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{ "description": "asking an old fling out", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for asking an old fling out?
**TLDR: Asked an old fling out on a date as I'm single and just thought "Doesn't hurt to ask, maybe she's also single", her roommate then messages me saying leave her alone and I'm "interrupting her growth"...?** * Here is the exchange with the Fling and I: https://imgur.com/a/3dPm0GX * Here is the exchange w...
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{ "description": "reading my Boyfriends messages", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 13 }
AITA For Reading my Boyfriends Messages?
Context - We've been together for 8 years, and in the past he's wrote stuff about me online (in twitter, on tumblr, facebook, you get it) and it's not been very nice things written. Stuff hasn't been too great lately, but instead of talking about it, he just ignores the issue and refuses to talk to me at all. &#...
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{ "description": "letting my 'FWB' believe that we would not be going to grad school in the same city therefore causing us to break up", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for letting my ‘FWB’ believe that we would not be going to grad school in the same city therefore causing us to break up.
I was seeing this guy in college for a little over a year. At the end of my senior year i let him believe I was going to grad school in a different city. When we met it was at at a bar one night. We hit it off pretty well and we started hanging out a lot after. It started off as just to have sex but then I started co...
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{ "description": "not believing the girl I'm seeing about something petty she said she didn't do and making it a big deal", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not believing the girl I'm seeing about something petty she said she didn't do and making it a big deal?
Ok this one is a little complicated but I've tried my best to explain it. I've been seeing this girl for a couple months now so I know her pretty well but not completely. Basically, my girlfriend at this point but we haven't made it official. I'm back home visiting my family so the other day, I sent her a picture o...
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{ "description": "telling the girl I'm dating she was overreacting", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 8 }
AITA for telling the girl I’m dating she was overreacting
I’ve (28M) been dating this girl (21F) for about 5 months and last night she completely freaked out on me. Some context: I’m currently working a really demanding job as a lawyer and she’s finishing her undergrad and works part-time. We met on tinder and saw each other only for sex for the first 2 months or so. Then o...
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{ "description": "inviting my dad to my wedding, but telling him his girlfriend couldn't go", "pronormative_score": 33, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I invited my dad to my wedding, but told him his girlfriend couldn't go?
I'm not planning on getting married soon, but being a young woman I have a lot of thoughts about my future wedding, and I have a really bad relationship with my dad's girlfriend. She listened in to phone calls with my mom and reported it back to my dad, she has called me a "dumb bitch" for waking up early for school (w...
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{ "description": "wanting more than just her appreciation and expecting a little help", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting more than just her appreciation and expecting a little help?
Some context, my (28m) fiance (27f) has had health issues which left her in a lot of pain and unable to move around much at all for the majority of 2018. I had picked up the slack and would do the dishes, laundry, taking out the garbage and other miscellaneous tasks. It took a toll on me and we would have constant figh...
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{ "description": "leaving my friends house early because of their dog", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I left my friends house early because of their dog?
I'm supposed to be staying at a friends house for five days. I'm on day two and I'm really freaking out. To preface this story, I must say that I have some slight obsessive tendencies and I really struggle with a lack of cleanliness. My friend and her mum have a tiny little terrier who's quite elderly and doesn't have...
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{ "description": "disagreeing vehemently with my college-aged daughter about the use of punctuation in text messages? does using a period in a text message make one look angry", "pronormative_score": 44, "contranormative_score": 75 }
AITA For disagreeing vehemently with my college-aged daughter about the use of punctuation in text messages? Does using a period in a text message make one look angry?
My 20-year-old daughter and I got into an all-out screaming match about using a period at the end of a sentence in text messages. She says it makes me sound hostile. I've been on the Internet since around 1992. I understand and use emoticons, abbreviations, /s, etc... However, I usually use complete sentences, prope...
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{ "description": "telling my friend I didn't want to drive her home", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I told my friend I didn’t want to drive her home?
Background info: I am a senior in high school. I have a job, a license and a car and have had since I was old enough to do al of that. I was one of the first ones to get my license even though I am one of the youngest in my friend group. At first I didn’t mind driving the around but now almost everyone in my friend gro...
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AITA friend tells boyfriend not to propose due to a conversation we had
This is my first post and it’s on mobile so sorry for length and/or format. So here’s some background. My best friend has been dating a boy for a few years and she’s always telling me how she’s jealous of me and my girlfriend (I proposed on New Years to her) and how she can’t wait for her boyfriend to propose. We oft...
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{ "description": "telling my parents to consider their needs before adopting nephews", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for telling my parents to consider their needs before adopting nephews?
