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{ "description": "leaving her pregnant with a kid I won't help raise", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 46 }
AITA for leaving her pregnant with a kid I won't help raise?
So, don't really know where to start. My girlfriend got pregnant 2 months ago, told me about it it about 5 weeks back, and she is keeping it. I don't want to be a father. I don't want any more of my genes in the world, I don't want to pay for a kid, don't want to put shit on hold to support a family, so I bailed. I b...
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{ "description": "doing something", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA If I did something
I have a brother and he destroys everything for example our microwave covered in ravioli bc when he makes it he doesnt cover his food or clean the microwave and put controllers he gets covered in grease he also somehow uses his nail and took a rubber casing off one of our controllers also broke it bc one of the joystic...
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{ "description": "using my boyfriend's phobia to prove a point", "pronormative_score": 491, "contranormative_score": 293 }
AITA for using my boyfriend's phobia to prove a point?
This happened a little over a week ago and I still feel bad about it. So, my boyfriend has a bit of a hobby collecting knives. Switchblades, butterfly knives, he's pretty proud of all of them. Now, I have a small phobia of my own. My father was very abusive, and of the few memories I have of him, he was often threateni...
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{ "description": "being mad at my mom for checking my phone", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA For being mad at my mom for checking my phone?
Throaway because my friends follow my main, and this topic is kind of heavy. So last Sunday, I went to the beach with my family. My mom was there with us and everything seemed fine. After texting some friends, I decided to put my phone away and go near the shore. I put my phone in my backpack and leave for an hour or...
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{ "description": "not wanting to drive to someone's house to tell them about a lost dog b", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not wanting to drive to someone's house to tell them about a lost dog B
Backstory: Last weekend I drove out to pick up my gf at the train station in another city. On my way there a dog ran in front of my car and I immediately braked but wasn't able to stop in time. Couldn't avoid it either as it's a busy street. Also it was dark and the dog came from behind a 'speed bump' kinda thing that ...
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AITA for a number of reasons
So today I let my girlfriend know that I'd be meeting up with a friend whom I've not seen in a while, we're meeting next week. She got upset as not too long ago a boy asked to meet up with her, we'll call him P1 - he had just had a break up was looking for a rebound, and consequently said that he'd still be with her - ...
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{ "description": "not playing board games at a board game party and leaving early", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for not playing board games at a board game party and leaving early?
This happened a while ago. I was with a friend at a small get together with three other people (so, 5 total). The intent of this get together was to play a few board games and generally hang out. My friend knew that I am not hugely into board games, but invited me because we are close and enjoy each other's company. I ...
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{ "description": "denying a customer one of our last boxes", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for denying a customer one of our last boxes?
A bit of context: I work at large wine/spirits/beer store. We typically have boxes to hand out, but there are times when we just can't and try to hold them for people with multi-bottle or larger purchases. For the situation in question: It was a busy weekend so box supply was very low, probably about 3/4 boxes left. ...
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{ "description": "not being equipped enough to handle a mentally unstable friend", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not being equipped enough to handle a mentally unstable friend?
Hi everyone! A very close friend of mine has been recently started going into depression because of poor performance in academics and dropping out of uni. She has resorted to drugs now and it really breaks my heart to see her go through this. She has been harassing, teasing and openly shaming our classmates from high s...
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{ "description": "accusing my mother of \"lying\"? my holiday is completely ruined and my relationship with my mother severed over this word", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for accusing my mother of "lying"? My holiday is completely ruined and my relationship with my mother severed over this word
Before telling you the actual story, I genuinely wish everyone a merry Christmas and happy new year. Please spend your holidays peacefully with your family members. It should be a season of love of joy, and you share irreplaceable bonds with your family members, so treasure the loving moments you spend with them, becau...
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{ "description": "telling my sister to get her shit together", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for telling my sister to get her shit together?
Some info about my sister: She's 18, gets money from my parents every week to travel to her boyfriend; Doesn't study, has bad grades and the only things she does is laying on her bed 24/7 while talking with her internet friends on Facebook; She never I REPEAT NEVER appreciates what our parents do to make her hap...
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{ "description": "wanting to kick out our roomate", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting to kick out our roomate?
I have 2 weeks left of school, and then I graduate with my 2nd degree after 6 years of student life. I got married 4 years ago and we have been together for 8 and a half. For the last 6 years while I have been in school, we have lived with roommates (for obvious financial reasons.) During this time I have kept a pt ...
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{ "description": "reporting my Friend's Drug Addict Relative to the police", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA If I Reported My Friend's Drug Addict Relative To The Police
I have watched my friend Peggy get financially abused by her relative Al. Despite having a decent job and no bills, Al is always broke and on the edge of homelessness. He uses all of his problems to manipulate Peggy into giving him money. He has forced her to go into a serious amount of debt. Because of this Peggy can...
