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{ "description": "missing my friends comedy show", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for missing my friends comedy show?
So this just happened a few minutes ago. My roommate was doing one of those "one day comedy shows" where a group of students stay up all night and plan a comedy show and then perform that evening. He told me about it the other day and asked me to come to which I replied I'll think about it. When it came time to go I di...
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{ "description": "accepting a gift and then being creeped out after", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for accepting a gift and then being creeped out after?
Hi guys, LTL and FTP, throwaway because I'd rather not have my identity on here in case this guy catches it. I'm female, this will be important. So I recently went overseas for work, where I met this guy while checking in to my hotel. He's local to the area and after I complimented him on his shirt, because I genuinel...
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{ "description": "potentially harming a student/teachers career", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA for potentially harming a student/teachers career
Obligatory mobile formatting messege So I had a pretty annoying experience today and am considering taking some sort of action... So basically in my school (Not sure nationwide) there is a student teacher program where people who want to become teachers watch a teacher for a semester and then partially take over the ...
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{ "description": "not turning my gps app on", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not turning my GPS app on?
My parents are wanting me to install a GPS app on my phone (which I reluctantly have) and leave it on 24/7. I'm opposed to this and leave it off all the time. They're reasoning behind this is to make sure I'm safe but I'm a 18 yr old Male who drives himself to college. I would understand this on a younger person but 18...
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{ "description": "demanding too much from my girlfriend", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for demanding too much from my girlfriend
My girlfriend owns a bar and was sick with a really bad fever the past 4 days, I stayed at hers (above the pub) because I knew she was pretty bad and could use help with running errands, getting food/water/meds, keeping her company and covering shifts etc while she recovered. I ended up catching it off her and she as...
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{ "description": "asking a family if I can play through in miniature golf", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for asking a family if I can play through in miniature golf?
First time poster, so I hope I'm doing this right. Husband and I were playing miniature golf, and we were behind a family of four: a mom, a dad, and two very young children (toddler age). Given that we are just two people, and they were four, naturally we were golfing faster. And then also the kids were so small and...
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{ "description": "thumping a car that nearly hit me", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For thumping a car that nearly hit me?
About a week or two ago I was walking into the grocery store. The grocery store parking is about as you would expect. Each entrance/exit has a crosswalk with stop signs on either side. As I walked up to the crosswalk the person on my left was stopped at the stop sign letting traffic through and a car on my right w...
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{ "description": "seriously considering an opportunity", "pronormative_score": 15, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for seriously considering an opportunity?
Throwaway because reasons. My partner and I have been together for 4ish years, currently living together. Starting in the fall, I'll be moving about 3 hours away for graduate school (Not the issue, we had anticipated this for awhile). The problem is that when I went to meet with my new advisor very recently, I was ...
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{ "description": "getting mad at my gf for giving the mechanic an extra $135", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for getting mad at my gf for giving the mechanic an extra $135?
Backstory, she has a part time job where she works around 70ish hours every two weeks making about $14/ hour. She always complains about not having enough money, to the point where we decided I would pay more of the rent than her because I make more. She asks me to tell her what to do with her money because she says ...
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{ "description": "giving an attorney my gf's number", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for giving an attorney my gf's number?
For context I got a phone call 2 days ago from a traffic attorney asking for my gf. I was caught off guard and asked why he called my number and not hers. He said she called him on the 19th of February and left them my number. So I simply left him her number and proceeded to text her. I told her I got a call from an at...
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{ "description": "being angry with my girlfriend for wearing her wedding ring", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for being angry with my girlfriend for wearing her wedding ring?
For some backstory my girlfriend and I have been together for five months while she is still trying to get a divorce from her current husband. We have a long distance relationship and visit each other every so often. They have been split up for almost a year now, but recently (yesterday) quit living together. He a...
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{ "description": "expecting my friend to say goodbye to me", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for expecting my friend to say goodbye to me
My friend comes over at least once a week, but usually closer to 5. Almost every time he comes over, he bails out of the blue without saying goodbye. Often enough, he’ll get up an leave while I’m standing right there, but sometimes he’ll wait until I go inside. Usually I’ll shoot him a text asking where he went, and he...
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{ "description": "not wanting my bf to stop giving me advice when I don't ask for it", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for not wanting my bf to stop giving me advice when I don't ask for it?
We've definitely had the same fight more than a few times and I walk away feeling like he's being a dick but maybe he has a point and I need to be brought back to reality. I vent to my bf sometimes about my best friend. I love her, she's family, but she has a tendency to be a little self involved. It's something I fi...
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{ "description": "calling my sister a mentally challenged whore because she called my girlfriend ugly", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 15 }
AITA for calling my sister a mentally challenged whore because she called my girlfriend ugly?
