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{ "description": "not wanting to go to my fathers funeral", "pronormative_score": 45, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not wanting to go to my fathers funeral.
So my dad recently passed away. Waiting on the autopsy for the results. But it’s speculated to be an OD. I have never had a relationship with him, at all. Out of the 32 years I’ve been alive, I have seen him once. Yes, ONCE. I’ve spoken with him one time in the last 18 years. There has never been an attempt. He was ...
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{ "description": "making my gf pay for the television subscription even though we spilt everything else", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA if I make my gf pay for the television subscription even though we spilt everything else?
This is just a minor annoyance, nothing world ending. We had Netflix and Hulu(which I pay for as I’ve had both for years) and an Internet subscription. It was a promotional internet subscription for $50 a month. Now that she’s added a cable subscription even if we decide to go back to just internet, we’ve lost that ...
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AITA: Wife wants brother to be more comfortable than me.
AITA... Long time lurker, first time poster... Ok here goes, My brother in law is coming to visit for a few days. My wife decided that in order for her brother to be comfortable, I must vacate my room and sleep in the, as she says "dark, dusty, disgusting" basement. For context, with the exception of flooring, whic...
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{ "description": "telling my teacher that I did a whole project by myself", "pronormative_score": 18, "contranormative_score": 2 }
WIBTA if I tell my teacher that I did a whole project by myself?
Long time lurker on this subreddit. I'm in 9th grade. Basically what happened was that there was a huge project which was displayed at my school's open day and was also counted towards our grade. So two weeks before the project, I messaged the 8 other members and said something like "Hey, we should get started on thi...
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{ "description": "having no interest in playing ARK with my friends", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For having no interest in playing ARK with my friends?
I have been playing ark with the same group of people for a few months after I bought Extinction on sale. I saw the trailer and had to have it. Let's call them A and B. I start playing it every day with A who didn't have the Extinction Map so we played on the free Ragnorok Map, we play for a few weeks when another fr...
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{ "description": "not wanting my boyfriend to talk to his mother", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA For not wanting my boyfriend to talk to his mother?
Now hear me out. I know that sounds terrible. According to my boyfriend, he lived with his mother until he was about 8. He would visit his father on occasion, and one day while his father was dropping him back off to his mother's house, they found no one home. His father then told my boyfriend that he would now be li...
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{ "description": "getting a job done myself when my bil offered to help", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for getting a job done myself when my BiL offered to help?
At the start of this year I moved into my own home, choosing it was kind of a rush job as where I was living before was getting a bit unbearable. The house was also reasonably priced in a semi-decent area and ticked a lot of boxes I had. So this house that I bought had a few little things that needed doing, one of th...
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{ "description": "keeping photos of my underage friend on my phone", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I kept photos of my underage friend on my phone?
throwaway bc ppl know my reddit i can alr feel the pedo alarms going!!! ringing!!!! people ready to yell at me!!! ok but u can chill the fk out for a moment i turn 18 this year (oh shit fuck end me why im NOT READY TO HAVE THE RIGHT TO VOTE AND BUYING ALCOHOL AND ???????) and i have v obv not come to terms with it. ...
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{ "description": "cutting off a former friend and advising current ones to do the same", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for cutting off a former friend and advising current ones to do the same?
This has been on my mind for a very long time now. TLDR at the end. Back in 2016, when I was in my second year of high school, I met a couple of guys who had a lot of common interests with me (regarding anime, video games, movies, etc), so I tried to start a friendship of some sort. These guys had their own small frie...
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{ "description": "not wanting my brother to come back home", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting my brother to come back home.
The build up of the current situation: My brother (about to be 21) rented a room from people he knew and had a friend living in another room they were renting too. Brother sees this as a good gig, likes the fact is around people he already knows. This is where it gets frustrating, though. My brother managed to get a go...
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AITA DND demands
Idk if this fits in this sub but me and a few friends decided to try DND and I ended up with the DM role, all was fine, we made characters, I DMed for over an hour 3 nights in a row, we do online sessions, and I went to my dad's house, where I'm not able to DM as I can't talk loudly or anything, and then we stopped pla...
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{ "description": "smoking weed behind my girlfriends back", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 15 }
AITA for smoking weed behind my girlfriends back?
Okay, to start this off I will say my girlfriend asked me two specific things when we first got semi serious, “Don’t cheat on me” and “Don’t do drugs” honestly that was no problem, the reason this was even brought up is I have an extensive history of smoking weed through my freshman year of my college but I had quit a ...
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{ "description": "telling my roommates I wont sign another lease without them", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for telling my roommates I wont sign another lease without them
I recently got busted and am going on probation , as a result my income has dropped and i can no longer afford my house . I got two roommates quick so i wouldnt get evicted but the new lease is coming up and they are refusing to sign it but still expect to live there , I dont want to be thier finicial scapegoat and...
