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{ "description": "using RhymeZone in my lyrics/poems", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For using RhymeZone in my lyrics/poems?
I don't really plan on sharing my lyrics outside of my friends, but I wanna start posting poems to Amino. Would I be an ass if I used RhymeZone to help out?
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AITA? My mom uses my towel specifically, so I hid all of the clean towels in the house to teach her a lesson
I apologize if the format is bad, I’m on mobile and I’ve never posted before. So I [19F] am in college, so I live with my mom still to save money. I buy most of my own food, clean up after myself, and clean up after my whole family (including my mom’s untrained Great Dane). I also am the only person in the damn hou...
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{ "description": "not sleeping with my girlfriend", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not sleeping with my girlfriend
We hardly have sex anymore. A few times a month at most. She jokes about how we don't do it and complains sometimes. I get annoyed when she complains. I've talked to her about it over and over again. We've been together 11 months. Was sexual from the start. But about 5 months in, I stopped. Reason being, and I've told ...
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{ "description": "lending my uncle $10k, expecting to get paid $30k back", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for lending my uncle $10k, expecting to get paid $30k back?
This happened to me in my early 20’s when I was a college student. My uncle was in his early 30’s at the time working as nurse. So my uncle was making great money as nurse at the time but he had money issues. I wasn’t clear on what it was but I knew he had student loans, a car loan, and he played the slot machines. ...
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{ "description": "deciding to essentially tattle on someone", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 6 }
WIBTA If I decided to essentially tattle on someone?
So for a little context: I am a (16f) as is the person this post pertains to. The entire situation is complicated but basically I’ve been friends with this girl since we were both toddlers. As we grew up however, the friendship became more and more toxic for me to be in, especially as we both reached middle school. ...
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{ "description": "being motivated the wife feels\"inadequate\"", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA- Because I'm motivated the wife feels"inadequate"
AITA WARNING RANT- I'm a gym goer and motivational video watching positive thinking dreamer, and apparently a asshole. My wife's put on some weight and she always almost daily says how she wants to workout and talks about her hay day. She spends crazy money on a gym membership she has been to 2 times, swim suits for t...
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{ "description": "not wanting to spend £250 on a meal for people who had us for a week in their home", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for not wanting to spend £250 on a meal for people who had us for a week in their home?
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{ "description": "getting irritated at my bf for going to a store with his friend, when I've asked him 5x to go with me and he declined", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for getting irritated at my bf for going to a store with his friend, when I've asked him 5x to go with me and he declined
I wanted to go to ross for over a month and have asked him multiple times if we could go together. I wanted to buy household items since we live together and we can pick them out and he can help me carry. Ie more trashcans, bath towels, things we both need. He told me he hates ross, so I gave up. I wasn't mad just a ...
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{ "description": "blocking older sister", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 1 }
Aita for blocking older sister
So my brother did a meme on fb about how doing house hold chores while the mans at work is a way to keep a good man and my sister commented and was being belligerent as all hell. But my sister has a thing about alcohol and her mental breaks have the same reactions. She started talking about how my brothers ex is just g...
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{ "description": "just ignoring my friend", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for just ignoring my friend?
Please don't mind the exposition I get into, it's just that I don't really know what to leave out without making this seem incomplete so I just left this long. Tl;dr at the end. The friend (25f) (who I will refer to as R) and I (24f) met in University while I was living in Canada around 2013. We were in the same class...
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{ "description": "dumping out my friend's orange juice after he threw it at me", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for dumping out my friend’s orange juice after he threw it at me?
So I live with 6 other housemates for college and we’re all dudes so sometimes it gets a bit hectic. This morning I was minding my own business and cooking myself some breakfast in the kitchen, kind of in the zone and not paying attention to what else was going on. All of a sudden, I got hit in the foot with a bottle o...
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{ "description": "slowly breaking off a lifelong friendship", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for slowly breaking off a lifelong friendship?
I have been best friends with this one girl for almost 15 years. Same school. Same smallish town. Both only children. We always used to call ourselves sisters. Our parents are very close friends, and we’ve taken vacations, spent holidays together, and know their extended family well. I went to college out of state, ...
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{ "description": "accepting my friend's $20 \"gas money\" after helping him to drive to a meet to sell his phone but he got robbed instead", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for accepting my friend's $20 "gas money" after helping him to drive to a meet to sell his phone but he got robbed instead?
The gas money was agreed before the meet up. He wanted me to pick him up and drive him to a meet where he sells his phone. I drove a lot but I enjoyed it regardless due to a lot of conversation between us. We're new friends which is the reason why hes paying for my time. We're not that close friends yet. Anyway, He go...
