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{ "description": "thinking my friend should refund fundraising money people contributed to", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA if I think my friend should refund fundraising money people contributed to?
TL; DR at bottom. A friend of mine started a fund campaign to raise money for her dog's surgery. It was legit, not a scam. Apparently there was a terribly painful injury to the dog that was getting worse and they wanted to raise $2,000 for the surgery ASAP. There weren't a ton of details about what the injury was o...
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{ "description": "hitting a girl who hit me first, then not apologizing", "pronormative_score": 14, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA For hitting a girl who hit me first, then not apologizing?
So this happened in highschool (so somewhere like 6-7 years ago) I was leaving a class and someone came up behind me and smacked my ass, pretty hard too. I was actually bullied pretty hard at the time and I kinda had enough I turned and punched. Turns out it was a girl, and she was friends with the group of 5 that I h...
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{ "description": "not wanting to give my wife's daughter money", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 23 }
AITA for not wanting to give my wife's daughter money?
My wife and I married when her daughter was 17. She doesn't view me as her step father or any sort of father figure and I respect that. My wife and I have one child who my wife stays home with. Her daughter (now 23) is now moving into an apartment and needs money for a deposit. My wife wants me to pay it but I think I...
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{ "description": "telling SO's mom and the girl he cheated on me with that he cheated on me", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for telling SO’s mom and the girl he cheated on me with that he cheated on me?
A little back story: I’ve been dating this guy for 2.5 years now. In late October of 2018, he told me he’d like to take a break to focus on applying for jobs. He’s currently working but isn’t happy with the job he has. We’re long-distance, he lives in the States and I live somewhere in Asia. I was against the idea of...
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{ "description": "being useless round the house", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for being useless round the house?
So I'm 18 in a couple of weeks. I'm in college full time, I have a Saturday job and I also do driving lessons. My grades are good, my job is fine and driving is going well, I'm pretty responsible with all of them. However, I grew up as an only child with a dad who is kinda control freaky. He always does the dishes and ...
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{ "description": "refusing to tip a stripper", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 9 }
AITA for refusing to tip a stripper?
A few friends and I went to Vegas for a weekend trip, and hit up a strip club on Saturday night. I'm not as well-off financially as my friends. My friends were planning on having a good time with strippers, but I decided I wasn't going to pay for any potential services, and instead just enjoy hanging out with my buddie...
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{ "description": "wanting my friends pets to stay lost", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for wanting my friends pets to stay lost?
Horrible title, I know. I have a friend who started off her pet collection with a beautiful Husky. She got him as a gift and at first everything was well. After a few months it became very apparent that he’s a very energetic dog and he spent the next 2 years of his life stuck for 12+ hours in a crate because her fami...
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{ "description": "not wanting to go on my friends birthday trip", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to go on my friends birthday trip?
So some background info, basically we're all in college and I'm already broke as it is. Usually in college you might get a card and a little present from a your friend and you'd be ecstatic. But it's coming up on this girl's bday and it's her first bday away from home, given that our school is only 2 hours from her hom...
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{ "description": "sending an angry email to my teacher about how she's never teaches us anything", "pronormative_score": 19, "contranormative_score": 17 }
AITA For sending an angry email to my teacher about how she’s never teaches us anything?
I took a computer science course this year of high school (junior). I went into this class actually interested in computer science, but her class ruined it for me. She spends the entire period on her laptop and expects us to read the entire lesson and figure it out on our own. Maybe I am being an entitled high schooler...
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{ "description": "making a friend of mine feel stupid for being excited about a \"gift\" he received from his employer of 8 years", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 30 }
AITA for making a friend of mine feel stupid for being excited about a "gift" he received from his employer of 8 years?
So "Jesse"(m42) and I(m37) have been friends for going on 20 years. I'm the entrepreneurial type, he's the just keep your head down and work hard and the American dream will automatically come type. Jesse has 3 jobs. He works at a car wash during the day, then parks trucks for UPS, then finishes off most his nights doi...
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{ "description": "telling my husband he needs to save his money better", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for telling my husband he needs to save his money better?
First of all, I have ADHD & even though this took me about an hour to piece together it still may be sporadic & hard to read, sorry about that. I can admit, I’m a bit of a control freak when it comes to money & I’m great at saving, but him not so much. It used to be A LOT worse, & he’s gotten better wh...
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{ "description": "not chipping somones brush for free", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not chipping somones brush for free?
Sorry for formatting, on mobile. Im an arborist. For those who dobt know i trim/remove trees. Today we had a job trimming three rather large trees at a customers house. Biung we were working in Denver, we have to keep the street and sidewalk clear of the brush we cut down. We had one guy in a lift bucket on one tree,...
