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{ "description": "only tipping $20 for a 5 hour haircut", "pronormative_score": 14, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for only tipping $20 for a 5 hour haircut?
Mandatory statement please excuse formatting, on mobile and a noob to posting. Trying to be frugal, I booked a cut and color at the local beauty school with a student (this is how they get their required hours). She did an all over color and a foil for depth. Then a trim and long layers (was supposed to be long layer...
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{ "description": "reporting a neighbor that refuses to leash their dog, saying that it acts aggressive on a leash", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 5 }
WIBTA for reporting a neighbor that refuses to leash their dog, saying that it acts aggressive on a leash?
To clarify, I've never run into the dog or owner, but someone posted on the Nextdoor app about leashing your dogs, as it's become a big problem in my neighborhood. One person continually states that they are "willing to take the risk" of their large dog being off leash, stating that it's easier for them because the dog...
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{ "description": "not switching shift with my coworker", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not switching shift with my coworker?
So I'm in a little bit of a pickle. My coworker asked me if I'd switch him my shift later in the week for his shift tomorrow so he can move into his new place. The thing is, he requested today off to do just that. He also calls off frequently enough to be annoying and it almost always fucks me over and I have to stay,...
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{ "description": "cancelling a date because of an \"innocent\" question", "pronormative_score": 14, "contranormative_score": 43 }
AITA for cancelling a date because of an "innocent" question?
I've been talking to this guy for a few weeks and we hit it off immediately. We even had a short coffee date during lunch break, and we were on the same vibe. He was funny, charming, similar sense of humor. Everything went great. I should add that we had sex talks as well, discussing kinks and stuff. So we decide to ...
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{ "description": "not telling my friends why I'm mad", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not telling my friends why I'm mad?
Me(15f)&two friends,my bff Mia&a friend Ava went to the mall 2 days ago. Ava is super pretty&charismatic but lies, gossips&makes mean jokes ALOT. Mia is a nice person but sometimes when shes around Ava she gets way bitchier. So we go to the mall&decide to pick outfits for each other. We go to the ch...
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{ "description": "leaving negative feedback on my personal trainer", "pronormative_score": 51, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for leaving negative feedback on my personal trainer?
I paid for 10 sessions of personal training just to learn some basics so I could start working out on my own afterwards. My trainer assured me multiple times that at the end of the 10 sessions I would receive a personalized exercise plan with all my baseline statistics. On the last day, instead of going over this e...
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{ "description": "hating anybody that talks about autism", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 11 }
AITA for hating anybody that talks about autism?
I grew up high functioning autistic, and I’ve been constantly reminded of how I should hate myself for it. Whenever I see someone on say, a YouTube comment section saying they have autism or whatever, I want to flame them in the reply. Am I the asshole? Or are the people that bullied me into this the assholes?
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{ "description": "asking my parents to stay off their phones when we spend time together", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for asking my parents to stay off their phones when we spend time together?
I’m away at school so when I visit home I try my best to only be on my phone during my alone time (first thing when I wake up or late at night when I’m alone in my room) but my parents are often on Facebook or playing some mobile game when we are all in the living room together. I told my dad I thought it was a little ...
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{ "description": "exposing an acquaintances for plagiarizing someone's work", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 5 }
WIBTA if I exposed an acquaintances for plagiarizing someone's work
So long story short. A dude from my grade decided last year that he wanted to be a rich artist. His qoal from the start was to earn a lot of money, at least that's how he talks about it in interviews. During this year he has gotten a lot of exposure, he is working together with our parish and earning a respectable amo...
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{ "description": "wanting break up with GF because she insists on having kids if we ever got married", "pronormative_score": 35, "contranormative_score": 20 }
AITA for wanting break up with GF because she insists on having kids if we ever got married?
I've been in a relationship with a woman for 4 years and we've done pretty well so far and have moved in together. However, on the topic of having children it's always contentious. We've talked about marriage and she always brings up how she wants children. I'm not so excited about it but if I did, I would rather adop...
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{ "description": "moving out", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for moving out?
My mom, my brother(42) and I(30) lived together and shared expenses on an apartment. Since I went to med school that was paid by my mom and my brother, as soon as I graduated my brother sat down with me and said that it was only fair that now I should return the favor and let them breath a little financially speaking. ...
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{ "description": "expecting an adult not to swing my 4 year old by one arm during tee ball practice", "pronormative_score": 15, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for expecting an adult not to swing my 4 year old by one arm during tee ball practice?
My 4 and 6 year old started baseball for the first time this season. Yesterday, the third day of practice my 4 year old, a “parent helper” (coach came at the end of practice) took my son by his hand and swung him 5 times as fast as he could in a circle. After the shock of what happened wore off and after witnessing my ...
