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} | AITA For getting mad over something pretty small? | So context required. My friend G and I were messing around before class. Nothing big, just screwing around and wacking each other with books, the usual. So she had hit me on the shoulder and I was about to wack her on the head (softly of course, I'm not a monster) when she blocks me and smacks me on the nose. It actual... | HISTORICAL | {
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"description": "not letting my friend stay over because I wanted to have drunk sex",
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} | AITA for not letting my friend stay over because I wanted to have drunk sex? | So my girlfriends a I want to have drunk sex. But we rarely get to do it because our uni clashes, and the only time we can is when we’re invited out to parties. We both have a mutual friend who lives in the same area as my girlfriend (an hour away) whereas I’m usually a 10 minute drive away from parties. The last few t... | HISTORICAL | {
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"description": "getting upset with my coworker for not going after an upset child with autism",
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} | AITA for getting upset with my coworker for not going after an upset child with autism? | My coworker is a good person and decent teaching partner but today she drove me up the wall.
We have a child in our class who has autism and is prone to emotional outbursts. He was upset about being asked to help with a task so he ran out into the hall.
I was busy with a group of children in another area. My teaching... | HISTORICAL | {
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"description": "telling my flatmate to be more quiet while she's studying",
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} | AITA for telling my flatmate to be more quiet while she’s studying? | We have a 2-room apartment and my flatmate has this habit of studying while speaking to herself.
Sometimes I can hear her while I’m in my own bedroom and it bothers me, especially if I have to focus on my homework/courses.
I asked her once to “be more quiet, please” and she got angry, saying that she can’t do that ... | HISTORICAL | {
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"description": "not inviting one of my best friends to my wedding",
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} | AITA for not inviting one of my best friends to my wedding | So I got married over 2 years ago and my best friend still brings this up to this day. So I'd like to get Reddit's judgement as well.
My wife and I chose to have a very small wedding, and only really planned it a few months before our wedding day. We both invited our parents and a few of our friends. No siblings, aun... | HISTORICAL | {
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"description": "not agreeing with my parents past prejudice religious/political views in Northern Ireland",
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} | AITA for not agreeing with my parents past prejudice religious/political views in Northern Ireland? | i(Long)
Grew up in Northern Ireland, despite the past "Troubles" (also, religion and political beliefs differ in 2019, as they did in the 1980s) and hate i was also brought up without bitterness and without prejudice and was able to make my own decision about what happened. My mum and dad were catholic, dad more repu... | HISTORICAL | {
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JnKAkN12aN4gjy2JCj4plPTzH4ctGycE | atfmeo | {
"description": "getting angry at my doctor about his recommendation",
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} | AITA for getting angry at my doctor about his recommendation? | Backstory: Around twice a month, I wake up in the middle of the night unable to breathe. This has been going on for the 5 or so months. This was worrying but I didn't think much of it since I was back to normal right after I woke up. Recently however, I woke up more than once in one night and was terrified. I thought I... | HISTORICAL | {
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"description": "telling the man on the bus next to me to leave",
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} | WIBTA if I tell the man on the bus next to me to leave? | I am on a long bus trip. The man next to me is around 40, round aka fat build. I am doing some stuff for uni. minutes after the departure he pulls out a bottle of alcohol. Fine, alright. Then he fell asleep. Problem is that he is spreading his legs over to my space, he is snoring, he has bad breath. It is extremely dis... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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ZMyRXV5CzuQ4ESYA8oVfFUZMo2NJ6H2y | b16pwl | {
"description": "telling my friend I don't want to get lunch with his friend",
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} | AITA for telling my friend I don’t want to get lunch with his friend | Long story short, I told him I didn’t want to get lunch with his friend(not him) because he’s not someone I would usually socialize with. AITA? | HISTORICAL | {
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YkQeFOLKkNEZaa1NFSzY0Kd6OpsF169Y | acrfkn | {
"description": "wanting my S.O. to tell me when he's going to be busy",
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} | AITA for wanting my S.O. to tell me when he's going to be busy? | So my S.O. (I don't know what else to call someone I'm in a flirtationship with) is a very sweet guy. He asked me out and I said yes but I'm not allowed to date and all. I broke up with him a few days into our relationship because I felt overwhelmed and all and we sort of stopped talking for a while and then we got bac... | HISTORICAL | {
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xJjpODkLyR6djzU0vHH3Q0yPIdSRuUTZ | akmqf5 | {
"description": "not wanting to associate with my friend/ex anymore",
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} | AITA for not wanting to associate with my friend/ex anymore? |
So basically a little bit ago I had a realization that my ex, (who I was still friends with) was seeming hypocritical and manipulative. What caused the the realization I was will get to later, bout for now I’ll start with some backstory.
So earlier last year me and this other girl were dating. She had previously been... | HISTORICAL | {
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yU9E86MN7EsOBcZMcnakltGUqGa01FpA | b8qfsv | {
"description": "leaving a bad review on a family member's business",
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} | WIBTA if I left a bad review on a family member's business? | My husbands half-sister's grandparents (so not my in-laws) own a car repair shop. My husband car is still running, but is having issues that needed to be fixed, such as the car not wanting to go over a certain RPM. My husband called the shop a week and a half ago and they said they could begin looking at the car Tuesda... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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IAsS2Gzfic3kbtOLY5k5V56U5FQaRDH1 | b7ktxx | {
"description": "yelling to stop a kid from taking something from a yard sale",
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} | AITA for yelling to stop a kid from taking something from a yard sale? | So I was out selling stuff at a garage sale today and a woman and her small kid were looking around. There was a toy space shuttle that the kid wanted, and he was about to walk off with it but his mom saw and put it back. They moved on to another yard, but they passed by again after a few minutes and were about to leav... | HISTORICAL | {
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BGnyF7BPKqayhxW6ysoOwLgv46yvLfU8 | b17vze | {
"description": "having our wedding before her",
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} | AITA For having our wedding before her? | I got married a week ago. We got engaged in November so had 4 months to plan the wedding, there was a bit of contravercy around it though...My husband's sister is getting married in May and has been planning it for 2yrs. Apparently she and their mum were Ticked off by our timing. When he first messaged his mum to tell... | HISTORICAL | {
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cfXEeCzA6Z5hbeYfGclzvrnOwctjgAkE | awbgc3 | {
"description": "getting aggravated at my friend for convincing me I was invited to his house to hang out with a few friends and then saying I can't come last minute",
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} | AITA for getting aggravated at my friend for convincing me i was invited to his house to hang out with a few friends and then saying I can't come last minute? | For context: This friend of mine has a thing where people go over to a dollar store, pick out food, and try to make a 3-course meal out of it.