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{ "description": "being angry with my wife for mistakenly causing our child to poke herself in the eye with a fork", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for being angry with my wife for mistakenly causing our child to poke herself in the eye with a fork?
About two nights ago, my wife and I were eating dinner at home with our nearly three year old daughter. Our daughter was screwing around like a typical toddler and reached for my wife's fork. My wife held on to the fork and was asking our daughter what she wanted while holding onto it. Our daughter kept pulling it towa...
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{ "description": "\"dumping\" a girl who screamed at me on our 3rd date", "pronormative_score": 14, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for "dumping" a girl who screamed at me on our 3rd date?
My friend set me up with an ex coworker of hers because I was telling her how hard it was to find someone to date after leaving college and working on a very male-dominated field. We hit it off pretty good and we went on two pretty good dates. We had lots in common and the conversation flowed naturally between us. On...
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{ "description": "not wanting to have a going-away party for myself", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA for not wanting to have a going-away party for myself?
I am moving away from home two states away to start my new job. My mom has decided to throw a party the day before I leave and has invited a ton of people including family and some of my friends, but mostly family. She did this without asking me or telling me about it. I just randomly saw it as an event on Facebook I...
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{ "description": "keeping nudging my friend to get her child evaluated", "pronormative_score": 43, "contranormative_score": 2 }
WIBTA if I kept nudging my friend to get her child evaluated?
I’ll admit, I know NOTHING about motherhood. I am not a mother and I have never had a child. But, I have lived the majority of my life as an undiagnosed autist and being on the spectrum has tremendously impacted my life in social and in educational ways. My friend has a child who is almost 3 and still doesn’t speak, an...
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{ "description": "not going to my coworkers birthday lunch", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not going to my coworkers birthday lunch?
a coworker of mine is having a little get together at a bar in the middle of a sunday. my coworker invited me but i am not feeling it, as i’ve had a long weekend and usually like to cook and clean most of sunday. i understand that it is her birthday and it was nice of her to extend the invitation, however, we have near...
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AITA: Created a fake fraternity with 3 close friends, an actual greek org is pissed
Hello, I am the “ring leader” of a fake fraternity that my close friends and I created as a joke between us. We’re very close and decided to give our group a name. The letters are just a joke between us and that’s that. We arnt chartered by the school, we don’t recruit and we don’t have a pledge process. We have made...
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{ "description": "getting irritated", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For getting irritated?
So my other half says various things to me and gets upset when I react. This morning, I got up at 05:45 and took one dog out for 90 mins. Got back, dried him off and in the midst of this, the other dog was disturbed and got up. She starts moaning and whining, I was rushing to get myself ready to take her out and ran...
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{ "description": "telling my friend her boyfriend needs to shape up", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for telling my friend her boyfriend needs to shape up?
background: my best friend, lets call her B, has been dating another one of my friends, let's call him G, for close to a month now. ​ i’ve realized i don’t like them dating too much since B always starts acting a bit different whenever she gets into a relationship. she becomes a lot more defensive and aggr...
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{ "description": "talking too much", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for talking too much?
A little backstory: I'm 39f, my husband is 53. His son is 30 and his son's GF is 28. She's expecting a baby boy in March. They've been visiting more since she became pregnant and I'm delighted every time they come. My husband and I have been together for 14 years. So last night my husband and I had his son and his gi...
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{ "description": "breaking with my girlfriend after she denies me at work", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA for breaking with my girlfriend after she denies me at work
AITA for breaking with my girlfriend after she denies me at work ​ Me (35 M) and my now ex girlfriend (27 F) , have been dating for over seven months, we met at our current job and what started as non serious and ocasional relationship evolved into dating. This relationship has ben really toxic with consta...
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{ "description": "letting my son wear my husband's clothes", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 12 }
AITA for letting my son wear my husband’s clothes?
My son is 16 and I allow him to occasionally borrow clothes from my husband’s closet to supplement his wardrobe, especially in “winter” because we only have about two weeks of chilly temperatures where we live and it seems wasteful to spend money on warm clothes that may or may not be needed. My son is very responsib...
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{ "description": "raising my voice at my husband whom walked in on me making his Christmas gifts", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for raising my voice at my husband whom walked in on me making his Christmas gifts
It’s seriously two days before Christmas.. I’m stressed because I’ve had projects planned for gifts since October and I have not gone a single week without working on homemade gifts in our guest room/my arts and crafts room. My husband has his office with his games and electronics while I like to go upstairs in this ro...
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{ "description": "being annoyed with my friend for wanting to go to happy hour the same day we agreed to hang out", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for being annoyed with my friend for wanting to go to happy hour the same day we agreed to hang out?
