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10tjsqr | So, my brother and my dad have helped me many times with things like moving or putting together furniture or just whatever. I help them out too, it’s not a one-way street. The weird thing is that when I need help, I ask for it. But nobody ever asks me for help. They always talk to my mom and then she ends up telling m... | AITA for not helping my brother put together his furniture because he never actually asked me to? | NTA |
10skz7u | I am 30. Since I was a child he has always said he would pay for my wedding. About 5 years ago he started a relationship with lady with quite extreme views. She is a vegan, which is fine but she is very judgemental to how I live. She doesn’t agree with cancer scans (like smear tests, mammograms etc) because vegans “don... | AITA for uninviting my dad to my wedding because he refuses to pay anything towards it unless it is vegan? | NTA |
10u003t | Before I start, this one is a very soft "AITA" question and my friend didn't call me an a-hole for it, but he was a bit pissed about it.Long story short, my friend got a new girlfriend and told me about her. I was super happy for him and we started talking about how they met, for how long they know each other and what ... | AITA for asking my friend to show a picture of his new GF? | NTA |
10tllh3 | My roommate has become increasingly rude and passive aggressive when she doesn’t like something over the last six months. She’s been creating an incredibly negative energy in our apartment. All of us say things like “hey, I’m sorry but..” and say “please” when we ask for things but she just demands and acts demeaning t... | AITA for refusing to talk to my roommate who loses her temper and is rude often? | NTA |
10ttuos | UPDATE: I've responded that there should be been a discussion first before assuming others will spend large amounts of money but the responsibility falls to the landlord so I won't be paying. Will leave it between her and him to discuss. Thanks!EDIT: the landlord is the other flatmate and another owner currently living... | AITA for refusing to fork out for an exterminator when my flatmate found a small cockroach? | NTA |
10tngnd | Me (20M) got a horrible back pain recently to the point I couldn’t get up at all. I couldn’t walk and I was in a horrible pain. ( everything is alright now) My boyfriend (22M) decided to call the ambulance.About a hour later, no ambulance. At this point I was actually crying. My boyfriend kept insisting to call the amb... | AITA for yelling at the ambulance? | YTA |
10tt489 | My friend \[29F\] has been looking for a new job for a while. I \[22M\] also have, but in a more junior position given my lack of experience. Because my experience is less, in our profession, junior employees are in less demand. Her senior position however is in high demand, and she's proven her worth, so she's had mor... | AITA for asking friend for job referral immediately after celebrating her good news? | NTA |
10trglx | I am a grad student. Basically I have a colleague who I don't quite vibe with. I'm several years above him, but I have found he relies quite a bit on extra work from me to decrease his workload. I am a woman in case this is relevant.The latest is that he is TAing for a math course that I have TAed several times for. He... | WIBTA if I decline to share my work after agreeing to share my work | NTA |
10ub4aj | Hellow! First time poster. I have a good friend that whenever we go out she get very drunk and changes in personality. She get super nagging, sensitive to criticism, cries offends people and gets in risky situations like going to strangers houses at the end of the night. She has gotten in some dangerous situations seve... | AITA for confronting friend about her drinking ? | NTA |
10tgcqg | I'm 24f, currently working on my master Thesis and working part time.During studying bachelor's i lived with my mom. I started college when I was 17 and in my country it's nearly impossible to get a job if you're under 18, you also can't have a bank account if you're minor. I didn't have any allowence or has any pocket... | AITA for not wanting to financially support my mom when she is old | NTA |
10tpnc7 | Me(23f) and my fiancé (24m) have been together for 2 years and recently got engaged this past summer. Our original date was 21SEP24 but due to a lot of competition from other brides at our chosen venue we are on the waitlist for 14SEP24 instead. I had originally given the 21st as the date when asking my bridesmaids but... | WIBTA for getting married on my coworker/friends wedding date? | NTA |
10txi73 | For context, my (25NB) mom has 8 siblings and my fiancé’s (28M) mom has 7 siblings. Immediate family alone, we’re at over 100 people (aunts, uncles, cousins and their partners, even excluding cousins kids!). My parents have offered to help pay for our wedding, though the exact amount/% covered seems to vary from convo ... | AITA for not wanting to invite my whole family to my wedding? | NTA |
