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10tpznk | I can only ask you guys to understand my point of view.I live in an apartment complex so you can imagine I see quite a fair share of cats, I just pet them and move on but 6 months ago is when I took in my cat Pamaela,she was very skittish and frail, infested with flees to the point that her skin was bleeding from the s... | AITA for not wanting to return my cat? | NTA |
10tops3 | My hubby&I have been friends with “Mac” for almost a 10yrs. We have always been there when he needs us, first long-term gf broke up with him, a good friend of his died, divorce etc. He has barely spoken to us since he got a new gf. He confided in us a lot during the divorce&in a moment of defending him, I think... | WIBTA for being upset? | NTA |
10tpuvf | My roommate is quiet for the most part but ever since she moved in I haven’t been getting much sleep. She slams doors and has loud sex which wakes me up. I have asked her on two separate occasions to keep the volume down and to not slam doors. It stopped but only for that day. Her bf now lives with us too which makes m... | AITA for potentially reporting roommate | NTA |
10tneci | Sorry in advance. On mobile and it's a long one.I(30sF) am the only child of my parents. My dad has some kids from his first marriage, but I'm my mom's only child. Parents got divorced when I was 10. Lived with my mom, but they had joint custody and my father was very active in my upbringing.I grew up in a small town i... | AITA for not reconnecting with my mom? | NTA |
10svd3d | I was at a heavy metal gig with a group of friends last night, in a medium sized venue. I was lucky enough to be right at the front. Now, as you might be aware, right at the front of the stage is not the place in the venue with the most space. People weren't exactly crammed in, but were definitely close together. Now, ... | AITA for asking a woman to stop headbanging at a concert? | NTA |
10udfmv | I(19 y/o) was just watching YouTube on my TV, and thevideos I watched were anime texting stories, mostly MHA(My Hero Academia). Most of them are funny, to be honest,(anime lovers, if you're reading this, have you watched anyanime texting stories on yt? If so let me know).Anyway, my mom came in asking me for help with s... | AITA for reacting to my mom after telling me"it's not good to watch anime text story videos I'm watching on YT? | YTA |
10sr5xw | Due to a successful house sale, I made enough money to buy a house to rent and one to live in. Despite this luck, I am not rich, but for once I am not worried about my bills. My mom has always been poor (as such, I grew up in it) because she is bad with money. She wanted out of her living situation with 3 roomates, so ... | AITA for evicting my mom from my house? | NTA |
10teo5i | I was at a friend's house with some others for a party and we were playing truth or dare. I only knew one person, and everyone else was their friend. My friend (let's give them a name: Alissa) started first, saying 'Is it true you don't brush your teeth? Cuz my my it is as yellow as the sun!' too a poor girl who alread... | AITA For telling someone to stop being rude? | NTA |
10topa0 | I (13f) am writing this because while i don’t really think i did anything wrong, my friend, ill call her A is really mad at me. This is definitely the most teenage problem ever but, A refuses to tell me her crush. She talks about them constantly to only me and no one else and I try not to ask who it is because i know t... | AITA for being “rude” to my best friend? | NTA |
10tm6sy | My mom asked me if I could give her uncle some money because he is poor and her plan was both of us having a share into whatever how much she will give to him and I said no.Her reasoning was he took care of me as a baby and helped her a couple of times financially when she was in a couple of tight spots.My reason for s... | AITA for not wanting to give my mom’s uncle money? | NTA |
10tn3d0 | I (18F) have three school friends who I'll call K, N and W. For some backstory I had a pretty bad childhood (I'm not going to go into details here but you can find the full length details on the subreddit 'r/offmychest' under 'I am going to abandon all of my friendships because they deserve better'. I'm suffering from ... | AITA for tell my friend I don't like her? | NTA |
10trg8w | This feels like the craziest situation to me and now I just don’t know what’s right anymore.In November I got two pure bred Bengal cats. Say what you will about animal breeding, I’m deathly allergic to cats, had tried to foster and couldn’t, had to buy less allergic. I’ve literally wanted cats my whole life. Anyway, th... | AITA for not tagging my cat breeder in my IG profile? | NTA |
10sy5qz | I just lost my aunt and uncle whom I was close to. The current plan is for there not to be a funeral but a memorial in a few weeks' time. My wife had tendon surgery 2 1/2 weeks ago and still can't do much around the house so I have been doing all of it when I am home. Pretty much all of my emotional and mental energy h... | AITA for going to a hotel to grieve in peace away from my family? | NTA |
