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{ "description": "keeping my gaming computer in my room", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for keeping my gaming computer in my room?
I keep my computer, on which I play video games, in my bedroom. When playing games, I will sometimes talk to my friends over Discord, and some nights I will talk to my girlfriend. On weeknights I always make sure to hang up by 8:30 pm, because I need to get to bed for work in the morning. On Friday and Saturday nights ...
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{ "description": "cheating, ending relationship & moving out", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 11 }
AITA for cheating, ending relationship & moving out
Me and my boyfriend are financially tied in more than one ways for years now, I basically own his business, he owns the house where we live in. He hesitates to make things more serious between us, you know, actually get married & and have kids. I still owned a dusty very tiny apartment on the other side of town, wh...
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{ "description": "not moving out and giving my room to my dad", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not moving out and giving my room to my dad?
I really feel like such a little spoilt asshole. My mom has a room. My younger sister has a room. I have a room, but my dad doesn't. He sleeps in the living room, on a sofa-bed. He's been doing it for years and I'm not sure how it began, I think my mom and dad were fighting and my mom doesn't want to share a room with ...
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{ "description": "forgetting to pay back $3", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for forgetting to pay back $3?
A coworker bought me a drink the first day I was at the job. Voluntarily, I'd like to stress that point. It was $4. This was, admittedly, a few months ago. Since then, I have kept forgetting to pay him back, but doing the occasional thing for him, like buying him a soda and the like. I moved offices from my base l...
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{ "description": "moving some guys bottle and hoodie off off of an equipment he was not using and putting it on the floor", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for moving some guys bottle and hoodie off off of an equipment he was not using and putting it on the floor?
Some guy had put his bottle and hoodie on top of a box, I needed the box and was kind of in a hurry and he was in the middle of an exercise so without asking and not thinking much about it as it would never be a problem for me if I were in his shoes; I took his stuff and gently put it on the floor. Took the box and did...
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{ "description": "asking someone to move their moving truck", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for asking someone to move their moving truck.
To be honest I don't feel like an ass in this situation, but I gotta ask. Last night around 7pm I arrived home to see a moving truck with a car trailer parked in front of my driveway. I didn't think much of it because my buddy had to stop a friend off with my car. So I let it sit for about 15 minutes and I notice 2 wo...
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{ "description": "disagreeing with my mothers Christian Standards? I'm 15 btw", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For disagreeing with my mothers Christian Standards? I’m 15 btw
tl;dr at the bottom My mother was a Christian for a long time even before I was born. Once I got into this world, I guess I was automatically assigned as a “Christian” because she was. My father was a Christian, but he left that religion after... an occurrence. I accepted the Christian religion until I was about 12-13...
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{ "description": "Wanting Advanced Notice from my sister on when I can see her and her kids", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA For Wanting Advanced Notice from My Sister On When I Can See Her and Her Kids?
So, my sister has 3 kids. She's in her early 30s and I'm only 20 btw so there is an age gap, I'm getting my life figured out and she... well has 3 kids. Due to being bipolar, depressed, anxiety and shit I have neglected my relationship with her at times (with all family at times as well) and now that I'm pulling my lif...
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{ "description": "not letting my GF move in", "pronormative_score": 44, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for not letting my GF move in?
I live in an expensive part of the country and work a stressful demanding job to pay my bills and have enough left over to save. This is often 50 hrs a week waking up around 4:30-5 most morning to get to work. My GF on the other hand has a job that is not as stressful and pays minimal. She complains about issues w...
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{ "description": "not wanting to play Smash with my friends", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to play Smash with my friends?
So, I know most of the stories on here are way more serious than this but here’s something to lighten it up I guess. So me and my friends have all been enjoying Super Smash Bros Ultimate (like any sane human). However, I’ve found myself becoming resentful towards my friend group. I wouldn’t consider myself an amazing ...
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AITA for, after legally cutting my neighbor's tree and hedge branches hanging into my yard, dumping them back over onto his property?
His many trees also dump a lot of leaves and small branches onto my property. No problem; I rake those up all the time and pay to take them to the dump *at my expense.* That is both custom and law pretty much around all the U.S. Litterfall is a fact of life. Overhanging branches from both trees and hedges are anoth...
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{ "description": "not wanting to compare my grades", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for not wanting to compare my grades
A bit of context here, I sit next to this friend of mine at Uni. He is by no means a horrible person, he's actually pretty good. Its just this one thing he frequently does that irks me which is his desire to compare grades. For example, whenever we get back our results for stuff such as quizzes or marked homework, he'l...
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AITA Brother-in-Law found lost dog, gave it to my wife as a gift for my daughter, tried to send it back.
