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AITA my parents keeping on having sex, I can hear them, i tried to subtly tell them that I’m awake but it isn’t working. Would it be rude if I stomped on the floor? I need to be up early for school and this has been happening repeatedly.
I know it means they have a good relationship (I’m grateful) but it’s making me emotionally and physically tired. I cannot keep it to myself anymore
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{ "description": "not wanting to immediately be labeled as an asshole", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not wanting to immediately be labeled as an asshole?
Throwaway account as partner also has reddit, etc. Bit of backstory: I've had anger issues for a long time. In the past 4 years I started making progress to deal with them (Note: I'm in my late 20s) and have come a long way. I'm in no way perfect and I know I make a lot of mistakes. I've been married to my Partner(...
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{ "description": "not wanting to give my coworker a ride home from work", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to give my coworker a ride home from work
I work as a janitor at my local theater with a group if 3 others. I've worked with all of them very close and we've become good friends. But I'm the only one who drives. One rides their bike, one takes the bus or Lyft, and the final one gets a ride to and from but sometimes walks to work and gets picked up after. Now...
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{ "description": "getting mad at a coworker", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for getting mad at a coworker.
Am I the Asshole for getting mad at work. First off I'm a contractor for the Army doing Reset on Helicopters. I handle mainly Ground Support Equipment meaning that I pick up and do pre operational checks on generators, hydraulic equipment, etc. A large part of my job consists of sitting and waiting until I'm needed....
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{ "description": "struggling through a break up and reaching out to friends for support", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for struggling through a break up and reaching out to friends for support?
Broke up with gf of 2 years after persistent advice and insight on the unhealthy state we were in. As someone with clinical depression it crushed me. Fast forward a few weeks, a peer says she likes me, we go out on a date, and a few days later, her and my other close friend yell at me for “talking too much about m...
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{ "description": "giving my friend a loan when she was broke, though she said she doesnt want coz she can't pay back soon", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for giving my friend a loan when she was broke, though she said she doesnt want coz she can't pay back soon?
[I've been rewriting this post to add details for a few hours. Finally posting, after debating if I should or shouldn't. And created a new Reddit account to keep myself anonymous] Background: The friend in this story, "X" and I have been friends since we were in first grade. She was my first best friend. We were schoo...
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{ "description": "abandoning someone really important to me", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for abandoning someone really important to me?
So I dated this girl for 5 months and we barely had time to hang out and I knew it wasn't going to last long, we also kept it tight under covers so no one really knew about it. About a month ago she decided to hang out with another guy when we hadn't hung out for a month and it caused a fight that she didn't handle rig...
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{ "description": "thinking my (now ex) boyfriend was selfish", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for thinking my (now ex) boyfriend was selfish?
(Maybe important to note, we're both gay guys) So a bit of backstory, recently my boyfriend left me for the sake of his mental health - basically he has anxiety and the relationship was making it worse because I'm not exactly in the best space mentally - and I thought that was all fine and good, however, he then got a...
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{ "description": "wanting my boyfriend to go to my extended family's Christmas", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting my boyfriend to go to my extended family’s Christmas
We have been together on and off for around two years and together consistently for a year. I’d like to say that the relationship is getting pretty serious, as we have been talking about moving in with each other soon. He wants to enlist in the military and then get married after basic training. I go to every single ...
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{ "description": "wanting an apology for rude and sexist jokes during dinner from my SO's family, even though my meal was paid for", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for wanting an apology for rude and sexist jokes during dinner from my SO’s family, even though my meal was paid for?
I recently went out to dinner with my SO, his parents who were in town visiting, his BIL, and the BIL’s friend. This was my first time meeting the BIL and friend, and let me tell you it was not a great first impression. My SO and I arrive and the friend introduces himself by asking for “a hug from the lady, always got...
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{ "description": "making my roommate take a separate uber if he wants to party with me and my friends", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA For making my roommate take a separate uber if he wants to party with me and my friends?
So I've known my roommate (Male, who shall be known as RM) for over a year now, and I'd say we are pretty good friends. The college I goto has frats that rarely throw parties allowing guys in, so these parties are kinda a big deal for me and my friends. However, the caveat is that you need a good ratio of girls in your...
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{ "description": "being upset with my friend", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being upset with my friend?
My friend and I met 5 years ago and were quite close friends. When I applied for my job, I told my friend to do so as well (same degree, skillset) and we both got it, and have been working together for around 8 months. Until the start of January, we would meet up for lunch or see each other every so often, and it was ...
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{ "description": "hanging out with my friends", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for hanging out with my friends?
