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{ "description": "wanting my gfs ex out of our life", "pronormative_score": 109, "contranormative_score": 9 }
AITA for wanting my gfs ex out of our life?
Girlfriend, Jane, and I are very serious, we’re talking about getting married this summer. Long story short she had this male friend since before our relationship, john. John confessed his love for Jane through a social media dm to me. I was uncomfortable but brushed it off. John was fine until one day he walked in h...
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{ "description": "not wanting my bf to go to prom with me", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 12 }
AITA for not wanting my bf to go to prom with me?
Throwaway because my s/o knows my account. My bf and I both have started our freshman year at our local college, taking classes on campus, even though we are seniors in high school. This means we can still go to dances, do extracurriculars, whatever we want since we technically are still high school students. That in...
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{ "description": "leaving my neighbor's kid on the curb while I took my own daughter home", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for leaving my neighbor’s kid on the curb while I took my own daughter home?
So my neighbor and I originally had an agreement to rotate pick up duties. I’d pick up mine and her daughter for a week, and then she’d do the same the next week and so on. Well a few weeks ago she basically decided she doesn’t want to do any pick ups ever and started calling me during the days when she had to go to th...
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{ "description": "parking dispute", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA - Parking Dispute
Ok so here is the background - My girlfriend and I live in an apartment complex where there are assigned parking spots. We have an upstairs neighbor who is claiming our spot for their own convenience but there is some back ground here. I want to know if I am the asshole here. We have a two car parking spot and abo...
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{ "description": "telling people that my friend has been cheating on his girlfriend for the last 3 months", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for telling people that my friend has been cheating on his girlfriend for the last 3 months?
So two weeks ago my friend Katie (not her real name) told me she had a big secret she had to tell me and made me promise not to tell anyone. She told me that she was romantically and sexually involved with one of my friends Paul (also not his real name) who has been in a relationship with a girl for 2 years now. They’v...
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{ "description": "catfishing my girlfriend to see if she is loyal", "pronormative_score": 25, "contranormative_score": 43 }
AITA for catfishing my girlfriend to see if she is loyal?
So i need to keep this brief and on a throwaway account. People have been telling me that my gf flirts with other guys and my best friend told me she sees him eyeing his crotch and acts flirtatious around him. I decided to test this out for myself and I made a fake Facebook account, got a lot of friends and i told some...
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{ "description": "not staying at a concert in order to get my car towed", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not staying at a concert in order to get my car towed?
Backstory: I go to a lot of concerts. Of course I don’t enjoy going alone, so over time, my cousin (23M) and I (20M) have become concert buddies. Anyways, he’s been a hassle to deal with lately. He’s always wanting me to drive to the shows, and often not paying me back for gas money just because he sometimes helps spl...
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{ "description": "stopping a friendship after their driving got us into a preventable accident", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA For stopping a friendship after their driving got us into a preventable accident?
We where on our way out of town and had made it half way. She got off the wrong exit even though I told her it was not the right one. When she realized she was getting off on the wrong exit she gunned the car to get back to the on ramp quickly. She was not paying attention and T-Boned a driver coming from our right ...
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{ "description": "telling my parents they are shit parents", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for telling my parents they are shit parents.
so some context here. I've moved out and am living about a hour away. my sister is 13 recently I've noticed my parents have not been parenting my sister very well. they let her wear whatever she wants (including short shorts and crop tops) she also stays out till 6:00/7:30. she talks back all the time and whe...
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{ "description": "wanting to ask my roommate to not lock the cupboard", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting to ask my roommate to not lock the cupboard?
So I recently moved in with my friend, who I've known since the start of university, and his girlfriend. She's working, he's still at university and I graduated a month or two before we moved in. We found a really nice two bedroom flat together that was relatively cheap for city prices. Splitting the rent so that I'm...
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AITA - Discussion about Confederate Flag
AITA - At dinner last night, our freshman age college daughter made the comment about wanting to move to Colorado for college. Which, I am totally for. I am a big believer of getting out and experiencing - anything! We live in the woods outside of a small town in Louisiana. So generally, we don’t interact with ve...
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{ "description": "not being honest", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not being honest?
Recently I changed classes because I did a mistake when choosing the subjects I wanted to study and I decided to change because I had some problems in the other class so that incentivated me to finally change. When I had sure that I would be changed, my friends introduce me to some people that they know that were fro...
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{ "description": "not showing my boyfriend a letter from his father", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 24 }
WIBTA if I didn't show my boyfriend a letter from his father?
