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AITA When Inviting me to Their Concert is too Awkward
**Hi Reddit! This is my first time on this sub but I’m here because this has been driving my girlfriend and I nuts.** So to get this out of the way to start off with, my girlfriend (*gf*) and I have been seeing each other for almost three years now, we are both girls and we had, for the last six months or so, be...
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AITA for telling my tutor not to scribble/randomly write things in my personal diaries?
So I have a home tutor, and he has this really annoying habit, that whenever he would not have anything to do, or be on a call, he will just take a pen, and start randomly writing or drawing stuff on whatever he would find in front of him. It wasn't so much of a bother mostly, but, it really got on my nerves the last t...
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{ "description": "potentially breaking up our friendship", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for potentially breaking up our friendship?
So I was good friends with these two girls at work. They're really cool and our personalities just vibed. During the latter part of last year we became best of friends and I would really only hang out with them. All is good and well. Recently, one of them, let's call her Jane, and I get really close to the point that ...
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{ "description": "ratting out a cheater", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for ratting out a cheater?
SO, I recently broke up with my boyfriend and my friends thought it would be fun to make me a bumble account. Great. Whatever. They were swiping for me and I ended up matching with this guy I’ll call Mark. We only exchanged about 4 messages back and forth at which point I decided to look at his social media. One of m...
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{ "description": "sending a frustrated message to my friend", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for Sending a Frustrated Message to my Friend?
Background- 16 (M) high-school student Really wanted to hang out with this friend-group a couple of months ago (was already good friends with 1 person in it). He asked If I was going to a school movie night and I said I would if I had a ride but my parents were out. He said he would drive me and afterwards I ended u...
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{ "description": "white lying to my girlfriend about masturbating", "pronormative_score": 70, "contranormative_score": 29 }
AITA for white lying to my girlfriend about masturbating?
Quick backstory : my current GF of 7 months was previously cheated on in her last relationship. She acknowledges that she has current trust issues. My GF sleeps over my place 5 days out of the week. My GF came back today from a 4 day international vacation trip with her girl best friend. During this period, I masturb...
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{ "description": "gossiping and potentially alienating a friend", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for gossiping and potentially alienating a friend?
TL;DR at the bottom. Recently one of closest friends (let’s call her Jane), along with my roommate, sat me down for an intervention. Long story short, they gave me some **AWFUL** advice about my mental health (lots of pop psychology), and told me I shouldn’t be starting a new relationship (my new bf is nice, sweet, n...
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AITA for leaving a stranger behind
This is only going to be short and nothing serious. I was working NYE, half 12 to 9pm, I normally get a bus home after work and would arrive home around 10 or so depending on the traffic. ​ Given that it was NYE I knew that the bus would be less frequent, but after 9 that night the buses just seemed to ha...
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{ "description": "taking a kid home after being robbed", "pronormative_score": 15, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for taking a kid home after being robbed?
I just posted in my neighborhood group describing a robbery I witnessed. In it I mention that I took the teenager to his house after he was robbed, he was scraped up and bleeding and freaked out. The first two comments are criticizing me for taking him home on the grounds that they wouldn't want their kid getting in a ...
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{ "description": "wanting to hang out with my ex gf's dad", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting to hang out with my ex gf's dad?
I dated a girl for two years. We lived together one. We both exercised a lot and had many things in common. We talked about and agreed on marriage and kids and our future. I always had a great relationship with her family and especially her father. We are very similar and handy individuals. I would get a lot of housewo...
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{ "description": "asking to be a bridesmaid", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for asking to be a bridesmaid?
January 2018, a then-close friend godparent to my first child) was anticipating her upcoming engagement and asked me to be a bridesmaid. Shortly after she got engaged, I became pregnant with my second child. Thanks to her busy work schedule and my stressful pregnancy (and postpartum/prenatal depression) we didn’t tal...
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{ "description": "not wanting to be lied to because it makes me paranoid and causes me to lash out in anger a lot more", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for not wanting to be lied to because it makes me paranoid and causes me to lash out in anger a lot more?
So, back in April of 2018, my ex-girlfriend convinced me I could hypnotize her. Yeah, it sounds stupid but I was fairly convinced because she put up a good act and it convinced me because she had mental problems and I assumed my voice was soothing to where it could control her? Anyway, I had problems believing it m...
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{ "description": "wanting to write a bad review for the tattoo I got", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for wanting to write a bad review for the tattoo I got
I got a tattoo the other day from a skilled artist. And while I am happy with the final result, the process of getting there was stressful. I am from Canada and am staying in Denmark for school. My best friend from Canada flew to Ireland with her school so I flew to Dublin to meet up with her for a day. We decided we...
