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10w54mt
When I was 16, I used retainers for a while and while my parents were getting a divorce, my dental treatments were highly delayed. I didnt know a lot or any better at the time to be on top of it and to ask my parents to take me to my appointments. They were going through a lot anyways so I didnt think of it. But during...
WIBTA if I(32m) ask my mom to pay for my dental treatments?
YWBTA
10w53yr
I (17F) have been having insomnia. I’m used to just ignoring my health issues, because my parents never take me to the doctors unless I beg them to for multiple days. I woke up at around 9:00 am to go downstairs and make breakfast. I put an English muffin into the toaster, and my dad (51M)comes into the kitchen, saying...
AITA for telling my dad that I have insomnia
NTA
10w4xlg
I (22M) am marrying the most amazing woman I’ve ever met(21F), I’ll call her L. I met L about 2 years ago and we’ve had a rough time with my mom (42F) I’ll call her A. When I first met L she had a 7mo old baby boy that I fell in love with and have been blessed enough to call mine aswell. She brought our son to meet my ...
AITA for not inviting my mom to my wedding?
NTA
10w1g2z
Gonna try and keep this backstory short, so here goes. My mum and dad grew up in Ireland and New Zealand respectively. They met when my dad was backpacking and moved over to Australia and had me. Becuase of this, I was never remarkably close with any of my extended family.It’s not like I never talked to them, I saw the...
AITA for not wanting to start online friendships with my cousins?
NTA
10vzpka
This happened maybe a year ago now, but I'm still thinking about it. I (20m, 19m at the time) live with my girlfriend and her family. Her older sister (22 f, 21f at the time) who we'll call Charity was a few grades above me in high school. She's tall and broad-shouldered, and she took weightlifting classes all year, so...
AITA for checking the litter boxes?
NTA
10w50qw
Background: parents breed large dogs. A family member and myself live with parents (moved back in to save for house, pay rent, etc). Family member and my sibling both have puppies from my parents for free.My parent last night told me she doesn’t want my partner (who I don’t live with) to buy a puppy from them because w...
WIBTA to stop helping my parents with their animals?
NTA
10w156g
I (21m) have been dating my girlfriend (19f) and recently I have been coming around her house. Every time I go to her house her dog acts quite strangely to me, the first time he tried to attack me but recently he has become quite friendly. So friendly IN FACT that he now licks my crotch and I told her that I don’t feel...
AITA For telling my girlfriend I don’t like her dog
NTA
10w2pxt
I bought a house last year that my fiancé and I moved into. The house is in my name since I put all the money down, she agreed to give me $600/month toward the payment (about 30% of the total) and split utilities. We normally split most expenses 50/50. In November 2022 she said she didn’t like the cold and wanted to go...
AITA for asking my fiancé to continue to split utilities while she travels?
NTA
10vz6oc
Okay so short story long- My(29F) partner and I live two hours away from my parents. My sister(25F) lives about half an hour from them and is often over for there for dinner and visiting them. Anytime my partner and I want to come and visit my parents- she’s there. Whilst we do get along- she’s a moody individual. Make...
WIBTA for telling my parents I’d like to spend time with them without my sister there?
NTA
10w5p32
So yesterday evening we had a man from Sky replacing some wires for our Internet, including putting a new one in from out old socket to the new one. Unknown to me, he left some screws on the floor and some wiring. I (24m) Woke up this morning to my Dad's gf (He is Way for work) shouting at me saying I intentionally lef...
AITA? Dad's GF started shouting at me so I shouted back.
NTA
10w5gea
I started a new job around 6 months ago and my workplace is primarily female. 3 other people started at the same time as me but only 1 of them was doing the same job as me, lets call her Rebecca (23f). The job is mainly work from home so I have barely even met a lot of the people I work with and the ones I have met, I ...
AITA for refusing to cut down talking to a colleague?
NTA
10vywxo
A throwaway account since my boyfriend is a fellow redditor.I (F21) am a college student with no income. My boyfriend of 2 years (M23) runs his own company and makes quite a lot of money. A couple of months ago, we went on a trip that we paid for fifty-fifty. I really enjoyed it, but I basically spent all of my money o...
AITA for refusing to go on a trip all paid for by my boyfriend?
