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CJPA1aNgyJqRW71GpI5WoSaqcLyWEq5f | aux9ge | {
"description": "calling the council on my neighbours dog",
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} | WIBTA if I called the council on my neighbours dog? | This new family moved into a house across the road from me and everyday their dog is found roaming the street barking at everyone and everything. I have two dogs a medium sized border collie and a chiweenie this is important to note because their dog is easily 2 times the size of my border collie.
Last Saturday they ... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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vnBuIuyKqF6uew7EH0ICLOLLrHGH1YYF | amgs82 | {
"description": "not wanting to go to Chinese New Year with my girlfriend? hey",
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} | AITA for not wanting to go to Chinese New Year with my girlfriend? Hey | Gh
My Chinese girlfriend is upset that I only want to spend 2 days with her family during Chinese New Year (CNY). I don’t want to go because her family does not speak English well and I do not speak Mandarin. I have spent two CNYs with her family before and both times I spent the vast majority of the week feeling incre... | HISTORICAL | {
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WWoEpaFsM75ESjNJ9R69YfKcBRT3DLO1 | aowm2s | {
"description": "getting on my girlfriend's case about paying me back",
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} | AITA for getting on my girlfriend's case about paying me back? | My girlfriend and I (both university students) have lived together for around a year and a half. She and I split most costs pretty much evenly, except for groceries where I pay for 60% because I eat more than she does. Because I drive and she doesn't, I'm almost always the person who fronts the money for groceries, hou... | HISTORICAL | {
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zxKM7118ooK4bLJVQVDiDGuP2UOrCM1l | b2cwin | {
"description": "asking my brother to take me to the store, but getting frustrated when he stalled",
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} | AITA for asking my brother to take me to the store, but getting frustrated when he stalled? | A couple of days ago, I asked my brother to take me to the grocery store because I was out of all of the kitchen essentials. I don’t have a car and the store I needed to go to is about 2 miles away. Normally, two miles isn’t much for me and I usually just choose to walk it, but there were so many things that I needed t... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | WRONG |
KMVISb7LZl1gehxqFt6T6w3lFOzK5f9t | b5oau9 | {
"description": "taking a family members child to get vaccinated when their parents are anti-vaxxers",
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} | WIBTA for taking a family members child to get vaccinated when their parents are anti-Vaxxers? | Throw away account for obvious reasons
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H2VNFGnz8MXZ4i7O4v2KrrDuvRepYSgA | a56bfc | {
"description": "playing loud music on speakers",
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} | AITA for playing loud music on speakers? | I am studying in college and live in a dorm. We have a common bathroom. Back at home I was used to listening to music while showering.
In my dorm I don't listen to music whenever I'm showering, since I shower everyday and late at night, however I do listen to music whenever I'm washing my hair. I usually wash my hair i... | HISTORICAL | {
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QgLKoCFVMP06ludHyl7Lv9vAWp976FsI | aibj03 | {
"description": "not making my wife's birthday extra special",
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} | AITA for not making my wife's birthday extra special? | We're mid-30s, been married 6 years, have a 3 yr old and 1 yr old. I'm not receiving a paycheck due to the shutdown (though I'll receive back pay eventually), and I went way over the budget we set for Christmas (a night/activities out of town while family watched our kid). Our son's birthday is a few days before hers, ... | HISTORICAL | {
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yvI7luVBPKNjXaiXqXaLaPI1s6R0gBu2 | avkwod | {
"description": "avoiding a special needs man and his family at work",
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} | AITA for avoiding a special needs man and his family at work? | As bad as it may sound, I am and have never been mad at the young man himself. He was probably around late 20-ish, always with his dad or extended family, and I think his condition may have been a lower functioning Autism. I worked at a fast food place for about two years, and me and my friend usually both worked tog... | HISTORICAL | {
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B2Wz968ffwcuEeroMWncutk6jG0dCmf9 | b03umm | {
"description": "not being hospitable to my brother's ex-girlfriend",
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} | AITA for not being hospitable to my brother’s ex-girlfriend? | So this is the second time something like this has happened, but I’ll be brief.
My[26F] brother [29M] , mother and, I live in a house together to conserve money. My mom decides to go to on a business trip with my aunt for some quality sister time. After my mom makes these plans, my brother decides to invite his ex to ... | HISTORICAL | {
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9lY8bgDKgiCJ7qvI7wfQRqio1nvtEALN | areu83 | {
"description": "wanting to kick a woman who just got out of the hospital out of our home",
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} | AITA for wanting to kick a woman who just got out of the hospital out of our home. | My mom owns a Bnb downstairs. Recently a woman rented a room downstairs for a month give or take. We had another person (X) staying in the room next door who was staying with us for roughly 6 months. My mom is a super nice woman who doesn’t like confrontation so when she trashed the room and shit the bed. My mom just t... | HISTORICAL | {
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5p9f3ieuW3yFG1VqJE1JckMEs5Sfz8MQ | al42cz | null | UPDATE: WIBTA if I go to HR about a coworker | Hey everyone!
Over a week ago [I made this post](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ahfi3q/wibta_if_i_go_to_hr_about_a_coworker/), you guys all gave me some wonderful advice and I wanted to provide an update as a lot has happened.
The next work day after I posted I sent "John" an email (a lot of you sai... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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zLpVFGZTGnsSCL6e6eq8l13NyDrjAIpg | as487d | {
"description": "not wanting to be a bridesmaid on my 35th birthday",
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} | AITA for not wanting to be a bridesmaid on my 35th birthday? | I was asked to be a bridesmaid about 6 months ago by my work bestie. I've known her about a year and we haven't hung out much outside of work. Original date was fine but a new date was announced today due to her "unexpected" pregnancy. She had mentioned the date before and I told her that was my birthday. This is al... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | NOBODY | {
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YN1dJZA2qPClpmG1In9uoc2u7cItrNrV | b3rdch | {
"description": "not letting my parents access my phone history",
"pronormative_score": 87,
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} | AITA for not letting my parents access my phone history? | TL;DR mother wants me to put tracking app on phone I pay for, so she can 'see if I'm using time effectively'.
I'm a college student and 700 miles away from home. Now where I live isn't a bad area per say, but every major town has it's rough spots. I have paid for my phone for the past few months after buying a little... | HISTORICAL | {
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"INFO": 2
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 87,
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ikPWclehE1WWiKJA0MgYpw9B6Bp5OOqJ | ax1vhe | {
"description": "physically fighting with my sister as her brother",
"pronormative_score": 9,
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} | AITA for physically fighting with my sister as her brother | I just got back from a 3 day ski trip and I revived candy that I enjoy(water taffy). When I get home after picking her up she asks for one and I said no, I only have a few and I really like them. She then grabs my bag and takes one anyway. She says it’s hard and the worst she’s had. She then grabs the bag again and I g... | HISTORICAL | {
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"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 1
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 9,
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} | RIGHT |
hD5t044IwwBMLzYn8sQ8pOaBsCG1PKds | b59d64 | {
"description": "hoping a friend could give us a forewarning",
"pronormative_score": 5,
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} | AITA for hoping a friend could give us a forewarning? | Throwaway for obvious reasons.