Tried to be objective, would also post on r/relationshipadvice TL:DR at the bottom. Quick background, I used to breed Shi Tzus. USED TO. I stopped because my heart breaks every time I sell a puppy and have to let them go. So the last litter I ever bred, I kept two, and gave the others to loving people that I can t...
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{ "description": "rejecting someone", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA - I rejected someone
Okay so to provide some backstory when I was in 6th grade I didn't have any friends in my grade. It was a very small school and I was one of the "weird" kids. You know the drill. I ended up befriending this one guy who we'll just call Liam. He also didn't have any friends and was sometimes bullied by the guys in ou...
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{ "description": "calling a song one of my friends likes lame", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for calling a song one of my friends likes lame?
This happened only a few minutes ago from when I posted this... Only two people I will be describing in this are me and him. Should be clear enough who's who. So - I have this friend, a rather close friend. At least how I see it, I have no idea if he feels the same although he said he has. Has been continually depress...
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{ "description": "taking a drunk lady to her apartment", "pronormative_score": 25, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for taking a drunk lady to her apartment?
I'm gonna come right out and say that I'm a pretty socially inept dork, so forgive me if the answer here (as in what I *should* have done) is blatantly obvious. The situation is pretty straightforward: I was walking home from a late night at work when I saw someone up ahead staggering drunkenly, and then actually sor...
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{ "description": "reporting an awful smelling person to the front desk at the gym", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA if I reported an awful smelling person to the front desk at the gym?
(Obligatory mobile format apology) So I was at the gym on the elliptical with an empty one between myself and the person to my left. 20 minutes in this guy walks into the gym and heads straight to the elliptical in middle of us. He was carrying a backpack and looked slovenly, but who am I to judge? We go to the gym to...
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{ "description": "telling a hookup about someone else sharing their business", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for telling a hookup about someone else sharing their business
I hooked up with a family friend a 2 months ago, she's my aunt's friend 10 years older than me. We hooked up and she asked me not to tell anyone, so far I haven't told anyone. She has a falling out with my aunt and our friendship is a bit estranged, don't really know what to say about it. A bit backstory, I've told...
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{ "description": "thinking my friends are birthday beggars", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For Thinking My Friends Are Birthday Beggars!
This is my first time posting...I have a friend that send out messages on her husbands birthday event page that he would like for his birthday even uploads pictures...when its her birthday she suddenly wants to go out to lunch and dinner with everyone... not all at once either....so she can get a free meal in my opinio...
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{ "description": "not being okay with my fiancé's brother staying for the weekend", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not being okay with my fiancé’s brother staying for the weekend?
Hello everyone, I just wanted to get some outside opinions on something that happened a few weeks ago. My fiancé and I have been together for about 3 1/2 years, lived together for a little over a year, and he is a gem. His brother however, not so much. He is frequently racist, sexist, homophobic, and generally rude. ...
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{ "description": "breaking up with my gf after her friend died", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for breaking up with my GF after her friend died?
Me [m16] and my gf [f16] dated for about 7 months. I had knew it would end soon but honestly did not know how to do it. One day I got a call from her crying saying her friend. It was big news around us too. I tried to be supportive of her but about a week after we got into a big fight. I had pictures of girls in bikini...
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{ "description": "not chatting up a girl", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not chatting up a girl?
So I (22m) went on a trip with 5 friends and their gfs. I am still a virgin. I used to be fat but got into shape. I am straight. I went on a trip to Florida during spring break with 5 friends and their gfs, during our trip we often went to bars and clubs and they were egging me on to talk to girls all the time I said ...
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{ "description": "letting my uncle potentially go homeless", "pronormative_score": 15, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for letting my uncle potentially go homeless?
Me and my mom live together and my uncle moved in with us around 6 months ago. I was very against it since he is a major asshole. To keep things short he is a leech and we had lived with him before. He left last time owing us money, talking smack about my mom, and never lifted a finger to help with anything. This past ...
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{ "description": "not being very affected by my great grandmother's death", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not being very affected by my great grandmother's death?
So my great grandmother died recently...thing is I've never even met her (my grandma was given away to another family as a child and only met her in her adult years). Even my mom hasn't met her because she grew up in a different country. She lived in Africa and I grew up in America so there was also distance that was a...
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{ "description": "joking with/poking fun at my husband", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for joking with/poking fun at my husband?
Will try to make a long explanation short. I’m a generally sarcastic, joker who has always ribbed people, as was done to me by my own family. That’s just how we all were, and you learned that it was all in good fun, and to not take it personally. As I got older, I would say this trait subsided a bit, especially as I d...
