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{ "description": "refusing to do manual labor for a female coworker", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for refusing to do manual labor for a female coworker?
I work at a major retail hardware chain in the US part time. I sell appliances. This has been an ongoing problem in multiple departments over the 3 years I have worked here. There is currently a woman, “Erika”, who also works in appliances and a customer service associate, which is my exact same job title. Part of wo...
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{ "description": "not taking my fiance's side", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not taking my fiance's side?
Ugh this whole thing is so petty, but please hear me out. So the other day as I was heading home from work, I call up my fiance (let's call him Sam) to ask if he wants me to bring him anything to eat. He tells me that he's not at home and hanging out with some friends- I say hello to everyone (I was on speaker) and sa...
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{ "description": "ignoring my ex", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA For Ignoring my Ex?
Hello all and welcome to my post. I recently been called an asshole and I really don't see how I would be considered an asshole. ​ Firstly let me say, me and my ex were long distance for about 8 months(according to her even though it was maybe a 30 min drive) and she broke up with me because she didn't wa...
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{ "description": "asking a coworker out every few months to see if shes reconsidered", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 26 }
AITA For asking a coworker out every few months to see if shes reconsidered?
So, today newish RGM pulls me aside in the morning along with the AGM, and I could tell I was in trouble, but I hadn't the slightest clue what it could've been about. Well, they tell me that my coworker/crush of a little over a year complained about me sexually harassing her. I feel it should be pointed out that th...
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{ "description": "not wanting to pay my husbands friend for studio recording time", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for not wanting to pay my husbands friend for studio recording time?
The title indicates that its my money but I'm going to state upfront that me and my husband have a joint account so it is our money. I make more money than him so he has a tendency to ask me about big purchases but I always tell him hey you don't need to ask me to spend our money but if you're unsure about the state of...
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{ "description": "not wanting to cross that line", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to cross that line?
My spouse and I just had a serious talk about divorce after tip toeing around it recently. They told me about a month ago they were 50/50 leaving me then a few days later said were not ready to end it yet. Slowly over the last month I’ve came to believe that their mind was already made up and approached them about it t...
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{ "description": "hooking up with my best friend while she was in a committed relationship", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA for hooking up with my best friend while she was in a committed relationship.
So for the past 6 years I have been best friends with this girl. We were extremely close and touchy but always platonic. I was attracted to her to an extent but valued our friendship way too much to try anything. She began dating this guy long distance and around 4 months later we started hooking up. Basically every ti...
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{ "description": "blowing up at someone who called me a Shitty friend", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For Blowing Up At Someone Who Called Me a Shitty Friend?
First, duplicate account, because if I am the asshole I'd rather process that hard truth quietly to myself instead of having it lurk in my reddit history for anyone to see. Second, context: $Friend is someone I met in college. She has gone through a lot of very traumatic shit, including an abusive household wit...
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{ "description": "not staying after school", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for not staying after school?
Ok first of all, I'm going to preface this by saying my grades aren't the best. My dad asked me to stay after school and do make up work because I had missed the week prior to this. I told him I needed to some assignments on my computer and that I wasn't going to because at my school the computer lab closes at 2:30 (I ...
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{ "description": "refusing to pay my entire share of our heating bill", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 5 }
WIBTA for refusing to pay my entire share of our heating bill?
There’s more to the title than that. I’ve never been late on bills or rent and have, on more than one occasion, covered for my roommates. I’ve been out of state on an internship for 2 and a half weeks, and somehow our heating bill is astronomical. I live with 3 other roommates (4 total in the house) and we always split...
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{ "description": "not wanting to take care of/clean up after a dog that isn't mine", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to take care of/clean up after a dog that isn’t mine?
Just putting this out there... this is my first reddit post EVER and I’m hoping for some good feedback. Ok so me and the gf are cat ppl, we have 2 cats and we’re very happy with them. Enter her 20 something yr old daughter that currently lives with us... she decides that she wants a dog and goes about it the right wa...
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{ "description": "never being able to take a compliment well", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for never being able to take a compliment well?
I want to preface this by stating I’m not looking for attention and I’m looking for some genuine advice. When a receive a compliment from somebody,I’m always confused as to what the correct response is. I usually default to denying the compliment and supplying a counter argument that disproved the nature of the compl...
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{ "description": "not allowing a couple to order food after close", "pronormative_score": 15, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not allowing a couple to order food after close?
I work at a small chain restaurant as a server/waitress. Some information to know before hand is the hours of our restaurant change between summer and winter. This is because we don’t make enough business during winter, to keep open later. During the summer we were open 11am to 9pm. During the winter our hours became 1...
