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{ "description": "wanting to keep my neighbor's cat", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for wanting to keep my neighbor's cat?
To start, throwaway account for reasons. ​ Kind of a long story because I want all the details out there so I can know if I am wrong to think this way. ​ I live in an apartment complex with my roommate and a month ago (first week of December) I got off work at night and found a stray cat pres...
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{ "description": "sleeping with someone before discussing what we wanted out of a relationship", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for sleeping with someone before discussing what we wanted out of a relationship?
I met someone on bumble and we slept together after the second date. We hadn't really discussed what we were each looking for, but I've noticed she has gone inactive on the app. I just got out of a long relationship and don't want anything serious, and I fully plan to continue dating other people, but of course she doe...
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{ "description": "getting kicked out of a friend's wedding", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for getting kicked out of a friend’s wedding
Here’s the story, it happened two years ago but it’s on my mind constantly. I often wonder if there’s something I could have done differently. So I was friends with a guy, known him for about 20 years. He’s with his partner for 10 years. We’re all very close at the time, text daily, see each other about once a week, ...
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{ "description": "making a pregnant business owner cry with negative feedback", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for making a pregnant business owner cry with negative feedback?
The title is super TLDR. But essentially: I started learning aerial silks in 2016 at a major circus school in my city. They have a production company too and they're very well-known. They had a small training space though and I could only do one class a week there due to the timing and types of classes they ran, so af...
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{ "description": "asking friends/family to not post photos of our kid", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for asking friends/family to not post photos of our kid?
I'm not certain where this decision arose from for us, but my wife and I decided somewhere along the lines that we didn't feel it was necessary to post photos of our child online when he was born. We will happily write little messages about goofy things he did or share little anecdotes about parenting (if we think its...
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{ "description": "getting upset with my girlfriend for using a sex toy I bought her", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 12 }
AITA for getting upset with my girlfriend for using a sex toy I bought her?
Here's the backstory. My girlfriend (23) (I'm 25) and I have been dating for 3 years now but due to life events we currently are living 5 hours apart so we don't get to see each other as often as we'd like but are willing to stick it out for another year. We had a pretty healthy sex life up until the point where we had...
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{ "description": "interrupting hiit", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for interrupting HIIT?
So, this was at a YMCA and was not a group or with any trainer involvement, but as happened twice. For starters I'm a somewhat petite dude, 5'9'' about 140 lbs and trying to put on some mass. This particular Y doesn't have sign-up sheets for any equipment, either. I use the TRX and plyo boxes for my exercise routine...
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{ "description": "refusing to be my little brother's support/back-up when he comes out to our homophobic parents", "pronormative_score": 33, "contranormative_score": 22 }
AITA for refusing to be my little brother’s support/back-up when he comes out to our homophobic parents?
I’m 24 and my brother “Sean” is 14. He came out to me around 4 months ago and I’m the only one he has told so far. I’ve always loved him no matter what and I really don’t care that he’s gay. We’ve gotten closer over the past 4 years, despite our ten year age gap. He came to me yesterday asking me if I would come with...
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{ "description": "leaving my possibly drunk friend to drive herself home because she was being too controlling and mean", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for leaving my possibly drunk friend to drive herself home because she was being too controlling and mean?
this is gonna be long but here goes my best friend (21F) N, her boyfriend, and our other two best friends K and M (21F) took a trip to florida about a year ago (i know this is late but i’m still angry). we were all kind of annoyed by her bringing her boyfriend cus it was supposed to be our trip but we just kinda got o...
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{ "description": "asking my friends not to have sex with eachoter", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 18 }
AITA for asking my friends not to have sex with eachoter
Okay so this happend quite recently. I'm with a group of friends with which we hang out quite often. When two of the members of these group get tipsy they like to have sex with each other which is accepted by everyone (not that it should matter because it's their own choice and body). However last weekend we had a gr...
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{ "description": "yelling at chatty memorial goers", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for yelling at chatty memorial goers?
This happened a few years ago but my family still gives me crap for it once in a while. It’s usually in a fun way but sometimes I get angry comments. For Context, my family and I are Muslim, and according to Islam, when someone passes away, you’re supposed to bury them within 24 hours of their death, and hold memorial...
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{ "description": "inviting a guy friend to a meetup where a female friend (who finds him attractive) was at", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for inviting a guy friend to a meetup where a female friend (who finds him attractive) was at.
My 32 year-old female friend who has never dated was attracted to my husband's co-worker "barguy" who she did not know, but had met when "barguy" was with my husband at social scenes in the past. She asked my husband to connect the two of them for a friendly meetup 8 months after meeting "barguy" and not seeing him ag...
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{ "description": "not wanting to waste food", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for not wanting to waste food?