So this happened exactly a week ago. I brought my new girlfriend to my parents house to meet my family. I introduced her to everyone and everyone was pretty nice except my sister. She’s not the most pleasant person to begin with and my girlfriend sensed it. When she left my sister blurted out loud “wow she’s ugly, you ...
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{ "description": "wanting my bf to cut contact with his ex-gf after catching him looking at her nudes", "pronormative_score": 17, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting my bf to cut contact with his ex-gf after catching him looking at her nudes?
So my boyfriend and I have been dating for 3 years, I've moved to the other side of the world to live with him so it's serious. I don't doubt his love for me. Anyway, he has an ex gf which was his first love and they were dating just over 2 years when they were teenagers, so about 5 years ago. They message each other...
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{ "description": "wanting to label our relationship", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting to label our relationship?
I’m gonna apologize in advanced for any grammatical errors, English is my second language. Throwaway account because my friends know my main and I don’t want them to see, they’ll make the situation worse. So, I’ve (22F) been going out with this girl (22F) for a year and a half. We both liked each other but didn’t re...
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{ "description": "looking up hot girls on instagram", "pronormative_score": 14, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for looking up hot girls on instagram?
I’m in a long distance relationship with my girlfriend so the trust issue sometimes gets strained. During the most recent visit she saw that I had recently searched up a few girls (both that i know and don’t know) on instagram and asked me about it. I told her honestly, I looked them up because I thought they were att...
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{ "description": "not wanting my photo taken", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting my photo taken?
hi everyone! i've never posted something like this before so bear with me i guess ​ So for background, my whole life I've had self esteem and body image issues. I've never liked having my photo taken by other people (or myself most times), and have only recently started participating in group photos, despi...
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{ "description": "jeopardizing my brother's chances of going to University", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA for jeopardizing my brother's chances of going to University?
Basically my brother who is soon about to graduate from HS is finishing up the process of applying to several colleges in hopes of getting an Art degree specifically in Animation. Although, I do believe he has the potential to succeed and is pretty talented I just cannot in good conscious help him attend any of these o...
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{ "description": "wanting to relax at home and save money", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting to relax at home and save money
So bit of a context here, my girlfriend (18F) is the type that loves going out and going on adventures like shopping, theme parks, eating out, activities and such. Me (20M) is very much the opposite and would love to stay at home, relax and spend some cuddle time with her but always down if she wants to go somewhere or...
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{ "description": "getting bothered when my BF likes and SHARES his ex's posts", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for getting bothered when my BF likes and SHARES his ex's posts?
I'm 23 (Female), he's 22. We have been dating for about two years. We are both in grad school (law school/MBA, respectively) now, and met in undergrad. He had a girlfriend in high school and during early years of college. I don't know a ton about her or their relationship. it's just he once told me that he lost contac...
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{ "description": "pressuring my wife to give me an occasional bj", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 27 }
AITA for pressuring my wife to give me an occasional BJ
Happily married monogamous one child and we’re both 30. We’ve been married for 3 years but my wife is completely against giving bjs. She’s always been against it but I love giving and receiving. At first I thought I could eventually get her to budge but she’s very firm on her stance. I told her sometimes in relations y...
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{ "description": "getting these cars towed", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for getting these cars towed?
Last night my wife was having a going away dinner with a couple of women from work, so I’m at home with the kids. 8 o’clock rolls around and I go upstairs to put my down to bed and notice a car parked in my wife’s parking spot. My apartment complex gives each home one assigned parking spot, but there are open spots spr...
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{ "description": "not allowing a toxic girl to sit next to me for 24 hours on a school bus", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for not allowing a toxic girl to sit next to me for 24 hours on a school bus?
I'm about to on a 24 hour bus ride with my school to Austria. Initially, I planned to sit opposite my two actual friends, and sit alone. The plan was that I'd sit on the isle seat, and place my hand luggage at the window seat. Dick move, I know, but I don't want to sit next to a complete stranger or a girl. Now, let's ...
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{ "description": "not tipping the bartender after every $1 drink", "pronormative_score": 19, "contranormative_score": 21 }
AITA for not tipping the bartender after every $1 drink?
It was thirsty Thursday, and very busy. The deal was $1 well drinks, and if you don't know what a well drink is, it's the cheapest liquor they have (which is why they can afford to sell it for $1. I got my first drink and tipped the bartender a dollar. Finished it in like 10-15 minutes and went back for another. I didn...
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{ "description": "refusing to quit my job", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for refusing to quit my job?
