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{ "description": "smoking weed and not telling my so", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 11 }
AITA for smoking weed and not telling my SO
We have been dating for 4 years and we both started being against weed. We are college students. My views have changed and I really wanted to try it. I've had issues with alcohol so I feel like this would be a good alternative. I have talked to her about this before and she is still against it. I told her I was going t...
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{ "description": "wanting to break up with my gf before the holidays", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 0 }
Aita (30m) for wanting to break up with my gf (27f) before the holidays?
Some background.. We've been dating for a few months and honestly I don't think it's working out. When we met, she was in the process of moving out of her apt and moving back into her parents house because she lost her job. I just happen to be moving into a new apt. I told her she can stay at my place when she needs to...
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{ "description": "telling a teacher that I was worried about my friend's mental health", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for telling a teacher that I was worried about my friend’s mental health?
My friend frequently talks about being depressed and limiting her calorie intake drastically in order to lose weight. I also have depression and often joke about it, but mine is much less severe than hers. She started off with making jokes about being depressed and but it quickly escalated into long rants about how muc...
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{ "description": "being a dick to little kids", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For being a dick to little kids?
So this starts back when I was a little kid, maybe 6-9 or more or less, I can’t really remember. But this has been on my mind this morning for some reason. Anyways, we had these family friends that had two kids, one was a year younger than me and the other was 6 months or so younger than me. Anyways these kids were ab...
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{ "description": "inviting the older of my younger sisters to a convention I worked, but not the younger", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for inviting the older of my younger sisters to a convention I worked, but not the younger?
I have several younger sisters. The ones involved here are 17 and 14, respectively. I worked a gaming convention the other weekend. My university's esports organization was invited to host an Overwatch tournament at the convention, and I had offered my help in setting up for the tournament. Day one of convention comes...
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{ "description": "bringing up my mom's bad driving skills", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for bringing up my mom's bad driving skills?
Little bit of context, sorry for the length: I'm fresh out of school and working in a big city I have to commute to. I currently live with my mom (can't afford housing/need to pay off student loans), who I have never gotten along with from childhood to now. I pay rent, help around the house, etc. Part of my commute is...
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{ "description": "being a bit of a creep", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being a bit of a creep
r/AskWomen Would anyone consider this creepy? u/TheEpicThrowaway865 So around a year ago I asked a girl out, let's call her Max. I was rejected, which sucked but I reacted in a respectful manner and moved on pretty quickly. It was the final day of the school year, so a long time to just forget eachother. Months pass an...
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{ "description": "making racist asian jokes", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 30 }
AITA for making racist Asian jokes?
I'm just gonna get straight into this, no need to give a huge intro. I'm a (white) high school freshman with two Asian friends. We'll call one of them #, and the other one %. # is someone who often makes Asian jokes about himself. Jokes about "Asian Eyes", about how he eats dogs and cats, shit like that. Harmless stuff...
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{ "description": "asking my brother for 50/50 pay when we babysit", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I (f15) asked my brother (18) for 50/50 pay when we babysit?
We babysit for 3 of our cousins about twice a month. For the past year, we’ve split the pay 50/50. However, now he wants to split 60/40. We babysit two boys and one girl. Normally, we are all together watching a movie or playing a game. Sometimes my brother watches the boys, while I watch the girl. I also usually put...
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{ "description": "not contacting my uncle after my baby was born", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not contacting my uncle after my baby was born?
Right now my uncle is mad at me because I didn’t send him a personal message and invitation to meet my baby. He says he texted me right after the birth (I had complications and was in the hospital for an extra terrifying two weeks) and he shouldn’t have to text me twice. He has had no contact with me or my daughter for...
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{ "description": "feeling genuinely no love for my mother", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for feeling genuinely no love for my mother
I am currently 15 and have realised i hate my mother ​ Ever since i was a little kid my mother would berate me for anything. You never get any homework? youre lying! You are watching tv shows? Youre gay (i actually am so this hurt) Your handwriting is bad becuase you have dyslexia that i refuse do get diag...
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{ "description": "not telling my parents I'm eloping in about 6 months", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA For not telling my parents I’m eloping in about 6 months?
My boyfriend is in the Army and we decided we’re going to go about the non-traditional way of life and we’re going to get married since we both know that’s what we want and we can be together without worry if we were already married. There’s a lot of detail and such, this post would be too long if I got into it, so to ...
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{ "description": "not wanting my friend to date a bad kid", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA? Not Wanting My Friend to Date a Bad Kid
AITA? So my friend, lets call her L , likes this guy, lets call him C. So C is kinda a bad kid. He got expelled for beating a kid up because he was called a N word, and he touched one of my other friends and called her a lot of nasty things to the point she has nightmares almost every night about it. L on the other...
