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H5PZ84ZVodC7jmugyfnfw6VPpfTrpmM5 | b9w7l6 | {
"description": "not really being able to deal with my boyfriends venting",
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} | AITA for not really being able to deal with my boyfriends venting? | Me and my boyfriend (ldr) have been together for two years now and I do love him but sometimes, it stresses me out.
For the past few months, once or twice a day, he sends me a few vent messages. For around two months I really did try to help him but whenever I said anything he would turn it into something negativ... | HISTORICAL | {
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4Kr8G1TYc5xv8VplPqlmkulEAfifdiRG | b2t3oz | {
"description": "not hanging up other peoples clothes from the washing machine",
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} | AITA for not hanging up other peoples clothes from the washing machine | So i still live with my mom and we share one washer and no dryer (hang up clothes outside) but she does this thing where when she washes clothes she just leaves them there until I need to wash clothes and she expects me to hang up her clothes. Now I don't mind hanging them up when she actually asks me to and I always d... | HISTORICAL | {
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c9H0SbvH43t2m9DGrF3p1nIVKTHjbC21 | ar0nze | {
"description": "telling my friend I didn't think she'd care I was pregnant",
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} | AITA for telling my friend I didn't think she'd care I was pregnant. | I am posting this for my wife because I feel the need to get an outsider's perspective.
Right. So my wife has a friend who she has been close with for 10 years, long before I met her. She was a good friend to her and even gave her the money for a deposit upon a flat, even brought her down south (we live in the north o... | HISTORICAL | {
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TVn8dqEC45VHX6p1bdeNOLGAREA83oG8 | a4xbl9 | {
"description": "wanting to fly home early on family vacation my parents paid for",
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} | AITA for wanting to fly home early on family vacation my parents paid for? | My parents paid for vacation for me (23F), my sisters (18F and 25F) to come down to Orlando to see our brother (20M). We planned on going to SeaWorld, spending a day in Epcot, and hanging out at our resort.
Our brother had to have emergency surgery to get his appendix taken out on the first day we were here, which is ... | HISTORICAL | {
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oJsyLOw2x933GxzaZY5z8u2BxCLiR9Wb | b12ots | {
"description": "being crazy",
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} | AITA for being crazy? | I am a sensitive and fairly emotional lady. I think that my hormones make my feelings really turbulent. Additionally, I have adhd which makes my feelings feel really big and makes it really hard to get "unstuck".
My fiance is incredibly patient and kind with me. But I know it's irritating to live with someone who gets ... | HISTORICAL | {
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2tBsjs2PErdiL0G0noHGfbcmh10NcClN | akefie | {
"description": "not paying for my gf to live",
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} | AITA For Not Paying For My GF to Live? | So my gf and I have been dating for 4 years. We both were in our early 20s trying to figure out what to do with our lives, trying to get our shit together. We both talked about it and decided to go back to school to get better jobs and live better lives. She quit her decently paying job to take a trip to Europe with he... | HISTORICAL | {
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elBUtM98s0t9B9kR839ISuafMtUji86V | aryb32 | {
"description": "cutting off a friend because he tried to pressure me into talking to my ex",
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} | AITA for cutting off a friend because he tried to pressure me into talking to my ex? | So this happened a while ago but sometimes I think about it and wonder if I shouldn’t have completely cut him off entirely.
Here’s what happened
I dated a guy in high school for about 3yrs but broke up with him about a year ago. He has a friend who we’ll call Wiley that we both were friends with for a while. So fast ... | HISTORICAL | {
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TUYhTrZUOf8TYE9lGk1PPbU3Ytm7Edd5 | a0ve8e | {
"description": "calling out of work",
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} | AITA for calling out of work? | Last week I’ve started switching my medications. My doctor informed me that I may be dizzy during the transition. You guys I can’t even look down to see if the toilet paper is clean after taking a shit without getting dizzy and throwing up. In addition to the dizz I can’t feel my face or neck they are numb.
Now tomorr... | HISTORICAL | {
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OJbPnOgGU8efiAgQSf3jsMpVdJdoe7O4 | apjg52 | {
"description": "stopping attending class",
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} | WIBTA if i stopped attending class | Right now I am in my first year of IGCSE (grade 10) and I am taking Arabic as one of my subjects. I thought it was all going to be nice and dandy since my first language is Arabic but my teacher is to say the least "doesn't know what he is doing."
I trying depending on myself for about 3 months and not take any sess... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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"description": "no longer feeling attracted to a partner I've recently seen naked",
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} | AITA for no longer feeling attracted to a partner I've recently seen naked? | A bit of background: I am in my 30s and am decently in shape. I don't expect a partner to be in shape anymore than I am and even if they're a bit less that's fine too.
So now the story for AITA.
I started dating a new partner a few weeks back. We've known each other about a month and our relationship is brand new. I ... | HISTORICAL | {
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fm1VVGsf5GhUVY5b07A6qQk7IzqzFJoF | aq0xgq | {
"description": "making a joke about potatoes",
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} | AITA for making a joke about potatoes? | Hey guys!
My friend is turning 18 next week and we all decided to go to a saloon for her birthday. We’ve been talking about it for a few days and were all pretty excited to go.
Today she told us that her mom was paying and it was 50 dollars per person for their all you can eat loaded potato bar. I thought it was pret... | HISTORICAL | {
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xIgcN5HC4ZZca0ZcKvA3vFwARIeRHx2Z | b96d8k | {
"description": "not helping my ex-wife",
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} | AITA for not helping my ex-wife? | Long story short, divorced after 10 yrs of marriage. She was using drugs, endangering our child, and abusive to me. I have the kid, and work full time.
I’m paying TWO damn rents, but have more money now that I’ve ever had. Life is better.