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{ "description": "not getting my sister cigarettes", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not getting my sister cigarettes
Backstory. My sister quit smoking again about 3 or 4 months ago. She quit through the patch and I thought she was completely off smoking. Until tonight. Her, her boyfriend and I were relaxing and watching TV. They have been drinking and were probably a bit tipsy at the time. She asks her boyfriend to go out and get he...
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{ "description": "staying overnight at a friend's without my parents permission", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I stayed overnight at a friend's without my parents permission?
I'm 20 and I've been going to meet with friends at a furry meet in London for several months, my parents are very scared for my safety all the time, despite the meets being a really safe place, they call me constantly to make sure I'm getting the correct trains and I'm not going to be late and I won't forget things (it...
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{ "description": "wanting my roommates to move out because I do not want to live with pets", "pronormative_score": 14, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for wanting my roommates to move out because I do not want to live with pets?
Back in July I found a rental house that I eventually moved into. I really want this house to be my last rental before purchasing in a few years, so I was kind of picky as to where I was moving. I have also furnished a majority of the house including the entire living room (sofa, tv stand, coffee tables, etc) with GOO...
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{ "description": "leaving my trash on my neighbor's property", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for leaving my trash on my neighbor's property?
We had 60 MPH winds yesterday in Delaware and as I was leaving for work in the morning almost all the trash and recycling cans were fallen including my own. I looked in my immediate vicinity for trash but saw none so I went to work. I assumed just some of my recycling with my address is floating around somewhere. ...
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{ "description": "calling out \"friend\" in group chat about his study ethic", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for calling out “friend” in group chat about his study ethic
So not necessarily much back story - just that this was a one year intensive course for university where if you wanted to progress further, you needed a minimum score across subjects and yada yada. Naturally this makes me pretty intensive with all my individual work to be expectedly up to my own standard and such. I wr...
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{ "description": "bailing on my bf", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for bailing on my BF
This morning my long distance bf (22) messaged me (20F) and asked if I wanted to game tonight for an hour or two, this is something we do a couple nights a week. I said sure, but then later on my sister messaged me and asked me if I wanted to go out to a fundraiser at a local comedy club tonight. I really wanted to go ...
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{ "description": "lying to my girlfriend", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for lying to my girlfriend?
So for Valentine's day my girlfriend got me a Hollister shirt and hoodie which was so sweet! Over spring break I brought the shirt on vacation because it's a good-looking shirt and I look good in it. When I get home, I don't see the shirt and when I go looking for it, I can't find it. I realized that I left it at the ...
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{ "description": "not wanting to pay for a portion of the bachelor party", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to pay for a portion of the bachelor party
Quick run down. Group bachelor party, guy planning it wants to start at a gun range, so I recommend mine as I’m a member and would be free. So I call and confirm with management that I can tag along with my rifle and shoot for free. Well buddy signs a contract for everyone and me which is 115 (wasn’t told till after ba...
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{ "description": "wanting to bring up something that happened years ago", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for wanting to bring up something that happened years ago?
Around 4 years ago I deleted a bunch of friends off of Facebook without explanation. This lasted for around a month before I slowly started re-adding people and reintegrating into my old friend group. Recently, a friend of ours did the same thing and was treated significantly differently. Am I the asshole if I bring th...
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{ "description": "extorting my friends for making a sex bet about one of my other friends", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for extorting my friends for making a sex bet about one of my other friends?
My close friends that I’ve known for a very long time have made a bet to see if they could bang one of my female friends. Although stuff like this has come up before something irked me about this particular instance. I contacted the female in question and let her into the bet (This female is currently on a relation...
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{ "description": "telling my mother I won't be visiting my nephew", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for telling my mother I won't be visiting my nephew?
My nephew was born to an addict mother and his first 4 years were full of abuse. My brother began fostering and picked up him and his sisters. My brother eventually adopted them all. They all have FAS, and myriads of other issues, but my nephew was affected the most. He has learning issues severe enough that he will li...
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{ "description": "going on vacation? coworkers state I am", "pronormative_score": 100, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for going on vacation? Coworkers state I am.
So I am child free so I am able to travel and I work 2 jobs so that I can travel. My coworkers are all parents/single parents and are struggling to make ends meet. This coworker came up to me and called an asshole because I was taking 2 weeks off to go to Florida. I have relocated from Florida to New England about 2 ...
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{ "description": "ruining a friendship and a birthday", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for ruining a friendship and a birthday
Like most post I'll start with some backstory, I'll try and keep it as close to the truth as poss (find some posts here seem like very skewed versions of the truth). At the time I had just finished university and was in the stage of trying to stay in contact with my close friends from then. With one friend, let's cal...