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{ "description": "thinking my sisters candle stick holders look like anal beads", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA for thinking my sisters candle stick holders look like anal beads?
[her candle stick holders](https://www.simonpearce.com/hartland-candlestick-l?gclid=EAIaIQobChMI8u74rqW83wIVjJ-zCh3-ngPBEAQYFCABEgLfc_D_BwE) Cuz my mom says she’s not talking to me anymore because of this. Also, several of her decorations look like oversized anal toys... my GF dogs at for her and sent photos all day...
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{ "description": "getting mad at my so for getting mad at my parents", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA For getting mad at my SO for getting mad at my parents?
So, some background first, two semester ago I was having a really hard time in college and I dropped out to take a vacation (my first one ever). While in school I was working full time in a photography studio (what I was going to school to learn about). I just felt like I wasn't learning anything and I just had to get ...
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{ "description": "asking others not to post my photos on fb", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for asking others not to post my photos on fb?
Hi! So this has been an issue for a while now. I'd take a random photo around town and send it to a closr family member, only to find she has almost immediately posted it to her fb. Initially, I simply said 'hey, didn't think you'd upload it but oh well' and left it there. No direct response to that from her. I forget ...
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{ "description": "being angry about my girlfriend making status on Facebook about the fact we do anal", "pronormative_score": 21, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for being angry about my girlfriend making status on Facebook about the fact we do anal?
Pretty much the title. We have been together for a short time and are still working out what we are comfortable and not comfortable with, one of those thing that has caused a few issues is openness vs privacy. She is extremely open and I am extremely private. I'm not being a prick for being angry that all of our ...
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{ "description": "getting really mad at my boyfriend when he said all girls who game are bad", "pronormative_score": 161, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for getting really mad at my boyfriend when he said all girls who game are bad?
We were playing together and one of our teammates was doing stuff that was a bit questionable. My boyfriend noticed that the username of the player was girly and started talking about how bad girls are in video games and kept referring to girls as bitches. I got frustrated by it and asked if he thought I was bad too s...
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{ "description": "asking friends to look after my pets and not my girlfriend", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for asking friends to look after my pets and not my girlfriend
So I’m going away and needed my stick insects cared for including changing their leaves and possibly holding them as part of this process. My girlfriend describes them as eww each time she sees them and has never touched them or wanted to (we live in different houses). I asked another friend to look after them while I ...
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{ "description": "not doing Laundry at 1am even though I was still awake", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA For Not Doing Laundry At 1am Even Though I Was Still Awake?
1am Last night. I Was in bed, on my phone, when my fiancé, who'd got back from a long shift 1½ hours earlier, walked into the room. He started out sounding apologetic, "I Know it's my mess, and you won't like this but..." Then basically asked me to gather up all his clothes for work tomorrow afternoon and put them in t...
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{ "description": "telling my friend he is a ignorant fuck", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 12 }
AITA for telling my friend he is a ignorant fuck ?
I was always interested with history. Naturally I have a good knowledge about my country and the countries which is have been in same geography before my country. I am from Turkey. On March 31 mayor elections happened and everyone still talking about results. I couldn't gave my vote because I am living in outside of th...
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{ "description": "not factoring my family's opinion about bully breeds into my decision to get a dog", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for not factoring my family's opinion about bully breeds into my decision to get a dog.
I'm looking for a new dog and found a three month old pitbull mix at the shelter and sent them a link. they responded by saying they are scared of pitbulls and don't want one around their dog (80lb laberdoodle) and if I get one they probably wouldn't want him around them or their dog. I don't live with them but live cl...
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{ "description": "asking a Guy to be quiet at a live show", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA For Asking A Guy To Be Quiet At A Live Show
I am in the interval for Blue Planet II Live In Concert. I am here with my sister and this is a Christmas Present from our parents. We saw the first one YEARS ago as small children. Anyway, two rows behind us this guy is chatting with his misses and during the first half he was shushed several times and at the start ...
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{ "description": "wanting to give some of my friends money to buy jewelry my mother is making and selling to help pay for me and my step brothers braces", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA For wanting to give some of my friends money to buy jewelry my mother is making and selling to help pay for me and my step brothers braces?
My step brother and I (both 17M) were put into braces about 3-4 months ago. I'm sure many of you know, braces are insanely expensive as they charge around 5 grand per person for 1 visit per month for 18 visits that last at most 30 minutes. But thats not the point. Ever since we were put into braces, my mom has needed...
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{ "description": "not telling my fiancé that his dad kissed me", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 34 }
WIBTA if I didn’t tell my fiancé that his dad kissed me?
We were staying at his parents the other day and we all ended up drinking too much. We went to bed and my fiancé fell asleep but I couldn’t sleep. I went down to get some water and his dad was down there. We had a little talk in the kitchen and then he kissed me. I kissed him back for a couple of seconds and then pulle...