She’s pissed I don’t give her any money (divorce order granted her NO spouse su... | HISTORICAL | {
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df2wPE1h9nqveso4KodR473NN8Cg0BB7 | 9upb94 | {
"description": "holding my nose next to a stinky stranger on the bus",
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} | AITA for holding my nose next to a stinky stranger on the bus? | She sat down next to me and reeked of something horrible, I tried to be polite at first and ignore the stench,but my eyes began to water and my gag reflex started triggering so I discreetly used my palm to hold my nose. I figured holding my nose was more polite than vomiting. I guess I let out a small gag because she t... | HISTORICAL | {
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S6suc3g1YB3IuYfttg1Z5ehTWTBv8Jw4 | au98be | {
"description": "feeding the neighbor's cat",
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} | AITA for feeding the neighbor's cat? | There's this cat that comes and greets me often whenever I walk outside to my car to go to/return from work. I honestly don't know if it's a stray or an outdoor cat that belongs to one of the neighbors. Usually if the weather is bad I don't see her, but today it just happened to be raining pretty hard and I saw her run... | HISTORICAL | {
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daLXNePswoTSIZga2IQ9GFg7DKK0GByo | b2b5f7 | {
"description": "calling CPS on this guy and his daughter",
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} | WIBTA If I called CPS on this guy and his daughter? | So there's this guy. He is a beggar on this side of the street. And bas his daughter with him every day I go there. She couldn't be older that 6 or 7. Today she was sleeping in the dirt. Now I'm jot sure of the living condition but everytime i go there there they are. A man with a sign begging for money and his daughte... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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b6QDKK12yWLYc1ZUQdXQw9x5C9OtAVk5 | asw1cu | {
"description": "trying to get my friend to stop using the term \"traps\"",
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} | AITA For trying to get my friend to stop using the term "traps"? | This is probably the worst place to post for judgement but all my friends are trans and i need someone on the opposite side to judge me.
​
So this started when my friend (lets call them anon1) posted a tweet about falling for a "trap" (the literal trap mind you, not the definition that is associated with t... | HISTORICAL | {
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yNmcfNar1kiogPTyVoBwu4rWVSAa5qVv | azfx54 | {
"description": "responding to my SO's dad with \"Fine, I don't want to talk about it,\" when asked how I was",
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} | AITA for responding to my SO’s dad with “Fine, I don’t want to talk about it,” when asked how I was? | My SO’s family celebrated birthdays this weekend with the extended family. They get together every few months with all the aunts, uncles, and cousins to do this. In general my SO, his brother, and the cousins find it rather boring and tend to complain about it, but they attend nonetheless. I’ve been going for a few yea... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | AUTHOR | {
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"WRONG": 10
} | WRONG |
YVgJjaKD8isLRCgGotQFQp2P1ypCSLHV | 9wuhpm | {
"description": "honking at a runner who was running into oncoming traffic at night next to the sidewalk even though he had a headlamp on",
"pronormative_score": 3,
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} | WIBTA If I honked at a runner who was running into oncoming traffic at night next to the sidewalk even though he had a headlamp on? | It’s rush hour. Dark out. Busy road. Has a slight curve. Is it just me or is he the asshole? Go run at the gym? That’s extremely dangerous and I almost hit you? | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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aFIEzO7probTNvszmDKN8s4nB4BCZGS9 | aynvx4 | {
"description": "cutting my ex out of my life",
"pronormative_score": 5,
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} | AITA for cutting my ex out of my life? | My ex and I had been talking for about a year before we made it official. I wanted to early on, but she didn’t. Reason being, she wasn’t ready and/or didn’t want to put a label to what we had. I really liked her so I was okay with this. Honestly, we were practically girlfriends, just without the label. One thing to not... | HISTORICAL | {
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tQFhKKvULS6ILdEVQBKBpcjwJXxeOnCe | an1676 | {
"description": "not wanting to go to my gfs brothers birthday and not explaining why",
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} | AITA For not wanting to go to my gfs brothers birthday and not explaining why? | Ive been dating my current girlfriend for seven months. We've been together long enough that she knows me and my personality.
What she doesnt know, and what nobody outside of some anonymous people online know, is that I was raped as a boy by my cousin, multiple times, from 8 to 10. My cousin is now estranged and lives... | HISTORICAL | {
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NMVBiMrwlFgRQ6Lq67MYOOwvW0wGcjtt | ammuoy | {
"description": "wanting to hang with my friend after they get an so",
"pronormative_score": 5,
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} | AITA for wanting to hang with my friend after they get an SO? | Sorry if I messed up anywhere, first time poster.
So, I (19M) have a friend (19FtoM,) who we’ll call Dan, that I’m really close with. We met in junior year, a few years before his transition, and got super close really quickly. We ended up living down the road from each other too which was cool. He, before and aft... | HISTORICAL | {
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5m57ke6CIu8ZXSW6QdIE0Pc04rjFs1gL | aua7d5 | {
"description": "leaving my ex on the sidewalk after we broke up",
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} | AITA for leaving my ex on the sidewalk after we broke up? | Recently I broke up with my girlfriend of about 4 months. I took her on a walk because we live fairly close together and she wanted to see me and walk the dog. I planned on ending it on her porch where she could just go inside, and I would know she was home safe, but when we got closer she saw her mom was outside smoki... | HISTORICAL | {
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"RIGHT": 41,
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G1aUhg0CVzjXuHrK0GFM3gHyk3BX7SBp | a79ieb | {
"description": "refusing to donate",
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} | AITA for refusing to donate? | So I have to/don't have to but it would really help you keep your promotion attend a course.
That's fine. I'm really excited for this course and it's a two day session of the one day season I had to miss out on.
Now I'm in public sector and am spoilt. These types of courses can run from $150 to $2000 depending on the... | HISTORICAL | {
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09MNaeZVnOuylvsztzxSrTnPgqmQSVK4 | ardqeq | {
"description": "wanting to move away from a toxic house-share with my sister",
"pronormative_score": 5,
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} | AITA For wanting to move away from a toxic house-share with my sister? | About 5 years ago my sister broker up with her boyfriend and I moved into her flat with her, since then we have both paid equal rent and shared all the bills. However I’ve never felt comfortable at home as she questions everything I do and I can never relax. For example she came in my room screaming at me because she d... | HISTORICAL | {
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klh2ZPCnpDiI12SZxQqnH352TuxsetyE | azogf9 | {
"description": "trying to stop a really stupid and harmful prank",
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} | AITA for trying to stop a really stupid and harmful prank? | I don’t get along much with the kids at my school, we simply have different tastes. But I have great foundations with all of them, I’m kind, we all laugh a lot, etc etc.
But I don’t belong in the main “group” of friends, all I have is these two best friends (I’m a male, they are both female)
These tow girls DO belon... | HISTORICAL | {
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xBn3JPDiPIE2NGMMyyuIonSBkO1En86y | awy0jw | {
"description": "being mad at my boyfriend for caring about his reputation more than mine",
"pronormative_score": 2,
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} | AITA for being mad at my boyfriend for caring about his reputation more than mine? | So to preface this, I'm pretty new to my school, I've been here about a year and a half. During this time, I have not been well liked and it never really went as far as it has now with the rumors and gossip, just normal high school drama. My boyfriend is a good guy, and is well liked, at least more than me. He is my fi... | HISTORICAL | {
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nGBKybZWYwOyiPRn7mW8matnqLMtCFLu | b3whob | {
"description": "wanting to leave my (ex-)wife as fast as possible now",
"pronormative_score": 4,
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} | AITA for wanting to leave my (ex-)wife as fast as possible now? | The life of my now ex-wife \[F, 28\] and me \[M, 27\] has been very challenging in the past few years.
