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"description": "telling my estranged brother he has to go to a psychiatrist if he wants to be back in my life",
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} | AITA for telling my estranged brother he has to go to a psychiatrist if he wants to be back in my life? | So a bit lf background, our mother killed herself when I was younger. My brother has always had mental problems, lashing out, temper tantrums, major alcohol issues icluding 3 duos, he's talked about not even feeling like living anymore. He woumd steal my rax return checks from the mail. Attack me when confronted, steal... | HISTORICAL | {
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"description": "making my ex who cheated on me cheat on her current bf",
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} | AITA if I make my ex who cheated on me cheat on her current bf? | Back in high school I was dating this girl. To keep it short, I was totally head over heels for her, I spent all my money on her and was just in love!
She cheated on me with my best friend at the time. Obviously we got back together and she played me again... and again... and again...
I kept hoping she would change si... | HISTORICAL | {
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"description": "ghosting myself from a friend I know for years",
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} | AITA for ghosting myself from a friend I know for years? | I know "L" for about 10 years now, maybe even more. She always had low self-stem issues, abandoned school and got a shitty job and she still lives with her mother while being 38. I tried being supportive during out entire friendship, I even got her a job as a maid working for my family when she was unemployed. Well, it... | HISTORICAL | {
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"description": "taking a free fridge, and returning it when asked by the police",
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} | AITA For taking a free fridge, and returning it when asked by the police? |
So today I took in a fridge that was left in dorm commons for over 8 hours. It was empty, totally warm, and had nothing on it to indicate ownership. Usually people leave things out to give them away for free, usually clothes, canned food, and college textbooks. Sometimes furniture (large objects are removed after ... | HISTORICAL | {
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"description": "telling my friend that her boyfriend cheated on her with her best friend a month ago and she never found out",
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} | WIBTA if I told my friend that her boyfriend cheated on her with her best friend a month ago and she never found out? | Juniors in high school by the way. If I told her, it would break trust with my other best friend (call her Avery) Avery who was the one that told me about what happened. It would probably also make a big mess.
Basically my friend (we will call her kate) Kate got cheated on when her best friend (call her Amy) Amy made ... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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"description": "getting angry at my brother for saying things that I wouldn't say",
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} | aita for getting angry at my brother for saying things that i wouldn't say? | the title is probably confusing, but bear with me as i try to explain. i'm also on mobile because my computer is shit, so don't judge me too harshly if this turns out bad when i post it. i don't make text posts like this too often.
so, anyway, in my family, i'm the youngest sibling with two brothers. this story focuse... | HISTORICAL | {
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"description": "getting pissed off if BF goes to the movies without me",
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} | AITA for getting pissed off if BF goes to the movies without me? | Some context here. The thing is, my BF goes to the cinema ALL THE TIME. That’s not the problem, as he goes with me when I have time and want to go. Problem is, by the time I want to see a specific film, he has already gone to the movies either with his family or friends. After a while of dating, most of the movies we g... | HISTORICAL | {
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ZTpgZW8EtGlK3sSoqU5ZEKcIrkMy12bY | akg21x | {
"description": "asking out one of my ex's best friends",
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} | WIBTA if I asked out one of my ex's best friends? | Essentially the title.
Would I be an ass if I asked out one of my ex's best friends?
​
For a bit of background, I recently got out a of a pretty short (3 month) relationship. It ended amiably, but it was clear that I was being broken up with. I don't want to be single, so I've been trying to get back in... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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5rJwx8wjdNOptKxqPQA4H5qQIwekePD8 | a7iiyj | {
"description": "telling my boyfriend to not start a Pathfinder's campaign with out discord group while he's visiting me next week",
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} | AITA for telling my[21] boyfriend [20] to not start a Pathfinder’s campaign with out discord group while he’s visiting me next week? | Hi! Sorry for the formatting, I’m on mobile.
OKAY. So, last night my bf and a couple of friends watched Vampire Hunter: D. They ended up loving the movie so much that everyone decided on making a pathfinder campaign to play out the world of the movie.
We all made characters that night and went to bed. Today, my boyf... | HISTORICAL | {
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rfGMdVPgcOMsSJ3xHfykEINcUH31TCSY | b5et80 | null | AITA? My upstairs neighbours have really heavy sex directly from above my bedroom. After two notices, and as I am the owner of the building, I retaliate by DJing with my speakers oriented to their flat. | Self explanatory. Mu upstairs neighbours have reeeaaaally loud sex just above my bedroom, so after two notices and as the owner of my building, I retaliate by blasting PG18 songs directed to their flat.They didn't change their behaviour and I could technically move them away but I take pleasure from my retaliation proc... | HISTORICAL | {
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QzuMZ0FAEGlvCXGfFe03K0L2MBbTJBx5 | ants6e | {
"description": "not rushing to the hospital when my brother text me telling me my mom was admitted for having water in her lungs and congestive heart failure",
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} | AITA for not rushing to the hospital when my brother text me telling me my mom was admitted for having water in her lungs and congestive heart failure? | Let me start off by letting you know that my mom has really bad diabetes. Just 3 weeks ago she was rushed to the ER because her sugar went down below 20. That morning I got woken up by text and calls from my older brother and younger sister freaking out "mom is dying" "get your ass over here". I rushed to the hospital ... | HISTORICAL | {
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aNMbyArMlKVMgBoJpQNBjtqYEvOuYYnW | aiaprd | {
"description": "never wanting to have future contact with my girlfriends father",
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} | Aita for never wanting to have future contact with my girlfriends father? | My girlfriend (we'll call her gf from now on)& I have known eachother since 2001 but we only recently started dating in 2017. We have met a fair amount of eachothers family & friends with the exception of me meeting her dad. I never met him because her parents were divorced & they didn't live together.
Ou... | HISTORICAL | {
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mTjr0hAhNXeWmNYn2yBW4cdraVd17J7B | b6spxr | {
"description": "not wanting my son to study russian philology and go to Russia",
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} | AITA for not wanting my son to study russian philology and go to Russia? | So I'm from Georgia and my son wants to go to Russia to study russian philology. Idk if you know much about us but Russia is our enemy and my son wants to move to russia (temporarily or maybe even immigrate) and study russian philology. I basically told my son that he is betraying our country, our heritage and culture ... | HISTORICAL | {
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L3raFWHp957KpXdpnJl9mIHqKaqM4pCp | ai7qdd | {
"description": "ghosting a guy who was not perceptive of my boundaries",
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} | AITA for ghosting a guy who was not perceptive of my boundaries? | Ok so for starters, I was never interested in this guy, but he was interested in me. I figured that he and I have good friendship chemistry, so I won’t simply discount him just because he seems to like me, and I planned to be upfront with the fact that I wasn’t interested in a relationship if he ever brought it up.