He normally invites 3 people to his house for this, and we make a fun night out of it. This time, he told me that it would be me, friend 1, and friend 2. I am currently in ano... | HISTORICAL | {
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HGcSgj9GDATNFGhYLlDaZLIgy73S2Jbm | ahbfff | {
"description": "convincing my daughter that today is Sunday",
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} | AITA For convincing my daughter that today is Sunday? | School was cancelled for a puny snowstorm. She's 10 and is so confused right now. My wife is in on it | HISTORICAL | {
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ha5MQjX7E4coN7Bq1y0NyYLtDG2qWfgM | b0bnfb | {
"description": "being to continue drinking Lapsang Souchong Tea despite my roommate's disgust at its aroma",
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} | WIBTA if I were to continue drinking Lapsang Souchong Tea despite my roommate's disgust at its aroma? | I've gotten interested in trying different kinds of tea lately, one of them being Lapsang Souchong, which is a form of black tea that has been smoked over pinewood prior to packaging.
I enjoy the flavor and aroma of it and I like to drink it every once in a while. My roommate, on the other hand, thinks it smells like... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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WRYShWgxnYdt09bcDjAFHe3xk1sqaIfB | aymwl0 | {
"description": "changing my mind",
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} | AITA for changing my mind? | So here’s the backstory, I have a weird fear of getting knocked up, like to the point it’s irrational and I know it is. Met a great guy and we’ve been together for 3+ years, and in the beginning, I just kind of avoided the whole sex thing until he brought it up about 6 months into the relationship. I decided that maybe... | HISTORICAL | {
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1481QMAWzkVbt4RBMoy2sML1O288ojJK | ac21ms | {
"description": "telling a girl I'm available a couple days after she told me she was busy",
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} | AITA for telling a girl I'm available a couple days after she told me she was busy | tl;dr I'm into with this girl, suddenly got the cold shoulder, and then told her I was available anyway because I'd already invested so much
I fell heels over head for a girl in my junior year of college. I then spent all of my social capital to win her over (calling in favors, etc.) and ended up dropping out and movi... | HISTORICAL | {
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VRzbC0xq44VPtWPMpv4mVzWK7Y6SbLFA | aolyy9 | {
"description": "ruining a girl's basket ball manager job at my highschool",
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} | AITA that I might have ruined a girl's basket ball manager job at my highschool? | Backstory: Im 15, whos been bullied since kindergarten and has gotten out of a bad depression almost a year now. Im in 9th, shes in 10th and is a year older than me.
I've never had a problem with her till now. I respected her as a person(she was very kind to me, this is the first time she "acted out" towards me), then... | HISTORICAL | {
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sWioLZ3VWB6uuPJ4v3IPCAVWuC65pHyh | b3jqxs | {
"description": "telling my art teacher no",
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} | AITA for telling my art teacher no | So I worked my ass of for a week while she was home most of the project when I turned it In yesterday she said it looks bad I don't like it redo it so I told her no and got sent to bic. Today I got she asked me again and i said NO so i went to bic again | HISTORICAL | {
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Ye8yic1kGhbQUKQlvFULQDzc0QOc7j4K | aqfbmz | {
"description": "throwing a coffee cup at him",
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} | AITA for throwing a coffee cup at him? | So I have a close guy friend and the other day we were hanging out at his house, and when I had to go he was like "bye b\*tch" and I said "don't call me that" and then he said "bye c\*nt" and I got so mad that I threw my empty coffee cup at him (not directly, I threw it off aim cause I didn't really want to hit him) an... | HISTORICAL | {
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0bA4YqbEaw2ldHM92l3qYYQvSHrcoSbR | au8f9n | {
"description": "\"messing up\" my grandparents phones",
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} | AITA For "Messing up" my grandparents phones? | So, yesterday I saw my grandparents on there phone and they were still on ios 10. I asked them if i could update there phones and they said "Sure". So, I update there phones and after the update it asks for there Icloud password. (They don't know the password). So, now they are locked out of there phone and they are bl... | HISTORICAL | {
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luOsrVUCq5wekUFNhJE5YW1oKznFGme2 | afyssi | {
"description": "wanting to look for other girls",
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} | AITA For wanting to look for other girls? | For some context, I met this girl about a month ago at a theatre competition. We clicked and, shortly after meeting, both admitted we liked each other. We've been talking almost every day since then, up until a week ago.
We were talking one day when she asked me "What do you want to happen between us?" I respond "I ki... | HISTORICAL | {
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4UeNmqGsdDIfAAmpqE8z1tFtEtiqX3iA | ahl4go | {
"description": "letting my emotions get the better of me",
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} | AITA for letting my emotions get the better of me? | Tonight was the start of our vacation to Florida. My mom, fiancee, and I were in the car making the 6 hour drive down. We stopped to swap drivers and my fiancee mentioned previously that she was angsty from being in the car so i asked if she wished to drive, the response i got was something along the lines of "meh" thi... | HISTORICAL | {
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1kkyHjvLU8KlPgkvu9aq8vQFOTG49bK9 | aycusz | {
"description": "wanting to be able to hear my tv",
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} | AITA for wanting to be able to hear my TV? | Ok. Last night my partner and I were sitting on the couch together in my living room. I was playing Resident Evil 2: Remake and they said that it was very loud, so I lowered the volume from 18 to 14 (roughly 22%). 18-25 is the volume we normally watch TV at depending on the input source. At some point my partner says t... | HISTORICAL | {
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FlgJKNkkJh8aUe0jKMeh3JUdlxvbeoCx | aie6kq | {
"description": "feeling that my friends are supportive",
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} | AITA for feeling that my friends are supportive? | I like to stream on twitch and so does another one of my friends. The other friend, we'll call him Matt, has a bit of social anxiety so everyone is always nice to him and trying to boost his confidence and what not. I'm all for that and cheer him on with his streaming. We're pretty close in followers and its something... | HISTORICAL | {
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nrI7ilusBjM1M6NTzjqrL9S1TUiR0jM4 | b9tcz2 | {
"description": "being to confront my boss/longtime friend about complaining about his job",
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} | WIBTA if I were to confront my boss/longtime friend about complaining about his job? | So my current boss is also a friend of mine. I’ve known him for over 15 years before I even got my job with him. I’ve been working my new job for just over a year and and he’s been the boss of the branch ever since it opened about two and a half years ago. It all started out great. Got great hours, decent pay, vaca... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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sCEOOVSJqdVQsZiOIWB46sBbCebZa3sA | ade3uh | {
"description": "pressuring her to unfollow her best friend who was her ex",
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} | AITA for pressuring her to unfollow her best friend who was her ex . | It all started when u started hanging out with a girl she being a insecure freak start being freak Everytime I go out with that friend of mine and maybe she was right cause I had a crush on her. I decided that it may ruin our relationship so I stopped talking to that girl. After that she pressurised me to remove and un... | HISTORICAL | {
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"description": "getting annoyed at a stranger constantly making conversation on the bus",
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} | AITA for getting annoyed at a stranger constantly making conversation on the bus | Hi,
​
I am a 20 year old female. I get the bus to work most days. I am also a massive introvert, and shy. I really enjoy sitting on the bus, looking out the window with my headphones in.