So my friend and I decided earlier this week to hang out tomorrow and I would spend the night at her place. Today while we were texting, she mentioned she wants to go to happy hour with her work team tomorrow after work and that it could potentially interfere with our hangout. I live very far away from her and get up...
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{ "description": "telling my father he eats too much", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 8 }
AITA for telling my father he eats too much?
My dad is 63 and recently decided to "retire." The only problem with this is he's been sitting around, watching native YouTube videos, and seems rather depressed. He's turned to food as his vice. He's constantly hungry. Most of our food in the house is Paleo, and rather expensive, and he's been plowing through it like...
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{ "description": "looking at porn", "pronormative_score": 14, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for looking at porn?
My girlfriend doesn’t like when I look at porn, she says it makes her feel bad about herself. I try not to do it when she’s around but today she came home while I was and got really mad at me. AITA?
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AITA for tellimg my ex to go through with it when she threatened to kill herself to win an argument?
If you read my title and automatically assume i'm an asshole, then I agree with you. I might as well give some context though. So, a little back story. I met my (now-ex) girlfriend (we'll call her Carol) 3 years ago through a mutual friend. We hit it off almost immediately. We both had the same interests and lived clo...
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{ "description": "ignoring my grandma's text messages", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 9 }
AITA for ignoring my grandma's text messages?
More often than not I ignore my grandma's texts, and my boyfriend just got upset with me about it. Up until a few years ago I really loved my grandmother, but then my mom opened up to me about her childhood. My mother was physically and emotionally abused by my grandmother, and then kicked out and forced to live with...
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{ "description": "not wanting driving lessons for my birthday", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for not wanting driving lessons for my birthday
So my Birthday is coming up and I've discussed this with my mum multiple times ( it's my 18th so she wanted to make sure that I enjoyed it). We talked it over and decided driving lessons wouldn't be the best. We can't afford a car for me, she needs her car and even if I could buy one the insurance would kill me. So w...
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{ "description": "quitting my job while on paternity leave", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for quitting my job while on paternity leave?
I've been on leave for the last two months (wife had a baby) and found a new job at the end of my leave. I was given a start date rather abruptly, and only had a week and a half to give my former job notice. My leave was ending in a few days but I didn't want to wait to turn in my resignation. I handed my letter to my ...
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{ "description": "breaking up with my girlfriend because of her dog", "pronormative_score": 14, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for breaking up with my girlfriend because of her dog?
My girlfriend and I have been together for 6 months or so. We have been thinking about moving in together so she's been staying at my house over the weekend Friday - Monday night (she's off Sunday and Monday). He's twelve but she hasn't trained him very well and he doesn't listen. I should also mention that I did ...
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{ "description": "giving my nephew's expensive gifts when I come to visit", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for giving my nephew's expensive gifts when I come to visit?
I see my three nephews maybe twice a year apart from Christmas. I always try to give them some cool gift like a game system or a telescope or something when I visit their home(my sister is their mother). I sort of think to myself that the random gifts I give them are early/late birthday presents. My sister and her hus...
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{ "description": "repeatedly asking my roommate to be quieter on the phone", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for repeatedly asking my roommate to be quieter on the phone?
My college roommate and I share a one room dorm and he likes to spend a lot of time talking to his girlfriend on the phone. She lives an hour away and they don't get to see each other often, so I understand him wanting to talk to her often. But the issue is he talks unnecessarily loud and will often have her on speaker...
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{ "description": "freaking out at my stepdad", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for freaking out at my stepdad?
So a little background, I’m 14 years old. I have a 12 year old brother, a 12 year old step-sister, and a 10 year old sister. Around a year ago my mom and this guy she’s known for a while started dating, he moved in and immediately decided he was the boss of the house, we were renting out downstairs room to a woman and ...
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{ "description": "letting a female college friend sleep over at my place because she was really drunk, while being in a relationship", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for letting a female college friend sleep over at my place because she was really drunk, while being in a relationship?
So I was having a few friends over from college at my place for a couple of drinks and basically just hanging around. The evening passes and one of my female friends was starting to get really drunk which I may have noticed a little too late, otherwise I may have said something to prevent that. At this point 2 of my fr...
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{ "description": "telling my girlfriend something good that happened to me when she was feeling upset", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA If I told my girlfriend something good that happened to me when she was feeling upset?
So me and my girlfriend has been dating for almost a year. We were talking last night and I knew she was feeling down. I was on the phone with her being understanding and trying to make her feel better. I really tried my best to make her feel better, but it wasn’t working so we ended up talking about random stuff. I ...
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{ "description": "cutting ties with my bff because of my boyfriend", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for cutting ties with my BFF because of my boyfriend?
