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AITA?
AITA for wanting a coworker to get fired? Little context for y'all, I have a very cool relaxing retail job, its not super hard you literally just have to know your shit and help people pit with their problems or sell them shit super simple no commmisonor anything like that. But up untill maybe a week ago cause this co...
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{ "description": "getting a ride to a party from someone who wasn't invited", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for getting a ride to a party from someone who wasn't invited?
This issue has been plaguing my mind since last December and I am happy that this r/ exists because I need to know whether i am in the wrong or not. (If sharing please don't show username.) My friend since childhood (We'll call her Sarah) has been giving me rides to and from school everyday for a long time because she...
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AITA: My wife will not share her electric toothbrush handle/base
My wife bought a new fancy high cost electric toothbrush. Cool! I say. I will just buy my own brush and we can share it. She looks at me with this weird look. No?! That's disgusting! She says. Arguments ensue. I believe it all boils down to her being petty. Who's right?
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{ "description": "telling my ex and her best friend to stop stalking me on social media", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for telling my ex and her best friend to stop stalking me on social media?
Backstory: Her and I dated two years ago for about four months. After we broke up we stopped talking. Turns out she has been stalking me for the entire two years we’ve been apart. She has me added on Snapchat and has had me on Snapchat for two years. I found this really weird and brought it up to my girlfriend now. S...
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{ "description": "reneging on a compromise made with my wife", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 3 }
WIBTA if I renege on a compromise made with my wife?
A little background. My wife and I are of different nationalities, and whereas she is still religious--in the sense she'll go on the holidays--I do not believe in God although I was raised and confirmed Catholic. (This isn't a religious debate so please keep that in mind). I was forced to go to weekly mass (at a Cathol...
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{ "description": "not wanting to play with my cousin", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to play with my cousin
So let's start with that - my aunt lives in another country. She has a really strong personality but that's what I like about her. She has visited a lot of countries, had many interesting jobs and experienced a lot. I love listening to her life stories. Sadly, I see her only once a year. I really used to enjoy her visi...
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{ "description": "telling this girl who contacts me (after not talking for years) that I have a girlfriend", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for telling this girl who contacts me (after not talking for years) that I have a girlfriend?
Hello guys! First time poster here so I hope this all goes well. (On mobile by the way) TL;DR at the bottom A little background info. I’m currently a junior in college (relevant for timing) and in high school, I used to be really good friends with this one girl (we’ll call Sally). Basically, we were best friends and...
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{ "description": "not wanting my friends to take partial credit for work that was entirely done by me", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting my friends to take partial credit for work that was entirely done by me?
Just so you know, I'm a Portuguese 13yo on mobile, so don't expect this to be very coherent. Me and my two friends all fucked up and decided to do a school project on sunday, two days before the presentation of said project, but I couldn't meet up with them so I did most of the research part and put it on google drive...
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{ "description": "returning a hunting dog", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For returning a hunting dog.
This has been on my mind for a while. As a true blooded redneck I was out hunting hogs on family land in the river delta. We were winding down as we didn't see much more than sign that day so my dad, an old friend and I were playing with a little .410 shotgun when a hunting dog ran up. We all stopped and I called the ...
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{ "description": "not getting involved in a friend's conversation about abortion", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not getting involved in a friend's conversation about abortion?
I'm in a Whatsapp group with a bunch of Mothers, all with children of different ages, some of whom are pregnant again, some are single mothers, different upbringings, basically a wide cross-section of Mums. A lot of Mums use the chat to share their troubles, and the rest of us will offer support and advice. Although I...
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{ "description": "suddenly ghosting a close friend of 3 years", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for suddenly ghosting a close friend of 3 years?
A little over a year ago, I finally cut ties with a friend of 3.5 years who had spent the better part of our friendship gaslighting and manipulating me, as well as dumping all of her emotional baggage on me very frequently almost as if I were a therapist, since she couldn't afford one at the time. She had also betrayed...
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{ "description": "feeling hurt that my biologocal mother wasn't on the family tree", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for feeling hurt that my biologocal mother wasn't on the family tree?
Just went up to my grandparents 60th anniversary. On the wall they hung up a big family tree with photos of my grandparents kids, their kids, and their kids kids. My dad is divorced and remarried and so a photo of him and his new wife was up there, but my biological mother wasn't. This wouldn't have really bothered me ...
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{ "description": "making a scene at the movies", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for making a scene at the movies?
First of all the title could condemn me already (shout out to my pun lovers) but to give context back in December I was on vacation, visiting my wife for exodus after being away for a few months at NAS Pensacola. We had pre bought tickets and reserved seats that morning for a 4pm showing of the new aquaman movie. We ...