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{ "description": "wanting to kick a relative out of our house", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting to kick a relative out of our house?
My aunt is 45+ years old, she's still pretty strong and healthy and she's been living with us for about half a year now. The first two months of her not helping out in the house was okay because I thought she was just trying to adjust to our way of living. Our week goes like this, during the weekdays me and my brother ...
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{ "description": "laughing at my dad's greenhouse getting destroyed", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA For laughing at my dad's greenhouse getting destroyed?
Now, this already sounds pretty bad for me, but you got to hear me out here. So about three years prior, my dad built a greenhouse, it was a big deal, cost a lot of money, and you know just took a lot of energy. This thing was expected to last a while, which is part of the irony of the situation when last year, a storm...
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{ "description": "looking to marry for money/status", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 8 }
AITA for looking to marry for money/status?
I'm very open about this and its annoyed people many times. I'm a young guy with 500k (bitcoin) and oxbridge degrees, and refuse to date anyone without an oxbridge degree and a similar amount of money, which basically means I've got to give up on looking for people I like as a person. Why? Because I grew up in a counci...
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{ "description": "not wanting to participate in my coworkers personal training session", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to participate in my coworkers personal training session?
So to preface, I work at a company that is big on fitness and many of my coworkers - myself included - are personal trainers, yoga instructors, so forth whatnot outside of our collective job. We receive a monthly stipend to go workout wherever we want. I was invited by a coworker to attend a training session that is...
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{ "description": "not wanting to give money to my inlaws for their wedding", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for not wanting to give money to my inlaws for their wedding?
Well really they are renewing their vows. They have been together for 24 years this January it will be the 25th year together so they are going all in on wedding ideas, which of course is going to cost a lot of money and a lot of support from family. I work 2 jobs as of right now in security and go to school full time....
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Last night I made dinner for my husband and I. I made shrimp tacos with broccoli slaw. I prepped the broccoli slaw earlier in the day. When he got home I finished up the shrimp and asked him when he would like to eat and he said ASAP so I started cooking the shrimp. As the shrimp was cooking I told him that the brocc...
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{ "description": "sleeping with a girl my friend wanted", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 11 }
AITA for sleeping with a girl my friend wanted ?
This happened last night. I live in a student hall, and I hangout with a nice group of neighbors. They're super friendly, we drink beers, smoke weed and listen to awesome vinyls. I'm used to hanging out with one particular dude, we like to have deep conversations about life, relationships etc. We'll call him Tim. The...
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{ "description": "letting my 2nd grade students suffer after eating hot cheetos", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 11 }
AITA for letting my 2nd grade students suffer after eating Hot Cheetos
I teach second graders. Sometimes during lunch/supper I'll catch them eating Hot Cheetos. They're not supposed to bring outside food, and are just to eat what we give them (not our rule, but a rule mandated by the State agency that supplies us food), but sometimes they'll sneak it in their backpacks or get it from the ...
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{ "description": "telling a friend that I wouldn't date her hypothetically because of her age", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 9 }
AITA for telling a friend that I wouldn’t date her hypothetically because of her age?
I have this friend who I met at my last job. We got along really well so we stayed friends after I left. We try to get together once or twice a month. There was a time when she was pretty blatant about flirting with me, but I wasn’t interested in that and basically just played dumb and oblivious and she stopped even...
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{ "description": "leaving for another country to chase my dreams and cut contact with my family", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA If I left for another country to chase my dreams and cut contact with my family
My dream is to be in some sort of military service as a grunt/infantry my current plan is to a) join the FFL or b) join the USMC (yes I know there are many challenges I will have to face if I try either one of these options) However my plan also involves cutting contact with my family as I have a strong dislike for al...
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{ "description": "not pitching in much on chores while renting a room in landlord's house", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for not pitching in much on chores while renting a room in landlord's house?
Pretty straightforward scenario but I'd like some outside opinions. I rent a room in a guy's house and it just the two of us. We have no formal agreement of any sort in place. He is an energetic person, constantly on the move, cleaning, doing household upkeep, etc. The chores I do frequently are those that are personal...
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{ "description": "not helping my incompentent co-worker", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not helping my incompentent co-worker?
As described. I do help him when he asks but I'm getting really sick of it. He's been here for months and this job is very easy, yet he's still making mistakes you would expect on day one. It's gotten to the point I no longer proactively help him when I see him screwing something up unless I have to. This almost alw...
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{ "description": "not defending a friend who is \"instagram famous\"", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for not defending a friend who is “instagram famous”?
I have this friend who is “instagram famous”. She says she a model (not with a professional agency$ all she does is post pics of her butt, her in skimpy clothes and her with her cameltoe showing. We went out to eat earlier and a random person noticed her and said “you’re the girl with the fat ass on instagram. Can I ha...
