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{ "description": "telling a dude I've been \"talking to\" that I am also \"talking to\" other guys", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA because I told a dude I’ve been “talking to” that I am also “talking to” other guys?
I’m on a few dating sites and am talking to a few guys that I’m sort of interested in. Have hit it off with a few but still have yet to go on any official dates yet. And I’m not looking to rush into anything super serious with any of them so soon. One of the guys seems to think that I shouldn’t be texting the other g...
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{ "description": "getting mad at a friend entering my house unannounced", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for getting mad at a friend entering my house unannounced?
Earlier today one of my friends left his car in the street in front of my house and I drove him to the train station. He caught a ride back with his gf and they were gonna stop by and pick up his car. But he text me saying how my dads gf is probably terrified because he just walked in like it was his house. His reasoni...
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{ "description": "having to be drunk to have sex with my fwb", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for having to be drunk to have sex with my FWB.
I met this girl with a great personality and who is really into me. Though she is so wonderful on the inside, she has a lot of physical abnormalities that I wont go into, but are not turn ons for me. I have to get at least more than tipsy just to get my dick up because or her body. She found out and is really self cons...
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{ "description": "siding with my friend who cheated on their ex", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for siding with my friend who cheated on their ex(who is also my friend)
Hello, I'm posting from mobile so an early apology for any errors. Also no tdlr because there's really no way to sum this up cleanly. To start I'd like to describe my two friends here. A, is a former close friend of my sister who I've known for over 10 years but only really got close to around 5 years ago. The type o...
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{ "description": "being frustrated at slow replies", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for being frustrated at slow replies
there is this girl i've been talking to for a while now and its been made clear that we both feel the same way about each other, but haven't made anything official yet. i really am wanting to see her this weekend, but it's fucking impossible to make any plans with her because she takes SO long to get back to my message...
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{ "description": "not wanting my best friend to apply to the same job", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for not wanting my best friend to apply to the same job?
(Sorry if my English is bad.) AITA for not wanting my best friend to go and apply for the same job as me? A couple of weeks ago I applied for this job because I'm looking for something to make a little money on the side while still studying. It pays pretty well and is very close to where I live. Before going in for...
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{ "description": "walking into my flatmate's room while she was having sex and refusing to leave", "pronormative_score": 159, "contranormative_score": 342 }
AITA for walking into my flatmate's room while she was having sex and refusing to leave?
I (20M) live in a flat with 5 others at university. There is one girl (20F), who's a bit of a...problem She always brings guys back and has loud audible sex with them. Very loud. And it annoys all of us, we have early starts in the morning and well tell her to keep it down but she doesn't listen. We told security and ...
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{ "description": "being angry at a newly wed couple (strangers) for ditching their anxiety ridden dog on me and ruining my weekend", "pronormative_score": 17, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being angry at a newly wed couple (strangers) for ditching their anxiety ridden dog on me and ruining my weekend?
A couple that live on my street have a dog that is an escape artist. A female staffy cross something that has severe anxiety issues. Friday morning their dog escaped again and ended up getting into my house while I was at work and my wife was at home. She calls the neighbours who ask if she can keep the dog in our hous...
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{ "description": "having old pictures of an ex on my facebook", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for having old pictures of an ex on my facebook?
Hey all, First of all I'll preface this with the fact that this is obviously a throwaway, and that my girlfriend is not generally a jealous person at all which is why I'm wondering if IATA. So last night I was talking to my girlfriend of 5 years in a pretty general fashion, she had just seen a movie with our housem...
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AITA for leaving?
So here’s how my afternoon goes right, I get a call from my partner asking if I can come over tonight and spend the night, so I bus there walk my happy ass over to their work as they get off at 10:00PM we go to their house hang for a little bit and I fall asleep for like 45 mins and they wake me up getting all mad at m...
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{ "description": "not wanting my boyfriend to be around someone he cheated on me with", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For not wanting my boyfriend to be around someone he cheated on me with?
Alright, so the title is a longer one because I couldn't figure out how exactly to summarize it in less text. So now for some context. Last summer I received an absolutely spectacular opportunity to get a job working for a family member away from home, and as I don't travel often, the legal age of work is lower in my ...
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{ "description": "kicking people off the debate team", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for kicking people off the debate team
So this year I became president of my school's debate team. And I know, it may sound like I'm taking high school debate a bit too seriously. Still, debate is my passion, and I'd like to see my team go far. However, only four people got to state, and only one person, yours truly, was able to make it to nationals last ye...
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AITA for my male friends liking me?
I feel like an asshole for assuming my male friends like me. But I get the sense sometimes and I think it's the bigger dick move to lead someone on than to assume they like you. I have a really friendly personality and I feel like it gets misconstrued a lot. I'm wondering if I should only be friends with women. It woul...