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{ "description": "not wanting to see my families every year", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not wanting to see my families every year?
My parents separated when I was one, and always fought to keep me on their side (they did not really know each other before I was born, and never spent time together after they separated). My mother in law often showed rejection towards me when I grew up with my father. My mother is unemployed, she smokes a lot of ciga...
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{ "description": "returning a Christmas present I bought for a coworker", "pronormative_score": 14, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for returning a Christmas present I bought for a coworker?
I gave out Christmas presents today to my coworkers, as we do every year. This year, I bought everyone whisky, except for one of my coworkers. Instead of whisky, I bought him some protein powder. There is a bit of a story behind this, as last year I bought everyone alcohol, which is something of a tradition in the offi...
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{ "description": "not eating the croissants my sister brought for me", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not eating the croissants my sister brought for me?
So last night my older sister, which who I sleep with, was coughing and sneezing from 4 to 5:30 a.m non stop. Yes, it was annoying but I understood she wasn’t enjoying it either and didn’t say a word. When I woke up I had a message from my sister which read: “I’m sorry for last night, I hope I can make it up for you wi...
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{ "description": "being offended by the question \"where are you from?\"", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for being offended by the question "Where are you from?"
I just remembered an interaction I had in a night club last year and I'm really unsure if I was the asshole or if my behaviour was justified. To understand the story you need to know that I'm female and half korean and half german. A friend and I went to a nightclub one weekend. When we went outside to get some fresh ...
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{ "description": "not appreciating my girlfriend sending 30+ people half naked photos daily", "pronormative_score": 30, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for not appreciating my girlfriend sending 30+ people half naked photos daily?
I’m sure we’re all familiar with Snapchat streaks, a challenge for users to keep a score with their friends by sending photos daily to one another. My girlfriend has way too many of these streaks to count and every day it seems she is sending pictures of herself half-naked. Mind you I don’t know any of the people on h...
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{ "description": "putting my dog's poop bags in other people's trash cans", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for putting my dog's poop bags in other people's trash cans
I walk my two dogs 2 or 3 times a day and the last time is usually pretty late at night, like 11pm or midnight. If we end up walking through the neighborhood there are usually trash cans out at the curb waiting to be picked up the next morning. If my dog's do their business, I will bag it in a dog waste bag and tie it ...
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{ "description": "being upset the love of my life gave me a shitty proposal", "pronormative_score": 36, "contranormative_score": 125 }
AITA for being upset the love of my life gave me a shitty proposal?
My fiance and I talked in the spring about getting engaged over this past summer. We have been together for 3 years and living together for a year. It didn't happen and he never let me know why. I got pretty depressed in the fall and cried a lot because I felt like he was saying what he thought I wanted to hear but dra...
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{ "description": "working on my laptop in the same room as my visiting baby nephew and brother's girlfriend, rather than going to my room", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for working on my laptop in the same room as my visiting baby nephew and brother's girlfriend, rather than going to my room?
My mom confronted me afterwards and "If you have work you need to do, go do it in your room, it's really rude and it's like you are sitting there ignoring us"
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{ "description": "asking my parents for a console", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for asking my parents for a console
To introduce myself I’ll explain more, I’m 14 and part of a immigrant family my parents immigrated from Mexico legally and had me in California. My family and I are well off (not sure the income) but we can afford basic needs like groceries, WiFi , and can afford a middle class house. Now that we have that covere...
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{ "description": "refusing to speak to my parents because of their s.o", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For Refusing to Speak to My Parents Because of Their S.O?
Hi folks, this is something that has been pressing my mind for a while, and after some more recent events, it's been heavily on my mind. Sorry it's a little long, but I'll put a TL;DR at the end. ​ I'm a 21-year-old college psych student who is about eight hours away from her parents. My mom and dad are di...
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{ "description": "asking for the address to a party", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA For asking for the address to a party?
So my friend and the host of the party we were going to have been having some beef and as a result she got uninvited. To be clear me and this friend were not going to the party together, but she had been complaining to me about the host uninviting her for some time now. So the party is tonight and I have no idea wher...
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{ "description": "giving my daughter the same name as my cousin", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I gave my daughter the same name as my cousin?
My husband and I just found out the gender of our baby (a girl!) and we’ve been thinking about baby names. My cousin just recently had a baby boy, and named him “Daniel” (not real names used). I’ve always liked the baby name “Danielle” and he likes it too. We’re holding off on breaking the news to everyone until a few ...