NAH
10w3edw
I (19) lost my car due to black ice on an interstate and had been pressured by my Grandma (G) and Dad (D) to buy a car off my uncle for $500 and I didn't want to because my Uncle doesn't maintenance or take care of his vehicles, but I bought it to get them off my back about it. The car has 2 major leaks and no electri...
WIBTA For Telling My Grandma To Keep Her Car?
NTA
10w4b0b
My girlfriend (26F) and I (27M) have been dating for 2.5 years. I’m budget-conscious and into personal finance, and she is…not. I’ve tried to educate her on how to manage her finances, but she’s never taken it to heart and has essentially lived paycheck to paycheck for our entire relationship.For context, we were makin...
AITA for taking over my girlfriend’s finances because she wasn’t paying rent or debts?
NTA
10w2qgk
Hey all, I was made best man for my brothers wedding around 8 months ago along with one of my brothers closest friends. To cut a long story short 6 months ago I messaged other best man asking if I could do anything to help with the stag do and was met with a reply of its all OK at the moment but may need help with acti...
AITA? Feel like I've failed at best man duties
INFO
10w1jyv
I (17f) and him (17m) are both still in high school. We both are in our high school band but different instrument’s so different band classes. He has a concert today which is during the school day and I wanted to go and was going to miss then first half of my school day to go.I WAS going to miss the FIRST half of my sc...
AITA for not going to my boyfriends concert
NTA
10w3wn5
We're good friends, but not very close. I wrote "girl friend" and not female friend 'cause I think some people see the word female as offensive.**She's not little by any standards; she's about 5'6" or 7" tall with average build (not too fat, not too skinny).** We're both in our twenties.We were at a group hangout in so...
AITA for calling my girl friend "little"?
NTA
10w2g63
My (38F) husband (40M) has always had trouble waking up in the morning, and I've known this for 20 years. We've been together for 20 years, married for 8. There are stories of his mom shooting him in the face in the morning with a water gun and him still not flinching. He's a very heavy sleeper and it's one of the bigg...
AITA for nagging my husband in the morning in front of our kids?
NTA
10w3oa7
My son and his girlfriend (both early 20s) were pregnant with my first grandchild but had a miscarriage a few days ago, they're both sad but relieved as they didn't feel ready to be parents yet and I have been trying to support them however I can. As I didn't feel it was my news to share, I hadn't told anybody about th...
AITA for not telling my mother she was going to be a great grandmother
NTA
10w3kgm
When I was 14 my older brother went to prison. He was 18 at the time. I've only ever visited him once with my mom because he was on the other side of the country but we talked on the phone a few times a month. He was released just over a month ago. Before he was released I asked my fiancée if he could stay with us for ...
AITA for telling my fiancée that my brother is more important to me?
YTA
10w39n3
I (19M) have a friend (18F) who I spend a lot of time with. She got out of a 3 month long relationship over 4 months ago with one of my other friends who, for the sake of this post, we’ll call Adam (18M) Adam was staying with my friend in her university accommodation for the duration of their relationship, and when the...
AITA for telling my friend to stop telling me about her ex boyfriend?
NTA
10w4ljr
I (31f) and my husband (31m) have been married for 5 years. In our 20s we both would drink and smoke, until it eventually turned into me preferring alcohol and him preferring to smoke weed. This wouldn't be everyday but maybe a few times a week. Now in our 30s, I haven't smoked anything in years and will maybe have one...
AITA for expecting my husband to stop smoking weed?
NTA
10w4b75
it's been a while since i've made the original post and back then, i was hoping to seek some validation for my actions. needless to say, despite everyone saying everyone sucked in that post, i took the yta comments seriously and decided to ultimately let him come with me with his parents' money and apologize for comin...
UPDATE: AITA for not allowing my boyfriend to come with me on a trip since he was about to ask his parents to pay for all expenses?
YTA
10w42gz
This happened quite a while ago, so I may be a little fuzzy in terms of the details. I had gone out to eat late a night with a couple friends and there was a really drunk chick at the restaurant.While my friends and I are eating, the girl decides to have a seat at our table and we make it pretty clear that she was unwe...
AITA for refusing to pay for my food?
NTA
10w28fq
I have always been very close with the rest of his family. His sister, though, there’s something about her. She’s always just been very bitchy, fake nice towards me, and hasn’t done anything to make me feel welcomed. When I first met her, she started a huge fight with my boyfriend because I was wearing one of her old ...
AITA for unfollowing my boyfriends sister on instagram?