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{ "description": "thinking was cool to visit a low diversity place where I blended right into the crowd", "pronormative_score": 15, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for thinking was cool to visit a low diversity place where i blended right into the crowd?
I hope this I see the right type of post for this sub— I think it’s maybe potentially rude than truly assholeish and I definitely don’t think the other person is an ass, I’m just looking for your thoughts. For context, I look like a Nazi Germany poster—Hitler probably would have creamed his pants if he saw my family,...
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{ "description": "not wanting to leave my wife", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not wanting to leave my wife
I appoligize in advance for the formatting and grammar. (I'm on mobile) BUT am I the asshole for not wanting to leave my wife despite me not really being happy? Getting a divorce would absolutely destroy my life (I'd more than likely loose my kids because of the nature of my job/ We'd all be financially fucked) We ...
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{ "description": "making my fiancee return her newly adopted dog", "pronormative_score": 33, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for making my fiancee return her newly adopted dog?
I need some outside opinions on this. Throwaway because she knows my reddit handle. My fiancee, 22, and me, 21, have two cats. She grew up with always having dogs, so is experienced in raising and caring for dogs. She moved in with me a year ago and then we got both of our cats after that. Both cats dumped on us. We...
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{ "description": "breaking up with my gf of 2 years over Snapchat", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for breaking up with my gf of 2 years over Snapchat?
(on mobile so sorry for any typos and disorganization) so basically we started dating freshman year, and stayed together for a while. We didn’t get to see each other in person often, so a lot of our relationship was over rabbit, Snapchat, and text. I was always a little closed off emotionally, and even though I tried,...
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{ "description": "freaking out on my Sons mother for driving drunk with him in the car", "pronormative_score": 18, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for freaking out on my Sons mother for driving drunk with him in the car?
I know that the title is vague considering the circumstances, but something doesn't feel right about how I handled the situation. Please read the following and judge for yourself. Some background: I have an 8 year old son. His mother and I are not together. We haven't been together for 4 years. Things have been civil ...
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{ "description": "deciding not to give a speech at graduation despite my parent's wishes", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I decided not to give a speech at graduation despite my parent's wishes?
I'm (17F) the valedictorian at my high school and, generally, the valedictorians give a speech at graduation. I hate public speaking. I've taken a public speaking class before and I think that I'm capable of actually giving the speech, but ,to me, it will never be worth the amount of anxiety and stress that I'll have t...
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{ "description": "not wanting to go out for a friend's birthday dinner", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to go out for a friend's birthday dinner?
Background: I've gotta be delicate because our friend's a Redditor. FB = Friend with upcoming birthday; I think the rest are understood. SO is pregnant with another child. December is a costly month and difficult to set savings aside for us. FB's birthday is approaching, and where we live it's the norm that someone...
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{ "description": "thinking my [16x] SAHM should do all the housework", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 15 }
AITA if I think my [16X] SAHM should do all the housework?
Some context: My dad started his own business about a decade ago and it took off. By consequence, he makes a lot of money but is often working 60+ hours a week. My mom has taken this as an opportunity to stay home. She hasn't worked in years, doing about 2-3 hours of volunteer work a week. I'm a student in my junio...
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{ "description": "breaking up with my girlfriend while she's in the hospital", "pronormative_score": 130, "contranormative_score": 13 }
AITA For breaking up with my girlfriend while she's in the hospital?
Yea, well this is kinda straightforward ish, and there are definitely parts where I am 100% an asshole. We have been dating almost 3 years at this point. Anyways, Yesterday my gf woke up feeling dizzy, with weakness in her right arm and leg. She went straight to emerge, and got checked in. The doctors ran a bunch of t...
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{ "description": "getting annoyed at my roommate's untrained dog", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for getting annoyed at my roommate’s untrained dog?
Let me preface this by saying I absolutely love dogs. I’ve owned them most of my life, and even though I don’t have one right now, I will probably be getting one within the next six months or so. With that, I’ve always had a strong emphasis on training my dogs to get them to be well mannered. That said, my roommate...
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{ "description": "leaving edibles on the counter and getting dog super high by mistake", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 8 }
AITA for leaving edibles on the counter and getting dog super high by mistake?
AITA in this situation? Throwaway for obvious reasons. I’ll try and keep this brief. A friend rented a ski house and had me and a few other guys to visit for the weekend. I packed up some edibles for flight home and left them in a double bag on the high counter. My friend doesn’t do that stuff, but I didn’t want to thr...
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{ "description": "being impatient with my brother's depression", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 21 }
AITA for being impatient with my brother's depression?
My (28) younger brother (20) has suffered with depression on and off (but mostly on) for around 4 years now. During that time he has spent long periods simply bedridden and skipping school, often in moods, not eating, not socialising and generally just unproductive and not "present". I stuck with him during this perio...