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{ "description": "getting angry when my fiance can't find something in my bag", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for getting angry when my fiance can't find something in my bag?
Ok, this happens once a week or so. Either he wants something out of my back pack (we're world travelers and live out of our bags) or I'm asking a favor of him to get something that I can't get to right now (like just a few minutes ago I asked him to bring me the wet wipes because I forgot them but was already in the b...
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{ "description": "looking through a girl's social media to figure out who she is", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for looking through a girl's social media to figure out who she is?
This question actually stems from another conversation I had online- not reddit though. So, I'm in high school. I have a crush on this girl, let's call her Maya. Usually when I talk to someone I get them to talk about themselves and/or topics they're interested in, their hobbies, etc. And on Maya's Instagram bio (w...
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{ "description": "telling my girlfriend to not bring her period up", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA For telling my girlfriend to not bring her period up?
Me(21M) and my girlfriend (20F) have been dating for about a few months. I unfortunately have a really bad case of food poisoning right now, so I honestly don't feel good. My girlfriend had been kind enough to visit me once a while. It just sucked because she would make it a point to tell me that she came even thoug...
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{ "description": "sending my wife a Paypal money request", "pronormative_score": 16, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for sending my wife a Paypal money request?
We split the weekly cost of groceries. I do the shopping every week and she’ll send half the groceries cost via PayPal (usually after me having to ask her 5 or 6 times). This week instead of going thru all that, I sent a Paypal request to her for half the cost, now she’s literally offended about it. I honestly don’...
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{ "description": "leaving a friend of mine for her mental illness", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for leaving a friend of mine for her mental illness?
I knew this girl, I’ll refer to her as M. M and I have known each other for years, but recently she’s been struggling mentally. I would help her anyway I could, until she started making up issues. She would tell me how she has multiple personalities and she told me of voices she heard. Although I have no proof as to we...
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{ "description": "telling my partner to cut off someone she onky spoke to in hopes of a fling", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA if I told my partner to cut off someone she onky spoke to in hopes of a fling?
For context me and this woman have decided to become a couple in an exclusive relationship, I honestly feel like she's the love of my life. Both of us have kept our previous love lives rather hush as it honestly doesn't seem to matter. Both of us decided to have a night on the town and after a date we had planned as s...
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{ "description": "yelling at my mom for lying about getting my Bearded Dragon a bigger tank", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For Yelling At My Mom For Lying About Getting My Bearded Dragon A Bigger Tank?
This is not me. This is truly for my cousin who's too young to have a Reddit account. Tl;Dr Is my cousin Dominick (11) the asshole for getting into a fight with his mom because she doesn't want to get an appropriate sized tank for his beardie, because she says he doesn't need it (but does)? His mom got him a bearded ...
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{ "description": "unfriending my best friend for refusing to associate with my toxic ex", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for unfriending my best friend for refusing to associate with my toxic ex?
I dated a girl for a while that was always pushing the relationship faster than I was comfortable with. It was very up and down, mostly down. Took me 6 months and a threat to file a court order to get her to move out. Then to get revenge, she fucked one of my good friends. My best friend was my only real connection to...
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{ "description": "asking my girlfriend to look after my kids", "pronormative_score": 30, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for asking my girlfriend to look after my kids?
Hello people. My name is Matt (or let’s say it is anyway) and I am a 44-year-old dude with two kids, 8 and 14. Their mother, my ex wife, lives abroad at the moment and I have full time custody as we don’t want to ship ‘em half way across the world every other week. I started dating a beautiful woman, let’s call her Je...
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{ "description": "being about to kick my brother out of the house", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA because I'm about to kick my brother out of the house?
I (24m) and my brother (21m) share a place together because he wanted somewhere to stay and it would save us money. I know it's not an ideal circumstance but sharing rent and living together was just easiest. It's been about two years. Generally, we get along fine. We don't have a super close relationship but we're sti...
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{ "description": "inviting my friend to house sit", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
Aita for inviting my friend to house sit.
So my grandma is going away for a couple of weeks. She asked me to ask my older friend if he wouldn't mind stay here with me. So I am not alone in the house for 2 weeks, trying to fend for myself. Also to help take care of her dogs while I am at work. My girlfriend doesn't want me to ask. She wants us to have the hous...
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{ "description": "not wanting my girlfriend to wear her ex's jacket", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for not wanting my girlfriend to wear her ex's jacket?
So my gf's last boyfriend was in the military, suffered from severe PTSD and committed suicide while dating my GF. My gf and hung on to a few of his things, one of which is his military jacket. Me and her got in a fight last night because I told her I didn't want her to wear that jacket. I find it really weird to be g...
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{ "description": "being \"controlling\" with our income", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for being "controlling" with our income?