Names have been changed. Various family members were down on hard times and because my parents worked so hard to provide for me and my brothers they were also able to provide for extended family that needed help. Because they have the biggest hearts, and the means to help, they immediately offered their arms and their...
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{ "description": "putting something in frony of the door", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for putting something in frony of the door
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{ "description": "repeatedly asking my brother to pay me back $3000", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for repeatedly asking my brother to pay me back $3000
In February it's been a year since our mom died of lung cancer. I had seen her a few weeks before and I could tell her time was coming. I live in California, my brother in Nebraska, our mom in Arizona. I'm single, have a good paying job, flexible to work wherever so I was our moms caretaker during chemo. I paid for a...
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{ "description": "calling my dad out in front of family", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for calling my dad out in front of family?
I'm 19F & the only one living with my parents, who work long hours, so my mom likes to book an appointment for a deep tissue back massage every so often. She asked me to drive her to her appt, which is in another city about 45 min. away. We planned to visit her sister on the way back since we'd be in town. I agree,...
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{ "description": "expecting my wife to put her married name on her doctoral certificate, as opposed to her maiden name", "pronormative_score": 122, "contranormative_score": 380 }
AITA for expecting my wife to put her married name on her doctoral certificate, as opposed to her maiden name.
So my wife will be graduating dental school in May and she brought up to me that she would like to practice under our married last name but have her doctoral certificate in her maiden name. Not sure if that's even possible but that's not the concern. I feel as though it's kind of a betrayal to our unity because we have...
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{ "description": "disobeying my boss", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA For disobeying my boss?
So this happened just a few hours ago and i feel I need some clarity. So a little background I work for quite a large company and am a slightly younger but talented professional, I usually don't get a chance to represent the company but however today I was chosen to over some of the more experienced members of the team...
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{ "description": "telling my mum that I dont like my bedroom", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 11 }
AITA for telling my mum that I dont like my bedroom
Backstory: I go to my grandmas quite often and when I subconsciously keep the room tidy, but I have noticed when I am at home I dont give a shit about my room and it gets messy very quickly. So today I was doing some homework and my mum comes in and asks 'why do you not want to help us?' I responded with 'what do you ...
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{ "description": "really not wanting a dog", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For really not wanting a dog?
Hey, new account just cause I want to use a private one... Anyway, I live with my GF, who is amazing. We've lived together for several years and we get along great. We're totally on the same page on a lot of big issues - finances, work/life balance, we do chores together, etc rarely argue. We work together and compr...
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{ "description": "using my husband's ethnicity to avoid Thanksgiving", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 15 }
AITA for using my husband's ethnicity to avoid Thanksgiving?
I decline invitations to Thanksgiving dinners (whether my family's or a coworker's) by saying "[husband] is Native American, so we don't do Thanksgiving." While it's technically true that he is, it's not the real reason for declining. I'm not a fan of social engagements, especially with the potential for fighting of r...
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{ "description": "telling my sister in law to fuck off", "pronormative_score": 109, "contranormative_score": 66 }
AITA for telling my sister in law to fuck off?
It was my brother's birthday yesterday and I was asked by my brother if I wanted to join a birthday dinner between him and his wife. I kindly declined because I had came home from work and did not want to go out, because of how tired I was. I was planning on be attending his birthday party the day after which is tonigh...
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{ "description": "telling my dad about my brother's affair with a married man", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 23 }
AITA for telling my dad about my brother's affair with a married man?
Hiya, assholes -- I'm having a conundrum and would appreciate a reality check re: whether I'm in the wrong here. Tl;dr at the bottom. So: my twin brother [21M], David, has been using Grindr to hook up with guys, for about a year. He's unfortunately had bad experiences -- not anything concerning, more stuff that bruise...
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{ "description": "kicking my brother out of my car", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for kicking my brother out of my car?
Throw away since i value my privacy. Forgive the formatting I've had a few to drink. ​ So last week I went up to see my parents in Alabama. It had been a few months since i'd seen them and wanted to hang out and have some nice home cooked food. during the 6 hour car ride my mom texted me and asked me to pi...
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{ "description": "not wearing bridesmaid's dress", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 19 }
WIBTA for not wearing bridesmaid's dress?
My (lesbian) younger sister is getting married to a girl who is generally very sweet and family oriented, but can be at any given moment alarmingly obstinate. Where the wedding is concerned, my sister doesn't really care about the fine details, she just wants people to have a fun time and of course for her fiancee to b...
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{ "description": "causing a kid to have a bad grade in our group project", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 11 }
AITA for causing a kid to have a bad grade in our group project?