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{ "description": "complaining about driving my sister", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA: for complaining about driving my sister?
(Warning this is fucking high school drama level BS but I just wanna make sure I am not in the wrong for this.) So for the past two days I have been driving my sister and her friends around. Day one I had woken up at about 6:00am to go tour a college and was there till about 4:00 and then I had two hours before I work...
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{ "description": "not realizing I might have gotten an internship I recommended someone else for", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA not realizing I might have gotten an internship I recommended someone else for
I'm a junior in University studying Mechanical Engineering. Engineering students live and die by their internships, trying to get a full time position without one can be terribly difficult. I have prepared and have been fortunate enough to accept an internship for summer 2019. ​ During my time as a student...
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{ "description": "thinking that a gym staff member should not occupy equipment during peak hours", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 9 }
AITA for thinking that a gym staff member should not occupy equipment during peak hours
This is more like a preemptive AITA. Some background: I am a member of a 24hour gym chain, and I have been a member of this branch for nearly 2 years since it opened. At this gym, it is always busiest at around 6-9pm weekdays and particularly on Mondays. The gym has 2 elliptical machines and 5 treadmills. Today (Monda...
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{ "description": "\"screening\" potential girlfriends", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 14 }
AITA For "screening" potential girlfriends?
To understand this topic you'd have to understand my background. Im a 27 year old male, and I expect the best out of myself. Many people are afraid of appearing arrogant so they downplay themselves, I hate that. I keep in very good shape, and I have a promising career as an executive in the plastics industry. I have l...
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{ "description": "texting late at night", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for texting late at night
I have a friend (F1) who has young kids, and is out of town with them and her hubby for spring break. We are not particularly close as we do not have a ton in common, but do see eachother at least once a month usually at mutual friends or in town, and I make sure to always be very cordial with her. Another friend (F2) ...
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{ "description": "asking telling girlfriend we'd get a prenup if we got married", "pronormative_score": 38, "contranormative_score": 19 }
AITA : Asking telling girlfriend we'd get a prenup if we got married
My gf and i were watching something and she commented on how unloving and untrusting someone's relationship must be if they got a prenup. I decided to let her know that we'd be getting prenup if I proposed. She got angry and the rest was history. She's now not talking to me, AITA?
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{ "description": "asking my neighbor to stop singing", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I ask my neighbor to stop singing?
I'm in college and recently moved into my first apartment all by myself. The building is an old house that was converted into apartments, and I was the only one in the building at first. Fair to say that I really appreciated the quiet for a bit. ​ I did not realize until someone else moved into the apartm...
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{ "description": "not liking shorter guys", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not liking shorter guys
I'm a 5'8" woman. Kind of tall for female I always thought. I don't see men in a romantic or sexual way if they're shorter than me. I've always felt this way. I'm very self concious of my height and around shorter guys I always feel lke I'm half giant like Hagrid. Same height and up is fine. I've talked to a handful of...
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{ "description": "taking my car from a friend and ruining a road-trip", "pronormative_score": 22, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA For taking my Car from a friend and ruining a road-trip
I lent my car to a close friend as I was traveling overseas for what was meant to be 1 year. I was forced to come back after just 6 months due to my abysmal financial management. A month before I returned home I messaged my friend and told him the date I needed to take my car back - he agreed and everything was sweet. ...
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{ "description": "not helping an injured kid", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for not helping an injured kid?
So, I guess I should start by giving some background information first; On my neighborhood there is this one little kid, 13 or 14. He is the most rude person I have seen in my life: insults old people, yells at ALL times, curses for everything, treats his mother like absolute crap and is just generally as obnoxious as...
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{ "description": "not thinking cheating is that bad", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 9 }
AITA for not thinking cheating is that bad?
Ive never cheated on anyone, and I never plan on it, because I see how much other people hate it, and ive been in a relationship before. Im also not polyamorous, and I wouldnt want to be in a relationship where I know that he's fooling around, but i honestly wouldnt mind if I didnt know. Like ive never understood why p...
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{ "description": "not taking pictures with my girlfriend", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not taking pictures with my girlfriend?
Today my girlfriend asked me to go to her church, go to dinner with her friends, and take pictures afterwards. Since I am spending the night at my friends house I told her I was planning on getting to his house at 7/8 PM, so we would definitely have enough time for church and dinner (4 and 5:30, respectively), but it w...
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{ "description": "feeling somehow upset because my mom is supportive enough to sit besides me 24*7 when I study", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for feeling somehow upset because my mom is supportive enough to sit besides me 24*7 when I study
I have Asian parents, and I have my exams coming up. I genuinely think I am the luckiest son in the world for having such amazing parents who care so much about my future, my mother is an amazing person and I feel like my parents have been so much better as parents then I have been as a soon. Because we have our exams ...