10t8ip7 | I have been sending money to my mother and my sister (26yo) for the past 7 seven years since I moved out and of my country of origin, Venezuela. Now that I have settled in the new country I am trying to make a life of my own. I am currently pregnant and I just got myself a car as I just learned how to drive as I couldn... | AITA for stop maintaining my family? | NTA |
10suiyn | I've been putting a tray of snacks - personal size bags of chips, cookies, crackers, etc. - out in my cubicle so that my coworkers can come by if they feel peckish. It's been successful for over a year now, with many people coming by to grab something and sometimes staying to chat for a minutes.An important note here i... | AITA for scolding a coworker? | NTA |
10tni3l | Sorry about my ADHD writing. I have wrote this over and over and get more angry every time.My biological father left me when I was a young child and I have not seen him since. When I last saw him he was an alcoholic and a drug addict. I am 21 now and am in a bit of a tight situation. I was injured on a job and currentl... | AITA if I ask my biological father for support after him being absent my whole life? | NTA |
10tnbdh | I (22M) have a 9 year old brother who is very into sports including tournament baseball, and church league basketball. For the past 2 years I have lived in my own apartment about an hour away from home, but this august I moved back in with my parents after college. Over the last few years I have tried to make it to as ... | AITA for missing my little brothers sporting event? | NTA |
10st683 | My husband (30m), we’ll call him Nick, and I(26f) are currently pregnant with our first child. While making the baby registry, I was adding a bunch of classic(imo) books from childhood. For example: Rainbow fish, goodnight moon, I’ll love you forever, the very hungry caterpillar etc. They were just books that i thought... | AITA for telling my MIL her son doesn’t know common baby books? | NTA |
10tn9t5 | I (17 female) and my parents have always been very close. I appreciate everything they do for me, as I would have nothing without them. I am a hard worker. My parents made me get a job when I was 14 and I have been working ever since to pay my bills such as my cellphone, and car insurance. I've always paid for my cloth... | AITA for getting mad at my parents for taking my phone away | NTA |
10tgku7 | My (22f) birthday happens to be on february 14th. I hated it since childhood as I was bullied for it being specifically on Valentine's day. Since the age of 10 or 11 I always wished that people would just leave me alone that day and pretend nothing happened, just like a normal day. Never asked or waited for presents or... | AITA for refusing to celebrate my birthday on Valentine's day? | NTA |
10toeuj | So I have been best friends with T for a decade, and over the years B (all 21F) got into the group. I was always the most active friend, proposing to hang out. B was always ready to hang out, and T was more introvert. However, with covid, T's anxiety got so bad that she was afraid to even meet up just the three of us. ... | AITA for not texting back my bff? | NTA |
10tmpiv | so ive got 2 friends: friend A (F19), and friend B (F21) (im M18). whenever the three for us hang out in a voice chat, theyll always talk amongst themselves, and leave me out of their conversations. i try and contribute, but theyre always talking about something i have no idea about. i used to ask things like "oh, what... | AITA for being jealous of my friends conversations? | NTA |
10trzeq | TLDR boyfriend who throws a fit if I don’t get his birthday perfect didn’t get me a birthday present this year, so I want to request money for the value of the last birthday gift I got himMy boyfriend of 3.5 years did not get me a birthday present this year. It has been over a month. I don’t really ask for a lot, as an... | WIBTA if I sent a money request to my bf for not getting me a present | ESH |
10skypn | I (22f) got a lower back tattoo when I was 18. Ill be honest and tell you straight up that its pretty trashy, buy it made me feel sexy at the time so I got it. I dont normally cover it up because i dont really give a fuck what strangers think but i do normally keep it covered up around family. Im from Australia, since ... | AITA for not covering up my "tramp stamp" | NTA |
10se2cp | I'll get straight to the issueI'm getting married in about two months. We're having a pretty intimate wedding in terms of number of guests, so outside of married/engaged couples only people we know have a long term SO received a +1."Ella" is my half sister, she has a LD bf who's coming to visit. All well and good, but ... | AITA for not giving my sister a +1 to my wedding and telling her she's being selfish? | YTA |
10re8db | I (M24) have been dating my girlfriend (F23) for about five months. Every other month, my grandmother hosts a large family dinner with all my close relatives. She encouraged me to invite my girlfriend over for the dinner yesterday. For some context, my entire family and I are black, and my girlfriend is from a white An... | AITA for telling my girlfriend that she needs to learn when to shut the fuck up? | NTA |