ESH
10w3v91
Hello, everyone.Please,do not put this on other social media, tiktok and others.This is my first post, since I haven't been on reddit that long.I guess I just want some opinions from someone who is not involved in the situation that has happened. Around two months ago, I became a single mother (left really abusive rela...
AITA for trying to make more money to cover all my expenses?
NTA
10w1vxf
For some context, I (16, M) have had a kind of a rough school year, but finally made it through after finishing due subjects in a December Intensification Period. (I have no idea how it is done in the US, but in Argentina we finish up school in November and have December and January left over as vacations. If you don't...
AITA for rather spending a vacation with my friends rather than my parents?
NTA
10w3ecu
Basically, growing up I always knew my mum was a bit difficult. Could never admit being wrong, loved to tell stories aboiut being rude to minimum wage workers, always had something to complain about, fell out with friends etc.​Once I started a long term relationship, got married, and had kids this got worse....
AITA for telling my mum to fuck off?
NTA
10w5k5p
I (18M) and my best friend (18M) get along very well. We’ve been best friends for about two years now and always have fun together. However, we don’t see eye to eye on certain things, specifically relationships. I was best friends with a guy for most of my life. He was like my other half. Freshman year, he started dati...
AITA for calling my friend’s SO ugly?
YTA
10w5cm6
I’m 22f, my husband is 24m. We’ve been together for 5 years, married for 2. I’m an American citizen living in Sweden, he is Swedish. I moved here to be with him. Living together for 2 years.My girlfriends from back home are planning a trip to the Netherlands because they found a really good deal. I haven’t seen them si...
AITA for wanting to go on a girls trip without my husband for a week?
NTA
10w4xts
I 17(M) recently started college and my program is an engineering one and most students are men. I became friends with some people in the program most of which are men, but my closest friend currently is a girl (17F) as we just clicked during frosh and some group projects we did.I have not really been friends with many...
WIBTA for telling my friend to avoid girl topics and maybe dress differently when she hangs with our mostly male friend group
YWBTA
10vyhlg
I'm M19, moving out for the first time. I was pulled out of school in 5th grade to assist my disabled mother who rather than appreciated me, would scream every day, demand I do all of the house work, verbally abused me, took all of my things away and heavily monitored me. I was always told it was my fault if things wer...
AITA for not having/wanting a stronger bond with my mother?
NTA
10vyar2
To give a little background a little over a year ago my family moved from New York to Florida to support me because I was having a baby. Considering the fact that the prices in Florida are higher than where we lived in New York my parents and I signed a lease together temporarily so that we would all be able to save so...
AITA for not giving dad a ride to work?
NTA
10w1v94
My (F19) bf (M24) has done a lot of shitty downright bad things in the past, I'm not here to discuss that or to hear anything about that I should've left him that time but just about specific small things like this that I just don't understand.So about 6 months ago me and him had broken up for about 1 month and in that...
AITA for being Insulted by my bf suggesting I dye my hair like the girl he led on?
ESH
10vzz6k
I live in a house with three roommates. Two of my roommates and myself like to smoke weed (it's legal). The other roommate, 'Jay', is not a smoker. Things started off fine, until Jay realized that the smell of weed makes them nauseous. No problem I thought, I made sure to always leave the window open after to air thing...
AITA for smoking in my house
YTA
10w3dd6
I'm sorry, I really tried but I I couldn't fit in the word limit, so the end of the story will be in the comments.I (18yoNB) have a groupe of friends since highschool. They are really precious to me and we form a chosen family since we kind of all have family issues.The year before this story, we all went at our friend...
AITA for refusing to communicate with someone who didn't hurt me
NTA
10w3d4a
I (f17) live with my grandparents because of school. My mother has an injury, because of that she does not have a job right now and can't work. My step-dad is the one withe the main income right now. My biological dad sends my mother child support every month. I get !00$ of that childsupport as pocket money. My parents...
AITA for having a list?
NTA
10w30e1
So my girlfriend and I broke up last year and she moved out. I needed to get a roommate quick , and found one online after bit of searching. He paid first and security, and was signed onto the lease for September, with rent due the first of every month.Late September, he decided he's going back to school (and getting f...
AITA for Flipping Out at My Roommate?
NTA
10w2rjp
I celebrated a milestone birthday last night with my GF, my mom and stepdad and my grandma on my mom's side. We went out to a very nice dinner, which my grandmother paid for. I never like celebrating out in public because I hate when restaurants sing to you. It doesn't matter which restaurant, whatever "happy happy bi...
