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"description": "kicking a player out of a 5e campaign before it started due to his character",
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} | WIBTA if I kicked a player out of a 5e campaign before it started due to his character? | I've been trying to run a campaign with a group of friends I've known for a few years and one of them kept making joke characters because he is, in his own words, a "noob".
These characters included the "piss lord" half-elf, the unbelievably illiterate dragonborn, and the upcoming orc named Kerhs Eht Ergo(Shrek The Og... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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} | RIGHT |
46fOJGDmQygQXp2I3I9MwCIcxHzarWMb | b2zsbr | {
"description": "asking my roommates to help keep the apartment clean, and to keep themselves clean",
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} | Wibta : For asking my roommates to help keep the apartment clean, and to keep themselves clean? | Recently two of my friends moved across country to where I live, under the pre tense that I would let them stay with me and my roommate for awhile until they got on their feet. However when they finally arrived my then current roommate (roommate a) sprang on all of us out of nowhere that he was leaving the lease and th... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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UWzoCh4acntfLxqx2Zl2q1OvLCzlDiMS | atskg1 | {
"description": "verbalizing exactly what I expect (plus boundaries, rules, etc) from a potential boyfriend/husband on the first date",
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} | AITA for verbalizing exactly what I expect (plus boundaries, rules, etc) from a potential boyfriend/husband on the first date? | I recently got out of a long relationship and now I’m back on the market. I’m 28F and looking for something serious, yet none of my dates have gone beyond the first or second date and it’s frustrating.
I don’t know what I’m doing wrong. My friends think I’m being too “needy” but I think I’m actually doing the complete... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | AUTHOR | {
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"WRONG": 11
} | WRONG |
3tTQw1G0sJLYUtxPKBO0GeplXkgjsYJG | b3nnt2 | {
"description": "being upset at my bf",
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} | AITA for being upset at my bf | I got an email earlier today from an instructor saying that I hadn't turned in an assignment that was due during the final yesterday. I told her I did it and it was in my folder (a lie) but I just forgot to hand it in (another lie, but it's college, whatever). Then, I left for work. When I go on my first break, I notic... | HISTORICAL | {
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"INFO": 1
} | AUTHOR | {
"RIGHT": 6,
"WRONG": 30
} | WRONG |
f1uPRfDvsG6rIOV8UO6AB5ctzHAmu0R8 | a7fyry | {
"description": "getting really Sick of my friend",
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} | AITA for Getting Really Sick of My Friend? | This fall has been a complete shitshow. Everybody in my friend group has been miserable at one point or another, and of course we are there for each other, but one friend, we'll call er "Marcy" is getting to be too much to handle. First off, insecurity in itself is not a big deal, my friend group is basically the bunch... | HISTORICAL | {
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3Nx4oMW3suMTCxXsHphSOrxq0i7ibVih | af38fs | {
"description": "not answering the door when my MIL comes over",
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} | AITA for not answering the door when my MIL comes over? | Long history with the MIL.. she used to live with us for years while the kiddos were little and it became a little too much for us to be under the same roof. She finally moved out last year about 10mins away. Because she lives so close, she comes over unannounced several times a week to pick up mail or give some treats... | HISTORICAL | {
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AhgEX8wEYlV8F7Milcz8TkYEP1ae6nrA | aqzoik | {
"description": "forgetting my wife's card",
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} | AITA for forgetting my wife’s card? | As is tradition for my wife and I, we exchange cards/gifts on Valentine’s Day in the evening. This year, we decided no gifts, just cards.
I was at work from 7-7 yesterday, however, a serious incident occurred, leading to attempted resuscitation (I work in a mental health unit) which was ultimately unsuccessful. As I ... | HISTORICAL | {
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2d42vruVrVcAqiCPqUaoJHzCLEomX2AW | aty8wz | {
"description": "getting in an argument with some people on a live my brother did for calling him gay",
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} | Aita for getting in an argument with some people on a live my brother did for calling him gay? | So, to start off, I'm a lesbian. I am not quite out yet, but I am out to my family. My mom told me to join my little brothers Livestream on Instagram, I guess just for fun. I joined, watched for a little while, them someone commented "ur gay (little brother)" I got confused and defensive, and said "don't say that dude"... | HISTORICAL | {
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"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
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} | RIGHT |
Sqib5PlZCrRtFii8sgNqy6YVmRW4djUO | b9535g | {
"description": "treating my stepfamily like extended family at my wedding",
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} | AITA for treating my stepfamily like extended family at my wedding? | My parents got divorced awhile ago, and both got remarried when I was an adult. Both my stepparents have their own adult children. I like everyone and never had a problem getting along with them, but I never thought of my step relatives as being on the same level as my parents or siblings since I didn't grow up with th... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
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} | RIGHT |
JnipAyxw7m4yDkbWo3iSMHyfjGyRi6B6 | b4x97f | {
"description": "wanting to keep the Dog",
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} | AITA for Wanting to Keep the Dog? | A month ago my fiancée told me she didn't want to get married anymore. We had been together for 3 years and engaged for 5 months with the wedding planned for August. Of course I was devasted but we ended on good terms and later after talking through her thoughts on things I saw her point. We always supported and lov... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | NOBODY | {
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} | RIGHT |
ENktWoVFnBDRlRBHbOTw20XhIDD4KCuI | b5i5gu | {
"description": "walking away from a sale when he changed the price half way through",
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} | AITA for walking away from a sale when he changed the price half way through? | I am in desperate need of a new phone and my contract is up so I went into the mall asked about their plans and what the cost of the phone on the plan was he told me it was $330 for the phone with the $80 plan he wrote it down for me and I told him that I was going to look around at some other store and their plans
I... | HISTORICAL | {
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7qgYHGZz2tPbRHKuIU9Mum9KsQBP4F0t | b1xu04 | {
"description": "telling a buddy that no one wants his girlfriend to come to game night",
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} | WIBTA if I tell a buddy that no one wants his girlfriend to come to game night? | My group of friends have a once a month game night. It’s mostly just the five of us getting drunk, playing cards or board games, and catching up. It’s probably sad, but it used to be the highlight of my month.
One of my friends has a girlfriend who for the last four times has tagged along. None of us minded when... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 84,
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} | RIGHT |
ha7PLKTlxpyAdSqZd4wHqstmNZj7EuUb | b00os8 | null | AITA. Brother skipped school responsibilities and tried to get me to help. | So I’m your average theatre major, and had to go see a play at my college for my acting class (the play was Angels in America: Perestroika, a 4 hour long play). My older brother, who we’ll call George, was in a Intro to Theatre class, and had to see the play too. HOWEVER, he was not a theatre person, in fact, he probab... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
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CuPBdHLdvzuOTYs2d0NvLwMAZdQ60jvH | ay0q9w | {
"description": "trying to troll my girlfriend",
"pronormative_score": 3,
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} | AITA for trying to troll my girlfriend? | Not as wild as some other posts here, but still..
btw; non-native speaker here, so sorry in advance
So i was in a relationship for almost 2 years at this point when the story happened.