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{ "description": "not returning a backpack I took", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 20 }
AITA: For not returning a backpack I took?
First time posting. Context: It was a Friday night and we went for drinks after work. We started as a large group and split off and moved to a busy bar. We managed to get a booth and we had all had quite a lot to drink. Throughout the night people were moving around the building and getting split up making it difficult...
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{ "description": "trying to convince my mom to fire a hard-up maid", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for trying to convince my mom to fire a hard-up maid?
Throwaway because some people know my main reddit account. I’m 16F btw. Let me just preface this by saying I really do try to be polite to the staff and I have a great relationship with all of them-except one maid, who I’ll call S. Mum hired her four months ago and oh. my. God. She never cleans, she misplaces things e...
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{ "description": "possibly being in love with someone else while in a relationship", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for possibly being in love with someone else while in a relationship?
Let me start off by saying that I'm in a very happy relationship and I love my boyfriend. I have not cheated on him at least physically. I have not directly lied to him about it either. There is another guy who I had lot of classes with and we used to study together regularly. I thought we were good friends. About a ye...
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{ "description": "not telling my mom about my trans boyfriend", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not telling my mom about my trans boyfriend?
To put this in context, my boyfriend- let's call him A identifies as a boy, my mom isn't quite homophobic or transphobic but she is very strict. At first A and I were good friends, we didn't hang out as much though as I was dating someone at the time and wanted to be respectful of my boyfriend by not hanging out with o...
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{ "description": "not wanting my BF's friend to come over", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting my BF's friend to come over?
Context: My boyfriend and I haven't been living together long, and we have some roommates: A married couple with a dog and a coworker of mine. They seem pretty cool with us having guests but I am careful not to push it and invite too many people over. I have invited a mutual friend of my BF and I over a few times an...
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{ "description": "getting upset with my friend for pretending to cut", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITAH for getting upset with my friend for pretending to cut?
I was feeling generous or something and wanted to send my friend a gift. So I asked for her address. She didn’t want to give me hers until I gave mine to her. She threatened to cut herself if I didn’t give mine to her first, which I thought was just an empty threat. Sends me a picture of a fake looking cut on her thumb...
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{ "description": "telling a dude he needed to put on sunscreen", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA For telling a dude he needed to put on sunscreen?
My wife and I went to Barbados last year and there was a guy who was **extremely** red. I honestly wasn’t trying to be a dick or anything but as we were both at the bar I mentioned that he was red and should put on some lotion. I told my wife I mentioned it to him and she said it was none of my business and she’d be pi...
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{ "description": "ghosting a guy for the shit he posts on social media", "pronormative_score": 56, "contranormative_score": 61 }
AITA For ghosting a guy for the shit he posts on social media?
There’s this guy I was talking to that I decided to stop talking to randomly without telling him why. I basically ghosted him and he keeps trying to contact me and get me to go out with him. The reason I stopped talking to him is because what he posts on social media. Like an hour ago he just posted a meme that said ‘r...
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{ "description": "treating my girlfriend like a man", "pronormative_score": 20, "contranormative_score": 17 }
AITA for treating my girlfriend like a man?
Recently I went on an overseas holiday with my long term girlfriend, we had a wonderful time bar one particular incident. While on holiday we were waiting to catch a bus. Being in a foreign country navigation can be a bit difficult. My girlfriend was adamant we had to catch the bus numbered 21 to our destination becau...
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{ "description": "insisting my gf wears headphones", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for insisting my gf wears headphones
So the issue starts here. I can not stand a certain voice pattern, which is prevalent in the YouTube videos my gf watches constantly she loves watching jefree star and rupals drag race stuff. I would say it's "gay male voice" but that's not totally true. Either way it's like nails on a chalkboard to me. We have fought...
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{ "description": "not really feeling devastated", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not really feeling devastated?
So, to get straight to the point, my grandma is dying. Hospice is keeping her comfortable but she is catatonic mostly and completely unaware of her surroundings. I'm sad of course, but that said she is 96 and has been declining in health a bit recently. I DO wish this didn't have to happen, but I dunno... I just feel ...
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{ "description": "not helping my father", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not helping my father?
So I worked for my father for about 10 years, and it had its fair share of ups and downs. We had many blowouts over the years, and not all of them were just his or my fault, we are both difficult to deal with sometimes. Well it progressively got worse over the past several months, to the point where even after work I d...
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{ "description": "telling my dad's wife her family's not my family", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 5 }
WIBTA for telling my dad's wife her family's not my family?
**Context**: my dad remarried last year. His new wife never had any children of her own; when she came into the picture, my siblings and I were living independent/semi-independent lives. She's lovely, but very spoiled and sheltered for a woman in her mid-fifties. I have seen the woman cry because she doesn't get her w...