10qxv7b | I (F33) lost my husband very unexpectedly 7 years ago. We knew each other from a very young age and married when we graduated college. I have known his family for almost my entire life and they are the closest I have to actual family (my own family situation has always been difficult ). I became very close with his par... | AITA for not giving my late husband's belongings to my in laws? | NTA |
10v5jrh | My ex and I have a 10 years old daughter. I wasn't ready to be a parent when she got pregnant so I suggested either she gets an abortion or she can keep the baby and I will pay child support but I won't be involved in her life. She wanted to keep so that's what we did.About a year ago I started to regret my choice and ... | AITA for not following her rules? | YTA |
10v6dbd | My husband has a daughter with another woman who was conceived during a time when our relationship was open. We only found out about her when my stepdaughter was 3 and her mother has been a headache to deal with from the start. She’s even gone so far as to encourage my stepdaughter to behave badly whenever she’s at our... | AITA for not having my stepdaughter picked up while my husband was on a business trip? | NTA |
10v6rmr | A lot of elements here. Please ask for info if needed. My fiance Matthew is constantly telling everyone that I hog the entire bed and that he has all of 6 inches of bed to sleep on every night. Claims he got no sleep because of me. He doesn't say it maliciously but it's become the butt of the joke and gets brought up o... | AITA for taking pictures of him while he sleeps? | NTA |
10v61ub | I [26f] am getting married soon and have a brother [25m]My brother takes seasonal work at a large farming operation near here for part of the year. I don't know much about it besides that they do goat breeding and have tons of pigs and chickens.He says he takes it because the pay is more than double of what he would ma... | AITA for not inviting my brother to my wedding because of his grossness? | YTA |
10v6o8a | I’m 21My mother is 40.Will try and be brief as I don’t have much time.I grew up with just my mother, dad didn’t want anything to do with me.My mums family had kicked her out like two years before I was even born so they weren’t involved, my mother struggled a bit and worked so often that I rarely saw her.She wasn’t a b... | AITA for “pulling a face” when my mother told me she’s pregnant | NAH |
10v6aol | So my mum is constantly stealing my perfume bottles. It really upsets me but she has this thing that we are mother and daughter so we should share things.Anyway my husband bought me the Tom Ford Rose Prick perfume a couple years ago and ever since my mum has been using it up whenever she visits me or I go home.So for h... | AITA for arguing with my mum over perfume? | NTA |
10v6msw | I (30s) am part of a small group of friends (5 people + me, all same age) that have been spending time together for the better part of 10 years, at first we spent a lot of time together, traveled to each other's towns and celebrated special events.For the past few years I've noticed that I've always gone out of my way ... | AITA for not wanting to support my friends anymore? | NTA |
10v6x78 | My 59 year old mother is a terrible person. She had a horrible life, never got the help she needed and has been horrible to us kids. I truly don't think she knows how to love anyone but herself. My siblings and I are low contact with her but we constantly deal with her lying, manic tantrums, verbal and emotional abuse ... | AITA for telling my boomer mother I wouldn't help her financially when she is old and shes on her own? | NTA |
10v6k3f | I (16f) live with my mom (35f) and two other people. All three of them make good money and we have extremely low rent for our area. I work 12 hours a day 5-6 days a week and don’t attend school so I can focus on saving money. The whole reason I dropped out is so I could spend these years living with my family to saving... | AITA “manipulating” my mom into buying me necessities? | NTA |
10v7uh6 | I, 19 male, had a really rough childhood. I had an incredibly abusive mom and it made me hate the consept of blood families. I hated the fact that I couldn't change or choose who I can consider as my family and had to accept toxic people in my life only because we are related. When I was a teen, I had the chance to go ... | AITA for telling my family that I don't see family as a priority in my life ? | NTA |
10v7ktk | My brother (m 17) has recently been trying to find a job and he was hired for one about 2 days ago and had his 1st day today. However, the pay isn't very good, I believe he said it was £4.81 even though it's the minimum wage for someone his age in the UK. He’s now nagging me to put a good word in for him at my curren... | AITA for not wanting to put in a word for my brother? | NTA |