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{ "description": "refusing to play translator for a holiday I'm taking with friends", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 5 }
WIBTA if I refused to play translator for a holiday I'm taking with friends?
I'm planning a trip with 3 or so friends to go to France in the summer. Now I speak fluent French, although I'm rusty, having done it for 7 years through school (ages 11-18) and using it during my degree for research. 2 of my other friends also speak the language to varying degrees, mostly at a conversational level. ...
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{ "description": "thinking my SO friendship with another man[40ish] is crossing a line", "pronormative_score": 39, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for thinking my[22M] SO[21F] friendship with another man[40ish] is crossing a line?
This is in the UK, if that matters. My[22M] SO[21F] has an older friend [40ishM] 'Bill' whom she is very close with. Their relationship in my eyes is too close and I've discussed this with her before but she thinks I'm being an over protective and reading into things. I don't know much about Bill, other than that...
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{ "description": "cancelling plans with my friends", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for cancelling plans with my friends
So I applied for a leadership programme and everyone everyday told me I would make the worst leader, I wasn't cut out for it, that I'm wasting my time. My parents, friends and other people in my family all told me this for months. We got results back I wasn't picked - as everyone predicted. And everyone was laughing at...
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{ "description": "not telling my coworker I already got the promotion he wanted", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not telling my coworker I already got the promotion he wanted?
A lot has happened at work recently. Here's some background: On a Friday, the entire company was informed a specific branch was closing. It was a small office of only 10 people but one of them "G" did the most important job for my 10 person department at the main office. This was news to my manager who was technically...
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{ "description": "not wanting to date single moms even though I have a child", "pronormative_score": 34, "contranormative_score": 36 }
AITA Not wanting to date single moms even though I have a child
I have a 3 year old with my ex. The title pretty much says it all, I don't want to date single moms. My friends said I'm an asshole for that because I have a child, but here's my reasoning: 1) I like the freedom that comes with co parenting. I don't want to balance a second child's schedule and lose out on that freed...
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{ "description": "getting mad at my friend for accusing me of destroying the class board", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for getting mad at my friend for accusing me of destroying the class board?
So. The title is self explanatory but there is wayyy more to this mess. This mess all started when i was 10-11 (4-5th grade. I'm 15 now and i'm still wondering about this though) when we had a class board with like.. these cartoony owls pinned on them. Every person had their own owl with their name on it. One day, some...
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{ "description": "hating my fiance who ghosted me", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for hating my fiance who ghosted me
AITA reddit, this is a long one buckle up ill keep it as tight as possible. Young expat in switzerland I run 2 companies here Meet a gorgeous girl over instagram We go back and forth for a few months eventually i meet her in person Ukrainian underwear model at university here That first coffee i fell in love with her i...
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{ "description": "wanting to divorce because stepchild", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 25 }
AITA for wanting to divorce because stepchild?
I'm (30f) and married to my husband (30m) now for 6 months. We had been dating for 2 years and when we got married and we moved to a new town together and then moved in together. He has a 4yo daughter who I had a pleasant relationship with. I've watched her grow up. I think she is a cute tyke but I dont love her. I've ...
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{ "description": "disinviting my friend to my bachelor party", "pronormative_score": 42, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for disinviting my friend to my bachelor party?
I am getting married Sunday, we are having my bachelor party in Vegas, and riding back that morning. When the bus gets to my good friend Charlie's, he has his girlfriend in tow. He invited her(or she invited herself). So he expected her to just get on the bus and come to vegas with us. I said no. I was very pissed of...
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{ "description": "telling my S/o that my friend is using her boyfriend", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for telling my S/O that my friend is using her boyfriend (my S/O's friend)
So this is a long post, TL;DR at the bottom I've known this girl for several years now, I found out back in July 2018 that she was going behind her boyfriends back, talking shit about him, comparing him to her ex in everything he did, she even sent me a screenshot of a conversation between her and some other guy, basi...
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{ "description": "asking my boyfriend to pay off my car loan or buy me a new car after he totaled mine", "pronormative_score": 29, "contranormative_score": 54 }
AITA for asking my boyfriend to pay off my car loan or buy me a new car after he totaled mine?
Hi All, ​ A month ago my unlicensed (DUI) boyfriend insisted he go to the store to buy me bottle of wine to celebrate our 9 months of dating. I initially rejected the idea and he pressed it in an attempt to do a good deed, I eventually gave in. About 40 minutes later I get a frantic call from him, he had b...
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{ "description": "blocking a friend after she didn't respect me being sick", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for blocking a friend after she didn't respect me being sick?