We married quite early, when we were 18 & 19, and moved into a our own apartment and started studying.
After a while she started to lose the social connection within her fellow students. She faked going to cours... | HISTORICAL | {
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6A1WTak9LogBFSg8LGBratV6ljH9oF16 | b8trn4 | {
"description": "'taking' a dnd group from someone",
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} | AITA For 'taking' a DnD group from someone. | Hey there, this is a throw away account because i know the guys involved frequent reddit and have occasionally referenced this subreddit.
I am currently in university and myself and my group of friends were all pretty interested in starting a DnD campaign, none of them have any kind of experience, and i only have 2 ca... | HISTORICAL | {
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g0oK8W8WC7Pb2Qm8ZFeNjQOoE1lqcK1j | aiy2tk | {
"description": "keeping the distance to my friend",
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} | AITA for keeping the distance to my friend? | So for context: I am 25 years old male and live in Germany. I met my friend (24, male (let's call him Brian)) at school in 2010 and we've been hanging out together regularly ever since. I would pretty much consider myself as a very emotional, caring person.
​
So basically, everything was great until we got... | HISTORICAL | {
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zqI8B7aHlY4F4rEC1tkTu5HiDNAlEzao | adfvmu | {
"description": "losing my cool with my roommate/friend and telling him to STFU",
"pronormative_score": 11,
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} | AITA for losing my cool with my roommate/friend and telling him to STFU? | Happened earlier today. So this weekend has been a shit show. My (21M) sister (18F) and her abusive boyfriend (21M) broke up on Saturday, they lived together at his house. She is extremely fragile and last time this guy broke up with her, she had a complete mental breakdown and was admitted to the hospital for a suici... | HISTORICAL | {
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RMUTeFhFUgdG1izCEzsq4SAXMAxnonOs | apbb3l | {
"description": "not going with my school band to a competition",
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} | AITA for not going with my school band to a competition. | I’m at a high school in the UK, and we’re having a school band (the ones with flutes, tubas, etc.) competition coming up, and recently I heard that some of the people in my band think I’m useless in the band and not that great (which I’m not because I’m a first year, but I was good enough to get it and play the music r... | HISTORICAL | {
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2pLk57KOqUMtBivbkBTcAPfRGCEnpkHm | ar4pd2 | {
"description": "causing a \"scene\" at my house when people came over that blatantly don't like me",
"pronormative_score": 3,
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} | AITA for causing a “scene” at my house when people came over that blatantly don’t like me? | So long story short. I hired a mutual friend for a job at a place that I worked. She was a mutual friend of my sister in law. So six of us would hang out (me, my SO, my SO brother, his wife , friend A and her husband (friend B)
I hired friend A for a job where I worked as the manager. After I quit I still did some sid... | HISTORICAL | {
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Wzo09X3MpS6mHQg7UZD2JytjWlLWoIKs | au3w5y | {
"description": "not wanting to go to Disney with my nephews",
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} | AITA for not wanting to go to Disney with my nephews? | For some context I have terrible anxiety and I hate traveling. I don’t like crowds, flying, staying in other places, and I can’t afford much time off from work. However last year my family was taking a trip to Disney for a weekend. It was the first time my nephews were going and in an attempt to be a good uncle I obvio... | HISTORICAL | {
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HJNscbq2yxhrWrvB9yfdUaXnNaux46Eo | azc0sd | {
"description": "asking my boyfriend not to bring his children to my birthday dinner",
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} | AITA for asking my boyfriend not to bring his children to my birthday dinner | I have been with my boyfriend (30M) almost for 2 years. He has 2 children (9 &11) from his previous marriage. He recently moved out of his apartment and lives in a camper which causes him to see his kids less often, at least twice a week. I love his kids, even though I have no desire to have any of my own. I have ... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
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9wenCf2SO8VooeOanYWwHZQY6h4AUtUM | an188t | {
"description": "never actually pursuing girls, even when there are mutual feelings",
"pronormative_score": 2,
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} | AITA for never actually pursuing girls, even when there are mutual feelings? | So, to start things off, I have ASD, which makes feelings hard to grasp for me. Also, I am considered fairly attractive by many people, including platonic friends, though I don't really get how myself, and as such I get a fair amount of looks from girls.
Enough humblebragging though, my problem with girls has always ... | HISTORICAL | {
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Ih6MhM1r2XanIEbqlB5sRn9V33gmMUk2 | ashjrw | {
"description": "accepting money for watching my neighbors dogs",
"pronormative_score": 23,
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} | AITA for accepting money for watching my neighbors dogs? | Hi all.
I’m 21F. My neighbors are in their 40s.
They went away for 8 days, and have asked me to take care of their dogs. It’s day 3, and so far I’ve been feeding them morning and night, letting them out twice a day for about half an hour (they’re unable to go for walks for various reasons), and changing the sick do... | HISTORICAL | {
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vWavdo1m43JWXYxwOagCuQTH3mUvxKoo | atxbjy | {
"description": "cutting off a former friend",
"pronormative_score": 4,
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} | AITA for cutting off a former friend? | Throwaway account because my brother looks at my real account and a friend of mine. Also on mobile so formatting.
So, AITA for cutting off a friend of mine over a summer? This happened sort-of recently in 8th grade. Backstory: I'm a straight male (will be important) and my friend was a bit odd.
In 8th grade I was rea... | HISTORICAL | {
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OCzP57l8ziIsZaUIfet1tCYmekrOoFad | b2e9ng | null | AITA: GF friends with M she had relations with. | So me and my GF have been together for 6 months. I’m 22, she’s 19 and 6 months pregnant with my child. “Quick maths”. We have a good relationship and I honesty do love her and we plan to stay together. We also live together.
She has a male friend that she’s been friends with for approximately 3-4 years. This friend l... | HISTORICAL | {
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RMCGzyGlGBnaKkCu4HUUDDixNUfhBtMy | a2ztjl | {
"description": "denying my terminally ill wife the chance to be a mother",
"pronormative_score": 492,
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} | AITA for denying my terminally ill wife the chance to be a mother? | I don't want a baby. I never wanted a baby. We are 24 and 25. She is very unwell, we dont know how long she has to live but most likely between 2 and 3 years.
