pees so much?
My girlfriend and I have been together for almost a year and living together for about two months. Honestly, I love her dearly and love the time we spend together, but the amount of times she has to inconvenience us by going to the bathroom has gotten extremely annoying. I feel bad for being annoyed by this, but hear ...
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AUTHOR
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WRONG
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{ "description": "disliking my mother", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for disliking my mother?
AITA for disliking my mother? I've always had issues with my own mother but recently I had enough and said things that maybe could've been left unspoken. ​ Apologize in advance as english isn't my first language and that this post might take a while to read. ​ I was playing games and talking w...
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{ "description": "not wanting to dive an hour to hangout without booze", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for not wanting to dive an hour to hangout without booze?
I know the title sounds *extremely* petty but there is more to it than that. Also, this happened awhile ago and all parties have been forgiven, I just want an outsider's point of view. A couple months ago I was at work when I got a text from my friends asking if I wanted to come and hangout. Sounds simple enough excep...
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{ "description": "not wanting to deal with my BIL's slow friend", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not wanting to deal with my BIL's slow friend?
Recently my wife and I (26F/24M) helped her sister and her family up nearby us (27F/28M/9F/5M/4M). It was a difficult process as they didn't prepare or plan much and most of the details (such as hosting them and their three kids for a couple weeks) weren't worked out until they showed up on my doorstep. So, I struggled...
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{ "RIGHT": 7, "WRONG": 1 }
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{ "description": "refusing to let my neighbors park in my free spot", "pronormative_score": 237, "contranormative_score": 10 }
AITA for refusing to let my neighbors park in my free spot
To cut a long story short my neighbor has about 4 cars, husband, wife + kids. I have lived inside this house for the past 18 years, they moved in about 3/4 years ago. At first I had no issues letting them park in my parking spot because I had no car. I’m not an asshole so I let them park their car there for years free ...
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{ "AUTHOR": 7, "OTHER": 237, "EVERYBODY": 3, "NOBODY": 0, "INFO": 2 }
OTHER
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{ "description": "treating our kids the same", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for treating our kids the same?
My boyfriend and I have three kids. We both have a kid from previous relationships that are the same age, and one together. We recently noticed behavior problems from our two 6 year olds, which is probably due to the baby taking up a lot of our time. They both started getting serious attitude problems, and being over...
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{ "description": "not wanting my gf to drive my car", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting my gf to drive my car?
Context: Me (22M) and my gf (19F) live more than 30kms away from eachother. We always stay at my place during the weekend, and during weekdays we don't see. ​ Situation: My gf got the driving license at the second attempt, but had no occasion to drive for two months since she had no car. I occasionally g...
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{ "description": "being disappointment about getting pajamas for my birthday", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being disappointment about getting pajamas for my birthday?
Hey y'all, it's my birthday today. Hooray 🎉🎉🎉. I just turned 19 and my parents got me a pair of LOZ pajamas. I had to fake my interest, I don't even wear pajamas. Should I just suck it up and be glad my parents care? Do birthdays just get really boring once you're an adult?
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{ "description": "being upset with my gf who got really upset that I changed my mind about having sex", "pronormative_score": 26, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for being upset with my gf who got really upset that I changed my mind about having sex.
Backstory: I am a 20 yo male who works 40+hours a week in a kitchen as a head cook. It’s tiresome and I feel like a work horse every day. But I love it so I do it, even tho my hourly rate sucks. I also have bipolar disorder and when I’m depressed my sex drive is really low bc I think very lowly of myself. My gf (20) k...
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{ "description": "telling two of my friends that I don't want them to be my bridesmaids anymore", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 3 }
WIBTA If I told two of my friends that I don't want them to be my bridesmaids anymore?
We used to be a group of 6 really tight friends from high school, but then we started drifting a bit. I have been engaged for 3 years and talking abut my bridesmaids the entire time. Right after I got engaged, I immediately asked all 6 of them to be my bridesmaids and we have gone bridesmaids dress shopping many times,...
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{ "description": "not wanting my dog anymore", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 11 }
AITA for not wanting my dog anymore?
Throwaway, etc, etc. I understand that this question already sounds bad, but I'd like to explain a little and see if I am out of line or if my feelings make sense. TL;DR at the bottom. ​ There are four dogs at my house. One is mine and my fiancee's, one is my sister's and her BF, and two are the family pet...
