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{ "description": "telling my girlfriend to stay home when she's sick", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for telling my girlfriend to stay home when she's sick (long distance relationship)
Hi ​ Usually my gf comes over all 2-3 weeks. . She has to fly like 1 hour but the whole way (car, waiting at airport) is like 3 hours. ​ Now my gf suddenly got sick yesterday ( diarrhea every hour). Today it is a bit better but she takes like 5 different kinds of medicine. I thought it's a goo...
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{ "description": "posting this guy's comment on my da", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for posting this guy’s comment on my DA?
AITA for posting someone’s comment? Last night, I was on DeviantArt, browsing by newest. I found a post, one of those things where it’s like “wHaT dO YoU ThInK oF mE?!” And it said something like “oh god I’m so gonna get bad attention, poor me!” So I commented something I’ll admit was harsh, where I said stuff like how...
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{ "description": "not re-racking the weights on my machine cause someone else filled up the weight holder on mine, mid-set", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA For not re-racking the weights on my machine cause someone else filled up the weight holder on mine, mid-set?
I was using the incline leg press machine today and I used up all the 45 plates on the weight holder. In mid-set an employee decides to rack the plates on the incline less press machine next to me on MY machine I was using and almost filled the holder up. I was like “wtf, why would you re-rack it on mine when there’...
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{ "description": "confronting boyfriend because he posted tweets about porn stars", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for confronting boyfriend because he posted tweets about porn stars?
It had happened numerous times, along with other “suggestive” dirty jokes I’m not fond of. Confronted him about it, I told him I’m not comfortable and it felt like he didn’t even respect my feelings, but all that he said was “jesus it’s just a joke! You have to chill a bit” Well I’m a female and he’s a male - so I hav...
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{ "description": "being too anxious and hesitant to accompany my mother to her mri appointment tomorrow", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for being too anxious and hesitant to accompany my mother to her mri appointment tomorrow?
Even when she went with me for mine? Three ones even? I simply don’t trust myself, I don’t know if i’ll be able to call her down or help when i’m shaking in fear myself. .
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{ "description": "moving out of gf's apartment", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for moving out of gf’s apartment
My girlfriend told me, half an hour before we were to leave for the airport (she was travelling overseas) that she had invited her friend’s sister, which my gf and I had never met to stay in her apartment while she (gf) was away. We were living together at that point and so I had some of my belongings in her apartment ...
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{ "description": "breaking up with my girlfriend over her obscure fetish/her getting bored of me", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for breaking up with my girlfriend over her obscure fetish/her getting bored of me
I \[19F\] broke up with her \[18F\] months ago, but I found this subreddit tonight and I'm curious what people think. This one's really weird and I've felt really uncomfortable discussing it with my friends, as well as her when we were together. I'm going to change the details of the fetish, because it is super super s...
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{ "description": "not hooking up with a girl whenever she wanted to", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for not hooking up with a girl whenever she wanted to?
This past week I (17M) was at a conference for people who had done the best work in their state for this organization I am a part of. There were extroverted teenagers from all over the states there. I had a lot of fun and I branched out and became the “cool kid” during my time there. There was this one girl (15F) that ...
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{ "description": "not wearing my engagement ring when I go out with my friends at night", "pronormative_score": 16, "contranormative_score": 12 }
AITA for not wearing my engagement ring when I go out with my friends at night?
I got engaged about a month ago to a guy I’m insanely in love with. I’m excited to spend the rest of my life with him and would never, in a million years, consider cheating on him. But I’m not a huge fan of wearing my engagement ring. It’s beautiful, don’t get me wrong. Stunning and expensive and something out of a br...
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{ "description": "being upset by this message my ex sent me", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for being upset by this message my ex sent me?
I tried being nice and helping him though some shit but honestly he treated me like shit so I was done. But he invited me over and just played video games all night and didn’t let me play and ignored my advances on him, he cried saying his ex didn’t tell him happy birthday yet totally ignored my message, he insulted my...
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WIBTA of i leave my grandma’s birthday party early to go see my best friend thats leaving the country?
(sorry for any grammatical errors) so basically, my family is throwing my grandma a surprise birthday party on friday. the thing is, my best friend is leaving on saturday morning, to go study to another country and he wanted to make a party on friday and asked me to come to see each other for probably the last time. ...
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{ "description": "being mean to someone who ghosted me", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for being mean to someone who ghosted me?
I’m sorry but this is going to be a long one Some backstory: There was this girl that I had been talking to for a few months now and I was going out of my comfort zone to be a little more social. I know this is going to sound bad but I was trying to be nice about everything even things that made me mad but I was tryin...