When she was diagnosed she was told having a baby would kill her, so the fact I don't want one wasn't an issue. Now she is looking into other methods that could... | HISTORICAL | {
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"INFO": 5
} | OTHER | {
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} | RIGHT |
Vz1RW0WXWqNnNwpWCiAU8OnkQaQrVbxi | aanma8 | {
"description": "planning to elope for no reason other than impatience",
"pronormative_score": 7,
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} | AITA for planning to elope for no reason other than impatience? | This is kind of an ‘are we the asshole’ since my fiancé and I are in total agreement about wanting to elope, neither one of us had to push or persuade the other into this.
So my boyfriend and I got engaged a year ago. We’ve been together since meeting at university abroad, and now live in a completely different countr... | HISTORICAL | {
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Nh7CjSz15RiG82Ygr37RzkuUZ54ttFGX | aj2i8l | {
"description": "threatening a friend with telling all of their secrets to everyone if they don't remove an edit of me alongside a dick from their stories",
"pronormative_score": 4,
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} | AITA for threatening a friend with telling all of their secrets to everyone if they don’t remove an edit of me alongside a dick from their stories? | Long story short I was minding my own business, checking my stories and whatnot. Then I get a message from my best friend and he told me that some girl I used to call my friend posted an edit of me alongside a dick. (Yes, a real dick, not a shitty drawing) I was immediately shocked and told her to delete the story or i... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | EVERYBODY | {
"RIGHT": 4,
"WRONG": 10
} | WRONG |
L5mUCGfkVpd8pugWkqrOmm1Vbt6FlsWu | at3atj | {
"description": "telling my dad that I don't want my mom to live with us again",
"pronormative_score": 31,
"contranormative_score": 1
} | AITA for telling my dad that I don't want my mom to live with us again? | Throwaway because I don't want to risk getting identified by people i know who use reddit. Last year my dad discovered that mom had been cheating on him with one of his close friends. The only reason he found out is because his friend's wife snooped through her husband's phone and found old convos between him and my mo... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 31,
"WRONG": 1
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XxQwP5oInXfqT9mwj3S3IGSnH9k9d5bk | b5ag8d | {
"description": "ignoring this email",
"pronormative_score": 6,
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} | WIBTA if I ignore this email? | I work as a PhD candidate and coworker X graduated last week. Today some of us got an email by her friends. They said, that they were planning a party and we're all invited because we are X's close friends.
I didn't know about that. She's nice and all that but I wouldn't consider her a close friend (I also didn't kno... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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"INFO": 0
} | AUTHOR | {
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} | WRONG |
zRviLTuCNefzxQoN1CiEel2pz3y0vBju | alkf1t | {
"description": "going to the hospital at 3 in the Morning for kidney pains",
"pronormative_score": 10,
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} | AITA for going to the hospital at 3 in the Morning for kidney pains? | This probably happened about a month ago.
I am a 17 year old male working minimum wage at a fast food place. About a month ago I had a severe pain coming from my lower back on both sides of my body. I am not very physically fit. Probably 210 Lbs and 6ft with - i admit- a poor diet that has soda involved. My mind insta... | HISTORICAL | {
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"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 10,
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} | RIGHT |
UpkkJAGeTkRdhB85Wr4op9zx3d4Bwn4i | b13xxe | {
"description": "not sending reciprocate gifts for BIL & SIL's children",
"pronormative_score": 8,
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} | AITA for not sending reciprocate gifts for BIL & SIL's children? | More like Are We TA. My husband and I are not in the habit of exchanging gifts for birthdays or holidays so it didn't even occur to us to send gifts until we received gifts.
Husband and I welcomed our first child last year. We didn't reveal the baby's sex until after she was born. About 2 months later we receive a ... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | NOBODY | {
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} | RIGHT |
VKB65Z6ZhGjQLSk8E8J7RAiBxJC2At4v | asawb1 | {
"description": "wanting some boundaries in a long distance relationship",
"pronormative_score": 7,
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} | AITA for wanting some boundaries in a long distance relationship? | My (30 f) bf (27m) is currently living about 5 hours away until he can save enough to move to NYC to be together. We are in a communication loop about an issue with his new female friends. This was supposed to be temporary living situation until he’s able to move closer.. he took a job at a restaurant and immediately s... | HISTORICAL | {
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"RIGHT": 7,
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pssLcYzcJVK6uAZVGq7YDlek8XUudI6J | ankrx6 | {
"description": "not giving people rides after school",
"pronormative_score": 15,
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} | AITA for not giving people rides after school? | I’m in high school and my parents bought me a car and pay for the insurance but I’m left to cover the cost for gas. A lot of my classmates have been asking for rides but when I inquire about gas money they feel as if I’m being greedy since I don’t make payments or pay for insurance paying a bit extra for gas shouldn’t ... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 1,
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} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 15,
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} | RIGHT |
LpJ3tlpuPt6IltN9sMl0Wy8UeyZLoFnQ | 9t97li | {
"description": "asking my husband to put his dreams on hold",
"pronormative_score": 19,
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} | WIBTA For asking my husband to put his dreams on hold | My husband is very ambitious. He works hard at his job and always has a side project or 5. He's also an introvert and is most fulfilled when he is plugging away at little projects by himself. Right now, his big undertaking is starting a business with a friend of his. They generally meet 3 times a week before work (he'l... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 4,
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"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 19,
"WRONG": 4
} | RIGHT |
8KKpRsHcB8FETxzFN1jXmSKK8By8meoS | acybpq | null | Update: WIBTA for complaining about my raise at work? | Link to original: https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/a6hq4n/wibta_for_complaining_about_my_raise_at_work/?st=JQJY57BR&sh=c42e5eaa
Just want to say thank you so much to everyone who gave me feedback. It was beyond helpful.
Anyways, I ended up going to talk to her and told her that I would like the ra... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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4fia49D8sZVl256V2486J2Vclg4F7K5l | b6qnhe | {
"description": "telling my trans male friend to shut up about his dick",
"pronormative_score": 24,
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} | AITA for telling my trans male friend to shut up about his dick? | Background info: I'll be referring to the friend as James (fake name), though in all honesty, he isn't really a friend. He's in my social circle but he's a lot closer to my other friends than me. James is a pretty cocky and arrogant guy. For this reason, he talks about sex a lot even when it's not relevant. Could be be... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 24,
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} | RIGHT |
VzlOHsbMj9bDu2esUlRE0gYZVsyYZhu3 | a9xo60 | {
"description": "wanting to go to a wedding",
"pronormative_score": 10,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for wanting to go to a wedding? | I'm going to try and write this as formally/unbiased as possible and just leave in the details that are absolutely necessary as I want to objectively find out if I'm being out of order here.
