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10vukzw | Here's the story.I (56M) was helping my daughter (23F) move from Pittsburgh to her new apartment in downtown Madison, WI.The apartment building has underground parking, but the UHaul truck we were using to move her stuff was too tall to enter the garage. Because of this, I contacted the Madison parking authority a week... | AITA for having a car towed? | NTA |
10viuye | To give some context, I (m31) own a few car dealerships and I have an employee (f26) who is great at selling cars but, as a person, she has made some awful awful life decisions.To give a few examples, she is an ex-felon, she gave up her child to foster care, and she has a very...unique relationship with her current-ex.... | AITA for telling my brother to stay away from an employee of mine? | NTA |
10vtaj6 | I apologize for how long this was but the details are important(?) TLDR: My ex-wife demands I provide more child support due to her moving to a much more expensive location and I said no.My ex and I divorced in 2015, we had four kids together. I was active military and she was a stay at home mom. It made sense for the ... | AITA for saying no to my ex’s request for increased child support? | NTA |
10vjbfo | My husband was a jewelry designer and I was a receptionist we and met through a mutual friend. we dated for 6 months before he asked the question. My engagement ring was very special and unique. My engagement ring was an extension of my wedding ring (Meaning the 2 fits together) and the stones for my ring are not diamo... | AITA for telling my son father would be so ashamed | NTA |
10vv2u9 | TA Since gf is on reddit.My (28M) girlfriend (27F) of four years share an apartment.Her mom left them when she was a baby, and she was raised by her dad. Unfortunately, two days ago, her dad suffered a stroke. My gf was devistated, so we both took off from work to visit him. We couldnt stay long because I have a projec... | AITA for getting upset over my girlfriend drinking and blacking out? | NTA |
10vr2cy | We have this neighbor (F17 or 18) who asked me to connect her phone to our Wi-Fi, and I think I have to block her. Also, excuse me for the grammatical errors. English is not my first language. For context, our Wi-Fi speed is 80mpbs. There are 5 devices already connected. 3 phones and 2 Smart TVs. In the evening, the in... | WIBTA if I block my neighbour from our Wi-Fi? | NTA |
10vw26j | I (27F) work for a fast-casual restaurant. It's not out of the ordinary for me to sometimes get there early so I can eat something. Today was one of those days, as I had spent most of the day sleeping and thus didn't eat much. I was really craving a milkshake and a burger from my restaurant, especially since I get a 50... | AITA for not clocking in early? | NTA |
10vtyw9 | I (f29) plan a yearly girls trip with my best friend. Since we live far apart this is the one time I see her. We had this trip planned for months, and the AirBnB she booked was not refundable. I was very close with my grandma. But it was no surprise when she passed in October. Per my grandma’s wishes, we would have an ... | AITA for going on vacation instead of grandma’s funeral? | NTA |
10vn6e0 | I F(15) am turning 16 in a few days. It’s not something I’m really looking forward to as unlike my two siblings (m19 and m9) I don’t get a lot of gifts, brought out to dinner, or anything special. I’m usually okay with that but when I found out my mom worked from 5-9 on my birthday I was disappointed to say the least. ... | AITA for being upset with my parents for their plans for my birthday? | NTA |
10vvpah | I 26F live with my parents. I am feeling overwhelmed and frustrated with my parent's insistence on an arranged marriage, it is pretty common here in my country although now situation is changing and more people find their own love and marry them. But my parents are typical so the don't wanna accept the new change. I ha... | AITA for thinking of moving out off my parents house? | NTA |
10vlxxg | My partner (49) and I (31) live in a three bedroom flat (our bedroom, his small kids’ room (which has a kids bunk bed and is only used when the kids come to visit) and my office room). We don’t have much space here and often use the kids room as a storage room. His sister and her husband (both mid 40s) are coming to ou... | AITA for not wanting my partner’s sister and husband stay with us? | NTA |
10vu46w | At the drugstore, a customer was arguing with the cashier about a discount she didn't think was ringing up right. The cashier was a teen, trying his best, and was very patient with her. She was getting nastier because he couldn't make her happy, yelling about false advertising. This went on for 20 minutes, they even ca... | AITA for telling off a yelling customer? | NTA |
10vrydw | Some background information … I live in another country than my family (college), but my dad is currently in town (for around 10 days) and has repeatedly invited my so and I out for breakfast/lunch/dinner plus a 2 day stay in a fancy hotel. It’s been around 5 days since my dad has been here, and for the entire duration... | AITA for telling them not to order the most expensive item? | NTA |