So, first time poster, bear with me please. ​ So a while back, I caught a really bad cold, and laid in bed for two weeks straight. As people know, How to Train a Dragon 3 came into the cinemas, and a 'friend' and I wanted to go there. When the time came to discuss this, I informed her that I am sick and un...
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{ "description": "not letting my grandma have her dog", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 8 }
AITA for not letting my grandma have her dog?
My wife's grandmother just sold her house and is moving into the state my wife and I live in. She does not have a house purchase plan yet so my wife, daughter (9mo), and I offered to let her stay with us while she hammers that out (she has little money so we are trying to help with her housing cost for the time). She h...
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{ "description": "not telling my wife a secret I promosed to keep", "pronormative_score": 438, "contranormative_score": 41 }
AITA for not telling my wife a secret I promosed to keep?
A friend of mine's wife had gotten pregnant, and on a night out he took me away from everyone to tell me the awesome news, but asked me to promise not to tell anyone. My wife's friends are also in the same group, so he asked if I could please not tell her (especially as his wife was only eight weeks pregnant) until the...
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{ "description": "telling my (ex)girlfriend's sister she had suicidal intentions", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for telling my (ex)girlfriend’s sister she had suicidal intentions
I’ll try to fit in as much detail as possible. This is something that has weighed on my chest for a long time and probably indirectly led to the end of my relationship with this person. So I was dating a girl (M) who lived far away from me. Like, across the Atlantic, in the UK. She and I got along very well, and alw...
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{ "description": "being mad about my boss recording me at work", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For being mad about my boss recording me at work?
Hi everyone, first post ever, so bear with me. TL;DR at bottom. ​ For context: I'm a data entry worker in an office making minimum wage, and my boss is a middle-aged man; He's kind of obnoxious but generally very nice to me. I'm in school for music (I'm a classical singer), and this office job is what I d...
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{ "description": "telling a girl that I wasn't looking for a relationship", "pronormative_score": 22, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for telling a girl that I wasn't looking for a relationship?
Background: 27(m) coworkers set me up with a 22(f) who is new in town. We exchange pictures through friends and then phone numbers. I am a satisfied bachelor at the moment but figured i would give it a shot b/c what the heck. We begin to text to try to get to know each other. About a week and 75 texts later I feel no c...
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{ "description": "making a decision that potentially resulted in a handicapped person missing their flight", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for making a decision that potentially resulted in a handicapped person missing their flight?
As I boarded my plane today, I was approached by a staff member asking me if I wanted to change my seat to sit in the emergency row as they mistakenly placed a handicapped person there. I replied no as I did not want to have the screen far away from me and I didn't want to assist in an emergency. Then, they just said o...
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{ "description": "not doing anything on my boyfriend's birthday", "pronormative_score": 288, "contranormative_score": 18 }
AITA for not doing anything on my boyfriend's birthday?
My birthday was last November I'd call it an alright one. I spent time with my family, my friends took me out, I had a lovely time except for one thing: my boyfriend did nothing for me. I got a happy birthday text but other than that no presents or plans of any kind. This did bother me so I brought it up with him and h...
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{ "description": "being my upset my gf of three years keeps our relationship secret", "pronormative_score": 15, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for being my upset my gf of three years keeps our relationship secret?
I met my current girlfriend in community college three years ago. When we first began dating she said that her parents would never let her date until she was completely finished with her university studies so that meant that we had to hide out and her parents could never find out. Furthermore, she also made me promise ...
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{ "description": "asking my parents to stop making me pay rent", "pronormative_score": 105, "contranormative_score": 107 }
WIBTA if I asked my parents to stop making me pay rent?
I’m a 21 year old living with my parents and my two younger brothers (both in elementary school). My schedule consists of working ~8 hour shifts Tuesday, Thursday, and weekends, while having class for 8 hours on MWF. This does not account for time spent on homework. I pay my parents $150 in rent every month because t...
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{ "description": "getting upset at my so for not approving photos I post on his fb timeline", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA if I get upset at my SO (29M) for not approving photos I post on his FB timeline?
It would be nice if he would be proud of us in social media. I don’t post all the time anyway. But I sometimes think that he has all rights in his social media account after all..
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{ "description": "telling my husband leave work to drive me to the auto repair shop", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for telling my husband leave work to drive me to the auto repair shop
I am not able to keep my cool about this and longer. I don't like shouting because I think it makes me look like a lunatic, but at the same time I've lost all patience. Last election day I was in a multi-car accident that was my fault. No one was hurt, and most of the damage to all the cars was minimal. But the insura...
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{ "description": "criticizing police officers for this", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for criticizing police officers for this?
I am in the ride-along program, and the other day, we stopped at a domestic. When they arrested the guy, I know that people often choose if they want them to press charges and even arrest instead of citation (often to separate them), but what transpired next is weird. The officers asked her if she wants his hands cuffe...