I (31m) have been with my girlfriend (25f) for 2.5 years. This summer we broke up for a couple of months. We got back togeth... | HISTORICAL | {
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"RIGHT": 10,
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wNdXCY6krdF4Aa72NRq6gx2soz8tFw82 | b0hbgf | {
"description": "gagging when my friend told me she was into ageplay",
"pronormative_score": 11,
"contranormative_score": 4
} | AITA for gagging when my friend told me she was into ageplay? | TRIGGER WARNING: obviously theres going to be some nsfw here.
F: Freind
B: friends boyfriend
HR: me
TL/DR: My friend told me her boyfriend and her age play. When I learned this I physically gagged, and she looked hurt. On a side note, my dad is in jail for sexually assaulting a 16 year old and she knows it's a sensi... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | RIGHT |
eTFWnnd6vUeCiJYEL3NX2NcfIfrGlOmO | a1kifc | {
"description": "cancelling classes to attend my sister's wedding",
"pronormative_score": 7,
"contranormative_score": 1
} | WIBTA if I cancel classes to attend my sister’s wedding? | I’m a solopreneur who owns a gymnastics facility. We have less than 100 students and my fiancé and I are the only coaches/employees. We both work six days a week (my fiancé has a full-time job and coaches three days a week for me on the side, and I only work in the gym and coach Monday-Saturday, plus admin work at ho... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 1,
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"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 7,
"WRONG": 1
} | RIGHT |
rkPLOsCUgpH63O5n6iFCsExq0tt7a3A4 | a6ngld | {
"description": "not helping my brother pay for his Uber",
"pronormative_score": 2,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for not helping my brother pay for his Uber? | I’ll try to keep this short and sweet. It’s been about a month since it happened and I’ve thought about it and I do feel guilty a bit, but don’t at the same time.
So me and my brother live about a 5 min walk (2 blocks at most) from a Walgreens that we usually buy things from because it’s cheap. We ran low on water, an... | HISTORICAL | {
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d7KzTFkUbvSEAyzQOVBkrnUt8vBO2XwN | 9zw2qx | {
"description": "using a single person women's bathroom in an emergency as a guy that was waiting for 5 minutes",
"pronormative_score": 10,
"contranormative_score": 1
} | AITA for using a single person women’s bathroom in an emergency as a guy that was waiting for 5 minutes? | So it’s thanksgiving. I’m a 21 year old guy. I have an hour drive up to my families house. I was drinking a big iced coffee and had to pee. I figured I could hold it but it soon became apparent that I really couldn’t. So I pull over at the next exit and go into a gas station. The gas station has two single person bathr... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 1,
"OTHER": 9,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
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"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 10,
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} | RIGHT |
CISYGTqxYtoUDufmpgrSkxquOpgMtUNh | al04zg | {
"description": "looking through me Ex's phone to confirm she slept with my best friend",
"pronormative_score": 10,
"contranormative_score": 14
} | AITA For looking through me Ex's phone to confirm she slept with my best friend | We stopped dating about 4 months ago. Amicable. We took some time apart to figure ourselves out. We're now trying dating to figure out what we are, and if we're getting back together. For background: I work with our mutual friends, one of which is Frank, a very good friend of mine. Frank is a bit of a manwhore, but our... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 9,
"OTHER": 10,
"EVERYBODY": 5,
"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 1
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 10,
"WRONG": 14
} | WRONG |
CzlZWujrW40DqNt5egyMt7OLwXkvMx5X | ace2hc | {
"description": "thinking my co-worker's an irresponsible asshole",
"pronormative_score": 3,
"contranormative_score": 1
} | AITA for thinking my co-worker’s an irresponsible asshole? | I am a teaching assistant (TA) at a division I public university. I am one of several TAs in a group where each of us lead a lab of ~30 students in a course. In November, as one of the TAs led a lab section, a student hesitantly approached him to let him know that when she used the bathroom, she saw a bomb threat scraw... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 1,
"OTHER": 3,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 3,
"WRONG": 1
} | RIGHT |
ZnJPwO4ihhjDxnlWfh3dk2Z941gO0Bja | adpaj9 | {
"description": "calling the police on a mom at the park because she left her toddler alone for a long time",
"pronormative_score": 71,
"contranormative_score": 13
} | AITA for calling the police on a mom at the park because she left her toddler alone for a long time? | I took my two-year-old son to the park, and was pushing him in a swing. Another mom came over, plopped her toddler in the swing next to my kid, pushed him a few times then disappeared. A few minutes passed before she came back, pushed him really hard in the swing and left again.
I was still pushing my son in the swing... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 12,
"OTHER": 69,
"EVERYBODY": 1,
"NOBODY": 2,
"INFO": 2
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 71,
"WRONG": 13
} | RIGHT |
CL5QCLkpK2OkAOmAtZXJO3emJZuHWLsQ | b8sn2o | {
"description": "saying no to loaning money to my brother",
"pronormative_score": 10,
"contranormative_score": 1
} | AITA if I said no to loaning money to my brother? | Some info: he’s fucking horrible with money. He’s worked okay jobs for 8 years now, shares an apartment with our dad which means his rent is low but he uses all his money on unhealthy foods and goods and technology and games. He has no savings, has had a wreck of a credit score once or twice plus an addiction or two. F... | HISTORICAL | {
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"OTHER": 10,
"EVERYBODY": 1,
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"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 10,
"WRONG": 1
} | RIGHT |
Beml6SxYZ2vXzJXf621ZgV6qLXma7wGx | 9uoomj | {
"description": "shitting in the wrong bed",
"pronormative_score": 0,
"contranormative_score": 5
} | AITA For shitting in the wrong bed? | I was at a frat house party and a guy there was being extremely touchy with a girl I went with (though he was extremely drunk if that's an excuse). Me in my drunken genius decided to shit in his bed to get back at him. Bout 30 min later a chick is rushing out and I hear a guy scream someone shit in his bed... not the r... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 5,
"OTHER": 0,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
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"INFO": 0
} | AUTHOR | {
"RIGHT": 0,
"WRONG": 5
} | WRONG |
LLOltLRpahjsqroGzrJYWmFOG7sEnM77 | ay2ee0 | {
"description": "requesting a seat change in one of my classes",
"pronormative_score": 9,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | WIBTA for requesting a seat change in one of my classes? | **Context/necessary background info**: 12th-grade English class. We sit at tables comprised of multiple desks, with five to a table. Missouri, USA. My class is overcrowded and every desk is taken, so much as that some people have to use the computer desks built into the wall. In short, there’s no empty seats I could m... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 0,
"OTHER": 8,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 1,
"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 9,
"WRONG": 0
} | RIGHT |
xbw50YrZF9JGQxIa1kWwLDv3ICy0MlfN | b6goyi | {
"description": "leaving my girlfriend to get some sleep",
"pronormative_score": 112,
"contranormative_score": 2
} | AITA for leaving my girlfriend to get some sleep? | My girlfriend and I have been together for two months, over which we've been sleeping either at her place or mine.
