id stringlengths 32 32 | post_id stringlengths 6 6 | action dict | title stringlengths 4 300 | text stringlengths 0 10.8k | post_type stringclasses 2
values | label_scores dict | label stringclasses 5
values | binarized_label_scores dict | binarized_label stringclasses 2
values |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|---|---|---|---|
pvvuKi6yoWXpLRkqRoIl2URt8oZAGJpy | 9xnehw | {
"description": "sacking my special needs kitchen porter",
"pronormative_score": 5,
"contranormative_score": 1
} | AITA for sacking my special needs kitchen porter. | I have recently taken over as the headchef at a hotel, which itself has just been bought over but new owners.
One of the kitchen porters (dishwasher/cleaner) is a man I have worked with at a previous hotel for around six years. I like him, but, I think that he is lazy and will do anything to avoid doing what is asked ... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 1,
"OTHER": 5,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 5,
"WRONG": 1
} | RIGHT |
NJ6MqY6jdzIhAbJgQIzTqSV1Z2ZHjCyo | a59dsl | {
"description": "telling my dad that I do not want my stepmother to be involved in my baby's life",
"pronormative_score": 10,
"contranormative_score": 1
} | WIBTA for telling my dad that I do not want my stepmother to be involved in my baby's life? | My parents divorced when I was ten years old. I am one of four siblings. Pre-divorce, my father had my mother get her tubes tied because he didn't want any more children. After the divorce, he immediately married a woman with an infant and adopted her baby (donor sperm, no birth father around). He then chose to have an... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 1,
"OTHER": 10,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 10,
"WRONG": 1
} | RIGHT |
CFyqwV13HYmXn0F6mGuenbugZYer4lFQ | b3ragb | {
"description": "staying friends with my friend's ex",
"pronormative_score": 4,
"contranormative_score": 1
} | AITA for staying friends with my friend's ex? | Arnold is a long-time good friend from our hometown.
Five years ago Arnold went out with Lucy. Things got serious and they moved in together. About a year in, things went downhill and they ended their relationship. He was brokenhearted, madly in love with her and though they attempted to stay friends he couldn't stop ... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 1,
"OTHER": 4,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 4,
"WRONG": 1
} | RIGHT |
7wH4UyN5w8lceWtOyDR2jkdIoQLabKOG | alyb5e | {
"description": "going to Bed at 2 am on a Monday Night? or AITA for asking my roommate to not have guests over past midnight? or both",
"pronormative_score": 3,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA For Going To Bed at 2 AM on a Monday Night? Or AITA For Asking My Roommate To Not Have Guests Over Past Midnight? Or Both? | I'm a college freshman living in residence and me and roommate are both night owls, like I normally go to bed around 12:30 and she usually goes to sleep a few hours after me. I'm not actually sure how much later she stays up because I always go to bed first, but from time to time she complains/brags about falling aslee... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 0,
"OTHER": 2,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 1,
"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 3,
"WRONG": 0
} | RIGHT |
S9HjThIeJDJem0zyVbgv6BJ5s156QkFE | aip496 | {
"description": "not speaking with my ex best friend anymore",
"pronormative_score": 0,
"contranormative_score": 6
} | AITA For not speaking with my ex best friend anymore. | Ok, so, me and this guy were childhood best friends for like 12 years. But naturally after high school, we fell apart, different lives and all that. We still made an effort to see each other from time to time to see how things were going, but I think we both knew it just would never be the same again. In one of our las... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 1,
"OTHER": 0,
"EVERYBODY": 5,
"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 0
} | EVERYBODY | {
"RIGHT": 0,
"WRONG": 6
} | WRONG |
aCK9hAmFr6FAZhC2d3dsmKSAiSirT3eK | ag5nkn | {
"description": "not beingcomfortable letting my girlfriend go to a concert alone with a guy friend she met 4 months ago",
"pronormative_score": 3,
"contranormative_score": 6
} | AITA because I wasn’t comfortable letting my girlfriend go to a concert alone with a guy friend she met 4 months ago? | My long distance GF called me and told me that she wanted to go to concert but none of her friends of family could go except her guy friend she met 4 months ago. I’ve never met him. I told her I don’t feel comfortable going one on one to a concert with a single guy formed she has only known for a few months. Anyways sh... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 6,
"OTHER": 3,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 0
} | AUTHOR | {
"RIGHT": 3,
"WRONG": 6
} | WRONG |
9POKTD9Wp8HtYtDLuPiTUad3Jxpz6Ssk | b1id3p | {
"description": "not paying a bill I never agreed to pay, and then moving out",
"pronormative_score": 11,
"contranormative_score": 1
} | AITA for not paying a bill I never agreed to pay, and then moving out | So a few years ago my mom and her fiancé find this house for rent and it has two separate suites. They can’t afford it on their own so ask if my husband and I would be interested in renting the bottom suite. We tell them sure, and that our budget is $1100 per month as we are trying to save money for investments/to buy ... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 1,
"OTHER": 11,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 11,
"WRONG": 1
} | RIGHT |
fiTUBNVSuQfyGJrYyzeFeZYhhT1H25XV | 9zwh1j | {
"description": "turning down a girl because she's overweight",
"pronormative_score": 19,
"contranormative_score": 2
} | AITA for turning down a girl because she’s overweight? | This girl and I had been friends for a while and it’s been chilling between us, frankly I really like her as a friend. During all this time I don’t like I’ve lead her on one bit. One day we were talking and she confessed to me, she said she had a crush on me for a minute. I told her it was very flattering that she feel... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 2,
"OTHER": 19,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 19,
"WRONG": 2
} | RIGHT |
6Cqck2tLoDBaejPHGrioX2jBNTTgvNDZ | b9eq78 | {
"description": "using small paperclips",
"pronormative_score": 8,
"contranormative_score": 2
} | AITA for using small paperclips? | My supervisor has told me before he hates small paperclips. Occasionally I will use them in reports I give to him... because I am out, or it's only two pages, or because the small ones have the grippy ridges and hold better.
Today I got handed back reports and his comment was "I HATE small paperclips." Am I the asshol... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 2,
"OTHER": 7,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 1,
"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 8,
"WRONG": 2
} | RIGHT |
aJtOlUUnyy18rLR366mtDLPJpG2q7nqO | antyqs | {
"description": "not buying my best friend a wedding present",
"pronormative_score": 18,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for not buying my best friend a wedding present? | So I’ll preface this with the fact that the wedding hasn’t actually happened yet. However, I told someone recently I didn’t plan on buying her a wedding gift and you would’ve thought I said I was going to burn down the church.
My reasoning behind this is as follows:
I am the maid of honor in this wedding. I have flo... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 0,
"OTHER": 15,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 3,
"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 18,
"WRONG": 0
} | RIGHT |
nv8G1rL8tGVrjKplYzC1nroNCbiI2NUj | ap8hie | {
"description": "insisting my husband take time off work",
"pronormative_score": 3,
"contranormative_score": 1
} | WIBTA if I insisted my husband take time off work. | For Christmas I was gifted a few nights at a resort. My husband and I haven’t been able to take a proper vacation together since our honeymoon (5 1/2 years ago).