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{ "description": "not giving the customer what he wants after threatening me because I was taking a nap", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for not giving the customer what he wants after threatening me because I was taking a nap
I manage a new and used furniture store and the other day I took a little cat nap in the office. Whoops. I know that's super unprofessional, but it was a painfully slow day and it was the first one that I've done in a very very long time. My office manager apparently walked in with photo of a table on her phone and s...
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{ "description": "cutting my negative friend out of my life", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for cutting my negative friend out of my life
Sorry for the formatting,I am on mobile & TL;DR in the end Hello guys how are you doing. I am a 17 years old guy and I've known this also 17 years old guy for about 2 years now. He transferred to the school I was in and I was the first person to talk to him. I started hanging out with him the first friday of l...
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{ "description": "asking for some sleep", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for asking for some sleep?
My next door neighbor has a Jack Russell terrible that likes to bark at everything. I don't mind for the most part except when it's late. This little spawn of satan will go outside at all hours of the night and bark like crazy. He has a dog door that is right next to my bedroom and he'll sit there and go bonkers. I fin...
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{ "description": "being upset about the amount of cleaning and work I do in my flat", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being upset about the amount of cleaning and work I do in my flat.
Ok, let me start by saying I haven't actually acted on this yet, but i have kind of been stewing over it. ​ A few months ago my friend and I moved into a flat, and got in 2 other people. I really enjoy living with them (aside from this one element), we are similar minded, get on really well, and generally...
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{ "description": "not being considerate of the concern of other discord server members", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not being considerate of the concern of other discord server members?
So about a month ago I was banned from my favorite Discord server, and the reason for the ban took me by surprise. I had often been using this server as a way to vent or to ask for advice (there were channels both, which I used), often discussing sensitive topics in my life such as self harm. One day, I brought up th...
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{ "description": "not wanting my roommates girlfriend baking", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For not wanting my roommates girlfriend baking
So me and my roommate have been pretty good friends but as happens in these situations there have been some difficulties but for the first year things have actually gone pretty well until recently. I'll call my roommate Arthur and his girlfriend Mary. One other thing I should mention is we live in a house that I'm in...
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{ "description": "starting seeing my Ex-friends Exgirlfriend", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I started seeing my Ex-friends Exgirlfriend?
to add context: I met my friend when he was an editor at my internship. We both lived in salt lake city, but were from Oregon. We were friends, his GF moves to SLC and we all hangout a couple times, then she ended up moving back to Portland and he stayed, then moved back there too. They were together, but broke up abo...
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{ "description": "mentioning my divorce at my brother's wedding", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for mentioning my divorce at my brother's wedding?
My brother got married last weekend, about 2 weeks after my partner first dropped the divorce bomb on me. I held out hope but it became clear right before I left for the wedding that reconciliation wasn't going to happen. I still went to the wedding, but was obviously upset. I had been working and didn't have a chanc...
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AITA for what happened on this night out?
This happened a while back, but we always bring it up and it always ends with people thinking different things for different reasons. ​ I'd just come out of a relationship and was down the local pub with a friend, he was treating me for a night out to get my mind off it, anyway two 21 year old's in a pub i...
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{ "description": "refusing to get over this", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for refusing to get over this?
Important history: G & L sorta dated. L is like a brother to me. G is a friend in the friend group that broke L's heart. Please, ask for more information on that if you want it, otherwise assume it was a fuckery. (There's much more history in general, but character limits are a bitch, so). I started organizing thi...
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{ "description": "starting to be less quiet", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 3 }
WIBTA if I started to be less quiet?
Okay this is post will require some backstory to begin with. I live in a small house but me and my dad manage. However due to his work and sleep patterns he wakes up around 4am and goes to sleep around 9pm. Unfortunately, I usually start homework and other things around 8pm due to extracurriculars and end around midnig...
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{ "description": "ditching my friends for others", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for ditching my friends for others?
Okay, let me preface by saying i am a high school senior with Autism. Everyone in this story is aware of that fact. Now, for the last few years I have had a large group of friends - about 5 of us. But in the last year, the group has gotten a lot bigger. To around the 11/12 person mark. Which in itself has bothered me ...
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{ "description": "parking near my neighbors house", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For parking near my neighbors house?
I live in the UK on a new build estate, these are notorious for not giving enough parking space and as such I have a single driveway and a garage that's both near impossible to reverse into, and currently a home gym.... When I have my partner to visit, usually 1 day a week, she would park outside the lamppost near my ...
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{ "description": "shit talking a toxic \"friend\" and not comforting her when she has a problem", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for shit talking a toxic "friend" and not comforting her when she has a problem?
