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"description": "leaving the nightclub and going to a hotel",
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} | AITA for leaving the nightclub and going to a hotel | I’m not really one for nights out, so when my boyfriend invited me to a night out with his friends in a big city I’m not used to I was anxious. I talked to him about my concerns and he assured me that he would look out for me and make sure I was ok.
The night started great until we got to a huge night club, I am lite... | HISTORICAL | {
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"description": "wanting to replace my broken Rock Band drums with a new set",
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} | AITA for wanting to replace my broken Rock Band drums with a new set? | I have Rock Band Drums for my Wii. Don't play as much these days, but I want to on my Twitch guitar stream. I tried, it was fun, my viewers liked it.
They are like new. When I wasn't using it, I put it back in the original box. I cut mouse pads into toppers. There is almost no wear on them.
I loaned it to my COUSIN ... | HISTORICAL | {
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anjZ0R6gEqQbEdvE8wVAM6sIwX5zRany | aza2j1 | null | AITA: Mom makes GF do stuff every time she visits and barely lets her spend time with me. | AITA: I asked if it was ok for my GF to come over for a couple hours this weekend, and my mother told me she can come; as long as she helps her pack for her trip to California next week. Almost every time my GF comes over she’s had to help my mom with something she’s currently doing at the house. I told my GF this and ... | HISTORICAL | {
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"description": "not supporting my husband quitting his job… while I'm pregnant",
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} | AITA for not supporting my husband quitting his job… while I’m pregnant? | We’ve been together for 4 years and met while he (34M) and I (30F) were studying. We got married a few months ago and I recently found out I was pregnant. He is a nice, wonderful man and loves me and my crazy self. Now, husband only recently got his BSc degree in computer science and, while he immediately found a job, ... | HISTORICAL | {
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"description": "being mean to aggressive street vendors",
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} | AITA for being mean to aggressive street vendors? | I was at a street (hawkers) market in Singapore recently with my family. At this street market, vendors will come up to you very often if they see you have no food... probably every 2 or 3 minutes especially because we came well before dinner rush and their weren’t many other people for them to bother.
At first I was ... | HISTORICAL | {
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"description": "inviting my best mate to a pub crawl he wasn't invited on",
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} | AITA for inviting my best mate to a pub crawl he wasn't invited on? | A bit of context, I'm a 19 year old student at uni in England and this pub crawl happened over the Christmas period. I'm only asking now because I've been wondering what the etiquette for this is, but essentially here is what happened:
I was invited by the Computing Society, who I'm a part of, to take part in a pub cr... | HISTORICAL | {
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"description": "not visiting my sister out of spite",
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} | AITA for not visiting my sister out of spite? | Throwaway because I'm pretty sure anyone under 20 in my family is on reddit.
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My little sister moved out a few years ago the summer after high school graduation to live with her boyfriend. Because of the politics surrounding their relationship, our parents basically disowned her and refuse to speak to her... | HISTORICAL | {
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"description": "reporting a step family member about her disability payments",
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} | WIBTA for reporting a step family member about her disability payments | I have a step cousin who was able to get on disability for some illness a few years ago and was in the hospital for a while. Fast forward to this wknd when we had a family gathering and she was bragging about that she now has a full time job, her own little house and hasn’t been sick for over 2 years but is still getti... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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HS6UzXUmzbeTfpriaHSbQRG3hZC8GNr4 | a2y3wz | {
"description": "hating my dad for committing suicide",
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} | AITA for hating my Dad for committing suicide? | (Apologies in advance for a ju y formatting issues. I'm on mobile.)
TL;DR: My dad committed suicide and we hadn't spoken recently at all. I hate him for this.
A little background info:
My parents have been divorced since I was 15, I'm 25 now. He cheated on my mother while stationed in South America and married her... | HISTORICAL | {
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"description": "using my own car and not putting gas in it",
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} | AITA for using my own car and not putting gas in it? | I apologize as I am writing this on my phone.
So my brother’s car is currently down due to unknown issues, and he’s been using my car (a 1999 Mercury Mystique) while I am unemployed, and although I don’t 100% agree with how he treats my car (leaving messes and trash, smoking cigarettes and weed inside) I still allow h... | HISTORICAL | {
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9HXrE6tNJQi3yoyTqqgWT85TUnfazVTC | 9w64ok | {
"description": "asking my girlfriend to stop being friends with someone",
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} | AITA for asking my girlfriend to stop being friends with someone | My girlfriend a while ago on a night out was nearly kissed by a work colleague who she sees as a friend. She defended him constantly by excusing his actions as just being drunk but she would always remain on his side and never mine. A while ago she messaged me saying she might like him but is still in love with me she ... | HISTORICAL | {
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"description": "dancing with a girl that a buddy of mine has a crush on",
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} | AITA for dancing with a girl that a buddy of mine has a crush on? | So, a bit of a backstory here: this buddy of mine (for the purposes of this post, let's call him Red) has had a thing for a girl at his department (let's call her Purple), and while they are friends, she's made it clear she doesn't like him the same way (declined an invitation to a date before). She didn't let it affec... | HISTORICAL | {
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klYe2o7aPTIVI8jvbFleKcS9bPXasMTF | b60ig5 | {
"description": "trying not apologizing to a friend who claims I hurt their feelings",
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} | AITA for trying not apologizing to a friend who claims I hurt their feelings | I'm a moderator for a dnd discord, and a friend of mine thinks I've been incredibly rude to them and is demanding an apology. This is due to him having questions about the dnd server, and when I answer them he thinks I'm being rude. Here are some is a snippet from 5 hours worth of arguments over the last week.
>Him... | HISTORICAL | {
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nXIufZxJCTmNXzwLu0qHkriBoqY3MEHd | a77j3j | {
"description": "wanting the $20 that a \"friend\" owes me",
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} | AITA for wanting the $20 that a “friend” owes me? | On November 19, 2 friends and I went on a one day ski trip. It wasn’t too expensive, only $49 for the tickets and another $10 for food, as well as gas. This isn’t an incredibly large sum, but we are in high school and my two friends do not have jobs. I drove, and as such filled up my car with gas twice, which equated t... | HISTORICAL | {
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XqZdm6I5AJGEqXTdLfmlrSqUXu2WatFZ | a7vs0l | {
"description": "not letting my dad have veto over a home purchase",
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} | AITA for not letting my dad have veto over a home purchase | I currently live in an apartment in a fairly expensive city with my wife and two kids. I'm an only child, and my dad has offered to use a large sum of his savings to help us purchase a house. He's assured me he will still have plenty to live on and is not concerned at all about the money - he's said he wants to see me ... | HISTORICAL | {
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YDoocd2fBYfmZTTPTu3xLG5C3VkbBShT | alhrbx | {
"description": "leaving my so while she's grieving a friend",
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} | AITA For leaving my SO while she's grieving a friend? | To be frank, we do *not* have a healthy relationship, and I'm sick of it.