I know that this is probably a stupid question but for context I'm a girl who's 19 and we live in Ireland. I'm a full time student living at homebut recently got a job in a bar. My mum is happy for me but has told me a few times I should look for another job that's at daytime and isn't bar work. Her reasoning is becau...
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{ "description": "posting a picture showing a child's butt on Reddit", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for posting a picture showing a child's butt on Reddit?
I found the picture on a meme page on Facebook and posted it to the kids are fucking stupid subreddit. In the picture a small child's(2yr old?) butt is visible. It is not supposed to be sexual in any way, according to me atleast, and is totally in line with the subreddit's theme. You can see the picture in my post h...
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{ "description": "not sharing my writing with my husband", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not sharing my writing with my husband?
I write about 1-2k words a day, and I work on all sorts of stories. I write original short stories, I’m working on a novel, I write fan fiction to develop my plotting prowess (and for fun), and I work on a collection of poems. It takes up a lot of my spare time and it’s my favorite hobby. Maybe eventually I’d like to w...
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{ "description": "telling my boyfriend to not take a 2 week vacation", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I tell my boyfriend to not take a 2 week vacation?
My boyfriend and I live together, but we don't get to spend much time together. During the week days, he gets home late and tired and only wants to unwind by watching videos, eating and sleeping early. I understand that, but I don't count eating together as quality time spent. His job is unpredictable and he has to wor...
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{ "description": "telling me depressed friend he's becoming toxic and needs to start doing things for himself", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA if I told me depressed friend he’s becoming toxic and needs to start doing things for himself?
I have a friend who claims he has bipolar depression, ever since then I said I'll do my best to help, which I did. It increasingly got worse to the point where he tried to end his life twice, one he sent me obvious messages and I found him in the aftermath. Which made my depression and anxiety 10x worse than it's ever ...
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{ "description": "being mad at my gf for a concert", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 10 }
AITA for being mad at my gf for a concert?
So me and my girlfriend were texting throughout the day as usual. She goes Travis Scott is in concert near us and the concert is next Sunday. She was like she got the tickets and they were $70, and I was like OK I’ll give you the money for them. She didn’t want the money as we pay for stuff and never ask each other for...
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AITA. I told my friend what I thought was a difficult truth to hear, now he isn't talking to me
One of my friends is supposedly suffering from depression (I am also a sufferer of severe mental illness) but its one of those cases where he won't help himself and pulls out the depression card when it suits him, like when we encourage him to do something with his life. He has since stopped hanging when it doesn't sui...
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AITA: Family didn't tell me for several months that my grandparents are dying, should I be upset?
Backstory, since I feel like it's important to determine assholiness here: ​ I am fairly estranged from my dads' side of the family, aside from my brother whom I'm in regular contact with. I get important news from my uncle (dad's brother), sometimes. There is one other uncle, and my grandparents, whom I h...
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{ "description": "reporting it stolen to the police", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA if I report it stolen to the police?
I gave a broken AR-15 to a ex coworker of mine to fix and he never returned it. I’ve tried calling, sending my schedule to him, and even mailing him. WIBTA if I report it stolen to the police?
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{ "description": "not being my mother's friend", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for not being my mother's friend?
I'm 28 and I live with my mother. Our relationship has always been rocky, but it had improved tremendously in the six years we lived apart. Due to financial reasons (I'm currently unemployed), I had to move back in with her last year. ​ The thing is, my mother is the kind of person who won't do anything by...
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{ "description": "cutting off someone who is suicidal but is causing me panic attacks and manipulating me", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for cutting off someone who is suicidal but is causing me panic attacks and manipulating me?
Sorry it's a long one, also on mobile so sorry again. I really just want opinions on if I handled this situation the right way or not. So I used to have a friend who lived around the corner from me, we used to skate and hang out all the time almost daily. She moved away about 5 years ago A few weeks ago she messag...
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{ "description": "sassing an old lady who asked me if I was going to clean up after my dog", "pronormative_score": 14, "contranormative_score": 8 }
AITA for sassing an old lady who asked me if I was going to clean up after my dog?
I live in Philadelphia where there aren’t many green spaces in my neighborhood. I walk my dog to a big open lot everyday so she can run around and go to the bathroom. In the lot, there’s a garbage can, but people still use the edge of it as a dumping area. E.g. There’s an old toilet, lumber from recent constructions, a...
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{ "description": "be being mad he won't consider a vasectomy", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 8 }
AITA for be being mad he won’t consider a vasectomy
Hi! This conversation happened a few months ago but I am ready to bring it up to him again, but want some input first. Me and my BF are turning 35 this year, we don’t want kids. We’ve been in a relationship for 4 years but close friends for 10 (for the most part). A few months ago I brought up a vasectomy to him. Th...