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{ "description": "not liking a single person", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not liking a single person?
So, this person fucking irritates the living hell out of me, why doesn’t anyone else seem to not like him? Who likes people who are controlling? I just hate people who think that you have to do something just because they said you should. I guess I’m the only person that I’m friends with who doesn’t like this particula...
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{ "description": "not letting my grandmother visit", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA For Not Letting My Grandmother Visit?
My grandmother stays with my SO and I every so often, she tries to do so monthly but it ends up being every 3 - 4 months or so. She stays a couple of nights, we have a small apartment so it means shes on our couch. It's been a few months since her last visit and me and my SO find her visits harder to deal with. She's a...
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{ "description": "wanting my parents to get a divorce", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for wanting my parents to get a divorce?
(Writing this on mobile sorry) So context time: My (real) mom and dad split when I was about one. I lived with my mom up until I was about 4 and my dad met my stepmom when I was 3. They had my half sister when I was 4 and moved in together when I was 7. They got married when I was 13. Now, I am currently 18. I woul...
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{ "description": "not getting my sister an engagement present", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I don't get my sister an engagement present?
Hey, I'm a student and I work casually, so I don't have much money. I will definitely get her a wedding present, but should I get her an engagement present too? She said she doesn't care about receiving engagement presents, but my mum and partner both think I should - I don't know if my sister is just saying she doe...
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AITA for wanted proof my brother did what people are accusing him of?
A few months ago, a girl came up to me and made me aware that apparently my brother had sent unsolicited dic picks to at least one girl and considering I dont have the highest view of my brother, I didn't question it. Apparently, it was even posted on a group chat. A few months have past, an my mother finally figured...
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{ "description": "pointing out my partner is financially underachieving", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 2 }
aitah for pointing out my partner is financially underachieving?
AITAH for pointing out that my partner could be earning a serious larger amount of money than I do by either committing to work full-time at he job or by committing to take on more people in her private business which is a similar thing to her day job but aimed at a different audience? backdrop to this is that we have...
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{ "description": "wanting my girlfriend to pay for my travel costs", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 2 }
WIBTA for wanting my girlfriend to pay for my travel costs?
My girlfriend and I live in two separate states in the US. She is currently in college, and I have a job. She will be in a nearby state for a school club activity, and I am planning on visiting there to support her. [She would be upset if I did not visit.] **She wants to split the expensive housing cost for the weekend...
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AITA - Am I just the asshole friend? (Minecraft story)
Little bit of backstory here A group a friends of mine all decided to play minecraft again at around the same time, we booted up the relic and decided to create a survival world with anything and everything. We binged Avatar: The Last Airbender then decided we wanted to make a replica 4 nations from the show to min...
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{ "description": "having to kiss someone else while in a relationship", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for having to kiss someone else while in a relationship
Just some background me and my girlfriend have been happily dating for a year and a couple months now and we both enjoy doing theater That being said here comes the story A little over a month ago me and my girlfriend both decided to audition for our schools play/musical leading to me getting a lead role in the play ...
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{ "description": "not comforting my sister", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for not comforting my sister
My sister recently tried out for something and she didn't get into the team, she came into my room and started celebrating until she opened the email and found out she didnt get in. She didnt say anything but she left silently. After that I continued playing a game and didn't go to comfort her as she would just have sh...
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{ "description": "contributing to a friends unhappiness and preventing a potential \"Youtube Career\"", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA For contributing to a friends unhappiness and preventing a potential "Youtube Career"?
So, a friend of mine had an issue with his computer where his mic wasn’t working with it and the computer was slow. I tried to help him since he actually asked in a public chat on Discord. I was going to suggest that perhaps there were too many apps or programs running at once and all that. The common stuff. Keep in mi...
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{ "description": "opening my brother's side window to tell some guys they were very sad", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA? I opened my brother's side window to tell some guys they were very sad
My brother and I were getting Pizza from a local place. The most convenient parking space was directly opposite the pizza shop where some guys (maybe late teens early 20s) were chilling. I opened the door to make sure I was in the lines and noticed I wasn't. One guy pointed this out to me. I said cheers for helping and...
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{ "description": "not backing up a friend who had a bad history with a new friend", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not backing up a friend who had a bad history with a new friend?
It started awhile back at a youth group weekend me, the "long-time" friend (L) and the "new" friend (N) all attended. Before this weekend I had never met N but we basically ended up having to drive up together with how the carpooling worked out. We ended up hitting it off really well on the ride. L and N really never ...
