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"description": "being mad at my friends for bringing an under aged drinker out",
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} | AITA for being mad at my friends for bringing an under aged drinker out. | I blew up yesterday at my friends for bringing a 19 year old out and buying her drinks. We know most of the bartender’s in town so they trust us but I was livid they not only took advantage of that but also didn’t tell me until much later in the night. | HISTORICAL | {
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xGA3xLXDixo8xK31Ouyud4IJWwPuPbXg | 9zpeoj | {
"description": "telling my boyfriend to buy his own PlayStation 4",
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} | AITA For telling my boyfriend to buy his own PlayStation 4? | Okay, so some background: I am a very avid “gamer girl”, not your typical gamer girl, I’m top 1000th in the world at Black Ops 3 Zombies and top 100th in the world at Black Ops 2 zombies. I’ve been playing since I was young and I love it. Honestly my only hobby besides painting is gaming. I bought my PlayStation 4 a fe... | HISTORICAL | {
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kuMf1IUNmsnd72yQ7u3jVOmzh2zTL9Z7 | aab5ux | {
"description": "bringing up that my girlfriend still follows her ex on Instagram",
"pronormative_score": 7,
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} | AITA for bringing up that my girlfriend still follows her ex on Instagram | So last night I made a joke that clearly did not go over well. One of my friends (more of a friend of my closest friends who i therefore see on occasion) broke up with his gf. And i know this because he liked 3 of my old photos. I laughed and told her "Bob is single again, man his gf must have really hated me".
This j... | HISTORICAL | {
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nwZ2IiADYl2ZjaNoWavMOblVhvvOCb0b | b70gal | {
"description": "sending my boyfriend a surprise gift delivery",
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} | WIBTA If I sent my boyfriend a surprise gift delivery? | My (23/F) boyfriend (26/m) has been extremely busy with work this week. A few times during the year, his job is really high stress and he usually reacts by being distant in our relationship. I understand why, it’s happened before and we’ve talked about it. However, I always worry about him when this happens and he reas... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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} | NOBODY | {
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} | RIGHT |
P6lLWfg5MptHikK3iYC1ZH3q0rVXMObh | al2x24 | {
"description": "calling my so stupid for getting sky",
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} | AITA for calling my SO stupid for getting sky? | So as title says.
Called my girlfriend stupid for getting sky, it costs £27 a month (no idea if its more after the first month as she did it without me knowing).
​
The reason I called her stupid was because its a bad idea, we struggle with money as it is right now and she has to constantly borrow money fr... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | WRONG |
E6h6Kd6BVNuuFuqRLpkISLB6v9rVv8sl | b3d9sr | {
"description": "asking her not to drink",
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} | AITA for asking her not to drink? | I grew up with an abusive alcoholic mother. It was hell and as a result I don’t drink at all and don’t like being around drunk people.
When I started dating my girlfriend I knew that she drank and discussed my issues with it. I just asked her that she doesn’t drink around me. It worked out fine, she was great ab... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | RIGHT |
TbWe4MVcQXIER3vqnyMMPFdNyV9p1vfj | ab3038 | {
"description": "just completely leaving the family supper",
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} | WIBTA if I just completely leave the family supper? | Ok, so this is kinda simple, but my extended family and I are on vacation on a ranch, which has a few buildings. Supper has been taking longer and longer to be made, with a steady decline in the quality of the food. Currently it has been taking until about 8:45, which is when I start to get exhausted, and I have been t... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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MPv780j51ChRGLWoN5tSTMeDOTTaCqra | a7aeap | {
"description": "getting mad at alcoholic mother",
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} | AITA for getting mad at alcoholic mother? | Hello first post here and its my second account.
Please ignore the name.
And im not native Englisch, so please forgive me if i make a mistake.
Its about my mother and it goes its way back a few years.
She has some Problems with her family, her brothers and sisters. She is the youngest out of 8 and always felt as if t... | HISTORICAL | {
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yZuzg8eRSlfqhJHO45VtvdBgMJrKNvYU | b2g1mg | {
"description": "not dumping my bf over his homophobic past and ruining my friend group",
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} | AITA for not dumping my bf over his homophobic past and ruining my friend group? | I [23M] have been seeing my boyfriend [22M] for a little over a year now and honestly, he makes me happier than anyone else has ever made me. When I tell you I'm in love with this guy, I don't have the words to describe how much I mean that. He's everything I've ever wanted and more.
However, he was raised in a very ... | HISTORICAL | {
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"INFO": 2
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 17,
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} | RIGHT |
uXqeZP6V8yhgJW3n9H6NlZl4WVaPnhCi | afcand | {
"description": "ending this friendship",
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} | AITA for ending this friendship? | AITA for ending this friendship?
I've known this person since the first grade (I'm currently in my junior year of high school). Ever since we were little shes had little respect for all types of boundaries. This includes telling random people all of your deepest and most personal secrets, no respect for personal space... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
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} | RIGHT |
qESsGPKSJzgiSppVQWcYoY2CqWukMetP | a2g7di | {
"description": "limiting contact with my sister",
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} | AITA for limiting contact with my sister? | (Throwaway) I’m 19f, my sister is 24. Long story short, my sister’s boyfriend (23?) tricked my parents into letting him move in with us (he chose to run away from home but said he was homeless). He never introduced himself to me so we just ignored eachother for 7 months. My sister was so focused on him and work that we... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 3,
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} | RIGHT |
qa6Zjyt3sDt71OiG9rvMQqIeuOM0YpYM | aais43 | {
"description": "not letting him use my computer",
"pronormative_score": 7,
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} | AITA for not letting him use my computer? | Sorry in advance for formatting, I'm on mobile... Some back story... I (36f) broke up with my ex (34m) about 2 months ago. Unfortunately he lives with me and my lease is not up for a few months, so I am basically stuck with him until then. It's been a rocky few months, to say the least. Anyway, I currently pay his ... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 7,
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} | RIGHT |
ktmCCRrcnsVEjtCPWRARHJBObbqYYoYv | aky4zq | {
"description": "telling the girl I'm dating that her asking about my ethnicity was out little out of left field",
"pronormative_score": 5,
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} | AITA for telling the girl I'm dating that her asking about my ethnicity was out little out of left field? | Some background:
Just started dating this girl and I'm not sure if she's White or Mexican (her last name looked hispanic to me but i haven't bothered to ask her) but I'm Black and Mexican. So we were texting each other an hour ago about how cold it's going to be tomorrow, work and our well our 2nd date went. Out of no... | HISTORICAL | {
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"NOBODY": 5,
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} | NOBODY | {
"RIGHT": 5,
"WRONG": 2
} | RIGHT |
pE3wvlvDjAIBy6HrMjFUhjIhBs9PZ1iX | aoqjz8 | {
"description": "asking my girlfriend to take it down a notch",
"pronormative_score": 10,
"contranormative_score": 1
} | AITA for asking my girlfriend to take it down a notch? | Okay so as we’re getting ready to go to bed. Brushing our teeth and the preparing for bed routine, we were having some conversation. She was telling me about her day and I realized she was being pretty loud. Mind you, it’s about 2:30AM, we live in an apartment and the walls are paper thin. When I’m taking a leak, I som... | HISTORICAL | {
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"OTHER": 9,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 1,
"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 10,
"WRONG": 1
} | RIGHT |
7fr2OwAbngHuYF7IpzAis00T84WfVIWu | as7wc0 | {
"description": "not wanting to touch my wife",
"pronormative_score": 6,
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} | AITA for not wanting to touch my wife? | ​
I'm almost 50, been married for almost 20 years. My wife is 46.