At the beginning of he month my husband started a new job and has already been approved to take the time off. The reservation is this weekend. Due to snow st... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 1,
"OTHER": 2,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 1,
"INFO": 1
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 3,
"WRONG": 1
} | RIGHT |
tUZBCzPriXlW3e5SUvndx0GC1McwTzWF | a2q3iw | {
"description": "being pissed at my dad for telling me how to fix my mistakes",
"pronormative_score": 7,
"contranormative_score": 7
} | AITA for being pissed at my dad for telling me how to fix my mistakes | I’m in first year Highschool, I’ve got a lot on my plate. Projects, exams, time, I’ve got a lot to manage. Today I accidentally hit myself in the nose with my knee, really damn hard, trying to do a joke during class. I was excused to go to the nurse’s clinic, nothing serious, just put an ice pack. Got home, placed anot... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 6,
"OTHER": 5,
"EVERYBODY": 1,
"NOBODY": 2,
"INFO": 0
} | AUTHOR | {
"RIGHT": 7,
"WRONG": 7
} | RIGHT |
bKGdEOWUVIw5wJV5w2OrM0RkOUteHAol | aq1krr | {
"description": "telling my husband that I wanted a place in our home where I could get away",
"pronormative_score": 7,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for telling my husband that I wanted a place in our home where I could get away? | My husband and I (a man) have lived in our current home for almost 5 years. It's a very small home that is about 700 sq ft. We have the potential for more square footage if we finish our basement and/or enclose our back deck. I was talking to him tonight and mentioned that I really would like some extra space where I ... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 0,
"OTHER": 5,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 2,
"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 7,
"WRONG": 0
} | RIGHT |
rxirDs48zptj74SkFIRn1n3HPsGVFy0x | b2ecqn | {
"description": "walking in on my roommate's girlfriend in the bathroom accidentally twice",
"pronormative_score": 18,
"contranormative_score": 6
} | AITA for walking in on my roommate's girlfriend in the bathroom accidentally twice | During university my roommates (also friends) were very bad at turning off lights in common areas. I had discussed it with them at length before but their logic was they weren't paying for utilities so who cares. Fair enough.
The issue was that this meant sometimes when the bathroom light was on it didn't mean anyone... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 1,
"OTHER": 17,
"EVERYBODY": 5,
"NOBODY": 1,
"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 18,
"WRONG": 6
} | RIGHT |
KXNAxa1Oqubx6091B0XvkB3ngw2WHjt7 | b67ud3 | {
"description": "calling the police",
"pronormative_score": 10,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for calling the police? | All day there has been a car parked directly in front of the stop sign next to my house. When I left, it was a bit of a dangerous hassle moving around the car. Coming back was worse. I assume it might belong to a roadworker because I saw a orange sign on the roof of the car. I tried to drive around and find the owner. ... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 0,
"OTHER": 10,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 10,
"WRONG": 0
} | RIGHT |
Q7TzsM7OpQbhRMu8HtAdc8vaNo6DQUug | ar260t | {
"description": "leaving my friend at lunch to go talk to a girl",
"pronormative_score": 8,
"contranormative_score": 1
} | AITA for leaving my friend at lunch to go talk to a girl? | This sounds like some high school drama bullshit but whatever I just need to know if I'm in the wrong.
​
So basically my best friend (We'll call him John) and I both have been crushing on this girl (We'll call her Jane) since August. We both are in the same class as her and he originally pointed her out t... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 1,
"OTHER": 6,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 2,
"INFO": 1
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 8,
"WRONG": 1
} | RIGHT |
ZxtuI3xZLNagE2lg9wv8ikLNoLLRoa6Q | b1f28b | {
"description": "refusing to get a tattoo of another man's name covered",
"pronormative_score": 190,
"contranormative_score": 15
} | AITA because I refuse to get a tattoo of another man's name covered? | My fiance refuses to marry me unless I get it covered. I think this is absolutely absurd because he knew full well all about it and didn't seem to mind, now it's a problem? No, he wasn't a past boyfriend, or anything like that. The man's name I have inked on me was a mentor of sorts and our relationship was strictly pl... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 11,
"OTHER": 176,
"EVERYBODY": 4,
"NOBODY": 14,
"INFO": 8
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 190,
"WRONG": 15
} | RIGHT |
IHoBfqHQWoq08S3deltEAh4elafLEssl | a04rvk | {
"description": "cutting contact with my (now ex) boyfriend after he broke up with me",
"pronormative_score": 5,
"contranormative_score": 2
} | AITA for cutting contact with my (now ex) boyfriend after he broke up with me | We dated for almost a year (anniversary on dec 9 :() and recently went on a break so I could work on my anxiety. We’ve had some other bumps in the road which led to me giving him an ultimatum saying that I needed him to decide whether or not he wanted to be with me. I didn’t pressure him into giving me an answer, in fa... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 2,
"OTHER": 5,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 5,
"WRONG": 2
} | RIGHT |
xdsdrx8kvXbm0hF00PGrthPWqXc1YJOR | an8vrp | null | AITA for not want to go to my family’s parties anymore? | Before you guys go and start saying I’m the asshole because family is important and whatever, let me give you a lot of background because I feel like this will further help explain why I want to do this. (Also using a different account because family uses reddit but whatever)
So I am the 4th child in my family. Everyo... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 0,
"OTHER": 6,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 1
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 6,
"WRONG": 0
} | RIGHT |
fj5lwLsncBla9svrKTCtocqYz9AQmk9Y | b1xne1 | {
"description": "ratting two people out for cheating on a final exam",
"pronormative_score": 210,
"contranormative_score": 33
} | AITA for ratting two people out for cheating on a final exam? | Yesterday, I took a final exam for one of my courses (this is university btw) and I looked up to check the clock to see how much time I had left when I noticed the guy next to me had notecards underneath his test. Moments later, he poked his friend's back, who happened to be sitting in the seat in front of them, and le... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 28,
"OTHER": 208,
"EVERYBODY": 5,
"NOBODY": 2,
"INFO": 2
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 210,
"WRONG": 33
} | RIGHT |
U9Jti4WNAf6zLLavPBoujdDfVEXb8y5m | b7gbvq | {
"description": "leaving the lowest possibe tip for food delivery",
"pronormative_score": 5,
"contranormative_score": 5
} | AITA for leaving the lowest possibe tip for food delivery? | Not 30 minutes ago, I ordered some food through an app like Uber Eats. I listed my items in a clear manner, and made sure to be *really* specific, as to make it NEAR IMPOSSIBLE to get my order wrong.
Anyway, all was going okay, until I realized she was already in route with my items, and I never heard a peep from her ... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 1,
"OTHER": 5,
"EVERYBODY": 4,
"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 5,
"WRONG": 5
} | RIGHT |
oQWmb3VJqs3QvlXU5TIrn6v9R5fciz7i | ay7sev | {
"description": "wanting to get another dog",
"pronormative_score": 1,
"contranormative_score": 5
} | AITA for wanting to get another dog | A little backstory about 1 year ago me and my family adopted a loveable rescue from our nearest shelter unfortunately he has some problems.
So as stated my family adopted a dog and he has problems which are barking at other dogs not in a vicious way but just in a way of saying hello to dogs that he cannot greet in the... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 5,
"OTHER": 1,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 4
} | AUTHOR | {
"RIGHT": 1,
"WRONG": 5
} | WRONG |
GnIm5cD55aNqNiY2ithBBRA6237WX2ij | avizqk | {
"description": "assuming someone was being racist to me",
"pronormative_score": 11,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for assuming someone was being racist to me? | I work as a lifeguard at a private community centre. We had a regular come in the evenings and we would often talk about hockey and just sports in general. The community centre is mostly used by middle aged to retired Caucasian people.
One day we were discussing Superstars like McDavid,Matthews, Crosby, etc. he was s... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 0,
"OTHER": 9,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 2,
"INFO": 2
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 11,
"WRONG": 0
} | RIGHT |
viCj7MOCINFp1NdHd4ftsWKPR0b7qGpc | 9vlb6p | {
"description": "refusing a girl my notes",
"pronormative_score": 10,
"contranormative_score": 1
} | AITA for refusing a girl my notes? | I'm not that organized as a person, but I started a Google Doc where I recorded all the notes that we took as a class. Now if you knew me, you'd know that I'm not the biggest asshole on the planet, in fact, I usually try to make the morally right choice when it comes to making decisions. However, I have a low tolerance... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 1,
"OTHER": 10,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 10,
"WRONG": 1
} | RIGHT |
SujSAqiZD1lVncIlpPTxOsOAZ4GW97U9 | amyvu4 | {
"description": "not wanting any contact with my mum's brother",
"pronormative_score": 2,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for not wanting any contact with my mum’s brother? | (Sorry this is quite long) Some back story- my mom is really ill, needs near-constant medical care. We live in a different country from her family where the medical facilities are better. For this reason, she usually goes to live with her family for months at a time to get treatment, meet with doctors. Because my dad a... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 0,
"OTHER": 2,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 2,
"WRONG": 0
} | RIGHT |
TrwxuvWAv0Noi9BTCLeN2pGi4XuyfAX6 | acw85c | {
"description": "being a pushover on information about a girl Im dating for 2 months now, not even knowing where she lives exactly",
"pronormative_score": 3,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for being a pushover on information about a girl im dating for 2 months now, not even knowing where she lives exactly. | So I'm (m25) dating this girl(f24) and we are(were??) really into each other (after 1 month she told me she never could imagine getting such strong feelings for a person in such short amount of time) but for the last 3 weeks she's distancing herself from me more and more like avoiding kisses and cuddles. Not telling me... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 0,
"OTHER": 3,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 3,
"WRONG": 0
} | RIGHT |
QBrSEwNReDwo1YAUtcjZktSzAQhI9juO | axoa75 | {
"description": "eating bf's slim Jim's",
"pronormative_score": 3,
"contranormative_score": 17
} | AITA for eating bf’s slim Jim’s? | My bf is a little chubby. Lately he’s been trying out this new diet. He’s only allowed to eat meat and veggies.