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{ "description": "lying about watching a movie so my significant other would enjoy it more", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for lying about watching a movie so my significant other would enjoy it more?
Super brief history here, me and my girlfriend have been dating for about 6 months (though it feels like we’ve known each other for years) and we moved in together and it’s been fantastic (I’m aware how soon it is, there’s a reason for it, disregard the part where you advise it’s too soon, we both know). Well, when w...
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{ "description": "calling my date \"short\"", "pronormative_score": 64, "contranormative_score": 19 }
AITA for calling my date "short"?
So last night I met up at a bar with a very cute guy that I met on a dating app at a bar. From the moment he sees me, I can tell he's uncomfortable, and I'm honestly not sure why. I figure maybe he's nervous. I try my best to put him at ease, but he's just not feeling it. Finally he says, "Did you *have* to wear those ...
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{ "description": "getting angry at my mother who refuses to accept my brother who recently came out", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for getting angry at my mother who refuses to accept my brother who recently came out?
Early October my brother came out to my mother and it didn't go well. She was extremely disrespectful and even laughs at the fact he gave her a letter after their argument explaining himself. In defense of my mother, he was originally asking for money which turned into him coming out. ​ Its been over 3 mo...
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{ "description": "buying my wife flowers", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA If I buy my wife flowers?
She's going away for 2 nights later today on a girls weekend with her sister and 2 of their friends. I know the hotel name and found a florist nearby. Heres the catch. She has mentioned several times before that she'd hate to get surprise flowers at work anytime I brought it up. As well I don't know if it could chan...
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{ "description": "accidentally not tipping", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for accidentally not tipping?
This happened last week. I was at an asian fusion restaurant, nothing fancy, $11 lunch special. I usually tip 20% on lower priced meals since I pay with debit. So I finish my food and go up to the cash to pay. Now I'm not in a rush, but I have to get back to work soon so I'm going through the payment menu pretty quic...
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{ "description": "going on vacation without telling my family or friends", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I went on vacation without telling my family or friends?
I went to Austria in December and told family and friends about my trip, and there was so much hassle involved in telling my family because they expected me to organise a family meal as a farewell, and when it came to pass, it was an absolute debacle and I knew before I even planned it, that it would go sourly. I'm no...
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{ "description": "getting mad at my ex for acting as though he was the only who cared for me", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for getting mad at my ex for acting as though he was the only who cared for me?
Brace yourselves, it's a long story and I am sorry for any typos, English is not my first language. Last summer I dated a guy that was studying to be a flight attendant with my best friend. At first he was sweet but as the course went on he had less time to hang out, he didn't answer anymore, he was stressed out and h...
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{ "description": "not wanting to take part on a charity event because I am afraid I cannot handle it emotionally", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not wanting to take part on a charity event because I am afraid I cannot handle it emotionally.
So, I'll try to keep it short. I'm part of a group of performers and we have been working for an association that rises funds for the families of hospitalized children. It's a good cause and I love it. We have helped them rising funds before but we have never interacted with the children or the hospital. Now they ha...
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{ "description": "smoking to help my cope with the loss of my dog", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for smoking to help my cope with the loss of my dog
My dog had to be euthanized this morning and I was holding his paw the whole way through, crying. I had been crying and hurting all day and wanted to numb the pain. I decided to smoke and feel terrible about it because I don’t think he would want me to forget about him and wants me to know how much he means to me.
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{ "description": "hoping my deceased uncle left me money in his will", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 10 }
AITA for hoping my deceased uncle left me money in his will.
Backstory, I have a very wealthy uncle whom I was never really close with (really only saw him at Christmas). He paid for my college tuition and bought me a new car which I can't explain how grateful I am for. However, he died at the end of last year and everything has been so hush hush. My mom and I don't know where ...
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{ "description": "calling my boyfriend's work", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 15 }
AITA For calling my boyfriend's work?
Today is an *anniversary* of when my boyfriend and I first started dating. I have some extra money so I decided to send my boyfriend a pizza today. He told me he was just getting back from lunch but I figured that if he didn't want it now he could hold onto it in his company fridge and bring it home, since we wanted t...
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{ "description": "going on a trip without my best friend, even though we planned it together", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA if I went on a trip without my best friend, even though we planned it together?
Sorry for the mobile formatting. So we are both 25/F and are turning 26 in October. Our birthdays are two days apart and we came up with the idea to travel to Los Angeles for our birthday week. While we were planning everything, we were both super excited and started naming things we would want to do. When it came to t...