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AITA for the way I called out my friend?
So I was clarifying something with my friend in a calm demeanor when this happened. I'll just call him H, and S for what I said: S: I got confused, I thought you were talking about a special trade in deal that doesn't exist. Guess I should've worded it better. Doesn't hurt to ask. Have you backed up your saves and s...
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{ "description": "making my friends and family upset for not seeing/talking with them much", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for making my friends and family upset for not seeing/talking with them much?
I am a college student who has always been a pretty busy person. I usually work and go to school while having a boyfriend and personal expectations where I am currently living (with him). We are trying to get an apartment and better careers. I also am trying to eventually do something with art, so when I get free time ...
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{ "description": "not being able to take a joke", "pronormative_score": 20, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not being able to take a joke?
People are saying I overreacted but I thought I handled it well. Today at a family gathering I got up and left my drink at the table. When I got back I took a big sip and realized it contained alcohol. My cousins were filming me for my reaction and I laughed with them but later I messaged the one who put the beer in m...
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{ "description": "not allowing my ex-husbands girlfriend to babysit my daughter while he works weekends", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for not allowing my ex-husbands girlfriend to babysit my daughter while he works weekends.
AITA for not allowing my ex-husbands girlfriend babysit my 5 year old daughter when he works weekend shifts during his parenting weekend? For additional context, in our parenting plan he asked for every other weekend and alternate holidays (and to not have to pay child support, that's it). The girlfriend is the woman ...
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{ "description": "canceling a group tour, and possibly a hangout group", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for canceling a group tour, and possibly a hangout group?
Using a throwaway for obvious reasons. ​ Little bit background, My wife and I are grad students in US and we hang out and travel in a group of 8. In the trips, one of us (referring him as X) takes the lead, does all the hotel, car, air bookings. He has been here 4 years more than us and is more knowledgeab...
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{ "description": "trying to prove my friend that he's contradicting himself in an argument", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For trying to prove my friend that he’s contradicting himself in an argument?
Sorry for the design thing, on mobile. So my friend and I get into small argument about some stuff about games and girls. So I’m here trying to be mildly civilized, reasoning about it. Sometimes he contradict what he said earlier saying “that what I’ve been telling you” which is no where near what he was trying to im...
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{ "description": "getting mad at my s/o for not wanting to see me on Valentine's day", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for getting mad at my s/o for not wanting to see me on Valentine's Day?
My partner of 2.5 years "Megan" is a junior in college. She is in a model UN class and will be attending the model UN convention during Valentine's day. The general schedule is for her to work all day and have some social/free time in the evening. She's not that excited for the convention but she is excited for the soc...
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{ "description": "wanting to break up with my bf for a girl, cause he's \"a stereotypical straight dude?\"", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for wanting to break up with my bf for a girl, cause he's "a stereotypical straight dude?"
My bf is an alright dude. He's my best friend who is a guy, and I appreciate him lots, but recently I've been thinking that I made too many rash decisions along the way in pursuing him. First off, I'm bi. This relationship was my first, and I was the one to ask him out. I got rejected (for good reason) at first, but ...
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{ "description": "being upset with my boyfriend for not playing with me", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being upset with my boyfriend for not playing with me?
So this is probably gonna be a super petty post, and I apologize for that, it is such a stupid situation. I'm 22 and my boyfriend is 20 and we've been together for about 6 months. We met in the community for a shooter we both play. We spend every weekend together. My boyfriend is one of the best players in...
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{ "description": "not wanting to talk to my girlfriend on the phone at night", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to talk to my girlfriend on the phone at night?
My girlfriend (22) and I (26) have been together for about 2 years. We make it a habit of talking on the phone every night ever since we started getting to know each other. To be honest I don’t really like doing it at all. I am just doing it just because she loves talking on the phone. There are some nights where I jus...
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{ "description": "wanting my husband to smoke outside", "pronormative_score": 22, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for wanting my husband to smoke outside
Husband and I have a toddler. Dad is a stay at home dad. He is a full time smoker, I used to be. I am concerned about asthma for our kid. Dad smokes in the basement despite me repeatedly asking him not to. I can smell it upstairs. A couple weeks ago, I came home and Dad had clearly been smoking in the house. I c...
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{ "description": "telling my girlfriend she needs to see a therapist", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for telling my girlfriend she needs to see a therapist
Been dating her about 8 months now. She has some issues with her dad from her past that have caused some affection issues as well as issues with expressing emotion that have both caused problems in our relationship. For example, hugging family members or anyone other than myself makes her extremely uncomfortable and co...