​
So two days ago, i got to the bus stop and there was this old man there (about 75?). He started a conver... | HISTORICAL | {
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"description": "stretching out and napping",
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} | WIBTA if I stretched out and napped | I was on a flight the other day and it was underbooked, so only the window and the aisle seats were filled, but the middle seats were all empty. I wanted to take a nap and the middle seat looked so inviting, but I didn't want to disturb the other person in my row by taking up two seats. I'm short so I wouldn't have got... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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"description": "not showing my mom my recently completed portfolio",
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} | AITA for not showing my mom my recently completed portfolio? | Now let me preface this by saying that this is not an angry situation that keeps my up at night, just something that's been in the back of my head for a while.
Now, I am a college senior and I am job hunting like a mad man. In my chosen field, jobs are definitely harder to find than fields like business or engineering... | HISTORICAL | {
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NjDDW3Eycxv5M2kstXKJtXgNC63FvXDN | allu2z | {
"description": "getting angry that people are \"amazed\" at people for doing everyday things whilst disabled",
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} | AITA for getting angry that people are “amazed” at people for doing everyday things whilst disabled? | I’ve noticed some pictures and videos are taken without the person noticing or their consent and honestly that’s creeped me out also because what if someone does that to me one day just because I’m browsing books or some shit? I hate myself, I know I don’t want a photo of me online just because I can ride a horse or or... | HISTORICAL | {
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yM22jPn0rdceoPa101yxCjzeX8qigBFd | b40iha | {
"description": "telling my brother my mom is manipulative",
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} | AITA for telling my brother my mom is manipulative? | This is on mobile so sorry for formatting
About 30 minutes ago I talked to my mom and brother about her targeting me or using me as a vent. This has gone on for about a month and she gets mad at me for most petty reasons. This all occurred because the stress she got from having a newborn baby and the stress has been... | HISTORICAL | {
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"description": "pulling my dog along by his collar",
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} | AITA for pulling my dog along by his collar? | So here I am, outside my house cleaning off my deck from snow and leaves and my 11 month old puppy is out with me in my side of the lawn. Suddenly I look up to see he has disappeared into my landlords back yard. So naturally I start calling for him and he knows "come" very well.
So at the point he's just running ar... | HISTORICAL | {
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"description": "giving an ex the cold shoulder treatment",
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} | AITA For giving an ex the cold shoulder Treatment | A little context: English is not my first language and google translator helped me with this post,me and this girl I'm going to call her from J, we've known each other for about 10 years, and we've always been very close, and two years ago I started a relationship with her, but she lived in another city about 200km whe... | HISTORICAL | {
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g4p12WdM13bqTiqPLOftkz1xqrUDm1Fp | apie4o | {
"description": "cutting off my close friend because she hurt me mutiple times",
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About 6 months ago I joined a new school and instantly became really close to this girl, we will call her F. Now one Thing that is important to know about F is that she's madly in love with another close friend of mine, well call him J. Now me and J are lads, an... | HISTORICAL | {
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j5lErrydLBxylJujoKVRMhcIBVpzqXzg | a1prgy | {
"description": "not wanting to chip in for a \"group\" D&D rulebook",
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} | AITA for not wanting to chip in for a "group" D&D rulebook? | A few days ago at our last D&D session our current DM suddenly announced he is leaving the country next month for personal reasons (we are all English teachers living abroad). One of the other members of our group is already itching to take over as DM. Today he messaged our group chat asking if we want to chip in 8... | HISTORICAL | {
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CfTs1eEqeqS8kXa6Urv0cvO5ZxMG5ElH | 9uln4y | {
"description": "telling a friend about another friend's idea",
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} | AITA for telling a friend about another friend’s idea? | I play a very unique MMORPG, and this MMORPG is very easy to make private servers of. Private servers are essentially your own personal version of the game you can customize to your liking, which you can then allow other people to connect to and play with you. Some unique private servers get very popular and can even m... | HISTORICAL | {
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h5ARBk7g5ZYiZu9S7K9UnftPO4f7QRDt | b97y72 | {
"description": "getting mad at my girlfriend when she wants me to pay back the money she spent on me",
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} | AITA for getting mad at my girlfriend when she wants me to pay back the money she spent on me? | So for a long, LONG, time, my girlfriend did not have a job as I had a really good one with a high income. I worked a lot but always made time to see her and such. We would always go out to eat at fine restaurants around us, go to shopping trips, travel etc. when she had money, she’d pay her share of whatever but when ... | HISTORICAL | {
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zxXEwubqi9Sx0EQwXA8LouwfG99VIVcC | b2rbnf | {
"description": "telling my house that I didn't appreciate the impromptu bbq",
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} | WIBTA if I told my house that I didn't appreciate the impromptu bbq | So I live with 6 guys (one of which is my bf). This evening my bf and I come home from dinner to like 10 more ppl in our house. I know all of them by sight, but don't really know them know them.
Apparently during the day, two of them had planned this bbq, but nobody told me. They're generally a bit loud but nothing t... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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2gBk5yqO4966vPK6AccV3dy3uPy8MDKB | b5w1jh | {
"description": "asking in laws to help with childcare costs",
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} | AITA for asking in laws to help with childcare costs? | I’ll try to keep this brief, basically I am a single mother with an infant daughter. The father and myself are both still students and the majority of childcare costs including rent is being payed by my parents and the rest by myself.