We share grocery costs. He has started getting this 200 box of slim Jim’s. He eats them all the time. Usually takes a shit ton of them for work for his lunch.
Last night I was starving and there the... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 15,
"OTHER": 2,
"EVERYBODY": 2,
"NOBODY": 1,
"INFO": 1
} | AUTHOR | {
"RIGHT": 3,
"WRONG": 17
} | WRONG |
WSXRCkyIbuHRJHdiMorJzopyvy0LcjwP | aiqu11 | {
"description": "thinking my GF cheated on me based of a dream",
"pronormative_score": 2,
"contranormative_score": 8
} | AITA for thinking my GF cheated on me based of a dream? | I know I sound like a pussy but let me explain my concern. I have been dating this person for 4 months now and met her at my Home country. She stayed for 3 months and we officially set the "relationship" tag. When she moved back to her home country (which is really far away). She has been going out to clubs and bars, b... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 8,
"OTHER": 0,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 2,
"INFO": 1
} | AUTHOR | {
"RIGHT": 2,
"WRONG": 8
} | WRONG |
8EUNZEqJCVehG6fbJWeNSpXjPIfnZhox | aidm6e | {
"description": "disregarding my dad",
"pronormative_score": 2,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for disregarding my dad? | Throwaway account, so, yeah.
Today was my birthday. I just got two calls from my dad I sent to voicemail.
It's depressing. Really depressing. I hear my kid siblings in the background, and nobody sounds happy. My dad is at the front, sounding at best, bored. And I get left with a sick pit in my stomach.
I haven't ... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 0,
"OTHER": 2,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 2,
"WRONG": 0
} | RIGHT |
HmPf3JBLlfYH8ykKFpwMD1lvWHJuFqbs | asjjlw | {
"description": "not letting my girlfriend read my journal",
"pronormative_score": 12,
"contranormative_score": 1
} | AITA for not letting my girlfriend read my journal? | My girlfriend and I have been on pretty rocky footing since we started dating a little over a month ago (we were best friends for a year before dating). As a little bit of background, she struggles really badly with depression, anxiety, and PTSD. It's been getting worse and worse over the past couple of months and she ... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 1,
"OTHER": 11,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 1,
"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 12,
"WRONG": 1
} | RIGHT |
JOqeK8jo1Gt1bmXCdOwfDPpNMgEm4nVU | a97pgz | {
"description": "wanting to \"end\" things with my high school best friend",
"pronormative_score": 4,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for wanting to “end” things with my high school best friend | Ok so this is kinda a long story. There’s this girl that I’ve know for over ten years, we became friends in elementary school and are both in college rn.
I guess I’d say she’s my best friend from high school but that’s changed — at least in my eyes now. Basically since like the end of high school and up to now (the fi... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 0,
"OTHER": 4,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 4,
"WRONG": 0
} | RIGHT |
m0rrIWBxGiBqaaDwNX4DMYvo1wjezmys | alxsz5 | {
"description": "blowing up at this kid who has been annoying me for years",
"pronormative_score": 1,
"contranormative_score": 3
} | AITA for blowing up at this kid who has been annoying me for years? |
This kid has been annoying me for years.
He has made suggestive comments, offensive jokes, and has invaded my personal space too many times to count. There isn’t much I can do to avoid him as we’re in the same grade and on the same alpine race team. I’m the past I have been nice because he is socially awkwar... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 1,
"OTHER": 1,
"EVERYBODY": 2,
"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 0
} | EVERYBODY | {
"RIGHT": 1,
"WRONG": 3
} | WRONG |
59BWnmGux0z0BAHsfLO1f1CCJWldyVxE | aey6au | {
"description": "asking reddit if my bf r*ped me? kinda tw",
"pronormative_score": 33,
"contranormative_score": 6
} | AITA for asking reddit if my bf r*ped me? Kinda tw | soooooo this was ages ago but I still don't get it. My boyfriend (now ex boyfriend...) and I had a HUGE argument that led to him dumping me and literally never speaking to me again. This was because he found out I had posted to r/ relationships and asked if the first time we had sex was rape or not. He somehow found my... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 3,
"OTHER": 31,
"EVERYBODY": 3,
"NOBODY": 2,
"INFO": 2
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 33,
"WRONG": 6
} | RIGHT |
Y1QvSSBCGL5zVUfvHDMyx8ZDowTrpOHc | apmnyu | {
"description": "telling my girlfriend that fatherhood and motherhood are fundamentally different",
"pronormative_score": 28,
"contranormative_score": 166
} | AITA for telling my girlfriend that fatherhood and motherhood are fundamentally different? | This argument started when my girlfriend and I were laying out our plans for the future, and according to her, she's now rethinking having a future with me at all. I think she's not understanding what I'm saying or is naive about parenthood.
I told her that there's no way when we have children that we will be able to ... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 164,
"OTHER": 18,
"EVERYBODY": 2,
"NOBODY": 10,
"INFO": 5
} | AUTHOR | {
"RIGHT": 28,
"WRONG": 166
} | WRONG |
z9XS9NMd8vm5FtcIyDu9jV8kbUkHoWuO | a6pxkp | {
"description": "browsing through my (now ex) girlfriend discussion board",
"pronormative_score": 1,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA: Browsing through my (now ex) girlfriend discussion board? | The story is quite long. She is attending at a discussion board where is chatting about her interests with her Interweb friends. Of course, I see nothing wrong with that - everyone has friends on the Web, it's XXI century.
But for some time I was realizing a thing - she was sometimes confessing there when we had an a... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 0,
"OTHER": 1,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 1,
"WRONG": 0
} | RIGHT |
O5Dbbr5dwvf5tGslqqyKzNHTkVmD0UBB | 9wh2r6 | {
"description": "being skeptical of medical products from Latin America",
"pronormative_score": 5,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for being skeptical of medical products from Latin America? | My SO has always preferred goods from her home country/latin america. It's not a problem when it's clothing, food, media, etc. However she also orders medical products that are not available in our country. Today she wanted to order a feminine medical product making all types of claims that costs $100 USD. She shows me... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 0,
"OTHER": 5,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 5,
"WRONG": 0
} | RIGHT |
848btyLWytt1TGuZQrGFa2cRiIVnjkEa | 9zwgb4 | {
"description": "rejecting a guy by telling him that I'm gay",
"pronormative_score": 12,
"contranormative_score": 10
} | AITA for rejecting a guy by telling him that I'm gay? | Last week my friend (16 M) had invited me (16 F) to go out with friends. In the past, he has asked me out about three times, and I declined all three times due to timing. I agreed to go because I believed that he was no longer interested in me. We have also known each other since about elementary school.
The day befor... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 6,
"OTHER": 11,
"EVERYBODY": 4,
"NOBODY": 1,
"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 12,
"WRONG": 10
} | RIGHT |
PNGvW8LdBHajpjq4pePtzqjeZ5Xzw1e5 | b1kcgb | {
"description": "asking for a higher pay even though I already agreed to a lower one",
"pronormative_score": 1,
"contranormative_score": 5
} | WIBTA if I asked for a higher pay even though I already agreed to a lower one? | So about a week ago one of my family friends asked me to take care of her dog and 7 parrots (yes, really) starting this evening and ending Sunday morning. Since I'm an absolute dumbass, I agreed to a pay of $30. For the entire weekend.