I currently live with my grandma. She’s great, but she’s very overbearing and controlling. She constantly goes through my stuff, and won’t let me do things kids my age do, such as get my licence. Yes, my grandma still drives me around. I like to get out of the house and hang out with friends. I didn’t get the opportu...
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{ "description": "asking an african-american grocery store employee if he had Friday off", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA if I asked an African-American grocery store employee if he had Friday off?
I was at the local grocery store and the cashier seemed to be real chatty because I had a local sports team hat on. He asked me about the football game on Thursday etc. So as I was about to leave I asked him if he had Friday off. He said, nope it's a normal day for us, why do you ask? So instinctively I said that he ...
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{ "description": "telling my girlfriend her make up looks bad", "pronormative_score": 16, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA if I told my girlfriend her make up looks bad?
My gf has been experimenting with make up / a more aggressive (her words not mine) look. She usually asks me for her opinion (I don't really know how to answer, I always think she looks great), she tried something different recently and I don't think it looks good...but what do I know, it could be great - do I tell he...
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{ "description": "getting upset at people who get so competitive at adult recreational sports", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for getting upset at people who get so competitive at adult recreational sports!?
Ok so adults here... playing a sport when your an adult can be fun right!? I find It so annoying when people get so worked up over a little friendly competition. What are your thoughts!?
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{ "description": "not being excited about friend's new relationship while I'm going through heartbreak", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not being excited about friend’s new relationship while I’m going through heartbreak?
I was hanging out with a girlfriend earlier tonight. She and I both met someone around the same time and have been dating them this whole time. For her, it worked out. They are in a committed relationship now. Tonight, she talked about how he almost said “I love you” to her. While this is lovely news, she absolutely ...
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{ "description": "being (mildly) upset my girlfriend ordered delivery and got me something I dislike and wouldn't eat", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for being (mildly) upset my girlfriend ordered delivery and got me something I dislike and wouldn't eat
Background: I hate American cheese and I hate mustard. Absolutely hate em, I think because they're unnaturally yellow. Anyway, my girlfriend (whom I've lived with for over a year and 1/2) has a habit of having food delivered without asking what I would like. She'll just order for me, which is fine most of the time. B...
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{ "description": "not helping my cousin clean my moms basement", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not helping my cousin clean my moms basement?
(Mobile Formatting) This happened awhile ago but I didn’t know this sub existed so I’m going to ask it now. I am 16 and don’t have an siblings, when I was around 10 or 11 my cousin stayed with my family for awhile and basically became my stand in sibling and I still view him as more of a brother then a cousin. I curr...
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{ "description": "telling someone they were being shittalked about", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA to tell someone they were being shittalked about?
TLDR: do you tell someone that they were being shittalked if you and them already don’t like the shittalker? I’m a very honest person and I feel like everything is a lot more simple if you tell people what you think about them, but sometimes I overstep my boundaries by telling other people what other people think abou...
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{ "description": "not helping this guy smile", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 1 }
Aita for not helping this guy smile?
Aita here? I posted this to r/rant first and as I was typing it all out I started wondering if I should have been more understanding based on the fact thar he clearly has issues. So here it is. Mods delete if I didn't follow all the rules. So, I work in a convenience store and this guy came in with his friends one tim...
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{ "description": "making fun of a coworker for continually messing up at work", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA For making fun of a coworker for continually messing up at work
So I work with a guy who it seems like every other weekend he does something that is jaw dropping worthy... For example; We work in management and about a month ago he forgot his phone was still on after a phone call with another manager. We both heard him talking to a union colleague and bashing the manager he was jus...
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{ "description": "kicking my (then) girlfriend out", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for kicking my (then) girlfriend out?
Some back story: Her and I had been together for about 4 years, and in general they were a pretty happy 4 years with a few arguments here and there. The thing that gave me hope is that we always resolved an argument within a day and never went to bed without settling things. Right before we moved in together, I asked...
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AITA usually saying no to hanging out with my friend group and then going out with someone else?
Hi... So I was/am part of a group of friends (we are all 17-19) but I was kinda getting tired of them (maybe i'm too sensitive..IDK) because I'd often (like 35% of the time?) come back from going out with a pretty shitty mood. but they were my only friends so I never really had anyone else which made me feel kinda l...
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{ "description": "getting frustrated at my gf", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for getting frustrated at my GF?
TL;DR - bottom Little bit of background So my SO (25F) and I (24M) have been together for two years, we have done everything together from vacationing to small trips to family functions and everything in between. I do love this girl to death and we are both doing very well for ourselves. We both have very steady high...