My boyfriend of 2 years father was horrendously abusive. He still has mild post traumatic stress symptoms from this, and has only recently (as in the last year and a bit) began settling down and trying to become a better person (the abuse only ended a few years ago, when he was 12). He has no contact with him and has t...
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{ "description": "not supporting my friend with her new relationship", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I didn’t support my friend with her new relationship?
Hey, first time poster! I’ve just been having this dilemma internally recently. My best friend has an awful track record with guys. She ignores huge red flags and I am the one who is inevitably there for her when she gets hurt. She’s recently started seeing this guy and alarm bells are ringing in my head. On the first ...
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{ "description": "not wanting my soon to be homeless cousin to live with us", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For not wanting my soon to be homeless cousin to live with us?
My cousin is a 28 (i believe) year old man. He has never held a real job for longer than a month, he dropped out of highschool, and he has spent time in rehab for addiction to cough drops. He also has a criminal record now because he doesnt know how to drive properly and apparently took a right turn into the wrong lane...
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{ "description": "declining my dads offer", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for declining my dads offer?
I graduated college (4 year) a month ago I’m looking for a job. I’m already searching for other jobs at the moment but my father is a landscaper and wants me to do landscaping. The only problem I have with it is that it’s physically draining on the body. I can’t exercise after my body is used up from manual labor. Also...
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{ "description": "telling my mom that I'm tired of having her in my room", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for telling my mom that I'm tired of having her in my room?
I'm currently getting a lot of shit for this from my sister, so I need some input here. Some background: I'm 17 and I share a room with my two brothers (my younger brother being 15 and the other 18) and I have a sister (16) who has her own room. Ever since my older brother left home for college, my mom would always li...
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{ "description": "kicking out my Ex-Girlfriend", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for kicking out my Ex-Girlfriend?
Ive paid full rent for both of us for the past two years. The lease is up in Febuary, and I plan on renewing it in my name only. I am giving her a month, then she is no longer allowed to stay. Am I the asshole?
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{ "description": "confronting my friend for being greedy", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for confronting my friend for being greedy?
For context, I drove my friend to work today after he called me and said his ride busted on him. His job is a bit of a ways out but I said it was fine as long as he had gas money, which he said that he had. I pick him up, drive him thirty minutes to his work and when he pulled a wad of bills from his pocket asked how...
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{ "description": "not letting my grandma touch me", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not letting my grandma touch me
There's something off about my grandma and I've specifically stated on numerous occasions I'm uncomfortable with being touched by people (more specifically people I don't like, but I have respect so I keep that portion to myself.) When I don't follow what my grandmother says she makes sly comments about me because ...
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{ "description": "not tipping my tattoo artist when he touched up my tattoo", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for not tipping my tattoo artist when he touched up my tattoo?
Yesterday I got a touch up for a tattoo, it was free, only took about 5 minutes. When I got the original piece, I tipped 40%. I felt really bad for not tipping the second time around. AITA for not tipping during the touch up?
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{ "description": "not wanting to talk sports with randoms", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to talk sports with randoms?
I, like a lot of people, enjoy wearing clothes with logos of their favorite sport teams. I like teams from a particular high profile city. This leads to a lot of strangers out in public making a comment or starting a conversation. I’m not particularly fond of this. However I realize I’m showing people what specific tea...
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{ "description": "wanting to keep the dog I paid for", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting to keep the dog I paid for?
First off: I wasn’t the most responsible perso, I had one dog that escaped and got put in the pound and when that happened I had lost my job due to some personal issues at work. I couldn’t get her back cause they charged per day to keep her, as soon as I had a job I looked everywhere for her but assume she got adopted...
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{ "description": "not letting my GF buy a dildo", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 21 }
AITA For not letting my GF buy a dildo?
My GF of almost a year really wants to buy a realistic dildo. I am fine with her having one, I just dont like the idea of it being realistic. It makes me feel like shes fucking a penis that is not mine. she said she wants it to be real so it feels like a cock inside of her. We are extremely sexually active, but I to...
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{ "description": "giving a girl who was flirting with me a fake number", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 8 }
AITA for giving a girl who was flirting with me a fake number?
So I (23M) have been going to the gym for the past year and putting on some muscle. And I honestly think I look a lot better than before. I'm not huge or anything, but I've definitely put on some lean muscle and my face has leaned out. I'm only just starting to get to good levels of bodyfat that it affects my face, so...
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{ "description": "raising my shirt up to my nose to avoid the smell of a passenger on the bus", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for raising my shirt up to my nose to avoid the smell of a passenger on the bus?