Backstory: we are in debt. Paying 25 percent of our income to minimum payments. We have about 10 percent of our income after all bills are paid. My wife wants to "enjoy life while she's young" I want to pay off the debt so we can have more money to spend and enjoy. We have no savings and a daughter. Last night she ...
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{ "description": "trying to avoid people associating me with a certain 'friend' of mine", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA if I try to avoid people associating me with a certain 'friend' of mine?
(Sorry for the probably confusing title, I can't think of one that sums up my situation very well) This is my first AITA post so please, don't hold back any judgement. Okay so, I'm a junior in high school and this year, a girl has sort of latched onto my friend group. None of us were really friends with her before bec...
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{ "description": "being irritated that people keep asking me when I'll get married", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for being irritated that people keep asking me when I’ll get married
I proposed to my s/o in December and announced to everyone that I got engaged. Now, every day someone asks me when I’m getting married. It is extremely irritating and I feel like I can’t breathe. I’ve snapped a few times over people not being understanding that I have no idea when it’s going to happen. My friend says i...
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{ "description": "not wanting to hug my mom", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not wanting to hug my mom?
AITA for not wanting to hug my mom.? God I feel terrible writing this, and didn't mean for this to be that long... I am almost 30 and live with my parents (yes I'm a bit ashamed of myself but trying to get my life back together again). When I first moved it in with them I think my parents a few years ago they expecte...
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{ "description": "not talking to someone", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not talking to someone?
Ok, So I met this girl at college and we became friends and I eventually developed feelings for her due to her humour and how often we would text and call, and work together in class. I confessed how I felt and was shot down and agreed to just be friends but now looking back I've realised how little I actually contribu...
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{ "description": "using people as windshields while cycling", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for using people as windshields while cycling?
I live in Holland, so obviously I cycle a lot, going to places in and outside the city. I live in a rather flat area of the country, so the winds can sometimes rise up to become extremely hard to deal with. I love to cycle at around 30-35 km/h, so for most people that's quite a fast tempo, but during heavy wind, I can ...
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{ "description": "insulting a depressed person (about their depression) after being un reasonably rude to me", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA for insulting a depressed person (about their depression) after being un reasonably rude to me? { Short }
I'll give a bit of a backstory (can skip) I currently go to a non mainstream school, where people like my self have either been bullied or expelled from their old schools, etc. our school aims to give them another chance and help them get on track. In my case, I was bullied. So I can understand how it feels to be attac...
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{ "description": "blocking my friend because he made fun of my autistic brother", "pronormative_score": 15, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for blocking my friend because he made fun of my autistic brother
So backstory: My brother has autism and he often times don't understand others feelings without clarification. My friend broke up with his girlfriend and was angry. His girlfriend was confirmed to be cheating on multiple men. The girl appeared to be distraught. My brother was friends with the girl and said it was all ...
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{ "description": "being gross", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for being gross?
When I was 16-18 I was deeply depressed. Chaos in my family. Had serious problems with insomnia, sleep paralysis and eating. My mental health was a distaster. I was autistic\ADD without having any clue. So I experienced all the problems that come with it, without understanding why. I am usually both cleanly and orga...
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{ "description": "not wanting a new phone", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting a new phone?
So my family wants me to get a new phone that’s at a reduced price, but I’m ok with my current phone that works perfectly fine. They argue that if I wanted a new phone later that it would be more expensive, but I’d probably hang on to this one as long as possible cause I like it.
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{ "description": "saying the n-word even though I'm half black", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for saying the N-word even though I’m half black?
This is probably a weird one but please bear with me. I recently made some new friends who are in one of my college classes and they’re both black. We’ll call them friend A and friend B. A couple days ago we were walking back to our dorms from class and friend A was telling a funny story about how he went to this party...
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{ "description": "asking BF to change his driving habits", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I asked BF to change his driving habits?
I don't know if I'm getting worked up over nothing because of my own driving inexperience or area differences, so here I am. BF (25) is in Ontario, Canada and I'm (20F) in USA northwest for geographical ref in case driving attitude is different in those areas. We're in a LDR and visit each other through the year. Usua...
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{ "description": "getting mad at my bf for smoking weed", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for getting mad at my bf for smoking weed
We’re both stoners. We smoke at least most days in the week. Today he got eye surgery. When we got home he waited approximately 2 hours before smoking the pen. I asked him not to, all of the googling I did said smoking was so so so bad for your eyes and it’s a needless risk for basically no reward. He was just bore...
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{ "description": "not wanting my dog to be put to sleep", "pronormative_score": 22, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for not wanting my dog to be put to sleep?