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{ "description": "not telling my parents about my relationship", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For not telling my parents about my relationship?
using a throwaway just incase any parties recgonize themselves. I [17F] just recently got a SO [18M] and I'm planning on not telling my parents about him until they confront me, if ever. There are two reasons ultimately: I have privacy issues, and teasing issues. Let me explain: As a kid, my parents are super protect...
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{ "description": "insisting on therapy", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For insisting on therapy?
TL;DR at bottom.. **Backstory**: s/o drank heavily for all of their 20s (10+ years), and from my perspective the drinking took a steep nose dive after the loss of 3 grandparents and their best friend in a short amount of time. In talking with my therapist, the drinking may have been the solution for their problems (no...
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{ "description": "cutting ties with my cousin", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for cutting ties with my cousin?
Bit of a back story. So I have this cousin, who I shall call "E" who is 21, loving guy, big heart, is very supportive of his family, but very unreliable because of his girlfriend. His girlfriend who I'll call Emma, is an emotionally and physically abusive bitch, basically steals his money, as she refuses to work, will...
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{ "description": "asking my partner to get married during a fight", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 4 }
Aita for asking my partner to get married during a fight?
So partner and I together 10 years 2 kids and a mortgage, Mortgage is in partners name as I don’t work and it was easier this way, I’m the stay at home parent, So recently there’s been trust issues and during the argument I suggested we get married so I’ll legally own half the house, I didn’t think this was a big dea...
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{ "description": "wanting to be left alone", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting to be left alone?
TLDR; I need to be alone sometimes and my mom says that I am being rude, selfish, and thinks that something is wrong when I just need time to decompress. AITA? I just finished nursing school about a week ago. Something I learned about myself over the past year is that I need a day or two in between finishing classes a...
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{ "description": "cursing at a bigoted woman in front of her kids", "pronormative_score": 14, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for cursing at a bigoted woman in front of her kids?
Obligatory "this happened yesterday", and extra-obligatory throwaway for my own sanity. This isn't a debate on whether my family should be Muslim, lets start there. This is also a little long. Tldr at the end. Okay, some background. My family is Muslim and multiracial. My mom, along with a couple of my siblings and I,...
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{ "description": "telling my girlfriend to finish her classes and/or get a job", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA: Telling my girlfriend to finish her classes and/or get a job
It's pretty lengthy and in-depth but I will try my best to summarize events. Hopefully there's a tl;dr at the end. ​ \[2016\] GF was supposed to graduate at a tech uni but still needed to finish a few classes. She was able to get them written off as 'incomplete' and even allowed to walk for graduation when...
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{ "description": "thinking it is weird my other half talks to his ex multiple times a week", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for thinking it is weird my other half talks to his ex multiple times a week?
He (50) talks to his ex 3-5 times a week for 15-30 minutes each time. Sometimes they will go a week without talking but most of the time they talk numerous times a week. She calls when she is driving - to or from wherever. He dated her a long time ago 10 years or so, she does not live in the same state and she is ma...
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{ "description": "not wanting to \"help\" my cousin on homework", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not wanting to “help” my cousin on homework
Hi reddit I have a cousin who has to do a MOCK interview with someone in a certain field of work which I coincidently happen to be in. I indeed try to help this kid once but I literally ended up doing the kids homework as many of the questions were not focused on what I specifically do and helped her do research. Now t...
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{ "description": "breaking up and kicking my depressed gf out", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA if I break up and kick my depressed gf out?
We've been dating for two years now. Almost all of those two years she's been depressed. It's mean to say, but I'm fucking sick of it. We almost never have sex. She doesen't work and I'm a neat freak, yet my place is always disgusting. When we first started dating she acted like she enjoyed sex and when I asked ...
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{ "description": "thinking my boyfriend should contact the police about his missing sister", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for thinking my boyfriend should contact the police about his missing sister?
So some backstory. My boyfriends sister has been fucked up on drugs lately (I don’t know her personally but this is what my boyfriend has been telling me). Anywho she’s fucked up on drugs, and gets kicked out of where she was living because she attacked someone. Anyways, she’s been missing for 2 days, doesn’t have a ce...
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{ "description": "telling a kid to stop leaning on me", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for telling a kid to stop leaning on me?
So I’m in a production of High School Musical, you might remember me from getting cast with my sister in a couple, which has since been resolved, thank god. Anyway, so we’re blocking this scene and I’m on one side of a desk, and it’s a crowded desk, but it’s not crowded enough to the point where everyone has their own...
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{ "description": "not wanting my boyfriend's sister to come on dates with us", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting my boyfriend’s sister to come on dates with us?
Title is partially self explanatory, but I’ll add some extra info here. My boyfriend John(24m) got a gift card to a nice Brazilian steakhouse from his sister Erin(28f) this Christmas, and he is eager to use it. Erin got it as a gift for the both of us really, but John was the one who opened it. When he opened it, E...