I’ve asked the father if he would feel able to contribute financially and he said n... | HISTORICAL | {
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diV2PHrfX4pdVrn1Ir8KdRAN1LMExG9w | ardbie | {
"description": "not wanting my parents to adopt",
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} | AITA for not wanting my parents to adopt? | I am an adult with adult siblings. My parents (Ps) are in their late 50s (bio father & stepmom). One retired, one nearing retirement. All children from prior relationships were adults when they married.
When my spouse and I started to try for a baby, we were open about the process with my Ps. Around the same time... | HISTORICAL | {
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wDjNjHKvKmOj4Am19a7LyuiSU5z5YcpZ | ayziv3 | {
"description": "telling my roommate her boyfriend couldn't stay over",
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} | WIBTA if I told my roommate her boyfriend couldn’t stay over? | So basically my relationship with my roommate isn’t great. We don’t have much in common and she’s messy, inconsiderate and kind of annoying to me. But despite this stuff I try to be a decent person and not do anything rude to her and just get through the rest of this semester (we’re both in college and I’m moving out a... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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HaSIt7PviIJZllTO5yKbP6uCaHk6Uo6f | b5z73n | {
"description": "breaking up with my girlfriend over her wedgie fetish",
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} | AITA for breaking up with my girlfriend over her wedgie fetish | Im making a throwaway account because i don't want anyone to know this and this has had a really big emotional toll on me so please be respectful in the comments. I want to know who's in the wrong but please be respectful when doing so. So i've been dating my girlfriend for a few months now and i really felt like she w... | HISTORICAL | {
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RTs8WgcBh2kIWne9qxlWeS2KiYmxbp27 | b3lreg | {
"description": "getting mad at my mom for giving my grandparents money that came from me indirectly",
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} | AITA for getting mad at my mom for giving my grandparents money that came from me indirectly. | My mother asked me for 800$ for a trip to Mexico that she's planning, I gave it to her but recalled her saying that it would be around 600$ before, I attributed the rise in cost to changing ticket prices and went on with my day. Today, she gave each of my grandparents 100$ each since they're leaving soon and told them ... | HISTORICAL | {
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JwiPlJiU5hQD7n17TjAHj5FWVzeRJHlq | 9zszkq | {
"description": "prefering to watch videos while eating instead of talking with my dad",
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} | AITA for prefering to watch videos while eating instead of talking with my dad? | A little context, before high school everyone in my family ate together, my mom, my dad, my brother and me, it was nice. When I started highschool that all changed, my schedule was different than in middle school, they got hom before me and ate the three of them, they I will get home and ate by myself.
I have to admit ... | HISTORICAL | {
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MlL9dEpJXSCb6zZVfIa19cB02KtpmAnO | amcqpp | {
"description": "not accepting the help from my girlfriend on my abusive living situation",
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(This is an older story that is being told from the present from which the story was taking place unless said otherwise) (please let me know if older stories are not allowed on this sub and I will take it down)
Key things to note: - I am 15 and living with my grandparents.
- My mom is still very m... | HISTORICAL | {
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kBhKfkeUnaeNk5lU0Q8KJnZpbAhOKi4t | acyjvr | {
"description": "being upset that my boyfriend didn't reply to my text to watch videos instead",
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} | AITA for being upset that my boyfriend didn't reply to my text to watch videos instead | Clarification
My boyfriend is out of the country. We message each other daily. Yesterday night, he got home and messaged that he missed me. I messaged him back, but didn't reply for 30 min. because he was listening to some singers (he was also with his friend). For some reason, this irritated me. He uses his phone a l... | HISTORICAL | {
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lrW3FVJBs5ZhMZR3OcUydDGF8CeOTCv3 | ajilxw | {
"description": "leaving my older sister alone at home",
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} | Aita for leaving my older sister (f24) alone at home ? | I have been living with my sister for about month or so due to her boyfriend and her splitting. I truly didn’t mind due to during a one like this I would assume you need support. I supported her and eventually I saw her boyfriend and her sleeping over at our house and calling each other by “babe” or “baby”. I don’t wan... | HISTORICAL | {
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yjhZPi9YPgWdMiJOftxYEfP0ErHPEsSu | ab1vlk | {
"description": "flaking on a visit",
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} | AITA for flaking on a visit? | I was going to drive to my hometown with my dog to visit friends for new year's and planned to stay at two of my best friend's houses over the weekend and new year's.
I caught a cold and feel like shit with sinus headaches so I told them I'm not going to drive for 6 hours because I'm not going to be a grumpy dick whe... | HISTORICAL | {
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BYHiQIFwLnjFk9J9sBgPoJ5x3JhDyaG8 | a31n9i | {
"description": "feeling annoyed at my best friend for getting closer to my boyfriends ex",
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} | AITA for feeling annoyed at my best friend for getting closer to my boyfriends ex? | TL;DR: my best friend leaves me and our friends on a night out to go to a part with my bf ex despite having a deep chat with me early that night how that wouldn’t be the case.
Sorry for the rant.
​
A bit of background. I’ve been with my boyfriend for 3 years, all good and happy and this situation isn’t to... | HISTORICAL | {
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4bvxOnuv4QnvfESpoSHYSpt5k6qqMfSE | afxqwt | {
"description": "not wanting to sit in rush hour traffic for happy hour",
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} | AITA for not wanting to sit in rush hour traffic for happy hour? | I live in a major metro area that has terrible traffic. I work downtown and typically have a 15-20 minute commute from my house, which is south of downtown.
My main friend group here is made up of my best friend from high school (BF) and another good friend from high school (Other Friend, or OF). OF also works downto... | HISTORICAL | {
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xCREsH1oEVDOxRY52agJx4TrcueaNy3N | b5fuqi | {
"description": "cutting my friend off for getting a girlfriend",
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} | AITA For cutting my friend off for getting a girlfriend? | so i used to be friends with this one dude, and if we're being honest i did start to develop feeling for him, but by the time this happened they were almost completely gone anyway, i introduce him to this friend i used to sort of have a romantic thing for (we made it clear we liked each other but never actually dated) ... | HISTORICAL | {
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U7XIJlzEt2tKk9reU4H3qDLn3AxyHiga | azvcgu | {
"description": "asking my mom's best friend not to visit her anymore",
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} | WIBTA For asking my mom's best friend not to visit her anymore? | Some background is required ...
