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{ "description": "not liking the fact my friend asked my boyfriend to prom", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AItA for not liking the fact my friend asked my boyfriend to prom?
A bit of backstory: at my high school, the juniors and seniors have a prom every spring, and are allowed to bring underclassmen and people from other towns, so long as they pay for both tickets. ​ My boyfriend and I are both sophomores, and I found out a few weeks ago that a mutual friend of ours, who I'll...
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{ "description": "taking a pic of my husband shitting in a ditch", "pronormative_score": 34, "contranormative_score": 64 }
AITA for taking a pic of my husband shitting in a ditch?
I'm still laughing about this, so don't count on any remorse from me. Husband and I left home for a shopping trip. About 15 minutes away from home, I notice he's making faces and I ask if he's ok. No, he has stomach trouble. I tell him to turn around and head back home. 12 minutes later he shouts "I'm not gonna mak...
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{ "description": "telling my friend I didn't appreciate paying for a $200 meal at her husband's birthday party", "pronormative_score": 742, "contranormative_score": 52 }
AITA for telling my friend I didn’t appreciate paying for a $200 meal at her husband’s birthday party?
My friend invited my husband and me to a 40th birthday party for her husband. The party was going to be at a fairly upscale restaurant with dancing afterwards. We’ve been working on some remodeling projects, so we’ve been on a strict budget. My husband and I wanted to attend the party without breaking the bank, so w...
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{ "description": "saying people with physical disabilities shouldn't hide it on Tinder etc", "pronormative_score": 76, "contranormative_score": 17 }
AITA for saying people with physical disabilities shouldn't hide it on Tinder etc
First time poster and on mobile so apologies for any issues! I have a 3 year old who has a foot amputation. She wears a prosthetic leg. Because of this I am on a FB page about limb differences. Currently there is a woman losing her mind because her friends nephews son went on a date through Tinder, didn't tell the gi...
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{ "description": "having a nude agreement", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for having a nude agreement?
So I've known my 2 best friends (one is male, the other female, I am a male) 7+ years, went through high school, now college in our little group of 3. We've been really close and 2 years ago my 2 friends started to date, I, of course, kept being a friend and all. Now for the meat of the matter, my girl best friend boas...
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{ "description": "not wanting to be out of pocket to return keys", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for not wanting to be out of pocket to return keys?
I stayed in my boyfriend's house last night. We both left for work at the same time this morning, and half way down the road I realised I left my phone under the pillow. He had no time to go back as he needed to catch a specific train so I took his keys and got it myself. The problem then was that we don't work near ea...
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{ "description": "removing someone's foot from the back of my chair in a lecture", "pronormative_score": 17, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for removing someone's foot from the back of my chair in a lecture?
OK so this happened a few months ago but I still have no idea what to think so I'll ask you guys. I was in my first lecture for this class and I sat near the front. I don't usually go to the front, but I did this time for some odd reason. Anyways, about 5 minutes into the lecture, I felt a foot on my chair. An annoyan...
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{ "description": "telling my family to stop contacting my friends/people close to me", "pronormative_score": 25, "contranormative_score": 26 }
AITA for telling my family to stop contacting my friends/people close to me?
A couple of years ago my family (mom, dad, and little brother) moved out of state, about a 15 hour drive away. Usually I call them pretty regularly, anywhere from 1-3 times per week. The past couple of weeks I've been pretty busy and haven't had time to call them. My mother tried calling me once in the first week bu...
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{ "description": "being offended that my HS friends gave neither gift nor card to my husband and me for my wedding", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for being offended that my HS friends gave neither gift nor card to my husband and me for my wedding?
I am in my 30s, and so are my friends. I recently got married in St. Paul, and I had some friends from my HS travel from out of state (Georgia, Florida, Ohio) to attend. Each of them paid airfare and Airbnb fees to attend, which I agree is very generous. I never expected ANY kind of gift from any of them, but it woul...