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{ "description": "accidentally telling my best friends crush she liked him", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA I accidentally told my best friends crush she liked him
Ok so this seems dumb but I have a a best friend and she’s been talking with this guy for about 3-4 months. They’ve gone on mall dates and hung out but the already tell each other “love you” and some really romantic stuff so my friend asked me to help so I told him “hey she really likes you and she can’t really underst...
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{ "description": "threading to move our family out of our apartment, if my mother moves to the one above us", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for threading to move our family out of our apartment, if my mother moves to the one above us?
For starters I need to point out this is a very, very weird situation that I need to give some backstory to. I am 21F who lived with only her mother for 18 years. We lived in a small two bedroom apartment, second floor. The building has 12 units and 3 floors, we were in the second. At 18 I was kicked out because my mo...
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{ "description": "not completing a job", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not completing a job.
Yesterday I bid a job on a truck that required a wheel bearing and various services. The bearing was a day out and was expected today. I ended up asking my boss if I could take off early to help my wife with some things at home. I was not informed of the fact that other services were sold due to my absence. Today I w...
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{ "description": "wanting my iPod and baby picture back from an ex", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for wanting my iPod and baby picture back from an ex?
My ex from 2017 is A. Her best friend is B. A was my longest relationship (1.5 years). Became close with her childhood best friend B, been friends with B past my breakup with A. Break up w/ A about 1.5 years ago, no real contact for 6months. I properly got over A around mid-2018. Life kept spiralling downwards till l...
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{ "description": "not being able to say no to coach", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for not being able to say no to coach
I’m a 14 year old boy who has just moved from the country that I have been living in for my whole life. I used to live in the countryside where there was a lot of space for sports and other activities for my friends and I. However, recently I moved to a dense city where there is no space for any of the sports I used t...
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{ "description": "going to the store before my mother got home", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA For going to the store before my mother got home?
Yes I know full well how stupid the above title sounds. I'm a college student who lives with his mom and in the morning while she's at work I go to store and get things we're missing like soda,sugar,milk,toilet paper etc. She bitches that i'm inconsiderate because I go before she's at home and can ask if she wants anyt...
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{ "description": "wanting to rehome our dogs", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for wanting to rehome our dogs?
throwaway bc husband knows I reddit. I really just need other's perspective. ​ Husband and I have an 8 month old son. We just got taxes back and need to move since our lease is up soon and we want a change. Our lease ends in one month and we have applied at 0 places and have 0 places in mind. We've been lo...
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{ "description": "hating my 7 Year Old Spoiled Cousin", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA For Hating My 7 Year Old Spoiled Cousin
Okay so I was 13 (I'm 17 now)when this happened so the details may be incorrect. Okay so as the title states I've hated my 7 year old cousin for years. So my cousin was raised by two VERY different parents. One is strict and kind of an asshole (My now former 'uncle') and a very lax doormat of a Mother (My Aunt). And ...
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{ "description": "fighting with my friend who cancelled a trip because her parents didn't allow", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for fighting with my friend who cancelled a trip because her parents didn't allow?
So we are buddies from college and have been planning to trip for a while. Finally we decided on a place, dates etc. Just before starting to book, a news about people who violated and videotaped women went viral. This screwed her parents up and they refused to let her go. She could have always overruled her parents...
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{ "description": "joking too much", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for joking too much
A little backstory, I live with my brother and a friend. My whole life I’ve been the guy who will joke about everything and can even go over the top. My brother often feels like my joking is a way of getting out of admitting I’m wrong or just poking at people to get a reaction. So tonight I was sitting finishing the ...
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{ "description": "being honest about my opinion on my gf's art", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 4 }
WIBTA for being honest about my opinion on my gf’s art?
I adore my girl. She’s funny, smart, creative, and confident. One of her hobbies is drawing and painting. I think it’s awesome that she has it for a creative outlet. My honest opinion on her work though is that it’s not the best. She put up some paintings that she did on Etsy. She wasn’t getting any bites and ...
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{ "description": "getting crying and getting my brother in trouble for calling something I love stupid", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for getting crying and getting my brother in trouble for calling something I love stupid?
A little context to this story: this happened when I was 14-25. I adored the video game Rayman Origins at the time. Played it whenever I got the chance. I'm also an incredibly sensitive person, who hyperfixes (basically becomes really obsessed with) with whatever series or game I'm into at the time (current fixation i...
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{ "description": "getting a girl to like me and then turning her down", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for getting a girl to like me and then turning her down?
We're students, I might add. It's long distance. I liked her a lot, but things are spicing up in my life at home - and after i told her i liked her, now she likes me back. She's attached. If I turn her down, AITA?