10tffrb | I (24F) live with my mom (50sF) and younger sister (19F). In my country, it's traditional that you live with your parents until you get married and move out with your partner. I WFH rotational shifts. I usually prefer to work at night starting 6 PM, or graveyard shift starting 10 PM. After I finish my nine-hour shift, ... | AITA for not doing the dishes? | NTA |
10tyffo | My fiancée (23F) and I (24M) are getting married in June, and wedding planning is in full swing. She’s come up with a lot of great ideas for the ceremony, but there is one thing we’re currently at a standoff on: she wants to play “Cbat” as she comes down the aisle.Now, we’re both quirky and fun-loving, and I am not opp... | AITA for not wanting “Cbat” as our wedding processional? | NTA |
10tqnng | After 1 1/2 years living with my roomies, I started getting more serious with my partner. I stay over at his place a couple of nights a week. My aunt also went through a bad divorce + fell down the stairs, leaving her disabled and homeless. I spent a lot of time with my family trying to help out however I could, and ca... | AITA for betraying my childhood best friend? | NTA |
10tw8uz | I'm going to preface this with some background information. I do not live with the mother, she is several states away and the child was the result of a summer fling during extended work travel. We were using birth control at the time but the child looked nothing like her ex. At about 7 months I questioned her on it and... | AITA for asking my child's mother to stop letting our son (1) spend time with her ex (who they thought the original father was)? | YTA |
10trg2y | This weekend, my grandma was staying with my aunt, and they asked me if my 10 month old daughter could spend the night. I texted my husband and asked him if he would be okay with that. He did not respond, and he purposefully avoided giving me a yes or no when I asked him in person. Time was running up, and I made the e... | AITA for sending my daughter to my aunts house without my husband's permission? | NTA |
10tex56 | My parents borrowed almost USD4,000 from me in order to pay my sister's fee-reduced tuition fee (that was her entire tuition and admission fee within that USD4000 amount). Both for transfer rate- and overall-saving reasons, I paid it and my parents agreed to pay me back when my sister flies back home for spring break; ... | AITA for asking my parents my ~$4000 back? | NTA |
10t6427 | I (36F) am a first time mom to be and my husband (38M) is an amazing man, we usually get along really well, he has been super involved during both our wedding and my subsequent pregnancy - which came about a LOT quicker than either of us expected due to our age and everyone in our whole family harping on us to "hurry u... | AITA for not wanting to allow my future newborn/child to stay at his grandma's smoke-filled house? | NTA |
10tqbdt | So this starts off with something that happened just two days ago, I was T-Boned by a truck that shot out of a side street going 25-30 mph. It was the trucks fault and now we have to wait for the police report to come in before we can do anything. She completely screwed my car and it’s definitely totaled. I had to go i... | AITA for being extremely upset about my accident? | NTA |
10sqh1a | I've been in a relationship with my fiance for 7 years. We broke up several times but we always found a way back to each other. We've been through hell and back and we're more in love now than ever.My brother Joey has been with this girl Lana for 5 years and they have 2 kids together. She got pregnant with their first ... | AITA for asking my brother to move his wedding date farther away from mine? | YTA |
10tnaq4 | My daughter (17F) has recently gotten her first boyfriend (18M). He is a very nice young man and I am very happy for her but she has been missing her curfew (12am) since they’ve been together. I understand that she wants to spend time with him but as she is still in high school and is not of legal age yet, she must abi... | AITA for not allowing my daughter to go to her best friend’s birthday party? | YTA |
10txpde | My husband is only the most helpful with the kids when I’m upset or angry. I haven’t said anything in the past. But this time I said why are you only this helpful when I’m in a mood. He got angry and called me un greatful. I didn’t nag. all I said was the one sentence. Because it’s true he’s only this helpful, does som... | AITA? Helpful husband only when… | NTA |
10tox0t | So here's the situation: I live with my roommate in a small apartment and we share a bathroom. A few months ago, I had a close call where I ran out of toilet paper at a really inconvenient time. So, I decided to always keep an extra roll in my bathroom just in case of an emergency. I made it clear to my roommate that t... | AITA for not letting my roommate use my extra roll of toilet paper? | YTA |
10sk3qg | To begin with I love all three of my children. I was shit father when they were young and I didn't really get much better as we aged. I worked out of town and I never married any of their mothers. I did always pay child support and tried my best to give them meaningful gifts and experiences when they were growing up... | AITA for not making an effort to see all my kids. | YTA |