This happened a while back, but I thought I could reflect on this and look for other opinions. Last summer, I reached a tipping point with my best friend of almost 10 years, and I pretty much cut her off. We got along super well, had the same interests, and never ran out of things to talk about. However, she was prett...
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{ "description": "being good friends with people my GF hates", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for being good friends with people my GF hates?
Background info, I'm a sophomore in high school and I moved to the district the beginning of my freshman year. I didn't have any friends and I met a two chicks that were into me and I dated one and became bestfriends with the other. I've known them both for an equal amount of time and I'm super close with both of them,...
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{ "description": "being uncomfortable with a random man taking over my female roommate's room (sublet) for the summer", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being uncomfortable with a random man taking over my female roommate's room (sublet) for the summer?
My [F 25] fiance [M 24] share a townhouse with two other people. Jane* [F 23] and Jeff [M 22]. Jeff lives in the basement with his own bathroom and is my fiance's fraternity brother so I knew him long before he moved in. Jane lives upstairs in the bedroom right next to ours and shares a bathroom with my fiance and I. ...
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{ "description": "not wanting to date my bf because he wants to cover himself in tattoos", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to date my bf because he wants to cover himself in tattoos?
I recently met a great guy and we get along so well. I know relationships are suppose to be about compromise but am I the asshole for not wanting to date a guy who wants to eventually cover himself in tattoos all over his upper body and eventually look like a prison gangster?
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{ "description": "going on holiday without my wife", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA for going on holiday without my wife?
My wife is a teacher, so can't go on holiday during term time. However, I am a student so I get my summer holiday sooner than she does. My mother has asked if I would like to go on holiday with her and 2 of my siblings, which would leave my wife back home alone for 5 days. When i told her of my plans, she became very...
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WRONG
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{ "description": "forcing my boyfriend to eat", "pronormative_score": 42, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for forcing my boyfriend to eat?
My boyfriend and I have been getting very serious in our relationship, and are 'thriving' according to our friends. And I love him, like really really love him. He's always been what people refer to as 'heavy set' but he's nowhere near obese, not even close-still he thinks he is because teenagers are dicks. Recently h...
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{ "description": "telling my girlfriend that I don't want her dancing on people when she goes out with friends", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for telling my girlfriend that I don't want her dancing on people when she goes out with friends?
Little backstorThe title is pretty self explanatory. Ive been with my gf for 5 years. She is 21 and I am 22. Naturally, she likes to go out with her friends, got to clubs, drink, and dance. There are times i cant go with her because I work 3-11 pm. Anywho, over the weekend she and sone friends went to Vegas to dance a...
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{ "description": "getting correcting people for shortening my name", "pronormative_score": 61, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for getting correcting people for shortening my name?
My name is Joanna. I have many nick names but “joanne” is not one of them. I sign all my emails at work with Jo or Joanna. When I introduce myself I always let people know they can call me Joanna, Jo, Jojo, hell I’ll even answer to Josephine! Just don’t drop that A if you’re going with my full name. The one thing I ...
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{ "description": "not wanting to visit my dad this summer", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not wanting to visit my dad this summer
So here's some context: I live with my mom and 2 younger siblings (3-6 years old) while my dad lives in another country with the rest of my relatives. Every winter he visits us and every summer break we visit him. We've been doing this for many years Now every summer we go there I get extremely bored it's in a count...
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{ "description": "lying about vacation to avoid a family friend from tagging along", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA if I lied about vacation to avoid a family friend from tagging along?
I have a family friend who is pretty much family to me. for the past few years, this person has tagged along on the vacations we take. they pay their way, so it’s not about that, but this person is just not easy to vacation with. we don’t have the same interests. this person just wants to go to the bar and I really don...
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{ "description": "getting upset about my husbands scheduled gaming time", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 8 }
AITA For getting upset about my husbands scheduled gaming time?
Details about us: been married 3 years and have a 2 year old son and we’re both in our mid 20s. Every Tuesday and Sunday my husband has scheduled gaming time from 6pm-9pm. We’ve fought about his gaming a lot and he’s cut down except the scheduled time. That’s his “raid” time. Tonight he sat down at his computer durin...
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{ "description": "calling movers for my furniture and boxes only and not consulting with my roommate when we are moving in together", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
Aita for calling movers for my furniture and boxes only and not consulting with my roommate when we are moving in together?
Bit of a backstory and also apologies, I’m using a phone. I was living by myself and was planning to move to another 1 bedroom when my lease was up end of February. A friend who was also living by myself reached out and asked if we should become roommates since her lease was at the end of March, or so my friend thoug...
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AITA? Sister abandoned her kids. Mother is taking care of them. What do we do?