O... | HISTORICAL | {
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JcdtTPciPFdL7lASZD3ncJCyLNpmPg7p | awni6n | null | AITA to my ex? |
He’s always like I wish we could be together. The timing is wrong. Work is crazy. I need to leave my gf. I don’t See a future with but I’m giving her a shot and hoping it works out but I’m sad when I think of our future. I’m leaving her soon. I’m glad we got to talk the other day. It was so good to talk to you let’s t... | HISTORICAL | {
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QvzWzxejrLGlR1FTbUdKI2zCeTXuP8UD | a4tey0 | {
"description": "being petty",
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} | AITA For Being Petty? | So I have these friends. Lets call them Mary, Grace, and Sam. Of the three of us, I'm the only one currently employed. Lately, I've noticed we haven't been able to hang out as much as we used to. Maybe it's because my work schedule is hard to work around, I don't know. But regardless, I see them hanging out sometimes o... | HISTORICAL | {
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nBj0J0GO2LFin89pmam0ITGT0N6higHC | afapkr | {
"description": "accidentally causing this",
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} | AITA for accidentally causing this | So during the summer of 2018 I was playing with my online friends that I've know for 2 years. I had my mic on full volume because of communication purposes because i didnt want to mistaken anything
Anyways my mom walk in asking what if I did something and one of my friends said, "Shut up bitch." My mom heard and took ... | HISTORICAL | {
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y3zg3qeZ4WZ6iAXUpy9if28OJtuqB4Fo | af4pw6 | {
"description": "avoiding and ignoring my friends when they pressure me to change",
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} | AITA for avoiding and ignoring my friends when they pressure me to change? | I’m extremely introverted. At the beginning of the school year, I met two guys at my school who became friends with me. They’re extroverted, and they admit to not understanding introverts and they know that I am one of them. They need tons of social attention, so they like to follow me around. I’m not a big fan of this... | HISTORICAL | {
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X5Vf4bSkITOSXWSO0Qx9fIp5QOc9RyVV | av4mxw | {
"description": "trying to convince my dad to put my brother back in his will",
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} | AITA for trying to convince my dad to put my brother back in his will? | Hi all. I've noticed that AITAs to do with wills are quite popular at the moment, although most of them seem to be whether taking 100% of the inheritance is greedy, which are typically met with a resounding NTA. I have the opposite problem.
My dad is in failing health and yet my brother has been taking money from him ... | HISTORICAL | {
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KDUkHsKSzGPbZdl8yA419oONZEd2N1DO | aj5yeq | {
"description": "telling to friends that my ex flat mate cheated on his ex gf",
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} | AITA for telling to friends that my ex flat mate cheated on his ex gf? | he (M19) asked me (M20) to not tell anyone. but I was anoyed because we leave the apartment this week and I left everything clean but the kitchen for him to clean up.
he and his autie told my mom the apartment was a mess and today my father did the kitchen (we live 400 miles from the city of the apartment and my father... | HISTORICAL | {
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FrmMhZLSblNzYz1PjTTfsyYEn25O6nXP | aho76g | {
"description": "making my dad wait 1.5 hrs for me",
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} | AITA for making my dad wait 1.5 hrs for me? | On mobile, sorry for format
Also this happened yesterday
Ok, so my school gets out at 3:00 on fridays and my dad has no work on Friday also. Seems like there’s no mess up so far. While driving to school he told me he had a meeting that started at 3 and was projected to last 1.5 hours. I realized I forgot to bring my ... | HISTORICAL | {
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7OJqdjZpITp6XwzxpOYgOWpmkiGdGGnr | amb0c1 | null | AITA fir waking up a homeless dude to give him some money? | I live in LA and I was walking down the street and saw a homeless dude sleeping on the sidewalk and his head was in the puddle.
I happen to have a bit of extra cash and really felt for the guy, because it's raining and his head is in a puddle, so I take a $10 out of my pocket and bend down and wake him up.
He does ... | HISTORICAL | {
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Q6flOVGSE4VDd0KuQZaxJcNfiHwnCySk | at7ld4 | {
"description": "asking a plumber to work around my schedule to fix a leaking pipe that has been there for years",
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} | AITA for asking a plumber to work around my schedule to fix a leaking pipe that has been there for years? | First time posting in this community but regularly watch. So I live in an condo apartment complex that used to be an old hotel from 1940s or older. It was recently sold to a new owner(there are other things in the apartment thar need fixing but not extremely dire), who I told about the pipe underneath the sink coming u... | HISTORICAL | {
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tRCjEtHJptUvZ6xz5fSpmzWMCK0msZMg | ai4mqb | {
"description": "getting pissed when my wife whistles to get my children's attention in public. the exact tone you would use to call a dog",
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} | AITA for getting pissed when my wife whistles to get my children's attention in public. The exact tone you would use to call a dog. | I see this as being on the same level as people put their kids on leashes. It annoys me to no end and she sees no problem with it. | HISTORICAL | {
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mZ2F8baX8qsn6dgkY0TnJmpr7qCcmiBb | ajnfyf | {
"description": "not wanting to attend my grandmother's funeral",
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} | AITA for not wanting to attend my grandmother's funeral. | My paternal grandmother passed away this week, she was 92 years old and lived a full life.
In her life she was an abusive mother and wife. She had severe rage issues and quite possibly some very serious mental illnesses resulting from having had a very violent childhood herself. She refused to go to a doctor to get ... | HISTORICAL | {
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a5PS4zv0458cHpsQ633IYwfxrbNaHmVZ | a0mv5h | {
"description": "being the man in the middle of MIL drama",
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} | AITA for being the man in the middle of MIL drama | ​
Wife and MIL drama hits a boiling point and I just trying to get some basis if I am in the wrong.