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{ "description": "calling out people who offer me seats (thinking I'm pregnant)? I am not", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 13 }
WIBTA for calling out people who offer me seats (thinking I'm pregnant)? I am not.
I'm curvy, but petite. I'm 5'1" and about a size 6-8 US with most of my weight being in my butt and boobs (I'm a 30F so big boobs, small frame). At least once/month, a woman offers me a seat on the subway - crowed, not crowed, doesn't matter. ALWAYS slim/skinny women. Sometimes they watch me walk in, stare at my sto...
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{ "description": "sleeping with my college friend's high school crush", "pronormative_score": 73, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for sleeping with my college friend’s high school crush?
So this past winter break my good friend from college, Caroline, invited me on a 10-day trip to Germany. I knew Caroline “studied” in Germany for 3 weeks during summer while she was 15. We arrive in Germany and she says she’s reconnected with a friend, named Jack, from when she studied there and she asked if I’d be ...
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AITA Can't tell if I'm emotionally unstable or bring ghosted
AITA So I’ll start off with some context. Me and this guy I'm dating are in a ldr. We texted every day since we've been together and then he stopped responding to all of my texts. After a couple of days of trying to contact him, I decided to do some digging and went through his likes on Instagram and he hadn't liked an...
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{ "description": "getting mad at my sister for not knowing how to spell my first name", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 8 }
AITA for getting mad at my sister for not knowing how to spell my first name?
A while ago, I (16) was walking with my sister (17) back from the pool. I don’t know what we were talking about but somehow she ended up trying to spell my name. My name is Nicholas by the way, a very common name (at least in the US). She spelled it “Nickoles.” I told her she was wrong and then she tried “Nicholes,” ...
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{ "description": "firing pupils over late payments", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for firing pupils over late payments?
I offer tuition to children from my home. The parents are asked to pay me by bank transfer at the start of the month and this is written out in their contract. Some folks do this manually and others set up a standing order where the bank automatically sends my fee across. G has sent their children for lessons with me...
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{ "description": "blocking my friend because she might have said something about my atheist whatsapp status that mom can't read to her. tl;dr", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITAH I blocked my friend because she might have said something about my atheist whatsapp status that mom can't read to her. Tl;dr
My friend is the only person that knows about my atheism. I'm a closeted ex muslim and my family can't ever know about that. When I first told her she texted my mum to pray for me as I think too much and need prayers, they both never told me, I knew on my own. She thinks I'm sick and wants me to go to a psychiatrist,...
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{ "description": "trying to understand what was made of my aunt's money. she is mentally challenged", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA? I’m trying to understand what was made of my aunt’s money. She is mentally challenged.
My aunt is mentally challenged. She is middle-aged but with the mental age of a pre-teen. A few decades ago she was placed under legal guardianship of my uncle, her brother. She has a pension left by my late grandparents (her parents) and should be well off financially. A few years ago her pension was cut off without ...
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{ "description": "skipping out on a theme park trip with friends to go hang out with my girlfriend", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA for skipping out on a theme park trip with friends to go hang out with my girlfriend?
Okay, context: My friends for the past couple weeks have been planning to go to Universal tomorrow on Friday, it’s me and two others. I’ve been super hype to go but today my girlfriend had a horrible day at work and her whole week’s been awful in general. I haven’t been able to see her at all because college, and Frid...
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{ "description": "refusing to go home for Christmas... or at all", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA (AWA Are we assholes?) for refusing to go home for Christmas... or at all?
**NSFW tag because of trauma? I've seen other subreddits require this for stuff that might trigger other people who've gone through domestic abuse/ sexual abuse/ etc.) I can remove it if unnecessary.** ​ My girlfriend and I have been dating for a few years. Over time she has slowly revealed how abusive an...
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{ "description": "not helping my sister use the printer at 2am with sleeping family and getting mad at her", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not helping my sister use the printer at 2am with sleeping family and getting mad at her?
I'm 20yo with my sister (18yo) and my mother and stepdad in the house. It's 2am and I'm watching a movie from my bed. It's both exams for me and my sister, which means studying entire days. I got lucky by having a free day to watch a movie. All of a sudden my sister walks into my room and asks if I could help her wi...
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{ "description": "not giving into my older roommate's demands about my gf", "pronormative_score": 25, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not giving into my older roommate's demands about my gf?
For context, I'm a 23 year old living in a subletted room of an apartment of a 43 year old professor. No contract, I just give her money each month. When i moved in, I told her that my girlfriend stays overnight twice a week. She said no problem to this. My girlfriend and I are both very quiet and friendly, and we most...
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{ "description": "wanting to be physically intimate with my gf", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for Wanting to be physically intimate with my gf?