For context: I have a 12 year old male Akita, slightly overweight, and my father occasionally breeds and raises them. This Akita was to my knowledge the runt of the litter. His name is Titus. Titus, like the other dogs we have, is essentially affixed to my mother. He follows her around constantly, seldom taking the ti...
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{ "description": "going on a dibs spree", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for going on a dibs spree?
Hi there! I just went on a dibs spree taking almost every single minute of free time my current girlfriend has in her life. Why though? Me and my girlfriend go to different universities, far enough from eachother that there is no way to just meet up for a day. For the last third of the semester (where there are no r...
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{ "description": "calling my former friend a c*nt", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For Calling My Former Friend a C*nt
First post on reddit so sorry if this is formatted weird. Background: I’m in high school and met this friend (we’ll call them AW cause this is recent) during orientation and we hit it off. On the first day we were walking home and AW spilt all they’re life story on how their mother was a drug addict and how their fami...
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{ "description": "telling a \"friend\" to shut up while arguing with another \"friend\"", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA For telling a “friend” to shut up while arguing with another “friend”
2 of my friends were arguing over something dumb. This is a rather old story btw. But one was being excessively rude. I told both of them to shut up. Well one demanded a apology saying how I should’ve said that in a kinder manner and he deserves respect. He is the classic rich kid who can get his way 24/7. Well he pret...
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{ "description": "telling my ex's new partner about potential infidelity", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 2 }
WIBTA if I told my ex’s new partner about potential infidelity?
Long story short my ex and I had a less than amicable break up, and she continued to bother me until finally I told her to stay out of my life and that I never want to talk to her again. About a month ago I was on bumble dating and a profile for her popped up. She has a history of cheating, and cheated on anyone she ...
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{ "description": "lashing out at a guy I'm jealous of because I thought he was mocking me, even though he might have just been trying to be nice", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 13 }
AITA for lashing out at a guy I'm jealous of because I thought he was mocking me, even though he might have just been trying to be nice?
Let's call this guy Caleb (although that's obviously not his real name, since we're both Indians). I'll admit up front, I'm jealous of Caleb. Hella jealous. Him and I, we're the difference between book smarts and street smarts. Let's put it this way. I can wax political philosophy and talk about different candidates ...
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{ "description": "asking my ex about his sexual history so I can know if I am at risk for stds", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for asking my ex about his sexual history so I can know if I am at risk for STDs?
In a series of complicated events and conversations, my ex confessed to me over the phone that I wasn’t his first kiss, that he used to mess around going back and forth to his ex, and kissed other girls as well, which are things he has never told me in the 10 months that we’re together. Though he insists that he’s virg...
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{ "description": "being harsh to my student", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for being harsh to my student?
I don’t know where to start exactly because I want make this unbiased as possible to get a reasonable feedback. Here I go.. I work as a tutor in a small academy and watch over kindergarteners to 8th graders. Watching 8th grade is a bit challenging(Anyone who works with teenagers will know). Even though it’s challenging...
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{ "description": "not liking my friend", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not liking my friend?
I have a friend who I’ve known for about a year now (I’ll call her Kelly) and she’s been fine for most of it. But recently, she’s started to be a bit of a pain. For example, she rarely says anything positive and judges people so easily. One time we were just walking around and saw a girl in a crop top and she said som...
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{ "description": "feeling bad that my best friend slept with my first semi-sexual partner", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for feeling bad that my best friend slept with my first semi-sexual partner?
So, bit of context. I'm 17 right now, a dude, and almost two years ago, I had the most sexual experience I've had to this day with a very pretty girl I liked. We didn't have all out sex, but we did get to second base, which, to an insecure virgin teen, is pretty good. Few months later, I learn that my best friend of 10...
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{ "description": "wanting to wear a hot outfit to Vegas", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting to wear a hot outfit to Vegas?
My coworkers and I are planning a trip to Vegas. For reference, I’m a woman and gay, we’re all in early 20s, and there will be a total of 3 girls and 3 guys on the trip (including myself in this count). Maybe important to note that this is my first time going to Vegas. I usually don’t dress up and I usually don’t wear...
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{ "description": "thinking my gf getting upset about photos I like in Instagram is laughable and very 'high school'", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for thinking my gf getting upset about photos I like in Instagram is laughable and very 'high school'?
Seriously... People measure their happiness and relationships by social media now?! Fucking hell...
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UPDATE: AITA for not telling my SO that I am a millionaire?
Hi Reddit, ​ This isn’t a happy update. After our daughter fell asleep, I went to talk to my husband. The conversation went something like this: “Babe, can we talk for a bit? There’s something really important that I think we should discuss about right now.” He then looks down at this feet and quietly say...
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AITA For asking a middle aged couple to move from our pre-booked seats on the last train of the day?