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{ "description": "masturbating over pictures of my friends", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 9 }
AITA for masturbating over pictures of my friends?
Exactly what it says in the title. I have a specific turn-on that involves masturbating to pictures of my cute, young (18+) female friends. Obviously, they do not know about this, nor do I tell them. These pictures are saved from publicly available sites (FB, insta, etc). AITA for this?
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{ "description": "wanting to quit my job because I find my boss narcissistic & arrogant", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting to quit my job because I find my boss narcissistic & arrogant?
I have worked at my current job for two years now. Over the last couple of months, I have cared less and less about it. I’ve been taking sick days just to avoid having to deal with my boss. I work in the marketing department as a trainee with the marketing coordinator, officer and the project leader. I have no proble...
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AITA Girlfriend Kissed A Guy
Here is the link to Imgur of the conversation [https://imgur.com/a/ISARCUw](https://imgur.com/a/ISARCUw), her name is blurred out for her own value cause fuck the internet and how it deals with women, my name I don't give a shit about so have fun with that. My girlfriend had an awful week, like truly truly terrible...
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{ "description": "throwing EX's stuff away", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for throwing EX's stuff away
AITA Last January my then SO lost her job and moved in with me. We were together for about 3 months and then broke up. She moved out in one day and left a bunch of clothes, home décor, and a big box of pictures and scrap books. She told me she would have her mother pick it up next time she was in town. That was in Marc...
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{ "description": "listening to my iPod while I go shopping", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I listen to my iPod while I go shopping?
This is my first day off since December 2nd and I need to finish my Christmas shopping. I feel kinda gross today (overindulged a Little last night) and I’m so worn out from work that I just don’t want to people today. WIBTA if I tuned everyone and everything out by listening to my iPod while shopping today?
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{ "description": "calling a girl 'dense'", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for calling a girl 'dense'? (Not mentally, physically.)
I know that 'dense' can mean 'dumb', but it was clear from context that wasn't how I meant it. I don't remember how the conversation lead up to it, but a girl told me how much she weighed. I remember being surprised because it was higher than I expected, so I said "Really? You must be dense!" and of course she got off...
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{ "description": "accidentally getting my friend in trouble with his girlfriend", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for accidentally getting my friend in trouble with his girlfriend?
Recently one of my friend's girlfriends came to town and a few of us went out to hang out and get drinks, note that this friend does not live in my town, so he was not present at this hangout. I will call this friend the 'boyfriend' and his girlfriend just the 'girlfriend'. During this hangout, we spent some time shar...
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{ "description": "being in my brother's room alone with his girlfriend", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for being in my brother's room alone with his girlfriend?
Just as the title states, I was in brother's room, just talking and sharing food with his girlfriend (we're all really close and I was wondering what her opinion on the food I made was, so I gave her some). We have a big German Shepherd that likes to jump and act wild, so I closed the door so he wouldn't jump on her an...
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{ "description": "ignoring my ex gf", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA if I ignored my ex gf?
So I recently went through a breakup (few months ago). We were together for more than a year. It wasn’t a bad breakup, but it came out of nowhere for me. So she originally told me the reason for breaking up was because she’s “going through a lot of stuff.” I should’ve known that wasn’t true. I later found out through...
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{ "description": "letting my mom steal a girls phone", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for letting my mom steal a girls phone?
This happened 5 years ago. I was 9 at Macy’s with my mom, sister, and grandma visiting Houston to see my moms side of the family. We went to target and while my mom was shopping she overheard a girl missing her iPhone 4S in the store. I found the phone within minutes and showed my mom then she put it in her purse. I t...
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{ "description": "stealing my neighbors dog", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for stealing my neighbors dog?
About 12 months ago my downstairs neighbor bought a puppy and she would put pics of her with the dog online everyday saying how cute he was and all this bullshit. I know it was bullshit cause she could be heard shouting at him during the day and would lock him out the back most days even in the rain. So fast forward to...
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{ "description": "installing a lock on my bedroom door, and keeping it locked when I'm not there", "pronormative_score": 48, "contranormative_score": 40 }
AITA for installing a lock on my bedroom door, and keeping it locked when I'm not there?
My wife has a nasty habit of biting her nails. And she's not super on top of keeping her hands washed. I like to eat handfuls of shredded cheese as a snack. My wife will take my bag of cheese out of the fridge and stick her unwashed hand into my cheese, **immediately** after taking her fingers out of her mouth. T...
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{ "description": "expecting family who comes to visit our 3 month old to help us around the house as well", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 19 }
AITA for expecting family who comes to visit our 3 month old to help us around the house as well
This is more of are we the assholes as my wife and I are on the same page here. We have a 3 month old who is the only grand child on my side of the family, and the only one in the state on hers, so we have a lot of family looking to come and visit frequently. Our families live 1-2 hours away so it’s usually more like ...
