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"description": "ignoring and/or snapping at my mom when she talks to me",
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} | AITA for ignoring and/or snapping at my mom when she talks to me? | For about a year now I've been acting very rude to my mom. I've been ignoring her when she talks, getting an attitude with her, and raising my voice in an annoyed manner. It doesn't matter whether or not she comes to me already angry, or in a calm way. Now that we got that out of the way, onto the main situation.... | HISTORICAL | {
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YG3baMHss3hScOLbAkGpDgzksTQ7eZ5c | ahqtfs | {
"description": "moving to California",
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} | AITA For Moving to California? | My mom wants to move to California with me and my siblings because her boyfriend lives there. I am cool with it because she said that I can still fly down to the state that I am currently living in so I can see my dad and friends. I am not that close to my dad and he tends to leave me out of his life on some situations... | HISTORICAL | {
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"description": "disliking my brother's girlfriend",
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} | AITA for disliking my brother's girlfriend? | I'm sorry if there are any mistakes, English isn't my first language.
My brother (24) got a girlfriend (28) a few months ago. He has a habit of choosing girls that are gold diggers. We are definitely not rich, but are a tad bit better off than most people here because my parents work their asses off abroad.
She starte... | HISTORICAL | {
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"description": "being annoyed at my partner taking cocaine",
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} | AITA for being annoyed at my partner taking cocaine | Am I the asshole for being mad with my partner for doing cocaine.
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Ok, so I'm kinda torn here because ultimately I know I can't tell someone how to live their life. I'm 31, my partner is 27. We've been together for about half a year but have history prior to that when we were younger. We're ... | HISTORICAL | {
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"description": "leaving my friend to finish work",
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} | AITA for leaving my friend to finish work? | Obligatory lurker, on mobile, the whole shabang.
So before you make any rash comments you'll need some context because I'm not doing the, "I'm partners with someone and they do everything while I sit back and play Tetris or something"
So I'm attending a trade school, and what I do say to day is go to my normal schoo... | HISTORICAL | {
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"description": "getting mad at my friends for not letting me hang out with them",
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} | AITA for getting mad at my friends for not letting me hang out with them? | A bit of background.
So maybe like once a month they all meet at someone's house but when I ask if i could come they always put me down. And then when I ask why they just say for certain reasons. | HISTORICAL | {
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wtcBHbBao3FGV3mzJIDcH3pYWLd9FqtV | a77m24 | {
"description": "not letting a kid in my class use my work",
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} | AITA for not letting a kid in my class use my work? | I'm a student, and finals are coming up. In office hours, a guy I had never seen saw me looking through the really detailed notes that I had spent hours putting together to help me study for this exam, and he asked if I could share it with him (on google docs). I did in the moment, because I would've felt awkward sayin... | HISTORICAL | {
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"description": "ignoring my coworker's request to cover her shift and then lying about my availability so I wouldn't have to do so",
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} | AITA for ignoring my coworker’s request to cover her shift and then lying about my availability so I wouldn’t have to do so? | Basically title. She texted me at 11:30 pm last night asking me to cover her shift which starts at 9:45 this morning. Even though I was available, I didn’t structure my plans around needing to work today and I felt quite pissed that she asked so late, especially because I’d be asleep by then if I was working the next d... | HISTORICAL | {
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8lF0MQSdpavQNlvTQ3GMevExptopC1Go | b6aesn | {
"description": "asking my colleague why she does not want to work with me anymore",
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} | WIBTA if I asked my colleague why she does not want to work with me anymore? | Alright, so I just got home from work and I got this question to hash out till tomorrow. I work in retail to finance my life as a student. Since I have been working in retail for ages and even before I started my studies I am in a position where I sub for my boss in the evenings and thus am in a position of some respon... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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FCRsEo15dbKLGt8dDSQNwWTNlISAJeai | b4ybkh | {
"description": "getting upset of my FIL advice",
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} | AITA For getting upset of my FIL advice? | Alt account btw. So I’m a stay at home dad to two wonderful but extremely hyper and demanding kids and it stressful as crap but it’s what I signed up for. Now I haven’t been able to visit my mother in 3 years because she lives in a different state and my in laws live 30 minutes from where we live so we see them like 7 ... | HISTORICAL | {
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"description": "bringing my dogs to a restaurant",
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} | AITA for bringing my dogs to a restaurant? | So, this just happened, so strap right in for the wild ride. My mom called this restaurant beforehand asking if we were allowed to bring our dogs and the phone conversation went like this: M=Mom E=Employee
M: Hi, are we allowed to bring our dogs to sit on the patio?
E: Yes, a little bit
M: What does a little bit mea... | HISTORICAL | {
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7Z1gMUchuEmTLQkr9Y4UbqazM4zkH8ff | b0mia0 | {
"description": "not wanting to leave my mom",
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} | AITA not wanting to leave my mom? | This might get a bit long but I’ll throw in a TLDR at the bottom, on mobile, yadda yadda yadda.
Backstory: A little over a year ago my mom had a baby. I just turned 20 and it kinda fucked my plans up. My mom and I use to be really close (we still are, just not as much.) until she met her bf and got pregnant. We ended... | HISTORICAL | {
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LOTLNthuVtTLieDUyHdIJ5vfC4veE9i9 | avv8i1 | {
"description": "asking someone to remove their to go box from my table",
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} | AITA for asking someone to remove their to go box from my table? | I was in Chicago at a pizza place with my boyfriend and they sat us at a four-top right next to a couple in a two-top. My boyfriend and I sat on the farther side from them so a set of chairs were separating us from the other couple. The couple were finished eating and waiting for their check and talking and the girl pu... | HISTORICAL | {
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uc31HRMwaXvRoyN1CQSSDqFas3upcinF | axdh0r | {
"description": "not wanting some person I hardly know coming with us to Asia for two weeks",
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} | AITA If I don’t want some person I hardly know coming with us to Asia for two weeks? | Obligatory throwaway account and mobile app post.
I’m going on a two week Asia trip with my boyfriend of 2.5 years, his sister, and his best friend in July of this year. My boyfriend just told me that his sister invited her friend to this trip. I’m kinda annoyed that she didn’t ask to see if it was cool with all of u... | HISTORICAL | {
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MsE2mQPtkufdzHsAWq0MnPVT6uY9dmBh | aydbck | {
"description": "not letting my ex boyfriend talk to my friend",
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} | AITA for not letting my ex boyfriend talk to my friend? | So I went to my ex boyfriends college for an event and my friend and I stayed over at his place that was on campus.