Basically I'd be staying the night and feeding her parrots (which are all assholes)... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 5,
"OTHER": 1,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 0
} | AUTHOR | {
"RIGHT": 1,
"WRONG": 5
} | WRONG |
PmjNWXZNpiXazhjRZBl4o0gk85uZ3IsV | avdjar | {
"description": "not telling my gf I went to traffic court in july for a speeding ticket",
"pronormative_score": 13,
"contranormative_score": 1
} | AITA because i didnt tell my gf i went to traffic court in july for a speeding ticket? | We are not on any insurance together, or even linked together on anything on paper. No idea how she found out, must of went digging online on her own for some reason. She randomly decided to ask me why I didn't tell her about it this morning the second I opened my eyes from my morning alarm. Wanted to know why it seeme... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 0,
"OTHER": 7,
"EVERYBODY": 1,
"NOBODY": 6,
"INFO": 6
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 13,
"WRONG": 1
} | RIGHT |
1AcqO5PvJvUYaa5GHJhFcSDTcJW6AE14 | b9h1qb | {
"description": "kissing my friends girlfriend",
"pronormative_score": 12,
"contranormative_score": 19
} | AITA for kissing my friends girlfriend? | Title sounds bad, but let me explain. I (19M) was at a party and my friend (Jacob) and his girlfriend were there. This was the first time I met his girlfriend. Another friend brought some molly for a few of us, this was our first time trying it but we were with a couple people who had done it before. Molly makes you ve... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 8,
"OTHER": 8,
"EVERYBODY": 11,
"NOBODY": 4,
"INFO": 1
} | EVERYBODY | {
"RIGHT": 12,
"WRONG": 19
} | WRONG |
3EcDVkWeDKrMtMGo83Wvrhr0W9lq2utO | axi6xj | {
"description": "wanting Kick someone out of our Band",
"pronormative_score": 4,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA For Wanting Kick Someone Out Of Our Band? | I am in a band with some friends and as far as I can tell, 3/5 of us take it seriously, with one other (our bassist) being seemingly a bit less committed and the last (our drummer) who is probably the least committed.
We all seem to enjoy it and at least say we want the band to go somewhere. However, recently we were... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 0,
"OTHER": 4,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 1
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 4,
"WRONG": 0
} | RIGHT |
Tl76iKK8ao2VQvZv1D0mmZX5HDOEolIP | b980pw | {
"description": "telling my girlfriend I don't know what I would do if she was pregnant",
"pronormative_score": 18,
"contranormative_score": 5
} | AITA for telling my girlfriend I don't know what I would do if she was pregnant? | So my girlfriend recently had a pregnancy scare . It was awful and she wasn't doing very well even though I reassured her everyday that she wasn't pregnant because I was absolutely sure there was no way it could have happened. It was just a late period. She refused to take a pregnancy test which could have solved thing... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 2,
"OTHER": 11,
"EVERYBODY": 3,
"NOBODY": 7,
"INFO": 1
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 18,
"WRONG": 5
} | RIGHT |
UaQ4y5LUb0nQRytLlIK4OUg6pF8kiW18 | b1wgok | {
"description": "not telling my partner if I were to sell pictures of my feet online",
"pronormative_score": 1,
"contranormative_score": 6
} | WIBTA to not tell my partner if I were to sell pictures of my feet online | Right, I know it's a bit of a weird situation but I know that I have quite beautiful feet. It's a bit of an annoying part of me to be beautiful, but such is life lol. So I recently found out people pay online for feet pictures and I thought why not, because it's not like normal pictures like that where it could actuall... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 6,
"OTHER": 0,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 1,
"INFO": 0
} | AUTHOR | {
"RIGHT": 1,
"WRONG": 6
} | WRONG |
ziDD4spHXQx6WVMwVUaOgFSdtm3v3ANP | am0gbi | {
"description": "calling the police on my cleaning lady who I caught stealing money after it was recorded on my baby monitor",
"pronormative_score": 6,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for calling the police on my cleaning lady who I caught stealing money after it was recorded on my baby monitor? |
She has been coming every other week for almost 3 years. She is like part of our family. The whole thing is pretty devastating. A few months ago my wife asked me if I had taken $200 cash from an envelope in her desk drawer. I didn't take it. She figured that maybe she had just miscounted at some point. Then a month ag... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 0,
"OTHER": 6,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 6,
"WRONG": 0
} | RIGHT |
KhsUJXxhGXjz7LGQDD6hElfvLejq3NHc | ags895 | {
"description": "faking my orgasms and letting my wife think I am trying to get her pregnant? I honestly don't know if I want kids",
"pronormative_score": 1,
"contranormative_score": 31
} | AITA for faking my orgasms and letting my wife think I am trying to get her pregnant? I honestly don't know if I want kids (elements of NSFW). | I'll keep this short...I love my wife. Like, really, really, really love her. Light of my world, get her flowers on valentines day, watch the bachelor instead of MNF type of love. And I love our life together. We've been married 6 years and she's my Madonna and my Ho and everything in between and I worship the ground t... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 31,
"OTHER": 1,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 0
} | AUTHOR | {
"RIGHT": 1,
"WRONG": 31
} | WRONG |
3Rd3UqlrNnM4RSiN06UQK3DRHsu808zH | 9zkekl | {
"description": "telling my dad to f*ck off",
"pronormative_score": 0,
"contranormative_score": 1
} | AITA for telling my dad to f*ck off? | Okay, okay. Maybe that's a bit of an extreme title but it is what I said. Here's what happened:
I'm a 15 year old who lives with his dad. My mom has been gone for years but I do see her sometimes still. What happened moments ago was I asked my dad for space and to fuck off. Recently, I've been fed up with him and even... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 1,
"OTHER": 0,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 0
} | AUTHOR | {
"RIGHT": 0,
"WRONG": 1
} | WRONG |
XKR7ABxaF0w0meU4DEBbcFg94QOYmp0V | b8m1ow | {
"description": "telling my in laws that I dont want their dogs around my toddler",
"pronormative_score": 16,
"contranormative_score": 3
} | AITA for telling my in laws that I dont want their dogs around my toddler? | My in-laws are crazy about their dogs. They all have big dogs who all jump and nip at hands when you arrive at their houses. I was uncomfortable with them before I got pregnant, then they badly bruised my thighs from jumping and scratching when I was pregnant. I was told when my son was born that the largest dog does n... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 1,
"OTHER": 15,
"EVERYBODY": 2,
"NOBODY": 1,
"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 16,
"WRONG": 3
} | RIGHT |
78BZlmsWbuedf7zxqh6apgqqQ0dlmqC9 | aukv9e | {
"description": "saying that my female cousin's shoulders seem broader with shorter hair",
"pronormative_score": 1,
"contranormative_score": 9
} | AITA for saying that my female cousin's shoulders seem broader with shorter hair? | So, this just literally happens moments ago. Backstory: I am living in another country with my relatives and so know little of them relative to their friends. My female cousin (FC) who's about the same age as me was growing her hair for donation but I didn't know when she would do it.