This all began a few years ago. We were getting ready for our mainly DIY wedding and my mom had invited us over to Thanksgiving. After discussing with my wife, we decided it would be hard for us at the time ... | HISTORICAL | {
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7pJ2yO5B9mMrB1mUWj8NPdW7PFa5c6z1 | aq9e3z | {
"description": "thinking that my classmates are underrating me",
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} | AITA for thinking that my classmates are underrating me? | It all started when I was paired with 2 other classroom colleagues at my programming degree class for a work.
The thing is that, im coming from another different degree, and I have no idea how to program mostly as my team, who both came from a similar classes. I understand and apreciate that they gave me the easiest t... | HISTORICAL | {
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DuwZV8aN4EIvQAQC6dzTsQGWymv44Uzq | adbiwu | {
"description": "wanting to know what my boyfriend is thinking about the timeline of our relationship",
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} | AITA for wanting to know what my boyfriend is thinking about the timeline of our relationship? | We have been dating for about a year and a half and although he tells me he wants to spend the rest of his life with me, he never talks about a timeline for taking the next step. I'm 30 and he is in his mid 30s. I don't want to sound crazy and clingy but I'd like to know if he's thinking 1 more year or 3 more years in... | HISTORICAL | {
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zi2n97Px7BR45yG6WEghtThwMzsIzDsD | b41k7x | {
"description": "not attending a bachelorette weekend",
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} | AITA for not attending a bachelorette weekend? | I can’t figure out how to Post my story here. See comments below. | HISTORICAL | {
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FVRh0NaiXLEzB8bDsbhMzrI0ehS0hebM | b96dr2 | null | AITA Best friend told me she didn't want to see me anymore | Hi reddit
This is my post here and I'll try to make this as quick as possible. I was really close friends with a girl for roughly three years. A few months ago, she told me that she didn't want to talk/see each other anymore and although I was crushed I understood and respectful about it. However, she told me that ov... | HISTORICAL | {
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PE8mScMki2Z5Ab5WWyRGEx7gxNSEm4Eo | 9vxd1t | {
"description": "being annoyed that my roommate never offers me food",
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} | AITA for being annoyed that my roommate never offers me food? | First, some context. I live with two roommates and one of them loves to cook and bake, just like I do. There's rarely a time when one of us isn't in the kitchen making something. We often talk with each other about the recipes we want to try, what were doing differently that day, etc. We don't cook together much becaus... | HISTORICAL | {
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rnnFA1l24yxNndOGEj3dnvByZMqNQXsN | 9yncty | {
"description": "hanging out with my friend after he broke up with his girlfriend",
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} | AITA for hanging out with my friend after he broke up with his girlfriend? | I am going to tell the story as objectively as possible so I know the answer, because I feel genuinely bad about this. For context, I am a 25/F and he is a 24/M. My friend, we'll call him James, and I met in 2012 when we attended college together. We joined the same club and became fast friends. We started attending th... | HISTORICAL | {
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qd53zm2tTeSU86GfBu2rWvLW0aLpxtIB | b1h0fb | {
"description": "missing my friend who I was in love with",
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} | AITA for missing my friend who I was in love with? | I'm on moblie sorry for bad formatting.
So heres some backstory, I met a guy in my first year of high school. Over the course of that year I realized I loved them, maybe too much to the point of obsession I can admit. But at the same time, they were my best friend. Probably the closest person to me. Now let's go back ... | HISTORICAL | {
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"description": "not forgiving this girl for exposing me to the clap",
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} | AITA for not forgiving this girl for exposing me to the clap | I’ve only been dating her for a few weeks. We had unprotected sex twice one night when we were drunk (I know, I know, but we’d both had STI tests in the last month). Fast forward 2 weeks and she tells me she has the clap and she thinks I gave it to her because she hadn’t had unprotected sex with anyone since her last t... | HISTORICAL | {
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37Qz9zQRUrzmknayybv3wsccVxKPUaqk | aaegiw | {
"description": "not wanting to call my gf on NYE",
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} | AITA for not wanting to call my GF on NYE? | After spending Christmas with my GF of two years and her family, I decided to take a boys trip to a friend's cabin for NYE - which my GF has repeatedly encouraged. She'll be spending it at home with friends or family. Recently, she mentioned that she'd like me to call her when the clock strikes midnight. I hesitated be... | HISTORICAL | {
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eS3gy7IkahQtM8W6X7eiFTc0Tff0BGx4 | 9xbfcf | {
"description": "calling someone autistic",
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} | AITA for calling someone autistic? | So background knowledge, a year ago I was being tormented by people calling me gay & mocking me. I was in a generally bad mood. One day I called someone and his friend autistic because I was in a bad mood and he was pissed. A year later he started talking about it to other people to (presumably) make me look bad. I... | HISTORICAL | {
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bWn38PJ3qGbaUM5M47VbJTHzounK2fpY | asyrmb | {
"description": "insisting that my brother be quiet",
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} | AITA for insisting that my brother be quiet? | As Creed Bratton once said, “I’m a pretty normal guy. I do one weird thing.” I’m not sure why, but I waaaay prefer to work on the kitchen counter as opposed to my room. It doesn’t bother me or anybody else, so I’ve been doing it for a long time without any issues.
Recently, my brother has been FaceTiming his girlfrien... | HISTORICAL | {
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6Oeozg7sI71L31GXbHhOkoVzsnwu4EKJ | ah3f82 | {
"description": "being annoyed at my friend for inviting me to come with him",
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} | AITA for being annoyed at my friend for inviting me to come with him? | A little while ago I made [this](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/a7s1v6/aita_for_being_angry_at_my_friend_for_pretending?sort=top) post. Read it for better context, but the long and short of it is I confessed feelings for a friend which he verbally and, to a degree, physically reciprocated, having previ... | HISTORICAL | {
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tuUFTQwfCtoHPbsrgb539ydCtIg9IyLM | b55m80 | {
"description": "being upset at my roommate for buying himself a Nintendo Switch",
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} | AITA for being upset at my roommate for buying himself a Nintendo Switch? | My roommate and I are best friends, but he can be quite irresponsible with his money. He does pay his share of rent and utilities on time, which I do appreciate; however, he has complained about not having his license or a car for close to six months now.