This ex was my first love from high school. Lost my virginity to him and vice versa, and he was a big part of my life. It took me a long time to get over him and I still have a lot of different feelings... | HISTORICAL | {
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Ra5SnDU9nd11MnRthcTK1TsD8X2Dwczj | a5pped | {
"description": "not saving my brother a sear",
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} | AITA for not saving my brother a sear? | I 17M did not save my brother 12M a seat at a Christmas program tonight, I sat with my friends and didn’t know he sat alone. My mother got mad at me for not saving him a seat. My problem is, he admits he hates my friends, he criticizes them for everything, calls them losers, and nerds, and the reject squad, so it’s no ... | HISTORICAL | {
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2edgZxZ47Pey6pnbi1XURDZ6AbZojmck | adnyat | {
"description": "being mad about my mother buying me stuff I ask her not to",
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} | AITA for being mad about my mother buying me stuff I ask her not to? | Context: my mother and I have a rough relationship. It would take a long time to tell the whole thing but the short story is that I don’t like her very much but interact with her because she has a pretty big mental illness that she’s now finally on meds for.
She’s still not the most amazing listener even on her meds... | HISTORICAL | {
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XdA8ukElLUQy8SJ4zm9O1vALOqYd2yS7 | auug7v | {
"description": "not wanting to go to some family gatherings",
"pronormative_score": 2,
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} | AITA for not wanting to go to some family gatherings? | My family normally has little dinners and stuff all year around for different occasions, majority of the time I go with them and have a decent time. But one time in particular it was a dinner for a holiday at someone else's house whom I have not met before. Typically when we go to these events I just end up sitting dow... | HISTORICAL | {
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2CBXObUOak1AZ0XxxMCIhqh4kj2arOmS | b5miop | {
"description": "being upset at being left outside for 3.5hrs with my kids at an important production shoot",
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} | AITA for being upset at being left outside for 3.5hrs with my kids at an important production shoot? | Hey guys! So a little backstory....our small family owned restaurant was chosen for a shoot for a food show. Awesome right? I will not be naming names but if/when it airs it will put our business in front of viewers nationwide. We found out maybe 48hrs in advance. After some communication back and forth we were asked t... | HISTORICAL | {
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BD6wgYr1YgbH3PiMORbEEncCMBbqPunG | almnfr | {
"description": "being upset that my gf basically lied to me to go out and celebrate her divorce with her friends",
"pronormative_score": 0,
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} | AITA for being upset that my gf (28) basically lied to me (33) to go out and celebrate her divorce with her friends? | My gf (28) was previously married, she got a notice late last year that her divorce will be official as of the 2nd of February. When she told me I told her I'd love to celebrate it with her that day. She said she'd love to and we left it at that.
A few days after that I over heard her on the phone with her friend tel... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | WRONG |
pTZzbxmKDVKdkA0JNqFHFPIWso1pgMaX | 9wyro2 | {
"description": "telling my gf to seek professional help every time shes upset",
"pronormative_score": 1,
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} | AITA for telling my GF to seek professional help every time shes upset? | I have to make a disclaimer that no mater how long this is, i cant completely and accurately portray this situation
My girlfriend and i have been dating for almost four years and this is our first year living together in a student apartment. We argue very often and have a very rough patches, but i do love her and our ... | HISTORICAL | {
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6lq2QreUaCL4Ct0mutSsvb3JCzo3VU8W | aw6ty5 | {
"description": "wanting my girlfriend to complain less about work",
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} | AITA for wanting my girlfriend to complain less about work | She (24F) became a special needs teacher and loved it, initially, and over the course of the year her optimism is all but gone. I (23m) get 2 paragraph texts everyday, no exaggeration, about how terrible and disrespectful her kids are how sad she is with her job. Shes been getting the behavioral kids and not kids with ... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | AUTHOR | {
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4q7h1J3offqlOTfCobhHjOxcMiVfSgw1 | aoqq6c | {
"description": "not wanting to go on a second date",
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} | AITA for not wanting to go on a second date? | I met up with a guy I went to high school with, he was always decent looking, not blow you away sexy, but kind of cute I guess. I heard from a mutual friend that he moved to my city and was looking to meet up with some people. I’m 31 and he’s 33.
So we went on a coffee date and I honestly didn’t recognize him - he d... | HISTORICAL | {
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f0caATWeImQLUmDIvgq8Gq8LPrHi21ji | arqhxe | {
"description": "not wanting to turn off my stream when my friends not talking at all because of it",
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} | AITA : Am I the asshole for not wanting to turn off my stream when my friends not talking at all because of it | Am I the asshole for not wanting to turn off my stream when my friends not talking at all because of it
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Be Me - Streams Since 2PM
Freinds Calls around 5 Tells me lets Hop on and play league
Tell Him im Streaming League Of Legends
He laughs ask me how many veiws in a mocking manor
I say 6
He Says O... | HISTORICAL | {
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PCBrs2OXLic00GW8uv0Ar2KoBK70rTVH | al3bc4 | {
"description": "giving some advice which lead to them quitting",
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} | AITA for giving some advice which lead to them quitting? | Me and this girl ( I’m gonna call girl) are on the same newspaper team . I created it and she joined later on . We have been on and off friends and I recently was accused of being rude to girl ( I was a tiny bit but we made up) . I didn’t like her because she was too much of a goodie two shoes.
I missed a few days off... | HISTORICAL | {
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y9SS34fNogJ1hEp5x1uklxia1qlxdPYi | ahobo1 | {
"description": "encouraging my boyfriend to have unhealthy behaviors",
"pronormative_score": 2,
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} | AITA for encouraging my boyfriend to have unhealthy behaviors | My boyfriend and I are both pretty young —we are both 19– and have only been dating for 8 months. In high school, we were good “friends” but neither of us had romantic feelings for each other.
