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{ "description": "being upset with my best friend while she's going through some stuff", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for being upset with my best friend while she’s going through some stuff (and I’m going through my own)
I wanna talk about this. But the last time I went to reddit to vent, it back fired so bad. I feel like I can’t ever post anything online bc she’ll always see it or recognize the story. The last few weeks, she’s been going through a rough patch. I always try to stay by her side and not be hurt when she doesn’t reply t...
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{ "description": "calling the cops on my neighbors", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for calling the cops on my neighbors
Some back story, I live in a small college town in “student living” apartments. The other week night I was peacefully sleeping the night before a test when I was woken up at about 2am to the sound of a movie playing ridiculously loud and the neighbors screaming along to it. It was loud enough that I could figure out ex...
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{ "description": "going to a wedding instead of a funeral", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA if I went to a wedding instead of a funeral?
Monday my grandmother's husband passed away and the funeral is planned on the same weekend that my friends are getting married on. I've known my grandmother's husband for basically my whole life. I've never bonded with him but I also have never had any trouble with him. I only want to go to the funeral to be there for...
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{ "description": "treating my girlfriend like this", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for treating my girlfriend like this?
My girlfriend and I, we've been dating for a little over 5 months but we're childhood friends so we've known each other for almost 11 years and have been through a lot together. She's away visiting family right now and was feeling pretty miserable and I've tried to be optimistic telling her it'll be fine she'll be back...
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{ "description": "being pissed I've covered for the last 20+ days Straight and won't be given time off", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For Being Pissed I’ve Covered For The Last 20+ Days Straight and Won’t Be Given Time Off?
So I have worked for this company for 3 years. It deals with property management and I work for a fairly large company. My office however is very tiny. Just 3 people total that work in the office (2 full time 1 part time). Part time covers all weekends (every Saturday and occasional Sunday depending on occupancy) excep...
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{ "description": "making this dude sound really bad to some close friends", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for making this dude sound really bad to some close friends?
Let me preface this by saying it happened almost 3 years ago. I was spending some time around a guy a little older than me, I had been cuddled up with him for a while when he started getting handsy. I was told in no uncertain terms that I might as well like it because he would not stop, even after being told to knock...
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{ "description": "not paying for someone new grill", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not paying for someone new grill?
About 3 months ago some friends and I went on a trip to Canada and stayed at an airbnb. the night before we have to leave the outside temp is supposed to be below -15°f. one of our drivers (the one I rode with to and from) drives a ford truck. ill refer to the driver as Heath. Now Heath drives a diesel truck and appa...
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{ "description": "not being a Christian/believer", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for not being a Christian/believer?
I'm in a serious relationship with this girl, she's my best friend and THE person for me, and speaking overall, everything is great between us. However, she is a devout Christian, and I never have been. When we got together, everything was set to go except for one thing, she needed me to go to church with her. I agreed...
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AITA who yelled at my husband bc he didnt cheat on me?
My husband and i have been together 14 years, married 10 and have 3 children. In our whole relationship, we never had problems with infidelity. I trust him completely, and vice versa. Our sex life is amazing and we get along so good. We our partners and bestfriends. Not a perfect marriage,no marriage is, but we are bo...
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{ "description": "leaving my gf almost right after I told her I love her", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for leaving my gf almost right after I told her I love her?
oh boy this is one hell of a story, but it's not terribly long. well, I'm kind of the weird person that dates people online before meeting them. so I'm dating this girl, right? and we have been calling / facetiming each other and texting for a while now. about 3 months. so one day I told her "goodnight, sleep well! te...
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{ "description": "telling my friend \"forget it, it's not like your ever going to get it anyway\"", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 19 }
AITA For telling my friend “Forget it, it’s not like your ever gonna get it anyway”
This is about me and one of my close friends. So, me and my fellow friend are a lot into tech. Yesterday, when we were talking he mentioned that he wanted this razer gaming headset. I told him that he was never gonna get it anyway. This is because I know his parents, and they wouldn’t buy it for him. He got really piss...
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{ "description": "telling my roommate to clean her room or I will move out", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA by telling my roommate to clean her room or I will move out
... or am I better off just getting through the lease and leaving in April? I love my roommate. They are one of my greatest friends. Ideally, they would remedy the issue and we would sign an extension on the lease. That would be my end goal. #### Backstory: My roommate has a cat which I knew before we moved in toget...
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{ "description": "demanding full payment for my services up front, instead of half at the start and the rest after", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA For demanding full payment for my services up front, instead of half at the start and the rest after?
So I have been working exclusively for a smaller company, they offer me projects with payments ranging from 5,000 to 10,000. All up front. I have done this for three years. Recently I have realized that I could make more money freelancing, so with my previous employers blessing I have started working for other compani...