I'm at a local rib joint, nothing fancy but I liked their food. I was 21 at the time and the server looked to be around my age or slightly younger. I order a large serve of ribs and a juice and the conversation is below, slightly paraphrased due to memory but essentially the same: Server: You know if you get the meal i...
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{ "description": "not wanting my so, who is dating other people, to not text them when we are together", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITAH for not wanting my SO, who is dating other people, to not text them when we are together?
I agreed to an open relationship with my current SO. I live in another state and we met in my previous state. I told him if he texts other women he is dating while visiting me then he should not bother to come. AITAH for wanting our time together to be our time without the "others"?
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{ "description": "calling the police on some guys doing donuts in an icy parking lot", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I called the police on some guys doing donuts in an icy parking lot?
I live across the road from a mall parking lot, and a couple times a week there are a couple cars and trucks that go into the parking lot and do donuts for a few hours each night. It's loud and disturbing to my sleep, and in my opinion it's also dangerous because this parking lot is directly connected to a public road ...
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{ "description": "complaining about the school musical on Instagram", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 10 }
AITA for complaining about the school musical on Instagram?
This week is my school's musical, and I'm in the pit. I did audition, and I almost got cast in the lead role, but lost out to someone who the teachers liked more personally. Monday I posted to my Instagram story saying something to the effect of "Other schools choose good musicals, we got a bad one, literally any othe...
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{ "description": "calling off a new relationship because she said she would keep a child if she got pregnant", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for calling off a new relationship because she said she would keep a child if she got pregnant?
I started seeing this girl on tinder a couple weeks ago and she had a habit of going on tangents with no real topic in mind, which is cool with me. Around the third date she said something that had me pause for a moment. When I was driving her home one night she mentioned "If I had a kid now I would keep it, I wouldn't...
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{ "description": "leaving my girlfriend at a party", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for leaving my girlfriend at a party
So last saturday, a friend(ill call him friend b) invited me and other friends including my girlfriend to his brother's wedding party. Me and friend a, were the first ones to arrive, and we were talking with friend b for like an hour until my gf and his friend c arrived. My girlfriend started talking with friend b (and...
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{ "description": "telling bils wife that our in laws think she's fat and stupid", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for telling BILs wife that our in laws think she’s fat and stupid
When I moved to (European country) boyfriend and I lived with his parents for 8 months, along with our newborn baby. We did not pay rent during this time. We offered and they refused. My in laws, though generous, are mean-spirited. His mom is truly unable to understand or care about other people’s needs, and values p...
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AITA: girlfriend cried to ex after I "wasn't comforting enough"
My girlfriend is still friends with her ex. I am ok with it because I trust her, and because they were just friends for over a year AFTER they broke up. So more recently they have just been friends, before I even came into the picture. HOWEVER, out of respect for me, she did stop hanging out with him. They occasionally...
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{ "description": "being honest about why I won't go to my friend's show", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA if I were honest about why I won't go to my friend's show?
I have a couple friends who are in a band and rarely play near our hometown any more. Last night they played and I didn't go because another friend was home Korea for the weekend but they mentioned the band is playing nearby soon. Here's the thing a former friend is also friends with them a n d I have no desire to see ...
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{ "description": "making a joke about a friends mom", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for making a joke about a friends mom?
To start this off, I will go ahead and say the other person is definitely not the asshole in this situation. The person I made the joke to, a friend of mine, had lost her mom a few months ago and I made the mistake, but I still feel like an asshole for it because of her reaction. ​ Yesterday, I was hanging...
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AITA - Boyfriend wants to get a lap dance, do I asked if it's okay if I dance with another guy
Throwaway. I've been with my boyfriend for a bit over a year, and he's really great and things have been awesome. But we had our first kind-of fight the other day, and I'm not sure if I was being the asshole in this situation. We have some separate events coming up, it's his friends birthday in a few weeks and it's ...
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{ "description": "wanting my bf not to be hungover on our one day off together", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 8 }
AITA for wanting my bf not to be hungover on our one day off together?
My bf and I's weekends rarely match up. Especially lately, he's been working more and now has been getting one day off a week. That day this week is today. I wanted to make the most out of today with him. I wanted to spend time with my cousin (who bf is friends with) and his gf. They are the only couple we hang ou...
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{ "description": "wanting to end contact with a girl after she tells me she's a virgin", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for wanting to end contact with a girl after she tells me she's a virgin?
Okay, so I (22M) picked up a microwave from some of my parents acquaintances for my new place, her daughter (20F) answered the door and got her mom to sell me the microwave. Couple of days later I heard from my dad that the daughter fancies me and that I should get her number. So I'm like sure, I wasn't initially attr...
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{ "description": "not wanting to go to launch with my siblings", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for not wanting to go to launch with my siblings.