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AUTHOR
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{ "description": "inviting an ex to a concert and asking them not to post anything on social media", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA for inviting an ex to a concert and asking them not to post anything on social media?
Hi Everybody! ​ Quick back story. Ex and I were together for roughly 5 years. We drifted apart and eventually ex dumped me. We stayed friends afterwards and eventually became FWB until ex moved out of state. We remained friends but contact slowly stopped because both of us suck at keeping in touch with peo...
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{ "description": "wanting to kick one of my bestfriends girlfriend out of our house", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for wanting to kick one of my bestfriends girlfriend out of our house?
AITA? Well, long story short a very good friend of mine didnt have such great luck out in LA and ended up homeless. I had always offered my home where I live with my parents to him if he ever needed it , a room, a hot meal and time to get on his feet with no strings attached. BUT he ended up bringing his first serious...
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{ "description": "rejecting a girl because she is from Israel", "pronormative_score": 29, "contranormative_score": 22 }
AITA for rejecting a girl because she is from Israel?
1- Sorry for formatting , on mobile 2- This is a throwaway 3- Tl;Dr at the end Ok so I am a 17 years old male from Palestine (but I have the Jordanian nationality) I moved in to the USA when last year (school wise) ended. When this year started I didn't think that I'd meet anybody for the first few weeks but s...
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{ "description": "telling my friend, who was falsely accused of sexual assault at work, to not contact my contacts without asking me first", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA For telling my friend, who was falsely accused of sexual assault at work, to not contact my contacts without asking me first?
You will need to assume the following as true: my good friend had a vindictive person make a false sexual assault charge about him at work (she has a pattern of doing this). He lost his job. Really horrible that it happened. Now he has a job helping family friends w/ some online content. Anyway, I have a small list o...
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{ "description": "knowing that my past marriage would not work out long term", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 11 }
AITA For knowing that my past marriage would not work out long term?
Burner for reasons The title pretty much speaks for itself. I was married for about a year when i realized that my marriage wouldn't work out long term we just had different outlooks on life. She wanted kids. and well I did not. She expected me to get proper schooling and i never wanted that. There were more t...
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{ "description": "not wanting a woman's circle or Man's circle to happen in my home", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for not wanting a Woman's circle or Man's circle to happen in my home?
Personally, I think it is up for debate about whether groups based on sex is a good thing or not. But, the main reason I don't want these groups in my home is that I like to live in a relatively politically free space and I have experience that these circles can sometimes digress into anti-opposite sex... let me know w...
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{ "description": "not wanting friend to crash in hotel room", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting friend to crash in hotel room?
Group of 4 college buddies (now all in their 30s) agreed to split a 2 queen beds room in Vegas. After flights purchased one of the 4 dudes says his friend might "crash" with us 1 or 2 nights. I think 5 guys is too crowded regardless of whether crashing includes some form of payment. Am I the asshole?
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{ "description": "breaking up with my boyfriend for not letting my 14 year old son have a birthday party at his house", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 2 }
WIBTA if I break up with my boyfriend for not letting my 14 year old son have a birthday party at his house?
Background: I have been in a relationship with a man for 3 1/2 years. We've broken up briefly a couple of times. The first time he mentioned that part of his issue is that I have a son, not so much that he doesn't like him, just that he's there. He's not mean to him or anything. He has a grown son who lives in another ...
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{ "description": "telling a customer service rep not to interrupt me", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for telling a customer service rep not to interrupt me?
So i have about 8 hours worth of flying today (not including the time spent in my lay over. I am going from Las Vegas > LA > JFK. My layover is 45mins. I planned on carrying my bag on the plane but last minute was told to check it because they ran out of space. I was worried because of my short lay over if t...
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{ "description": "not tipping a bartender I used to flirt with", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 15 }
AITA for not tipping a bartender I used to flirt with?
There's this really attractive female bartender that works at the main bar next to my university. I (male) have been talking/flirting with her for the past few months every weekend that I go out. Typically, I'll be completely belligerent though and I usually struggle to remember our conversations the next day. Also, th...
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{ "description": "potentially screwing a classmate out of a major assignment after he didn't do his work", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for potentially screwing a classmate out of a major assignment after he didn’t do his work?
I’m head of design for my high school’s robotics team. We lost our corporate $5,000 sponsor this year so our instructor had to assure that we each pulled in enough money to keep the team afloat. Each student needed to get $300 in sponsors from local businesses before the end of Christmas break. (This was a 300 point as...
