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AITA Friends and My Arugment
Ok so for starters I had a friend who I was really close too Recently I got sick and was realy loopy in general. She had sent videos to me and a friend of her doing tik toks and I found them really funny. I then sent the videos to my other friends to see their reaction (again wasn't thinking straight as I was loopy). ...
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{ "description": "wanting more of a reaction from friend when I came out", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 5 }
Aita for wanting more of a reaction from friend when I came out?
The chat went along like this: Me: I'm bisexual. Friend : ok Me: Nothing else? I can't see your faces nor reactions (it was in a messenger group with me and two of my friends, the other just haven't seen the butt load of messages in the chat, so he is irrelevant for the time being) Friend doesn't respond. Me: sorry, I...
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{ "description": "not crying at my great-grandmother's funeral", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not crying at my great-grandmother's funeral?
My great-grandmother died about a month ago and they were having her cremated at a crematorium for the funeral. During the service, I noticed most of the other people in the room were crying or close to it, but I didn't want to, nor did I feel like I wanted to. My mum afterwards thought I was holding it in and wasn't h...
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{ "description": "getting mad at my ex for dating someone else", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for getting mad at my ex for dating someone else?
So me and my ex were engaged about a week and a half ago. We decided it would be best for us to not be together. I need to get some medical stuff done so for the time being we’re still living together. We were really close and together for almost two years. We’d broken up before hand and he immediately jumped to saying...
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AITA for my music volume?
I live in a college dorm. I know all my neighbors. It's currently finals week. I was playing music around the same volume I've played music almost every night since september. I know all the people who live nearby in my hall (not well, but I know their faces) and I haven't had a volume complaint ever. However, today a ...
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{ "description": "hitting a lady", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA For hitting a lady?
When I was a little 5year old I loved biking. So I went into a park every now and then with my dad so we could have fun... Most of the times it was OK and my dad almost every time brings his bicycle with him. Not this time. This time he wanted to walk, because he wasn't in the mood for biking... So I went like a speed...
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{ "description": "confessing to a girl who recently broke up with her boyfriend", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for confessing to a girl who recently broke up with her boyfriend?
So I’ve known this girl for over a year now and we’ve spent so much time together alone. I guess as much time most couples who aren’t living together would spend together - maybe more. She was there for me through some hard times and would always offer me so much emotional support, support I’d never experienced before...
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{ "description": "wanting to speak up to my 90 year old grandparents when they start discussing politics", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for wanting to speak up to my 90 year old grandparents when they start discussing politics?
I’m only around my grandparents a few times a year, but get annoyed when they always manage to bring up politics around Thanksgiving and Christmas. No big deal, that’s just what relatives do.  I’ve voiced concerns with my parents in the past about how they bring political discussions into the mix when it has nothing t...
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{ "description": "being wrong", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for being wrong?
I commented on the post about Bre Payton a few days ago. I said how she was probably ignorant and anti-vaccine and stupid (now I see I was mostly wrong). Someone disagreed with me (in a poo poo way imo). I tried explaining in a normal sorta way. commenter still didn't understand, and was kinda being a huge butthead. is...
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{ "description": "considering going to a con during my friend's graduation", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for considering going to a con during my friend's graduation?
The title is bad and I know I do sound like an asshole, but this is the 2nd time some shit like this happened with her? The first time was a concert and my mom bought all our tickets early and the cost was $60. She had brought up this concert and how she wanted to go and I mentioned it to my mom since she likes concer...
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{ "description": "leaving friend at the trainstation", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For leaving friend at the trainstation
This just happened. My friend and I ate and went to a bar together and when we arrived at the trainstation to go back home he missed his train but I was still on time for mine. I have an early shift at the hospital tomorrow so I told him I had to go. He had to wait 30 min for his train to come. Am I the asshole here?
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{ "description": "not wanting my friend to buy me a vinyl player for my birthday", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting my friend to buy me a vinyl player for my birthday
My girlfriend recently gifted me my first vinyl and later, my friend said that he was buying me a vinyl player for my birthday. However, I told him that it would be a waste of money as I wasn’t interested in playing the vinyl. He got pissed that I wouldn’t appreciate the gift and now everyone thinks I’m the asshole be...
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AITA for yelling?
Recently I was walking my dog (a small blue heeler lab mix) in my neighborhood. He’s a very happy and nice dog who is very friendly. As we were walking we came up on a neighbor who I had seen some in the past. I started to wave My dog began to circle around her and joyfully wag his tail. Im guessing she felt threatened...
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{ "description": "wanting my grade to be bumped to an a", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for wanting my grade to be bumped to an A?