​
I think we came together all those years ago as two lonely people, afraid we'd never find anyone else. I married her, completely unsure about it, because I was afraid I'd be alone forever, and determined to "make it work". In h... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 45,
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"NOBODY": 4,
"INFO": 1
} | AUTHOR | {
"RIGHT": 6,
"WRONG": 45
} | WRONG |
mHzKMmZV8E9vLAxQtH1hnkAynM5NLUpw | apmhin | {
"description": "immediately stopping sex after my boyfriend of 11 years lets go of my hair that he has decided would be good to use as reins",
"pronormative_score": 137,
"contranormative_score": 7
} | AITA for immediately stopping sex after my boyfriend of 11 years lets go of my hair that he has decided would be good to use as reins? | We all know porn can mislead men (And women I suppose) into thinking women are so into everything. Anyone with eyeballs can see that the woman is definitely NOT into all of it. Yes they are acting but it is extremely hard to ignore the expressions of pain, unless you choose to ignore it. Anyways there seems to be a sty... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 5,
"OTHER": 126,
"EVERYBODY": 2,
"NOBODY": 11,
"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 137,
"WRONG": 7
} | RIGHT |
IsNnHur4u9kdRkXPMQ1fpMrAFDYzj6hx | axcm6i | {
"description": "hating my mom's lack of responsibility for her pet",
"pronormative_score": 3,
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} | AITA for hating my mom's lack of responsibility for her pet? | On mobile, etc.
I (29/F, work in the veterinary field) moved back in with my family, on my mother's insistence, a year ago when I was getting divorced, to finish school. I have since graduated, become licensed in my field, and gotten a good job. I'm working on moving out.
At the end of the summer my mom, who couldn't... | HISTORICAL | {
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"OTHER": 3,
"EVERYBODY": 1,
"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 3,
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} | RIGHT |
dwRKdE1FbWZ3iNknMLq7dQdgV5LqEwxK | afasqm | {
"description": "not dividing a post on a different sub into paragraphs",
"pronormative_score": 0,
"contranormative_score": 3
} | AITA because I didn't divide a post on a different sub into paragraphs? | I was on the Fortnite Battle Royale sub a month or two ago and I made a fairly long post about the story of the game. I didn't divide the post into paragraphs and a bunch of people started hating on me cause I didn't divide the post into sections. I know this is a short post but I wanna see if I'm in the wrong here. So... | HISTORICAL | {
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"EVERYBODY": 0,
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} | AUTHOR | {
"RIGHT": 0,
"WRONG": 3
} | WRONG |
FPgdfo9mzo4x5zpt0Ej3ObXJtLdp88zf | b0a3n9 | {
"description": "being upset my boyfriend wants to befriend his ex",
"pronormative_score": 19,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for being upset my boyfriend wants to befriend his ex | Boyfriend and his ex remained friends after breaking up, even though they haven't really talked ever since we started dating, which is about a year. For some reason, in the past week or two, their friendship seemed to have resurfaced. They've been going out for coffee several times a week and seem to suddenly talk ... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 0,
"OTHER": 19,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 19,
"WRONG": 0
} | RIGHT |
VdPoSxYwI5AUrpH1CuAtZjj7QktyWwoR | b92fuy | {
"description": "waking my mom all the time",
"pronormative_score": 3,
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} | AITA for waking my mom all the time | Okay, so for context I (18F) live with my parents and our 1 year old dog. Mom is usually the one who takes the dog out before sleep since I am afraid of the dark and dad is not that invested in the dog.
This, combined with the fact that she gets up early in the mornings, makes mom tired. So often she takes a nap befo... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 17,
"OTHER": 1,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 2,
"INFO": 1
} | AUTHOR | {
"RIGHT": 3,
"WRONG": 17
} | WRONG |
BXADAsciotLoIQPhsy7Ye6uGi9FszlxJ | aovz70 | {
"description": "asking my roomie to get out of my chair",
"pronormative_score": 6,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for asking my roomie to get out of my chair? | My roomie and I share a small 1 bedroom apartment. They have the bedroom with a door and I have the living room area that's right beside the kitchen as my "room". In my area are 2 desks and a dresser, and my one (comfy) computer chair. We eventually also got a small Ikea bench in my "room" that I hoped would solve this... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 0,
"OTHER": 6,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 1
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 6,
"WRONG": 0
} | RIGHT |
VmeD8NMTUBJsiKhcb8JERUezuwZ66Hrp | a7kj8e | {
"description": "being an asshole",
"pronormative_score": 3,
"contranormative_score": 1
} | AITA for being an asshole? | I believe that safety and security are more important than feelings.
At work there are machines that can really hurt people.
If children start to get close to them I politely tell them to be careful and not get to close to them.
If they step on them or put a hand on them I yell "Get away from there!"
