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{ "description": "making not allowing swearing on my Discord server", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For Making Not Allowing Swearing on My Discord Server
AITA for making a rule on my discord server that says no swearing. About a year ago I made a discord server for me and a few of my friends to talk. We kept it small cause we just wanted it to be that intial friend group. We let a few more people in as they were becoming part of the friend group, but the new people star...
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{ "description": "asking my friend to cover the cost of my hotel room", "pronormative_score": 20, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for asking my friend to cover the cost of my hotel room?
My friend Jesse and his fiancée Evelyn (not real names) are getting married in July and of course, me being a pro wedding photographer, they asked me to shoot the wedding — annoyingly assuming I’d do it for free, which I absolutely would, but I felt a bit sad that they didn’t value my work enough to even offer. Anyway,...
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{ "description": "confronting my friends new friend who is trying to give him adderall", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for confronting my friends new friend who is trying to give him adderall.
so my friend(timmy) has known this guy(Richard head) for a few weeks, works with him and they became friends pretty quick. Both are really good gamers. So this richard-head is talking about selling adderall to gamers, but claims not to do it much, but within a week later he is talking about getting some and wants to gi...
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{ "description": "asking a co-worker to stop chewing with their mouth open", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for asking a co-worker to stop chewing with their mouth open
I have worked with a coworker for almost a year at this point and whenever I have a lunch break with them they always chew awfully loud with their mouth open, Unfortunately during most mornings they would bring gum and the same situation would occur. I used to be able to block it out either with a TV show or Youtube vi...
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{ "description": "having my brother stay in a hotel while sick", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA For having my brother stay in a hotel while sick?
Just found this sub, so thought I'd give it a shot. My brother and his GF came to visit myself and my BF during their university's spring break. Brother's GF had never been to my city before, so they'd thought they'd come to visit. Great! First time we've had people stay with us (BF and I moved here in October 2018). ...
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{ "description": "not wanting to go camping with my dying father and his new family", "pronormative_score": 19, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to go camping with my dying father and his new family.
This is a bit complicated, so please be patient. I had a very abusive childhood. My dad was a religious, violent and controlling man. He abused my mum my whole life, until she ran away when I was 14. My dad has hit me, locked me in my room, destroyed my belongings, and controlled almost every aspect of my life includin...
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{ "description": "not being honest with my (now ex) girlfriend about my military service", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 24 }
AITA for not being honest with my (now ex) girlfriend about my military service?
Throwaway because she uses reddit. I recently broke up with a girl who I had been dating for a couple months. I was really into her and we had a pretty good relationship. However, as I found out soon after we started dating, she’s very, very anti-war. Like, hippie pacifist flower anti-war, almost. Before I knew this...
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{ "description": "being mad at my mother(50s) for giving me an ultimatum", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 16 }
AITA for being mad at my(25F) mother(50s) for giving me an ultimatum?
To start, I'm not exactly sure what I want with this post. Maybe I just want to vent, I probably want advice. I have been a squatter for the last 3 or 4 years. I'm from the Netherlands so it might be a bit more common here, I don't know. Anyhoo, last november we heard that we (me and my roommate) have to leave our hou...
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{ "description": "selling things I buy from thrift stores", "pronormative_score": 49, "contranormative_score": 8 }
AITA for selling things I buy from thrift stores?
So I’m a thrifter. I go to Goodwills, Salvation Armys, thrift stores, etc. and I buy stuff from there to sell on my Ebay account. Not only is it a little hobby I enjoy, it also brings in some nice additional income and play money. Yesterday I was at a Goodwill I go to quite frequently. (Note: I try to keep the fact...
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{ "description": "questioning if I want to be my friend's best man", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for questioning if I want to be my friend’s best man?
This guy has been my best friend ever since elementary school. We’re both 25 now, and ever since he met his fiancé in high school we’ve talked about me being his best man. I was honored at the time he told me I would be. I guess I would still call him my best friend since I haven’t made any closer friends than him, but...
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{ "description": "wanting my so to take me out more", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting my SO to take me out more
My SO and I regularly enjoy dinner dates, swimming dates ect but I have been footing the bill entirely for almost 3 months now as he spends his entire months pay in under a week everytime, he lives at home so pays very reasonable house keeping so he can afford it. Am I just being entitled as he can spend his money how ...
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{ "description": "buying a gun behind my moms back", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 11 }
WIBTA if I bought a gun behind my moms back?
My mom hates guns. She wants nothing do to with them. She doesn’t want me to buy I gun when I’m older, (not old enough to buy one yet), but it would make me feel safer in public. She has told me that I am being unreasonable and she goes around everyday without a gun and feels perfectly safe. That’s fine, but I’d like t...
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{ "description": "asking my girlfriend if we could always use protection", "pronormative_score": 16, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for asking my girlfriend if we could always use protection?