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{ "description": "getting mad at my gf for not adding me on snapchat", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA - For getting mad at my gf for not adding me on snapchat?
We've been dating for a few months and known each other for a year. So this all started a month into dating when she made an instagram account and she didn't add me but told me to add her and like all her pictures, at the time I didn't think anything of it until a friend asked why she didn't follow me on Instagram. I a...
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{ "description": "wanting to end a friendship so abruptly", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting to end a friendship so abruptly?
The title isn’t exactly the best, but I have to vent somehow and I don’t have enough real life friends to get a diverse opinion. So, a few years ago, I played Destiny. And I was able to meet some friends on there. One of them is the friend I’m referring to, we’ll call him Frank. Thanks to Frank, I am now friends with ...
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{ "description": "calling out my ex-roommates' abuse of their puppy and paying partial rent in fives and ones as I moved out", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 9 }
AITA for calling out my ex-roommates' abuse of their puppy and paying partial rent in fives and ones as I moved out?
My gf Ali's coworker, Rob, offered to let us live in his spare room. We hadn't discussed with them how long we'd stay, but after January was finishing up Ali and I had decided we'd leave in late Feb. Rob was living with his gf, Les, and their 4 month old puppy, Lia. Before this we were at a party in their home and no...
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{ "description": "giving extremely mixed signals to my boyfriend", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for giving extremely mixed signals to my boyfriend?
Obligatory Throwaway account spiel and tl;dr will provided below after long exposition dump. Sorry in advance for all the words and format (I'm a mobile user degenerate) Anyways to preface my situation I have to give context in the form of explaining my past relationships. All have but one involved cheating, physical...
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{ "description": "ditching my friend for getting released from school an hour earlier", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I ditched my friend for getting released from school an hour earlier
Context: At my school in Grade 12 you get two spares which are free-periods. Since I completed two credits in one class I have a spare in Grade 11. The spare is in the afternoon, my school as a day 1 (odd days) and a day 2 (even days) so one week my spare would be period 4 (last period) on a Monday, Wednesday, and Fri...
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AITA if my good friend (M) repeatedly cheated on another friend of mine (F) and I haven't cut him out of my life?
I (F, late 20s) have been friends with this guy, let's call him Dick, for 13 years, he's one of my best friends and we regularly hang out as we're both in the same circle of friends. He isn't a bad guy but he clearly has issues when it comes to honesty, especially in romantic relationships. Dick is a pathological lia...
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{ "description": "asking her if her kids have the same father", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 79 }
AITA for asking her if her kids have the same father
I was at an event for my church and I met this younger girl with 2 kids who looked nothing alike. I asked who they were and she said they were her kids. We got to talking and I was curious so I asked her if her kids had the same father because they look nothing alike. She got upset and called me a misogynist and left. ...
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{ "description": "not sharing with my coworkers that I was going through a divorce", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not sharing with my coworkers that I was going through a divorce?
My coworkers seem very shocked that I didnt tell them I was getting divorced. Now that its finalized, I mention it when someone asks about my husband, that we are no longer together. I'm a private person and don't like to "air my dirty laundry" to coworkers/at work etc. However my coworkers seemed flabbergasted that I...
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{ "description": "being upset at my new employer and starting to look for new jobs", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being upset at my new employer and starting to look for new jobs?
I started the position I'm in now the 2nd week on January. From what I was initially told in the interview, I'd be busy all the time, and more importantly, I'd have my own projects to work on. It's been 6 weeks, and I'd say I spend over half of most of my days on Reddit or Pinterest. I have almost no work to do. On t...
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{ "description": "trying to ghost this boy", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for trying to ghost this boy?
There’s this boy I’ve know for about a year or 2 and he’s nice to me and all, buys me gifts, forgiving, etc. but he’s harboring a lot of hurt and he looks for a girl who is sentimental without realizing it because of the things he asks of me. I’ve grew up from a tough upbringing, battling depression from a young age, s...
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{ "description": "telling my parents I wont take care of them when they get old", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for telling my parents I wont take care of them when they get old?
First off, I love my parents and would do anything for them. We are very close, talk almost daily and see each other every weekend. BTW sorry for my english, it is not my native language. My parents are the same age, both had a rough childhood. Then they had kids and had a rough time (financialy) bringing us up. La...
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{ "description": "being frustrated", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for being frustrated?
So, story time. I've been able to drive since Valentine's day, this year. I'm 18, have no car, and am one of the only three people in my house who CAN drive. Notice the emphasises on can. Well, since May, I've gotten my first (shitty,minimum wage) retail job, and am attending college. Well, it'd be a good idea for m...
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{ "description": "getting mad that my fiance doesn't want to see a movie with me", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 12 }
AITA for getting mad that my fiance doesn't want to see a movie with me?