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{ "description": "semi-directly causing a very serious car accident", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 14 }
AITA for semi-directly causing a very serious car accident?
This is a throwaway account because I want to be totally honest about this. Partly to get it off my chest and partly because this sub needs more assholes and fewer validation stories. This is a true story from a very long time ago that I've only shared with maybe 3 people in my real life. I was driving on a very lon...
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{ "description": "not telling an acquaintance that I've known for over 10 years that her boyfriend asked me to suck his dick", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for not telling an acquaintance that i've known for over 10 years that her boyfriend asked me to suck his dick
Some background: I have known "Amy" and "Trey" since middle school. We've never really been friends but we've still kept in contact over the years from mutual friends and get togethers. Trey is roommates with some of my good friends so I see him a lot more often than Amy but she stays at his house during weekends semi ...
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{ "description": "not wanting to run a specific event", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for not wanting to run a specific event?
This question is fairly minor compared to some others, but I'll do it anyway. Last year, I (13M) was doing high school track, and I got mistakenly assigned to the mile when I didn't want to be. Come around the first track meet, I do my 2400 and the hurdles and because it was about 11 at night, we didn't want to wait ha...
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{ "description": "not wanting to spend Christmas with my maternal grandma", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not wanting to spend Christmas with my maternal grandma
First off I love my grandma (maternal), but she’s a very self conscious person and that has been getting in the way of our relationship. A little back story, we used to be really close, like talking for hours on the phone multiple times a week. But when I started growing up, when I came out, and when I started dating...
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{ "description": "defending my younger cousin despite she's kinda in the wrong", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for defending my younger cousin despite she's kinda in the wrong?
This happened a couple of months ago but it keeps going back to me whenever i think about what breaks relationships and when i look at this subreddits or similar ones. ​ So, my uncle who was in canada went home and decided to do shopping with me, my sister and my younger cousin, lets call my younger cousin...
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AITA My girlfriend asked me to go to her moms birthday party
My girlfriend asked me to go with her to her family’s party for her moms birthday. It seems to be only close family in attendance. I personally am not too comfortable going, but we’ve dated for a year and a half and I almost feel like I’m expected to go. Her family is nice and all I just feel uncomfortable around them ...
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{ "description": "being uncomfortable with my girlfriend going to see a band whose drummer is someone she previously had sex with before we were together", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for being uncomfortable with my girlfriend going to see a band whose drummer is someone she previously had sex with before we were together?
It was a while ago and it only happened once, she said it wasn’t good and she didn’t particularly want to but did anyway (whole separate issue there). But I can’t help but feeling a little pissed off thinking this dude is going to look into the crowd and identify my girlfriend as a previous conquest. It’s a fairly well...
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{ "description": "sending him to jail", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for sending him to jail?
A little backstory. I have always been a social outcast and introverted. Didn't have many friends. The only thing that cared to me at the time was my computer. Built my first one when I was about 6. Programmed it around 7 or 8. Fast forward to high school. I was a sophmore when I realized that the school's intranet sy...
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{ "description": "getting bothered that my gf won't stop her 4 year old from coming to our bed and sleeping with us", "pronormative_score": 18, "contranormative_score": 11 }
AITA for getting bothered that my gf won't stop her 4 year old from coming to our bed and sleeping with us?
I have been living with my gf (28) for the last 4 months. Before that she had both her boys (7 & 4) sleep in the same bed as her even though they both have a room. I knew of this before I moved in so I told her to send them both to their room and get them use to sleeping there before I moved in. At first they bot...
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{ "description": "turning on a secondary router when my dad turns off the main one at 10pm", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for turning on a secondary router when my dad turns off the main one at 10pm
My dad always unplugs the router at 10pm and takes it with him to his bed, so I connected another router in my bedroom without his knowledge, which I turn on when he takes it. He says the reason he takes it is because my little brother will play games all night if it’s left on. My router has a different ID and passwo...
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{ "description": "telling my girlfriend that there are people in worse situations", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA For telling my girlfriend that there are people in worse situations?
So my girlfriend and I have been living together for about over a year. she has also been out of work for a year and she has been receiving disability payments. Since she's been out of work. Now she has been paying her bills through those disability payments and now it has run out. I've been working in the mean time th...
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{ "description": "getting mad/yelling at a retail worker", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 12 }
AITA for getting mad/yelling at a retail worker (tl;dr at bottom)
Alright, this scenario has several factors at play so let me explain them. It occurred during tuesday/wednesday this past week and I've been simmering about it ever since. *Tuesday morning*, it was cold as shit and when I went out to warm my car up before leaving for class, it wouldn't start. The battery was old as sh...