My friends and I have been planning a group get together today for the past week and a bit, we've had a date and time preplanned for people to show up etc.
The day of, one of our small group (we're a group of seven, we only see each other once a week if we're lucky) says that she can't ... | HISTORICAL | {
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"RIGHT": 5,
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} | RIGHT |
VoM8l2CZeDV5Ichvg4iqSeJIRnVYEFdq | alc4ao | {
"description": "finding the topic of menstruation kind of disgusting whenever a female friend brings it up",
"pronormative_score": 14,
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} | AITA for finding the topic of menstruation kind of disgusting whenever a female friend brings it up? | So, a friend (20f) of mine is often talking about her period and in normal conversations i (23m) dont have a Problem with that because it's a natural thing half of the human Population has to go through. But sometimes she goes a little to far, she talks very detailed over it. In ways i think are a little disgusting. An... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 0,
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"EVERYBODY": 1,
"NOBODY": 3,
"INFO": 1
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 14,
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BgO70Rj5vEX6qQ8s6UheCTD5cEbFG1MX | b6zeae | {
"description": "refusing to let my drunk friend into my house and threatening to call the cops when she wouldn't leave",
"pronormative_score": 8,
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} | AITA for refusing to let my drunk friend into my house and threatening to call the cops when she wouldn't leave? | On St Paddy’s weekend, my pop and two brothers flew in to visit. We (and my friends) go hard- I put my drunk father and a brother in an uber at 3:30pm. My 2nd bro and I stay til 5:30, he gets a bad case of the hiccups so we head home.
My friend E at some point leaves. She does this thing where she’ll leave and the... | HISTORICAL | {
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"OTHER": 6,
"EVERYBODY": 1,
"NOBODY": 2,
"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 8,
"WRONG": 2
} | RIGHT |
dOaKLPVKxZay9ERWpPlfNAHWrBEwPWhE | b3lcdr | {
"description": "voicing my opinions",
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} | AITA for voicing my opinions | Okay, so I am a 14M living with by mom and dad. My mom, I love to death, can be naive sometimes. My dad is this big burly dude who likes to fill up his timeline on Facebook with dumb political crap like "If muslims dont like people killing them, why do they kill christians?" and stuff to that nature. I decided, "Hey! I... | HISTORICAL | {
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"OTHER": 3,
"EVERYBODY": 4,
"NOBODY": 0,
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} | EVERYBODY | {
"RIGHT": 3,
"WRONG": 4
} | WRONG |
PqKSOj7cfLBf078Q3ipGrFcoVy0bQKI2 | ajp7ov | {
"description": "not tipping takeout",
"pronormative_score": 18,
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} | AITA for not tipping takeout? | I’m always so torn on whether I should tip or not if I’m getting food Togo from a restaurant or foodcart food. If I use a card I’m always asked if I want to tip and I feel bad typically clicking the big “no tip” button and I feel like the employees typically judge me for it. It makes me want to just pay in cash so I ca... | HISTORICAL | {
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"INFO": 2
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 18,
"WRONG": 2
} | RIGHT |
nMFrbZM7HpVRgjSmrcvDovlDQEyxIPsl | ar3a7l | {
"description": "not telling my girlfriend that I'm bisexual",
"pronormative_score": 27,
"contranormative_score": 1
} | AITA for not telling my girlfriend that I’m bisexual | Me (15M) and my girlfriend (15F) both developed a crush for each other in the seventh grade. Over the past summer I asked her out. I really want to tell her (I’m closeted) but I’m big into wrestling and go to a catholic school (Neither very accepting of different sexualities). Am the Asshole for not telling her yet.
S... | HISTORICAL | {
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"INFO": 0
} | NOBODY | {
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} | RIGHT |
73LK7JC0egWWQ7TGNWqn7qUNGId8VEad | aui31h | {
"description": "trying to get my mother to say 'thank you' and 'I'm sorry'",
"pronormative_score": 4,
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} | AITA for trying to get my mother to say ‘thank you’ and ‘I’m sorry’? | My relationship with my mother is strained for many reasons that I couldn’t be arsed to go on about right now. Tonight I spent an hour cooking a meal for the both of us and when I walked into the room I had the goal in mind of paying attention to what she says to see if she said ‘thank you’. I have a pretty bad mental ... | HISTORICAL | {
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l93REQntFJUxRV2f4ZSELrsBKtziKXdT | ba1sax | {
"description": "refusing to alter my schedule by a measly half-hour",
"pronormative_score": 4,
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} | AITA for refusing to alter my schedule by a measly half-hour? | I work for an in-home music lesson company three days a week. It's interesting, challenging work most of the time, and it helps to be able to see what type of environment my students practice in. However, it is also full of entitled people and those who otherwise can't be arsed to take their kids to a proper music stud... | HISTORICAL | {
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"OTHER": 3,
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"NOBODY": 1,
"INFO": 1
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 4,
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} | RIGHT |
EpCYuCjnejcwZD6wTRJWAjIGdrGyAWps | 9u6tbi | {
"description": "getting angry I had to give my table to a rude pregnant woman",
"pronormative_score": 8,
"contranormative_score": 1
} | AITA for getting angry I had to give my table to a rude pregnant woman? | Recently I went to the mall with a friend and wanted some food to eat. The thing is, all the tables there were taken and we had to walk around and keep an eye for when one of them became available. After 20 minutes or so we finally sat somewhere and were thinking about what to order, only to be interrupted by a pregnan... | HISTORICAL | {
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"OTHER": 8,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
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"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 8,
"WRONG": 1
} | RIGHT |
DZjV1obmE0469RxHaKErwd4k6c3eSzD9 | andko5 | {
"description": "not wanting to holiday with mum",
"pronormative_score": 11,
"contranormative_score": 4
} | AITA For not wanting to holiday with mum? | TL;DR: I want to go discover myself whilst studying abroad, Mum wants to tag along for a bit. Do I crush her dream by telling her I don’t want her to?