I put friends in quotation marks because despite that, our friendship was REALLY inappropriate. Not in a fun FWB kind of way... | HISTORICAL | {
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ihGNkhTXosseHr9x676xedEodtOOFid3 | aotzqw | {
"description": "sending out a group message to all my coworkers telling them to make sure movies are scanned in as to avoid 'not scanned in's'",
"pronormative_score": 2,
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} | WIBTA for sending out a group message to all my coworkers telling them to make sure movies are scanned in as to avoid 'Not scanned in's' | Basically since these three new hires were put on the team last month we've been having a HUGE problem with Not scanned in's or NSI's so far. I've pulled at least 15-20 movies off the shelves that weren't scanned in and some so late they were about to become purged (basically when a movie is kept out for more than 25 d... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
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} | RIGHT |
ksuP2RbtCywiFbj1zAZJBv4qVKPjzd0U | b54377 | {
"description": "telling my bf to stop telling me the same stories over and over again",
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} | AITA for telling my bf to stop telling me the same stories over and over again? | My bf has some really good stories from when he was growing up. The problem is I’ve heard them over and over again. At first I would just go along and laugh like it was the first time hearing it, but it’s gotten old. He doesn’t have any memory issues or anything so it’s not like he doesn’t know that I’ve already hea... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | AUTHOR | {
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} | RIGHT |
abxlP1hxbfJNG2lrrtCWLLtE0tBszxL5 | a9u9ro | {
"description": "texting my Ex-fiances son",
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} | WIBTA for texting my Ex-fiances son ? | Long story short, my fiance just walked out on me. She waited til I went to work and packed her shit, took half of my rent money, our shared car and moved back in with her abusive ex-husband. No indication there was anything wrong. Everything seemed to be getting better. For over a year and a half I have spent a lot of... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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sPHqgIqNYKAi82u4oOeAU828htBsyPdT | a5lphf | {
"description": "wanting to leave a store where my partner embarrassed me publically",
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} | AITA (25F) for Wanting To Leave a Store Where My Partner Embarrassed Me Publically? | Details: Partner and I make six figures, have no debt, and no kids
Anyway... My partner grew up extraordinarily impoverished and he seems to view unnecessary spending and as a moral failing. I grew up upper middle class, and just don’t get it. However, partner and I (usually) have great communication so we’ve found a ... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
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} | WRONG |
r4eyHhKOVg17eeq55Ii0759mYtvYGUfs | ahfyar | {
"description": "cutting off a friend for the sake of my girlfriend",
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} | AITA For cutting off a friend for the sake of my girlfriend? | First off some context. My friend, let's call her Kaylee, and I have been friends for the past five years or so. When her and I first met our relationship evolved into something of an exclusive fwb for about half a year but we eventually decided to return to just being friends again. My girlfriend Anna and I have been ... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | WRONG |
5PN1pD0QPJzWiIZlvhRWHKvJWuLpfbfD | a01781 | {
"description": "not wanting my gf to go on a random solo trip, when we just got back together",
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} | AITA for not wanting my gf to go on a random solo trip, when we just got back together? | She left me over a month ago and we just got back together less than a week ago. I needed a solo day to figure out some stuff on my end and she said that she would head to a city a couple hours away. No big deal. That was two days ago, and i went out last night to hang with my buddy during my solo time. I told her abou... | HISTORICAL | {
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78Gaw7lz3U4FOtmXhjND2e3bZbsx6X4B | b65jcb | {
"description": "stopping being friends with someone who won't help me put in a new water heater",
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} | AITA if I stop being friends with someone who won't help me put in a new water heater? | Backstory: I have a friend who works at the same small company as myself (I got him the job) and who also lived with me for about 10 months for $200 rent (my mortgage is $1300/month for comparison and I pay about $400/month for water/electricity/internet) while he saved up money to put a down payment on a house. Part o... | HISTORICAL | {
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CXt7MPuGIxjEA7KniwrOuevmmQk1vomy | aicty6 | {
"description": "not paying my cheating girlfriend back",
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} | AITA For not paying my cheating girlfriend back | I found out my gf of 6 years was cheating on me. She lived with me rent free for 4 years. Additionally, we were about to buy a house before I found out, she put down 10k towards the deposit.
​
After I found out, I bought the house anyways and moved in alone. I've paid her back 4,000 so far, but as more st... | HISTORICAL | {
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"description": "wanting to dump leaves on my neighbour's property",
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} | AITA for wanting to dump leaves on my neighbour’s property? | I have a large tree just inside the fence line of my front yard and, being a tree, it drops leaves now and then. On two separate occasions I’ve spotted very obvious piles of leaves sat on my side of the fence. On the other side of the fence: my neighbour’s spotless concrete driveway.
It’s obvious he’s collecting th... | HISTORICAL | {
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jf6i6rZyoTFWgjRVvgC4GkDrWHYbGjVP | a5ot78 | {
"description": "asking my girlfriend to not drink or do drugs? I care about her, and I'm just trying to make sure she doesn't make any bad decisions or anything to hurt herself. so why would she be mad at me for that? for caring about her? the fuck man",
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} | AITA for asking my girlfriend to not drink or do drugs? I care about her, and I’m just trying to make sure she doesn’t make any bad decisions or anything to hurt herself. So why would she be mad at me for that? For caring about her? The fuck man? | Literally just trying to look out for her and while I was at work she said she was/thinking about going to a party or something. It’s mostly a blur now so forgive me if I can’t remember everything correctly. Keep in mind she made a promise she wouldn’t to me. And a little after we were talking, while I’m having another... | HISTORICAL | {
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QKm4e7qRj1cWNMOxHZqyLB8Ije0bIlr5 | aa85wk | {
"description": "telling (and exaggerating to) my sisters new crush that she uses drugs",
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} | WIBTA if I told (and exaggerated to) my sisters new crush that she uses drugs? | ***Disclaimer: I amongst many other am a casual drug user who doesn’t use to the point of addiction, dependency, financial or social ruin. I use on average 3x a month. This post is not about drugs so feel free to flame your anti drug rhetoric but it’ll fall on deaf ears. ***
I overheard my sister last night telling on... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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tXsjuk3KzfBR58v7jxAaN737yUGmVzSH | afq79i | {
"description": "not wanting to reconnect with my father and my half-sister",
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Growing up, my father and I weren't that close. My earliest childhood memories consists of him being drunk all the time, occasionally yelling at my mom and him passed out on the couch. He refused to financially support my mother and I and eventuall... | HISTORICAL | {
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e36mFmv8yumMglRAICzkf9nFSsHIlqg8 | amufnq | {
"description": "telling a kid to shut up on a plane",
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gBeGYcJb1yrqPYyeZ4GyZ98uhs9pTC1t | b6da4u | {
"description": "asking if my asian friend knew any martial arts",
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} | AITA for asking if my asian friend knew any martial arts? | I have a friend who’s asian. He’s extremely fit and agile. I asked him if he knew any martial arts and he just got really sarcastic with me about it. I wasn’t saying all Asians knew martial arts, just asking if he specifically did.