Somebody walke... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 1,
"OTHER": 3,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 1
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 3,
"WRONG": 1
} | RIGHT |
8PthTkbeyAcRIzj83sZDLhrTCanjSOFm | ax068b | {
"description": "asking my roommate that his girlfriend can't over",
"pronormative_score": 5,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for asking my roommate that his girlfriend can't over. | So a bit of backstory. I am a 1st year university student currently living on res. My roommate is cool dude and he is also a good roommate but lately he has been inviting his girlfriend to the dorm a lot. She is very kind and a nice person but I get uncomfortable when she is around and because of that I spend more time... | HISTORICAL | {
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"OTHER": 2,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 3,
"INFO": 0
} | NOBODY | {
"RIGHT": 5,
"WRONG": 0
} | RIGHT |
lMLmGUU6a9w0OiOjvYAHC4VayfB8ultv | aljj2u | {
"description": "telling my depressive brother to STFU and KYS after a breakup",
"pronormative_score": 1,
"contranormative_score": 22
} | AITA for telling my depressive brother to STFU and KYS after a breakup? | So basically, my brother is 5 years older than me but a year below me in uni. My brother has been dealing with mental illness for most of his life, he has pretty bad anxiety, depression, and ADD and barely scraped out of HS with decent marks. He was in uni for a half a year before he tried to commit suicide, and after ... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 22,
"OTHER": 1,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 0
} | AUTHOR | {
"RIGHT": 1,
"WRONG": 22
} | WRONG |
98Rx768sahJHJAN3bEUpLxr9T6gaXFQm | a2y85p | {
"description": "telling my parents I'm an atheist",
"pronormative_score": 5,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for telling my parents I’m an atheist? | So I was brought up in a pretty conservative Pakistani household and had Islam burnt into my mind throughout my childhood and teenage years (praying five times a day, reading the quran, going to the mosque every week, fasting during ramadan). I was utterly devoted to the religion to the point where I voluntarily memori... | HISTORICAL | {
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"OTHER": 4,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 1,
"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 5,
"WRONG": 0
} | RIGHT |
u2pCLY6Xs6j1LPunqmfLvuaON2qQRiWC | azjooq | {
"description": "not wanting bf's daughter's dogs on my furniture",
"pronormative_score": 6,
"contranormative_score": 1
} | AITA for not wanting bf’s daughter’s dogs on my furniture? | I live with my boyfriend, we both have grown kids. It’s just the two of us, no pets, and we like it that way. I brought most of the living room furniture, except for one chair, into the home. Now bfs 28 year old daughter is breaking up with her girlfriend and told him she’s moving back home and bringing her two huge... | HISTORICAL | {
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"OTHER": 6,
"EVERYBODY": 1,
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"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 6,
"WRONG": 1
} | RIGHT |
geqZsZ868nCIVC98DKewQ8qs37GYaPZ9 | auil5x | {
"description": "asking out my 17 year old coworker",
"pronormative_score": 19,
"contranormative_score": 7
} | WIBTA if I asked out my 17 year old coworker. | For context right off the bat, I’m 20 and she’s 17 and a senior in HS. I recently started working at a restaurant in town and me and this girl are really hitting it off. We have a lot of the same interests and I’m fairly certain she’s into me (it’s kinda a running joke at work). We’ve been pretty flirty recently but I ... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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"OTHER": 14,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 5,
"INFO": 1
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 19,
"WRONG": 7
} | RIGHT |
TA8zP9CjiWL6HmetKtD0ernqtZ3SzhZo | akiyiz | {
"description": "telling my girlfriend that she's not special because she's going through some shit",
"pronormative_score": 13,
"contranormative_score": 6
} | AITA for telling my girlfriend that she's not special because she's going through some shit. | So basically title.
I've been dating this girl for a good 4 months now. Everything was pretty cool, we had our occasional fights of course but who doesn't. But recently, she started being very rude towards a lot of people and would not tell me what's going on with her. Finally yesterday she said she was going through s... | HISTORICAL | {
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"INFO": 2
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 13,
"WRONG": 6
} | RIGHT |
pB5SSpCyy4n7xoyigEmb65FQtEYzotS4 | b29sim | {
"description": "refusing to replace a drink that my toddler knocked over because the girl was rude",
"pronormative_score": 126,
"contranormative_score": 1309
} | AITA for refusing to replace a drink that my toddler knocked over because the girl was rude | I was at baggage claim at the airport with my son, who’s 3. We were leaving and as we’re walking away, this girl yells “excuse me!” At me. I turn and she points to her Starbucks drink which is spilled on the floor and says “your kid did that.”
I ask my son if he spilled it and he said he bumped it. The girl says “it w... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | AUTHOR | {
"RIGHT": 126,
"WRONG": 1309
} | WRONG |
EeL5Y7zza2Il0kfZNzEutsBMT9Nt20yJ | b39eos | {
"description": "not shaking hands and saying good morning to everybody in a huge open space every time I begin my shift",
"pronormative_score": 7,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for not shaking hands and saying good morning to everybody in a huge open space every time i begin my shift | No one confronted me about it ..yet , but i saw this trend in most offices i worked in and i find it kinda tiring and meaningless.
Normally i just greet people if i meet them or need to talk to them or the people that sit near me .
I started questioning my behavior when i see others coming to great me even though they ... | HISTORICAL | {
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"OTHER": 1,
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"NOBODY": 6,
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} | NOBODY | {
"RIGHT": 7,
"WRONG": 0
} | RIGHT |
kGVK0Z1Oaio3wnxeKK9R4kx8Ox5zcMdp | avx7y9 | {
"description": "telling my TA a kid was cheating during a physics quiz",
"pronormative_score": 5,
"contranormative_score": 2
} | AITA For telling my TA a kid was cheating during a physics quiz? | I’m sitting in physics discussion for our weekly quiz, these quizzes are 20% of our grade pretty considerable to me. I’m sitting in the back and catch a kid diagonal to me using his phone under his calculator. I do pretty well on the quizzes so I let some shit I see slide but this one was fucking hard and couldn’t have... | HISTORICAL | {
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"OTHER": 4,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
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"INFO": 1
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 5,
"WRONG": 2
} | RIGHT |
IH0iaXGwbTqdxdEzSbw4LD2jmH6BUSXg | b8v078 | null | WIBTA to not lower rent? | My brother in-law Tim, 30, has lived with my wife and I (both in 30s), and our daughter, for a few years now. We allowed him to move in with us because he wanted to attend school near our city. My wife and I agreed that as long as he was in school, we would only change him a couple hundred a month. He got his own bedro... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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"OTHER": 11,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 11,
"WRONG": 0
} | RIGHT |
dFZn5XKFewvQkCEH3WZwoyh2zKKxPNYQ | afkmao | {
"description": "wanting to go to Las Vegas without my boyfriend",
"pronormative_score": 4,
"contranormative_score": 1
} | AITA For wanting to go to Las Vegas without my boyfriend? | This is a Throwaway account
My boyfriend and I have been dating since we were teenagers, and we recently turned 21.