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{ "description": "using my emotions in a competition nomination", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for using my emotions in a competition nomination?
I'm going to omit as much details as I can, for legal reasons. There is a competition going on for maths, and it is quite a distinguished competition. Each school only have 1 representative to compete for the school in regionals, and then finally nationals. I am the HOD maths, and I'm in charge of making a tests for...
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{ "description": "considering my nonbinary friend as \"not woman enough\" to represent my gender onstage", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 14 }
AITA For considering my nonbinary friend as "not woman enough" to represent my gender onstage?
I'm a stand up comic in a humble scene. My best friend, Sidney, is also a comic. Sid is a fierce LGBTQ+ ally and devotes themselves to spreading awareness and teaching tolerance on the matter of trans rights. While they put themselves out there as nonbinary, closer friends know that Sid identifies as female and isn't r...
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{ "description": "insulting an indian man for sexually harassing a woman", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA insulting an Indian man for sexually harassing a woman
Tell me ur opinions about it down in the comment section.
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{ "description": "getting upset at my boyfriend for not being willing to help me unless my brother also helped me", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for getting upset at my boyfriend for not being willing to help me unless my brother also helped me?
My grandmother is getting to the point where she can no longer live on her own. My family is clearing out a room for her to have in our house. We thought we had more time, but after a turn of events, she will be here tonight. We have to haul ass to get the room cleaned. Yesterday my boyfriend was very stressed about ...
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{ "description": "asking co-workers to stop farting in my office-pod", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for asking co-workers to stop farting in my office-pod?
AITA for sending a Slack message to the 3 people around my desk to stop farting so much? Here's the actual message: ​ **"Yesterday, someone mentioned that maybe we should have a candle in our little 4Xmini pod. I thought about how gassy it's been the last few weeks, and felt I had to address the elephant ...
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{ "description": "starting playing a song I co-wrote with my old band in my new band", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I started playing a song I co-wrote with my old band in my new band?
I was in a band in high school with some of my friends (not like a garage band we regularly and put out an album) and there was this one song that we wrote equally among the three of us that I really liked and want to start playing with my new band in college. WIBTA if I showed it to my new band? On one hand it was ne...
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{ "description": "being pissed off at a rehab center for unethical behavior", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being pissed off at a rehab center for unethical behavior?
My (50m) wife (35f) is an alcoholic and is currently in a 30 day treatment facility. We have 2 children under 9 and have been married 10 years. Last Saturday was our first family group and visitation. After it was over I stopped in the lobby and began inquiring about aftercare programs for when she’s discharged. Su...
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{ "description": "not telling my friend that a mutual friend showed me her nudes", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 19 }
AITA for not telling my friend that a mutual friend showed me her nudes?
A bit of background, I only met my friend (who I will call Shannon) last year when she moved to California but in this time we have become fairly close. She gets a lot of attention from guys and she never focuses on school or anything that matters which I openly criticize her for, but she insists that she is happy with...
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{ "description": "making my Ceramics teacher Cry", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For Making My Ceramics Teacher Cry?
This is a long one...sorry. TLDR at he bottom. I have a learning disability that goes hand in hand with an anxiety disorder. I've had both these issues since first grade and have always had accommodations like small groups for taking tests and extra time. Through having this kind of support and joining an art program ...
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{ "description": "not wanting to date this girl", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not wanting to date this girl?
Obviously a throw away account. ​ So here's some background: I was going to a class with this girl (let's call her Gina) and we were in a group making a project. I always hung out with her after the class coz we were always going to the same metro station. Whilst we were chilling at the apartment of one o...
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{ "description": "giving my red-green color blind blind friend an all greed rubix cube", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 11 }
AITA for giving my red-green color blind blind friend an all greed rubix cube?
So I got my colorblind friend a custom made rubix cube of varying shades of green for his birthday to fuck with him and he didnt seem very pleased. Nothing friendship breaking but I mean c'mon.....it was a funny joke!
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{ "description": "avoiding a visit to my girlfriend's parents' house", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA for avoiding a visit to my girlfriend’s parents’ house?
Last weekend my (M26) girlfriend (F25) wanted me to visit her parent’s house with her. She had additional family members that would be present so she really wanted me to be there. I didn’t sleep much Friday so Saturday morning I had a headache. She’s slightly upset, but says its fine and she’ll go herself. When she lef...
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AITA for not lettin my sister do anything she wants with my mom?
A little backstory, my mom is not young or old, but she is kind of struggling with money lately, I live with her but I pay almost all of the bills in the house and also split the money for food (even when I don´t eat in the house that much), my sister lived for 4 years without paying rent in the house and now uses the ...
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{ "description": "not being ok with my wife's family excluding me", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for not being OK with my wife's family excluding me?