So my high school calculates GPA on a 4.0 scale, but there is no weighting in between the 3.0 and 4.0, 2.0 and 3.0 etc. For example, if you get a 75, that will equal a "C," or a 2.0 towards your GPA. If you get a 72, it will also equal a "C" and a 2.0 towards your GPA. Regardless of whatever number in between 70 and 79...
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{ "description": "insisting on a call and text only relationship until she gets her bedbug situation taken care of", "pronormative_score": 14, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for insisting on a call and text only relationship until she gets her bedbug situation taken care of?
My girlfriend has bedbugs. She’s said she only found three and told her apartment manager. Exterminators are coming next week. I’ve been present and quick to answer calls and texts from her, but I really don’t want to take any chances on them spreading to me. She’s feeling hurt about it. She said that she would sh...
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{ "description": "not telling my date that I have loose skin", "pronormative_score": 20, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for not telling my date that I have loose skin?
I've lost over 60 kg a year ago and my body obviously kept traces of it - I have loose skin (mainly on my stomach), stretch marks, and my boobs are saggy. I started seeing this guy from uni ~ 3 weeks ago. We've been on 5 dates and yesterday ended up at his place. When I took my clothes off he started to seem less eage...
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{ "description": "thinking my friend has been mean spirited", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for thinking my friend has been mean spirited?
This friend, let’s call her Mary. So Mary and I have been friends for a few years. We both have writing blogs on tumblr, and at the start of our friendship we both had very few followers and we’re both pretty unknown. Anyway, a year or so later mine suddenly got a lot of attention and a lot of followers. People wer...
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AITA? Me and my friend fell out and I feel like it's all my fault :/
Hey guys. Need some input on this situation, judge away. I'm so so sorry if it's hard to understand :/ ​ So me and this girl. Let's call her Janet, were really good friends all throughout school (don't want to give away my age but I'm out of school now). We were both on and off friends with a girl named Na...
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{ "description": "keeping quiet about my friend's auto mechanic fees", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I keep quiet about my friend's auto mechanic fees
My friend is teaching me to drive. His car is quite old and had several previous repairs. Last Saturday's lesson was tricky and more than average clutch work, so I stalled more. We were going to pick up another friend and go downtown after the lesson. After picking up our other friend, we were on our way and his clut...
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{ "description": "driving below the speed limit on the outermost lane on the freeway", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for driving below the speed limit on the outermost lane on the freeway?
Driving on the rightmost lane ("fast lane", this being straya, and proud of our colonial heritage we drive on the ~~wrong~~ *proper* side), the traffic began slowing down and speeding up in cycles - it slowed down to ~40 km/h, sometimes almost stopping, picked up again, and repeated every minute or so - for no apparent...
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{ "description": "knowingly letting my friendship deteriorate", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for knowingly letting my friendship deteriorate?
I'm going to try and be as unbiased as possible. Also this is very long so go back if you don't want to read a novel. Quick Context: We met during a really bad time in my life and I needed a good friend. From the first few times we hung out, she wanted me to live with her as she knew my living situation was not the b...
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{ "description": "letting my house mates food rot", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for letting my house mates food rot?
Lewis (House mate 27 m) is a pretty bad house mate. I will explain everything he has done to lead to me to consider to leave his food to rot. So i am 21 yet i feel like i take care of Lewis who prior 8 months i had no idea he existed so its not as if we have a history. ​ When i moved in Lewis was a chef an...
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{ "description": "refusing sex after my boyfriend says he'll be sad if I end up pregnant and have an abortion", "pronormative_score": 18, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA if I (17f) refuse sex after my boyfriend (17m) says he'll be sad if i end up pregnant and have an abortion?
So my boyfriend has never been 100% for abortion but he still lets women chose for themselves what they do with their own body. However, if i end up pregnant with his child, he doesn't want me to abort it, knowing that i am not (and honesty he's not either) in any way prepared or ready to have a kid. So, will I be the ...
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{ "description": "not wanting to be friends with this guy", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for not wanting to be friends with this guy?
So I hang with a group of friends and we're all pretty nerdy. We watch anime, play videogames, go to conventions, esports tournaments, etc. You get the gist, we're a bunch of geeks. One day this guy just showed up and latched onto us. He was invited to our party and I honestly have no idea how he ended up here. He was...
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{ "description": "starting a relationship with my ex's roommate", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for starting a relationship with my ex’s roommate?
So here goes the story. My ex and i broke up last October over unrelated issues. Both of us had a role in the breakup but in the end I was the one who finalized it. He still loved me at the time of our breakup, so he wouldn’t see me or let me go to his house (where our whole friend group hung out) because it hurt him t...