Bonus AITA. His sister was home from college and complaining about how there was a... | HISTORICAL | {
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KmcOwwLecOWwnwrYl8h6fzukH6JdSsO2 | a4t1ed | {
"description": "wanting my mom's boyfriend to move out of the house",
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} | AITA for wanting my mom's boyfriend to move out of the house? | So, this happened back in May where my mom asked if she wanted her boyfriend to start living with us. I said no, but my mom made him live with us ever since May. This was a couple weeks after my father passed away of old age, and she's letting a new man into the house when I'm not even over my father's passing.
I fee... | HISTORICAL | {
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KjQvkNF3HVAiNBkRzmyFzYyyjadqoz2S | amq3g8 | null | AITA my sister wants to go to Mass but I wouldnt be able to go to confession? | So basically my sister asked if I could wait longer for her to get ready so that she could go to Mass, but I would miss confession and not be able to recieve the Eucharist. She is also very sick. I contacted the family who takes us to Mass asking if they could wait a bit longer, then she started to attack me with, "if ... | HISTORICAL | {
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Ldz8S48vA89fPJjcms1oHRjwUnbtLTie | a26mht | {
"description": "repeatedly shutting down my guardian",
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} | AITA for repeatedly shutting down my guardian? | My guardian keeps trying to talk to me about my problems and now my grandparent who passed away last month. As I do not trust them, I’ve been repeatedly shutting them down. Our relationship sucks, they’ve done multiple things that I just cannot forgive.
I’m pretty insulted that they want to speak about it now conside... | HISTORICAL | {
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AeHkRaJSMy5Pzn7hngtbXoWZVf9H6HOh | b48c68 | {
"description": "trying out trp",
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} | AITA for trying out TRP? | Hello everyone, 21M here. I've considered myself a lifelong 'experimenter' when it comes to a lot of stuff. I feel this way because a lot of times when making a decision to do or not do something, you're faced with a lot of second hand info that is usually biased and extremely titled to one side. Not to mention, comple... | HISTORICAL | {
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jvVjbA21H20E9Tf7L3JVGUaSbPsESxG9 | a0p1nb | {
"description": "telling a friend to leave",
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} | AITA for telling a friend to leave | Im in a theatre class and we are working on dramatic duets. I work with a girl in a dressing room because her ADHD causes us to have problems getting work done. We had a week to practice and memorize for it, and she wasn't memorized at all while i was. I didn't want to take an F on the grade, so after school we went ba... | HISTORICAL | {
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77KRZQMNUUfgYevZvnZpLNXwQcYp31Qf | b015vs | {
"description": "dating someone my friend dated",
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} | AITA dating someone my friend dated | My friend "John" broke up with my other friend "Stacy" and she has been really heartbroken and recently I have been talking to her a lot and we facetime every night for like 2 weeks and I think I am starting to develop feelings AITA for starting a relationship even though he broke up with her? | HISTORICAL | {
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RdsMtxPGMhu9gqDpoWDrKtDrQITny8Dp | afca3v | {
"description": "giving up on our friendship",
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} | AITA for giving up on our friendship? | AITA for giving up on our friendship? (Didn't really know what to title this as there's a lot of things)
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Starting off with some background info on how it all started, yes it will be a long post.
I'm male, important? Can be. Good to have included, I suppose.
It all began a few years ago, I had just sta... | HISTORICAL | {
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6dm2xlPpnQ1dnhSYxsabris9yPL9MJZ5 | ajnbh3 | {
"description": "blowing snow onto my neighbor's driveway after he removed part of our property line barrier",
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} | AITA for blowing snow onto my neighbor's driveway after he removed part of our property line barrier? | Background: (Sorry, it's long and formatted from mobile.)
I moved in nearly two years ago. The nextdoor neighbors never said two words to me. I was fine with that. We got along in our silent way.
Then this past summer, both the man and the woman who live there finally introduced themselves to me. It soon became appar... | HISTORICAL | {
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PGcSGTF4anNb7eVIxQguOytSQn9iZy5B | av1540 | {
"description": "telling my sister-in-law her new laptop gift was a bad purchase and to go return it",
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} | AITA for telling my sister-in-law her new laptop gift was a bad purchase and to go return it? | This was back in November, but it keeps haunting me. My wife was angry with me, but I tried to convince her of my good intentions.
My SIL and her husband bought a new Apple MacBook Air the day before the new ones were announced with the long overdue upgrades. The new one is leaps and bounds better, and it was all over... | HISTORICAL | {
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u2lLOtnen4jhvtRPYf9toUhFbCoWRKst | b1npt1 | {
"description": "asking a friend to reciprocate",
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} | AITA for asking a friend to reciprocate? | So I've got a friend who I've been friends with for the better part of two years. Recently though, she's been extremely insistent upon me (and her followers) being extra supportive and enthusiastic about her original stories. She runs a massive fandom blog with over 5000 followers, and she threatens everyone with "If y... | HISTORICAL | {
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clLZxFnmrcEBTIhj0BBfANkgwn0FjLZX | b2xxnu | {
"description": "referring to my ex as my boyfriend in stories I tell from when he was at the time my boyfriend",
"pronormative_score": 5,
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} | AITA for referring to my ex as my boyfriend in stories I tell from when he was at the time my boyfriend ? | I’m 18, female, British, and a grammar nazi tbh.