Later this year, I’m [18M] planning to go on study abroad to the UK for about 4 months. My mother [46F] is very excited about this and has suggested we holiday around c... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | NOBODY | {
"RIGHT": 11,
"WRONG": 4
} | RIGHT |
J4azWOZ0dor3MwM8FiocSWb9bwyPxrHE | ak3aom | {
"description": "telling my friend off after she insulted my girlfriend",
"pronormative_score": 6,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for telling my friend off after she insulted my girlfriend? | So I recently started dating someone that one of my friends doesn’t like and she kept trying to brake us up and kept calling her a slut and shit. Am I the asshole for telling her to fuck off?
Backstory: Me and this “Friend” who I will not name for her privacy, have been friends for about a year and a half now and its ... | HISTORICAL | {
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"OTHER": 6,
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} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 6,
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} | RIGHT |
UAGtwUC0DvAQ7IYt21fHHFznjRQqR8xq | b73zdb | {
"description": "not wanting to do a survey",
"pronormative_score": 6,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for not wanting to do a survey? | So I was in the airport, waiting for my flight time, in front of the gate. I'm minding my business, checking my phone while listening to music. This girl approached me and we had the following dialog:
​
\-Hi! Are you from here?
\-...Yes... Why?
\-Oh, we are doing a survey on our citizens travelling. Here... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
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} | RIGHT |
yEohGEnW8NgnlUJoyvL1co1MHahuCbd4 | a47v8q | {
"description": "smoking weed in my apartment",
"pronormative_score": 3,
"contranormative_score": 5
} | AITA for smoking weed in my apartment? | TL;DR: Actually, either read the whole thing or don't answer. This is more complicated than it sounds.
My wife and I have been illegally subletting our apartment from my mother. It's the apartment my mom and I moved to when I was in my late teens. Sometime after that, my mom moved out and we started subletting from he... | HISTORICAL | {
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"EVERYBODY": 1,
"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 0
} | AUTHOR | {
"RIGHT": 3,
"WRONG": 5
} | WRONG |
iR8tpQaiOlt3CdiTxGYI1SJVJmpVx2Kj | ayfg76 | {
"description": "telling a stranger we don't need input for our wedding",
"pronormative_score": 36,
"contranormative_score": 23
} | AITA for telling a stranger we don't need input for our wedding? | So my fiance and I are getting married in December. I absolutely *hate* Facebook, but I brought it back to look for wedding vendors, etc. Everything major has already been booked (DJ, wedding and reception venue, photographer, hair and makeup, etc). My mom is paying for everything minus the rehearsal dinner, which is f... | HISTORICAL | {
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"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
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} | RIGHT |
TAwpguPrCx4MjwPAlRhSiAXgLHTrJRBu | awzmgo | {
"description": "uninviting a friend from a holiday after unwanted advances",
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"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for uninviting a friend from a holiday after unwanted advances | Background: this is someone who I have known for a couple of years. Stopped hanging out with him(30M now) 5 years ago when he made incredibly forward actions, comments and physical contact towards me(25M) after I had explained to him I was for starters not gay, secondly in a relationship with one of his friends for a c... | HISTORICAL | {
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Mpky0R9cegY3mNyo86eZEFXr9rSlKpJd | b5etvd | {
"description": "asking my boyfriend to help my aunt with a dog",
"pronormative_score": 2,
"contranormative_score": 3
} | AITA for asking my boyfriend to help my aunt with a dog? | My aunt found a dog near where she works. The animal control in that county said if the dog is dropped off again, it will be euthanized, because it has been handed over 4 times already there.
We live in a different county with a bigger animal control. I would ride with her to drop the dog off but I am stuck at work. I... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | AUTHOR | {
"RIGHT": 2,
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} | WRONG |
A1XhDaKVlzeTanTGRI7tXkRAhrDGsyxz | ap5lh4 | {
"description": "despising my mother",
"pronormative_score": 4,
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} | AITA for despising my mother? | Obvious throwaway account.
For starters, my mother does some rude shit sometimes.
I try to be nice to her, but she becomes a snippy asshole so much that she causes me to snap back, leading me to be the one that's pinned as an asshole.
I've gotten to the point where I don't talk to her, and now she's become very push... | HISTORICAL | {
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gX2Je7Mnj6yFoPR5238MN4L9CxS2GoK6 | b3ey5l | {
"description": "eating her diet food",
"pronormative_score": 12,
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} | AITA for eating her diet food? | Gf and I live together. She only works part time so she pays half the rent, but I fully cover the rest of the bills and groceries. She watches what she eats carefully. A lot of salad and these microwave diet dinner and steamed veggies.
In the past I’ve never thought it was a big deal to have some of the salad or... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | AUTHOR | {
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} | WRONG |
uqHhXA9PmgXEEnc0Wh05rHr8havXjTpH | b9bzyu | {
"description": "supposedly mocking trans people, liberal arts majors, and minorities in a discussion about college",
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} | AITA for supposedly mocking trans people, liberal arts majors, and minorities in a discussion about college? | So, seniors at my school have mostly decided where they want to go to college, and the school (with their permission) makes a list on their website of every senior and where they are going. This sparked a discussion between some of my friends (sophomores) at lunch.
We were talking about colleges, where we want to go, ... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | AUTHOR | {
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} | WRONG |
1LqeoC5VCAVnodREMAuZiVL6Ml71TAc8 | b9jkus | {
"description": "refusing to go on vacation with my mom",
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} | AITA Refusing to go on vacation with my mom | Ok, background info, for the most part me and my mom have a decent relationship. Not the case when it comes to vacations. She goes on vacation every year at least once, sometimes twice a year to exotic places like Alaska and Aruba. She was gone one year on my birthday to Aruba because it was the only time we could go, ... | HISTORICAL | {
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nAa7wywYtXWvG2C8gkmKgwHBvlWwApdA | 9z7m4f | {
"description": "deleting my now ex-friend",
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} | AITA for deleting my now ex-friend? | I had a fairly good friend who I kept in touch with long distance, as I am working in the United States and she is in East Asia. Last time we got together was before I started my job. I flew over from the US and I brought some souvenirs and a card. We hung out normally and just talked about normal topics friends talk a... | HISTORICAL | {
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7idJimQMkEfwyCPh1a3ffgxbVYqN5U8d | b08g0l | {
"description": "getting my friend addicted to vaping",
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} | AITA for getting my friend addicted to vaping | Ok, so forgive me I'm typing this in class on my phone, so there will probably be a few errors. So this pretty much started a few months back when I use to vape religiously. I had gotten into it from people at my work and I had recently turned 18 as well. So one day I had gone to the shop to buy another vape, because m... | HISTORICAL | {
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comuNR26EZzwToTmxUzqoX78HXVxGVvN | ac2jv0 | {
"description": "reporting my neighbor's beeping smoke detector",
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} | AITA for reporting my neighbor’s beeping smoke detector? | It’s so freaking annoying. He hasn’t changed the batteries in over a month and it beeps consistently EVERY 45 SECONDS. I never call the leasing office for anything about my neighbors but I feel like I have a leg to stand on since it’s technically a safety issue. | HISTORICAL | {
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0IanytaoIZnQo1TuJpSauXLuZTXvnyXC | ankmvw | {
"description": "getting my husband a gym membership for his birthday because he's obese",
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} | AITA if I get my husband a gym membership for his birthday because he’s obese? | TL;DR: Listed below husband’s health, eating habits, comments from friends, family history, sex life, etc. Husband is always degrading himself. He knows he’s obese, he’s sensitive, but won’t step up. I want to get him a surprise gym membership for his birthday. I don’t know how he’ll react.