So I come from a big family I have 10 siblings and if I count me there is 11 of us.... so everyone's home for the holidays from the 20th to the 28th and today my twin brothers and 2 oldest sisters where going out to lunch and invited me and my twin sister to go with them and they said "dont worry about asking mom or da...
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{ "description": "leaving out the negatives for one of my staff as a reference", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for leaving out the negatives for one of my staff as a reference?
tldr at the end. I think it's usually etiquette to leave out the bad aspects of an employee when you are called as a reference anyways, but I left out so much this case I felt like I was misleading. Essentially, the bad employee (BE) wanted to be an operations supervisor. The job essentially requires you to be a ...
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{ "description": "wanting to break up with my fiance because of his violent and destructive son", "pronormative_score": 24, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for wanting to break up with my fiance because of his violent and destructive son?
I met my fiance 2 years ago and our love is like a fairy tale, everything seemed so perfect. I met his son when he was 5 years old, he's 7 now. His son, who I will call Josh, was very open and warm to me in the beginning. My fiance was never the best at being a dad to him, but when I came in the picture we changed that...
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{ "description": "being too hard on my daughter", "pronormative_score": 21, "contranormative_score": 22 }
AITA for being too hard on my daughter?
My Ex left me about 7 years ago when our daughter (let's call her R) was 5. Since then we have shared 50/50 custody. I have re-married and have a 2 year old daughter with my wife and recently learned we have another child on the way. For the most part co-parenting with my Ex has gone well. We have always been able to w...
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{ "description": "asking my group of friends(?) why they don't include me in outings", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA If I asked my group of friends(?) why they don't include me in outings?
I'm sorry if this is a little long, this all happened recently so I'm still sort of processing this. ​ So I'm a college freshman. Not long being there, me, my roommate and another girl in our hall sort of formed a friend group. We would go to the dining hall together, go to plays, go out to eat, etc. I tho...
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{ "description": "wanting to destroy my brother's computer", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 23 }
AITA wanting to destroy my brother's computer?
My brother's useless. Dropped out of college 6 years ago, hasn't done anything except play computer games at home since then. Outside of sending his "resume" to different places like, twice, he doesn't show progression or indication he's even trying to do something. Year after year he says he'll do better. He doesn't. ...
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{ "description": "blocking girl with BF", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 13 }
AITA for blocking girl with BF? (M19, F18)
I've known this girl for about 6 years now, I've always had a thing for her and weve been really close friends I guess. Anyway this last year Ive been busy with work and sports shit, and I havent had time to hang out as much. Anyway, I just got home from a camp thing and I made a big thing to my friends that I had a wh...
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{ "description": "disliking my brother", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For Disliking My Brother?
For some context, my brother and I have had a history of a love-hate relationship. We are complete opposites, I am more of an enjoyable person to be around but he isn't. I made a post here a little while ago talking about this, but he generally just has this weird mindset. Early on, he didn't have many friends, so he s...
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{ "description": "venting to friends", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for venting to friends
This happened 3 months ago and we’re both 13 So here we go with context: A girl I had a relationship with started to cuddle with me and put my hand on her breasts and she later regret it (which I told her I was fine with) and proceeds to accuse me of sexual assault after she cheated on me. She has also spread rumors ...
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{ "description": "sleeping with my ex husband", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA for sleeping with my ex husband?
I've been divorced for a little over two years. I just recently started getting back out in the dating scene. I met this really great guy. We've been on 4 dates so far and I really can see a future with him. Here's where it gets ugly though. I met up with my ex last week and although we are terrible for each other...
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{ "description": "refusing to pay for a dinner I was invited to at my friends house", "pronormative_score": 191, "contranormative_score": 21 }
AITA for refusing to pay for a dinner I was invited to at my friends house.
AITA I’ll try and keep this short guys, I haven’t found anyone so far who thinks I am in the wrong, so wanted to get Reddit’s verdict. So my buddy recently hosted a Christmas roast dinner. About 8 people turned up. Anyway I agreed to go, that was until I heard he was charging people to go. So I turned down the invite,...
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{ "description": "lying to my best friend just so I don't have to hang out with her, even though she barely has other friends", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for lying to my best friend just so I don’t have to hang out with her, even though she barely has other friends?
Hi there, I should probably start this post by telling you guys that I have mild autism, social anxiety and I’m 100% introverted. I have one extremely good friend, she’s very nice and we’ve been best friends for over two years now. I also sorta have another friend? That friendship is a bit more complicated. He used to ...
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{ "description": "being annoyed for my friend wanting to use my house while I'm away", "pronormative_score": 22, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being annoyed for my friend wanting to use my house while I'm away
Ok, I grew up in a rural area and moved to the city which is 80 miles from where I grew up. A group of friends who still live there always expect me to come to them to see them, and always make excuses why they can't visit me, like "Oh its such a long journey" or "I need to service my car first" - it's a journey that t...