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{ "description": "complaining about my new neighbor's small child", "pronormative_score": 14, "contranormative_score": 5 }
WIBTA for complaining about my new neighbor's small child
I am more than a little bit frustrated with my new neighbors. I live in a 4plex next to a big university. The area is mostly students, but my new neighbors have a small child. I don't really know anything about children but it walks and talks, but I don't think it goes to school, so whatever age that is? The neighbors ...
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{ "description": "not wanting to go to a basketball game with my friends", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to go to a basketball game with my friends?
My friends and I are on a ski trip getaway. There is 5 of us, including me. The 4 of them wanted to go to a basketball game and get mid range tickets for about 120$ each. The three of them are basketball fanatics but I am not. I don’t like sports too much, especially sporting events. Watching basketball, or any sport...
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{ "description": "yelling at a teenager in Drivers Ed", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for yelling at a teenager in Drivers Ed?
So I (f32) am taking a Young Drivers course. A little late in life, but I didn't need a car when I was living in the city. Last night was my last class. Let me tell you, spending time in a classroom setting with teenagers was a challenge. They're all really disruptive and annoying. But I've managed to keep my cool unti...
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{ "description": "cutting out my sister", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA For cutting out my sister?
I have two sisters and two brothers. My oldest sister, 'Ella', is five years my senior. She's always been bossy and used to bully me, but since we were kids I would forgive it if it had stopped. When I speak to her online, she seems so chill, but whenever she's here with me she acts quite entitled. Ella moved out t...
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{ "description": "faking a narcolepsy attack", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 10 }
AITA for faking a narcolepsy attack?
I'm narcoleptic. I've had it for around three years now, but just got the official diagnosis about a half a year ago. It makes a lot of things in my life very, very hard. But my friends don't seem to understand that. When I first got it, I was sleeping around 20 hours a day. The cataplexy was so bad doctor's though m...
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{ "description": "\"not showing up\" and \"not seeing what I did wrong\"", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for "not showing up" and "not seeing what i did wrong"
So me and my "not really girlfriend" - we are mostly just having fun, but it‘s still more than like friends with benefits. Were at a party and she asked when i‘d come over the next time i told her that i could come whenever, and tomorrow i would have time after class which was about 1pm. So she was like, she thinks tom...
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{ "description": "not rolling down my window & talking to the guy", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not rolling down my window & talking to the guy?
I (25m) had a very uncomfortable situation today and I feel really bad. I had just come from a job interview, and while I feel it went well, I was still reeling with uncomfortable...ness as a result of the stress. I then went on an errand to a part of town I hadn't been to before (therefore making me extremely uncomf...
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{ "description": "calling a teller marketer back and accusing them of being a scam", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for calling a teller marketer back and accusing them of being a scam?
I often get calls from blocked numbers that I ignore. Sometimes these callers leave voicemails. Today, one such call promised yet again that I could get student loan forgiveness from Navient if I call them back. I called back and my first question was “do you represent Navient?” When the answer was no, I immediately a...
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{ "description": "canceling plans that were changed hours beforehand", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for canceling plans that were changed hours beforehand.
A friend and I had made plans just under a week ago to hang out today. About two hours beforehand he called me "asking" if a mutual acquaintance could join us. I spent a bit of time thinking about if I should begrudgingly go along with it to be polite, or decline which is what I would rather do. I ended up declining...
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{ "description": "getting hurt after my mom fussed at me", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for getting hurt after my mom fussed at me?
Preface for this because this adds a ton of context: in depressed and anxious. Ever since last year I have been struggling to stop binge eating episodes, but each time I come home my weight gets higher. I promised my mom that I would lose the weight however I fell back into old patterns and struggles, but since I know ...
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AITA: I am constantly irritated with my roommate
Going to try to keep this anonymous, but I just started attending a university and I moved into a dorm with one of my friends from high school. We were pretty good friends before we decided to actually live together, but became increasingly closer friends over the summer before we moved in. All was well for a while. Sh...
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{ "description": "asking my sister for money", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for asking my sister for money?
first, this is my first post and english is not my first language so if there is any confusion in the wording (phrasing?) , I apologize in advance. so it all starts when my sister wanted me to make 8 icons for her musical group, and she offered me money in exchange so i could do it in that one night, so i agr...
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AITA sports team group chat
So recently I’ve made it on a sports team for the 4th year in a row. I’m excited because this is the last year I’m eligible so I’m one of the oldest people on the team. Every year this team has a texting group chat for socializing and important subjects regarding the team. The problem is that it’s always on the Apple ...
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{ "description": "constantly talking about my medical issues", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for constantly talking about my medical issues?
Just for clarification, I'm on mobile so the formatting is going to be off. Sorry! I have been dealing with a medical condition that has really controlled my life right from the start. It throws me in the ER once every year from a kidney infection. It definitely impacts me on a daily basis. Because this is from birth,...