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{ "description": "being upset about not seeing a movie", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for being upset about not seeing a movie.
A friend sent out a group text asking to see Captain Marvel. Most people couldn't make it but me and one other friend said yes. After finding out the time to see the movie was late in the day the other friend canceled. I needed a ride (recently lost my car) and she said she could pick me up. Around the start time of ...
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{ "description": "being annoyed that my SIL is on her phone while visiting", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being annoyed that my SIL is on her phone while visiting?
My SIL insists on binge-watching Netflix shows with me - gets mad if I watch without her, it's our "girl time". But all this past week we are watching, I'll hear "tap tap tap" - she's on her phone playing Words With Friends. This is annoying as fuck to me. She is apparently playing with dozens of people and must "kee...
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{ "description": "not buying a gift for a bridal shower because I am baking cookies", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 3 }
WIBTA if I don't buy a gift for a bridal shower because I am baking cookies?
To preface this - I don't really know anything about weddings. This is the first bridal shower I've ever gone to and I actually had to google what a bridal shower even is (and I'm still not really sure?) Anyways. My bf's sister is getting married and her bridal shower is next month. Over Christmas this last year I mad...
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{ "description": "withholding relationship information from a friend", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA For withholding relationship information from a friend?
Note this is a throw away and the story spans a coupe of years. One night in college my friends threw a small party in their dorm. Friend A and B live in the dorm with others, but only friend A and B matter here. Friend A's girlfriend at the time came down to visit and party with friends (were all friends from highsch...
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{ "description": "disagreeing heavily with my girlfriends point of view", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for disagreeing heavily with my girlfriends point of view?
We're all 19/20 years old. My 'friend' is/was my best friend, but I don't call her that because my girlfriend has easily surpassed that now and it feels wrong. I've been dating my girlfriend for about 7 months. She's had 2 ex boyfriends. This is my first serious relationship. ​ I've know my friend for 4 y...
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{ "description": "not needing help", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not needing help
So here's a little backstory. About two months ago I made a joke to my friends about going home and crying because of how depressed I am. This is not factual and was a joke, but apparently this joke was very convincing because from that point on my friends are constantly asking how I'm doing and being hypersensitive ar...
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{ "description": "trying to help my colleague and his gf", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for trying to help my colleague and his gf
For context, I live in America and work for a crappy little retail store. One of my colleagues (Matt) has recently had a baby with his gf. Both the mum and the dad are in the early 20s and don't have family living nearby. Last week when Matt came to work he was pretty stressed that his gf didn't want him to leave. He...
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{ "description": "breaking it off with my gf when she kissed me", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 2 }
Aita for breaking it off with my gf when she kissed me
I asked this earlier but I dont fell like I explained it well. Short story she kissed me while sleeping . She had a mouth herpes outbreak .I was unaware she even had cold sores.
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{ "description": "calling out my friend for getting blackout drunk at my place", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 2 }
WIBTA if I called out my friend for getting blackout drunk at my place?
I live with my parents and they had no idea this was going to happen. They’re very strictly against drinking, too. I get that I shouldn’t have invited her over to drink if they’re against it, but I’m also underage and there’s nowhere else we could go. I also thought it was going to be harmless fun (I was wrong). I in...
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{ "description": "not wanting to help someone because they broke my heart", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not wanting to help someone because they broke my heart?
So I'm gay in a small town with just under 350 people in Montana. I found out I was gay along with my feelings about my best friend since kindergarten, but he got with a girl. As a general "he has a right to know" I let him know how I felt, but after that whenever I was around he passionately flirt with his girlfriend ...
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{ "description": "ending a friendship by disconnecting their electricity on an ice cold night", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for ending a friendship by disconnecting their electricity on an ice cold night?
My best friend of 15 years, and the best man at my wedding, "Donny" \[32m\] is super fun to hang out with, and is usually up for anything. We've gone on countless adventures together - sailing, backpacking, camping, ATVing, lan parties (showing our age!), motorcycle trips, canoe camping, etc. The problem is, he's ne...
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AITA for dumping a guy I was meh about for someone whom I feel is my soulmate?
Throwaway, for obvious reasons. Very long post. ​ In short, a year ago, I escaped a really abusive (physically, sexually, emotionally, you name it) relationship and the healing process was quite long - and since I had to work at trusting people again and through my sexual trauma, I could not let anyone clo...
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{ "description": "not going to a pep rally my school is having", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for not going to a pep rally my school is having?