The subject I’m majoring in as a senior in college has a national convention in Las Vegas, and going to it would be an amazing opportunity to meet and mingle with people in my field and maybe find caree... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 1,
"OTHER": 3,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 1,
"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 4,
"WRONG": 1
} | RIGHT |
QpT4O2ilM58TFaf5cxNXvQBd6MIOUqVl | anms09 | {
"description": "not grabbing my gf pizza",
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} | AITA for not grabbing my gf pizza? | My girlfriend and I live together and she works late hours, usually getting home around 9:30pm. I had a friend over and we went to get pizza around 7:30pm and now my girlfriend is saying that I should have gotten her pizza too even though it was two hours before she would be home. She says she feels like an afterthough... | HISTORICAL | {
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w2mwa4zRt1TPNZzhee9Zank35kBzJliK | aq9l0u | {
"description": "being mad at my friend because they wanted to lie to my gf",
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} | AITA for being mad at my friend because they wanted to lie to my GF? | Context: One of my close friends is a closeted gay person, and has a very conservative mother they are not out to. They have this habit of making complex webs of lies to maneuver around divulging their sexual orientation, which I completely understand given their family situation and (as I have told them multiple times... | HISTORICAL | {
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t4TfXFkThSeaUElA7pt9QkwSgWkvYmZz | ahlg3n | {
"description": "cutting off my boyfriend from oral because .. umm ... (look at my username) .. things aren't peachy down there",
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} | AITA for cutting off my boyfriend from oral because .. umm ... (look at my username) .. things aren't peachy down there. | Let me get this straight, 100%, my bf is otherwise a loving and caring person. But he's weird about his body hair. He doesn't really pay too much attention to it, beard or otherwise. Strangely enough, he has a lot of opinions on mine. It's lucky that I like to be clean myself because he seems weirdly insistent on me tr... | HISTORICAL | {
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CEBVqnKf8YQahXBUKeJrpfVnvYxY4Kyx | b95prf | {
"description": "expressing my concerns with my friends relationship",
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} | AITA for expressing my concerns with my friends relationship? | My friend, TF - Taken Friend, has a boyfriend, or BF for short. BF was in a relationship with one of TF's ex-friends that was very toxic. The ex pretended to be impregnated by her ex. BF broke up with her and on the same day kissed TF and they started dating. I don't like BF because he previously outed me when I was go... | HISTORICAL | {
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yMZzpumWvU6SmbfevvbLKFmxYAObvrUy | am7muf | {
"description": "snapping at my mom because I felt like she was ridiculing me",
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} | AITA for snapping at my mom because I felt like she was ridiculing me? | This scenario isn't as nearly as dramatic as a lot of others I've read, but I can't stop thinking about it and feeling guilty.
Back info:
First of all, I'm 23 and still live at home- don't judge please, it's not unusual here in Germany since our education system is a little different and a lot of us including me stil... | HISTORICAL | {
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zpy7IFEKNUoh9V5yFZPf7HiZi8en8EzD | b18gt8 | {
"description": "quitting my current job",
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} | WIBTA if I quit my current job | tl;dr: Work is draining my energies, but I like my boss and coworkers. Got a probable way out. Should I take it?
​
Just some background info first. I work in a somewhat big company, started as an intern and later got a job as a costs analyst. Overall, I’ve been working there for a year and a half (9 months... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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7QwMkTH3cp5Z6jNgNf91CuVVzDOLSgfm | ajzrmy | {
"description": "not being comfortable with my partner talking to his ex-girlfriend/fwb",
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} | AITA for not being comfortable with my partner talking to his ex-girlfriend/FWB? | LTL;FTP
I (21F) have been dating my partner (21M) for 3 years now and though we've had some rocky times, things have mostly been good. When we first met, he was in a relationship with a FWB-turned-girlfriend Kate (not her real name). Their relationship ended because she cheated but he doesn't hold it against her, and ... | HISTORICAL | {
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3QCyR3tERNTRJV9yiERQMNj1iy8o1o05 | ahowc5 | {
"description": "cutting off my father before the birth of his first grandchild",
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} | AITA For cutting off my father before the birth of his first grandchild? | Long story, TL;DR at bottom.
Background:
My parents split-up when I was 7, my mom remarried when I was 12 and my childhood was been spent on an every other weekend visitation schedule with my father until I was a teenager and could decide when I wanted to go.
My father has no job, no car, and struggles with mental-... | HISTORICAL | {
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nyI1kn2LRfwXPQwPAveFfkasDQREMHjJ | a30gr7 | {
"description": "not wanting to go see a movie",
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} | AITA if I don't want to go see a movie? | Yesterday, I (M17) had a long day at school, and when I came home, my mom and cousin decided to "surprise" me. They told me they already bought tickets to a movie for this weekend. Apparently, they bought a ticket for my dad as well, but he doesn't know it yet.
I didn't plan on going to cinema this weekend, and I cert... | HISTORICAL | {
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M07S4ZFHw3k6OMBHKKxeJXPN1r5RHNxV | a2axx4 | {
"description": "asking to go to a concert with some of my friends",
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} | AITA For asking to go to a concert with some of my friends, | I asked my mom if I could go to a concert with some of my friends, my mom said no, and said I’d get shot because it’s a rap concert (Lil Uzi Vert) I said there’s never been a shooting at one of his concerts, to which she sent me this website https://channel45news.com/2017/06/rapper-lil-uzi-vert-shot-at-one-of-his-most-... | HISTORICAL | {
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KSYBL7MLZIVF2hIC3tVa3GfsLQmdqB52 | 9vdwup | {
"description": "ending a relationship simply because I felt ignored",
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} | AITA for ending a relationship simply because I felt ignored? | Context. This was my first time in a relationship, and it took a lot of courage to ask my partner out. When they said yes I felt so relieved. The relationship lasted a month. I am not even sure if it counts as one. In the first week we went on a date once (does it even count as a date cause she brought another friend ... | HISTORICAL | {
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GHHvbjqoKkGNTVlMN6467LusQNfHMiyX | 9z7kjt | {
"description": "refusing to give charity money to a relative that needs funds to fight a criminal case in which they very likely committed the crimes",
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} | AITA for refusing to give charity money to a relative that needs funds to fight a criminal case in which they very likely committed the crimes? | Long story ahead. TLDR at the bottom.
I hail from a country and culture that is supremely family-centric, to the point where extended family often comprises most of your entire network. My own family (my parents, me, and sibling) moved to the United States when I was very young, so I've grown up in an environment larg... | HISTORICAL | {
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WyBGnVzzPrsZJ5aVdFneWYFwDu4eDsoz | b23mg6 | {
"description": "not wanting to resolve things with my best friend",
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} | AITA for not wanting to resolve things with my best friend? | I’ve been kind of in an odd place with my best friend of 6 years. I’ve been experiencing a serious downfall in mental health, and have been very lonely. My best friend hasn’t spoken to me in two years unless she’s upset or needs something from me. But she still likes to call us “best friends” and thinks it’s all the sa... | HISTORICAL | {
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o5zLnHD5CMduKolAuz67dNSUwxSEIlpU | 9wn5an | {
"description": "taking over saved seats in a theater",
"pronormative_score": 3,
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} | AITA for taking over saved seats in a theater? | This happened a few months ago, and I am not sure about my actions here. I believe I was right in standing my ground, but friends have spoken against me.
​
There was a big concert of a local group in a theater in my hometown, tickets were sold out weeks before the event and me and my girlfriend had to buy ... | HISTORICAL | {
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MeVRWBeqbcuF1hnQIgs5hJ4xJlslNHV0 | b9w90l | {
"description": "wanting to give my son a hispanic name even though we're not hispanic",
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} | AITA for wanting to give my son a Hispanic name even though we're not Hispanic? | I (29M) had this discussion with my friend (29M) recently. So my wife (28F) is pregnant with a baby boy and we haven't discussed names yet as she feels its a bit early.
