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} | AITA for sending money? | Okay, first time poster (I think I should say sorry for the format because I'm on mobile and any eventually grammatical errors since ending is not my first language)
This friend of mine, she's been a good friend with one downside. She had never had enough money. She's quite alot older than me. I've always had money si... | HISTORICAL | {
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YwAJ93QW6zB4hqSHa7XboKf44DwsvucR | a2a2l8 | {
"description": "not appeasing my passive aggressive housemate",
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} | AITA for not appeasing my passive aggressive housemate? | **TL;DR: My passive aggressive housemate has convinced the landlord she's the sole caretaker of the flat and he’s threatened to withhold part of our deposit. Now she’s erected a cleaning record sheet without telling anyone and my housemates are starting to fill it in. But I won’t – so AITA for not following the herd?**... | HISTORICAL | {
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"description": "wanting my bf to alternate holidays with my son and I and going out drinking",
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} | AITA for wanting my BF (33M) to alternate holidays with my son (9M) and I (28F) and going out drinking? | For context, BF has a big close family and huge close friend group. He has lots of hobbies and pastimes, a demanding career and overall a very full life. I admire this about him. I on the other hand am a single parent to an 8 yr old boy, have a small family and a small friend group. I don’t do so much by way of sociali... | HISTORICAL | {
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MZIG2Garb8Erjnl4x1tZvNzz8PTNJhnm | aiebk5 | {
"description": "sleeping with my coworker and telling another coworker about it",
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} | AITA for sleeping with my coworker and telling another coworker about it? | Ok, so there's three people relevant to this story: Me, C, and S. S and C are both girls and I'm a guy. S and I have been friends (or so I thought) for a while and C is newer.
​
We all work together in an office with about 100 people in it. We're in different departments (I'm an accountant, C is in Busi... | HISTORICAL | {
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"description": "downloading a dating app when my boyfriend told me he would decide if he still has feelings for me",
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} | AITA for downloading a dating app when my boyfriend told me he would decide if he still has feelings for me? | My boyfriend and I, over the past 3 years, have had phases where we aren’t the best girlfriend or boyfriend.
Well, anyway, he told me on Spring Break that he did not have those romantic feelings for me anymore because of my attitude and that he tried everything. We settled that he could decide through break on what h... | HISTORICAL | {
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6o8gZWMop4Fi14WKb1NQYVUoRzcM3Jg4 | a7hf0n | {
"description": "telling my racist father to shut up",
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} | AITA for telling my racist father to shut up | My dad was saying very racist things when he was watching the news about some confederate statues being taken down. It was already making me very uncomfortable so I asked if he could stop saying such things. He did not comply and continued to say offensive things until he said that the “niggers are lucky they still are... | HISTORICAL | {
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"description": "refusing to engage with my co-workers' small talk",
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} | AITA for refusing to engage with my co-workers' small talk? | Personally, I can't stand small talk, but my workplace thrives on it. I work in a small office in a larger shared space, and there are only 7 of us total. Most of us work in different fields, so conversations about our work are generally off the table, which is understandable.
​
When I started working her... | HISTORICAL | {
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"description": "telling a mom that her son shouldn't be riding on the bottom of the shopping cart. tldr at bottom",
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} | AITA for telling a mom that her son shouldn't be riding on the bottom of the shopping cart. Tldr at bottom. | This happened years ago when I was almost 15, and it still frustrates me. Keep in mind that I looked a lot older than I was then.
I was shopping at my local grocery store, as I was walking through the produce section when I saw a child riding on the bottom of the cart with his head sticking right out the front.
I c... | HISTORICAL | {
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"description": "choosing the late shift",
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} | AITA for choosing the late shift? | I work at a 24/7 convenience store. My manager pretty much let’s us work out what shifts we work as long as everything gets covered. This is in the city. The difference between day shift and night shift is insane. The store is completely packed during the day shifts and you’re always constantly running around. Th... | HISTORICAL | {
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7lbZVQLsLhgLi80rQGZsrtckBKdhpesX | aj8s77 | null | AITA | I read a post about a server in Scotland that received a bad tip in $US currency.
I'm struggling to find sympathy. I'd trade all my tips at an American job for U.K. Healthcare.
I've lived in Europe a few times and I did tip even in countries where it is not custom. I get annoyed by Americans posting about bad tips ... | HISTORICAL | {
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"description": "not wanting to be in a relationship anymore",
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} | AITA for not wanting to be in a relationship anymore ? | Some context, sorry for any mistakes, English isn't my native language.
I have had a long-term realtionship with a guy that was amazing. I noticed our relationship was slowly dying and that it was about to get ugly. He would make comments about me, my body, my job which I'm really passionate about. I was starting to ... | HISTORICAL | {
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f8Z2Bw3MepQbbOVY0tv323WH9Tc0G3yK | 9u868x | {
"description": "betraying my boyfriend",
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} | AITA for betraying my boyfriend? | So.. This is quite a complicated story.. Also, throwaway because reasons.
So, my (16F) boyfriend (16M) lives in a disfunctional family. His dad is abusive, and him and his mom are arguing very often. His dad is Canadian, his mom is Australian. He has both citizenships.
The dad forced them to come to Canada and live ... | HISTORICAL | {
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ja3k3KMhb2SCBwQODsBQb7Wc0TcPTjSd | az5a8y | {
"description": "being mad at my friend for getting close with my ex",
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} | AITA for being mad at my friend for getting close with my ex? | So 3 of us (me, my ex, and my friend) go to the same class we are all 17 years old, and recently, my gf(I'll refer to her as N) and I broke up.It was mostly mutual, but i feel like she broke up with me more than i broke up with her and i still like her.
So it's be... | HISTORICAL | {
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YfbMVWPCxOfdgn5lQXIjdaYfg0vCeOzo | a2ra6q | null | AITA for cultural insensitivity? | I was talking with my coworker (F- second generation Indian immigrant) about her upcoming Vegas vacation and the conversation turned to spontaneously eloping. She said that she was sure there were people who had done it and it worked for them and compared it to arranged marriages in her culture. To which I replied “Yea... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | WRONG |
qyw1jWHnCHH6qSMvbdToDAYyyf8LwCer | apagxw | {
"description": "making my friend pay for her own baby shower",
"pronormative_score": 55,
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} | WIBTA if I made my friend pay for her own baby shower? | A little back story, my friend just had a baby last year after trying for a few years to get pregnant. I threw her a reveal party and then I threw her a baby shower. My husband and I are not financially stable but I still found a way to pay for things for her reveal and shower. She paid half and I paid the other half. ... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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qVL58LrmhPbn8iFFwrxtfzT7aL8qLKBi | awq2k7 | {
"description": "being frustrated with my coworker who just had a baby",
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} | AITA for being frustrated with my coworker who just had a baby? | Am I the asshole for being frustrated?