My mother (81) lives in an retirement facility (not a nursing home). For most of her retirement years, she has suffered from debilitating pain as a result of her years as a nurse, lifting patients, suffering sever back injuries, etc. She no longer drives. I live only a few blocks away a... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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qhDjxnGbOodvZ1mwh03BRVs7umJ60UEf | alrum2 | null | AITA/ Is it right to confront my mentally ill father-in-law for being an ass and by that possibly cause harm to the family | ​
My husband and I got married half a year ago and have been dating for 5 years. Since I come from a very abusive alcoholic family, I idealized his family and thought that their issues are small and that they are really there for eachother. We got along very well for years, even though I dind't really ... | HISTORICAL | {
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PKh2gam9NaUXKuKKvSUtacmoV74WdLQc | aetip9 | {
"description": "telling my friend to stop eating all the fries we cooked for our group of friends",
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} | AITA for telling my friend to stop eating all the fries we cooked for our group of friends? | (TL;DR at bottom) So once a month, my friends and I cook dinner together. There's 6 of us who usually participate. Half of us cook, the other half cleans up. Today, we decide to make hamburgers and fries. One of my friends decided they wanted to eat baked potatoes instead. That's cool, we got plenty of potatoes for her... | HISTORICAL | {
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ZSI3JuMg8JOyop04JKEPAzvkIWuh0tzV | axe7oq | {
"description": "telling a mentally handicapped customer to calm down",
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} | AITA for telling a mentally handicapped customer to calm down? | Ok so. I work in customer service at a grocery store. Im the manager of the front end and i am not “technically” allowed on a register. We all know how these things go, we start getting lines so i eventually pull someone with a large cart over so i can make the lines move faster. As im pulling her over, someone else se... | HISTORICAL | {
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CdVPXvZ8PmfCJilzqUipD9rmRQLPrRxZ | adgsz5 | null | AITA? Relationship Drama (6yrs & 3kids) | AITA
A little back story- Been with my boyfriend 6 years. He's the stay at home dad while I get my degree. Not the problem, stay at home parents work just as hard as the one getting shit taken care of. At least most of the time.. We've been fighting a lot lately and seriously need counseling. In the meantime, He's con... | HISTORICAL | {
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o8EVL8n8rmuBJkCpuiCS2Iqc1XIhASbY | af01w0 | {
"description": "asking my friend not to tell me their sexual anecdotes even though they let me tell them mine",
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} | WIBTA if I asked my friend not to tell me their sexual anecdotes even though they let me tell them mine? | TL;DR I tell my (bi) friend serial anecdotes all the time, and while I don't mind them telling me anecdotes about them with women, I uncomfortable with them telling me ones about them with men. Would I be an asshole if I told them as much?
I'm gay and I talk to one of my friends about my experiences in grindr and with... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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fw8veIOdTNSAD6dV30rX3fcQxRsgOiiG | 9xhw8w | {
"description": "being happy that my ex's dog got taken to the pound",
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} | AITA for being happy that my ex's dog got taken to the pound? | This may get long, but I'll try condense it as much as possible.
A couple of years ago, my then girlfriend (22 at the time) moved in with me (24 at the time) and my two engaged housemates. We'd been dating for about 8 months at the time and she'd been wanting to move out of her parent's place as she had issues with th... | HISTORICAL | {
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fjaJl5myPa6hMagBdKS7F1pKBriXanw0 | a9vjdf | {
"description": "cutting him out of my life",
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} | AITA for cutting him out of my life? | Just over a month ago I met a guy who I'll refer to as Dan. I started talking on and off with Dan through ThatOneGayDatingApp^(TM) and agreed to meet over some coffee, and it went fairly well, we chatted about stuff for a while, relocated when the coffee shop closed and overall talked for a few hours. After that, we wo... | HISTORICAL | {
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dHhGcwm9ib8dUgzHC55MX3cOFVwbXmnn | azbni6 | {
"description": "forgetting to let my neighbors dog out",
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} | AITA for forgetting to let my neighbors dog out | So i was asked to dog sit a chihuahua that my family’s close friends own. While i was dog sitting, the family’s eldest son comes and tells me that he has to work and so could i come let him out later today. I told him that i would do that.
Later, while talking with my mother, the mother of that family says that the ... | HISTORICAL | {
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hiYrYENDRlMozi1o9AFE55rZCUaAHik1 | b7dh9c | {
"description": "not wanting to do things for my parents anymore",
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} | AITA For not wanting to do things for my parents anymore? | I recently confessed to my mother that I don't want to hear her constant complaints about work because it was giving me really bad anxiety, enough that I started getting physical symptoms of extreme stress. She became angry and gave me one word answers and half ignored me for several days. I do a lot of things for her ... | HISTORICAL | {
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U9tf8h9Vjx5kODCjkk8K7XILSyjdmWPN | b5wulv | {
"description": "buying a pair of balls for my friend's truck",
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} | WIBTA if I bought a pair of balls for my friend's truck? | You know those hanging nutsack decorations douchebags with chinstrap beards and neon shorts buy for their big Ford trucks? Yeah, I wanna buy one of those and put it on my friend's truck and just not tell him. You know, for laughs.
WIBTA for putting a fake decoration of a man's massive nutsack on my buddy's truck? | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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eoJUzrRkSzIhxn0uu6hYyHBzKRj5FDA8 | at60vx | {
"description": "looking out for my client's best interests",
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} | AITA for looking out for my client's best interests? | I'm a business analyst for a software company. It's a client facing job and my role is to gather my client's requirements and find the best possible solutions to their current problems by introducing technology, and improving their processes. After which my programming team develops the solution and deploys it. I am al... | HISTORICAL | {
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NvMf6JDQD3hm1J4U8c8n0CO10Jqcoj5M | b7vmb3 | {
"description": "talking to a guy that my friend was supposedly also talking to",
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} | AITA for talking to a guy that my friend was supposedly also talking to? | Maybe this sounds bad, but here’s my story.
My friends liked this kid and was talking to him for about a month, she used to talk about him all the time. I am in a class with him in which we can socialize. Him and I started talking and I seen him as a friend, but my friends always tell me I seem flirtatious with every... | HISTORICAL | {
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"INFO": 1
} | AUTHOR | {
"RIGHT": 0,
"WRONG": 4
} | WRONG |
MyqMmh0mKQ7wrFnDMkBFj5i8HYdefwtA | adwep7 | {
"description": "making a family hostile arguments worse",
"pronormative_score": 1,
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} | AITA for making a family hostile arguments worse. | my family are always in that kind of state where even a slight problem could break the house apart in hostile arguments.