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{ "description": "being upset that my parents (I'm 14) very nearly bricked my expensive ps4", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for being upset that my parents (I’m 14) very nearly bricked my expensive PS4
My dad has a habit of unplugging my electronics when he takes them. Without turning them off. Because of this, I had to boot my PS4 into recovery mode due to spammed “DATABASE IS CORRUPTED” message. My mom seems to act like it’s my fault. AITA for being upset my dad nearly bricked an expensive console?
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{ "description": "going off on a manager who isn't doing his job", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for going off on a manager who isn’t doing his job?
I work in a restaurant, on Sunday’s I have a closing shift with another manger, we’ll call him B. So normally when I close I clean back of house, which means I do the dishes the trash and deck scrub the floor before putting the morning dishes back where they go. Last Sunday B told me to clean the dining room instead ...
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{ "description": "being peeved that my friend is so close to someone who hates me for no reason", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being peeved that my friend is so close to someone who hates me for no reason?
so a friend group that i was a part of a while ago had a big falling out...kind of. see i thought it was a falling out but in reality i guess one of the other girls in the group woke up one day and decided she didn’t like me anymore. this is a person who up until near the end of my being friends with her i thought we...
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{ "description": "getting mad and wanting to move out because my brothers drink and party so much", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for getting mad and wanting to move out because my brothers drink and party so much?
sorry for formatting and all that, mobile user here. alt account as all my brothers use reddit and frequent this sub. I have a big family and I have 2 older brothers that like to drink and get "Lit" at our family house. Every weekend they're partying, and during the summer it was almost every day while they were goi...
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{ "description": "going off at my depressed friend / ex", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for going off at my depressed friend / ex?
I had this friend. We had been friends for a year or two, had hung out a fair bit and knew each other through mutual friends before we became friends. This was great with a solid two years of just being friends, except around the end of 2017. I ended up having some feelings for her. Spend a solid 2 months thinking that...
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{ "description": "not knowing how to react anymore. my sister and I both think we are total assholes. I'll do something mildly rude and she completely overreacts in my view. she says I'm not mildly rude, I'm the biggest asshole on the planet and deserve no happyness", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_sco...
AITA: I don't know how to react anymore. My sister and I both think we are total assholes. I'll do something mildly rude and she completely overreacts in my view. She says I'm not mildly rude, I'm the biggest asshole on the planet and deserve no happyness.
I'll give you some examples. Just now, christmas, skyfall on the tv, we do small talk. I say something along the lines of "yeah next one will be his last film", she says something like "really? skyfall is the most recent one right?". I, in a joking tone say "Um, that movie is 6 years old". Ok I get it, it's not supe...
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{ "description": "asking my parents to watch the Office with me after they kept bugging me about them wanting to watch it", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for asking my parents to watch The Office with me after they kept bugging me about them wanting to watch it?
Okay so I started watching The Office on Netflix over the summer. I then rewatched the whole show about 2 more times. Sometimes my mom comes up to me and asks, “What are you watching?” So i tell her and stuff. Then she says, “Why don’t we all watch it together as a family?” I was a bit reluctant (because there are some...
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{ "description": "being resentful towards my foreign coworkers", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for being resentful towards my foreign coworkers
I know this sounds bad judging the title but trust me its nothing racist of the sort. Ive put in two years hard work at a chinese takeaway and have not one been allowed to have a holiday longer than 3 days this whole time. About 6 months ago my boss hired two new romanian workers . They worked for 2 months and due to ...
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{ "description": "being pissed at a friend who scared me while high", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for being pissed at a friend who scared me while high
Some background info- I’m a teenager and I’m with my two boys having a “blast” smoking weed We’re smoking some weed and one of my friends is also vaping this like synthetic CBD stuff. I tell how bad this stuff is prob for you and stuff like that all the time and that’s why I never do it. Now my friend hit this stuff ...
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{ "description": "not acknowledging people", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for not acknowledging people?
I'm a junior in high school. For some background, some kids at my school are very... boisterous, to say the least. They have very negative attitudes, too; if they meet up with each other in the hall or the lunch line, they will essentially trash-talk each other in a relatively loud manner (It's definitely in good fun, ...
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{ "description": "getting my friend arrested", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA For getting my friend arrested
This is basically a repost but I added info in places and found it was more appropiate to post this here instead of r/tifu ​ So it was a normal night as usual except I have have a pretty bad cold and cannot smell or breathe out my nose, my friends come and pick me up from my house. I was waiting for awhile...
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{ "description": "expecting my mom to be a parent", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for expecting my mom to be a parent?
Things my mother has said to me today ; you can’t have expectations from me ........ me; ???? You’re my mother that’s not how this works .. can someone please explain this to me am I the asshole for expecting my mom to stop being lazy and get a job , I pay for her internet ,cell phone and utilities .
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{ "description": "keeping the step stool out in the kitchen", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for keeping the step stool out in the kitchen?