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{ "description": "telling my flatmate who's my husbands best friend to break up with his girlfriend or move out", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 35 }
AITA for telling my flatmate who’s my husbands best friend to break up with his girlfriend or move out?
My husbands best friend lives with myself and my husband and our toddler. The dynamic works well as we have known his best friend (let’s call him Tom) since high school. We are all in our late twenties. Tom has been living with us and contributing to the household for a year now. I have no problems with Tom as he is ve...
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{ "description": "not believing a Friend's Reason for IG Drop", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA Not Believing a Friend's Reason for IG Drop
Sorry on mobile, so please forgive any format weirdness. Met a friend 8 years ago through work when I moved to a new city, but became better friends about three years ago. We were the kind of friends that hung out after work at our houses or going out with other coworkers. We've hung out with each other's signific...
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ba8ov3
{ "description": "offending a trans member of our guild", "pronormative_score": 46, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for offending a trans member of our guild?
**throwaway because my guild uses reddit to communicate. i do know that lgbtq issues can be contentious and can be seen as baiting but i have read through similar posts i searched on this reddit and haven't found any very similar issues. i promise i am not trying to be inflammatory and will try to be as respectful as p...
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{ "description": "wanting to know who my girlfriend goes out with", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for wanting to know who my girlfriend goes out with?
I have a girlfriend for 5 months now, she's great and she loves me, but lately she's been wanting to go solo, it's mean we're still in a relationship but she doesn't want to admit because she wants to go out with her friends (mostly boys) and doesn't feel guilty about it so I'm like sure. ​ After a while, ...
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{ "description": "not letting my sister burrow my clothes", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not letting my sister burrow my clothes?
Ok first off I don’t like sharing especially when it comes to my clothing. I absolutely hate it when my sisters wear my clothes especially without asking me or letting me know. If I see them wearing one of my shirts I won’t flips out or anything but I will let them know that I don’t appreciate it when they wear anythin...
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{ "description": "not wanting my roommates friend living at our house", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting my roommates friend living at our house.
I (19f) recently moved into a house share situation. I'm from a small country town and a pretty protective family this is my first experience living away from home. My roommate (23m) has a friend (25m) who, when first meeting me and other roommate (20f) was disrespectful, rude, creepy ect. We confronted him and he now...
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{ "description": "not letting a guy win at a card game", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not letting a guy win at a card game?
So I'm honestly feeling like shit here. I play magic the gathering, the multiplayer commander format (instead of 1v1, it's usually 4 players all playing each other). I was in a group with 3 guys. Let's call them Jack, Harry and Fred. Fred was playing a newish deck that he hadn't played much, and was basically out of...
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{ "description": "being mad at my friend for not telling me he was packing while in my house", "pronormative_score": 21, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for being mad at my friend for not telling me he was packing while in my house?
Long story short, my wife and I invited friends over to our house to catch up. I find out the next day one of the guys, let’s call him Jim, had a gun on him the entire time. My wife thought she saw it right when he walked through the door. So sketchy immediately. She asked him directly if he had a gun, but he didn’t a...
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{ "description": "being pissed at my brother", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being pissed at my brother?
My (21) brother (22) has constantly been a pain in my ass for entire life, and never takes responsibility for when he fucks up. We had a vacation for my birthday planned 2 years in advance just for four guys, including myself and my brother. We were only there for a day and a half when my brother drank to much, got him...
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{ "description": "possibly ending one of my mother's friendships over a seat belt", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for possibly ending one of my mother's friendships over a seat belt.
So my mom is friends with our neighbor for about 6 years anyways we had a plan to go to a small city today to do some grocery shopping. Our neighbor who I will call Jane, heard that we where going and my mom invited her along being nice. We had to do some chores around our town for a bit before we left. We eventuall...
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{ "description": "not being part of my boyfriend's Sunday game nights", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not being part of my boyfriend's Sunday game nights
My boyfriend has Sunday video game nights with his friends (we're all men) and play like Mario Kart and stuff. I'm not a huge video gamer, but I like playing from time to time. His friends aren't particularly nice to me, they make uncomfortable jokes at my expense (nothing evil, just rude) and I don't like them much ...
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{ "description": "telling my husband I'd leave him if he ever lost his temper with my cat again", "pronormative_score": 67, "contranormative_score": 99 }
AITA for telling my husband I'd leave him if he ever lost his temper with my cat again?
Just happened thirty minutes ago. I was putting dishes away from dinner and my son was pestering my cat. She gets mad and nips him. We've been trying to teach my son to be nicer to her but he constantly antagonizes her. And she always walks back to him to give him more chances. Anyways, my son pushed it to far and ...
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{ "description": "feeling uncomfortable about having my picture taken and posted on social media without my knowledge", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for feeling uncomfortable about having my picture taken and posted on social media without my knowledge?