A few minutes ago at 11:00pm ish I just woke up because of another hostile arguments, I decided to try to give no fucks and going to kitchen for a glass of water.
Well guess what? my shitty dad a... | HISTORICAL | {
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MDicoEBehBX1mPMWVC4Kq0vQCSdSjQ2v | aedht5 | {
"description": "giving a legal document to one friend before the other. they are exes",
"pronormative_score": 2,
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} | AITA for giving a legal document to one friend before the other. They are exes. | I have two friends, let’s name them “A” and “B”. I’ve known them both for about 5 years, but I used to work with “B”. A few years ago we became neighbors and we would check each other’s animals when either of us were out of town.
Last year, they got divorced. “A” kept the house and “B” moved out and left pretty much ... | HISTORICAL | {
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h1p7zTVUicMb4z2suUgfeLyEaroL2N8X | ar4jmv | {
"description": "not wanting to go out w/ someone",
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} | AITA For not wanting to go out w/ someone | Basically the story is that I got asked by my friend to hang out w/ him, his gf and her friend. I was telling my friend that I wasn’t there to get into anything but just to have some fun. We all get to meet her and go out and the girl is nice but she’s not really my type. When I left, I got a text from him saying that ... | HISTORICAL | {
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"INFO": 2
} | NOBODY | {
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} | RIGHT |
OL5DNPkHhYyLSVAq3oy3f4boDzALmcFV | b17a9r | {
"description": "telling my ex's friend what she really thinks about him",
"pronormative_score": 3,
"contranormative_score": 3
} | WIBTA if I told my ex's friend what she really thinks about him? | Backstory to this, my girlfriend of two years broke up with me, and in the beginning the only explanation she gave me was that we just drifted apart, and that alone would be completely fine. I didn't accept that answer, and after asking around it turned out that she in fact liked someone else at the same time, and had ... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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} | AUTHOR | {
"RIGHT": 3,
"WRONG": 3
} | RIGHT |
WxVvnhVNa2JLSHiwBMwZWZGAXiuKTQsb | awbg3x | {
"description": "being unable to choose between 2 girls",
"pronormative_score": 3,
"contranormative_score": 4
} | AITA for being unable to choose between 2 girls? | I broke up with my gf after 7 years together last year. She left me and It was not entirely her fault. I had lost my job a few months earlier and since had started turning into this grumpy insensitive man. We fought a lot almost everyday. I tried to apply for various jobs to no success. I felt like I had done everythin... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 3,
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"INFO": 0
} | AUTHOR | {
"RIGHT": 3,
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} | WRONG |
MqeUdAx2vyrzDxbJNcyb4gkLIvkLgKwS | aq10v6 | null | AITA stayed the night at a girls apartment and woke up early and left because she didn’t want to put out. | Here’s the story. I’ve been seeing a girl for about a month. Last night I went over to her apartment and we hung out. We’ve already had plenty of sex, and she’s freaky. Anyways after a little bit I attempt to get it started and she tells me she’s not really in the mood tonight. After that we go and take a shower togeth... | HISTORICAL | {
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"INFO": 0
} | AUTHOR | {
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} | RIGHT |
wr0rx8hgf04XAzDc4CNZXjPKlJxa3xJt | b2j68p | {
"description": "not wanting my sister to go to the same college as me",
"pronormative_score": 8,
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} | AITA for not wanting my sister to go to the same college as me? | I love my sister. I’m very proud of her. She went from doing poorly in high school to getting into college and eventually doing well in her classes. However, she is very needy and relies a lot on family members for help. I took the role as her emotional rock when I lived with her and helped to mediate her many fights w... | HISTORICAL | {
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"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 8,
"WRONG": 1
} | RIGHT |
X3EUb10PI4RpKG8YUBVEtRjHSGMtTmts | b1gtjq | {
"description": "throwing several pillows at my meowing cat",
"pronormative_score": 31,
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} | WIBTA if I threw several pillows at my meowing cat? | This story is short.
Our cat gets fed every morning around 7:00 AM when my girlfriend goes to work. I don't typically wake up until around 8:30 AM, but one of my cats will sit in my doorway and meow constantly - like he was never fed, and that I need to come feed him. He does this as soon as she walks out the door; it... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 29,
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"EVERYBODY": 9,
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"INFO": 0
} | AUTHOR | {
"RIGHT": 31,
"WRONG": 38
} | WRONG |
3mgYi2iEXwMZmgNvi0196kf5ehr2b0he | 9zm5kb | {
"description": "not wanting to get involved with a bullying",
"pronormative_score": 3,
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} | AITA for not wanting to get involved with a bullying? | Here it goes. Ok, so at my HS, there is a kid named Andy. He is, REALLY annoying, self centerd, bratty, and on the SED spectrum. (he is also known for sitting there and laughing and taking a video of a kid who was having a seizure. He is 5"4' and fat. (Just to give you an idea on what he looks like.) (I'm 5"7' kinda ov... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | AUTHOR | {
"RIGHT": 3,
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} | RIGHT |
IcprkfRTiDPcKaCRMYBVInT4hRSi98rF | awb3i6 | {
"description": "stealing netflix account",
"pronormative_score": 1,
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} | AITA for stealing netflix account? | Somebody tried to steal my email and used it to make netflix account. I found out, changed all my passwords even for their netflix account with 6 months worth of subscription. | HISTORICAL | {
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"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 1,
"WRONG": 1
} | RIGHT |
yWrb38WOGcclC03NWQTu2meiB4DHCrNs | b7bk3v | {
"description": "changing my mind about moving in together",
"pronormative_score": 6,
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} | AITA for changing my mind about moving in together? | 18m been with 18f for 6 months. Her homelifes shitty and she wants to move out with me, Im a uni student that makes around $600p/w so is she, making around $250 p/w. My homelifes great and I have a dog. Shes been budgeting and building this idea for weeks and started applying for houses. At the start I thought we could... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 6,
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} | RIGHT |
5WgsyXOr2rvLtzHfvqM7cbZz6lFaxhub | apoppa | {
"description": "ending a friendship over an argument where he ignored data to disagree with me",
"pronormative_score": 1,
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} | AITA for ending a friendship over an argument where he ignored data to disagree with me? | Some background before we go in. I'm high functioning autistic and almost always read social situations wrong. I have very few friends because of this, and I have few chances to make new friends as I am on disability and I have the typical narrow interests problem. Because of this almost all of my friendships are made ... | HISTORICAL | {
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"INFO": 1
} | AUTHOR | {
"RIGHT": 1,
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} | RIGHT |
4Osjf7VmR52Fb4nWl5SqJCRBLdEan70h | aorrbk | {
"description": "getting frustrated and asking her where this is going",
"pronormative_score": 4,
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} | WIBTA for getting frustrated and asking her where this is going? | Rewind to a few months ago. I meet this amazing girl. After talking for a while I find out she's studying in another country. I've done long distance relationships before and I'm not too keen on it. I express my reservations around LDRs straight away. But I fall for her hard and she convinces me it's not so bad - "it ... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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"OTHER": 2,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 2,
"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 4,
"WRONG": 0
} | RIGHT |
3umdQBWKsepSlpO74cvvl78LTkBSFoST | b1xpdw | {
"description": "not going to a dads group",
"pronormative_score": 4,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for not going to a dads group? | My partner keeps pushing me to go to a local dads group held at a park on Sunday mornings. I've been a few times and haven't really liked going, so far it's just been the same thing each week including standing around having awkward small talk and watching the kids play on the equipment (except my son who doesn't walk ... | HISTORICAL | {
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"EVERYBODY": 0,
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"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 4,
"WRONG": 0
} | RIGHT |
j6Mcw5U6jb45MJYhoRX4XylD70UVb6pd | 9ws6sn | {
"description": "cussing out a friend",
"pronormative_score": 1,
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} | AITA for cussing out a friend? | TLDR: Friend sprayed water all over me, I got mad and cussed him out.