I live in a small-ish apartment with all vertical storage, and I’m shorter than my 3 other roommates by at least 6 inches. There’s a little step stool that we use to access the cabinets - the 3 others tend to only need it for the top shelf (big pots and other infrequently used stuff), but I need it for everything but t...
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{ "description": "messing around at work", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for messing around at work?
Tonight I was working the late shift at Starbucks, and was told to work at the register for my shift. I was also given a list of things to get done while there were no customers wanting to order. With tonight being valentine's day, we were very slow, so I burned through the list fairly quickly. Now, the way things work...
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OTHER
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{ "description": "not paying a guy who partially fixed my car", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for not paying a guy who partially fixed my car?
Okay, so this happened yesterday. I went to grocery store to pick up some items to help my parents cook for Thanksgiving. As I was getting in my car there was a guy in a truck who called me out and asked if he could a dent in my car. He stated: “hey man! I can fix that dent! I will give you a free estimate and then I c...
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{ "description": "not designing my groups poster the way my groupmates wanted me to", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not designing my groups poster the way my groupmates wanted me to?
My group was assigned a project of making a poster for an engineering class, and I offered to my group to design the poster so that they could just add in the text and we would be finished. There only thing was that this project was assigned on a Thursday and I told them ahead of time that I wouldn't be able to work on...
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OTHER
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{ "description": "thinking this friend wronged me and ghosting her", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for thinking this friend wronged me and ghosting her?
This is long. Preface: Friend is a little dense. She casually insults people our friends group knows (e.g.: "Ah! We're only meeting at lunch because that friend of yours is a loser who doesn't have a car"). When I said that her boss was a bit of an asshole for paying the graphic designer 5€ per graphic and for not...
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AUTHOR
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WRONG
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{ "description": "getting mad at my so for changing jobs", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for getting mad at my SO for changing jobs?
SO some backstory: My girlfriend and I worked together for around 2 and a half years. In this time we moved in together and had a child. Beforehand she had 3 children from a previous marriage. From day one I have accepted her children as my own. Now that we have 4, we had a carefully balanced schedule where one of...
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{ "description": "getting annoyed of having to take care of my grandma who has dementia", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for getting annoyed of having to take care of my grandma who has dementia
My grandmother is 74 years old and has early stage dementia. My mother is 50 and she is constantly needing me to take my grandmother to her appointments. My mother works M-F from 3-4 so she can’t really take her to her appointments as most doctors offices are closed by the time she gets out. I have not complained yet b...
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OTHER
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{ "description": "waking my dad up when he was snoring", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for waking my dad up when he was snoring?
Throwaway because I know I'm the arsehole. Please don't hold back with your confirmation. I was prototyping my brother's project. My lungs are probably filled with pounds of lead. Anyway, I'm soldering in my room. I need maximum concentration. My dad just starts sleeping. I don't mind it--until he starts snoring. It i...
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{ "description": "getting angry at my girlfriend for not being able to make and take phone calls", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for getting angry at my girlfriend for not being able to make and take phone calls
So, I'll give her side and my side, for clarification on why I'm posting this Her side; My beautiful girlfriend has mental health issues, one of which, I believe to be 'phone phobia' which is in my opinion a part of her OCD. This causes her to the inability to answer phone calls and make phone calls saying that this ...
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{ "description": "telling a Girls Ex her baggage", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA For Telling a Girls Ex Her Baggage
As the title explains I told my best friend's ex she was toxic . So me and this girl have been friends for like 7 years. And she's been a toxic manipulative person for the last 3 years I have dealt with it for that long. And why is she toxic lemme tell you. She Is a complete dick to me when talking to her friends, sh...
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{ "description": "standing up for myself", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for standing up for myself?
Me-me B-dancer F-friend Okay let’s begin, I am a dancer and the person I was rude to is a big name dancer let call them B and there friend let call them F (I was not trying to be rude to B) so I was at a dance combination this summer, I didn’t even know B was there as I don’t care much for people who are “big/famous”...
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{ "RIGHT": 2, "WRONG": 3 }
WRONG
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{ "description": "not dating a girl", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITAH for not dating a girl?
Recently I went on a date with a girl who I work with (I know it's a bad idea I too live in the future where I made this decision) and it went well we had a fun time and I was looking forward to the next date. Later that week there was an emergency at the mall we both work at and I wasn't there but she was texting me h...
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AUTHOR
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{ "description": "not listening to my parents advice on looking for work", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not listening to my parents advice on looking for work?
So I am a 23 year old woman, who still lives at home for financial reasons. And the only source of income I got right now is SSI (Social supplemental income) because I have a mild mental disability. But the thing is this: I am more than capable of making my own decisions: monetary and life decisions. So from that fact,...
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OTHER
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{ "description": "hating my job", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA For Hating My Job?