We've been on/off for maybe a year and a half now. I do carry some of the blame, but a majority of the issues are caused by her anxiety and depression. She gets extremely jealous at the slightest provocation and has gotten hostile in the past, t... | HISTORICAL | {
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2ha0UjCkZqmdkF5EtrzvnB60ogN7FaCu | b67xiq | {
"description": "not saying anything to a girl after sex and then leaving her place",
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} | AITA for not saying anything to a girl after sex and then leaving her place? | I (23M) had sex recently with (23F). The buildup was intense.
I was so god damn horny. But after I orgasmed, I went silent. "Is this what life is about?" came to my head....I just stared off at the floor as if I was looking into the abyss. Into my own soul....I saw a reflection and I didn't like it
So she notices me... | HISTORICAL | {
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V0atRwcgFGMj1uFIjzX1AlRl52RZGp4V | ayknaq | {
"description": "kicking an older guy out of my apartment",
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} | AITA for kicking an older guy out of my apartment | So I’ll keep it short but about a month ago my wife’s mother said a great way to make a little extra is by opening our apartment to a friend of hers (who i later found out it was a friend of a friend). I myself am not 100% sold on this idea but my wife begrudgingly convinces me and last Sunday we got a roommate. A 60is... | HISTORICAL | {
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NKDMx59pODkBEC72eLlZZfeJ8ngGXNhu | ao30q5 | {
"description": "not letting smaller people in front of me at concerts",
"pronormative_score": 41,
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} | AITA for not letting smaller people in front of me at concerts? | I’ve already tried to post this once and it was deleted before I actually managed to post it so this is gonna be straight to the point. I managed to get a great spot at a concert (centre stage and two people back) with my mum ( I’m 6’7 and she’s 5’11) and people who have arrived there later will ask us to let them go i... | HISTORICAL | {
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cSnjhHdAdTKe5BX2u4jhsN9rYSMabcha | ad69zu | {
"description": "using my old friends to attract my crash to me",
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} | WIBTA If i used my old friends to attract my crash to me? | My loved one said that she lacks contact with ppl and she would like to go with me at my hippielike parties with fire and guitars, but i dont have that much contact with people from those parties and i want to talk to them more now, so i can have a party to invite her to.
I like them and i think they enjoy my company... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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tm9nZgHwNKt3i4NaBruwZSQcUZoTuoWU | b49gt1 | null | AITA to my parents for visiting my gf in Belgium when they said it was not a good idea? | In 2016, I moved with my family to England from America, not only because my Dad got a job there but so I can possibly get free college since my Dad is actually a UK citizen and I can get citizenship really easy; except for one small detail. My Dad forgot to bring my birth certificate which is required for me to go thr... | HISTORICAL | {
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RGbpOGj8z7b0FqzKU7lzT8PtUEq8Jlgt | aq09vc | {
"description": "not letting a freshman go to competition, even though I'm higher rank",
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} | AITA for not letting a freshman go to competition, even though I'm higher rank? | Hey there! So this is my first post here, sorry if this is dumb or something, this is also kind of a half vent. I'm just feeling guilty right now and need the opinions of others who like...don't know me I guess.
I'm a part of a program at my high school called Police Cadets. Basically it's a law enforcement program th... | HISTORICAL | {
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To0VGKt1FWcvG1PeY82X4AC84f5XPZ84 | 9tg7fs | {
"description": "dumping my girlfriend right before finals",
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} | AITA For dumping my girlfriend right before finals? | This all took place around finals season last year. We were both young little shits, and fought a lot. I had definitely felt less attraction towards her leading up to this, but she was infatuated with me.
I had been pretty lenient with her leading up to this. She had admitted to having a crush on my best friend at one... | HISTORICAL | {
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3gg38IZVWa6O4YeMsahSckTXCkUU7ztO | b2f5r6 | {
"description": "not wanting to go camping for my friends 21st birthday",
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} | AITA for not wanting to go camping for my friends 21st birthday? | Ok I’ll try to make this as short as possible. I have a friend we’ll call her May and she wants to go camping for her birthday. She wants to go for 3 days Saturday, Sunday, and Monday. I work m-f and have recently been missing a lot days of work due to the rain here in Southern California so I don’t wanna go and miss a... | HISTORICAL | {
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N2cfI7o6WFrvrx1gtWVfK3XtL87Rr9Gp | alh85h | {
"description": "hanging out with the guy my friend cheated on her fiancé with",
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} | AITA for hanging out with the guy my friend cheated on her fiancé with? | This problem has been plaguing me for months. I would really appreciate some feedback on my role in the situation as I am feeling deeply confused and sad. Sorry it's kind of long- I had to add a lot of details so the context could make sense. There is a TLDR at the bottom but it doesn't capture the nuance.
**Backgroun... | HISTORICAL | {
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nsutLy7dl6ikWYSWifAreC5duvk8YGeP | age1i5 | {
"description": "laughing at Survival Sex",
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} | AITA for laughing at Survival Sex | I am a senior in high school and for our english final our teacher had us present slides on sacrifices and success to become a hero. Near the end of everyone’s presentations the last person to go was this girl (who I have absolutely no problems with) that I think is trans or really strong LGBQ rights activist kinda per... | HISTORICAL | {
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o63x2XX9ojT97ss2o6iOe1cjbQpsLxXh | ax1qst | {
"description": "telling an okd guy off fkr saying my friend shouldnt/couldnt use a store wheelchair",
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} | AITA for telling an okd guy off fkr saying my friend shouldnt/couldnt use a store wheelchair? | So a friend kf mine recently got hurt and broke a bone. She has been walking but its painful to do so for too long. We had to go get groceries today in a large-ish store and she had alrwady been on her feet for way too lkng and had started to rewlly feel the pain. And so everyone we were wjth strkngly suggested that sh... | HISTORICAL | {
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zoxlyKBYa5A052BRfrgvNQt9ArW6bqyc | b46pxp | {
"description": "not being more aware of my movements at the gym",
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} | AITA for not being more aware of my movements at the gym? | I go to put dumbbell back up on the rack, the rack has numbers on it associated with weight. I can't put mine in the right spot because it is out of order so I double back to fix the weights. I didn't notice a guy behind me and he throws his weight on the ground, in frustration of having to wait for me. The space betwe... | HISTORICAL | {
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NitxXJXHr81yuWnk72zi6PO4yp4UydIv | a0vhdo | {
"description": "not inviting this girl to my D&D group for physical appearance reasons",
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} | AITA if I don't invite this girl to my D&D group for physical appearance reasons? | I am putting together a D&D campaign where I going to be a first-time DM and more people have expressed interest than I am able to accommodate. I'm trying to keep it to 4 players but I could do 5, and there are two interested people whose schedules fit with the rest of the group: a coworker who has played D&D w... | HISTORICAL | {
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f5gTpbi4o0YalobmukeE5sjYs2etIpoG | b2y4jy | {
"description": "wanting my fiancee to have a job even though we don't need the money",
"pronormative_score": 25,
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} | AITA for wanting my fiancee to have a job even though we don't need the money? | The title is fairly self explanatory. My (29M) fiancee (28F) is graduating from a history master's program soon. Her plan had always been to go on for a PhD afterward, which sounded great to me, I just want her to enjoy what she does. After finishing the masters though she feels like years more school will run her into... | HISTORICAL | {
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J93zyyqt8LVjjKOdE212JAxOeQzWNrBL | a7eecd | {
"description": "insulting somebody back",
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} | AITA for insulting somebody back | So earlier today somebody was poking fun at me, making fun of me and whatnot pushing me around and that hoopla. So, I had to decide to either
A. Pretend I don’t care
B. Insult him back
I had chose option B. Basically he said “Jesus fuck you dad must be a professional ass-wiper because your shoes look like they came fro... | HISTORICAL | {
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ZxXxDUweXHyKJneyaej6tvxnGJhkkkIO | auipaj | {
"description": "being upset that my friends purposefully excluded me from outings",
"pronormative_score": 21,
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} | AITA for being upset that my friends purposefully excluded me from outings | So I have a group of friends (around 9 of us in total) that I hang out with a lot. I was introduced to them by a really close friend(J) when I switched schools. It wasn't frosty and we had some good laughs and chats but I have felt like an extra wheel at times.