I’d like to note that I’ve never said anything to this coworker, but it bothers me every day.
I work at a small veterinary practice in California. I have a coworker who had a baby last year. Before having the baby this coworker was on top of her shit! She was the type to call any... | HISTORICAL | {
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ZXUWBeF50h9kFJB4wBmXyy1nOOodnG6S | akw2ei | {
"description": "not wanting to speak about something terrible I did to my gf in highschool before we dated",
"pronormative_score": 4,
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} | AITA For not wanting to speak about something terrible I did to my GF in highschool before we dated? | Alright, so to keep it short, when I was adopted it was from an extremely abusive household, my original mother was a true sadist, and I was her outlet, this is not an excuse, but something to explain why I was that way.
So when we were in high school, we never interacted much, we had a few classes together but that w... | HISTORICAL | {
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30Q448SenhyLmSisdbt26jVqHKlomzXw | avstt9 | {
"description": "honking and flashing my lights at people doing 45 in a 65 in the far left lane of the highway",
"pronormative_score": 15,
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} | AITA for honking and flashing my lights at people doing 45 in a 65 in the far left lane of the highway??? | So this happened yesterday morning on my way to work. In the state I live in we got some freezing rain over night and into the early morning, but the roads were not iced over. So on my daily commute is a 20 minute highway drive where the speed limit is 65 mph. I get on the highway and people are driving cautious which ... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | AUTHOR | {
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} | WRONG |
IXWLs5anbAYyb4uxSTJ0z0GaIumYJkW0 | 9uddar | {
"description": "wanting to leave after my partner relapsed",
"pronormative_score": 9,
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} | AITA for wanting to leave after my partner relapsed? | Backstory: started dating a girl who'd been clean for a year and a half from alcohol, meth, and heroin. I told her when we started dating that if she relapsed, I'd leave immediately. It's a firm line in the sand that I can't have crossed - my ex died from a heroin overdose, and I can't live through that again. I have n... | HISTORICAL | {
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7I13tA8yk6Q0EYr2OurVKOCcdKoJpyxF | amyozz | {
"description": "not wanting to bet around the bush with my Mother's weight issue",
"pronormative_score": 2,
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} | AITA for not wanting to bet around the bush with my Mother's weight issue? | As long as I have been born, my Mum has been over weight. She has tried numerous diets etc but always gives up.
She turned 60 last year and along with that has come some complications around her weight. It is a vicious cycle of not being able to exercise properly due to bad knees etc, gaining more weight, therefore no... | HISTORICAL | {
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Ky47Eg3khAPAdVmWbZQG0oXuBIWiamZU | ae6o0j | {
"description": "\"putting down\" my best friends family",
"pronormative_score": 5,
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} | AITA for “putting down” my best friends family? | Sorry for the long story tldr at end
Last week my best friend and I were kicking back at home having pizza and watching Netflix. I was not in a super social mood and was going to bed soon anyway. Out of the blue my best friends three cousins and one of their boyfriends came over at around 10pm (we live close to city ... | HISTORICAL | {
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5633eE7K8xIgR69tO7kFrmnUrTC1TeH6 | atiw36 | {
"description": "saying that \"fat acceptance\" is endorsement of health risks",
"pronormative_score": 16,
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} | AITA for saying that "fat acceptance" is endorsement of health risks? | Please hear me out before you start! And of course the usual apology for any mistakes/misunderstandings, English ain't my first language.
So am I the Asshole for saying that "body positivity" or "fat acceptance" is nothing worth endorsing? I'm currently working in a hospital on a orthopedic and emergency surgery ward ... | HISTORICAL | {
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nPgGXDMJNbhcStVtnZxRhmUyA2r1CWif | ayuhfj | {
"description": "filing a complaint against a theater for (what I see as) discriminatory practices",
"pronormative_score": 10,
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} | WIBTA for filing a complaint against a theater for (what I see as) discriminatory practices? | Background: I take improv classes at a smaller-sized improv theater in a west coast city. Much like the surrounding community, the theater is pretty progressive, taking pride in inclusivity and remaining us that we are welcome with those little all are welcome signs. So it’s pretty cool to have a lot of different backg... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 10,
"WRONG": 2
} | RIGHT |
WZUR7qjoOxi8Jks9h0erUJ5G7CjClSXs | b3mutb | {
"description": "changing my mind about having children",
"pronormative_score": 13,
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} | AITA for changing my mind about having children? | First post ever even though I’ve been on Reddit for a few years so please bare with me, also on my cell. To start, I’ve always wanted children, but in my family it’s apparently your “greatest accomplishment”. Background info: I’m the first female in my family to not have a child by 18. I’m a 33F have 1 kidney which is ... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 13,
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} | RIGHT |
i24Jg7aGRWJmCvr6GBBVTEV4uW8JqyqO | b0rn4x | {
"description": "not quitting smoking weed just because my husband has to",
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} | WIBTA if I didn’t quit smoking weed just because my husband has to? | My husband (19) just got a new job with the state and has to quit smoking weed for a whole year to get all his certifications. I (21) got him the job after begging him to get a job for our entire relationship. I wrote his resume and pretty much applied to the job for him. I quit smoking weed with him last year when he... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 9,
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} | RIGHT |
iz32tepkRr0WiFVHhey8OP7cQ1uToRe1 | am75le | {
"description": "not wanting to go out with my friends",
"pronormative_score": 8,
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} | AITA if I don't want to go out with my friends | Just for some background I'm 18 and I'm at uni, I'd consider myself as an introvert but I have a few friends and I enjoy having a laugh and chilling out with people, I have three roommates, all of whom I see and chat to throughout the day quite frequently and I get along with them quite well.
The issue I have is that ... | HISTORICAL | {
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LqRLq4YkjDj4PAw155IP7mgGDq1kinMX | at26rs | {
"description": "wanting an apology",
"pronormative_score": 24,
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} | AITA for wanting an apology? | My boyfriend (25) and I are going through a rough time financially right now. However the past few months have been garbage. He didn’t do anything for Christmas, my birthday, or Valentine’s day. Not even a card. I’m mad about this because he had the money to buy a coworker a $50 secret Santa gift card. He spends m... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | RIGHT |
2ghr0h7KoJUwg1Z9HUfLqVNWZRSM6zIh | avt2ue | {
"description": "not liking my partners suggested names for future children and naming things she doesn't like with those names, thus getting them removed from her awful shortlist",
"pronormative_score": 3,
"contranormative_score": 23
} | AITA for not liking my partners suggested names for future children and naming things she doesn't like with those names, thus getting them removed from her awful shortlist? | So, I've been with my girlfriend for 5 - 6 years. She is great, her spirit animal is a Honey Badger as she small and cute, then furiously aggressive with the capacity to terrify lions. Her main, minor fault is it is very difficult to get her to compromise as she is so strong willed with her convictions.