10tyofy | I (30F) have been with my boyfriend (27M) for 3 years, living together for 2. We don't have kids but have discussed marriage and starting a family together.BF's family lives across the country, we see them once a year. My family lives within about 30 mins from us, so I see them once every other week, at least once a mo... | WIBTA if I put my foot down on my BF missing family events? | NTA |
10tmcj1 | So backstory guys I (26f) decide to invite some of my friends from work to have dinner at my house. Me and my husband just recently bought a new house and we decided to put together a little housewarming party/dinner. I’ve known my co-workers for a pretty long time about 7 years so these aren’t strangers I’m inviting o... | AITA for telling my friend to leave my house in the middle of dinner? | NTA |
10tllux | Long story short, i recently quit my job as a line cook. Over the past 4 months, i had a few interviews at other places and they’d go really well but then they’d ask when I’d be able to start and I’d tell them I’d have to give my current job a two week’s notice. They’d said “oooh, okay” and then I’d never hear from the... | AITA if I don’t pick up a shift at my old job? | NTA |
10tx6iz | AITA. Let's start with a year ago when I was hired for a job. They wanted me. I had the experience and I accepted the job. I began training and a month in I was told what I was hired for has fallen through and I won't be doing it, but they had another position for me. Like I said, they wanted me. I expressed my hesitat... | AITA for not doing a job that my boss insists needs done | NTA |
10tzuus | I(14M) like to think that I value privacy. I've always kept to myself when it comes to virtually everything, from my hobbies to what I think of myself. Occasionally I try to socialise with my classmates, and it usually works, so I'm not exactly popular or unpopular.Recently, my mother(40F) has been opening my door whe... | AITA for confronting my mother about consistently opening my room door without permission? | NTA |
10t75c0 | Hi I’m 32F and a single mom to two kids, 8F and 7M. I left my husband March of last year and stayed in our 3 bedroom/2 bath home out of desperation/fear of not getting approved for other housing even though it was not easy for me financially. I’ve been surviving and able to pay our $2300 rent but slowly slipping into m... | AITA for raising my 25y/o sisters rent? | NTA |
10tq69f | Sorry for the typos english isn't my first langage... I, 23F, live with two of my siblings (F25&M23, my brother is irrelevant to the story though). For the back story, 2months ago was my sister birthday. Since we don't live in our birth country, my brother and I as well as all our cousins who live in the same city ... | AITA for not sharing? | NTA |
10ua017 | I (15F) have a friend (15F) in school, let’s call her Nat. We’ve known each other for about 4 years now, and even though it’s been a while, I wouldn’t call us necessarily close. Last week, during break time in school, she and a bunch of my classmates were gathered around my desk (I was eating), talking about random thi... | AITA for not wanting to talk to my friend because of someone else’s problem? | NTA |
10sguco | My son is 12 and we are very close. We always spend one day a month together.The day is always the same. We wake up slightly later than usual, have a pancake breakfast, hang out at the rink for a couple hours, head to the arcade to try the claw machines, then eat dinner at this Indian restaurant before heading home and... | AITA for being a bitch towards my bf after he ruined my day? | NTA |
10sthgk | I was at the playground with my son and his friend when I heard someone say "penis" very softly. A second later I heard it again, slightly louder, and recognized my son's voice. I glanced at the boys while pretending to be on my phone, and they were standing by the monkey bars, looking around. My son's friend then said... | AITA for not giving them the satisfaction? | NTA |
10twp1n | My (F20) best friend (M20, let's call him Josh) and I have been having some trouble lately, after he hanged out with a friend that I introduced him and didn't invite me. This hurt me a lot because I always do my best to include everyone in everything and he has become part of my friend group because of this, a couple o... | AITA for leaving my best friend alone in the midst of a breakdown? | YTA |
10txta5 | So I (22, F)am currently trying to stop weed, and getting a healthier lifestyle. I am on my 5th day on CBD, and with the stress and everything I decided I would take a pill to sleep better, but the problem is I could'nt get out of bed this morning (11:20 am on a sunday). I heard my mother in the kitchen telling her boy... | AITA for being extremely angry about my mom on this situation | NTA |
10txt85 | I've recently started going out to parties with classmates and friends. I've been going out more frequently to parties with one friend who I met a couple years ago. She's not my closest friend but we've worked together on a couple projects and I trust her dearly. She knows quite a bit about me, some stuff that's very p... | AITA for making my drunk friend cry? | NTA |