I have encouraged him to save money. Like perhaps don’t eat out... | HISTORICAL | {
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pcNUnEEqrPZoMlHom7ixhDYse5PSQ0qR | b8ylg4 | {
"description": "telling a friend he is entitled for expecting to get paid",
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} | AITA for telling a friend he is entitled for expecting to get paid? | My friend hasn't had a real job is his entire life.
He lives with his mother and has only done odd jobs for little pay.
Recently he was offered an apprenticeship by a cobbler since its a job he might be interested in.
However, he said won't be taking that offer since its unpaid.
I told him he has no skills, minimu... | HISTORICAL | {
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j3Z5eaExB8ZgsuWjRDCgAxNfsurJpkvW | au2rp3 | {
"description": "not wanting my brother to move back home during my spring break",
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} | AITA for not wanting my brother to move back home during my spring break? | So my older brother is scheduled to move back home as he's not sure if he wants to continue on with his PHD or not, as well as being told to move out because his roommate wants his fiancee to move in. So his situation kinda sucks.
​
However, he is coming back during my spring break despite still being good... | HISTORICAL | {
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DvmN0BMgzSO3NShfJ3rkr3YErMg3JSwH | b0uuru | {
"description": "being stubborn",
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} | AITA for being stubborn | Ok redditors, this one requires quite a bit of back story, so bear with me.
My ex fiance and I have been off and on for the past four years. Recently we decided to take some time to figure out what we needed in a relationship, and wouldnt be happy without.
There was one thing that he brought up, and that is having l... | HISTORICAL | {
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PU4x7lHTGy36jjOFYdodlo8qyM8sQYuz | afbevr | {
"description": "wanting a girl pay for my broken phone",
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} | AITA that I want a girl pay for my broken phone? | CG= crazy girl In middle school I was waiting outside my class for the teacher with everyone else. CG walks up to me, I have mutual friends with her so starts talking to me and joking around. I was on Instagram when she approached so I am now holding my phone loosely at my waist and I'm not looking at it. All of the su... | HISTORICAL | {
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lcFEjVeixP3mKlWXzJ1CHZwuM3YbHnjU | akbo6s | {
"description": "advising my boss that he needs to fire several employees",
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} | AITA For advising my boss that he needs to fire several employees? | Im 26 and I work in an industry that is extremely competitive and has high turn over. I have worked for my company since i was 20, and my boss was once just my senior coworker and friend. He was promoted, and he brought me up the ladder with him.
In the new year our branch is restructuring. We will absorb key personne... | HISTORICAL | {
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Je9MPpbfCanL731kEYiaQndVx0WeBb2C | audeim | {
"description": "wanting to date a girl after a mutual acquaintance just went out with her",
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} | AITA for wanting to date a girl after a mutual acquaintance just went out with her? | He’s like the brother of a friend, and when I hang out with these group of people he’s there. He’s not one of my friends and I don’t have his contact.
Me and the girl (they broke up like a week ago) have kind of been flirting on Snapchat.
I told her that maybe we should hang out soon and she said maybe we should.
... | HISTORICAL | {
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b3XRmSsVgqSd1f4Yu2WaA6aBzJSzCWFJ | af2ula | null | AITA stressful day at the post office I work at | Am I the asshole? I have recently got my job back as a mail man, I’m 54 years old and I believe I will stick at this job until my retirement. I have some younger colleagues, one of them is 23 and the other is 25. Today they inconvenienced me by taking my load of letters and switching with there own so that I had to do ... | HISTORICAL | {
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a9hB5skvlV4jtpn6TFypCO3M85nuZCeK | auea5e | {
"description": "not wanting FH to go to 1st MBA reunion",
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} | AITA for not wanting FH to go to 1st MBA reunion? | So my FH just graduated from a prestigious school. We also just moved across the country, and I am sitting for the February bar exam. FH and I are both in high earning careers, we have a very healthy savings. His income covers our cost of living right now, but there isn't a lot left over after our monthly expenses. We ... | HISTORICAL | {
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OQc4wA96xagVelis7T0YxMiv7xEFFCch | aeqo61 | {
"description": "not letting my boyfriend play video games",
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} | AITA for not letting my boyfriend play video games? | Throwaway account
Now before all of the angry comments, let my explain:
When my boyfriend was a freshman in college (last year), he was obsessed with a game called Warframe (for those of you who don't know its a game with a lot of grind if you are a f2p) I played this game too, but not to the extent that he played. H... | HISTORICAL | {
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jTY1kcrpoYQlj38n6DXfwpnvNqbQnBts | a92oq1 | {
"description": "being upset about secret Santa gift",
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} | AITA for being upset about secret Santa gift? | For Christmas my group of friends does a secret Santa and this year the budget was $20 and in order to make it a bit easier everyone made a list of items within the budget. One of the girls from the group (let’s call her B) and I used to be very close. We did everything together and at some point I considered her my be... | HISTORICAL | {
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PRgDhH9SD54t3In5iaLjCCZaNrxfaVsN | a9vumh | {
"description": "cutting off connections with my friend",
"pronormative_score": 2,
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} | AITA for cutting off connections with my friend? | So yesterday, my friend called me and he started talking about the times we hung out. Basically he just brought up some really embarrassing experiences to which I laughed along to but would DEFINITELY not want other people to know. These are really embarrassing things that I don't want anyone else to find out. So we'r... | HISTORICAL | {
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UKi1BG8KUKSvZWr3ERR6lgqKYhipUT5G | awv1e6 | {
"description": "not wanting to continue contact with my mother/family",
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} | AITA for not wanting to continue contact with my mother/family | So I’ve been called an asshole for a lot of things. I’m 16 now and have left my moms home for various reasons. I’m staying with my moms parents and obviously they want me to fix things and talk to her. There’s alittle drugs involved and a lot of toxicity (imo at least) in why I left. My moms always been unfair with me ... | HISTORICAL | {
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ROFzEG5d3TbRPPMC1qkxvYgdfRARoXHs | b37um1 | {
"description": "not supporting my friend in her student election campaign",
"pronormative_score": 2,
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} | AITA for not supporting my friend in her student election campaign? | Here's the deal: My friend ( let's call her J ), is running for a position for our university's student alliance. We're both first years, so we don't have as much experience with campus life as as the average student.