So, I was about to go shower when... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 9,
"OTHER": 1,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 0
} | AUTHOR | {
"RIGHT": 1,
"WRONG": 9
} | WRONG |
a8FCDXlWoefOmvKKFsZIFhVG5KTgeort | aw5o13 | {
"description": "saying bad things about someone else's paper",
"pronormative_score": 3,
"contranormative_score": 4
} | AITA for saying bad things about someone else's paper? | I am in a class in university that consists of only juniors and seniors. In this class, I sit in the second row all the way to the left. It being a higher level class that doesn't always take attendance, many people decide not to show up to class, so there are often empty seats around me. However, I always sit next to ... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 4,
"OTHER": 3,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 0
} | AUTHOR | {
"RIGHT": 3,
"WRONG": 4
} | WRONG |
hSuMxakBfaZdbIMzdKZUdFCu0WKyQb2q | b8zysc | {
"description": "asking to use refunded money towards something else",
"pronormative_score": 5,
"contranormative_score": 1
} | AITA for asking to use refunded money towards something else? | My wife and I had our honeymoon paid for by my parents as a wedding gift. We were supposed to board the ship this Sunday, 4/7. Sadly, the ship was damaged by a crane during repairs yesterday and the cruise line had to cancel our trip. They gave us 100% refund and a 100% face value voucher for another cruise. We rent a ... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 0,
"OTHER": 2,
"EVERYBODY": 1,
"NOBODY": 3,
"INFO": 0
} | NOBODY | {
"RIGHT": 5,
"WRONG": 1
} | RIGHT |
l3uyDBH8eEzSW7fr715vyfteet2IxJEM | 9yp2nd | {
"description": "arguing with my disabled mother",
"pronormative_score": 2,
"contranormative_score": 3
} | AITA for arguing with my disabled mother | My mother has had ALS for 15 years, and most of the care for her was done by me and my dad. Recently, however, my dad was arrested for abuse and he has completely left our household. We had a hard time with that whole ordeal but now we have quality care for her where all I do now is having to be in the house during sle... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 3,
"OTHER": 2,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 0
} | AUTHOR | {
"RIGHT": 2,
"WRONG": 3
} | WRONG |
sKv4iLT0Nu4xN1vjziyw1HZktqxwa8th | ba78t7 | {
"description": "asking my neighbors to pay for my tetanus shot/broken glasses their dog indirectly caused",
"pronormative_score": 11,
"contranormative_score": 1
} | WIBTA for asking my neighbors to pay for my tetanus shot/broken glasses their dog indirectly caused? | 1st time poster, sorry for being anxious/any mobile format issues.
I’m a short woman who is terrified of big dogs due to bad experiences as a kid. Most ppl see a big dog & go “good boy who’s a good boy!!” & my instinct is to run.
There’s a new dog in my neighborhood. Idk breed/gender but it’s big, black, shor... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 0,
"OTHER": 9,
"EVERYBODY": 1,
"NOBODY": 2,
"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 11,
"WRONG": 1
} | RIGHT |
9rO5IMyAri3w370WLdqzYkpYlcfcijhK | 9wx4eq | {
"description": "avoiding my family",
"pronormative_score": 2,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for avoiding my family? | My family and I were really close growing up but when I moved out of the house when I was 18 to go to college, my parents dropped me off and my stuff and then just left they didn't help me find my dorm they didn't even really say goodbye they just said goodbye and then left.
Later on when I got married at age ... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 0,
"OTHER": 2,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 2,
"WRONG": 0
} | RIGHT |
xPw5fEIvZqDLqYjlbc9u915V8pCLeo6t | a5xcd5 | {
"description": "thinking nobody should wear earbuds in public",
"pronormative_score": 4,
"contranormative_score": 13
} | AITA for thinking nobody should wear earbuds in public? | It is douchey to wear earbuds in public. When you are out an about, people need to talk to you. They need to tell you things like “excuse me, you are in the way,” and “Can I work in?” I really do not want to tap you on the shoulder.
In some situations, public ear buds are not a problem like sitting on a park bench... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 13,
"OTHER": 2,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 2,
"INFO": 0
} | AUTHOR | {
"RIGHT": 4,
"WRONG": 13
} | WRONG |
MN59UdkGUG1ru56PtermdVpF4Oo8Fni0 | asig42 | {
"description": "asking my ride to don't let his cat free on the car",
"pronormative_score": 5,
"contranormative_score": 2
} | WIBTA if i asked my ride to don't let his cat free on the car? | TL;DR: I take a ride with a neighbor every day after work, he takes his cat everywhere and while taking him, let's the cat free on the car. I'm allergic to cats.
My fiancee and me can afford only one car, that she drives because her work is on the other side of town (and in the opposite direction of mine). I take ride... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 2,
"OTHER": 0,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 5,
"INFO": 0
} | NOBODY | {
"RIGHT": 5,
"WRONG": 2
} | RIGHT |
ZJYH7CK42Mtfj1IyRiDUw4x2KjjIRvhy | asyazo | null | AITA boyfriend’s brother lives with us now | AITA ?
A little background: I have lived with my boyfriend for two years now. We’re young immigrants in the US, making it by, studying and working hard and all that bullshit. We’re nice people. Anyway, my country is going through some rough shit (Venezuela) and people are leaving, hence, my boyfriend’s brother is livi... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 0,
"OTHER": 6,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 6,
"WRONG": 0
} | RIGHT |
vLMl5msUNrMgIXn1JiUBfJD1SgrrWvkC | 9v5aup | {
"description": "choosing a game I've been wanting to play over going to a friends house for a week",
"pronormative_score": 6,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for choosing a game I’ve been wanting to play over going to a friends house for a week? | Let me give some context,
Around 2 months ago, I pre-ordered Fallout76. A week from today, it releases. The weekend it releases is also the weekend my friend and I dont have school for 3 days.
Now, obviously I should be going to my friends house cause I could just play the game after the week I’m at his house. Nope, ... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 0,
"OTHER": 6,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 6,
"WRONG": 0
} | RIGHT |
8tufx1wXydFuz7Se0c11zfucEBqtydUv | 9tqoh9 | {
"description": "deciding to make panhandling people earn my help",
"pronormative_score": 0,
"contranormative_score": 4
} | WIBTA If I decided to make panhandling people earn my help? | So I understand that not every person on the street asking for help is a fraud. Some people are indeed struggling in life and could use a helping hand. But in the news I've seen plenty of cases where people who aren't struggling spend the day asking people for money only to be seen driving away in a nice new car at the... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 4,
"OTHER": 0,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 0
} | AUTHOR | {
"RIGHT": 0,
"WRONG": 4
} | WRONG |
OHRPjBjA5fd5LiDRQX4McVjrExrDSJQb | arnpga | {
"description": "refusing to give my ex half of the security deposit",
"pronormative_score": 11,
"contranormative_score": 1
} | AITA for refusing to give my ex half of the security deposit | 4 months ago my ex broke up with me and left the country. She left behind most of her belongings, her two cats, and left me to pay the full amount of the rent. Well the lease is about to be up, and I'm moving to a new place. She is now claiming that I owe her half of the deposit, and I have to pay to send her cats a... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 1,
"OTHER": 11,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 11,
"WRONG": 1
} | RIGHT |
2E52De9GN6gCJAIrH12e6XX2fRfE7gYU | akibwl | {
"description": "not wanting to share my ps4 with my nephew",
"pronormative_score": 3,
"contranormative_score": 3
} | AITA for not wanting to share my PS4 with my nephew? | Okay context.
I bought my own PS4 for christkas last year and added my own info and ganes to it, as such it was was the third PS4 in my house it was connected to the living room TV as I patiently wait for my room to have my very own TV
I got to have the Spider-man PS4 game and played it non-stop and had to pause in ve... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 2,
"OTHER": 3,
"EVERYBODY": 1,
"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 3,
"WRONG": 3
} | RIGHT |
PLiYgk4glBthEfqo7ZsjUcBwCfgttGxJ | 9x8xn8 | {
"description": "not allowing family to see my kids",
"pronormative_score": 23,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for not allowing family to see my kids? | I’ve always had a seriously strained relationship with my mom’s family. Specifically, my moms parents. They were always high on something and always causing unnecessary trouble and drama to anyone they interact with. I’d get into it, but it’s too much to list when it isn’t directly related to the decision to cut them o... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 0,
"OTHER": 22,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 1,
"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 23,
"WRONG": 0
} | RIGHT |
3J7FSiTDqNKQoZdi3FCtABDgibmuJeqN | ao4h4t | {
"description": "wishing my dad was dead",
"pronormative_score": 2,
"contranormative_score": 4
} | AITA for wishing my dad was dead? | I apologize in advance if this is all over the place, I'm writing this as fast as I can between errands.