The setting - The 23:30 service from London Paddington to Didcot Parkway (a popular commuter route) on Saturday 24th November (yesterday); a big consumer shopping day in the lead up to Christmas. The train was packed, all seats taken and people standing in the aisles, and sat on the floor of the train near the doors. ...
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{ "description": "breaking up with a girl for talking to my ex", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA For breaking up with a girl for talking to my ex?
Some backstory required. Me and my first girlfriend broke up some years ago and I don't talk to her at all. During my last relationship she contacted my girlfriend multiple times trying to break us up. I ended up making a mistake and cheating on her which I regret and ended the relationship. ​ I started da...
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{ "description": "not wanting to participate in my mother's favorite hobby", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to participate in my mother's favorite hobby?
Let me start out by saying that I have a slight phobia of dolls. My loving, caring, wonderful mother makes custom American Girl clothes as well as fixing up old ones with new eyes/hair/body parts. I'm the only one strong enough to push the disconnected eyeballs into the tiny eye sockets in their stupid squishy vinyl he...
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{ "description": "not sending a Reminder Text to a friend to meet me for dinner", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For Not Sending A Reminder Text to A Friend To Meet Me For Dinner
So about a week back, last Saturday night, I had invited a friend of mine over to have dinner at my house on Sunday. We had already planned this twice before and either he or I was busy because of which we kept postponing. But we finally set a day and decided on a time for him to be at my place, 7pm. Fast forward to Su...
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{ "description": "checking out to get some work done", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for checking out to get some work done?
I have a big deadline coming up. It's creative (in that I have to create some complex shit) and it's not movable. My husband, who I love dearly and am in no way considering leaving or loving any less for this, and who is wonderful other than this specific thing, has burned himself out on his own job and has been off ...
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{ "description": "not giving my friend a ride", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for not giving my friend a ride?
First time poster, so excuse me if my formatting is wrong. Also excuse my english . So I guess that I will have to give some backstory for you to understand this story. I am currently in highschool, and my friend who we will call F, is in my class. As we both have one lecture that is a bit away from school, both on m...
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{ "description": "breaking up with a girl because she wouldn't do anal", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 21 }
AITA for breaking up with a girl because she wouldn’t do anal?
I’m 28/M, she’s 27/F. I’m regretting it now and wishing I had stayed with her. We dated for about 5 months and things were great, but after a long talk I found out that she wasn’t into anal sex. She tried it before, but didn’t like it. Personally this made me feel like she didn’t like me much, so I told her it was ...
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{ "description": "yelling at my dad for telling me something that I think was insensitive", "pronormative_score": 14, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for yelling at my dad for telling me something that I think was insensitive?
My 96 year old grandmother was admitted into the ER yesterday with congestive heart failure. She has always been healthy, sharp as a tack and one of the strongest women I know - even after losing her only daughter (my mom). The bond that I share with her is so deep. When I walk into her home, I can feel my mother's pre...
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{ "description": "getting back late from bowling or my wife for kicking me onto the couch", "pronormative_score": 16, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for getting back late from bowling or my wife for kicking me onto the couch
BACKGROUND I'm married (M28) with my wife (F26) for 3 years. We have a great relationship but are both mostly homebodies and like to spend most weeknight evenings at home binging Netflix. We go out for fun activities during the weekend and rarely fight. We both have jobs that need us waking up around 7am for 8am starts...
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{ "description": "dropping a friend who is being abused", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for dropping a friend who is being abused?
This is the only sub I can think of for this situation and I need a third party opinion because I am too emotionally involved. My friend Sadie got together with this dude a year and a half ago. He was studying to be a lawyer at the time and has since passed the bar. When Sadie first got with this dude she kind of di...
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{ "description": "snapping at my boyfriend because he is depressed", "pronormative_score": 17, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for snapping at my boyfriend because he is depressed?
Throwaway, cause his sister uses reddit. My boyfriend has very recently started to develop symptoms that we can only describe as depression. His mood is low, he doesn’t laugh at anything, he isn’t affectionate, he looks exhausted, and he just wants to sit and play on his PS4. I’m trying my best to be supportive, encou...
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{ "description": "attempting to stand up for my friend", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for attempting to stand up for my friend?
I have a friend who is a 16 year old girl who goes to church with me. One day she excitingly texted me about how she bought a "really cute sundress" with sunflowers on it. Flash forward to this past Sunday, when she wore that dress. It was a very flattering dress on her, but it wasn't overly sexual. It covered up eve...
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{ "description": "saying I'm \"first generation\" in front of my parents", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for saying i'm "first generation" in front of my parents?
Invited my girlfriend to meet my parents and she is "Nobility" her family has a wiki page and all that stuff, I come from a working class family my parents are not rich. I am doing pretty well financially and she has told me I am apparently richer than anyone in her family. She is a little out of touch and spends a lot...