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{ "description": "wanting to transfer money that I owe to my ex", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting to transfer money that i owe to my ex?
hey, so i broke up recently with my ex-gf. all sad and stuff, but i owed her some money she lended me while on the relationship. i wanted to give it back to her when i could. so january comes, and she texts me saying that she needs the money *physically". here's where the problem starts, since i was gonna be in town h...
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{ "description": "not wanting to work over 40hrs a week", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to work over 40hrs a week?
I have been at my place of work for about 5 months now. I work full time for a clothing company in a large shopping mall. I don’t mind the work I do, I wouldn’t say it’s particularly enjoyable but it’s definitely not the worst job I’ve had. I don’t know how to define my position in the company, I am sort of a manager, ...
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{ "description": "wanting to move out", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting to move out
So I'm 18 (19 in a few weeks) & live in the UK. I have a stable job & a boyfriend (I'm gay). Looking to save up enough to buy/rent/shared ownership an apartment. Thing is my mother (56) struggles a lot with health & finance issues (fibromyalgia, back, arthritis). Mentally she isn't great either. This has ha...
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{ "description": "cancelling an introductory political meeting when the person I was meeting with wanted me to meet at their office rather than at the coffeeshop", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for cancelling an introductory political meeting when the person I was meeting with wanted me to meet at their office rather than at the coffeeshop?
So I work in politics, and a political organization in my community has a new Director. I thought I would set up an introductory meeting so we can get to know each other, learn their priorities for the organization, etc. This person doesn't have any political experience with the party, and I've been involved for severa...
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{ "description": "not helping my ex with university stuff I promised I'd help with", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not helping my ex with university stuff I promised I'd help with?
Six months ago I (24) met this girl (22) in a club who I really liked, she had a boyfriend so we just became friends all the time and I was really into her (never tried anything because I hate cheating). After about a month she broke up with her boyfriend (not because of me) after 4 years and I asked her out. She told ...
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{ "description": "not asking my dad to add my wife's name to the house deed", "pronormative_score": 14, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for not asking my dad to add my wife’s name to the house deed?
My wife and I have been married for five years. During this time she has been the breadwinner and I am a housedad at home taking care of our one year old. We purchased a small home at the beginning of our marriage together that we both paid into the down payment for, and both of us own the home. Now that our child is g...
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{ "description": "rescinding a date offer since she decided to bring a friend on a relatively expensive first date", "pronormative_score": 19, "contranormative_score": 11 }
AITA for rescinding a date offer since she decided to bring a friend on a relatively expensive first date?
Made this account just to post this. I met a girl through online dating. I was very into her. Unlike most other people, she was willing to have long verbose conversations with me with before we even broached the topic of dating. We’ve been talking for over two weeks now, usually sending about two long messages each...
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{ "description": "taking out the trash", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA Taking out the Trash
Let me first say/clarify that I love my roommates, that being said I need to vent about something they do... Whenever they “take out the trash” They simply pull the bag from the bin tie it closed and leave by the door(or sometimes leave it in the kitchen!) instead of talking in out to the dumpster which is just outsid...
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{ "description": "not wanting to attend/participate in a coworkers baby-shower", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to attend/participate in a coworkers baby-shower?
Both these coworker are shit talkers who will look you in the eye, smile and then talk shit about you when you leave the room. I’ve seen them in action so may times and Ive decided to keep my distance. They’re horrible people and I honestly can’t stand both of them.
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{ "description": "breaking up over text/ leading her on", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA For breaking up over text/ leading her on?
I've been seeing a girl for a little less than a week, we went on a date, our first and last, this Friday. She expressed interest, so I asked her to the movies, thinking i might feel a spark if we hung out in a different context. She very quickly started referring to us as boyfriend and girlfriend, dating, etc, and ...
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{ "description": "the situation spiraling out of control", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for the situation spiraling out of control?
Throwaway. I started working for this company a few years ago and in the beginning, all seemed nice. There's this one coworker we'll call Z. After a while, Z started having some jealousy issues, became more snarky and manipulative, and yelled at me over very mundane things. Even in situations where I had to ask Z a qu...