Today I brought something up to my girlfriend that I have wanted to talk about for a while. You see, about six months ago my girlfriend went off her birth control because of the unpleasant side effects for her. She has tried numerous methods over the years and none of them have really “fit” for her. I was totally cool ...
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{ "description": "not visiting family", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not visiting family?
Ok, so this happened about four months ago, and it's still eating at me, and I'm just curious about other people's opinions. I'm in university in the US. Our Thanksgiving break was Thanksgiving and the day after. I booked flight tickets in October to see my sister during break, since she lives on the other side of the...
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{ "description": "getting a dog", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 27 }
WIBTA if I get a dog?
I (22F) live with my boyfriend (24M). We're both on the lease for my current apartment. I have two cats, a hamster and a mouse. I have wanted to get a dog for years, ever since I had to put down my childhood dog. I think it will help with my anxiety and depression issues as well as just be a great addition to my life. ...
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{ "description": "not letting my mother move in with me and my bf", "pronormative_score": 42, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not letting my mother move in with me and my bf?
So, a little bit of background. My mother and my stepdad recently purchased a property in my city, where my mother plans on living in a tiny house. However, in addition to the tiny house, she would need a permanent address, as well as a place to do laundry, shower and store her things. Also, when it gets too cold in th...
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{ "description": "not wanting dogs in the bed", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 2 }
WIBTA for not wanting dogs in the bed?
I've been seeing a girl for three months now; it's been getting serious for the last month (seeing each other multiple times a week, sleepovers at least once a week). She has two twenty-pound dogs who are kind of her babies... she's deeply attached to them, coddles them, brought them to the bar on our first date, etc. ...
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{ "description": "taking my girlfriend's lasagna home when she said I could", "pronormative_score": 35, "contranormative_score": 840 }
AITA for taking my girlfriend's lasagna home when she said I could?
My girlfriend and I are both college students. She lives in an apartment on her own and I live with my parents. ​ On Sunday, my girlfriend made homemade lasagna for our date night. She made everything from scratch, including the noodles. It was really good so after we finished I asked if I could take lasa...
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{ "description": "\"backtalking\" my mother", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for “backtalking” my mother?
I am 17 years old and I have a mother who always seems to blames me or my older brother almost everytime something goes wrong around the house, like yesterday me and my mother share a phone charger since my own charger broke last month and the charger we shared became faulty (I guess because it was being plugged back a...
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WIBTA? Someone is asking me uncomfortable questions and requests...
A friend of mine (Malaysian, I'm British) has asked me to help a friend with a project. I've had no "introduction" to this friend, other than a quick hello, and now the friend (call then Fr) is asking me who I am, where I'm from, what I work as... Without introducing themselves or saying what the project is specifical...
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{ "description": "being angry that my roomate just bought a new puppy", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being angry that my roomate just bought a new puppy?
*disclosure* I DONT HATE PUPPIES I live with 4 other people in an apartment and one of my roomates just got a new puppy. The problem is, this roomate has 2 part time jobs (one being at a bar until 3am) and is also in school full time. This dog sits in her room crying and yelping night and day. Most of the time I cant...
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{ "description": "staying with my exhibitionist husband when I'm an asexual", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for staying with my exhibitionist husband when I'm an asexual?
Throwaway account because my husband is a redditor. Probably should include a trigger warning for sexual acts and marital rape. My husband and I have been together for almost four years, married for about a year and a half. I always thought I might be asexual (my parents used to think I might have been sexually abuse...
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{ "description": "not wanting to learn portuguese just because my girlfriend is brazilian", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 9 }
AITA for not wanting to learn Portuguese just because my girlfriend is Brazilian?
My girlfriend and I have been together for 3 years. She was born in Brazil and moved to Michigan with her parents when she was 10 years old. Obviously she is fluent in Portuguese. I have obviously picked up some words and phrases through out the relationship but I will admit that I haven't put that much effort to learn...
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{ "description": "getting upset that my boyfriend insists on going spring breaking", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for getting upset that my boyfriend insists on going spring breaking
So my boyfriend (28m) insists on going to a notorious party resort during spring break weekend here in South West Florida. He is not a college kid and too old for this. He would be going with his single 35yr guy friend who is constantly creeping on ladies when they are out. His friend also loves starting shit with me w...
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{ "description": "being mad at my husband for telling our son not to listen to women", "pronormative_score": 69, "contranormative_score": 17 }
AITA for being mad at my husband for telling our son not to listen to women??
I was/am outraged at what I heard my husband say to our 15 year old son about a week ago. Our son has started dating and he’s been coming to me for advice since his dad is on the road for work a lot. He was home last week when he was telling us about how he bungled things with the girl he was talking to. I told him b...