My wife and I recently moved to be closer to her family. Her father lives here with her two brothers (though mother lives elsewhere). It has been great to spend time with her family. Recently, her father and younger brother invited her out to lunch without me. At first, she thought it was just an oversight. She tol...
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{ "description": "not giving back my friends hard drive after he said mine broke 3 months ago", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not giving back my friends hard drive after he said mine broke 3 months ago
Around 2.5-3 months ago I traded a 3.5inch 2tb hard drive for my friends 2.5 inch 2tb drive so I could put it in my laptop. He never said anything about any problems with the drive I gave him so I assumed all was well. I had tested it that morning and packed it well. Yesterday my friend texts me asking for his 2tb driv...
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{ "description": "asking my gf to wear a bra", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 12 }
WIBTA for asking my gf to wear a bra?
Sometimes when we are on a vacation in spain or somrthing she likes to put on a tank top (I think its called english is not my first language) where you can see her nipple and most of her breasts. So WIBTA for asking her to wear a bra. I know it's her body and she does whatever she wants to do with it and I will accept...
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{ "description": "telling my roommate to get over my dishwashing", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For Telling My Roommate to Get Over My Dishwashing?
So, let me preface this by saying I have a great roommate. We rarely have spats, able to keep up her end of the rent, etc and we've been roommates for two years. However, recently I had to tell her to get over an issue which was pissing her off. I regularly do the dishes. She does...not. She rarely does them. She ha...
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{ "description": "leading my friend into a one sided relationship", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA for leading my friend into a one sided relationship?
This happened a few years ago, but I’m still torn about it. I had this friend, who I’ll call Peter. Peter was transgender (FTM), and his family was transphobic, so he couldn’t come out to them. This, along with other factors such as severe social anxiety and dysphoria, lead to him becoming more depressed. He would ...
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AITA? My (26f) bf (25m) is pissed at me for being angry that he didnt eat dinner last night, left the food out and now all the leftovers are garbage.
Background: I'm a chef professionally, which means I do the bare minimum at home as far as meals go. Sue me. My boyfriend works a regular factory job with 10hr days and is useless in the kitchen, which means all decent meals are still made by me. I have 2 kids under 6 that I cook healthy kid friendly stuff for, but I a...
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{ "description": "not accepting my 3 hour late delivery", "pronormative_score": 18, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for not accepting my 3 hour late delivery?
Tonight (Thanksgiving) I order food off Grubhub from a local pizzeria (10 minute drive). Grubhub said that it would take 45-50 minutes to deliver. ​After 1.5 hours, my food hadn't arrived and I called the pizzeria to ask if my food had left. Just wanted to make sure I hadn't missed the driver or something, as my doorb...
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{ "description": "letting my dog run around in my front yard", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 8 }
AITA for letting my dog run around in my front yard?
My dog, a 5 lb Maltese (Baillei) is curious but mostly obedient. So sometimes I like to let her out into the front yard and watch me and my mom do.. whatever we are doing in the front yard. After an incident a couple years back (long story) , she usually stays on or around my driveway, so I don’t feel it necessary to l...
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{ "description": "stepping away from a heated argument", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for stepping away from a heated argument
I take a step back when my GF and I get into a heated argument, especially if it's my fault. If not, we will spend hours arguing, sometimes end up words that hurt. Most times, I even stop talking just to let her win. Usually, I would rather take a walk or work, at least I'm being productive. The latter is critical beca...
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{ "description": "not wanting to do my daughters hair every day", "pronormative_score": 57, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to do my daughters hair every day
My daughter is 2. She has thick ringlets like I do. My hair routine takes a minimum of an hour a day to get my hair looking presentable, and it takes a lot of work. My partner repeatedly requests that I do the same hair care routine for our daughter so that she knows how to care for her hair when she’s older. I do som...
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{ "description": "not getting my sister a Christmas gift", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for not getting my sister a Christmas gift?
My sister has a 4 year old and is a single mother. I get that it’s difficult for her financially, but the only gift she has given me or my parents since her kid was born for any Christmas, birthday, anything was a small keychain. No cards, no acknowledgement. Every holiday she says she forgot my gift at home, but never...
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{ "description": "saying you can't 'accidentally' sleep with someone", "pronormative_score": 120, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for saying you can't 'accidentally' sleep with someone?
In short, my SO and I had a conversation about cheating (not directed at either of us, just in general cheating). I said that you can definitely go out with the full intention to sleep with someone - or, your situation changes once out and about - but under no circumstances is sleeping with someone an 'accident' or 's...
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{ "description": "calling hr to remove an employee from my dept", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for calling HR to remove an employee from my dept??