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{ "description": "telling people their dogs aren't allowed at the farmers markets", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA for telling people their dogs aren’t allowed at the farmers markets
The signs at the market clearly state this. Maybe they are clueless? Maybe they are new? Additionally ifI give them money to learn how to read, does that increase my behavior?
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{ "description": "telling my flatmate she's rude because she wants to move out to her new apartment before our lease expires", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for telling my flatmate she’s rude because she wants to move out to her new apartment before our lease expires?
We’re students and we rented this apartment at the beginning of our university year. Now, we’re in the middle of it and she said her parents bought her a new apartment and she wants to move out alone. She told me about that only one month ago and she’s going to move at the end of this month. This means that I’ll ha...
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{ "description": "breaking my friend's earbuds and refusing to pay for them after he tried to steal money from my backpack and then insulted me as I tried to apologize", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for breaking my friend's earbuds and refusing to pay for them after he tried to steal money from my backpack and then insulted me as I tried to apologize.
First some context: Me and my friend are in middle school and were pretty close. We sit together on the bus and hang out in a back room with some other friends during lunch. Seeing as March Madness was starting soon everyone in my group decided to put $5 into a jackpot and whoever got the most accurate bracket would ge...
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AITA For “Showboating”
I run track for my high school as a distance runner. I ran the mile and two mile today. I won both but there was one kid Justin who was my greatest competitor. Anyways, around the Seventh lap towards the starting point the crowd starts screaming and when I get close to it I instinctively raised one Finger in the air to...
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{ "description": "lowkey hating most of my friends", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for lowkey hating most of my friends
Aight so pretty much from like grade 4 I’ve always been really good at KINDA fitting into every group of friends I could find but never all the way being the same as them so I’ve always had a lot of problems making actual friends. But I found a group I fit in better than most other ones, but they’re all white. ( I...
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{ "description": "telling my sister that she cannot go on a school trip", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 6 }
WIBTA by telling my sister that she cannot go on a school trip
This is on mobile so disregard my bad formatting and grammar. So my younger sister wants to go on a school trip but it’s going to be in Puerto Rico and we live in the US specifically NC. My father is against her going because he sees no big reason to go that far away for a school trip. My mother simply doesn’t feel sa...
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{ "description": "charging a rapper for a beat after giving one for free", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
wibta if i charged a rapper for a beat after giving one for free?
i made a beat and i sent it to a rapper (we'll call him bob) who i felt would be perfect on the beat for free. a while after i sent the beat, i made another one that i feel bob could get on and i'm pressed as to whether or not i should charge for the second beat after i gave one for free. so would i be the asshole if i...
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{ "description": "drinking after dumping my alcoholic partner", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA for drinking after dumping my alcoholic partner
I just broke up with my partner after five years. Our biggest issue has always been their drinking habits. Unfortunately, they cannot handle their alcohol very well. It only takes a couple of drinks and they become reckless and can’t form straight sentences, and become a person who is very unattractive to me. They’ve l...
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{ "description": "playing music on a Bluetooth speaker when I'm out with friends", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 8 }
AITA for playing music on a Bluetooth speaker when I’m out with friends?
I’ve weirdly seen an uptick in posts and comments disparaging people who walk around playing music on speakers, and it’s made me question myself for doing this, so I came to this sub. I love music, and when I’m walking around town with my friends, I usually have my speaker with me playing something while we ...
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{ "description": "losing my temper and screaming at my doctor's staff", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 11 }
AITA for losing my temper and screaming at my doctor's staff?
So, some basic background: I need my IUD replaced and I made the appointment 2 weeks ago, set for tomorrow. When I was on the phone, I told the receptionist I needed it removed and replaced and she said she'd double check with the doctor and call me back. She didn't call back, but that same day I got a confirmation em...
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{ "description": "screwing up four friends spring break plan to be with my girlfriend", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for screwing up four friends spring break plan to be with my girlfriend?
First time posting sorry for long post, TLDR at bottom So here's some context: In the beginning of the semester, my girlfriend signed us up for the anime convention in her uni. This anime convention was going to happen on the end of my spring break, which is next friday and the weekend. She signed us for to volunteer ...
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{ "description": "asking a friend to separate our weed", "pronormative_score": 29, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for asking a friend to separate our weed?
I already know this seems ridiculously stupid and childish, just note that. So my best friend and I usually go half and half on an ounce of weed, pretty easy math. Now, he lives with his girlfriend, well recently made fiance. Which is awesome! But here's the thing, 2 or 3 times now I have gone over there with a 6 pac...