AITA for not going today. Ok so I’m part of a senior group thing for school w my friends and there’s a pep rally today that I didn’t go to. It’s the last day of the break, in mentally exhausted from multiple multiple things i ain’t gonna share. I just don’t wanna go too. She called a Group FaceTime call at 8:30 in th...
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{ "description": "not supporting my husbands decision to quit working a full time job with benefits because he hates his position", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not supporting my husbands decision to quit working a full time job with benefits because he hates his position?
My husband and I are both mid 50’s and have taken an early retirement (long story but both basically forced to take early retirement.) Shortly after doing so, we moved to property we had in the country and started a homestead. I grew up on a farm and tried to tell my husband how hard farm life was but he either didn’t...
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{ "description": "not letting my wife have certain snacks because of the way she eats them", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA for not letting my wife have certain snacks because of the way she eats them?
Okay hear me out. This is specifically relating to Takis and Oreos. With Takis she takes one of the chip things, licks all the powder off, and throws the rest of it in a bag! What kind of monster does this?! You can probably guess what she does with Oreos. Eats nothing but the frosting stuff in the middle and puts the ...
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AITA for doing marketing and branding work for a Holistic Health Care Company?
I do online marketing and branding (website and logo design, stuff like that) for a variety of companies. One of the companies that hired me is a Holistic Heath company. Things like crystals, essential oils, energy work. That kind of thing. Not going to lie, I think it’s all bullshit. The owner, however, is 1000% a b...
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{ "description": "not texting my dad my schedule every day", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not texting my dad my schedule every day? (18 years old)
Basically my dad is pretty controlling and likes to know everything like when I'm going out to university and when I'll be back. He wants me to text when I'll wake up every day and when I'll probably be back. It's really bothersome and I don't want to do it. Rationally I know I should, it's just a schedule. I can't se...
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{ "description": "not wanting to helo my grandparents move", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA For not wanting to helo my grandparents move?
My grandparents sold their house a little over two weeks ago, I offered to help them move several times and they never took me up on it, come to find out they've been procrastinating and neglected to get their stuff out before the deadline. I found out yesterday that the new owners are there moving their stuff for them...
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{ "description": "telling a friends she is gaining weight rapidly", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 2 }
WIBTA for telling a friends she is gaining weight rapidly.
(Moible) So for a year I've been going to the gym in my high school trying to lose all the weight I've gained over the 18 years of my life. There I met my friend C. C was very nice to me and we got to know each other a lot over the time we worked out together to becoming friends outside of the gym. She is one of my be...
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{ "description": "complaining about loosing my semi off day of work", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for complaining about loosing my semi off day of work ?
I've started to work (8 months ago) at a company that used to not work Friday afternoon for 15 years. Of course, we were working more on others days and even sometimes, calling some clients on Friday to not waste time. ​ We were bought by another company a little bit after my hiring. That company was work...
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{ "description": "not allowing my boyfriend to get a piercing", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for not allowing my boyfriend to get a piercing?
This has been on my mind for a while now and I need some input on it. This happened about three weeks ago now, my boyfriend of a little over a year has been wanting to get a nose ring for a while now and he asked me what I thought about it. I told him the honest truth that I didn’t really find them that attractive, and...
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{ "description": "having beef with all of my management and superiors in my adult life", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA by having beef with all of my management and superiors in my adult life?
Using a throwaway for this one. ​ I've been working for about 4 years now, as an adult. I've maintained 3 retail jobs, and in each one of them I've had trouble with the authority. I just never seem to get along with management. My first job I'm willing to let slide as me being stupidly inexperienced and ne...
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{ "description": "not wanting sad details", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not wanting sad details?
This could be slightly sad, but I do need reassurance I'm not a wuss for this. Also I'm sorry if there is any punctuation or slight spelling errors, it's 2:30 am and I'm kinda lazy sometimes. So my grandpa's mother (my great grandma, and my mom's grandma) fell and broke her hip, and is now in a nursing home. She...
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{ "description": "making a joke about my friend's mom", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for making a joke about my friend's mom?
Me and my friend (ill call him O) were joking and laughing for a couple minutes in class, and he just made a perfect pitch for a your mama joke and i made the joke (of course i did it with full sarcasm included) and apparentaly he took it hard and was a bit hurt, he said its not cool, not funny etc. After class he con...
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{ "description": "asking why everyone was triggered", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for asking why everyone was triggered
So I have/had a friend who has a really thick skin. So today in history kids didnt want to do this lesson so the teacher gave us notes and a little pop quiz instead. I half ass my way through and get a bad grade, normal everyday shit for me. When i leave the classroom half of the class is complaining about,how they fai...