This happened only about 30 minutes ago and I had to write about it since I’m getting some dirty stares. I get on the bus to ride home from my school campus when two guys sit next to the two open spots next to me. I’m not being judgmental but their hair had a good amount of grease on it and you can definitely tell tha...
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{ "description": "shouting at my mother", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for shouting at my mother?
So.. long story short, I live in my mom’s house while studying and it’s not going that well. This time, she came to me while I was doing something and just shouted and cursed me angrily that I shouldn’t take the basket I took from the laundry room (about a month after I took it). So I got angry back and said that she ...
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{ "description": "punching a car mirror and breaking a back widow for a guy nearly running me over", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for punching a car mirror and breaking a back widow for a guy nearly running me over
Okay, so here's how this goes. I ride motorcycles, I own a 2017 Honda Grom. If you aren't into bikes let's just say IT'S A SMALL BIKE. I was at a stop light in my hometown and a middle-aged man rear ended me off of my bike and destroyed my exhaust pipe which costed me 250 USD to buy. I stood up and we began to argue th...
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AITA: Wife (30F) travels constantly for work she knows I (31M) don’t like it
Long story short my wife took a new job roughly three years back. At first the job had her working out of one location. Within 6-8 months she was was traveling a lot for the job. Fast forward to now and she is gone roughly 2 weeks each month for no shorter than 5 days at a time . Currently she is at a work conference t...
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{ "description": "not buying stuff from the pet store while I'm regular person", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for not buying stuff from the pet store while I'm regular person?
This is from my memory from when I'm high school student. ​ While back, this store is named "PETS". It basically sells bunch of the things INCLUDING the puppies. While I am regular in the store, I NEVER brought anything from the store. I only focused on playing with puppies and looking around the pet store...
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{ "description": "secretly visiting a friend at university without telling my other friend who goes there", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I secretly visited a friend at university without telling my other friend who goes there?
Okay, so I have a feeling that I might look like an asshole straight away from the title, but let me give a bit of context. I’ve been friends with this girl since we were young, we’ll call her Lily. For the first few years, everything was great, but as we got older the friendship became quite toxic. Lily fell out with...
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{ "description": "wanting my boyfriend to not be on his phone when we go to bed at night", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for wanting my boyfriend to not be on his phone when we go to bed at night?
I really like falling asleep cuddling my boyfriend. I cherish the time we spend together in silence, just listening to each others breathing and drifting off to sleep. However, most nights he likes to watch YouTube videos until he falls asleep. I usually just lie next to him and fall asleep before he does while he is s...
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{ "description": "telling a \"Zumba gatekeeper\" to fuck right off", "pronormative_score": 34, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for telling a “Zumba gatekeeper” to fuck right off?
I’ve always lurked this subreddit but never thought I’d actually ask anything. Obligatory “this was yesterday”. I’ve recently kickstarted a new lifestyle and have been eating better and also started attending an LA Fitness. I hate the treadmill with a burning passion, so I’ve been trying to find more c...
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{ "description": "refusing to open my door to a stranger who wouldn't Id herself", "pronormative_score": 20, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for refusing to open my door to a stranger who wouldn't id herself?
Everything in my head tells me I did nothing wrong here, but I'm also socially stunted and notoriously bad at reading social cues, so I'm second guessing myself here. So some context before I begin. I live in an apartment complex that comprises of several buildings scattered across what used to be open farm land. I l...
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{ "description": "asking if there are extra tickets", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for asking if there are extra tickets?
Ok so I’ll keep this short. I’m part of this group that tries to help improve community living. As a reward for our work during the previous year the 5 of us were given a box at a local game. I wasn’t sure if I should but I asked if there was any extra tickets to bring one friend. The answer was no but my supervisor wa...
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{ "description": "hating to see my ex girlfriend hanging out with my ex best friend", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for hating to see my ex girlfriend hanging out with my ex best friend?
I broke up with her, been trying to move on with my life. I also finished a 7 year friendship with this really toxic friend. She always said terrible things about him as a person and as a friend. 7 months later, they are posting pictures hanging out at the nightclub I met her. (He is gay though)
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{ "description": "wanting to finally leave", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting to finally leave?
Alright so this is a long one (sort of) so bear with me! Backstory: I’ve dated this guy for two and a half years, the first year into it he cheated on me while I was away for about a month getting my health in order Recently, we’ve just gotten off our seasonal job of 6 months and that was already stressful for our ...
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{ "description": "not giving a flying fuck about where this dude lives", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not giving a flying fuck about where this dude lives?
AITA for this? This kid I know lives in a different state than me and every time I bring up something he goes on and on about how his state is poor and how his state is just this and that, but I don’t give a shit. I could say the roads here are cracked and he goes in to say he has no roads we ride in cows(not liter...