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{ "description": "leaving my family's bussiness for my dream job", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for leaving my family's bussiness for my dream job?
First of all, excuse my poor english. It's not my native language but I hope I can make myself undertood. ​ I'm currently working at my family's bussiness. My grandfather founded it almost 40 years ago, and it's been run by the family since then. After he died, my father took control of it, as he was the o...
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{ "description": "breaking down on my parents after multiple comments on my weight", "pronormative_score": 14, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for breaking down on my parents after multiple comments on my weight?
For context, I am 5'4 and weigh 120 lbs. I think this was the highest weight I've ever had. I've had a past full of people telling me that no one would ever date an ugly person like me. I got more and more comments about my appearance, not weight-wise but facial things like scars, acne, my skin tone (I'm Indian brown ...
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{ "description": "not wanting to date the friend of a tinder date", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to date the friend of a Tinder date?
Throwaway account yada yada yada. A short time ago I broke up with my gf. I signed up to Tinder just to see what happens – searching for neither hookups nor new relationships. Just browsing. I matched with A who seemed just a bit too enthusiastic about meeting me. Well, I went to the date and met B instead. She expla...
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{ "description": "deliberately failing a medical test to get put on a less harsh treatment", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for deliberately failing a medical test to get put on a less harsh treatment?
As a kid I was diagnosed with cancer, the op was successful and removed all the tumor but my kind was particularly aggressive and known for spreading, So I was but on the harshest chemotherapy regimen possible after I finish the absolute maximum I could of radiotherapy, There are no words to describe how absolutely hor...
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{ "description": "giving $1 tip for pizza delivery guy", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 9 }
AITA for giving $1 tip for pizza delivery guy?
For the background - I'm from Poland, where tipping is gratuitous and usually reflects gratitude for a good service. Today I've ordered pizza from Domino's, paid about $15 online, including $3 something for the delivery. When the delivery guy came, asked for a sign for receiving the pizza and asked by tip. I was alrea...
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AITA Ive lusted over my Best friends GF
## I'm either in love with my best friend's girlfriend, or I'm just discovering what it's like to be alone. My best friend got a girlfriend about a year back. She ticks pretty much every category when it comes to what I believe is the perfect girlfriend, which makes sense that my best friend would go for her seeing as...
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{ "description": "starting a relationship knowing that it is doomed to end early", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for starting a relationship knowing that it is doomed to end early?
Hey guys, throwaway for obvious reasons.. I started a relationship with a girl I really liked around two weeks ago. She was the one who asked me out, it turns out that we both felt the same about each other for a long time, but neither of us had the balls to ask until now. Unfortunately, we would have been much happi...
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{ "description": "wanting things done thoroughly", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for wanting things done thoroughly?
(sorry in advance for mobile formatting and length!!) So my job is in administration/facilities and I have been in my team the longest--which is maybe since Nov 2017, so not that long over all. I trained the current team members and literally wrote the manual; suffice it to say that I know my job. I am known as being ...
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{ "description": "pursuing the friend of a guy I liked", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for pursuing the friend of a guy I liked?
So I met this guy Mike in line for a concert. I got his ig & a few hours later he Dm'd me "hey we should hang out soon, lets get drinks." I told him I'm down to since I was actually pretty interested & thought he was cute. We ended up getting drinks. It was a bit awkward for the first 10 minutes but its not li...
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{ "description": "refusing to \"make merit\" in a buddhist fund raiser", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For refusing to "make merit" in a Buddhist fund raiser
I'm not Buddhist and not a Thai but have been living in Thailand for more than 15 years. Before this, I have been given around 2 envelopes for making merit aka "give money and increase your chance to be reincarnated in a great life". I have this co-teacher who has so many of these envelopes (she is active in their ...
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{ "description": "wanting a nice vacation", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for wanting a nice vacation?
I planned a trip to Disneyland with my SO earlier in the year as she has never been and has expressed how much she has wanted to numerous times before. Well the date finally came and we arrived, but the entire time she has been glued to her phone; Snapchatting and messaging other guys. I asked her what was so important...
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AITA Update
Original post: https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/9r3cs9/aita_for_forgetting_about_a_date/?utm_source=reddit-android So I originally posted that post not too long ago and read some of the feedback. For those who don't know, I essentially scheduled a date with a girl and just forgot about it, pretty much b...
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{ "description": "asking a child to be quiet during a movie", "pronormative_score": 17, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for asking a child to be quiet during a movie?