My GF was staying at my place and in the morning i wanted to go get something to drink, since i had nothing in the house. To make ... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | NOBODY | {
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} | RIGHT |
WN86TtYPONav4fcP1j9vU33VRSdUuIO4 | aad26a | {
"description": "not wanting to date a girl because I don't find her attractive but doing Friends with Benefits anyway",
"pronormative_score": 11,
"contranormative_score": 4
} | AITA for not wanting to date a girl because I don't find her attractive but doing Friends With Benefits anyway? | Some back story first. I was a 20 yo male virgin when I decided to get over my loneliness and socialise a bit. So I installed Tinder and a couple of days later was texting a girl. We were both unable to meet for a week so we just texted a lot and talked over call. I think she was really into me so I went along with thi... | HISTORICAL | {
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"EVERYBODY": 0,
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"INFO": 1
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 11,
"WRONG": 4
} | RIGHT |
GXqZoCPE2PTcPKnxXIZ9lvLjGP8WfI2E | 9z8w5r | {
"description": "starting to fall out of love with someone but not telling them right away",
"pronormative_score": 2,
"contranormative_score": 3
} | AITA if I started to fall out of love with someone but didn't tell them right away? | I visited an online friend a few months back when I started to have feelings for him. The trip just made those feelings stronger, so it was easy to say 'i love you' back and seemingly reciprocate the until-then unrequited feelings he had for me.
But as time went on after I went back home, distance took its toll and I ... | HISTORICAL | {
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"INFO": 0
} | AUTHOR | {
"RIGHT": 2,
"WRONG": 3
} | WRONG |
foKAiNArKM4SJceIpiIIP0X8wZJCPDXA | aj9asd | {
"description": "making jokes/comments about my roommate being sick",
"pronormative_score": 1,
"contranormative_score": 7
} | AITA for making jokes/comments about my roommate being sick | okay, so this just happened an hour or two ago so bear with me. i’m on my phone and have been drinking a little bit and need to know if what i did was wrong and or offensive and or however redditors may deem my actions.
Now, my roommate has been sick for... about a month or so. she has asthma and contracted bronchitis... | HISTORICAL | {
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"OTHER": 0,
"EVERYBODY": 1,
"NOBODY": 1,
"INFO": 0
} | AUTHOR | {
"RIGHT": 1,
"WRONG": 7
} | WRONG |
E2ZWGilcffORq92gQTOYcSKDDsHQ5RaP | aakb8e | {
"description": "yelling at some kids for not including my disabled daughter in play",
"pronormative_score": 0,
"contranormative_score": 102
} | AITA for yelling at some kids for not including my disabled daughter in play? | (I am asking on behalf of my partner as she was the one yelling - and she asked me to ask here - but for all intents and purposes to keep it simple assume it was me)
As i look out the lounge room window today i see a large caravan parked at the party house a couple of doors down. Don't have a problem with that as s... | HISTORICAL | {
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"INFO": 3
} | AUTHOR | {
"RIGHT": 0,
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} | WRONG |
cs7fy4HMpDLZ7jy0NeGYN54jTKeovFdY | apyejo | {
"description": "defending a very racist joke said to a black person because of the context of it",
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} | AITA for defending a very racist joke said to a black person because of the context of it ? | This happened a while back but I just found this subreddit and I'm interested to hear your thoughts.
There was a post on r/tinder where a black girl messaged a guy saying " how dark is your humour " and he replied "it picks cotton" now obviously this is a very racist joke but I thought it was completely okay to say in... | HISTORICAL | {
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"NOBODY": 2,
"INFO": 1
} | NOBODY | {
"RIGHT": 3,
"WRONG": 0
} | RIGHT |
WSqbhdJmW5cHiS8HrNM2IK1jo4ODFwMw | b40xpr | {
"description": "wanting to spend time alone away from my girlfriend",
"pronormative_score": 15,
"contranormative_score": 1
} | AITA for wanting to spend time alone away from my girlfriend | So my gf and I just got back from a 5 day trip to Vegas. The trip was just me and her, so we pretty much spent every hour of the past 5 days together. Tonight, I told her I don’t want to sleep over her place as I want to just hang out by myself at my apartment for the night. I enjoy my alone time to play video games, ... | HISTORICAL | {
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"OTHER": 11,
"EVERYBODY": 1,
"NOBODY": 4,
"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 15,
"WRONG": 1
} | RIGHT |
YdN7d6NhcCl49la0uYbDC8Ovyxt8465X | b5rtbw | {
"description": "calling out my \"friend's\" bs",
"pronormative_score": 4,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for calling out my “friend’s” bs? | (Sorry for any grammar mistakes.)
So there’s this girl, let’s call her Sofia (obviously not her actual name), she’s my ‘friend’ and she’s incredibly toxic, or so I think.
She has slagged me off behind my back on many occasions, turned half my year against me and when I asked her to stop she denied doing it (I have ma... | HISTORICAL | {
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"INFO": 1
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 4,
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} | RIGHT |
4HzXllyGHgQH5MIRR6OPTYX6PAhiiKmI | 9yq738 | {
"description": "ruining my bfs mood because of hormones",
"pronormative_score": 3,
"contranormative_score": 1
} | AITA for ruining my bfs mood because of hormones | So, some context for this, I am usually a very happy and positive person. However, every now and then I get struck by terrible pangs of sadness and feeling shit about myself. I've always thought this was normal for women because of hormones.
Thoughts of how I don't deserve my bf, how I hate the way I look and how I'm ... | HISTORICAL | {
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"OTHER": 3,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 3,
"WRONG": 1
} | RIGHT |
JakK82XJ7gwP7VO3afK5hOPFj4WVkqJ8 | ahiec7 | null | AITA: My Friend was Madly in Love with my Current Girlfriend | So
A bit of context: I have a large friendship group (all early 20s) which I didn't see much for a few months, and she had recently joined right after I left.
One of my friends used to be madly in love with my current girlfriend (of 2 years) before I met her.