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{ "description": "getting mad at girlfriend at massage with Male Masseur", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 9 }
AITA: Getting Mad at Girlfriend at Massage with Male Masseur
So my SO of 3 years went to a massage out of town with her mother over the weekend, we live in the U.S just to clarify and she is not a legal adult yet. ​ So she told me the next day that she got the massage from a younger guy, though she had booked a female one. Anyways, the massage table had no blankets ...
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AUTHOR
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{ "description": "not wanting to date a woman who has kids", "pronormative_score": 17, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to date a woman who has kids?
There's this girl I used to work with. She's beautiful, smart, funny... the whole package. She also has 2 kids. I'm not sure why, but I just have this mental block about dating someone who has kids. Does this make me a bad person?
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{ "description": "leaving my family to go live with my aunt and not forgiving my father", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for leaving my family to go live with my aunt and not forgiving my father?
Buckle down folks, this is gonna be a wild ride. I live with my grandparents because my mother is too unstable to take care of my siblings and I. My father used to be a heroin addict. He went to prison for for his second offense of trafficking stolen goods (he stole jewelry from my grandma and his sister.) He came out...
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{ "description": "getting mad over karaoke", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA For Getting Mad Over Karaoke
My girlfriend and a couple friends went out drinking last night. We ended the night at a karaoke bar. Let me preface this by saying that I'm usually pretty self-conscious and therefore don't participate in karaoke. This night I was feeling pretty good so I picked out a song and paid for it. The idea was that we would s...
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{ "description": "(inadvertently) getting a classmate in trouble? tl;dr at the end", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for (inadvertently) getting a classmate in trouble? tl;dr at the end
Alright, backstory time. I'm in a high level Biology class at uni with a lecture and lab component. The class is Comparative Vertebrate Anatomy and labs involve looking at a lot of different kinds of specimens to identify structures, doing dissections, etc. The professor really only has two ground rules in lab: 1) Do...
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{ "description": "ghosting my best friend of four years", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for ghosting my best friend of four years?
So I've been best friends with this guy ever since I met him in junior year of high school - he's always been a bit weird (politically radical), and he used to seem kinda fragile and in fact got bullied for most of high school. For most of our friendship we've been mutually best friends, hanging out twice a week, going...
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AUTHOR
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{ "description": "dating someone younger than me", "pronormative_score": 39, "contranormative_score": 10 }
AITA for dating someone younger than me?
Hello, I was shown this website and subreddit by my grandchildren. My wife recently died due to cancer and things have gotten pretty hard without her. I am 73 years old and approaching the point where I’ll need to go to a retirement home. I tried dating some people my age, but even leaving the house is quite difficult....
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{ "description": "asking my so to drink more responsibly", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for asking my SO to drink more responsibly?
Hi all! Using an alt account. My GF and I have been together for the better part of two years. I adore her with all I am, and love her from top to toe. Except for when she is out drinking. I am 24 and she is 23, and we're both from Norway. Before proceeding to read this, understand that Norwegian drinking culture is a...
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{ "description": "getting a lot of students in trouble", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 15 }
AITA for getting a lot of students in trouble?
Copy pasted from my post on r/confession, [here](https://www.reddit.com/r/confession/comments/a5djs4/i_got_the_most_popular_kid_at_my_school_expelled/). (Throwaway account, **TL;DR at bottom**, writing might not be the best feel free to ask for clarification.) This takes place at a boarding school in PA. It started m...
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{ "description": "trying to prove my wife wrong about something", "pronormative_score": 14, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for trying to prove my wife wrong about something?
Background: during a late night with our fussy daughter (6 weeks old) I opted to get up and feed her. She finished about 3/4ths of a bottle of breastmilk, leaving about a quarter of an ounce in it. We left it on the table. 2-3 hours later our daughter is peckish again and I gave her the rest of that breastmilk and t...
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{ "description": "taking my daughter out of school behind her moms back", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 16 }
AITA for taking my daughter out of school behind her moms back?
So to try and keep it short, baby momma (henceforth as BM because it’s accurate and funny), has kept my girls from me since the end of November. After having a meeting with the attorney generals office this morning,they made it clear that the custody papers they gave me and BM weren’t valid because a judge hasn’t signe...
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{ "description": "getting pissed off at my friend's alcoholism and wanting him to stop", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for getting pissed off at my friend's alcoholism and wanting him to stop?
Before you say "of course NTA" I might be in the wrong. So I go to a college campus where they really don't want people drinking because it's caused a few incidents. They come up with events on the weekends to stop people from partying and I've been lucky enough to be chosen to host one of these events. Now this is a...
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{ "description": "being pissed about my friends not giving time to me", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being pissed about my friends not giving time to me
Just to clear up, no I do not express my dissatisfaction or anger. If my friends are busy with things, I say "no problem" and in no way do i convey that I'm pissed at them. With that out of the way, I (m) have 2 best friends. Both of them barely make time for me and I'm frustrated that I don't get to hang out with fri...