So in chemistry we're allowed to work in the back with friends and stuff, provide were doing work. Usually at my friend group, we just fucked around with each other (we refers to me, M, I, G, and J, my friends in that class.
Chemistry is a class t... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | AUTHOR | {
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} | RIGHT |
ovjNbxCNvzonVv7CJhYnaxvGzvd6qoNB | adkhgr | {
"description": "repeating the story where I made an orthopedic surgeon come completely unglued",
"pronormative_score": 3,
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} | AITA for repeating the story where I made an orthopedic surgeon come completely unglued? | I love telling stories, but, one of my favorites paints another in a really negative light, so, am I an asshole for telling this story?
About 20 years ago, I blew out my knee skiing. I tore my ACL and MCL (ligaments). The MCL will heal on it's own, but, the ACL will not. I went to the orthopedic surgeon, and for ... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | AUTHOR | {
"RIGHT": 3,
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} | WRONG |
kZExnvHs4EplDexsdNoLoyVB2DylZdBO | afsaf4 | {
"description": "not standing up for her",
"pronormative_score": 2,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for Not Standing Up for Her? | The events happened a long time ago, but it was a recent encounter that’s been gnawing at me.
Years ago in elementary through high school, there was this one girl in my class Jane*, who was a sweet girl, but she was a bit slower than everyone else. And as a result was made fun of and bullied a lot.
I was pretty neut... | HISTORICAL | {
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IwJ7VXbZtjMxv9n9AVm9Spjr1wEpCLDt | ai8b5q | {
"description": "letting a friend of mine sleep over after we had sex without checking with my roommate first",
"pronormative_score": 2,
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} | AITA for letting a friend of mine sleep over after we had sex without checking with my roommate first? | Basically, I've recently moved into the dorms at my university because of a falling out with an ex that I shared an apartment with. It's a double, and my roommate is great.
Afyer I realized that I didn't ask about the staying over thing, I immediately texted my roommate and apologized for not checking in with them.
I... | HISTORICAL | {
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"INFO": 0
} | AUTHOR | {
"RIGHT": 2,
"WRONG": 3
} | WRONG |
2JWE7RnCEmytba0jvKzwmFGZwwt6rzii | at4vv0 | {
"description": "raising the heat on my roommates",
"pronormative_score": 3,
"contranormative_score": 2
} | AITA for raising the heat on my roommates? | Our apartment gets pretty hot despite not turning the heat on. As a response my roommates starting turning the cold air on in the winter to make it cooler in the house. Unfortunately for me, it made my room very very cold. My room never got to warm in the first place either but turning on the cold air made it really co... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 0,
"OTHER": 1,
"EVERYBODY": 2,
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"INFO": 0
} | EVERYBODY | {
"RIGHT": 3,
"WRONG": 2
} | RIGHT |
VtgD43fazlO3V2N7JE4gtdCLIS16tNdo | app4lg | {
"description": "reporting Lyft/Uber drivers or giving them a lower rating for having a car that is obviously smoked in",
"pronormative_score": 5,
"contranormative_score": 5
} | WIBTA for reporting Lyft/Uber drivers or giving them a lower rating for having a car that is obviously smoked in? | I've had to take a lot of Ubers and Lyfts for work the past month, and more than half the cars have had extreme smell issues. It's either horrible BO (of the driver), extremely overpowering axe body spray or car freshener spray where I had to breathe through my mouth and could taste the spray, or most commonly, the car... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 5,
"OTHER": 5,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 0
} | AUTHOR | {
"RIGHT": 5,
"WRONG": 5
} | RIGHT |
XuYWQjCknrszaZBN9tzCnuh4L8cAw2oV | ayk31u | {
"description": "ruining my friends grade",
"pronormative_score": 1,
"contranormative_score": 1
} | AITA for ruining my friends grade? | A few years ago, I went to a charter school in my state which was well known for their STEM program. At the time, I hung out with 3 people- F1, F2, and BF (bestfriend) Now, these friends and I had been friends since middle school, but things had been getting tense lately between me, F1, and F2. There was sort of a wall... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 0,
"OTHER": 1,
"EVERYBODY": 1,
"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 1,
"WRONG": 1
} | RIGHT |
VkABgvQ6Uqa6hFKhGNhOQXjtKhdmFoNK | afczas | {
"description": "hating that my gf is asexual",
"pronormative_score": 22,
"contranormative_score": 2
} | AITA for hating that my gf is asexual? | Just a heads up, this is probably gonna be NSFW
Okay so, I am in a w/w relationship for four years now, we are both 20, so we started dating rather early but we both had serious relationships before that, (as serious as it can get when you're fourteen).
So I love her, we work absolutely great together, I'm talking soul... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 2,
"OTHER": 11,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 11,
"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 22,
"WRONG": 2
} | RIGHT |
rFK4hgxbIdOQivKMVPTZirJqafDEMI5D | alv73z | {
"description": "assuming my supervisor hated me",
"pronormative_score": 1,
"contranormative_score": 1
} | AITA for assuming my supervisor hated me? | Soo, this happened some while ago but it's been brought up by a coworker recently and they made it known they thought i was an asshole for doing what i did, so i needed some neutral insight on it.