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{ "description": "not feeling sorry for everyone with loads and loads of student debt", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for not feeling sorry for everyone with loads and loads of student debt?
At some point, you have to know what it means when you say, "Yes, please let me borrow that next $10,000. And the next. And the next." I've seen how shitty loan servicing companies are and I know no one expected that (my wife is dealing with Navient, but her loan was only about $8k). If it were between a) signing up fo...
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{ "description": "not wanting to hang out with my aunt and uncle", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not wanting to hang out with my aunt and uncle ?
So a bit of backstory I've (25M) always been close with my aunt who is my mom's sister. My aunt has always been the cool one and the same with her husband. They both are really cool and love to drink/party, which is fine and during family get together's i'm always hanging out with them having a drink and even doing sho...
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{ "description": "asking someone to move their shopping cart", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for asking someone to move their shopping cart?
So I just left a grocery store at the same time as another group of people, and our cars were right next to eachother. They were standing inbetween my car and theirs talking with the cart, and i said excuse me to them so that I could open my door to get it, but they didn't hear me, so I opened it as much as I could wit...
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{ "description": "trying to evade this dangerous situation by physically splitting up", "pronormative_score": 19, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for trying to evade this dangerous situation by physically splitting up?
Hi, Just yesterday I was out with my girlfriend and our puppy and we stumbled upon 3 moose about 100-200 yards away standing in a tight group. They were all facing us (clearly having seen us) and me being unsure if I can trust our puppy to stay calm and collected and not potentially make the moose feel territorial and...
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{ "description": "breaking up with my girlfriend 3 days before her birthday", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for breaking up with my girlfriend 3 days before her birthday?
Context: my(15m) now ex-girlfriend(15f) and I have been together for months. She used to tease me alot by being with other guys and have her arms on their shoulders. It would always hurt me but at the end of the day i always forgive her. But what broke the camel's back was yesterday when she was doing that with one of...
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{ "description": "getting mad at my husband", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for getting mad at my husband?
On this particular day, someone came by to inspect our furnaces. They entered the front door which goes from the living room, through the dining room, to the kitchen, and on down to the basement. When my husband got home that afternoon, he looked at the couch in the living room and said "didn't you even bother to str...
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{ "description": "not wanting to go on a trip with my girlfriend", "pronormative_score": 15, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For not wanting to go on a trip with my girlfriend?
So I’ve been dating this girl for about a year and a half. I really like her. Today she proposed we go on a trip to Disney world. I would have gone but I have a lot going on In my life right now with college and paying rent. I told her I didn’t really want to go because of the reasons stated above. She told me I am ...
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{ "description": "walking into a business, knowing I won't be purchasing anything, but simply asking for a small service so I can take my business elsewhere", "pronormative_score": 29, "contranormative_score": 8 }
AITA for walking into a business, knowing I won't be purchasing anything, but simply asking for a small service so I can take my business elsewhere?
I'm getting married in June. My soon to be father-in-law lives out of town in a larger city and is helping me get suits for myself and the groomsmen. He just needs my measurements help get the right size suit. Today I walked into a local suit shop and asked an employee if they could take my measurements. I thi...
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{ "description": "not being attracted to my wife now that she's gained weight", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 35 }
AITA for not being attracted to my wife now that she’s gained weight?
My wife has gained 15 maybe 20 pounds recently. We’re high school sweethearts and when I fell in love with her she was a 90 pound cheerleader. I knew when we reached our 60’s she might put on a few pounds, but I thought we still had a lot of good years left. I’ve tried to encourage her to resume her more active lif...
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{ "description": "telling my friend that the girl he likes is an asshole", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for telling my friend that the girl he likes is an asshole?
So, a couple of months ago i started to date this girl, let's name her Suzie Q. When i broke up with her, this friend of us started flirting with her. Eventually, he said to me that Suzie Q was making him feel sad, and he told me that she was deluding him over and over again. I told him that she did the same to me, and...
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{ "description": "taking on a new job, leaving my boss after they've helped me", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I take on a new job, leaving my boss after they've helped me?
My current job is pretty simple, I have 17 years of experience in the industry. I have 2 co-workers whom I don't dislike, but don't get along with. 1 of them is a manager, he steals from the register (boss keeps him on the job because he's a friend and they feel sorry for him) and tries to borrow money from our vendors...
HYPOTHETICAL
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{ "description": "kissing a girl", "pronormative_score": 18, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for kissing a girl?