In our 8th grade geometry class, me and 2 other friends (let's call them A and B) decided to work on it together. We couldn't work on it at home, it had to be at school. A and I sit at the same table in math class and we decided to stay after school today to work on the poster. Friend B comes around and asks if we're c...
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{ "description": "not wanting to share my food with my bestfriend and his new girlfriend", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA to not want to share my food with my bestfriend and his new girlfriend ?
A bit of context here, me and my bestfriend are flatmate. Last October wasn't all great for me and I ended paying my rent late and had to borrow him a couple of bucks to eat. It should be noted that I did buy some food, but theres was a lot of times in this period where he saved me for hunger for a stretch. Since then ...
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{ "description": "thinking my girlfriend would be less attractive with a different color hair", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for thinking my girlfriend would be less attractive with a different color hair
My girlfriend told me she would potentially like to color her hair to something like pink or green. I feel really bad but I think I would find her less attractive if she were to do that. I've always disliked really bright colored hair on people and for me personally, hair is a big part of attraction to a girl for me. ...
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{ "description": "yelling at my mom for throwing my computer", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 9 }
AITA for yelling at my mom for throwing my computer?
So recently we’ve been planning this trip to Seattle, WA, and the day of, we were all in a hurry to get ready. My mother, out of all of us, was definitely the most cranky, due to most of us kids forgetting to grab something or do something. When we were loading into the car, I brought my bag full of electronics to put ...
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{ "description": "going back on my agreement with my friend to buy a game together due to terrible reviews", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for going back on my agreement with my friend to buy a game together due to terrible reviews?
I don’t know if everyone here is familiar with the shitshow that is Fallout 76, but basically it’s turning into a consumer and legal nightmare. Before all this went down, I’d had decently high hopes for the game, and friend of mine who’d played a lot of Fallout 4 and loved it. I, on the other hand, had barely played it...
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{ "description": "not letting a kid in my class use my charger", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not letting a kid in my class use my charger
So I walked into 6th period, which is my computer class, and I usually take out my phone and charger to charge it on the computer. So I’m using my phone while it’s charging. And this kid in my class, who is a freshman I think and I’m a junior, takes my water bottle and flips it and then he looks at my screen see I have...
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{ "description": "telling my girlfriend that her sister is attractive but like a mom", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for telling my girlfriend that her sister is attractive but like a mom.
Before people flip out I wasn't making random comments about my girlfriend's sister. I used to be college friends with my girlfriend's older sister. And when my girlfriend and I started dating it was weird everyone was wondering why I didn't end up with her sister. There was no attraction just lots of comments. And m...
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{ "description": "not going to my best friends out of country wedding", "pronormative_score": 21, "contranormative_score": 3 }
WIBTA for not going to my best friends out of country wedding?
I have a very, very small circle of friends. My best friend wants to have a destination wedding in Mexico, and asked if I would be the best man. It is about a year away. Thing is, my wife and I don't have passports, and at the time of the wedding our son is barely going to be a year old. When I told him I am honore...
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{ "description": "trying to engage in meaningful conversation", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA - For trying to engage in meaningful conversation
I try my best to be aware of how I’m coming off when chiming in on conversations but I’ve had people tell me it’s annoying sometimes, or that I’ll over explain details at times and it ruins the conversation. I’ve even been accused of “mansplaining” when all I’m trying to do is add information I’ve gained through resear...
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AITA for snooping
Obligatory mobile warning so the formatting is probably bad as well as first time poster. As of lately my (now ex) girlfriend of 1.5 years and I have been having relationship problems. We are both college students. She has always held a substantial amount of male friends, so this time was nothing different. The gis...
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{ "description": "giving direct answers when customers come to me for it inquries", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for giving direct answers when customers come to me for IT inquries?
Apparently I'm an asshole for this and I do it all the time. TLDR/BLUF: Today I'm pulled into my manager's office to review some of our feedback surveys and apparently I'm the asshole for giving people the absolute bottom-line up front without some song and dance where I pretend to try to extract the data for 3 or 4 d...
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{ "description": "not telling my in laws that we are selling our condo and full time rving", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not telling my in laws that we are selling our condo and full time RVing?
A little back story, my (35 f)in laws are crazy. They were scary over protective of my wife (27 f) when she was growing up. In fact, even to this day she finds out just how “not normal” her family was when she sees how other families work. Her parents are both alcoholics and smoke more weed than I can imagine... and m...
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{ "description": "wanting to revoke my attendance at this bachelorette party completely", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting to revoke my attendance at this bachelorette party completely?
Background: Alyssa and I have been friends for 10 years. We don’t see or talk often but naturally she wanted me to be a party of her special day as a bridesmaid. Disclaimer: I am also in 2 other weddings between June 1 and July 29. One of which, I am the maid of honor. I work a very demanding job, my schedule is ve...