So the situation that brought me here is that X planned ... | HISTORICAL | {
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jgoJRHcra6ouEIMuWUZEpJhAQ7QWp4VA | ap7al5 | {
"description": "uninviting my friend to my birthday",
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} | AITA for uninviting my friend to my birthday? | Last night, I had a birthday party that was a late dinner (9:30) and then karaoke for 15 people, and both places can't really hold more folks. One of them, I'll call him Mike, is one of my closer friends, but when he drinks, he can be a lot to deal with.
Earlier in the day, Mike sent our group snaps of him getting wa... | HISTORICAL | {
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xDUgrC95BYNjdF95keCF0qQbsQegJ0zP | ahawa7 | {
"description": "getting mad at my friend because I'm also mad at her other friend",
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} | AITA for getting mad at my friend because I'm also mad at her other friend? | So there's this really annoying guy who I hate with a burning passion. It started with him asking me to draw this girl realistically I said sure and I drew her. It turned out good but this guy accidentally ruins it with ink or whatever the fuck I dunno he just asked me to redraw it. Oh wait, sorry, he didn't ask me to ... | HISTORICAL | {
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mpvOqlpv5bTTrqtr9kVT0DpniEUNxiHI | ayu9mu | {
"description": "correcting people when they call me black by saying I am brown",
"pronormative_score": 10,
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} | AITA For correcting people when they call me black by saying I am brown? | I cannot tell you how many times people have called me black growing up. At first I never said anything, but as I got older I started correcting them. Overall, people just went with it, but I could tell it irritated some people.
Recently, a friend of a friend was talking to me over the phone (getting to know the roomm... | HISTORICAL | {
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FoMCW0Jl1Ua82TMQcfFwiEMhsd5acLY6 | avqffo | {
"description": "making out with a girl which I was interrested in but was drunk",
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} | AITA For making out with a girl which I was interrested in but was drunk. | So long story,
I've known this girl from a good friend, and at some point I started being very interrested in her. At that point we were pretty good friends. Then came the birthday of my good friend and me and the girl were flirting the whole evening, of course we both had already drank a lot so maybe the alcohol shou... | HISTORICAL | {
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TrRVUK0VNxXm9iPtMXtGO61mlWQm1fFq | b0sf0k | {
"description": "kicking my stepson out for refusing to come on our family trip",
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} | AITA for kicking my stepson out for refusing to come on our family trip | I guess the title should really say "are we the assholes" since my wife made the decision with me.
My stepson has been a part of my life for the last 6 years, since he was 13. From a young age, he was resentful that my wife couldn't provide for him what he saw other children had. My wife busted her ass to keep him fed... | HISTORICAL | {
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"INFO": 2
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 48,
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} | RIGHT |
19OLODVwtpqop0GTBKkwMkbcQilYXs0a | 9vtdlz | {
"description": "asking someone to be quite in the library",
"pronormative_score": 5,
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} | AITA for asking someone to be quite in the library? | I go to a large library with 2 large libraries and 100s of computers which are free to use to all students. The top floors of both libraries, about 10% of total study space, are silent study areas. You're not allowed to chat, have phone calls, use headphones too loudly while you are there. Am I the asshole for asking o... | HISTORICAL | {
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PNEJu0kHD14Ed2gCmaEScdn8AXX9ITiT | a8tlya | {
"description": "not answering the door to my landlord",
"pronormative_score": 13,
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} | AITA for not answering the door to my landlord? | Just come context: in my state, a landlord needs to give at least 24 hours written notice before entering a rental property. My partner and I are also very private people. I have issues with saying ‘no’ to people and setting boundaries.
A few days ago my landlord turned up unannounced to the house my partner and I are... | HISTORICAL | {
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5GrBR4p2UQ1uAVm7MLXqJD1f66hbEpYS | am3mqg | null | WIBTA- Roommate Disagreement That Pushed Me Over The Edge | So here's a little bit of backstory- I'm a college freshman stuck in a room with 2 other girls who I tried very hard to get along with, but it just didn't happen. Our personalities do not mesh at all. I'm a nerdy tomboy who doesn't drink, is almost always in bed between 10-10:45, and volunteers with the Special Needs c... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
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oYcGBA6K4lsFsdzlz5Qpm5BR7bRgyBsx | a8ltc7 | {
"description": "still not forgiving my girlfriend",
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} | AITA for still not forgiving my girlfriend | So last week my gf cheated on me with a classmate. She called me the next day bawling her eyes out and told me about it. He has given her rides and is really effeminate. They all went out as a class, she was drunk, asked if he was gay. He said he didn't know. She gave him peck on the lips. We've been pretty strong for ... | HISTORICAL | {
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ftfW46IWq6YGpB2IxVt0PWREkLdSsYN9 | 9zt3ea | {
"description": "ghosting a girl",
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} | AITA for ghosting a girl | I'm a (20M) in college currently and I met this girl on tinder. I had talked to her for a while and finally I decided to ask her out on a date. Before the date friends told me that I probably wouldn't like her. The date went suprisingly well for never meeting in person and eventually it led to us going on a few more da... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | AUTHOR | {
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} | WRONG |
706SqfKzfCJz5vpwK9gDVuvOOJ3j6g17 | 9xsacj | {
"description": "saying this to my cousin through text. was I mean",
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} | AITA for saying this to my cousin through text. Was I mean? | My cousin[F24] and I[M22] are very close. I see her 3-5 times a week average when she's not with her "boyfriend" or working. (I say "boyfriend" because she's hardly ever with him because he doesnt want to chill. Its so obvious he either is not into her or gay). She constantly blows up my phone everyday and anytime I do... | HISTORICAL | {
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YsBsr8K8hi7lwR9DuYeo6cUd6cXgxbCE | astkh1 | {
"description": "disrespecting my parents' rules regarding my relationship",
"pronormative_score": 14,
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} | AITA for disrespecting my parents’ rules regarding my relationship? | I am 20 years old and my SO is the same age as me. We’ve been together for about two and a half years now.
