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"description": "breaking up with my girlfriend for secretly keeping in contact with an ex after saying she wouldn't",
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} | AITA for breaking up with my girlfriend for secretly keeping in contact with an ex after saying she wouldn’t? | I’ve (25m) been with my gf(22f) for 3 months official, seeing each other for 7 mos before then.
When we got together, i told her one of my boundaries is i dont date girls still friends with their exes or are still in contact with anyone with whom they have sexual history. She assured me she feels the same; however sh... | HISTORICAL | {
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QDoncpicxu0g9VBmgE4icQHq5XpAcksW | b3ccyi | {
"description": "leaving my boyfriend of 3 years \"because it was long distance?\"",
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} | AITA for leaving my boyfriend of 3 years "because it was long distance?" | Hello everyone, this is my first post to Reddit. I've been lurking on this sub for a while and have been wanting to ask this for a while because I still feel bad about it.
So, context. I (22F) had been dating my boyfriend (28M) for about 3 years, basically since I started college. We got to know each other and were fl... | HISTORICAL | {
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TI8jEBgAQ5NyvJEOLQn9cHzKjKgRkuYY | 9zgls6 | {
"description": "saying not wanting to hang out with her",
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} | AITA- For saying not wanting to hang out with her?? | Yo guys so check it, a friend of mines just messaged me to hang out with me, i honestly felt this weird gut feeling like i should not be around her, and i told her nah. I know this girl for a long while and shes just like to mess around with men and complains about men, and im just like " no imma leave", i didnt want t... | HISTORICAL | {
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CZ2PubgDkB8NvGbiqleJtVE3maxEiBEc | b37au6 | {
"description": "seeking closure with a recent ex over a breakup",
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} | WIBTA for seeking closure with a recent ex over a breakup? | I’m not exactly sure how to word this, so forgive me. Basically, my ex (we’ll call her Alyss) and I had been dating for around 6 months and she broke up with me very suddenly recently.
Everything seemed to be going well, but some background might be helpful. Alyss has some ongoing health issues that affect her life, a... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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xOSgIgOhnXm2zoShGgzzhqP4zpBX0u6O | b1p4a2 | {
"description": "getting Annoyed with my co-worker",
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} | WIBTA for Getting Annoyed with my Co-worker. | So Recently my Co-worker in the bottle shop i work at as stopped doing any of the stocking and Icing up.
Her reasoning being that she is attempting to get Pregnant Via IVF, and she doesn't want to disrupt the Potential pregnancy. I have asked her twice now if she could JUST restock the shelves and i'll ice up as the ... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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mpCMDoW9VUzq7W1RkquADhJvyJ8yhWXE | 9v5m4n | {
"description": "breaking up a corrupt relationship in the way that I did",
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} | AITA for breaking up a corrupt relationship in the way that I did? | Disclaimer: This took place about 6 years ago when I was in high school
​
When I was a sophomore or junior in high school, there was this "lesbian" couple I would sometimes see. I was acquainted with them, but I never spent much time with them or anything. I thought of girl A as more of a friend. She was h... | HISTORICAL | {
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UH5GAP9jQ43rDaObGB1nY9Y1FzpDu3zA | at602v | {
"description": "using a wheelchair, but not dating someone in a wheelchair",
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} | WIBTA - I use a wheelchair, but wouldn't date someone in a wheelchair. | Hi guys, just wondering, would I be the asshole if I didn't want to date someone in a wheelchair, despite my own use of one. When I say I wouldn't date another wheelchair user I understand that an able bodied person should be under no obligation to date me, rightfully so. I just wouldn't date someone else like me for p... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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KuEo2G5DO2QDErJH3Pa0mQwGj5VpzOLN | aqczm6 | {
"description": "asking about the father of my classmate's child",
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} | AITA for asking about the father of my classmate's child | One of my classmates has a 1 year old that she had last year before our program started. I'd heard that it was an "oops" baby with her boyfriend. For background, I also knew from talking to her that her boyfriend was also Jewish and they have been together since college (so 2.5 years at least).
We had a departmental e... | HISTORICAL | {
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uQRoc5XJkrMWu4Ctm8fo3aFKRPnOCeC8 | b0cyo6 | {
"description": "causing a bully to get suspended",
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} | AITA for causing a bully to get suspended? | BF= Best Friend
B= Bully
T=Teacher
This happened about 6 years ago in my second last year in primary school, near enough to summer.
It happened out on the yard with no teachers supervising (A bit of a dumb move considering the fact that at the time, there were inspectors checking local schools in the area) outside... | HISTORICAL | {
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ZsAQdj5h8JDcUV0NToJgrfE6qctXROMW | aijdoc | {
"description": "refusing to makeout with my boyfriend because he has pink eye",
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} | AITA for refusing to makeout with my boyfriend because he has pink eye? | We got into a heated argument because its our anniversary tomorrow and he has pink eye (IDK if its bacterial or viral, he doesnt know either). I told him ive never had pink eye and that it sounded gross. I searched it up and it said it was contagious, automatically I was like no way josé and told him I wasnt gonna be c... | HISTORICAL | {
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pGFsDW1Qa0C2y2oC7XXm8sYhCe45SEPu | azj4yq | {
"description": "forcing my mom to sleep in her own room",
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} | AITA by forcing my mom to sleep in her own room. | Hi Reddit!
Posting from my throwaway account.
So, my mom is generally a very nice person. My dad divorced us a few years ago, yet he does his Fatherly duties. We still hang out and Father/Son bonding things together. I love them both to the moon. My mom currently has a boyfriend, who is like a second father to me.
... | HISTORICAL | {
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JPDWS7NqrFwnYwGCtbwc3KlBBR1q7Kma | b42myb | {
"description": "siding with my parents and not my sister",
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} | AITA for siding with my parents and not my sister? | About a year ago my sister had her baby and after living with her child and boyfriend for a couple of months in their apartment my parents offered to swap them my brothers larger apartment (that my dad bought for him) with hers since it's a lot bigger and is located in an environment better suited for children in my ci... | HISTORICAL | {
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tj2VPvkT92OIOJ8uUUT62ICm0SIeHN8p | a91d9u | {
"description": "not inviting my parents to my son's college graduation",
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} | AITA for not inviting my parents to my son's college graduation | My son graduated magna cum laude from college a couple of weeks ago, and my wife left me to invite my parents and she invited hers. Because we live closer to her parents, they rode with us in two cars for the 3 hour trip south.