Situation: Friends with a girl. She tells me she does weird things when she gets drunk and I shouldn't take advantage of her. She comes over - we are both sober. She suggests watching the show sex education. We drink one vodka and start to cuddle and watch the show. She suggests motorcycle vids and has another vodka...
HISTORICAL
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{ "description": "refusing to wear my wedding ring", "pronormative_score": 43, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for refusing to wear my wedding ring?
It sounds bad, but hear me out. I love my husband sooo much, he is the highlight of my life and I totally understand why he thinks it’s important that I wear a ring. We have had REALLY bad luck with wedding rings. We’ve been married 2 years now, and have gone through two rings already. The first we found out it was ...
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NOBODY
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AITA for tv roommate's tv breaking while moving my couch?
So I rented an apartment with a friend of mine and he was helping me move my couch out of our apartment because our lease is ending, when he knocked his tv over while we were carrying the couch. Is it his fault for breaking it and he's responsible or am i the asshole for causing the whole situation and should help rep...
HISTORICAL
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{ "description": "not wanting to take certain nudes in a long-term relationship", "pronormative_score": 32, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for not wanting to take certain nudes in a long-term relationship?
Relationship (5+years) in my mid-20s. I'm okay with sending full body nudes and him taking full body nudes of me, however, I am not a fan of him taking photos of facials and blow jobs. I just don't really like the photos. He complains because we have been together so long, and asks why am I so turned off and apprehens...
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AITA Deducted Utilities for Roommate While He Was Away On Vacations
So here's the deal. My roommate went to his home country for a month. He left on the night of Dec. 12 and returned the evening of Jan. 14. Gas and Electric is under my name and we split 50/50. Internet is under his name ($33/month; I pay $17 and he $16). So he didn't pay his rent for the month of January until the seco...
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{ "description": "moving to a different city to secure a better job that had a rare opening while leaving my at home with my three year old to orchestrate the move", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For moving to a different city to secure a better job that had a rare opening while leaving my at home with my three year old to orchestrate the move?
Moving from Hanoi to HCMC, got a better job, (money is about 10% more, but my child will get free tuition eventually, saving me 10,000 USD a year if we stay, also pay bump after 12 months) I had to leave over Tet holiday, very unusual time for a job opening. Talked to the wife about the situation, she was mostly for ...
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{ "description": "telling the home owner that they can't reserve public curb parking with a cone just because they have a tradesman coming", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 11 }
AITA for telling the home owner that they can’t reserve public curb parking with a cone just because they have a tradesman coming?
Was parking my car this morning and this house had a cone in front so no one could park alongside the curb. I’ve seen this many times before in the area so I got out of the car and removed the cone. Then comes the house owner saying that I shouldn’t park there because her carpet guy needs to park there. What’s the g...
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WRONG
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{ "description": "not being able to come to a family holiday because I've made my own plans and now I've been cut off and disowned", "pronormative_score": 14, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not being able to come to a family holiday because I’ve made my own plans and now I’ve been cut off and disowned. (Toxic Family Culture)
First of all, I come from a strict (Filipino) family. I (22 F) have graduated from law school and I have a job at a law firm. I don’t live at home anymore and I currently live with my boyfriend (22 M). I have always tried to help my family whenever I can. But I’ve been accused of forgetting them and abandoning them. ...
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{ "description": "wanting to be friends with someone my girlfriend hates", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for wanting to be friends with someone my girlfriend hates
I’ve made a few posts in the recent past about this situation, more or less, but I’ll recap it. Last year, when I was a freshman in college, I met these two girls that I quickly became good friends with. We would frequently talk in our class that we had together and hang out in their room just reading doing homework. ...
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AITA - Stopped wearing my engagement ring
We were together for 4.5 years, and I had told him since year 1, I am not comfortable with an engagement ring. When I was a kid, I watched someone's ring get caught in the fence and this man lost a piece of his finger. Additionally, I come from a family of contractors so the stories of people getting rings caught into ...
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{ "description": "being upset with my wife for cancelling a plan to be with her sick mother", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 10 }
AITA For being upset with my wife for cancelling a plan to be with her sick mother
Ok so this sounds bad but bear with me. We're supposed to be attending a 40th birthday party this coming Saturday for my step mum. My wife's mother had surgery last week to remove part of her lung due to a tumor. This is obviously major surgery and she's still recovering from it now. We've spent a lot of time at the h...
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{ "description": "calling my friend a racist", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for calling my friend a racist?
My friend is Scottish with Middle Eastern family but claims he’s a real hood n...a but I said that’s racist AITA ?
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{ "description": "no longer giving rides to my airman friend who can't drive to work", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for no longer giving rides to my airman friend who can't drive to work?
For about a month and a half, I've been giving rides to an airman friend who is medically restricted from driving, meaning he requires accommodation to get from home to his work on an air force base. He's currently divorcing his wife, who is also my best friend, and as such she's moved into a different house (and I mov...