I am disabled because of my severe mental illnesses, and I live with my parents. My major depression is treatment-resistant, meaning that nothing I’ve tried has ever made any improvement to my depression. The onl... | HISTORICAL | {
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CEbEo0vIRnnapwxzgiBQGk5DCbh68GBy | aj8fpo | {
"description": "warning my girlfriends brother after he stereotyped me",
"pronormative_score": 15,
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} | AITA For warning my girlfriends brother after he stereotyped me? | Im 27, i have spent seven years in prison. I have been free for one year.
I have tattoos on my fingers, forearms, back, chest, neck, and on one cheek. I realize i look scary to people who havent been in prison.
Ive been dating a girl for four months. She knows my history and its generally been good.
However her fam... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | AUTHOR | {
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} | WRONG |
zuoIwlXYmPOfC47I3VOtisd4IlvxPQ8H | b7tzth | {
"description": "accidentally stealing from a restaurant",
"pronormative_score": 11,
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} | AITA for accidentally stealing from a restaurant? | So a few hours ago, I made a large order for my family from a local Dominican restaurant: pork chops and rice, filet with rice, and beef with moro (brown rice with beans). I went out to pick up the order, and when I got home, I unpacked everything only to realize I was missing my pork chops. I waa hungry af, so I drove... | HISTORICAL | {
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9FSfHCxqbDuYBckFqursKWihURP6QflV | ba4ix5 | {
"description": "asking about a friend of a girl who likes me",
"pronormative_score": 3,
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} | WIBTA for asking about a friend of a girl who likes me? | I have this friend in our friend group who is interested in me. She made it really obvious to the point where I felt kind of uncomfortable. So I decided to confront her about her and just let her definitively know that I'm not interested. She told me she wasn't interested which is fine. But I have sinking feeling she a... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
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saKj6UydLHc62QmUST39BdAeVcYsy8kC | a7rqwl | {
"description": "not wanting my brother's friends to be in our apartment when he is not",
"pronormative_score": 11,
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} | AITA for not wanting my brother's friends to be in our apartment when he is not? | Recently, my brother has been bringing over his friends over the weekdays, and often they are sleeping over. Last week, one of his friends slept over for 4 days in a row. I was pretty pissed and I told him that is incosiderate and unacceptable when you remember how tiny our apartment is and that we have 3 cats that get... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
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NtkNczKcg98TKRbdJKSUN4kBE9GhwAjn | b1ulpr | {
"description": "using my co-worker's microwave",
"pronormative_score": 7,
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} | AITA for using my co-worker's microwave??? |
AITA for using my co-worker's microwave???
Ok so I recently had been using a microwave in a small little room where I tutor students. The microwave says "employees only". I just got hired as a temp tutor so I am an employee and so in my head cool, I can use.
Anyways the first day of using it (March 7) I asked (w... | HISTORICAL | {
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sTC6mF8HTrwprJoXxodh5jS8Tk8s2xKO | b1no9k | {
"description": "continuing to message my ex even though she doesn't reply",
"pronormative_score": 1,
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} | AITA for continuing to message my ex even though she doesn't reply? | So,my ex and I had what I thought to be an amazing relationship. We technically lived together in our college dorm, and we spent a lot of time together. We were both really happy with each other, and would constantly tell each other what we loved about the other and whatnot. She was a huge part of my life, but was havi... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | WRONG |
kkMCQmrThwy83eqm7HNejPynMGrvQSO1 | b29xdf | {
"description": "deciding to surprise visit my bf who lives on my hometown and did not tell my family about it",
"pronormative_score": 4,
"contranormative_score": 1
} | AITA if I(26F) decided to surprise visit my bf(29M) who lives on my hometown and did not tell my family about it? | First time posting because this blew up in my face with my parents so please bear with me. So tu set up things, my relationship with my parents has not been great since i was a teenager, i have always been very independent and started drifting away from catholicism (which my parents are, devoutly), i also have a very i... | HISTORICAL | {
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xMnX5GAeJfYSQCvn72fKzYAqLFTW3u9E | ahr8wf | {
"description": "not replacing toilet paper when my roommate didn't before me",
"pronormative_score": 1,
"contranormative_score": 4
} | AITA for not replacing toilet paper when my roommate didn't before me | this is a short but yeah I live with a roommate and well he went to the bathroom before me and when I had to piss there wasn't paper but I didn't put more in he got kinda mad that I didn't replace it but he left it like that so idk AITA | HISTORICAL | {
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hlf5wcEpQQ2PhJ4n2bZ2nhsNUwAbqAkB | aoadmb | {
"description": "being upset at my gf for belittling my needs",
"pronormative_score": 13,
"contranormative_score": 1
} | AITA for being upset at my gf for belittling my needs? | I’ve been dating this girl for over 8 months now and i absolutely adore her, i want nothing more than to spend my time with her we usually get along fantastic however she has bpd and can turn on me in the blink of an eye. The past 5 months we’ve been arguing because i feel asking to see her 2 times a week and text one ... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 13,
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} | RIGHT |
UsffXCNwIHX8nugtlmlGpFznWRl5FBC6 | aoju00 | {
"description": "veto-ing my MoH's plus one for my wedding",
"pronormative_score": 10,
"contranormative_score": 1
} | WIBTA for veto-ing my MoH’s plus one for my wedding | My Maid of Honour has been on and off dating my ex-boyfriend for a couple of years now, and they’re together currently.
I really, really don’t like the guy, both for reasons concerning our relationship and how he treats her (nothing physically worrying, but it’s not a healthy relationship to the point where she’s in ... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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"OTHER": 9,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
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"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 10,
"WRONG": 1
} | RIGHT |
eUzOKQxKrXr1NBgVUee4spNtgtnnDQQz | avjqo0 | {
"description": "messaging my sister in law",
"pronormative_score": 21,
"contranormative_score": 2
} | AITA if I message my sister in law... | This is a pretty short, cut and dry story.