My relationship with my parents is at best, "conveniently distant". They are not involve... | HISTORICAL | {
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snalSVjsDqz0UB9OHYbUhz1gWsAGjQbs | axa6hg | {
"description": "being upset my SO's sister is coming to stay at our house without anyone consulting me",
"pronormative_score": 5,
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} | AITA for being upset my SO's sister is coming to stay at our house without anyone consulting me? | Ok, so some background: about one week ago my SO told me her sister is coming to visit to see their father (we live in the same city and her sister lives far away). So she arrives and only then they wonder where will she sleep since my father-in-law's home is already packed up with family members (and already was 1 wee... | HISTORICAL | {
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I1fvc3V2MsGOh86uvyuoRlAvxjMYx0MG | a3gkji | {
"description": "not wanting to pay $200 for post-reception party",
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} | AITA for not wanting to pay $200 for post-reception party | I was asked to be in a college friend's wedding, about 4 months ago. I haven't really spoken to or spent any time with this person since graduating 2+ years ago, but accepted nonetheless as I know they don't have a lot of close friends. I knew this meant I would need to purchase/rent the suit they picked out and pay fo... | HISTORICAL | {
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potOoftUarK2HDN82UH6pszC70QWoHdi | b2xng6 | {
"description": "ignoring my mother",
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} | AITA for ignoring my mother? | About 13 years ago she divorced my dad, and then he died 3 months after she moved out. I was about 13 years old.
Mother has spent her whole life dealing with depression and so have I. She's been married 5 times. She spent the better part of my adolescence abusing me verbally, cursing my name which I share with my fat... | HISTORICAL | {
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WWk35ax91slBdqTGlrSFsxO7g6K22H95 | afnfxl | {
"description": "cutting her off",
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} | WIBTA if I cut her off? | I have a friend who I would’ve considered one of my best friends if you asked me about a year ago but recently it’s been going downhill. Let’s call her RF.
Let me explain the 2nd most recent incident - my friendship group decided in December to have a bit of festivities among us and do a Secret Santa. There are five ... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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fDR4DrnNd6lxSx36acl0filgs801nIjd | au1ya0 | {
"description": "walking out on my friends",
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} | AITA for walking out on my friends? | CONTEXT: Ever since I (M,15) was a little kid I’ve been bullied extensively and I never had any real friends. I grew up with extreme trust issues and to this day I’m constantly scared that I’m the odd one out in every friendship group I’m in.
I’m now a Sophomore in high school and I attend a youth group every Tuesday... | HISTORICAL | {
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mbbCMfXd8pqsa0TarYSsQwcQ79NbKEzu | a4fe3d | {
"description": "not wanting my divorced parents to come together in the same house this year on Christmas morning",
"pronormative_score": 5,
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} | AITA for not wanting my divorced parents to come together in the same house this year on Christmas morning? | So my parents are recently divorced, and i have a pretty terrible relationship with my mom. The gist of it is she didnt believe me when i tried telling her i was depressed years ago and instead of helping me i just got punished for it. She took away my bass and bass lessons until i “cheered up”. Shit like that. I also ... | HISTORICAL | {
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PQhn5rDePER5oxp2REvn9fGnUEacrCgw | aryuui | {
"description": "not wanting my girlfriend to use her phone while we're outside together",
"pronormative_score": 8,
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} | AITA for not wanting my girlfriend to use her phone while we're outside together? | My girlfriend of one year does this whenever there's only the two of us spending time with each other, ever since when we first started dating. She would look at her phone and her chats with her other friends every couple of minutes, heck, sometimes even when there are no new messages.
I on the other hand, almost nev... | HISTORICAL | {
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OAniCQdQYvEkfw6sRk2F0KJpSXxZHk68 | ba8fee | null | AITA, as a non-black person, for enjoying movies in theaters specifically when there are a lot of black audience members? | I'm talking about when I go to a popular movie with a big crowd and there are a lot of black movie goers who like to comment and laugh loudly. These nights are unforgettably amazing.
I still remember everything about the night I went to Cabin in the Woods. It was opening night in Chicago. There were so many black mov... | HISTORICAL | {
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ABfXnQmlTfbPYIYOOjL3daNFSRnhdeJN | amtu3n | {
"description": "being upset I didn't get a Christmas gift",
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} | AITA for being upset I didn't get a Christmas gift? | Happened several years ago. The cousins range in age from late 30s to early 20s. At the time, I was probably 30, my wife is 6 years younger. Because the cousins are all adults, the family decided to only buy gifts for the youngest kids, all of which are less than 10 years old. So far, no problems.
Family Christmas nig... | HISTORICAL | {
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APp19SpASkQZoY2UL9OTj7ZhSBvur1Gx | b88bd5 | {
"description": "breaking up with my gf through message/phone",
"pronormative_score": 3,
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} | WIBTA if I broke up with my gf through message/phone? | So for context: we have been together for a bit over 5 years now. I’m fresh outta college and she has just moved out to a town almost 1000km away from me. A flight so see her costs more than 100 dollars and I still don’t have a job.
Furthermore she has more 5 years to go and wants me to move in with her, I have other ... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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} | AUTHOR | {
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} | WRONG |
PuKYI63ajInDSa5Q58wFo1sRFjBLrb6P | a40fhe | {
"description": "telling strangers on the internet to shut the fuck up",
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} | AITA for telling strangers on the internet to shut the fuck up? | For example, replying to the facebook comment section on an article posted by a news agency. I used to write long winded replys on mostly controversial but also mundane topics. I used to try to reply with supporting evidence, noting why the other person might be wrong, or misguided, or are misleading, misquoting or are... | HISTORICAL | {
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"RIGHT": 1,
"WRONG": 6
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ZsU2U8XJ1pNx5zt6PKEgT1RelKeOl8UX | aqoxji | {
"description": "wanting to kick my roommate out",
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} | AITA for wanting to kick my roommate out? | Hi,
​
I recently moved to a city a few months ago. I've brought with me two friends from where I've moved. Now, the city we moved to is pretty expensive. So we decided to split a 2 bedroom between the three of us. Myself and "T" both have our own rooms, while "S" does not. S is in the living room.
&#x... | HISTORICAL | {
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AjK4hbkmFrCnzZ0SBN6UUPsbysP7apiA | aosblv | {
"description": "telling a girl my close friend is hooking up with that she's just going to end up hurt again",
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} | AITA for telling a girl my close friend is hooking up with that she’s just going to end up hurt again? | Backstory: Good friend of mine (27M) was hanging out with this chick (26F) on and off for over a year. She really liked him, but he didn’t like her enough to want to date her. He was happy to hook up with her and get her to buy him stuff. He brought her around enough that I got to know her some... nice girl, working si... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | WRONG |
dKICMfiWJvwsBfwZkPvielUiznqLdkJa | b52nhi | {
"description": "letting a decade long friendship end over a disagreement about racism",
"pronormative_score": 3,
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} | AITA for letting a decade long friendship end over a disagreement about racism? | This happened a few months ago and I'm curious about the judgment this sub has on it.
The basics of it are I'm white and he is black. We disagree on that whether or not black people can be racist. He said no and I said of course they can, anyone can be racist.