AITA for hiding in the bathroom after the restaurant sang happy birthday to me?
NTA
10w2g2f
I (22) live with two roommates, M (21), and S (21). When we moved in, we all agreed to pick up after ourselves. We all agreed that our own messes are our own problems, and as such are our responsibility to take care of. S and I tend to stay in our rooms more than M does, so it's not hard for either of us to keep our me...
AITA for not helping my roommate clean up the house?
NTA
10w5393
Hi! For context, I’m 31/F. I have a pretty decent salary but I am single and do pay rent and all my bills on my own. My friend (she’s married and splits bills with her husband. He also makes over $200k just himself) and I are planning a trip to Europe for 2 weeks. We are driving throughout and staying in 4 different pl...
AITA: For not wanting to spend $500/night on a hotel?
NTA
10w1ipv
hi that random person that's new to Reddit againfyi this was heavily condensed bc the argument went on for about 2 hours(sry for the typos)its been barley 48 hours and I've managed to make my parents mad again :)this also may seems really childish but idc anymoreto sum it up my parents asked me to shower, I didn't comp...
AITA for not listening to my parents
INFO
10w3zox
I (18f) have been dating this guy (23m) for about 5 months. We are about to celebrate our first Valentine's day together.In all my relationships I have (which is about 2), I haven't been able to celebrate Valentine's Day. The relationship didn't last long enough to reach February. Even without romantic relationships, m...
WIBTA if I told my bf that I don't want to have dinner with his parents on Valentine's Day?
NTA
10w3ly5
I (19f) recently met my new neighbours, a group of early 20-something guys. All nice people. The issue is with Robert (21m). His room shares a wall with mine and I can hear everything. Every floor creak, every time he turns a plug on and every time he jerks off.I don't want to hear it. I feel like a total creep. He's n...
WIBTA if I let my neighbour know that I can hear EVERYTHING from his bedroom?
YWBTA
10w3drf
I'm 19F, my friend is 19M. He always talk to me how he wish that he has a friend with the same gender. His last friendship failed, in other words now he is stuck with me. I admit that I have attachment issue, but I'm pretty sure that this is not jealousy since I don't feel like I have any personal feelings toward him. ...
AITA for getting mad that my friends keep on talking about how he want to befriend others
YTA
10w00rr
Hi all, My (25F) partner (25m) and I have been together for three years. As long as it has been appropriate to do so, we have done joint gifts. With this, we have always had this unspoken rule where all presents for my family are purchased by me and all those for his family are purchased by him. This has worked well fo...
AITA for being confused about contributing to my sister-in-laws birthday gift?
NTA
10w2c0f
The whole dropping off the baby in their car seat and setting up a camera to capture it or worse, recording it as they drive away leaving relatives with little to no choice in regards to babysitting.I thought it was an asshole move and my coworker took offense to me saying so.So we’re on break in the break room and she...
AITA for calling out what I consider, cringe behavior?
NTA
10w271g
Throwaway account for reasons. I apologize for any improper formatting. So my(M) birthday was about a month ago and I wasn’t really planning on doing anything. My best friend’s(F) cousin(M) had told me he’d bought me something as a gift and that he had given it to my friend to give to me since he will be moving out of ...
AITA for wanting my birthday gift?
NTA
10vxt7j
I (F18) was in a relationship with a male who I don’t want to specify at all, a while ago. maybe about half a year ago. it’s been on my mind for a while and it hasn’t really been a huge drama but I am non binary and have gone by a preferred name for quite a few years now. when he met, due to circumstances he met me as ...
AITA for not using my ex’s preferred name?
NTA
10w63la
I 20f sit next to a guy in my research seminar class. Im sure he is a nice dude but there is one problem. He always comes in smelling like curry. We are packed together in a small windowless room for 3 hours and there is no way I can move my seat since there are no empty ones. I was thinking that if I came in before he...
WIBTA if I sprayed the desk next to me with perfume?
NTA
10w5ydi
I 25(F) have a friend(26M) whom I met via a game. We started playing together a lot and he lives in the same city as I do. He once asked me out and I politely declined and asked him if we can still continue to be gaming buddies and I agreed. He once made an inappropriate butt joke and i told him that I didnt like such ...