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{ "description": "calling my mom selfish a week before Thanksgiving", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for calling my mom selfish a week before Thanksgiving?
Aunt announces she is throwing a Thanksgiving party 2 weeks before the event. Asked my mom if she is going to go she said no because she wants to go Black Friday shopping instead. (Black Friday starts on Thursday for Oklahoma,I don't know why,) I called her selfish and almost yelled at her saying she prefers shopping o...
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{ "description": "getting at my mom after repeatedly telling her to stop", "pronormative_score": 16, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for getting at my mom after repeatedly telling her to stop?
My mom treats my room like it's hers, which technically it is, but I want some privacy in my room. She barges into my room without ever knocking and cleans my room for me. But I really want her to stop doing that. I want her to knock when she comes into my room and I want to clean my room myself. Whenever she cleans my...
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{ "description": "refusing to pick my ex up in his car because I need it for my Valentine's date", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 9 }
AITA For refusing to pick my ex up in his car because I need it for my Valentine's date.
Back story: My ex and I are still living together, divorce pending. He works away most of the week and I have the car. We only have one car because of the fact he was always away and it seemed pointless to have two cars. Since we broke up I've picked him up from 15 minutes away or 1 hour away, once or twice a week (UK...
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AUTHOR
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WRONG
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{ "description": "forgetting my best friend's wife's birthday", "pronormative_score": 17, "contranormative_score": 23 }
AITA for forgetting my best friend's wife's birthday?
Last week I got an angry text from my best friend because it was his wife's birthday and I forgot to text her a happy birthday message. She's a close friend of mine and I should've remembered but I think that they blew it out of proportion. My friend said that his wife spent all day in bed crying because no one reached...
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AUTHOR
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WRONG
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{ "description": "getting upset at my girlfriend", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for getting upset at my girlfriend?
My girlfriend and her friend signed up for an after school activity recently, and realized they needed my help with a large aspect of it. I was told we are all volunteers and I was more than happy to help. However, the workload ended up being divided so I handle half and my girlfriend and her friend handled the other h...
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{ "description": "not sharing my reddit", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not sharing my Reddit?
Partner is always asking what I'm up to on my phone, usually just give the standard response of reading Reddit. He keeps pressing what I'm reading and the threads I'm reading. Am I the asshole for not sharing this information?
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{ "description": "wanting my university to close for the weather", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AItA for wanting my university to close for the weather?
(feeling like I post here too much, sorry) The predicted temperatures and windchills are in the - 30s for the next few days. That being said, no one in their right mind would really want to walk around a campus because it didn't close. Just about everyone has a 10-minute walk from class-to-class, including staff. It d...
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AITA Ex sister in law is down and out but I won't help
So while I was married to my ex, his sister lived with us for a while. She and her 2 young daughters lived with us in our outbuilding, which is converted to a bar, for about 3 years. The place had plumbing and a small stove, so she could be pretty much self sufficient and not bother us too much. Once her financial pos...
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{ "description": "not wanting to go clothes shopping with my mother", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to go clothes shopping with my mother
Mobile formatting ahead: I’ve been back from college on break, and I’ve decided that I need some new dress clothes. I would ideally need a suit, but I’ve procrastinated and it’ll have to wait. I don’t know exactly what I’m looking for, but I know of a few stores to go to and a general idea of what I want. My mom has ...
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{ "description": "yelling at a guy for parking too close? what is too close", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for yelling at a guy for parking too close? What is too close?
This probably dwarfs in comparison to some of the things I see in here but I gotta know redditors, how close is too close? This guy was 1 inch (maybe less) off my front bumper, so I called the guy a freaking cocksucker and got a little assholeish. I mean I can't choose how far the guy in front of me parks, because he...
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EVERYBODY
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{ "description": "asking if I could buy my neighbors car", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I asked if I could buy my neighbors car?
My neighbor is a really nice lady and had a red Mercedes that her son wrecked. He drifted into a lamp pole and it ruined a tire and the back right side of the car. I asked my parents if I could ask if I could buy it from her and they said sure but it would be rude of me. Would it be rude? Am I missing something?
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{ "description": "not being happy for my boyfriend getting a job", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not being happy for my boyfriend getting a job?
My boyfriend has been struggling for a while. He dropped out of school and has been looking for a job. He got a job in Greece (we live in Sweden) and he was supposed to be there for 6 months. At first I was really upset about not being able to see him for 6 months,but I eventually got over it and I was getting ready fo...