So, every morning it's the same routine. I wake up, make breakfast for my SO and I and get ready for work. On the way out I'll usually say something along the lines of "siiigh, whelp, off I go" or something like that. Obviously not thrilled to leave, but not seething either. To which my SO responds by shrugging his sho...
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OTHER
{ "RIGHT": 6, "WRONG": 2 }
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{ "description": "getting upset at a close friend forgetting my birthday", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for getting upset at a close friend forgetting my birthday?
We’ve been really good friends, thick and thin, ride or die. She forgot my birthday and I was pretty upset and disrespected quite honestly over it. Am I wrong to feel like this?
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{ "description": "thinking ugly people should be nicer", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for thinking ugly people should be nicer
Maybe a little misleading on the title and hopefully this belongs here. I'll try to give a condensed version as best I can. I was just talking to someone through a dating site. Turns our we both know some of the same people. However, this person knew that another person was in the past interested in me and what...
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AUTHOR
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{ "description": "posaibly breaking up my EX and her fiance", "pronormative_score": 15, "contranormative_score": 26 }
AITA for posaibly breaking up my EX and her fiance?
3 year relationship ended amicably. I was moving for work, she didn't want to. Long distance didn't work. I'm back home now and have been for a over year. She started seeing someone about a year ago. We're all local so running into each other is expected. On Monday there was a business event for our local area. In r...
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OTHER
{ "RIGHT": 15, "WRONG": 26 }
WRONG
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{ "description": "flexing that my friend was called ruled an asshole in our argument", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for flexing that my friend was called ruled an asshole in our argument?
This is fuckin asshole-ception but basically my friend got ruled an asshole on one of our arguments https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/b4e1n6/aita_for_thinking_finders_keepers_applies_to/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app Technically it was ESH but majority were calling him the asshole. Basically ...
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{ "description": "sleeping with a woman I've been volunteering to help", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 4 }
WIBTA if I sleep with a woman I've been volunteering to help?
So, this has been a difficult year for us, my children and I haven't been in the Christmas mood at all. I lost my job and its been hell. I needed something to fill up my time, since im on my Christmas break till the new year. I was thinking some volunteer work would be a good way to pass the time. We did some work in...
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{ "description": "breaking up with my boyfriend the day before thanksgiving", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for breaking up with my boyfriend the day before thanksgiving?
I’m asking for help because I’m obviously feeling bad. Is there just an overarching premise to life that there’s never a good time to break up with someone? Do you need details to answer this question? What if it’s coming out of the blue? What if it’s not and you “break up” every other week? What if it’s for a go...
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{ "description": "not using my b-day gift as intended", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for not using my b-day gift as intended?
So this just happened. A little background info; I have fairly severe anxieties and weed helps me cope with that, so I have been smoking for years although weed is illegal in my country. My GF is completely okay with this - we cleared it up before committing to a relationship. We have now been together for over 2 years...
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{ "description": "ghosting a girl from work because of the interest of a friend who is also from work", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA For ghosting a girl from work because of the interest of a friend who is also from work?
I had known that my friend was interested in this girl for a little while but he did not ask her out yet and we all were just friends. One shift she asked for my number and I did not really know how to say no, after that she texted me quite a bit and this is when my other friend started to become more interested in her...
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AUTHOR
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{ "description": "wanting even split if we won the lottery", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for wanting even split if we won the lottery?
My wife (28F) and I (31M) were just talking about how nice it would be if we won $10M in lottery. Then naturally we progressed into what we’d do w it. Both of us are super family oriented, so we both agree that we’ll give a decent chunk to our family members. She has a brother. I am an only child. She said she’d give $...
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{ "description": "telling a childminder to do her job at a play centre", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for telling a childminder to do her job at a play centre.
Okay so I’ve taken my son (2inDec) to a soft play area near me, I’m doing the usual walking round following his lead as he’s so excited and wants to play with everything all at once, on the first round I noticed a little girl (quite obviously about 6 months younger than my son) standing around crying, looking lost, sca...
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{ "description": "telling my friends they shouldn't be driving on New Year's Eve at 7:00pm", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for telling my friends they shouldn’t be driving on New Year’s Eve at 7:00PM?
So, my friends wanted to hang out. The problem is, we can’t really do anything if we do. One friend suggested we all go to the movies and another friend liked that idea. I, for one, didn’t want to be on the road since I know the holidays are generally very bad. There’s a total of 4 of us, and the last and final friend ...
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{ "description": "telling my bf's friends a potentially embarrassing story", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for telling my bf's friends a potentially embarrassing story?
This happened a while ago and me and this is actually my ex boyfriend but i think about this incedent a lot and can't get an unbiased opinion from any of my friends or family. About 2 years ago when we were both 20 he wanted to go to a party with some of his friends on the campus of the college they went too. I wasn'...