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{ "description": "being upset that I'm the one who's always compromising", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for being upset that I’m the one who’s always compromising?
Okay, so my friend has an issue, but she doesn’t have reddit. So I’m posting for her with her consent. A friend of mine has been dating this guy for seven years. They have a great relationship. She does everything and anything this guy wants to do, but lately she’s been feeling upset. She likes to volunteer. The issue...
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AITA: My partner adopted a SEVENTH rescue dog behind my back. I put my foot down and won't let him bring it home -- it stays at his business alone overnight. We just discovered it has cancer and I still don't want to bring it home because then I "lose" to his emotional manipulation yet again.
**Background:** * Partner and I together for 11+ years * He had 6 rescue dogs at the start, 4 of them special needs * 2 dogs die. We discuss ***on numerous occasions*** that 2-3 dogs is ideal headed forward --- **~5 years ago** Partner is friends with a dog foster parent, who proceeds to (IMO) emotionally manipul...
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{ "description": "cumming on my girlfriend without asking for consent", "pronormative_score": 36, "contranormative_score": 16 }
AITA for cumming on my girlfriend without asking for consent?
In short, had sex, gf wanted to cum again (masturbating), she did. Decided I would aswell, gf was into it -bending over etc. Just before reaching climax I lean over her so its obvious I'm going to cum on her -though theres about 4 seconds or so where she could object. She doesn't and continues what she's doing as thoug...
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{ "description": "laughing of my mother's face of pain over my grandmother death", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for laughing of my mother's face of pain over my grandmother death?
That happened about 8 years ago, never talked about it before, not even with my mother. First of all, i should state that i love my mother, and it's reciprocal. We don't have any "family issues". Also, i loved my grandmother. My grandmother was in the hospital for about 1 month, some hard 30 days... Finally, I was wa...
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{ "description": "insisting to open the car door for my partner", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for insisting to open the car door for my partner?
I’m poor. I work weekends and go to school during the week. I have a really crappy car. A combination of anxiety and a history of car accidents makes driving the crappy car with all its quirks and sounds overwhelming for long distances, because the sounds are very indicative of things that are wrong with it (both made ...
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AITA: argument about beyoncé cheek kiss ordeal
My boyfriend (23M) and I (21F) were watching one of our favorite Youtubers (Phillip de Franco) earlier and he mentioned a story about some friend of Jay Z and Beyoncé kissing her on the cheek. He went in for a cheek kiss, then they hugged, and then he kissed her cheek a second time but closer to her mouth and she becam...
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{ "description": "moving out and taking my money back from my indecisive uncle", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I move out and take my money back from my indecisive uncle?
I am 20 years old and recently moved to where my cousin and her family lives in their home I was originally going to stay with roommates but since I am so close to my cousin, I asked my uncle if I could live with them instead. He originally said no. He and his family were asking for money from our relatives to buy a...
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AITA the time I cut my best friend out of my life
So I discovered r/AmItheAsshole tonight and I actually have my own situation to ask about that dates back about 8 years now. My best friend growing up and I were the bad kids of the neighborhood and most of our lives (with some exceptions) he was the bad influence of our pair. Except now that I'm older I'm not so sure ...
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{ "description": "telling my wife I wanted to travel Europe without her", "pronormative_score": 58, "contranormative_score": 7 }
WIBTA if I told my wife I wanted to travel Europe without her?
WIBTA if I told my wife I didn’t want her to come to Europe with me? I’m 33 years old (so is my wife) and I’m the breadwinner (I don’t hold that against her). Each and every year she goes on a vacation to the Outer Banks with her sister and grandmother, no men are allowed. I’m not upset by it, I’m slightly annoyed at...
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{ "description": "saying \"I didn't have time to miss you\" when I was double studying med school", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 11 }
AITA for saying "I didn't have time to miss you" when I was double studying med school?
I'm an non traditional read -old medical student with ADHD. My girlfriend had been living with me rent free since she went on sick leave in September for stress. I was behind on my studies and in the beginning of January I had to take two tests. These two tests covered an entire year of medical school, so I was e...
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{ "description": "using money to get girls", "pronormative_score": 71, "contranormative_score": 19 }
AITA For Using Money to Get Girls?
I'm M22, and my family is pretty wealthy. I'm a trust fund kid, but I'm not good looking and its hard for me to get with girls. I switched to a new tactic of posting my condo, cars, watches, trips on my IG and my followers rose and rose and would get constant DM's from hot girls saying Hi. Been doing this for a year no...