It lead to a fairly heated argument and he eventually tol... | HISTORICAL | {
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yXlKxwcQJb6LLSRsUOF9eWpyvJrOH5Xl | apax4l | {
"description": "counting my wife's acne medication as a non-necessity",
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} | AITA for counting my wife's acne medication as a non-necessity? | My wife and I are working on planning out our finances because we've been overspending. We were making a list of all our necessary expenses that we absolutely can't cut, and my wife told me to add her acne medication. I told her that isn't an essential and she can use the money allotted to her for non-essential stuff f... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | AUTHOR | {
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Mqpft6srHYNu7D9tz7rAqFJFJvdPb8NI | b5mcvb | {
"description": "making a priest scandal joke",
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} | AITA for making a priest scandal joke | My wife and I live in a magical neighborhood where everybody knows everybody. Mostly everyone is friendly, and we have some neighbors that would truly qualify as friends - like the ones in this story. We've known these neighbors for at least 2 years, participate in activities together, have each other over for parties,... | HISTORICAL | {
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XQhCGjFAKPj2no68gnKt4iG6ZXB7acGf | apm14j | {
"description": "telling my crush that she is horrible for judging a man's penis size",
"pronormative_score": 1,
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} | AITA for telling my crush that she is horrible for judging a man’s penis size? | So I’m a 27 year old male and I’m talking to a 36 year old female. We’ve been talking for about 2 weeks now and we haven’t met up yet because she lives very far away. We’ve texted and talked and FaceTimed and it’s always been great. Today I made a joke and she said something that really bothers me and I’d like some inp... | HISTORICAL | {
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JdGXcmOaaDmMRGx118r8aDc7200A4EYD | avm5fj | {
"description": "leaving neutral feedback on this Ebay seller",
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} | AITA for leaving neutral feedback on this Ebay seller | I ordered an item that didn’t arrive after 1 week of the estimated delivery time so I took it upon myself to report a case of an item not delivered.
I sent a polite message asking if they could double check that they sent the item or if it has tracking. The seller didn’t reply for 3 days (granted, they’re a pretty big... | HISTORICAL | {
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owTiqGfHbToC4j8e2PkTdbFhLk7h4GuB | 9t4g7m | {
"description": "telling a friend to take responsibility for her actions",
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} | AITA for telling a friend to take responsibility for her actions? | Hey, thanks in advance for taking the time to read this.
About a month ago a lost a good friend because of what I told her.
​
It's a long story, but shes taking an extra year of high school to finish up her courses since her move from the states to Canada put her behind. She was the Stage Manager (kind of... | HISTORICAL | {
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2i2aJTqfcNfRiicybOprkLY6VB3mrZy1 | atxwfm | {
"description": "rejecting a 'Suicidal' girl",
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} | AITA For Rejecting a 'Suicidal' Girl? | I know the title makes me sound like a real dirt bag but bare with me, also I'm on mobile so bare with me x2.
So last week this girl approached me, let's call her Amy, and said she liked me and if I wanted to go anytime. I tried to be as respectful as possible but the truth was I just wasn't interested in her, so I le... | HISTORICAL | {
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MHu3sVpO9oprtMUoF2VXS2lgPAnTdbeD | anbz24 | {
"description": "giving my niece a pet fish and then taking it back",
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} | AITA for giving my niece a pet fish and then taking it back | So me and my brother are on very good terms, and I decided to invite him and his family over for dinner. My brothers friendship means a lot to me, and I would do anything for him.
Time Skip to after dinner, and my brothers daughter comes over to my 60 gallon fish tank and starts banging on the aquarium glass, resulti... | HISTORICAL | {
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CPWJF5OuF17e8AtF5dhlZk1tNQdiTyHK | ajz53n | null | AITA-Tried to be polite in a long line but ended up straight up telling two woman to get to the back of the line. | So earlier this evening my SO were in a long line to see a comedy roast battle. A member of our family is the current champ so we were obviously excited to see him preform. We were some where in the middle of a 100 person line up in a crowded hallway. When we got maybe 15 people away from the door 2 woman approached me... | HISTORICAL | {
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DkU3G74PO2e5BUKevPnlGlc6k6n7Bl8m | azkl9y | {
"description": "not wanting my mom to open my mail",
"pronormative_score": 13,
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} | AITA for not wanting my mom to open my mail? | My mom always opens my mail before even telling me that I have any. I don’t live with her anymore. If it was just junk mail I wouldn’t care but she opens things from my college, social security, tax information, etc. I get several checks in the mail every year for financial aid and scholarships so it bothers me that sh... | HISTORICAL | {
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PmrtQzKGSlOd5QfdhydWanafpAg59Fht | b5ge06 | {
"description": "(jokingly) calling an 18 year old out for dating a 14 year old? everyone got mad at me",
"pronormative_score": 137,
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} | AITA for (jokingly) calling an 18 year old out for dating a 14 year old? Everyone got mad at me. | This happened like two hours ago, and although it’s not really a big deal I am curious if I was the one in the wrong in this situation.
I’m currently on a school trip with several classmates. We’re relatively good friends and we make fun of eachother a ton (luckily for the most part everyone can dish and take).
One o... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | RIGHT |
PGaPqvTG8Gg4GF0n0NKFCuAxlBBjprrx | ayk0g3 | {
"description": "not getting a gift for my cousin's wedding",
"pronormative_score": 4,
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} | AITA - For not getting a gift for my cousin's wedding? | Some backstory:
I'm 23, have a full-time job, and recently moved back to my hometown so I am currently living with my parents.
My cousin (3 years older) is getting married this summer.
I have been invited to the wedding on my parents' invitation with no plus 1.
Am I the asshole if I dont buy her a wedding present?... | HISTORICAL | {
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nc82L9n8uXU2JFbfZiTSSIEFlvSkwd9A | ailk51 | {
"description": "telling family I live with I got kicked out of my house? also tw",
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} | AITA for telling family i live with i got kicked out of my house? Also TW | Okay so here's the tea and strap in I'm sorry it's kinda long. I don't have much connection to my bio dad bc he has drug issues and my second dad I don't talk to at all because he blocked me on everything when I was 13 and I found out he only talked to me to avoid paying child support. My third dad was great, untill hi... | HISTORICAL | {
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IUQVtOFGvzjknaBQ02NQtbihjehbaUKF | apv8db | {
"description": "making a tinder after my girlfriend wanted a break/to break up",
"pronormative_score": 32,
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} | AITA for making a tinder after my girlfriend wanted a break/to break up? | My girlfriend and I broke up, she wanted to not me, because she didn't know how to deal with her brother leaving to go to the Air Force. We still very much cared for each other, but didn't know if we would get back together.
So I went out with friends to drink away my sorrows and be around people who care about me, I ... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | RIGHT |
W3sKHGefMuQDkDRW88dLd9XRcEHW1Bjk | b2t9a0 | {
"description": "wanting privacy in a shared bathroom",
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} | AITA for wanting privacy in a shared bathroom? | Background info if it’s relevant: I’m in my first trimester, hormonal, my husband and I have been married two years but together much longer. I don’t normally come to Reddit for relationship advice but I wanted an unbiased opinion.
My husband has always had few boundaries- he leaves the doors open when he poops, bathe... | HISTORICAL | {
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UFh09IYT0MEktKo3YMwSeLGLG4fxTH4m | b6ynln | {
"description": "wanting to cut out a toxic family member at the risk of other family members feelings",
"pronormative_score": 2,
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} | AITA for wanting to cut out a toxic family member at the risk of other family members feelings? | So I have a family member who is rather manipulative and untrustworthy. I will refer to her as TFM (toxic family member.)