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{ "description": "telling my parents that my brother is buying and smoking weed", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 5 }
WIBTA If I told my parents that my brother is buying and smoking weed.
So for context, I live in an area where although marijuana is illegal, it's not strictly enforced. The police normally just take the weed and be on their way. He's approaching 18 years of age. He does it consistently every day, comes back late and high when my parents are asleep and I'm just going to bed. I wouldn't n...
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{ "description": "not giving in to my ex-GF", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not giving in to my ex-GF
A little back story. My now EX-GF and I were together for 4 years, she had a kid with another man prior to us meeting. She was 4 at the time we met(ex’s kid, not my ex) She never really knew her dad. Being the only father figure in her life I tried to be a decent person even after the breakup to hopefully prevent her...
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{ "description": "dumping my cat on my girlfriend's sister", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for dumping my cat on my girlfriend's sister?
Before we get into it, here's a quick summary of the events leading up to this. My girlfriend and I were living with her grandmother because she needed people around to help her with general living and we were looking for a place to move into together. There with us was our cat, Turnip. Her grandmother decided to move...
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{ "description": "cancelling on a competition I can't attend", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA if I cancelled on a competition I can't attend?
On mobile, yadda yadda yadda, all that jazz Context: I love badminton and my soon-to-be team leader knows this and thus, I'm in our school's badminton team and when it was tryouts for the team this year, the only sophomores who were able to get into the team were me (I was in the team last year) and this other guy let...
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{ "description": "wanting my stay at home wife to do more", "pronormative_score": 171, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for wanting my stay at home wife to do more
Background, my wife & I move recently due to my work. She quit her job before we left because she didn't really enjoy it & she wanted to go back to school. We have 2 kids, 1 in Kindergarten & the other 1.5 years old that is not in daycare, mainly due to daycare being more expensive then we would like, to th...
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{ "description": "going back on my word to dorm with this girl for our freshman year at college", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for going back on my word to dorm with this girl for our freshman year at college?
So, I got accepted EA to my top college, I was super excited and I immediately joined the groupme, Snapchat, ZeeMee, and Instagram groups that were available for the class of 2023. I met Gemma in our Snapchat group chat and we clicked super well, we talked nonstop for days and we decided to be roommates, we made it ...
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{ "description": "refusing to be \"just friends\" with girls", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 31 }
AITA for refusing to be "just friends" with girls?
So I'm a 19yo man who refuses to be just friends with girls. If there isnt a chance for a hookup/romance I generaly stop talking to them as a rule off thumb. If I get rejected or worse I usually end up blocking the girl/woman in question, and move on. Anyway , my sister found out aboutt his from a mutual friend, and sh...
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{ "description": "wanting to cut my friend out of my life for not coming to my wedding", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 9 }
AITA for wanting to cut my friend out of my life for not coming to my wedding?
So I've been best of friends with a girl I met a few years ago, before I started dating my now fiance, we'll call her Marta. She's been stanning our relationship since day one. Has basically been saying she's going to be my bridesmaid if we ever get married. Over the years she's become one of my closest friends and ...
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{ "description": "rejecting my sister", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for rejecting my sister?
Okay, this is complicated, and I've been getting mixed responses from the friends I've shared with, so I think I need a neutral set of eyes to look at the situation. I'll try to keep this brief, but knowing me it'll be a novel, so be prepared. Here's the backstory - my sister is 17 now, and I'm 26 (almost). Because of...
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{ "description": "telling my friend that her friend is stupid", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for telling my friend that her friend is stupid
Ok so today i was at the library with my friend, and her other friend (let’s call her Kate) and it’s the first time i ever meet Kate. Everything was cool we made introductions but, they seemed to be stuck on a project that’s due tomorrow and both of their phones are out of credit (in my country there’s this thing call...
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{ "description": "not mopping a mess I made", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for not mopping a mess I made?
I went into the laundry room, opened the washing machine, put my dirty clothes in and some washing powder, then turned it on and left. My flat mate yells something a few minutes later so I go to see what's happening. She's in the laundry room and theirs water all over the floor. "The basin leaked all over the floor. ...
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{ "description": "this dumb thing that happened in third grade but I think about it a lot", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for this dumb thing that happened in third grade but i think about it a lot
prepare to pass judgement on a seven year old. i was a girl back then. i had three friends that where boys. we where tight (though we very much went separate ways once we became teens) we had bonded over our love for pretending to be dragons at recess. Our school was having a dance. this was the first year that i wa...
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{ "description": "yelling at my aunt on Thanksgiving because she kept making passive aggressive comments about a crime I committed 10+ years ago", "pronormative_score": 263, "contranormative_score": 11 }
AITA for yelling at my aunt on Thanksgiving because she kept making passive aggressive comments about a crime I committed 10+ years ago?