10vs868 | I (38M) work in a big tech corporate environment where I’m a manager. One of my employees, Katy (54F) had her father die recently.I offered Katy my condolences and made sure that she could take time away from work to grieve and take care of any arrangements for her parent and family. This partly meant covering some of ... | AITA for sharing that my co-workers dad died? | YTA |
10vt9qr | I 35(F) and him 39(m)have been together 12 years, married for 9. We have two boys together. We’ve had our up and downs like most marriages do. However he seems to not be able to help himself from texting other women. When we first got together I found him messaging his exes when drunk. But as the years went on, I’d fin... | AITA for being done with my husband after I caught him on snap chat with other women | NTA |
10vnvti | I am currently a high school senior. My friend group has about five people in it, one of them was Mia. In sophomore year, Mia got a boyfriend, Elias. Things were normal for about two months, then Mia started to only spend time with Elias. We would make plans together, Mia would say she was coming, not show up, and we w... | AITA For being honest with my friend that she can’t expect us to drop everything for her after she’s neglected us for so long? | NTA |
10vwl2w | So, I’m going to start that I’ve already posted that story in other subs and got a lot of creepy messages asking for pics, so… please, don’t be creepy.I’m a 25 year old guy and my mom is 47. My father and her have been divorced for 6 years by now. They met in college and all. My father has his own life and we don’t tal... | AITA For Arguing With Mom About Her Dating Life | YTA |
10vtokf | I, 22F live with one roommate 21F in a small apartment. We were friends before becoming roommates and we were always at each others houses anyways, so it seemed to make sense to be roommates. Everything was going so well until about three months into the lease she started dating her boyfriend, 24M. At the beginning I w... | WIBTA for going to my landlord? | NTA |
10vn0to | My (31m) gf (30f) is having a large bday party next week. I have struggled with alcohol addiction for a while. I am 15 days sober.I told my gf I’m not going to a party with alcohol. She said if that’s the problem it will be a non-alcoholic party. People are going to wonder why there is no alcohol and I know they’ll b... | AITA for not going to my girlfriend’s birthday party? | NTA |
10vr6ji | My sister has lived with me and my husband more-on-than-off for 10 years, beginning with sleeping on our couch for free in a 600 sq/ft apartment downtown Vancouver, to her own bedroom/bath in a shared 2B condo for $300, to now a separate 2B basement suite in Squamish, originally for $900, recently increased to $1200. F... | AITA for asking my sister and roommate/tenant for 10 years to finally move out? | NTA |
10vu2q1 | my girlfriend & i (25M, 26F) have been dating for 2 years now. due to her current life circumstances, she has been in a constant state of stress/anxiety for the last year. recently she began displaying some usual & concerning symptoms... after some testing, we learned that she has lupus. she has no family histo... | AITA for not canceling my trip after my girlfriend was diagnosed with lupus | NAH |
10vq2a7 | I (F31) am helping my Mom (F66) plan a milestone birthday party for my grandmother(F 99!). We are organizing the party including the venue, catering, decorations, and invitations and guest list.I sent the invitations out and had people RSVP to my Mom because a lot of Gran’s old friends and relatives know my mom better ... | AITA for telling my cousin it was inappropriate to invite his daughter to my Grandmother’s birthday? | YTA |
10vmovh | My dentist recently recommended that I get Invisalign, and I mentioned that to my fiancé. He also expressed interest in getting it, as his dentist recommended it as well. For the record, we have completely different dentists and different dental insurance. I scheduled the consultation a few days later, after my most re... | AITA for getting Invisalign? | NTA |
10vve5z | my wedding (shaadi) is in 10 days and my mother in law has gotten me lots of pakistani suits and dresses, and i love them and they’re beautiful, but the sleeves are either too short or see through.i have never worn short sleeves or see through sleeves because i’m insecure of my arms because they’re big and i have scars... | AITA because mother in law got me clothes i love but can’t wear | NTA |
10vrtk7 | I (F 27) and my husband (M 28), have been together for the past 6 years. My husband let me know when we first got together about his dad, the abuse, negativity, drinking etc. He let me know in advance of what to expect but I had no idea how bad it would be. My first experience was when we moved in together, when my hus... | AITA for calling my FIL out and ruining family dinner? | NTA |