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{ "description": "telling my ex to leave me alone after talking with him again", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA telling my ex to leave me alone after talking with him again?
Dated ex for about two years starting 2013, and it was deep but rocky. We both were sort of bad to each other, mostly codependence and youthful insecurity i think. We first split in 2015, got back together in 2016 and split for good that summer. The reason was- he sexually assaulted me. He was jealous and drunk and i...
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{ "description": "telling my friend that a dispute with a friend over money isnt the same as a case of domestic violence", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for telling my friend that a dispute with a friend over money isnt the same as a case of domestic violence
So today i casually sent a friend a concerning post about someone she had "warned" me about assaulting his girlfriend, stealing her car/cards/money and nearly biting her finger off. Her response was "oh well he's friends with Q (let's call her Q) they're both abusive". Q is a girl my friend used to be friends with. Th...
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{ "description": "breaking up with my girlfriend and sleeping with her best friend", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for breaking up with my girlfriend and sleeping with her best friend.
I’m pretty sure I’m the asshole in this one. But here’s the story, I just broke up with my girlfriend of 2 years ago because I needed to explore and the relationship had gotten progressively toxic, we both were not good for each other towards the end so I called it off, and ended things on relatively good terms. Flash ...
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{ "description": "leaving my ex girlfriend after she attempted suicide", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for leaving my ex girlfriend after she attempted suicide
this has been killing me lately. prepare for a very long story. i met my ex through my work and we got together and were together for about 9 months before she attempted suicide. throughout the relationship, we'd have problems from time to time. did i say time to time? i meant all the time. she'd constantly threaten ...
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{ "description": "making a light hearted joke he took personally? he wants me to apologize for hurting his feelings", "pronormative_score": 28, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for making a light hearted joke he took personally? He wants me to apologize for hurting his feelings
I’ve been stressing hard about my disability being renewed (I’ve been on it for like 10 years already, vomiting syndrome, seizures and chronic urticaria) and when I found out it was approved I jokingly said “it’s all downhill from here”, implying nothing better could happen to me today. He took it super personally and ...
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AITA for not wanted a big girl to did next to me on the bus?
Title makes me seem like Nicole Arbor (dear fat people woman) but here we go. I am a small girl (14, 5’4, 115lbs) and I take the school bus to and from school. I am claustrophobic so I usually put my bag on the inside part of the seat and sit on the outside to prevent people from sitting next to me. Most mornings are ...
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{ "description": "tipping a server poorly after extremely bad service", "pronormative_score": 30, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for tipping a server poorly after extremely bad service?
I went to a bottomless brunch with two friends. Basically, it’s $32 for bottomless mimosas and tapas. The waiter generally comes by, takes your food order, and fills your drinks from a pitcher, then comes around from time to time to refill your drinks. The first time I went to this brunch the service was great. Sure th...
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{ "description": "asking my fiancee to give up his dog for my cat's sake", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 14 }
WIBTA if I asked my fiancee to give up his dog for my cat's sake?
I've moved into my fiancee's family's home with my cat. The family owns four dogs, but my fiancee owns the rowdiest of them, who would be coming with us when we do move out. I don't know if it's worth keeping both pets, but I don't want to give my cat up. WIBTA if I asked if he would/could give up his dog for my cat's ...
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{ "description": "Asking Hotel to call the police to make me leave", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA For Asking Hotel To Call The Police To Make Me Leave? (they did)
* Booked the hotel through Hotels.com for 2 nights/king bed * Thursday evening I book another night after speaking to clerk * Used Hotels.com app and, by mistake, made a new reservation for 2 queen beds. Didn't know how to fix it * Clerk told me it was no problem - she would change it in her system * Saturday evening d...
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{ "description": "shouting at a woman for taking a week off every month", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 72 }
AITA for shouting at a woman for taking a week off every month?
We are a group of salesmen for a small hygiene business. I don't make a lot of money per say, but I am happy with my job and I get through. We are all male members. Recently, a female joined us. She is pretty attractive and interesting, so she is often the centre of discussion since the past few months. This is all co...
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{ "description": "sketching in a university space", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for sketching in a university space?
I've been trying to sketch more and more, because I'd like to as a hobby and because I have to complete a sketchbook for my art minor, due in a few days. Today I had a lot of time on my hands so I decided to head to one of the many hallways that have these open spaces with tables and chairs/benches where studentst tend...
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{ "description": "yelling at my step dads friend and wibtaif I locked him out", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 2 }
Aita for yelling at my step dads friend and wibtaif i locked him out
Alright so here's the story. For a little bit of backstory I got to say that this dude has been my step dad's friend since way before I even knew him and I've known my stepdad for 6 years now. And it turns out he's always been like this but I don't really know him or care about him. He's the type of person who no matte...