TL;DR I asked a parent/child due to keep questions until the end of a movie as kid’s questions were disruptive. I got called a jerk and got reminded about capitalism. - This happened a few weeks ago, but it is still eating at me. I went to see a 9:30pm showing of Bumblebee. There was a dad and his maybe 8 year old...
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{ "description": "getting mad at my gf for buying me a shitty present after getting her a really good and expensive one", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 8 }
AITA for getting mad at my gf for buying me a shitty present after getting her a really good and expensive one?
My girlfriend's birthday is a few weeks before mine which means she always knows what she got before she has to get me something. Her old android phone had been acting up and she was complaining a lot about it so I decided to splurge and bought her an iPhone X. Cost about $1300 CAD. Fast forward to my birthday. A pai...
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{ "description": "deducting a renter home seller for removing all towel racks, curtain rods etc", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA if I deducted a renter home seller for removing all towel racks, curtain rods etc.
I bought a home and gave the seller a rent back Every single curtain rod has been removed. Vast majority of towel rods were removed. I want to avoid being an ass. Thanks for your help
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{ "description": "anonymously giving a bunch of expensive acne products to an otherwise beautiful girl who works at Subway", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for anonymously giving a bunch of expensive acne products to an otherwise beautiful girl who works at Subway?
100% throwaway account here. Will probably never log in after the dust settles from this (if there is any). I understand this is a convoluted question and it's a convoluted situation. I also hang around this sub enough to know this may get SHP or even troll accusations but I swear on everything this is real. I can gi...
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{ "description": "being cold to my bf's friend", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being cold to my bf’s friend?
This happened a year ago. My bf and I have been together for four years, and they’ve mostly been very happy! When I graduated, he and I were both going through a rough time- I had bad anxiety, and he was very depressed. The stress of me moving back home overwhelmed him, and he broke up with me for a month. We reconcil...
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{ "description": "blocking a random girl on messenger", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for blocking a random girl on messenger
Sorry guys, bare with me since I'm on mobile rn. Tldr on the end So a random girl messaged me on facebook on valentines day, just a random picture which said "send this to people you care about and some other stuff", and then she wished me happy valentine's day. We had a couple of mutual friends on facebook so instea...
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{ "description": "not wanting to date someone", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for not wanting to date someone?
I got out of a pretty toxic relationship earlier this year, and was/am in no way ready to date anyone again yet. I've also been in on/off states of mild depression, which is very out of my character and probably why I don't feel like I want to date anyone at the moment. I started talking to this girl about 2 months ...
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{ "description": "not talking to a friend anymore after I texted her \"did ya miss me? lol\" and she replied about how it's not cool for friends to flirt and cross the line", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not talking to a friend anymore after I texted her “Did ya miss me? Lol” and she replied about how it’s not cool for friends to flirt and cross the line.
This was under a year ago but it bothers me from time to time. I met this girl at work and she was pretty and cool. We talked and joked around whenever she came in (I worked at a gym). Always talking about something. One day I built up the courage to ask for her number and to go out sometime. She said totally and ever...
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{ "description": "not giving my girlfriend attention when she wants it", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not giving my girlfriend attention when she wants it?
My girlfriend (F18) and I (M17) are in a committed long distance relationship and have been for about a month and a half now. We met in an online game (League of Legends) about four months ago, and have been in a discord call with each other for at least three hours a day since then with the exception once or twice a m...
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{ "description": "telling an employee that it's hard to pay the bills without a f*cking check", "pronormative_score": 32, "contranormative_score": 17 }
AITA for telling an employee that it’s hard to pay the bills without a f*cking check?
To start this off I’m 19. My grandfather owns a full service gas station where we do tires and mechanic work. When I graduate my grandfather offered me the job of managing the place and I said yes. I’m good with working with my hands and enjoy working on cars but my grandfather wanted me to run the office and do all of...
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{ "description": "leaving my parents house during a horrible time", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA For leaving my parents house during a horrible time?
I’m using a throwaway as it sort of links to the post I made on r/confessions. Basically for context, I [M18] live with my mum, my step-dad, 2 brothers [5,1] and my sister [8]. My mum works 2 days a week, 12 hours and uses the benefits system to lower cost of housing and my step-father hasn’t worked since he was 16 an...
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{ "description": "calling my pregnant cousin a breeder", "pronormative_score": 107, "contranormative_score": 184 }
AITA for calling my pregnant cousin a breeder?
Okay so a little context, I’m 23 in a serious relationship and have a whole host of medical issues. I’ve never wanted a kid, even at age 5 I found the idea of baby dolls etc just ugh. This idea evolved and changed as I did and eventually developed into where I am now which is even if I wanted one having one with my med...