Me and this person have been "friends" for a while now. She has the hint that my real friends and I don't actually like her. She is extremely toxic, she lies for no reason, puts people down to make herself feel better, only talks about herself, invalidates peoples problems by claiming she had it worse. She tells people...
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{ "description": "not letting my cousin's 2 small children come around and play with my dogs", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not letting my cousin's 2 small children come around and play with my dogs?
Long time lurker, first-time poster here. Also, English isn't my first language, so bear with me. I'm a university student, I am currently making my second and third degree at the same time, so next to work I have little to no free time. I'm living next to my parents, in my own house, and they are professional dog bre...
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{ "description": "being mean and viciously shit-talk people on the internet, but textually abusing everyone, whereas on reddit being common place for people to only be shitty assholes to the 'unpopular' people", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA I am mean and viciously shit-talk people on the internet, but I textually abuse everyone, whereas on reddit it is common place for people to only be shitty assholes to the 'unpopular' people
I think i'm the better person because i'm mean to everyone, where on reddit people will only be mean to the 'safe' targets that can be disrespected 'politically correctly', meaning basically white people, usually poor and uneducated white people, conservatives, and other sorts of commonplace people whereas it is much l...
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{ "description": "wanting to visit my best friends", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting to visit my best friends?
I have two best female friends, sisters, that I've known since childhood. Three years ago they moved from California, where I live, to Texas. But nevertheless we've stayed good strong friends over long distance. And ever since they moved we've been talking about meeting up once we have the time and money. Last year, ...
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{ "description": "punching the shit out of my autistic brother", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for punching the shit out of my autistic brother?
I'm 14M, he's 16M and autistic. This took place a few weeks ago. He was having one of his meltdowns this evening (for reasons I don't feel like explaining) but much worse than usual. Now when my brother has meltdowns he usually just screams and flails around a lot. On rare occasions he might try to hurt himself or brea...
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{ "description": "hiding my romantic interest from a close friend", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for hiding my romantic interest from a close friend?
I had an LDR with someone over 4 years ago now. It was a good relationship, it just fizzled out over time and after just short of a year we broke up. For the most part just me, her and one other (her best friend at the time) kept in contact. They've moved apart and fallen apart. I've also stopped contact with my ex fai...
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{ "description": "hating my mother", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for hating my mother?
So the story is that I grow up living together with my mother and my grandmother. My father killed himself just before my birth and because of that, I have never had any fatherly figure in my life. My grandmother was a very heavy person, she had terrible anger management issues and was everything opposite of a good gra...
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{ "description": "not wanting to visit my brother", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not wanting to visit my brother?
A bit of backstory: my brother is in the military and recently got married to a girl without telling my family. Last time I saw him in person was last spring and it ended in a huge argument between the two of us due to him flaking on plans he’d made with my mom. Long story short, we don’t get along and I don’t like his...
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{ "description": "procuring recreational drugs for my blind friend", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for procuring recreational drugs for my blind friend
This happened a few years back but whenever I think about it I feel guilty. I was in a rock ensemble in college where the singer was a blind girl (19f at time). Her and I (26m at time) became pretty friendly over the semester despite our age difference. One day after practice we were shooting the shit and she brought...
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{ "description": "refusing to pay back my ex for a DS she was suppose to buy from me", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA if I refused to pay back my ex for a DS she was suppose to buy from me?
So to get this straight this happened back 2015 going into 2016 After a short relationship for about 6 months, me and my ex decided it was best we stay close friends. It was working well for a while we even decided to try and work together to make a little visual novel (I'd write, she drew and a few of her friends wo...
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{ "description": "quitting my job with \"no notice\"", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for quitting my job with "no notice"
My parents are in the middle of a divorce because of some serious illegal activities performed by my dad. We found out in October. I have been working as a contractor for the company my dad works for. Dad is going through legal things right now but it was a good part-time position so I kept working there. For the las...
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{ "description": "believing in positive discrimination", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA I believe in positive discrimination
In the UK there's a political party named "The Green" Party. In their manifesto they state that it should be legal for a minimum of 40% of executives/ board members in companies to be women. I see this as a good thing because of the low number right now, but I couldn't justify it if it was, say, ~35%. I don't agree wi...
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{ "description": "asking a girl to stop eating in class", "pronormative_score": 14, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for asking a girl to stop eating in class?
In class today the usual late bird came in with very smelly soup, a big matcha frappucino, and a bag of croutons. She sat right beside me and started loudly slurping her soup. Now, I don't like soup. To me it kind of looks like barf. And this soup was very pungent. It smelled like fish chowder but was also very tomatoe...