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{ "description": "wanting my cousin to move out already", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting my cousin to move out already.
So this all started in 2017 around the start of August. My cousin lets call him Chase was dropped off without notice and i wad told he's that he lives with me now. My mom was at work so i wasnt sure if she had agreed or not but i wasn't mad i kinda accepted it. From what i heard he got into a disagreement with his step...
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{ "description": "being upset with my best friend for moving on so quickly after his breakup", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for being upset with my best friend for moving on so quickly after his breakup?
My friend has been in a long-distance relationship with his girlfriend of 2 years for the past 6 months. I met him 6 months ago and we've grown really tight. I'm a gay girl so it's always been completely platonic between us. We tell each other just about everything and we are really, really close. ​ The p...
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{ "description": "getting upset because someone called me out for being annoying", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for getting upset because someone called me out for being annoying?
*TL;DR: I can get annoying from the intensity of my interests and how much I talk about them, I got put in my place, but felt attacked and don't know if that's a reasonable reaction or what to do about it.* This is a pretty small issue, but here goes. I have a group of good friends ranging in age from older teen to ...
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{ "description": "inviting a friend to move to my city to live with me, deciding it won't work out, and asking her to move out, knowing she will probably have to leave the city", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for inviting a friend to move to my city to live with me, deciding it won't work out, and asking her to move out, knowing she will probably have to leave the city?
As I was about to move in to a new 2 bedroom apartment 1.5 years ago, I was in the process of rekindling a friendship that started around 10 years earlier. This person I always knew as a badass and good person, but recently she had fallen on hard times. She seemed really depressed and her life seemed like it was crumb...
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{ "description": "not wanting to be friends with my bestie because of her wierd mental condition", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not wanting to be friends with my bestie because of her wierd mental condition
So I (19 M) have a friend 20M (lets call him Max). We are in college and we have been best friends for an year. This guy is a typical introvert and i am one of the very few frnds he has in the campus. About 6 months ago, he started liking this girl 20 F (lets call her Anna). She was a sweet girl and also an introver...
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{ "description": "fixing stuff in my parents basement without their full consent", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA For fixing stuff in my parents basement without their full consent?
To start, it already sounds bad when I say full consent. My father is physically disabled and we live in a 2 story with a 1/2 finished basement. The first floor any work that is done I go through him to “ check my work “ he’s trained me in electrical, plumbing, flooring, hanging drywall (removing as well) anyways the...
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{ "description": "getting upset with my wife", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for getting upset with my wife
I'll try to keep it short. So, my wife and I were teasing each other like spouses do, nothing major or out of the ordinary. I lightly popped her with a kitchen towel, not even hard enough to leave a red mark on her pale skin. She asked me to stop popping her and I did, but I kept lightly slinging the towel at her. I wa...
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{ "description": "not apologizing to my father", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not apologizing to my father
Hi, 18f here, i live in a heavily religious Christian family and I myself am leaning towards atheist myself. Now, I want to give all the information beforr I start, my dad is verbally abusive towards my mother. No, he has never laid a hand on her but he makes her feel like snot amd when they argue he always turns aroun...
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{ "description": "getting mad at my boyfriend for not getting a valentine's gift for me", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for getting mad at my boyfriend for not getting a valentine’s gift for me?
today i mentioned something about valentine’s day and he said “wait your getting me something?” and i was like “yea of course i am” and he just told me that he wasn’t getting me anything cause he thought “we weren’t celebrating it” . i never once mentioned that. so i got mad and it’s not like i’m asking for some expens...
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{ "description": "lying for months to my father that I had been exercising", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for lying for months to my father that I had been exercising?
Basically, my father's a bit of an exercise guy who used to be fat, and decided to shave it off a long while ago, before I was born. And he essentially kinda wants me to go the same way, exercise daily just like he does. He used to do it with me daily, but ever since he let me do it individually, I have essentially...
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{ "description": "being pissed at a constantly cancelling friend", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for being pissed at a constantly cancelling friend?
I have a friend that is constantly cancelling on me and our other friend. We’ll text on weekends (we all attend school and none of us have jobs) and decide to hang out, and then the day of, she’ll cancel. This has happened time after time in the past few weeks. She’ll always say something came up a few hours before. R...
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{ "description": "not wanting to go to the beach with my mother in law", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not wanting to go to the beach with my mother in law?
There's some backstory I need to cover before I get into the meat of things, it's all relevant, I promise. I am the younger of two daughters to a still happily married couple. My husband is the only child to a single mother. My mother in law has a very limited social life (limited to her sister in law and extended fa...