AITA for asking my gaming friend to not make inappropriate comments/jokes?
NTA
10vyjgm
I (22f) had some severe family problems regarding my wedding..and it was to the point that even my own father didnt attend my wedding. Now my friend (21f) of 8 years has always been very unsupportive. She has shown WAY too many toxic signs which included her openly cursing me just because i would have a diff opinion to...
AITA (22F) for not inviting my friend (21F) of 8 years to my wedding, due to some family problems
NTA
10w5wns
So i (f24) and one of my best friends (we’ll call him J, hes 26) have been friends for about 8 years now. He recently had his gf (let’s can her A, shes 23) move in with him. I’ve met her a few times and we got along great. We first met on one of his birthdays, im usually the only girl there if his sister is out so it w...
AITA for not wanting to hang out at my best friends house?
NTA
10w5ptw
We are roomate and classmate. We have just met for around 4 months but I know she is a great friend. She helped me a lot and we're pretty close. Recently there is an election in our class to choose the monitor. The final result will be decided by teacher, however, we will elect 5 candidates for that. At first there wer...
AITA for taking my closed friend's chance?
NTA
10w5pao
This is gonna need a lot of context.My (28M) friend at the office (we’ll call her Katie 24F) have been friends about 2 years. There was a sexual relationship off and on. Anyways, we’re (or were) just friends now. We talk just about every day. A few days ago we got into an argument over text, that stemmed from me saying...
AITA for confronting my friend at work?
YTA
10w5oly
So first off, I’ve had my current puppy, a Chipin, for almost 10 years. She is my child. One of my friends has a Corgi but upon the grow in of her adult coat found out she is allergic. My friend sees and knows how I love my baby so she has asked me to adopt her.Well my mother, step father, and I all live together. My m...
AITA for Adopting A 2nd Dog
INFO
10w8kxl
My GF (Sarah, 29) and I (M, 28) have been dating for 5 years, and I wanted to go on a vacation with her to celebrate. I planned the trip for several months (of course I shared my plans with her), and decided on skiing/snowboarding/other winter activities in CO. The activities seemed perfect, and I was looking forward t...
AITA For Leaving a Vacation I Planned for my GF After Her Friends Came Along?
NTA
10wk92f
Using a throwaway account.My (32f) daughter (16f) grew up extremely close to my sister (23f) because of how small the age gap between them is, and my sister got married in September. However she decided to have a childfree wedding, and my daughter was not invited.My daughter was extremely upset about this as my sister ...
AITA For Asking My Sister What She Expected After My Daughter Didn't Invite To Her Birthday
NTA
10wc99b
When I was 18, my mom remarried my stepdad who had a baby girl, and we became as close as any sisters as she grew up. I'm now 34 and she's 17. Last week, she got outed at school and to make a bad situation worse, her dad was mad at her, said she was lying for attention, and when she said it was for real, called her a s...
AITA for the advice I gave my younger stepsister, after she was outed against her will at school?
NTA
10wgcq5
AITA for interfering in the bouquet toss at my GF's sister's wedding? My girlfriend *(we'll call her 'Maggie')* and I went to her sister's wedding on Sunday (1/22). It was a great event, and things were going well for most of the evening. This was the first time I met Maggie's mother, but I had already met the rest of ...
AITA for interfering in the bouquet toss at my GF's sister's wedding?
YTA
10wkvge
Today was my BiL's birthday, and we had a family dinner. There was the birthday boy, his girlfriend, my husband, me, our baby, their parents, uncle and aunt. We went to a Mexican restaurant. I had steak fajitas. Our baby likes to eat off of our plates. He grabbed one of my tortillas, so I tore it into strips for him. H...
AITA because our baby ate off our plates?
NTA
10w6z7c
I, 32F, have a 15yo daughter. My sister, 35F, got married last week. I was her MOH. My sister said that no children would be allowed at her wedding as they are loud and noisy. I brought my 15yo daughter because her aunt was getting married and she wanted to wish her well!At the wedding, my parents were shooting me dagg...
AITA For bringing my daughter to a childfree wedding?
YTA
10wivoh
Fake names. I (27F) moved in with my boyfriend Chris (33M, together 4 years) a few months ago. Chris’s niece Emily (19F) also lives with here. Her home life was not very stable and she moved in with Chris right after her high school graduation and is now attending college in our area. Im a very organized person and I’v...