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EVERYBODY
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WRONG
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{ "description": "wanting to put money in my retirement account and not my partner's", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting to put money in my retirement account and not my partner's?
My partner and I have been married for 7 years, and were working on advanced degrees together for the first 5. I graduated and got a job 2 years ago, when we had our first kid. As a student, my partner isn't being paid. I'm our sole income, we pay tuition, and I have a side business for extra cash as well. Tax time c...
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{ "description": "telling my gf to sleep earlier", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for telling my gf to sleep earlier?
Title basically says it all. She goes to sleep really late sometimes for absolutely no reason. She constantly complains about being tired, but does nothing about it. Also, it gets annoys me when she just doesn't think straight due to fatigue when she's talking to me sometimes. She seemed pretty pissed about it yester...
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{ "description": "pranking my sister in front of our entire family", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 77 }
AITA for pranking my sister in front of our entire family?
So, to clarify, my sister and i have a fairly complicated relationship. She was the favorite growing up. I always felt like an outcast in my family and it lead to me picking on her some. Because honestly, it's the only way i could get my family to even notice i existed. But my sister and i? We don't like each other at ...
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AUTHOR
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WRONG
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{ "description": "kicking my brother out of my House", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA If I Kick My Brother Out of My House?
My (27f) have been living with my brother (32m) for the past 7 years. We've lived in the same house the whole time. 2 years ago I bought the house and have been renting it out to my brother and a roommate. Their rent is super cheap with all bills are included, and I haven't raised it even though my taxes have gone up a...
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{ "description": "calling my husband out on sexist views", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 11 }
AITA for calling my husband out on sexist views?
I’m new to reddit. I usually just browse and read, however after what happened today, I felt the need to make an account and post. Anyways, so my husband and I decided to watch that new video from Gillette. The Best Men Can Be video to be specific. As we were watching it, I looked over at my husband that seemed to be...
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{ "description": "be creeping out by how a waiter treated my daughter and for making her say thank you", "pronormative_score": 341, "contranormative_score": 219 }
AITA to be creeped out by how a waiter treated my daughter and for making her say thank you?
During a long road trip I stopped off with my 4yo daughter for dinner at a family run rest stop type café/restaurant we’ve been to many times before. My daughter is almost 5 and a very gregarious child who talks to everyone she meets. She also is very tall for her age so could easily be mistaken for 6 or 7 and as a re...
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{ "description": "not wanting to have anything to do with my sister", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For Not Wanting to Have Anything to do With My Sister?
I am 17 years old for context... So, my sister is 23 and has just moved back in. She moved out after having a fight with my mom. The title might sound harsh, but over the past few years my sister has... Punched me in the face after I told her she couldn't get Pokemon Go on her old phone. Slapped my mother because she ...
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{ "description": "doing a 23andme test when my parents don't want me to", "pronormative_score": 131, "contranormative_score": 51 }
WIBTA if I did a 23andMe test when my parents don't want me to?
When I was around 13 (seven years ago) my parents told me that there was some uncertainty regarding my paternity. My mother was sexually assulted by another man around the same time that I was conceived. They never did a test and just agreed to raise me as my fathers' daughter. I'd honestly be lying if I said it didn't...
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{ "description": "not wanting to go to lunch with my dad", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
Aita for not wanting to go to lunch with my dad?
My parents got divorced when I was young. It’s for the best, because I’ve absolutely loved living with my mom. She is so happy and strong and it’s great. My dad has never been great at being a dad. For most of my childhood, if I wanted to see him, I had to call him. I had to move my activities to be able to see him. ...
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{ "description": "eating Mac and cheese", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for eating Mac and cheese
I ate my brothers Mac and cheese and he's mad. Should I buy him more Mac and cheese?
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{ "description": "not wanting to pay half of my son's daycare bill", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 10 }
AITA for not wanting to pay half of my son’s daycare bill?
I know the answer may seem pretty blatant from the title but hear me out. So I’m 21, my son’s mom is 22, and our son is almost 2. She graduated college this past December while I graduate in December of this year. She got a full time job in her hometown, about 2 hours away, & moved in with her parents along with t...
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{ "description": "refusing to move to a nicer property with my gf", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for refusing to move to a nicer property with my gf?
My (22f) gf (30f) wants to move to a nicer property when our lease is up. I’m a student, and I don’t have time for a part time job until summer rolls around, so to say money is tight for me would be a fair assessment. The properties she’s looking at are way out of my price range. I can’t tell you how much I’ve stresse...
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{ "description": "not doing the dishes", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for not doing the dishes?