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{ "description": "being upset about my best friend's new relationship", "pronormative_score": 15, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for being upset about my best friend's new relationship
My best friend (M24) and I (M23) have been as close as brothers for years. A few months ago he met a girl and they got serious very quickly, and he says he loves her. She seems like a nice girl and theyre a great couple and I know he is happy, but ever since he started dating her he's becoming more and more distant. H...
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{ "description": "not wanting to visit my mom at all even though I was spoiled rotten as a kid and still get help occasionally", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA For not wanting to visit my mom at all even though i was spoiled rotten as a kid and still get help occasionally.
Growing up my father worked 60+ hours a week at a position making good money, so we lived in the upper middle class kind of life. I got everything I wanted as a kid and it showed in my attitude. my mom being a stay at home mom got the worst of it because she was around all the time. Growing older and older however I ...
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{ "description": "taking back the gift I bought my ex for her birthday", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 2 }
WIBTA If I take back the gift I bought my ex for her birthday?
Last week I gave a small 4.4 cubic foot refrigerator as a birthday gift for my ex’s apartment. It cost me about $250, which isn’t a whole lot of money but definitely isn’t nothing either. Less than a week later I discover she has been frequently texting her ex though she told me several months ago she had stopped. We h...
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{ "description": "flying across the country for sex when I'm seeing someone else, but it's not serious", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For flying across the country for sex when I'm seeing someone else, but it's not serious.
Hear me out...I've (30m unemployed music teacher) been seeing a girl (31f Law student) I met on bumble regularly, about once a week, and talking/texting almost every day for 5 months now. We've had the talk about what we want but since we both live with our parents respectively we've agreed to keep things casual. About...
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{ "description": "not answering the phone", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not answering the phone?
This could wind up being a long convoluted explanation, or a very short and simple one. I'm going to try to keep it short. I am on mobile so I apologize for the formatting and possible autocorrect. I work as a store manager for a retail franchise. My store closes at 8pm. The two bosses I have are the district manager...
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{ "description": "reporting my parents and putting my mother in hospital", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for reporting my parents and putting my mother in hospital?
Yesterday, my parents came to my brothers house. He wasn't home so they couldn't get in, when I get out of school my bf came with me. When we reached home we saw my parents in front of the house. When they saw us they became mad and started to insult us and my dad started to attack me physically. My bf tries to stop h...
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{ "description": "being mad at a Bipolar friend Over Someone Else's edgy Joke", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA For Being Mad At A Bipolar Friend Over Someone Else's Edgy Joke
(Sorry if my formatting is bad I'm on mobile) I have a friend with very mild bipolar disorder who is mad at me over a school shooting joke her friend told us. I have the very stereotypical school shooter look (A.K.A I'm A white kid who wears a trench coat, combat boots, ski mask, and snap back.) I'm very use to bein...
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EVERYBODY
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WRONG
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{ "description": "not visiting my suicidal friend", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not visiting my suicidal friend
My friend has been suffering with mental illness long term, I won't go into all of them here for her privacy needless to say there's a lot of issues going on there. We were pretty close friends about 2 years ago she was making good progress on getting better then had an episode and did some pretty horrible stuff after...
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{ "description": "wanting my money back", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting my money back?
Just recently (about a month ago) my gf of 3 years and fiancé ended our relationship abruptly. One night she said she thought we should break up, she was out of state the next day. The issue is though, that we had recently purchased a car together. It was her first car, my second. Pretty cheap but nice. We bought it ...
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{ "description": "asking my neighbour to stop \"borrowing\" my dog to distract her autistic son", "pronormative_score": 629, "contranormative_score": 12 }
WIBTA if I asked my neighbour to stop "borrowing" my dog to distract her autistic son?
I've had this dog since I was a kid and he's getting on in years now, but he's still pretty spritely for his age. I play rough with him in the garden or throw a ball around for maybe an hour a day, and he also gets walked twice a day for half an hour each and comes swimming with me whenever the weather's nice (which is...
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{ "description": "wanting my dad to do something about my older brother", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for wanting my dad to do something about my older brother?
To start off, I am a 19 y/o female and my brother is a 24 y/o male. He's lived with my dad (59) and my other brother (27) for around a year and a half now. Let me preface this by saying I by no means hate my brother: I just can't stand living with him, nor can I tolerate a number of his behaviours. Ever since he moved ...
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EVERYBODY
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{ "description": "asking people on the bus taking up an extra seat with a bag to move so I can sit down", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for asking people on the bus taking up an extra seat with a bag to move so I can sit down?