I made this a throwaway for controversial. TL;DR at bottom. Back in October 2018 an employee named ‘L’ became pregnant, she was about 2 months at this time. About 3 weeks later she said she couldn’t lift more than 10 lbs. After about a month of this the store director actually required her to get an HR form filled out...
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{ "description": "not letting this random girl who was knocking on my dorm room door", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not letting this random girl who was knocking on my dorm room door?
Ok story time, one of my roommates and I were just chilling doing some stuff for school kinda late at night and our 3rd roommate was out for the night. I’m working on something on my computer when I here someone swipe their ID on our door and try to open the door. I look through the peep hole and see it’s a girl who do...
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{ "description": "not wanting my girlfriend to share our sex life with her friends", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting my girlfriend to share our sex life with her friends?
My girlfriend and I have been dating for about 2 months now, and we are really happy together. She hasn't been in a "serious" relationship before, by which I mean her previous relationships have been mostly under wraps from her family, and haven't involved much beyond sex. She leads a decently busy life (college studen...
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AITA My sister put down a healthy old friend.
This is my first post. So lets just jump right into it. My sister wanted our family dog, so a few years ago ( around five) she talked to our parents and adopted him into there home. Hes always been a great little dog and a awesome friend to all of us. He is a little on the older side around 14 and he didnt do much over...
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{ "description": "not wanting to pay for my children's spring class pictures", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to pay for my children's spring class pictures?
They had pictures taken sometime in early December. Solo pictures as well as pictures with their class. Now the school is sending flyers out that next week is "spring class pictures!" oh brother....They didn't do this last year. Last year it was just a one time thing. These pictures arent cheap either. You can not just...
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{ "description": "cutting off ties with a friend who is trying to force me giving him a laptop", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for cutting off ties with a friend who is trying to force me giving him a laptop?
We are about 15 years old, and it's a bit long. About a year ago, two of my friends and I went to my dad's company warehouse full of tech. Monitors, printers, switches, and other assorted gadgets. We tested them to see if they were sellable. What really caught our eyes were the computers. There were 3 stacks of 12 lap...
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{ "description": "getting up with my boyfriend for posting on his Instagram story multiple times before he responded to my texts", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for getting up with my boyfriend for posting on his Instagram story multiple times before he responded to my texts?
Going to be slightly vague because I don’t really know who looks at my reddit. Last week, I went out of town for 6 days. I was really busy and had a detailed itinerary that I shared with my boyfriend, so if he couldn’t get in contact with me, he would have a good idea as why he couldn’t reach me. I posted on my Instag...
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{ "description": "not giving a business owner his phone number back", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not giving a business owner his phone number back
Five years ago, I got a new phone number. I picked the last four digits myself because they held some significance for me. Within hours of getting it, I got a wrong number call, which I answered and told them it was a wrong number. I thought it was a bit weird, but wrote it off as a coincidence. After that I got more...
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{ "description": "offering a promo to a customer", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for offering a promo to a customer?
I work for a large phone company in the United States. This happened about 20 minutes ago and I want to know if I’m the asshole. I’m gonna be OP and I’ll use C for Customer. Customer walks into the store: OP: Hey how are you? C: Moto G6 Immediately I’m like “oh” in my head, wondering if he didn’t hear me or just ...
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{ "description": "wanting to vacation with my gf just us", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA For wanting to vacation with my gf just us
I 29(M) am dating (28F) and she has an 8 year old autistic son. He is non verbal autistic and cannot be left alone. I’ve tried including him on a few excursions. Aquariums, theme parks, theatre (both cinematic and planetary), he doesn’t seem to enjoy it. I’m at my wits end trying to enjoy time with my gf and includ...
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{ "description": "seemingly upsetting my friend telling me about her fling with mentor", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA - for seemingly upsetting my friend telling me about her fling with mentor
Bit of back ground. I have been friends with this girl for a few years and she is very full on but generally a lot of fun and just need reigning in a little. examples inviting herself to dinner, coming over unannounced not getting that I can't always proritise her but all I do then is pull back a bit and get some sp...
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{ "description": "telling a family friend to stop following my cousin on Instagram", "pronormative_score": 14, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA For telling a family friend (24M) to stop following my cousin (13F) on Instagram
Hi, I don’t post often and this is my first time posting to this thread so I apologize for messing anything up. So I have a family friend whom I’ve known since we were about 10 years old. I also have a fairly large family on my moms side and I have a lot of cousins and second cousins who are in their early teens who...
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{ "description": "continuing to be mad at my roommate for an obvious joke", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for continuing to be mad at my roommate for an obvious joke?