So I was having a conversation with my boyfriend and one of my friends just now, and I started telling them a little story that was fairly relevant to the conversation and was just meant to give them some context for my viewpoint within the debate we had gotten into. M... | HISTORICAL | {
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N1uP0v0oOpfFWkBMA1kRxWEhhe0B4riv | aidp8x | {
"description": "sometimes refusing to do my chore",
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} | AITA for sometimes refusing to do my chore? | For the background: i'm a physically disabled 19 year old and I live with my roommate, 21 and able bodied. Originally we would take turns with the chores (the 2 chores in question are the dishes and taking out the trash). So when she took out the trash, I would do the dishes, when she does the dishes I take out the tra... | HISTORICAL | {
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v0ejyW5QdadBzjFmjCcyimpFUqmg8oEM | abqtu0 | {
"description": "gelling my sister to stand up for herself and take her break",
"pronormative_score": 1,
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} | AITA For gelling my sister to stand up for herself and take her break? | So my sister works retail for the past year and half. She has been complaining that her boss doesn't allow them to take a 15 min break every 3 hours. There is a law in place that says she is allowed to take that break and my dad who is a manager at another retail store agreed her boss is in the wrong. Her argument is t... | HISTORICAL | {
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mCo1R5GW7QmAKhD2Y9s0p0JG1KfdUdTE | ayuxrh | null | AITA for swearing | I live in Germany and grew up saying the word "fuck" its in my normal everyday language. Now my sister had an American student who is 14 coming over for a week and I know fuck is a bad word in America so I tried not to say it. At first it worked but talking more and more in English it just slips sometimes as it was a n... | HISTORICAL | {
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HB0FqDkzz2xUCh5ewiKMWrm8Ds8OJpoZ | akprze | {
"description": "wanting to stick with my delivery driver job instead aiming for studies for a better paying job",
"pronormative_score": 6,
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} | AITA for wanting to stick with my delivery driver job instead aiming for studies for a better paying job? | To give some context, I'm 23 years old and I live with my girlfriend in a rented house. We live pretty comfortably, from a pay to the other usually but at least we don't lack anything. Many members of my family keep on pressuring me to make a path change in my life. How I could make this or that formation or this or th... | HISTORICAL | {
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8ZR20WSMNeRcKQ4WOLBtK2oA3nBAvXjm | a6sks4 | {
"description": "cutting off my friend/ ex boyfriend",
"pronormative_score": 4,
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} | AITA for cutting off my friend/ ex boyfriend? | Let me start by saying this happened at the beginning of the year, but it was recently brought to my attention which is why I’m posting this.
My ex and I had been best friends all through high school, he wanted more, I did not until the end of my junior year/ his senior year. We dated for 7ish months, broke up becaus... | HISTORICAL | {
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ED8puO5Xh4qtS5IdweVSdmc8FdHjlMXQ | b5bxgz | {
"description": "being upset because my brother doesn't do me a favor",
"pronormative_score": 2,
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} | AITA for being upset because my brother doesn't do me a favor? | Me \[19M\] and my brother\[15M\] argue a little bit, sometimes I make fun of him, sometimes he makes fun of me but it's all brothers things but we have an overall good relationship .
I'm finishing high school and in my country we have to do college entrance exams to be able to go to college. My school is a profess... | HISTORICAL | {
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mhhs5EplaFMAZULIaYW1SJdDO7Hp3zDk | b2g69m | {
"description": "asking my girlfriend to talk to me less about her favorite novels",
"pronormative_score": 6,
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} | WIBTA if i asked my girlfriend to talk to me less about her favorite novels? | I live with my girlfriend and recently she's become obsessed with a particular series of novels. She's on her phone pretty much 24/7 reading the books, on discord servers about the books, on tumblr blogs about the books, making memes about the books. They're good books and I like them too, but I read much more slowly... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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oJj72pS65zr16dGZR4d4RogAAsvWr6v0 | a1jb65 | {
"description": "not attending their Christmas party",
"pronormative_score": 4,
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} | WIBTA for not attending their Christmas party? | I have a large family with divorced grandparents and this means that every year for the entire week of Christmas I have 3-4 family gatherings to attend depending on the year.
My stepdad has been in my life for 12 years now...him and I have a lot of differences and have hit heads a lot in the past - we can get along ok... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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MpV4782LFZjZf4Ler1WDSY3aPVzHr4lm | b7cokn | {
"description": "skipping my aunt's wedding to play soccer",
"pronormative_score": 12,
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} | AITA for skipping my aunt’s wedding to play soccer? | My aunt, who I’ve never been close with, is getting married the same day that I have a soccer game 1 month from now. My mom already told me her I’m going, despite me never agreeing to in the first place. I only see my aunt once every couple of years so I decided to ask her if it’d be alright if I didn’t attend her wed... | HISTORICAL | {
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sIHuoVjDVwBH92uSyxzDfNrNqMWh6FCf | apav5y | {
"description": "getting upset at my crush/good friend for going on a date with someone else",
"pronormative_score": 4,
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} | AITA for getting upset at my crush/good friend for going on a date with someone else? | So I think this story needs a little context. So I like this girl in our high school, she is in the same class as me and we we are very good mates. So over a video call I told her that I liked her and we decided to go on a date. It was a pretty nice date, I had a nice time anyway, and that was that. We had been messagi... | HISTORICAL | {
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Ugzx9e6nSZgXWT7i8mMRLHEOPYg0TkJC | amujxo | {
"description": "not wanting to give my mom back massages",
"pronormative_score": 3,
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} | AITA for not wanting to give my mom back massages? | On mobile so sorry for formatting probably.
My mom always used to have me rub her back as a kid. I never liked it because it made my hands hurt, but other than that I didn’t care.
Now that I’m older, I hate doing it even more. I don’t like touching people at all, I think it’s gross. It also doesn’t help that she alwa... | HISTORICAL | {
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tWmEGeacqeLwT5Juddkp7EbfdHeBWrWa | 9u2yd7 | {
"description": "not replying to my colleagues' desperate attempts to get in touch with me regarding an important project",
"pronormative_score": 5,
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} | AITA for not replying to my colleagues‘ desperate attempts to get in touch with me regarding an important project? | I am currently on leave of absence.
However my female colleagues are incredibly dependent, lazy, dumb and bitchy.
I’ve always been completely annoyed by them and couldn’t give a damn about them losing their shit right now because they don’t know anything and are used to me handling any major tasks.