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{ "description": "pushing for full Custody", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for Pushing for Full Custody
I recently filed for contempt against my ex spouse for withholding of my parental visitation time. Upon consulting with my attorney, she recommended that I pursue full physical custody due to what the other party is doing and the "egregious nature" of the contempt action. I have had to use law enforcement to obtain so...
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AITA Left my kid in the school and waited in the parking lot to scare him:
Left my kid in the school and waited in the parking lot to scare him: 8 year old kid. Has parent teacher conferences. Prior the the conferences he is freaking out about something (to my wife while I'm not there). During the conferences he gets a less than stellar report. He has good grades and all, but a lot of shouti...
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{ "description": "getting upset that my boyfriend didn't get me a brithday present", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA if i got upset that my boyfriend didn't get me a brithday present?
Title pretty muchs explains it ​ For some context we have been dating for about 3 mouths before my birthday, a month before my brithday he asked me what i wanted for my birthday, said i didn't know, he asked again the next day, i said something simple and not too expensive, like some chocolate or cheap jew...
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{ "description": "screaming at my mother", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for screaming at my mother
So, I recently had surgery on my foot, I had a toenail removed, something simple, but still it hurts as I had stitches until a few days ago. I live with my mother and my boyfriend, and yesterday as I was walking into my (very dark) room and reaching for the light switch I unknowingly bumped my bad toe, right where the...
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{ "description": "not wanting to pick up alcohol for my sister", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to pick up alcohol for my sister?
So let me gice you the info. Im live with family and from time to time there are heated argument between all of us. However most of the time its between my mother and my sister (she's 31). After the argument she will normally ask me to get alcohol for here to calm her nerves. I am legally able to buy drink for her sinc...
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{ "description": "not wanting to go to my sisters birthday dinner", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to go to my sisters birthday dinner?
She’s higher 20’s and my other sister and bro in law are going. I’m 19. I’m pretty poor, and they are going to a place that is 15-20$ a plate. The issue here is 1. I can’t afford it 2. Saturday night is my only night off and they told me about it this morning, i need to plan ahead for things like this because I was p...
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{ "description": "not wanting to give credit for a disabled student who doesn't do any work", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I don't want to give credit for a disabled student who doesn't do any work?
Hello everyone, In one of my classes, we have class work where a group of 5 people complete an assignment and if it is done before class ends, you get 3% extra credit. In my group, we have a disabled student. I don't know what his disability is but he himself told me he is disabled. I don't want to say anything wrong ...
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{ "description": "asking a friend for money", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for asking a friend(F) for money?
We are both students at a military academy (both 19) and last night she threw my phone off my hands while we were on the bus. It was definitely on purpose and she didn't show any regret whatsoever. Even though I got super mad and even insulted her she didn't even look sorry at all. She even assaulted me verbally for be...
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{ "description": "cutting off my best friend", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for cutting off my best friend
Soz in advance it’s a long one.. To set the scene, we’ve been best friend over 10 years. They have been through a lot in life (like us all) and last year hit rock bottom (anxiety and depression). I was like their on call therapist, I gave them all of my time with constant reassurance and compassion, literally every s...
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{ "description": "screaming at my father", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for screaming at my father?
Yesterday, my parents and I were discussing if I should get a locker or not. I have many books to carry and lockers cost money in my school, so I was telling them that I would need a locker because I have to move around a lot with my books. My school said that most of the time, the teachers would come to us, but that...
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{ "description": "cutting off my ex-friend", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for cutting off my ex-friend?
For 2 years of college I roomed with a guy from my high school. He and I got through a lot of tough things together (including the onset of my severe anxiety, including headaches/somatization, though i didn't tell him all the details with that). He introduced me to my first co-ed friend group (which was actually toxic ...
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{ "description": "refusing to talk to the other half of my family after one of them attempted suicide and blamed me for it", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for refusing to talk to the other half of my family after one of them attempted suicide and blamed me for it?
Im on mobile so I apologize for formatting TLDR I tried stopping a fight between my girl cousin and brother which ended with me calling both of them childish and telling them they needed to get their life together. (I was pretty mean about it, honestly) Cousin goes home, overdoses on pills, is rushed to the hospital...
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{ "description": "commenting in my clash of clans and was telling to be more respectful or I be booting", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA: I commented in my clash of clans and was told to be more respectful or I will be booted.
My clan is about half of my close friends and one of my buddy's law school buddies. Someone said they had a rough week. I responded by saying "at least you didnt shit yourself in the office, stink up the whole place and get a little on your shoe." I was then responded to by one of my buddies law school friends "if you ...