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{ "description": "asking a friend to pay me back for a movie ticket", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for asking a friend to pay me back for a movie ticket?
**TL;DR :Friend refuses to pay me back because he didn’t ask for my convenience.** Note: Everyone’s name has been changed for privacy reasons. October of last year, 3 friends of mine all wanted to see a movie premiere 4 hours from the time it begins. So last minute planning, everyone was certain that the theater was ...
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{ "description": "wanting some damn sleep", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting some damn sleep?
I'm sleep deprived right now in work, sipping an energy drink. The same situation I've found myself in for a while now. I work 6am-2pm every other week and 2pm-10pm the other week if that makes sense. I have to be up at 4am and so I go to bed early. Like 9pm or 10pm. Trouble is, that's when my jerk of a brother wakes u...
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{ "description": "being highly insulted by the bare minimum refund I was given by a company, and demanding a much bigger one", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 23 }
AITA for being highly insulted by the bare minimum refund I was given by a company, and demanding a much bigger one?
I was given a gift card for a small/medium-sized company. The gift giver forgot to tell me the amount of $ on it, so I called their main # provided on the card. Their # is not toll free, so there was a very minimal charge that this call cost me. I was connected with a guy who, from the get go, had a negative attitud...
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{ "description": "wanting to sell pre-purchased tickets to a music festival to my now ex-girlfriend", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for wanting to sell pre-purchased tickets to a music festival to my now ex-girlfriend?
Last November I bought tickets to a two day music festival, happening this weekend, for my then girlfriend and me but I recently decided that I needed some time off of the relationship. She's unable to work due to crazy college schedules but her parents do very well so I know she doesn't technically have money but *i...
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{ "description": "wanting to rehome my little sisters aggressive dog", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting to rehome my little sisters aggressive dog?
I'm typing this on my phone, so I apologize in advance for any mistakes. TLDR at the bottom. So about 5 years ago, I got a dog. She is a pit mix. Superrr well behaved, and super friendly to everyone and everything. At the time, I was living at my parents house. I ended up moving away for about a year. And in tha...
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AITA- Festival ticket edition
Backstory; last year I had to sell my ticket to a festival because the other supervisor was in Portugal that week. I did so freely. I've been to that fest three times already. Just now I put a message in our group chat about who wants what for our summer holidays dates. I mentioned I want to clear 18-23 July this yea...
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{ "description": "not wanting to move in with my bf yet", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to move in with my bf yet?
I love my boyfriend. Like a lot. Hes my world. I live in America and he in England. We've been dating for ever a year and I plan to visit him eventually but it makes him sad I'll have to go back home after. We do wanna live together eventually, especially because the free healthcare will help legit save my life. But i...
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{ "description": "not wanting to spend my own money", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 77 }
AITA for not wanting to spend my own money?
Throwaway account. My older brother (21) and I (18M) share a place together. We're both at university currently and each pay half the rent. For the past month, each time we went shopping for groceries and other necessity, we paid with my brother's card. Recently, he bought a video game and was now low on cash. Now o...
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{ "description": "taking a person's cart", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For taking a person's cart?
This may seem really stupid, but it's been stressing me out. Recently, I had to go out shopping for a few items with my mother. She had her hands full and asked me to grab a cart for her while she looks around a bit more. Since the carts were at the front of the store, I had a bit of a walk. As I approached the shopp...
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{ "description": "favoring one of my brothers in writing my recommendation letter", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for favoring one of my brothers in writing my recommendation letter?
So I'm a senior in high school, currently in the stressful process of college applications. For one of my schools, I need a peer recommendation (a letter written by a friend/classmate/sibling/etc.), and because I'm shy and don't have any close friends at school, I wanted to ask my brother to write it for me. The thing ...
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{ "description": "blocking all contact with one internet \"friend\", at the expense of another", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA for blocking all contact with one internet ”friend”, at the expense of another?