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{ "description": "ruining my ex girlfriend's parent's marriage", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 4 }
WIBTA for ruining my ex girlfriend's parent's marriage?
About 2 months ago. My long term girlfriend broke up with me. 2 weeks ago she texts me saying she wants to hang out and be, "friends". I say yes. She then proceeds to tell me the first time we were hanging out during this period. That her father whom she lives with. Is having an affair with someone. He asked to borrow ...
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{ "description": "not telling my class that someone is bringing a friend to our class holiday", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not telling my class that someone is bringing a friend to our class holiday?
Originally my friend group and I wanted to go on a holiday as a small group with a few of our classmates to celebrate our graduation. This friend group includes me and 3 other friends, let's call them A,B and C. So a close friend of A and B, who is from a different school, was also graduating at the same time, so we in...
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{ "description": "still being mad at best friend who ghosted me 4 years ago", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for still being mad at best friend who ghosted me 4 years ago
Let me start by saying we’re now on good terms now, but about 4 years ago he ghosted me just as we were starting college after leaving high school where we met, so we were about 16 (We've been friends for about 4 years at this point). I’m not a social person and I didn’t have many friends, so starting college knowing n...
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{ "description": "telling my best friend she annoys me", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 2 }
WIBTA for telling my best friend she annoys me?
So, let me get a few facts straight - I'm female, in my twenties and I am introverted and cannot handle social situations at times, because they get very exhausting and scary. I have a best friend that I've known for a decade and longer and we always get around really well. We love each other dearly and we enjoy being...
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{ "description": "being upset that my boyfriend doesn't want to live with me", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for being upset that my boyfriend doesn't want to live with me?
I know this is a lot of background but it's relevant: My boyfriend and I have been long distance since I moved 3 hours away from his home town to a college in my home town almost a year ago. We've only been seeing each other during breaks and our relationship was as strong as ever but we obviously missed each other a ...
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{ "description": "getting into a heated political discussion with a friend", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for getting into a heated political discussion with a friend?
Hey team. This just happened and I am not entirely sure what to think. With the recent NZ shooting still running strong through the heads of my country everyone is talking of it. I was talking to a friend of mine and we were discussing the comments made my Australian senator Fraser Anning. See: https://i.stuff.co.nz...
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{ "description": "not trusting my friends, like at all", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not trusting my friends, like at all?
So this is a weird question I know. But I don't trust my friends at fucking all. They haven't done anything, they treat me basically the same as everyone else in the friend group, but I just can't bring myself to trust them. I have one friend that I trust, and even then that trust has evaporated to the point where I do...
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{ "description": "flipping out at my friend for saying I was difficult when I needed help", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for flipping out at my friend for saying I was difficult when I needed help?
Hi reddit, throwaway because he knows my main account. ​ A few days ago, I had some bad pain and discomfort in my groin and lower back. I went to the hospital, and within a few hours I had surgery for testicular torsion. I'm still moving around rather slowly, and I need help with basic things (putting on s...
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{ "description": "not talking to people for weeks straight", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not talking to people for weeks straight?
So bcos I’m 16,lots of the girls I’m friends with gossip and ,tbh, I join in with them too sometimes. But I can tell if they are talking about me. If I see the signs then I will just refuse to talk to them, I know that will only make it worse but I just don’t want to talk to them if they don’t like me. I haven’t read a...
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{ "description": "not believing his friend had cancer", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not believing his friend had cancer?
So i was in a PlayStation party with this guy. He said something along the lines of not liking gay people (He knows I'm not straight) and I left. He said it was a joke and i left him on read. I was just going to let it go. He wrote a long apology saying it was a just a joke however i want to add that he said in the ap...
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{ "description": "breaking up with my boyfriend after he quit his job", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 3 }
WIBTA if I broke up with my boyfriend after he quit his job?
We've been together for 4 yrs and I've broken up with him a couple of times before, but I always take him back. He just recently quit a job he promised me he was gonna stay at. He starts school for welding next month but id be really surprised if he stayed, I feel crappy say all this about him, but I'm really worr...
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{ "description": "not wanting to spend time with my family", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to spend time with my family?
So, quick backstory: I live with my Mom, who is a total sweetheart, but can be a bit cranky. My sister has 3 children, 2 6yo boys, and a little 1 year old little girl (adorable). I love my family very very much, I wanna make this clear. I would do anything for them, in fact, I've changed my entire life for the better...
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{ "description": "cutting communications with a friend of 9 years", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for cutting communications with a friend of 9 years?