This often lea... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | AUTHOR | {
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} | WRONG |
cKVtFL9O9zfr9zK5t8edWUKHgfM6m0dp | aw178w | {
"description": "trying to help my friend",
"pronormative_score": 5,
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} | AITA for trying to help my friend? | Two of my best friends recently broke up and both came to me for help and support. They both mean a lot so I try to help both, that was a mistake.
J= girl bestie N= boy bestie Me= Ne
N and I had been talking for a couple days, occasionally about the breakup with J. N never specifically told me to not tell anyone but I ... | HISTORICAL | {
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exeAou8JEtYOs0dyN0CLYiD2WF6VYNiH | ah5irr | {
"description": "getting upset none of my friends have been talking to me",
"pronormative_score": 10,
"contranormative_score": 1
} | AITA for getting upset none of my friends have been talking to me? | So recently my parents (I'm only 15 btw) took my phone for like a month for reasons and that's really where I talk to all my friends obviously. However, I have my laptop and I can talk on Skype, Discord, etc. So I've been recently going through some tough times and have been expressing to my friends in school that I fe... | HISTORICAL | {
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lBthOVoeqHCD0ADJAoofsTN2FCWJKTE4 | b5yg26 | {
"description": "not wanting to pay for my friends to use my netflix after having done so for a few years",
"pronormative_score": 6,
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} | AITA for not wanting to pay for my friends to use my Netflix after having done so for a few years? | I am going to try to keep this brief, and if anyone has questions I’ll be glad to clarify.
Up until recently (the last month or so) I had been paying for Netflix‘s four screens and Ultra HD tier for a few years. During this time, two of my friends had also been using my account. Myself and one of them agreed it was n... | HISTORICAL | {
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7yWjaOjMHiUlgpcEMvBuAGQgR4AXYucp | a3azau | null | AITA - Asked a friend's ex on a date. | For context, my friend "alex" and I are 30.
So I've been friends with my buddy, Alex, for a while now. Maybe 10 years. We've always been friends but we didn't really hang out that much until a mutual friend, Bill, moved away a few years back. After that I'd say he was one of my 10 closest friends.
He dated a girl, ... | HISTORICAL | {
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JjMOxYAqaM2fGSkgoUoRJtrOwOfuQOtk | al5bky | {
"description": "getting upset I was rejected for being fat",
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} | AITA for getting upset I was rejected for being fat? | I work at Trader Joe’s. I’m pretty new there, I just came on as a cashier and I love it. The pay is great and my coworkers are friendly. Yet, I had an experience yesterday that upset me a lot, and I wanted Reddit’s take.
A guy came in towards the end of my shift on Saturday. Immediately, we exchanged looks. I kept cat... | HISTORICAL | {
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eAqhDl8FKr7bVAVCc4oK0DJu7HztNNzg | 9wsoc3 | {
"description": "wanting to ignore/barely speak to someone who has lied to me for over a year",
"pronormative_score": 2,
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} | AITA for wanting to ignore/barely speak to someone who has lied to me for over a year? | This is going to be long, so TL;DR at the bottom.
My wife has a friend who we'll call Karen for the sake of this post. Karen is involved in a hobby with my wife and I, along with several dozen other people who we are friends or at least acquainted with.
About a year ago, my wife started crushing hard on Karen, who we... | HISTORICAL | {
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Q6mg2tCSJMX9BV89AOmWJSq1oK8G0VXq | aw98qm | {
"description": "trying to save a dog",
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} | AITA for trying to save a dog? | This isn’t one of those validation posts, though the title may seem that way. I’m being accused by my now ex of being the asshole.
Yesterday was my birthday, so my boyfriend picked me up to go out to eat when he got off work. We noticed two dogs on the side of the road, wearing collars/tags, and I insisted we stop and... | HISTORICAL | {
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3vDdnvk3I9v6okikwzVY6trYhp0TI2Jv | aljpna | {
"description": "wanting my friend to follow through with their promise",
"pronormative_score": 2,
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} | AITA for wanting my friend to follow through with their promise? | After I moved to a small town I was stalked by a person I didn't know, she became obsessed with me and even broke into my home at one point. (I wasn't home and she didn't take anything) Because of this I did not feel safe in this town so I left. I left rather quickly and on the night before I left I discovered a librar... | HISTORICAL | {
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BBpaLbDn3W0pTUNbBQeKHRvdIaXps8bK | agh26c | {
"description": "telling my boss not to hire someone full time because he smells",
"pronormative_score": 4,
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} | AITA for telling my boss not to hire someone full time because he smells? | This new guy started a few weeks ago at the coffee place i am working. Hes super nice with all the customers, making small talk whenever possible but sometimes i get the feeling he comes to work without taking a shower. My boss asked the old staff yesterday if we thought he would be a good fit so he could offer him a c... | HISTORICAL | {
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EDMZfTPCeGL6LcE331JmdFSRnPXRgTV3 | b45zix | {
"description": "wanting to be friends with an old love interest",
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} | AITA for wanting to be friends with an old love interest? | When I (M) was in highschool and college, I had a friend named H (F). We met in grade 9 and immediately clicked. Our friendship was never romantic, as both of us were in relationships pretty much throughout our friendships. We were best friends, more than I could think best friends could possibly be. I think on both si... | HISTORICAL | {
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CBAFnmS7o3s8WbPfSE8CrZlx5cBhytS3 | 9vmbb9 | {
"description": "telling my friends their puppy isn't allowed over",
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} | AITA for telling my friends their puppy isn't allowed over? | My friends got a puppy. She was infested with fleas from day 1. I don't want fleas in my home or my pets to be infected with something, so I said 'can you wait until the all clear from the vet'? No problem. They got the all clear and started leaving the puppy with me to babysit or to hang out.
I start to notice that ... | HISTORICAL | {
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DK96H71tC3jfSd9QMu3fFKRdhUzWXpyt | b3kw2s | {
"description": "wanting to attend master's graduation ceremony",
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} | AITA for wanting to attend master's graduation ceremony | Me: Married, 2 elementary age kids, working almost full-time (you know the deal when you bump down your hours pay wise, but end up working close to full-time anyway), full course load for online master's degree from a Big Ten school, help take care of an elderly family member.