10vkvk6 | Hi! I just turned 33 today (33/F). I have no plans today but I do have plans over the span of the next week. Anyway, I used to be very close with a girl from ages 25-30. I’d say we were best friends basically. She got into a relationship a few years ago and we have since drifted apart (which is to be expected when you ... | AITA for cutting my friend off after she cancelled birthday dinner plans? | NTA |
10vu28i | Ill give some context here first so there's some idea of the situation. I have a 2 bedroom apartment with my fiance and my 2 yo son. I am currently 22 weeks pregnant with my 2nd child. My name is the only name on my lease because I moved in first before my fiance and our roommate moved in later as well. I (21 F) and my... | AITA for wanting my roommate and his gf to respect my boundaries? | NTA |
10vn2zg | My boyfriend and I of 4 years have unsupportive ignorant genx and boomer parents. We live right in the middle of New York City and we’re currently moving out to Minnesota. We already paid for a AirB&B (since neither wanted to co-sign for us) and we have been employed by the job before we told my parents we’re movin... | AITA I accidentally made my parents homeless? | NTA |
10vszxx | So, yesterday evening, these guys were having a conversation in our school Whatsapp group. I (17 M) was just reading the messages and not responding to anything when I noticed that one of them started making fun of a boy in our class.He was essentially fat-shaming him, although they termed it as a "joke" and that it wa... | AITA for telling my classmates that it's not cool to make fun of a boy in class? | NTA |
10vfrnh | So I (20nb) have always been a bit strange when it comes to grief I just don't really. I honestly think it may be because of my autism I process those emotions differently. I'm upset when I find out someone close dies of course but it's never visible like I don't cry and tend to move on very quickly. Anyway my uncle di... | AITA for not acting “correctly” at a funeral? | NTA |
10vuzbp | Hi, I'm 15 (m), and 2 days ago, my sister lashed out on me because I wanted my tablet back because that was her only source of talking to her boyfriend. We both mutually agreed that 10 pm is when my tablet will be returned to me. She vented to our mom, causing my mom to strip away my rights to using my tablet my dad pa... | AITA for wanting my tablet back? | NTA |
10vtyj7 | I (17f) have a little brother (15m) who just had his birthday. Ever since then I feel like his behavior has been escalating alot. Tonight it really boiled over and it was because of me. He's been very aggressive towards my mother(42f) and father (50m), starting arguments and picking fights, but I try and ignore him.My ... | AITA for keeping quiet when my parents cornered my brother? | NTA |
10vpdxq | My Flatmate twisted her ankle last week. Her friend drove her to the hospital and they gave her some crutches. It’s been a week and the swelling has completely gone down and she’s able to walk without her crutches. She called me today while at work and asked me to drive her to the hospital tonight after work (and wait ... | AITA for not offering to wait with my Flatmate at the hospital? | NTA |
10vlpr4 | My only child, 11 year old son, has the schizoid personality disorder and thus doesn't like being the center of attention.Yesterday night, we were having a big dinner will all of our families, including my husband’s parents, siblings, nieces and nephews, and my own.Everything was going fine until no one was talking. Na... | AITA for scolding my husband for making our son uncomfortable? | YTA |
10vwnsu | Me (24m) and my gf (22f) have been together for over 2 years. Towards the beginning of the relationship my gf was talking about a friend of hers that looked through her boyfriends phone and we both agreed that it's an unhealthy thing to do and we would never do that. Recently my gf asked if she would be able to look th... | AITA for not letting my girlfriend look through my phone? | NTA |
10vrp05 | I 27F am getting married soon. Due to budget constraints my fiancé and I decided to not give plus 1s to friends and co workers. I order to cut cost , we decided to seat friends from the same friend group together so that they can mingle with each other and the same concept applied to colleagues. I have this one friend ... | AITA for not inviting my close friend to my wedding | NTA |
10vplz3 | AITA For refusing to buy a bridesmaid dress? I was invited to be a bridesmaid for a friend's wedding. She's a very close friend and has known me since childhood and I was happy to be her bridesmaid. She had also chosen one of her work colleagues to be the maid of honor. Problems started to arise when the bride took us ... | AITA Bridesmaid dress dilemma | YTA |
10vg5ui | I have COVID and am having respiratory distress. I can't stand without fainting. My heart rate is 160 and it's hard to breathe. I can't care for my 2 year old. My husband will get fired if he calls in to care for our daughter and me. I asked MIL for help and she said she would watch her for one night but no more for hu... | AITA for pointing out MILs blatant favoritism? | NTA |