Using a throwaway account b/c I have friends who know my regular username, and don’t really want to call to attention this issue I’m having with my family. Some background: I committed a crime about 10 years ago (I agree I was an asshole at the time, but time marches forward). This particular crime is something the ...
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{ "description": "not working for uber", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA I cant work for uber.
## 📷 ok, be me. dude in texas, living in san angelo texas, off in grape greek. I'm coming home late at night after going to anime club on a friday night because that's my group. anyways, I drive back home and stop at a gas station to pick up something to drink, given the most I had that day was maybe a bottle o...
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AITA: my husband smells bad
Yes, this is about farts. Practically everyday of our four year marriage I complain to my husband about his farts. I hate having to cover my face or leave the room all the time because they smell so bad. Every time, I politely (IMO) chastise him, and suggest he go to the bathroom to fart instead of farting near me. He ...
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OTHER
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{ "description": "booking a private airbnb room that turned to be bad", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For booking a private airbnb room that turned to be bad?
I and my gf have decided to go on trip for holiday season which also happens to be her birthday. I did all of the booking and trip planning as she was not interested. I've asked her would she like get a nicer place or something more frugal and go wild in the city with shopping and whatnot. She suggested the latter. An...
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{ "description": "saying I'm not invested in Stan Lee's death", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 10 }
AITA for saying I'm not invested in Stan Lee's death?
Different semi-throwaway account for the sake of not unleashing a comment war with other people in the discord server, though it's not unlikely they will find it. I'm genuinely asking if I'm the asshole here because apparently that's what seemed to be the consensus on the server. It's blown over now, I'm just asking....
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AUTHOR
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WRONG
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{ "description": "having a crush on a girl and telling my girlfriend", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 16 }
AITA for having a crush on a girl and telling my girlfriend?
Things aren't looking too good right now. I will try to keep this short. I've been with my girlfriend for almost a year now, and we have a really great relationship. I truly love her and she's amazing, it's been going very well between the two of us. My girlfriend has a best friend who is often with us when we're han...
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AUTHOR
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WRONG
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{ "description": "telling my mom to ask for help at the airport", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for telling my mom to ask for help at the airport?
This past week my mom and I have been in China. We’re heading home right now and when she encounters something she doesn’t understand like which gate we’re supposed to go to or which line is for us she stands there and says to no one in particular “how do we know where to go?” Normally my answer to that is to shrug a...
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AITA called a guy an obnoxious asshole
I'll try to keep this short. Basically I was in a PSN party, I told a guy that he was being loud, and then again, and finally a third time and then I muted him. He joins my RDR2 game and kills me while hunting, (because I had him muted) so I unmute him and say the reason I muted him is that he was being an obnoxious as...
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{ "description": "being somewhat angry at my family for inviting me for lunch (just 5 of us or so) with only 12 hours of notice? (like, literally 11pm the day before). happens constantly some random Sunday a month or so", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for being somewhat angry at my family for inviting me for lunch (just 5 of us or so) with only 12 hours of notice? (like, literally 11pm the day before). Happens constantly some random Sunday a month or so.
Usually we get invited to my grandmothers some random Sunday of the month with no notice and it bothers me that I might be staying up late with my friends/gf the previous night and intend to sleep a lot next morning, which I know sound a bit bad but can't whenever we're invited.
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{ "description": "'misreading signs'", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for 'misreading signs'
So about two months ago a girl I haven't spoken to in years stopped me in a nightclub and dragged me to a private area to talk, and she was telling me stuff that afterwards obviously came off as flirting. Anyway, we became friends and would talk a lot. She supposedly told her friends that she liked me. Anyway, we recen...
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{ "description": "telling my friend I don't think her boyfriend has good intentions", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for Telling My Friend I Don’t Think Her Boyfriend Has Good Intentions?
I have a very close friend group of 6 friends. We have all been friends since high school and we tell each other *everything.* We were around 19 and one of them (say Kate) was single and still a virgin, but she was looking for a relationship and someone she loved. At my job there was this cute guy (say John) that I ha...
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AITA - A guy held the door for me as I exited a convenience store. I walked out without acknowledging his chivalry because my nose was buried in my phone.
So the other day I (F) was at 7-11 and had coffee in one hand and my phone in the other. I was googling a destination on the gps tracker and sort of just whizzed on through the open door, not realizing someone was holding it open for me. I thought it was just propped open or something, really I didn't think much abo...
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EVERYBODY
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WRONG
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{ "description": "not wanting my flatmate's parents to visit", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not wanting my flatmate’s parents to visit?
Firstly, I want to put in that I’m pleased she has such a close relationship with her parents. We live in a house of three, and all go to the same university in the UK. One flatmate (let’s call her ‘Emily’) has had her parents to visit 3 times in the last 9 weeks. Not just a day visit, but two long weekends, and then r...