I have to make clear that she was not interested at a... | HISTORICAL | {
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"OTHER": 10,
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"NOBODY": 2,
"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 12,
"WRONG": 0
} | RIGHT |
10ZdzTz2fB1O4BXXGdC145GocfKvVwOL | amo9oc | {
"description": "chastising a disabled person on public transport for ignoring social norms",
"pronormative_score": 17,
"contranormative_score": 3
} | AITA for chastising a disabled person on public transport for ignoring social norms? | Where i’m from, it’s custom to let people exit the train / bus / public vehicle before boarding and also respect the queue order. I carried heavy bags and positioned myself early at the station during a busy time of the day. The doors open and out of nowhere comes this man, climbing past me - mind you, there was hardly... | HISTORICAL | {
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"OTHER": 17,
"EVERYBODY": 2,
"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 1
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 17,
"WRONG": 3
} | RIGHT |
O7yrpd16AgrrDgaG0i6LdUf4i7qMSUWq | ahjqrj | {
"description": "accidently throwing away my sister's phone charger and refusing to pay for a replacement",
"pronormative_score": 7,
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} | AITA for accidently throwing away my sister's phone charger and refusing to pay for a replacement | My sister had just come back from hanging out with her friend and brought back her leftovers from McDonalds where they ate. She finished her leftovers at the dinner table and left behind her trash all over the table while she went to lay down on her bed and use her phone. I cleaned up the table because she really did m... | HISTORICAL | {
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"OTHER": 7,
"EVERYBODY": 2,
"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 7,
"WRONG": 4
} | RIGHT |
36wH1WqyUsTq7Eo7WLtjwIJc1cyx4G8y | as1jmz | {
"description": "calling my sister a polar bear",
"pronormative_score": 5,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for calling my sister a polar bear? | Obligatory this happened a few months ago and sorry for formatting I'm on mobile...
Just some background... My sister was skinny for most of her life but now that she is out of college.. She has gained some weight and is really self conscious about it. One night, we were going to dinner and she came out with a white, ... | HISTORICAL | {
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"INFO": 1
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 5,
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} | RIGHT |
p2SI9nSWAe0YTEg68WSdvI4IHHwwnqsP | a2tlir | {
"description": "not wanting my boyfriend to spend time with another girl",
"pronormative_score": 8,
"contranormative_score": 1
} | AITA for not wanting my boyfriend to spend time with another girl? | (this is my 3rd AITA question and I've noticed theres so much going on in my life, like wtf)
Okay, so first of all, I've been with my boyfriend for 3 ½ years now, we're a great couple in my opinion and I really love him to the moon and back and he does the same.
There's this girl he knows from his sports club and they... | HISTORICAL | {
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"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
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} | RIGHT |
mv8qhhbzJt6q04nZpxTE51r2zj89BQyu | a8b8ky | {
"description": "asking my fiancé to exclude his brother our wedding party",
"pronormative_score": 8,
"contranormative_score": 3
} | AITA for asking my fiancé to exclude his brother our wedding party? | My [36f] and my partner [37m] have been together for over three years now, engaged since January 2018 and are getting married next summer. We are planning a super simple, small wedding with one or two people on each side of our wedding party. My partner’s relationship with his family is one of estrangement as of about ... | HISTORICAL | {
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"INFO": 1
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 8,
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} | RIGHT |
PLRgikMfXVaZWtGnYpqv8ZTgQaLh0PMb | anzj63 | {
"description": "nervous laughing at my coworker's boyfriend",
"pronormative_score": 3,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for nervous laughing at my coworker’s boyfriend? | so I moved to a new city back in December to start a new job, and on my first day of training I met a girl in the same training class we’ll call D. D was immediately open about the vast majority of her personal life the day I met her, and she told me about how she lost one of her kids in an accident, and about how she... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
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RCJobATo5In71BnvABmKmmZVVUG2lTcn | amiwo2 | {
"description": "not stopping for a funeral procession",
"pronormative_score": 6,
"contranormative_score": 4
} | AiTA for not stopping for a funeral procession? | So this just happened to me. I was driving down a two lane road, when the car in front of me suddenly pulls off the road. I said wtf, there's no emergency vehicles coming behind us or in front. It dawns on me this nincompoop is pulling over for the hearse and tiny funeral procession on the other side of the road. I r... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
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} | RIGHT |
VOhKkv8RBaGMTOU87q6xTuZiOtOVwjyc | a9qobi | {
"description": "not wanting bf's parents coming over for breakfast",
"pronormative_score": 12,
"contranormative_score": 2
} | AITA for not wanting bf's parents coming over for breakfast? | Boyfriends parents live nearby, they were out if town for the holidays, they don't speak English and I dont speak their language. I like them and can communicate when my bf translates for us but he's working all day and I'm home. He texted me to let me know that he invited them over for breakfast because they don't ha... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 12,
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} | RIGHT |
IuTKIzKP9qw0hqWcxfiQdGU7a5yky6pQ | aomkly | {
"description": "being a potentially shitty neighbor",
"pronormative_score": 6,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for being a potentially shitty neighbor? | Today my husband and I received a... blunt... email from our downstairs neighbor. I'm including it here with my own commentary in parenthesis. For context, we live in a really old building with a lack of insulation, meaning we can hear a lot of creaks, doors and steps from all throughout the building and a bunch of our... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
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} | RIGHT |
aup1UVyExDsZ80LFqp89YaRrzSzDhcay | b2qzsy | {
"description": "not wanting to visit a College for my birthday",
"pronormative_score": 5,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA For Not Wanting to Visit a College For My Birthday? | So I’m currently a junior in high school, stressing about college, the works. It was my birthday last week and my parents are divorced so I usually have separate birthdays. I am going to be celebrating this weekend with my dad since I’m with him. He is VERY obsessed with where I am in the college decision process, to t... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
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WvZ0ZMs3EGmF4FXb4V4D8efZgRyoiFlY | arkj48 | {
"description": "being pissed at my grandma for wanting to share my brain scan without my knowledge",
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} | AITA for being pissed at my grandma for wanting to share my brain scan without my knowledge? | To preface this, I'm a brain tumor survivor and went trough surgery few years ago (the tumor was benign so no further treatment was needed) so obiously I went trough a lot of MRI scans before/after the surgery and I have a cousin who studies medicine in a medical uni.
One day I was talking with my grandma about someth... | HISTORICAL | {
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rbDpKT4HaQc16JHTOiGZpbfSBLFje213 | b5wnfa | {
"description": "wanting to be first in my girlfriend's life",
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} | AITA for wanting to be first in my girlfriend's life? | I (18m) have been dating my girlfriend (17) for close to a year and a half now and we have an amazing relationship. There's its ups and downs but generally we're still stupidly in love and we plan to stay together all through our respective college years and eventually live together.