I am employed at a company and work with non-neurotypical students. This week we had a “superhero day,” so I dressed up as Captain Marvel. The next day, one of the students said “Oh, yeah, Katie (Name changed of course) posted a picture of you on their instagram story.” I had had no knowledge that my picture had been t...
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{ "description": "breaking up with my longterm gf because of nagging", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 9 }
AITA for breaking up with my longterm GF because of nagging?
So me and this girl "Kris", met at summer camp many years ago. We're both 22, and have been together since we were 17. Anyhow, I'm a really introverted guy. I can have fun with friends just fine, especially after a few drinks, but other than that I don't really like talking to people, at all. It's not that I dislike pe...
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{ "description": "throwing water on my Father who has dementia", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for throwing water on my Father who has dementia?
So my(19m) Father(61m) was diagnosed with Frontal Temporal Dementia two years ago. Right now he's in the moderate to severe stage which basically entails no short term memory, poor decision making, poor communication skills and poor body maintenance. All he does these days is go on long walks and sit in silence or slee...
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{ "description": "getting upset because my parents bought me a house in wrong geographical location", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for getting upset because my parents bought me a house in wrong geographical location
I left my country and settled in a far away country because i wanted a clean break from my entire family tree...i stay in touch with immediate family...i dont really like or agree with my folks (any of them) but i dont like upsetting them all the time by telling them so, so i pretty much stay diplomatic for the duratio...
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{ "description": "deleting dms my boyfriend gets on Instagram to stop him from leading girls on and then ghosting them", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 19 }
AITA for deleting DMs my boyfriend gets on Instagram to stop him from leading girls on and then ghosting them.
Now, before you guys say I’m controlling my boyfriend is very attractive and gets DMs from girls almost every day. He doesn’t meet up with them but he sucks at rejecting them and often he’ll barely hold a conversation with them, but they’ll take that sliver and run with it, trying to ask him out, or even heckling him t...
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{ "description": "calling out my customers for bad handwriting", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for calling out my customers for bad handwriting.
I work at a hotel restobar and sometimes the customers would choose the option to charge their bill to the room, so I'd have them write out their name, room number and signature. Occasionally, we'd have customers with handwritings of a doctor and its so confusing. So 2 days ago a customer wrote his room number on the b...
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{ "description": "meeting a girl in relationship many times a week", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 11 }
AITA for meeting a girl in relationship many times a week?
I met a girl in a dance course in October and we became very good friends very quickly and I got a crush on her. We talked a lot and found out we had very similar life plans for things like family, home, etc. This got me pretty excited so I asked her if she was single. It turned out she was not, but still she wanted t...
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{ "description": "going through my girlfriend's phone", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 89 }
AITA for going through my girlfriend's phone
My girlfriend has been going out a lot recently with her "high school friends". They had a little reunion a could of weeks ago and she's been hanging out with them every weekend since. I thought these were just a bunch of girls, but last night she admitted that one of them was a guy. When I had the chance I took out h...
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{ "description": "blowing up about how mum treated me on her birthday", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for blowing up about how mum treated me on her birthday
Context: I have an Ok call center job, I had a degree (2:2 / GPA ~3) been looking for jobs in my field of geology and being turned down or not hearing back from anything so I feel super lost. I am paying rent to my parents (~£200) and I get a full mother's experience from that (although I'm trying to get her to teach m...
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{ "description": "hating on everyone that watches a drama show", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 10 }
AITA for hating on everyone that watches a drama show
There is a YouTube channel which makes tons of videos every week, and one "series" of those videos is called "catching cheaters" where they allegedly pay couples to check each other's phones and see if someone is allegedly cheating. I say allegedly because this sh*$ has been confirmed to be fake and they are paid actor...
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{ "description": "not feeling bad", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for not feeling bad?
My friend from the third grade just went to jail for hitting his wife, and he wants to talk to me about it. I am totally against a male hitting a female for any reason. He found out that his wife was talking to another male, flipped out on her for talking to him and ended up punching her in the face. She called the cop...
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{ "description": "asking my girlfriend to have an abortion", "pronormative_score": 21, "contranormative_score": 31 }
AITA for asking my girlfriend to have an abortion?
Oh god, I know this sounds terrible. I (18m) have been dating my girlfriend (20f) for seven months. Last week, she told me she's pregnant. Firstly, I felt shocked because she's on the pill. We weren't using any back-up protection, but I researched the pill as over 99% effective and, as a young woman in university and ...
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AUTHOR
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{ "description": "wanting my boyfriend to wait to climb a tough mountain", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for wanting my boyfriend to wait to climb a tough mountain?