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{ "description": "not inviting my aunt to my wedding", "pronormative_score": 43, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA for not inviting my aunt to my wedding?
I have a crazy aunt. But she's not erratic, or weird, or the loony-type crazy aunt -- she's a flat-out terrible person, who married my father's brother. My entire life, she's shown up late to everything, shown zero disregard for other people's feelings or needs. She was the only family member who wouldn't help clean up...
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AITA for telling my mother she's overreacting about her siblings going being her back with a family meeting?
I'll try to keep this brief. My grandfather is in the slow decline of lung cancer and dementia. My grandmother has been caring for him and it has been a lot of stress on her. My aunt and uncle help where they can as they live nearby, my mother and I live four hours away and visit around once a month to do what we can. ...
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{ "description": "thinking that it's normal for couples to have arguments", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for thinking that it’s normal for couples to have arguments?
Me (29F) and my boyfriend (31M) have been together for just over a year now. I love him very much and feel that our relationship is very good overall. In the time we’ve been together we’ve had about 5 arguments and been able to resolve them each time. I fully admit that I did not deal with the first few arguments in a ...
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{ "description": "telling my friend I saw her boyfriend on Grindr", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA if I told my friend I saw her boyfriend on Grindr?
My friend has no idea her boyfriend is interested in men. I hate the idea of outing him but I could care less about what he’s into and more about the fact that he’s cheating on her. I’m not close enough to him to bring it up. She on the other hand has been known to overreact and completely cut people off for merely spe...
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{ "description": "telling my friends that they're being rude even though I'm annoying a lot", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA for telling my friends that they’re being rude even though I’m annoying a lot?
I’m in school as of now - a particular small one. There are only 8 kids in my class/grade - most of them are very... weird. There’s a small group of ‘popular’ girls that I’ve known since i was a kid and i’m kinda a part of. They are their own group, but I sit at their table. So on my side: I’m really fucking annoyin...
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{ "description": "not wanting to pay my sister a full month's rent if I left after a week", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA for not wanting to pay my sister a full month's rent if I left after a week?
A month ago, I had to leave my apartment and asked my sister to let me stay at her spare room until I found myself a new place. We decided I'd pay her $100 for what I thought would be a full month to help with the house bills, $50 at the beginning and then $50 at the end of the month. At that moment, I received my full...
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{ "description": "not answering calls from a friend going through a divorce", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for not answering calls from a friend going through a divorce?
My friend is going through a very rough divorce right now. Her husband was emotionally abusive and became aggressive, grabbed her, which resulted in the police being called. This was over 5 weeks ago. She got an order of protection for herself and the kids. Now, her ex has supervised visits. She calls me almost daily (...
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{ "description": "not feeling loved", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not feeling loved?
Hello everyone! I just made this post because I can't keep it in anymore, and no one knows who I am so it's kinda anonymous. Some backstory: Recently my sister developed an eating disorder. She barely eats, granted she'll eat candy if she's asked. Since my sister developed a eating disorder (we'll call it ED) my pare...
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{ "description": "not wanting my wife to stay at a Un paid work event", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 10 }
AITA for not wanting my wife to stay at a Un paid work event?
My wife works for a bank. She worked 7-5 today, and all week she's mentioned some "required" after work training she needed to attend at 6:30pm. To which I said sounded weird since banks close at 5, and they should train them during work hours. She had just gone to a training seminar last week at a different bank. She ...
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{ "description": "being uncomfortable with my girlfriend hanging out with a guy friend she used to have a thing with", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for being uncomfortable with my girlfriend hanging out with a guy friend she used to have a thing with?
I've been dating this girl for 5 months and it's been going great so far. We rarely even fight or argue. The biggest problem we're having has to do with a male friend of hers. This guy is one of her closest friends and she's known him for years. Normally this wouldn't really bother me but shortly before dating me she h...
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{ "description": "telling my boyfriend I don't think I could keep doing long distance", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I told my boyfriend I don't think I could keep doing long distance?
Hiya. I've been in a long distance relationship for a little over a year now. He lives on the West Coast and I live on the East Coast. We both applied to grad schools, and I was lucky enough to get a few acceptances. He, unfortunately, got none. After some discussion (though we have yet to have the big Here's What We'r...
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{ "description": "whistiling while at work", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA For whistiling while at work?
Tldr; Am I the asshole for whistling at work in a professional environment? I work at a well known large hardware store. While I work, I tend to whistle when I am happy. I was in the middle of an aisle whistling when a customer mumbles something to me. I ask him what he said because I didn't hear him and he replies, "...