However, she has told me multiple... | HISTORICAL | {
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Y5Q27Oo3a29p4UUnJSd657pPeLhlZdcg | apm48z | {
"description": "being very privatley disdainful towards my mother for our current situation",
"pronormative_score": 6,
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} | AITA for being very privatley disdainful towards my mother for our current situation? | So, my parents have split up with my mum keeping us (sister and I) most of the time and us seeing our dad every other weekend (assuming that its possible). Only recently when it has been made clear on both ends that we have a choice to go to our dad's my mum has also started saying things like "well I suppose I'll have... | HISTORICAL | {
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0aj2DqIrO4YJ4sSajRnmfRPVaFZJGODm | b9eylp | {
"description": "not letting others paint on me",
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} | AITA for not letting others paint on me? | So I go on a school in Germany. It has the classes 5 to 12. Every year the students in the 12th grade have a "chaos day" where they can go to other classes and do every kind of stuff for an hour (like "try to draw a parabola but the pen has to be in your mouth"). Then the school usually does some games on the schoolyar... | HISTORICAL | {
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Xma67MAAbPwJmI4chLVczlUH15NxTU8d | apl1yd | {
"description": "deleting shared team files on my personal Google Drive",
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} | AITA for deleting shared team files on my personal Google Drive? | Title is pretty clear. My company does not pay for GSuite (Google services for businesses) but rather has a subscription to Office 365. Despite this, many of the younger folk such as myself prefer Google services and have been using our personal accounts to store and share Sheets, Docs, and Slides.
A few months ... | HISTORICAL | {
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lK5adn6181ARUncjVNwO4KzVhzcq6w6x | a1eudk | {
"description": "bringing up that I don't feel like my girlfriend is doing enough",
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} | AITA For bringing up that I don’t feel like my girlfriend is doing enough | I have been dating my girlfriend for almost 3 years now. We are long distance, which is a little rough, but I adore her and we both feel like the distance is worth it. However, recently I have felt like she isn’t being affectionate enough. She has been very busy, but over the past two months, the most I have gotten oth... | HISTORICAL | {
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KthoDehk5sl9TubdY9ca6w52XxwBfU9f | auwpwf | {
"description": "being mad at my husband because he doesn't want to have sex in front of our infant daughter",
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} | AITA for being mad at my husband because he doesn't want to have sex in front of our infant daughter. | I and my husband have been married for 3 years. We have a 1yo daughter.
She pretty much sleeps the entire time but my husband feels shy and gross having sex when she's there. I'm sure that she wont understand anything anyway. I'm always busy with the baby and he's always busy with work and I want to make the most out... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | AUTHOR | {
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} | WRONG |
BWFuiKhq7009ltbB41zfqn8dGvzKQUGu | arfaqi | {
"description": "getting angry at a sick friend",
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} | AITA for getting angry at a sick friend? | I was friends with a girl(M) and sat next to her in a forensics class. We weren’t the closest of friends, but we got along well enough, and had some good in-jokes. One day, the teacher, (T) assigned us a group project on the history of Forensics, so naturally we agreed to team up. We planned this shit out, me agreeing ... | HISTORICAL | {
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DZYfYAexPdADPfF2BTF0wT8b9aR7FLt7 | b5iq6x | {
"description": "wanting to quit a job because my boss won't give me a day I requested off",
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} | AITA for wanting to quit a job because my boss won’t give me a day I (20F) requested off? | Hi! I’m an average college student cooking at a small town bar while going to college. I’ve worked here for about 2 years now and I work almost every weekend because that’s when they need the help. Ive been fine with that, requesting time off here and there because I like to go visit family and friends every once in aw... | HISTORICAL | {
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pQLWV1zlodwHIFK6cIvKf66KROlmke4I | b3rxdh | {
"description": "distancing myself from my boyfriend's best friend",
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} | AITA for distancing myself from my boyfriend’s best friend? | I’m a little stuck on this situation and couldn’t tell if I was legitimately being a dick so I need a hand..
I work in a supermarket with my brother, boyfriend and 2 friends. One friend I knew for years before working there - we’ll call her Lana - and the other friend I made through work - we’ll call him Tom. All of u... | HISTORICAL | {
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O8nAK9U7Meeyw9eWXWpFALaGbaZLj9Ej | auttzz | {
"description": "being particular about where I want my date to meet me",
"pronormative_score": 5,
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} | AITA for being particular about where I want my date to meet me? | Just a note, I had a lot of background information which I felt was necessary but got cut out of the limit, so I put it in a comment - but please I'd appreciate if you read it before making the judgement or asking INFO. The bottom line is that I have a particular bar I like to go to and feel particularly comfortable in... | HISTORICAL | {
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Uy0RVs0bFUTfvCgMeNvcfRyhLBbbDgyH | arjppj | null | AITA- Am staying with a French guy and I'm not paying anything | Okey so to give you some context, I speak Spanish and English fluently, 18 years old and I am doing an intense english course in the UK, so I am renting a flat with another French guy, I have been staying in the flat for a week already and i still have 2 left, my big problem its that when I came here the guy already h... | HISTORICAL | {
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HeoTT5te7JQyFpx2Oe3VSTbmSW9uV9VX | a2q0y0 | {
"description": "wanting to kick my mother and sister out of our house when my father passes",
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} | WIBTA for wanting to kick my mother and sister out of our house when my father passes? | This is gonna be a long one, so I'll put a tl:dr at the bottom
So for the backstory, my mother was incredibly abusive towards me and my sister during our childhood, physical abuse, emotional abuse, you name it, she did it. My father tried to get it to stop, but he's too nice, and he's getting old.
When I hit the age ... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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Z9AS6jQ0kRcKqQxx5mhXxBuI41oKZ6vb | b177v8 | {
"description": "being pissed of that my step dad ruined my evening",
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} | AITA for being pissed of that my step dad ruined my evening. | Some pretence. I really like the game of pool. I've been playing it a fair bit recently after not playing for about 8 years. (I never played well the last time I played was on a caravan holiday when I was 14 or so.) I've been playing every week at my local bar who let me on the team. (Mainly I just help them warm up wh... | HISTORICAL | {
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fjBisERm5zR56hfciqNmwxBK8xBFAhzI | arud8g | {
"description": "yelling at my uncle when he breaks the one rule my cousins and auntie and I put in place for our game",
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} | AITA for yelling at my uncle when he breaks the one rule my cousins and auntie and I put in place for our game? | Sorry for the formatting as I am on mobile.
PA: playing aunt
NPA: non playing aubt
My 2 cousins, my PA and I were playing mahjong (Asian tile game). My two cousins and I are beginners and my aunt is the most experienced among all of us. My uncle and NPA were just doing their things in the background.