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{ "description": "not wanting to use a used fork", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITAH for not wanting to use a used fork
Hello guys, so basically the other day i was about to have dinner with my family but came down a bit late and my brother was already done, when i went to eat he offered me his fork so that i could eat but said no and said that was gross, after that my brother was mad at me for saying that and my parents sided with him ...
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{ "description": "remaining best friends with a serial cheater", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for remaining best friends with a serial cheater?
So I (22 F) have been best friends w/ Adam since I was a freshman in college. Adam is like a brother to me. We studied abroad & traveled the world together. Our families consider each other family as well. Adam’s fatal flaw is that he is not a faithful person. He loves the attention he gets from the person he’s...
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{ "description": "rehoming the elderly cat my wife and I adopted", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA if I rehomed the elderly cat my wife and I adopted?
Alright, I know that this already sounds bad, but please hear me out: My wife and I consider ourselves to be animal lovers and have always talked about adopting a cat together. When we met, I already had two cats (both rescues, \~2 years apart). Let’s call them Fluffy and Snuffles. We decided to adopt another cat bec...
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{ "description": "being fed up of my girlfriend's mother", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for being fed up of my girlfriend's mother?
Going to cut a long story as short as possible. TL/DR at bottom My girlfriend of 6 years (lived together for 3) mother broke her ankle/foot about a year and a half ago, obviously she went to the hospital and had a cast fitted and was told to rest (no work etc) for a few weeks. Obviously at this time I was extremely s...
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{ "description": "calling out my Housemates arrogance", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for calling out my Housemates arrogance?
So I'm a Uni student in a Houseshare with three others. Housemate A, B and C. Housemate A was away from home for the week. Housemate B got drunk one night and had his two friends sleep over, he didn't want to give up his bed so went into Housemate A's room (we all leave doors unlocked because we trust one another) H...
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{ "description": "calling out my best friends boyfriend", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for calling out my best friends boyfriend?
Chatacters: Me: Me Best friends boyfriend: BFB Roommate: R Best friend: P We all grew up in a small town together. I've known BFB since I was 7 and P since I was 12 (we're all about 22 right now) and we get along pretty well. The other day I was at Ps house, and we were just talking with R, mainly ab...
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{ "description": "asking my girlfriend to have a sexual relationship", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 15 }
AITA for asking my girlfriend to have a sexual relationship?
For context, we and my are both in high school. I just recently met this girl, I asked her out on a date and she said yes. We have been dating for almost a month now, and I decided that it was time to have a discussion about sexuality in our relationship. I said that I wanted to have sex, but she quickly mentioned tha...
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{ "description": "wanting my friends to do something with me", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For wanting my friends to do something with me?
I visit my friends who go to another college 3.5 hours away at least once a month. For some reason, every time I come down here they play Smash Brothers for HOURS knowing I don’t like the game and I don’t want to play. I used to play with them but then they would get mad because I would get annoyed because I just didn’...
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{ "description": "leaving my friends name out of a school project", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for leaving my friends name out of a school project?
So in out school we are doing these projects where you pick a subjects for an example math or art and then with the teacher of you’re choosing you are doing a project because our schools main thing is engineering the project has to include something with it but anyways enough about that. So we were doing the project th...
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{ "description": "ignoring my mom while she tries to \"work it out\" with me", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I ignore my mom while she tries to "work it out" with me?
Sorry for the length in advance. Just got back in touch with my mom [50] after about a year of not talking. Relationship with her has always been stressful and I [22F] think I've had enough. My mom has always been very opinionated. Either she's super in my face about what she thinks about my life, or she's complainin...
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{ "description": "not wanting my in-laws on our cell phone plan", "pronormative_score": 18, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITAH for not wanting my in-laws on our cell phone plan?
So I feel a little backstory is necessary here. I (27M) been married to my wife (28F) for 4 years now. I've always had a good relationship with her parents, even if our personalities and views don't always align. My wife and I both work full time and we've always striven to be financially independent. Recently my MIL ...
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{ "description": "suggesting that my so shouldn't pursue the degree he's been wanting to for his entire college career", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for suggesting that my SO shouldn't pursue the degree he's been wanting to for his entire college career?
Back story on his college experience: he has been wanting to work toward a degree in biology/animal science/ or natural resource management but he can't pass basic college math to save his life and is struggling in 101 biology. He has taken basic algebra 3 times and fully flunked each time and now we're both in biolog...
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{ "description": "cuddling with my friends crush in front of him", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for cuddling with my friends crush in front of him?
TLDR at the bottom Background: So I (M15) have a great friend group (about 8 people, slightly more boys than girls), and whenever we watch movies or hang out we frequently cuddle with each other normally in pairs of a boy and girl. One of my friends (M16) who is not involved in this group confessed to me that he has a...