But I've been thinking myself and I really like the name "Alejandro" and I would love it if he was called that. Me and my wife are both 100% white eur... | HISTORICAL | {
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wAwgLU2zDZXzRMTZN4bUoykzekh9ckY0 | akt5fd | {
"description": "recording a school project solo instead of working with a lazy partner",
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} | AITA for recording a school project solo instead of working with a lazy partner | I do a Music Technology A level and my teacher will set us group work to record a piece in a week as to motivate us to experiment with recording. However, he picks the groups. We're expected to work on these in our own free time aswell.
This has happened before and, when he set us to create a hip-hop track, I ended up... | HISTORICAL | {
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Rpm84R7TThjLzl5uPg7L5TNTtSLlslCA | b103z2 | {
"description": "disconnecting my stepbrothers internet",
"pronormative_score": 5,
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} | AITA for disconnecting my stepbrothers internet? | For context, we're both adults in our 20s but still live at home due to the insane rent prices in the city.
My stepbrother is a gamer who has a really annoying habit of shouting at the top of his voice whenever he's gaming with other people. He has a very deep voice and can be heard in every room of the house, even o... | HISTORICAL | {
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APoIkbYZ3knvz8XFZo5vP66r9gxTglj5 | b1bl6q | {
"description": "cutting off relationship with mom over her comments about my weight",
"pronormative_score": 8,
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} | AITA for cutting off relationship with mom over her comments about my weight? | I haven't seen or spoken to my mom for the better part of a year mainly because I could not handle her constant put-downs and comments regarding my weight and eating habits. I gained A LOT of weight in the past few years after an assault my freshman year of college and subsequent deep depression that I haven't complete... | HISTORICAL | {
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"RIGHT": 8,
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ETKisKtDb8jbXDx4spFT17EL04TuB8cQ | ax15fr | {
"description": "not wanting a relationship with my half-sister who has always been rude to my mother",
"pronormative_score": 9,
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} | AITA I don’t want a relationship with my half-sister who has always been rude to my mother | My parents have been married for almost 27 years and I’m their only child together. Before they got married, my dad had another daughter from a previous marriage. My half sister has always been rude to my mom even though my mom has been nothing but kind to her since they met.
We would visit her twice a year and each ... | HISTORICAL | {
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TBHdsTo9tibAzkbmemtepd1Ux3sSPqAf | 9yn3q8 | null | AITA Tryed to fight a tough guy | Important info: 3 mechanics in a out door bay shop. (Only a roof so any one can walk up)
This is what heppend: a female walks up to one mechanic whos a black guy and he starts flirting for a while. I over hear my co worker say "I cant say the N word but he can be with a white woman??" This guy would often tell storys... | HISTORICAL | {
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41grhBBaRxkvlbya4SLa3Ho6UUJbBxwp | b8kjkz | {
"description": "telling an older lady to go swim elsewhere",
"pronormative_score": 11,
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} | AITA for telling an older lady to go swim elsewhere? | So I go to this gym which has a small 20M pool. There's only one lane for swimming, the rest of the pool is recreational. The recreational area is intended for swimming lanes or to just relax. You can do whatever you please there but it's a nightmare to swim fast there with people just chitchatting and swimming really ... | HISTORICAL | {
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"RIGHT": 11,
"WRONG": 12
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WEwcshlMvz74jO4yrizV67WrjgJ4Sg1k | alhld8 | {
"description": "cutting out my mentally ill friend",
"pronormative_score": 7,
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} | AITA For cutting out my mentally ill friend? | So I'm in college and I have this friend named "Tyler" (fake name, obviously). Well Tyler and I are both freshman and we've been friends since the first week of school, and I cut him out of my life last night. I feel bad for Tyler because he does suffer from bipolar disorder, comes from an impoverished family, grew up ... | HISTORICAL | {
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v63E8KfBdtpGobXgbUKgAHgxMs59GDHV | ba2egc | {
"description": "blocking somebody on social media who needed to feed her kids",
"pronormative_score": 11,
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} | AITA for blocking somebody on social media who needed to feed her kids? | Basically somebody I knew on social media was asking for money to buy medicine (she has done sort of disease. I forgot what it was but it's pretty serious and requires constant treatment. I also know she's not lying). I'm not really friends with her, she was just a classmate back in high school, but I figured if you're... | HISTORICAL | {
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"RIGHT": 11,
"WRONG": 1
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eneA8SqQxPHPptzCzg8zot5OklA9fFwu | a34445 | {
"description": "not picking up the phone when my cousin calls",
"pronormative_score": 2,
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} | AITA for not picking up the phone when my cousin calls? | I'm 16 he's around 24 and he literally calls every day. The thing I don't get is that when we're on the phone he's usually texting his friends and not listening to a word I'm saying. Sometimes when I don't pick up and tell him I'm busy he says that I'm not busy because I stay at home all day. Assuming that he knows how... | HISTORICAL | {
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BDXy38E3YJLXiv2femkYtSFjhzbR5X2o | 9y2das | {
"description": "not wanting to hang out with bfs friends the entire time on my birthday getaway",
"pronormative_score": 8,
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} | AITA for not wanting to hang out with bfs friends the entire time on my birthday getaway | Am I the Asshole for being disappointed that my boyfriend planned a birthday getaway for me that has centered entirely around hanging out with his friends with a few limited choice items that must also include his friends?
My boyfriend has a knack for planning things for me that really end up being what he wants to do.... | HISTORICAL | {
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wt75pwzLoOsrJTd9lnhfYLAF0KQrNbBu | atwenu | {
"description": "calling my Uber driver's autistic son \"God's little beta\"",
"pronormative_score": 0,
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} | AITA for calling my Uber driver's autistic son "God's little beta"? | I have heard interesting stories about autistic children having unbelievable focus and interest in very specific things such as fire trucks, trains, planes...etc. I have also read stories about autistic kids being able to draw complex scenery strictly from memory. I think that this might just be next step in human evol... | HISTORICAL | {
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6a8dGwTAm6V7BBl1TT3cAACmBBWkiASF | asogz8 | {
"description": "refusing to go to church and as punishment my room gets searched, bong broken and weed flushed",
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} | AITA For Refusing to go to church and as punishment my room gets searched, bong broken and weed flushed | AITA? Im an atheist living in my Christian parents house with both parents and sisters. I work full time as a machinist in a big factory and hate waking up Sunday morning to go listen to stuff that makes me roll my eyeballs. I go through this crap every Sunday morning. Get woken up and then yelled at for 30 mins until... | HISTORICAL | {
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"RIGHT": 1,
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8bOFSMtiGOBXKACHgTIDQYTmMHEX4QcP | awceif | {
"description": "putting extra hours on my time sheet at my job because I've been told every week for the past eight months that my raise would \"be on my next check\"",
"pronormative_score": 0,
"contranormative_score": 6
} | AITA for putting extra hours on my time sheet at my job because I’ve been told every week for the past eight months that my raise would “be on my next check”? | Okay, so let me start by saying I love my job. It pays pretty well, I work on my own, very good benefits, I work four 12-hour shifts every week with the option for more overtime essentially every week.