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{ "description": "telling my girlfriend to get rid of her rescue dog", "pronormative_score": 15, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for telling my girlfriend to get rid of her rescue dog?
I rent on my own a semi-detached home. It’s in a good location for me (very close to the train to work and there’s a supermarket that’s walking distance as well). Despite a small yard out the back, the lease explicitly states that there are no pets or animals allowed on the property (I assume guide dogs would be fine t...
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{ "description": "firing my buddy", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for firing my buddy?
Good friend of mine and myself work in the food industry. We are both chefs. I recently took a new catering gig and hired him on as my Sous. I put my name on him in order to get him hired. A couple weeks go by and we are killing it although he has made a couple of bad first impressions amongst the owners and other m...
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AITA: My grandma's dying and mom wont quit giving me updates
Trigger warning: childhood abuse/trauma, illness, homophobia, transphobia, eating disorder, rape mentioned This is sort of a heavy post, but I honestly am not sure how to feel or act. On my mom's side, they were very supportive of the LGBT community. After I came out however, they started spouting homophobic and trans...
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{ "description": "not allowing my partner to bring Guns in our home", "pronormative_score": 20, "contranormative_score": 12 }
AITA for not allowing my partner to bring Guns in our home?
Huge trigger warning. My boyfriend loves guns, it's not a huge issue for me. I'm more left leaning and he's more right. We have been talking about moving in together and I mentioned that I wouldn't be comfortable with them in our apartment. I've dealt with suicide for a long time and he knows this. I don't think I woul...
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Aita? Or is my gf going mad?
Okay so I've this friend pretty sure I'd call her my best mate by now we met in work 7 months ago and became super close from I'd car pool too work with her and we'd usually go get coffee or something after work just so we could hang out and shoot more shit. I left that place a month ago for a new job and havnt really ...
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{ "description": "ratting on my group project partner for plagiarizing her portion", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for ratting on my group project partner for plagiarizing her portion?
LTL, made an account just to post this. This happened years ago when i was in college. I’m going to be totally honest with you, I never considered myself to be the asshole in this situation but I’m starting to doubt myself. Recently, I told this story to a group of friends and they all said that I had done a really s...
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{ "description": "yelling \"Taxi!\" when I see a skier stack it", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for yelling “Taxi!” when I see a skier stack it?
My friends got annoyed at me for this but I thought and still think it’s hilarious and harmless. I’d laugh if someone did it to me, and laugh at myself anytime I stack it.
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{ "description": "leaving my trash in a a park that had no trash bins in it", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 224 }
AITA for leaving my trash in a a park that had no trash bins in it
So me, my parents and my little brother went to a park reserve for an afternoon hangout. We walked to the view point, where we sat and had lunch. When we were done, my mom pulled out some plastic bags and we cleaned all the trash we had left behind. We were left with 3 small trash bags. We then continued to walk around...
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{ "description": "thinking an open relationship should have certain rules", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for thinking an open relationship should have certain rules?
hey everyone, i how you're having a pleasant day. tldr at the end. so i'm 19 and have been in a relationship for nearly two years now with the girl of my dreams we fight sometimes but honestly everything has been going great, especially since we're both in weird places in our lives, and have a lot of issues. even thr...
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{ "description": "gifting everyone paintings for Christmas instead of buying gifts", "pronormative_score": 16, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I gifted everyone paintings for Christmas instead of buying gifts?
I've had a tough year - my mother and two good friends passed away, I've been very ill, had two colonoscopies, my daughter started kindergarten at a private school, and my partner and I are trying to gain custody of his eleven year old daughter - so I haven't been working as much as I usually would, especially during t...
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{ "description": "pretending I was married in order to sleep with homewreckers", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 5 }
WIBTA if I pretended I was married in order to sleep with homewreckers?
Just curious not going to do it.
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{ "description": "asking my girlfriend to find a job before moving in together", "pronormative_score": 15, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I asked my girlfriend to find a job before moving in together ?
Hi Reddit ! ​ This is a throwaway account because I recently introduced her to reddit. My girlfiriend and I have been together for 7 months now and things are going really good between us. We recently talked about moving to a new place of our own. ​ I really like her and I'm sure living toge...
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{ "description": "not giving my best with my studies", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not giving my best with my studies?
AITA for not giving my absolute max into my degree and for thinking that my parents should let me deal with my health and do things at my own pace? I am a college student (19yo). I started last year and failed the year (my first time failing ever). I'm studying Biochemistry, which i dont really enjoy and am not reall...