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{ "description": "cutting my sister off because of her decisions as an attorney", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 50 }
AITA for cutting my sister off because of her decisions as an attorney?
My older sister, Jane, was recently arrested and charged with fraud. We've had a strained relationship my whole life, but I am very close to my younger sister, Amy, who's a criminal defense attorney. Amy offered to represent Jane, pro-bono, and of course, Jane accepted. This is where I run into a problem. Jane and I h...
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{ "description": "sharing jokingly my co-worker's mistakes with my team", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for sharing jokingly my co-worker's mistakes with my team?
I have this co-worker who just joined the team a few months ago. As a group our team is really friendly and we all make fun of each other. A few days ago he bought an expensive wired mouse for himself, while he was opening it up he accidentally cut the cord and made the mouse "wireless". I naturally took a picture...
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{ "description": "cracking down on my friend", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA for cracking down on my friend?
I'll try to keep this short, but some backstory: I have a friend from vocational school who has fallen on hard times. He had been moved out of state with his parents after losing a string of crappy jobs, under threat of homelessness. A reasonable decision. So he goes from a mild, damp climate to a hot, arid one, and h...
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{ "description": "I volunteer bartending for events, keeping my tips. I have been told this isn't apropos", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA When I volunteer bartending for events, I keep my tips. I have been told this isn't apropos.
​ I feel that I'm volunteering my time, but the tips I earn through the services I provide should be mine. I've had mixed responses to this and figured the good citizens of this sub could maybe give me perspectives I haven't considered yet. Also if someone has straight up told me that my tips aren't my own...
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{ "description": "getting annoyed at my wife when she wants to stay up all night", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 18 }
AITA For getting annoyed at my wife when she wants to stay up all night?
My wife and I go to bed together each night together and get up at roughly the same time. She is an expat and messages her brother through Whatsapp and Facebook Messenger. On the rare occasion he is free to play games with her and talk to her on skype. Because of the time difference between her and her brother (7 hours...
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{ "RIGHT": 1, "WRONG": 18 }
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{ "description": "not wanting my brother to move into my place", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA if I dont want my brother to move into my place?
So I've recently gotten my first place, and I've worked hard to save up and move out and such. The thing is that where my family is moving my brother (23) isn't welcome, as he and mum don't get along and have stupid fights which always seem to end with him getting kicked out. He also doesn't get along with our half sis...
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{ "description": "telling this guy to stop", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for telling this guy to stop?
I’m a gay male, and this guy has no boundaries. We were friends since we’re in the same orchestra, and eventually he asked if we could start dating. I told him I don’t want to do relationships. He’s always asking me what I’m doing, and always telling me I’m hot and awesome. It’s very flattering, but the feeling’s no...
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{ "description": "sitting in my car in a parking lot with my door slightly open while a vehicle is trying to park", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 8 }
AITA sitting in my car in a parking lot with my door slightly open while a vehicle is trying to park?
I'm sitting in my car with door slightly open to let the cool breeze in because it's hot in California and I haven't turned my car on yet to leave. I'm on my phone looking at directions for my next destination then suddenly *HONK*, someone in a big ass truck honks at me presumably to close my door to allow him to park....
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{ "RIGHT": 2, "WRONG": 8 }
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{ "description": "cancelling a trip to see my boyfriend", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for cancelling a trip to see my boyfriend?
My boyfriend lives in Austin, TX and I am in Annapolis, MD for college. Originally from Pittsburgh, PA. I’ve only been dating my boyfriend for two months, but we’ve been friends for three years. We only got close in the past 6 months or so. Started dating in late December. I’m a full time college student six hours f...
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AITA Mother wants me to get a haircut
I'm [22M] to and don't live with my parents. They do however pay my phone plan and insurance on my car (both of which I've offered to take over the cost of and they've told me not to worry about it until I'm out of school). My sister is getting married on Thursday and my mother told me I needed to get my haircut to wh...
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{ "description": "suggesting my gf give up her dreams", "pronormative_score": 24, "contranormative_score": 24 }
AITA for suggesting my gf give up her dreams?
I'm dating an olympian who competed Pyeongchang last year. She didn't medal but she placed top 10 in her event. I wasn't with her at the time but she was expected to medal so it was disappointing for her. She is still training hard every day but every single day she gets home she complains about how she will be too old...
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{ "description": "lying to my ex-husband about where our kids wanted to go for Christmas, because I didn't want them spending a week with his mistress", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 149 }
AITA for lying to my ex-husband about where our kids wanted to go for Christmas, because I didn't want them spending a week with his mistress (now wife)?