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{ "description": "not carrying a suitcase to the 3rd floor", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not carrying a suitcase to the 3rd floor
I was walking down the street and a woman (in her 20ies) was unlocking her front door and asked me if I could carry her suitcase to the 3rd floor for her. It was really big but not impossible for her to carry. I said no. My reasoning was that it would be a major inconvenience for either of us but I don't see why it sho...
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{ "description": "taking all the credit for a group project", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA to take all the credit for a group project?
Background: Last week my girlfriend needed help with decorating the (school) hall with stuff for the month. I said no because I was really hungry ( she was working during lunch) so I went to eat. Now, we are working on a science project for school. We need to do research and write 4 pages of info. We have 3 days. 2 fo...
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{ "description": "asking my wife to clean up after herself", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for asking my wife to clean up after herself?
So my wife and I have been married for 3 months and she just entered treatment for an eating disorder/alcohol abuse disorder. She's in treatment for 10 hours a day and in the meantime I'm working and taking care of our son. I've been really stressed with work and being temporarily a single parent and I haven't been cle...
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{ "description": "not letting my housemates get a dog", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not letting my housemates get a dog
I’m currently a 3rd year college student living in an off campus apartment. It’s two bedrooms so in order to save money I share one room with my friend and we let a couple (a guy who also goes to the college and a girl who doesn’t work or go to school) have the other room to split the cost. They mostly keep to themsel...
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{ "description": "being annoyed at my friend after I said a line of cars was long", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for being annoyed at my friend after I said a line of cars was long?
context: Me and my friend were on a tram (like a mini train) to go home, I was getting a little irritated by the line of cars in the way and a conversation goes something like this: Me = ... who knows? F = friend Me: This line of cars is quite long, huh? F: Stop over-reacting Me: How was I over-reacting? I just ma...
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{ "description": "overspending on my niblings presents", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for overspending on my niblings presents?
I know a lot of people will probably read the title and immediately think that I'm the asshole for making an obviously NTA post, but hear me out. My family has an arrangement for the holidays that me and my siblings don't give gifts to one another and instead just buy presents for the kids. We don't have a money limit...
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{ "description": "being petty to a friend causing others grief", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA For being petty to a friend causing others grief?
As the title suggests, I called my friend out for taking the other side of the argument in a petty way. There are multiple people involved, so I’m gonna give the first friend the title of ‘B’ and the second friend the title of ‘J’, the rest will be referred to as the group. I’ve been friends with the group, B, and J ...
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EVERYBODY
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{ "description": "saying \"wow\" when I saw a beautiful girl, even though I have a girlfriend", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for saying "wow" when I saw a beautiful girl, even though I have a girlfriend?
Just quickly about me: 15 years old, boy, dumb af, have been dating my girlfriend for 2 months now and she's great. I am 100% confident I won't ever cheat on her. However, I don't know why but if I see a friend that's a girl and she's dressed fancy or something I'll say things like "You look beautiful today," just to...
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{ "description": "wanting my uncle to take a lie detector test for what he did to me as a kid to get closure for myself", "pronormative_score": 33, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for wanting my uncle to take a lie detector test for what he did to me as a kid to get closure for myself?
So for starters this post is NOT to start any type of debate or any type of arguments within the chat. I’m simply here because I’ve been emotionally and mentally stressed about this situation for a while now and it is now causing issues for me in my day to day life (ex: migraines, nightmares, stress, insomnia). Keep in...
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{ "RIGHT": 33, "WRONG": 1 }
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{ "description": "wanting away from my mom", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting away from my mom
Before I say anything, I love my mother and am thankful that she at least tried when I was a child. But there are some things that honestly make me want to get away from her. I'm also sorry for it being so long. I needed to get this off my chest. Basically severely sheltered me during my entire childhood...and thin...
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{ "description": "seeing my relationship as not worth it", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for seeing my relationship as not worth it
So I’ve been with my girlfriend for three years now which to me isn’t that long but to her is quite a while. The first year and a half was great because we saw each other 2 or 3 times a week for a decent chunk of the day and got along real well, but in the last year roughly things have changed, her parents started up a...
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{ "description": "posting a joke on Facebook, that is obviously a joke to those that know me personally", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for posting a joke on Facebook, that is obviously a joke to those that know me personally?
With the emotion "feeling silly" attached I wrote this status "Part of me wants a 5th cat because I know my SO won't go for a 2nd dog?" I posted this because my SO is a cat person, thus our 4 cats. I on the other hand, am a dog person (Thus our one dog). Almost instantly after I post this, my MIL posts "no you're not ...
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OTHER
{ "RIGHT": 6, "WRONG": 0 }
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{ "description": "holding to the original topic of a conversation and trying to get my mom to do the same", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for holding to the original topic of a conversation and trying to get my mom to do the same?