I have had the same group of 6 close friends since I was a freshman in high school. (I’m 24 now) We would hang out almost every day of the week while we were all living in the same town, even if we had nothing to do, we would want to do nothing together. As we got older and a couple people went to college out of town ...
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{ "description": "not wanting my ex to give me a second chance", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting my ex to give me a second chance?
A couple of weeks ago I made a post about being in an open relationship with a horrid lack of communication. Judgement was that I was indeed the asshole, which I think I owned up to pretty well to. TL;DR was there was not much sex. I slept with a problematic ex and didn't tell my SO. Despite our relationship being ver...
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AITA or was it a misunderstanding?
I recently went through a break up with the girl I love. We weren't doing well. Her parents didn't like me and I felt she would never stand up for me despite how happy I made her. All that negative thinking caused a lot of problems between us. I was having anxiety and panic attacks left and right. She saw how it wasn't...
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{ "description": "texting my female neighbor \"you're a fucking cunt.\"", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for texting my female neighbor "You're a fucking cunt."
Immediately it sounds like I'm the asshole, I know, and to some extent I know I am but not how much. For context, I moved into my new place in April and within 2 months became close friends with 2 of the neighbors. An older guy and a younger woman close to my age (27). The older guy is a 40-something, unemployed, on d...
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{ "description": "not giving full effort in to the care of a parent who seems to have given up", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not giving full effort in to the care of a parent who seems to have given up.
In the last 2 years my parent’s diabetes has caused a fall, breaking both shoulders. They have recently been to the hospital for Kidney stones. They seem to be in denial of what’s going on, or just don’t care. I’m tired of caring more than they do about their wellbeing.
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AITA for not hand not handling my friend's freakout the wrong way?
This happened about two years ago but I just found this sub. I was living in dorms at a university where each room had 2 beds but most people lived alone in their respective rooms although I had a roommate living in the same room as me who we'll call Brian. Because me and Brian were friends with most of the same p...
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{ "description": "feeling slighted when a clearly bilingual customer says they only want to work with a spanish speaker", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 8 }
AITA for feeling slighted when a clearly bilingual customer says they only want to work with a Spanish speaker?
I work in sales in Southern California and as a result a large portion of our customer base is either Spanish speaking or bilingual. Regularly there are people who genuinely do not speak English (or enough of it to carry a conversation, let alone negotiate a transaction) and we have bilingual associates who can help th...
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{ "description": "not ditching one of my friends after a stupid prank", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 8 }
AITA for not ditching one of my friends after a stupid prank
My friend and I are high school and my brother is in college, but he lives at home. My brother is kind of an ass at times. He’ll tell me off for eating “his” food or wearing his clothes or other little things. I generally try to avoid him. My buddy is over a lot and we stay out of my brothers way mostly. We were eatin...
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{ "description": "not paying contractors for a fence that isn't tall enough", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for not paying contractors for a fence that isn't tall enough
I had contractors (a small local business) in to remove an old fence that wasn't tall enough set up a fence. There was little communication up front but since they're friends of my father-in-law I wasn't too worried. There was also no written contract, basically just a conversation while they were at my house, we agree...
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{ "description": "answering my mom during an argument", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for answering my mom during an argument
I was patient and didn't complain at my parent's for the entirety of my life of constantly moving to different Places but this. This my last straw of constantly moving it tires me so fucking much every like 3 months we move to another city to another city. I just had enough of putting up with my Parents forcing me to p...
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{ "description": "pushing my boyfriend to keep his head shaved", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 5 }
WIBTA If I pushed my boyfriend to keep his head shaved?
My boyfriend is balding, **bad**. Its like how thin [this guy’s hair](https://goo.gl/images/hqsPW6) is on the top tuft but following [this pattern](https://goo.gl/images/PYasQ1). He started balding in his 20s and has fully accepted that he going bald. He knows his “best” look is shaving it all off. The thin...
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{ "description": "giving my sister attitude", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for giving my sister attitude?
As a note, my sister is a senior in HS and I’m a senior in college (also a girl). My sister, dad and I have errands to run that we need to do together today. At 10:10ish, my dad hopped in the shower. By 10:20 he was out and the bathroom was open. My sister and I both went to go take a shower at the exact same time ...
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{ "description": "not tolerating an underperforming coworker for whom I have to be responsible for? not to mention they're going through marital issues", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA For not tolerating an underperforming coworker for whom I have to be responsible for? Not to mention they’re going through marital issues?