My gf and I have been together for 3 years, and I have continually wanted to have sex work her whenever I can. Not in gross way, but like, hey we have the house alone today (we're both college students living with our parents), hopefully we can have sex. I see her three to four times a week, however we only have sex ab...
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{ "description": "killing Asgore", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA For Killing Asgore???
Time sensitive question. I accidentally killed Asgore in Undertale but hes not fully dead, just on one knee on my screen. I only wanted to weaken him but accidentally killed him. Would I be an asshole for letting him die or should I close Undertale and restart the battle??
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{ "description": "being pissed at my Fiancée going out to a party getting really drunk while I look after her Daughter and my kids during a family weekend", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA. For being pissed at my Fiancée going out to a party getting really drunk while I look after her Daughter and my kids during a family weekend?
So my SO (39f) and I (38m) live together and have been with each other for 20 months or so. We got engaged 5 months ago. I have two kids from a previous relationship she has a daughter with serious medical needs. I’ve learned how to care for her. I have my children ever other weekend and those children are the world...
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{ "description": "calling the police", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for calling the police?
Turns out, it's not just tennis. I was 15 then; I am 12 in this incident. As in, I'm still 5cm (2 inches) shorter and \~30 kilograms (70 pounds) lighter than my dad. ​ My family was out vacationing and after eating dinner, mom didn't feel so well, so she started complaining, and when mom is upset she likes...
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{ "description": "telling my short brother that being short is an unattractive trait", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 28 }
AITA for telling my short brother that being short is an unattractive trait?
So i was watching tv with my brother and a comercial with a short women come up , to which my brother commented that she's short and ugly , which i found really hypocritical since my brother is like 5'2 feet tall , anyway i called him out of it by saying that he's short too and he shouldn't make fun of other short peop...
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{ "description": "purposely deleting the rest of my groups work just to make them fail as revenge", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 12 }
AITA for purposely deleting the rest of my groups work just to make them fail as revenge?
So I'm doing a maters degree and we have a group report to do. There is 5 of us. We and person 2 (we shall call him) have done the majority of it because the other 3 are literal morons. We've spent so many of our free days and gave them the easiest part. I let our course leader know who informed me that if they don'...
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{ "description": "breaking up with my gf because of her insomnia", "pronormative_score": 17, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for breaking up with my gf because of her insomnia?
I’ve always felt like my reason was validated but recently I’ve been feeling different about the whole situation. Over a year ago I was dating this girl for about 10 months. We were extremely close, knew everything about each other, had all the same friends, we talked all the time and if we weren’t on the phone then i...
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{ "description": "expecting people to move off the path when I'm running", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 19 }
AITA for expecting people to move off the path when I'm running.
I am a runner, currently marathon training, taking it seriously. My regular route is along the coast (south England). It is a narrow tarmac path surrounded either by grass or beach shale. To begin with I will acknowledge other pedestrians have equal rights to the path. Given I'm running at 6mph it is much harder ...
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{ "description": "telling my girlfriend that we need to have deeper conversation", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for telling my girlfriend that we need to have deeper conversation.
We've been dating for 4 months now, and it seems like we barely know each other. I try to have meaningful conversations, but all she does is respond with, "gang gang," or the same stupid reactionary image. She almost never contributes anything meaningful to our conversations, and i am always the one to start them. So i...
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WIBTA Am I too blunt?
A couple days ago I went to my grandpa's funeral and while I was there I realized that I an blunt with my feelings, I don't really cry when I get the kind of sad death in the family will bring. I just say ok to the stuff that usually people cry of. I'm worry that I seem (or am) being disrespectful for when someone is ...
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{ "description": "asking someone if they've found new streamers", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for asking someone if they've found new streamers?
Hey everyone! I'm mostly confused about this and wanted to maybe get some other perspectives on this. I've been watching a relatively small streamer for a few months now and the chat feels like a small family, everyone knows each other and talks among them and with the streamer. Now a woman who always used to be ther...
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{ "description": "destroying a photo of myself in my grandma's house", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 9 }
AITA for destroying a photo of myself in my grandma's house.
I once sent a photo of myself to my dad on the first day of moving abroad, sort of as a "look, got here safe!". It being the first day, I'm really jetlagged and look like shit, with that nasty grey tone to your skin when youve not had enough sleep. Add to that my hair is greasy, I'm not wearing a bra, and it's a really...
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{ "description": "being honest about my experiences with a racist teacher", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being honest about my experiences with a racist teacher?
I'm a high school student, and the only black student in my graduating class. Until recently, there was a teacher (white) at my school who was remarkably well liked: but awful to me. He called me argumentative and accused me of trying to start fights. I'm a straight A student, but I would get consistently low grades on...