10vlu7s | I (28M) got a job offer in another state that has great pay and great benefits. My wife (31F) is ready to move our two kids for the opportunity. However, my parents say we “support you” then go into a long explanation how my mother is depressed and would be devastated if we moved her grandkids away and how my father st... | AITA for wanting to move my family away from their grandparents for a new job | NTA |
10vwady | Sorry for spelling or grammar errors, i usually just read posts on here. I (f21) yelled at my (step) little sister (f16) for the first time today. For context, my (m19) (step) brother has a girlfriend (f20). From the day that I met her I've been courteous and kind. From asking her how her da went, to consoling her when... | AITA for yelling at my little sister? | ESH |
10vlc4t | I (17m) asked my sister (13f) to clean up the blood in the bathroom after her period and she blew up at me. She says I should be more considerate of “women's needs” and I shouldn’t get in her business about it. I understand this is something she can’t help but at the same time I don’t think it’s my responsibility to p... | AITA For asking my sister to clean the bathroom after her period? | NTA |
10vogxj | I don’t mind doing laundry. I started doing my own laundry when I was about 15 or 16 so I could have my favorite clothes ready for school. In college I did all my own laundry. After college I lived alone for many years and always did my own laundry.I’m married now and we have two kids. Obviously that means a lot of dir... | AITA for refusing to help with the laundry? | YTA |
10vrz5k | I was 17 and worked hard to save money to go to one of my favorite concerts. My sister was upset that she didn’t get to go and whines to my mom. She tells my mom that it wasn’t fair that I get to go to a concert and go out of town for my spring break while her dad wouldn’t give her money for her spring break and she di... | AITA for spoiling myself? | NTA |
10viihj | My brother (17, lets call him K) is heavily autistic, he basically had the mindset of a 4 year old. My sister (15, let's call her F) is like me; neurotypical. I am a bit older than my siblings and have decided to keep living at home because my brother doesn't like to be away from me; So, for now, I live with my parents... | AITA for telling my sister's friends to "get out"? | NTA |
10vh14l | I (29f) am dating my boyfriend (38) for 1,5 years. I am an immigrant from a 3rd world country, and he was born here. It is a prosperous country in Europe. I am here for a bit more than 4 years, graduated (my 2nd education) and found a full-time job in the IT industry where I work now.In the beginning of our relationshi... | AITA for refusing to continue financially supporting my boyfriend who is unemployed for a year? | NTA |
10vjkyb | I (23m) recently just got engaged to my now fiancé (28m). I decided that i want to take my fiancé's last name. My mum is pretty upset with it and really doesn't want me too.For context why, I have my mums last name. My dad was a deadbeat so when he left mum changed my last name to hers. Mum has 3 other kids, 2 with the... | AITA for wanting to take my fiancé's last name and upsetting my mum | NTA |
10vkbi4 | AITA for deciding to not attend my brother’s destination wedding?Background: My brother has, over the past year, met and proposed to his girlfriend (now wife) in Turkey. They have spent a total of 4 weeks together in person. He has tried to get her to Canada on a visitor’s visa, and been denied twice. This past month h... | AITA for refusing my brother’s destination wedding? | NTA |
10vt7md | I have been diagnosed with young onset Parkinson's disease in 2004 when my kids were only 2and 5. As the years have gone by, nearly 20 years i have a problem brushing my hair and teeth every day and also showering every day. Do i have a valid reason as these seemingly tasks are monumental to me.It is truly difficult ... | AITA if I don't brush my teeth every day | NTA |
10vg9rp | I’ve been living with my in laws for the past 2 years and we’ve all (mil, fil, husband and I ) have been on multiple weekend getaways together. We had also planned inter city and international travels together but got cancelled for some or the other reason ( not me refusing to go) I’ve been on a weekend getaway with th... | AITA for refusing on going on a trip with my in-laws, when I just went on one 2 months back? | NTA |
10vne8x | Myself and friends 1+2+3 have had a lot of good times. Skiing, biking, travelling etc. I introduced them all to each other about \~3 years ago. The've been my core group of friends and we're all living far from home.I've a tendancy to want to help people do things I think they should do and I often get overly excited a... | AITA because I pushed my friend into making decisions? | ESH |