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{ "description": "kicking out my alcoholic girlfriend", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for kicking out my alcoholic girlfriend?
We've known each other for more than 10 years and have had a FWB relationship for most of that time but nothing that ever lasted more than a few months at a time and always ended mutually. Because of this we have always been good friends and always seem to end up in each others lives every few months. I should also men...
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{ "description": "being uncomfortable/annoyed when people have sex in the same room as me", "pronormative_score": 16, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being uncomfortable/annoyed when people have sex in the same room as me?
So, I have two of my friends who are in a relationship currently living with me in a studio apartment. They have the living room, and I have my “bedroom” with no door. We’ll call them Mike and Anna. Living arrangements are definitely subject to change in a few months once we’ve saved up enough to move to a 2-bedroom. ...
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{ "description": "keeping a guys iphone after he threw it out his car window while being crazy abusive to his girlfriend", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for keeping a guys iphone after he threw it out his car window while being crazy abusive to his girlfriend?
Hello AITA. I’m truly torn on this one so looking for judgement. To set the stage last night we were at a sidewalk bar since it was gorgeous out. We were right next to an intersection with a stop sign and all of sudden a ridiculously nice car pulled up to the stop sign with a much older man and a girl that was MAYBE 1...
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{ "description": "not wanting a new guy in my discord server", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting a new guy in my discord server.
Background Information: I have a discord server that I go into about every day and it's the main way any of my close friends contact each other. I have known most of the people in the discord server for about most, five years and least, one year. We post very personal information inside it, and is just an all around sa...
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{ "description": "wanting to drink the tequila of a friend of a friend", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for wanting to drink the tequila of a friend of a friend?
So over Halloween my girlfriend and I had our big group of friends over before we all went out. Some girls in our group are friends with this girl (we'll call her Kelly) but my girlfriend and I are not close with her at all. It was Kelly's first time over to our place but we knew her through these friends. Since it wa...
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{ "description": "telling my grandma she has no legal rights", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for telling my grandma she has no legal rights?
My parents kicked me out of my house and discontinued their payments for my high school. My grandma paid the other half of my tuition. I went to the financial aid office at my school and asked for any financial help. They said they would definitely help, and would consider my options. My grandma said she wish I hadn’t...
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{ "description": "getiing upset that my boyfriend dosnt care if Im upset at night", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for getiing upset that my boyfriend dosnt care if im upset at night
I have been going through a lot of stress from work and moving for the last few weeks and broke down crying tonight. Bad timing for him i guess as it its 3 am but i have been feeling like shit the past few days and have been trying to talking to him about it. I felt like maybe he didnt notice how bad my mind was today ...
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{ "description": "getting upset with one of my best friends for hanging out with my boyfriend without me and inviting him to her house", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA For getting upset with one of my best friends for hanging out with my boyfriend without me and inviting him to her house?
To give a little background, we met him on the same night so it's not as if they were previously best friends or anything. They're friends, not particularly close but they talk occasionally. My friend has won over more than a few guys I've been interested in, so now that I finally have one I care about quite a bit I'm ...
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{ "description": "sheltering a stray cat", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for sheltering a stray cat?
I recently went from living alone to sharing a house with three other people. This week, a stray cat started wandering into the house. Two days ago it started to get bolder, going down to the ground floor. This tuesday night, I decided to go to the terrace and I found the cat huddled in the neighbor's roof. It allowed ...
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{ "description": "not sharing any of our dad's money with my sister when he passes", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 3 }
WIBTA if I didn't share any of our dad's money with my sister when he passes?
On mobile, forgive spelling and grammar please. Bit of background: My father is not a particularly good person. In fact if I were pressed I'd be forced to admit he's actually quite a bad one in many respects. His behaviors led to the termination of his relationship with my sister nearly fourteen years ago. I don't wan...
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{ "description": "kicking a girl out of a group chat", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I kicked a girl out of a group chat? (All 20-22F)
I have a few friends from college and we are all in a group chat together and have been for about 2 years, about 6 months ago we met this girl, let’s call her Abby, and she was nice and we got along well so she ended up being added to the group chat. Abby can sometimes be quite narcissistic and a little self centered,...
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{ "description": "telling my co-worker to shut up", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for telling my co-worker to shut up?
This guy has been getting on my nerves for months. He is the embodiment of what everyone paints a "millennial" to be. For context I am 22 he is 20 He does fortnite dances when he sees you across the hall, when you wait for him to let you into the building he does fortnite dances. He is constantly watching tiktocks ...