AITA for throwing away my bf’s niece’s stuff without asking?
NTA
10weiu2
I (25m) am very thrilled that I am in the financial position to rent a house by myself. I worked all through college, have a good job now, and was excited to live alone. I’ve been doing so for about a year. This is going to sound very dumb but one thing I started to do as a bachelor living at home was walk around in my...
AITA for continuing to not wear clothes around the house despite the fact my brother brings unannounced guests over?
NTA
10wing2
Hi there, my family is well aware that I am a big fan of building Lego sets. The gem of my collection is a very expensive Millennium Falcon set which cost me over $1000.Recently I had to go away for work and asked my sister, her husband and nephew to house sit, as I have two dogs. I have a big box of Lego pieces that I...
AITA for demanding my sister's family replace the Lego set they broke??
NTA
10whv7h
My husband and I (both 30) live about 2 hours from his brother (32M), brother’s wife, and their four year old son. Last night, they were in the area to celebrate SIL’s father’s retirement. We didn’t know they would be here and made no plans, but after dinner they showed up at our home at 10:10pm.We live on a dark stree...
AITA for not allowing BIL’s family inside when they showed up unannounced?
NTA
10w8wy8
I (F42) have a sister (F26) who was hospitalized a few weeks ago for an alcohol OD. Luckily, she made it out alive, but she continued her old ways despite all that happened and still continues to drink her life away. I reached out to her 3 days ago to make sure she was okay and asked if she needed anything, but she wen...
AITA for telling my mom that if my sister dies, she dies?
NTA
10wbp7m
Throwaway account for very obvious reasons. Some back story, my partners parents are homophobic and will not be attending our wedding. My mother had a liver transplant in 2021 after being extremely sick for a while.Flash-forward to this year and my fiancée and I will be getting married in September. We will be sending ...
AITA for not putting my parents names on my wedding invitations?
YTA
10wg14u
For context, my family including me (29f), spouse (42), and stepdaughter (10f) have a 1.5 year old golden retriever who is very excitable and energetic, always in everyone’s business. My stepdaughter is also quite energetic and slightly absent minded (symptoms of ADHD). Last month, my stepdaughter was eating grapes. As...
AITA for my reaction to my stepdaughter dropping chocolate twice near our dog
YTA
10wag7k
I (24M) know that a lot of people will just look at the title and just say I'm in the wrong because of the stigma, but hear me out. It is winter where I live so I'm consistently cold and not really sweating or anything. I usually shower when I feel gross and it usually takes me 5-6 days before I actually start to feel ...
AITA for only showering once a week?
YTA
10wf1yz
My sister (21f) and me (18f) always fought when we were little. She never wanted a sibling and I didn’t necessarily want her to be my older sister either. My parents tried to make us get along but stopped after a couple years realizing that there was no point. I have been obsessed with getting straight a’s since I was ...
AITA for not wanting to give up my car to my sister so that her family can have a safer car?
NTA
10w66io
I cannot stand people being late to things. Well if you are late and you are getting there yourself, I don't care. But if I am there to pick someone up or we are leaving together I need them to be on time. I refuse to be late because of another person. It's a big issue for me because growing up my parents would be late...
AITA for leaving without my friend when I agreed to pick her up
NTA
10wl7eh
TAI'm such a hypocrite posting this here, but here we are.​So my(35) birthday was yesterday and me and my family got together, and this were everything started . My stepson is graduating in a few months and my brother, Mark(40) asked him how he was going to pay for his college fees, especially since he was g...
AITA for embarrassing my brother in front of his gf?
NTA
10w6hw5
I'm definitely the A to myself at least somewhat for getting into this situation, but I don't think the rest of this is me. I'm a junior in college. I ended up in a bad roommate situation where I needed to switch dorms mid-year. Unlike in August, the options are more limited for mid-year switches, and the only opening ...
AITA for being in the living room even though it makes my roommates uncomfortable?
NTA
10wb35h
8 days ago I sold a used car to a woman. I was the second owner and I know every nut and bolt that has ever been touched on this thing. First owner was my MiL and she gave me three folders worth of paper documenting every damn thing from the day she took the key from the dealer.Also, I just had the emissions tested 6 m...
AITA for selling a used car and when the buyer called me a week later complaining, reminding her it's a used car, as is, and telling her not to call me again?