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{ "description": "wanting more fairness in casual games with friends", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for wanting more fairness in casual games with friends.
So I play a lot of board games- usually this means ones that are more intense then "Family board games". But a group of my online friends wanted to play Monopoly on the computer, I went along with it. But two of these friends are a couple and some of their trades are pretty generous from the BF to the GF. For example g...
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WIBTA if I "fire" my client?
I've been an esthetician in a spa for six years, and I love my job because I get to be creative, and I really enjoy the company of most of my clients. But, I have one client who really irks me. This gel nail client has been to a few of my co-workers before me, wasn't happy with their work, and has been my client for a...
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{ "description": "wanting to wait to discuss something big in therapy", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for wanting to wait to discuss something big in therapy?
So, some background. My husband and I have been seeing a couples therapist for about a month now- once a week. The first day we went I mentioned that I was scared of couples therapy, because there were some big things that were bothering me but I didn't know how to say or talk about- things I worried would hurt just by...
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{ "description": "playing games daily until school begins and my father hates it", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA for playing games daily until school begins and my father hates it?
Throwaway. I am a undergraduate planning to attend uni in the spring. I took a gap semester to find a job and make some money to help with post secondary. The thing is, I never found a job, even after 20+ applications. I have no work experience so that doesn't really help. My job searching became more and more exhaust...
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{ "description": "not pulling over for a funeral procession", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA because I didn’t pull over for a funeral procession?
So bear with me, because this is kind of confusing. I was on my way to work this morning during rush hour. I was pulling off an interstate and turned right onto a 4 lane highway. The lane I was turning into is a “Keep Moving” lane meaning you are not supposed to yield while turning right. So I make my turn & get ab...
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{ "description": "wanting to go for breakfast while my sister came to visit me", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for wanting to go for breakfast while my sister came to visit me?
So I've been at bedridden since Thursday, I was alone until Saturday night when my sister came to visit me (1h20m by transit) and now it's Sunday. My sister leaves Tuesday morning. She is basically working the whole day and has lots of things she has to do for her work and classes. I no longer feel sick now but I feel ...
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{ "description": "coming out as \"the other woman\"", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA For Coming Out As "The Other Woman"?
First reddit post so lil nervous, and fully prepared to be ridiculed for this story. Background: me and this dude dated years ago. Stuff happened, we broke up on horrible terms. Fast forward a year and a half, I get out of an emotionally abusive relationship, and me and person (we'll call him Sean) have started talkin...
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{ "description": "not wanting to go to my family members baby shower", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA- for not wanting to go to my family members baby shower.
So we are flying out April 1st because we have 2 family members having major surgeries. My husbands brother asked if we can come a couple days earlier so we can make it to the baby shower. We decided to go with our initial plans April 1st and booked our tickets. Here’s the reasons I don’t feel like going. My br...
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{ "description": "not recycling properly", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 8 }
AITA for not recycling properly?
So at my new job they have pretty strong policies regarding trash which I do not have a problem at all with but lately the cleaning ladies have been getting really mad at me for a simple thing. The recycling bin is really far away and they get really angry at me for throwing a plastic containers in the thrash instead o...
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AITA for this comeback?
The wife and I were driving back from dropping our oldest boys off (blended family). We were riding back and forth and I said something that may have crossed the line. M = me. AW = Awesome Wife M: I’ve heard it’s the second marriage that lasts forever. AW: Where did you hear that? M: I just now made it up. AW: We...
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{ "description": "confronting my mom", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 2 }
WIBTA for confronting my mom
Some background, I've been interested in EMS for awhile and have been devoting a good amount of time to studying things I think will be important for the course. I've fallen behind on schoolwork and try to stay on top of it, I just view the EMS stuff as being more important as it actually benefits me in the long run. F...
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{ "description": "banning friend from social group", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA after banning friend from social group?
Me and two other women founded a club three years ago where we meet once a month to play games. (Board, card, dice ect) We have a private group on Facebook where we plan gatherings and once you've been invited to play, you can invite others as well. We have less than a dozen regular members. Two of our members broke ...
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AITA(i believe that woman shouldn't breast feed in public
Because breasts are sexual organs and are inappropriate In public. I believe it should be done at home I shouldn't need to be subjected to inappropriate public displays.
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{ "description": "calling out sick on my last two days of work", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for calling out sick on my last two days of work?
I finished my two weeks last Friday but my manager asked if I could stay until this Wednesday because they are short handed. Here we are this morning and I’m a sick mess and my manager decides she’s going home 7 hours early while I’m stuck there sick. This leads me to think she didn’t really need me due to being unders...