The position is one that basically involves J representing our faculty's voice (social sciences and ... | HISTORICAL | {
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4JIkhsT5yy90GCCjNU6ZTa9fvzlO68X0 | amiy9j | {
"description": "dealing with our asshole ex-roommates my way",
"pronormative_score": 2,
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} | AITA for dealing with our asshole ex-roommates my way | I just want an outsiders perspective on things. I will take whatever your guy’s judgement is with no complaint.
So for context, me and my fiancé live alone now bc we can’t stand roommates anymore. The last roommates we had was a couple. The main problem we had with them was that they would leave out their dirty dishes... | HISTORICAL | {
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jl7M3J2tjHlcOCCeEY00KsUa45j7UFch | b5497f | {
"description": "not telling my girlfriend that I'm considering moving to another state",
"pronormative_score": 2,
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} | AITA for not telling my girlfriend that I’m considering moving to another state? | The company I work for is about to offer a round of retirement packages in California. Once they do there will be the opportunity to transfer there. I’m thinking it over, but haven’t made up my mind one way or the other yet. I haven’t told her because if I don’t end up transferring I still want to date her and not t... | HISTORICAL | {
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Y0PA7q6xavZaiuZcBrjjLqS2TWC8kqG0 | aj9dgc | null | AITAH my friend liked me and i didn’t like them back, we are no longer friends | my old best friend and i were very close. we spent a lot of days together and sleepovers etc. one day she told me that she liked me and i didn’t know how to respond. i told her i was sorry but i don’t think of her in that way. things were kinda awkward after that, not so much on my part but she started to be a bit weir... | HISTORICAL | {
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IKiVduDuRX0c9IeV7cZHkDwkIRHOk3HY | aykuub | {
"description": "telling my friend to put on deodorant",
"pronormative_score": 8,
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} | AITA For telling my friend to put on deodorant? | So, I recently had a few friends over. These guys are some of my best friends, and have been for the past 4 years or so. One of them wasn't really smelling too fresh, so I told him to put some deodorant on. I tried to say it as politely as possible, but he looked really hurt and asked me if I was serious. I said yes, a... | HISTORICAL | {
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dLUyr2tWnqNPTRjbG4gcI2spwCxOo9ch | ak4fe4 | {
"description": "pushing away the person who's been here for me through a lot because I know I'm wasting their time",
"pronormative_score": 2,
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} | WIBTA if I pushed away the person who’s been here for me through a lot because I know I’m wasting their time? | Long story short.. I’ve been dating a girl in and off and we had a kid early on in the relationship. I love them both in my own way but I’ve done a lot of shit to her. And I don’t want to do it anymore.
I’ve been struggling with depression for a long time. I’m a liar and a cheater and I am not changing right now.
A... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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KlPGAl32lCgGq2hQjHM380dixXOOOXga | azmot1 | null | AITA for tell my Husband to get over hating his commute | So this is hypothetical as I would like to do this but have not done it.
My husband works 45 min away from where he works. We live in a small town next to Austin tx and his job is in central-ish Austin. Because traffic is so awful in Austin he will have to leave 1-2 hours early to make sure he gets there on time or l... | HISTORICAL | {
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vgv4mBIqnDD46EjoKEkVFzhQlaOlp0MB | b27uxk | {
"description": "not wanting to hang with my gf friends at the club",
"pronormative_score": 2,
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} | AITA for not wanting to hang with my gf friends at the club? | She constantly asks me to hang out with them generally at one of the club's around here, and I don't want to. I've hung out with them before on her bday when we all went out for drinks and I don't have any issues with them. I just really don't like the club scene. I'd rather goto a dive bar and play pool than to a club... | HISTORICAL | {
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LEZ2YCcJfWb0XmPFx2vp0YLBrL8XL4fY | b0f6b6 | {
"description": "asking my dad if I could return the guitar he got me for Christmas",
"pronormative_score": 3,
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} | WIBTA if I asked my dad if I could return the guitar he got me for Christmas | Let me start of by saying that I am very grateful my parents have good enough jobs to buy be presents like they do.
So for Christmas last year my dad got me a guitar. I have only expressed wanting to play guitar once 2 years ago, I have never mentioned it since and I never asked for a guitar. I only ever mentioned it ... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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hYbVdaQXYuRrGVLhYnXTed4d6TygxmuH | aqnrar | {
"description": "no longer wanting to emotionally invest in someone I'm not close with anymore and cutting them off",
"pronormative_score": 1,
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} | AITA for no longer wanting to emotionally invest in someone i’m not close with anymore and cutting them off ? | So for some backstory , me and this girl (let’s call Jan) have been friends for about 4-5 years back when we worked at a retail store. We got along pretty well and it made work more bearable (keep in mind i was a teenager at this point so i was probably 17 ) and she was a few years older. She wasnt the type of friend i... | HISTORICAL | {
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mXkDgCdIG57zPat4xBGbcSFTtDDVwape | b71t33 | {
"description": "thinking the chocolate bar should have been mine",
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} | AITA for thinking the chocolate bar should have been mine? | When I was about 14 I went to a vending machine to get a mars bar. There already was a kid there and he was annoyed at the fact he put money in to get one and the twisty thing didn’t turn enough for the mars to come out.
It was on the edge, I said to him, I’m going to get one anyway, I’ll try to get yours out as well.... | HISTORICAL | {
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WZSxUyue83DIQnjWw1Pv4ziyPIspgSGh | aw984m | {
"description": "not shutting up",
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} | AITA for not shutting up? | In a small (We're talking 4 people) Discord Friend Group server I'm in, me and the owner often argue over small things where she'll get upset at something I do or say, and whenever I respond to her she'll continue to get more and more angry while the other two try to calm us down (I personally am calm and civilized thr... | HISTORICAL | {
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CwdDP3ohQWU8y8kLHCyxqPX7VSUEwbMO | akix1t | {
"description": "walking on the wrong side of the footpath",
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} | AITA for walking on the wrong side of the footpath? | This morning myself, hubby and 3 kids arrived at the beach to meet some family in order to scatter my late Mum's ashes. My youngest, a 9 year old boy with autism and multiple health issues, has trouble walking long distances so I went to walk ahead with my girls.
We don't go often so I forgot about the footpath rul... | HISTORICAL | {
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0FnuPG7ICzDicfVq3FWYLYw4PJ16cWqR | b1kn86 | {
"description": "ending a a friendship in this manner",
"pronormative_score": 2,
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} | AITA to end a a friendship in this manner? | I recently ‘broke up’ with a friend and am not sure how much of an asshole I was.