I love my husband. We’ve be... | HISTORICAL | {
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1gXvEK3061Pz42Vb6x05b67OtD4kbSrp | ay0usx | {
"description": "asking a woman if I could pretend to be part of her family to ride the train for free",
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} | AITA for asking a woman if I could pretend to be part of her family to ride the train for free? | This one isn't too deep but I keep thinking about whether or not I was in the wrong here.
For some background, I'm a 23 year old male. I was riding the train back from work when a middle aged woman and her teenaged son sat next to me.
I noticed that the woman had a family pass, which is good for up to 4 people (2 a... | HISTORICAL | {
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J2enQ3cDAxI8dmGg3weunT14vlh2t4QP | b6qpp1 | null | AITA My friend says I make him feel ignorant, stupid, sexist and like a piece of shit, but I don't think so. | The reason for my post here is to see if there's merit to my friend's affirmation. I asked him examples of conversation where I've done this and honestly I don't see it. Since I don't see or understand it, I can't change. I'm here looking for an outside opinion on whether it's true.
Conversation 1 (in his own words)
H... | HISTORICAL | {
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9aMg4mhcyohEw0ilNZvkpDEJT5LHjS2U | ayr8bt | {
"description": "not using a condom for the first 10 seconds with my friend with benefits",
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} | AITA for not using a condom for the first 10 seconds with my friend with benefits? [NSFW] [Long] | I shortened this story to keep it in the 3000 character limit.
For some backstory, I had known her for about 4 years. We knew each other in High School and had the same clubs and friend pool but weren't that close.
I ended up telling her during a "how are you?" text chat she initiated that she was hot and she was im... | HISTORICAL | {
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k9c3QTT6hV6etSCW8At28grnPjKi1T07 | abxwkv | {
"description": "ASKING (not expecting) my so to relieve me of my debt (3,000€) after she won 100,000",
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} | AITA for ASKING (Not expecting) my SO to relieve me of my debt (3,000€) after she won 100,000€ | Sorry if i come off as a choosing beggar, but there is a bit of a story behind it. Also sorry for any grammatical or spelling mistakes, english is not my first language.
This is kind of an extra long one so buckle up. (I'm sorry for wasting your time in advance).
At the beginning of the year I (m20) didn't have a dr... | HISTORICAL | {
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rZRh1tR2u5rpATZEA3xNA1FumKpmJI6i | b0tyvd | null | AITA: idk what to do with friend | I have a good friend who is emotionally manipulative, and has just gone through a very hard breakup. The girl will be A, he’ll be L
L and a we’re together for 2-3 years, and L was thinking about getting engaged. A, however, found someone from a sports team L played for more attractive and ran off with him.
Your prob... | HISTORICAL | {
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dxliG7cJnas4zanvsdSTkF8CUrBBB0cz | b0ok5l | {
"description": "being suspicious and lightly irritated that my MIL is manipulating me/us",
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} | AITA for being suspicious and lightly irritated that my MIL is manipulating me/us? | My husband's family has a standing yearly tradition of a family camping trip. It's held on the same weekend every year, and MIL expects all of her kids to come (it's basically 2nd Christmas at this point). It has only changed weekends a couple of times in the last 2 decades, causing chaos, sooo they don't change it idl... | HISTORICAL | {
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yQsDcXsAqFRky6KV1ZTLtAKlZpJpMpkz | 9vn2c3 | {
"description": "wanting to break up with my boyfriend",
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} | AITA For wanting to break up with my boyfriend? | This might be a little long.. sorry guys!
Yesterday i took my boyfriend to class with me and we were going to go to a Museum after for an assignment i had to do.
I commute a little over an hour to school- its a train, a bus, and a walk away. Everything was fine until we got off the train and onto the bus.
We were... | HISTORICAL | {
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u13P9DG7xLOpfmwuHvFYWzS1zQ55ngVd | b2ugn3 | {
"description": "buying stuff and returning them if I dont like them",
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} | AITA for buying stuff and returning them if i dont like them | So these stores here have "30 day return period" or "50 day return period" and i have been buying a lot of mice recently and most of them just haven't felt that good. I know the shop even advertises the 50 day return period but my mom just says that it isn't right and we cant do that.
First time posting here so im not... | HISTORICAL | {
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1sBDQCYcqd4j8kohQTYlEowkOGfHeSUw | b7t4sh | {
"description": "not going to the grocery store after agreeing to",
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} | AITA for not going to the grocery store after agreeing to? | Obligatory throwaway.
So I (22f) have been with SO (m22) for 4 years, we've been living together for almost 7 months.
So we'd just been lazing about and he asks if I want to go to the grocery with him before he has to head to a meeting. I didnt need anything from the store, but I was bored, so I agreed.
Backtrack... | HISTORICAL | {
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ibbmhQ8PJY5rh5TrfpIzmcvVitkOT7lq | aud751 | {
"description": "not asking my fiancé to make my older sister a bridesmaid",
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} | AITA (M) for not asking my Fiancé to make my older sister a bridesmaid? | My fiancé is friends with my younger sister, but doesn’t know my older sister well at all.
We’re getting married in two weeks, and my fiancé asked my younger sister to be a bridesmaid at our wedding. My older sister heard about this and apparently (she told my family) is upset about it.
It doesn’t seem reasonable t... | HISTORICAL | {
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c4xcwyqj8oSyKhOK1Q4EqdCclC2LEh0U | b95v4m | {
"description": "bringing up a discussion about a bad holiday with my friend",
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} | WIBTA if I brought up a discussion about a bad holiday with my friend? | Bit of reading there, so bear with me.
6 months ago, I was invited to a country house by my friend, Michelle. I was there with my boyfriend, and Michelle was there with her husband. The house has 2 double bedrooms.