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{ "description": "venting about petty stuff while I'm aware that it's basically an inconvenience and waste of time for the listener", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for venting about petty stuff while I’m aware that it’s basically an inconvenience and waste of time for the listener?
I noticed a habit that I developed. Ever since I understood the power of venting, I’ve been using it and I started using it on the pettiest shit and I know it’s really selfish but it feels good to “transfer” the negativity somewhere, even though that somewhere is another person with feelings too. Feelings that get ruin...
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AITA in a video game
AITA Ok so first off I'm generally a calm person, I like to think that I'm generally reasonable and act rationally during competitive multiplayer games. However, today I stumbled into a number of extremely terrible games and as it started to irk me. So I muted myself as I don't want to say anything I would regret. ...
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{ "description": "not delivering my mother's gift to her friends", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for not delivering my mother's gift to her friends?
I was going to drive grandma around because she wanted to go around places. My mother saw this as an opportunity to make me give her Christmas gifts to her friends that lives next to grandma. I told her, I will not give her gifts to them. She muttered ungrateful bastard. I don't know them, I don't want to give it to t...
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{ "description": "wanting to kick out my housemates friend who wasnt on the lease", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting to kick out my housemates friend who wasnt on the lease.
John my friend and I are on the lease to a house with two others who are not. A housemate moved out and john said he knew someone who wanted the room. I was away the weekend john set up the interview process and i didnt meet him until he moved in. Upon moving in, john and the new guy brad let me know that brads sister ...
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{ "description": "backing away from this friendship? Gf lied to her partner/my friend about a miscarriage when she really aborted and I feel angry she told me and not him", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I backed away from this friendship? Gf lied to her partner/my friend about a miscarriage when she really aborted and I feel angry she told me and not him.
I’ve never really posted, so please be gentle if I misstep. I am a 40 yo female. I have a 30 yo male friend who I’ve been close to for near a decade. We’ve never been romantic, nor even entertained it. He started dating a wonderful young woman about two years ago. He has two children from a previous relationship. He i...
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{ "description": "being upset that my boyfriend gave me a gift", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being upset that my boyfriend gave me a gift?
So here's the context. I've always been a quiet sort of shy person. I'm the type that would rather blend in and I'm quite content with that. This is something everyone I'm close with knows about me so there's usually no surprise birthday parties or things of that nature as it would cause me a lot of anxiety having that...
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{ "description": "trolling my gf once in League of Legends", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for trolling my gf once in League of Legends?
This is a silly situation that has gotten a bit out of hand. I've been playing League of Legends, a popular online video game, for years. My gf of almost one year recently started playing as well, after gaining interest from watching me play. I'd say she's played 50% of the games alone and 50% with me. She has improve...
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{ "description": "not visiting my family during the holidays", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for not visiting my family during the holidays?
July of this year, I finally moved out on my own. A few friends and I got a place about an hour away from family, all of us moving out of our parents house. My mom works with me for a newspaper, so she asked me today if I wanted to see her for Thanksgiving. I said no, and she had a pretty disgusted look on her face. Sh...
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{ "description": "not wanting my friend to bring another friend Comic-Con", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA for not wanting my friend to bring another friend Comic-Con
So to start off I'm bringing my friend to a very small Comic-Con for her birthday. We had planned to go together as a pair, but she wants to bring another friend. I don't know this person at all. I don't know what they look like or anything. My friend has a tendency to stop talking to me in favor of talking to other ...
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{ "description": "dissuading my grandma from throwing my mom a surprise party", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for dissuading my grandma from throwing my mom a surprise party?
I don't think my mom would like that. A party isn't something you just jump in to. You need to prepare for it. And it's her birthday. You should be able to have a say about what happens on your birthday. But I can't help but feel like a party pooper. I'm always the one going 'guys, wait, I don't think this is a good...
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{ "description": "not letting my father borrow my car", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for not letting my father borrow my car?
So this story is a few years old and has pretty much resolved itself but its nice to get other opinions. I (25 F) was given a van (bought and paid for by my deceased grandfather years prior. It was a 2001) in highschool and used it as my sole transport until 2017 when it was keyed and had 3 of 4 tires slashed. Im a v...
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{ "description": "cutting off my relationship with one of the closest people to me", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for cutting off my relationship with one of the closest people to me?
About a few weeks ago, I cut off my relationship with my best friend because I felt like I needed some time for myself and to improve on life, but he wanted to work each other up and work together on things. I really felt like going solo and breaking off from him, so I did. It was pretty abrupt and I was dealing with s...