My dad and I have never had what one would call a healthy relationship. I am 28 and he is 52 and, for as long as I can remember, he has been a liar and a total dick. He and my mom divorced when I was 11 after he ha... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 3,
"OTHER": 2,
"EVERYBODY": 1,
"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 0
} | AUTHOR | {
"RIGHT": 2,
"WRONG": 4
} | WRONG |
ZomEMPmSJci92Yvcrs3UoMb3H4YTXYR0 | b533rm | {
"description": "telling my friends that something they made fun of me about was very sensitive to me",
"pronormative_score": 7,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for telling my friends that something they made fun of me about was very sensitive to me? | one of my friends brought up an extreamely sensitive topic for me, which he knows is a sensitive topic, out of nowhere, hung up, and then told his boyfriend, who he knew would make fun of me about it, and then when he did start to make fun of me i got really mad at my friend and yelled at him(over text btw, in person i... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 0,
"OTHER": 7,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 7,
"WRONG": 0
} | RIGHT |
pKEJ7UbUYaN5kjJfVJGjYv7jpN8hPhTA | b3jqoq | {
"description": "\"snitching\" on my classmate for plagiarizing a few of his essays",
"pronormative_score": 3,
"contranormative_score": 13
} | AITA for “snitching” on my classmate for plagiarizing a few of his essays? | My classmate texted me a week ago asking if he could pay me to write an essay for our class. His chosen topic on the subject was different than mine but I’m sure the professor would’ve noticed similar writing styles. Plus he offered $10 to do it and it is more than $10 of work.
I will say he has become more than just ... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 10,
"OTHER": 3,
"EVERYBODY": 3,
"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 0
} | AUTHOR | {
"RIGHT": 3,
"WRONG": 13
} | WRONG |
Qkrf6eVAHdQt1KDuYrUJdXtuyvECDfqT | b714gl | {
"description": "sending a stranger away",
"pronormative_score": 34,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for sending a stranger away? | To be honest, I really don’t know how to title this one without giving the whole story away so here it goes. My boyfriend (30M) and I (25F) rent a house together in a nice town by the ocean. We have an great landlord that can sometimes be weird but otherwise he is a good guy. The other day I was home alone, smoking so... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 0,
"OTHER": 34,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 34,
"WRONG": 0
} | RIGHT |
A2gJzcp1yi9YMBGRrJ2OKFC254E0Zs56 | axoko6 | {
"description": "wanting my dad to send me the $100 I'm entitled to",
"pronormative_score": 2,
"contranormative_score": 2
} | AITA For wanting my dad to send me the $100 I'm entitled to? | So a little bit of back story, I currently live with my mum after living with my dad for the first 14 years of my life, and because of the custody battle my dad made me go through just to live with mum, my relationship with him has definitely dwindled quite a bit. I am also living away from home as I am attending the s... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 1,
"OTHER": 2,
"EVERYBODY": 1,
"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 1
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 2,
"WRONG": 2
} | RIGHT |
f7dBUUSNyFAARQeG97MFVHsxBQV3arm8 | avmszx | {
"description": "having all of my sisters in my wedding party, except for one",
"pronormative_score": 13,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | WIBTA if I have all of my sisters in my wedding party, except for one? | So I’m getting married, yay! But with weddings there always comes tough decisions and drama. I have 3 sisters, 2 of which I am close to and will definitely be in the bridal party along with 2 cousins I’m close with.
Some background on my relationship with my third sister... it has never been good. All throughout my li... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 0,
"OTHER": 13,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 13,
"WRONG": 0
} | RIGHT |
x4TdVd3JHr0tEhF6aShzbmn4hlsIy7IW | b023r4 | {
"description": "not caring that my family doesn't invite me to stuff",
"pronormative_score": 5,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for not caring that my family doesn't invite me to stuff? | AITA for not caring that my family doesn't invite me to stuff?
A little back story. My uncle was the glue that held my family together after he died we kind of scattered to the wind. The family tries to keep it together by meeting up for holidays and some birthday and the rare "just because" weekend.
The problem is ... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 0,
"OTHER": 5,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 5,
"WRONG": 0
} | RIGHT |
zt21zf912iGVJ0VuQI76tVPHfgAN3k0U | appelo | {
"description": "banging my exes best friend after we broke up",
"pronormative_score": 5,
"contranormative_score": 2
} | AITA For banging my exes best friend after we broke up | Backstory me and my ex dated for about 2 months never had sex or anything she completely randomly calls me crying says she cheated on me and we obviously then break up. Fast forward about 2 months and I match with her on a dating site again but on this dating site there's private pictures, here's the [convo] (https://i... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 0,
"OTHER": 5,
"EVERYBODY": 2,
"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 5,
"WRONG": 2
} | RIGHT |
KYpXIzXdEBgkBNe6x5FMUG3pWDMfs7Sc | agmlrw | {
"description": "telling my roommate his friend can't stay in his room when no one else is in the house",
"pronormative_score": 5,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for telling my roommate his friend can’t stay in his room when no one else is in the house? | Hi all,
So we’re all about 24 years old and live in a major city. This is a 5-bedroom house with 5 people in it. It’s a bit cramped, but we manage. I’ve lived here for about 2 years now. This dude, not named Justin, moved in about six months ago. He’s okay. He’s kind of an asshole. Like nothing *bad*, just one of thos... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 0,
"OTHER": 5,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 5,
"WRONG": 0
} | RIGHT |
9hzPgEZsRi9ZOu4XcZtt5zAsqYVdW0pd | a860pj | {
"description": "wanting my girlfriend to tell me when she has to go somewhere",
"pronormative_score": 7,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for wanting my girlfriend to tell me when she has to go somewhere? | My girlfriend will regularly leave to go do something for 3 or 4 hours while texting me, with no warning, and will simply answer a few hours later as if nothing had happened.
I understand that she has her own schedule, and don’t want to be controlling or even know where she’s going. I’d simply like her to tell me whe... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 0,
"OTHER": 3,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 4,
"INFO": 0
} | NOBODY | {
"RIGHT": 7,
"WRONG": 0
} | RIGHT |
WBQNPAI0b8EguPS07rGo6qY0t93MUQyb | ba1l9e | {
"description": "getting special meals every day",
"pronormative_score": 12,
"contranormative_score": 1
} | AITA for getting special meals every day? | I have a problem with my stomach that is basically really bad heartburn. I get it literally every day if I don't take my medication and there was a year when I could barely sleep because my stomach hurt so badly. My doctor told me to avoid tomatoes, peppers, anything spicy, anything fried, chocolate, fatty meats, and a... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 1,
"OTHER": 12,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 12,
"WRONG": 1
} | RIGHT |
CtGG73RWpoCzsJ38tUuqOGt5RLkAzwG8 | akbzwx | {
"description": "calling out a girl for being rude on her birthday",
"pronormative_score": 5,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for calling out a girl for being rude on her Birthday? |
Alot of context is needed, myself and 16 others went on an exchange to Malaysia for a month through University. The girl in question, lets call her Sarah and the best way to describe her is 'stereotypical privileged white girl from Australia'. She wasn't that awful at first, but things started to go sour when I decide... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 0,
"OTHER": 5,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 5,
"WRONG": 0
} | RIGHT |
GzfnFnGdieYqykaJHpPB0YdRAamVeu2O | a19kzq | null | AITA even if I’m trying not to be? | Ok so sorry for such a vague question.
Basically I’m on a plane right now, a 14.5 hour flight from HKG to EWR. I’m in an aisle seat.
At the start of the flight I thought I’d try some games, solitaire and bejeweled, and while playing the second one the girl in front turned around and asked me to stop tapping so hard... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 0,
"OTHER": 5,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 1,
"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 6,
"WRONG": 0
} | RIGHT |
uvi9b9rlZJKK17nwtyo1rcr65Ls6YTeG | b8de16 | {
"description": "saying no when a girl asked if she was prettier than another girl",
"pronormative_score": 8,
"contranormative_score": 3
} | AITA for saying no when a girl asked if she was prettier than another girl? | This was all happening through chat.