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{ "description": "stopping giving my boyfriend blowjobs", "pronormative_score": 336, "contranormative_score": 34 }
WIBTA if I stop giving my boyfriend blowjobs?
So i (21f) have been with my boyfriend (21m) for almost two years. I love him very much and we have a pretty stable relationship. There’s only one problem- he doesn’t go down on me. When I first started dating bf he told me he didn’t like giving head because of a bad experience with a girl (smelly vag). I thought fair ...
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{ "description": "not wanting my fiancé to create a YouTube channel or Vlog with our kids in it", "pronormative_score": 91, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For not wanting my fiancé to create a YouTube channel or Vlog with our kids in it?
In my opinion there is no upside for them, but potentially opens them up to bullying and over exposure. She says I am evil and controlling for not letting her do what she wants to do. I, in no way, said anything about her not doing her own videos, but asked her to not include them.
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{ "description": "being open about my disability", "pronormative_score": 140, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for being open about my disability?
A colleague approached me at work and asked about how long I’ve been on crutches. I told him that I’ve been on them since I was very young (it’s been around 15 or so years). She was surprised by how long that was and asked a follow-up question about how much longer I’ll be on them. My response was “probably till I meet...
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{ "description": "not wanting my mom to cover my daughter's chest in pictures", "pronormative_score": 565, "contranormative_score": 63 }
AITA for not wanting my mom to cover my daughter's chest in pictures
My daughter is 17 months old. Being that she is a toddler, she would live in just her diaper if she could. When she's at home, we let her run free, and thus, most of our pictures are of her in just her diaper. My mother posts a lot of my daughter's photos on facebook, which I don't mind, but she is constantly editing ...
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{ "description": "doing the easy chores", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for doing the easy chores?
So every now and then my mom will write a not before she leaves for work. Saying to clean the living room and kitchen. Now cleaning the living room, is far easier. I wake up before my brother, so I'll see the note first and choose the task I wanna do. My brother is getting pissed that I keep leaving him to do, what's ...
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{ "description": "getting mad", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for getting mad?
Okay, so first time posting on reddit so I'm sorry if I mess anything up. I'm in an art class that lasts around four hours everyday and theres there's around 21 people in there. One girl in our friend group in particular, lets call her L, has a lying problem along with only talking about her sex life and everything ne...
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{ "description": "not wanting to supervise my kids' sleepover with their cousins", "pronormative_score": 18, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for not wanting to supervise my kids' sleepover with their cousins
I have 3 children with my ex husband. My kids and their cousins are all middle/high school age. I will keep this concise: My ex usually has the kids every other weekend. He tells me he needs to switch weekends for work. Ok, fine, no problem. Then he tells me he promised a sleepover with his sister's children (my child...
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{ "description": "being mad about the car being borrowed", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being mad about the car being borrowed?
Been with my fiance 4 years tomorrow, and he proposed to me on Christmas. I have worked full time for the last three years, but because I don't have eyes that work the best (my Mom is legally blind) he has been driving me to and from work the entire time, except for when he is busy when I have my Dad take me. He always...
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{ "description": "reserving the bedroom for me", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 12 }
AITA for reserving the bedroom for me
So bf (mid 30s) and me (mid 20s) live together. We have a bedroom, his office (he works from home) and a joint dining/living room where my computer is located. Bf has a friend who I dont really like hanging out with. He asked me if it was ok if friend came over for a night over and stayed the night. I had some medical...
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AUTHOR
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{ "description": "reporting a Lyft driver on his first day and requesting a refund for a long trip", "pronormative_score": 26, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for reporting a Lyft driver on his first day and requesting a refund for a long trip?
My partner and I recently adopted a kitten from a rescue group in NYC. We live in NJ and usually take the train back from the city but decided to take a Lyft when we picked up the kitten as it was Thanksgiving weekend and we didn’t want to stress our new kitten out in a crowded train. We called the driver as soon as he...
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{ "RIGHT": 26, "WRONG": 5 }
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{ "description": "communicating with neighbors via notes", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for communicating with neighbors via notes?
This happened a while ago, but there was a popular AITA post today about a similar topic so I decided I'd ask for y'alls opinions too, for future reference. I'm genuinely confused about if I'm in the wrong about this. ​ About 2 years ago, I had extremely loud neighbors that would have a good crowd over on...
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AITA took a check from ex wife for insurance
Sorry for the format on mobile Long Post Ahead TLDR at the bottom To start it off I was in the army and stationed in Germany when I met my now Ex-Wife. We got married when I got orders back stateside. Fast forward a couple months her 19 year old brother wants to come live with us. I was a little hesitant at first bu...
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{ "description": "feeling offended when my roommate/landlord shows up without warning to paint the living room", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for feeling offended when my roommate/landlord shows up without warning to paint the living room.?