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{ "description": "telling my MOH's boyfriend to not text me about his girlfriend's stress", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 9 }
AITA for telling my MOH's boyfriend to not text me about his girlfriend's stress
Alright, so the title might be a bit misleading. My wedding is next week, and let me just say I didn't really want any of the other parties, but my MOH (maid of honor) insisted she throw me a bridal shower and I finally gave in and said yes. My bridal shower is today and her boyfriend texts me and says (I'm summariz...
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{ "description": "meeting up with a member of the opposite sex whilst being in a relationship", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for meeting up with a member of the opposite sex whilst being in a relationship?
So a while ago I went to go see a friend of mine I had recently gotten to know however my gf didn't know about her and hadn't found a good opportunity to tell the friend about my gf yet either. This came to a head when my friend said that they liked me. I told them about my gf after making sure I hadn't been leading th...
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{ "description": "ghosting/ignoring my sister after she revealed a secret of mine to our parents", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for ghosting/ignoring my (21F) sister after she revealed a secret of mine (19M) to our parents?
Background Information: My sister and I had a very poor relationship when I was growing up (10 - 16), she smoked a lot of pot and did a lot of drugs and I just played COD all day. Then I started occasionally smoking pot (Once every 2-3 weeks) our relationship started growing. But our parents are heavily against pot, bu...
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{ "description": "calling the cops on a random bar goer", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for calling the cops on a random bar goer?
So I just go home from this incident. I host triva at bars, tonight, some regulars say they’re going from my bar to another after hours. “Sweet, I’ll meet up with you guys there!” After I close up I meet up with 5 regulars and a coworker at Bar B, I’ve never been there before so there’s a lot of new faces. My co...
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{ "description": "being annoyed about birthday gifts", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 3 }
WIBTA if I were annoyed about birthday gifts
For the record I’m 15, and I know the title sounds bad, but bare with me. For my birthday, none of my friends got me anything and expect me to get them stuff for theirs, WIBTA for being annoyed about this? They said they would only get a gift if I had a party, but my family is trying to save money and I didn’t want the...
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{ "description": "not wanting to go out every Friday night because then I'll miss my show", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to go out every Friday night because then I'll miss my show?
So I have some friends from elementary school. We've decided to make getting together a weekly thing. I'm totally happy about that, but the thing is they want to make a standing date for Friday nights. Well, I like to watch Downton Abbey at 8 on Friday's. And I go to bed pretty early, like 9-9:30. I wake up at 5 with...
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{ "description": "not giving my mom my phone password", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 10 }
AITA for not giving my mom my phone password?
I (14) let my mom use my phone for directions. When it locked, she asked me for my password. I offered to unlock it with my thumb, but she persisted. I then gave a half hearted excuse, because I didn't really want to outright say no to my mom. I said "well, I don't want dad to hear." Which we both probably knew was a l...
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{ "description": "assuming the Maid of Honor should organize the Bachelorette Party", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for assuming the Maid of Honor should organize the Bachelorette Party?
Backstory: My friend (f/31) is getting married in September. She is the second oldest of four sisters (and two brothers, who are irrelevant). Her Maid of Honor is her youngest sister (YS). Said YS is married herself and even though she is in her mid-20s, I've always known her to be a bit childish and unsocial. YS cre...
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{ "description": "telling my sister to stop talking to me until she at least tries to get her shit together", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for telling my sister to stop talking to me until she at least tries to get her shit together?
Repost because the original post wasn't approved. I [25F] had yet another argument with my sister [23F], and we blocked each other afterwards. This time, she came to me complaining about her psychiatrist because she called her lazy. When I asked her to elaborate, she said the doctor tells her she should worry about th...
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{ "description": "not wanting my gf friends over", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA For not wanting my gf friends over?
On mobile so my apologies for any mistakes. Bit of background, my girlfriend and I are in college and she has moved in with me for almost a year now, and we’ve been dating for two years. I share my apartment with a friend from high school ( each with out own room), but he’s chill with the situation and gets along wit...
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{ "description": "choosing to not be a bridesmaid in my sister's wedding", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 2 }
WIBTA if I chose to not be a bridesmaid in my sister’s wedding?
Mobile user... First time posting... My little sister has been like a daughter to me for years, we are more like great friends with a mother/daughter dynamic. She messes up, I’m there to fix stuff...she needs advice, I’m there to provide. We had a huge falling out about 3 years ago, which lasted about 2 years. Las...
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{ "description": "not parking in a different spot", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA for not parking in a different spot?
Sorry for formatting. Tldr at bottom. I work at 7am in the morning and occasionally I'll head to Starbucks in a quiet plaza around 6:30 to grab coffee. I usually park in the spot that's most convenient (don't we all?) and easy to park in. This spot is directly facing the Starbucks, where there are table and chairs se...