Issue: I expressed to to my husband that... | HISTORICAL | {
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2aVpBxQGTblOVgyo18c26NB7aXd6nM0W | b326g7 | {
"description": "making my wife walk home from the Grocery Store",
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} | AITA For Making My Wife Walk Home From the Grocery Store | In every marriage there are these titantic struggles of right and wrong. In our marriage, this is but one of many. It's a tale that instantly enflames passions, and is the source of many snide remarks. Although this happened last summer, my lovely wife brought it up (again) recently and she wants the good people of ... | HISTORICAL | {
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KDxYiuEsVADtKczhSlszBf0mw7iF5puo | ba3t7z | {
"description": "telling my in laws that they can't stay with my so and I everytime they come to town",
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} | WIBTA if I tell my in laws that they can't stay with my SO and I everytime they come to town? |
First let me start off by saying I love my in laws and get along with them pretty well but they just come to town excessively. They live approx 4 hours from us and when they come to stay they stay for a week or more at a time.
My BIL and his wife had a baby a year and a half ago and my in laws have visited once a mon... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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7f7u7OauK33w2zXKV7nVcpEXasOGS5VS | alfqmq | {
"description": "leaving my fiancée while she was in rehab",
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} | AITA for leaving my fiancée while she was in rehab? | First time posting to Reddit, this is eating my soul and I need opinions.
Back story:
I was with my fiancee for 2 years (living together) and things were really great until the last few months we were together. I've never fallen so hard for someone or loved a woman this much, we clicked on every level. She started ... | HISTORICAL | {
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YahR6Qu1dQYXj3hkfjR2wOzkHw6YlNzn | b6jzhv | {
"description": "not showing up to work cause of a shift I couldnt take",
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} | AITA for not showing up to work cause of a shift i couldnt take? | Background info: I work at a supermarket and recently our boss asked all of us (workers under 18) if we were going on vacation and therefore needed shifts taken. And since I was going on vacation, but didn't it didn't interfere with my shifts, I said no.
(Im only supposed to work on Sundays)
So my boss gave me 3 shi... | HISTORICAL | {
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BOj4cD0ACHbtdAscrIBJwbUlNjJRaE0m | atoise | {
"description": "withdrawing my offer on a house with ine real estate, and offering it to another real estate",
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} | WIBTA for withdrawing my offer on a house with ine real estate, and offering it to another real estate? | The house I'm looking at is currently being dealt with by two real estates because it's in the middle of being transfered from one real estate to another.
We put in an offer of $256k to the new real estate, but they fucked up and offered $265k, which I didn't find out till this morning. They didn't offer to change the ... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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1t6XSoonBHY8WAU5BFNouSPTpuq03MZ7 | awxgn9 | {
"description": "breaking up after my gf wanted a \"pause\" because she didn't know if she loved me or is still emotionally invested with her ex",
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} | AITA for breaking up after my gf wanted a “pause” because she didn’t know if she loved me or is still emotionally invested with her ex? | So I need some outside perspective here.
I (27/M) been seeing this girl (21/F) for a while, and everything was great. Today, out of the blue without warning she told me the relationship would progress to quickly, she was unsure if we did rush things and she still feels drawn towards her ex. Besides making our relation... | HISTORICAL | {
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NLQajbyEXvtB4sqy2u7rxIyLAY7A6ufE | awrozx | {
"description": "declining being Maid of Honour for my best friend of 25 years",
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} | WIBTA If I declined being Maid of Honour for my best friend of 25 years? | My best friend is getting married and asked me to be her maid of honour. I think it's very sweet that she asked but I don't want to. I could, in theory, afford to, but it's not really something I believe in spending money on. She's very traditional and therefore expects the full monty of traditional wedding costs. If t... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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DiV48iZCSOIy2MSebTo3w4ofb7byDc6c | alf66l | {
"description": "deciding I'm no longer in love with my boyfriend and wanting to break up",
"pronormative_score": 9,
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} | AITA for deciding I'm no longer in love with my boyfriend and wanting to break up (we are both 18). | I am currently in my freshman year of college. Boyfriend is actually still in high school even though he's about 4 months older than me because he was held back a year. We have been dating for...7 months or so. Basically right before I went to college last summer if my math is right, that's 7 months.
I had always ma... | HISTORICAL | {
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G6I6DnypNRyQiVYISKXVG4hAY069vJf0 | b0am0p | {
"description": "wanting to have an abortion even though a family is offering to adopt",
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} | AITA for wanting to have an abortion even though a family is offering to adopt. | Okay. Throwaway account.
I am a 23 year old female. I have been in a relationship with 25m for over 5 years, living together for 2. A week ago, I found out that I was pregnant. Trust me when I say, we were being as safe as possible and it was a HUGE shock to us. We both talked and agreed that abortion is the best ans... | HISTORICAL | {
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SvvgZDLAiFYNd0oDJ1uQLjaPpptpwIcd | b1s0a4 | {
"description": "wanting my female friend to cover up",
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} | Aita for wanting my female friend to cover up | Hey guys I have a female friend who spends a lot of time at my house like almost everyday she eats here everyday, the thing is I don't live here alone its a company house and on weekends we all have lunch together, anyway she has gone natural full out to not using medics with chemicals to just using natural products , ... | HISTORICAL | {
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zQcTVVlfVeeUWbHJUIUszO9gF5RLP17C | a8y98g | {
"description": "preferring to be alone",
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} | AITA - For preferring to be alone? | I'm am almost 40yr old female and I have a large family. Most families have drama and I understand that. However, I'm at a point where I'm tired of it. No one cares about you unless they want something. We don't check on each other out of kindness. It's either them spreading gossip or trashing people. I don't have... | HISTORICAL | {
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4DfKWfEVj7MjVcaQnrdarBypCxLJrPiX | 9z8l75 | {
"description": "letting an elderly gentleman with dementia think I'm his daughter",
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} | AITA if I let an elderly gentleman with dementia think I’m his daughter? | Hi all,
I volunteer at an Aged Care Community once a week. There is a gentleman here who has Dementia and Alzheimer’s. He can be a become a bit aggressive towards people and doesn’t like sitting for too long etc.