10sftbg | so I (21) have blue hair and I was told by a hairdresser that the color sticks better if you put a little bit of hair dye in your shampoo. this was all good until my 12-year-old sister decided to swipe and use my shampoo. she is blonde and the result isn't pretty. my mum is mad at me for putting dye in my shampoo and n... | AITA for putting blue hair dye in my shampoo without letting my family know? | NTA |
10tr5aq | First of all, for context, this was last semester and I'm a high school student. We had an english project. There were meant to be 5 people in each group, the group chooses which members are which and then they do their work (for example, all member 1s do the same work in every group, so do member 2s and so on, this wa... | AITA for refusing to help my classmate after I've already helped her? | NTA |
10tr2vp | For context I am 22(M) have a big family, three older siblings 30(F), and 28(M) 27(M), with three younger sisters, 21(F), 13(F), and 9(F). My parents are in there mid 50’s and have had a tradition since I can remember. On someone’s birthday they pick what we eat for dinner.It was my sisters 21 birthday and she had been... | AITA for coming out on my sisters birthday? | NTA |
10tm7g2 | My boyfriend “Ryan” and I (24M/22F) live with our friend “John” (25M). John has the upstairs floor which is just his room and bathroom and Ryan and I have the ground floor bedroom/bathroom. The common areas - living room, kitchen - are on the ground floor.Ryan was at work last night, I was hanging out reading in the li... | AITA for falling asleep in another man’s bed? | NTA |
10u935t | We're 33/F and 35/F. I'm 35/F.Me and my friend Katya (fake name for privacy) are creating a new website centered on food, it's more opinions and how-tos and isn't intended on competing with professional websites; it's lighter and softer in tone and aimed at a mix of Gen Z and Millennials.But we also cover issues facing... | AITA for suggesting to my friend we don't use TikTok in our new venture's social media, instead sticking to a YouTube, WordPress, GitHub and AppKed? | NAH |
10tqfpx | My (25f) boyfriend (26m) and I have been together for 5 years, he is paralyzed and I am his caregiver. He's adamantly independent about stuff he shouldn't be (for safety which is why I say that) and extremely dependent about stuff that I don't always think he should be. So I get frustrated with him so being messy. He h... | AITA for getting frustrated with boyfriend for being messy | NTA |
10tjgct | Hi,Thank you for reading this in advance. Earlier last year I (24M) bought a 2 bed flat in London, one of my friends moved in with me and rented the other room. My flatmate told me he was going to move in with his gf. I have been looking for the past month (advertising online etc.) to try and find someone, but I haven'... | WIBTA for letting a girl move in with me? | NTA |
10t1ufw | In early December my parents were asking me what I wanted for Christmas. I didn't really have anything I wanted, but my mom always complains about how crappy my favorite pair of boots looks (they're a pair of Docs I bought secondhand over a decade ago, they're pretty torn up) so I figured I'd ask for a new pair of nice... | AITA for buying some boots my parents said they would get me for Christmas? | NTA |
10u01k1 | I (17f) my dad (m) in his late 40s. Recently it’s been in the Lower 40’s. We live in the south where it’s typically warmer. My father would tell stories of when he lived in the north as a young kid walking in the snow to school every time I complain about the cold. Recently I come home to the worlds hottest house, time... | AITAH for turning down the thermostat? | NTA |
10th0g6 | Brother had his first child 2 weeks ago. He is currently not working and he has about $70k in shares but didn’t want to sell any right now because “it’s not the right market to sell” so him and his partner moved in with my parents about a month before the baby came. They stayed with her mother for the first week but ha... | AITA for suggesting that it would be nice if my sibling let our parents (baby’s grandparents) hold his baby for a few minutes | NTA |
10tzwpx | I (16f) am in an advanced theatre class. The teacher does not particularly like me but she isn’t outwardly rude to me. We recently had an assignment where we were given a stock photo and had to make a monologue out of it. I got mine and I envisioned an abusive religious fanatic mother punishing her daughter, similar to... | AITA for not making sure my teacher approved my project? | NTA |
10szj4n | Okay everyone so my friend, M26, invited me to his wedding recently. He moved away so I haven't been able to see him as much so when he invited me I was happy to say yes and attend. His bride, F26, is also someone I know and also a friend, though not best friends and I know she has quite a few better friends than me, s... | AITA for wearing my jewelry to my friend's wedding? | NTA |