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AITA to my husband if I go out by myself once I put our toddler to sleep and come home before he wakes and still continue toddler routine?
Long story short, I am lonely. A few times now once toddler is asleep I’ll pretty myself up and go out to town to dance and have a few drinks. Before I met my husband 7 years ago I was a social person and did my face/hair and went out- I never went looking (I actually met him online) I just wanted the ‘freedom’ so to s...
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{ "description": "asking my bf to stop sex chatting on an mmorpg", "pronormative_score": 20, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for asking my bf (37m) to stop sex chatting on an mmorpg?
For context, my bf of 5 years has had a past of cybercheating. I've forgave him, but he's been on nwn2 (again after i asked him to delete it in year 3 of our relationship) with a lot of weird sex chatting posing as a girl every time. He used to act like a girl with cybercheating in the past too, and while I've already ...
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{ "description": "fucking hating my autistic brother", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for fucking hating my autistic brother?
I'm 14M my brother is 16M so he's been around my whole life. He's objectively bloody annoying. He talks about the same stuff over and over again no matter how often you say that he's already told you that. In addition he will sometimes have violent hysteric meltdowns where he will scream and flail around. Strangely e...
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{ "description": "taking in what I thought was a stray", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for taking in what I thought was a stray?
My husband and I noticed a cat with no collar would occasionally be laying in our front porch rocker when we got home from work every other day or so, very friendly little guy. Even a little chip in his left ear like a cartoon. He looked a little on the thin side so I started putting out food and water for him which h...
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{ "description": "turning off my roommate's space heater while she's gone", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for turning off my roommate's space heater while she's gone?
Last summer, after braking up with my ex, I found a little house to rent. Adding utilities and other things it was barely in my budget, but I was able to afford it by cutting down on some other expenses. My roommate, who I've been friends with for a few years now, was at that time living with her parents. Her relati...
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{ "description": "breaking a friendship after a kid joked about sleeping with my sister", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for breaking a friendship after a kid joked about sleeping with my sister?
In the summer break in HS (16 M), I traveled across the country with my friends for a summer camp. About a 2 weeks after arriving, I stayed there for about 5 weeks, I received a text from my friend (14 M). We had a normal friendly conversation, asking how it was here and that he wanted to hang out after I got back, bl...
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{ "description": "never returning my ex's dad's jersey", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for never returning my ex’s dad’s jersey?
So basically, I found this old Saints jersey in my closet last week, that I had forgotten about. It originally belonged to my ex’s dad. He took me and her to a Saints game one time and he gave me that jersey to wear, and at the end of the night he said “you can keep that one, I’ve got a newer one at home”. (It’s stil...
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{ "description": "not wanting to be involved in family drama", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to be involved in family drama?
About a couple months ago my niece, who is 5 years old, told her father (my brother) that my nephew (sisters kid) who is 12 years old, touched her. At first it started with my brother and my sister talking about what my nephew did. My brother asked my nephew if he did touch my niece but my nephew denies ever doing it. ...
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{ "description": "cutting my \"sick\" grandma out of my life", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for cutting my "sick" grandma out of my life?
I was raised in an abusive home with a stepfather. He told everyone I was his biological child but I'm not. His whole family knows this. I decided to go "no contact" with my abuser at 16. I kept in contact with his family as I saw them as my own and didn't blame them for not knowing. I moved back to my hometown wher...
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{ "description": "refusing to go to my dad's house because he has bed bugs", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for refusing to go to my dad’s house because he has bed bugs?
My dad called me the other day to tell me he has a bed bug infestation at his house. He thinks he picked it up from his recent trip overseas. He said he is taking care of them himself so he doesn’t have to throw out his mattress, sheets or clothes. I told him he really needs to throw out his mattress and get a professi...
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{ "description": "telling my mum in moving out bc she's the reason Im mentally unstable", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for telling my mum in moving out bc she's the reason im mentally unstable (and bc she let a drug addit into our home)
Sorry if this is long but it's a long story I'm 19 and I'm from a single parent household so it's pretty much just been me and my mum from the beginning. And as much as I love my mum, she's not well. She hoards and does really manic things. It used to be barrable because I used to go boarding school so I wouldn't have...
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{ "description": "being critical of wife", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for being critical of wife?
Throaway cause, why not? My wife and I have been married for a couple years. It's just us so theres no kids or anything like that involved in our day to day life. We dated for a couple years before we got married and I think were pretty ok overall. However, my wife likes to make unhealthy decisions. Now, I'm not the ...