I commute to work by bus daily. It's only a 30 minute ride and I have no problem standing if the seats are actually all taken but it annoys me that very frequently I see people place their bags on the empty seats next to them, and leave them there while the bus is filling up and people are left standing. I'm questionin...
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{ "description": "taking a job where my GF works", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for taking a job where my GF works
Wondering if AITA and also need some advice. My girlfriend and I met at work (psych unit in bigger hospital) she was a student on a clinical. We started dating after she had finished her clinical. Fast forward few months, she applied for and got a job on the unit I worked on. Because it was different shifts and my old ...
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{ "description": "having doubts about my girlfriend because of religion", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA For having doubtS about my girlfriend because of Religion.
Hi everyone, firstly I love my girlfriend more than anyone else; I can honestly say she is an amazing and beautiful woman. We’ve been together around 8-9 months and we where best friends before for about 5ish years. However..... the one huge issue is she is religious, she come from a Muslim family/upbringing and I’m ...
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NOBODY
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{ "description": "wanting more out of a friendgroup rp", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting more out of a friendgroup rp?
I and some friends have an roleplay story in a chat. It's a word where B and M have been working on since youth and are very attached to. A few years later L got added, then my BF, B's GF, I got in, GF left a rampage that tore our friend group, now everything seems fine again. The story itself is like a Dungeons and D...
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{ "description": "telling my company that I will decline an assignment over child care", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for telling my company that I will decline an assignment over child care?
Company offered a temp promotion for a 6 month assignment to another city in which we operate. I will bring my Wife and Son (1yr). ​ The company provides destination services whose intent is to make the employee 'whole'. For example, I keep my house in my Home location and they provide a furnished living a...
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NOBODY
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{ "description": "giving my friend edibles on top of her first LSD trip", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for giving my friend edibles on top of her first LSD trip
My roommate Erin and I decided to trip LSD together a few weekends ago. It was Erin's first time with LSD and my third. Our friends Morgan and Maddie joined us to babysit. On a Saturday around 1pm Erin and I take the tabs and have a fun time wandering around. By about 9pm, the acid was wearing off and we all laid on ...
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{ "description": "not wanting to talk to my grandma", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not wanting to talk to my grandma?
I know it sounds a bit harsh, but I’ll try my best to explain the situation. I currently live with my grandma (until I can get a place to live, which will be soon so I know I don’t have to deal with it much longer.) I’m a very introverted person and she’s very aware of this fact and has even said it several times hers...
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NOBODY
{ "RIGHT": 4, "WRONG": 1 }
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{ "description": "secluding myself from my friend", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for secluding myself from my friend
Ok so, I have a “friend” whom I’ve known for about two years . We met at work and we then started to hang out , she would open up to me because me being a good friend , I would always listen to her . I’d stop what I was doing, answer her phone calls . I was always pretty much there for her.. if she didn’t want to be a...
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AITA if my GF all of a sudden wants an Open Relationship?
Am I the asshole if she has told me that she’s felt like she wasn’t enough for me in the past but now she wants to see other people? She says her intentions are purely for friendship and non-sexual whatsoever but I can’t help but feel like she just doesn’t know what she wants even though she says she wants to stay comp...
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{ "description": "logging in to my Exs facebook account", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 9 }
AITA For Logging In to My Exs Facebook Account?
This was a while ago but I will still omit details for anonymity. From the title many of you would immediately answer yes, but now for the context. I was with an on and off relationship with this person for about 2 years, I had previous relationships, never had trust issues with any of them. The girl in question h...
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AUTHOR
{ "RIGHT": 3, "WRONG": 9 }
WRONG
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{ "description": "not being able to control my emotions fully", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for not being able to control my emotions fully?
So I'm in my early teens and have have trouble controlling my emotions, I have severe anger issues and have had them for as long as i can remember, Usually when i get angry I get really stressed out which causes me to apologize for being angry (a lot) which then ends with me breaking down and causing my anxiety and de...
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{ "RIGHT": 5, "WRONG": 2 }
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{ "description": "not finishing a sentence", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not finishing a sentence?
I was doing a group presentation in my class about a self created bissuness or service that would help the community. Our idea was that the boys would do the presentation due to how loud we were and the girls would write our script because they offered it. So we were answering the questions on the board about the pre...
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{ "description": "thinking a classmate was a special education student because of an accent", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITAH For thinking a classmate was a special education student because of an accent??
So here's a rather short story compared to others here. There's a girl I go to highschool with I always just assumed she was one of the special education students cause (I thought) she had a really noticable speech impediment as well as the fact that I always hangs out with some of the other special Ed students at lunc...
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AITA for blasting a loud alarm noise to get the cashier's attention?