NTA
10weudm
My sisters husband took off and left her with their two kids. She having a hard time supporting her and her kids so I've let her and her kids move in with me. I figured it would be a win win for both of us since I am also a single parent and could use some help with child care for my own two kids.We haven't run into an...
AITA for taking my kids out to dinner every week while my sister and her kids are staying with us?
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10wbftu
On the fence with this one. My(26) GF(24) of 3 years is wonderful. She's punky, outgoing, gorgeous and has a unique personal style. I love her to death. Every bit of her. And this is about her hair. Don't get me wrong I have always loved her hair in every color and she used to dye it once every few weeks to new colors ...
AITA for telling my girlfriend she needs to change her hair color?
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10w8bjl
My boyfriend’s mom Michelle, has 5 kids. My boyfriend, and 4 younger siblings (10,9,8,3). She’s a single mom, and often relies on me for babysitting, since most other people aren’t close by or won’t help for free. Michelle is getting married to Tony next weekend, and needs someone to babysit the kids for 4 days while s...
WIBTA for telling bf’s mom that if she doesn’t trust my judgement, she should find a new free babysitter for her kids?
NTA
10wo47x
I (55M) have always loved kids, even thought I never wanted or had any of my own. In July will be 20 years I married my wife (48F). We were talking about having a big party to celebrate, and decided to redo our vows as well.For context, I have come to seriously dislike this trend of "no children wedding". Yes they make...
AITA for saying my wedding will be a "no young adults wedding"?
YTA
10wiorf
I (37f) have two kids (5 + 7). Me and my husband (38m) just purchased a new 4 bedroom house. One room for me and my husband, one for each child, plus a spare.Here's where the trouble comes in. I sew and craft a lot and would like a space for my equipment. My husband thinks we should bring the kids toys into the room fo...
AITA for not wanting to give the spare room to my kids?
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10wahmv
Okay so, Me (21F) & my BF (25M) have an older neighbor. We live in a pretty decent neighborhood, where not much happens, and you don't hear much bad. We have a neighbor down the way, we'll call him Carl (50M). He comes up often to smoke with us, or just to come up & visit BUT, he's recently let this lady, we'l...
AITA: For yelling at my older neighbor for walking into our house without knocking?
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10w6xqe
My fiancé (30M) and I (29F) were told by 4 different doctors over the last 2 years that we wouldn't be able to conceive without medical intervention because of a hormonal disorder I have (PCOS). We're getting married in a few months and my current OBGYN suggested we start trying now since "it won't actually happen for ...
WIBTA for asking my friend to please stop making "jokes" about my baby?
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10wnro8
**ETA**: I am not a religious person. My son on the other hand identifies as Christian and I support him no matter what. Regarding religious views, I don't care what he believes or does not believe in as long as he's happy. My only problem with his mother is not that she wants to teach him to see things from different ...
AITA for refusing to compromise with my ex on our son's belief?
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10wi3en
So me (f) and my bf are both 18. He has ADHD, and is quite literally the least organised person you could imagine. When I say he is late for everything, I mean it. Hell, that boy would even be late to his own fckn birthday party. When we need to be somewhere or are meeting, I’ll have to tell him he needs to be there 20...
AITA for yelling at my boyfriend with ADHD for being unorganised?
YTA
10wenb8
I (22m) have been with my girlfriend (32f) for about 6 months now, and at the beginning of our relationship I noticed when making us sandwiches that her pickle jar had what looked like, copious amounts of pepper? Didn’t think much of it till we moved in together a week ago, and there were OREOS IN MY PICKLE JAR!!! I wo...
AITA Girlfriend keeps taking Oreos and putting them in pickle jar
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10wgf2a
I (28F) recently invited my (25M) gay friend over for dinner and just general hanging out. We’re both the only out queer people at work so that’s how we became friends. We started talking about literature and books and stuff and I told him I preferred comics, and he asked what kind of comics. I was up front with the ki...
AITA for showing my gay friend my comic collection?
YTA
10wnkd0
I'm currently planning a wedding that will take place next fall. My mom loves buying new dresses, so shortly after we got engaged she started sending me pictures of dresses and asking if she should wear them to the wedding. Truthfully, I was a little annoyed that she wanted to talk about that before anything else. I to...
AITA for saying my mom can't wear a Taupe dress to my wedding?