TLDR: Am I the asshole for keeping track of the original topic of a conversation, and bringing it back even when the conversation might have drifted to other topics? This happened around Christmas and I've been thinking about it ever since. In my mind, even if the topic of a conversation drifts, most of the times I ...
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{ "description": "saying that I love myself more than anyone else", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for saying that I love myself more than anyone else?
So I (27M) went for a drink with some friends (2 guys my age and also 2 girls). Just for a preliminary note, I have a girlfriend (26F) and so do the two guys. However our girlfriend's weren't with us. Now anyway, as we were drinking one of the guy friends, we'll call Steve, said that he thinks he is ''in love with his...
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{ "description": "kicking my ex-crush out of group work in uni", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I kicked my ex-crush out of group work in uni?
Bear with me but just give me a second to explain. This goes back to end of October in 2018. I had met my ex-crush (lets call her person A). I had taken her under my care, explaining uni things and updating uni stuff. basically handing her a golden ticket to a first (70% and up) degree. The infatuation with A grew w...
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{ "description": "lying to break up with my ex", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for lying to break up with my ex?
This happened a couple of years ago. I was in a relationship with this girl who I felt I was in love with. The first couple of months were amazing with her, and we seemed to fit perfectly with each other. But then, things began to get tiring. Whenever I wanted to talk to her about anything, she would steer the conversa...
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{ "description": "not helping a person having a seizure", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not helping a person having a seizure?
Ok a little context. I was at an arcade today waiting for a machine when there was a big slam next to my foot. I looked down and a guy the same age as me was seizing. It took a second to register and then i started having a panic attack so i walked away. There were other people around aware and he was later carried out...
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{ "RIGHT": 10, "WRONG": 0 }
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{ "description": "pointing out my friends blatant homophobia", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for pointing out my friends blatant homophobia?
Backgorund: I'm a 16M living in the UK with a decent sized group of friends, however this situation involves one good grind and his other friend who I'm not that close with, and the homophobic comments they've been splitting have increased steadily over the last few months (TL;DR at bottom) So it's Friday afternoon, w...
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{ "description": "bringing up toilet paper usage to my roommates", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 8 }
AITA for bringing up toilet paper usage to my roommates?
Some background: we are 2 guys and 2 gals sharing a 3 bedroom place with a single bathroom between us. I've noticed that we go through literally almost an entire roll of toilet paper a day. (The large, good quality ones too) Being that we all take turns buying the toilet paper, I sent a group text out saying that we h...
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{ "description": "asking my step dad to put his cereal in the bin", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for asking my step dad to put his cereal in the bin?
right so, I’m 17 (girl) and live with my family, the one in the house who clears plates and loads the dishwasher every day, family stuff you get it. But my step dad had a bowl of cereal this morning, didn’t like and so just left it in the sink, still full of cereal and milk. So I’m loading the dishwasher tonight and fi...
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{ "description": "taking a backseat on a group project", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITAH for taking a backseat on a group project?
Okay, so I'm in a university program that is largely project based. There are no tests, but throughout the semester the 'finals' for all but 1 of the classes has been a group project of some form or another. We have had to write an academic report, make a filmed interview, a visual/video essay and the main project for ...
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{ "description": "shoplifting food", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 12 }
AITA for shoplifting food
Pretty simple. I'm the stereotypical poor college student in an expensive area in California. I work as much as I can with school but nearly all of it goes toward rent. Food stamps helps with some other stuff, but I don't get nearly as much as I need. If i'm short in a month I've been known to go to walmart and just wa...
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{ "description": "not wanting to grow my hair for a friend's wedding", "pronormative_score": 53, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to grow my hair for a friend’s wedding?
My friend’s wedding is coming up in July, and I’m a bridesmaid. The bride has decided along with matching dresses, shoes, bags, jewellery, flower crowns, and make up we all need to have the same hairstyle. Problem is, I’m the only member of the bridal party with short, naturally straight hair - they all have naturall...
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{ "description": "ending a Longtime friendship", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For Ending a Longtime Friendship?
Background Information: ​ I was friends with this person (we'll refer to her as Hermia) since sixth-grade. Hermia does this thing where once she enters a relationship, she quickly forgets her friendships and her focus turns completely onto her partner. I previously struggled hanging out with her because h...
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{ "description": "now bailing my brother out of jail", "pronormative_score": 15, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for now bailing my brother out of jail
Looks like my brother was arrested last night for a domestic violence incident with his wife. All I know he is in jail and she had to go the the hospital for injuries. Bails bonds already hit me up to post 50k bail and pay 5k to them. Setup payments and make sure he gets to court. They had two kids who are now with me,...