We were playin... | HISTORICAL | {
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INn1uvMlJgJ3pI7Ts9kUdHU7dSCKvzo2 | a9e1pf | {
"description": "taking on something I couldn't handle",
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} | AITA for taking on something I couldn't handle? | Sorry this is a long story but I'll put a TLDR at the bottom:
A few months back, my husband's grandmother passed away. She lived overseas, close by to where my husband and I live , so a lot of family from america flew in for the funeral. After the funeral service, I heard my mother in law talking to my husband, asking... | HISTORICAL | {
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1dnGV4rUgLLMtjz9O7fMlLfcKvQQI5qx | axhpr6 | null | AITA my dad criticizes me but I'm not allowed to do the same? | My dad always likes to put down my self esteem, it usually isnt constructive and it's been really getting to me lately. I've been calling him out on it but he seems to always turn it into my wrongdoing and I end up apologizing. My mom has started to side with him and tells me I'm being disrespectful for doing that but ... | HISTORICAL | {
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2ESJkQPYHYYsYkZe5xY7F7ap7TMZ3jDy | a924rw | {
"description": "splitting 7s",
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} | AITA for splitting 7s? | This is going to be an unusual one for the sub, as far as I can tell.
So I was playing Blackjack at a casino last night. The shoes are all favoring the dealer to an insane degree. Doesn't matter what hand you have, the dealer wins. So I start playing a bit unorthodox because of the situation.
Enter the Old Man. Old m... | HISTORICAL | {
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Kl5VBs3iy1Wjj6e0jfk2uwfzegJwEGzN | amephb | {
"description": "declining my ex's invite to drink with his friends",
"pronormative_score": 3,
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} | AITA for declining my ex’s invite to drink with his friends? | My (F/23) ex (M/21) and I just broke up this week because he felt like he needed more time to focus more on his acads and himself. He has clinical depression and couldn’t identify his feelings towards anything (including me anymore). We talked about it and decided to stay friends because we’ve been together for almost ... | HISTORICAL | {
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rgpBkD355PYSIaFuRBpveOs6tHB07uKT | a61s1u | {
"description": "asking my friend who's on there \"bang\" list",
"pronormative_score": 5,
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} | AITA for asking my friend who’s on there “bang” list? | Okay so basically I was at a diner with my best bud while i waited to get my tires replaced next door. I’ve been watching the League recently and saw Sara Silverman guest starring. I don’t know why but her funny personality with not that bad looks just does it for me. Like she’s how old now and I still wouldn’t mind t... | HISTORICAL | {
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xvmxMqyDdtlLHS2AXBZORjY1m1V0HQZ6 | afcwra | {
"description": "not putting a shared pizza in the fridge",
"pronormative_score": 7,
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} | AITA for not putting a shared pizza in the fridge? | A friend and I ordered a delivery pizza to split, we paid for it equally. When the pizza arrived, I ate 3 of my 4 slices, and my friend ate none (4 remaining). The pizza was then left out all night and for most of the next day. I am perfectly fine with eating pizza that has sat out over night(I'm aware of the health ri... | HISTORICAL | {
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z9NmukZlLeTxAUh54WMmH3iJKtpARhna | arhbmu | {
"description": "sending my boss a text without telling my mom when she told me not to",
"pronormative_score": 16,
"contranormative_score": 3
} | AITA for sending my boss a text without telling my mom when she told me not to | Here's some background. I'm currently in highschool and have been looking for job. I just recently landed a job but I haven't begun to work yet and will be starting next week.
So here we go...
So my brother and I bought tickets to an event a month ago and the event is the weekend I will be starting my work. So I was ... | HISTORICAL | {
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Ex5KUCgG11CLqYw19HqXg7fvdfu0p2mC | aluhpm | {
"description": "apologizing to a girl I haven't spoken to in over a month",
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} | WIBTA if I apologized to a girl I haven’t spoken to in over a month? |
A little over a month ago I started talking to this girl I met on tinder. She was great, super sweet, and most importantly she was ok with me being a cripple in a wheelchair. I asked her out almost immediately, so I wouldn’t have to fret about that very long. She said yes, but she didn’t have a day off work for two w... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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6FpGwf7KJpBr0S6WNU0zeMo1JnTNH0wa | b9nyta | {
"description": "making a joke at the wrong time",
"pronormative_score": 3,
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} | AITA for making a joke at the wrong time? | This just happened today and I felt really bad about it
Also I'm bad at phrasing so yeah.
So today, I met my friend on the train so I tried to tell a joke where I walked up to him and said "Your mother pass away" as a joke. (This joke was a common joke at my school)
Unluckily his mother was going through a tough tim... | HISTORICAL | {
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jXcKlO9bsrBZe7l1qZtMWnU5ulWM0ixt | a3771q | {
"description": "not wanting my partner to get a psych evaluation to see his sister's children",
"pronormative_score": 8,
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} | AITA not wanting my partner to get a psych evaluation to see his sister's children. | So let's start off by saying I believe in mental health and psychologists and if you need help get it, all names are made up, but just to simplify.
My partner(Ben) suffered years of abuse and developed psychological issues that I don't really want to go into here, that isn't what this post is about. Ben has had a d... | HISTORICAL | {
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oS0UC6hBUETnaWTk3b26and0nETs8IAo | aanmd9 | {
"description": "not throwing away my empty drink and popcorn at the movie",
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} | AITA for not throwing away my empty drink and popcorn at the movie | I guess I just grew up with that as the culture in my family. Threw away stuff at the mall food court, left stuff at football stadiums and movie theaters. But my friend chastised me about it after a movie yesterday. I threw my stuff away. But don’t feel totally wrong because there are people to clean the theatres, most... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | AUTHOR | {
"RIGHT": 57,
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} | WRONG |
0x1wkY43kYXAAI2hRKYh9ed50t5S9SiA | b17isp | {
"description": "letting my parents diagnose a shower problem while I showered",
"pronormative_score": 14,
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} | AITA for letting my parents diagnose a shower problem while I showered? | Hi everyone. I'll keep it short and sweet here.
​
So for some backstory, our shower has for 2 years leaks through the floor at random. We've tried numerous ways to simulate the leaking but to no avail. My dad has the idea that it leaks when there's someone in the shower showering (why that makes a differen... | HISTORICAL | {
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OalRAoHNNMJUJxgf5ewUg8i46Ojghfhp | a1824p | null | AITA CBD oil | So I work on a hospital unit, and there is a nurse I cannot stand. She's stupid, flighty, unreliable and more than once, downright dangerous. She's been reported multiple times, but for whatever reason we can't get rid of her. Whatever. She is selling CBD oil, as well, which in the first place I believe is a MLM, but I... | HISTORICAL | {
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"RIGHT": 7,
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CJZCJuid1sjvNR8Sl8RlJ6pbcx3lP7PT | b21n1o | {
"description": "not wanting to do my MIL's laundry",
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} | AITA for not wanting to do my MIL’s laundry? | She hasn’t had a washer and dryer in years, her apartment isn’t set up for one, they have one at her complex but “her wrists are weak” and she “can’t stand for that long,” according to my husband. Which may be true. He’s been doing her laundry for 15+ years. Now that we’re married, we’ve been doing it the last year at ... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
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} | RIGHT |
e4olmfBSThoOjytxIeYuFaxoSCzPteJu | b378nf | {
"description": "going after a girl my friend said he was done talking to but really wasn't",
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} | AITA For going after a girl my friend said he was done talking to but really wasn’t? | I wanna start of by saying this is my first time ever posting and I am ready to accept any judgement.