My boyfriend and I (7 years together, both mid-twenties) really enjoy hiking together, especially after an awesome trip to the Alps last summer in which we did some challenging trails. ​ This summer, he has his sights set on a notorious ridge trail that we decided was too challenging for us last year. It i...
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{ "description": "filing an insurance claim against a one night stand", "pronormative_score": 30, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA for filing an insurance claim against a one night stand?
When I showed up at his house, I texted him asking where to park. He came outside and showed me to this little side concrete thing. I pulled forward til he waved for me to stop. I got out, we kissed, and went inside. Overall it was an awesome night. His house was clean and nice, so was he. The sex was phenomenal, he ...
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{ "description": "cancelling my own wedding reception after my parents took complete control of planning it", "pronormative_score": 19, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for cancelling my own wedding reception after my parents took complete control of planning it?
I'm already married but in my culture, we do three events: the vows, the bride's reception and then the groom's reception. I live 5000miles away from my parents and got married here. My parents don't quite love my husband, they've only met him twice and the one time during our vows which they flew all the way over fo...
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AITA? Housemate claims I'm too noisy.
Throwaway cuz my housemate browses reddit too. Ahhh housemate troubles. Something everyone loves, eh. Anyway, on to the story. I live in a two bedroom, two bathroom apartment. The living room and kitchen are on a separate "half level" as we live on the side of a hill. Typically, sounds are very audible in an Austra...
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OTHER
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{ "description": "banning my roommate's girlfriend from our dorm", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for banning my roommate's girlfriend from our dorm?
(Sorry about formatting, I'm on mobile) I'm a first year student in college, so I am living in a dorm with my roommate. When we first got to college, we made a roommate agreement form. At the time, we were both single and what not. One of the most relevant points on this form was something along the lines of "If you wa...
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{ "description": "telling my roommates to be quiet at 3am", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for telling my roommates to be quiet at 3am?
I live in a very small apartment. All 3 bedrooms are very close to the kitchen. My one roommate and her boyfriend live in the kitchen. 80% of the time they are at home, they are in the kitchen. Usually they are pretty good about being quiet during the weeknights, so it's not too much of a problem. But weekends are bad....
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{ "description": "not wanting to invite fiancee's friend to our wedding", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I didn't want to invite fiancee's friend to our wedding?
A little history here. She is a friend of ours (more his than mine) from college. Let's call her Sam. Now my fiancee's best man, Jake and her had been talking a bit a few years back but nothing came of it. Then Jake met Megan. Megan and Sam were friends for a long time, but only really talked when they weren't dating...
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{ "description": "punching someone who was pissing me off", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA for punching someone who was pissing me off?
Sorry for any bad grammar mistakes or anything, I'm a student who is kinda bad at it anyway. For extra this happened around my second year in this high school and I tend to keep my feelings bottled up until something forces me to release them and sometimes its in physical ways and other times its the silent treatment. ...
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AITA: Had loud sex with girlfriend to annoy the guy who has a crush on her
My girlfriend, D, and I have been together for three months. I'm caucasian and she is of Chinese descent (this is relevant later). She lives in a co-ed dorm, and one of her neighbors, J, has a longstanding infatuation with her. I've known about J since before we started dating, and D has (too gently, I think) let him d...
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{ "description": "expecting help from my own friends", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for expecting help from my own friends
I always feel that there's a pattern when it comes to helping out my friends. Whenever they need help I'm always there for them giving my best. But when it is the other way around I always feel helpless most of the time. Most of my frustrations during my problems is that they don't even bother to ask if there's somethi...
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{ "description": "sleeping on the shuttle", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA if I sleep on the shuttle (I snore)?
So I’m taking a shuttle (a big van company back home) and it’s 6:30 am rn and I want to sleep, but I snore. WIBTA if I fall asleep on the shuttle? Thanks guys. It’s tough because I snore and I’m only 19 years old
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{ "description": "using led headlights", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for using LED headlights?
First i like to point out i know how annoying they are but a bit of a back story: I'm a motorcycle rider and my mechanic installed them for me as a gift without really asking before he did. i was going to switch back to normal headlamps but said i would give them a shot for a week or so (just cause they look nice, sel...
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{ "description": "being mad at my friends for not helping me", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for being mad at my friends for not helping me
I've been struggling with a large project, for a number of reasons. This is a solo project and we've been working on it for a few weeks. I've not been able to focus on my work lately due to a number of personal reasons which my friends are aware of, and I was able to get an extension for said project due to this. By ...
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{ "description": "lying to a girl I liked and ditching her with lies, because I regretted my actions", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for lying to a girl I liked and ditching her with lies, because I regretted my actions?
So let's start with a backstory that goes 4 years back. My friend and me were on a vacation at the seaside where we met a guy (let's call him Dave). He was a cool guy overall so we kept contact for about 1-2 years. Fast forward 3 years my UNI made a picnic party. The day arrived and when I came there Dave was there an...