10v6rj7 | When I get into arguments, I vent to my friends like any other person does. Yesterday my gf ended up finding out that I was talking shit about her to my friends. She was even more mad about me talking shit about her to my friend Tiffany.I showed her the conversation and she saw some messages where Tiffany and I flirted... | AITA for talking shit about her to my friends? | YTA |
10v9q3s | We've got an important family party in 3 weeks, an engagement party for my son's cousin Rachael, 28, who lives in Iowa. We live in SoCal.Anyway, my son wants to go to the wedding in this brightly-coloured crop top from DollsKill and a denim skirt from SHEIN, he said that it's what he likes and he's got a newfound inter... | AITA for telling my son (16M) "No, you can't wear that crop top to the family party in 3 weeks"? | NTA |
10v84t1 | Over the weekend my extended family got together to celebrate a belated Luna New Year.At one point in the evening one of my cousins (23F) shared that she started seeing someone. Let's call her Paris. Everyone was happy for her seemingly except for another one of our cousins (32F). Let's call her Nicole.Nicole opined th... | AITA for making fun of my cousin for never having had a romantic partner? | NTA |
10v8lgs | I’ll keep this short because this just happened.I went out for a quick lunch at a place around the block from my house where you get the food at the counter and then take the tray to your table. This time, when I was about to pay, the screen prompted me to add a 15, 20 or 25% tip which I found ridiculous! So I opted to... | AITA for refusing to tip and making a comment about it? | NTA |
10vaeu8 | I (24 F) got engaged to Derrick (30 M) one month ago. Prior to that, we had known each other for six months. I know that’s not a long time, but when you know, you know. We are madly in love and ready to commit ourselves to each other fully. My sister (26 F) has a problem with that though. She was supportive of my relat... | AITA for not inviting my unsupportive sister to my wedding? | YTA |
10v9bup | My wife [29F] and I [31M] recently had a baby, and we’re lucky that it’s been a delightful 2 months since. Unfortunately my uncle passed recently. My uncle was instrumental in my upbringing; he looked after me 3 evenings a week for ~10 years old, encouraged the hobby which eventually became my career, and was all aroun... | WIBTA for treating my SIL after she helped us out in an emergency? | NTA |
10v8gqv | My fiancé and I were living close to both of our parents, and moved out of state and now live very close to my fiancés’ sister and maid of honor (“SIL”). She hasn’t been involved with wedding planning at all, even though she is familiar with the area (my parents live out of state). My parents booked the venue last ye... | AITA if I tell my mom the nasty stuff my future Sister in-Law said to me about the venue MY parents are paying for? | NTA |
10v82lq | I(f18) have been in a bit of an argument with my brother(16). I have a mediocre relationship with my brother, we don't hate each other and get along quite well, but it does get a bit strained at times. He spends most of his time in his room playing video games and doesn't really help me or my mother around the house of... | AITA for putting up sticky notes in the bathroom for my brother to flush the toilet? | NTA |
10v87vt | i (15f) work started working as a lifeguard at an indoor pool in june (it’s currently february). during the time i’ve worked here i’ve noticed that almost every weekend an older man (i’m guessing like in his 80s) comes in and swims. we can call him jones (fake name). there has been multiple times where jones has come u... | AITA for possibly getting someone with special needs banned from my job? | NTA |
10v9ucm | My bestfriend has a brachial plexus injury in her shoulder that affects her entire arm. She can’t move it and it can’t be pulled on. I want her to come with me to a festival this summer and she really wants to go, but is worried about her arm. I told her to wear a bright coloured cast or make a fake one that way every... | AITA for telling my bestfriend to wear a fake cast to a concert | YTA |
10v8ok1 | ( sorry for bad English plus I am on mobile) I was born in Canada but grew up in a Middle Eastern third world country ( both of my parents are middle eastern) . My cousin on the other hand was born in Canada and has lived in the same nice suburban neighbourhood ( her dad/ my uncle is middle eastern but her mom is very ... | AITA for gatekeeping my culture? | YTA |
10v8n12 | BLUF: my mom does anything she can to keep the peace. I’m done with it.. didn’t have enough eggs for all 7 people in my house. So I didn’t make them. My dad was offended. And I apparently was the asshole for not feeding into the people pleasing, enabling behavior So two weeks ago. My parents who live a couple states aw... | AITA for not making my dad eggs | NTA |