We met this girl recently. Let’s address her as G. So G is a very good friend and ive started to catch feeling for her but my friend told me had caught feeling for her so I backed off. A couple months pass and he tel... | HISTORICAL | {
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OeqnDOVDEMtCH1YCkqg77Bk9CboIhXY3 | b9iium | {
"description": "starting asking for money from my sister out of the blue",
"pronormative_score": 12,
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} | WIBTA if i start asking for money from my sister out of the blue? | My sister and I have been sharing a Netflix account for the last 2-3 year. Due to the upcoming membership fee increase,I have to pay $12.99/monthly on the upcoming month.I been trying to start saving some money, after looking at financial statement.i know I should have ask her to pay half of it ,when she ask me to use... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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3hmDWZlb2aVHN4HyWulhYSlcVC9j2d16 | acfyiu | {
"description": "breaking up with my ex of 3 years when he said he stayed with me for money",
"pronormative_score": 10,
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} | AITA for breaking up with my ex of 3 years when he said he stayed with me for money? | I broke up with this guy about 6 months ago, and we were in a serious relationship for almost 3 years. A while back, my family lost everything as a result of bad business decisions, and I was working multiple jobs while trying to keep my GPA at 4.0. While all this is happening, my ex would play the pity card and tell m... | HISTORICAL | {
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"RIGHT": 10,
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ke81SIoBdMR89fiYkllslGGFob4w8zDS | az07v7 | {
"description": "fighting these group of kids",
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} | AITA for fighting these group of kids? | So this is a leading title that will need some context so you get the full picture. So this happened to my friends and I when I was studying abroad in this European country. Essentially some of our friends from the US were visiting us that week because they were on break for Thanksgiving.
One night we were walking ba... | HISTORICAL | {
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gfF655gADLmcdsDQtvYbm1HB3ciuoIgQ | aglggu | {
"description": "not cleaning the house",
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} | AITA for not cleaning the house? | Before me and my GF moved in together I told her I hate cleaning, I despise it and I won't do it, I will give a hand from time to time but that's it! It wasn't meant just so I can afford being lazy, but when we were living each in our own apartments she would clean every 2 days because she likes it clean and I don't re... | HISTORICAL | {
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"RIGHT": 3,
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} | WRONG |
cywz9mmvuGobceAGjDXthdGGn1vikHon | b8aqew | {
"description": "being annoyed at a compliment my boyfriend received",
"pronormative_score": 22,
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} | AITA for being annoyed at a compliment my boyfriend received? | So my boyfriend (27m) and I (23f) had a massive two and a half hour argument on Saturday. We had made plans for him to have dinner with my family and he had bailed an hour and a half before I’d asked him to be there. The crux of the argument was that he felt I didn’t understand his workload and put pressure on him to c... | HISTORICAL | {
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HkX8CjNigRpgjlh8CMIf6jYDol78ImXO | awfdg5 | {
"description": "reminding my wife about soap we already had",
"pronormative_score": 7,
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} | AITA [36M] for reminding my wife [34F] about soap we already had? | I came home tonight and my wife was telling me about her day. One item she recalled was going to target, and she specifically mentioned getting meyer's clean day soap. The last time meyer's clean day soap was purchased was the first time we purchased it for our house - she specifically requested for me to get it. I had... | HISTORICAL | {
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CUvGIOqDU5Brwu8FmPAm6Qsj57py9Igt | 9vfo2c | {
"description": "playing along with jokes making light of suicide in the presence of suicidal people",
"pronormative_score": 1,
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} | AITA for playing along with jokes making light of suicide in the presence of suicidal people. | So, I sit at this table with two other guys in an class. One of them is depressed and possibly suicidal (lets call him “T”) and the other is edgy and dark humored(lets call him “L”). L frequently jokes about serious topics like suicide and depression, with such enthusiasm that nearly the entire class can hear it, and ... | HISTORICAL | {
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"description": "telling a group of black women to go to the back of the line after they cut to join some friends",
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} | AITA for telling a group of black women to go to the back of the line after they cut to join some friends? | So it’s about 1:30 or so on a Saturday night in Philadelphia. We’re all waiting in a long ass line at a cheesesteak place, if you’ve ever hit one after the bars you’ll know the scene I’m trying to describe.
We’ve been waiting maybe 15 minutes when 4 African American girls squeeze past us and join two friends that wer... | HISTORICAL | {
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a6boA4XHo38aU2HTzgA0X7fYbTnG4qOl | aq06ca | {
"description": "letting my exes cats die",
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} | AITA for letting my exes cats die? | When I met him I told him I was deathly allergic to cats. Hence why I never went to his house, he always visited me. Eventually he wanted to move in together and I told him his cats couldn’t live in the house. He was mad. I have no issue personally with cats and his were very sweet but I have never found an allergy med... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
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} | RIGHT |
qYiueoOCTQov0hQK6pkBbNi1Jor9DMGf | achnxx | {
"description": "calling my colleagues disgusting for leaving clean dishes on the drying rack in the office kitchen",
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} | AITA for calling my colleagues disgusting for leaving clean dishes on the drying rack in the office kitchen? | Not me, so I hope this is allowed.
Arrived at the office today to an email with the subject: **Have we had squatters overnight!!!**
It included phrases like " The kitchen drainer this morning was disgusting" and "the individuals who left it in this state and think this is acceptable should be utterly ashamed!"
Th... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | WRONG |
XjsQ30UchcOuQPRpnEz6yJcJV0yI1H0t | a4yxvk | {
"description": "telling a railway worker to \"have a fucking shit day\"",
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} | AITA for telling a railway worker to "have a fucking shit day"? | AITA... A little bit of context.
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I live and work in London and use a contactless method of paying for my travel to and from work. For those that are not from the UK a contactless system calculates the cost of your journey based on where you tap 'in' and where you tap 'out'. A one way journey costs me... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | AUTHOR | {
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} | WRONG |
PwOwg1Xpputn5v7hj9TmBNN5YYuB95wo | aiqdcw | {
"description": "rewriting house rules for my last semester of college",
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} | AITA for rewriting house rules for my last semester of college? | AITA for wanting to implement the rules below?
I've lived with current roommate for over a year, things didnt start to get bad until like September-October of 2018. I live in a house with my boyfriend, and our roommate. We are all college students.