10vvemh | I have a friend (20F) that I met at group therapy back in the summer. She was having issues with her dad not being there and having a new family, she seemed nice but broken. I kinda related so I talked to her for a few days and we swapped numbers. She quit going to therapy a few weeks later.She uses me as an emotional ... | WIBTA if I made up a lie about dealing with family issues to my friend, as a reason to end the friendship? | NTA |
10vnb9k | TLDR: I feed feral cats, my neighbor doesn't like it and is leaving bags of cat poop on my property.I moved into my current house - a duplex - in March of 2020. There was a colony of feral cats that hung out on the property, and the previous tenant left food and water out for them, especially during the hot Phoenix sum... | AITA: Feeding feral cats | YTA |
10vjs3d | I (18F) have recently moved out of my mums house. She lives at home with my two younger brothers. I moved out and moved 300 miles away for university, however I have since dropped out but I decided to stay in the area and move into my boyfriends house (he lives near the uni I went to). My mum has been sick for some tim... | AITA for not moving back home to help my sick mother? | NTA |
10vwphc | I recently found out that my friend (Sarah) is dating a friend of a friend (Michael). I do not like Michael. Sarah told me that she is dating Michael, and upon seeing my shocked face was very curious to know what I knew about him. I told her about my previous experiences with him, some things and interactions I didn’t... | AITA for telling my friend information about the guy (who I also know) she just started dating? | NTA |
10vqnes | I know it sounds terrible, but let me explain first. For context, my mom is an alcoholic as she has been throughout my whole life. A few weeks ago, she got so drunk that she fell right on her arm and broke it (This isn’t the first time she’s broken a bone over drinking too much alcohol) It was late & i got awoken b... | AITA for getting angry when my narcissist mom (with a broken arm) asks me for help? | NTA |
10vsm0z | I (22f) just got engaged last year. I never was a person that wanted a wedding as I don’t want to deal with the stress and money. However my fiancé wanted a wedding so we agreed to have one and I’m trying to make it the best we can both enjoy. When I was deciding to chose my moh I was stuck between two friends for priv... | AITA for not choosing my best friend of 10 yrs to be my moh? | NTA |
10vwn59 | I’m 21. This was when I was working at Walmart last year. My mom and stepdad always tried to pawn my siblings off on me so they could go out and do whatever and didn’t care about what I had to do. They called me at work and asked if I could use my paid protected time off(which is limited and hard to build up considerin... | AITA for refusing to leave work to watch my brother? | NTA |
10vwlu4 | I'm 27F. The guys in my group often post "funny" videos about women saying "stupid stuffs" then they'll insult the woman in the video, calling them dumb etc. They never post any "funny" videos about men, only women.When I see that I somehow get irritated. I can't really explain how or why.. I usually get irritated the ... | AITA for getting annoyed at guys making fun of girls on a video | NTA |
10vv127 | I do not mean any disrespect to anyone, and I do love her a lot. I'm (23M) in law school currently, in August I will start my master's from a very reputed law school in a different city that offers considerably well paying jobs. I am expected to do well after this. Right now i live with my Family, which is just my pare... | AITA if i decline an offer to live with my girlfriend? | YTA |
10vgvr8 | I (29F) have been seeing this client (25M) for about 18 months now. When we started, he was very overweight. He made great progress and lost all that fat and is in a much better place now. About a year in, he started to start building abs, then his progress stalled then subsequently rapidly increased. I was very proud ... | AITA for threatening to drop my personal training client if he continues to use performance enhancing drugs? | NTA |
10vrbjo | So for some context, about a week ago my mom threw me out and I've been staying with my grandma ever since. I've been sleeping in her living room which doesn't allow for a lot of alone time until she goes to bed. My grandmother takes care of my second cousin N (27f) and my first cousin S (6f, not important to the story... | AITA for telling my disabled cousin to leave me alone? | YTA |
10vmpmc | I (34m) have two friends, Justin (42m) and Sarah(29f). Sarah and Justin have never met.I am close friends with both but neither have met the other. I’ve known Justin for ten years and I’ve known Sarah for about four months.Justin is the man I turn to whenever I amUpset or need support. Sarah and I have a similar relati... | AITA for getting a friend excluded from a superbowl party? | NTA |
10vw9y5 | I (33f) have family in Italy but live in another European country (approximately 3000km’s away). My father is Italian and he and my mother go visit the country every year. I have a brother (40m) who is married to my SIL (37f) and they have 2 kids (10m and 7m). I am also married to my husband (34m) and we have also 2 ki... | AITA for not wanting to go on a vacation with my family? | NTA |