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{ "description": "being upset at my gf for always putting me second", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for Being Upset at My GF for Always Putting Me Second?
My girlfriend and I have been together a pretty long time now, over a year, getting closer to two. Since the beginning it's always felt like I'm playing second fiddle to everyone else, even people she's only recently met. For example, I'll make plans for us, and then at the last minute she'll decide that she'd rather c...
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{ "description": "not texting something nice to my step dad for when his brother died recently", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for not texting something nice to my step dad for when his brother died recently?
I'm probably gonna be the asshole. So my (27F) step dad and I have a weird relationship. He was introduced to me at age 7, they got married and we moved away at 8. I had a traumatic meltdown during this point (even cried at their wedding) because I felt like I was being ripped away from my real home with my grandparen...
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{ "description": "withdrawing consent for anal", "pronormative_score": 28, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for withdrawing consent for anal
My husband has wanted to try anal for a very long time. All this time, I have just as strongly wanted not to try it. I even cited one of the reasons as him not knowing how it works, because he hasn’t done his research. Anyway about a week and a half ago I finally agreed to it. We tried but couldn’t get it in there, so...
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AITA? Pouty and sad.
About a month ago, my 49-year old husband died suddenly. As you can imagine my two teenage daughters and I are still in shock. The memorial service was two weeks ago. My dad and his wife flew here to Cali with other members of my family from the midwest for the memorial. After the memorial, my dad and his wife used ...
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AITA because my gf wants me to stop drinking and I want her to loose weight?
My gf for years has been telling to stop drinking. And I’ve been telling her for years to stop eating. I told her let’s make a bet, you go to the gym, and I’ll stop drinking. Does that make me an asshole?
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{ "description": "working too much", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for working too much?
I'm 15. I work at McDonald's, take care of my animals and my uncle with down syndrome, play a bunch of instruments, and paint. I'm busy pretty much all of the time. I have friends, but i like to be alone. Especially because I have a lot to do. My best friend texts me everyday asking me to hang out. And I feel so bad, b...
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{ "description": "getting my roommate's annoying friend arrested", "pronormative_score": 98, "contranormative_score": 91 }
AITA for getting my roommate's annoying friend arrested?
My roommate has this friend, let's call him Mike. Mike is a bit of a dick and a horrible guest. He's the type of person who will come to your home, ask for Coke, be offered Pepsi, accept it, and then spill it on your carpet just to be like *"fuck Pepsi am I right hahahahahahaha"*. He's the type of person who will delet...
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{ "description": "disliking my grandmother", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for disliking my grandmother.
Obligatory first time posting warning. ​ Over the past few years whenever I go to my maternal grandparents for Christmas or easter or whatever I notice things that my grandmother does that are making me dislike her more and more. However i can't stop feeling bad about it because she is my grandmother after...
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{ "description": "breaking in to a neighbors apartment to turn off his stereo that he left on repeat, ostensibly for an entire weekend he was gone", "pronormative_score": 122, "contranormative_score": 124 }
AITA for breaking in to a neighbors apartment to turn off his stereo that he left on repeat, ostensibly for an entire weekend he was gone?
Posting from a throwaway since I most certainly broke the law, the question is am I an asshole for what I did? I need to provide some quick background. I live in a pretty shitty triplex to save some money. I can hear almost everything that my neighbors on both sides can do. One side is a lawyer who has the apartment a...
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AITA My sister lied to avoid paying me money owed, I didn’t speak to her for a few years.
AITA This happened around 25years ago. My sister was a drop out (and to this day has never worked a day in her life). When I started working back in the early 1990s, she would borrow money from new, £10 here, £30 there. It built up until she owed me nearly £500 (a months wages for me then). This happened around 29 ...
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{ "description": "telling my boyfriend that he has an unhealthy relationship with his son", "pronormative_score": 38, "contranormative_score": 69 }
AITA for telling my boyfriend that he has an unhealthy relationship with his son?
My (F38) boyfriend (M42) has an 18 year old son I'll call Junior, who lives with him full time. From a distance, Junior comes across as sweet and innocent but he's spoiled rotten. He has his father wrapped around his finger and it's obvious that he knows this. The thing is, my boyfriend is very affectionate by nature...
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{ "description": "getting Amex to claim back $300 from a pastor that didn't do anything", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for getting Amex to claim back $300 from a pastor that didn’t do anything?
Bit of a weird situation, sorry for the long post but backstory required. myself and my now wife are living in the UK, she is American. We were engaged to be married with a ceremony for family and all that good stuff planned for next year. Her visa runs out in January, and it just makes things a lot easier on us to ...