Where do you draw the line with helping your family? Are my wife and I assholes? ​ Throwaway because reasons... ​ ***The people:*** **My sister:** homeless (technically, but living in a trailer with her boyfriend), in need of mental health, and showing no signs of getting better. She left her...
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{ "description": "not wanting to give toys I'm attached to to my sister", "pronormative_score": 15, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to give toys I'm attached to to my sister?
Long post so look out. Some background info: I am 13 years old and I live with my dad. My little sister (8) lives with my mum and on weekends we alternate between me going over there and her coming over here. My dad works on Sundays so when Emily (E) comes over here I have to look after her until mum comes to pick her...
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{ "description": "not letting my friend's friend sleep at my apartment", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not letting my friend's friend sleep at my apartment?
There was recently a concert in my city. I wasn't going because I had to study for finals, but a good friend of mine wanted to go and I said she could sleep at my apartment for the weekend of the concert. (She lives about 2 hours away.) We'd had this scheduled for about a month and 3 days before the concert, she asks ...
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{ "description": "commenting this on a friend's Post", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for Commenting This on a Friend's Post?
So for context, I'm a mod in a Shiny Hunting community (Shiny Hunting is more or less spending hours in Pokémon games looking for ultra rare, alternatively coloured Pokémon, such as a Red Gyarados or Black Charizard; definitely a niche hobby, but I like it that way). I know and am friends with most of the regulars in t...
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{ "description": "not feeling sympathy for a friend who recently became homeless", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not feeling sympathy for a friend who recently became homeless?
To start, he[John(24M)] and his former girlfriend[Grace(24F)] both worked together. God knows how many times he’s cheated on and taken advantage of her blind love for him. They have a co-worker[Julia(29F)] that John begins to fool around with behind Grace’s back. He does this knowing that Julia has been married for 1...
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{ "description": "complaining about an Amber Alert", "pronormative_score": 69, "contranormative_score": 367 }
AITA for complaining about an Amber Alert?
Last night at around midnight, my phone, which was set to Do Not Disturb, started blaring loud klaxon horns full-volume with a message about an Amber Alert. It said that a little girl had been abducted by her father, and was last seen five hours earlier, in a region 94km (58 miles) to the west of me, heading east in a ...
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{ "description": "accidentally making my friend uncomfortable", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for accidentally making my friend uncomfortable?
We were sitting on couch and sort of linked arms with me, after a bit i put my arm over her and she seemed ok with it, we stayed like that for the rest of the night. I woke up the next morning to a message saying that what I did was really bad and that she didn't like it. I had no idea she was uncomfortable and if I kn...
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{ "description": "yelling at my dad about him not telling me about an airbag recall on my car", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for yelling at my dad about him not telling me about an airbag recall on my car
i’m back with another about my dad. i was in a super good mood today until i started talking to him. i bought a car about 6 months ago. well he bought me it and never told me. and then he told me that i owed him 3,600$ for it out of nowhere. and i needed a car so i was happy but mad that he sprung it on me and didn’t ...
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{ "description": "visiting a friend in Portland and puffing the dab pen on an empty street while walking back to her apartment. she is salty AF now", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA. I visiting a friend in Portland and I puffed the dab pen on an empty street while walking back to her apartment. She is salty AF now.
She made it clear that her apartment is a no smoke zone. Even vaping on the balcony was off limits. Ok, I understand and respect that because it’s your house. However, if I choose to risk getting a fine then that’s on me. Why act like I disrespected you?
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{ "description": "Sexting with a woman I just met on OKC", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA By Sexting with a woman I just met on OKC?
Yesterday I met a nice woman on OKCupid, and things were going well. We were getting to know one another, finding out what our common interest were. We both like the mountains, watching horror movies and we both have our own struggles with depression. She said she wanted to start out as friends and I thought "cool, ...
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{ "description": "losing my temper at my dad", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for losing my temper at my dad
So me and my family has a family group chat I rarely checked because my family mostly chat in Chinese and I can't read or write in Chinese. And whenever I talk to my parents on the phone and topic that was discussed in the group chat comes up, my parents would chastise me for not checking the family chat enough and mak...
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{ "description": "getting pissed at my mum making a bigger deal of my brothers birthday than mine", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 3 }
Aita for getting pissed at my mum making a bigger deal of my brothers birthday than mine
Like I know this is going to sound entitled and that I should appreciate what I get for my birthday but I can't help feeling this way, my brother got around 800 spent on him for his birthday, my birthday I got clothes that didn't fit. The birthday before that he got 3 grand and I got a hundred. This is playing on my m...
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{ "RIGHT": 8, "WRONG": 3 }
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{ "description": "dipping on job interview", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for dipping on job interview?