My brother married this awesome woman years back. They have a couple kids, and seem to get along really well.
Until recently when I was told by another family member that my brother was cheating on his wife and they would be getting a divorce.
So, today I was messaging w... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
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oqucCZz3pImHF3iNzggondZAvPJItVBD | apkq93 | {
"description": "demanding my roommates sister pays rent",
"pronormative_score": 7,
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} | WIBTA to demand my roommates sister pays rent? | My roommate and I have been bestfriends since kindergarten and hes a fantastic roommate. However about 6 months ago him, a third person, and I were going to get an apartment together but after some unfortunate events not relevant to the story my roommate and I got stuck on the lease while the third person bailed. So no... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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"RIGHT": 7,
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uSv1wY1dkLDLMOFMh0uf4tvrQSc2YrDQ | ag9jqs | {
"description": "distancing myself from my parents",
"pronormative_score": 4,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for distancing myself from my parents | I am 24 and have a 1 year old. I'm tired of being disappointed by them. They'll make plans to come over and never show. I made lunch plans on a tuesday and they rescheduled twice finally for a dinner they were going to bring something or we were all going out once my husband got home. Thirty minutes before they were go... | HISTORICAL | {
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yfQsX4GdmOcgEc9APmXsTzopLHpKemXA | afvj8t | {
"description": "knocking on my next door neighbors door (duplex) to let me back in",
"pronormative_score": 4,
"contranormative_score": 1
} | AITA for knocking on my next door neighbors door (duplex) to let me back in? | Was in a rush this morning getting some important paperwork together and forgot my key. My neighbor is my landlord, so I know he has as spare. I knocked on the door (I would say firmly but not excessively just because he is known for sleeping until 1pm) and just politely called his name.
He ripped open the door after ... | HISTORICAL | {
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8Pw9KUI3gOAF72YrKcfPuNIdic3OPs0p | 9yr2ch | null | AITA - An Educated Guess or Just Racial Profiling | This happened over a year ago while I was driving with an Ex-girlfriend. This scenario still nags on me and so I decided to share it here.
Karen (Ex's name for the story), my dog, and I were driving early in the morning to a hiking trail in Pasadena, California. It was early Saturday morning so traffic wasn't bad at a... | HISTORICAL | {
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US4hWuhEpNbY2HFegtCCk7iqMCoGd7gy | aarpkg | {
"description": "not wanting to Text my friends",
"pronormative_score": 3,
"contranormative_score": 2
} | AITA For Not Wanting to Text my Friends? | Sorry for the poorly formatted wall of text, I've never done this before.
All names are replaced with fake ones for obvious reasons.
\-Background-
So about a year ago, I dated this girl named Jean who was a mutual friend of a number of my friends. She had previously been hooking up with two of my better friends, Ste... | HISTORICAL | {
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r2OJ5Yz9Wx6ZBzzMstcMZsHrQmd3p2TX | b3246d | {
"description": "asking my bf to stop joking about his abuse around me",
"pronormative_score": 20,
"contranormative_score": 3
} | WIBTA if I asked my bf to stop joking about his abuse around me? | My boyfriend was badly abused as a child. I love him with absolutely every bit of my heart and it makes me so incredibly sad to even think about. We don't really talk about it a lot (of course, if he wants to, I always lend him an ear). But he makes *extremely* graphic jokes about it every now and then, mostly unprompt... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 14,
"INFO": 0
} | NOBODY | {
"RIGHT": 20,
"WRONG": 3
} | RIGHT |
cctFiUUZtj6POpLLezTR8Z3VdKmzZ0fS | ac8awq | {
"description": "leaving my friend when she needed me",
"pronormative_score": 2,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for leaving my friend when she needed me? | Backstory: I've known her online for about over half a year now, but we're really close. She has her fair share of traumas from past experiences, is really introverted and shy, and has breakdowns ever so often. We're really supportive of each other.
Last night, she was having a mentally bad day and was barely online f... | HISTORICAL | {
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4MIkExvPxqaNeUJjk9eZBdrph57f6Thx | annylp | {
"description": "being tired of my girlfriends mom staying with us",
"pronormative_score": 3,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA because I’m tired of my girlfriends mom staying with us | I’m naturally an introvert. I recharge best in my own space doing my hobbies. I get worn down when folks come to visit and stay. I always find myself happy they’re leaving after a week or so and feel a bit drained emotionally.
I live with my girlfriend in Hawaii and her mom lives on a different island. Every two week... | HISTORICAL | {
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gcOpouqfmDx31qCiRuFfStjL5cT8oeXX | auntvk | {
"description": "going to sleep early during a campout",
"pronormative_score": 3,
"contranormative_score": 1
} | AITA for going to sleep early during a campout? | Background: so i was at a camping trip for my friends birthday party, and i got there later than everyone else because i had biked 12 miles for a foundation (doesn’t matter which, just that my legs were sore as FUCK)
So i arrive later than everybody else, and the host tells me that i will be sleeping in the biggest te... | HISTORICAL | {
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EpodqkmUt0NG2ovwBPIEPceErcm5Z4cR | afyujt | {
"description": "telling a girl she put weight on but looks good",
"pronormative_score": 4,
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} | AITA for telling a girl she put weight on but looks good | I'm a 19 year old girl, I was going through Instagram stories and I saw this one girl I know (19F) post a photo from her vacation. She's always been a skinny girl. I swiped up and said "you gained weight and it looks 🔥🔥🔥". It was just because I noticed she had fuller thighs and it gave her a nice shape. One of my fr... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | AUTHOR | {
"RIGHT": 4,
"WRONG": 17
} | WRONG |
3fdIh4z1aXIBYmb6kNu4chf70DSN5v4V | ad58bz | {
"description": "not wanting my spouse to go to conventions",
"pronormative_score": 11,
"contranormative_score": 14
} | AITA for not wanting my spouse to go to conventions? | Throwaway because I think my husband knows my main.
My husband has been attending conventions for like 15 years, we’ve been together for 9. When he was in high school he went to a lot of conventions every year, now it’s usually 1 or 2 every year. When we first met, he said “I’m not gonna be one of those lame 30 year ... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | AUTHOR | {
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"WRONG": 14
} | WRONG |
PpKSreILukhLnX2ew8rF0c5YNnjedjaO | ay6xf0 | {
"description": "telling my ex and her best friend I don't want them in our prom group",
"pronormative_score": 0,
"contranormative_score": 6
} | AITA for telling my ex and her best friend I don't want them in our prom group? | I despise my ex for multiple reason but the overall main reason I do is she used me because she was touch starved and wanted affection. She said this herself to other friends in the prom group. My exes best friend is also in the group and could never think my ex can do any wrong.