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{ "description": "reaching out to a past coworker/friend for help getting my resume in front of her boss", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for reaching out to a past coworker/friend for help getting my resume in front of her boss?
Background: I work in insurance. The industry is as much about who you know as what you know. I have been trying to get back into a company I left several years ago. I have been auto declined once, declined after interview once but the feedback was really good and they told me they’d like to have me back and to keep an...
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{ "description": "trying to ignore my very ill mother", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA For trying to ignore my very ill mother?
So, from the title you're probably thinking that I am very much a complete and utter Ahole for ignoring my sick mother so please let me give some context first. About 1 to 2 years ago, my mother was diagnosed with a mental illness called lewy body dementia (which is very close to Alzheimer's or Parkinson's) which mak...
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{ "description": "ghosting my landlord", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA For Ghosting My Landlord?
A few years ago, friend 1 had a place all to herself that was too big and expensive for one person. Friend 2 and I moved in with her. When we did, we asked the landlord if we should add our names to the lease. He said don't worry about it. A bit later friend 1 (the person with the lease) moved away. Again, friend 2 and...
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{ "description": "thinking that people who talk incessantly about their significant other are really very insecure people and probably their relationship is not even that good", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for thinking that people who talk incessantly about their significant other are really very insecure people and probably their relationship is not even that good??
I see posts on social media all the time from friends that talk about how wonderful their significant other is because of blah...blah...blah. I’m married but I don’t feel I need to share every thought or feeling I have about my wife. Is it wrong for me to feel these people that do post everything all the time have ...
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{ "description": "needing my space and living my life the way I want to", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for needing my space and living my life the way I want to?
Hi, I'm back again with more problems. I was at work when my father tagged me and my sister in a post on Facebook, sent me a message on messenger and texted me within a one minute span. All of them said the same thing. "Unblock C (my sister's name)... it kills me to see the division between you two..." I responde...
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{ "description": "being a bad partner", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA i'm a bad partner
So my partner likes talking to our male friends a lot and whenever we spend time together it's always something boring. Now when I get upset I stop talking for a really long time so I don't say something wrong. I spoke to him about it a few times but it's not getting into his head. So I started playing games on my ...
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{ "description": "starting a relationship with a girl my friend recently broke up with", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 2 }
WIBTA for starting a relationship with a girl my friend recently broke up with?
For some context, I am a single senior male in high school and my friend, we'll call him Jim, just broke up with his girlfriend of 2 years, we'll call her Ericka, about a month ago. Jim told me that it was a mutual breakup, and that the relationship just wasn't working, and Jim is moving from our east coast home to Wa...
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{ "description": "not thinking the r/dankmemes april fools was funny", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for not thinking the r/dankmemes april fools was funny?
For those who were in a cavern last week, here is a summary: The day the article 13 passed (the infamous European copyright ordenancy) r/dankmemes says:"OK, then we will realease a bot that bans automaticaly europeans." And the next day, the article 13 bot began his work. So I was banned (I'm a european and I thought ...
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AITA funny business with my brothers ex girlfriend. It's complicated..
My brother dated a girl for about 5 months. Treated her like complete crap. Pretty bad stuff. No physical abuse from what I can tell, but cheating and verbal abuse. Always saying it's just a joke later or telling her to toughen up. The entire time I watched this I made sure he knew I wasn't cool with it. Whenever we ...
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{ "description": "asking my friends to side with me when another friend blocked me because I didn't approve her drug usage", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for asking my friends to side with me when another friend blocked me because I didn't approve her drug usage?
TLDR at the bottom but I had this friend for a little over a year. We always hung out and did a bunch of after school programs and shit together. We both smoked weed every once in a while but at least on my end it was maybe once every couple months Anyways flash forward to about a year ago. We're both set to help at s...
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{ "description": "keeping my sister's two cats locked up, while my one freely roams the house", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for keeping my sister's two cats locked up, while my one freely roams the house?
My sister and I both live at home, with our parents. I've never left the nest, and while she has (She's 5 years older than me, and had a bit of a head start), she moved back in maybe 2 years ago after spending a few years living with her former boyfriend. Now, my whole family has always had cats. Sometimes a lot of ...
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{ "description": "ordering espresso drinks extra hot with no foam", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 1 }
aita for ordering espresso drinks extra hot with no foam?
(asking for a friend) When I order espresso drinks I usually get extra hot, and no foam because I think foam is a rip off and drinks are too lukewarm. But, I also know that extra hot + no foam is the hardest to make because the hotter you make the milk, the more it foams. Am I the asshole for asking baristas to make d...
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{ "description": "telling my roommate not to use my silverware and being frustrated with him in general", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA For telling my roommate not to use my silverware and being frustrated with him in general?