Here's what happened.
​
I got a job at a fast food chain last summer during the holidays to save up some mone... | HISTORICAL | {
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"OTHER": 1,
"EVERYBODY": 1,
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} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 1,
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} | RIGHT |
o2m6UjPURtOZUgG1gRoGM0RNeM38Gbt5 | aupjll | {
"description": "getting mad at my girlfriend for trying to fix my tire without my knowledge",
"pronormative_score": 7,
"contranormative_score": 5
} | AITA For getting mad at my girlfriend for trying to fix my tire without my knowledge? | Late Saturday night I hit a huge pothole and it caused my tire to start leaking air. I was planning on getting it patched up yesterday, but all of the good tire shops in my area were closed for Sunday. Instead, I borrowed my gf's car to get to classes today and asked my gf to drive my car to the tire repair shop while ... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 4,
"OTHER": 3,
"EVERYBODY": 1,
"NOBODY": 4,
"INFO": 0
} | AUTHOR | {
"RIGHT": 7,
"WRONG": 5
} | RIGHT |
4NsNUMjo84W1IYgUMlO4qmJgyKXkGB6N | a95h57 | {
"description": "hating posts whose Tl;Dr 's are basically the same as the title, providing no additionally information",
"pronormative_score": 2,
"contranormative_score": 2
} | AITA for hating posts whose Tl;Dr ‘s are basically the same as the title, providing no additionally information? | I mean I know this is a minor thing in the grand scheme of things that get posted here, but I find it infuriating when someone has an extra long post, and the summary at the end is the exact same as the title of the post. Am I an asshole for this? | HISTORICAL | {
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"EVERYBODY": 0,
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"INFO": 0
} | AUTHOR | {
"RIGHT": 2,
"WRONG": 2
} | RIGHT |
gpnf1PCR8qM4zMGmCpXI4bKuDUYh4UrT | akt8t3 | {
"description": "wanting to keep things 50/50 custody",
"pronormative_score": 3,
"contranormative_score": 3
} | AITA for wanting to keep things 50/50 custody? | My ex wants to go pickup my son from school and that I go get him at his place instead of school.
I have been fighting for 3 years since our separation to see him the least amount possible, interact with him the least amount possible. This time he is using my schedule as an argument for getting his way. I work 8 to 4 ... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 3,
"OTHER": 3,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 1
} | AUTHOR | {
"RIGHT": 3,
"WRONG": 3
} | RIGHT |
fnW1ExnurAXI7eXpeTaP3YDhjXZfPafp | aq9mqa | {
"description": "ditching my friend during lunch to go home",
"pronormative_score": 2,
"contranormative_score": 3
} | AITA for ditching my friend during lunch to go home? |
So me and my best friend have the same lunch in school and our lunches are spent exclusively together. Maybe one person joins us but other than that we really only eat with each other. So I never worry about lunch since I know I’ll have her with me.
Anyway flash forward to today and she texts me saying that she’ll b... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 1,
"OTHER": 2,
"EVERYBODY": 2,
"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 2,
"WRONG": 3
} | WRONG |
DcKKsFHV6KhtYT38XB7oEJ1nAYLzdPwN | a1jnw2 | null | AITA: Upset that partner won’t include me online | Sounds petty however I’m feeling a little upset regarding how my current partner is dealing with me in the online world. I’m 21 female and they are 24 male. We’ve been dating since December 2017 and have had a break for about 2 months between April and June. We got back together but after he had “dated” another girl fo... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 0,
"OTHER": 1,
"EVERYBODY": 1,
"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 1,
"WRONG": 1
} | RIGHT |
ZiicZ2yjheV8ikhYINZvXaVD0SY9rZW0 | aqj7e4 | {
"description": "refusing to hand up my phone",
"pronormative_score": 2,
"contranormative_score": 2
} | AITA for refusing to hand up my phone | So I'm in a voluntary pseudo military organisation like the red cross there's only really 3 formal ranks per unit and the red are all skill based (emt ect) but last week in our weekly meeting that our older members usually don't go too as we actually try and learn more instead of sit around and gossip. My sister was sc... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 0,
"OTHER": 2,
"EVERYBODY": 2,
"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 1
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 2,
"WRONG": 2
} | RIGHT |
jJQ5cCDROpcnYN6cHSGYSyzoREUQjSbH | b286wo | {
"description": "throwing water on my younger friend",
"pronormative_score": 3,
"contranormative_score": 2
} | AITA for throwing water on my younger friend | So yesterday, this friend of mine(12F) was being annoying by constantly bugging us (me(15M) and my two other friends) and coming to us back and again with water pretending they are gonna throw it at us, but they didn't . So, we also started teasing her. At one point, she throws the water at me, which wet my pants. ... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 0,
"OTHER": 2,
"EVERYBODY": 2,
"NOBODY": 1,
"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 3,
"WRONG": 2
} | RIGHT |
6X4eq0iMGCtVtekn2XYTN685XgO4FAL5 | azkjng | {
"description": "not tipping baristas / other behind-the-counter workers",
"pronormative_score": 14,
"contranormative_score": 1
} | AITA for not tipping baristas / other behind-the-counter workers? | The other day I was getting bubble tea with my roommate, and after leaving I commented on how I hated that the debit payment menu asked how much you wanted to tip, and that I felt awkward typing in $0 and I wished they would just remove it. This prompted an (admittedly very civil) argument about whether you should tip ... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 1,
"OTHER": 7,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 7,
"INFO": 1
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 14,
"WRONG": 1
} | RIGHT |
GLOZA5gtyvYZy6mBY9mKLrFnsNik3yMC | ag5m6p | {
"description": "distancing someone who wanted (past tense) to use me",
"pronormative_score": 2,
"contranormative_score": 3
} | AITA for distancing someone who wanted (past tense) to use me? | Hey guys,
Recently I've been feeling guilty about something, but simultaneously feeling like I shouldn't feel guilty about it so I figured I'd bring it here.
I've been seeing this girl off and on for a while, and while nothing super serious has happened I've been distancing myself from her, and I'm unsure if that's a... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 2,
"OTHER": 2,
"EVERYBODY": 1,
"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 0
} | AUTHOR | {
"RIGHT": 2,
"WRONG": 3
} | WRONG |
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