I work at a decent sized company and have to respond to two superiors - one being the actual president of the company, and another being a team lead. We were transferred an individual (we’ll call Janet) from another department for cross training. This individual was taken a liking too and was kept in our department. ...
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{ "description": "leaving my boyfriend asleep at my house", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for leaving my boyfriend asleep at my house?
The titles a little confusing. So me and my boyfriend had this date at the movies planned, which I was really looking forward to since we never go on dates. He comes around around 5:00 and the movie starts at 8:00 so he lays on the couch and we’re just watching the TV. It’s at this point where he falls asleep...
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{ "description": "not letting my gf use my car while I'm off from work", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for not letting my gf use my car while I’m off from work?
I should preface this by saying that I’m an extremely over cautious driver. I was in a very bad car accident in college that left me very injured and since then I’m a pretty antsy driver and passenger. That guy who is pissing you off by going too slow, that’s me sorry. My gf on the other hand is a more carefree ...
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AITA: My phone vs My boyfriend
Hey guys, new reddit user here, and for once I feel I should use this subreddit. For some background, my boyfriend and I have been together for a year and a half. We have an oopsie baby boy who’s now 7 months and he’s amazing. We’ve been living in a small 2 bedroom apartment for several months now, and we’ve had the ...
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{ "description": "asking this guy to hang out with me when this acquaintance has been doing the same thing", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for asking this guy to hang out with me when this acquaintance has been doing the same thing (and they are not officially a couple yet)
An acquaintance of mine has met this guy. She has been asking him to individually hang out with her but they aren't officially a couple yet. I find the guy attractive too (have him years ago but and he became more attractive over the years). Am I an asshole for asking that guy to individually hang out with me too?
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{ "description": "ending things because I was suspicious he was lying", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for ending things because I was suspicious he was lying
I started talking to this guy less than a month ago, at which point I saw him use school work as an excuse to blow people off (usually to spend time with me). I had an event last night where he was going to meet all of my friends and it had been planned at least 10 days in advance. So yesterday comes and he texts me ...
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AITA should i have kept my mouth shut
So in my small town I happen to be the team captain of my schools wrestling team. So my friend (who also is a wrestler) likes a girl on my team (who is also one of my wrestlers) and my friend has had a crush on her.My friend had planned a date to ask and we were all ready for it until a girl happens to have told one of...
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{ "description": "asking a former FWB to let me know when he comes out to his cousin", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for asking a former FWB to let me know when he comes out to his cousin?
TL;DR: AITA for pressing the issue to my friend's in-the-closet cousin about how I need to at some point tell my friend that we were involved? ​ I (M, mid 20's) am friends with this girl (My age) I've gotten closer with over the past couple of years. I pretty much joined her friend group so we're super in...
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{ "description": "getting annoyed about a dog that I didn't ask for", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for getting annoyed about a dog that I didn't ask for.
So a bit of background information I am the fifth of five kids and my brother's (the eldest and second eldest) got a dog when I was 5 months old. I loved that dog ever since I can remember he was my best friend when I was younger but as I got older I did my own thing with friends and all that. My brother's now older do...
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{ "description": "not really wanting to live with my sister in the future anymore", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not really wanting to live with my sister in the future anymore?
In this story, my sister will be K, and my boyfriend will be D. Sorry if my post is weird, it's my first time. So, me (F16) and my sister (F20) are extremely close. I'm her favorite person, and practically her best friend/daughter/little sister. I also love her a lot, but there's just one problem. She hates my relati...
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{ "description": "saying that my nanny is a motor mouth", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for saying that my nanny is a motor mouth
AITA for wanting to tell my nanny to STFU. She talks nonstop. She talks over the TV. She talks about nothing. The topic is either totally uninteresting, untrue/inaccurate or a re-run of something that I begrudgingly sat thru before. She talks so much that I can't hear myself think. But if I ask her to be quiet I loo...
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{ "description": "wanting my friend to text me first", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for wanting my friend to text me first
So to start off, I'm not great at making friends. I have a hard time trusting when people are being nice to me because I grew up as the kid that nobody really liked. Anytime people were nice to me as a kid they usually had an ulterior motive, like they wanted something I had or they were setting me up for some cruel pr...
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{ "description": "complaining about not having sex with my gf", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for complaining about not having sex with my GF?
I've been with my girlfriend for about five months now and we were both virgins when we started. When we started having sex I had several problems (my dick wouldn't get hard basically). We live kinda far from each other and have little time to spend toghether, so the first days when we met at my place for like two ni...