The nurses here are absolutely fantastic at managing this, however for some reason whenever I’m around h... | HISTORICAL | {
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2oVTiMyZkpsJooKPjgYlbiTRlwPvjA2Z | b8ky5c | {
"description": "using library books instead of buying them from the bookstore",
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} | AITA for using library books instead of buying them from the bookstore? | Sorry I’m on mobile so if the format/grammar isn’t perfect my apologies.
I am a History/English major and as a result many of my required books are available in the library. You can renew a book up to 12 times from my University without having to return it as long as the book is not requested by another student. Some ... | HISTORICAL | {
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Dj0QutoWYfqrUiwtAV8iIcM0sYHDkQXC | b7i3hg | {
"description": "not speaking to my anti-vaxx sister",
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} | AITA for not speaking to my anti-vaxx sister? | My sister told me she’s an anti-Vaxx maybe like 2 weeks ago and I haven’t been taking it good.
I’m so mad at her and I haven’t been talking to her since then, the first week she noticed and asked me why, I tried to keep my calm and told her I was worried about my nephews and I think that what she’s doing it’s dangerou... | HISTORICAL | {
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6C4oZTiGPPP0qKMy654cN2VMeIM7bcwY | a7emjv | {
"description": "having my secodary school bullies beaten up by a tavern tug",
"pronormative_score": 4,
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} | WIBTA If I would have my secodary school bullies beaten up by a tavern tug? | First things first, I am a pretty shy guy, 18/M , and lack of social skills(from my understanding).
My classmates bullying me from the second semester of the first year. This includes and specified at gay joking ( touch my junk, come in the shower when I am in, makes me the class's no 1. target of hatred and distrust,... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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FwxKxCxDRL176Wsn8YLCRxx3zldWvIHs | af5ur5 | {
"description": "telling my parents they don't deserve to feel proud of me",
"pronormative_score": 19,
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} | AITA For telling my parents they don't deserve to feel proud of me | So to start off and keep things short. I'm born in the capital of a very well of Scandinavian country. My dad always lived abroad and called me on birthdays and visited maybe once a year so I never really knew him and still don't. I grew up with my mom, two younger sisters and an abusive step-father. At 16 I ran away f... | HISTORICAL | {
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GtXUzlJP2dJEl0HovaOg3RmNlaQOXpjJ | afgja5 | {
"description": "being creeped out that the waiter found my number and texted me",
"pronormative_score": 8,
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} | AITA for being creeped out that the waiter found my number and texted me? | I made a dinner reservation for a group of 5 people tonight, and my friend who put the check on her credit card mistakenly thought gratuity was included because of the size of our party. None of us caught her mistake.
Fast forward about 20 minutes, I get a text from our waiter asking if the lack of tip was a mistake ... | HISTORICAL | {
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5tDdePmWZ9aI1BRO26v99IFaW9fRyLEU | ba9m9f | {
"description": "not going to a funeral",
"pronormative_score": 3,
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} | WIBTA if I didnt go to a funeral? | Hey AITA! This isnt a new situation that just came up, rather one that happened a few weeks ago. Idky i thought of it randomly, but wanted to see how youd all weigh in since Im on the fence.
Another warning, this isnt about me directly, but rather something that happened between my mom and sister. Mom is M, sister is... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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uVNijVYu6qFvTvOR11SDh2lbIB3Wg6Wy | aedafq | {
"description": "believing that religions don't deserve any kind of respect",
"pronormative_score": 4,
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} | AITA for believing that religions don't deserve any kind of respect? | People don't usually say things like "it is OK if you don't believe the Earth is flat, but you should respect deeply the ideas of those who do". However, for some reason this is often said about religions.
Why is that we seem to be socially allowed to make fun of the lunatic ideas of those who believe the Earth is fla... | HISTORICAL | {
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6ZKz84dXuo1vLGNA8RbPdfSjMpZB6Uzn | a9jld1 | {
"description": "telling my roommate to bring his own tv next semester",
"pronormative_score": 3,
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} | WIBTA for telling my roommate to bring his own TV next semester? | I’m a college student with one roommate and bought a brand new TV for the dorm. I bought it knowing it’d be shared but still owned and paid for by me. We originally agreed I would bring the TV and he would bring his Xbox to share but my roommate had a tendency to hog the TV and use it late into the night while I slept.... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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0w5bjsFR6TDF69kMfh2Z1uThe2r6SxC1 | axioxn | {
"description": "going to a costume party dressed as a confederate soldier",
"pronormative_score": 2,
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} | AITA for going to a costume party dressed as a Confederate soldier? (I got kicked out over it) | So I live in New Orleans, and it's been Mardi Gras for the past couple of days. On Sunday a girl whose a friend of a mutual friend hosted a costume party.
I went dressed like an Army of Northern Virginia infantryman. Plenty of people seemed to think it was pretty good and entertaining, even the hostess. Other people ... | HISTORICAL | {
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OcXgoH3sPoqQIbwk8P3IaBP94X7p0kno | b69y8x | {
"description": "makeing my hompfobic frind family think he is gay",
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} | AITA for makeing my hompfobic frind family think he is gay. | This happened a year ago.