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{ "description": "not letting my older sister copy the homework", "pronormative_score": 17, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not letting my older sister copy the homework?
My older sister (I’m 17 and she’s 19) and I are taking a college course together (which I now realize was a terrible idea). Since the start of the class I’ve been doing all of our assignments purely because I want to avoid arguing with her. She can be really mean and hurtful when in an argument and I always end up cryi...
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OTHER
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{ "description": "getting upset with my boyfriend for giving my leftovers away to a homeless man", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for getting upset with my boyfriend for giving my leftovers away to a homeless man?
This happened awhile ago when I was a broke college student. Our local pizza joint had a special on Wednesday where the menu was 30% off for college students. It had been awhile since me and the when bf had a date night, so I decided to treat us. I specifically ordered a large pizza with the intention of having leftove...
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{ "description": "bragging about my success to a struggling single mother", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 101 }
AITA for bragging about my success to a struggling single mother?
**I know the title sounds alarming, but there is considerable context.** I (27M) have a very high paying job, am engaged to a beautiful woman and have it pretty good in life. HOWEVER this was not always the case, in high school I was extremely overweight, had acne and was mercilessly bullied...even up until 18 There ...
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AUTHOR
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{ "description": "wanting space after so mocked me for being sick", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for wanting space after SO mocked me for being sick
Have been sick for the past 4 days. Trying my best to feel better and keep positive. ​ SO gets snappy at me last night because I haven't gone to the dr to get it checked out. I knew it wasn't anything serious, just a bad bout of a stomach virus and it would go away with some time. I didn't want to go to ur...
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{ "description": "possibly cheating", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for possibly cheating?
I (22m) saw this girl (23, call her Gal) for a total of 5 weeks. I could tell by week 2 it wasn't going to work, but being inexperienced and from a broken home I wanted to try my best to make the relationship work. At the end of week 5 my (friend 1) was celebrating her birthday by drinking downtown friday night. I i...
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OTHER
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{ "description": "asking my gf to stay away from her fling", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for asking my gf to stay away from her fling
Story goes like this and I'll try to be utmost honest about everything. I started dating my gf almost a year ago. We do LDR. I visit her every 1 and a half month. I am in Thailand and she's in UK. We have to be apart because I am a student researcher in an American university in Bangkok and she's currently pursuing ...
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EVERYBODY
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WRONG
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{ "description": "informing my employers of the raise in minimum wage", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for informing my employers of the raise in minimum wage?
Okay guys to keep this as simple as possible I will cite the texts we exchanged verbatim. “M” will stand for me (the possible asshole). “E1” and “E2” will stand for my bosses. M- Hey guys, I read online minimum wage has been raised to $8.85 since Jan. 1st, I’m not sure if you guys were aware, but I remember the last ...
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AITA, in character, for thinking that my party member should've acted in a certain way?
PREMISE: This is D&D 5e. A friend of mine runs a D&D 5e game. Last session, we went up against a sleeping young red dragon, and while pondering what to do with it because while it wasn't our mission, the guy was standing in our way and we had the option to kill it or leave it be and possibly have to face it la...
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{ "description": "not wanting to take care of my sister's kids", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not wanting to take care of my sister's kids?
I currently live two hours away from my family, and my dad’s birthday is this coming week. I don’t come home a lot, since I’m busy with school and work. I planned weeks in advance to come back this weekend before his birthday to see him and spend time with my family. I drove back Friday (yesterday) right before noon, a...
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{ "description": "wanting to download a game I bought for myself whilst someone is trying to watch tv downstairs", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for wanting to download a game I bought for myself whilst someone is trying to watch TV downstairs?
So, I know the title may be confusing to some people so let me explain. The way the TV works in my house is that it’s linked with the internet, so if you wanted to watch TV properly you would have to have no one doing any downloading on the network, otherwise the TV will become choppy and unwatchable. It’s already ...
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{ "description": "not speaking to my dad in 3 years", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for not speaking to my dad in 3 years?
My dad said something terrible to my mom in front of me and my brother a few years ago. We haven't been speaking since but we do live together. Last month we got into another fight. He was threatening to beat me up and saying I don't respect him. I asked him to acknowledge that what he said was wrong. His response wa...
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{ "description": "telling my girlfriend we are not very compatible sex wise and asking if we can have an open relationship", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA For telling my girlfriend we are not very compatible sex wise and asking if we can have an open relationship?
I have been dating my girlfriend for five months, and despite having very little issue with her personality, our sex life is terrible for me. Its not that I dont find her unattractive per se, I just don't enjoy sex with her. She doesn't understand my needs despite me communicating what I want. I have sat down with her...