Before the first day, Michelle keeps telling me how someone will have to stay in the living room at som... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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f6mf3FoVDpW01xQW67SUeu7UREPBgXz3 | aejm3r | {
"description": "not paying part of my friends ticket that he received while high",
"pronormative_score": 13,
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} | AITA for not paying part of my friends ticket that he received while high? | So weed was recently legalized in Canada, and my friends are having a field day. For context, I'm not a fan of smoking it myself as I don't really like the feeling, couldn't give two shits if anyone else smokes though. So the five of us are in my friends car and they all (including the driver) decide to smoke while I d... | HISTORICAL | {
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vthtBpIY23vxQVIxc5HrmU13h5oelJTP | ayu7dq | {
"description": "not waiting and saving my parking spot for a stranger",
"pronormative_score": 7,
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} | AITA for not waiting and saving my parking spot for a stranger? | Earlier this morning I was leaving to go to work. It is important to note that I live in a busy area of the city where parking is scarce and the apartments around here supply no lots, it is all street parking. I leave my apartment and go into my car to turn it on and let it warm up for a few minutes before heading to w... | HISTORICAL | {
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MIbqqDFVrLxG7OPf4DWaKFYM0kO0nFdM | 9u8vbf | {
"description": "getting angry at my boyfriend's friend who acts like my house is his",
"pronormative_score": 6,
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} | AITA for getting angry at my boyfriend's friend who acts like my house is his? | I came home from work and my dogs were running around the yard. He was at my house, he let himself in because we don't lock the door (we live in the middle of nowhere), he went into my bedroom and let my dogs out of their crates and into the yard. I live on a road and the dogs have to be watched closely if they aren't ... | HISTORICAL | {
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rX2aJ8ykDJS1t0oFGrz9n98NjmQW5c7m | b1m8cq | {
"description": "feeling a friendship wasn't being fair towards me",
"pronormative_score": 3,
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} | AITA for feeling a friendship wasn't being fair towards me? | Im 26, shes 25.
Wednesday night I got upset with one of my friends for being increasingly distant towards me the past few weeks. I feel really close to this person and probably the only person i feel comfortable opening up to. Lately I noticed im the one starting 90% of our conversations, and that they are very short... | HISTORICAL | {
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lwVvoVOPqrrWmE3inGwlFc5SI9ULINCX | av7yen | {
"description": "defending myself",
"pronormative_score": 5,
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} | AITA for defending myself? | A bit of context, I'm in middle school and I dated this girl for a solid 2 days because she said she liked me and wanted to see how things went. Little did i know she was dating a guy that she dumped for 2 days and then got back with the moment we broke up. I do Mixed Martial Arts and am perfectly capable of defending ... | HISTORICAL | {
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QwOhCYkIJLAvhFgnPza6hBRqwELLNH5P | b34kg4 | {
"description": "telling someone to shut up",
"pronormative_score": 7,
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} | WIBTA if I tell someone to shut up | Okay so obviously right off the bat I sound like TA, but hear me out.
I sit next to someone in my first period who hums for the entire class period. He has an extremely deep voice, so his humming travels throughout the entire classroom. It is absolutely infuriating for everyone in the class. I have talked with at lea... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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vpw2UlnMk6hKThAODEwTDg3jTXNoqORp | a4nc2w | {
"description": "avoiding a hyper-social old lady with a mental disability who lives in my building",
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} | AITA for avoiding a hyper-social old lady with a mental disability who lives in my building? | So there is an older woman (60+) in our building with a mental disability. If she knows your name, every time, she will stop you and engage you in conversation. Problem is, I have seen her conversing with people but she doesn't really register how to detect when people are busy/in a hurry or want privacy.
I have also... | HISTORICAL | {
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wChnLjVGoRVTS9PDm4Q4qvsioQzmFfvj | b3hzwr | {
"description": "talking about my friends behind their backs",
"pronormative_score": 6,
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} | AITA for talking about my friends behind their backs? | Whenever my friends and I have problems, I have a really hard time figuring out how to handle it, so I'll ask other friends or make a post here on Reddit about how to handle and fix what happened. I feel really really bad now that I thought more about it and I feel like an asshole. | HISTORICAL | {
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7QjKDKkQ9L7svoLJAbTtmpnPfb9jGtfT | axmteq | {
"description": "calling out a dealership on Facebook/Twitter even after working something out",
"pronormative_score": 4,
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} | WIBTA if I called out a dealership on Facebook/Twitter even after working something out? | So I want to preface this first by saying that around 2.5 weeks ago, I was in a no-fault accident where a truck rear ended me at 55+ mph and sandwiched me into another car in front of me. My car was a total loss, and I’ve been extremely stressed out about getting a new one, to the point of crying, because I was halfway... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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W3UabTAtA0Eq4UJ4zNNR9lYkKkQGTlQd | b90lpv | {
"description": "being mad at my friends for adding a guy that makes me feel uncomfortable to our group chat",
"pronormative_score": 6,
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} | AITA for being mad at my friends for adding a guy that makes me feel uncomfortable to our group chat? | A bit of backstory, about two years ago a guy I barely knew developed a crush on me. He is a shy person, so instead of trying to start casual conversations, he took pictures of me and stared from afar. After a while of doing this, he tried to approach me, but was incredibly akward about it and I started to feel uncomfo... | HISTORICAL | {
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LA0KKmibpHC8WIMxIgcz4ZzhCuvYu8eU | b1mu19 | {
"description": "asking him to sell an old, unused car to pay for our wedding",
"pronormative_score": 2,
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} | AITA for asking him to sell an old, unused car to pay for our wedding? | My fiancé and I have been engaged for over a year. It’s been over a year because we’re not making enough to really be able to save up that much for a wedding. Right now we have enough saved for just basic, barebones ceremonies. I want our day to be special. I want to remember it forever.
There’s this ugly, ol... | HISTORICAL | {
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J2QPRoVZRQgvrXIoSSKEJ98Cxv7ofg7W | 9uhy3g | {
"description": "considering a break up with my girlfriend of 14 months after she kicked my dog out",
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} | AITA For considering a break up with my girlfriend of 14 months after she kicked my dog out? | 6 months ago my girlfriend (19F) and I (21M) moved out of our parent's houses and into an apartment together. My dog Max is very chill. He doesn't like children or other dogs, but tolerates them unless they get in his face. Max had never bit a person before her though. She and my dog have never gotten along for whateve... | HISTORICAL | {
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yYerSBOhlmU7Hx1xd9TM5hOXbGC0vXpk | a0j6b1 | {
"description": "leaving my friend for another without noticing",
"pronormative_score": 2,
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} | AITA for leaving my friend for another without noticing? | This happened a few weeks ago at my school where me and my friend was buying lunch when my other friends came and I joined them. I'll just use MF for my friend, and OF for my other friends.