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{ "description": "giving a begger a potato", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 9 }
WIBTA for giving a begger a potato
So, where I live, there are a lot of people on the streets begging for whatever. There is also a large homeless population. I was thinking about what we could give people that would be useful. Because maybe they really are in need. So after some realization of what food is left over at the end of the week, i realize ...
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{ "description": "telling my little brother to grow up when he told me my parents don't believe in him like they do me", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for telling my little brother to grow up when he told me my parents don't believe in him like they do me?
Normal mobile formatting apology So here is the thing, he is right. I am the favorite. But I earned it. I got all the grades, I'm going to college while also having a good job. I've done everything (most things) right. He on the other hand has been an ass. He bullied me when we were kids. He was at constant odds with...
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{ "description": "not engaging with guys I sort of know when passing in the street", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for not engaging with guys I sort of know when passing in the street?
I work in a restaurant in a small Victorian arcade full of other shops. Guy number 1: There is one shop which sells something very specific and some would call nerdy. I have a small interest and bought things from there a couple of times in the past. The guy who runs the shop has been regularly coming into my shop...
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{ "description": "not letting my daughters, new fiancee stay with us", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not letting my daughters, new fiancee stay with us?
I single mom of four children. I live with my youngest (22M) son and eldest (28F) daughter but my youngest daughter visits home on weekends from school. My eldest daughter is (28F) and she has been talking to a (30M) overseas and they've caught quite the fancy for each other. My daughter has never been one to really ...
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{ "description": "not letting my brother in law stay in my apartment", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not letting my brother in law stay in my apartment
Yesterday I got a call from my dad telling me about my brother in law situation. He is living in the city I live for a couple of months for education related and he’s living two hours away from point A (his room) to point B (University). Well my dad offered him (without asking me) to stay at my apartment which is 45 mi...
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{ "description": "being upset that my boyfriend isn't coming to an event I planned", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for being upset that my (19F) boyfriend (20M) isn’t coming to an event I planned?
I’ve been planning a small/medium sized gathering at work and it will be done at an all day camp sort of thing in the desert. It’s only my first month at this job and I’m an HR coordinator, but my manager gave me permission to host this gathering under the company’s name to prove myself. It’s a family event and most of...
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{ "description": "not lending my rackets", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for Not lending my rackets
So I have played badminton previously and thus have own rackets. Some of my friends like to go play badminton. I can’t join them due to scheduling. I have never offered them my rackets. They contacted me to borrow them. AITA for not always wanting to share my rackets with them? 1. I am worried about my rackets being ...
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{ "description": "telling a \"friend\" to \"shut his fucking plague-ridden mouth\"", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for telling a "friend" to "shut his fucking plague-ridden mouth"?
For context the event described happened around 1,5 years ago but the effects of it are currently still being felt. During that time our highschool clique had entered their 2 semester of university and with that came the end of my friends relationship with his highschool sweetheart who was also part of our group. This...
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{ "description": "being resentful of my grandma", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for being resentful of my grandma?
Ok, so I don't along with my mom. She would watch me shower as a kid and beat me when I refused. Then 13 year old me became her caregiver when she was diagnosed with cancer. As a result I've become severly unstable and when my dad blacmailed me out of town I went to stay with her. I told her about my suicidal ideatio...
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{ "description": "laughing at an offensive meme and sharing it", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for laughing at an offensive meme and sharing it
so this just happened where im talking to this girl ive been seeing and i say "i cant fall asleep" so she asks why and i tell her i thought of a meme i saw 5 years ago and started laughing so she was wondering what it was, so i try googling it and i find it i say "im surprised i even remembered this and even found it i...
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{ "description": "not caring about my relatives", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not caring about my relatives?
I am an Asian American female in her mid-twenties who works at a large tech company. Most of my relatives are overseas, and both my parents are well-educated and came to the States with little money and we scrimped and saved to get where we are. This means I never really had Christmas or birthday presents growing up....
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{ "description": "breaking up over text", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for breaking up over text?
Context, my ex-bf and I go to the same university. We dated for about 3-4 months, he accelerated the relationship so much and I was mostly ready for it. He was the one who verified that we were official, said the L word first (after I told him it was too early). Everything else was pretty good. We just returned from wi...
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{ "description": "explaining to my best friend that he handled his birthday gift from his girlfriend poorly", "pronormative_score": 126, "contranormative_score": 9 }
WIBTA if I explain to my best friend that he handled his birthday gift from his girlfriend poorly?
My friend (we'll call him Jeff) recently celebrated his 20th birthday and I drove 250 miles to see him. Before I left his girlfriend (let's call her Liz) was asking if the gift she had bought for him, a copy of Super Mario Party for the Switch, would be a good gift. I already had a copy of the game so I offered to play...