So a bit of context my friend comes from a very homophobic background and it always annoys me when he behaves that way since he always shows hate twords them even they did nothing to him. And he is also a very not nice and very aggressiveness I don't know really why I'm friends with him since... | HISTORICAL | {
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GQLXfXweAXIysO9953aQdqu3zXg2dfzZ | a0dnfr | {
"description": "not helping my mom put up the christmas tree",
"pronormative_score": 2,
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} | AITA for not helping my mom put up the christmas tree? | This sounds petty but I'm actually pretty upset about it, so here goes
I'm 26F and currently living with my mom for a month between apartments. Normally we get along fine and she was super excited to have me stay here during the holidays. However, she's extremely uptight whereas I'm super easy going. But it has been f... | HISTORICAL | {
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KkedD7XXd0bQcmsZcHJYFiDsQhaQsheB | b4qtpx | {
"description": "not continuing a relationship with someone who was like a 2nd mom to me because of her love for Trump",
"pronormative_score": 9,
"contranormative_score": 2
} | AITA for not continuing a relationship with someone who was like a 2nd mom to me because of her love for Trump. | ever since I was 15 (back in 2013) this second mom/second family has been in my life. I’m 20 yrs old now(I dated their son for a couple of months back when I was 15 and he was 16, he came out as gay so we continued a friendship together and I was like a daughter to them. LITERALLY,they always said that. I would walk ov... | HISTORICAL | {
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SGaRJr2qsKcL5KLdfBUvLZIBxrqc6Go2 | 9xzsnt | {
"description": "assuming I was being stopped for money",
"pronormative_score": 1,
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} | AITA for assuming I was being stopped for money? | Walking up the block near subway and a random guy walking toward me calls out "hey, boss." Have experienced getting stopped for money on the same street multiple times before, not anything else, so just assume it's that so passing by him without stopping, he goes "Where's___?" asking for directions and I turn and look ... | HISTORICAL | {
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0LN4j5fxVrDl0MPzVMk8NHQEtV8j47ZV | b4yifg | {
"description": "saying I'll pay my friend for something but don't",
"pronormative_score": 4,
"contranormative_score": 6
} | WIBTA If I say I’ll pay my friend for something but don’t? | My friend owes me $15, he agreed to buy me wine as payment months ago. I’ve asked him quite a few times to get it for me but he always has an excuse. I’m thinking if I say I’ll pay him for it he wouldn’t have a problem, but I don’t think I should pay him because he owes me it- yet he won’t buy it for me otherwise (thus... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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} | EVERYBODY | {
"RIGHT": 4,
"WRONG": 6
} | WRONG |
3KPEEuve5EuLE9zzNcSEzgFmf3PvtlEW | ayunj0 | {
"description": "getting upset about the time its taling to repay a debt owed to me by my roomie",
"pronormative_score": 6,
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} | AITA for getting upset about the time its taling to repay a debt owed to me by my roomie? | Background: I just moved in with a buddy from work. About 4 days into my stay I asked if I could go ahead and pay rent. He directed me to the online payment and I put in my card number. Regrettably it saved my card as an option for payment on his phone too. I told him to be careful with that but trusted him enough ... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | RIGHT |
M9lpyr0jO4pHTbaXio14nKH8WAqh6Thh | a4pvw6 | {
"description": "not gamesharing with my friend when he doesn't talk to me",
"pronormative_score": 2,
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} | AITA for not gamesharing with my friend when he doesn't talk to me? | So I have this friend who I grew up with and known. We spoke every day and played xbox, because he moved to another school, until he met a new group of friends.
I was fine with this until his new friend group started to dislike me and stop playing Xbox with me. I was didn't think much until he started neglecting my me... | HISTORICAL | {
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cNg7nMKceKTOhEmWBvnxkMsQNqlUmUFu | avxjo4 | {
"description": "expecting my wife to stick to her word",
"pronormative_score": 7,
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} | AITA for expecting my wife to stick to her word? | Am I the asshole for expecting my wife to stick to her word? For years I have asked my wife to keep me abreast of her plans, but she never seems to be able to do so. There is always some deviation, something different or in addition to what she says is going on.
I'm constantly blindsided as it seems like she never ... | HISTORICAL | {
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goCcar8dUy6AeOlyEbv9u8WvCa48mroV | aml452 | {
"description": "wanting my boyfriend to be safe",
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} | AITA: For wanting my boyfriend to be safe? | My boyfriend and I have been living together for about 5 years now. He needs to go for walks to destress other wise hes just bouncing off the walls. Before we met he would walk for about 5 + hours a night. When we got together he cut them down to 2 hours. Im a bit of a worry wort, And asked him to take his phone with ... | HISTORICAL | {
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kcHmwzS0R1HinIYcdPm8sagltHuZ0o4i | b3ps84 | {
"description": "putting my foot down to my grandmother",
"pronormative_score": 39,
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} | AITA For putting my foot down to my grandmother? | Bit of background: my grandmother and grandfather were together since my grandfathers death a few years ago, they had a very traditional relationship where my grandfather controlled all finances, big decisions etc, and my grandmother would do the cooking and cleaning (note: she has worked in the past and has helped whe... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | RIGHT |
rhxB9ePC09etQwjGLlNQMFord1Od5skC | b48w5b | {
"description": "wanting a night off before a meeting and long day",
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} | AITA for wanting a night off before a meeting and long day? | TLDR friend wanted to do a side job, i said said no because I had a long day next.
Buddy and I clean rest. Equipment at night for our main jobs. I'm a gm and hes my employee.
Hes got a girlfriend and lives at gone with his parents. Alot of credit card debt, loan, and car loan stuff and pays them some utilities. He ... | HISTORICAL | {
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q7BkF9NlukJGMfT4m5KMdu30BUVy4XWx | ahuoov | {
"description": "telling my mom to stop making a scene at family dinner",
"pronormative_score": 7,
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} | AITA for telling my mom to stop making a scene at family dinner? | It was my grandpa's 80th birthday and we had travelled 12 hours to come celebrate with him and that side of the family. For his birthday, about 15 friends and family went to a nice restaurant. The waitress was smart and asked about how the bill was going to split before hand. My grandma wanted the food bill and uncle t... | HISTORICAL | {
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iT4AgF0jeD6L899sGWqSSosnPCpcuAlC | 9w92l9 | {
"description": "turning a guy down",
"pronormative_score": 7,
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} | AITA for turning a guy down? | I matched this guy on some dating app and he wanted to meet for drinks, since I work from 9am-12am most days I told him that it would have to be on a free day. He was super upfront about what he wanted - something long term, serious, etc etc. I don't mind I'm open to anything. A few days go by and he keeps pushing on w... | HISTORICAL | {
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D5HLdrSc6njAPKt3HUoTkKjWkpqkPnWQ | avmdgd | {
"description": "ghosting a close friend after uncomfortable sex",
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} | AITA for ghosting a close friend after uncomfortable sex? | It started back when I was 16. I was in a relationship with a girl who I truly liked, but she was much more conservative in many ways than I wanted to be at the time. During the relationship, I spent time with people from my new job, and our main cause to meet up was to smoke marijuana. None of this was a problem, but ... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | WRONG |
8VmpKv1Ro2BuqOMi8TPywIBnRZGexieq | ba7w2j | {
"description": "being annoyed that I wasn't invited out by my friend and wanting to talk about it",
"pronormative_score": 2,
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} | AITA for being annoyed that I wasn’t invited out by my friend and wanting to talk about it? | Throwaway because my friends know my reddit.
So I (19F) live with my friends (20M) and (20F) plus our other friend (20M). For the purpose of this story 20M will be A and 20F will be B, and other 20M will be C.