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{ "description": "giving my bf an ultimatum", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for giving my bf an ultimatum?
Nearly 5 years ago I moved to another country to see if things would work long term with the guy I’m dating. Since then I’ve moved four times to different areas of the country for his job. This means I hardly ever make long term friends and have had to make sacrifices with my career. About two months ago we decided t...
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{ "description": "not leaving a tip", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for not leaving a tip?
I went to a restaurant for lunch and it was not busy. I was seated quickly and gave my drink order. The waitress brings my tea out and I’m still looking over the menu. A few minutes later I order a salad and some brisket tacos. I wait sipping my tea. After about 20 minutes my waitress comes by and say...
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{ "description": "not paying my sister back for half of my wedding dress", "pronormative_score": 24, "contranormative_score": 4 }
WIBTA if I didnt pay my sister back for half of my wedding dress?
My husband is in the process of enlisting in the air force and money is tight for us, but we wanted to get married before he shipped off in a few months time. Originally I had not planned on having a reception party or even buying a wedding dress as we are trying to save money for our future. After telling my siste...
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{ "description": "using a legal loophole to get stuff for cheap", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for using a legal loophole to get stuff for cheap?
In my country there is a law that states that if a store labels a product a certain price, they must sell it for the labeled price. This is to prevent stores from doing bait and switch scams. So I bought a product that had the wrong sticker on it, and asked the store to sell it to me for that price, which they agreed....
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{ "description": "not giving my lab partner the statistics from our experiment to include in her lab report", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not giving my lab partner the statistics from our experiment to include in her lab report?
I apologize for any formatting errors, i’m on mobile. I met this girl in the first semester of school. We’re both in first year sciences and have become good friends over the past few months. We have almost every class together and we would occasionally meet to study, however, she didn’t study very much. I found most ...
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{ "description": "not moving in with my gf", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for not moving in with my gf
Hey there reddit, first time user, long time lurker, mobile user, etc, etc This will be a long one. First let me give some background on me. I’m a 20 year old male, first year university student studying computer science A struggling one at that, however with exams coming up shortly and my less than impressive grades...
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{ "description": "not being able to love my father", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not being able to love my father?
For as long as I remember, I have lived alone with my mother. When I was very little, she left my father due to his absence and alcoholic tendencies and took me with her. Now, it's over 20 years, and I visited him once in my hometown. I had the time of my life with my half-sister, but I couldn't exchange more than ple...
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{ "description": "wanting to see the same therapist as my daughter", "pronormative_score": 15, "contranormative_score": 85 }
AITA for wanting to see the same therapist as my daughter?
My daughter (I'll call her Ashley) has a therapist she started seeing a year ago. I met her therapist (Karla) back when she used to work through our on-base hospital (we're military) though she wasn't my therapist my daughter needed one and I thought she'd be perfect. So I sent her to one of her teen group counseling s...
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{ "description": "not giving a friend/coworker his dog back after he got out of prison", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for not giving a friend/coworker his dog back after he got out of prison?
To start with some background info; this guy I work with (we’ll call him D) got this adorable puppy last year around this time. D and I were pretty good friends and I watched the puppy a lot while he worked as we both lived in apartments above our workplace. I also bought the puppy a lot of toys and treats that he coul...
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{ "description": "caring about money after everything", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for caring about money after everything
I'm going to try to keep sexes out of this, sorry if that makes things more confusing. ​ I have a wonderful spouse. Good parent, kind, affectionate, patient, does a lot around the house, good human in general. ​ I am holding a grudge that I would love to let go of. I have always been good with...
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{ "description": "selling my Christmas present my mother brought me, without saying anything", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 3 }
WIBTA if I sold my Christmas present my mother brought me, without saying anything?
For Christmas I got 1 ticket for a show that I honestly have no interest in going to. My mother was trying to be nice and brought me 1 ticket (costing £55) and told me it was all she could afford (brought her husband a laptop for £350) so I really don’t want to go on my own either. Plus, the thing I actually wanted for...
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{ "description": "not giving my daughter money for her mother", "pronormative_score": 17, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for not giving my daughter (13) money for her mother?
AITA because my 13 yr old daughter wants me to give her the Christmas money she has left, around $75, to give to her mother because she is struggling? A little background: her mother CHOOSES not to work. shes been fired from her last 2 jobs. She's fully capable of working. She currently lives with our oldest daught...
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