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{ "description": "hurting my girlfriends feelings during grieving", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 16 }
AITA for hurting my girlfriends feelings during grieving?
Recently my girlfriends younger sibling died and she was very upset and distraught. Because I cared about her and her family I was there to provide emotional support and comfort to them until something happened during the visitation. I was unable to attend the visitation because I had a prior university commitment, bu...
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{ "description": "being friends with a guy that likes me", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for being friends with a guy that likes me?
We've been friend since high school and I really like him. I feel like I have never connected with anyone like this before but it is completely platonic on my end. But he likes me. We've actually stopped talking before because it got so bad. He would keep texting me how much he loves me and that he wants to be with me ...
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{ "description": "wanting to turn my sister in", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting to turn my sister in?
My sister(18) recently moved out of my parent's house. Shes in college and doing normal college kid stuff for the most part. Aside from the normal drinking and partying shes taken up stealing. It started with mild shop lifting. I dont know why she'd feel the need to shoplift considering my parents pay for her apartment...
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{ "description": "being upset two days later? gf of 4 years was talking about her wild past", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for being upset two days later? gf of 4 years (29) was talking about her wild past
Hey, I'm ready for some hard truths ​ Background - we haven't had a very interesting sex life in the past few months. In part for medical reasons, though there were still things we could and havent been doing. To be clear, no problems with what she's done before me or judgement, I've had my own 'wild past'...
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{ "description": "defriending my best friend because of his girlfriend", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for defriending my best friend because of his girlfriend?
For some context; sigh. I've know him for 6 or so years. We've spent all of our high school years together and at one point dated. For the longest time, I've loved him or I've felt as close to love as I guess a highschooler can feel. He also felt the same way but I was too scared to get into a proper relationship b...
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{ "description": "talking while jazz band playing a quieter song at a cafe", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA? Talking while jazz band playing a quieter song at a cafe
I go see live music often, probably 5 shows a month. Last night my friend and I were at this cafe/bar/restaurant that had s jazz band playing. The place is new and it was my first time there. It's described on its website as a place that "combines classy and affordable craft cocktails and pizza, in a setting welcoming ...
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{ "description": "being 18, an only child, and never having my own room", "pronormative_score": 15, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA? I’m 18, an only child, and have never had my own room
I am an eighteen year old female. I live with my dad and his partner in a two bedroom home. My dad and my mom have been divorced since I was just a year old. My dad is a hoarder. It’s not as bad as many of the people you see on TLC’s Hoarders, but to give you an idea of how bad it is, my entire life my closet (which d...
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{ "description": "cutting contact with my extended family after they didn't remember my birthday", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for cutting contact with my extended family after they didn't remember my birthday?
My extended family is small. I was close to uncle Dave and aunt Marie when I was a kid and they were "cool aunt and uncle". They have two boys, Mike and Tony. Mike is few years younger than me and Tony just turned 18. His birthday party is this Saturday and also a reason why I'm writing here. As years went on my ment...
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{ "description": "calling a girl out on her shady interactions with me", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for calling a girl out on her shady interactions with me?
Little backstory: I stopped talking to a girl a few years ago because I tried a romantic relationship, but it didn't work out. She still wanted to hang out with me, but I told her I couldn't for my own sake. She understood. A few weeks ago she got in contact with me again wanting to reconnect. I was hesitant, but ...
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{ "description": "asking a woman if Im better at sex than her dead husband", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 13 }
AITA For asking a woman if im better at sex than her dead husband?
Theres more to this than just the title but i couldnt fit everything in. All of this is extremely NSFW just as a warning. I am involved in the cuckold fetish community as a "bull". A cuckold is a guy who enjoys other men fucking his wife or gf, a bull does the fucking. I have been doing this for four years and im now ...
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{ "description": "not gathering at my deceased uncle's home", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for not gathering at my deceased uncle's home?
My mother's brother died from Cancer a few years back. He died early in the morning (~4 am) and later that day, some of my family went to his home. He had 4 children (all over 20+ years old) and a wife. Family that went to his home included my parents, some of my aunts and cousins. I was told they sat together and crie...
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{ "description": "platonically kissing a girl who has depressive episodes and going through the first stages of a break up", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 15 }
AITA for platonically kissing a girl who has depressive episodes and going through the first stages of a break up
Last Saturday, I attended a “going away” party for a friend who’s headed into the Air Force. Including myself and my girl friend, all the people in the party are a close knit friends of about 15 people. Prior to the party, a girl, who I’ll call “K”, and I have been talking about her emotional struggles with her re...
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{ "description": "saying I knew I was always destined for success", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 10 }
AITA for saying I knew I was always destined for success?