Long story short, I am living with 2 roommate and we get along great on all fronts except the dishes. I am a firm believer of cleaning up after yourself so after every meal I wash my dishes and dry/put them away. I have been getting more and more passive aggressive comments about me not pulling my weight and feel re...
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{ "description": "being upset when my so thinks she knows what's best for my mental health", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being upset when my SO thinks she knows what’s best for my mental health?
Me (23m) and my SO (23f) have a very deep and connected emotional bond. We both struggle with our own mental illnesses and we have grown so close because of our understanding of each other’s insecurities. I can’t see myself with anyone else. She has made huge strides with her anxiety and all though she still has episo...
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{ "description": "asking my coworker to stop using this smelly oil in our cube", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA if I asked my coworker to stop using this smelly oil in our cube?
Honestly I feel like there’s no way to not be an asshole in this situation, but maybe I’m overthinking it. I sit in a big open cube area, but I’m walled off with 1 coworker’s desk. My coworker seems to use a lot of natural oils and sprays as natural remedy stuff for things like anxiety and health. There’s this one ...
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{ "description": "being upset that my best friend is getting close with my ex", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being upset that my best friend is getting close with my ex?
My ex and I broke up a couple of weeks ago and I admittedly have not handled it well. It started with seeing his name appear on my best friends social media likes, recent messages, etc. She is my best friend but does like attention and has never been one to deny it. I tried to explain to her that this hurt me and she b...
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{ "description": "dropping a friend after she treated me more like a therapist than a friend", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for dropping a friend after she treated me more like a therapist than a friend?
This is long and has some talk about self harm, just a quick warning ahead of time. Okay so i have this friend. She has fucked up, super controlling parents and she always ranted to me about her parents and I could relate, because my parents aren't the greatest either, so I'd reassure her that once she moved out...
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{ "description": "making sex jokes with my friends while on a relashionship", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for making sex jokes with my friends while on a relashionship?
So I (22F) am in a relationship with (21M). We've been together for around 2 years now. We lived together for over a year, but i moved away for my studies in september (2hours drive). So new school, new friends. Now my bf has always been the jealous kind, while i am not at all, i just trust him and if he cheats on me...
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{ "description": "saying my friend is responsible for my dog getting pregnant", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 25 }
AITA for saying my friend is responsible for my dog getting pregnant
So rewind back to December. It's the morning of December 24th, and I wake up in a pool of my own blood (thanks mother nature), and go straight to the bathroom from my room down the hall, and let my dog out of my room as I go, that way I can let her outside to potty once I'm all cleaned up. Now, before we go into any mo...
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EVERYBODY
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WRONG
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{ "description": "getting angry at my roommate on his birthday", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for getting angry at my roommate on his birthday?
So I'm in university and in my residence you share a bathroom with the person living next to you. From September to now, my roommate has been playing loud rap music in the washroom, even in the morning, occasionally yelling and acting like a buffoon, and always forgetting to unlock my door (which isn't too big of a ...
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{ "description": "refusing to get my little brother e-Juice", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 4 }
WIBTA Refusing to get My Little Brother E-Juice
So recently I've been watching a lot of r/ videos, and has brought some memories back of some bad experiences (for better or worse). A bit of backstory, I have one younger sibling, who loves to go out often with his close friends and girlfriend for a drink. He usually stays out late and comes back home latest around 2-...
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{ "description": "being upset on my birthday", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being upset on my birthday?
Today is my birthday. I am in the camp the believes once you're over 21, birthdays aren't really celebrated. I don't expect everyone to get together and take me out to dinner or something. I don't even expect a cake. My husband is an amazing husband and father. He is very good to me and our kids, but he is a terrible ...
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{ "description": "just not accepting that my current gf cheated on her ex-bf for three years", "pronormative_score": 58, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA when I just couldn’t accept that my current gf cheated on her ex-bf for three years?
This girl and I have been in a serious relationship for a couple of months now. We’ve been pretty open about our past relationships and we both have said in the past that honesty between partners are important. When we were starting out this was the story I knew. She had a boyfriend (guy A) for three years, she found...
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{ "description": "not wanting my girlfriend to go on her dream trip", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 21 }
AITA for not wanting my girlfriend to go on her dream trip?
So, my girlfriend and I began as friends 3 years ago evolving to bestfriends and now we have been dating for almost 6 months. We have a friend in common which is my GF's bestfriend and she bought a trip for my girlfriend and her which is my girlfriend's dream destiny. When my girlfriend found out I acted all surprised ...
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AUTHOR
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{ "description": "blocking a longtime friend over a single creepy message", "pronormative_score": 38, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for blocking a longtime friend over a single creepy message?