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{ "description": "wanting intimacy after a 2 month dry spell with girlfriend", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA For wanting intimacy after a 2 month dry spell with girlfriend?
I've been with my girlfriend now for a year and our sex life has been up and down - mostly down. However recently between getting the Flu, having some work stress and a period - my girlfriend has all but retracted from anything intimate and sexual. Am I the asshole for wanting my needs to be taken care of even if sh...
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{ "description": "making a move on my friend's sister", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I make a move on my friend's sister?
Throwaway because my friend, who we'll call B, knows my main account. TL;DR at the bottom. I'll start by prefacing with the fact that we are all in college, and I've gotten to know my friend's sister, who we'll call K through mutual friends, who are all part of separate friend groups. Basically, over the past few we...
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{ "description": "pushing my now ex gf out of my house when she came to break up with me", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for pushing my now ex gf out of my house when she came to break up with me
So before I begin when I say push I don't mean in a harsh way it was more of you need to leave and you are not listening slow "push". Well this begins with her telling me she needed some space 2 days before this over text, to which I said cool I will do that and gave her the space she asked for. 2 days go by so I text ...
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{ "description": "getting mad at my friends for not telling me why my other friend deleted their account", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for getting mad at my friends for not telling me why my other friend deleted their account?
So today, I went onto discord as you do and found a message from one of my friends saying that a lot of drama went down in part of the groupchat. In said groupchat, there was a section where people were working on a story together. No one in it had their shit together because the leader (guy who deleted his account) le...
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{ "description": "trying to find different ways to force my ex to get help", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for trying to find different ways to force my ex to get help?
Some pre-context before I post the full story that way if this post is in violation of the rules due to when this happened I understand why it was deleted. This story takes place mid October of 2015 and lasts until about March of 2016. The reason why I'm posting this here is because what transpired still eats at me a...
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{ "description": "not wanting to live with a random person", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to live with a random person?
So me and my roommate are long time friends and we live together in a major city. Well last year he started dating a new girl and everything is good. Well about 4 or 5 months ago he basically moved in with her and hasn’t been here except for a couple of nights but he is on the lease still and pays rent (not cheap). But...
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{ "description": "making her upset while texting", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for making her upset while texting?
About a month and a half ago I went to a wedding back home and I ended up hitting it off with a mutual friend (I'll call her J). I got her number but that's as far as things went. We've been texting everyday since then. I told her when I was back home again that I'd like to take her on a date and she said she'd like t...
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{ "description": "being annoyed with my sister for using me as an excuse", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for being annoyed with my sister for using me as an excuse
I'm visiting my sister out of state and came down with a cough out of nowhere. Two days of this productive cough had my sister nagging me to let her take me to urgent care. I finally agreed and the next day she told her manager that she was going to the doctor with me in the morning, so she got permission to work from...
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{ "description": "'ignoring' my boyfriend", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for ’ignoring’ my boyfriend?
Throwaway cuz my bf knows my real account So I’m still in high school and live with my parents. My bf and I have been dating for about 7 months now and we fight every few months. We always work through it though. We are very good at communicating. Today, however, is different. My parents found out I haven’t been doin...
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{ "description": "parking my car", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for parking my car
The street that I lived on was VERY narrow. One way, cars parked on both sides with just enough room for a car to pass through. I lived in one of two buildings that had about 8 units. Across the street was a building that had about 6 units. This building had two driveways on either side and a parking lot behind it. My ...
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{ "description": "standing my ground", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for standing my ground?
Me M[20] and girlfriend F[18] are at the mall in a store that sells Pop figures and other popular culture items. She's the first person I've ever dated (yeah, I know) and me her first in 5 months since her last breakup. This was our 6th date. This happened 3 days ago. In the store, she finds a mini keychain Iron Man ...
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{ "description": "forcing 200 kids to go on a different field trip", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for forcing 200 kids to go on a different field trip?
I teach an upper elementary grade. Every year for the past five years we’ve gone to a place 2-2.5 hours away. This means my 7.5 hour day turns into a 12 hour day- maybe longer if a parent is late to pick up their student. Every year I say I hate going to this far place. This year I have other teachers on my side and we...
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{ "description": "not wanting to hang out with my friend", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 2 }
WIBTA for not wanting to hang out with my friend?
Throwaway for obvious reasons. ​ My roommate and best friend and I are very close, socialize together, hang out together, and meet new people together. We move fairly closely with each other in our respective social circles, and for the most part, we work very well together. The only problem isn't actuall...
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{ "description": "getting fustrated with my s/o for worrying about holiday dates clashing with freshers", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA For getting fustrated with my S/O for worrying about holiday dates clashing with Freshers?