So I got a promotion recently and the pay is VERY high. For some background, I am a 26 year old guy and I studied at a prestigious university (top 10 in my country). Now when I met with my friends to celebrate, we had some drinks and I said ''Deep down, I always knew that I was destined for success'' and one of my fri...
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{ "description": "reporting a delivery driver that hit on me", "pronormative_score": 110, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA for reporting a delivery driver that hit on me?
Okay so I am a 22 year old woman living in an apartment with my best friend. Today is Sunday, she works and I don't. I ordered food from a company that could rhyme with Floor Crash. My driver arrived quickly and the food was right, however: When he arrived and I opened my door, he smiled at me in a way that made me un...
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{ "description": "not reaching out and warning an ex her (possibly mine) having a genetic blood disorder", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 10 }
WIBTA if I didn't reach out and warn an ex her son (possibly mine) could have a genetic blood disorder?
On mobile so possible format issues. About a decade ago I screwed around with a married woman who was still active with her husband. She got pregnant but didn't want to find out (and sincerely) didn't care who the father was/is. I broke contact because she played games and manipulated my emotions. I had health issu...
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{ "description": "not wanting my boyfriend to go on vacation without me", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not wanting my boyfriend to go on vacation without me?
I’ve been with my boyfriend for almost 4 years. Just a little backstory: Right before we made it official that we were boyfriend/girlfriend and that we were exclusive, he went down to Florida to visit some friends and ended up having a one night stand with this one girl that was friends with his friends down there. I...
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{ "description": "dozing off while watching tv with my boyfriend", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for dozing off while watching TV with my boyfriend?
I would like to start by saying that my boyfriend "and I are now broken up for unrelated reasons, but he made me feel like an asshole through our entire relationship. My boyfriend (27M) and I (25F) work at the same place in different sections where we have no contact during work. We work similar hours, but live by dif...
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{ "description": "contemplating on stealing/saving a dog", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA for contemplating on stealing/saving a dog?
Hear me out folks, I have only good intentions with this post. I'm also on mobile so I'm sorry for the layout. My boyfriend lives directly off a highway, that "T's" with a residential neighborhood. The entire town is in the mountains and based off this highway. A few weeks ago (it feels), bf and i were outside and sp...
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{ "description": "confronting my S.O.'s friends for messing with our open relationship", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 8 }
WIBTA for confronting my S.O.'s friends for messing with our open relationship?
I don't believe in exclusive relationships. I don't think love should restrict people in any way, and I think people should be free to express love to anyone and not reserve it for one person. I've been in a wonderful open relationship for quite some time now. (Let's call her Ava) Neither of us have ever even pursued o...
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{ "description": "telling a gay person to \"leave me the fuck alone\"", "pronormative_score": 114, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for telling a gay person to “Leave me the fuck alone”
So recently a gay student at my school who I’ll call Dave. Dave is gay and he made sure we all knew that. So our class schedule changed meaning our lunch changes making us change who we eat lunch with. So when me and my friends sat down to eat lunch Dave sat with us, and we didn’t think anything of at first until half...
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{ "description": "refusing to supervise an employee at another company", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For refusing to supervise an employee at another company?
Background: My company (company 1)works very closely with our sister company (company 2). Both companies are owned by the same people and we do a lot of work that is shared between us. 'Joe' has my job, at company 2. We've worked together in the past on cooperative projects and while I've seen that he's definitely ski...
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{ "description": "demanding my sister in law to pay for the damages she caused to my property", "pronormative_score": 32, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA For demanding my sister in law to pay for the damages she caused to my property?
So, a bit of backstory, I bought a truck, 2018 silverado 8 miles on it, brand new, in May2018. My sister in law, who recently turned 18, came to live with my wife and i in june. Due to reasons, I've been separated from my wife for the better part of 2018, since august and my wife has had the truck this entire time. Sin...
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{ "description": "being angry with my mom for telling my girlfriend that she doesn't get her blessing unless she becomes a Christian", "pronormative_score": 16, "contranormative_score": 18 }
AITA for being angry with my mom for telling my girlfriend that she doesn’t get her blessing unless she becomes a Christian?
I love my mom to death. She’s a very religious Christian. I was raised going to church every Sunday and I’ve also been baptized, however since I’ve moved out and lived alone, I’ve adjusted my views and see myself as atheist. My mom doesn’t know this because she’d be very upset. She had a heart attack ~5 years ago due t...
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{ "description": "throwing someone at my party to the ground", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for throwing someone at my party to the ground
Hey. So I was having a party of just friends that I know pretty well. One one the friends that is more on the side of an acquaintance, let’s call him joe, brought a +1 that I did not know, who we’ll call dough. I was alright with dough because he was joes friend, but then he started doing very rude stuff at my house. ...
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