My ex and I divorced 3 years ago. In a lot of ways it's still very raw for me. He cheated on me with one of his coworkers (who worked FOR him and knew me when we were married) and I didn't find our for a year until I was humiliated at a work event when someone thought we were in an "open" relationship. Now we're divorc...
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{ "description": "threatening to breakup with my girlfriend of 4 years because she will not tell her parents about me", "pronormative_score": 26, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA For threatening to breakup with my girlfriend of 4 years because she will not tell her parents about me?
AITI For threatening to breakup with my girlfriend of 4 years because she will not tell her parents about me? Here are some points: \> We got together at the backend of college. \> She quit a good job in LA to move to Washington (where I am) about 2 years into the relationship. We live seperately but see each ...
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{ "description": "not donating to something I dont want to", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not donating to something I dont want to?
It's school day and everyone is collecting couple of dollars to support autistic kids. I don't want to donate since I don't believe in helping this kind of charity. I donated my self to a charity I believe in and I don't want to donate to the one my school picked.. everyone is now bothering me and saying that I don't w...
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{ "description": "not shoveling the snow and telling my landlord it's his responsibility", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 9 }
AITA for not shoveling the snow and telling my landlord it's his responsibility?
So I live in Ontario, Canada and the polar vortex caused significant snow at the place I'm renting. I live in a basement apartment w/ 5-6 people for this school semester and there are probably a similar number of people who live upstairs (Idk, I haven't really met anyone upstairs). Basically, I was wondering if I'm t...
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{ "description": "not wanting to hang out with my neighbors because I think they want to fuck me", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to hang out with my neighbors because I think they want to fuck me?
I’m a 22 year old woman living alone. My downstairs neighbors (only other apt in the house) are 3 young guys, late 20s. They’re nice guys, and we’ve been perfectly friendly so far. Been living there almost a year, we’ve hung out once where I just hung out in their apartment and had a beer and chilled for a couple hours...
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{ "description": "not immediately using something I did not ask for", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not immediately using something I did not ask for.
My wife and I live 300 miles away from our hometown. My mother-in-law (MIL) has this annoying a habit of inviting herself over for extended stays whenever she has time off, which lately has been every one to three months. Not to sound like a stereotype, but her and I could not be more different, and I really do not...
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{ "description": "being frustrated and upset at my friend", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being frustrated and upset at my friend.
I called a group of friends earlier this week and set a plan to hang out on a Friday night. I got the group together, set up a time and venue. I had watch a certain movie that I really enjoyed and wanted the rest of the crew to see it. I specifically mentioned this to them and told them that was the reason I set up the...
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AITA told a stranger I had HIV to get out of trouble
I was at a bar with my friend L and my friend H and his boyfriend HB. We met there had a few drinks and then me and L went to the bathroom together. We were peeing in stalls next to eachither and she says to be "remember HB has HIV, just saying not sure if you knew don't drop anything on him" I responded by saying I'm ...
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{ "RIGHT": 5, "WRONG": 3 }
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AITA Family trip.
Every year my family rents a van , and drives to Indiana from Mississippi to see family. It's about 14 hours and at this point in my life, I'm not trying to sit in a van for a day! I smoke weed and cigs and not looking forward to sitting for HOURS! It's pointless and planes get there faster. I bought a plane ticket ...
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{ "RIGHT": 5, "WRONG": 3 }
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{ "description": "being pissed off at my dad and little brother", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for being pissed off at my dad and little brother?
I (M23) live at home at the moment after returning from university. I pay rent every month which goes to helping out with food and bills etc. My little brother (M21) also lives at home and does the same. After returning from university I noticed that my dad and brother are the laziest people I know when it comes to ge...
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{ "description": "inviting my boyfriend to a concert with me and my family", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for inviting my boyfriend to a concert with me and my family?
Last week, my mom invited me to go to a concert with her this coming Friday. She had an extra ticket, and I said sure. A few days later, I asked my boyfriend, whom I live with, if he wanted to come too. Honestly, I mostly asked him because I was afraid he'd get mad that I was going out that night, which meant we'd only...
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{ "description": "choosing not to move away with my girlfriend", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for choosing not to move away with my girlfriend?
We’re both graduating this spring she said she’s applying for jobs out of state and wants me to go with her if she gets a job offer. Problem is, my family is here, my job is here. I also have no money to move. I told her I’d consider it in a year when I have the funds but she said she wants to move this summer and I ...
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{ "description": "being annoyed when my girlfriend plays my video games", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA for being annoyed when my girlfriend plays my video games?
My girlfriend was never one for video games. Still isn't, really. My hobbies were always about computers and video games, and she never really understood it. The only video games she ever played were on the PlayStation 2 and Nintendo Wii systems. However, now she has gained interest ever since I finished building my co...
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{ "description": "giving my GF an ultimatum", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA For giving my GF an ultimatum.