Her parents have left on vacation for a couple of weeks so they left their cat with my GF, thus we have to spend the nights in her apartment.
First night with the cat, we go to sleep but the cat is restle... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 2,
"OTHER": 105,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 7,
"INFO": 1
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 112,
"WRONG": 2
} | RIGHT |
2lnebTVUj1n6EJCtV9TuZtOClC69GRzB | az0kzj | {
"description": "calling Uber's emergency support and the police non-emergency line because my co-ride in an Uber pool was a 5is year old girl and possibly got the Uber driver fired",
"pronormative_score": 27,
"contranormative_score": 5
} | AITA for calling Uber’s emergency support and the police non-emergency line because my co-ride in an Uber pool was a 5is year old girl and possibly got the Uber driver fired? | So I called an Uber pool to take me to a bar this evening and it said “you are sharing a ride with Andrew”. When I entered the car, I saw that the co-rider was a very young girl (about 5, probably not named Andrew). I went through the ride in silence wondering what the hell to do (if anything) until the driver dropped ... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 5,
"OTHER": 24,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 3,
"INFO": 2
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 27,
"WRONG": 5
} | RIGHT |
XAk4vtM0JdQ1bU8UUAeekUqyus36L2nj | b7li76 | {
"description": "telling my friend not to move in with another friend",
"pronormative_score": 5,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for telling my friend not to move in with another friend? | My best friend needs to find a place to live because her lease is going to expire and none of her current roommates are going renew or be in the area. She's an awesome person and fellow LGBT+ and is one of the few people I would trust with my life (in fact, she has my power of medical attorney and I'm hers so, in a... | HISTORICAL | {
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"NOBODY": 3,
"INFO": 0
} | NOBODY | {
"RIGHT": 5,
"WRONG": 0
} | RIGHT |
au1ZxNxgyZzDNuKKUeu7CKmIIXR3C6mU | avnk5q | {
"description": "publicly calling out a coworker on Slack for clipping their nails in the office",
"pronormative_score": 1,
"contranormative_score": 4
} | AITA for publicly calling out a coworker on Slack for clipping their nails in the office? | I work nights at my place of employment so I’m pretty much here by myself. Tonight I noticed nail clippings on the floor near my station. A coworker, who just left for the night, and I had a discussion about people abusing Slack. Slack is the main form of communication we use for office matters, so I don’t treat it lik... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 4,
"OTHER": 1,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 1
} | AUTHOR | {
"RIGHT": 1,
"WRONG": 4
} | WRONG |
jkJgGeJtdTjwNBQmdHVPynPygc7y6phZ | atfcnm | {
"description": "running late to meet my friends",
"pronormative_score": 0,
"contranormative_score": 4
} | AITA for running late to meet my friends? | Backstory, me and my friends arranged a game night to be the day after we arranged it. Fast forward, the next day we were supposed to meet at night and during the day, another friend of mine reminded me about a certain school event. I've always wanted to attend to one but I never did because I'm shy, but this time... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 4,
"OTHER": 0,
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} | AITA For asking a friend to stop giving me sweets? | My friend and I chat about a lot of things and one day months ago we both discovered we like the same sweet bread. I’m not huge on sweets and the bread is definitely not my favorite by far. He’s since on three occasions given me this particular bread. The first time was a single piece and the second time was two. Both ... | HISTORICAL | {
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"description": "walking between people in a hallway who are talking to each other",
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} | AITA walking between people in a hallway who are talking to each other | Alright so I now this one is light but, I don't really have a lot of stories that would fit on here but I wanted to try this subreddit out.
​
So a few years ago I was a in my first or second year of junior high school. I'm autistic and because of that being on my IEP I had to go to a special class once a w... | HISTORICAL | {
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EsBE7EvkLjOVGX2I39fcJ5uJ8MEHJHCO | aodymn | {
"description": "telling people that my suitemate is probably making up her illnesses for attention",
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} | WIBTA for telling people that my suitemate is probably making up her illnesses for attention? |
Let me tell you backstory about this roommate, before you jump on my case.
This suitemate, we'll call her Anne, has attention issues. She constantly needs to be the center of attention. She'll pause whenever she enters the room and waits for people to acknowledge her. She'll stand uncomfortably close to people unti... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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tzvDkRfa3XC3vZFpGIHLSNeu9LutasN0 | ast46q | {
"description": "insulting my sister after she called me stupid",
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} | AITA for insulting my sister after she called me stupid? | Hello, before we start I would like to say sorry for any spelling and grammar mistakes, im on mobile and I cant seem to get auto correct on it.
So to start out I have a sister who is around 3 years older than me. We are both still teens but shes close to being an adult. We share a room and sometimes talk about things ... | HISTORICAL | {
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fBcNFOJ4aAldveuUqLlAREdfBgUV8acU | b8gvd8 | {
"description": "wearing headphones while getting my nails done, getting a wax, or other daily errands",
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} | AITA for wearing headphones while getting my nails done, getting a wax, or other daily errands? | You know the conversations that just feel like forever.... while taking an Uber or just walking around the store. I just really hate awkward and forced conversation. | HISTORICAL | {
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h1wgBKjXjOegMxLDdF1EWFYfEsLj75yq | a32hm8 | {
"description": "telling someone to change seats",
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} | AITA for telling someone to change seats? | So I was eating lunch in my school cafeteria alone, so I sat down at the smallest table I could find, (it had 4 seats) about halfway through I got up to get more food, and when I got back there was an older gentleman (like 50-60ish) who I didn’t sitting directly across from where all my stuff was, when I came back I sa... | HISTORICAL | {
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1Mc887F8tMo4QtJClP8Ea8ZcVqKTjrAn | al9wc9 | {
"description": "cutting my brother and mom out of my life over money",
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} | AITA Cutting my brother and mom out of my life over money.... |
My brother and I started mining bitcoin in the extra bedroom of the home I was renting from my mom. We kept a spreadsheet of what was purchased for materials and other costs. Split everything 50/50. We attempted to get free electricity by setting the bill to the "average of your last year" and was only paying $143 a... | HISTORICAL | {
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UWezWjr9LcTb1aV5Cp9NZVrl19NPkLHc | apkdk2 | null | AITA for what am I gonna do....? | So....like 5 years ago I was searching to do something with my life. I was finishing University and looking to do something. One night I meet with a friend of mine at a bar who worked at a company who does chairs and sofas. He presented me his boss and later that night he proposed me to make a company and work for him.... | HISTORICAL | {
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RaYj3E0WbG2erupLi5irlxDuFVAthp6P | b2m1a4 | {
"description": "not being supportive to my parents while they go through a separation",
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} | AITA for not being supportive to my parents while they go through a separation? | My (23f) parents have been separated now for 7-8 months. I won't go into the reasons why except to say it's been around 20 years of issues and not communicating well. No cheating or spousal abuse occurred. I think both of them have valid reasons to be upset with the other and I think they have both been in the wrong. T... | HISTORICAL | {
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OLrB8kPNiozCR57IYuZzq9IKNFNclwF3 | a8h0mc | {
"description": "making my mom cry",
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} | AITA for making my mom cry? | So my sister, mom and I were at Disney cause I had a concert, and we all were having a conversation, mainly about politics and such. Whenever my mom would make a claim, my sister and I would dispute with facts and researched data and tell her that her claim was false or that she was misinformed or point out when she co... | HISTORICAL | {
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z4Upow3IXxj9FukvGirgxr9AfdMFhXPQ | akt9dr | {
"description": "acting salty towards my friend for choosing a different school",
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} | AITA for acting salty towards my friend for choosing a different school? | There are two schools involved in the story. I'm going to call the school I go to A and the other school B. I am also going to call my friend J.