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{ "description": "not wanting my friend to comer over for New Year's Eve dinner", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting my friend to comer over for New Year’s Eve dinner?
TLDR at the bottom. For less background skip to “Fast Forward to December 21st” . Throwaway account, etc. This might be a long one but here it goes: My boyfriend and I have a friend of 5 years who we met while he was stationed in the military in my city (referred to as John from here on). John is generally loud (Ital...
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{ "description": "abandoning my boyfriend on a date we had planned for months", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 8 }
AITA for abandoning my boyfriend on a date we had planned for months?
I feel incredibly guilty about this, but talking to my friends, they don’t think I’m entirely to blame for how things turned out so I guess I’m here for some unbiased judgement. My boyfriend and I had been planning on going to this little concert for months. My boyfriend bought the tickets for both of us (£40 total) a...
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{ "description": "asking/ expecting my partner to be there for me when I'm having a down moment", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for asking/ expecting my partner to be there for me when I'm having a down moment? (Depression)
Hi folks, Not English, just emigrated to the other side of the world to explore and be with partner. Seeing how this goes. Can be NSFW I've had depression from 11 till 18 and now at the age of 22 again. The big move really got to me and the symptoms are worse because I don't have a support system anymore. Partn...
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{ "description": "not giving Christmas gifts this year", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not giving Christmas gifts this year?
FTP, sorry if this is the wrong place to post. A little backstory. My father passed away in mid-September, and I am still grieving. My mom, brother, and I all agreed that we will not be exchanging Christmas gifts among ourselves. We are also part of a very large extended family, and usually, the people in my generatio...
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{ "description": "wanting to skip Thanksgiving and go to the hospital to see my boyfriend", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA For wanting to skip Thanksgiving and go to the hospital to see my boyfriend
Context; we're both just about 16, (our birthdays are in early December) so obviously neither of us can drive and he cant medically advocate for himself in our state (NY). We've been together for 3 years (4 in January), so this isnt a new family member. Yesterday afternoon he was diagnosed with type 1 diabetes (the h...
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{ "description": "insulting a driver who almost run me over? +paint drawing", "pronormative_score": 14, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for insulting a driver who almost run me over? +paint drawing
This happened 1 hour ago, I (20M) was walking on the sidewalk because I had a reservation at the local barbershop. ​ At a certain point on my right there was a ramp to the parking area. I was listening to music with my earphones and after I reached the ramp( that I couldn't see because there was a wall) a...
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{ "description": "getting mad about a friend's Hydra tattoo", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 21 }
AITA For getting mad about a friend’s Hydra tattoo?
My friend and I are huge Marvel fans and often talk about cool ideas for related tattoos. Yesterday she came back from a trip to Miami and revealed she’d gotten a tattoo of the Hydra logo on her back (Like Madame Hydra’s but not so big). I got quite mad about this with her on account of Hydra being Neo-Nazis. I know Hy...
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{ "description": "stealing photos of my dad from my mom to copy", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 2 }
WIBTA if I stole photos of my dad from my mom to copy?
Background: they were together for three years about 22 years ago (I am kind of guessing the time lines but I am 24 now and they were not together when I was born.) My dad has been in and out of jail and I rarely have got to see him or have a relationship. I'd like to have some photos but my mom won't let me even t...
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{ "description": "knocking out the fool who was giving my brother drugs", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 8 }
AITA.For knocking out the fool who was giving my brother drugs.
This all started with my brother going on these tantrums on how no one understands him and he was threatening on leaving the house,but luckily almost all of that is solved. Now when I was coming home (usually the first one back) I realized the door was unlocked. I was worried and confused then I heard a noise from my ...
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{ "description": "making fun of a kids disability", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for making fun of a kids disability?
There’s this kid at my school who has mild autism, it impacts his daily life and he’s really insecure about it. Now, this kid ruthlessly bullies me. Calls me names, won’t leave me alone, insists on following me around at lunch, etc. the bullying has severely impacted my self esteem and social life, and the administra...
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{ "description": "asking my husband to go to couples therapy", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for asking my husband to go to couples therapy?
Tonight my husband and I had an argument where we weren’t really understanding each other. We did manage to come to an understanding on some things, but not all. Afterwards I asked him if he would consider going to couples therapy and he got pissed off real quick. I tried to explain that i thought it would be helpfu...
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{ "description": "shutting down completely & ignoring my so for telling our kids what they got for Christmas during an argument", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AiTA for Shutting down completely & ignoring my SO for telling our kids what they got for Christmas during an argument?
First if I’m on mobile sorry for formatting and stuff.. This happened today so I haven’t had time to cool off completely, I’m still shaking. My (32f) work week ends tomorrow ... My SO (35M) has been laid off work for a few months now (different problem- I know) Well the house was a mess, breakfast dishes still in the...