10vab0t | Three years ago I moved into my current flat and almost since the very beginning I became close friends with my neighbour from the same floor. Mostly because we're the same nationality and it turned out we had some friends in common. Over the years we both helped each other out once in a while whether it was borrowing ... | AITA for making the girl I was babysitting sleep on the sofa? | NTA |
10v97vh | My (28M) wife (26F) and I have been married for close to 7 years.We currently have five kids together- 6M, 4M, 3F, and my wife gave birth to fraternal twins ( son and daughter) a year and a half ago.My wife intended to graduate high school the year we got married but life got in the way. My dad had given me an investor... | AITA for not acting impressed by my wife's " accomplishment?" | YTA |
10v78qr | My older sister (f18) is pregnant, she's seven months in. She lives with us still (my parents and my younger brother) because she's going to be a single mother, her boyfriend left her when he found out she was pregnant. For that she thinks that we have to help her in everything, suddenly you can't even ask her to wash ... | AITA for telling my pregnant sister that she go to the grocery store herself is she needs something? | NTA |
10va10v | My wife and I are in the process of purchasing our first home and one of the places we looked at has a finished apartment in the garage that is separate from the main house. My wife thought this would be great in the future to our parents live with us. This opened up a whole discussion.She immediately ruled out my pare... | AITA for not allowing my MIL to live with us | NTA |
10v9u4i | I'm a freshman in college and I live in a dorm with a living room, 2 rooms and 2 beds in each room but there's only 3 of us living here. My roommate and my suite mate are much closer than I am which I'm not upset about because they just have way more in common than I do with them and they get along better overall. But ... | AITA for telling my roommates (18F and 18F) to ask me (18F) if it's okay to have guests over? | YTA |
10v75wo | I have been friends with this girl for a long time, about 10 years, and though she is a great person she doesn't stand up for herself or others for fear of confrontation, which I get but... This made me reach my limit and snap at her.So the story. She lives in another country and in the summer I went over for a visit. ... | AITA for calling out my friend's wimpy response to her pervy friend? | YTA |
10v817g | So I (19F) and my bf (19M) have been dating for about 6 months. For some context, we both work together in a restaurant, because of this we see each other almost every day, and my boyfriend is Mexican and I’m white (I’m not sure if that has any relevance or not though). 3 months into our relationship, I started to noti... | AITA for calling my boyfriend out after he acted racist? | NTA |
10v8q9d | [Original Post](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/10ssm7j/aita_for_calling_out_my_brother_for_pretending_to/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf)J and I finally talked about what happened. I apologized because I felt extremely bad and wanted to make it right. I tried apologizing be... | UPDATE : AITA for calling out my brother for pretending to be something he's not in front of his friends | NTA |
10v8yd0 | I'm a medical intern (basically a doctor but I have to wait 2 years to get my license) some background: in my area we delivered babys, help in some surgeries and with all the paperwork and legal documents. The first year residents are the ones who manage the postpartum, post surgery, evolutions and discharged paperwork... | AITA for not telling my coworkers I was going home? | NTA |
10v8sxs | Some context I (24M) own part of a Watersports business and recently got a job offer that I’m seriously considering taking. I’d call if more of a mom and pop business. This year I’d probably take in around 80k-100k which is great money but the only problem is I work 7 days a week, no holidays off and the only day I rea... | AITA for giving my business partner only a month heads up that I’m leaving our business | NTA |
10va38v | I [17M] don’t care if others vape, it’s not my business. I have friends who vape, I don’t care. But the thing is my little sis has started vaping because, I’m assuming, her friends let her hit. And now she’s doing it at school and skipping clases.Idk if she’s using it as a bad coping mechanism or she’s just doing it to... | WIBTA for snitching on my underage relatives for vaping? | NTA |
10v9fs8 | We met M (the friend) as we moved cities. My mother used to be very close with M's mother when they were younger, so the reunion was heart warming. We got close to the family and would often visit each other, until M's mother passed away due to cancer. That's when my mom started calling M every single day to check up o... | AITA for getting annoyed every time my (19F) mom (50F) mentions her friend (31F)? | NTA |
10vaylu | So for context my SIL gets married summer 2024, last year while talking at her birthday she asks what I’m doing this September to which I reply I don’t know yet but it’s my 30th that month. Now I hate the idea of being the centre of attention but 30 is a big one right? So anyway she informs me that they have decided th... | AITA for refusing to go to SIL away hen out of spite | YTA |