Okay. This happened ten minutes ago and I'm still overreacting. To preface this, I'm *extremely* shy and stumble around my words a lot. It isn't easy for me to make calls or cancel shit, but I always force myself to. Maaaaybe not this time though. I've been looking for a job since I moved out (I've got college in th...
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AItA left my husband because he was psychologically abusive and keeping my daughter away
I was with my husband for 14 years, married for 8 and we have a 3 and a half year old. He was controlling and abusing us both psychologically, financially and emotionally. My daughter also had unexplained bruises and was fearful of him. Dec 27 2018 I went to my mums and after talking to her and seeing his reactions w...
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{ "description": "not wanting to attend my highschool graduation ceremony", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 2 }
Aita if i don’t want to attend my highschool graduation ceremony?
Sorry if this is jumbled, I’m writing this in a rush. Im the first sibling in my family to graduate so I don’t have any one else to ask about this. So i don’t want to attend my highschool graduation ceremony. Im very much a by the numbers guy and i view it as a waist of money. We are not poor by any means but we stil...
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{ "description": "not taking blame for an accident", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not taking blame for an accident?
F - friend who is accusing me. Sorry for bad formatting, I'm on mobile Me, F and 2 other friends were playing basketball/shooting hoops in PE. Me and F shoot at the hoop, me shooting about 2 seconds after F did. F goes to get their ball after missing and walks directly under the hoop. I can tell my ball is going to g...
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{ "description": "pushing my friend / co-worker on biblical literalism", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for pushing my friend / co-worker on biblical literalism?
I have known my co-worker for about 5 years - only worked with him for the past 2. We were acquaintances before working together, but have become friends - we play golf, my fiance and I hang out with him and his wife from time to time, etc. Anyway, we are opposite ends of the spectrum when it comes to politics/rel...
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AUTHOR
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{ "description": "Serving Toddlers, Parents and Closer kids before parents", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA For Serving Toddlers, Parents and Closer kids before Parents
TLDR At the bottom There are a few pieces of background here. My wife is 2nd generation chinese and there is a cultural expectation on her side to serve the elders first. Second, she asked me to post this on her behalf. I'm 33m and don't speak the dialect in which the argument was spoken. The version of events b...
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{ "description": "not telling my (ex) significant other I slept with a woman she hated when I wasn't with her", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for not telling my (ex) significant other I slept with a woman she hated when I wasn't with her?
I have been in a messy relationship (lots of on and off) until a few weeks ago, and have an internal conflict about whether or not I am completely to blame for everything going wrong. It is important to note that my ex had significant trust issues with me. Effectively, me and my girlfriend (lets call her Amy) had been...
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{ "description": "asking customer to leave", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for asking customer to leave?
I worked and played league at a very family friendly bowling alley. I was quickly given a lot of trust and responsibilities and was told they were hoping to make me the new night manager. I had never worked in this industry before and had just started bowling there shortly before. My husband and I spent a significan...
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{ "description": "refusing to help a friend get her kid to a good school", "pronormative_score": 25, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for refusing to help a friend get her kid to a good school?
We recently bought a new house - paid a whackload of a premium to get our kids into the best public school district in our city - a Toronto suburb. We haven't moved in yet, and my wife already has two of her friends ask her if they can register their address at our house. The reason being is they want their kids to be ...
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{ "description": "not going to my cousin's baby shower", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not going to my cousin's baby shower?
TL:DR My Cousin and I used to be close when we were really younger (>10), but as we grew up, we became distant. I’ve tried to re-build this relationship growing up, but feel that the effort was never returned. She is having a child this summer and her baby shower is this week. I don’t want to go and my family is mak...
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{ "description": "not wanting to pay rent for something my friend uses too", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not wanting to pay rent for something my friend uses too?
So, a few months ago I started with Poledance and decided to buy my own pole. But since there's not really a lot of room in my apartment, I asked my friend who owns a building, to rent a room there in order to practice on my pole. I'm completly fine with paying rent for that of course. The only thing is, I didn't get ...
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{ "description": "calling someone who wears a suit for fun a \"pretentious idiot\"", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 48 }
AITA for calling someone who wears a suit for fun a "pretentious idiot"
I'm in college and I was eating with friend A at the dining hall. He spots his friend B walking around and comments on how B has really good style. I notice that he was wearing a full suit and tie at the dining hall and if he just got out of an interview or formal event or whatever, to which A just says that B does it ...
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{ "description": "not saying thank you", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for not saying thank you?
AITA for not saying thank you? We were in the last class of the period. I sneezed and someone said bless you. I didn't say anything and continued on with my work. I then heard the girl that said bless you say, "He's not gonna say thank you?" She then asked her friends beside her and I heard them say things like, it's j...