I hope this is the right sub for this question, forgive me if it's not. So I have a coworker who recently lost a son and discovered her husband was cheating on her. I feel really bad for her and am trying my best to offer her support since I work with her fairly often (at my job it's two people per shift so we are gene...
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{ "description": "discussing past relationships and sexual trauma with my current boyfriend", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for discussing past relationships and sexual trauma with my current boyfriend?
This is going to be fairly long, so apologies in advance, but I'd appreciate people taking the time to read, and I will do my best to answer any questions, as its a complicated story. ​ So my BF and I are both college aged, we've been together for less than 2 months and still in the "getting to know each o...
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AITA foe hoarding toilet paper?
My roommate absolutely refuses to buy anything for the apartment, especially toilet paper, even after having a talk about it. Am I the asshole for hoarding toilet paper from him because he refuses to help out?
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{ "description": "butting into my mother's relationship", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 2 }
WIBTA if I butt into my mother’s relationship?
I’m in my 20’s. All my siblings and I are out of my mother’s house. I’ve never met my father, but from the stories I’ve heard about him he was a drunk and that’s what ended their relationship. My sister’s father as well had an alcohol problem. My mom recently started seeing someone. I go over there either every ...
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AUTHOR
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WRONG
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{ "description": "exposing my friend as a cheater", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for exposing my friend as a cheater
Some back story, we became friends through her husband and we talked and played video games together for about 2 years then when her and her husband separated and started the divorce process she told me it was because she cheated on him 7 times over the course of their 10 year relationship. There was never any inapprop...
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AITA Threesome, and you're not invited
AITA, so my fiance, myself, and our good friend have been preparing for a three way. (I don't need your advice or explanation on how it'll destroy our relationships.) My fiance's friend flew over from the next state over and stayed at my house for new years and she hit it off with one of my best friends. He, like a foo...
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{ "description": "avoiding my friends because they smoke", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for avoiding my friends because they smoke
One group of my friends are all smokers and they smoke every chance they get. Whenever I'm With them, i get a really bad cough later, once i got it so bad that i could taste blood. So now i always make up some excuse to leave whenever I have to hangout with them so now i think they think I'm avoiding them. I try to sho...
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OTHER
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{ "description": "breaking up with a girl because she in the last had severe depression", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for breaking up with a girl because she in the last had severe depression
For context: I'm a 17 male who has had terrible luck with girls. Finally though, I found a girl who was pretty similar to me. We talked for a week or so and I invited her to a party. We chilled the whole time so I asked her to a date. When the date came, everything went well. We had a great time and I saw her one more ...
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AITA My wife’s brother bragged to me that he’s cheating on his wife
My wife doesn’t get along well with her family. Her parents obviously favor her brother and expect her to cater to them constantly while praising her brother for doing the bare minimum. I think he’s a total narcissist, but my wife works with her parents and can’t remove herself from the situation. Her brother has 4 kid...
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OTHER
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{ "description": "bumping a Parked Car & not leaving a note", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA For Bumping a Parked Car & Not Leaving a Note?
I’m a new driver, and last night I was pulling out of my parking space at work when another car in front of me was aggressively trying to pull into my spot that I was pulling out of. They weren’t leaving me a lot of room, and I was getting nervous, so I very slowly crept back a little more...and bumped a parked pick up...
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OTHER
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{ "description": "not wanting to have to pay my father for a car that the person tried to give to him for free, but he insisted on paying for anyway", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for not wanting to have to pay my father for a car that the person tried to give to him for free, but he insisted on paying for anyway?
I was recently rear ended and it resulted in my car being totaled as well as some minor-to-moderate injuries. It's been a pain getting the insurance figured out, luckily my father has a family friend with a good car that belonged to his late-wife he didn't want to have to deal with trying to sell. My father, his wife,...
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AUTHOR
{ "RIGHT": 3, "WRONG": 5 }
WRONG
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{ "description": "feeling mad at my husband for buying a bow", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
Aita for feeling mad at my husband for buying a bow?
Okay my husband and me planed to get tattoos of Link and Zelda together for 5 year anniversary. We pay $50 for a tattoo appointment but when I got my tattoo and my husband decided to get his later because of money next week. Few weeks pass still didn't get tattoo but buy $400 bow I told him since he got that. it's hi...
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{ "RIGHT": 3, "WRONG": 1 }
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{ "description": "telling my date I don't think we're compatible", "pronormative_score": 14, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for telling my date I don't think we're compatible?
I went on a date today with this girl I met on OKC. Truthfully she and I had nothing in common but I think she just had a fetish for Koreans - she kept mentioning how she watched K-dramas and liked K-pop (I don't really consume either). She texted me last night asking if I was around and I figured I had nothing else to...