We all moved in together in September but met last year in residence. For a couple months we all lived ha... | HISTORICAL | {
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q5v8uu3U3aPlBxJfPf4MzmaDNQaMay6o | a5koss | {
"description": "lying to my friends about who I have feelings for",
"pronormative_score": 2,
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} | AITA for lying to my friends about who I have feelings for? | I’ve had feelings for this girl for about three weeks now. Standard high school feelings and all that, but I kinda told my friends I liked someone else. I realize that this is definitely not a perfect solution to the situation, but I didn’t know what else to do. The girl I have feelings for just got out of a relationsh... | HISTORICAL | {
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A56svbjN7LDLKA9NhNbVlmsPQkcgN8g5 | akj32s | {
"description": "unfollowing a friend on instagram and unfriending on facebook because all he posts are photos of his girlfriend and nothing else",
"pronormative_score": 4,
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} | AITA for unfollowing a friend on instagram and unfriending on facebook because all he posts are photos of his girlfriend and nothing else? | I mean because I simply have no interest in looking at photos of her and I don't know her. I follow friends on instagram because I'd like to see what they're up to and photos of themselves, their art, and what they do with their friends and loved ones. But this guy posts nothing but photos of his girlfriend and her sel... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
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} | RIGHT |
3QQCJCWbsZdspaN6yWi32xX2nNukSg9U | 9ze2hr | {
"description": "cutting my husband's friend from my life",
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} | AITA for cutting my husband's friend from my life? | TL;DR: Friend of my husband's has a habit of screaming at us when we do something wrong or that she doesn't like/feel is right. After she yelled at me for ruining her weekend I decide to step back, and with what's happened since then, cut all contact.
​
Strap in for a long ride, my friends. Thanks in advan... | HISTORICAL | {
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NQm9HywWeAYoPw7yyjt8L4lW2opOeDC8 | aewglq | {
"description": "questioning the validity of the individual leader of a \"Movement Challenge\" for being a liar",
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} | AITA for questioning the validity of the individual leader of a "Movement Challenge" for being a liar? | I work at a very large employer. On Monday (7th), our annual competition started where employees track steps, exercise minutes, and wt. loss.
The current individual leader has recorded they have taken 252,531 steps since Jan. 7th. The next closest person is at 169,845 steps and the "Pace Setter" is at 40,000 steps. T... | HISTORICAL | {
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6CE0nCnLxpr6siCaIda6YTQXiB5VaWsZ | av5qx6 | {
"description": "breaking up with my \"boyfriend?\"",
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} | AITA for breaking up with my "boyfriend?" | Around early February, somehow my friend ended up getting my crush to confess to me through call, and it was moreover of a "cool. we both like each other." But somehow he gets the agreement to date while I'm in a daze.
And so over the time, it's starting to get really uncomfortable for me. He's already told his parent... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
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FYTzsOAVDGUIRKfWWTdzBuU9vohEE009 | ar3kuf | {
"description": "tricking an entitled",
"pronormative_score": 0,
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} | AITA? I trick an entitled | so this happened today. I was trying to enjoy playing fortnite (yes I know its cringe) and this kid (mind you I have never met him before and didn't know him) joined my party and started yelling at me to "buy him the soccer skin because he deserved it" so I played along with it then i said "oops i bought it" he called ... | HISTORICAL | {
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i84diSQJu4HdnmnaKQN7quiIWVkZTdGh | aqiuv7 | {
"description": "not being ok with my gf's new demands to be able to go out for dinner/drinks with whoever she chooses",
"pronormative_score": 18,
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} | AITA for not being OK with my gf's new demands to be able to go out for dinner/drinks with whoever she chooses | I feel like I’m losing my mind here and need some advice. TL/DR below.
​
Have been with my girlfriend for almost 2 years, she’s 33, I’m 35. For the most part we’ve been great together. The usual ups and downs of any relationship, but overall I feel like we’ve both been happy in the relationship. I have for... | HISTORICAL | {
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hqxL5ybTU0Penp1Qpk1W3YyiXCm8gGtS | b8qobn | {
"description": "thinking that someone's tweet wasn't insulting to anxiety ridden people",
"pronormative_score": 2,
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} | AITA for thinking that someone’s tweet wasn’t insulting to anxiety ridden people | So, I have this friend (We’ll call them Ice) who, for April Fool’s Day, made a tweet about how they were thinking about themselves as a person, coming to the conclusion that they wanted to do more with their life, and that they were going to quit Twitter. April 2nd comes along, and they come back to Twitter, making a ‘... | HISTORICAL | {
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tNB1U1dEaN7N3eMwsK3Lp7LEg1iNtmQB | b83969 | {
"description": "cutting contact with my friend for being a furry",
"pronormative_score": 20,
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} | AITA for cutting contact with my friend for being a furry? | So this guy, Daniel we'll call him, is a pretty chill dude in school. He and I are in the same sports club, and we talk a lot.
One day, while changing clothes in the locker room, I accidentally saw him opening his Tumblr account on his phone. Discreetly.
I shouldn't have done it, but out of curiosity, I searched for... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | AUTHOR | {
"RIGHT": 20,
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} | WRONG |
C3dO6Is48MILhv9xfyicKTcA9wbJMEjD | a4pbef | {
"description": "possibly getting a delivery guy fired",
"pronormative_score": 5,
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} | AITA for possibly getting a delivery guy fired? | Sorry for the length of this post and the formatting. I'm on mobile. There's a TL;DR at the bottom.
So the other night I ordered takeout through a food ordering a delivery app. I put the other through and paid on my card. I got confirmation that it will be here within an hour. Now this is a bit of a long wait, seeing ... | HISTORICAL | {
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1S0fgFITUFty7FD3dqz5m9nvWf8U98Zg | b2n784 | {
"description": "freaking hate office birthdays and other events",
"pronormative_score": 6,
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} | AITA I freaking hate office birthdays and other events | I truly don't know if this is weird. My friends seem to be of 2 schools of thought: "celebrating your coworkers various life events is awesome! More friends, more cake, wheeee!" or "fuck this shit and leave me alone. I already have friends, thank you very much."
​
I usually fall into camp 2.
​... | HISTORICAL | {
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5XA7MXdkzaSqlOUGbxaXUgIP5T1C7yDq | auayy7 | {
"description": "wanting to return a kitten I adopted from family",
"pronormative_score": 3,
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} | AITA for wanting to return a kitten I adopted from family? | So a while back my mom found a mother cat with a bunch of kittens in her shed. She decided to adopt out and asked me if I wanted one. She mentioned that she saved the chill, shy one for me.