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{ "description": "my girlfriend being a bottlerat", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 13 }
AITA for my girlfriend being a bottlerat?
Last week was my (M26) girlfriend's (Tara) 21st birthday. My friends and her friends all took a trip to Atlantic City where we all paid general admission to have a good time for a DJ she was dying to see. We pregamed with enough alcohol in the parking lot and even some of my buddies I hadn't seen in a while were there....
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{ "description": "telling a joke with my coach's mom as the punchline", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for telling a joke with my coach's mom as the punchline?
I play a slightly physical men's sport and our head coach asked if anyone had a joke to close out practice. I proudly announced I had a new favorite sex position and that it was all the rave right now. I asked if anyone had head of it, called the "WOW," and then said it's when you take assistant coaches mom and turn h...
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{ "description": "getting upset my long distance girlfriend did not invite me to celebrate her birthday", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for getting upset my long distance girlfriend did not invite me to celebrate her birthday?
So basically, my girlfriend and I have been dating for a relatively short time (5 mo.) and we have been long distance for about 3 of those months. We have a solid relationship, not in love yet, but really enjoy spending time with each other, sex is great, enjoy each other's company, and are very similar in many ways. ...
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{ "description": "reporting my downstairs neighbors for smoking hella weed", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 10 }
WIBTA If I reported my downstairs neighbors for smoking hella weed?
So yeah, sorry this won't be super juicy or interesting. The situation is pretty simple and straightforward. My downstairs neighbors like to turn up. Now, I dont care about weed. I believe it should be legal, medically and recreationally. I've had many friends that partake in the devil's lettuce. However, I live in ...
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{ "description": "leaving a family members dog tied up outside their house alone", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for leaving a family members dog tied up outside their house alone?
This morning my mom called me and asked me for coffee. It was a bit later then she normally starts work and she proceeded to tell me that she was dog sitting for my cousin (we will call her Kim) over night. Kim does not have a job and often gets my mom to dog sit for her for free. They agreed on the pick up time of 8 ...
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{ "description": "not being in a rush to pay back my roommate", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 16 }
AITA for not being in a rush to pay back my roommate?
3 friends and I move into an apartment. 1 friend (H) pays deposit, rest of months rent, current month's rent, and some household necessities. We all agree to pay back H. No requests on when repayment should occur are made at this point it's pretty much just "pay me back when you can, sooner is better than later". So as...
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{ "description": "asking my friend to stop talking about her GF", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I asked my friend to stop talking about her GF?
To make a long story short, a friend of mine has been seeing someone for the past year or so. For context: I have known this woman for 5 years. We have an internet-based friendship. I have been speaking to her almost daily over that time. For the past year, she's been talking about almost nothing but her girlfriend. ...
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{ "description": "not wanting for anything to do with my dad", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting for anything to do with my dad?
So some back story. My family is Indian....... So i'm sure most brown people will get when i say that child abuse plays a role in our childhood. My sister and I (male) both endured abuse growing up by my father. A lot of the beating happened because of bi polar reasoning's of my dad, my dad not happy with B+'s in advan...
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{ "description": "telling my bf he needs to lose weight or I'll break up with him", "pronormative_score": 17, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for telling my bf he needs to lose weight or I’ll break up with him?
So a bit of background. We are both long-haul truck drivers and we share a truck. We are both male. I’m 31 and he’s 33. When we started dating about 6 years ago, he was 185 lbs. A year ago he hit 300 and he is well on his way to 350. He eats nothing but chips and fast food and refuses to go with me to the gym. He now ...
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{ "description": "wearing headphones around talkative coworkers", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wearing headphones around talkative coworkers
I started a job at a catering company as Catering Supervisor 5 years ago and I was given an assistant to help do setups. I quickly discovered my new assistant never stopped talking. We would work 6-8 hours doing these setups in a ballroom by ourselves and she would go on long rants about the most mundane things. At fir...
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{ "description": "matching with girl then unmatching after realizing she has kids", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for matching with girl then unmatching after realizing she has kids?
So two nights ago I matched with a girl who seemed pretty cute. We sent maybe three to four messages in total but they were pretty deep from the outset since she opened with a question about what I liked about my personality. Overall I could tell she was pretty smart and part of me wanted to end up trying to see where ...
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{ "description": "reporting some strange behaviour to the manager but I've been second guessing my decision to do so ever since", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA I reported some strange behaviour to the manager but I've been second guessing my decision to do so ever since.
I know it's perhaps unreasonable to even scrutinise myself this much because in the moment it was a clear "strange behaviour, so report it" kind of case. I guess I'm just here for reaffirmation that, perhaps, you would have made the same choice in this situation. Or confirmation of what I have been thinking, that perha...