10tifr9 | I (21) need helpProblem #1, about 4 years ago, a family member moved in with us (my mom, aunt) Let’s call her “person”. She’s at least 50. It was hell for me and my mom, person never cleaned, and hoarded all her stuff into our living room, you couldn’t walk there. She would eat, sleep, and work in our living room and ... | AITA for not wanting to be around my cousin | NTA |
10t3bci | I (24m) have a neuromuscular auto immune disease. It basically means my muscles weaken the more I use them. My condition is now managed and I can do most things now but i cant work for a few reasons.Recently my parents were in an accident leaving them both deceased. I have a little brother (7m) that i took in after thi... | AITA for taking in my little brother even though Im disabled | NTA |
10t43an | My ex-wife and I are throwing a birthday party for our son at my house tomorrow afternoon. My ex asked me to buy beer for the adults, but I quit drinking in November 2022 and no longer keep any alcohol in my house. When I texted her about paying the bill for the supplies (food, water, juice, soda, etc.) she said "Let ... | AITA for not supplying beer at my son's birthday party? | NTA |
10tx8yb | I’m a new Redditor to this subreddit, so I apologize if there are any errors. The other day, me and a couple of friends were playing a card game the our friend, Rachel (fake name) had brought. One thing that is necessary to know here, is that Rachel most likely has DID, or something along those lines, and it is clear t... | AITA for not allowing my friend to change a rule that we all already established? | NTA |
10to87k | A bit of background. I'm (25m) Indian, so expenses that might seem low for you as a western reader are a lot higher for me. My mother is a SAHM. She is unfortunately not financially independent. I landed my dream job 6 months ago, and divide my income 3 ways, a third going to investments, a third going to my personal e... | AITA for telling my mother (52f) that I won't give her a single penny? | NTA |
10tua0y | During our Saturday morning shuffle, I (f35 AuDHD) was getting my family ready for a sledding activity that was on our calendar. We were all ready at home, just waiting for my dad to drop off my son after hockey practice. We have a rocky father/daughter relationship but he tries to be a better grandpa. So he was taking... | AITA When I told my dad he was causing me anxiety standing in the doorway he walked away, drove away, has ignored me except to say he was disrespected. | YTA |
10tvmjn | I’ve been best friends with this person for almost 10 years now and it’s always been great. But for about a year now I’ve noticed stuff changing. They were diagnosed with autism which is fine and I do not care about at all but since he was diagnosed he’s started being really difficult to deal with. He always has to be ... | WIBTA for lashing out at my bsf | YWBTA |
10tq9tp | I’m 15, female. I want to start this off by saying i’m incredibly grateful for anything i’ve received and i’m not trying to sound like a brat. I have two siblings. My brother has been taken to football games abroad multiple times, (by himself, with my dad) My sister was taken on multiple solo trips (My dad, mom) To Dis... | AITA for thinking i’m the least favourite child?? | NTA |
10tphcn | I (F16) am biracial. My dad (M42) is African American and my mom (F39) is Asian of Japanese descent. Both of her parents were from Japan. Neither of her parents liked me or my dad. I know why, he knows why. My mom pretends to be clueless because it's her family, but I feel that she knows why secretly. She still expecte... | AITA for not visiting my mom's mother at her deathbed? | NTA |
10snd3t | Me (28M) and my soon-to-be-wife Phoebe (27F) have been dating for 4 years.We’ve a quite amazing relationship to be honest.We were at a mutual friend's funeral, George (27M). The three of us met at college and we basically became buddies from the get go. None of us are archeologists by the way. Our BA was Business admin... | AITA for telling my fiancée to shut the hell up and stop talking about archaeology at a funeral? | NTA |
10sj8v8 | I (24m) am throwing my own birthday dinner for my family and close friends this weekend. I'm moving out of state next week and wanted to hang out one last time with my entire family. However, I specifically told me older sister(35f) that under no circumstances is she to bring my nephew (8m) to the party. Here why:1. My... | AITA for not inviting my 8y old nephew to my birthday dinner? | NTA |
10tkeyb | My kid's (lucky kid) has a a trip to Europe planned, with a large group. His tour will take him to city that I always wanted to see in Central Europe. My dad got word that we were going to meet our kid there and asked if he can come along. My dad's a great guy. No drama. No conflict. My wife's wonderful too. So, not yo... | WIBTA if I went to Europe without my father and instead making it a couple's trip? | YTA |