10vjjxx | I (20M) have decided I want to purchase a tarantula as a pet for some companionship during my times at college. I live in an apartment with 4 other guys (all of us have private bedrooms) and 3 of them are fine with me getting a tarantula, but the other one... not so much. He claims that the presence of a tarantula in t... | AITA for getting a pet tarantula when my roommate has already said no | YTA |
10vqp6u | Sorry for any formatting issues, mobile is difficult to work with. I (15F) have a cousin (14F), we'll call her Ava, who typically comes to my room to gossip whenever they visit, then disappear until they have to leave. Throughout the last year or so, they've been ranting to me about how they were dating so and so, dump... | AITA for thinking that my cousin may be the problem? | NTA |
10vvzsv | I (17 F) am always “negative” according to my mother (44 F). She is alwyas saying i’m negative and saying i’m alwyas so hard to be around. Here is an example of when i am negative as such. So my little brother (14 M) hates doing chores as we all do. Well while im doing my chores ( which is the bulk of the house since i... | AITA for being always negative towards my family. | NTA |
10vl8f7 | Throwaway and on mobile, all fake namesSo the issue is that I (18F) forgot to attend my friend's (19M) father's vigil this past Friday but I also don't really feel bad for it. Backstory:I think it's important to mention that I used to be really close friends with him, who will now be called James. But we haven't really... | AITA for not responding and keeping up with my friend in his time of need? | YTA |
10vtsnx | AITA for not reaching out to my now ex-bestfriend after she repeatedly abandoned me and ignored me?I 15f recently got in a fight with my best friend 16f, basically she's been dating her boyfriend 16m for a year now and he does not allow her to hang out with anyone but him at school ever. I have known my friend for abou... | AITA for not reaching out to my now ex-bestfriend after she repeatedly abandoned me and ignored me? | NTA |
10vr00t | For the sake of this post i'll refer to myself as Anne and my sister as Jane. My sister jane had severe mental health problems as a child and was in and out of psych wards for years. At the time I tried to be a better sister to her bc I did feel I caused most of it due to bullying her when we were kids. I apologized to... | AITA for faking mental health struggles and a disabilty? | YTA |
10vlm2c | So I (m/26) have been dating my gf (f/27) for 4 months now. Things have been great, we have alot in common, and i get along well with her family for the most part. But, our main arguments lately have been about her parents refusal to allow her to spend the night with me at my apartment. I have told her repeatedly that ... | AITA for telling my girlfriend that she needs to stand up to her parents? | YTA |
10vuy1c | A few months ago I started dating a girl with a psychological disorder, but she's still just an amazing girl and it doesn't really affect our relationship (despite the distance). Obviously I know that this brings difficult situations and that the way to deal with it is different, there's always one more concern, but ... | AITA for prioritizing my happiness over my parents' wishes? | NTA |
10vqbsb | My best friend (19F) and I (20F) have been living together for 6 months now and recently had an argument that may lead to her getting kicked out. We have been really good friends for about 10 years. For college my father sold our house and bought a townhouse near campus for me. I know she is a messy person, since we ha... | AITA for doing every chore? | NTA |
10vmcns | So I (24m) live with Dan and Rob (both 24m). The three of us have been friends our entire lives. Dan has a girlfriend, Cass. So call us immature but a running joke we’ve had amongst the three of us for years is that we “pants” each other (pull down each other’s pants). We would never do it in public and it’s not like... | AITA for pulling down my roommate’s pants in front of his girlfriend and our other roommate? | YTA |
10vusar | I am a 16 year old male who enjoys playing games. My father hates them with a burning passion, last night I was playing and he told me to get off, I said sure and told him I would get off after this game, he said ok and left my room. I came out five minutes later after I finished my game, he then proceeds to tell me he... | AITA for playing video games | NTA |
10vwul2 | I live across the world from my home country for many years and my dad has never come visit, not even for my graduation. I asked my dad when was he gonna come visit now that I have a LO. Apparently he didn’t want to come at all but he wouldn’t directly say it. Every time I mentioned it he would get extremely worked up ... | AITA for asking my dad to come see my newborn baby and help out | NTA |