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{ "description": "wanting my husband to clean the house", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA if I want my husband to clean the house?
My husband and I are newlyweds and just bought our first house. When we lived in an apartment, it was pretty constantly messy, because I work about 70 hours a week and I ended up doing the majority of the cleaning (such as cleaning bathrooms, sweeping, vacuuming, etc.). However, I have also been working hard to improve...
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{ "description": "refusing to contribute girlfriends mom half of rent", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for refusing to contribute girlfriends mom half of rent?
We (sadly) live with my girlfriends mom because her health isn't great. She needed extra help. But without telling me, her mom stopped contributing to rent. Rent is $1000. Utilities is 400$ roughly depending on season. I pay all the utilities. I used to pay for her mom's cell phone too when she was contributing but I c...
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{ "description": "refusing to help a woman with two small kids from two marriages", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for refusing to help a woman with two small kids from two marriages?
I am known to be a bit of an asshole, but this time I am not sure. Title is such for addition of context. ​ Short backstory. I just turned 30, this woman (or girl, we've known each other for almost 20 years) is a family friend through her parents, and the families have always been in good relationship. Sh...
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{ "description": "telling my wife I won't try to have kids until she starts trying to take care of herself", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for telling my wife I won't try to have kids until she starts trying to take care of herself?
My wife has developed anxiety in the last few years. She has gone to therapy (which helped), but gave up because she didn't like the results. She has asked me for help before but dismisses *literally every single* thing I research and offer as an idea. I have bought books recommended various types of meditation, CBT, ...
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{ "description": "not wanting my moms bf over all the time and \"getting in the way\" of their relationship", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting my moms bf over all the time and "getting in the way" of their relationship?
Some context before I start, my mother has been divorced from my father for over 4 years and I heavily encouraged her to get a boyfriend but since I am introverted I did ask her beforehand not to have him over in the house all the time. Her current boyfriend is here 7 days a week for over 5 hours a day. It's almost lik...
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{ "description": "sending a picture of a jewish person in a concentration camp to a group chat", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA I sent a picture of a jewish person in a concentration camp to a group chat
I'm going to try and keep this short and simple. I shaved my head a couple months ago and a lot of my friends kept on telling me that i look like the boy in striped pyjamas and i'm jewish to try and annoy me. This happened when my and some of my friends were in a group chat and one of my friends added a person that m...
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{ "description": "not walking my dogs when I am too fatigued, thus making my mom walk them when she gets home from work", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA For not walking my dogs when I am too fatigued, thus making my mom walk them when she gets home from work?
So for context, in the past I used to really dig my heels in the ground about walking the dogs simply due to outright laziness. When I was in high school, one the excuses was that I was too tired after school — and although true, wasn’t a good excuse since my mom is tired after work. Other times I outright refused. I...
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{ "description": "thinking other people other than my so are cute", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I think other people other than my SO are cute?
More context: I’m in a long distance relationship and we see each other about once a month. Love my SO dearly as SO is really caring. I’m also in school right now and there’s some people I see around school that I think are really kind (which makes them more attractive to me). WIBTA for thinking these people are for ...
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{ "description": "not wanting to apologize", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 8 }
AITA for not wanting to apologize?
This is nothing dramatic, but something that happens more than I‘d like. I’m 17 and live with my mum and my stepdad (which will hopefully change very soon.) I like my mum except when she gets bitchy and I didn‘t really get well along with my stepdad at first. Now I tolerate him, but I definitely don‘t click with him. ...
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{ "description": "thinking my friends high school plan is dumb", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for thinking my friends high school plan is dumb?
I'm 16 nearing the end of sophomore year along with my best friend throught the year the friend has missed a lot of school at least 3 to 5 whole school weeks the reason being games and an awful sleep schedule. He has terrible grades in third quarter with all d's and f's and a single a. He will most likely not get acc...
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{ "description": "asking my roommates to deal with my trash", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA for asking my roommates to deal with my trash?
First time poster, long time lurker, sorry I'm on mobile. I'm trying not to word vomit or ramble so let me know if I need to trim anything or add INFO. TLDR at the bottom I've been incredibly ill since Wednesday, 5 days ago. Bedridden, could not drink or eat anything. Friday morning, after some food and meds, I though...
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{ "description": "automatically assuming a \"doctor\" is an asshole", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for automatically assuming a "Doctor" is an asshole?
This post is mostly a generalization that I do, not exactly a specific situation but this post was sparked by an actual asshole "doctor". It was just a basic customer service provider abuse story: crazy person yelling at everyone who was trying their best to help. Anyway, I always thought that referring to yourself as...
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{ "description": "wanting a coworker to take personal leave until they can concentrate on work", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for wanting a coworker to take personal leave until they can concentrate on work?