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{ "description": "not trusting my stepfather", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not trusting my stepfather?
Throwaway just because i’d like my privacy. A slightly long story, sorry. My stepfather, who’s actually been in my life for longer than my biological father, is a great man. He’s well-liked, smart, he’s kind and i can see that he makes my mom incredibly happy. I never used to have problems with him — we’d do regular f...
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{ "description": "asking a girl to engage in a forced sex fantasy roleplay", "pronormative_score": 16, "contranormative_score": 2 }
WIBTA If I asked a girl to engage in a forced sex fantasy roleplay?
Not much to say. Been having casual sex for awhile and I have a strong desire to have a rape/home invasion roleplay. If I asked for this, and she got angry, scared, or disgusted, would I be the asshole for asking?
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{ "description": "worrying about school while my grandma was dying", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for worrying about school while my grandma was dying?
Okay, so my grandmother died in September, and this has been bugging me since. My grandmother was my main supporter, both emotionally and financially through out my entire academic career. If not for her, I wouldn’t have had a cosigner for my student loans, and I wouldn’t be able to afford school (my mom pulled ou...
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{ "description": "feeling angry at my friend for sleeping with my ex wife", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for feeling angry at my friend for sleeping with my ex wife?
TL;DR at bottom. ​ I'm seeing my ex-wife after 8 months of separation following a very clean, very civil divorce. Things are better than ever and we question our decision to divorce every day. We had been seeing each other off and on throughout the entire separation, going back and forth between wanting to...
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{ "description": "locking the door when I take a dump", "pronormative_score": 17, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for locking the door when I take a dump?
So my ex is comfortable with himself. He farted while we were in the shower together and almost knocked my naked-ass unconscious. Like y'all, it was bad. I thought his colon was rotting from the inside. And that was about only a week and a half after we started talking. It didn't take long for him to start pooing in fr...
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{ "description": "joking with my teacher", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for joking with my teacher?
I'm in the last class of the day. My teacher, whom we can call J for this story, frequently makes jokes in class, just to make the class more funny. Now, I will admit, I do talk and get distracted in this class, but i still get my work done on time. Like a lot of other people in the class, I make frequent jokes in the...
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{ "description": "telling my friend to \"just get over it\" when his first love ghosted him over a year ago", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for telling my friend to "just get over it" when his first love ghosted him over a year ago?
around 2 years agoi think october 2017, my friend (i will call X) met a girl(i'll call Y). they met on discord in the server of X's favorite game, so they both got along quickly cause they played the same game. all i know is that every night X and Y would be video chatting (we were all the same age) and X would alway...
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{ "description": "applying for a position that my partner has also expressed interest in", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for applying for a position that my partner has also expressed interest in?
Some backstory is probably necessary, sorry in advance for the long read. My partner (40f) and I (36m) work in the same field and have similar levels of education, so room for advancement is relatively slim without relocation. Recently a vacancy has come about due to an internal promotion and we have both discussed i...
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AITA If told my husband that men can't be raped if someone has sex with them? Meaning getting them hard and then having sex. I think rape is vaginal or anal. It doesn't hurt the man or does it?
Title says it all. Let me know what you think.
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{ "description": "getting mad at my ex for flying out to meet a guy", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITAH if I got mad at my ex for flying out to meet a guy
Quick context, dated this girl for about a year and broke it off a few weeks ago. Honestly, as far as break ups go it was very civil. I still wanted to stay together but she didn’t and that was that. We met up for coffee and it was actually a lot of fun. Durning she told me she was flying across the country to Georgi...
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{ "description": "telling my parents that I will be celebrating Christmas with my inlaws if they decide to invite my toxic cousin", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for telling my parents that I will be celebrating Christmas with my inlaws if they decide to invite my toxic cousin?
First of all, sorry about formatting, I´m on mobile and English is not my first language. I also need to say that this will be long and full of family drama, but I know this sub has a pretty neutral enviroment to find answers, so here goes nothing. To give you a little bit of context I´m a 22yo female, my cousin is a...
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{ "description": "telling strangers I'd rather not discuss my injury", "pronormative_score": 21, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for telling strangers I'd rather not discuss my injury?
I work in a front-facing position in a medical-related office. I have a minor but painful foot injury that requires, among other things, immobilization with an Anklizer walking boot. I get asked about it >10 times a day. The injury is one most people have never heard of, is somewhat complicated to explain, and is fr...
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AITA Husband kicks out my friend while I'm away and I do nothing
This is my first reddit post, so hopefully I'm doing it right. Some context, this girl and I got out of boot camp about 3 days apart and I show her the base and whatnot and find out we're both 18 and going into the same job. We go to our school where we learn our job and she burns bridges with the class because she's...