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{ "description": "not accepting hours at my new job", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not accepting hours at my new job
I just got a new job at a store. I have as of this moment only worked two days where I only managed the unpacking of new products and never got to stand at the register. I got a call today and was offered to work an evening completely by myself and I was also offered to receive training this entire week to manage the r...
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{ "description": "refusing to continue transporting my Aunt after a car accident", "pronormative_score": 43, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for refusing to continue transporting my Aunt after a car accident?
Hello people of reddit, first time poster, recent reader and a very Merry Christmas and Happy Holidays to you all! So I'll try (and most likely fail) to keep this short and sweet. Every year, my family travel out to my Uncle's house a couple of days before Christmas to get together and celebrate in our own way, so we ...
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{ "description": "continuing to drive the speed limit while 2 other cars had a fight", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for continuing to drive the speed limit while 2 other cars had a fight?
I was caught in the middle of a very uncomfortable road rage incident this morning on a two-lane expressway. I was in the right lane going the speed limit, listening to music and maintaining my speed. I know I’m not a fast driver so I always stay in the right lane to let people pass me or let cars merge onto the expre...
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AITA in this fight with my dad
I'll try to keep it brief. New Year's I had my family over and my small 1br apt got trashed. I deep cleaned my entire place. Following weekend my dad came over, made himself food, did his version of "cleaning up" which involved leaving trash in my kitchen sink. I don't remember verbatim what I said but I know that I ex...
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{ "description": "not letting my daughter hang out with her cousin", "pronormative_score": 32, "contranormative_score": 13 }
AITA for not letting my daughter hang out with her cousin?
(repost because of prior word choice and request to change it.) My wife's sister has a daughter who is 5 and developmently challenged. I'm not sure what it is that is holding her development back. She wears a diaper, she doesn't talk often and when she does she screams until she gets what she wants. The problem isn'...
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{ "description": "dumping my gf after she dumped me", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for dumping my gf after she dumped me
So, someone told her that I was talking bad about her behind her back, which I haven't. She then dumped me over sms, because "I wasn't loyal". I was really confused, because the next day she came to my place because she wanted to come back together. I then told her that I didn't want her in my life anymore, and to fuc...
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{ "description": "calling the police on my friend when she was cutting herself", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for calling the police on my friend when she was cutting herself?
A little backstory; this girl (we'll call her Amanda) and I used to date (a whole different story), we ending things, and after a month of mutual silent treatment, began to talk again. We both had emotional troubles, and we would help each other through them as they came up, but a few months before the story takes plac...
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{ "description": "thinking my boyfriend might be kind of racist", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for thinking my boyfriend might be kind of racist?
This comes from me trying to be as absolutely open-minded as I can... while also not really being able to get over this negative feeling that I've developed for a person I care about, even though it might be irrational. So here I am for outside judgement on my/his behavior. I've been dating this person for a short wh...
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{ "description": "asking for a gift back", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA for asking for a gift back?
I was dating this girl for about 4 months before I went on a month-long solo trip to Europe, something I'd never done before. We weren't exclusive at both of our agreement, but were heading to serious territory. She proposed that if I messed around with anyone overseas, she doesn't care as long as she doesn't know abou...
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AITA Mother in law is mad at me but won't talk to me about it
Hi everyone! Last night my mother in law had my 3 month old son at hers for a sleepover. She messaged me saying "hi there's no panadol in his baby bag he needs some for his gums he's been dribbling a lot, is (my partner) home?". I replied with "if he isn't in pain he doesn't need panadol". She didn't mention anything a...
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{ "description": "asking my professor when the exam date is", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA For asking my professor when the exam date is?
[Screencaps](https://imgur.com/a/dJUZdd3) A guy asked in class last week when our second exam would be (should be coming up either this next week or the week after) and the professor said a date, then said look on the sakai page (class website) for the announcement. I looked (and double checked) at each announcement p...
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{ "description": "not wanting to compliment my husband's weightloss", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 16 }
AITA for not wanting to compliment my husband's weightloss?
This is probably going to be a no brainer for you guys, cus I sure feel like a piece of shit. So my husband is overweight and has tried going on diets and exercise programs multiple times, and it seems like every time I'd compliment him on weight loss, he'd gain it right back. Last week, he said he was going on anot...
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{ "description": "not helping and not talking to my classmates", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not helping and not talking to my classmates.
So I live in Belgium and my family is not Belgian. I go to one of the best high schools in Belgium and I study a difficult direction with very intelligent classmates except they are very very childish for 15 year Olds. Today I was just going to my class when a classmate pushed me and told me that he gets to pass first ...