Now I want my prom night to be the be... | HISTORICAL | {
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ZCPmgQp0AkqgQY7dRsovbLpshuRBQpGU | b4nukk | {
"description": "not giving my younger brother his birthday present",
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} | AITA for not giving my younger brother his birthday present | Throwaway account because some of my friends know about my main one.
For some context: Me and my brother used to be really close when we were younger but as time went by and me moving away for university we slowly drifted apart. I get to be home maybe once every 2 weeks for around two days and I try to spend as much ti... | HISTORICAL | {
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tFdeoNTUlvIf9m7aN0CqDXkQFMZdjP3b | b4n1hq | {
"description": "cutting off my brother for publicizing that I haven't had a vaccine",
"pronormative_score": 348,
"contranormative_score": 22
} | AITA for cutting off my brother for publicizing that I haven't had a vaccine | No, I am not an anti vaxxer. I've had all my vaccines except gardasil, which I opted out of when the doctor asked at 14 (because I was 14 and didn't want to be stuck with a needle). I didn't realize I was missing the vaccine until my doctor brought it up recently. I've decided not to get it now that I'm older because I... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 348,
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} | RIGHT |
cCBwUGnsAmOxXIPRzhP8F1U12etQkfR4 | avvjkk | {
"description": "taking the ATM machine after waiting in the car",
"pronormative_score": 1,
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} | AITA for taking the ATM machine after waiting in the car? | I was waiting in one of the parking spots right in front of the ATM inside my car because it was cold and I dont want to invade the privacy of the person using the ATM. Then later this lady's car rolled up and stood outside. She saw me sitting in the car in front of the machine, not on my phone, staring at the person w... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | WRONG |
0htxYUJycvm6JlCsbAD4L3DMYiAYjBLE | a4g7ee | {
"description": "wanting to go to a friend's birthday party over my an aunt's birthday party",
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} | AITA for wanting to go to a friend's birthday party over my an aunt's birthday party | (First time poster and I'm on mobile, I'm sorry for formatting)
So today my friend is going to have his 18th birthday party at Chuck E Cheese, and he invited me. Now I rarely see this friend because we go to different schools but we still talk on occasion.
My aunt's birthday party is today as well and my grandma is s... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | RIGHT |
ma5AakGbzmy99YvN4PvBj6W4XM7g7THR | a0rs7k | {
"description": "being pissed off at my brother for playing video games in our room while I try to sleep",
"pronormative_score": 7,
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} | AITA For being Pissed off at my brother for playing video games in our room while I try to sleep? | Here’s a bit of backstory. My brother and I share a room. He is 17 and I am 14. My brother has not been to school since the 7th grade because he is too “shy”. I, on the other hand, have went to school and am in the process of skipping 8th grade.
My brother has no responsibility what so ever, and all he does is play t... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
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} | RIGHT |
1PwPb5wUBz2q6VBK6BJAOFDdy0WNj8lt | atdvtv | {
"description": "possibly ghosting a guy who wants to date me",
"pronormative_score": 7,
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} | WIBTA for possibly ghosting a guy who wants to date me? | To get to the point there is this guy who i meet in October of last year. We meet up about once a month to hang out, make out, and have sex together. I told him in the beginning that i'm not in the market to have a relationship because my last one really didn't go well. A lot of stuff happened in the last one that almo... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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"OTHER": 5,
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"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 7,
"WRONG": 1
} | RIGHT |
rEMxZGEmR2sBQZCTtHktnZeRi68SGuVF | b895q3 | {
"description": "hanging up on my mom after not talking to her for a month",
"pronormative_score": 4,
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} | AITA for hanging up on my mom after not talking to her for a month? | So some back ground information. At 18 my parents kicked me out and I had to go live with my aunt. We’ve had several spats over the past 10 or so years while I was growing up mainly because they tried to control my every move.
Growing up nearly anything I wanted to do was off limits. From cartoon shows to hanging out... | HISTORICAL | {
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ja91sahcxPKtX4pv3J9c3rXmy8nh7mRS | a0kxim | null | WIBTA- ended friendship after getting gastro off them | WIBTA? Actually this happened a few years back but would be good to get feedback.
So I was driving into my driveway after very long day of work (3 hour commute each way including childcare drop off and pick up) when I notice Betty (not real name) hunched over in my front yard.
To give a bit of background, Betty was... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 8,
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} | RIGHT |
4ZDd5eSIFWcgG2E7rePD9RgbDrnPOXWE | arm9tq | {
"description": "not wanting to see my grandmother",
"pronormative_score": 7,
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} | AITA for not wanting to see my grandmother | I want to start off by saying, my grandmother has always been a rude person, even to her own friends and family. I have never gotten on with her and she always gets the sympathy because she's always sick and in and out of the hospital.
Now, recently, I've been told this is real. She's in the hospital and there's a ch... | HISTORICAL | {
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Axb5Ptu2InqOfUIs74746OBWI23fZHyB | aylerr | {
"description": "not wanting to listen to my loved one explain something they're interested in",
"pronormative_score": 0,
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} | AITA for not wanting to listen to my loved one explain something they’re interested in? | For context, I just had gotten home from a long day of school and then ‘work’ I do for the school. In school I already sat through the entire day of teachers explaining which understandably it wouldn’t really make me not want to hear explanations, just the fact after listening to play rehearsals for 2-3 hours while wor... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | AUTHOR | {
"RIGHT": 0,
"WRONG": 2
} | WRONG |
krvva5pSvjItqRHoaRBHlaicdniy0ZdM | ai8fk3 | {
"description": "telling my next door neighbor to keep her volume down",
"pronormative_score": 4,
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} | AITA for telling my next door neighbor to keep her volume down? | So I college dorms which houses singles rooms for students. My next door neighbor watches tv at around 2-5am (loud enough to wake me up, I am a light sleeper). the walls in my dorm are super thin and it really isn't terribly loud but it is hard to sleep with it going on. The people who also live next to her don't mi... | HISTORICAL | {
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gb7Rdijqvgi2P3YL0TcRAO7MRnMR8Hgb | aycqth | {
"description": "not changing my wedding procession order? meaning my best friend will have to walk with her ex",
"pronormative_score": 39,
"contranormative_score": 52
} | WIBTA if I don't change my wedding procession order? Meaning my best friend will have to walk with her ex. | Background. I'm getting married in May. We have a 6 person wedding party. My sister=MOH, husbands bro=BM. best friend and her ex are #2. My cousin and her husband= #3
Last year, my best friend and her ex were engaged but she thought he was cheating. She went off the deep end, went through his phone, computer and mail,... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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"INFO": 5
} | AUTHOR | {
"RIGHT": 39,
"WRONG": 52
} | WRONG |
ctuWXg1SAmG8Xn0mgOVRyj23Js9KstAv | alvktd | null | AITA mother of my children in jail (again) AITA for leaving her there? | Hello everyone let me start by saying I know the grammar Nazis are going to have a field day with this one but here we go.