So, I was chatting with a girl, let's call her Anne. Just a friend. She mentions another girl, let's call her Brenda, asking if I was interested in Brenda. I said no, but that I was interested in someone else, tho she wasn't as pretty as Brenda. (I felt the need to say this bec the... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 1,
"OTHER": 8,
"EVERYBODY": 2,
"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 8,
"WRONG": 3
} | RIGHT |
WKumPd3f53ZMaomJkTLtp8B10vvygV88 | 9yy4pk | {
"description": "moving out of state to get further away from my in-laws",
"pronormative_score": 5,
"contranormative_score": 1
} | AITA for moving out of state to get further away from my in-laws? | My in laws are very religious and legalistic. They’ve disliked me ever since my wife and I moved out of state several years ago, and we started going to a less conservative church (still Protestant, but it had drums and a guitar, so they didn’t like it). They told us many times that we should go to a real church, and c... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 1,
"OTHER": 5,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 5,
"WRONG": 1
} | RIGHT |
SLdHwgGuP71TNN5P0GOJTTFArOoOH30V | b7ozea | null | AITA friend told me his yes ment maybe | e=me
Friend=cy
Background:
I've CY for a while, last year CY promised to play football for our school with me but bailed when it came time. CY is a pretty lazy person and he has some social problems (I'm his only decent friend)
A couple of days ago CY brought up that he had been running a mile every night which I w... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 0,
"OTHER": 4,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 1,
"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 5,
"WRONG": 0
} | RIGHT |
xURPI4jTJ4SWIRIF8MoF7GafKntbxzEA | adletf | {
"description": "not wanting to hang out with my best friend anymore",
"pronormative_score": 7,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for not wanting to hang out with my best friend anymore | My best friend Jen [F24] and I [M25] have known each other since middle school and then went to the same high school and university. Jen has become fully part of my family and I've become a part of hers. We go to family events and she's even good friends with my brother and sisters. I've always been relatively single a... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 0,
"OTHER": 6,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 1,
"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 7,
"WRONG": 0
} | RIGHT |
UJyKRHjQBVkXyq3CqNmvWUWo9QQ1kf9X | akrn2i | {
"description": "feeling like my relationship with my boyfriend is being disrespected by his friends",
"pronormative_score": 6,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for feeling like my relationship with my boyfriend is being disrespected by his friends? | BF and I have been together for 3 years, living together for most of that time. When we met he was going to bars with 3 of his friends (also roommates at the time) 4 or 5 times a week, getting hammered and trying to pick up girls. Well, I'm an introvert and when I came around that slowed down immensely. BF is almost 30... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 0,
"OTHER": 6,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 1
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 6,
"WRONG": 0
} | RIGHT |
PUsPNdk5iplZNQwbvOl6hzlRLPnDGedy | ak4ym5 | {
"description": "reporting my coworker for making crude jokes",
"pronormative_score": 6,
"contranormative_score": 2
} | AITA for reporting my coworker for making crude jokes? | My coworker kept making random gay/sexist jokes and I’ve never told him to stop, which is on me, I would just laugh or walk away. Then he started to up his rude meter. He kept going on about how he knows the manager and that’s how he got the job. How he can basically do whatever he wants because he’s not going to get f... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 1,
"OTHER": 6,
"EVERYBODY": 1,
"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 6,
"WRONG": 2
} | RIGHT |
YpbJITjSGAyTa6WYVKnORrGyunopg3N3 | ay6fzz | {
"description": "inviting my family to watch a movie with me and my girlfriend",
"pronormative_score": 1,
"contranormative_score": 5
} | AITA for inviting my family to watch a movie with me and my girlfriend? | Me(23) and my girlfriend (22) were going to watch our second Netflix movie of the day and I know she usually doesn't like to watch movies with my family, mainly romantic ones(for obvious reasons). So then I ask her if she would be okay with me inviting my family to watch the movie. We discussed it a little bit and... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 5,
"OTHER": 0,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 1,
"INFO": 0
} | AUTHOR | {
"RIGHT": 1,
"WRONG": 5
} | WRONG |
OQTCjg14J6T6IUx1k0rET5jaUCHiObfk | aa529z | {
"description": "being upset that my girlfriend beat the level I badly wanted to play in Mario Odyssey knowing that it's already my favorite new game",
"pronormative_score": 5,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for being upset that my girlfriend beat the level I badly wanted to play in Mario Odyssey knowing that it's already my favorite new game? | Pretty low impact one here but I thought reddit might enjoy it. My girlfriend, her mom, and my mom teamed up to get me a Nintendo Switch and Mario Odyssey for Christmas! Super surprised, I was wanting one bad and hunting down good deals with no luck. Very grateful for that. We've been playing it a bunch since getting i... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 0,
"OTHER": 5,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 5,
"WRONG": 0
} | RIGHT |
3fDbhuqyeFK0nOtkHlpB6U2UbHCRGO1N | ahsrae | {
"description": "not doing a favor that was not asked for rather expected of me",
"pronormative_score": 7,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for not doing a favor that was not asked for rather expected of me? | For context, I live with 3 other roommates. I moved into my current apartment only 3 months ago. May be I can call them friends in future, but we are not there just yet. And one of them, let's call "A", is good but we just don't really vibe with each other.
"A" recently got scammed and started getting really paranoid... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 0,
"OTHER": 7,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 7,
"WRONG": 0
} | RIGHT |
gx0nW3e17KVz3o0ywAEtYR8MKY1or37t | aqzxzk | {
"description": "giving my friend an ultimatum",
"pronormative_score": 9,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for giving my friend an ultimatum | AITA: My best friend has been taking an illicit drug for the past few months. I've shared my disapproval and advised her to stop, but I have no control over her life. On Saturday, she was at a party, had way too many and drank way too much and got really fucked up. I wasnt at the partybut from what I can piece together... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 0,
"OTHER": 7,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 2,
"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 9,
"WRONG": 0
} | RIGHT |
pZVF0mR0uhi3TFCs3h5aCwvftPhfvSPu | avmm75 | {
"description": "getting a kid kicked out of high school in freshman year",
"pronormative_score": 6,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for getting a kid kicked out of high school in freshman year? | The likes of ‘sorry for bad formatting, on mobile’! This has been weighing down on me. I am f. My high school is very hard to get into since you have to audition.
In freshman year of high school there was this kid we’ll call G. G is a very flirtatious kid that was in the same grade as me. We randomly said hi whenever ... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 0,
"OTHER": 6,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 6,
"WRONG": 0
} | RIGHT |
u9vNziTdcl8CDtIyXHD0AJXA2ZFNWFji | anjqj4 | {
"description": "telling my boyfriend if he doesn't stop playing video games then I'm leaving him",
"pronormative_score": 52,
"contranormative_score": 11
} | AITA for telling my boyfriend if he doesn’t stop playing video games then I’m leaving him? | Okay to preface, we have a four month old daughter. My boyfriend [27M] is in school full time right now, and I am on maternity leave.
For the last couple years, we’ve been arguing over the frequency in which he plays video games. I’ve often felt as though I take a back burner position to his games, and am often told... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 6,
"OTHER": 50,
"EVERYBODY": 5,
"NOBODY": 2,
"INFO": 3
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 52,
"WRONG": 11
} | RIGHT |
hCNATIkOeg3CW4dq3CBr7gvnLJpXpkyQ | a0j4dy | {
"description": "being fed up with the way I was treated and losing my friends",
"pronormative_score": 0,
"contranormative_score": 1
} | AITA for being fed up with the way I was treated and losing my friends? | Thanks to my personality, I never had a good amount of friends. I don't remember having a good number of pleasurable experiences in the time I was a school, either, so any time I had a good conversation with someone, I was pretty glad.
I was bullied a lot...for a number of reasons. It eventually stopped and I ended up... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 1,
"OTHER": 0,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 0
} | AUTHOR | {
"RIGHT": 0,
"WRONG": 1
} | WRONG |
gLNZyWdaI72pWRtYg1mXlg7sJ0LLUkRg | a98fx5 | {
"description": "not visiting my sick grandma",
"pronormative_score": 2,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for not visiting my sick grandma? | I absolutely hate the holidays for many reasons- my brother and I can’t stand each other, my family lives about 7 hours away, I have nothing in common with most of them, big dinners always bring back my eating disorder, the list goes on.