My direct boss is the operations manager (OM) for the entire department. He is the only person I have to answer to. E... | HISTORICAL | {
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"WRONG": 6
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hXqfbfkfKSHt4Wk67RSwDV6sQ8SD6jzo | abdsj2 | {
"description": "telling my friend that he might not be able to make a living off of his art",
"pronormative_score": 8,
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} | WIBTA if I told my friend that he might not be able to make a living off of his art? | I have a really good friend of mine who wants to obtain a career as an artist. This friend (let’s call him Joe) has been really into art as long as I have known him and is very passionate about what he does. He is in his mid 20’s and is wanting to become an artist full time. He has gone to community college and obtaine... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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6M3Cy4V77SBB4HHZJQFCBZN3KesT172T | axhzi5 | {
"description": "telling my gay aquaintence that a person is not a homophobe if they use the word \"fag\" once",
"pronormative_score": 13,
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} | AITA for telling my gay aquaintence that a person is not a homophobe if they use the word "fag" once. | Alrighty, so a gay (f) aquaintence of mine shows me and a group of people a video of a guy calling another guy a fag. She says
"look at this fucking homophobe, people like this dont deserve to live"
I mention that words like that shouldnt be used, but that i dont think that its reasonable to make that judgement like... | HISTORICAL | {
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rvzYRUhdtmnAgVi6cCzIkP3dgUK9OaLy | axqlzg | {
"description": "not wanting to do chores when I get home",
"pronormative_score": 22,
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} | AITA for not wanting to do chores when i get home | Context: I am doing two jobs so my work day starts at 3am and ends at about 7pm.
My partner doesnt have a job (not looking for work either), we have two children (7&5) both in school.
I do laundry over the weekend, fold and Iron. I also do the yard and am more than happy to cook and do dishes over the weekend.
... | HISTORICAL | {
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4dHJ4DOFHqPvmQSUk6J5XCGAYQeCnyuN | ba0o2s | {
"description": "slacking off",
"pronormative_score": 5,
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} | AITA for slacking off? | I recently moved in with my boyfriend and his three roommates. I pay less than them in utilities and rent, but I do a bulk of the grocery shopping and cooking (they throw in a little money for the shopping, and I make dinner for everyone 3-4 times a week). I also end up cleaning quite a bit. What irritates me most is t... | HISTORICAL | {
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konGHLTUDs28fwGzomDDtOVMqIEHIWlb | anx5fw | {
"description": "covering for my friend",
"pronormative_score": 0,
"contranormative_score": 4
} | AITA for covering for my friend? | I'm friends with this dude since high school, we always hung out together and were very close. He confided very personal stuff to me, saying I'm his only friend.
When I got into college, I instantly clicked with this girl and we became very good friends. We traveled together, went to parties, etc.
Eventually, being ... | HISTORICAL | {
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sZuVSYHLQze8oaMnB5Kzrf5lOp461qSg | ahg2p3 | {
"description": "not wanting to talk to my coworkers",
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} | AITA for not wanting to talk to my coworkers? | I work in a small rubber manufacturing shop. There are only 5 of us in the shop; my boss (let's call him Ryan), his parents (let's say George & Ruth), another worker we'll call Frank, and myself. George & Ruth are a couple years away from retirement, and Ryan, Frank and myself are 28-36.
I am extremely introv... | HISTORICAL | {
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Cr1wcFki0kK92ddFO3U5jRKI4WeGWy6y | b1i1ok | {
"description": "wanting friends & family to ask me 1st what I want to eat instead of serving me something I don't like",
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} | AITA for wanting friends & family to ask me 1st what I want to eat instead of serving me something I don't like? | My family gets upset with me when I say I don't eat things like beef, pork, tomato, avocado, etc. I don't eat things that makes up part of a dish but that does not mean I dislike the entire dish. Am I being an asshole for not liking to eat things, which most ppl love & is it bad to wish for ppl to ask me what I wa... | HISTORICAL | {
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kjeFRBkXOOnmvUT0q6KBm98TtFTiNx9c | 9ul4ra | {
"description": "not giving away my spot",
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} | AITA for not giving away my spot? | So earlier today, I went to get gas while waiting for clothes to dry. It was around five so the gas station was already packed. I had a bit of trouble getting in so I decided to sit behind a guy that just started. It took a good while, and so when the person ahead of me pulls away I start pulling in when a lady in an s... | HISTORICAL | {
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fE1UFciXg44pDV0u6SHbVMgcDA6MXZye | avcn4l | {
"description": "wanting to end my 9 month marriage",
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} | AITA for wanting to end my 9 month marriage | BG- My partner is korean, I'm american, we married only on paper and did at the time we did because of my visa situation.
Before we got married we almost broke up from fighting because he wasn't willing to spend time with me even when i asked. He always made plans with friends and never made time for me when i made al... | HISTORICAL | {
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GRz0rpqYi9Q7B9ZKBYYhRTZSscWygw6F | angel2 | {
"description": "evicting my friend from our house seemingly without reason",
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} | WIBTA for evicting my friend from our house seemingly without reason. | I mean I have a reason, it just won’t really make any sense to him. But before I get there, I’m gonna give a little background. So my fiancé and I are “renting to own” her mom’s house. We’re paying the bills and the mortgage and everything, but the title is in her mom’s name. Ultimately the plan is for us to own the ho... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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AWTLmO2vnpSHWhusIHcgrVhFb74yjHN4 | b4vp92 | {
"description": "not helping my friend with this phd opportunity he really wants",
"pronormative_score": 6,
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} | AITA for not helping my friend with this PhD opportunity he really wants | A bit of a back story.
My friend and I met during a master's degree where he was always kind of lazy, doing half the work and always saying "how super easy" everything is. To be fair, the coursework was not particularly challenging but personally, coming from a difficult undergraduate program, I valued doing good work... | HISTORICAL | {
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Ddeg2EeKDpix9JVvETMXHFL9hsGEFonW | awg3iu | {
"description": "feeling annoyed at someone for not meeting me on a trip because their dad is sick",
"pronormative_score": 2,
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} | AITA for feeling annoyed at someone for not meeting me on a trip because their dad is sick? | I'm going to make this as concise as possible.
​
Basically, a friend of mine had been bugging me to come and visit him in another city, about an hour away by plane. I kind of wanted to visit, not just to see him but it's also a city in a country I've never visited, after a lot of back and forth I decided ... | HISTORICAL | {
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8G4cFOJhumQBNmY08q2i8TFvKkikiqaZ | acb1ie | {
"description": "checking on my employees who work offsite",
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} | AITA for checking on my employees who work offsite? | I have employees who work in people’s homes, or in retail locations. In other words, their schedule is set for them and they report to the location scheduled. They have their schedule a month in advance, and are able to request a change if necessary.