About six months ago I began noticing that something wasn't quite right with a coworker (Miriam). She is in a different department but my team works with her on some projects. Issues ranged from emails written so oddly that intentions were unclear to ignoring/violating corporate compliance. Shortly after I noticed the ...
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{ "description": "borrowing my brothers coat from time to time", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if i borrowed my brothers coat from time to time?
Today me and my brother (im adopted into the family) went to the VANS store to buy the new david bowie shoes, however we instead walked out with a coat and matching shoes both for my brother, we both love the coat and i asked him if i could buy of my own when i have the money and he said he wouldnt want to be matching ...
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{ "description": "trying to express that it's extremely infuriating when grown adult men urinate on public toilet seats with a picture of someone urinating in the next stall", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 12 }
AITA for trying to express that it's extremely infuriating when grown adult men urinate on public toilet seats with a picture of someone urinating in the next stall
Background: I work 2 jobs and my employers do not have private bathrooms, so I rely on public bathrooms during my shifts. This means using public toilets daily. This also means that on more than one occasion per week I walk into a stall that has urine all over the seat and I either clean it so I can use it or go to the...
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{ "description": "being hurt by my ex and what he said and telling him my true feelings", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for being hurt by my ex and what he said and telling him my true feelings?
I tried being nice and helping him though some shit but honestly he treated me like shit so I was done. But he invited me over and just played video games all night and didn’t let me play and ignored my advances on him, he cried saying his ex didn’t tell him happy birthday yet totally ignored my message, he insulted my...
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AITA? Guy thinks my dating habits are racist
I'll try to keep this short... I've been seeing a lot of new people since getting out of a long term relationship, and someone I know has taken issue with the people I'm seeing (and kind of made me feel like an asshole for it, hence the post). Kind of touchy, because it's a race thing. I'm on various dating apps and ...
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{ "description": "asking the tutor to close his phone and lower his voice becuase of my ear being in pain", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for asking the tutor to close his phone and lower his voice becuase of my ear being in pain?
AITA Every Friday I have this same calculus teacher come and teach me and strengthen concepts of the lessons for the AP calculus exam. I have a final exam (not the official just for school marks) this Tuesday sooo there isn't really another time for practicing and stuff I am extremely tight on time and the tutor knows ...
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{ "description": "letting my dog pee on my wife's side of the bed", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for letting my dog pee on my wife's side of the bed?
My wife has been having a bad week, and between work and grad school, I haven't been there for her much. Last night I finally had some time, so I went to the store, bought all her favorite foods, had a movie night with her, then drew her a bath with a bath bomb and let her soak. This was late at night, past the puppy'...
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{ "description": "getting mad at pregnant coworker", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For getting mad at pregnant coworker?
I am currently employed at a local pizza shop in my town. The business is small and only requires two people to run it. During the weekdays it can get pretty dead, like theres a two hour waiting period between each costumer. Anyways, me and my pregnant coworker have this system. She sits in the front in case someone wa...
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{ "description": "not lending a friend money", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not lending a friend money?
OK so I had a friend (we no longer are) He was hopeless with money and never had any because he always threw it away on having a good time or buying stupid things, in my circle of friends it was known I was doing well for myself financially at the time. He was going through a messy divorce and he needed a car so he...
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AITA for (Planning to) Break Up With This Woman Over New Years Flakiness?
I (37M) have been dating a woman (39F) for about six months. About three weeks ago, a friend of mine rented an AirBNB cabin a couple hours away for a New Years Eve getaway, invited me and this woman to join. My three best friends from the area and their significant others were also invited and accepted the invite. The ...
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{ "description": "telling a friend they Smell", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA If I Tell A Friend They Smell?
Background: Back in November 2018, a friend who was evicted from her apartment needed a place to stay. My husband and I offered her our spare room till she can get a new place. The problem is, she only bathes in the upstairs sink *ghetto style*. (Our shower is in the basement) She used the shower once, last month and w...
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{ "description": "telling my teacher(indirectly) I find her class boring", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for telling my teacher(indirectly) I find her class boring?
So every 2 weeks for my English class we have a notebook check and at the end of each notebook check there is a box where you are supposed to write how you are feeling about how the class has been. I had this teacher last year and her class was interesting and I really wanted to be in her class again for the next year....
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{ "description": "getting mad at my friends for not inviting me to a New Years party", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for getting mad at my friends for not inviting me to a New Years party?
So I have a group of friends that I’ve been pretty close with for a while. I just found out yesterday about something that happened around a month ago. I invited all of them to a New Years party and they all said no except one. Apparently everyone (like 7 people) else planned their own party and specifically did not wa...