Some background: ‘Sharon’ is much older than I am and, while sweet, has very little understanding of social norms and boundaries (I only mention her age because she’s in her mid 40s and is pretty set in her ways). I considered her a dist... | HISTORICAL | {
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QGq7BS9lXDAtwwYR1nZcP3GuQRnES8fX | ab2g7q | {
"description": "getting between my ex and his more recent ex",
"pronormative_score": 4,
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} | WIBTA if I got between my ex and his more recent ex? | So, to give some background, I (22F) recently started talking to my ex (23M) again after around four years of not speaking, with a brief interval of catching up but not actually seeing each other as we were in different states. My ex, we'll call him K, and I, dated all four years of high school. I broke up with him not... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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rqXhJCEzhdcoUvxrkPVzY7p3DvxkakXt | aves6j | {
"description": "thinking my wife should be happy about getting to eat sushi instead of generic steak umms for dinner despite not getting exactly what she wants",
"pronormative_score": 5,
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} | AITA for thinking my wife should be happy about getting to eat sushi instead of generic steak umms for dinner despite not getting exactly what she wants? | Yesterday it was the day before payday and I had to gather up loose change to get a decent dinner for the family. Generic steakumms on hotdog buns was on the menu, but my tax refund deposited just as I was leaving the market, so I decided to order some Chinese food and sushi as a treat since we’ve been kinda broke lat... | HISTORICAL | {
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Kevc4cjbQq71bTAFNhEL3bJK7CdVHuSv | aq3oiy | null | AITA for my job choice | So I can’t go into great detail here. But I’m in the military and with my specific job it is possible for me to never have to deploy. It’s one of the things that lured me to the particular job in the first place.
There is an element to it that does deploy and when I found out about it I did have an interest in possib... | HISTORICAL | {
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XwuuJ0uwMWTXwNLauAkdfIkKmQfSINc2 | alkvwz | {
"description": "not wanting to play with random other dogs at the dog park",
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} | AITAH for not wanting to play with random other dogs at the dog park? | My dog loves going to the dog park. We don't have a yard so this is where she gets to run and be crazy. Her favorite thing to do is play fetch. I walk around the park with her picking up balls and throwing them for an hour straight. Several times I've had random people's dogs jumping on us trying to play fetch too. The... | HISTORICAL | {
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iCj6ShBHxXkEi6E9v8w1oRVhVRsKKqfm | ajy46p | {
"description": "thinking that if you don't like my coffeehouse's drink, you should offer to pay for another drink",
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} | AITA for thinking that if you don't like my coffeehouse's drink, you should offer to PAY for another drink? | Working a closing shift the other evening at the coffeehouse I work at, and a lady comes in and hmmm's about what drink she wants because I tell her we are unfortunately out of hazelnut. I suggest a french vanilla latte because that syrup technically consists of vanilla AND hazelnut flavoring. After making her the latt... | HISTORICAL | {
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gfRjsTpqEsKF4VUf1hCcksWR1vWpcSVE | b9jpe4 | {
"description": "asking for some gas money",
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} | AITA for asking for some gas money | I'm kinda irritated by this so here we go...
I'm going with a club at my college to a formal event that's about 30 miles from campus, I offered to drive people cuz I have a car and I prefer to drive myself rather than have someone else drive. Anyway I asked the club if they'd be paying for gas for the drivers or not b... | HISTORICAL | {
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QD2YqDYL8TxuqIAxy9sfzQb3TDOT2Spk | a804ya | {
"description": "wanting to cut off with a guy who ignores all my attempts at communication",
"pronormative_score": 2,
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} | AITA for wanting to cut off with a guy who ignores all my attempts at communication ? | Here is some contest : https://www.reddit.com/r/helpmecope/comments/a6zgt3/im_f20_actively_fucking_my_new_relationship_up/?st=JPWV2BF2&sh=8770f53e
Look, I know I’ve fucked up. It’s normal the guy is upset, and it shows : we’re talking about one-word replies and several hours between each replies
But the thing tha... | HISTORICAL | {
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m49BXa5ssdSNvqVUbrpyUgLJpuwGzoXJ | ax05nh | {
"description": "being hurt that my friends still hang out with someone that was awful to me",
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} | AITA for being hurt that my friends still hang out with someone that was awful to me | So to briefly explain, I was hurt pretty badly by my girlfriend in eighth grade and it really screwed me up (I'm a girl as well btw). But what screwed me up more was when people didn't believe me or believed me and just brushed it off. I always tried my best to understand their side of things though and never told anyo... | HISTORICAL | {
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eyDsgfaqcTMaVysZlzYhFOD1cMKzg6jD | au7oz1 | {
"description": "not wanting to lose my ex and best friend",
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} | AITA for not wanting to lose my ex and best friend? | This story actually is way too long but I will try to tell it shortly as much as I can.
Me(20) and this girl(20) were together for some time but we really had a different connection. We both can understand each other even in the deepest conversations. Last summer she broke up with me when I was overseas. I had really ... | HISTORICAL | {
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rddRWutkiAE9WNUd9p31U6eiOg6ajFYC | areyzi | {
"description": "getting angry with my friend for blowing me off most of the day even though shes staying AT MY HOUSE",
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} | AITA for getting angry with my friend for blowing me off most of the day even though shes staying AT MY HOUSE? | Okay! So! First time poster. This just happened and I really need to vent and see if I'm wrong for getting angry. I'll change some names in case this is seen anywhere. You see, me and my best friend who we'll call Choob, have been friends for about 8 years - she's the very closest I've had. Strong friendship, and we've... | HISTORICAL | {
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Rqo4BZayB3QJhb2wRYdb7RRPol4QfWAq | aq20yc | {
"description": "asking to borrow a necklace",
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} | WIBTA if I asked to borrow a necklace | Would I be an asshole if I asked to borrow one or my girlfriends necklace? I bought 2 from a gift shop down south so my gf and I could have matching necklaces but a couple of months later mine broke. Would I be rude and inconsiderate if I asked to borrow it since it tied some of my outfits together | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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2bqFgl2M127YLVzvbLpkOwC4qGwHPLDU | albsj7 | {
"description": "cutting out my high school friends out of my life because my so did not get invitation to one of their wedding",
"pronormative_score": 2,
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} | AITA for cutting out my high school friends out of my life because my SO did not get invitation to one of their wedding? | This happened many years ago but it has bothered me bit every now and then.