Background: My roommate owns the house and may be selling it soon - so he has been fixing it up recently. He spends the majority of his time with his girlfriend at their house and I see him rarely. His sister has also been temporarily staying at the house too, though that probably doesn't matter? She's cool. We get alo...
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OTHER
{ "RIGHT": 4, "WRONG": 1 }
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{ "description": "being tired of sleeping on the couch with my son", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for being tired of sleeping on the couch with my son?
Using a throwaway for this. My son is close to 14 months old now, and since he was 8 or 9 months I have taken him to the couch almost every night to sleep on my chest. He wakes up late at night/early in the morning, usually from 1-3, screaming, and I either come get him or climb out of bed and take him out with me to t...
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{ "RIGHT": 9, "WRONG": 3 }
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{ "description": "blocking my family on social media", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA for blocking my family on social media?
I'm not very active on social media. I have a Facebook account that I made over a decade ago. It's mostly just family members, old high school friends, and work stuff. I rarely actually use it. I occasionally use Instagram. My instagram is mostly pictures of my pets and just random shit that makes me happy, but it's ...
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{ "RIGHT": 3, "WRONG": 0 }
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{ "description": "keeping a no-shoes household", "pronormative_score": 126, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for keeping a no-shoes household?
I have an infant who is currently in the crawling stage. He goes everywhere in our house as fast as he can on his two little hands and knees. Then he immediately puts whatever he can find, including his hands, in his mouth. For this reason, I have hired house keepers to mop and vacuum all our floors monthly, and keep s...
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OTHER
{ "RIGHT": 126, "WRONG": 6 }
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AITA Neighbours give gift then want it back
**Am I the Asshole for not wanting to give back gifts they gave to us over a year ago because they want it back?? I think not but..** Context: These neighbours of ours discard pets as soon as they get bored of them. They really really wanted a kit from our rabbit litter so we did. We though Ash would be getting a n...
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{ "description": "telling my friend to stop venting about her breakup with me", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for telling my friend to stop venting about her breakup with me?
Little backstory. We met on a breakup support chat and developed a friendship. We've really been there for each other. Her breakup was 4 months ago, mine was 3. I'm finally starting to feel better. My breakup was rough and I could barely hang on for 3 months. Slowly, things have gotten better. The excruciating pain st...
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{ "RIGHT": 9, "WRONG": 3 }
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{ "description": "not talking to my gf after she said she was feeling jealous because her ex was with another girl", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for not talking to my gf after she said she was feeling jealous because her ex was with another girl
Me and my girlfriend have been dating for a little bit and today she admitted that she started crying because she saw her ex with another girl. She told me she loves me but I still just feel down and I pretty much have been ignoring her for the rest of the day. AITA?
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{ "RIGHT": 11, "WRONG": 5 }
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{ "description": "wanting my sister to clean the drain after showering", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting my sister to clean the drain after showering?
This won't be long so just bear with me here. Nearly every time I go in the shower after my sister there is hair that clogs up the drain, now this is not that awful, but I find it quite gross. My feet end up bathing in her grimy hair water (not exaggerating when i pull it out it has a white coating all over it). Mos...
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OTHER
{ "RIGHT": 7, "WRONG": 0 }
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ammk5c
{ "description": "supporting my mothers divorce", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for supporting my mothers divorce?
My mother is going through a difficult divorce with my stepfather. My Stepfather has drowned both my mother and himself in dept manly due to drug related problems. Rather then a divorce my mother attempted to send my stepfather into rehab, for the 3rd time, before the divorce process official started. My mothers plan w...
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OTHER
{ "RIGHT": 7, "WRONG": 0 }
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{ "description": "never keeping any gift my mom gives me", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for never keeping any gift my mom gives me?
I live across the country from my mom and don't see her often. We talk once or twice a week, but a lot of it is surface level small talk. For holidays and birthdays she really tries with the gifts, and I know they're well intentioned, but they just kind of always suck and are super generic. I'm guessing it's because...
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AUTHOR
{ "RIGHT": 2, "WRONG": 3 }
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a1j0uk
{ "description": "breaking up my best friend and his GF", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for breaking up my best friend and his GF
Sorry if the formatting is horrible, currently on mobile. TLDR at bottom I met this really great group of friends I would say about a year ago, and they were really welcoming and we shared a lot of common interests. We didn’t live super close to each other, so most of our communication happened between discord and S...
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AITA for pointing out a safety hazard to a client
I work in an engineering contracting firm. I pointed out a safety hazard to a client which was beyond the scope of our contract. I emphasized this to the client that it is not within our scope but they should really look into rectifying the problem. When my superior found out he reprimanded me for being a smart ass. ...
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AITA - Friend disappears after expressing my thoughts and then comes back acting like nothing happened.