As an example of her manipulative behavior, when I got married and TFM’s mother, who is in absolutely no way related to us, wasn’t invited to the wedding, TFM pitched a fit to her father ON my wed... | HISTORICAL | {
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0QqSRSXIR6B6VHvpnkrlJK5a4B6wsJix | ag44pj | null | AITA After This Past Situation? I'm Convinced I Am. | AITA in this situation that happened a couple months ago? This is somewhat different from the usual posts on here as the conflict was already resolved, but I still hate myself for the fact that it happened and I came here for some outside input on everything.
A couple months back I made friends with a student that jus... | HISTORICAL | {
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ausBOCLrygMR6w013Lv6FPo3fTJ883k8 | 9wqe3f | {
"description": "taking my alcoholic mother's dog away from her",
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} | AITA for taking my alcoholic mother's dog away from her? | TL;DR I took my drunk mom’s dog away. Now that she’s sober, she wants the dog back.
My mother is a recovering alcoholic. She had long stretches of sobriety until I left for college in 2009, and her and I have an honest, no-bullshit relationship. She is a binge drinker, and her binges last weeks and months before she... | HISTORICAL | {
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vVWOm7bZSEKNYJ1cZX8LkEbFCfFCfDCp | 9zatg5 | {
"description": "not treating my moms boyfriend like my own grandparents",
"pronormative_score": 3,
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} | AITA for not treating my moms boyfriend like my own grandparents? | A few things
- I’m 18
- My mom has been with this guy for almost a year and he’s a great guy. He’s more like a friend than a father figure to me though because he came into my life at a later time.
- He does not have kids of his own.
- I only met his parents like 3 months ago and have only actually seen them like 4... | HISTORICAL | {
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9ms3UCW8FqpyjwwUosCxsu65DY1hSNwa | azgfzn | {
"description": "going out on St Paddy's day even though my fiancee is pregnant",
"pronormative_score": 10,
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} | WIBTA for going out on St Paddy's day even though my fiancee is pregnant? | My fiance is 3.5 months pregnant and my friend asked if we could have lunch and then my fiancee could go home while my friend and I drink for a while.
One of my friends feels that this is unbelievably inconsiderate towards my fiancee.
To be clear this isn't something I have done since she got pregnant. I could list a... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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vtjuCjxCIvqxforOCVOOQgdiBzddq8fo | ab2sod | {
"description": "cheating on my exam",
"pronormative_score": 3,
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} | AITA for cheating on my exam? | AITA for thinking that cheating on my exam is my business?
Throwaway account because I can.
A little bit of background. I was recently enrolled in a history class that was necessary to achieve my associates degree. I have never had any interest in history and as a result have really struggled with it therefore I don'... | HISTORICAL | {
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fVMg3lKjhwLOdmYGniRRlA7rCrl9VlCo | b2rmf2 | {
"description": "thinking my wifes internet friends shouldnt call her pet names",
"pronormative_score": 8,
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} | AITA for thinking my wifes internet friends shouldnt call her pet names | So I just got into a fight with my wife about her internet friends, they call her all sorts of names that you would say to a girlfriend. I explained that it hurts my feelings but she said its not a big deal and that they all know shes married. Why would you call a married woman sweetie or babe? It doesnt make sense to ... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 8,
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Snw19XHPgtjtTJcakqPj3GNpqhLifViS | apiq33 | {
"description": "telling a Guy at Work to not Waste Food",
"pronormative_score": 3,
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} | AITA For Telling a Guy at Work to Not Waste Food? | My work has a great perk of providing lunch items for free. Salads, stuff to make sandwiches, frozen crap, etc...
Last Friday when I'm coming in to start my day, I see a guy take 6 lunchable protein packs out of the fridge. If you are not familiar with these things, they are meat, cheese, and nuts or a chocolate snac... | HISTORICAL | {
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"NOBODY": 0,
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} | EVERYBODY | {
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JK4O6W4lJCMK9WRsbqfaiNf7t4JxuDsK | an4wpc | null | AITA - A minor fiasco | Alright so it started a few months ago; At one point I was somewhat curious regarding my appearance in relation to the general public and had an interest in what I could do in order to improve so I posted in one of the various (RateMe) subreddits available; Little did I know after posting I would receive many ratings o... | HISTORICAL | {
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XZ2YWbyRG4hCk5FlPt0d56Ll7J8TMq54 | a5cn0f | {
"description": "getting delivery when I don't want to go grocery shopping alone",
"pronormative_score": 6,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for getting delivery when I don't want to go grocery shopping alone? | I will try to be as impartial as possible.
I hate going to the grocery store alone, it's stressful and exhausting and honestly one of my least favorite things to do. So I usually try to go with my fiancee and when he's not feeling up for it and there's no food in the house I use my personal allowance (we each get a we... | HISTORICAL | {
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HvQmWxDNevZU9IDVwr4QElwPHirOfH0x | ah6f4b | {
"description": "not wanting my girlfriend to go to dinner with another guy",
"pronormative_score": 8,
"contranormative_score": 1
} | AITA for not wanting my girlfriend to go to dinner with another guy? | This year for Valentine’s Day I (19 M) had plans to go to dinner with my girlfriend (19 F), then spend the following day with her. However, I had to cancel with her due to having to unexpectedly travel with some family for a few days, which of course overlaps with our plans. We talked it over and everything seemed fine... | HISTORICAL | {
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"RIGHT": 8,
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8A7U4GCbl6Vw3dcqv7j4FmmGKE8UMuk5 | aljvf0 | {
"description": "telling a classmate to reconsider her career in medicine",
"pronormative_score": 3,
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} | AITA for telling a classmate to reconsider her career in medicine? | I’m a grad student in a master of public health program. It’s an accelerated program (one year instead of two) and virtually everyone is going off to medical school once we finish here.