Each position gets ample training, and retraining. Occasionally, an ... | HISTORICAL | {
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76uAll0hjLEvEhLzDvmlXF92m90cyyO4 | af9u0b | {
"description": "leaving my mom at home and meeting my soon to be brother-in-law's family without her",
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} | AITA for leaving my mom at home and meeting my soon to be brother-in-law’s family without her? | I live with my mom and two sisters. My older sister's boyfriend invited our family to his house for a New Year's Eve party from 6 p.m. to midnight to meet his family who live only 15 minutes away. That same night my mom and younger sister had a wedding to attend at 6 p.m.
My mom is terrible with directions and will n... | HISTORICAL | {
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R89COhYJjxNBHGvMriq1rvBCnCmU1x2q | b21fh8 | {
"description": "ending it over text",
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} | AITA for ending it over text | This happened like a year ago but I’m thinking about it because tonight I went on a date with a guy who looked so much like the guy I used to date.
So over a year ago I (22-23 at the time) was seeing this guy (30). I was head over heels for him by our second date and stopped seeing anyone else I was casually dating. ... | HISTORICAL | {
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5vIPg1qdWj5HtdfJzasSHJSWq8B6S0Bh | 9x37lg | {
"description": "not wanting my girlfriend to hang out with her male friend",
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} | AITA for not wanting my girlfriend to hang out with her male friend | My girlfriend was planning on going ice skating with her female friend and her male friend this week. I obviously don't mind the female but I told her I had some concerns about the male because her and the male have had a history together (Pics sent and talking). She got upset and asked why it was a big deal and I told... | HISTORICAL | {
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KsNQWMV4Bumjblcvytl3ExavjyAnUlV5 | artvcj | {
"description": "attempting to cut off my parents",
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} | AITA for attempting to cut off my parents? | Phone poster.
I grew up poor. Very poor. (For my country) My family were the self proclaimed 'black sheep' of our extended family group.
Mum had me when she was 18 to a drop kick that abandoned us. My step dad was more of a father to me than my blood one ever was.
I'm now 27.
Our family has always had it tough, ste... | HISTORICAL | {
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BLOrSrldsBDVwIZPFDDjMqfwbk5yBFrn | b0btex | {
"description": "not telling my father in law where his former tenant lives/works",
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} | AITA for not telling my father in law where his former tenant lives/works? | My in laws are in their late 50's and very well off. Not rich, but they have money. For instance, they built their home in 1984, paid it off in 1991. Every single thing they own is paid for. They have no credit card debt, loans, mortgage, etc. Just monthly bills. They're really frugal as well and they have no cable tv/... | HISTORICAL | {
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oqBCeXqXAFKL7yUOpGJxEh6Cpg1PF4l0 | acdc5a | {
"description": "asking BF to not drink on his night off",
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} | AITA for asking BF to not drink on his night off? | AITA for asking BF to not drink on his night off?
Backstory: Boyfriend (34m) and I (36f) live together and work two very different jobs. My boyfriend has a history of drinking. He claims he’s getting better and he is but slowly. He has three DUIs under his belt, many drunk stories of him pissing in our stairwell, ... | HISTORICAL | {
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7zZMDIIhJaFuptwxAxrNwh9z69pQqo6M | ae4aol | {
"description": "possibly getting someone fired that I have personal issues with",
"pronormative_score": 6,
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} | AITA for possibly getting someone fired that I have personal issues with? | I work with a dude who has been a bit of an issue from the beginning of his employment with us. He does the bare minimum and likes to talk in the BOH any chance he gets. He also calls in 1-2 times a week.
He is also completely temperamental when you bring up any issue with him, he is likely to yell. The more timid mem... | HISTORICAL | {
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MIHXgaSY5fkTR0BC5LgHCRS4j40X2zMJ | ar69wy | {
"description": "comparing my sister-in-law to ISIS",
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} | AITA for comparing my sister-in-law to ISIS? | My family's always been pretty progressive and bookish. My mother's a tenured professor of sociology at the local college and my father's a permaculture consultant. So me and my siblings grew up in a pretty nerdy lefty/liberal/whatever environment. We were always encouraged to find things out for ourselves, and look... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | EVERYBODY | {
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} | WRONG |
e9Ew4MCQKtSRSHyKhAYxo7CJMGE77R7L | b0hxuu | {
"description": "accepting a car from my dad in exchange of not telling my mum he cheated",
"pronormative_score": 3,
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} | AITA for accepting a car from my dad in exchange of not telling my mum he cheated? | I found out last week that my dad had cheated on my mum. He claims he’s ended it and not seeing this other woman anymore. He begged me not to tell my mum and he offered to buy me a car if I didn’t tell. I said I’d think about it. He showed me messages confirming he’d stopped seeing this woman, but he could just be pret... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | EVERYBODY | {
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} | WRONG |
n7poxOpxJWsYKiOx7WW8MUT44YvXwvwt | ak20f0 | {
"description": "not taking my dog into my room for one night",
"pronormative_score": 13,
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} | AITA for not taking my dog into my room for one night? | So my family has two dogs, and one of them is mine in every sense of the word while the other is a family dog. Both of them sleep indoors, my dog with me and the family dog with my brother.
Many times I’ve had to have both in my room (enough that I’d estimate around 30-ish times, not that often, but enough that it’s n... | HISTORICAL | {
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eiqbnbfHsxjkFB8AEP6wWCviotvv5lza | apo4i7 | null | AITA for how I handled this group project with an older student | So I'm a student at a local community college, I'm going for Medical Laboratory Sciences and transferring out this summer (got accepted into my top choice school yay!!!). Well before I start my clinical program I'm wrapping up some prerequisites. One of which is a basic Sociology course, due to how basic is the class ... | HISTORICAL | {
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fwzxmzVTFQxhreoqK04CPgv6kPTSt2Df | albrie | {
"description": "'blackmailing' a seller",
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} | AITA for 'blackmailing' a seller? | Throwaway from a new lurker, here.
I recently bought a Pokémon Theme Deck on a popular online bid/buy site, and when it arrived, it appeared tampered with.
The box was impossible to open without a knife, the coin that comes with the theme decks was upside down, and although I got almost everything that comes with it,... | HISTORICAL | {
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pvntUJf1NUusD2siR4z3zNqtnn68rnIY | awai5l | {
"description": "using \"if\" and not \"when\" when talking about marriage",
"pronormative_score": 13,
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} | AITA for using “if” and not “when” when talking about marriage? | I’ll try to keep this as short and sweet as possible.
Mini background: Boyfriend and I have been together for some time. We’re very happy. We have talked about marriage before in what I had always felt were very vague terms. I would like to marry him one day but at present, we are neither engaged nor do we even live ... | HISTORICAL | {
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9p8QUc5REJXgEjqC135zyBgrQ5fiHV6K | b781ek | {
"description": "telling my gf she couldn't hang out with her friend",
"pronormative_score": 3,
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} | AITA for telling my gf she couldn’t hang out with her friend? | This happened in a past relationship.