All three of th... | HISTORICAL | {
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C2PaF2suPBimxJ9i6xsVmjndRfolCfsL | b9urmc | {
"description": "not wanting my aunt to attend my nan's funeral",
"pronormative_score": 1,
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} | AITA for not wanting my aunt to attend my nan's funeral? | My maternal nan recently passed away on the 25/03/19. She had ovarian cancer however passed suddenly.
The funeral is in a couple of weeks and the news of her passing was placed on social media to inform friends and distant family.
My paternal aunt saw the post and informed me that she was sorry to hear about the l... | HISTORICAL | {
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D3Jdd6QFZPBKtMypa275iVA7K3ViCu8B | ardtr8 | {
"description": "telling my friend about a party she was not invited to and potentially causing more drama",
"pronormative_score": 4,
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} | AITA For telling my friend about a party she was not Invited to and potentially causing more drama? | Sorry if the formatting is terrible doing it on my phone.
Some background...
My friend, let’s call her ‘B’ was planning on having a ‘going away’ party as she is moving to another state. She invited everyone in our friendship group except this other person I’m really close to, let’s call them ‘T’.
‘T’ and ‘B’ used t... | HISTORICAL | {
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fLhbAcGXVJ5ZO9Gonmzzntc1fgRTVhLq | b0hv33 | {
"description": "breaking up with my long distance girlfriend and getting with my former friend's girl",
"pronormative_score": 1,
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} | AITA for breaking up with my long distance girlfriend and getting with my former friend's girl? | Sorry about the formatting, on mobile.
This has been happening over the past couple weeks, and I figured that it'd be good to post here, to allow complete strangers to judge me more objectively than people I know! I was in a long distance relationship with a girl I had been talking to for the past four years. At firs... | HISTORICAL | {
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V7APPxuSoGhECCCRgjFPj7rB3HYTRTra | aw906q | {
"description": "wanting to spend my last night in town after a long stay with my sister",
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} | AITA for wanting to spend my last night in town after a long stay with my sister | I’ve been staying with my sister and BIL for 9 mos as their live in nanny. I quit my job, put my things in storage and moved halfway across the country to do this.
It’s time for me to leave soon and I found out that on my last weekend here my sister is working all weekend. That’s fine, it’s work and not a shift she p... | HISTORICAL | {
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pKYSrdrzDpqydvLinKKKlWA06MXlIUfh | ama11a | {
"description": "not believing my dad about his \"trump photo\"",
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} | AITA for not believing my Dad about his “Trump photo”. | My dad lives out on his ranch far from me. He is slightly nutty (but I love him very much) and claims in a phone call he has come across a photo of Donald Trump from his days in construction doing something highly inappropriate. He wants to show it to me. I am not convinced and since he doesn’t use computers and is wor... | HISTORICAL | {
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4UWD2Bdl9CCqyUo4FkisMaO2PTUw02Cg | 9y888y | {
"description": "dropping my friend who mistakenly dropped me",
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} | AITA for dropping my friend who mistakenly dropped me? | So at the time I knew that friend for four months and we got along real well. I'd reckon we became one of eachothers' closest friends in that time. We'd text about 2 hours every day. In all honesty though, our friendship sort of began out of me getting her out of a controversial relationship. It sort of felt like she w... | HISTORICAL | {
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qhd7MPRtYOuPu9OOawFUBS8Bfobe3tkL | ate6mg | {
"description": "crying out of line",
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} | AITA for crying out of line? | There's a tl:dr; at the bottom, but I feel like you can't judge properly if you don't know the whole story.
So I (M23) have a sister (F21) and two brothers (M18) & (M15). My sister is living on her own as am I, and my brothers are still living at home. But my sister keeps being messy and my parents don't know what... | HISTORICAL | {
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Mg3PLvqo3dVfoYbWwCA0Rh91R1byseZp | b8p6el | {
"description": "taking the easy way out of a possibly sinking ship",
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} | WIBTA for taking the easy way out of a possibly sinking ship? | I'm currently working at a small company, not for long, somewhere around a year now. The work environment is really nice, I'm quite good friends with almost everyone. Problem is it doesn't pay that good (not that bad either, a little below average) and it's unlikely to change in predictable future. That's not the bigge... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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k5JYG2zBsvOsZjSMEDQ2KtstpLfOOMS8 | a3ak8l | null | AITA for online friend? | WIBTA? I have this online friend who is a girl that I've never meet IRL but she's been my friend for about 10 years. I talk to her every now and then and last time I talked to her was 25 days ago then before that about 12 days. She can be very emotionally dependent on me especially now that she's getting a divorce. Sh... | HISTORICAL | {
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hl0JCei9HBLZsgElfqAVhmOMTZwtOcjn | ao3bpa | {
"description": "not wanting to help my boyfriend move",
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} | AITA: am i the asshole if i don't want to help my boyfriend move? | Me (F,21) and my S.O (M,23) had been together for almost a year, living together for six months. On the day we had to move out, I had work around 2pm, so we got up earlyish to finish packing. Essentially I had two big bags of clothes and nothing else. My boyfriend has an insanely heavy bed, a big set of drawers, about ... | HISTORICAL | {
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cIhBCiYo01b51zDcFxGauPGEp9arGTyq | azgh12 | {
"description": "finally speaking my mind to a long term friend who is also going through a shitty time",
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} | AITA for finally speaking my mind to a long term friend who is also going through a shitty time? | I honestly dont know how to give the story without giving out too much information. Which is why this is a throwaway.