Roommate is constantly having guests over without telling us, but it ... | HISTORICAL | {
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"description": "wanting a set of Pokémon games back from my friend",
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} | AITA for wanting a set of Pokémon games back from my friend? | My old 2DS’s (handheld video game system) battery broke about a year ago. I ended up replacing the battery but my mom had bought me a new 2DS already. My friend, who didn’t have any Nintendo game consoles except for the Wii, expressed interest in the old 2DS. I agreed, as at the time we were pretty close, considering e... | HISTORICAL | {
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"description": "wanting to exclude my 'friend' out of our friend group",
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} | AITA for wanting to exclude my ‘friend’ out of our friend group? | Okay I know the title makes me sound like the biggest A-hole already,,, but there’s more to it. So, for some background- I’ve only known this guy for around a year and a half. He has a massive crush on me (not being like that, he’s expressed it to me multiple times verbally) and kinda... well, fake.
Anyway, I feel he... | HISTORICAL | {
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CEvcznOLxaFwVk1fSKft2NHMz6OH6pkm | b364bq | {
"description": "not telling my friend that he could be cheated on",
"pronormative_score": 7,
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} | AITA for not telling my friend that he could be cheated on? | I’ve known this guy for 4 years, he’s my best friend to date. About 2 months ago he started dating this girl and he likes her very much. However, there’s a rumor saying that the lady is messing around with other guys, and I don’t know how true it is. I heard this from other friends who are closer to the lady but I’m no... | HISTORICAL | {
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g2ZnGMqEnG6PIlJRPKnDejab1NL2Wg80 | avrxe8 | {
"description": "telling my husband that I dont feel comfortable with him playing music with his old bandmate",
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} | WIBTA if I told my husband(30m) That I(28f) dont feel comfortable with him playing music with his old bandmate (30f). | So when I first met my husband he played guitar he had tried to pursue a music career for a few years after high school but had recently just given that up to go back to college. That's where we met, college. Fast forward we've been together for 10 years married for five with one kid. Slowly over the years my husband h... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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"INFO": 1
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 33,
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} | RIGHT |
bpo3vSGYQQCW7xulBSaMtgwOgyzgyvbW | b92lwr | {
"description": "lashing out at my class mates",
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} | AITA for lashing out at my class mates? | So at college we’re a small group but people mug me off and throw my hat around (it was black and now it’s faded and dirty because of it).
I’ve tolerated it and laughed it off most of the time but today I thought enough is enough and stood up for myself and everyone got all pissy at me, next thing you know (let’s cal... | HISTORICAL | {
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"description": "reacting so cold",
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} | AITA for reacting so cold? |
Good day all of you.
So this just happened a few minutes ago and I'm a bit torn, about if I am the asshole here now and should apologize.
My Grandma died nearly 2 years ago. My mum was an only-child, my parents are divorced and she has no current partner and my grandpa is dead for over 7 years now, so my grandmother... | HISTORICAL | {
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PmHuSJcQDJ0Rxw2ldW8d0aJPgxr9Huo7 | ay012x | {
"description": "going no contact with my mother when I have ao old who she hasn't met",
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} | AITA for going no contact with my mother when i have a 3mo old who she hasn't met? | I recently went no contact with my mother after, from my perspective, a difficult and stressful five years. This is a long one with a lot of context and backstory, so please bear with me.
My parents got divorced five years ago and things were messy. My parents tried turning us children against the other parent. By ... | HISTORICAL | {
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NA3ncnKS47iwyLzemnlLQLrjdlEFGfG5 | a5sy2e | {
"description": "being disappointed that my boyfriend is taking me out to eat instead of giving me a Christmas present",
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} | AITA for being disappointed that my boyfriend is taking me out to eat instead of giving me a Christmas present? | I spent a lot of time thinking about what to get him for Christmas (I wanted it to be both useful and something he'd actually like) and ended up getting him a book relevant to one of his hobbies. He was incredibly happy with it and has almost read it already. He told me he'd been thinking about what to get me, and now,... | HISTORICAL | {
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brZ6WCwOc6KC5kbCKsMGa7Dts3Ae8fSA | aknfip | {
"description": "making my sister upset",
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} | AITA for making my sister upset? | I got finally old enough to get a part time job. I was really looking forward to it and I even got one. It obviously isn't a thing I would like to stick to for my entire life, but I still love it.
I would love to become a doctor one day. My younger sister, though, doesn't think I'm able to achieve it. (Please note that... | HISTORICAL | {
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uyl4O8wGaQkudLaAuEuJ495taL4qIWW4 | b1j69c | {
"description": "not letting FIL stay with us longer after we evicted him",
"pronormative_score": 8,
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} | AITA for not letting FIL stay with us longer after we evicted him? |
So the story is my FIL(51) has been living with my husband(30) and me(30) since September of 2018 when he was released from prison on parole. The only way they would let him out is if he stayed with us in our state.
He smokes and he’s an alcoholic which husband and I don’t really care about. We only said he couldn’t ... | HISTORICAL | {
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"description": "throwing my new assistant manager under the bus to our district manager",
"pronormative_score": 6,
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} | WIBTA if I threw my new assistant manager under the bus to our district manager? | I’ve worked at a hardware store for going on 3 years now. I was there when Katy was first hired. Katy is fucking awful. She is always late. Needs shifts covered all the time. She slacks off and then the rest of us need to pick up her slack. All the time. She’s also rude as fuck. Like just mean spirited. T... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
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BZpLz2iq5oPy4ZObyyc036G2DpY0fMDR | b9lo6k | {
"description": "not telling this woman her chicken was undercooked",
"pronormative_score": 4,
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} | AITA for not telling this woman her chicken was undercooked | So this happened a while ago but I wanted to get judgement on it.
My partner and I go to these events. Think Renaissance Faires except everyone there is a participant.
Another couple (husband and wife) who are friends with us go to these events more often than us and like to feed people for free. Let's call the wife... | HISTORICAL | {
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MhmTCMOHIPmy4wjmbR3VLcjUqrJY8Gll | a8oflg | {
"description": "telling a shop owner her flowers are fake and she has bad practices",
"pronormative_score": 0,
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} | AITA for telling a shop owner her flowers are fake and she has bad practices? | The title is a bit inaccurate but close enough. Me and my mum were at this small flower shop and saw that some cacti were sprayed on with glitter to the point where you couldn't see any actual green skin and others had superglued fake flowers. I commented really loudly (unintentionally, I have a really loud voice) to ... | HISTORICAL | {
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6Q2eQDTICVRfS87sDC2Bo46ujKFus5i9 | axo8ft | {
"description": "not helping my mother financially after she helped me in the past",
"pronormative_score": 6,
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} | AITA if I don’t help my mother financially after she helped me in the past? |
My (28F) mother (64F) is looking for a new apartment, and she reached out to me asking for help finding a place in her budget, as well as some financial assistance should she need it. She has helped me with money in the past when I was in a rough spot so I was on board to help her. I started sending her links to ap... | HISTORICAL | {
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"EVERYBODY": 0,
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} | OTHER | {
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} | RIGHT |
PoL5vf32B9uoGx8IKtxHG5xfbBxPh8Aw | a1j3oe | {
"description": "chasing my friends' ex out of her dorm",
"pronormative_score": 2,
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} | AITA for chasing my friends' ex out of her dorm? | So around a month ago, my friend started dating this guy. They dated for two weeks and he stayed with her in her dorm. He’s not a student at our school, so she cooked for him, cleaned for him, etc while all he did was live off her. She even loaned him her car.