I had just gotten back in a relationship with a girl just a few weeks prior when she wanted to go to her friends place. I was fine with this (obviously) until I learned it was someone she had hooked up with when we were on a break. I knew that he was still interested in her too, b... | HISTORICAL | {
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483G3RzSyoGxxeiR68D5N3EO9mSDO2zz | arp8ah | {
"description": "cutting my mom off when she wouldn't pay for daycare",
"pronormative_score": 8,
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} | AITA for cutting my mom off when she wouldn't pay for daycare? | I swear I've tried to cut this story down as much as I can.
​
Gist of it:
​
My mom left me with my abusive father when I was about 8, and didn't really resurface again until I was 18.
​
At the time I was extremely sick and needed dialysis. She let me move in with her, bought me a ... | HISTORICAL | {
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9ZGzuf6hghq4H8PWjhmHi6Noqn3DxSzD | b72ydh | {
"description": "not wanting to interact with my (normal) uncle",
"pronormative_score": 9,
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} | AITA for not wanting to interact with my (normal) uncle | I'm not creeped out by him or anything but he has a hard time reading boundaries, one time he walked in my room and tried to have a whole conversation with me while I was changing (I hid behind a dresser so he wasn't trying to see anything I'm certain). He's also made some weird offhanded comments like "You can handle ... | HISTORICAL | {
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gmOqJESkeQbwSoiqtdyF4PEzK7dK105I | aqygsz | {
"description": "being frustrated that my mom won't give me a 5 minute ride to work",
"pronormative_score": 4,
"contranormative_score": 2
} | AITA for being frustrated that my mom won’t give me a 5 minute ride to work? | I’m 21 and I still live with my mom. I fully understand that I am old enough to be living on my own, but to make a long story short, my mom struggles with mental health issues and I worry that if I leave her on her own, she’ll start living life in a very unhinged way. (she’s struggled with addiction in the past)
I’m ... | HISTORICAL | {
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3pJNG4ruoBThd8z0EhmcsVBJUG68SdHE | a7ofdo | {
"description": "telling my Aunt that I was disappointed in her for the way she dealt with my parents",
"pronormative_score": 4,
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} | AITA for telling my Aunt that I was disappointed in her for the way she dealt with my parents? | Backstory:
My father was laid off from his job so my parents made plans to relocate to SC where my mother has family, and also because of the much lower cost of living since my father is looking to retire. They were originally intending to move into a townhome but my aunt and her husband, who own two houses, sugge... | HISTORICAL | {
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DoyqUhEkd0tn7N49aaJn0lf2IXVr6FUh | aufbv4 | {
"description": "opening up the dryer for someone's laundry in my apartment's laundry room",
"pronormative_score": 8,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for opening up the dryer for someone's laundry in my apartment's laundry room? | I was doing laundry today and it was time to put my clothes in the dryer. There are 8 dryers, and 3 of them were broken - the rest were all in use. I saw that a couple dryers were going to be done in like 8 min, so I put my wet clothes in my laundry basket and went upstairs to my place. I came back down in like 15 min ... | HISTORICAL | {
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ta5Jcx6mQM0ZwXmQgaYcwIGtRqbQtHH3 | ajllwy | {
"description": "being pissed at my parents for inviting my ex over without telling me",
"pronormative_score": 8,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA For being pissed at my parents for inviting my ex over without telling me? | Me and this guy were together for 5 years and supposed to get married. We were a fucking dysfunctional mess and should have never been together. He didn’t want to go to counseling, gave me an STI (thankfully 100% curable) and I left him three weeks before our wedding. It was very sudden because I was not open about the... | HISTORICAL | {
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kauU178C0t3H0SPlg4IPYSbR4jAUcAD2 | b10v2d | null | AITA for my quite arrogant answer to a girl that flirted with me? | Last saturday I was in a club with some friends, and this young looking girl comes to me and start flirting . Now, I'm 19 years old and seeing that she was quite young looking I asked for her age and she told me that she was fifteen years old. Now, since this happened in Italy (Both of us are Italians) it would not hav... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | AUTHOR | {
"RIGHT": 6,
"WRONG": 16
} | WRONG |
VDLCnUGOzVGSPdo0PeTMV8KCQ2h6zFG7 | al1i8u | {
"description": "wanting to break it off with my girlfriend for allowing her anxiety to drive a wedge between us",
"pronormative_score": 3,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | Aita for wanting to break it off with my girlfriend for allowing her anxiety to drive a wedge between us? | Opposites attract, right? Well I'm as free going as it gets, my wonderful girlfriend isn't as much. When I have an off day, I'm slightly reclusive and try not to interact. Not an douche, as she says "there is just something off". When I finally shake it off after 1-2 days everything is okay for a few and then comes ano... | HISTORICAL | {
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JKfgDALh5j31QJrXu3V3T4UpBcL2xhp2 | af5ve8 | {
"description": "wanting some marriage equality",
"pronormative_score": 6,
"contranormative_score": 1
} | AITA for wanting some marriage equality? | New to this sub. Having problems with marriage arguments. I’m 20(f) he’s 22(m). Got married at 18. Every time we talk about this he gets extremely frustrated with me. Back story is we got married super young and my parents didn’t pay for a cent of the wedding. He bought my ring, $900 (no diamond for the center stone). ... | HISTORICAL | {
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Qiq2eHu9BWFm6dFKSSVmNOWxYpcAAqi5 | am59bo | {
"description": "calling my coworker out for coming in sick so often",
"pronormative_score": 9,
"contranormative_score": 1
} | WIBTA if I called my coworker out for coming in sick so often? | I’ve been at my new job for about 6 months and I love it. The only issue is “Barb”.
Barb is very sweet, but she’s *always* getting sick. She seems to have this chronic sinus/upper respiratory issue. I’m not a doctor, but if being a carrier for a respiratory virus is possible... that’s what she is. The common cold vers... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
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} | RIGHT |
aqiW0fckZNWnOsEqtWUGn69gMOiNI7Fo | arv6u9 | {
"description": "making bad tiramisu",
"pronormative_score": 0,
"contranormative_score": 16
} | AITA for making bad tiramisu? | My gfs all-time favorite dessert is tiramisu. This was our first Valentine’s Day together, so obviously I wanted to do something sweet. I cook most our meals and am a pretty decent chef, so I already had a meal planned that she knew about, but I wanted the tiramisu to be a surprise.
That Wednesday night, I get up aft... | HISTORICAL | {
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l6QezqLGONITwCOPyMyTMtQiKg64LecN | b8zobm | {
"description": "applying for this job",
"pronormative_score": 8,
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} | WIBTA if I applied for this job? | To make a long story short, I’m taking classes right now and the summer is fast-approaching. I need a summer job, and my brother-in-law has said that he will pass my resume off to whom it concerns at his company and get me a job for the summer (and after graduation, which is a super nice thing of him to do). It’s a goo... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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