10slcdf | When my wife (28F) and I (32M) were still dating, we had this thing where we said, before every anniversary, we would "divorce" each other so we could "get married again" and go on another honeymoon. We've actually been doing this for the past 3 years; I have a reminder on my calendar named "prepare for divorce" 6 mont... | AITA for making my wife's friends think we were getting divorced? | NTA |
10tro2f | let's start with the family tree, because it gets useful later. my grandpa and grandma have 6 children (3 males, 3 females). all of them are married and have their own families. two years ago, my grandpa died. and ever since then my grandma's health has been deteriorating.everyone lives within 20 mins range of grandma'... | WIBTA if i refuse to take care of grandma? | YTA |
10ssnau | So today I'm flying back to my home city just to spend time with my friends on saturday. We're 7 and it takes forever to plan anything with everyone now that we started having partners and kids. So I told them 2 months in advance that I'm coming. They all put down the date and we started planning. Everyone is excited.O... | AITA for telling my friend to get a divorce? | NTA |
10tsgck | So, I just started a new position as GM and was debating whether to take it because I have such bad ADD and Executive Dysfunction. My kids supported me to give it a shot initially (my kids are grown but we still live together sharing expenses). I've been working 13 to 20 hour days/7 days a week to start and still have ... | AITA for not watching a movie with my kid? | YTA |
10u1q7c | Hi. Me (17 18 in june) have been in the dating stage with this girl I really like, (17 18 in march) for a little over a month now. We've been on 2 public dates so far, one to get lunch, and then hung out blasting music in her car for a couple hours, and two went to a skating rink with her for a couple of hours. Now thi... | AITA My mother won't give me the freedom I need | NTA |
10tg8ig | I 22 f am in a relationship with (let's call him X 23 m). My boyfriend and I used to live together for a year before he went back to his hometown due to constant fights... I was alone so a made some friends and became extremely independent. Normally he lives 10 hours away and he used to visit once every 2 months for 3-... | AITA for standing up my long time boyfriend for a friends night out after he travelled 3 hours to meet me.. ? | NTA |
10twlsz | English is not my first language and I am typing this on mobile, so sorry for grammar mistakes!I (F26) got into a fight with my best friend (M23) 2 days ago. Possibly relevant: I have BPD and he has depression.We both live on our own, one street apart. We usually spend all our time together, unless to work and sleep, a... | AITA for exploding on my best friend after he forgot to pick me up again? | YTA |
10to1vz | My boyfriend and I have been dating for one year. We don’t currently live together but have talked about it for the future. I live with my daughter from a previous relationship.I see my boyfriend a few nights a week, mostly when I don’t have my daughter, but occasionally he comes over when I have her. She’s becoming mo... | WIBTA if I ask my boyfriend to pay for all the meal ingredients if it’s his night to cook dinner? | NTA |
10tq3up | This is something I was extremely uncomfortable with but did anyway. Maybe because I felt an obligation b/c my friend was so distraught...I don't know. I have a friend who got started dating very late in life for our area. (22)Lost her virginity to a one-night-stand at 25. When I met her at trade school she was 26.She... | AITA for helping my friend "spy" on her "prospective boyfriends?" | NTA |
10ty6ca | I (21 F) Despise my father. He is a losey piece of crap. He was rarely there in our lives, and would rather have laid up under women then take care of his children. There is so many traumatic things that I went through as a child that no child should have to go through. One that is involved in the story is that I was p... | AITA For being realistic about the possibility of having another sister? | NTA |
10tuhjz | I (20f) met this girl (17f) three years ago in a summer camp as volunteers. We had a lot in common and immediately hit it off. What surprised me was that the age difference was not actually a problem. We were both interested in books, the same kind of music... Of course, we had a lot to talk about and spent a lot of ti... | WIBTA if I (20f) did not go to meet my friend (17f) because I do not have anything to talk to her about anymore? | NTA |
10t8k0r | To give you guys context, I am a fifteen year old boy. I have mild autism and can’t realistically get a job at the moment due to schooling. My mother and I live in a small apartment with her three other kids. They are my half siblings and get treated way better than I do. They always get the newest clothing, best devic... | AITA for asking my mom for some new socks | NTA |
10se02s | I'm a newly divorced dad of a 3 year old girl. I have her every other week.My daughter has very curly hair that my ex wife used to take care of. Now that I'm alone with her half the time, I have to figure it out. I try but on my weeks her hair was mostly a frizzy, tangled mess.A teacher at my daughter's daycare has ver... | AITA for dropping my daughter off at daycare early so her teacher could do her hair? | YTA |