So my fiance and I rarely ever see movies with one another. He often sees movies with his friends quite often though, which is fine because they are mostly star wars movies and or marvel movies. I don't dislike them, just not caught up so I don't bother seeing them. Then when it comes to movies I want to see he doesn't...
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{ "description": "not contacting Amazon after receiving a refund on a product, for which I didn't ask for a refund", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not contacting Amazon after receiving a refund on a product, for which I didn't ask for a refund.
I just got an email from Amazon (and yes I'm pretty sure it's from amazon, because it ends in @amazon.com and it has specific account information that only I or Amazon could have) saying that they've successfully refunded my item and the money will be reverse charged to my credit card in 1-3 days. Here's the problem: ...
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{ "description": "thinking there is nothing wrong with feeding zoo animals live preys", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for thinking there is nothing wrong with feeding zoo animals live preys?
Some years ago I was with my family in a zoo and "luckily" for us it was feeding time for the jaguars. At the time they where living in small enclosures while their habitat was being worked on, so when there where rabbits released in the cage it was pretty easy to see the whole hunting process and to be honest it was q...
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AITA - friend was mad we didn’t make him a third wheel on a double date
An old friend, let’s call him Dave, always stays at our house when he’s in town, and leaves it until the very last minute to ask if he can stay. It’s always when a friend group birthday/event is coming up that he will wait until the day before to ask if he can stay... even though he’s had a month and half since he rec...
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{ "description": "letting a girl ruin my first year of college", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for letting a girl ruin my first year of college?
Context: I had a girlfriend for 3 years, we had a sort of rocky beginning, we broke up, got back together, sort of one of those kinds of relationships. But regardless we loved each other and always would come back (I guess we were just too young and didn't realize what was staring us right in the face). The last time w...
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{ "description": "getting tattoos against my parents wishes", "pronormative_score": 15, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for getting tattoos against my parents wishes?
Before I get into this just a bit of context - I’m about to turn 19 in less than two weeks, work full time, and still live with my parents - I’m planning on going to college next year having taken this year to better myself as a person. I love tattoos, and my father has one on his chest, which is partially why I thi...
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{ "description": "moving in with my gf and leaving my mother and mentally retarded brother alone", "pronormative_score": 27, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for moving in with my gf and leaving my mother and mentally retarded brother alone?
My gf (24) and I(24) decided to move in together, 3 kilometers away from my house. I live with my mom and a mentally ill brother. Mom doesn't have a car, so shopping and crowded places are a trouble for her since my brother freaks out when there are more then 10 people he doesn't know. Everywhere she goes, he must go w...
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{ "description": "not defending my dad while he yelled at A Bank Employee \"for me\"", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For Not Defending My Dad While He Yelled At A Bank Employee "For Me"?
So this just happened and I'm really heated so I thought I should let it out here, anyway... I got my card stolen just yesterday, so I decided to call my bank and get it replaced since their online requests weren't working for some reason. I put the call on speaker phone, reasons being that I'm fairly young and have...
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{ "description": "not wanting to pick my sister up from the airport", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for not wanting to pick my sister up from the airport?
My sister is flying into New Orleans this Sunday at 5PM. My parents called me today at work asking if I was free Sunday to pick her up, which they already agreed to do on their way back from Houston. I told them I don’t see why not but let me talk to my girlfriend, who I’m living with, just in case there’s something I ...
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{ "description": "kicking my parents out of my property", "pronormative_score": 157, "contranormative_score": 9 }
WIBTA if I kicked my parents out of my property?
I [43] have a difficult/complicated relationship with my mother [61] and my father [65] who don’t really agree with my choice of profession. My profession, while disagreeable to some, makes me a good amount of money, allowing me to basically take care of both of my siblings [17] & [18] education and living situatio...
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{ "description": "stopping a potential rape", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for stopping a potential rape
My good friend who is a girl was really drunk and was being hit on aggressively and was about to go home with a guy with suspicious intentions. I overheard him saying how he couldn't wait to do her with his friends and she was drunk so itd be easy. I wouldnt let her go and the next morning I received a long text h...
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{ "description": "making a joke about Vegan Chili", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 10 }
AITA for making a joke about Vegan Chili?
Chili, short for chili con carne, literally means "chili's with meat". It looked like a great oxymoron. AITA? [https://imgur.com/gallery/ZQfF918](https://imgur.com/gallery/ZQfF918)
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{ "description": "offering to buy a record off my friend at half price after she bought it and then realised her record player was broken", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for offering to buy a record off my friend at half price after she bought it and then realised her record player was broken?