Context here my GF hasn’t been talking to me about something that’s going on. She’s quiet ignoring me not really giving me her time at all. Constantly I’ve asked her what’s going on and she has reassured me it’s not me multiple times. But the fact that she doesn’t trust me to talk about it is what hurts. I just wanna h...
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{ "description": "saying that the day a mother gives birth is our day", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for saying that the day a mother gives birth is our day?
So my brother is having a baby and my fiance and I were having a conversation about going into labor. I mentioned that it is our day and nobody else's. She got super upset saying that it isn't our day, that it was HER day. I was like nah it's not just your day it's both of ours. Then she goes on this rant about how the...
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{ "description": "wanting my partner to cut communication with a specific person", "pronormative_score": 15, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting my partner to cut communication with a specific person
My partner emotionally cheated on me with a person they work with, they are currently still friends but have ceased all flirting and talk along those lines. Every so often they will come back up in conversation and it resets the pain and anxiety all over again. Am I the asshole for wanting my partner to cut communic...
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{ "description": "making my friends feel uncomfortable", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for making my friends feel uncomfortable?
I'm having a sleepover right now and we were really bored after some hours, so we talked about what we can do. Someone said to go on omegle (some kind of site where you can videochat with strangers) and others agreed. I didn't because there you will see 60% dicks, 39% horny old men who are looking for young girls and 1...
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{ "description": "sending my ex-girlfriends nude that she send unsolicited after our breakup to my friends", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 139 }
AITA for sending my ex-girlfriends nude that she send unsolicited after our breakup to my friends.
So me and my ex-girlfriend were together for nearly ten years (met when we were in school). A year ago found out that she had been cheating on me throughout the entire relationship with other guys. I was massively affected by it and went on downwards spiral of depression and my confidence was basically destroyed. I was...
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AUTHOR
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{ "description": "taking my seat back", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for taking my seat back?
I’m in highschool And today I was taking a test in my math class. I’ve been sitting in the very back in a slightly larger desk to charge my phone. I’ve been sitting there for about 2 weeks and no one has had an issue. But today, I showed up a little later than usual and saw a guy took my seat. I went up and asked if I ...
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{ "description": "asking for a gift from my brother, for organizing and dealing with insurance and appointment scheduling for his health condition", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I asked for a gift from my brother, for organizing and dealing with insurance and appointment scheduling for his health condition?
My brother has been sick for a few months, and recently asked for my help managing the beurocratic side of things, because with his pain he just didn't have the energy. I've put a lot of time and energy into lining him up with decent care providers, and dealing with insurance to make sure the services are covered. He...
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{ "description": "enforcing rent on jobless roommate", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for enforcing rent on jobless roommate?
Some context for our situation, first. In total, there are five of us living in this three bedroom house. One of us \[M27\] inherited a house after his grandmother passed away, and it has been him and his boyfriend \[M26\]. Myself \[F28\]. Another friend in the third bedroom \[M28\]. The fifth among us \[M28\] is a lo...
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{ "description": "letting my friend lose a game because he stole my finals and bed break", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for letting my friend lose a game because he stole my finals and bed break?
This happened pretty recently, and me and my friend don't have any hard feelings about it so don't worry about that. On occasion, I'll play on Hypixel (Minecraft. Don't judge me) Bed Wars with my friend in a discord call. For those who don't know, here's a quick recap of Bed Wars: In this mode, there are 16 players ...
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{ "description": "refusing to be friends or in a relationship with anyone who has BPD even if it is currently controlled", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for refusing to be friends or in a relationship with anyone who has BPD even if it is currently controlled?
I have worked with someone who had BPD. We never got along. She was not treated at the beginning, but then did go on to seek treatment once she figured out that she needed help. The therapy did help and it was a huge difference. Still, being around her felt exhausting and confusing sometimes. Were we good? Was there a ...
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{ "description": "spoiling my niece and nephew", "pronormative_score": 46, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for spoiling my niece and nephew?
Posting on mobile I’m single, in my 30s and in a good place financially. I own houses, cars and i have a steady source of income. I have no loans or debts of any kind. My brother has 2 kids [10M and 8F] that I love more than anything. Since I have nothing and no one to spend my money on, I spoil them. I buy them expe...
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{ "description": "not being too thrilled about my gf \"reconnecting\" with an old friend", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for not being too thrilled about my gf "reconnecting" with an old friend?
For context she's 24, I'm 26 and we've been dating for 3 years. About 2 weeks ago this guy (let's call him A) she used to be friends with in middle school hit her up on facebook saying he's going to be in our city for a week and would love to meet and catch up and everything. They were good friends till sometime in hig...
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{ "description": "going out instead of spending time w my family", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I went out instead of spent time w my family?
im on spring break right now and i just got over the flu after spending 4 days dead in my bed at school and then calling off my spring break plans and somehow making the flight home for spring break i went out with my extended family sunday despite not feeling so good, but since im so behind on my work due to be sick ...