10vax7a | I am a late 20's male disabled military veteran who currently lives with his brother and his wife and kids. I do not currently pay rent or have a job. However I do pay bills, buy food on the occasion, clean the house every day, do bigger house projects with my brother (like build a new deck during the summer) and watch... | AITA For Wanting to Move | NTA |
10v9vc1 | I (31F) have been in a serious relationship with Mike (30M) for nearly 1.5 years. His best friend Renzo (32M) has been a third-wheel in our relationship since the start. Over the course of our relationship, Renzo has called me a c\*nt and been present on the day of our anniversary -- my friends and I honestly think he ... | AITA for calling out my BF's best friend in front of him? | NTA |
10v9sc7 | My girlfriend (22f) and I (24m) have been together around 2 years and have lived together just over a year. We've spoke in the past about the importance of having time to ourselves whether to read, watch tv, play video games, go for walks etc. Just anything that we can do on our own to just relax. There is a video game... | AITA for refusing to change my plans? | NTA |
10v9prq | My roommate and I are both 27 year old girls. She has been affected by the tech lay-offs last month, so these days she has been waking up late (around 10am) and spending her days at home sending out resumes. I work 9-5. In our apartment, we share things like paper towels, condiments, coffee, tea, soap, etc etc etc and ... | AITA for requesting that my roommate buy more coffee when we're out? | YTA |
10v9jpt | My best friend and I have lived together for a few years. Recently, she has gotten a boyfriend. We will call her “Laura” and him “Ben”. For some background: They only have sex at our place. Why? Because Ben is cheating on his partner, “Sarah”, with Laura. Laura knows, but Sarah does not. I’m WEIRDLY not bothered by th... | AITA for telling my roommate/best friend to quiet down during sex? | NTA |
10v99ha | It was my husband's birthday last Friday, and me and my sister-in-law were buying snack foods for the party in the supermarket. Potato chips, cakes, beers, wine... and a birthday cake.As we were going round, she decided to open a few packets of Pringles and eat them to see which was good and bad, did some of that with ... | AITA for telling sister-in-law to stop eating the potato chips in the supermarket when we were buying supplies for a party? | NTA |
10v96yj | I (15m) was at a family reunion at a fancy hotel, and I was hanging out with my sister (17f) and some cousins. I was recently diagnosed with autism, and I've been doing a lot of research into it. My sister kept calling it Aspergers, and I didn't like that. First some context on our dynamic.My sister dominates pretty mu... | AITA for being direct and assertive with my sister? | NTA |
10v8crh | So, for some context: when I was a younger, I would frequently steal food from the fridge/around the house that hadn't been eaten. Usually it was things like candy and snacks, etc. While I don't do it anymore, there WAS a precedent for me doing it in the past. My grandmother knows this.So, last night, she misplaced her... | AITA for calling my Grandmother a bitch | YTA |
10v892v | So a little context, I'm a 20y/o female and my Fiance is a 21y/o male and we live in his mother's house paying $400 a month in order to save up to buy a car and get an apartment. I recently found out while horrible sick that when my fiance and I did long distance that he had cheated on me so I took a couple days off of... | AITA for yelling at my Fiance's Mother | NTA |
10v84u1 | I started a new job last month. The way it works is that senior colleagues assign us tasks in a public Slack channel. Sometimes they’ll vamp with it or try to make the assignment funny, but they always have to @ us on Slack in front of everyone and let us know what we’ll be working on. A typical example: say my name is... | WIBTA for calling a colleague “Mr.”? | NTA |
10vavyd | So I (22F) have been dating my boyfriend (26M) for about five months now. We met on a dating app seven months ago and made it official shortly after. He moved to my area in Michigan from Nebraska for school and now works up here, but his whole family lives in the south. We hadn’t really talked much about his family, I ... | AITA for being weirded out by my boyfriend? | YTA |
10vavpn | Long story short, I've been helping my aunt take care of my dad and stepmother. I've been doing so for a month now and I am fixing to go home. My aunt wants to thank me by giving me some gifts. Now I wouldn't have known about this if it wasn't for my stepmother. My stepmother told me that my aunt was going to surprise ... | WIBTA if I put my stepmother on the spot for knowingly ruining my surprise? | ESH |