A bit of background. MF was having problems with my OF because of something school related. MF was irritated at OF because she th... | HISTORICAL | {
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xQ1iB8mAzqVPoPy8yM7l4jmFk9e0HbPK | b3h5zd | {
"description": "telling my best friend to leave her husband and move across the country",
"pronormative_score": 1,
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} | WIBTA if I told my best friend to leave her husband and move across the country? | My friend is currently in the transition between jobs. She just quit working her job on the east coast and has one lined up on the West coast next month.
She also got married recently, with in the last 2 months, I can't totally remember. Her relationship has been a bit bumpy from what she has told me. Nothing too cra... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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PBTDkrnOb5tLbTn8ZG6v4WWEUpkpIohF | afr3zq | {
"description": "telling my sister she needs a job",
"pronormative_score": 2,
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} | AITA That i told my sister she needs a job? | Mobile, formating, spelling--ya know the drill
Some info before we dive in: my sister is 22y/o, i am 20, almost 21 y/o. My sister (sis), has admittedly been having a rough few months. Her best friend of 12 years randomly told her to fuck off (more eloquently), she had a big arguement with our parents that involved her... | HISTORICAL | {
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TPEHYom3s1gGbKwKLvyPWGtRm7atVTQm | auu8l9 | {
"description": "not wanting my fiancé's surname",
"pronormative_score": 19,
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} | AITA for not wanting my fiancé’s surname? | My partner (M20) and I (F21) have been engaged for a little over a year now and we still can’t seem to get past this issue.
He originally had another surname when we first met, and he changed it about a year ago to match his stepfathers. Normally this wouldn’t be an issue, but his stepfathers family is a notoriously ... | HISTORICAL | {
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TRbvCoyIEtnjExSs5X1ecETS5lU9aiTL | b6xoiy | {
"description": "wanting to visit my dad without my wife",
"pronormative_score": 11,
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} | AITA for wanting to visit my dad without my wife? | My dad and his wife have a vacation condo at the beach. They live on the east coast and I live in Chicago, so I don't get to see them very often, maybe once or twice a year (last time was Christmas).
Anyways, my dad invited me and my wife to come out for a long weekend to stay at his condo. I'm looking at this as more... | HISTORICAL | {
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CzndbY4mCzzPrB2J0M0PUzPccfVjs9RL | ag2u1t | {
"description": "asking my boyfriend to ditch one of his friends",
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LX1vTOvaV3CKHyvzhbMJn1AUT2DL4J39 | aw1gdm | {
"description": "ordering a bison burger at a restaurant",
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} | AITA For ordering a bison burger at a restaurant? | I work at a bowling alley and every year the owners invite all the employees to a high end restaurant. As I was looking through the menu, I saw a bison burger. I am a huge fan of burgers, and I had never tried bison. A few of my coworkers were giving me a hard time because bison were endangered at one point and it happ... | HISTORICAL | {
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YVwCw2ccw6ivtvPEVsJKKQO5R7wGSbEh | a0r1bk | {
"description": "telling a woman to prioritize gas over food",
"pronormative_score": 9,
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} | AITA for telling a woman to prioritize gas over food? | I had just gotten off of work and I'm on the way to Burger King to get some food before I head back to my apartment for the night. Considering it's late at night, the BK at that point had closed the dining room but still had the drive through available. I go through the drive through and as I'm waiting for my food, thi... | HISTORICAL | {
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qS4iYkRfkif4LvWPKoSxH5gPqhhMk3Ih | abe6t5 | {
"description": "getting angry at my ex for telling everyone about a lot of personal stuff I told her",
"pronormative_score": 8,
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} | AITA for getting angry at my ex for telling everyone about a lot of personal stuff I told her? | So, my ex and I were both depressed, and we used to always go to each other for support. Even though she was coming to me with her problems, she was always dismissive of mine and got angry at me for going to her about it. I found out that she was telling everyone the stuff I told her, and that's why we broke up. Am I t... | HISTORICAL | {
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XboDdbaRzCNp2qq7iJwvWjpeLUUPp924 | b8lxme | {
"description": "contacting my son's girlfriend's parents because she thinks she is pregnant and refuses to find out",
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} | WIBTA if I contact my son's girlfriend's parents because she thinks she is pregnant and refuses to find out. | Quick disclaimer, my son is 17, the girlfriend just turned 16. There is no possible way the baby could be his as they have not physically been in touch since last summer.
It's a newer relationship of not even 2 months.
My son, we'll call him 'Sam' came to me a few nights ago positively sick needing to talk. He told ... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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"INFO": 2
} | OTHER | {
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} | RIGHT |
7f8Urx8foBN3aY9sEDoy9kuRRtyNjfh5 | a046sk | {
"description": "telling annoying customers I'm 19",
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} | AITA for telling annoying customers I’m 19? | I’m 14 and work on front counter at the Gold Arches. I swear every 10th customer asks about my age, and when I tell them, makes a big fuss for about 2 minutes, holding up the line and making me mad. I found out that saying I’m 19 when they ask makes them embarrassed and try to get through the transaction as fast as pos... | HISTORICAL | {
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x0PojBsILe5adpa2IICWMO6AEIRRwoMn | aufzqb | {
"description": "sleeping with someone after having a first date with someone else",
"pronormative_score": 11,
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} | WIBTA if I slept with someone after having a first date with someone else? | Title is pretty explanatory. Nothing is serious between the first person and I, however we did agree to a second date in principle. I don't think this counts as "dating" and there have been no talks of making it official, but I do feel like morally I am kinda committed to seeing the first person through. The second per... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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} | NOBODY | {
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} | RIGHT |
u0CZkzl2R2wi4jV0X9AZ5gYSAo7mHQSA | arpv86 | {
"description": "telling my manager I cant work on a day I was scheduled",
"pronormative_score": 2,
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} | AITA for telling my manager I cant work on a day I was scheduled? | This one is kinda a weird one but I really would love some feedback. For context, I work at a subway and I text messaged this to my manager. I am a really good worker and liked by most of my peers. I also fallow nearly every rule. I have came in multiple times to work when I was not supposed to in order to cover people... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | AUTHOR | {
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"WRONG": 9
} | WRONG |
8yDdSWzWjMFe5rwbxtZ1okYk2VXSfkjJ | b7numl | {
"description": "getting a worker fired for a bad Google review",
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} | AITA for getting a worker fired for a bad Google review? | I work for a smallish company that ships product all over the country. We have a few preferred trucking vendors that we give a lot of business to.