Apologies for formatting, longtime lurker, first time poster. So I have been living with my roommate (who is also my brother) for 6 to 7 months now and I over these 6/7 months he constantly uses my silverware. A few months ago I asked him not to use my silverware because he has his own silverware. I asked him again to...
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AITA for an Incident that happened 2 hours ago
I was messing around with my brother when we got into an argument about a game we were playing. He was arguing with me for a good five minutes when he then proceeded to walk out of my room before turning off the fan by yanking on it as hard as possible. The fan is a ceiling fan and has two strings connected to it for...
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{ "description": "not missing my nephews/not wanting to spend time with them because they kick me hit me and throw toys at me and constantly try and put me down", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA:for not missing my nephews/not wanting to spend time with them because they kick me hit me and throw toys at me and constantly try and put me down
My sister litterally says hey dont do that and when that doesn't work says "I will spank you if you keep doing that" she hasn't done it once so normally I just lay in my room sleep and play video games tell they leave so AITA
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{ "description": "not wanting my gf to google who dies in the walking dead as we watch it together", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for not wanting my gf to google who dies in the walking dead as we watch it together?
I’ve seen it before and she hasn’t so we watch it together and she loves it but she always wants to google who dies instead of just watching and finding out. She has googled a few times and spoiled a bunch of stuff. And when I ask her not to she gets pissy at me and ways I’m telling her what to do and whining like a ba...
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{ "description": "mocking my boyfriend's beliefs about mental health professionals and treatment", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 10 }
AITA for mocking my boyfriend's beliefs about mental health professionals and treatment?
So, my boyfriend says that mental hospitals, therapists, and depression medications are all shit, and he says it's a fact that they don't help anyone. Because I completely disagree and know that these things helped me, I get mad and start saying a bunch of angry sarcastic stuff in response, essentially mocking his b...
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{ "description": "bailing on my friends and colleagues after being lied to", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for bailing on my friends and colleagues after being lied to?
Last year, 3 of my friends started a business for digital marketing and approached me to help. They needed a web developer, which I am, though they couldn’t pay me my full rate. I completely understood, and told them I’d work for them at a massive discount (1/4 of my normal rate) so that they could build capital—but ...
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AITA for runnig away from my crush when my friend said i like her
To give you some context this happened about a month ago. My school took us to a trampoline park. When we had to eat lunch, me and my friends sat down to eat.I was sitting with my crush and best friend. We were having a good time until my friend (not my best friend )says " yall should date". Then he whispers something ...
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{ "description": "not paying a £50 duty free bet, in cash", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for not paying a £50 duty free bet, in cash?
Me and my friend made a bet on whether I could have sex with someone before our holiday, the bet was £50 at duty free. Me and my friend then made another bet. £50 in cash, if I could get abs or not at the level of Triple H (2007) before the holiday. We get on holiday and I haven’t had sex so I lose the first bet but...
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{ "description": "despising when strangers call me pet names", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for despising when strangers call me pet names??
I really dislike being called “sweetheart” “honey” or any other pet name by strangers. It feels too personal and condescending at the same time. My skin crawls and it takes everything in me not to say something when it happens. I know that most people don’t say these things in a derogatory manner but I really don’t lik...
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{ "description": "asking somebody to sit down on the bus", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for asking somebody to sit down on the bus?
A couple of weeks ago, I was catching the bus home from a fairly large bus mall. It was the busy time, and I'm on a popular route, so it was packed. I ended up close to the front of the bus, in that front space with sideways benches for people with mobility issues etc. I'm quite tall and ended up pushed in to a spot di...
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{ "description": "arguing with an old coworker that the VFX industry is not fair to junior and mid level artists", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for arguing with an old coworker that the VFX industry is not fair to junior and mid level artists?
So, I am using a throwaway because VFX is very Non Disclosure Agreement driven and I could lose my job over breaking an NDA. I don't think this will break any but the discussion is there nonetheless. So this guy I used to work with a couple of years ago contacted me on Linkedin a couple of hours ago and we had a d...
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{ "description": "wanting to take back an apology", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA For wanting to take back an apology
Apologies for the long read. I (M, 22) went to a new years party with some friends. 2 of them (Both F, 21 & 23) had been dumped by their boyfriends the week before, no correlation, just weird coincidence. I figure at least they have each other to support in their hard times since they both really had strong feeli...
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{ "description": "having insta pics of girls on my phone", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for having insta pics of girls on my phone?
Obligatory not me but a friend and sorry for the clickbait-y title. Also, some non-critical information slightly tweaked in case this post is found. So this is all second-hand information from only one of the s/o in this relationship so take everything with a grain of salt and I might be missing some critical info. S...
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