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{ "RIGHT": 3, "WRONG": 3 }
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{ "description": "cutting off my autistic friend in my life because of their autism", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA for cutting off my autistic friend in my life because of their autism?
some background information: we're all girls. that friend (alpha) shows more obvious symptoms than me, who's also autistic. alpha is friends with my best friend (beta), who's neurotypical, but they only got close because they both have no friends in their class (homeroom). I'm in a different class with both of them. a...
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{ "description": "wanting my mother to abstain from buying Christmas gifts this year", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting my mother to abstain from buying Christmas gifts this year?
I grew up poor in one of the shittiest cities in the US. Despite that, I was always fed and always got gifts on Christmas. I only recently learned that my mom was putting herself into debt to always make sure my little brother and I had plenty of presents. I'm thankful for her generosity, but it needs to stop. At t...
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{ "AUTHOR": 0, "OTHER": 4, "EVERYBODY": 0, "NOBODY": 4, "INFO": 0 }
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{ "description": "calling my ex-girlfriend an idiot for getting back with her abusive boyfriend", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for calling my ex-girlfriend an idiot for getting back with her abusive boyfriend.
My ex girlfriend is 21. We dated for 3 months before she randomly broke up with me last night. I later found out that she got back together with her ex-boyfriend, who she broke up with before we started dating because he was abusive towards her, physically and emotionally. She told me about this ex (now current) boyfr...
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{ "AUTHOR": 2, "OTHER": 2, "EVERYBODY": 1, "NOBODY": 0, "INFO": 0 }
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{ "RIGHT": 2, "WRONG": 3 }
WRONG
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{ "description": "cutting contact with my cousin", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for cutting contact with my cousin
So my younger cousin and I both go to the same uni. We grew up together and I would have considered him one of my best friends up until recently. A few months ago I started hooking up with this girl Nicole. I liked her at the time but I was graduating that year so we decided not to make it official. We agreed it was ...
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AUTHOR
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{ "description": "guilting my ex boyfriend for giving me trust issues", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for guilting my ex boyfriend for giving me trust issues?
Background: I (18F) was abandoned by my mother three years ago, which left me and my life in complete shambles. I’ve recovered miraculously but it’s left some permanent scars, one of which I realized is the fear of abandonment. Anyways, enter ex bf. We’ll call him Jaden. Jaden was my first love. I shared everything ...
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{ "RIGHT": 5, "WRONG": 5 }
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{ "description": "leaving a grown woman on a playground", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for leaving a grown woman on a playground?
We stopped at an Air BnB as a halfway point between destinations. The host told us there was a pier with beautiful lights and a playground. That night we decided to go so we could take pictures of the lights and swing. We get there and everythings fine. No one is around. She’s running around trying different stuff. I w...
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{ "description": "wishing I could travel or at least go out more often despite being my mother's main assistant/caretaker", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For wishing I could travel or at least go out more often despite being my mother’s main assistant/caretaker?
27M here. I live with my mother and younger brother. Mom has limited mobility and slight paralysis due to a past stroke. Bro works, so it’s usually my job to take care of things when Mom needs help (usually because she can’t lift/move an object, or because she needs help with the dogs or something). I’ve spent several ...
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{ "description": "not wanting to be my parents \"errand girl\"", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for not wanting to be my parents “errand girl”?
Hey guys. This is something that has been bothering me for quite a while, so any opinions would be helpful. Probably still not going to approach my parents about this, but. I am a 19 y/o, living at home with my dad and stepmom and going to community college as well as working. I go to school two days a week (all day...
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AITA for this hatred.
I've been friends with this girl at school, we've known eachother for years but about a month and a half ago when I was trying to contact her she told me to fuck off. At first I thought maybe she was just having a bad day and brushed it off. At the end of the school day I went up to her and tried getting her attention ...
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{ "description": "taking pictures for a friend's wedding and not giving a refund", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for taking pictures for a friend's wedding and not giving a refund?
Sorry for the weird title. Anyway, this past summer my friend got married in August. We're not that close. More like coworkers who have stayed in touch on Facebook after moving on. A few weeks before her wedding she tells me her photographer bailed and wanted to know if my husband wanted the experience since he is want...
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{ "description": "asking that my girlfriend come along with me while I get a new haircut that she requested", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for asking that my girlfriend come along with me while I get a new haircut that she requested.
The time has come for me to get another haircut and my girlfriend has requested I try some style called a 'fade'. Now I have zero knowledge in the realm of haircuts/styles, so rather than assuming that what they give me is what she wants, it makes sense to me that she should come along to make sure they achieve the vis...