The mother of my two children and I separated about 10 years ago, I received full custody of the children and have raised them on my own since she has not bothered to have any contact with them ou... | HISTORICAL | {
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"OTHER": 10,
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"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 10,
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} | RIGHT |
XjJ0I4kjexdGuJ2jrbY5sJnd07FUXu57 | b7tdtz | {
"description": "offering money to the guy I'm dating",
"pronormative_score": 11,
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} | AITA for offering money to the guy I'm dating | Long story short, I've been dating this guy for a few weeks. He recently was in an accident with someone with no insurance on top of his kid breaking her arm last month, so he's swimming in bills from what insurance didn't cover. He knows I have a pretty middle of the road job, but I haven't really told him yet that my... | HISTORICAL | {
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"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 11,
"WRONG": 1
} | RIGHT |
9K3eyZHFB7dOMz4dnBHjeD1E2z9VhOxA | acw2xg | {
"description": "not being attracted to mtfs who look like men",
"pronormative_score": 58,
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} | AITA For Not Being Attracted to MTFs Who Look Like Men | Throwaway because unfortunately now I’m worried about being banned from lesbian subs on here.
Unsure if I should put “not a shit post”, because at this point I’m not sure if I’m not the asshole considering all the people calling me a “terf” and saying I’m not a “real lesbian” on facebook. I’ve already gotten called a... | HISTORICAL | {
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"OTHER": 57,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 1,
"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 58,
"WRONG": 2
} | RIGHT |
86ACt13NqmfvL4joNUrVOUJoDh2m9mQN | a2msj6 | {
"description": "going to my ra",
"pronormative_score": 4,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | WIBTA For Going to my RA? | So I'm having some problems with my roommate. I was put in the pool for a random roommate this year and I got a roommate that is honestly pretty cool. We have some similar interests and at first he didn't do anything annoying other than stay up till 3-4 AM on his iPad, but even then it's his room too and I sleep just f... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
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"WRONG": 0
} | RIGHT |
AB2IfpB6W9Xk304540pOpjUznO9OLnDa | ar10t9 | {
"description": "hiding or throwing away roommate's disgusting sweatshirt",
"pronormative_score": 1,
"contranormative_score": 8
} | WIBTA for hiding or throwing away roommate's disgusting sweatshirt? | I know the title is weird so I'll explain the situation:
My roommate has gross tendencies (generally unclean), and he has been wearing the same sweatshirt for about a month now. when I say this, i literally mean that he has been wearing this sweatshirt almost every day for an entire month. and i mean like wears it ou... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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"OTHER": 1,
"EVERYBODY": 2,
"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 3
} | AUTHOR | {
"RIGHT": 1,
"WRONG": 8
} | WRONG |
9Z0f7ewG8cwfQvV4PJFO5QTPVp3Ctf69 | a1oo1o | {
"description": "telling my friend that my other friend was talking about her behind her back",
"pronormative_score": 5,
"contranormative_score": 2
} | AITA for telling my friend that my other friend was talking about her behind her back? | Sorry for this wordy post, I’m pretty upset right now and trying to vent. TLDR at bottom.
I work in a cafe with these two girls, we’ll call them Ruby and Amanda. I’ve been friends with Ruby since the day I started working there, we just really seemed to click. I didn’t get scheduled to work much the first month of my... | HISTORICAL | {
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"OTHER": 5,
"EVERYBODY": 2,
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} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 5,
"WRONG": 2
} | RIGHT |
VdTWcDInGVRtizBaa12fjImD4B80swt2 | b2oa8t | null | WIBTA- A love story(kinda) |
AITA?
Right so this could be really long or it could go incredibly badly like this whole relationship somewhat did.
So last year I met a guy, who is 3 years older than me, and we instantly had a connection. We dated for 5 months before we had to call it a day as he worked two jobs and I was working, whilst at coll... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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"INFO": 0
} | AUTHOR | {
"RIGHT": 0,
"WRONG": 2
} | WRONG |
s5lHajWad3ObyT0DB242HwahKXwjxWO1 | 9t9joe | {
"description": "wanting my friend to finally actually commit suicide because Im sick of talking to her for hours trying to keep her from doing it",
"pronormative_score": 2,
"contranormative_score": 5
} | AITA for wanting my friend to finally actually commit suicide because im sick of talking to her for hours trying to keep her from doing it ? | A friend of mine is living in a terrible situation psycho bf and she is depressed, suicidal. i've known her for years she always calls me when she is about to kill herself then i talk to her like for an hour trying to talk him out telling him he needs to go get help from social services but ofc she wont listen ...tbh ... | HISTORICAL | {
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"EVERYBODY": 0,
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"INFO": 0
} | AUTHOR | {
"RIGHT": 2,
"WRONG": 5
} | WRONG |
AsyZfqXv2Xdx4iDu5dvfr1FClXOllrTW | axq2m2 | {
"description": "kicking my depressed friend out of our band for an upcoming performance",
"pronormative_score": 2,
"contranormative_score": 6
} | AITA for kicking my depressed friend out of our band for an upcoming performance? | Here’s some background on the situation. About a week ago, my friends and I signed up to perform at a Battle of the Bands competition. The day of the competition is March 27(about 5 weeks from posting this) and we need to learn 5 songs for a 20 minute performance. Our band has performed twice before for small crowds ... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 5,
"OTHER": 2,
"EVERYBODY": 1,
"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 0
} | AUTHOR | {
"RIGHT": 2,
"WRONG": 6
} | WRONG |
8TZ0ZdA71J9CVbVhjQgv82tDYgHGHu5e | b2kz43 | {
"description": "reporting my muslim coworker's racist comment to my boss",
"pronormative_score": 18,
"contranormative_score": 7
} | AITA for reporting my Muslim coworker's racist comment to my boss? | Last week, I was in a meeting to address an upcoming deadline.
The meeting was supposed to be extremely short and to the point. We all had other meetings afterwards. Missed deadlines could cost us millions.
As luck would have it, our meeting ended up running late about fifteen minutes.