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{ "description": "playing music with a speaker on my bicycle", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 24 }
AITA for playing music with a speaker on my bicycle?
For several weeks now, I've been using a loudspeaker (a JBL GO, roughly the size of my hand) to listen to some music when I'm going to college -or anywhere else I go with my bike in fact-. Since then, I couldn't help but notice quite the number of people not only looking at me surprised, but also more or less angry. T...
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AUTHOR
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{ "description": "not wanting to find a new flat with my current flatmate", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to find a new flat with my current flatmate?
Hey guys! Skipping the long intro and jumping straight into it: Right now, I live with my room mate (Gonna call them X for this story!) When X and I moved together we had this agreement of how things where gonna be. We were gonna have a shared account for money to the flat (rent, Electricity, Wifi, etc) and we we...
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{ "description": "quitting my job", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
Wibta for quitting my job?
So for the past two weeks I have been working two full time jobs in a bid to relieve my family of some debt (nothing serious) and stockpile for Christmas. One is my career 9-5 and the other is an overnight position. I am 15 minutes early to both jobs and perform my duties to the fullest at both. The time in between job...
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{ "description": "not helping boyfriend orgasm", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA for not helping boyfriend orgasm?
Ok so my(24F) boyfriend (29M) takes a while to finish. Sometimes I'll be doing something (either on top or a bj, or whatever) then switch it up because whatever muscles I'm using are getting tired. I'll learn after sex or right after I move that he was kind of close to finishing but the change wrecked it (my words, not...
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{ "description": "scolding scooter riders on the wwii memorial", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for scolding scooter riders on the WWII memorial?
I’m visiting family in Washington DC and I decided to go for a run. I’m running by the WWII memorial and I notice a few teenagers riding e scooters around the memorial. I politely ask them to move somewhere else out of respect. The parents proceed to yell at me and tell me to mind my own business. AITA for asking them ...
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AUTHOR
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{ "description": "walking out, and later for not forgiving my brother", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for walking out, and later for not forgiving my brother?
Ok so here’s what happened: my mom (50+) wanted to put a rug in the kitchen that my brother (20s), dad (50+), and I (teen) hated. She refused to listen to our opinions so everyone started raising their voices. I got uncomfortable and went to my room to get some peace and quiet. My brother comes to my room shortly after...
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OTHER
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{ "description": "not cuddling with my wife at night because I want to read", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA For not cuddling with my wife at night because I want to read.
I guess im slowly morphing into an old man because ive started to read books on my kindle late at night. I go to the living room couch so i dont keep my wife up with the light since she likes to go to bed earlier. However recently shes been waking up later into the night, getting up, and asking me to come to bed with ...
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{ "description": "telling my brother his girlfriend is not allowed at our house anymore", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for telling my brother his girlfriend is not allowed at our house anymore.
So some background. They started seeing each other at work shortly after he had a long term relationship go very bad. He’s 25 slowly getting his shit together. She is 30 with a former heroin addiction, two kids she dumped on her ex after he got out of jail, and doesn’t have a drivers license or a job. I would go on but...
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OTHER
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{ "description": "running a cable guy off my front porch", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for running a cable guy off my front porch?
Some background about myself and my situation: I hate people knocking on my door. I have a no soliciting sign. We recently moved due to unforseen circumstances. The wife called the cable company to get our account transferred and they screwed the whole process up. I have spent way too much time on the phone with them ...
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{ "AUTHOR": 2, "OTHER": 4, "EVERYBODY": 2, "NOBODY": 0, "INFO": 0 }
OTHER
{ "RIGHT": 4, "WRONG": 4 }
RIGHT
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awkumo
{ "description": "asking my girlfriend for pictures", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for asking my girlfriend for pictures?
Okay to start off I want everyone to know that I am 17 and my girlfriend is 17, we have been dating for about 8 months. Her family is very religious and mine almost as religious. So, anything sexual has to wait until marriage. Her parents are very strict about this and sometimes we aren't even allowed to be in the same...
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{ "description": "ordering food just for myself", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for ordering food just for myself?
I've done this more than once, but yesterday was the first time I felt really bad about it. Every Thursday night I play d&d with a good group of friends, we start at around 8pm and go until 2am most nights. There's 7 people in the campaign, 3 live in the house we play. Me and 2 others crash on their couches, and 1...
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{ "description": "literally putting my dick in my girl's mouth", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 8 }
AITA for literally putting my dick in my girl’s mouth?
Throwaway for obvious reason I (19M) have been with my Gf (19F) for a little over 4 months now. She is a virgin and we are waiting for her to be ready. We have started experiencing with oral and many times I’ve went down on her, often after her asking me to. She had never been with another boy so at the beginning she ...