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{ "description": "getting sad, angry and irritated that my parents are giving my so way more support whilst he's dealing with his mental health issues, than they ever did for me", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for getting sad, angry and irritated that my parents are giving my SO way more support whilst he's dealing with his mental health issues, than they ever did for me.
When I was 16, I broke down in my kitchen in front of my parents saying that I hate myself, I want to die and that I hate feeling so shit all the time, I need help. I only got help by the time I was 24. ​ During that time gap, I was pretty much ignored by my mother, assumingly because she didn't want t...
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{ "description": "wanting to kiss my girlfriend", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for wanting to kiss my girlfriend?
So me and this girl started talking quite a while back and I liked her a lot and she seemed to like me back, so eventually I asked her to a school dance, we went, she said she was interested in me, and so we dated a bit. However after several successful dates I asked if she wanted to make things official but she said ...
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{ "description": "rejecting my best friend", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 8 }
AITA for rejecting my best friend?
This is an alt account for obvious reasons. So I'm in college and currently my next door dorm neighbor who I'll call Chris has become one of my best friends. He's funny, sweet, cute and has helped me through a lot of my personal shit. I honestly don't deserve him as he helped me through some physical and emotional inju...
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{ "description": "learning some Romanian so I could cuss out my step mom", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA because I learned some Romanian so I could cuss out my step mom?
My step mom treats me like shit. She's from Romania but is a citizen allegedly. I don't know what my dad sees in her. She's really mean like when my dad and her are talking about politics and I try to add something she says "adults are speaking". Bitch. I don't know what she wants. My dad doesn't have money or anythin...
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{ "description": "not wanting my father to see my child", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not wanting my father to see my child?
To put things in context, very fast : my mother left my father and I when I was a baby, letting him providing for us. Then the day my father remarried, had children and his wife made my life miserable until I decided to live with my grandparents. My father and I haven't had a good relationship since then, and even bef...
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{ "description": "telling a girl that I like her, especially now when she's about to get into a relationship with someone else", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 3 }
WIBTA for telling a girl that I like her, especially now when she's about to get into a relationship with someone else.
I'll keep this very short, and spare you with the details. So there's this girl in my office that I like very much. She's been single since last 2-3 years. She and I are kind of best friends since 7-8 months. But recently, another guy who's slightly senior to me, proposed her ( not exactly propose, but he just told he...
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{ "description": "being pissed my boyfriend got a second apartment without telling me", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 10 }
AITA for being pissed my boyfriend got a second apartment without telling me?
I’ve been dating my boyfriend for 6 years now, living together for 3. The entire time, he’s worked a really intense job, about an hour and a half away. The commute wouldn’t be so bad were it not for the 70 hour weeks. He loves our town though and refuses to move closer to work. His company puts him up in a hotel for ...
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{ "description": "asking for extra credit", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 4 }
WIBTA for asking for extra credit?
I’m in college, I’m a film student taking an online anatomy class to knock out a gen ed requirement. The class uses Smart Book by McGraw Hill. This program allows students to read, do assignments and take quizzes from an online text book. In addition, we also need to participate in a weekly discussion forum. I was wor...
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{ "description": "telling my mum about my status with friends", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for telling my mum about my status with friends?
Throwaway account because some of my ‘friends’ follow me. My mum cares about me and my life at school and regularly asks if I have friends and whether I’m happy or not. Usually I’d say yes because I want to keep her happy but recently it seems as though I’ve started to have less and less friends and I’m not sure who i...
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{ "description": "tipping 10% for bad to regular service, 15% for good service and 20% for extraordinary service", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for tipping 10% for bad to regular service, 15% for good service and 20% for extraordinary service?
I understand the perils of the service industry. Recently a friend suggested I should give a standard tip of 20% and go up from there.
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{ "description": "getting my partner a fitness tracker for Christmas", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA for getting my partner a fitness tracker for Christmas?
My partner is a normal weight, and healthy. I have another present for her that she has asked for, nothing to do with fitness. The reasons why I want to get her a fitness tracker: She enjoys exercising She can’t find enough time to exercise so I thought this might be a good motivator She exercises primarily for men...
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{ "description": "getting mad at my (now ex) boyfriend for this", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for getting mad at my (now ex) boyfriend for this
so my now ex boyfriend and i went on a holiday with his family, it was a pretty beachy holiday town to give you an idea. there was multiple times where i caught him checking out the girls around in bikinis and making comments w/ his dad about the girls, which bothered me but only because he was so obvious about it. b...
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{ "description": "not wanting to take on extra work with no promise of a compensation", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to take on extra work with no promise of a compensation?
I've been at my current job for 7+ years and despite my honest, best effort I haven't been promoted and my raises have been laughable. Sure, I get the highest possible ratings on my review, but my raises are pennies. Promotions only go to people who have been with the company for 15+ years, regardless of how much or ...