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AITA Deleted pictures documenting spousal abuse, she is still with the guy.
A few years ago my good friend (36 F) who is married emailed me some pictures that showed some slight bruising where her husband laid hands on her. She asked me to save the digital files so she could build a case against him so she could keep her and her kids safe. Three years later and she is still with the guy. I k...
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{ "description": "moving forward with the pregnancy against the wishes of the bio father and his wife", "pronormative_score": 144, "contranormative_score": 56 }
AITA for moving forward with the pregnancy against the wishes of the bio father and his wife?
I’m going to be real brief. I thought I was in a monogamous long-distance relationship with a man (management consultant) who travels to my city a lot for work. I found out he’s actually married with several young children. He lied to me about his age (much older), his real name, and his relationship status. But I’m ...
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{ "description": "going to see a concert with sexist lyrics against GF's wishes", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for going to see a concert with sexist lyrics against GF's wishes?
I bought a concert ticket for a band I've always wanted to see since this may be their very last tour. Their music has some fairly sexist lyrics which GF of 1 month strongly objects to and she absolutely does not want me to go. The ticket was bought before i met her and i don't want to give them up as it's a good sea...
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{ "description": "feeling upset about my gf's tidyness", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for feeling upset about my gf's tidyness?
First time posting here plus i'm on mobile so sorry if i break any rules. TL:DR at the bottom. Anyway, in January my ling distance gf came over to live with my family and I. I was living in the garage which went from manly man-cave to a cozy room fit for a mature couple. Things were great. Now, I am not a clean freak ...
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{ "description": "pushing my gf off me", "pronormative_score": 27, "contranormative_score": 43 }
AITA for pushing my gf off me?
She's an eagle's fan, I'm a Dallas fan. Last night's game was a big back and forth and when the eagle's tied it up late, she jumped on me on the couch and went for a flurry of kisses. My response was "Yo get off me" and I gave her a stern yet gentle stiff arm. After about 10 minutes of no talking she calls me an assho...
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{ "description": "confronting someone when they ignored me", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA For confronting someone when they ignored me?
So this guy privately messaged me on a social media site, asking me if I was open to roleplay. I was, of course, more than happy and open to do so. So we took some time, getting everything settled before jumping right into it. After a short while, we had everything decided. Mind you, and this is important, I sent fou...
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{ "description": "giving away my sons cat", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 56 }
AITA for giving away my sons cat?
My son, 15, has had his cat (Spacey) for 7 years. He loves Spacey, he sleeps on my sons bed, and son takes care of him quite well. I recently started to date someone who is allergic to cats. It’s not a sniffle allergy, but a pretty severe one (not deathly though). My partner and I have started to get more serious - we’...
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{ "description": "not telling my cousin happy birthday", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not telling my cousin Happy birthday?
First of all, im on mobile and this is my first post on this sub, so sorry for any formatting mistakes. Also, probably gonna be a long post. Background info: my cousin was born in the U.S. so he's a citizen by birthright, but he was raised in Mexico and lived there for pretty much his whole life up until a couple of y...
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{ "description": "not paying for 50% of my boyfriend's mortgage", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for not paying for 50% of my boyfriend's mortgage?
Until last November my boyfriend and I were not living together, I was renting an apartment and he owns his own. We decided that I would move out of my apartment and move in to his place, so we can save some money to buy a house together in a year or so (and try the 'living together' thing before actually buying someth...
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{ "description": "choosing not to adopt from shelters if I had children", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I chose not to adopt from shelters if I had children?
I was just reading another thread regarding adoping puppies and I just had a thought: I wouldn't adopt dogs from shelters if I had young children because I wouldn't know their history and potential for aggression. Does that make an asshole?
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{ "description": "sending a joking response", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for sending a joking response?
My friend added a snap to her story asking for positive messages because she was in a bad head space. Being the joker I am I send 2 messages "-1×-2" and |-3|. I was left on read. I'm bad at gauging situations and if that was a bad response. I'm also not sure if I am reading too much into it. I thought a joke might chea...
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{ "description": "asking my ex girlfriend for her cousins phone number", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 10 }
AITA for asking my ex girlfriend for her cousins phone number?
So I broke up with my ex a couple of days ago, I did so because I was interested in seeing her cousin. And I didn't want to be a cheater so I decide to break up instead. Anyways I don't have the cousins number or any way to contact her. So I did the only thing I could think of and asked my ex for her cousins phone numb...
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{ "description": "confronting my mom telling her all her defects and stuff after she made actions I considered wrong", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA Confronting my mom telling her all her defects and stuff after she made actions I considered wrong?
Alternate account to prevent any reprisal. First of all, it happened twice but I considered there must be a debate. Some background, in case of being necessary: I work everyday, I can hardly have a day off because I need the money. I considered myself as a person of few words. I was working at the family's restaurant...