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{ "description": "not wanting to babysit my cousins kid", "pronormative_score": 15, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to babysit my cousins kid?
My cousin has a daughter, she's almost 2 years old. From when she was a baby I've babysat a lot. Most of the time it's in the weekends from 7 till sometimes 2 am. Lately I'm starting to say no if she asks me if I can babysit because I'm really busy with school and I need some time to myself as well. She's not paying ...
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{ "description": "wanting to stop being friends with a girl who has no friends other than me", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting to stop being friends with a girl who has no friends other than me?
tl;dr at the bottom I’ve only been friends with this girl for ~1.5 years. We were super close a year ago when it was us two plus two other girls, so the 4 of us would hang out a lot. I think I was able to handle her because there were two other friends always present so I didn’t have to deal with her alone. Ever since...
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{ "description": "being annoyed when obnoxiously loud students post this", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for being annoyed when obnoxiously loud students post this?
I am at BYU, actually a mathematics major who basically hates everyone who goes to the Castle (a room on the 2nd floor overlooking an entrance and study area) in the Talmage. I just found this posted outside the door (that is locked and the passcode is only given to certain people) and it set me off. [https://imgur.co...
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AITA For snitching?
My auntie is spending time in hospital with my sick cousin, the nurses did something small to piss her off. They gave her a meal that was liquified as per the medical chart for my cousin, however she had been eating his meals and bringing food in for my cousin as he has a specific diet she doesn’t trust the hospital wi...
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{ "description": "wanting some sort of compensation for my roommate using my switch", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for wanting some sort of compensation for my roommate using my Switch?
So I've been the proud owner of a Switch for a couple months now, and I bought Smash as soon as it came out. Before that I picked up Breath of the Wild and played that for a month or two. But a little after Smash came out, one of my roommates got really into it and asked me if he could use the Switch to play. I didn't ...
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{ "description": "not wanting to help my friend in a class anymore", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to help my friend in a class anymore??
Throughout the semester, my friend and I have been in a finance class together. I come to class, take notes, make my own study guides for quizzes, and always try to understand the material the best I can. At the beginning of the semester, I helped my friend by doing small things like sending him my study guide if he cl...
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{ "description": "telling my sister she smells like urine", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for telling my sister she smells like urine?
Throwaway for obvious reasons So some background: my sister wet the bed up until she was about six. She then constantly wet herself because while doing anything she refused to take bathroom breaks. It got to the point of my mom having to take the controller away because she would sit for hours and wet herself not want...
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{ "description": "referring to Abortion as \"yeeting out the ball of cells\" to my Infertile Mother", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA For Referring to Abortion as "Yeeting out the ball of cells" To My Infertile Mother
Let me preface this, I think I am the asshole. My friends don't think ITAS. Obviously, Reddit was the answer to this conundrum. ​ Background: I'm adopted, my sister is as well. We both grew up knowing we were adopted. I was so lucky to be adopted by my parents. My family is fucking amazing. ​...
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{ "description": "not doing a friend a favor in order for him to stay out of legal trouble", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not doing a friend a favor in order for him to stay out of legal trouble?
My friend works at a warehouse that holds very expensive equipment, tonight he came to my house with a full bag of items that he stole from his job. He asked to me to do the favor of hiding these items or do whatever i want with them. Because apparently the cops know about him stealing these items and they’re most lik...
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{ "description": "falling for my roommate's gf", "pronormative_score": 16, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for falling for my roommate's GF?
So I live in a house with 8 guys, needless to say its a masculine environment. A few weeks ago a girlfriend moved in so now there is at least some female presence (this is not the girl in question). I've never been an active pursuer of women, all of my previous girlfriends have approached me first. This isn't because...
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{ "description": "ignoring my grandmothers calls after she said something mean to me", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for ignoring my grandmothers calls after she said something mean to me?
I’m going to start off by saying I love my grandmother but she’s a toxic human and she gets away with it because of her age, which is maybe rightfully so. Yesterday she stopped by my house to drop off Valentine’s Day gifts for my kids. She said she wasn’t going to come inside because she was sick but she did anyways....
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{ "description": "not caring that my friend was asexual", "pronormative_score": 52, "contranormative_score": 20 }
AITA For not caring that my friend was asexual?
Last year I sat with a group of girls at lunch now I only sat there because I was trying to get closer with my crush and as a result became friends with her friends. One day my friend lets call her Momoe said that she was coming out as an asexual. My crush and the other girl immediately told her that they wouldn't judg...
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{ "description": "having my wedding on July 4th", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA if I have my wedding on July 4th?
Like the title says, would it be an asshole move for me to have my wedding on July 4th? That day also falls on a Thursday.
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