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{ "description": "not wanting to go to work tomorrow", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to go to work tomorrow?
I work at a preschool as a float. This means that I am able to work in any classroom. Recently, I’ve been in one classroom only while we’re short staffed. My co-teachers in the room have expressed interest in having me in the room full time. They have asked the office staff multiple times why interviews are taking pla...
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{ "description": "making a bad post about something", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for making a bad post about something?
I made a post on r/MaliciousCompliance yesterday. It went horribly wrong (everyone who saw it down voted) so I deleted it to avoid the hate in the replies. But I was linked here in numerous replies. Am I the asshole for even THINKING about posting it?
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{ "description": "being to 'lecture' people every time I see someone being an asshole", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 3 }
WIBTA if I were to ‘lecture’ people every time I see someone being an asshole?
This is gonna be kinda rhetorical. So I live in a kinda place where people really don’t follow social rules all that much. Everyday that I have to communicate with the general public is a day I get upset. For instance, people cutting in line, people playing stuff without headphones, people just being straight up rude, ...
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{ "description": "not wanting to work with a fellow employee that prefers gender neutral pronouns", "pronormative_score": 88, "contranormative_score": 42 }
AITA for not wanting to work with a fellow employee that prefers gender neutral pronouns?
I work for a major retailer near a big city. Recently we hired a new kid named Chuck. Chuck is great. Chuck does their job, shows up on time, and is pleasant to be around. If you’ve ever worked retail you know not many people can check these 3 basic boxes. A couple months after being hired Chuck began asking people t...
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AITA Employer problems...
This is an event that occurred this past summer, and has recently been brought up again, anyways..... this is the situation. Am I the jack wad? Over this past summer I quit my job working at a farm to pursue a career in building homes, it seemed like a great idea to do because I like working with my hands and building...
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{ "description": "not paying my friend rent money back", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for not paying my friend rent money back?
About two yeas ago I rented a small workshop space for my friend and me to do some woodworking. It was in the same house as his apartment and about 200$ per month. We agreed that each of us will pay 100$ and split the money we need to set up everything. A few days after he signed the contract in his name I asked him ...
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{ "description": "telling a girl that she's not \"just being honest\", she's just being a bitch", "pronormative_score": 201, "contranormative_score": 30 }
AITA for telling a girl that she’s not “just being honest”, she’s just being a bitch?
This just happened at lunch earlier and my one friend is telling me I went too far and making me second guess myself. There’s this girl who is sort of part of my group of friends, but not really. She eats lunch with us and hangs around before classes start, but that’s it. None of us hang out with her outside of sc...
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{ "description": "telling my gf to get an abort", "pronormative_score": 339, "contranormative_score": 357 }
AITA for telling my GF to get an abort?
Reference: I'm 22, she's 23. - Europe. We started dating mid August, she told me.she has PCOS and could not get pregnant. Through our entire dating time, she's always said she can't get pregnant, and if she ever got pregnant, she'd just get an abort - No biggie. We found out 2 weeks ago that she was pregnant, and ye...
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{ "description": "breaking up with my girlfriend for opening up to me about her past abuse", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 3 }
WIBTA if I broke up with my girlfriend for opening up to me about her past abuse? [UPDATE]
Original post here: https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/aobtea/wibta_if_i_broke_up_with_my_girlfriend_for/?st=JSLAC904&sh=650bea4d After reading some of the comments, I realized what a selfish, immature asshole I was being. Also realized that I did not want to lose her despite my initial anxieties. I’...
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{ "description": "not attempting to meet my brother", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not attempting to meet my brother?
Note: I'm going to be telling this story from the perspective of my mom, because it makes most sense that way. I am also missing many details, but I'll answer any questions to the best of my ability. My father told me that he had been married before he met my mother when I was 14. I was sitting in a diner with my bro...
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{ "description": "not wanting to stay longer at my mom's friends house because they weren't giving out Red Packets for Chinese New Year this year", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for not wanting to stay longer at my mom’s friends house because they weren’t giving out Red Packets for Chinese New Year this year?
For the past 3 years, I enjoyed visiting my Mom’s friend’s house because I would get about 100 dollars worth of Red Packets (traditional red envelopes that contain money, given during Chinese New Year) and there’d be some gambling involved. This year, my mom informed me last minute that they decided there won’t be any ...
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{ "description": "being mad at a friend that is helping me", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA for being mad at a friend that is helping me?
Throwaway because this friend has access to my original account. Me, 15M K, 17M I am having problems with a friend of mine and would like to know who the asshole is. Now, the situation we are in is an interesting one. He is quite self-centered and we have been having problems with that since around September. The mai...
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{ "description": "letting my kid keep a toy she found at the park", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for letting my kid keep a toy she found at the park?