So there's this little pizza place right next to my apartment. The food is quality, it's cheap, and has great hours open until 3am. Except one catch - the service. Nearly every time I go in there, even at normal times, the cashier counter is completely deserted. Everyone's in the back hanging out or whatever, when the...
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{ "description": "using lethal mouse traps", "pronormative_score": 14, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for using lethal mouse traps?
Gf and I live in kind of slummy type building. It’s not ideal, but it’s what we can afford for now. There’s there’s holes where the heating system is that the pipes go down. We’ve both seen mice come up through these holes. I’ve tried filling them in with cloth to no avail, they just keep getting in. I use typi...
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{ "description": "not realizing she was asleep", "pronormative_score": 17, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not realizing she was asleep
It as late at night and me and my FWB were cuddling. At this point we had been regularly sleeping together for at least 6 months, often late in the night. Normally when we get to it, there is no mention of consent, but as I noticed she seemed to be particularly sleepy at this point I decided to ask before I made any mo...
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{ "description": "throwing the broccoli at him", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for throwing the broccoli at him
So I've started a new school two weeks ago and I've had it pretty great , everyone has been friendly and I have made friends superfast , today I sat down with a group of guys during lunch and just had a regular chat with them , we were making jokes and kinda loud , one of the guys after finishing his food washed his ha...
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{ "description": "forcing my brother to cook dinner", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for forcing my brother to cook dinner
I am 15 and my brother is 13. We got into an argument about how I force him to cook for the other 2 younger silblings in my family, because he had to do his science fair and stay awake longer. I was busy too with going to sports practice and my academics, so while i was doing some homework and getting ready to leave fo...
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{ "description": "being unhappy at my parents for my new living arrangements", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA For being unhappy at my parents for my new living arrangements?
So recently my boyfriend (soon to be husband) and I moved away from each other to save money to get married and be closer to our places of work. This involved me moving back in with my parents and younger siblings. I pay my parents rent for my room in exchange for letting me move back in with them. I haven't lived the...
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{ "description": "being upset with my boyfriend for behaving in ways I don't think are appropriate around my 3-year-old son", "pronormative_score": 14, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for being upset with my boyfriend for behaving in ways I don't think are appropriate around my 3-year-old son?
Scenario I'm referring to: All three of us were in the kitchen while I was making dinner, and my bf took a plastic bag and put it over his(own) head, and proceeded to pretend he couldn't breathe. My son thought it was hilarious. I took a moment to explain to my child that this is something you should NEVER do, etc.,...
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{ "description": "not wanting other people to stay in my roommates room whilst she's on holidays", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA For not wanting other people to stay in my roommates room whilst she’s on holidays
We share a 2 bedroom flat. So my housemate is going on holidays for 2 weeks. She wants to let her friend who is a couple (they are also travelling) to stay in her room for that duration. I like being alone and not socialising when I’m home. I don’t really know them and I feel extremely uncomfortable living with strang...
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{ "description": "being upset that my friend browses Reddit and doesn't talk when we get lunch", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being upset that my friend browses Reddit and doesn’t talk when we get lunch?
During our free period my friend and I go get pizza. Yet all he does is browse reddit and chuckle to himself every five minutes. I try to start a conversation but all he does is say “Yeah” or “I don’t know.” It’s annoying as hell and I wish he could converse like a normal human being.
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{ "description": "skipping my sister-in-laws fathers funeral", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for skipping my sister-in-laws fathers funeral?
Long Story, here are the highlights: My brother and I don't see eye to eye on much and have nothing in common. On Christmas day we had a big fight and I asked them to leave my home. My sister-in-law went online and posted all sorts of trash about me, even though the fight was between my brother and myself and I reache...
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{ "description": "not tipping my waitress", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 8 }
AITA for not tipping my waitress?
Today I went to a restuarant I love and used to be there every day (long ago my mom worked there as a waitress for like 15years) I always tip 20% or more, tips kept food on my plate as a child and a roof over my head. I'm an adult now and know how important tips are in our service industy. That being said, when I arriv...
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{ "description": "actively trying to get my professor fired", "pronormative_score": 14, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for actively trying to get my professor fired?
So, I am a music student at a public university. The past two years we have had a visiting professor for the instrument I play. In this time, he has threatened to fail multiple people for mundane reasons, encourages hazing of "lazy" students (also known as students with jobs), and has told students they should leave an...
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{ "description": "getting my SIL's dog high", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for getting my SIL's dog high?
Alright guys here's the context: I'm (25f) spending the weekend at my BF's (28) house, and with BF's permission, I brought a puppy that I've been fostering along with me for socialization purposes. BF has 2 dogs at his house, one of the dog is an untrained 1yo pinscher who belongs to his sister (32) and the other is a ...
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{ "description": "asking my sister to pay for half of a hotel room", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for asking my sister to pay for half of a hotel room?