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{ "description": "wanting to adopt my niece", "pronormative_score": 17, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting to adopt my niece?
My brother lost custody of his two children and his ex lost custody of the other two as well. So my mom is raising four children, only two of which actually are biologically related to us. My mother lives in the projects, can barely pay her bills, and is mentally and physically abusive to these children on occasion. ...
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{ "description": "choosing to zone out on my phone when my SO hangs with their friends", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for choosing to zone out on my phone when my SO hangs with their friends? (context in comments)
So my SO works in the non profit political world, as do all of their friends. Everytime we all hang out, I try to be outgoing and find mutual things to discuss, but it always reverts back to talking shop -- aka political stuff. If we're out at a bar or something, I might key into my phone and find something to keep my ...
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{ "description": "cancelling long-term plans with my ex last minute", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for cancelling long-term plans with my ex last minute?
I (30M) made dinner plans with my ex wife (31F). She was going to be visiting the town I live in so I figured why not catch up if I had the time. The day of the plans, my current gf (29F) starts to express her concern about how I’m choosing to spend time with someone who wasn’t very nice to me when I haven’t been pay...
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{ "description": "being a picky eater", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for being a picky eater?
So right now I'm about to finish my second semester of community college, and over the course of this semester, I've gotten so picky to the point where the only real dinner that I will eat that's not fast food or pizza is either red meat and poultry, and my parents have increasingly tried to push new foods on me more t...
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{ "description": "asking for my stuff back from my ex", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for asking for my stuff back from my ex?
Context: Gf of three years broke up with me and didnt want to talk about it with me or anything which I guess is ok, I gave her all her stuff back + my christmas present from her (she asked for it back, designer bag). Now its been 2 months and she keeps "forgetting" to give me all my stuff back and gets mad when I ask ...
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{ "description": "telling my daughter that her mother went to jail", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for telling my daughter that her mother went to jail?
So my daughter's mother and I separated about 3 years ago after being together for over 3 years. When we were together she hardly worked or did anything helpful around the house, deciding just to spend what little money she had on beer and cigarettes. We finally separated after she disappeared with my daughter one nigh...
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{ "description": "telling a guy at work to work on hygiene and stop following me", "pronormative_score": 14, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA If I tell a guy at work to work on hygiene and stop following me?
First off I'm a 19 year old male so Im not scared of this guy or anything. I work in fast food. My shift there's a guy a few years younger probably a sophomore or junior in high school. Hes heavyset and is extremely greasy/terrible smelling. Like walk into a room and walk out bad. He for some reason thinks me and him a...
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{ "description": "not doing a u-turn on a blocked off road", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not doing a U-Turn on a blocked off road?
Let me just add that I’m not the best driver out there when it comes to etiquette. I was on my way to my friends house across town to drop off his controller he had left in my car from the last time I dropped him off. I take the usual route and after coming out of the roundabout, I see the road is blocked off by a to...
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{ "description": "freaking put at my aunt at my dads funeral", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA For freaking put at my aunt at my dads funeral?
This happened in 2016. Bit of backstory: My mom and Dad had 5 kids together, but my dad wasnt home a lot, she ended up cheating on him and they got divorced. Around 2009 Fast forward to late 2016. I know my dads side of the family didnt like my mom even when my parents were together. But my dad passed in late 2016 ri...
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{ "description": "setting up my gfs friend with my exs roomate", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for setting up my GFs friend with my EXs roomate?
WARNING: Long post/story incoming. okay so first off, for anonymity, im gonna change all the names in this story (not like it matters but still). so to start, i went to college a bit late in life at 24 and im a guy. i was single at the time and i thought i would have a good time in my first year at school. i met a gir...
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{ "description": "getting my friend something she didn't want even though I owed her money", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA For getting my friend something she didn’t want even though I owed her money
So today my friend bought me a Gatorade on a school trip and she told me I had to pay her back. She wanted candy. So my friend was like “Let’s get her an Almond Joy Because she never specified what she wanted” So I got her the Almond Joy. And when she came back she kind of freaked out ,She was like “this isn’t the foo...
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{ "description": "going to a gay club", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 10 }
WIBTA if I went to a gay club?
I'm 4 years married to a woman. Everything is fine but I'm curious and worried that I might be bisexual slightly. I absolutely do not want to hook up or touch a gay man. I'd just like to go and see what it's like inside a gay bar. We came from a very restricted community and had no contact with homosexality. I rec...
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{ "description": "not wanting to date or be intimate with my \"bigger\" friend? if she were thinner she'd be my perfect match", "pronormative_score": 47, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for not wanting to date or be intimate with my "bigger" friend? If she were thinner she'd be my perfect match.