AITA because I have just cut off contact after a recent interaction between my friend and I because I felt like he was a complete dick for ghosting me then making fun of my feelings. On Jan 21, 2019, I found a lump in my breast and subsequently was diagnosed with Triple-Negative Stage 2 Breast Cancer (Yes, I literally...
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AITA for not movong to let someone stand next to me at a parade?
2 weeks ago I went to some Mardi Gras parades (a lot of small parades use the same route and go before bigger parades). For one of them there was a woman who wasn't rude to me or anything, but when she asked me to move, I said no. I was with 6 other people, my parents and four of my siblings and I didn't want to get sq...
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{ "description": "not wanting to listen to my mum vent about me", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to listen to my mum vent about me?
Happened yesterday, and this happens frequently, so I’d like to know how some opinions on it. My mum picked me up from my Dad’s yesterday to save me getting the bus back. Somewhere along the line, I made an offhand comment and it talked into a talk about me being trans. (For details, socially transitioned over two ye...
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{ "description": "dropping a friendship I have with a recent close friend of mine", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA to drop a friendship I have with a recent close friend of mine?
Hi, throwaway because she reddits. I (21F) have a friend (20F) in the same club and we both have club positions (secretary/historian), so we often meet each other a lot and must see each other for the meetings and social events. We only gotten close recently and started hanging outside of our positions in spring sem...
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{ "description": "leaving the girl I was seeing without properly telling her", "pronormative_score": 32, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for leaving the girl I was seeing without properly telling her?
I was seeing a girl for just over 3 months, we would see each other roughly 4-5 times a week so it was quite often I saw her. We did a lot of fun activities in this time that it was like we were dating, but not with the official "relationship' tag yet. We had talked about this quite heavily and we were going to wait un...
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{ "description": "ghosting my ex after his dad died", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for ghosting my ex after his dad died?
I dated my ex, "Tom" for 9 years. For the most part our relationship was amazing, but I hit a rough personal spot a couple years in & had to process some trauma/issues. Tom loaned me money to pay my rent/food and did his best to support me through all of it, but it changed the dynamic of our relationship in a fairl...
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{ "description": "writing a joke on my dorm room whiteboard", "pronormative_score": 14, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for writing a joke on my dorm room whiteboard?
So I attend university, currently living in a singles dorm. We have white boards next to our rooms, and on mine I usually write awful jokes or puns. Last week I wrote "Netflix and Clinical Depression" on my board. Well I got an email yesterday, turns out a student working on security saw my board Friday night and trie...
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{ "description": "not dropping everything to pick up my girlfriend from school", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for not dropping everything to pick up my girlfriend from school?
So I am on spring break but the school my girlfriend goes to is still in session this week. Today while I was playing a video game she asked me to come pick her up within 10 minutes of her class ending. She had a different schedule than normal and the time she finished class was much earlier than usual, on top of this,...
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{ "description": "not wanting my cousin to use my deceased mom's phone", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting my cousin to use my deceased mom’s phone?
My cousins phone broke and she needed a phone to use. I have my moms old iPhone at my aunts house, and my cousin just decided to take the iPhone to use for herself. She didn’t ask me if they could use it, and I don’t have my dad around for them to ask. I feel kind of protective of my moms stuff and I don’t want anyon...
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{ "description": "telling my boss that my colleague is doing nothing", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I tell my boss that my colleague is doing nothing ?
So, My colleague and I joined along with 3 others last January. We were in training for about a month and got to know each other and started a mission in February. So far all have been good except for my colleague. I'll call him Mr. Ananas (and not pineapple). Him and I were the most junior (although I has som...
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{ "description": "breaking my classmates phone", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 9 }
AITA for breaking my classmates phone
So first things first this happened about 1.5 weeks ago also in finland high school refers to students aged 12-16(12-13 - 15-16) +/- taking grades twice and this is on mobile so, sorry Anyway my class was messing around during class since we had this teacher who was bad at controlling students and what hapoened was i ...
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{ "description": "not studying all day every day", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For not studying all day every day
Context: I'm a 16 y/o male in a boarding school, by choice because I can't stand living with my mother, my father I can deal with. I have depression, I can't cope with stress at all and I may have un-diagnosed anxiety, but I don't think so. ​ I have 2 assignments due coming up within the next 7 days, My mu...
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{ "description": "not shaking a man's hand", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 4 }
WIBTA if I didn't shake a man's hand
Every year, my girlfriend\[F35\] and I\[M36\] participate in her company's golf tournament. There's like 150 people there. Some playing golf. Some helping out with food and drink and such. A colleague of her's is this guy, Gary. She and I have been in social situations before with Gary and we both just do not like thi...
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{ "description": "getting upset my boyfriend didn't get me anything while he was out", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for getting upset my boyfriend didn't get me anything while he was out?