In class today, we were discussing cultural differences - and what we might consider “moral” or “immoral” and how a lot of it is base... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | AUTHOR | {
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Us5YqMr8ZVIFroKVraEm866vfPGrIqRV | allfol | {
"description": "wanting my husband to get a better job",
"pronormative_score": 6,
"contranormative_score": 1
} | AITA because I want my husband to get a better job... | I'm pregnant. I lost my job because the pregnancy made me very sick (a lot of vomiting, migraines, anemia symptoms) and I missed too many days. My income accounted for half of the household income. I struggle to find a job that I can do, and a company willing to hire me. (Who would hire someone that plans to go on ma... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | NOBODY | {
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iLQWcfUqfMyYDuWGHhqPy2dmz91Snr71 | a0ozj8 | {
"description": "not wanting to plan on taking care of my mother in the future",
"pronormative_score": 3,
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} | AITA for not wanting to plan on taking care of my mother in the future? | So I live with my SO's parents and the mother takes care of my SO's 90 year old grandmother. Like completely. 100%. Cooks for her, cleans for her, drives her everywhere, pays for everything for her, etcetera. I see in her that she hates doing it and she physically is not in a place that she really has the ability to do... | HISTORICAL | {
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pUB5i6MMRl8XTo8WyXS6UhdyTYNtZykX | b76d45 | {
"description": "getting upset with my mother",
"pronormative_score": 5,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for getting upset with my mother? | So I'm 35 and my mother is visiting my wife and I at our house the last few days. This is the first time she's been to our house on her own since we have lived here over the past 3 years. I love her but she's the kind of person who loves to gossip and seemingly makes a hobby of talking about other people live's. I can'... | HISTORICAL | {
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0s8aXJ4i9DYgGJ3KhZh6f6lYNlXoJEGD | a28pfv | {
"description": "thinking my colleague should be fired",
"pronormative_score": 1,
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} | AITA for thinking my colleague should be fired? | So context:
We work in a small office and I do the first part of a job, my colleague (we'll call her L) does the second, sends back to me for review then I send on to clients. So we are a team and both are reliant on the other for keeping a good progress. Shes been with the company about 4/5 months and its been OK so... | HISTORICAL | {
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JWPHl5QlsFOpteIsQOhrds4CH5MfJ3D8 | aywck1 | {
"description": "not unclogging a shower drain",
"pronormative_score": 2,
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} | AITA for not unclogging a shower drain? | I live in a 3br/2ba house with another roommate and we were looking to rent out the master. A friend was having issues in her house and asked to move in, so it seemed like a solid fit.
Prior to moving in, we explained that the shower in the master was draining slowly from a previous r/m. She was aware of the issue but... | HISTORICAL | {
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uSBxEuAd4peELIH3Ba0jcOy39t24ob1Z | 9zut8m | {
"description": "setting a limit on giving Christmas gifts to my children from their grandparents",
"pronormative_score": 3,
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} | AITA for setting a limit on giving Christmas gifts to my children from their grandparents. | AITA for setting a limit on giving Christmas gifts to my children (2Y & NB) from their grandparents.
We have asked every year that please do not buy our children lots of presents. We limit it to 4 presents where as an outfit (Top, bottom, socks) counts as 1 gift and the rest of the items (toys, books, shoes, etc.... | HISTORICAL | {
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UHIexHMfnK7bpjM6W1r7stiGW3cgXFnM | afr6i9 | {
"description": "wanting to take temporary custody of my nephews",
"pronormative_score": 6,
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} | AITA for wanting to take temporary custody of my nephews | My mother has brought to my attention lately that things at her house have been pretty bad. My sister moved back in over the summer, after mom kicked her out previously. From what I was told, things were going great with her and she even decided to go to counseling, per mom's request.
Every year, my step-dad goes to ... | HISTORICAL | {
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Won5oSiLl2SVIJViEb32vc6ZWPllYxTM | au8udu | {
"description": "breaking up with a girl who just had a medical incident",
"pronormative_score": 7,
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} | AITA for breaking up with a girl who just had a medical incident | I dated this girl for about a month and a half and I just broke up with her a couple days ago. Ever since we began dating I could tell that she would “fabricate” stories about her life (ex: she told me and my parents that when she was 19 years old, she trained dolphins at Seaworld). Even my mom caught her on ... | HISTORICAL | {
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g0Mr6R8eFRoqAbIAGO9Um3Nj9yebV4oj | b5g3nn | {
"description": "not wishing my roommate good luck on the first day of her new job",
"pronormative_score": 6,
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} | AITA for not wishing my roommate good luck on the first day of her new job? | My roommate has been really passive aggressive towards me for the last couple of weeks, just making little comments and kind of overall being a bit over the top. I've been keeping to myself because I don't want to get into a fight, and history has shown she reacts well and is easier to have a conversation with when she... | HISTORICAL | {
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"OTHER": 6,
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"RIGHT": 6,
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PP8zyrMaJGaeIP7Vu4rjiMetsf3iwP4x | ataj0n | {
"description": "telling my gf her actions were inappropriate",
"pronormative_score": 10,
"contranormative_score": 1
} | AITA for telling my gf her actions were inappropriate? | Bit of background, my girlfriend and I are both in our late twenties and have been dating exclusively for a couple of months, we’ve known each other for about six months in total. We’re both women and so far things have been going great apart from an incident that happened at the weekend that’s left me feeling a bit we... | HISTORICAL | {
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"INFO": 1
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 10,
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} | RIGHT |
nlLJweCUJHpR6nt5vH4Z0FQydxQai8jq | ac826z | {
"description": "telling a friend I dont care if he is gay",
"pronormative_score": 35,
"contranormative_score": 27
} | AITA for telling a friend I dont care if he is gay? | I was at the bar with a buddy of mine and he came out to me that he was gay. I knew he was gay or bisexual, I've heard he had a massive crush on this other guy I knew. I wanted to express that it doesn't matter if your gay or not.
I said "I don't give a fuck if you're gay, hell I don't give a fuck who you like. I got ... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | AUTHOR | {
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"WRONG": 27
} | RIGHT |
K0jSjCeWScrf01ssaszAyJei77SOQQJY | avkgzc | {
"description": "threatening legal action on our ex roommate if he doesn't pay us for the carpet/windows he's ruined",
"pronormative_score": 3,
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} | WIBTA for threatening legal action on our ex roommate if he doesn’t pay us for the carpet/windows he’s ruined? | Ok so I posted here a while ago about evicting our roommate due to his lack of hygiene. I was ruled NTA. So I have one more thing to posit here to you good folks. We had the landlord give him his eviction notice it due to the hostility that was quickly rising, we had the landlord make him a deal; if he could be out by ... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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Cq50hqxFrijBIpTkE0WrmfH17iHySnuA | a482tf | {
"description": "telling my friend to drop someone who is making her depression worse",
"pronormative_score": 1,
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} | AITA for telling my friend to drop someone who is making her depression worse? | My friend has depression and has been struggling with it for a while and one of her closest friends (z as I will refer to them) has gotten into an argument with her and she said is making her depression worse than it has ever been in two years and I am really worried about her.
The backstory to this is that she tol... | HISTORICAL | {
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Lioa7v3LR3KZELRkGZlIPeJENflJkNTE | av9nu8 | {
"description": "not messaging my coworker to see if she's ok",
"pronormative_score": 5,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | WIBTA if I don't message my coworker to see if she's ok? | My coworker hasn't rocked up to work today. She's never ever late, in fact, she's usually here an hour early.
Whenever she has been off sick, my boss calls to tell me she's not coming in. When she has an appointment, she tells me or puts it in our shared calendar.