Hi all! Made a reddit account to ask this based on the advice of a mutual friend between both the parties here, and I would like to receive judgement! ​ So I'll cut right to the chase, I (lesbian/22) spend 90% of my free time on chat sites that have no association to my real life identity because it lets m...
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{ "description": "being mad at my ex gf for being happy", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA for being mad at my ex gf for being happy?
I don't imagine this will get much traction, I just need to vent a little. TL;DR at the bottom. So basically we broke up in August, which I recognise is quite a while ago now, but I was completely heartbroken and it really sucked. However, we stayed close friends and I still consider her to be one of my favorite peopl...
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NOBODY
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{ "description": "flying to our holiday overseas early without my gf to save myself $600", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For flying to our holiday overseas early without my GF to save myself $600?
Okay so basically my gf goes to University and can only go abroad for a holiday with me on certain dates, since the flight companies are aware of this, flights go up roughly $600 return. I don't like that. If I left a couple days earlier (and a day later on the way back) than my GF, I'd be able to get a return flight...
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{ "description": "dropping a friend", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For dropping a friend
First let me say this happened when I was 18, I am 22 now. I started a job and quickly became friends with one of my coworkers and we began to hang out (no romantic feelings). Anyway flash forward 6 months he goes to Disneyland for the weekend but ends up in the hospital when he comes back. When I talk to him he tells ...
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{ "description": "asking my pregnant wife if she ate all the icecream", "pronormative_score": 15, "contranormative_score": 14 }
AITA for asking my pregnant wife if she ate all the icecream?
I'm in one of those sticky situations with my wife where she thinks I'm being a moron. She's in her third trimester. So, yesterday I really wanted to eat some icecream. We had two buckets of our favourite mint chocolate chip ice cream in our fridge. So, I go to get some if it and it's all gone. So I asked my wife if s...
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{ "description": "always sitting in the window seat", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA for always sitting in the window seat?
Like most, I hate the middle seat. I travel a lot for work and will always pay extra for a window if I have to. I'm kind of tall, feel trapped in the middle. The usual. I do anything to get the window. ​ My wife just wants to be with me. It's cute and I like it even though we rarely talk once in the air. S...
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AUTHOR
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{ "description": "not letting my roommate eat my pizza", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for not letting my roommate eat my pizza?
So we ordered pizza a while ago and didn't finish. I put a slice in the fridge and forgot about it. Like I'd been in and out of the fridge since, and although I knew it was there, I never paid it any mind. Well yesterday, my roommate was looking for some food and ask if he could have my pizza. I had just bought a box...
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{ "description": "being upset at my parents for a car accident that I got into", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for being upset at my parents for a car accident that I got into?
Throwaway account for obvious reasons Two days ago I was in a car crash, luckily I only made it out with only a little bruising. I lost control of my car after the back tire blew out and totaled my car. My parents are having to pay $500 in damages and I feel like shit but I’m having trouble with taking all the blame....
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{ "description": "making a person get off my chair", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for making a person get off my chair
For further context, I rudely made someone get off my chair in university when clearly I left my bag on it just so no one would sit on it Now usually I'd forget I even did this but the guy starts throwing a hissy fit and starts threatening to beat me up just after getting off my chair So now I'm just wondering, am ...
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{ "description": "thinking my Bf's Friend Hates ME", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA I Think My Bf's Friend Hates ME
I don't really know if this belongs here but I want to know if I'm crazy. Here's some backstory: I started dating my bf this past December. He works as a landscaper and there's a guy, who we'll call Joe, that he has worked with for years and is friends with. Bf doesn't drive so when we spend time together I pick him u...
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{ "description": "letting my sick MIL hurt my feelings", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for letting my sick MIL hurt my feelings
AITA for getting my feelings hurt for something my sick MIL is (or isn’t) doing? Some backstory: My BF and I have been living at my MILs house for a couple of months while the house we bought together is being renovated. About a month ago, she was having trouble breathing and went to the hospital. While at the hospit...
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{ "description": "leaving her on her own", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA for leaving her on her own?
Hey AITA, long time first time, etc etc. I am 23, and have been in an off again, on again relationship for 8+ years. Over the past year, me and the now ex-gf have grown apart. We are currently still living together in the apartment complex that I am working at. Living with my ex (which is actually more peaceful than ...
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AITA for this Break Up
Story Time. I was dating this girl for a good bit and eventually she dropped me for someone else she loved more then me. Eventually, months later, she asks me out again. I (the idiot I am) said yes. We dated again for quite a bit. On Valentines Day she asked me not to get her a gift but I did so anyway. Getting her a b...
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{ "description": "ghosting all of my friends", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For ghosting all of my Friends?