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{ "description": "not letting people in my room", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not letting people in my room
For some context I work at an university where I live with students and I am supposed to talk with them when needed to help etc. Most others in my job do this In their bed room. I have my room and it is very me all pink and sweet and happy with cute thing. However I don’t like others in my room because they often jud...
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{ "description": "not wanting my boyfriends cousin to tag along to my family holiday celebration", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not wanting my boyfriends cousin to tag along to my family holiday celebration?
Some background for context: My long time boyfriend and I recently celebrated a move and have been loving it. We even have some extra space, which admittedly we haven’t found a use for yet. Now don’t get me wrong, one of the things I love about him is that he’s very kind hearted, which can lend itself to being easily t...
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{ "description": "ending things because I did not want to be her forever friend with benefits", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for ending things because I did not want to be her forever friend with benefits?
Dated this girl for 9 months, then she broke it off with me. We stayed friends with benefits for 3 years after this, and she became very dependent on me, regretting her decision though we never made another commitment. After 3 years of just messing around with each other, I wanted to move on with my life and just cut...
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{ "description": "getting mad at my friend for asking me to be his girlfriend", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for getting mad at my friend for asking me to be his girlfriend?
I dont want to want to waste too much time with back story. So basically I've known this guy (lets call andre) for about a year. Durring that time he has asked me out in one form or another 3 times. Now our friendship is far from perfect just about every other month we get into an argument and we dont talk for a few we...
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{ "description": "submitting a piece of work just on my behalf instead of both mine and my partners", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA if I submit a piece of work just on my behalf instead of both mine and my partners?
So long story short, I got lumped with an idiot in my music class, and he literally never tries. For our work, we had to choose an audio file, but while I wanted to do one, he wanted to do a different one. He turned off the computer in anger because of this. He also did absolutely nothing we were supposed to; he...
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{ "description": "asking my sisters boyfriend to move out of my family home", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 3 }
WIBTA for asking my sisters boyfriend to move out of my family home?
Okay so this has been happening for 2.5 years now, and I’ve finally reached my breaking point. My sister (currently 18) started dating her boyfriend (21) in July before I (21) started living on campus at my university. He lived 30 minutes from our house and when he visited my sister, he would stay over so he wouldn’...
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{ "description": "discouraging my wife's hobbies", "pronormative_score": 127, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for discouraging my wife's hobbies?
I've been married for 6 years and we have shared finances. We both work but I do make a little more. My wife works from home. When I met my wife, she didn't really have any hobbies or friends. She's reclusive and introverted but is very passionate about things. My issue is the current "thing" changes every few months ...
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{ "description": "sleeping with my friend's ex girlfriend", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 9 }
AITA for sleeping with my friend's ex girlfriend?
Back story required. Names have been changed. ​ My friend, we'll call him Doug, and his girlfriend, we'll call her Diane, recently split up. They dated for about a year a couple years back and recently got back together for a couple months before calling it quits. It wasn't really a messy break up, but the...
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{ "description": "'breaking up' with a friend after 25 years of friendship", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for ‘breaking up’ with a friend after 25 years of friendship?
I am 30, she is 29. We’ve been friends since we were children. She lives in another city in another state, so we see each other when we can. The last two times I saw her were extremely awkward. She didn’t ask anything about my life, completely ignored my fiancé (we were at dinner), and wanted to just sit and gossip ab...
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{ "description": "rejecting a girl as revenge", "pronormative_score": 144, "contranormative_score": 647 }
AITA for rejecting a girl as revenge?
So, to start off, maybe, it was a bit petty of me tbh. Anyway, I asked this girl Clara out on a date about a year ago. I was a completely different person then, and she turned me down. It stung like hell, but it did encourage me to better myself. Since then I've gotten in better shape, became more confident and general...
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{ "description": "leaving my suicidal ex girlfriend to live with a bunch of strangers", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for leaving my suicidal ex girlfriend to live with a bunch of strangers?
Basically, I live with my ex in a room in the house she Nanny's for. We broke up before new years and all has been fine. Until now. She has preexisting health conditions where if she doesn't eat meat at least 2-3 times a week she gets majorly depressed and suicidal. She literally dis regards this all the time to be v...
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{ "description": "disowning my sister", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for disowning my sister
My sister is 5 years older than me, she ran away from home at 14, came home for a short while and then moved, had three kids within 8 years and is now addicted to meth and loves halfway across the country. My mom went to see her before we found out about the drug addiction around Christmas time two years ago. My sister...
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