10vsqd5 | My brother, "James," (31) has not spoken more than a couple of words to me (29F) for over 3 years. My parents really want us to mend our relationship, but I don't know how or even if I want to. For backstory, we have never gotten along. We were both horrible to each other in different ways growing up and that has led t... | AITA for Sleeping in My Car Three Years Ago | NTA |
10vsq61 | Hi! School just started back today and in one of my classes I have sat in this same spot for around 3 years now. Since school started this year someone else has been sitting in that seat and although it doesnt really seem like a big deal my new spot feels quite isolated so I don’t feel as comfortable as i was in my old... | AITA for wanting to ‘steal’ my classroom seat back? | NTA |
10vnkuo | The title explains itself but, I (14F) are supposed to pick the classes I want to do for high school in a couple days. Some people not really sure who came down to the middle school to explain what the programs and classes were, how much credits we needed etc. Enrollments start on February 10th, but they said it was a ... | AITA for not originally agreeing to picking another elective for freshman year? | NTA |
10vke79 | My (24M) GF (23F) got an oil change today. She called me and told me it was expensive for her, being a broke post-grad student. I was like huh? For a simple oil change? She explained that when she was there the guy said they should also check and top off all her fluids. He also said the last person who changed her oil ... | AITA for insinuating to my GF that sometimes guys at car shops will try to upsell clueless people ridiculous things they don't need after she paid $150+ for an oil change? | YTA |
10vogwi | Financial context: My(23M) girlfriend(24F) has been living with me for one year and before she moved in we had a talk and I told her the only way it would work is if she pays $400 twice a month so that I know she’s serious about living with me and because I didn’t want the added expense of her living with me to slow my... | AITA for expecting more from my girlfriend? | NTA |
10vsij1 | I’m not even sure how I got into my current predicament but I will do my best to give an unbiased account. We were recently on a short road trip with one of his friends. Throughout the day I kept getting picked on. Comments like “if you don’t know about it then just shut the fuck up” when I suggested something and “I’v... | AITA? My fiancé (32M) and I (27F) are in the silent treatment and I refuse to give in first…am I the asshole? | NTA |
10vubb9 | Hey guys so here’s a fun one for y’all to tear up because I probably am the asshole. So I (18f) got engaged to my partner (18f) a couple days before she left for basic training. I love my lady to death but long distance is fucking killing me. We live together and have for the past 6 months, I have never felt more alone... | AITA for wanting to break off an engagement but stay together | NTA |
10vk7kt | My mother in law who has been uninvolved with anyone/single most of my wife's upbringing is very active in our twins' lives, she babysits often (10-15 nights yearly). There's never been a worry about a boyfriend or strangers around our children when she has them! She about a year ago rekindled a relationship with her ... | AITAH mother in law overstepping? | YTA |
10vwhr6 | Me (17M) and my friend group (all 17M) have been around each other for around 6 years. We are not very good at social interactions and we are not good at social cues. This is important, it think.My friend (lets call him Carl) was complaining about a teacher "discriminating" against him. So basically he has a bad r... | AITA for making a joke about my friend. | NTA |
10vgrho | I walked into my mom holding the dog on her lap and cutting up her fur with my razor. I think it’s quite unhygienic to share shaving equipment with other people, let alone dogs.Before my mom could shave off anymore, i snatched it from her, making sure it was far enough from the dog.OP: why would you use my stuff? Didn’... | AITA for not letting my mom use my shaving equipment on our dogs? | NTA |
10vwgni | I (40M) have 2 kids, Matt (16M) and Macy (16F). Macy has a lot of mental health issues including schizophrenia which she has a therapist for and has had her mental health pretty well controlled. I was recently tidying up her room a bit, since she has a hard time maintaining her own space that I like to help her out a b... | AITA for grounding my son after he put piss bottles in his sisters drawers? | YTA |
10vn393 | Ok, a bit of context here. (BTW, english isn't my first language so expect gramatical errors) I (18M) am in highschool, and I have this friend of mine (18M). He isn't the smartest student out there, and his habits doesn't make it any better. He doesn't pay attention in classes, he sleeps through them and sometimes he ... | AITA for not letting my friend know his whole school project is wrong? | YTA |