I really don't like her and, quite frankly, I don't ... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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Qe60QD9grfW5VgkcI0zibEKZBTwRDrxJ | aglgva | {
"description": "trying to keep it warm",
"pronormative_score": 9,
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} | AITA for trying to keep it warm | My roommates and I live in North Carolina. Currently, in the winter, the days are 40 degrees the nights are 30 or less (Fahrenheit). It’s cold as shit. I am of the belief that leaving the thermostat on heat is what one is supposed to do in the winter, and if warm, simply lower the temperature while still keeping it on ... | HISTORICAL | {
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"INFO": 0
} | NOBODY | {
"RIGHT": 9,
"WRONG": 0
} | RIGHT |
9LyLeRAjTgct1eQjEZAFfEswXUbHi80f | azyu9v | {
"description": "being upset about how my parents feed my dog",
"pronormative_score": 13,
"contranormative_score": 1
} | AITA for being upset about how my parents feed my dog? | I don't live with my parents, I pay for everything involving my dog including Vet, food, toys, grooming, etc. She is 6 yearsold, a small breed, and not high energy.
My mom heard I was paying for doggy daycare 3 days a week so that my dog isn't alone my whole work week during the day, and offered to have my dog stay a... | HISTORICAL | {
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"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 13,
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} | RIGHT |
str1qNMS9EkQnU8wVUWki6lf7Ie95oyk | ap3cs6 | {
"description": "talking a friend into dumping his girlfriend of 6 years, whome I had been friends with before, last night",
"pronormative_score": 20,
"contranormative_score": 1
} | AITA for talking a friend into dumping his girlfriend of 6 years, whome i had been friends with before, last night? | My friend(s) have been a couple for 6 years and the last several months she has been intentionally goading him into fighting and arguing, he winds up nearly hysterical and screaming at her while she calls him names, it's not pretty. But he's throwing things, and crying after they argue all the time (and they argue over... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 0,
"OTHER": 20,
"EVERYBODY": 1,
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"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 20,
"WRONG": 1
} | RIGHT |
vu5SOJgPDsZFZpJ2l7WjwaqH3mEsrc7a | anaw2h | {
"description": "being bothered by my girlfriend's history",
"pronormative_score": 8,
"contranormative_score": 4
} | AITA for being bothered by my girlfriend's history? | We've been dating for two months. When we first met she told me that she didn't do this much in relation to hooking up with me.
Well two months into the relationship she tells me that she lied an has been with "Probably 30 men" she was drunk.
I talked to her about it this morning and she said she was just drunk a... | HISTORICAL | {
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"INFO": 0
} | NOBODY | {
"RIGHT": 8,
"WRONG": 4
} | RIGHT |
1Oox1ww1doPjkJptVK0tPioc1M5GRITQ | aqklxa | {
"description": "telling on them to authorities",
"pronormative_score": 8,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for telling on them to authorities? | I really do feel like I’m brutally heartless.
This post is a TL;DR as a whole so buckle up!
(15F)
In 9th grade, all ok until three guys (A, B and C) come at me, bully (is it?) me.
A tells me every damn they that he feels like vomiting when he sees my face so I’m unsure if he is actually joking for some time now. So... | HISTORICAL | {
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"OTHER": 8,
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"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 8,
"WRONG": 0
} | RIGHT |
WpIqIkQD1VdWOLgI4lunrlE1nObbcv9E | b0le85 | {
"description": "making my housemate pay the same as everyone else for bills",
"pronormative_score": 25,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for making my housemate pay the same as everyone else for bills? | Context: University students with one housemate who in full time paid employment for a bank as part of her course. The rest of us are students living off student loans and bursaries.
This particular housemate decided that she no longer wanted to pay equal amounts as the rest of us for bills because "I'm at work all d... | HISTORICAL | {
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"OTHER": 25,
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"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 25,
"WRONG": 0
} | RIGHT |
t5ZYiumUTRrsHO67e7wsQvizXFh86d0n | ah3dcs | {
"description": "getting a pixie cut when my boyfriend says he thinks it's unattractive",
"pronormative_score": 146,
"contranormative_score": 5
} | AITA for getting a pixie cut when my boyfriend says he thinks it's unattractive? | I am a female. I've wanted a haircut for a while now. Like, a pixie boy cut. Right now my hair is super long, it falls at my back dimples. I love short hair and want it cut it off because I love the way it looks and frankly, hair as long as mine is too high maintenance, it falls out all the time, gets caught in things,... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 5,
"OTHER": 104,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 42,
"INFO": 3
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 146,
"WRONG": 5
} | RIGHT |
MclQBMlAqaevmjgjiuZhvSrGBi93tjVf | asu4xr | {
"description": "asking my pregnant wife not to smoke weed to help with her morning sickness",
"pronormative_score": 122,
"contranormative_score": 9
} | AITA for asking my pregnant wife not to smoke weed to help with her morning sickness? | I'm generally one of the belief that women should have autonomy regarding their bodies, which is why this is a hard one for me.
Originally when my wife got pregnant I thought nothing of her continuing to smoke, because it was my understanding that as it became more socially acceptable of a habit more research had been... | HISTORICAL | {
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"OTHER": 104,
"EVERYBODY": 6,
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"INFO": 1
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 122,
"WRONG": 9
} | RIGHT |
KsVgUr2pmirjufpFSYyhi7vYDqUuK7Sc | a5ms02 | {
"description": "warning my professor of a group of students' plans to cheat",
"pronormative_score": 16,
"contranormative_score": 6
} | WIBTA if I warned my professor of a group of students’ plans to cheat? | Throwaway account cause my main one has references to what school I attend.
The other day a group of students approached me and asked if I wanted to be in their group chat they were planning to use during the final. As in the are planning on keeping their phones under their desks (the desks are shaped weird and it’s ... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 5,
"OTHER": 15,
"EVERYBODY": 1,
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"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 16,
"WRONG": 6
} | RIGHT |
kC7tH0tInWuCV825fP3TpJtbi3WwyC28 | b52ayf | {
"description": "being angry at my mum over her contribution to my house deposit",
"pronormative_score": 2,
"contranormative_score": 28
} | AITA for being angry at my mum over her contribution to my house deposit | Quite a bit of relevant backstory to this. My parents divorced when I was young and I grew up predominantly with my mum & step-dad, who I am very close to. I see my dad from time to time but I’m not super close him. I also grew up in London (UK) in a medium-nice area and I am 28.
My mum & step-dad bought our ... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 28,
"OTHER": 2,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 0
} | AUTHOR | {
"RIGHT": 2,
"WRONG": 28
} | WRONG |
Tb3YeWNNHXM5OtahnjUnxgGVyIreoWWe | b8qg0f | {
"description": "trying to set a time for already-agreed-upon drinks with a coworker while we're at work",
"pronormative_score": 1,
"contranormative_score": 8
} | AITA For trying to set a time for already-agreed-upon drinks with a coworker while we're at work? | **Yesterday morning:** I'm walking to work from the parking lot and I run into my coworker (not close coworkers: different floors, divisions, and everything. We've had a few minor conversations before, but that's it). I ask them *"Hey, would you like to get drinks sometime?"* and they smile and say *"Yeah sure!"*. I sa... | HISTORICAL | {
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"INFO": 2
} | AUTHOR | {
"RIGHT": 1,
"WRONG": 8
} | WRONG |
fbkXorT9NYFOFhIzeyoZPR2LW8mds5xD | b8uo1o | {
"description": "revoking my offer to pay for professional dog training and gave my mom and (mostly) my grandma an ultimatum",
"pronormative_score": 2,
"contranormative_score": 1
} | WIBTA if I revoke my offer to pay for professional dog training and gave my mom and (mostly) my grandma an ultimatum? | I was not present during this. Names have been changed.