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{ "description": "talking shit about a customer in my store and hearing me", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA if I talked shit about a customer in my store and she heard me?
Ok I know a lot of posts on here are just for self validation but I really want to know if I'm the asshole. I'm going to try really hard to be objective and not try to let emotions play into my story. I work for a very well known retailer as a manger. I have been with the company for 7 years with no complaints. We ...
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{ "description": "trying to prevent an ex friend from meeting my new friends", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for trying to prevent an ex friend from meeting my new friends?
I’m in high school at the moment, and on the science bowl team (I know, nerdy, but what can you do lol). Through this I’ve met friends from all across the country, and it’s been fantastic getting to know them. Then there’s this girl from my school. We’ll call her Anastasia. Last year, she took advantage of our coache...
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{ "description": "not wanting to spend Christmas with my stepmom's family", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not wanting to spend Christmas with my stepmom’s family?
For as long as I can remember, it was always just me and my dad, but then he suddenly decided to get married over the summer. He didn’t even ask me or run it by me. I barely even knew the woman he was marrying. But they went to the courthouse and got married, and she moved in with us, there was nothing I could do. An...
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AITA: A Very Poor Introduction
I'm on mobile so apologies, although I'm not really sure why it matters or what it does. Anyway, for a little background info, I'm very bad at wording things correctly/making things come out the way I intend. I'm not (painfully) socially awkward or anything, but, without going into much detail, I have seizures and the...
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{ "description": "not wanting to spend my Saturday night with my friend and his kid", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for not wanting to spend my Saturday night with my friend AND his kid!?
Lately, after my buddy and I (34M) make plans to go golfing or get a bite to eat or whatever, he'll ask me the day of if it's cool if his son comes along. His son is cool and all but Im busy and I only have a few opportunities every month to spend time with friends. I really don't want to spend one of those hanging o...
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{ "description": "mispronouncing words in front of my girlfriend's family", "pronormative_score": 22, "contranormative_score": 46 }
AITA for mispronouncing words in front of my girlfriend's family?
Last night, I was all set to have dinner at my girlfriend's house. We've been dating for about 3 months and I've met her parents before, but this was the first time that I'd be dining with some in what was obviously a more fancy setting. When I asked my girlfriend what they were serving, she said that her dad had cooke...
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{ "description": "telling the school nurses/my doctor about how my sister's driving got me hurt", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA For telling the school nurses/my doctor about how my sister’s driving got me hurt?
Okay, so my older sister (OS) has be driving me (Me) and our younger sister (YS) to school. Those two in the front seats, I’m in the back. Last week I was leaning my arm against the window with my head in my hand because I wasn’t feeling good that morning (emotionally) she mad a sharp turn, my arm slipped and I hit my...
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{ "description": "getting frustrated with my friend who dropped out", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for getting frustrated with my friend who dropped out?
So, a while ago, my really good friend dropped out of school. While I didn't necessarily think it was a good idea by any means at the time, I didn't want him to think I didn't support him no matter what so I tried to be good about it. He told me it's because he doesn't think he needs school and is burnt out. I think a ...
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{ "description": "not reaching out to my mom", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for not reaching out to my mom?
So my mother and I have very similar personalities and this causes a lot of friction between us whenever we’re together for more than a couple of days. We would often get into little arguments that would blow up into huge fights. But this is usually only if we’re in the same physical place. When we’re in different plac...
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{ "description": "not seeing my dad xmas eve", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA for not seeing my dad xmas eve
We had all originally agreed weeks ago that I was hosting until 2 days ago when my aunt called me telling me that my dad told her to tell me the plans changed and that he and stepmom would now be hosting. I had a baby 3 months ago and originally wanted to spend this xmas season at home. But then my mom broke her leg a...
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{ "description": "wanting sex", "pronormative_score": 18, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for wanting sex?
Me and my girlfriend have been together for around 21 months, for the 1st 6-8 months we had plenty of sex but since then we have had very little (our anniversary is the only time in the past year) I mentioned this to her once when she rejected my advances which upset her and she told me that she just wasnt into that ...
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{ "description": "saying that its better to not hsve money for the family then to have money and not give it", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA: for saying that its better to not hsve money for the family then to have money and not give it?
Okay so i suffer from some serious problem's. i have ocd anxiety dyslexia and a seriously messed up right knee that has also led to back problems. and while im trying to get disability. its very hard here. and right now im not bringing in any money. now i live with my grandmother aunt mom and dad they are all disabled ...
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{ "description": "wanting my bestfriend to talk to me while away", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA For wanting my bestfriend to talk to me while away?
Alright, so this monday my bestfriend went to Ireland for about a week with her uncle in a mini vacation and also to get a bit of time with her cousin, since she doesn't get to be with him often, all of this was pretty awesome and I was pretty excited for her. ​ Well a few days passed and she pretty much ...