10vicon | Me and my husband (both25) currently have a lease ending next month. We have a 1 year old and I’m 9 months pregnant with our second son.I live 100 miles away from all my family and friends and I’ve been incredibly lonely. I haven’t made any friends living here for the past 3 years and his family couldn’t care less abou... | AITA for calling my husband a rude word for not signing a lease | NTA |
10vqcjz | I (24F) attended a friend's 24th birthday party Saturday and had some issues. There were only four of us there, and two of the girls got drunk (totally allowed since one of them was the birthday girl). As they started to drink, they got more belligerent toward me like calling me a racist (I was talking about how white ... | AITA For Apologizing to my Friend | NTA |
10vw42f | I had one cat I adopted him since he is 3, and now he is around 8. He is a good friend but a very loud one(seriously loud).I had a distanced(CA, TX) girlfriend, and we planned to get married asap. She wants me to move in with her now, and we plan to have a kid asap. The problem is that she already had two cats at her p... | AITA thinking rehome my cat | YTA |
10vjhkc | Some context. I (25f) have 3 roommates: Jessie (25f), Casey (26f), Parker (25f) (fake names). Jessie and Casey moved in in August and did not know each other prior. Parker and I have been living in this apartment the last 2 years and have become good friends. We have all been on good terms as in there have not been inc... | AITA for “hogging” the living room during my roommates’ party | NTA |
10vi4mn | My husband, I and our two kids live with my FIL in a house that we own. My husband works full time 6 days a week and my FIL works two days a week. My husband and I handle all of the bills except “rent” my FIL pays that. He has a habit of calling into work for no reason other than he doesn’t feel like going. Now I’m not... | WIBTA for asking my FIL to pitch in around the house? | NTA |
10vjc7b | Me - f18Dad - m49​My mum, f40, recently went abroad to see her family for the first time in years. Prior to leaving, she expressed her concerns with me about me being forced to basically maintain the house and become a temporary mum while she was gone and I had exams (not a crazy percentage of my degree, but... | WIBTA if i gave my dad an itemized bill? | NTA |
10vq2lc | My boyfriend (24M) and I (25F) are very open about past relationships, abuse and insecurities we have experienced, and we talk through things pretty well. During one of our conversations, he brought up that he had a previous "friends with benefits" type situation with a female coworker. We'll call her "Cassie". This ev... | WIBTA for asking my bf to spend less time with his female coworker/friend? | YWNBTA |
10vvwoe | My roommate is having me kicked out because I was unable to get a job "in time" (keep in mind the job market sucks even for retail, and she only gave me like 3 months) and because apparently my phone calls are too loud and she supposedly is losing sleep over them.One major thing is that she is an intimidating person an... | AITA for not signing the lease break against my roommate's will? | YTA |
10vtex2 | My best friend and I (both 17F) have known each other for 4 years, and I honestly don’t know where I would be without her; she has changed my life for the better and I love her like a sister. We have a rocky past though, we always got along but for a period of time a group of girls at our middle school peer-pressured h... | WIBTA if I told my friend she is not the main character? | NTA |
10vjp1u | I (23M) live with my parents (45F and 48M) and my severely disabled sister (22F, she doesn't move, she doesn't talk, she doesn't do anything. Some people called people like her "a vegetable"). I have also disabled gf (19F). I'm earning 1200$ per month from my work. I'm living in a country, that you can live in comfort ... | AITA for not wanting to pay more money? | NTA |
10vt5xs | So this involves me, and three friends, Nathan, Xavier and Tally- all fake names (For context we are all in high school)To put it bluntly, I've had a crush on Nathan for a while. This isn't just based on looks or a short passing crush. I've been dealing with these feelings for months, I really like them. I told Xavier ... | AITA for wanting some space? | NTA |
10vt5q4 | So I (17F) haven’t had the best relationship with my mom, she has been mentally abusive since I was younger. Now that my 18th birthday is coming up in a few months I was thinking about how I wanted to spend it, my original idea was to fly down to a national park with my long distance boyfriend and spend 2 weeks there. ... | AITA for not wanting to spend my birthday with my mom? | NTA |
10vr4wg | Hey everyone so to start off, I have online friends I meant through gaming, and for those who don’t know we use an app called discord with voice channels for us to talk to each other. So amongst all of us we jokingly talk shit to each other we say stuff to each other just to fuck around and we all know we aren’t seriou... | AITA for jokingly making a comment to my friend about something he’s already aware of? | NTA |
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