10tdglh | So about two years back, my friend (24 at the time) texted me (would've been 26, F) to let me know they were coming through my city on their way to see their parents. I was super excited because I hadn't kept in contact with any other people from college, and there are reasons for that, but it was extremely isolating l... | AITA for kicking sick friend out of my apartment? | NTA |
10tea0v | A few weeks ago my partner was sick and had a high temp, he was feeling sick so I told him that if he felt like he needed to he should go to the doctors but it hadn't gone over 40 but if it did I would call an ambulance. I was worried, but he only had a temperature and flu symptoms. My partners sister called him tellin... | AITA for telling my SiL not to call my partner an idiot? | NTA |
10tfzqd | My and my friend arranged a meeting at westgate at 12, at shoryu (a restaurant) It is now 13:01 and I am honestly frustrated, however she did tell me it was due to traffic. I believe her, but I also did tell her to leave early due to traffic. I left my house at 11 to be there (I live 15 mins away) and she left at 11:45... | WIBTA if I told my friend off for being an hour late? | NTA |
10tohcp | I (41m) was about to have a birthday last weekend. My roommate (39f, also my ex btw) mentioned getting a beer or two at the local bar just a few blocks from my house to celebrate. I have to admit, since my father passed recently I've probably been a bit melancholy over my approaching birthday. It's my first time with n... | AITA for being "ungrateful" for my Birthday Party? | YTA |
10tl5ba | For some background, my cousin and his GF are former addicts. They have been clean for a decade but couldn't ever get out of the places they were when they were addicts. They both felt unsafe living there and I also needed some help dealing with chores as I'm moderately disabled. I did not really know his GF too well b... | AITA for choosing my cousin's "ex" over him? | NTA |
10thueo | Background: My “best friend” and I have not been really talking lately as we’ve been hanging out with other friends. However, we’re still “friends”. I put the “best friend” in inverted commas because I have actually been trying to cut her out of my life because she’s been really toxic the whole time I’ve known her. I’v... | AITA for not checking up on my “best friend”? | NTA |
10tp6vg | So this morning I was going to head out the door for an appointment, but as I was getting dressed and going to catch my bus (I do not drive), I gave my boyfriend a kiss on the head since he was still sleeping. (He is sick at the moment and just slept like 17 hours). I accidentally woke him by kissing him on the forehea... | AITA: I feel very hurt by my bf comment | NTA |
10to4cv | Me (M23), Bruce (M23), Larry (M23) and Mary (F23) went on a two-day trip I organized. We stayed at a bedroom I rent in a house. It's the first time we do something like this. For day two the plan was to go to a volcano, visit an old building (tourist attraction), visit a forest park, and then head to the apartment. I w... | AITA for leaving my friends behind in the middle of nowhere? | NTA |
10tqr9z | Ok so me (26F), my girlfriend Pauline (33F) and my girlfriend's girlfriend Lindsay (36F) (we're polyamorous) went to a Denny's. Lindsay thought the waitress was cute, and is a shy type, so word for word this is what I said: "Okay, so two things. One, my friend here thinks you're cute. And two, could we get a couple ex... | AITA for telling a waitress my friend thinks she's cute | YTA |
10tv08v | \--I am using the word "They/Them" simply to not gender the person as since they might be reading this.--Using a throwaway since my friend is also a reddit nerd. So for a long time, I been good friends with this person. Essentially since high school until not in our 40s. Even during COVID we always kept a good amount o... | AITA For Streaming Sniping To Find Out I Am Not Being Invited To Social Gatherings? | NTA |
10tdlxt | I’m in my late twenties (f) my friend is late thirties (m). He has a kid under 10 with a difficult on again off again baby mother. When he got kicked out of the house I let him stay in the spare room in the flat I rent. He stayed the first month free and then a majorly discounted rate afterwards for the 6 months he liv... | AITA for making my friend pay for a hotel because I didn’t want him staying at my flat? | NTA |
10tt6ug | So for background there is me (20m), my father (40m), my mother (39fm) and then my little brother (13m) we all live in a apartment togetherAs a kid my mom and I were quite close and we developed a tight-knit relationship due to her manipulating me to think my father is a scumbag (They are still together). She has turne... | AITA for outing my mother on her laziness? | NTA |
10tpg8b | My fiancé (30sM) and I (30sF) are getting married soon. We’re keeping it extremely low-key, basically one step above just going to the courthouse to do it. We’re doing that for a few reasons, the most important being 1) I have never wanted a big wedding and we both don’t want to spend the money on one (we’d be funding ... | WIBTA for inviting one aunt to my wedding but excluding any other extended family? | NTA |