My Girlfriend of 18 months and I are planning on booking an all-inclussive holiday for the end of next summer, late September time to avoid the Summer price hikes. The holidays we've shortlisted are all to resorts near the same airport, and the holidays are full packages (i.e. flights and luggage included). We have 2 s...
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{ "description": "getting upset about cleaning a vacation house I stayed in for free", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for getting upset about cleaning a vacation house I stayed in for free
My wife and I went on a weekend ski trip with a friend of hers, whose boyfriend alone paid for an entire 5 bedroom house. He was in charge of planning the entire trip and ended up inviting way more of his friends than the house could sleep. We got our own room, as did her friend and her boyfriend, but everyone else sha...
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{ "description": "requesting not to be charged shipping on an item", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA if I requested not to be charged shipping on an item?
Hey guys, I’m on mobile so I hope my formatting doesn’t wind up wonky. A couple weeks ago myself and a couple employees at my business decided that we would go into a Christmas parade. It’s a small town so there’s not any pressure to go ALL OUT, but I didn’t bother setting a budget. I’ve spent probably close to $1000...
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{ "description": "being angry about my friends not including me", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for being angry about my friends not including me?
Basically I’m angry that my friends made plans to hang out tonight instead of tomorrow when I said a few days ago when we were talking about making plans that I could hang tomorrow night but that I’d be out of town today. Then my best friend and host of the plans tonight messages me to ask what time I’d be back and if...
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{ "description": "accepting a job offer and then turning it down afterward", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 2 }
WIBTA If I accepted a job offer and then turned it down afterward?
Hi Everyone. So, currently I hate the job that I work. It's just not the job that I want to be in, nor is it really related to my degree. I have been applying for and have interviewed for a couple of jobs. One is a Case Manager position at a reform school of sorts. It pays a little less than I make now, but it...
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{ "description": "wanting my depressed male friend that moved to Africa to leave me alone even though I'm one of his only friends", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for wanting my depressed male friend(17) that moved to Africa to leave me alone even though I'm one of his only friends?
Last year my friend, who I had known for 3 years prior, was forced to move to Africa by his parents. His parents were missionaries and they dragged him along with them. He had been depressed before moving but it has gotten so much worse after. He found out he wouldnt be coming back until at least 2021, This led to me(1...
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{ "description": "being upset at my mother actions", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For being upset at my mother actions.
Am I the asshole for being upset at my mother for upending and splintering her families life and moving to another state for a Job. My mother and father have been together for 30 years. My mother had two other marriages and two other children resulting from them. Instead of going to college she decided to drink, do dr...
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{ "description": "offering to pay for half a ticket", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for offering to pay for half a ticket
Short 'n sweet: My BF and I often go our own ways on weekend nights. We don't live together, but he's often over at my place. Last Sunday I woke up ahead of him and I noticed a ticket on the couch. Later that week, I notice that the ticket is in the flower pot by the door. I'm cleaning and assume it's trash and throw ...
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{ "description": "receiving shitty bonus", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for receiving shitty bonus.
So here’s the backstory... I’ve been working for this company that I absolutely love for quite some time now. My first year as an employee we got handed Christmas bonus checks the week before Christmas which was awesome and was about $500, not bad for just starting ten years ago. Every year after it has grown and the...
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{ "description": "sharing a meme", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for sharing a meme?
I've been in a fwb situation with this woman from my grad school program. We had a previous big fight where she straight up cut me out of her life rather than talk about it. We patched things up but then this happened. I shared a meme that said "Bisexuality doesn't exis... " with Aquaman and Wonder Woman on it. She ca...
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{ "description": "throwing my friend's cigarette in the bin when he offered it me when he knew my virulent anti-smoking stance", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA if I threw my friend’s cigarette in the bin when he offered it me when he knew my virulent anti-smoking stance?
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{ "description": "never replying to my (best)friend after we agreed to have a nightout", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for never replying to my (best)friend after we agreed to have a nightout
Ok first of all, i did that because I've had enough of everything she's been pulling the past few years. First, she keeps on calling the people part of LGBTQI+ disgusting like saying "ew" and "wtf disgusting" in our language. She also started avoiding our friend who came out to us a few years ago saying "I'm scared s...
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{ "description": "getting on to my students for forgetting their music", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for getting on to my students for forgetting their music?
I'm a 1st year music teacher. I'm in my band class working with the students and one of my trombone players walk in late. He casually sits down in the wrong section and begins looking at someone else's music because he forgot his (he's still in the wrong section so he's reading baritone music. Not even his own part). I...