I feel like since I have no friends I'm going to be posting here a lot I'm sorry... Anyways... also sorry I'm on Mobile. I got some money for my birthday, my boyfriend and I were a bit tight on funds so I offered it for things we needed so he wouldn't be so stressed. He felt bad and said so several times, I said no wo...
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{ "description": "not wanting to share", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 10 }
AITA for not wanting to share
My spouse and I are at an impasse over my not wanting to share. Some relevant background first: we have two kids (5&2), we've been together off and on for around 7 1/2 years (mostly on). And we're smokers. Now for the entirety of our children's lives I share my stuff with them. That's not an issue. We would orde...
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{ "description": "ruining (not on purpose) my sister's marriage", "pronormative_score": 30, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for ruining (not on purpose) my sister's marriage?
A few months ago, I caught my sister’s husband in bed with another girl, both naked. It was during a Christmas party at our mutual friend’s house. My sister was spending the holiday with my parents. Due to our works, my brother-in-law and I would only join them on New Year’s Eve. I confronted him about it and he told ...
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{ "description": "calling out on Christmas Eve", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for calling out on Christmas Eve
I work at a residential treatment facility for kids with behavioral issues. I’ve dealt with my fair share of shitty situations (literally), usually work 70+ hour weeks, and am losing my mind trying to manage my unit (which is absolute chaos right now). I’m in unsafe situations almost every day and am honestly used to...
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{ "description": "calling out an indie game developer for going on vacation while releasing and charging money for unfinished/unpolished content", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 8 }
AITA for calling out an indie game developer for going on vacation while releasing and charging money for unfinished/unpolished content?
For the record, this happened about 7 months ago, but from what I'm seeing nobody else in the game's community has ever criticized the developer for this, nor has the developer ever acknowledged this. So a while back (about 7 months ago, like I said), an indie fighting game I enjoy playing released and update with two...
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{ "description": "not visiting my grandmother", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not visiting my grandmother
AITA for not visiting my grandmother in her retirement home? TLDR: Said my goodbyes to my grandmother a couple of years ago, she pulled through miraculously and is now in a retirement home. Due to a strained relationship I think me visiting will barely mean anything. Hey all, sorry for the long story and for any spel...
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{ "description": "wanting my husband to slow down", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for wanting my husband to slow down??
Presently on the NJ turnpike with my husband and 18 yr old son. My husband is driving 80 mph which always makes me nervous. I have asked him repeatedly to not go above 75 mph but he and my son think that I’m being the asshole and that he should be able to drive in the left lane with the flow of traffic, which usually i...
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{ "description": "not wanting my husband to blow his nose in the kitchen", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting my husband to blow his nose in the kitchen?
This is from mobile so sorry if there's formatting stuffs. My husband blows his nose while in the kitchen whenever he is sick. He uses paper towels and will actually go out of his way to use the kitchen instead of the bathroom (where sweet, sweet tissue awaits). He will do this whether or not someone else is on the ...
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{ "description": "being upset that my best fiend chose to go on holiday with someone else", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for being upset that my best fiend chose to go on holiday with someone else?
Okay, so... My friend just told me she can't really afford to go anywhere with me in the summer. We had been talking about it for ages and I feel kinda like she lead me on a bit? We had been planning a weekend away or something. Today she told me she'd booked a holiday/vacation with another girl for a week, but that s...
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{ "description": "taking credit of my own work", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for taking credit of my own work?
## 📷 So i was sitting with one of my classmates (7th grade) and we were doing biology classwork. I did all the work and this guy just copied my work. Then the teacher asked him to read what he wrote down, when he finished, the teacher complimented the work and i said that i did it. The teacher then started talki...
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{ "description": "not visiting my aging grandparents", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 12 }
AITA for not visiting my aging grandparents?
I have really fond memories of my grandparents. They care for me and have always treated me with love. However, the last time I've seen them in person or talked to them on the phone was about 12 years ago, and even as they hit 90 last year and begged me to come visit, I don't think I want to see them again because of t...
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{ "description": "not cutting my hair the way my girlfriend wants", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 0 }
Aita for not cutting my hair the way my girlfriend wants?
Basically the title. I mean, its my choice and all but she is the one who has to look at me most of the time and she said that she will cry every night if I don't cut it (overreacting it, I know) I want to keep it long because my father is totally bald and I'd like to enjoy long hair while I can.
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{ "description": "ending a friendship after my friend got a teacher suspended for a month", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 64 }
AITA for ending a friendship after my friend got a teacher suspended for a month?
Alright, so there's this teacher st my high school, T. He's a hilarious teacher who isn't afraid to make dark jokes, "inappropriate" remarks, and even showed a few R-Rated movies near the end of the year. Basically, he was well liked by pretty much all the students at the school. Now, my friend. We haven't known each o...
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