10vatlf | I will try to keep this succinct.We lost a family member recently that was very close to my sibling and myself.My sibling (let’s call them Eggwhite) wanted to commerate this family member by getting a tattoo of the family members handwriting and I said that was an awesome idea and I also wanted to do something like tha... | AITA for copying my sibling’s tattoo idea | YTA |
10v7hm2 | For clarification, I did not ask her yet, because I'm unsure if I should or not, so this is more of a "would I be the asshole". Me ( M 24) and my Gf(F 23) moved in together recently and it's going great. I own a car and she currently doesn't and also has no intent of getting one at the moment. Before we moved in togeth... | AITA for asking my GF to compensate me for amount of wear she puts on my car? | NTA |
10va8ip | So this is kinda stupid and I'm sure I'm TA but I wanna ask anyway and get it off my mind. I'm a 19 almost 20FTM. I graduated hs last year and have been working almost full time at burger king since August before that I worked at Kroger. I work 4 days a week from 9-3 I get off at 3 since I need to pick my baby brother ... | AITA for staying gone all day and disappearing from home on my days off? | NTA |
10v9vqz | Preface: We booked flights to travel to my home tome which is about 16 hours flying. Cost per ticket $650. The relationship became verbally abusive and I decided to move out and leave, he kept calling me an idiot among other things that weren't going to work for me, although I suppose that's irrelevant. We dated about ... | AITA for not refunding half of my ex's flight cost for a trip we booked when we were together? | NTA |
10v6ize | I'm 19M and I'm currently running a bi-weekly D&D game on Roll20. One of the players had talked it out with me that he'd have a magic item from his past that would allow him to shape change into a human-bear hybrid that worked on a charge system. After the session where it activated, I had started prepping for the ... | AITA for not making the stats of a D&D item passive? | NTA |
10vbd4c | To start boyfriend is a really sweet guy, I don’t think he meant to be an asshole here but it’s coming across as inconsiderate.He’s recently been worried about his spending and wants to save more money so suggested we do something cheaper for valentines. I offered to pay to go somewhere nicer but he refused. He suggest... | AITA for telling my boyfriend I want to do something nice for Valentines? | NTA |
10vbcxl | American in Cape Town here. Been here 6 years, moved from South Shore, Chicago, IL.My co-worker Jane (not her real name) constantly keeps talking about things like vagina and vaginal health issues, conspiracy theories about Putin and Ramaphosa being secret lovers or the U.S. Government spying on all Californians, or cl... | AITA for telling co-worker that what she's discussing is inappropriate at best? | NTA |
10vbcik | Long story short:I am a 4th year med student who is graduating in May. Since 1st year, I've wanted to go on a short 10-14 day Europe trip. I was going to go in 2020, but the obvious stopped me. So I've been putting together my itinerary ever since, in anticipation of going on the trip this June, before I start resid... | WIBTA if I went on a (planned for 3 years) Europe trip without my GF of 1 year? | NTA |
10vbbwq | I (28NB) work as a bartender, and for the most part I really like it! I've been "out" as non-binary since 2015, and it's been fine. Sometimes strangers can be kind of rude, but all of my friends know me and use my pronouns and it's fine. As a general rule, I don't correct people when they misgender me. I had an inciden... | AITA for not correcting people about my pronouns? | NTA |
10vb9zw | So about 2 1/2 months ago me (f15) and my dad fought about me not being social, and it all happened because I refuse a hug? He started going on a rant and saying how I don’t socialize with others. At the end he said he’ll take me to the psychologist, I didn’t believe him cause he always forgets things so I said sure. T... | AITA for thinking it’s unnecessary for me to have “social help?” | NTA |
10vb8tf | So I have a close friend of mine (as I told him I was gay which I told very few people about) and recently he was saying how he is so trustworthy to me when I was hesitant to tell him about an advancement in my romantic life and i brought up the fact the a year ago he said to a group of our friends that I was gay (righ... | AITA for not getting ‘’over it’’ when my friend outed me as gay? | NTA |
10vb7eg | I was making a dessert with a mango flavour which required mangos. I made a ganache with 2/3 of the mangos in a tin and the remainder I was using as a purée for the centre. I left the remainder Tinned mangos in the fridge to continue on the dessert the lecture day, since it was late at night when I started the dessert ... | AITA for asking my mom why she took my mangos | YTA |
10vb6er | I use my fiancé’s card to cover all of my expenses as I stopped working after I had our baby/we got engaged. He’s never cared about what I’ve spent money on in the past and always reminds me that I can buy whatever I want so I didn’t think it would be an issue for me to buy my aunt a designer bag to celebrate her 50th ... | AITA for using my fiancé’s card to buy my aunt a designer bag for her birthday? | YTA |