Throwaway account for obvious reasons. Also, I’m on mobile so sorry if there’s any formatting issues. I (15M) am a part of an online friend group and have been for around two or three years, with a few of my buddies that live around me, and others that are scattered across the country. The online people had met with u...
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{ "description": "not reaching out to my ex more to talk to his daughter", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not reaching out to my ex more to talk to his daughter?
Sorry for any bad formatting I'm on mobile. This is a long story so TL;DR at bottom. So my ex and I were together for about two years before I got pregnant and shortly after I had our daughter things went downhill and we ended up breaking up. We didn't have a court custody agreement. We had agreed I would have our da...
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{ "description": "being upset/disappointed my bf went and worked out when we had arranged to go to the cinema for a date without letting me know he was going to be late", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for being upset/disappointed my bf went and worked out when we had arranged to go to the cinema for a date without letting me know he was going to be late?
Background: In a LTR living with my bf he's just changed jobs and I'm currently doing a master's with two submissions coming due. Time and money are extremely tight for us ATM. As it says we'd arranged to see the new Harry potter movie today. We'd set a time that already had good buffing built In as bf was coming fro...
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{ "description": "not accepting my boyfriend's apologies", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not accepting my boyfriend's apologies?
My boyfriend and I have different ideas of what making up and apologizing should look like. If I'm upset, I want to talk things through, and come to an understanding or conclusion. He wants to stay silent, hug it out or make jokes until things are better. I usually reject his hugs if I've just explained something that...
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{ "description": "not giving my mom my tv", "pronormative_score": 182, "contranormative_score": 8 }
AITA for not giving my mom my TV?
I’m 16 and still live with my parents. I got a job when I was 14 and have been saving up for my gaming setup. One of the items which I just got was a 65” curved tv. It was very expensive considering how much I make. I ordered the TV from Best Buy and it came in yesterday while my mom was home. She installed it into HER...
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{ "description": "not wanting to be my girlfriend's therapist", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to be my girlfriend's therapist?
My girlfriend (20) and I (20) have been dating for a few months and I love her but recently her seemingly endless complaining is wearing me out. I understand that she is depressed and I have urged her to talk with a psychologist. It's just everything she says to me recently has been a complaint or a depressing thought....
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{ "description": "telling my friend I had a sex dream about her", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 18 }
AITA for telling my friend I had a sex dream about her?
I (20M) had a sex dream about a girl in my social circle (19F) and when I was drunk we went to a night club and afterwards I told her I had a sex dream about her that she was so beautiful wirh nice body and tits. I was drunk i wouldn't have said this if i wasn't but she shouted at me. I realize it can be bad but i wa...
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AITA because my dogs bark?
Happy fucking Friday. I just got home to a letter from my county animal control department that "one or more of your neighbors" have complained about your dog's barking. From the letter I have 7 days to correct the problem otherwise it could go before a judge. Fuck those people. So for the background, I have three do...
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{ "description": "refusing to eat my mother's food after finding she removed the lactose from it", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 15 }
AITA For refusing to eat my mother’s food after finding she removed the lactose from it?
Hey, so, alt account because she checks my other one. I’m 15, and have been waking up feeling sick my entire life. Not just that, but I’ve also had abnormal pooping... uhh... style. I recently found out that, without my permission, she decided to remove all lactose from my meals, and forcing me to take what ever the...
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{ "description": "forcing my brother to do something else than Soccer", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 11 }
AITA For Forcing My Brother (10) To Do Something Else Than Soccer?
I'm 22 and my brother is 10. For the past two years soccer was his obsession, the only thing he thinks about day and night are matches results and his collection of football cards. The only videogame he plays is FIFA and he already owns like 5 of them. It's not helping that my father isn't very conscious of the problem...
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{ "description": "saying slutty cosplay is weird", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for saying slutty cosplay is weird?
Throwaway account because I just don't want this on my actual account. This happened maybe 30 minutes ago too. I was texting my boyfriend during our usual evening/goodnight conversations. He's into anime and follows a lot of cosplay accounts on instagram and sent me a post from one of those accounts. It wasn't provoc...