A few months ago I went fully no contact with my friends. I feel as though it had been a long time coming. There were a few reasons I did it. 1. They tried to show me nudes in front of my girlfriend when we went to dinner. I was just so dumbstruck by why they would even think it is a good idea. On top of that they con...
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{ "description": "thinking about breaking up with my girlfriend. I feel she doesn't respect me", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA I am thinking about breaking up with my girlfriend. I feel she doesn’t respect me.
First I will say that in many ways my girlfriend(39) treats me(37) better than most of my exes have. We met in high school and dated for awhile. I then moved out of state and the long distance thing didn’t work for us. We both moved on and had numerous relationships. I was married for 15 years she had 2 marriages lasti...
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{ "description": "not playing baseball for my school", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA If I Don’t Play Baseball For My School?
Recently I have lost interest in baseball over other sports and have always played baseball since I was little and I told my mom and she didn’t like it. We’ve talked about it and she texted me earlier that she would “quit” smoking if I played again. I’m really conflicted because I have told my mom since I was little to...
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{ "description": "not supporting my parents' plan to rescue an abused dog", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not supporting my parents’ plan to rescue an abused dog?
The dog across the street from me is often neglected and abused by her owner. She is kept on the chain 18 hours a day, all day, with barely any food or water. When it rains, she doesn’t even have a shelter. She’s skinny, malnourished, and starving for attention and love. It’s incredibly sad, but the owner has proven in...
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{ "description": "taking a new job and underestimating the amount of taxes that would be taken out of my signing bonus to my wife", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for taking a new job and underestimating the amount of taxes that would be taken out of my signing bonus to my wife
My wife and I have been rebuilding our lives over the past 7 months after my failed business and year long separation which was very close to divorce, but ultimately resulted in us giving it another chance. We have 2 young kids and our family dynamic is very important to both of us. A big goal for both of us has been t...
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{ "description": "not allowing my fiances wedding guests to bring a +1", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 27 }
WIBTA for not allowing my fiances wedding guests to bring a +1?
Using a throwaway, just wanting some advice. So my fiance and I are in the process of planning our wedding day, and we recently started thinking about the guest list. I have always had plans to have a large guest list, so we agreed early on that we would have a no +1 rule except for married and engaged couples, and gu...
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{ "description": "yelling at a customer", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for yelling at a customer?
So, I work retail, and yesterday I had a particularly stressful day because we were severely understaffed for the amount of foot traffic that we had. At some point I ended up being the only person ringing people up at our registers and I get to this lady who is insisting that I totalled up her items wrong. I tried to s...
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AITA for my fiance not wanting talk to me?
Hello everyone, I think this may be a little long but please bear with me ​ First of all, I'd like to say that right now, I (22M) am so stressed out and angry that my fiance (20F) told me she was not going to talk to me until I do what she wants. This all started about 4 months ago when I started getting s...
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AITAH because my I don't want my SO to join the millitary???
My SO wants to do a program through the military where she could achieve her dream of being a therapist. And normally that would be awesome, but I'm scared that she's not ready for it and that she'll find someone better than me because I have severe separation anxiety and self esteem issues. I know that I should be sup...
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{ "description": "not making sacrifices for my relationship", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not making sacrifices for my relationship?
My partner and I have been fighting a lot lately. There are plenty of reasons why, but the most concerning to him is that we don't spend enough time together. We both work full time, similar shifts ( just off by a few hours). The problem is that I go to school full-time, too. He knew when we got together that I am goin...
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{ "description": "telling a former friend I didn't want to be friends anymore", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For telling a former friend I didn't want to be friends anymore?
Okay, the title seems a bit mundane. I was friends with these 2 girls (Me, 13M) They constantly mocked me and made fun of me and everything. It got to a point where I was afraid to talk to them in fear of being made fun of or yelled at or degraded. So, I was pretty sad one day, for the reasons above, and this girl from...
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{ "description": "giving someone a dirty look for being gross", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for giving someone a dirty look for being gross?
So I was driving today and this guy was beside me and he decided to roll down his window and spit on the ground dangerously close to my car and so I gave him a dirty look and said something along the lines of “that’s fucking gross.” Clearly he saw me because when he was stopped beside me later he intentionally started ...
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{ "description": "not wanting to spend time at my girlfriend's house", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to spend time at my girlfriend's house?
My gf still lives at home and so do I. We are both 20 but we haven't been able to afford moving out. I love her and think she's the one, but.. I have a pretty good situation at home. My girlfriend? Not so much. Her parents fight every day, they're poor (actually so poor they had to borrow money from her). They mentall...
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{ "description": "not driving my mother to her appointment", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not driving my mother to her appointment?