When my manager asked if ... | HISTORICAL | {
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"OTHER": 17,
"EVERYBODY": 2,
"NOBODY": 1,
"INFO": 1
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 18,
"WRONG": 7
} | RIGHT |
40MeWGLwMDKClPIxAcdgNV01zUUC1KYL | axkg9y | {
"description": "breaking up with my cheating ex to pursue someone I had caught feelings for whilst with her",
"pronormative_score": 4,
"contranormative_score": 1
} | AITA for breaking up with my cheating ex to pursue someone I had caught feelings for whilst with her? | Me and my girlfriend have been together since last year, but have known each other for a few (very vaguely). We started talking briefly on snapchat about life and stuff and I found her quite interesting, but not as a romantic interest as I was with my ex-girlfriend at the time and she was with her ex-boyfriend. We spok... | HISTORICAL | {
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"OTHER": 4,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
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"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 4,
"WRONG": 1
} | RIGHT |
ACXsfWt8js5Y7NA2K8NNNZMixYG1jZgc | adfc9y | {
"description": "getting angry at my roommate for screaming his girlfriend into submission",
"pronormative_score": 15,
"contranormative_score": 1
} | AITA For getting angry at my roommate for screaming his girlfriend into submission. | So quick background here,
I’ve (M25) been living with my GF (F26) and my roommate (M24) for about a year now.
My GF used to live in Pakistan where she states her and all the females in her family were treated like second class humans.
My roommate was born and raised in the states.
Since we’ve been living togethe... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 0,
"OTHER": 15,
"EVERYBODY": 1,
"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 1
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 15,
"WRONG": 1
} | RIGHT |
4Ioy862XGOnf3iUZXgblVYuruHxb70lS | 9xqhit | {
"description": "going after my bnb host",
"pronormative_score": 10,
"contranormative_score": 2
} | AITA going after my BnB host? | I posted this in tales from the customer and AirBnB and I got some pretty toxic responses and PM's. I thought I was at least neutral, but a couple people called me crazy and more called me an asshole. So I'll post it here, this isn't for affirmation, I legitimately am worried I need to apologize. TLDR at the end.
FTP... | HISTORICAL | {
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"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 10,
"WRONG": 2
} | RIGHT |
Oa03LW4g4bgVtwhrWsjDjgXtndZY8OXi | af6amr | {
"description": "pointing out a kid's accent",
"pronormative_score": 4,
"contranormative_score": 1
} | AITA for pointing out a kid’s accent? | I am a high schooler, and this happened close to the beginning of the school year. There was a kid last year who graduated last year that I kind of knew. He and his family are British, and lived in the US for a couple of years. In one of my classes, there was another kid in the grade level below me that also had somewh... | HISTORICAL | {
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"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 1,
"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 4,
"WRONG": 1
} | RIGHT |
4XI2euRbAe0TfPhVeopLryljeMRDzpdZ | anjazi | {
"description": "breaking up with a guy because he had a ninja sword in his apartment",
"pronormative_score": 2,
"contranormative_score": 74
} | AITA for breaking up with a guy because he had a ninja sword in his apartment? | posting this from a new account because I'm kind of trying to start over on reddit after the last week...
Maybe a month ago I met this guy on Tinder. It was a super like for me because he was cute and funny and didn't take himself to seriously. We met up and had a phenomenal time doing mini-golf and ice cream and hone... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 74,
"OTHER": 1,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 1,
"INFO": 0
} | AUTHOR | {
"RIGHT": 2,
"WRONG": 74
} | WRONG |
W7RTPHAdjPI3Q9DSJZC3nh2y5Iy9cKOq | 9zxwiq | {
"description": "not helping my co-worker and leaving when she needed help",
"pronormative_score": 3,
"contranormative_score": 3
} | AITA for not helping my co-worker and leaving when she needed help? | For context this was a closing shift the day before thanksgiving. The store was already closed, but of course there were still a bunch of people being checked out. Also I'm not a cashier and I get to clock out as soon as I get my department clear of all customers.
Okay so, after an exhausting day of working in th... | HISTORICAL | {
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"OTHER": 2,
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"INFO": 0
} | AUTHOR | {
"RIGHT": 3,
"WRONG": 3
} | RIGHT |
x6vl4tbtYEZX2Kuc7wMCtR005DYVDu1H | 9yy6go | {
"description": "not wanting to pay my mother to see my son",
"pronormative_score": 5,
"contranormative_score": 7
} | AITA Because I don't want to pay my mother to see my son? | TL;DR at bottom.
So, a good few years ago my younger brother had a daughter (I'll name her 'L'). My brother lives 4 doors down from my mother and took full advantage of the fact he basically had a baby sitter where he could take L and go run errands/work etc. My mother got a bit sick of this as she felt like she was ta... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 7,
"OTHER": 5,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
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"INFO": 0
} | AUTHOR | {
"RIGHT": 5,
"WRONG": 7
} | WRONG |
7GPj84iecY6emu6eUew2yuybV8o81oOA | ay84ri | {
"description": "refusing to refund a textbook I sold on Kijiji",
"pronormative_score": 3,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for refusing to refund a textbook I sold on Kijiji? | So 2 months ago I sold a textbook on Kijiji. I said I was willing to refund it if it's the wrong version. 2 months later and the guy wants a refund because it's the wrong version, I told him to take a hike. I feel kinda bad, am I am ass? | HISTORICAL | {
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"OTHER": 3,
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"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 3,
"WRONG": 0
} | RIGHT |
S4rIJX6CewoyCpft9ypmaDARXoVEk5gA | aouw4j | {
"description": "not sharing switch controllers and games",
"pronormative_score": 0,
"contranormative_score": 5
} | WIBTA if i didnt share switch controllers and games. | Im 16 if thats somehow relevant.
My sister(18) wanted to borrow our switch for the day. Not a big deal, we got it as a shared christmas present a little less then 2 years ago.
She wanted to take it to work all day and then after work take it to a party for her and her friends to use.
I wanted to use it during the day... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 5,
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"INFO": 0
} | AUTHOR | {
"RIGHT": 0,
"WRONG": 5
} | WRONG |
pm7SyAHSqYG8jqcNhpIWpTVCMe0wz19e | b9rs82 | null | WIBTA | I'm going to try to make this short. My wife and I have a friend. She's really good friends with my wife. Just the other day she showed up at my wife's work. She confided in her some news that she just found out that she has certain ailment that has no cure. There are possible things to help minimize some of the sy... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 4,
"OTHER": 0,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 0
} | AUTHOR | {
"RIGHT": 0,
"WRONG": 4
} | WRONG |
EyGOMXU4rB1YKHtjFqSHTyAHNuvxM19o | a3jy8m | {
"description": "telling a guy that he was super hot but I dont want to date him",
"pronormative_score": 5,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | WIBTA if I told a guy that he was super hot but I dont want to date him. | I have a guy friend who's really hot but he always says he looks terrible. Would I be an asshole if next time he did this i would tell him hes super hot but i dont want to date him. I know right now hes very desperate for a girlfriend and i dont want to be his girlfriend or lead him on | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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"OTHER": 3,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 2,
"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 5,
"WRONG": 0
} | RIGHT |
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