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{ "description": "writing 'wash ME' on a truck", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 15 }
AITA for writing ‘WASH ME’ on a truck?
I pulled into the Walmart parking lot yesterday with my eight year old daughter, and parked next to a pickup truck that was absolutely coated in mud. It was filthy. Looked like it had rolled in a pigpen. My daughter and I were in a happy mood doing a little light Christmas shopping alone together. When we got out of ou...
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{ "description": "being mad at my roommates for hooking up", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for being mad at my roommates for hooking up?
To elaborate I am female living with a male friend of mine and a couple of months ago a friend of mine (also a female) had to move out of her place rather quickly and since we had a couple extra bedrooms we invited her to move in with us. I have known them both for years but I introduced them a few months ago and we al...
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{ "description": "wanting my wife to get pregnant so I stop hearing about her wanting a baby", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 10 }
AITA for wanting my wife to get pregnant so I stop hearing about her wanting a baby?
Title says it all. I'm so tired of my wife's constant whining about needing to get pregnant. I just want it to happen so she will stop it. It's become so suffocating that I wouldn't be excited about her pregnancy for the having a kid part, I would just be so glad to stop hearing her shit. AITA for becoming sick and tir...
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{ "description": "having sex with her", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for having sex with her?
So, this all happened a while ago, in high school. My wife (25) and me (26) were together in high school as stated. She and I had only been together for three months, which it’s been about 10 years and three months. She was 15 and I was 16, I went to her house on a weekend during spring break and she and I had sex unpr...
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AITA if someone posted a “candid photo” of a woman they don’t know and I call them out on it?
I’ve been banned from /r/itookapicture because I called out a guy on his creepy behavior. He took a photo of a woman through a shop window, and then commented how he’d like to “find her” and fall in love or whatever, and that creeps me out. Like, you took a photo of someone (who he admitted to NOT knowing) and started ...
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{ "description": "being annoyed with my friend constantly putting herself down", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being annoyed with my friend constantly putting herself down?
So the title doesn’t really explain the full story, so I guess that’s why the body of text exists. So for some background: me and my friend (let’s call her G) are SUPER close. We have a lot of inside jokes and we’re always joking around and she’s really opened up my social world, I used to be a really shy person who ta...
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{ "description": "suggesting that some Reddit posts are fake", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for suggesting that some Reddit posts are fake?
A lot of the material on r/all from a lot of story-based communitites seems very unrealistic. This is a very difficult scenario to navigate because if the story were to be actually true, then it would be quite insulting to the author. At the same time, I think that I shouldn't trust everything that I see on the interne...
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{ "description": "not reading PUA books and getting kicked out of a house for not doing so", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not reading PUA books and getting kicked out of a house for not doing so? (long, but worth the read)
Am I the asshole? I just found this subreddit and it's perfect for this event that just happened last night and I'm still processing it. Some background first; so, this story is about me and a guy (let's call him Perseus) who I've known for about two years. I met him through a mutual friend (no longer friends with t...
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{ "description": "wanting my ex to get transfered or fired at work", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting my ex to get transfered or fired at work?
I know how it sounds, but bear with me. We work at a large factory that employs thousands of people on both day and night shifts. We both work nights on the same group, but different teams. Yes I know dating a co worker is a bad idea, I have made questionable decisions in my life. I'm 25 now, but 24 when dating and he'...
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{ "description": "expecting my boyfriend to fix or replace a piece of furniture that he broke out of anger", "pronormative_score": 38, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for expecting my boyfriend to fix or replace a piece of furniture that he broke out of anger?
This happened after hearing loud smashes from the living room, before hearing a really loud one at which point he very solemnly asked me to come out and see something 'really funny', and he'd broken the front drawer off our tv stand. He quite frequently throws stuff when he's angry, including the game controllers, and ...
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{ "description": "dropping this woman's clothes and leaving the store", "pronormative_score": 38, "contranormative_score": 12 }
AITA for dropping this woman's clothes and leaving the store?
I'm 18. Earlier today I was at a clothing store at the mall, waiting in line to buy a shirt. Behind me in line is a woman maybe 22 or 23. She taps me on the shoulder and says, "Hey, I need to run and grab something I forgot really quick, would you mind holding my stuff for just a sec?" I say okay, happy to help out. T...
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{ "description": "reclining my chair on a flight", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for reclining my chair on a flight?
This happened a couple years ago and it still haunts me. I was on a long flight (9hrs) and as soon as we were in the air, the guy in front of me reclined his seat all the way back to watch a film. Fair enough, I thought, and carried on trying to watch my own screen and eventually eat a meal with the fold out table pret...