This started a good maybe 3 years ago when my bff at the time got with a man and things took off way too fast. She blocked nearly 80% of her friend circle during the first year of the relationship beca... | HISTORICAL | {
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hgrLH6UsvZLk0RIDn4HerILmk74qilGy | anxq1m | {
"description": "breaking a friendship over a holiday disagreement",
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} | AITA for breaking a friendship over a holiday disagreement | **TL/DR: I have not spoken to a friend for a year or so because I felt ditched and left out.**
​
I (24F) and my friend (24F) have been friends throughout university and a little bit after that (so maybe 4-5 years in total). We used to be quite close and would support each other through difficult time. The... | HISTORICAL | {
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G2SHRcfYABWxR632cgzDaMDN8FokQpmD | aj9v5r | {
"description": "telling my ex we can't be friends anymore now that I have a new gf",
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} | AITA for telling my ex we can't be friends anymore now that I have a new GF? | Ex and I met in undergrad and dated for 3 years before breaking up about 1.5 years ago. We remained friends talking every couple of days (hooked up maybe once a month as well) but it was clear that we were not dating anymore which we made clear to our friends and parents. I met a nice girl through a co-worker and we hi... | HISTORICAL | {
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aEBY1w412s1N9XDt1HtA81LheMi2UGep | 9v4osg | {
"description": "feeling gross and not wanting my bf to see me",
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} | AITA Because I feel gross and don’t want my bf to see me? | The couple days before my period I break out in horrific cystic acne. My skin is the worst it’s ever been and I feel really insecure. On top of which, I’ve been so busy that I haven’t been working out as much and I haven’t had a chance to shave my legs. I just feel gross.
My bf and I haven’t seen each other in a week... | HISTORICAL | {
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Vn0DmPQ4KPoGn03f8zxl2fumWdmzz4nY | aqsfe8 | {
"description": "wanting to leave early on a vacation I didn't pay for",
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} | AITA for wanting to leave early on a vacation I didn’t pay for? | Throwaway because this situation sucks.
One day I randomly mentioned to my Uncle and Aunt that I would love to visit [exotic location] where they live and hang out with them. I said I’d probably only be able to stop by for a day on a cruise. They said 1 day is too short and I should come stay for a couple weeks. They... | HISTORICAL | {
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oxlFj5ydK4lZgNY4WmFJSL4JFCHQ00Ry | afeyl5 | {
"description": "being upset that my friend doesn't care as much about me as I care about him",
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} | AITA for being upset that my friend doesn't care as much about me as I care about him? | So basically I've had this friend for a few years and we used to be really close. I considered him one of my best friends, and to this day I feel fairly confident that I was on the higher end of his friend list also.
Fast forward to early last year and he suddenly basically cuts me off. Doesn't try to talk to me in s... | HISTORICAL | {
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b8iQVhfqQ1fQPB85RzWuSOLuoBYZVLU8 | b8nm9s | {
"description": "holding Amazon accountable for delivering to my door",
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} | AITA for holding Amazon accountable for delivering to my door? | Long story short, Amazon has started using Amazon Logistics to deliver packages in my area. I live on the third floor of a sprawling apartment complex which pretty much means its about a 1 in 10 chance that the Amazon Logistics driver follows the delivery instructions and leaves my packages to my enclosed front door. T... | HISTORICAL | {
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BB6zFo5rNRre8cd8IhI3VyEXgDuyDDBA | anzd65 | {
"description": "sending my friend a present for Valentine's day",
"pronormative_score": 1,
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} | WIBTA if I sent my friend a present for Valentine's Day? | I (25f) have a friend (24m) who is having a real rough time romantically and financially right now. He won't take me up on any offers to lend him money, and the dates I've set him up on haven't gone anywhere.
He has been single for several years so Valentine's is hard for him. To make the day less shitty, I am consi... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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d0zZFw8ChqnKbEFxWRybUhIE1Zo2JfOs | acy6u8 | {
"description": "being sketched out over a seemingly sketchy post",
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} | AITA for being sketched out over a seemingly sketchy post? | [Send me a minimum of $55 for a box of mystery items](https://imgur.com/gallery/OvM8hXy) but I can’t tell you what those items are and you can’t discuss the items with other buyers. I understand me posting “tf is this?” Was shitty and I’ll own up to that but otherwise AITA? I’m red btw. | HISTORICAL | {
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Ry5fLF1cMM9G0wQgO6FtJls1JuBId6Dn | aoqkje | {
"description": "getting upset with my gf when I try to accommodate her",
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} | AITA for getting upset with my gf when i try to accommodate her? | A bit long, TLDR at the bottom.
A little bit of context, I am a very straight forward person who says what I mean without second thoughts (so essentially filterless - I know this is a problem and I actively work on biting my tongue). Regardless, my gf is a self-prescribed “people pleaser” except is seems to me that sh... | HISTORICAL | {
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H4py3oZTnvldugvwtTcZubN44Q0cEyi5 | b1z839 | {
"description": "not wanting to go to a saint Patrick day festival I invited my dad to",
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} | AITA for not wanting to go to a saint Patrick day festival I invited my dad to? | I asked my dad if he wanted to come to a festival as we have a hard time connecting although we live in the same house, at first he said yes but had to see if his girlfriend would let him. I immediately wanted to cancel as I felt like it should’ve been an obvious yes. I can definitely see how I’m being selfish as his g... | HISTORICAL | {
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gD117LRhyGqm7aFXQHeYLWufoupeUfvX | algyaa | null | AITA For This Fight? | Sure you can start by saying that either one of us started the fight, but i believe he started it and he believes I started it, so lets start from the beginning.
This was a few months ago so I've had some time to cool down, but I still get crap about it on the daily since I could never tell anyone my side of the story... | HISTORICAL | {
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CSfaHoNHPBR0Uu5hM9ots2qJzYhXwrZE | arf5rg | {
"description": "not believing suspicious roomate didn't steal",
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} | AITA for not believing suspicious roomate didn’t steal? | So sorry in advance, this post will probably get pretty long.
Y sus roommate
J my roommate that is my friend
S cool roommates girlfriend
I live in an apartment with two other guys. (Y and J) We all have our own room/bathroom but share a living room and kitchen area.
Y is of legal age to buy alcohol so occasional... | HISTORICAL | {
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r24JngpGOXfLkyQbX7SBSexNHT4dJ94P | ahyid9 | {
"description": "trying to break into my neighbours yard",
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} | AITA for trying to break into my neighbours yard | AITA for wanting to get to the bottom of what has happened.