I use the term friend loosely because I don’t know her that well, however, she decided to buy a $50 record despite having no previous experience with records and no idea if the one she had at home even works.. I had contemplated buying this record for a while now and saw this as an opportunity for both of us because I ...
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AITA for my annoyance at helping my neighbor (a mom of toddlers) with grocery shopping?
I used to go grocery shopping every once in a while with my friend/neighbor that had a husband and 2 toddlers while I am single with no kids. As a result, she would have more groceries to buy and I would be done a lot sooner. At that point, I wanted to just walk alongside her and chat but she would start asking me if I...
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{ "description": "being upset my dad is hiding his cancer", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for being upset my dad is hiding his cancer?
TLDR: My dad has hid his medical issues for years and I have to brow beat him for any info. Found out he has major skin cancer. He told mother not to tell me. I'm extremely upset and frustrated and haven't said anything. My mother and father have been divorced since I was 13. It was a good thing. My little sister died...
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{ "description": "kind of raising my voice at a student", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for kind of raising my voice at a student?
On Wednesday I had to give an orientation for the lab I am TAing for. My advisor is the one who makes the rules, not I. One of the rules is that the lab calculations don’t have to be typed, but if legibility becomes a problem then we will move to typing the calculations. One student asked if it were gonna be a student ...
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{ "description": "wanting my partner to pop his zits", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 13 }
AITA For wanting my partner to pop his zits?
Hi there folks, be as brutal as you need. ​ My partner and I have dated for 2 years, 1 long distance and 1 physically together. ​ Background information on me, the potential asshole: I am obsessed with picking at bumps in my skin, if there's a zit I'd rather have a deep gash bleeding than any ...
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{ "description": "not wanting to lend my dad money", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to lend my dad money?
Hi Reddit. So here's a little background into my family. I moved to America with my two siblings and mom when I was 4 and my dad stayed in Asia because he had a business there. He provided money for our family up until I turned 16, when his business started doing poorly which forced my mother to stop being a full-...
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{ "description": "hacking somebody's unused account, and not wanting to give it back", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 17 }
AITA for hacking somebody's unused account, and not wanting to give it back?
**Introduction:** In 2011-2013 I was a member of a fairly large Minecraft server. Me and many others made a lot of good memories in our time there. Eventually the owner had to shut down the server. The owner was never popular among the players as he was rarely online and the volunteer moderators pretty much ran the sho...
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AITA My husband's cat is vomiting everywhere and I want to have him put down
AITA My husband had this cat long before we met. Been married almost 10 years, the cat is 15. The cat has got some sort of stomach issue where he vomits constantly. Today he vomited on our bed, and I'm fairly sure he urinated on it (cant prove it was him but it had to have been some animal, we have a few). I'm sick ...
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{ "description": "slut-shaming my gf for showering", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 20 }
AITA for slut-shaming my gf for showering?
This is the exchange I (43 m) find on an old cell phone of my girl (46f). Dude: (3:51pm) Hey “OP’s G” I need to send something today if there’s any chance I can swing by and grab a bag of that be some awesome I think. OP’s G: (4:08pm) How soon can you be here? Dude: (4:09pm) twenty min OPs G: (4:10pm) Cool. I’...
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{ "description": "not punishing my daughter the way my boyfriend would have liked", "pronormative_score": 925, "contranormative_score": 29 }
AITA for not punishing my daughter the way my boyfriend would have liked?
Today my boyfriend and 4yo daughter went to get a haircut together. My boyfriend has beautiful curls that I adore and he lets it grow pretty long. It never gets length it gets more and more curly. This time, he let it grow out way more than he normally has and became a bit self conscious about it, so he wanted to get i...
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{ "description": "not giving my friends my donuts", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not giving my friends my donuts?
A week ago I bought six donuts during my school lunch to take home and keep as a snack. I had a bag, and one of my friends walking with another group saw. He immediately asked for the donuts and so did his group. They kept begging me and I kept replying with no. The next day him and some other people were constantly ha...
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{ "description": "breaking \"fake Girl Code\"", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for breaking “Fake Girl Code”
Background: So many of you guys here are probably familiar with girl/guy code (which I’ll just call GC from now on). In case you aren’t aware GC is the agreement between friends that if a friend has dated someone that someone is off limits. My group of friends decided one day that not only past relationships are cover...
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{ "description": "wanting an hour to rest after I get home from work", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for wanting an hour to rest after I get home from work?
Girlfriend and I had our daughter last August. I did everything I could to make pregnancy easier for her even agreeing to some completely ridiculous requests such as sleeping on the couch and only using the bathroom on whichever floor she wasn’t on. I was happy to try to make it even a little easier on her. After s...
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