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{ "description": "\"testing\" my friend", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for “testing” my friend
Long story short my friend has a quarter life crisis and a bucket list I help him complete task. One thing on his list is to travel to London. He is an idea guy and has no plan so I book flights and hotel rooms. Once there I see the list of sights and go to them I. The order he wrote. It’s awful he went back and fourth...
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{ "description": "not wanting to go home for Christmas, and cancelling last minute", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for not wanting to go home for Christmas, and cancelling last minute?
Ahh, the Holidays. The most wonderful time of the year. Spending it with family, unsettling small talk about lives and kids that no one actually listens too. BEST TIME OF THE YEAR!!! My wife and I are currently in an internal conflict whether or not to go home for Christmas weekend. After my wife and I got married...
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{ "description": "not paying someone back while I'm still waiting for money back myself", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for not paying someone back while I'm still waiting for money back myself.
So I recently moved to Japan and as such found myself with limited funds as it is. I met (what I thought) was a nice group of people and we decided to rent 2 cars and all go on a road trip to see some sights. We agreed before even booking anything that we'd split the cost of the day by 13. A taxi to the rental place ...
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{ "description": "being upset that she seemed to lose interest in me rather quickly/abruptly, despite sticking with me through an unconventional relationship", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for being upset that she seemed to lose interest in me rather quickly/abruptly, despite sticking with me through an unconventional relationship?
Some background info: I'm in high school so this is one of the first relationships of this sort that I've had. Also, this is a long story but there is a TL;DR at the bottom for those who want to really cut to the chase; I recommend reading through, though, because there is some important context in the main body of the...
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{ "description": "arguing with my mom to try and keep us safe", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for arguing with my mom to try and keep us safe?
My mom and I have very similar personality traits in that we both try so hard to prove to the other that we are right. Of course being almost 18 but not quite, it can get quite dicey almost every day over small commonplace things. Anyways, tonight after arguing with my mom for the infinitieth time, she takes my phone,...
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{ "description": "getting more than I wanted but less than I was promised", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for getting more than I wanted but less than I was promised?
Pretext: if i'm honest, the only reason I didn't push this issue is because I didn't want to end up on r/ChoosingBeggars. I ordered pizza from Papa John's the other night. They were abnormally busy and whenever that happens, I try to be extra nice to people. Totally understand it, I've worked in the service industry. ...
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{ "description": "making my (younger sister) walk the dog once in a while", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for making my (Younger sister) walk the dog once in a while?
I’m currently 14 and my sister is 11. We have a dog who is 1 and a half and I walk him most of time. I just ask my sister to walk him once or twice a week, when I’m tired. He’s not my dog, he’s the family’s dog, but whenever I bring this up, my mom and dad say that I shouldn’t have asked for a dog if I don’t want to wa...
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{ "description": "going to a meet and greet instead of having a meal with my best mate", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for going to a meet and greet instead of having a meal with my best mate?
Long time lurker, first time poster. On mobile as well Okay so uk boi here, and backstory for the day, i went out with best friend to go shopping and shit, but i'm so easily distracted I wasn't really listening to her half the time, and being a bit snappy, so I was being an asshole in that case, but we talked and i ap...
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AITA friend and I are debating. Is it ok to ask the size of a man dick on date ?
So (F)riend of mine has the habit of asking dudes how big there dicks are and often follows up with a joke about about not being interested in small penises. So I(M) don’t think that this is appropriate and we decided the best the solution would be to let the people decide.
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{ "description": "asking for Christmas dessert help", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for asking for Christmas dessert help?
My wife works very hard as a doctor and has recently returned from an interstate assignment for 6 months. I have a work function and I would like her to make Christmas macaroons with her new food processor (that i got her for Christms) for dessert. I know she needs time to work on her master's degree, but i would love ...
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{ "description": "not changing a homeless man's money", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not changing a homeless man’s money
This happened a few months ago but I was thinking about it. I’m 18F and work part-time at McDonalds (UK). This homeless man stays outside of our maccies a fair bit, and people occasionally give him money/bring him in and pay for his food, or he comes and buys food. That’s all cool. He came in one time when I was on...
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{ "description": "taking the bigger tip", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA For taking the bigger tip
So today at work I come in and there’s a lot of dishes oh fuck me . So it’s me and me coworker doing dishes we usually have a lot of food prep but luckily we only had one left chicken. So the plan is to knock as many dishes before 8:30 and then do chicken, get our food, then finish dishes before 10:30. Well we do the f...