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{ "description": "not thinking my best friend's relationship is good for her", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not thinking my best friend's relationship is good for her?
Quick disclaimer off the bat because I know people will be thinking this but no, I do not like her romatically. So in October, my best friend got into a relationship. I'm not going to tell you the whole story as not to waste time, so here are the facts. -He(17) is two years older than us(15) -One month into the rel...
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{ "description": "adopting my sister's cat out", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 4 }
WIBTA if I adopted my sister’s cat out?
I’m (20F) moving out soonish, and my sister (12F) has asked me to take her cat with me because she doesn’t think she can handle him by herself. Which leads me to wonder, why adopt him in the first place? I told my parents, a million times over, that no, she can’t handle a cat, she’s not going to take care of it. But s...
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{ "description": "asking my wife to pay attention to me while out with her friends", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for asking my wife to pay attention to me while out with her friends?
My wife [F25] and I [M23] were out with some of her friends yesterday for some wine tasting. I am naturally introverted and talk less than she and her other extroverted friends do. She usually invites me along because she knows I like to do events like that and I do still try to participate in the extroverts conversati...
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{ "description": "asking my friend for money", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 6 }
WIBTA if i asked my friend for money
Ok Me and 2 more friends were walking through a park, 2 of us playing pokemon go and the other one doesnt play so he was just there and talking to us and we were all having fun. All of a sudden he moves his left hand in a motion that knocks my phone out of my hand and it falls on the gravel/concrete floor and the scree...
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{ "description": "not letting siblings use my car to get food", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not letting siblings use my car to get food
Background: I’m 22 and just purchased my first car 2 months ago. Younger sister and brother are 17 and 16, respectively. This morning we were pretty much empty on groceries. The only thing we really had were cereal and milk, which I was fine with for breakfast. My siblings are a little pickier, and one of them got th...
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{ "description": "not tipping when I pick up food", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not tipping when I pick up food?
I'm not occupying a table, or a server. I'm coming to pick up food. Am I the asshole for putting "pick up" on the tip line?
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{ "description": "smoking in an area which allows smoking next to someone who dislikes it", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for smoking in an area which allows smoking next to someone who dislikes it
I’m currently in Cambodia on vacation. I go down to the (outdoor) pool area in the hotel where the seats are all taken except for a table by the pool with an ashtray there. I’d gone there specifically to drink beer, read and smoke cigarettes. Welp, turns out the guy who is reclining about 2 metres away doesn’t apprecia...
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{ "description": "being angry that my brother's GF will be spending her entire spring break at our apartment", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for being angry that my brother's GF will be spending her entire spring break at our apartment?
Hear me out here. So, my brother is in a new relationship, and she's a great girl. But here's the problem... every time she's here, he's a completely different person. When it's just me and him, we game out, we talk, and we smoke together. When she's here, he ignores me, everything I say he responds with sassy comments...
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AITA without realizing it?
So I just found out about this subreddit, and this has bothered me for a while. So, I figured I'd run it by you guys. Way back when I worked retail, I had been gunning for a full-time position. I was working my ass off; honing my customer service skills, upselling, doing what I could to get in good with the boss and m...
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{ "description": "not telling my parents about the Mensa score I got 6 months ago", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not telling my parents about the Mensa score I got 6 months ago
In September 2018 I did a Mensa IQ test out of curiosity and because some of my friends encouraged me to do it. At the end of the October I got the results back but didn't share them with many people, except the ones that explicitly asked about it multiple times before. One of those people is my teacher, whom my mother...
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AITA? I was offered a temp job, the next day I was offered a better job.
AITA? A friend of mine got me the in for an IT job in Illinois, it's a temp job until August as one of her co-workers has been deployed. Full disclosure, I had a DUI in Illinois a few years back and I'm working on getting clearance in Illinois to drive (I have one more hearing left) so I technically can't legally drive...
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{ "description": "feeling alone on Valentine's day", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for feeling alone on Valentine's Day?
My boyfriend and I woke up today and dealt with a lot of frustrating things around the house, he then had to go to work. I called out because I'm having extremely bad pains that will hopefully go away by tomorrow. We are poor so we cant do much today like "other couples." At work he told me we would spend the night tog...
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{ "description": "making a joke about stealing", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for making a joke about stealing?
This didn't happen today, it happen 3-4 years ago, but I've thought about it pretty often since it did. ​ I came home from college for the summer, and got invited to a party with some friends from high school. Nothing crazy, just sitting around at this guys house, drinks some beers, all good. There were so...
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