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{ "description": "wanting a good partner in bed", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for wanting a good partner in bed? [NSFW]
AITA for wanting a good partner? My current gf(22) is horrible at sex. I (24)was her first when we started dating over 3 years ago. Since she was new to the whole thing I knew there would be a transition phase. But what I didn't know was that she wouldn't be willing to put in the effort. She isn't willing to watch ...
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{ "description": "cutting off ties with my cousin even though he still lives with me", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for cutting off ties with my cousin even though he still lives with me?
I call him digs short for disgusting, you'll know why later on. So this 20 years old college student still act like a middle schooler for 5 years. It was also nice and smooth when he first moved here in our condo by recommendation of my parents (her mom and mine are sisters). He showed his true self little by little, h...
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{ "description": "getting annoyed at my cousin for thinking out loud", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for getting annoyed at my cousin for thinking out loud?
So, my little cousin, who is 7, always says what she is doing out loud. Not whispering, actual talking. I spend two full days a week with her so it gets pretty frustrating when you're trying to focus. I've not said anything to her about it for a year, as I was scared i would be being rude, but recently i did. I said ...
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{ "description": "not wanting to sleep with my gf on NYE", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not wanting to sleep with my GF on NYE?
So, my girlfriend and I do not live together. Our New Year's Eve plans are to eat at a restaurant then go to the top of a hill to watch the fireworks over our nearest city. This is my first NYE with my GF and the first one where I will not be going to a party. Over text, we were talking about what we would do after see...
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{ "description": "asking a group of women to get out of our seats", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for asking a group of women to get out of our seats?
So I went to a cabaret show the other day with my bf and we got in with a staff pass, which means we didn't pay anything but we had to sit up the back in the undesignated free-pass seats. We luckily got in the door first and nabbed ourselves the best seats in the free area, no poles blocking our view, clear view of sta...
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{ "description": "refusing to take down a google review that mentions my sister", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for refusing to take down a google review that mentions my [30F] sister [21F]
I am on mobile so I'm sorry for any formatting issues. Me and my husband went on a short spring break trip to visit his sister who lives an 8 hour drive from us. On the course of this trip we went to a Ramen and Poke Bowl restaurant. My sister had recently discovered it and I wanted to try it. We all enjoyed our me...
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{ "description": "threatening to withold funding from another Player's D&D character's pursuit of their ultimate goal", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for threatening to withold funding from another Player's D&D character's pursuit of their ultimate goal?
In my D&D group's most recent session, the party fulfilled one of the party member's campaign goals by taking control of a castle that was previously held by bandits. Over the course of the almost five hour session, our five person party fought our way through the castle while uncovering secret passageways, fallin...
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{ "description": "not \"respecting my (dead) mom's wishes\"", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for not "respecting my (dead) mom's wishes"?
Mom died recently, leaving behind my half-brother, my niece, and me. Mom was in poor health for the past two years. My brother has lived on her place rent-free for 20 years. Mom paid all his expenses for at least the last few years (he lost his job). His social security checks begin this spring, but they will be a mode...
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{ "description": "having my bank cancel a check I sent to my friend? it's been a month and he hasn't cashed it. I've also sent him a text making sure he got it and he never responded", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for having my bank cancel a check I sent to my friend? It’s been a month and he hasn’t cashed it. I’ve also sent him a text making sure he got it and he never responded.
I’m very particular about my finances and don’t want this $240 to come out at some random time in the future. The money was for a football game he came to town for. I’d be happy to pay him if he brings it up in the future, but I can’t stand having this pending payment out there.
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{ "description": "destroying a decent friendship", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for destroying a decent friendship?
So, this person and I have been friends for quite some time. We talk a lot, hang out occasionally, and text all the time. Recently however, we have been growing increasingly distant, and it’s been hard for me to accept the possibility that maybe they didn’t want to be friends anymore. What makes this situation even w...
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{ "description": "not feeling bad after I opened my car door into his car in a parking lot", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for not feeling bad after I opened my car door into his car in a parking lot?
I parked in parking lot that has terribly narrow spots and I knew I had to be careful getting out but I still misjudged it, partly because it was dark and the car was black. I opened the door slowly but there was an audible tap. My bad. The owner's standing there. I'm embarrassed and I say, "Sorry, let me know if I di...
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WRONG
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{ "description": "asking my mom to take down her wedding photo", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for asking my mom to take down her wedding photo?
I got divorced about 7 months ago and had to come live in my childhood home. My family has been wonderful, and supportive. My mother recently got a new job, but before that she worked in the same office as my ex. Due to harassment from him and his father (the boss), she had to find new employment. She brought home all...
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