One company hired a new driver who has picked up 8-10 loads from my company. Two times he was late for his time slot so we started filling another truck and he had to wait.... | HISTORICAL | {
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mA9V1thpUw0PmADVz4UIDwLfl07FIiwB | aj2v3k | {
"description": "asking my husband not to use the shovel on the car",
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} | AITA For asking my husband not to use the shovel on the car | Yesterday we had rain, it froze and it snowed so I'm working from home today, my husband was out shoveling and when I looked out the window he was using the shovel to remove snow from his car \[caught him doing this last snow on my car and asked him not to and he blew up\] so I opened the door and said hey don't do tha... | HISTORICAL | {
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VRdm5L3Y06oYbDzj0jeX4MUFz7XV3HEg | a5ge95 | {
"description": "feeling a sense of dispair/overwhelmed at the thought of taking care of my little brother with Down Syndrome",
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} | AITA for feeling a sense of dispair/overwhelmed at the thought of taking care of my little brother with Down Syndrome? | I have a 14 year old brother with Down Syndrome, and im currently 20. Last week, my parents sat down with me to explain our financial situation and how, when they are gone, my brother and I will have to take care of my little bro and provide for him (not entirely) for the rest of our lives. This made me feel kinda over... | HISTORICAL | {
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y8JI2nJW9gxO9ljORmudYQxVDXkM0c16 | aw94zw | {
"description": "telling a girl I didn't want to try and do a distance relationship after the first couple months didn't work for me",
"pronormative_score": 14,
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} | AITA for telling a girl I didn’t want to try and do a distance relationship after the first couple months didn’t work for me? | So here’s the story, last summer i started talking to a girl and we hit it off. We had about a month and a half of summer left and things were going great during that time. However we both went to separate colleges and they were 8 hours apart. So after going to college and never seeing her I started to lose feelings, s... | HISTORICAL | {
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IabyI4aRdCaKYY4ZDAudrOESCZWLmISI | alqqqm | {
"description": "kicking a white male author out of a writing club because his story came off as sexist",
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} | AITA for kicking a white male author out of a writing club because his story came off as sexist? | I run a writing club at my local community college with my husband, and we had a new guy come in who was writing a new piece. His story was about a society of women who pushed eugenics onto men. Selective breeding. Basically his story was about a society of women giving reproductive rights to men they believed had desi... | HISTORICAL | {
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wzQqqG1FlcHl0Xp3TJfzaBuClWoeymcM | aqfvkp | {
"description": "wanting to eat in my own house",
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} | AITA for wanting to eat in my own house? | I have Aspergers. Part of that is extreme aversions to types of food. The consistency, the textures, the taste the smell. All make me physically ill. So there is a lot of stuff I can’t eat.
I understand this makes my pallet very limited, but at the same time I’m very easy to cook for.
I’m 18, I’m living with my mom... | HISTORICAL | {
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K5Ro0IRN9jDny5r601Se0iMYcZUq11sh | 9u4pg6 | {
"description": "getting snappy with the front desk",
"pronormative_score": 4,
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} | AITA for getting snappy with the front desk? | I visited the reception room three times, called once, called USPS and my local post office to try to find a package that said it was delivered 4 days ago. I went to the front desk for the 4th time and they found my package in the back room (which they said they checked every time I visited or called).
The sender did... | HISTORICAL | {
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VJ8nRZITSBqLvrlaj3Cb4GS6aAx8jOLM | b574wh | {
"description": "getting mad at a friend",
"pronormative_score": 1,
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} | AITA for getting mad at a friend? | I don't really know how to explain this in the title.
So I agreed to meet up with a friend and meet someone else. He told me and I thought we were just gonna hang out. To be honest it ended up becoming really uncomfortable. I don't exactly know how it all happened but it was almost like he was trying to control my lif... | HISTORICAL | {
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jU1wJ27LQD0rWMmWJhRfYWmntAaLTySU | b0qrj1 | {
"description": "asking my mom to call me before she comes in my apartment",
"pronormative_score": 7,
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} | AITA for asking my mom to call me before she comes in my apartment | My boyfriend and I live in an in-law apartment in my mother’s basement during my pregnancy. There’s a staircase leading into her house that locks from her side. There have been a few times when either my mom or grandmother (who lives in the main house) have knocked and then opened the door without waiting for an answer... | HISTORICAL | {
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2HWBudt563fLxr2mq4HpaLHn3l80hbyJ | b53dqu | {
"description": "making my mom cry",
"pronormative_score": 6,
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} | AITA for making my mom cry? |
To give some context: The relationship between my mom and the family (specifically father) in the house next to us has gotten progressively worse over time. For ease of reading, I'll just refer to the father as A.
The point at which I took notice is when my mom, in attempting to prevent leaves from being pushed by ... | HISTORICAL | {
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bz4POUTXrsoCzEj6pRwL78OjBOrwlctH | ax1fso | {
"description": "not wanting to recreate my fiancé's parent's motorcycle trip honeymoon? it's great they did it but it's not what I want",
"pronormative_score": 96,
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} | AITA for not wanting to recreate my fiancé's parent's motorcycle trip honeymoon? It's great they did it but it's not what I want. | Posting from a throwaway for reasons.
Background: I am engaged to be married in August. My fiancé's parent's owned a motorcycle dealership and on their honey moon they took brand new motorcycles on a road trip across several states.
Apparently it has always been my future mother in law's dream that her son and his ... | HISTORICAL | {
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gRbOAv32p5FZep5Nz5EK6jZxuwtdTawo | amf4bj | {
"description": "being annoyed at catsitting",
"pronormative_score": 13,
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} | AITA for being annoyed at catsitting | To give some background, I currently work a job where I only get 10 days of vacation a year.
I am also dating someone who lives in the next city over, and we both work jobs with long hours, so we can only see each other on weekends and vacation days.
So this week is a vacation week, and I have three days off. I was ... | HISTORICAL | {
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S05nOlnVnOcHG3SdHK4W55FW3rg7itFH | an7wap | {
"description": "not liking a kid in my class",
"pronormative_score": 7,
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} | AITA For not liking a kid in my class? | Hi, first time poster. There is a boy in my class that I just don't like, he's not a bad person, and I try to be nice enough.
He has an anime obsession, a bit of a weeb who isn't the most socially adept. He might be autistic which explains a lot, and that isn't a bad thing. I just can't seem to like him.