My 10 year old sister recently got two rabbits about 2 months ago and has been obsessed with them. About a week ago I was home alone (I’m a 16 year old male) when my neighbour knocked on the door and asked me to come with her in an almost annoyed tone. Her d... | HISTORICAL | {
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qj7XWqRPISgXvX7rM5yg51JBBiA7Qkwv | af68xm | {
"description": "having more people over on girls night",
"pronormative_score": 1,
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} | AITA for having more people over on girls night? | I haven’t seen my best friends in a little over a month. I asked them if they wanted to stay in our go out bar hopping to meet up with people. Like typical girls they say “up to you” and I said Idc just tell me. Overall they say no. We watch a movie and they pass out while I’m still awake and bored. Initially I wanted... | HISTORICAL | {
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cMiX6qAN8J51kIs8GsDpMmoa7Do4PwPM | b64vzl | {
"description": "speaking to the district manager about my personal situation",
"pronormative_score": 2,
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} | AITA for speaking to the district manager about my personal situation. | All my managers are panicked for having the regional manager coming for an inspection. It’s a pretty big deal. Deep down I know I shouldn’t bother someone higher up with my issues but I’m at a point where this is my only other option.
My contract finishes at the end of the month and my managers want to rehire me, but... | HISTORICAL | {
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mnfoGZiKLgAGU0h0QkRcGY32B6pQEOoz | b5wi7a | {
"description": "getting mad at my mum for not giving me reasons why I can't do stuff",
"pronormative_score": 4,
"contranormative_score": 1
} | AITA for getting mad at my mum for not giving me reasons why I can't do stuff? | I usually ask my mum if I can train for basketball by going up to the courts because I really wanna get good before the season starts. Anyways she usually says 'no', I ask why and she says 'cuz I said so' and I get pretty pissed at the lack of reason, and it always ends up into fights and arguments. | HISTORICAL | {
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vI7pA36blWwgZA0QYcHjiCD30m3FbDTM | ajnk1z | {
"description": "ignoring/excluding my classmate",
"pronormative_score": 2,
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} | AITA for ignoring/excluding my classmate | It has been a whole academic year and everyone in the class has formed their own cliques.
This classmate of mine isn't part of the main three cliques in the class and he always follows me around in an attempt to fit in.
BUT he's really "extra" in a sense that he says things at awkward timings and butts into conversatio... | HISTORICAL | {
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9IYoQpj3iDj8RxpEDTcCdpKSVKwnWDz0 | b2najl | {
"description": "making my Sister clean up my Mother's Poop",
"pronormative_score": 5,
"contranormative_score": 5
} | AITA For Making My Sister Clean Up My Mother's Poop? | This happened a few years ago.
After my father died of cancer (diagnosed and death all within 5 months), my mother went straight downhill. They were married for almost 50 years so they were always devoted to each other.
My mother started forgetting easy things within a few months of his death. Could no longer write c... | HISTORICAL | {
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"INFO": 0
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E2rqC3nMlJ8LzHkNfFHIvdPIILyzSatl | b9wk69 | {
"description": "getting my piggy packed on my MOH's bridesmaids gifts for mine since we share some 'maids",
"pronormative_score": 4,
"contranormative_score": 1
} | WIBTA if I got my piggy packed on my MOH’s bridesmaids gifts for mine since we share some ‘maids? | So confusing title sorry, but I am getting married in October, I’ve been engaged for 2 years now and have been planning for my bridesmaids robes for getting ready because cute photos and blah blah blah.
My best friend and co MoH (she shares the title with my sister because my sister is 2,000 miles away so they are s... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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C3a7OLTyYTOELYzicZTasScnjIc1tsUR | ax8uep | null | AITA - Angry at scam but perhaps overreacted | OK, so I live in southeast asia but am an expat. The other day we went to a place that gets a mix of tourists and locals. When it was time to go home, kids are tired and grumpy and it's getting late. The only taxi area we could find has a line leading up to a table and then a line after the table that goes to the cabs.... | HISTORICAL | {
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HkOQwjfAewAwaAcufHGH7uMhvSafINer | b8bv3j | {
"description": "not wanting to learn how to drive",
"pronormative_score": 4,
"contranormative_score": 4
} | AITA for not wanting to learn how to drive? | So, for many, many years I've been avoiding driving, but now I'm twenty three, and I have a wife who drives me around, and a newborn son. But it goes deeper than that.
I have a lazy eye, which pretty much cuts off 85% of my vision on the right side, while even my "good" eye is pretty shitty. Besides that I just have r... | HISTORICAL | {
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te9TJrulL2t1rvM7g2ivAkbp5lNZiDiW | ao65m7 | {
"description": "not liking the engagement ring",
"pronormative_score": 13,
"contranormative_score": 13
} | AITA for not liking the engagement ring? | Well this is my very first reddit post and I’m on mobile so I apologize for any formatting issues.
My boyfriend(23m) and I(23f) have been together for seven months now. We both know we are meant to be with each other and we both know we are going to get married one day. He’s my best friend and a truly wonderful and k... | HISTORICAL | {
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"INFO": 0
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"RIGHT": 13,
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1abIPJ6D9aBjv6tB1OO6n84j1r7yHVue | ayx76h | {
"description": "being honest about inviting a friend to a party",
"pronormative_score": 4,
"contranormative_score": 1
} | AITA for being honest about inviting a friend to a party? | Recently I introduced a friend (Sam) of mine to a wider friend group. Sam is much older than us and very much a showman/dominant personality and likes to be centre of attention and win people over. People either love him (usually quieter people) or hate him (other louder people). I genuinely like him one on one (when i... | HISTORICAL | {
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y4MQGoUEwjs80P4ZdU7fRuIbsYuxiEkG | b1wo6j | {
"description": "wanting to go back to uni and needing to take a back seat on bills",
"pronormative_score": 1,
"contranormative_score": 1
} | AITA for wanting to go back to uni and needing to take a back seat on bills? | So I'm going to try and give all of the facts, I want this to be unbiased!
I own the flat my partner (of 3 years) and I live in as I bought it before we got together. (There is a mortgage but I own a fair chunk and it has gained c£55,000 value since I bought it 4 years ago)
Recently I've felt like I missed out on my... | HISTORICAL | {
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L7KsRHf2Asp4foeOMMVmW1mJ1wFyLnK3 | anlws9 | {
"description": "thinking my best friend is annoying",
"pronormative_score": 2,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for thinking my best friend is annoying? | Me and my friend met about 2 years ago, around the time my dad passed away. He helped me get through it, and we hang(ed) out all the time. As time passed, I noticed him copying some of the things I do, and him doing some odd things behind my back. An example of this is when I put my glasses on him as a joke, and (jokin... | HISTORICAL | {
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