Background: I've been friends with this girl "Ramona" since our first week freshman year (1.5 years ago). I think she's an amazing person, she's wickedly smart, she's very funny and I have so much fun with her. Ramona is actually very pretty in the face and she takes very good care of herself considering. The issue she...
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{ "description": "feeling conflicted about my parents paying off one of my students loans", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for feeling conflicted about my parents paying off one of my students loans
For starters, my parents kicked me out when I was 17. I'm 26 now, just finished putting myself through from a masters program in may 2018 In that time, I've probably had less than a dozen conversations with my parents. They've tried a few times to give me money, but I only accepted it once and afterwards, my mother ...
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{ "description": "not wanting my roommates baby mama to live with us", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for not wanting my roommates baby mama to live with us.
Okay so a bit of background. My partner and I moved into a beautiful three bedroom London apartment about three months ago and two of our friends filled the other rooms. One of my roommates got a girl pregnant about 8 months ago and very much kept it on the down-low. He didn't want a relationship with this girl, or e...
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AITA becuase a christmas gift I ordered for my brother didnt arrive in time for christmas
Ok so long story here, I decided back in November I wanted to buy my brother ( who I rarely talk to or see) a nice desk and chair to aide his gaming habits. In doing so I spent about 125 this meant I didnt spend any money on my mother and father( I brought this to my mothers attention and she loved the idea so everythi...
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WIBTA if I break off a toxic friend? Asking for my girlfriend, she’s scared to post and asked me to instead.
For those have seen my older AITA posts, this is not the same girl. I have recently started talking to a girl and a mutual friend of ours who I’ll call Combover has expressed his... distaste on the matter. First he went through her phone and saw our messages then instantly started bashing me to her. She made it clear ...
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{ "description": "breaking up with a woman because she told me she has a misdemeanor on her record from 9+ years ago", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 38 }
AITA: I broke up with a woman because she told me she has a misdemeanor on her record from 9+ years ago.
I told my friends about this, and I got mixed reactions. Which is why I’m here wondering I’m the asshole. (Also, using a throwaway because she may know my main account) These friends said I should forget about it since it happened so long ago and she’s really successful now. That they liked her a lot, thought she was...
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{ "description": "not sleeping over at an in-laws house", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not sleeping over at an in-laws house?
Theres a few parts to this so bear with me Ok so I have pretty bad intestinal issues. At least from what I've heard. Not sure what it is or how pronounced it is because going to the doctor isn't really in the budget but when I need to shit. I NEED to to shit. And it's not very friendly with when it wants to act up. S...
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{ "description": "asking my friend to stop dating our mutuals", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 8 }
AITA for asking my friend to stop dating our mutuals?
Made an account for this, not usually a big reddit guy. So my current group of friends is entirely composed of people I've introduced to each other. One of my (I'm a dude if this matters) friends (who is a girl) has, over the past two years or so dated 2-3 of the mutuals in our friend group, and never has it ended am...
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{ "description": "not being clear with a guy", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not being clear with a guy?
Want to know if I was a asshole for not telling a guy sooner that I was not interested in him... We are friends for 4 months and he is a good guy who wants a serious relationship, I notice he was interested in me but since he never talked about I faked not knowing to avoid a embarrassing situation. He knew I am single...
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{ "description": "wanting to talk to a married friend", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting to talk to a married friend?
Someone I know, let's call her Nicole (N), used to be really close to me in middle school and partway through high school until she moved. We would hang out every day after school and we'd be able to talk about literally anything. Even though she moved, we kept in touch. Fast forward to when we're around 18, and she te...
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{ "description": "killing an eagle in my truck", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for killing an eagle in my truck?
I was driving down the freeway hauling a trailer. I was going about 60 in the right lane. This was in a construction area with no shoulder. There were no cars in front of me for about 150 feet. When the car in front of me passes over a dead animal an eagle swoops down to probably eat it. I honk my horn and let off the...
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{ "description": "setting boundaries with my roommates", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for setting boundaries with my roommates?
Hi Reddit. I am in a pickle. I am 18F and my roommate is 20F. However she has a friend staying in the living room, 21M. We all agreed we would split the rent and utilities 3 ways. I recently only moved into the house about 2 weeks ago, my roommate did not tell me about her friend. I was under the assumption it was goin...
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{ "description": "looking for someone else immediately after breaking up with my ex", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for looking for someone else immediately after breaking up with my ex
Throwaway account. I've just broken up with my gf of 2 months. It didn't get to any serious point. I broke up mainly because I just decided that I didn't feel attracted to her in the same way and I wanted to just be friends. Also, we only ever see each other like at best twice a week and that just doesn't work for me....
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