So my grandma comes over to my moms every other week and stays for awhile. She brings her dog, B (corgi mix). My mom has Worm (aussie mix). We have had Worm for 8 years.
I recently got Worm a bone. The dogs fought over the bone and Worm bit B’s neck and held o... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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"OTHER": 2,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
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"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 2,
"WRONG": 1
} | RIGHT |
aij98SVeNzsqLqSPu92DuiKPrFw5a7hS | aaotqd | {
"description": "getting defensive after being accused of being sketchy",
"pronormative_score": 4,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for getting defensive after being accused of being sketchy? | Last night I woke up around 2am to sooth my 7 month old. My boyfriend was asleep after a few cocktails. He had to work the following morning at 7 a.m. I usually double-check that his alarms are set and his phone is charged for the following day. As I was awake with our 7mo I heard him receive an email, but his phone wa... | HISTORICAL | {
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"OTHER": 4,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 2
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 4,
"WRONG": 0
} | RIGHT |
EB1L1RYnklt8PXYGE4JVpqKSpgQsWcNC | b6azt1 | {
"description": "telling a girl to take a hint",
"pronormative_score": 6,
"contranormative_score": 4
} | AITA for telling a girl to take a hint? | Theres this girl in my grade who im sort 0of friends with and shes obssessed with one of my friend. She tried to talk to him nonstop and ask him out and hes been creeped out her her. Today he blocked her on snap and she went psycho so i told her that she need to stop. Youre being weird and its not okay to do this to an... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 2,
"OTHER": 6,
"EVERYBODY": 2,
"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 1
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 6,
"WRONG": 4
} | RIGHT |
hHXePf97dLgmjW264slcvyYhaY7KP4Wy | aoch8q | null | AITA: Friend asked me to set up a room for her in my apartment so she could move in, would pay me back when rent was due, texted me day before move in that she changed her mind, never paid me back | Hi. Let’s turn back time to August 2018. My friend Julia and I talked casually about her moving in with me. It was just an idea and I had a plan ready in place if that ever happened. We’ve been really close friends for 6 years.
Fast forward to November 2018 and we spoke about it again. Julia was having problems at ho... | HISTORICAL | {
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"OTHER": 5,
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"INFO": 2
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 5,
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} | RIGHT |
xGU4V6KwFMArZZhIlASmakzhKXqEkVrt | b8pcc2 | {
"description": "wanting to play soccer",
"pronormative_score": 5,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA wanting to play soccer? | Background: I play soccer on Tuesday nights anywhere from 7:00 p.m. to 10:30 at night. My wife also works Tuesday nights 4:30 to about 7:30. We have kids that we swap duties for when I get home.
This season the games are a lot earlier 6 of the 8 are at 7pm. I usually don't go to those games because the timing doesn't ... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | NOBODY | {
"RIGHT": 5,
"WRONG": 0
} | RIGHT |
NEEvytmxlAhYYINJwbNpk3DdzfnRbQnA | aca42j | {
"description": "wanting to quit my job",
"pronormative_score": 9,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for wanting to quit my job? | Some background: I currently work at this fastfood chain specializing in selling hotdogs, hamburgers, fries and shakes for a little over a year now. It was nice when I got put on drive thru then shift manager in a span of less than half a year.
The manager started calling me in quite often which I agreed to (20-28 ho... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 0,
"OTHER": 9,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
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"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 9,
"WRONG": 0
} | RIGHT |
c0aWy7P4RSvldDIi1SBhQI1yXCPgdIfk | b70kgl | {
"description": "smoking weed in my backyard if there's a daycare close by",
"pronormative_score": 19,
"contranormative_score": 2
} | AITA for smoking weed in my backyard if there’s a daycare close by? | I live in San Francisco. This is the first living situation I’ve been in where a)*my landlord shares part of the property* and b) *my roommates don’t smoke*.
I’m naturally a tightly wound person, and I tend to overthink things and be overly cautious about how I’m affecting others. All this said - when I smoke I use t... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 2,
"OTHER": 18,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 1,
"INFO": 1
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 19,
"WRONG": 2
} | RIGHT |
nmgsMT4Q1wqLfAaKcWVvhdnHbEbwJsvL | b5jqtz | null | AITA? My gf (19F) won’t text me (19M) as much because I turned my read receipts on. | My gf and I have been together 3 years. My gf has been struggling with anxiety since middle school. She claims that the read receipts being turned on for our messages make her anxious.
Here’s the thing. I’ve been under a lot of stress at school. Lately I have been falling asleep without texting her goodnight. It’s no... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 26,
"OTHER": 0,
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"INFO": 0
} | AUTHOR | {
"RIGHT": 0,
"WRONG": 26
} | WRONG |
xnmJ3tzPezsOCP3U9JXhrhH7skmyTAdh | ai7h0u | {
"description": "not wanting to live with my friend who has mental health issues",
"pronormative_score": 9,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA For not wanting to live with my friend who has mental health issues? | My friends (F, M, MtF) and I (F) all live together.
We need to apply for next year’s accommodation soon.
A few months ago we all discussed our with issues with Sam (MtF). Sam has quite a few mental health issues and we felt that we couldn’t deal with pressure of having to take care of her - on several occasions we ha... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 0,
"OTHER": 7,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 2,
"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 9,
"WRONG": 0
} | RIGHT |
XYb6P3Z01a1K0ciHVhkKxFVr0xybRovV | b5qtuq | {
"description": "inadvertently making my friend loose his job",
"pronormative_score": 5,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for inadvertently making my friend loose his job? | To explain the situation, I am a paperboy (I’m not sure if that is what it is called).
I walk a specific route every Sunday, selling newspapers from door to door to earn some money, about 300 NOK or 35 dollars.
One of my friends house is on the starting part of that route.
He had the same job as me, only his route s... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 0,
"OTHER": 2,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 3,
"INFO": 0
} | NOBODY | {
"RIGHT": 5,
"WRONG": 0
} | RIGHT |
q0Ow2qjWUxINiPnF4eqYipllRTfHo7lg | b2lfb1 | {
"description": "not wanting my mom to go with me to a job interview",
"pronormative_score": 11,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for not wanting my mom to go with me to a job interview? | I (16) applied for a jobs across the country (I'm from Europe) and actually got 2 invitations for an interview (yey). My mom knew about it and was actually really supportive! One of the interviewers wants me to stay over night so I can get to know the people I'd live with a little better and the get to know me. If stay... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 0,
"OTHER": 6,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 5,
"INFO": 1
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 11,
"WRONG": 0
} | RIGHT |
QxNkuWFjRVREtVSvjPnpilIgBDzySZHm | aflk8a | {
"description": "cutting out a suicidal friend from my life",
"pronormative_score": 3,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for cutting out a suicidal friend from my life? | I feel like such as asshole but I am getting mixed messages from other saying I did the right thing.