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{ "description": "wanting to seperate myself from my boyfriend's bdp sister", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting to seperate myself from my boyfriend’s BDP sister?
TL;DR Boyfriend’s sister has Borderline Personality disorder and I can’t be around her constant negativity anymore. Hi guys! My boyfriend (23) and I (22f) have been dating for almost two years now and for the most part, things have been great. However, about a year into our relationship his sister’s (21) mental health...
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{ "description": "not wanting to repair this friendship", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to repair this friendship?
Please be aware that this might be a long read. For context i (m 30s) have been friends with this woman (also in her 30s) for a long time. Both of us have had our difficulties but it came to a head a couple of years ago. In the interests of full disclosure our friendship had become sexual for a short period prior to th...
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AITA: Friend didn’t invite me to sleep over.
To preface this we’re all 15 year old males. My friend (let’s call him x) invited me and two other friends to hang out we had a good time and spent the day playing football and video games. At around 8 o clock he came into the room all excited saying his parents let him have 2 friends stay over to sleep and immediate...
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AITA for making up stories so cashiers will stop asking what I'm buying certain items for?
I absolutely can't stand when a cashier makes a comment on what I'm buying or asks why I'm buying what I am. The most infuriating one was a while ago where a cashier at a grocery store was amazed that I was spending so much money on a pineapple, because you can get them cheaper elsewhere. Everyone in line was staring a...
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{ "description": "calling my then-boyfriend a \"f*cking as*hole\"", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for calling my then-boyfriend a "f*cking as*hole"?
When he got really upset, such as thinking he left his wallet on the counter at the grocery store, he would burst into my room without warning and start ranting and raving and just generally freaking out, whether or not it was my fault. ​ This last time, I was innocently playing a game in the bedroom when ...
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{ "description": "ignoring/not having any contact with my father's family", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for ignoring/not having any contact with my father's family?
This might take a few paragraphs to get through, but here goes: ​ My mother and father were not together when I was a child and I had no memories of my father from when I was small. There weren't any pictures of him and, as far as I was aware, he never asked to take us for a weekend or anything of that sor...
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{ "description": "not agreeing with someone during a meeting", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not agreeing with someone during a meeting.
Hello, ​ Today I was told that I should be careful when in meetings. I should make sure that we, as an organization, agree on X subject. ​ Background: I was in a meeting about a sensitive and important subject - errors we make that affects clients. The meeting was informal, just to touch base ...
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{ "description": "telling a friend that I felt the friendship was lopsided", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for telling a friend that I felt the friendship was lopsided.
Context: I am in college with a friend group of 1 and a half years. At some point, my friend had been through alot, and I mean ALOT. So we did our best to comfort her and support her. Eventually she told us she "didn't want to be alive anymore," one of the friends took action and had her go to the school's counselors o...
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{ "description": "being brutally honest with my friend", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 12 }
AITA for being brutally honest with my friend?
I have become fairly good friends with a girl that lives in my apartment complex. We have the same taste in music, video games, alcohol, we both are very into sports (watching), we have the same sense of humor, ect. you get the point. But she is also very unattractive, overweight, does not take good hygienic care of he...
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{ "description": "not accepting my Mum's support after coming out", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for not accepting my Mum's support after coming out?
TL;DR: Mum reacts badly to me coming out to her. She's now trying to help, by suggesting jobs and volunteering which are trans-friendly, and is upset that I don't want her help. So I'm transgender, and a few days ago I talked to my parents about starting Hormone Replacement Therapy (HRT). It went about as well as you...
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{ "description": "not immediately telling my aunt her sister died", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not immediately telling my aunt her sister died?
TL;DR: aunt was a bitch to my mom and other aunt. I waited weeks before telling my cousin that aunt died. Background: We always heard how when my g’parents died, everything would be split equally between their three kids. Apparently the trust wasn’t written this way, because after my gma died mom and aunt D never got ...
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{ "description": "yelling at my mom and going to film school", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for yelling at my mom and going to film school.
So it's my 12 grade awards ceremony (where they announce scholar ships and stuff) and I didn't get any scholar ships but I got two awards ( $50 from a writing contest and an award for editing videos for my high school's Youtube page after school.) The entire time when I would't get an award in a category my mom would s...
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{ "description": "killing a long-term friendship because my ex-best friend tried to enroll me in some mlms", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for killing a long-term friendship because my ex-best friend tried to enroll me in some MLMs?
So, there's this girl who joined Herbalife in order to hope for extra money at the end of the month on top of her wage. She was a very cautious person and also, a skinflint when she was in Europe. However, she earned enough money to start living abroad, in Australia. She was also a roommate for 6 months before she move...