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{ "description": "getting angry at my friend for splitting the bill on her bday party", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for getting angry at my friend for splitting the bill on her bday party?
For the record, I was initially not even invited. It was only when one of our mutual friends suggested that she invite me. She takes us to a fancy place, pleads us to order food and drinks up to our satisfaction. When the bill was placed in front of her, she just glanced at it and placed it back in the folder. After 10...
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{ "description": "calling a friend out on not standing up for me", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for calling a friend out on not standing up for me?
Me and a friend were in an elevator and a woman in her 50s comes in so I politely asked her “Ma’am, which floor?” so I could push the button for her. She answered and jokingly said I should call all women over 18 ma’am, not just older ones. So I looked at my friend and jokingly said “Look at you grandma!”, while exitin...
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{ "description": "wanting to take legal action because my ex who is 15 is dating a 23 year old man", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for wanting to take legal action because my ex who is 15 is dating a 23 year old man?
So, you read the title. I might just be jealous but I'm too naive to realise it. Just to be clear, me and her are still good friends and we talk from time to time.
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{ "description": "throwing a snowball at my neighbor", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA for throwing a snowball at my neighbor?
I was fooling around outside with one of my neighbors when he started throwing snowballs at me. It quickly got annoying, so I politely asked him to stop. He then whipped a big one at me, which missed. I chucked one at him but he ducked, and the snowball hit him in the face. He started crying and ran to his house. I apo...
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WIBTA of I asked to take a short vacation so soon after I started working?
I’m on mobile, excuse any formatting issues. Some backstory: I’m currently taking a gap year, mainly to save for college. My aunt and uncle run a business and my aunt is short a person in her department, so she offered me the opportunity to work there. I said yes and my original plan was to work for her for a couple ...
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{ "description": "riding my bike on the sidewalk with my dog off leash", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 9 }
AITA For riding my bike on the sidewalk with my dog off leash?
Posting from mobile, sorry for any formatting errors. So today after work i got home and decided to get my dog (Koda) some exercise. I usually just ride my bike around the neighborhood with her a couple times. She is very good about staying close to me, but occasionally she will see a dog, run over and say hi, then co...
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{ "description": "basically shutting down democracy in my club", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for basically shutting down democracy in my club?
Context: SO. i'm the president of my highs school's anime club. The club mission is to get people to expand their horizons and move past the popular stuff like BNHA. Last year there was little to no democracy; we would suggest, and they would choose something on their own. This year, i tried to make an effort for dem...
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{ "description": "refusing to participate in the interactions of a \"Roast Comic\"", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for refusing to participate in the interactions of a "Roast Comic"?
We went to see a comedy show about a year ago and my friend insisted on being in the front row of a relatively small club. The comic was trying to do crowd work and started asking people questions. One was "have you ever been with a black woman?". FYI There are not a lot of black people where we live, but I come fro...
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{ "description": "not wanting to go with my family on their Christmas trip", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for not wanting to go with my family on their Christmas trip?
I live with my parents and my sister, so I see my family everyday. This year, they want to spend Christmas at a beach resort, which is not really my ideal vacation spot. I never liked going to the beach and there's not much to do besides that. They are going to pay for the whole trip but I don't feel comfortable if t...
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{ "description": "not wanting a Guy watching us practice", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For Not Wanting a Guy Watching Us Practice?
RIght, so, In my school my friend and I have a project due on Tuesday next week, and part of it is to make a video explaining an ancient civilization. We went outside class to film it and didn't get any tries 'correct'. We were trying another one when a guy about 3 years older than us went outside into the same corrido...
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{ "description": "hardly talking to my boyfriends mother", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for hardly talking to my boyfriends mother?
I’ve been dating my boyfriend for a little over a year. I get along great with his little sister (she calls me her bigger sister), his dad and I are friendly, but his mother and I have lots of tension between us. I’ve never been outright rude to her, but I’ve stopped making an effort to talk to to her. I say hello, g...