10vb4yh | I have a band and we were making a love song but I was the only one in a happy relationship so they asked me about my bf, why I like him, how he confessed, etc. But when I told my boyfriend about it he got kinda mad because it was embarrassing for him. I kind of freaked out since I had no idea and I hate the idea of ma... | AITA for telling my band members about how my boyfriend and I'd cringey confession? | INFO |
10vawaa | Me and My partner (lets call him Tim) have been together for a few months now. I met him in my college and we just connected, for some relevant context we are in a friend group and everyone is friends with everyone, Tim is rude and the group will tell you that themselves(this is also relevant) Back to the story so me, ... | AITA for doing what i was told by my partner? | NTA |
10vanf8 | **Disclaimer:**I'm not a native English speaker. I used Grammarly to write this post, and it showed tonnes of errors. I didn't know how to fix them. So, if you find anything in the story that (grammatically) makes no sense, I apologise in advance.**Story:**For context, I made [this](https://www.reddit.com/r/entitledpa... | AITA for calling my dad useless? | NTA |
10vai1g | My life was hell in high school, constantly bullied, money stolen from me and I was even beaten up once or twice. My family never ONCE got involved and tried to stop it (the school didn’t neither but teachers never really help anyway). It still affects me to this day. My psychiatrist said my feelings are valid. What do... | AITA for still being angry because my family done nothing to stop my bullying that happened 16 years ago | INFO |
10v9eah | Backstory: ive posted about this guy before, you can read my post history, I can’t describe him in 3000 characters. Autistic roommate, 5 people total, in Jan 23' 2 people left and subletted. 3/6 people who have lived with him find him unbearable. NEVER cleans up after his cat; doesnt do dishes in a week, leaves laundry... | AITA for trying to kick out my autistic roommate who's improving his behaviour? | NTA |
10v8r3p | On vacation in England now. Well, London actually. We've come over to meet my friend, Jane, who's in her 30s (Fake name used) who I met online during the pandemic.Me and my husband went to a restaurant in London yesterday, and it turned into a shitshow. We're a couple in our 40s.Husband kept telling the young waiter ho... | AITA for telling my husband he was a jerk for the way he kept treating the waiter? | NTA |
10v9vrx | Backstory, my fiancée and I have been together for about 4 years. She has two kids (12f, 15f) with shared custody. It’s an odd arrangement, she has them Jan-June. Early September, she moved into our house. My daughter ‘Charlie’ is 10. For the record, up until recently she has been an amazing mother figure to Charlie. O... | AITA for arguing with my fiancée after she left my child at home and took only her kids on an outing? | NTA |
10vccne | Three years ago my wife and kids wore me down and I agreed to let them get a dog. I am not a dog person. They seem like very fine people but they are just not for me. The deal was that I wouldn't have to walk it or clean up after it and that they would take care of it. It went fine for about a year and a half. B... | AITA for telling my wife and kids to either take care of their dog or rehome it. | NTA |
10vc179 | I (37f) have 6 kids (15f, 13m, 11m, 9f and 6f, 2m) with my husband (37m). Recently, one of my sisters (31f) asked to temporarily move in with us because of repairs being done to her home, which is not up to code. She has a husband (31m) and a son (10m). My nephew is not a good kid, he’s a bully and frequently misbeh... | AITA for making my sister pay back for damages her son caused? | NTA |
10vf2xc | I (15F) live with my dad and brother (13M).My dad gives us no allowance and just has us asks us to tell him when we need something. When my dad taught me how to handle my period we lived in a different country and he gave me a reusable pad, which is just some cloth and told me to wash them when they got dirty. He never... | AITA for "stealing" tampons and pads from school. | NTA |
10vclx4 | My (32F) husband (33M) and I have been together for 11 years, married for nine and have two children, 3 and 1. Things have been complicated with his mom and sister since we got married and there have been several periods of no contact. In the last year, we have been working on things with his mom and it’s going fine. S... | AITA for not letting my sister in law meet my kids | NTA |
10vbtrv | Good morning, all. TL;DR at the bottom.I (22F) have been with my boyfriend (23M) for almost three years now. In that three year period, he has met basically my entire family. I have a very big, very close-knit family. On the flip-side, his family is a lot smaller and a lot less close-knit. He has an estranged sister wh... | AITA for booking an all-inclusive trip to another country and not inviting my boyfriend? | NTA |
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