J is my best friend. He also said I'm his best friend but...I don't really know anymore. I go to school A, and our rival school is B. I couldn't give less of a fuck abou... | HISTORICAL | {
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"description": "not hanging out with an old friend because I don't like how she handled a breakup",
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} | AITA for not hanging out with an old friend because I don't like how she handled a breakup? | 3 parties here. Myself, the boyfriend, and the girlfriend. We'll call the boyfriend Y, and the girlfriend K. The friend in question is K.
I met Y and K in first year of university, when they were both single, and had what I think was a pretty good friendship with both of them individually for about a year before they ... | HISTORICAL | {
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fmeP7nC3Jf1Cv95QGkUtHRBDzKrTkToX | aoqq9o | {
"description": "asking roommate if my bf can stay overnight once a week",
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} | AITA for asking roommate if my bf can stay overnight once a week | I've been dating this guy for about half a year. Although we're not exclusive (yet), we still care about each other deeply.
A few weeks ago, i brought this guy over for the second time. The first time, I had asked my roommate if she'd approve. She said yes. However, this time, I didn't ask for her permission. I know,... | HISTORICAL | {
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frI8l7ZIGbmNlX6o2tepoWYoNur14hiH | 9u1e3n | {
"description": "telling a preteen that they likely aren't trans and should not self diagnose themselves",
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} | AITA for telling a preteen that they likely aren't trans and should not self diagnose themselves? | Posting from an alt because these people know my handle and I would prefer to hear from other's opinions.
I recently got banned from a discord chat. The moderator's reasoning? "We will not tolerate Homophobes."
Now, I am banned. I don't have the chat logs to pull up, and this was a semi-private discord, so I don't ha... | HISTORICAL | {
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Afd4jULgjSxo14nZSSiTKRsKIKh3hrhN | arazm4 | {
"description": "being \"transphobic and disrespectful\"",
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} | AITA for being "Transphobic and disrespectful" | On mobile, first larger text. (I might have made this post already but something happened I will remove if so)
Okay, first off I don't really care if I'm percieved as transphobic really, but my stance is that if you want to become another gender than the one you were born with, it's impossible due to biology. Does NOT... | HISTORICAL | {
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M6STN2nwCQWxIFrBdQPqDTSLN2BJUZWu | b2e6aq | {
"description": "leaving my gf because of her past and shitty behavior",
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} | AITA for leaving my gf because of her past and shitty behavior? | We started dating 2 years ago, we had somewhat different political views when it came to sex and relationships, but I didn't care about it.Anyway, after a couple of months, I ended up asking her if she ever had a partner before, in which she said "Yes, 6 actually", I was a bit annoyed by that, since I am very trad. gu... | HISTORICAL | {
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BYBtnKf6UtihWwsRjoXcdwlvYVtkySVt | b9kcfv | {
"description": "being upset/jealous over a kid",
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} | AITA for being upset/jealous over a kid? | Hi, so. My boyfriend and I have been together for quiet some time, and we live together. I trust him completely not to cheat, and we’re both legal adults. We have a group of online friends that we sometimes hang out with, and it’s all fun and stuff. Recently, a kid joined our friend group (of caries ages) he’s about 11... | HISTORICAL | {
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b6W8iCRuX9HhoNoPBGw5okOwCABsagwi | aqqn0t | {
"description": "being upset about being single on Valentine's when my coworker recently broke up with her fiance",
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} | AITA for being upset about being single on Valentine's when my coworker recently broke up with her fiance? | Trigger alert: *This may come across strongly as an Incel rant. Let's be honest, people aren't born incels, they develop into terrible people because they don't understand how to deal with the real world. Sometimes they are niceguys and their Incel future is inevitable unless they get lucky early. Sometimes they are ju... | HISTORICAL | {
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uiWFbCtEOjbeU0XDE9HFxVRzmPq4U4EK | a1sofz | {
"description": "not buying a ticket for my friend's husband and son",
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} | WIBTA for not buying a ticket for my friend’s husband and son? | I want to buy tickets to a show for my friend for Christmas. They’re a little bit on the pricey side, which is where I’m stuck.
I’m happy to buy her a ticket + 1 extra - but she has a kid and partner. Is it a total dick move to not get one for both the spouse (who I’ve never met) and kid? I figure 2 tickets lets her ... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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HLYapbAan75dgsYUR8wOSuNLMjRbS6nV | adsz0d | {
"description": "getting a tattoo my so has a phobia to",
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} | AITA for getting a tattoo my SO has a phobia to? | The titles says most of it. I'm getting a tattoo design however she has an actual phobia to part of the design, it makes her physically ill to look at it.
I haven't gotten it yet.
She says she's okay with it and I should do what I want, but I can't help but feel guilty about it, and want to change the design. | HISTORICAL | {
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ih7X1aSwjiDXtNvTMAWkZxQZFawsKibH | b354my | null | AITA: My roommate blamed my kitten for breaking a TV and won’t pay me back. | I was given a TV as a gift. The TV did not have a base, so it had to be propped up on the wall and supported my picture frames. Cheap? Yes. But it was a free TV, we’re in college and it worked. I’ve had this TV for a year and a half when I come home to my roommate saying my kitten had broken the TV.
She decided to re... | HISTORICAL | {
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ykpBRqaeEBY743NYjzBlXsgiEkdo90P8 | b6hrpt | {
"description": "being frustrated with my boyfriend's living situation",
"pronormative_score": 5,
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} | AITA for being frustrated with my boyfriend’s living situation? | Throwaway to avoid exposing info.