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{ "description": "getting my husband tested for autism behind his back", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for getting my husband tested for autism behind his back?
Asking about a friend. I know how I feel, but another friend is adamant to the contrary, so I'm bringing it here. My friend's been in a relatively loveless marriage with this guy, let's call him B, for several years, & they have 2 young children together. I met them both a few years ago, early into the marriage, ...
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{ "description": "telling the neighbors kids to shut up", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 3 }
WIBTA for telling the neighbors kids to shut up
It's currently 7am and the kids don't start school till 8:30. They've been up since 5 running around and from what I can tell banging the wall with a hammer. I'm house sitting for my mother right now and I'm aware that she's told the parents to control their kids before. WIBTA for going over there and asking to be quie...
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{ "description": "playing video games with my friend online at 10 am", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for playing video games with my friend online at 10 AM?
My friend and I like to play video games together and we'll play in a high-spirited way (read: loud) whether we're laughing at something that happened or cursing our luck. I won't play with him too late at night if people are going to sleep, and I won't even play games that require verbal communication (CS:GO, Overwatc...
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{ "description": "wanting more assholes to post here", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA if I want more assholes to post here?
Seeing obvious NTA stories is interesting, no doubt, but I just want to have a little variety in this sub. Does that make ME an asshole?
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AITA 4 asking for my money back
I lent money to a relative who promised to pay me back within a few weeks. He has failed to pay me back and just made excuse after excuse. His wife was in hospital (seriously ill) and so I haven't ask him about the money for the past 6 months nor has he. Last week I found that he has purchased a new car for his daughte...
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{ "description": "not liking my girlfriends gift to me", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not liking my girlfriends gift to me?
So, we had our Christmas early because not everyone would be around then. I liked all of my gifts except the big one my girlfriend got me. It was a Rick and Morty board game that girlfriend repeatedly told me that SHE wanted when we went to the local tabletop game store. I remember being vocally uninterested in it eve...
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{ "description": "speaking my up about my feelings to my parents who paid my college tuition", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for speaking my up about my feelings to my parents who paid my college tuition?
A couple years ago I (21F) was dating a man (32 M) who had multiple marriages and multiple children. I’ll call him L. At the time we met, I was really lonely and seeking the kind of attention he gave me. I want to say it was around date 4 that he disclosed to me his history, so I was going into this relationship eye...
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{ "description": "continuing talking to a guy I matched with on Tinder who my best friend says is off limits because her other friend has a crush on him", "pronormative_score": 26, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA if I continue talking to a guy I matched with on Tinder who my best friend says is off limits because her other friend has a crush on him?
About a week ago I ran into a friend of mine who was with her buddy, Jake. Jake and I introduced ourselves and that was it. I thought he was cute and very polite. A few days ago, my best friend, Sara and I were working at a coffee shop and her friend, Hannah, whom I’ve never met, came with Jake. We recognized each othe...
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{ "description": "being annoyed at my gf kissing her female friends in front of me", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for being annoyed at my gf kissing her female friends in front of me
Posted on a throwaway cause friends know my account. My gf has this (imo odd) relationship with her friends in which kissing eachother is normal. The kiss isn’t a peck, this is a lip lock for a few seconds. I don’t have a problem with this part, I’m not homophobic and I’m pretty certain there’s no romantic feelings...
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{ "description": "inviting my brother-in-law's ex to my wedding, meaning he refuses to come", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for inviting my brother-in-law's ex to my wedding, meaning he refuses to come?
Some context: ​ My soon-to-be-wife's brother, Bill, and his ex-partner, Terri, had twin daughters at 19, followed by a messy break-up. They were living with my fiancee's parents at the time. ​ Bill left with the woman he was cheating on Terri with, and more-or-less only sees the family at Chri...
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{ "description": "telling an annoying person to go away", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for telling an annoying person to go away
A girl at my school continues to be annoying, even though I constantly tell her to go away. By annoying, I mean calling me her boyfriend, following me during recess, stuff like that. AITA for telling her to leave me alone constantly? Sometimes I feel guilty, sometimes I don't.