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{ "description": "not talking to my mom about my mental health", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not talking to my mom about my mental health?
Hey all! LTL, FTP, on mobile so forgive my formatting, etc., etc. I know you’re all here for the story anyway. For some background, I’ve been suffering from depression since high school (I’m 25 now). The symptoms have gotten worse since I moved out of my parent’s house 2 years ago, due to losing a major support system...
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{ "description": "only serving vegetarian meals at my wedding", "pronormative_score": 118, "contranormative_score": 10 }
AITA if I only serve vegetarian meals at my wedding?
Both my partner and I are strict vegetarians. We have no problems with others eating meat in general but we often find the smell or look of it to be kind of gross. We never say anything about other people eating meat around us but on our wedding day we'd rather just not have to deal with it. AITA if the reception has n...
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{ "description": "wanting to keep my distance", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting to keep my distance?
One hour left on this stupid car ride, before I have to deal with her obnoxious ass. Sigh. I am a married, 40-year-old guy with a wife, two kids, dogs, a home, a profession, hobbies. All in all, a satisfying life. But a couple times a year, that all gets disrupted, as we travel out of area to visit my mother over holi...
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{ "description": "expressing extremeannoyance with my husbands bathroom habits", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 9 }
AITA for expressing extremeannoyance with my husbands bathroom habits?
This morning I woke up my husband, as I do every Wednesday. It is the only day of my work week that he is home and I get a chance to get ready without having to juggle our 9 month old. I placed the baby on the bed, and no exaggeration, he gets up and says he has to "pee", walks to the bathroom and closes the door. Is i...
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{ "description": "not letting my daughter go ice skating", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA for not letting my daughter go ice skating?
My daughters friend is having a party soon and they’re going ice skating. My daughter is a competitive dancer and the week after the party she has a competition. She has duets, trios, and group numbers so if she were to get injured she would be letting down all these other children. I’ve said to her she can’t go becaus...
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{ "description": "telling my boyfriend to grow up", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA if I told my boyfriend to grow up?
Throwaway because my friends and bf know my username, sorry this might be long. The title is a tad bit misleading, but let me start off by saying I love my boyfriend dearly. He’s a really a great guy and I love being with him. A little backstory: My [F/23] boyfriend’s [M/25] parents went through a very nasty divorce...
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{ "description": "dissing my friend at the bar", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for dissing my friend at the bar?
Ok, so i was gonna have some beers with a couple of friends. One of my best friends (who doesnt really hang out with them) asked if he could tag along. I said yes, of course (because who would want to diss a good friend, right?). Now, while he is generally well liked, looks good and is pretty charming i must admit he i...
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{ "description": "sitting at a table when I ordered pickup", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 9 }
AITA for sitting at a table when I ordered pickup?
I ordered some Thai food for pickup over the phone and went to get it. The layout of the resteraunt was similar to [this](http://www.girlsguidetoparis.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/02/Pont-de-Yunnan.jpg) random picture from Google images. The tables were set with forks and knives. I took a seat while waiting a few extra...
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{ "description": "dating my best friend's ex back in highschool, less than a month after they broke up", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for dating my best friend’s ex back in highschool, less than a month after they broke up?
This is a situation that happened 2 years ago and I’ve pretty much come to my own conclusion now but I think it would be interesting to hear reddit’s opinion. I was 17, never had a girlfriend, my mate had just broken up with this girl I barely knew. The break up was one of those “let’s take a break” things so my frie...
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{ "description": "not loving my family back", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not loving my family back?
I am a second-generation US citizen, born and raised in America. The only family I have in the US is my father, who I have a pretty good relationship with. I am an only child and my mother passed away around 4 years ago. The rest of my family (aunts, cousins, grandparent) live in China. I have only seen my family one...
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{ "description": "trying to help my gf out and be an adult", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for trying to help my gf out and be an adult?
So my gf went out last night. I was at work and she doesn't get paid till Friday so she needed some money. I gave her my debit card which only had 50$ on it bc I swapped to a new bank and my money was all in that account. So I told her before she left and before I was at work to not spend all of it just in case they tr...
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{ "description": "wanting to report my staff - UK", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for wanting to report my staff - UK
OK so I run a smallish forecourt in the middle of nowhere too far from any city to get staff to want to join us. Of the staff I do have 3 are on benefits. 1 of these is in her 40s and had 6 kids, claims everything and has her full time working husband living with her (undeclared), so will not work extra hours and lo...
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{ "description": "not letting my temporarily homeless brother stay with me and my girlfriend for a week", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 8 }
WIBTA if I didn't let my temporarily homeless brother stay with me and my girlfriend for a week?