10td7v6 | On the way to the beer store I called the Wife and asked how many six packs I should buy for the night. The conclusion is that we should get 2x six packs - In her words "We'll split one, and save the other for tomorrow" . I then bought them and when I got home put one in the fridge and one on the counter (I like them ... | AITA The missus and I had a disagreement about Beer | NTA |
10tq4ck | I (22F) am graduating university this May. I'll be moving to another part of my country for a postgrad program in September. My current university is 3 hours away from my dad's (50M) house. I have spent the last two summers in my university town, one working and one doing a summer semester. This was partially because m... | AITA for saying nobody wants to hire a student who can only commit for three months? | NTA |
10towj6 | One of my [M] closest friends [M] just got engaged. We haven't known each other for too long in the scheme of things (~12 years) but we have been through a lot together. We shared a lot about life and how we view things. One of those discussions centered around marriage. His parents are divorced, mine are separated but... | AITA for refusing to go to a friend's wedding? | YTA |
10tr633 | I (18F) and my best friend (17F) have been friends for almost a year now. We are almost like platonic soulmates and know everything about each other. We are basically the same person, but aren't. I am a lesbian/nonbinary, she is a straight female who has her fair share of female crushes. She is also dating her boyf... | AITA For Being Distant Towards My Friend? | YTA |
10uipyr | I (NB24) commented on a fic that while I love darkfic and while I respected the sufficient warning and while it was technically well written, it seemed needlessly cruel without an actual purpose or theme for the reader to interpret, and that I didn't get the point of the story, and that it missed the mark entirely. I s... | AITA for leaving feedback on a fic? | YTA |
10tr021 | 25M, youngest of 4 siblings.Grew up in a mildly toxic background where parents divorced, a lot of interpersonal drama between my mother and relatives/partners (we were thrown out by my mother's former partner in the middle of the night several times and technically homeless for short periods), mother having regular out... | AITA for wanting little to do with family | NTA |
10tmwze | Long term long distance best friend, C. I see C maybe three times a decade and the last time I saw them was pre covid. They have two partners who they have been with for several years. Neither myself nor my partner have ever met either of these partners.
My fiance and I drew up two invitation lists ages ago, one with ... | AITA for not inviting either of my bridesperson’s partners to my wedding? | YTA |
10tyyp4 | I (24 f) had made prior plans with someone for the weekend to study. On the day of, another friend (24 f) invited me to have lunch. Without looking at the commute time, I said okay. After checking the commute, I realized that I would waste almost 2 hours of my day which seemed a lot. I let my same friend know as we we... | AITA for canceling plans because of work? | YTA |
10tjt4h | For context: I am NB20 & My cousin is M13. We grew up close when he was a baby, he is on the autism spectrum but is high functioning. He was adopted by my grandmother when he was a baby, and she used to watch me and some of the older cousins when we where kids.So, recently I got a switch for Christmas and ever sinc... | AITA for not playing video games with my younger cousin? | NTA |
10smvaa | My (29F) family has always shown favouritism towards my younger sister and brother’s partners. They treat them like family but don't hide their dislike of the partners I've had. Recently my family have been planning a trip to korea this summer. We will be visiting my grandmother’s hometown as well as visiting other are... | AITA for refusing to come with my family on vacation if my bf isn't invited? | YTA |
10to29a | The most important piece of context you need for this story is that I (19M) am an animation student. I saved up to get a graphics tablet and my own pc, and it's proved an invaluable asset in my time at uni. Without this setup, to get any of my work done, I'd need to take a 30 minute bus ride down to my campus, and hope... | AITA for requesting a uni dorm change over a desk - even if it means not being in the same building as my boyfriend? | NTA |
10tmvwx | So I (19/F) am a trainer at a theme park, and sometimes I am scheduled as a “Trainer On Duty” which I basically go around the park and make sure that everyone knows what to do. Especially the new employees. Fast forward to the end of my day, I am supposed to write a recap of my day and send the email to every trainer, ... | AITA for writing an extended recap email that set a new standard for my team? | NTA |
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