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{ "description": "not wanting to go to a bridal shower for a person I met once", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to go to a bridal shower for a person I met once
I (27F) was invited to a bridal shower for a woman who is marrying my boyfriends cousin. My boyfriend (27M) is not close to this cousin and we are actually unsure we are even going to be able to attend the wedding (out of town trip already planned for that weekend). My boyfriends Mom(50s) and sister(29) were also invi...
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{ "description": "breaking up with GF for cheating even though I had previously", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 10 }
AITA for breaking up with GF for cheating even though I had previously...
Pretty much title. Overseas holiday and I kissed a girl but left the situation immediately afterward. Reconciled this by thinking I’d done the right thing by not continuing despite her wanting to do more. Returned home and nothing was spoken of it. Several months later, she comes to me crying and confesses to me that...
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{ "description": "accidentally ruining my girlfriend's laundry on her birthday", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for accidentally ruining my girlfriend’s laundry on her birthday?
My girlfriend and I live together and tomorrow is her birthday. She’s super stressed out right now due to the fact that she’s currently on a 24 hour shift that ends at 10 AM tomorrow (on her actual birthday), and she plans on sleeping away most of the day after that. I thought it’d be nice to tackle the mountain of...
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{ "description": "misleading an aerospace company I'm interning at into thinking I want to work for them", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for misleading an aerospace company I'm interning at into thinking I want to work for them?
I'm a senior in high school and last summer I had a 6 week internship at a large aerospace company. I told them I liked the work environment very much and that I was interested in continuing. They want me to come back this summer as well, and I expect this will lead to a college internship offer in 2020. The thing i...
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{ "description": "not sitting with an acquaintance on the plane", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not sitting with an acquaintance on the plane
Okay, now I know I’m going to sound like a dumbass so just bear with me please. I was sitting at my gate at the airport when someone I know from my scholarship program at my university messaged me and asked if I was at the airport. I looked around and saw her and we talked. She is so nice and an underclassman and reall...
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{ "description": "waking up my husband to get me a drink and snacks", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 3 }
WIBTA if I wake up my husband to get me a drink and snacks? (Light hearted)
I am three months pregnant and really want a ginger ale and some flavor blasted goldfish we bought at the store today. But I'm snuggling my sleeping toddler and am really comfy. Will I be the asshole if i wake him up to get it for me?
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{ "description": "being annoyed by my aunt staring me after doing something I don't really do that much", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for being annoyed by my aunt staring me after doing something I don’t really do that much?
I’m a first time poster and on mobile so sorry about any formatting issues. Backstory/Context: I (14f) don’t really do my makeup that much despite having a lot of it. Also I hate any sort of attention to myself, especially from my family and tend to stay in my room. Another thing to note is that this happened around 3...
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{ "description": "involving police about noise", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for involving police about noise.
I'm in a shared house with someone who is essentially my polar opposite. To put it as simply as possible I'm the stereotype of who would win those "going to be successful" awards in american secondary schools, set myself extremely high standards and work very hard to meet them. This involves getting up at 5:30 daily ot...
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{ "description": "pushing my sister down the stairs", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for pushing my sister down the stairs?
So this happened about a decade ago. I was ten and my sister was twelve. She’d recently broken her leg, and I was having emotionally/mental issues due to bullying at school and family problems, which were causing several severe physical issues (to the point where my paid for me to take an MRI, despite us not having ins...
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{ "description": "not eating something because \"I feel fat\"", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for not eating something because "i feel fat"
This happend to a friend of mine yesterday, he doesnt have reddit so i thougth i can manage it for him Yesterday he (Tom) met his GF and a friend of her (lets call her Bettie) in a local Burger King. Everything startet off pretty chill they talked a bit and everything was fine. Bettie weighs about 110kg ( 242 lbs) ...
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{ "description": "splitting up extended family", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA For splitting up extended family?
The title is misleading, but technically true. My mother and her sister often have... rivalry. My Aunt is usually really jealous of my mother since she always seem to do the pettiest of things just to piss my family off, but I think this time I went a little overboard with revenge. Keep in mind, my mother is 45 and my...
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{ "description": "flaking out on a film club meeting", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA For flaking out on a film club meeting?
Some backstory: I joined a film club at the beginning of this school year, and it is every Thursday from end of school for about an hour and a half. In it I learn photoshop, premiere, and eventually direct my own film, which is cool because someday I want to work in the film industry. Anyways, around late December gr...
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{ "description": "laughing at the canes drive thru person every time I go", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA For laughing at the canes drive thru person every time i go?
So i go to canes a ton. I recently heard that their employees are told to start your order by sayin “Hey Hey Hey want some chicken today?” So when i go to the drive thru and they say that i cant help but to laugh crazy. Idk its just so funny. Ive laughed about 5 times now and every time i laugh the person sighs or they...