So my girlfriend and I live in a thousand square foot apartment, and this morning my brother called asking to stay with us for a week. I told him I'd have to get back to him after talking to the gf. My gf and I are 23 and 22. My brother is 32. Recently he was kicked out of his house by his girlfriend and has nowhere ...
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{ "description": "not telling my lady friend that she was using the dog's toothbrush", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not telling my lady friend that she was using the dog's toothbrush?
It's the morning after, and naturally she wants to freshen up before we both head out for the day. Since I have quite a bit of extra toiletries, like the disposable ones from traveling, I tell her to help herself to whatever she needs while I get ready. All's well and I hear the sink running, so I assume she's found w...
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{ "description": "accidentally sexting a mentally ill teenager- his girlfriend says I'm a kiddy fiddler", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for accidentally sexting a mentally ill teenager- his girlfriend says I’m a kiddy fiddler
First time poster, here! OK. I met this kid on a psychiatric ward last year. I’m bipolar (it’s not a big deal anymore, been in and out of hospital for years) and he was in with ADHD and drug-induced psychosis. In hospital all ages and backgrounds socialise and bond so it’s quite normal to find yourself hanging out wi...
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AITA was I petty
So for the past few month these two girls have been bothering me calling me their bestie it was annoying because I've never really talked to them I ignored them at first bit they started to make condescending comments about my appearance and the way I am in general I told them to stop trying not to explode because I ca...
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{ "description": "wanting to have a baby with my husband while we go through couples counseling", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 32 }
AITA for wanting to have a baby with my husband while we go through couples counseling?
My husband and I work hard and are self employed- we own a fitness studio. After 8 yrs of hard work the place is successful, we have a fabulous core of families and employees.... we often call it our Other Family. Now my husband and I have been having issues in our marriage and while we are currently separated we hav...
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{ "description": "not including a classmates name as part of an assignment for credit", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not including a classmates name as part of an assignment for credit?
Im in a group with three other people besides myself. We were recently assigned an extra credit question to answer and email in where we had to also include a two paragraph explanation for our answer. We could work individually or within our group. One of the guys texted the group chat with his answer and so did one gi...
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{ "description": "wanting new roomie to help pay for utility installation", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting new roomie to help pay for utility installation?
Gonna keep this short. New roomie moved his stuff in early December, stayed in the house about a week and then went to his parents for the holidays While he was gone we had to get the water re-installed as the last roomie- whose spot the new guy took- cancelled it (it was in his name). I pick up the cost and venmo th...
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{ "description": "telling my two best friends to quit being so intimate, and for not telling my best friend's girlfriend she's being cheated on", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for telling my two best friends to quit being so intimate, and for not telling my best friend's girlfriend she's being cheated on?
I imagine this post is going to seem weird to a lot of people, but I'm part of a very small but very close friendship group, there's me (M), my housemate (V) , and a girl we've known for years (A). A is over our house almost everyday, and for the last few months A and V have been getting worryingly close; they'll cud...
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{ "description": "not letting my girlfriends dog live with us in the apartment", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 5 }
WIBTA for not letting my girlfriends dog live with us in the apartment?
I have been living in and renting an apartment of my own for 2 months now and have never wanted her dog to live with us. I also stated this beforehand because she fails to look after it and forgets about it most of the time. Since me and my girlfriend have been living together the dog has also been living with us and I...
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{ "description": "telling my parents my Sister went to Mexico", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for Telling My Parents My Sister Went to Mexico
**So some revelent background information before I get to the meat of the matter:** My sister is 18 yo and is in her first year of university. She went pretty wild her first semester and is looking to pledge for a sorority next semester. She asked my parents if she could go on a cruise to mexico with her friends, they...
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{ "description": "siding with my sister over my mom", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for siding with my sister over my mom
My mom recently moved from home to live with my sister in California. My sister attributes it to my mom wanting to get away from her ex. My mom says she wants to start a new life. My mom has been living there for about 2 months and everything is going fine. It all started when they moved to Texas to be closer to my si...
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{ "description": "wanting to end the relationship", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for wanting to end the relationship?
I met this guy this past fall and we quickly became friends. A couple months later, he confesses that he has feelings for me and "can't help but see us ending up together." I did not even slightly share the feeling. With this, he requested space to get over those feelings. He wanted to hang out slightly less, but also ...
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{ "description": "expecting my roommate to pay a share of the internet bill even if she wasn't around to use it", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA if I expect my roommate to pay a share of the internet bill even if she wasn't around to use it?
My roommate has been away for most of the billing period of the internet and thinks he shouldn't have to share the bill with us. I would agree if it was a usage based bill such as water or electricity, but because internet is a flat rate (like rent) I think he should still have to pay it. AITA if I suggest this?
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