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AITA for what I said to a classmate?
So I am 22F and the class president of my third year medical school class. Last year the president of the students association for the medical school brought up a mentorship policy. It's an opt-out programme where my class is supposed to tutor the second years in a 1:1 ratio. For about a week I told my class (70 people...
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{ "description": "not letting my bridesmaid hold/show off her pregnant belly in my wedding photos", "pronormative_score": 112, "contranormative_score": 100 }
AITA because I didn't let my bridesmaid hold/show off her pregnant belly in my wedding photos?
Throwaway account. I got married three weeks ago and one of my bridesmaids is about 7 months pregnant (let's call her Kate). Kate's belly was easily accommodated into the dress style because it had quite a flowy skirt with a fitted bust. Between the ceremony and reception, we had a few hours worth of professional ph...
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{ "description": "refusing to eat food my mother in law cooked and froze because I found a HAIR in it? my husband sure thinks so, and is having a pouty pout about it right now", "pronormative_score": 15, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITAH for refusing to eat food my mother in law cooked and froze because I found a HAIR in it? My husband sure thinks so, and is having a pouty pout about it right now.
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{ "description": "not wanting to go to my brother's wedding", "pronormative_score": 21, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for not wanting to go to my brother’s wedding?
Long story short, my little brother by two years is getting married to this girl he’s known for maybe three years. She has a kid, he’s a good kid whatever. About five months ago, my best friend messages me and asks if his post about getting engaged is serious or not. I don’t do social media at all, so I can text my mo...
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{ "description": "wanting to raise an issue with my boss over an unfairly judged competition at work", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for wanting to raise an issue with my boss over an unfairly judged competition at work?
I'm a programmer. At my work we had a hackday recently (for those that don't know a hackday is usually an IT thing where you're placed in a team and challenged to solve an issue or implement an idea in a short amount of time) where I was placed as leader of one of 5 teams in our office. Without going into details, my ...
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{ "description": "calling my fiancé jealous", "pronormative_score": 18, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for calling my fiancé jealous?
My fiance (F32) and I (M29) have a pretty good relationship overall. We've been together for 5 years and engaged for 3. We don't have any kids and bought our first house together in 2017. We make a decent wage together that surpasses $100k/year combined. So we aren't exactly Bill and Melinda Gates, but we're doing fine...
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{ "description": "marrying a woman because she DIDN'T sleep around", "pronormative_score": 14, "contranormative_score": 57 }
AITA for marrying a woman because she DIDN'T sleep around?
So I (30M) got married 2 years ago to (28F). Now I'll just call her Sofia. My my wife Sofia is beautiful, but most of all, she has a wonderful personality. She is reserved, incredibly kind hearted and mentally strong. She had all the qualities to make a great mother. (we're planning on trying for kids soon). She's Mexi...
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{ "description": "exposing a sex Worker at work", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 45 }
AITA For Exposing A Sex Worker At Work?
Work at a start up, most people involved in this story are in their early to mid 20's. Alright, so I'm into some pretty kinky shit and was watching a few vids of dommes on the ole phub last monday night. I came across a vid of a girl scissoring a guy and from the thumbnail the girl looked super familiar, I click on it ...
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AITA School wants me to go without prescription glasses but i refuse to, was i in the wrong?
So as I've stated in my other post I've made on r/maliciouscompliance i go to a special ed school, and some crazy shit (litterally) goes on (see other post) anyway as a bit of backstory..... Me and my dad have been packing for a vacation (we leave tomorrow) and i set out my perscription sunglasses next to my normal g...
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{ "description": "removing our friend from our groupchat", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA For removing our friend from our groupchat?
We're seniors in undergrad/1st year grad students now. In high school around junior year, our crew really solidified and we began having a groupchat. As time passed and people changed, we continuously made new fb messenger chats (to phase people out) and eventually crossed over to groupme. We ended up with a guys-only ...
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{ "description": "being upset about my sex life", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA for being upset about my sex life
So let me start by saying I \[27M\] absolutely adore my fiancee \[29F\]. We have been together for almost 4 years but things have gone downhill pretty hard in our sex life. This is going to be a long story so I really would appreciate if you could sit back and read it all and give your honest opinions. ​ S...
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{ "description": "not getting a birthday gift for my two year old nephew? general gift giving etiquette", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not getting a birthday gift for my two year old nephew? General gift giving etiquette
My boyfriend and I have two children. His half brother and his wife have one child. Their gifts are thoughtless, bad, and cheap (mostly and maybe intentionally for me - dollar store scarves and ceramics, grocery store gift sets for him which are an improvement). We’ve never done anything but be grateful, thank them k...
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