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{ "description": "not picking up my friends quarter as a joke", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for not picking up my friends quarter as a joke?
Me and my friends were sitting at lunch, and one of them dropped a quarter and it rolled to my feet. She says "can you get me my quarter?" We all tease and intentionally bug one another, and I noticed she didn't say please, so I decided to stare at her with a mockingly dumbfounded look. She turned sour pretty quick ...
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{ "description": "cutting loose my best friend for being manipulative to people I know", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for cutting loose my best friend for being manipulative to people i know?
Hey i dont wanna put in too many details (gender,age,names) because im afraid people i know will find this,this is a throwaway account. Okay it all started when me and Keith (not a real name) were chilling outside on our phones and he out of no where said he hates James so much (not a real name) then he went on to go ...
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{ "description": "yelling at my sons", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 18 }
AITA for yelling at my sons?
I have two boys aged 8 and 10. Yesterday I got a call from the school, I was told that my 10 year old was being put in detention for giving a kid a black eye. The situation was that the other boy was picking on my 8 year old, so he decided to punch him to defend his brother. I obviously don't want my children being b...
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{ "RIGHT": 5, "WRONG": 18 }
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{ "description": "getting upset at a choir member", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for getting upset at a choir member
I sing in a choir at university. So there is this person sitting next to me who really annoys me. He gets up and down. he doesn't follow the directors instructions. He talks when we should be singing. He is on his phone all the time. So I do not like him. I have essentially stopped paying attention to him to try and ig...
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{ "description": "wanting to take my daughter away from my brother when I move out", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting to take my daughter away from my brother when I move out?
I (18f) had my daughter right after I turned 14. I was in a really dark place. I lost both of my parents at 11, started hurting myself at 12, and my 13 I had anorexia and my periods had stopped, explaining why I didn't think I would get pregnant (as well as some teenage stupidity). Because of these circumstances, I mov...
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{ "description": "being upset with my gf for constantly bringing up ex and their sex life", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for being upset with my GF for constantly bringing up ex and their sex life.
Its too the point where she constantly brings it up if we simply pass a place they had sex. She talks about how bad he was and how much she hates him quite often too. Which I view as her not really being over him and quite honestly a childish perspective to have such hate for something that just simply wasnt meant to b...
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{ "RIGHT": 11, "WRONG": 1 }
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AITA If my cat prefers me over my roommate for no reason?
My cat Loki was adopted at a month old and he was already fixed. Ever since he’s been living with me and my roommate, he’s been my favorite out of two cats. The older one is more timid and very cautious while Loki is just relaxed and I tended to all his needs as much as the other’s. He was just naturally more cuddly th...
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{ "description": "getting mad at my friend for drivingph in aph zone on a snowy road", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for getting mad at my friend for driving 90mph in a 75mph zone on a snowy road?
US. Throwaway. It snowed heavily last night and when we were on the interstate this morning there was still a lot of slush. On unplowed neighborhood roads, there was a lot of snow and it took him a lot longer to stop than he expected. Like, he ended up in the middle of the intersection on a four way stop (fortunately n...
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{ "description": "telling my friend off", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for telling my friend off?
Alright, here’s the long story short: this friend of mine insulted my other friends, who he has literally never talked to (called them sluts and other stuff) as well as insulted me (calling me “ugly” which personally I don’t really care for, just thought to include it). Of course, I found this really rude but didn’t te...
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AITA Kicked my baby bro out when he was 16 and he wont get past it
I saw a similar post which reminded me of my brother. I took him in when he was 14. I was like 23 I think. I was barely getting by but I figured hes younger than me so I cant be complaining. The entire time my family was telling me to disown him and focus on my life(he had already lived with them and irreparably burn...
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{ "description": "suggesting that is would be acceptable for my wife to agree for a photographer to use some faceless erotic photos she has done of her in her portfolio", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for suggesting that is would be acceptable for my wife to agree for a photographer to use some faceless erotic photos she has done of her in her portfolio
Throwaway account for obvious reasons. As a birthday present to myself, my wife has made an erotic photoshoot, professionally done, as she knew that I would like to have some such photos for myself. This was a very hard thing for her to do, as she is a very private person in this regard, but the photos are amazing and...
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{ "RIGHT": 4, "WRONG": 1 }
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{ "description": "throwing away my kids school homework/projects/other items", "pronormative_score": 18, "contranormative_score": 9 }
AITA for throwing away my kids school homework/projects/other items?
Hello. I have 3 young kids, 2 in elementary school and the other in a learning center day care. They all bring home so much paper. Homework that's been finished, scored worksheets, pictures they drew or colored. Now with the holiday season it's a barrage of snowmen, santas, you name it. Me, I am clean/clutter fre...
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