My boyfriend and I have discussed moving in together in the near-ish future. Let’s call him Jake. Jake’s parents were drug addicted and passed away when he was about 18 and he successfully obtained custody of his brother. He lives in a house about 30 min from me and I have a roommate ... | HISTORICAL | {
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x3HcpCzpUehYXgFuwz3ubtzLACmFsElb | ayj0wp | {
"description": "dropping my best friend",
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} | AITA For dropping my best friend | Am I the asshole for dropping my friend
​
SITUATION:
I (M20) have a crush on one of my better friends (F20). This is going on for about a year now. Recently my best friend (M19), who was the only one I shared my story with and knew of this, kissed my crush. He knew her because of me, they got to know ea... | HISTORICAL | {
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pn5cJjoPkQYuUatuZqo2cSiryNzT7fCK | anr4eb | {
"description": "showing a woman at my gym too much attention",
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} | AITA for showing a woman at my gym too much attention? | I have been going to my gym for almost 3 years. A few months ago I noticed a woman that I thought was extremely attractive. I’ve always been good about not approaching or talking to women in the gym because we are all there to better ourselves and not be annoyed by people.
Well one day I was benching and she was lite... | HISTORICAL | {
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mFq6sDnv643ZS7xlOYdDtkyjRKoalLYq | apw87l | {
"description": "expecting his help",
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} | AITA for expecting his help? | Ok so my boyfriend and I are both on parental leave. I took the leave first because I am the mother, breastfeeding, and because I was in college. I also couldn't go back to college when he wanted to take parental leave because he is only off from December to end of February. He on the other hand started parental leave ... | HISTORICAL | {
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mBU6R4gigx9VMdT448BBvAuwzdu31J9y | b4iq87 | {
"description": "telling my brother I cant assist him with calling into work 'sick' anymore",
"pronormative_score": 6,
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} | WIBTA If i told my brother i cant assist him with calling into work 'sick' anymore | My brother and I work at the same place, we have for 5 or so years. Just recently, I'd say within the past 4 or 5 months, he has been sending me messages right before work asking if I would let his boss know he won't be in, and the call in system isn't working.
There are a couple of issues with this:
1) he has a drink... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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r5UG0PX9LriHNhClpSIEoBafbivHwLHa | b9ecde | {
"description": "critisizing ceremony",
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} | AITA Critisizing ceremony | Obligatory mobile warning
Backstory:
So, today my school visited Arlington national cemetery (USA) and we volunteered to lay wreaths at the tomb of the unknown soldier, witch is a very prestigious ceremony. There are supposed to be 4 wreath bearers, but five of us volunteered. I decided to be the bigger man and let ... | HISTORICAL | {
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50sSBc0wDtpyqMFOZZf5xl5YZsxMolAj | b2yjac | {
"description": "ruining family dinner because I didn't want to talk about my ex and suggested we talk about everyone's exes",
"pronormative_score": 152,
"contranormative_score": 72
} | AITA for ruining family dinner because I didn't want to talk about my ex and suggested we talk about everyone's exes? | Had a family dinner this past weekend. It included myself, my fiance, my sister, her boyfriend, and our parents. My sister got divorced maybe a year ago and has a boyfriend. I really like him, he's great. And they are so great together! I'm happy that she is finally happy. I've known my fiance for 10 years and have bee... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
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rStgWU0mcLAdEsq4Tu1BOiRAIZsKonGb | aydja9 | {
"description": "insisting on an apology from my boyfriend's sister",
"pronormative_score": 8,
"contranormative_score": 20
} | AITA for insisting on an apology from my boyfriend’s sister (a single mother)? | I’ve (21) been frustrated by my boyfriend’s (23) sister Lauren (name changed, will call her L). She makes reckless decisions without regard for consequences. L has never really done anything for herself, she is now 30 years old but has never pursued a particular career or paid her own rent, she has been supported by my... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | EVERYBODY | {
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} | WRONG |
yqxeiMqyKjnsofpexuK66zcrzANvUFjA | aul1pq | {
"description": "being mad at my parents for not buying me car insurance",
"pronormative_score": 1,
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} | AITA for being mad at my parents for not buying me car insurance | So I just got my license but I'm 17 and about to turn 18. The reason I got it so late is because my parents didn't want me to get it earlier. So anyways naturally I want car insurance so I can start driving. I live in a city where it's impossible to get anywhere without driving and it's basically a necessity. However m... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | AUTHOR | {
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"WRONG": 10
} | WRONG |
r2PVW7zfmI4Pep5HjY3c6D2LR30EGGgq | 9t8pxo | {
"description": "not greeting people in the morning",
"pronormative_score": 9,
"contranormative_score": 2
} | AITA for not greeting people in the morning? | Specifically in the morning at work, but anywhere else too I guess. A lot of people are super chipper in the mornings and they’ll say good morning to everyone they pass or strike up some small talk, but I usually try to keep to myself. I won’t ignore people, but if they don’t greet me first I’ll usually just walk past ... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
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ULMY0LhV37XUNlPTXaCbV6IKMA29iG74 | b5p8bg | {
"description": "asking this girl out",
"pronormative_score": 3,
"contranormative_score": 1
} | WIBTA for asking this girl out. | Obviously, the situation is complicated. I met this girl seven years ago and we've friends ever since. Back three years ago I started dating a girl I met through her. During that time, the two became best friends, they're really close. The girl I was dating occasionally got somewhat insecure or even a tiny bit jealous ... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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} | NOBODY | {
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} | RIGHT |
m5lguLqKX65wF4dVd72VK7vIeJaZMJqQ | as6kh3 | {
"description": "hating my best friends boyfriend",
"pronormative_score": 5,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for hating my best friends boyfriend? | My best friend is a freshman, and her boyfriend is a senior. They make out and do coupley kind of adult stuff (no sex, at least to my knowledge) she is 14. and he is 18, nearly 19. I have let her know that I hate him very adamantly and he knows I hate him. I hate the boyfriend because of the age difference; and the fac... | HISTORICAL | {
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JvLVn9UN2dLQAwKdPPZFuUL8v1NOMXSi | az519f | {
"description": "cancelling my birthday dinner",
"pronormative_score": 1,
"contranormative_score": 4
} | WIBTA if I cancelled my birthday dinner? | Obligatory throwaway and on mobile.
So today is my 29th birthday!
Me and my immediate family spoke in a group chat last week and I arranged a meal tomorrow to celebrate. I would have preferred to do something today but also wanted everyone to be there so we reached a compromise.
Its currently after 4pm and not a sin... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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