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{ "description": "destroying multiple friendships that had lasted for 10 years", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for destroying multiple friendships that had lasted for 10 years?
This had happened quite a few years ago, but it still haunts me to this day. I've tried many things to move on, but I still experience trauma from the past and it's affecting my ability to be a functioning member of society. When I found this subreddit, I knew that I wanted to post what had occurred to hopefully reach ...
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{ "description": "being upset with my best friend for choosing a genre of movie that I struggle with at her surprise birthday party that I threw for her", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA For being upset with my best friend for choosing a genre of movie that I struggle with at her surprise birthday party that I threw for her?
I am writing this for my girlfriend who is the person asking this AMIA question. Last night her best friend came home to a surprise birthday party with 8 of her high school friends including me that involved dinner, presents, and a cake made by my girlfriend. My girlfriend had been planning this party for the past two ...
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{ "description": "snitching on an ex-bully friend of mine whose dad is a cop", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 3 }
WIBTA If I snitch on an ex-bully friend of mine whose dad is a cop?
I haven't done it yet, notice the WIB in WIBTA. I am 21 M (not sure if it is relevant), and the friend in question is 21 F. Well, I call her a friend because everyone in our circle pretends so, but I have so so many grudges with her for bullying me plenty as I was growing up. Her dad used to bully me as well. Now obvi...
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{ "description": "not agreeing with my wife (teacher) that xmas break, March break and summer do not count for added credit to the social outing fund", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for not agreeing with my wife (teacher) that xmas break, March break and summer do not count for added credit to the social outing fund?
My wife and I are parents too 2 young boys. We don't have many common friends. We have implemented the social outing credit system so that if she or I wants to do social outings on our own as a mini getaway to family life and responsibilities, we can be positive with eachother to these fun events and not feel guilty. T...
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AITA for upvoting?
This post is more like a rant. I love this sub and it appears to be growing really fast. There are some good stories being shared. Heck, maybe I'm looking to deep into this. Yeah, we get a lot of shitposting going on like any other sub. We get a lot of stories that people are seeking true validation. But, we also get...
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{ "description": "not letting my parents know I'm transgendered", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not letting my parents know I'm transgendered?
This is my own problem. There are no other parties involved, other than me. I'm having a very hard time deciding whether or not I should come out to my parents. They'd be entirely against it. I can fend for myself, and don't require any help from them, but they just couldn't understand this and would blame it on themse...
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{ "description": "not liking a person a work that literally sits at the desk all day with his feet up and plays with his phone and gets away with it", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not liking a person a work that literally sits at the desk all day with his feet up and plays with his phone and gets away with it
We hired a new guy at work a few months back and since he got here all he does is sit at the desk with his feet up and plays with his phone.I thought after a while my boss would put a stop to this but nope. The longer this goes on the more I can’t stand person I work in a production plant and this should be unacceptabl...
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{ "description": "breaking up with my best friend", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for Breaking Up with My Best Friend?
I (F22) dated my ex-boyfriend (M22) for about 2 years, and it was an intense relationship. We had a lot of chemistry, and I loved him. He has bipolar disorder which he unfortunately refuses to treat because he enjoys the manic episodes so much. These periods make him feel more creative and wonderfully happy. But the de...
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{ "description": "not making concrete spring break plans with my girlfriend", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not making concrete spring break plans with my girlfriend?
Hey. I'm 21f and she's 21f. We're both in college and I work two jobs because I'm paying my way. I've told her many times that I need to coordinate things in advance before we make plans (that means at least a week beforehand). Additionally, my gf and I took a break after 1.5 years last fall and got back together in Ja...
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{ "description": "telling my sister to stop waving at me", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for telling my sister to stop waving at me?
Everytime she sees me, she waves at me.i normally don't have a problem with this, but this weekend I was having a bad mood about something that happened during school, but she still kept doing it everytime. Eventually after doing it several times in a row in an hour, I just asked can she please stop it. Am I the asshol...
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{ "description": "refusing to stop talking in my room when my sister is studying", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for refusing to stop talking in my room when my sister is studying?
My sister has been furious with me recently about me voicechatting online with other people while she's studying. The walls between our rooms aren't well isolated so she claims she can hear every single word I say. She also says having PDD-NOS (a form of autism) on top of it makes it very hard for her to focus. I can't...
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{ "description": "having a different political opinion", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for having a different political opinion?
My fiance asked me about my opinions on the new abortion law saying how, even though she is pro choice, having the option to abort a child basically just before its born is not right. I told her there is nothing wrong with the law. Although such late term abortion may not be right, that is not my burden to bear. I thi...
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