I had these friends I had known for 8 years. It was mixed group from my friends from elementary school and high school. During and after high school we pretty much spent all our free time either drinking/partying/hanging out or playing games o... | HISTORICAL | {
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LymLLFaFL65kzXUxbQNkCoOQ5J4gq1fC | b5d6ra | null | AITA: Toxic Friendship | I have a friend, we have been very close all of our friendship (half of our lives) and basically know things about eachother not even our SOs know. And can make decisions based on the other's opinion.
I had known for some time that he had a problem with a colleague about the colleague's attitude and general behaviour.... | HISTORICAL | {
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vrZ31JgAD2pOvaBzH0nAAE0jYQ1JsuHS | arxmtk | {
"description": "wanting to take care of a dog",
"pronormative_score": 4,
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} | AITA for wanting to take care of a dog? | A girl I‘m going out with (who is, to be honest, more a Friends with Benefits than my girlfriend, as I don‘t want a relationship), just moved out of her parents house into her own place.
She has plenty of income, and felt that she was feeling lonely at her new place. She used to have a cat with an ex of hers, but her ... | HISTORICAL | {
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AwrjALw6cNbc2HFMuL8aH5Bf6VpO7yCJ | amjlyo | {
"description": "potentially getting my family sick",
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} | AITA for potentially getting my family sick | I am 14, and for the past week and a half I have had a cough. My 17 year old brother, who I love, decided to go to my cousin's (17-18) house without asking me about three days ago. At first I thought it wasn't that much of a big deal, but after that day he went to his friend's house and brought my cousin back home with... | HISTORICAL | {
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abwYvGFo5yOGEDqNbOGg8znY1ePaydra | av7rhq | {
"description": "telling my mom to stop bringing up trips I went on with exes in casual conversation",
"pronormative_score": 6,
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} | AITA for telling my mom to stop bringing up trips I went on with exes in casual conversation? | So, for background and backstory, I'm 33 and single currently.
When I was 22, my boyfriend at the time surprised me with a trip to Vegas to visit a certain aquarium (not sure if I can name things here) on Valentine's Day. We lived in Arizona, so this was a pretty big deal. We actually hopped on a plane in the mornin... | HISTORICAL | {
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SLbp5DQALUBA7KjPPxzb1yv5nPaihgLE | atmu3y | {
"description": "not letting my FIL bring his dog over to my house",
"pronormative_score": 6,
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} | AITA for not letting my FIL bring his dog over to my house? | This happened two weeks ago. My SIL was in town staying with us and my FIL wanted to come over the next day for lunch. He told my wife he wanted to bring his new (he’s had the dog for a few months now) dog over so SIL can “see” him. My SIL has already met the dog over Christmas break, and informed us then that the dog ... | HISTORICAL | {
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7bhDCt2TmNTBPRYKnIkE7IvRRvUJ68Ai | b1umml | {
"description": "getting at mad at my mom for talking about her student's traumatic poem",
"pronormative_score": 2,
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} | AITA for getting at mad at my mom for talking about her student’s traumatic poem? | Background: i’m on my school’s competing poetry team. we’re a group of six who work by picking poems from the competition’s anthology and writing responses. then we will compete in a state competition.
so i got back from practice really excited. a lot of our poems are looking great and we have some performances comin... | HISTORICAL | {
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qe1de9LSUAfVw3x4VDyKUxNHK3TsJMuV | atxjwp | {
"description": "Kinda wanting to break up with my great gf for essentially no reason",
"pronormative_score": 8,
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} | AITA For Kinda Wanting to Break up with my Great GF for Essentially No Reason? | In late 2017 I ended a very long relationship (several years). It look me a few months to even sort-of get over that, eventually hitting the dating scene in like eight months later, even though it was still tough.
I messed around with some people and loved being single, but after being a bit of a ho for only two/three... | HISTORICAL | {
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MJfwbqzIxRPcRR23TZmeI0Gj7wHiIwPY | a4k9h3 | {
"description": "throwing a banana skin into a thick bush in a world heritage site",
"pronormative_score": 4,
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} | AITA for throwing a banana skin into a thick bush in a world heritage site. | AITA for throwing a banan skin into a bush in the havasuipai falls in america? I was sight seeing in a world known natural wonder and I ate a banana. There were no bins around me, and I threw the banana skin into a thick bush. My friend says I'm an asshole for throwing it saying that if everyone did that it would cause... | HISTORICAL | {
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9WXtEqvhhdkL7cPDYABMcwYQN86AWqrW | b6bv1p | {
"description": "being upset my friend led me on for 3 months",
"pronormative_score": 6,
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} | AITA for being upset my friend led me on for 3 months? | I’m a male and i’ve had this female friend for about 5 years, we have been just friends for this entire time, with no drama or issues, we’d talk occasionally and worked together but never really hung out cause she has a bf off and on that whole time.
Well it started to get weird when she broke up with her bf, had to m... | HISTORICAL | {
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1gVed1KTOtdZ7Elw6snWJHZq0uQUtg7c | aj92k4 | {
"description": "ignoring my ex",
"pronormative_score": 4,
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} | AITA for ignoring my ex? | So the way we broke up is quite comical. I was just playing videogames and my now ex texted me saying "we should just be friends." I replied with "ok" and said it was for the best (I was planning on breaking up with her after finals). Then she text back "what was a good decision?" And it turned out her shitty friend te... | HISTORICAL | {
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0l2Yoz2mAR6MeE5ulQUPuQQlDATGC4Tu | ay68gf | {
"description": "forgetting my boyfriends costume",
"pronormative_score": 1,
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} | AITA for forgetting my boyfriends costume? | Hi, this happened a year ago on World Book Day and we’re still happily together but this has just popped up in my head again and I think I may have been in the wrong.