I need to know if I'm an asshole or not. I feel bad regardless though.
Short Story:
I've had a friend for about three months and immediately in the relationship revealed that she was suicidal/depressed. Even though I... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 0,
"OTHER": 3,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 3,
"WRONG": 0
} | RIGHT |
zYqxoCuLSK2NxKBo9tXeogTt6pde5Ycw | aebj8k | {
"description": "wanting my sister to do the dishes",
"pronormative_score": 2,
"contranormative_score": 3
} | AITA for wanting my sister to do the dishes? | Me and my sister live together and split some of the household tasks. Basically, we have a deal on cooking, we each have set days that we cook for each other and every time whoever didn't do the cooking, does the dishes. That works pretty well except for the days my sister spends with her gf. She generally arranges it ... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 3,
"OTHER": 1,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 1,
"INFO": 1
} | AUTHOR | {
"RIGHT": 2,
"WRONG": 3
} | WRONG |
VeYUIyboMY0ngYG7vJcAZroENDtCqD6E | aagmdv | {
"description": "not giving my overweight son a donut",
"pronormative_score": 11,
"contranormative_score": 15
} | AITA for not giving my overweight son a donut? | I came home from work last night and stopped by the gas station to grab a soda. I got me and my wife two donuts but I didnt get one for my son because he's on a low-sugar/carb diet because he is overweight. My son was asleep when I came home and I got it as a late night snack but the next morning he threw something awa... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 15,
"OTHER": 10,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 1,
"INFO": 0
} | AUTHOR | {
"RIGHT": 11,
"WRONG": 15
} | WRONG |
lTvE7haIFqXtKIuJBbgAwsckzbJmD9u9 | apmbni | {
"description": "being to pretend to be religious if my girlfriend was religious",
"pronormative_score": 2,
"contranormative_score": 6
} | WIBTA If I were to pretend to be religious if my girlfriend was religious? | My girlfriend and I got into a hypothetical the other day and I wanted to know what y'all think.
I was raised not very religious at all. My folks are Jain but kinda practice Hinduism and kinda practice nothing sometimes. Jain is basically similar to Buddhism in that at its core it's more of a way of life than a belief... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 4,
"OTHER": 1,
"EVERYBODY": 2,
"NOBODY": 1,
"INFO": 0
} | AUTHOR | {
"RIGHT": 2,
"WRONG": 6
} | WRONG |
Nrn0E4Hm0h6UuubA5JQNF7Blcr8jLgzr | apzm1b | {
"description": "putting up a curtain in a shared apartment",
"pronormative_score": 4,
"contranormative_score": 4
} | AITA for putting up a curtain in a shared apartment? | I moved into an apartment with an acquaintance/coworker that worked at the same location on campus and her friend. We were all university students at the time and generally very respectful of each other. The apartment was a 2bd/2ba, consisting of one master bedroom with the bathroom directly in the room, and another ro... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 4,
"OTHER": 2,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 2,
"INFO": 1
} | AUTHOR | {
"RIGHT": 4,
"WRONG": 4
} | RIGHT |
xryGtXcmjC6UtoGoJV5RddHMwenKh2f3 | arcsrx | {
"description": "not letting my boyfriend put his dick on my armpit",
"pronormative_score": 12,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA Because I won't let my boyfriend put his dick on my armpit? | Hello Everyone! My boyfriend of two years and I are having an argument. He finally told me he has an armpit fetish. For his upcoming birthday, he wants to put his dick under my arm and eventually ejaculate on my armpit. I am very uncomfortable with the idea and I'm worried about the smell. He thinks I should be willing... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 0,
"OTHER": 8,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 4,
"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 12,
"WRONG": 0
} | RIGHT |
lVa5O9EOKBuI2OL8TkGavmUdMPXxUCQL | b0hdqu | {
"description": "asking roommate to pay for electricity bill",
"pronormative_score": 7,
"contranormative_score": 2
} | AITA for asking roommate to pay for electricity bill? | I live in an apartment of 4 people. Me, one other guy, and another guy and his girlfriend who share a room. Our bimonthly electricity bill usually breaks down to \~$25 a person. Our most recent bill was $58 per person. My use hasn't changed, but guy and girlfriend have been turning the heat on in their own room and liv... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 1,
"OTHER": 5,
"EVERYBODY": 1,
"NOBODY": 2,
"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 7,
"WRONG": 2
} | RIGHT |
01LcSvUyE8PjJjnG6UXPNzWu0JDzXGsO | a7caan | {
"description": "not wanting to include my uncle's girlfriend on our Christmas card to him",
"pronormative_score": 17,
"contranormative_score": 47
} | AITA for not wanting to include my uncle's girlfriend on our Christmas card to him? | So basically a couple of years ago my uncle cheated on my aunt. (They're divorced now it's been a whole thing. We still see my uncle but it's not the same.) He is now romantically involved with this same woman and brings her to all of our family gatherings etc. My family and I aren't huge fans of her for multiple reas... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 39,
"OTHER": 16,
"EVERYBODY": 8,
"NOBODY": 1,
"INFO": 0
} | AUTHOR | {
"RIGHT": 17,
"WRONG": 47
} | WRONG |
2shENBH9ahOgaOKkIdBV8I46vkWZOL0s | b4edc3 | {
"description": "distancing myself from my friend",
"pronormative_score": 5,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for distancing myself from my friend | TLDR; my friend is trying to get with a guy in a 4 year relationship so i lost respect for her
Backstory: My friend has never had a boyfriend before. She falls for guys very quickly when they give her the smallest amount of attention.
My friend met this guy in her class and was pretty excited about it because it wa... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 0,
"OTHER": 5,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 5,
"WRONG": 0
} | RIGHT |
fqoaZw1M48uNcKsWkl38ZJLLMFFdwWva | aojfqj | {
"description": "not wanting to have sex after watching Hannibal",
"pronormative_score": 14,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for not wanting to have sex after watching Hannibal? | My husband and I had made verbal plans to have sex after watching a movie last night. We are a very sexual couple and often have sex 2-3 times a day or more. He’s awesome in bed and we have really similar high sex drives.
Well, we watched Hannibal, with me seeing it for the first time. He really wanted me to keep my ... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 0,
"OTHER": 13,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 1,
"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 14,
"WRONG": 0
} | RIGHT |
odYmSpl9ZKGLiGZ0uoxr3AHbRPmAcQFq | apmvzi | {
"description": "wanting to give my kids the best life",
"pronormative_score": 13,
"contranormative_score": 2
} | AITA for wanting to give my kids the best life? | Throwaway obviously.
I love my husband to death but he suffers from a condition that keeps him confined to a wheelchair most hours of the day. Recently we've been talking about having children and the non-zero probability that he will pass this condition on to our kids. I told him that I have been worried about this f... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 2,
"OTHER": 0,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 13,
"INFO": 0
} | NOBODY | {
"RIGHT": 13,
"WRONG": 2
} | RIGHT |
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