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{ "description": "resenting my friends because my bachelorette party wasn't a big/road trip", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for resenting my friends because my bachelorette party wasn't a big/road trip?
I'm sorry for the length! I don't know how to cut it down. 2 best friends since childhood - Victoria and Ella. Over the years we have been on MANY little weekend trips to nearby destination cities. Mostly one popular spot where we split the hotel and pay roughly $100 each, soak in a hot tub and walk the sights. I enj...
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{ "description": "not wanting to pay for my stepkid's education despite paying for my own kid", "pronormative_score": 78, "contranormative_score": 1331 }
AITA for not wanting to pay for my stepkid's education despite paying for my own kid?
My husband and I have one daughter, age 7, and he has two older sons from a previous marriage (11 and 15). They currently live with us but had been living with his mom up until about 2 years ago. Their mom is really messed up, addicted to drugs now and on the brink of death basically due to her addictions. My husband h...
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AITA Friend break up after break down
Hey, I have been meaning to post this for a while but I need to know, be honest! Made a friend in college but unfortunately drifted apart when I moved away for uni, nothing bitter, such is life. We became friends again after bumping into each other at a Mum and Baby group. The friendship became intense, always with ea...
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{ "description": "returning something I damaged to its shelf", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 2 }
WIBTA if I return something I damaged to its shelf?
I like to work by the policy that if u damage something before buying it you should take responsibility and buy it (unless you weren't planning on buying it in the first place). Many people tell me that it's ok to return it and take a different one but I feel it's the wrong thing to do. WIBTA if I return it like other...
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{ "description": "being mad at my sister for trying for disability", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for being mad at my sister for trying for disability?
Don’t judge a post by its title please. Long read ahead. Here’s the deal, I (20,F) have a sister (25) who has been trying to get disability for almost a year now. She has been clinically diagnosed with depression, anxiety, and bipolar disorder. She is on multiple medications and has been seeing a therapist once a week...
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{ "description": "being rude and cold to my 'friend'", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA For being rude and cold to my 'friend'?
So for context, I don't make friends easily. Im awkward and struggle in ANY social situations, so when I make new friends I tend to slowly open up so that I dont overstep boundaries (aspergers makes this difficult, but Im getting better). Now this friend of mine is great. They accommodated for my awkwardness and even ...
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{ "description": "hanging up on my bf for sending a very tasteless meme", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for hanging up on my BF for sending a very tasteless meme?
Throwaway, mainly bc he knows my main user and I’d rather be safe than sorry. Me (18F) and my boyfriend (19M) are in a long distance relationship as of last November, dating for almost a year and a half. We video call daily and usually call until one of us says goodnight. During these calls, he often sends me memes h...
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{ "description": "going abroad with my wife 2x a years and leave my 7yo daughter with my parents", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for going abroad with my wife 2x a years and leave my 7yo daughter with my parents?
I go abroad on work about 2x a year and always take my wife with me. We leave our daughter behind as we would miss out on night entertainment as she’s only 7.
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{ "description": "calling out my professor on his grading habits", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for calling out my professor on his grading habits?
So we have these weekly quizzes based on questions at the end of the chapters in our textbook. The first week, there was no mention of the format for said quizzes, so I did a number format; 1. , 2. , 3. , etc. I would type the question verbatim from the textbook, then put the answer below it in a newline. Mind you, the...
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{ "description": "wanting the snip when the wife wants another baby", "pronormative_score": 14, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for wanting the snip when the wife wants another baby?
Me and my wife have been together for six years and we have two amazing sons, our youngest is three and we both said we would want a little girl even before we got married. This was a long time ago and we are now on the wrong side of mid thirties. The last few weeks she had told me that wants to try for another baby i...
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{ "description": "going vegan", "pronormative_score": 14, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for going vegan?
About two weeks ago, I decided to try going vegan. I didn’t eat a lot of meat before so it wasn’t a hard change for me. I can’t tell you why I decided to go completely vegan all together. It’s just something I wanted to try so I did it. And I really enjoyed it. I’m having a lot of fun planning creative meals and buying...
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{ "description": "not going to a good friends bday party because I really don't get along with half the other guests and don't want to spoil the evening, neither for me nor for her", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for not going to a good friends bday party because i really don’t get along with half the other guests and don’t want to spoil the evening, neither for me nor for her?
This goes a way back. There’s a good friend of mine, we were there for each other in good and bad times, and we generaly enjoy each others company. Over 6 years ago i got together with a friend of hers, and even after the relationship ended, the three of us stayed close friends. I never really got over that relationsh...
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{ "description": "making my friend walk in the rain", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for making my friend walk in the rain?