So imagine our surprise when she finds out that he cheate... | HISTORICAL | {
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Nnqe4bZcDtUtGrXzkX0AG0wUsOKgoLqB | b2yunj | {
"description": "falling asleep without texting my mom back",
"pronormative_score": 13,
"contranormative_score": 6
} | AITA for falling asleep without texting my mom back? | At the moment I am back home from college for spring break. For the record I am 19, I’ve been at college in a different state for about a year now and I normally only talk to my parents once or twice a week when I’m there. Anyway, last night I went to a friends house and texted my mom before she went to bed that I woul... | HISTORICAL | {
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4Ky8i2UrNXXddMqUS7q3chTra1X6rSgK | aobtea | {
"description": "breaking up with my girlfriend for opening up to me about her past abuse",
"pronormative_score": 39,
"contranormative_score": 74
} | WIBTA if I broke up with my girlfriend for opening up to me about her past abuse? | Throwaway for obvious reasons
I(20M) met my current girlfriend(19F) in high school. She is very smart, funny, nice, and beautiful. I felt very lucky that she showed interest in me and even eventually agreed to go out with me. Early into our relationship, guys were warning me around school not to get involved with her ... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 74,
"OTHER": 15,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 24,
"INFO": 0
} | AUTHOR | {
"RIGHT": 39,
"WRONG": 74
} | WRONG |
goyhizRlUKJ2BWS4CfCZOgOcpcQtWKsG | b9jxxa | {
"description": "disregarding my parents",
"pronormative_score": 0,
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} | AITA For disregarding my parents? | I am typing on my phone and Swedish, apologises for obvious reasons.
Military Child
We moved to New Jersey back To Florida, and the New Jersey trip broke my fathers love for the military, and was the reason he ended up retiring, I was told we were going back to Florida for good, and that finally we were gonna live in ... | HISTORICAL | {
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g3wolXlKLQr37PZjWwx9nKmyZnaShBUF | b1vv24 | {
"description": "telling my mom she needs to hire a dog-sitter when she has family parties",
"pronormative_score": 2,
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} | WIBTA if I told my mom she needs to hire a dog-sitter when she has family parties? | We have two dachshunds. Our house is very tiny, and our dogs are super annoying because they were never socialized and they never go outside unless it’s to pee. (I know. It’s awful, but I don’t live here full time.) I try to take them out and they’re either too anxious or one of them is now a senior and can’t walk too ... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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} | RIGHT |
haUNw2SGkPPDBAWdxAbUNB6eUpY6WEV1 | b6bugg | {
"description": "saying that a joke sent in a Whatsapp group could be extremely offensive",
"pronormative_score": 3,
"contranormative_score": 5
} | AITA for saying that a joke sent in a Whatsapp group could be extremely offensive? | First things first, this might be a little hard to read, since english is not my mother language
I'm at my 1st year in university, and our class decided to create a whatsapp group to interact, get to know each other and talk about subjects that we all study
Sometimes, some off-topic comments are brought into the group... | HISTORICAL | {
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yJElu1KnOZu98d0jV9Ox8cutBYcvnadV | a7unln | {
"description": "returning my ex-bf's christmas gifts when he intends to give some to me",
"pronormative_score": 3,
"contranormative_score": 1
} | WIBTA if i returned my ex-bf's christmas gifts when he intends to give some to me | i made a previous post on r/relationships about the state of us but basically i'm(18f) visiting canada with my mother to meet him(24m) for the first time. when my mom purchased the tickets ($2000+ for all expenses) we, me and my ex, were together.
i broke up with him and we both agreed to change that to a mini-break ... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
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OMrviNdkY6tkItDpIIvMZjrlWbPx9eEH | a01y1s | {
"description": "continuing to date her when I know she wants something more serious than I do",
"pronormative_score": 5,
"contranormative_score": 6
} | AITA for continuing to date her when I know she wants something more serious than I do? | Been dating a girl on and off for a while. I'm not really looking for a relationship and I just don't think it's going anywhere. I've told her this before, and I'm pretty upfront about it. She says that it's fine but I know she wants it to turn into something more.
I've tried ending thing in the past because I'm pret... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | AUTHOR | {
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eT7YgRzX9zgkqA2scPGg1GYMuebw8ZAt | a5fth4 | null | AITA my bf and I bought my ring, he's taken me to 3 romantic places recently (i get my hopes up) and then NOTHING. After the third time I told him to stop messing with my emotions, as it was exhausting. He said he should be able to do nice things for me, didn't know and apologized. | Also, the ONLY romantic things we've done in the last six months have ALL been since we got the ring...it's really upsetting to be excited and then try to be mindful of his feelings. So each time I said nothing, thinking he was nervous. After the third time I had to say something and he claimed he wasn't planning to pr... | HISTORICAL | {
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"EVERYBODY": 2,
"NOBODY": 9,
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} | NOBODY | {
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"WRONG": 8
} | RIGHT |
fXCsrX0H5CNm2TzdummHm5nKu0j4vgVE | azlyoy | {
"description": "having a child has nothing to do with money",
"pronormative_score": 49,
"contranormative_score": 2
} | AITA, having a child has nothing to do with money? | My parents and friends are telling me M23 and my girlfriend F22, that money has no merit when deciding to have a kid. I told them this was not true and that I want to plan having a kid once I'm finicially stable so I can provide the child, my girlfriend agrees. We then discussed how much more expensive it is for the co... | HISTORICAL | {
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"EVERYBODY": 2,
"NOBODY": 9,
"INFO": 2
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 49,
"WRONG": 2
} | RIGHT |
NsdcvtKQUVPzknPJxAZpMLrfBR9BvSDZ | a3euog | {
"description": "leaving my cheating wife",
"pronormative_score": 9,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for leaving my cheating wife? | This is more of just a sanity check, and I hope to god it is so ridiculous that is sounds like a shitpost.
And a short backstory on us. We were high school sweethearts that got married at 18 and are 48 now.
Last weekend I was out of town on a business trip and her work decided they wanted to throw their Christmas par... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 0,
"OTHER": 9,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 9,
"WRONG": 0
} | RIGHT |
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