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10wns53
I pay my ex-wife an agreed upon amount of child support that is well over what the state would require. On top of the child support I cover 100% of health and dental insurance and the kids cell phone bills. My oldest of three just turned 18 and graduated high school. I approached my ex about reducing the amount as the...
AITA; ex-wife telling children I don't want to pay for them
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10wjtp6
I (23F) have a 10 year old niece. She is a super smart and cute kid, definitely my favorite out of nieces and nephews. However recently she said something slightly out of pocket and I feel a little guilty for laughing at it. We were getting ready to go out to dinner and her mother (my sister in law) was commenting on t...
AITA for laughing at my niece's use of a slur
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10w88zo
Okay, this is pretty silly and low stakes. Context, I’m American and my boyfriend is Canadian, and I’m currently visiting him for a month. Obviously I bought myself some food, include cup noodles.So my boyfriend and I are in the kitchen and I say “I’m gonna make some ramen for myself.” as I get the cup noodle out. My b...
AITA for calling a generic brand of cup noodles ‘ramen’?
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10wo4z1
Last week I was driving home from a friend's house and at a red light, two women beside me started waving, rolled their window down, and asking where I was going, etc. I didn't respond, but it admittedly felt good to be the object of their attention. I told my wife about it thinking it'd be a funny conversation but s...
AITA - I admitted to my wife that two women waving on the highway was an ego boost and now she's mad at me.
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10wc91l
About a week ago I went out to eat with my MIL, my husband, and my FIL. My MIL is sometimes difficult to carry a conversation with so I always try to find something that interests her to talk about. I know she likes to cook so in an attempt to make conversation, I told her that earlier that day I had roasted AN ENTIRE ...
AITA for Not Thanking my MIL for Chicken?
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10wc5yn
I'm 22f and until last year I've been renting a very shitty 1.5 bedroom space with someone I found on the university bulletin. She made me pay half even though I got only the 0.5. I lived out of my suitcase and used an airbed because it was unfurnished. But she was still the worst part. Her rules:1. No-visitors for me2...
AITA for sabotaging my ex-flatmate's attempts at finding new flatmates.
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10wnymz
We split the rent, utilities, food, etc. SO turns on the space heater at full power an hour before leaving for an early flight and forgets to turn it off. 8 days later, we come home to a sweltering apartment that fortunately didn't burn down in our absence. I say "Hey, that was dumb, but shit happens. Let's move on. Th...
AITA for suggesting my SO cover the electricity costs for leaving a space heater running for a whole week?
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10wnavb
I have a hybrid job that allows me to work from home or go into the office. We recently moved into a new building that has other staff members for other attorneys. One assistant is there 8 hours a day—I assume she does not have the option to work from home.I come and go at different times from her, but I am always poli...
AITA for choosing to work from home?
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10wmzkq
My eldest son Travis is 20 and we've started to butt heads ever since he dropped out of college to basically be his mom's/my ex's personal assistant. She basically lives off an inheritance that she got a few years ago.I told my son to his face that I'm disappointed in him and I'm not going to pretend that I'm not. He w...
AITA for asking my son why he's over my house?
YTA
10wk8f9
Hi, i dont know if this is the right place to ask but i need to know because i feel like made my parents real mad.I was at the system since i can remember, i cant actually remember my birth parents, but im now 15 and about 4 years ago i was adopted by a couple. Was lucky to finally get out of the system and im happy to...
AITA for not telling my adoptive parents that im gay?
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10wnqyh
So I (18 m, gay, which will be relevant to the story) live with my aunt and uncle. My parents are divorced and both live an hour away from where I'm going to school so they generously offered to let me stay with them until I graduate.I recently had surgery and ended up staying with my mom for a few days because she's ...
AITA for telling my uncle not to snoop if he doesn't want to find gross shit in my room?
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10wgzpg
My (30F) fiancé (30M) grew up in a really close neighborhood. His family was especially close to their next-door neighbors. They practically lived in each other’s homes, parented each other’s kids, etc. When I met him, they had drifted apart in a big way but still saw each other 1-2 times a year at town events (his fam...
AITA for not inviting fiancé’s longtime friends to our wedding?
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10w67ng
I (23F) was asked by my mom to endorse my little sisters loan for cosmetologist school. I told her no, because my credit score is already in hell (high 400s) and I’m having a hard enough time paying my own student loans back. I just moved to my first apartment, and Just secured my first full time job. I’m behind on my ...
AITA for not endorsing for my mothers parent plus loan?
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