Ok, long story. I help my parents with a ton when they ask, in fact, between my older brother and I, it's usually me that goes out of my way to help. However, when I can't, they tend to try and guilt trip and yell. My mother has been having eye problems, and has to go see a doctor in another town, due to a bad infectio...
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{ "description": "wanting my husband to brush his teeth every day", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA For wanting my husband to brush his teeth every day?
Title pretty much sums up my question. My husband is currently sleeping on the couch and gaming away right now because we got into a fight. He had not brushed his teeth in over 48 hours and tried to cuddle with me. I pushed him away and told him I found it unattractive to not brush his teeth. This turned into an argu...
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{ "description": "wanting to chew out our cleaning ladies for throwing out my $200", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA For wanting to chew out our cleaning ladies for throwing out my $200?
I got around $200 from my uncle on Christmas and it was in a card. I left the card in a bag with other things that I got on Christmas. The ladies who clean our house every couple of weeks came and cleaned the house the other day. I looked in the bag to get my money, but the card was gone and the money too! There wer...
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{ "description": "\"firing\" the painting crew before they finished", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA if I "fired" the painting crew before they finished?
We hired a couple to paint a room in our house, finish painting the stairwell, & touch up the ceiling. We supplied the paint for the stairwell. They quoted 750 & we paid half up front. What we were unaware of, is that they could only paint late evening like past 7/8 p.m. If we would have known this, we wouldn'...
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{ "description": "sitting in the wrong seat", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for sitting in the wrong seat
Here's a really short one for you guys. I was riding on a tram home and I sat down in an empty seat. There were a lot more empty seats if that matters. Basically, when I was about to stand up to exit, I saw that next to my seat was a Red Cross symbol. I felt really bad after I left. So AITA?
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{ "description": "not wanting a relationship with my biological father", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for not wanting a relationship with my biological father?
Bit of backstory, in order for it to make a bit more sense, in 2010 I moved to the U.S. from Venezuela, just me my mom, brother, and sister. My biological dad and my mom divorced when we were young so the whole impact of it didn't really phase me as I still saw my bio dad every week. Well after moving to a whole diffe...
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{ "description": "telling a kid to not peep in the bathroom", "pronormative_score": 14, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for telling a kid to not peep in the bathroom?
I was at a restaurant where the bathrooms are single stalls. The doors are wooden with textured glass, like the door to a principals office. I was using the restroom (bottoms exposed!) when someone rattled the handle, pulled and pushed it and then pressed their face against the glass to look inside. It was a kid, and I...
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{ "description": "getting upset someone parked in my assigned spot", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for getting upset someone parked in my assigned spot?
I work in a large organization and certain people with certain jobs have assigned parking spot. I was super busy all day and had 10 mins to get lunch and come back to a meeting. When I come back, someone is in my spot and I had to park far away, so I'm late to the meeting. I found the guy and his response, 'Well the pa...
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AITA got reported at work because I told client about nice picture?
TL;DR at the bottom. A little background is that this girl and I (25F) have worked together for over a year. We're both carers, in an assisted living centre. She's polish, I'm English, and when she first started she was very abrupt and often rude to colleagues and some clients, but I always defended her saying it was...
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{ "description": "holding a grudge against my mother", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for holding a grudge against my mother
For reference, I'm a 25 M living back with my parents cos I'm recovering from an ACL surgery. I'm gay and came out to my parents when I was 17; father took it well, mother hated it and still doesn't accept it. She put me through counseling and conversion therapy up until I was 20 when I ran away for a bit and told them...
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{ "description": "being angry at MY AUNT", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA FOR BEING ANGRY AT MY AUNT
My grandmother has dementia, she’s getting worse every month. She can still go out on her own, but will do things like put the electric kettle on an open hob where it burns. She has occasionally wondered off and gone missing. She forgets to eat and we can see her withering away. It’s not good, but she is semi independe...
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{ "description": "calling out my buddy for cheating, in front of his wife", "pronormative_score": 49, "contranormative_score": 291 }
AITA for calling out my buddy for cheating, in front of his wife?
The title is a bit more straight forward than it really is. I have known my buddy since middle school (we are 35 now) and he has always been a serial cheater. Over the past about year or so he has been hooking up with his secretary. I have known about it the whole time (he likes to brag). Up to this point I have never...
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{ "description": "calling my (ex) best friend a d!ck", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for calling my (ex) best friend a d!ck?
mobile user btw (also this is my first post where i actually write so bear with me) B-bitch that is in the title Me-me T1 & T2- good friends that are twins F-other good friend I have 3 scenes here Think of that wannabe rich kid that shows off his Hollister clothes. (no offense to hollister) The first one was at ...
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