My toddler found a fingerling at the park. We asked around, and nobody claimed it, so I let her keep it. It’s a community park, it had been rained on and had clearly been there for days, and we asked if it belonged to anyone before I let her keep it. My husband told me “Finders Keepers” isn’t a good lesson to teach m...
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{ "description": "burning my mom's birthday card", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for burning my mom's birthday card?
Obligatory sorry for formatting, I'm on mobile So, to give context, I [21F] had a boyfriend [21] for around 3 years who was manipulative and mentally abusing before I broke it off ~9 months ago. He was nice to my parents, especially my mother, who had no idea how he was when we were alone. Flashforward to after the ...
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{ "description": "not changing my behavior for my girlfriend", "pronormative_score": 17, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not changing my behavior for my girlfriend?
My girlfriend and I got into an argument last night over this and while I think I'm in the right, I want to be sure moving forward in case the issue comes up again. We haven't been dating for very long, about a month and a half, so I knew that there would/will be some issues for us to work out in the long run. One of...
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{ "description": "leaving a dude with no where to stay", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for leaving a dude with no where to stay?
(When I say local I mean not an overseas traveler) Long story short I work at a hostel and had to call the police on a drunk local (A) (who was a guest) and they took him away to the drunk tank. He has a friend (B) here too who was better behaved than his friend, but still a straight up nuisance. I told B he was allow...
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{ "description": "not wanting to take care of a dog", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to take care of a dog?
Before anything, I do like animals, but I do not love them as some people do. I've had many family pets growing up, but would never be able to say I cried when any of them passed away. I just don't get emotionally attached to animals. With that said here's how the dog came into our lives: Ex-wife adopted a dog shortly...
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{ "description": "always requesting the front seat", "pronormative_score": 21, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA for always requesting the front seat?
For context, I'm 6'3" (190.5 cm) and I'm pretty sure no one else in our friend group is above 6'0" (182.88 cm), if that. It can be really uncomfortable to sit in the back seat when there's five of us in the car, so I try to get the front seat when I can, knowing the back seat isn't really inconveniencing anyone given t...
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{ "description": "refusing to clean due to ants", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for refusing to clean due to ants
Okay so recently my husband and I moved in with our father in law. They both work 12 hour days most days of the week. I currently do not work due to being newly moved, not driving, and living in the middle of nowhere. All day long I do chores to keep the house clean and nice. Except on their days off. The issue is tha...
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{ "description": "not wanting to deal with my mom's anxiety", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not wanting to deal with my mom's anxiety?
So I have to start this off by admitting I'm a pretty emotionally vacant person. Sometimes when friends tell me their problems I will say off the bat 'Look I love you, but I'm not sure I can be there emotional rock you need in this situation.' I'm like a drama no fly zone. My mom is a tremendously emotional person wi...
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{ "description": "referring to a person with a male name and masculine profile picture as \"him\" and for \"talking over\" them", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for referring to a person with a male name and masculine profile picture as “him” and for "talking over" them?
The post was about the ban of single-use plastics, specifically straws. **SISTER** is against this because it’s “ableist” to disabled “folx” and we should instead focus on the “100 companies responsible for 71% of global emissions”. Debate ensues between **OP**, **SISTER**, Disabled Folx X (**DFX**), & others. We d...
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{ "description": "going to get into trouble because of one word", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA, I am going to get into trouble because of one word.
So, yesterday me and two of my friends went down to the astro pitch in my school and some primary(elementary) kids started to annoy us so we told them to go away, a few minutes later i am casually talking to my friend and he says something dumb and i say 'mother fucker' little do i know that a primary kid was in-front ...
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{ "description": "wanting to press breaking and entering charges against my Ex-Girlfriend", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for wanting to press breaking and entering charges against my Ex-Girlfriend?
*Context* This is actually my friends story and I am transcribing it for him as he does not wish to make a Reddit account. He has given me his full permission to post this. As such, this will be from my friends perspective, not mine. *The Story* So I recently broke things off with my girlfriend of 8 months as she ha...
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{ "description": "laughing at my friend for not knowing how to equip a misc quest in Skyrim", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for laughing at my friend for not knowing how to equip a misc quest in Skyrim?
Alright so some context. This story involves Skyrim. If any of you have played this game you know how the questing system works. So I introduced my friend of three years to Skyrim and he loved it. By the time this happened he had already played more than me. So he was playing and he just said "wait what?! You can equip...
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{ "description": "not giving my husband's ashes to his relatives that want some", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for not giving my husband’s ashes to his relatives that want some?
Reading the other post about a husband passing away and his wishes made me want to bring my situation here to get opinions. My husband passed away in January. He made it clear to everyone years before he died that when he died he wanted to be cremated and his ashes scattered in the ocean. During his decline in th...
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