So my boyfriend and I are both teachers and when World Book Day comes around we dress up as a character from a book. So last year we both had animal ear... | HISTORICAL | {
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J2hj01avYPANGaLnaGF6uxXvfPQQ3zim | b0tv6a | {
"description": "not letting the cat drink out of the bathroom sink",
"pronormative_score": 7,
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} | AITA for not letting the cat drink out of the bathroom sink? | So the gf has an elderlyish cat (not sure of the exact age) that likes to drink from a running source of water. The cat had one of those fountain bowls, but it broke, and thus the argument. The gf thinks it's appropriate for the cat to drink out of the bathroom sink, licking the spout, butt on the counter. I find this.... | HISTORICAL | {
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ndei4bwsASUbliaeEa3MGVQOvloGuvOE | as2trs | {
"description": "telling my friend to stop talking shit so loudly about the bartender (a friend of mine) when we're at a bar",
"pronormative_score": 3,
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} | WIBTA for telling my friend to stop talking shit so loudly about the bartender (a friend of mine) when we're at a bar? | My group of friends and I go to the same restaurant/bar a few times per week. To say we're regulars is kind of an understatement. It used to be just a few us who went (we worked nearby) but have since expanded our Friday night crew to include other friends. The "core" group knows the bartenders really well. We go to ea... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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8pwX1mn8PkMaJx7bcYUNC5MGU3PRywIn | aaxahd | {
"description": "yelling at a friend for messing up my progress on games",
"pronormative_score": 2,
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} | AITA for yelling at a friend for Messing up my progress on games | I went to a hockey event with my team and I had to room with my friend and his brother (also on my team) when we were there I put MY switch on the dock that I also brought to charge it. When I went out with my other teammates he stayed in the room went on MY switch and played MY games without asking me first. When i no... | HISTORICAL | {
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kzlx4wZkEkucb12TuFA3Pi9SBBUaHx1u | avcc4a | {
"description": "linking someone to their Facebook profile",
"pronormative_score": 1,
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} | AITA for linking someone to their Facebook profile | Recently I joking sent a link to some rando on imgur I was talking to in the comments that's a link to a Facebook profile that doesn't exist so it redirects you to whatever is logged in, they thought I was harassing them and digging up their information and even after I told them it was a joke and explaining what I did... | HISTORICAL | {
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Uey3qLfzg8SdY9ZfhQazHKSe7PKSjgKx | ah29uo | {
"description": "saying an opinion on someone \"behind his back\"",
"pronormative_score": 1,
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} | AITA for saying an opinion on someone "behind his back"? | Bit of a backstory first; basically my best (female) friend dates my once best friend (male obv) and she called me yesterday midnight that she feels like he acts weird when hes around his friends and that he like ignores her and they argue a lot when he is around other friends. And i said that yeah i noticed that too t... | HISTORICAL | {
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V0FV6e0OkoB0SvcHD7rcJtdDMBeaE6SR | alycwn | {
"description": "smoking pot",
"pronormative_score": 2,
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} | AITA for smoking pot? | I have enjoyed smoking marijuana in different amounts in different phases of my life - I experimented (once in a blue moon) with pot and some other halucinagens, as well as alcohol, all while in high school. In college, I smoked semi-daily (like maybe 3-5days a week) and drank considerably more. Senior year of college... | HISTORICAL | {
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nLRUwt7FCT7wIvP8RKafsHdC0tmqbJPM | aaoni7 | {
"description": "ruling out a vehicle because the gas cap is on the passenger side",
"pronormative_score": 3,
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} | AITA for ruling out a vehicle because the gas cap is on the passenger side? | My husband and I are in the market for a new vehicle for me. I currently have a car which has become too small for our growing family. At the top of our list is the Ford Explorer. I love the vehicle.
HOWEVER, I just came to the realization that the gas cap on them is on the passenger side.
I told my husband this is ... | HISTORICAL | {
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c8Wnxcf4go0BdwtOEIQ3qZpV1k2hukkF | aheniy | {
"description": "being cold towards my coworker that I have feelings for",
"pronormative_score": 4,
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} | AITA for being cold towards my coworker that I have feelings for? | I have a co-worker I've had feelings for since I met her when I got hired. Initially I tried to keep work and infatuation separate because I just got hired and it's bad news, but we're assigned to work together a lot and the more I got to know her the stronger my feelings got. We soon started texting a lot and talked a... | HISTORICAL | {
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Knlqj93Tj60MDr6UMR2XLRt9oiWbXlBw | ay72rd | {
"description": "screwing up a job under the bosses instruction",
"pronormative_score": 2,
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} | AITA for screwing up a job under the bosses instruction? | First time posting (been lurking for a minute tho)
So I was as a technician installing all sorts of things for car parks and other strata stuff. Yesterday my boss asked me to take a gate to a paint shop to get powder-coated before we installed it, he told me before I left to cut a latch off of it. I called him when I a... | HISTORICAL | {
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9TTsRost0POXZBmD4wIZ3roR9bgexgYM | aacoom | {
"description": "stopping talking to a \"friend\"",
"pronormative_score": 3,
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} | AITA if I stopped talking to a "friend"? | Last semester, I had this "friend" whom I hung out at university with from time to time.
We talked and chilled most of the time that we did hang out. I was obviously a friend and I talked with him when he wanted about things that he wanted and vise verse (normal friends stuff). It's also important to note that we had ... | HISTORICAL | {
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B9i0fLe0FLCIaJlgEh1ReOCR9lsW7uqZ | b1yxme | {
"description": "not cleaning up my niece and nephews messes when I was watching them",
"pronormative_score": 3,
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} | AITA for not cleaning up my niece and nephews messes when I was watching them? | So, kids are messy. I was watching a toddler and a 15 month old. They made a mess with Doritos and got toys everywhere, etc.
But, I am the only family member that lives close and they are too cheap to hire a babysitter so I’m stuck babysitting them 3-4 times a month.
And, btw I’m doing this for free.
So, they made... | HISTORICAL | {
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N7gLEUxmvnP1OmFEDEfXB9wxYDJM3eVV | armg1t | {
"description": "telling a coworker that people have noticed he's flakey and antisocial",
"pronormative_score": 6,
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} | AITA for telling a coworker that people have noticed he's flakey and antisocial? | Obligatory throwaway account because a coworker knows my account
Okay so, I have a friend / coworker that I've known for over a year. We are good friends and hang out and all that. We initially began hanging out in a larger group, but over time the friend group fractured and turned into smaller friend groups. He is ve... | HISTORICAL | {
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