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{ "description": "telling people I don't like my engagement ring at my wedding", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 6 }
WIBTA if I told people I don't like my engagement ring at my wedding
All right, hear me out. Obligatory on mobile/throw away disclaimer. My partner (31m) and I (29f) knew we wanted to marry each other pretty early on, so we had had numerous conversations about what kind of ring I wanted. Not a diamond. Not a diamond. Not a diamond. That's all I asked. While he was designing the ring,...
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AITA - Christmas hamper edition 🍾🧀
AITA for wanting an item than couldn’t be supplied in my Christmas hamper for being replaced with one of equal value? We have a local business specialising in cheese. Incredibly, creamy, tasty, super special cheese. In the local area they have a relationship with some other artisanal food businesses and wineries and c...
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{ "description": "deciding to keep my mattress and box spring instead of trading it as I agreed", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA if I decided to keep my mattress and box spring instead of trading it as I agreed?
Okay so, my house is being slowly renovated, DIY, room by room. I just got done with my son's room, my room is next...so my husband and I are sans room. We decided to get our son a bunk bed and sleep in the bottom bunk instead of the couch, until our room is done. Okay so here's the story...initially I was going to bu...
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AUTHOR
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{ "description": "calling the RA on my roommate for using our dorm as a hotel", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I called the RA on my roommate for using our dorm as a hotel??
Would I be the asshole if I called the RA to kick my roommates guests out. My dorms are kind of like apartments and she doesn’t share a room with me but just the bathroom and kitchen. Yesterday she asked if she could have a friend stay in her room while she was away, while I told her I’d have to talk to our other roomm...
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{ "description": "wanting to tell my wife she can't attend her sisters bachelorette party", "pronormative_score": 27, "contranormative_score": 15 }
AITA for wanting to tell my wife she can't attend her sisters bachelorette party?
## Off the top, It's important to note that I hate what bachelor & bachelorette parties are all about. The idea of screwing around on your partner before your marry them turns my stomach. I chose not to have a bachelor party before I got married as I saw no need to get drunk and get lap dances after having been...
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{ "description": "not wanting to drive my girlfriend to/from work sometimes", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to drive my girlfriend to/from work sometimes?
I'll try and make this as cut and dry as possible. My girlfriend works about a five minute drive from where we live, depending on traffic. The problem, is with traffic, it can become a 45 minute, even an hour sometimes drive. It's a 25 minute walk. We live in Florida, so it can be very hot and sunny, but it's right...
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{ "description": "\"canceling\" my party so my friend wouldn't show", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for “canceling” my party so my friend wouldn’t show?
I know i sound like an asshole already but.. Saturday was my (16M) birthday party. I didn’t want to have one, but after a few days I thought, hey, why not celebrate? The beginning of March comes. I asked six friends what time they would be available, I didn’t want anyone left out. They agree on the 16th, at 5pm. I ma...
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{ "description": "throwing away my friends jewelry", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for throwing away my friends jewelry?
On mobile, not real names, sorry etc.. Lets start with some back story. My 2 friends John and Mark decided to do their 2 year working holiday visas in Europe and Mark left a small box of stuff with me. All of that was fine, I moved to the other side of Australia about 6 months later and Marks box along with some of my...
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{ "description": "disapproving of my cousin's new relationship", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for disapproving of my cousin’s new relationship?
My cousin and I have always been close, and honestly, she’s the closest thing I have to a sister. We’re very close in age. I recently started college, and she’s now a junior in high school. During thanksgiving, I noticed a real shift in her personality. She’s been acting more self-absorbed, asking me if she can call ...
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AUTHOR
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WRONG
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{ "description": "cutting contact with my grandfather", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for cutting contact with my grandfather?
Unfortunately my great grandfather passed away in November and had planned on leaving a firearm to both me and my younger sister. Instead of honoring my great grandfather's wishes my grandfather decided that he's not going to give either of us our guns because they would be stored in my father's safe. My grandfather ca...
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{ "description": "Yelling at our new accountant", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 23 }
AITA for Yelling at our new Accountant.
Okay, so backstory here, i work in a very small office, and we had a very nice Accountant who retired at the end of last year. We hired a new one at the beginning of the year, who is a very nice person. ​ Rewind about 2 months ago, I had to use the washroom, but she had beat me to it (we have 1 washroom i...
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AUTHOR
{ "RIGHT": 11, "WRONG": 23 }
WRONG
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{ "description": "cutting contact with my best friend", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for cutting contact with my best friend?
My friend and I both are 21 F and have been friends since we were in kindergarten. Recently everything went down hill. I will call her B. A little thing about B whenever she is with a guy, she changes. Her personality changes, she talks to me less and all. I can understand that to an extent but it is weird when we we...
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