When I was growing up our family had a cat and she was amazing. Totally made me a cat person. She was super independent, spent ... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | WRONG |
jmIqexJyLZf2nWcujmFnQjnD81oxnUcf | ai7arq | {
"description": "wanting to fight people who flirt with my fiance",
"pronormative_score": 2,
"contranormative_score": 5
} | AITA For wanting to fight people who flirt with my fiance | So my fiance has joined the national guard and she went off to basic training for a few months when she got back she mentioned that some guys had flirted with her during the process, now I trust her completely and I honestly am not very worried that she would be unfaithful, but I don't trust the guys, and honestly I kn... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | AUTHOR | {
"RIGHT": 2,
"WRONG": 5
} | WRONG |
3KL3VrdSt0KwA5JaSahy5h28wVmpuJX7 | apc6tw | {
"description": "thinking that it's utterly disgusting to openly fart all the time, smell or not",
"pronormative_score": 16,
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} | AITA For thinking that it's utterly disgusting to openly fart all the time, smell or not? | My friend is currently staying with me (not for much longer so not really an “issue” now I guess) and he farts a lot. There hasn't been a single day where he hasn't ripped ass. I think it's utterly disgusting that he does it all the time. I could be in the kitchen and he comes in and farts while I'm cooking. Sitting do... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 16,
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} | RIGHT |
BjiqoJvCi7wXqs6cjZKwS7c2yXlK0iCa | ath84s | {
"description": "breaking up with my boyfriend while he's away for work for 7 weeks",
"pronormative_score": 8,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | WIBTA for breaking up with my boyfriend while he’s away for work for 7 weeks? (Or WIBTA for waiting till he got home?) | Some context: Things have been tough with my (30F) boyfriend (30M) for the last several months. We’ve been together nearly 2.5 years and currently live together. He’s working on a 7-week job halfway across the country right now. He’s been there 2.5 weeks and won’t turn till the end of March. We haven’t talked much beca... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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} | NOBODY | {
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} | RIGHT |
P2Zdqgk8Kr8Foe5y7EMuxShKBf0nbpsd | a584rx | {
"description": "not letting a girl use my phone charger, potentially landing her in trouble with her mom",
"pronormative_score": 18,
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} | AITA for not letting a girl use my phone charger, potentially landing her in trouble with her mom? | This one needs a little explanation.
This girl’s friend circle includes one guy, we’ll call him Jacob. Last month, I lent Jacob a pencil. He immediately handed it over to a friend, and I never got it back. But whatever, it was a pencil. I lent him my charger a week ago, and at the end of class, he and another friend ... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | RIGHT |
mx5NlUa6szZ9CAc6CVwv95iKi76iQDkv | akx2df | {
"description": "kicking a friend out of my house when she needed a place to stay",
"pronormative_score": 4,
"contranormative_score": 1
} | AITA For kicking a friend out of my house when she needed a place to stay. | To start of this story I had just gotten out of the ER after staying in it for 2 days for mental health issues. It was also the day before the new school year started. My best friend at the time (Ryan) called me when I got home and asked if his girlfriend (let’s call her B) could stay with me for the night. His parents... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | RIGHT |
GQbIk505VWX4A81zGLdqutv6Qwo2tFpH | ahh1wy | {
"description": "not providing meat at my next dinner",
"pronormative_score": 24,
"contranormative_score": 1
} | WIBTA for not providing meat at my next dinner? | I [15F] have the obligation of making dinner for when my boyfriend's family comes over to my house for dinner. I'm happy to cook, I love cooking the only thing is I'm a vegetarian. His parents know that and have made some rude remarks about it, but I mainly brush it off.
Anyway last time I went to dinner at his place ... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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JzLlmcJlTpHGx6xButLmSWgLjgQtbkYu | amuem1 | null | AITA for my sister's arm getting broken | Ok. This dates actually _way_ back but it still keeps me up at night and my sister is still guilt tripping me.
I'm 27, F
A bit of background:
This happened when I was 13 and my little sister was 8. And to put it plain and simple: at this time we absolutely hated each other. She was pretty spoiled being the youngest ... | HISTORICAL | {
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o2Lia5ZUdWSulEuBZr9mqlA2iMrVpd6q | auq5td | {
"description": "filing a complaint with the police department",
"pronormative_score": 3,
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} | AITA: Filing a complaint with the police department | Long story.
My bike was stolen out of my yard in November. I reported it stolen online and in mid-December the police department recovered it at a pawn shop.
To get back stolen property you have to go to a little Civil preceding, takes like ten minutes, and the city runs them once a month. The pd tried to schedule me... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | RIGHT |
IVBayzaAGFqS4HxkIaUEWvYWkuwEKsyC | a39jr3 | {
"description": "pushing my girlfriend to go further sexually after promising not to",
"pronormative_score": 1,
"contranormative_score": 15
} | AITA for pushing my girlfriend to go further sexually after promising not to. | Context: Around a week ago, my girlfriend and I met up and she was in a 'weird mood' (her words). She told me that she didn't really want to do anything sexual that day, and, despite that, I kept trying to ask her and push her towards doing sexual things. Obviously I was the asshole in this situation and I have no doub... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | AUTHOR | {
"RIGHT": 1,
"WRONG": 15
} | WRONG |
bsySUbftjdO0qqmMgXAbs6qDDzvcNn4q | argw0d | {
"description": "falling asleep on Valentine's day",
"pronormative_score": 10,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for falling asleep on Valentine's Day? | For the record, I went out a few days before and got him a nice gift and a teasing card.
Then I went to whole foods and bought a really nice cut of meat to cook for dinner.
Then I come home from work and give HIM his present ( I got nothing, no flowers, no card), then proceed to make dinner.
I get into bed at 8:00 and ... | HISTORICAL | {
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iOcIVRhm0KVG7SWivn1eCD7yiiFzL4Qz | agvovl | {
"description": "wanting to keep my roomba in my living room",
"pronormative_score": 18,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for wanting to keep my roomba in my living room? | My good friend moved into my apartment recently and he has been making a lot of changes in the name of “de-cluttering” the place. Most of what he has done I agree with but others seem unnecessary and seem to be more about him wanting to re-arrange the space how he would prefer.
This afternoon I returned from work and... | HISTORICAL | {
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fLGMqC1Lzf4RkO2aCrkhnQExgPzg6Xh4 | b2t13r | {
"description": "not originally inviting the bride's sister-in-law to the bachelorette party? or for thinking she's a bit of a brat",
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} | AITA for not originally inviting the bride's sister-in-law to the bachelorette party? Or for thinking she's a bit of a brat? | Okay, so. My best friend (the bride) is getting married in June and asked me to be her maid of honour. Of course, part of that is planning the bachelorette party, and the hardest part of THAT task is coordinating schedules among other adult women. When I asked my bestie for a guest list, she said "bridal party only". ... | HISTORICAL | {
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"OTHER": 4,
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"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 5,
"WRONG": 0
} | RIGHT |
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