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{ "description": "accidentally breaking an umbrella while trying to get my bag back", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for accidentally breaking an umbrella while trying to get my bag back
On the last day of school last year I was hanging out with a group of friends I don't usually hang out with since my usual group of friends was away. There's one girl in the group who gets on my nerves lots because she does some really annoying things. In the afternoon that day I was chucking my bag around with frien...
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{ "description": "trying to avoid having mentally challenged people sit next to me on the bus", "pronormative_score": 15, "contranormative_score": 41 }
AITA for trying to avoid having mentally challenged people sit next to me on the bus?
The bus I commute on has a stop right next to a facility for the mentally challenged, and more often than not, people get on the bus to go to the city. When I see a mentally challenged person coming onto the bus, and the seat next to me is empty, I either put my bag on it, or try to sit as widely as possible. I'm...
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{ "description": "snapping at a friend for posting a naked dead man on Snapchat", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for snapping at a friend for posting a naked dead man on Snapchat?
I woke up this morning to a snapchat from my best friend saying ‘Don’t look at my snap story there’s a dead guy on it and I know you don’t like seeing dead things’ so of course I immediately looked at her story and she has quite a few pictures and videos of a naked dead guy laying in the park surrounded by police. Basi...
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{ "description": "deleting my wife's facebook friends", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for deleting my wife's facebook friends
A few weeks ago I started deleting some of my wife's (32) facebook friends to try to make her happier. She gets into depressive moods often and I have been at a loss for ways to help. I did this because I was sure looking all day at her "friends" off on huge vacations was not helping the situation. Though, I am not say...
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AITA the asshole because my brother is homeless and I just want to ignore it?
I'm 27 and my brother is 18. Autism runs in my family (from my mother's side. ) Because of it my brother has trouble with school so he's still in 10th grade and was living at my mom's house. About 6 months ago my mother moved away and asked my little bro to stay with his friend for two weeks while she moved. But a f...
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{ "description": "giving someone an ultimatum to identify himself online before I do it for him", "pronormative_score": 33, "contranormative_score": 3 }
WIBTA if I gave someone an ultimatum to identify himself online before I do it for him?
Throwaway because at least some of the involved parties know my main account. So, I’ve been involved in a few D&D games over Skype/Discord in the past few years, and one of the people in my current group is someone I’ve played with before (we’ll call her Beth). In a campaign I played with her a year or two back, t...
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{ "description": "not going to my cousin's wedding", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA for not going to my cousin’s wedding
My cousin just got engaged on New Years Eve and I’m extremely happy for her. The problem is they’re already planning the wedding and it’s in North Carolina. They live there now so it’s understandable but they want us to fly down for the weekend. They’re looking at a time that would A) be expensive to fly and B) I would...
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{ "description": "calling the police on a suspicious truck", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for calling the police on a suspicious truck?
Sorry, on mobile. Tldr; I called the police on a suspicious truck (creeping down the road, parking in the dark without getting out) that turned out to be someone who lives in the neighborhood. This happened a few weeks ago, but I think about it still. I was coming home around 9pm and followed a truck into my neigh...
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{ "description": "being annoyed that I texted my boyfriend \"happy birthday eve\" with a smiley face and he totally ignored me and has been online ever since then", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for being annoyed that I texted my boyfriend “happy birthday eve” with a smiley face and he totally ignored me and has been online ever since then?
And he told me when he left to go out of town for the holidays “you’re going to text me back, right?”
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{ "description": "running away from a social situation", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for running away from a social situation?
(I’m sorry for poor grammar, I’m better in French) Ok so for you to understand this story you will have to know about, I’ll call her.. Mom2.0. Now mom2.0 isn’t actually my mom, she’s more like a close family friend, and like a mother to me. She is VERY extroverted, and I take after my mom who is VERY introverted. So...
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{ "description": "hanging out with my friend over my girlfriend", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for hanging out with my friend over my girlfriend?
For context I had an event all Friday and Saturday and before leaving I told my gf that I had loose plans to hang out with a friend Saturday night or sunday. Saturday night he said he could come over Sunday. This is between me and my gf sunday morning: Gf: Wanna go somewhere with me this morning? Gf: Upside I'll get ...
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{ "description": "not giving money towards my daughter's fundraiser that primarily benefits her mother", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not giving money towards my daughter's fundraiser that primarily benefits her mother?
It's basically a fundraiser from my daughter's daycare. The winning amount gets free tuition for a week. The mother gets the winnings, not our kid. Here's how the text message was sent: >Our daughter is having a fundraiser at school will you buy some of this crap if I sell 20 things I get week free of tuition ...
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AITA: Am I a spoilt brat?
I am 17, just graduated from high school and about to enter college. A bit of background, my dad came to this country with my mum at 20- they had no money and could barely speak a word of English. He had to work below or minimum wage manual labour jobs whilst in university. But he managed to graduate with an honours de...
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