He insists o... | HISTORICAL | {
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CHukZnHuP5C5HzBW6ZOunB0bbekxWBND | axcoid | {
"description": "accidentally breaking my friends speaker and offering to buy a new one instead of paying him for it",
"pronormative_score": 8,
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} | AITA for accidentally breaking my friends speaker and offering to buy a new one instead of paying him for it? | So this weekend I was hanging out with some of my friends and one of them left their Bluetooth speaker and so we were playing some shitty music through it as a joke to annoy one of our friends. Sometime later I got the brilliant idea to put it in the microwave (we never turned on the microwave either), after doing that... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
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YBLrcCocdllHcLkml0OG4hbUmU7CeETa | acschi | {
"description": "kicking out my destitute uncle",
"pronormative_score": 10,
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} | AITA for kicking out my destitute uncle? | I'm going to separate this into two parts that are both equally important. Backstory oh, and the current situation.
Backstory: My uncle is the last person alive on his side of the family. My grandmother was murdered by her second husband in 2008, and my father passed away six years ago 2012 from a heart attack. All of... | HISTORICAL | {
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huohFYaqHG7UbNAeLihcyiATYT3nRuPB | azzjwf | null | AITA because my landlord is fucking useless? | Ok so to summarise because I am currently furious.
My landlord lives in the house I rent a room in and is constantly running out of gas so I can't always have a hot shower after work/gym. He also never cleans anything because his wife left him and did all his housework and laundry and I'm convinced he doesn't know how... | HISTORICAL | {
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"RIGHT": 5,
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} | RIGHT |
ZPuqr1I42fZswfUDv1wV1VLO89fBG9mF | b89uh9 | {
"description": "refusing to loan my dad money to cover his mortgaga",
"pronormative_score": 8,
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} | AITA for refusing to loan my dad money to cover his mortgaga? | My dad and I (28M) have had our ups and downs throughout my life but the last two years have been good. My dad got fired from his longtime time about 3 years ago and my parents divorced last year. He hasn’t gotten a job since and is only making a little side money doing photography. He has never really been good with f... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 8,
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Jg4DHdilz54V0k3sVx3pPnOpe76Gl68V | a9fokg | {
"description": "telling a child she would never find Dory",
"pronormative_score": 12,
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} | AITA for telling a child she would never find Dory? | This has bothered me for awhile now. So my friend and I decided to go watch the movie Finding Dory and sitting in front of us was a mother, a father and a daughter. The mom was texting so that bright screen was already pretty annoying. Once the movie starts the kid went nuts! She started running up and down the theater... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 12,
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} | RIGHT |
cjE0agnYIfcbwSHrKlRKAMcFV7NCfkqX | asp563 | {
"description": "freaking out on mom after she calls my dog a mistake",
"pronormative_score": 2,
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} | AITA I freak out on mom after she calls my dog a mistake | All right this happened a few days ago, so my uncle and my dad were talking about something and my mom threw herself into the conversation and started complaining saying he was doing something wrongly (p.s he was doing everything right) after he tried many time that what he was doing wasn’t permanent to no avail this g... | HISTORICAL | {
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LZG7gSJyP5q2yMU3LGB1Yp22vsQ85bVq | 9voydl | {
"description": "getting vocally angry at people for psyching me out with fake punches",
"pronormative_score": 5,
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} | AITA for getting vocally angry at people for psyching me out with fake punches? | I tend to flinch a lot when things move towards me relatively fast, and I know a handful of people who think it’s the funniest thing in the world to try and psyche me out by pretending they’re gonna punch/slap/kick/etc me, then stopping a few inches from making contact. It works every time.
Problem is, I really hate t... | HISTORICAL | {
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"RIGHT": 5,
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lhgaxbleJzqK4FndLrwDz5hyAQ6GhFgS | b0chxe | {
"description": "telling a friend they shouldnt get a dog",
"pronormative_score": 12,
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} | AITA for telling a friend they shouldnt get a dog? | I have a friend who hasn't really gotten their life together. She's 25, lives in a camper on a friend's property and when not doing that, she crashes on friends couches. She drives for Uber just enough to pay for gas and food and that's about it.
The other day she texted me a picture of a cute yellow lab puppy and s... | HISTORICAL | {
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"RIGHT": 12,
"WRONG": 1
} | RIGHT |
HxphvAH1culbMBvEUsNSmyuew5h7kQih | a3tcse | {
"description": "stealing my stuff back from the guy who stole from me",
"pronormative_score": 2,
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} | WIBTA if I steal my stuff back from the guy who stole from me? | This happened in Europe, I am from Canada.
​
I was interning abroad and my luggage was taken on my charter (Flixbus) bus ride to Amsterdam Schiphol Airport. Unfortunately, even though I immediately figured out who had taken my luggage (due to the fact that his luggage was left on the bus), I had to catch ... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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zkYyNZ8zgZojXYhF31SkmTO6YXk8xEt0 | atd5ur | {
"description": "not paying into my best friend's bachelorette party",
"pronormative_score": 6,
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} | AITA for not paying into my best friend’s bachelorette party? | This may be long and confusing, apologies in advance. Also: dirty, dirty mobile user.
I am maid of honor in my best friend’s wedding (to an amazing guy and they both deserve the world). I live in Seattle and the bachelorette party is in South Florida. For reference, everyone else is only a couple of hours drive from ... | HISTORICAL | {
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eNF7b9GLExJjozV6Df6UN1GfKjYEJDNH | aly1d6 | {
"description": "not wanting my niece in my wedding",
"pronormative_score": 5,
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} | AITA for not wanting my niece in my wedding? | So I'm getting married in October and everyone tells me, "It's your wedding do what you want!" but it doesn't feel that way...My fiance and I got engaged in July and shortly after she started doing all the planning. One random day in August my mom texts me if my niece can be a junior bride's maid (didn't even know thi... | HISTORICAL | {
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NasdG7HmGSEXnF6XfM6B1wxDrljSQGxP | b9yuwv | {
"description": "not giving my father any money even though I donate to charities",
"pronormative_score": 11,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for not giving my father any money even though I donate to charities | So my BF is really upset at me and it's causing a lot of arguments. I was so set but now I need outside advice.
I'm the oldest and things were ok with my parents until my dad's company took off and he became a giant abusive asshole. He never hit the kids but would throw stuff and call us names. He walked out when I wa... | HISTORICAL | {
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eJyL3xZfM9RDN5AEEEd2NaMiruilfyuA | awxpy5 | {
"description": "expecting my wife to still agree with the deal we made 5 years ago",
"pronormative_score": 107,
"contranormative_score": 37
} | AITA for expecting my wife to still agree with the deal we made 5 years ago? |
This situation is complicated. My wife and I met while I was just starting med school, and we fell in love and everything was great. I am very dedicated to my career, so early on the topic of children was always "in the future, when I'm done with school and residency, so I will have a 9-5 job that pays well and suppor... | HISTORICAL | {
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"INFO": 4
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} | RIGHT |
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