Ok so me and two other friends stayed after school for band practice. I'm the only one that drives out of the three. One of my friends and I decided to work on some homework together so we decided to go to my house. The other friend, who says she doesn't have a ride, decides that she'll ride with me and I'll give her a...
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{ "description": "yelling at a homeless beggar", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for yelling at a homeless beggar?
Just a little bit of backstory. I left work early today after having a pretty severe nosebleed. As I am on my way out of the back (I work in a restaurant and we run into homeless people waiting for us to leave so they can ask for change or leftover food from time to time) I am approached by a homeless woman on a bike....
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{ "description": "not liking the way my friend expresses her emotions", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA to not like the way my friend expresses her emotions?
I have a friend, lets call her, Mia. Mia has been my friend for over 10 years and i love her to death. We don't text or talk a lot but she will always have a place in my heart. I am a lesbian. I love girls and that's just.. My prefernce lol. And Mia is 100% cool with it as long as i dont flirt with her and thats unders...
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{ "description": "not telling my father that my sister can be in danger", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not telling my father that my sister can be in danger?
Backstory: My sister (F 32) decided to divorce her husband and marry another guy 6 months ago. My parents tried to convince her to change her mind because the new guy didn't have a job (and my sister can't work too, because she has a 3 year old baby). But she still did it anyway. During the first 5 months, they were u...
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{ "description": "making fun of a girl", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA for making fun of a girl
Hey guys, I had a girl take offense to something I said today. She was talking about how everyone thinks she’s a lesbian for some reason, and I cracked fun at her by saying something along the lines of “maybe it’s because the fucking jolly green giant looks up to you”. She’s mentioned in passing that she’s self conscio...
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{ "description": "accepting an internship that I knew my friend probably really wanted", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for accepting an internship that I knew my friend probably really wanted?
Peter, his girlfriend Maddie, and I have known each other for about 3 years. We’re all in the same major. Peter and I work for the same company as non-interns and Maddie works elsewhere. We met in a group where I also met my current boyfriend. Peter and Maddie got together around the same time and all of us have been w...
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{ "description": "totally favoring one child over the other", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 27 }
AITA For totally favoring one child over the other?
I (39m) have two boys, ages 3 and 5. The older while was diagnosed with autism and is definitely on the spectrum while the younger had some developmental delays and because of older brother's diagnosis we were able to get him diagnosed too so we could qualify him for services. It's now apparent that the younger is catc...
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{ "description": "not letting my co-worker off for a \"prayer for the Dead\" for her nephew that died 22 years ago", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for not letting my co-worker off for a "Prayer for the Dead" for her nephew that died 22 years ago?
I'm a supervisor at the job I'm currently at. I'm 39 and I supervise three other people. The one I'm discussing is 61 years old. Her nephew(sister's son) died 22 years ago in a car accident at the age of 18. I actually went to high school with him and was a grade behind him. She's gone to it every year she's been here...
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{ "description": "dating a girl I don't intend to marry", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 8 }
AITA For dating a girl I don't intend to marry?
I (22M) have been dating my girl (22F) for a while now. I don't see marrying her (for many reasons), but we have a happy and healthy relationship. My friends tell me I'm being an a-hole for leading her on. Thoughts?
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{ "description": "not wanting to walk 1 1/2 miles through a foot of snow to see my girlfriend", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to walk 1 1/2 miles through a foot of snow to see my girlfriend
Hey Reddit. (Excuse spelling mistakes or weird formatting, I'm on mobile.) Where I (m16) live its been snowing like crazy and there is almost a foot and a half of snow on the ground. Naturally, you can't exactly drive through that. So my girlfriend (16) knowing that I'd have to walk a mile and a half asked me to co...
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{ "description": "sleeping with two people when I was single but getting more serious with someone else", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for sleeping with two people when I was single but getting more serious with someone else (but not exclusive) ?
So in June I went on a solo backpacking trip through the balkins for two months . I've been exclusive and seeing my current girlfriend since August. I've been seeing here on and off since January last year. From January to June we had a friend's with benefits situation going on and I really saw her as a good friend w...
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{ "description": "not visiting my girlfriend who's recovering from Lupus and Endocarditis because I had to study for midterms", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not visiting my girlfriend who’s recovering from Lupus and Endocarditis because I had to study for midterms?
Me and my girlfriend have been together for a year at this point. I am a senior in high school and she is a freshman in college. She was diagnosed with lupus when she was 12 and recently had another flare up In November (kidney malfunction, severe swelling of her entire body, blood pressure issues, the whole 9 yards)...
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