My sister (28F) and I (27F) are going to a family wedding this summer. Since the wedding isn't in the city I live in, I booked a room for the night before the wedding in the nice hotel where most of our friends and family are also staying. My sister did not as she actually lives in the city where the wedding is taking ...
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{ "description": "backing out of volunteering", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I backed out of volunteering?
So there’s an event that’s being put on by an organization I work with. Last week on Friday of the members of said organization asked if I was going, and I made a comment about not really being able to afford it. She then suggested I volunteer, which would grant me entry to the event for free. I know at least one of th...
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{ "description": "wanting to dump my boyfriend", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for wanting to dump my boyfriend?
We've been dating since September. I know I'm not in love with him or anything, and that this isn't forever, but we live and work at the same place and quite honestly the dating pool is not expansive. ​ We're very casual, dinner dates like every two weeks, I go crash at his place and watch movies there, h...
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{ "description": "telling my friend/ra to stop talking about their weight/body image issues around me", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if i tell my friend/RA to stop talking about their weight/body image issues around me
As title implys I'm a college kid living on campus. I'm a third year so I've had my fair share of RAs who either dont care or care too much. This is my first RA that i get along with really well, we knew each other beforehand as well. Recently I have been having some issues with them not being an RA to our housemate...
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{ "description": "telling my roommate I planned to get a cat", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for telling my roommate I planned to get a cat?
i was college roommates with my best friend of 10 years. her parents bought a townhouse where her and i lived. there was no official lease but i paid rent monthly. my roommate knew i loved and wanted a cat but i never bothered pursuing it. one day she tells me she’s scheduled a day to adopt a cat. i was taken aback be...
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{ "description": "not wanting to give my 9 year old Adderall", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA for not wanting to give my 9 year old Adderall
So my 9 year old son has been diagnosed with ADHD since he started Kindergarten. His energy is definitely off the charts, but I think a lot of it is just that he is a little boy. They are supposed to be high energy after all. Anyway, of course the answer to this from the Dr is to give him meds, Adderall to be specif...
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{ "description": "asking about a gender to a friend", "pronormative_score": 19, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For asking about a gender to a friend?
I was at a basketball tournament a week ago, and after our team was done playing, we went ahead and sat down in the rafters to watch the game with my teammates and friends. While watching, I noticed a feminine looking player on the bench, and because, i wanted to know if a girl could make a basketball team, i asked my ...
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{ "description": "wanting my roommate to pay for my sideview mirror", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 8 }
AITA for wanting my (23F) roommate (30M) to pay for my sideview mirror?
Hear me out, it's morally complicated. ​ I was VERY ill and hospitalized on Sunday. Still ill on Monday. I asked him to move my car (due to parking restrictions) to a **very specific spot,** because we live in a terrible neighborhood and I was unwell enough to do so on my own. He did move my car, and he ha...
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{ "description": "not wanting to pay for a room my band can practice in", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for not wanting to pay for a room my band can practice in?
So I really enjoy being in the band I'm in. We're not famous at all or earn any money by any means. We usually perform for the fun of it and to get our name out there. It's just a good time, really. Anyway.. we sorta have a schedule for when we practice and we all used to follow it. But for a few months now a member ha...
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{ "description": "abandoning my family", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for abandoning my family?
This is gonna be a long one. (Mobile) (Some things will be intentionally vague to make it impossible to figure out who this is) My mom, little sister and I emigrated to the United States from a third world country in 2011. My mother left everything. Her job, all her possessions, her family, and her husband. My little ...
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{ "description": "being reluctant to eat dinner with an older man because of pedophile stereotypes", "pronormative_score": 14, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being reluctant to eat dinner with an older man because of pedophile stereotypes?
A while ago, I, an 18yo male, decided to sit on a bus next to an older man anywhere from 70-80 years old looking. He first said hello to me, and then I said hello back and asked him about the book he was reading. We hit it off, and it was a lengthy bus ride. We shared life stories and such. We got off at the same stop ...
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{ "description": "not wanting to talk with my sister anymore", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to talk with my sister anymore?
I have an older sister that was **very** mean and discouraging when we were younger, she'd call me a retard and stuff constantly and to make it worse at the time I was "that" kid everybody hated in school so I was bullied a lot. Now so far there's not been anything too unusual, I mean brothers and sisters getting on e...
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{ "description": "not wanting to \"pay my turn\" when Ive already paid for god knows how much", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not wanting to "pay my turn" when ive already paid for god knows how much?
Didn't really know how else to word it. A while ago, my roommate quit his job and was unemployed for months. During that time, I picked up all of our shared finances save for rent which included house necessities, take out, snacks, groceries and etc. I only make about $8.70 an hour and the majority of my checks were ab...
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