As usual my mom and brother will be visiting my grandparents and extended family... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 0,
"OTHER": 2,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 2,
"WRONG": 0
} | RIGHT |
RrfYCa8ZzCZeZfjJzAzh1hSddvveGB8r | b97lvx | {
"description": "calling 911 on a black man",
"pronormative_score": 269,
"contranormative_score": 11
} | AITA for calling 911 on a black man? | I’m a female college student with two other female roommates, one of whom was away on a trip and the other asleep.
I woke up to pee and had trouble falling back asleep at around 2:00AM I went into the kitchen for a snack. I saw a man looking in my window.
Not, like, looking in from the street—totally pressed up aga... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 8,
"OTHER": 259,
"EVERYBODY": 3,
"NOBODY": 10,
"INFO": 2
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 269,
"WRONG": 11
} | RIGHT |
hnaevC62DMB6YyiWRi1zrO813NoBKUtg | aytnvi | {
"description": "not wanting to pay for my gas",
"pronormative_score": 19,
"contranormative_score": 20
} | AITA for not wanting to pay for my gas? | This happened years ago but I still think about it. I always went to this gas station in my town, and it was usually pretty busy. Whenever I would go to any gas station, I would go inside, prepay with a twenty dollar bill, and then pump my gas. At every gas station I've been to, the pump shuts off when it hits the prep... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 20,
"OTHER": 14,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 5,
"INFO": 2
} | AUTHOR | {
"RIGHT": 19,
"WRONG": 20
} | WRONG |
el8Kd1zvR2CfKVZfavQR0gObCazt7OdG | alog8c | null | AITA | Ok, so I was thinking about something that I did a few years ago. I'm don't remember every little detail, but I'll try and remember as much as I can. I'm not going to try and put the person in a negative light because I don't want to make this bias, which will be hard.
I think I was 13 and I used to take the bus to sc... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 0,
"OTHER": 2,
"EVERYBODY": 1,
"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 1
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 2,
"WRONG": 1
} | RIGHT |
32rZCzjPxR4rrdMcy1IJLcj4ayDcROjR | b554cw | null | WIBTA if me and my family moved out of the state? (Super long) | We are inbetween moving to north Florida or Oklahoma City. DH's company has places in both areas. (If anyone could give an idea on OKC thatd be great lol)
I'm tired of my family's crap and constant belief they can depend on me for every little thing. Something goes bad, call justbrowsing. Some one needs something cal... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 0,
"OTHER": 3,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 3,
"WRONG": 0
} | RIGHT |
fiaqqcCmQHWH0iF5AjQf29mvKEot5OfP | asxh2v | {
"description": "not forcing my son to hang out with another kid",
"pronormative_score": 11,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for not forcing my son to hang out with another kid? | My son started a new school last year (grade 4) and quickly made friends with a couple of kids one being the kid (a girl so I will call her the girl) he no longer hangs out with.
When the first met my son and the girl got a long great they'd hang out with another boy after class and all was good. Near the end of the y... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 0,
"OTHER": 11,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 11,
"WRONG": 0
} | RIGHT |
I0ZY1Enkf5W3D5t94HpXw7pqJPIwwJDi | ap01jf | {
"description": "wanting my friend to loose a lot of money",
"pronormative_score": 2,
"contranormative_score": 6
} | AITA for wanting my friend to loose a lot of money | He’s 16 and shows off thousands of $ everyday which he says is his. People who are less fortunate then get the most shit. If someone who was more money then him comes up he’ll just ignore them. I want him to loose a lot of money so he’s not like this in the future AITA? | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 5,
"OTHER": 2,
"EVERYBODY": 1,
"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 0
} | AUTHOR | {
"RIGHT": 2,
"WRONG": 6
} | WRONG |
qkUJDH3tdVtcVnkxMQm7ozyqpMVmbMY3 | a7mqh4 | {
"description": "not returning a Refund to my roommates from utilities",
"pronormative_score": 1,
"contranormative_score": 5
} | WIBTA If I Didn’t Return a Refund to my Roommates from Utilities? | This is my first post, sorry for mobile formatting!
I live with my GF, her sister, and one other person in a reasonably nice apartment. For whatever reason, none of them are very responsible and particularly not responsible with bills and utilities. This is only the second time that I’ve ever lived in a place that ha... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 2,
"OTHER": 1,
"EVERYBODY": 3,
"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 0
} | EVERYBODY | {
"RIGHT": 1,
"WRONG": 5
} | WRONG |
3LXOfuPsCrtYmWwd18WL9z1PzoPrVqOd | auasre | {
"description": "farting in 7th grade and blaming it on the resident dipshit",
"pronormative_score": 0,
"contranormative_score": 2
} | AITA for farting in 7th grade and blaming it on the resident dipshit? | When I was in 7th grade, there was this fellow, we'll call him Z. Z was a strange fellow. He had freckles, ginger hair, and had this weird accent when he spoke that sounded like it was German or Eastern European. He would frequently tell people to "shut up" even if what they said had no bearing on his existence, and he... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 0,
"OTHER": 0,
"EVERYBODY": 2,
"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 0
} | EVERYBODY | {
"RIGHT": 0,
"WRONG": 2
} | WRONG |
SWHlEt5CDZ4sWag94TA7zdnDFyBEcDsB | aq999o | {
"description": "not playing a $60 game my friend bought me without asking if I wanted it",
"pronormative_score": 12,
"contranormative_score": 1
} | AITA for not playing a $60 game my friend bought me without asking if I wanted it? | To preface, my friend and I are mostly over this. We both think the other’s wrong, but we’ve moved past it. Here’s the story
I was over at a friends house and we were just kind of chilling and playing video games. We go on a walk and on the walk he basically decides “I’m going to make you play my favorite game of all ... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 0,
"OTHER": 10,
"EVERYBODY": 1,
"NOBODY": 2,
"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 12,
"WRONG": 1
} | RIGHT |
2ai2IPEZ4A8HUICaOWDsO7HeDDaWr1Sm | avxjlq | {
"description": "not tipping delivery driver when I assumed the delivery fee was going to him",
"pronormative_score": 10,
"contranormative_score": 2
} | AITA for not tipping delivery driver when I assumed the delivery fee was going to him? | So I've been using this app for a while but only recently have they added big fees on delivery. Since this is my first time ordering from this restaurant, I noticed that the delivery fee was $6.00 which I thought was pretty high for $18.00 worth of food. I assumed the delivery fee was going to the driver, so I didn't t... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 2,
"OTHER": 7,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 3,
"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 10,
"WRONG": 2
} | RIGHT |
HGAg4uEa402ydE9b0znvW9vgi2znUNdi | a4idg1 | {
"description": "telling my gf she is being sexually selfish",
"pronormative_score": 19,
"contranormative_score": 7
} | AITA for telling my gf she is being sexually selfish | 22M here, I’ve been with my gf (21F) for almost a year now. Rewind to a month ago or so, I came over to hang out and we were making out a little and eventually she decided she wanted to use her vibrator. She uses it and when she’s done, states she’s tired and lays down to fall asleep. I let her know that I’d prefer if ... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 7,
"OTHER": 15,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 4,
"INFO": 4
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 19,
"WRONG": 7
} | RIGHT |
ZdjtclH6u6HrrtayRzZiBLSyFk5fL2rd | akj1j3 | {
"description": "asking cousin to return Christmas present",
"pronormative_score": 5,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | WIBTA If I asked cousin to return Christmas present? | Hi! I'm not trying to sound ungrateful or anything because I am grateful for the things she has gotten me! She has gotten me a few items from a Google Home to some collectibles from a Game Dev convention, however there is one item that she has gotten me that I can't see myself using and don't think I ever will.
She g... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 0,
"OTHER": 3,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 2,
"INFO": 1
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 5,
"WRONG": 0
} | RIGHT |
Subsets and Splits
No community queries yet
The top public SQL queries from the community will appear here once available.