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{ "description": "jokingly teasing a fellow student about his shirt", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for jokingly teasing a fellow student about his shirt
So this happened a few weeks ago, and for it's been weighing on me since, so I thought I'd see what you guys had to say; I've recently started at law school this year straight from high school. I chose this specific school because I had experience the previous year by participating in their high school mock trial comp...
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{ "description": "demanding proof", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for demanding proof?
Long story short, been with my partner 11 years and I have found he's been talking to girls online for 6 years with breaks of a couple months. He fessed up a few weeks ago after I found naked pictures of his old fwb. Anyways. We hit bottom, talked it through in a surprisingly grown-up way. We've addressed the underlyi...
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{ "description": "not finishing my friend's work", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not finishing my friend’s work?
So there are three characters: me, friend a, friend b We were working on a project that was due today. We were all panicking because we procrastinated and friend A had to leave for a competition in five minutes. Friend A was panicking while friend B suggest that I can help print everything out and submit, however, I di...
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{ "description": "ruining a party over a sexist remark", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for ruining a party over a sexist remark?
**TL;DR** because it's longer than it needs: I sigh because someone called a known woman a slut. This person takes it badly because it was condescending. I want to drop the subject but he keeps arguing. Points out how angry I'm getting, storms off and leave. His brother catches up to me and asks me why I got angry, but...
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AITA best friends ex
So my best friend ex added me a few days ago on facebook and we hit it of well but atthe same time the girl i like at school started talking to me and seems interested i like her more but i would feel like an ass if i were to back off my friend's ex now becuase ive gotten there hopes up but i probably will does that m...
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{ "description": "not appreciating a ride", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for not appreciating a ride?
I'm going home for the weekend from my university and the nearest airport is an hour and a half away. I don't have a car so I had to ask a friend for a ride, which is a lot to ask because it's a 3 hour round trip and it's hard to fit that in with class as well being out of the way. Also made it clear I would pay them($...
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{ "description": "telling my friend to leave this guy already", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for telling my friend to leave this guy already?
So she has been dating this guy for a while and they are doing great. Recently there has been a lot of fights between them and she has been trying to break-up multiple times. However, every time he pulls the "If you leave me, I'll commit suicide" card. I've been in a relationship where my girlfriend committed suicide...
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{ "description": "avoiding the manned checkout at the supermarket in favour of the self service one", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA For avoiding the manned checkout at the supermarket in favour of the self service one
I was picking up a small amount of groceries from Tesco that my parents forgot to buy on the way back from school (milk, cheese, veg and some sweets). After I gathered my items I made my way to the self service checkouts. I normally use the self service checkouts for two reasons: 1) I know that it is quicker for me t...
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{ "description": "refusing to get an old man a refill at Subway, because I didn't hear him first time he asked", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for refusing to get an old man a refill at Subway, because I didn’t hear him first time he asked?
Bit of background story: I (17M) live in Sweden and in gymnasiums (i guess kind of equivalent to high school) we have ”food credit cards” that all students receive in our school in order to eat out, that are filled with approx. 5.5$ each day (we don’t have a cafeteria). We can only eat at restaurants that the school ha...
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{ "description": "yelling in my bf's parents house", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for yelling in my bf's parents house?
Sooooooo... Can't sleep. Can't eat. Had a nightmare and woke up pale and dizzy. Please help. I need to know if my behaviour was normal for someone in a panick mode. We were going to visit my honey's parent's house (dacha/дача) when his dad told me his agressive dog tried to kill my cat. That cat is a jerk and she is f...
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{ "description": "cutting it off with a girl who gave every sign that she was into me, but then refusing and mocking any advances that I made", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA If I cut it off with a girl who gave every sign that she was into me, but then refused and mocked any advances that I made?
A girl, who seemed very interested in me, once invited me over to watch a movie alone in her room on her bed. I made a a couple of advances throughout the movie to which she would just laugh at my face and say "can't we just watch the movie?". I even made an advance after the movie was over. Same reaction. It wasn't e...
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{ "description": "saying no homo", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for saying no homo?
On mobile so sorry for formatting issues. I'm 12 and my friends I make jokes like " Your'e hot no homo tho" and a new kid I saw hanging out with my friends so I went to talk to him. I then said to my friend " I'm gay, but no homo tho. New kid got super offended and left. apparently he was actually gay??? AITA?
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{ "description": "turning down sour cream man", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for turning down sour cream man
Okay, so I met a guy at a bar who seemed really nice, we hit it off. We decided to meet again on valentines day. When we went back to my place, and he changed clothes, I noticed he had this horrible body odor of sour cream chips and I politely asked him to wash his hands because I thought it was from something he ate r...
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