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{ "description": "sleeping with married women", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for sleeping with married women
Pretty much the title. I (45M) love going after married women, it's so exciting and wrong thinking that they went down the aisle with another man and are willing to throw that all away just to fuck you. They're usually better in bed and it's so easy to get them in there if you know how to spot one that'll cheat (Alway...
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{ "description": "not wanting to help out with 'housework'", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 35 }
AITA for not wanting to help out with 'housework'
I'm 17, live at home with my single mother (it's just been the 2 of us since my parents divorced 10 years ago). Recently she is buying a new sports car (a mid life crisis thing is my guess) that she can barely afford. Right now she parks her old car underneath broad daylight but she doesn't want to do this for the new...
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{ "description": "making out with my gf loudly enough for her roommate to hear", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA - Making out with my GF loudly enough for her roommate to hear
This post is actually more of an AWTA(Are We The Assholes). I'm an 18 year old male and my girlfriend is 19. We are both in college at the moment, and we often hang out at her flat. She lives with a roommate (F19, we'll call her Suzie). We've been together for around 3 months, and since this is a first real relations...
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{ "description": "not lending my friend cash to pay for her tuition fee", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not lending my friend cash to pay for her tuition fee?
TLDR - A friend who has a history of not paying back borrowed money, asks for money to pay for her tuition fee. So, we've been friends for 6 years -- since high school. She has a bit of a troubled family life. She's juggled between living with her dad & stepmom (who has a short fuse when it comes to her), and wit...
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{ "description": "standing my ground against a teacher", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for standing my ground against a teacher?
I just came back from watching my grandfather with dementia die and go to his funeral. I come back to school and naturally I have work to do. No big deal right? Well when I ask what I have to do to make up, she hands me a test straight up. I’m shocked and panicked so I end up scoring a 30 on it. I later address this wi...
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{ "description": "blocking out my friend after he told lies about me to get a girl", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for blocking out my friend after he told lies about me to get a girl
Disclaimer:English is not my first language. Two years ago(September 2017) I(15M) started going to a different class in the same school, for reasons irrelevant to this story, which meant that I would see my previous classmates a lot less, including my then best friend P. When I switched classes other students were add...
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OTHER
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{ "description": "asking wife to abort 1 twin", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 64 }
AITA for asking wife to abort 1 twin?
ok so i am a 45 yrs old male, she is 37 females. i came home from job. wife came home from a appointment with the doc. says twins. this was news to me. we had not considered the possibilly of twins. my wife was a bit nervous i can tell but excited by the surprise anyways. i start to feel like a raccoon in a room fille...
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{ "description": "wanting to find another therapist because my very first therapist \"forgot\" to turn up today", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for wanting to find another therapist because my very first therapist "forgot" to turn up today?
Hi guys, I would like your genuine and honest opinion please. I can't ask my friends or family because I know they'll side with me. Today was going to be my first day seeing a therapist. I am originally from an Asian country where mental health isn't taken very seriously. When I was living with my parents, I told the...
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{ "description": "being upset my sister calls my son by his middle name", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA For being upset my sister calls my son by his middle name ( kind of )
Hello everyone, I'm hoping i'm not the asshole LOL ​ I get seriously bothered every time my sister calls my toddler by his middle name, except she doesn't even use his middle name completely, His middle name is Alexander and she calls him Alex because she doesn't like his first name or his Middle name for ...
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{ "description": "not giving a racist a second chance", "pronormative_score": 17, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not giving a racist a second chance?
I am an African American and my significant other is a white man. I will call him SO. He has a friend we’ll call Varg (also white). SO has known Varg for many years but they aren’t like talking every day or even every week kind of friends. In a public setting, when I was present and SO was not, Varg made it clear that...
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{ "description": "asking my elderly, nearly deaf neighbor to turn down her television at night", "pronormative_score": 15, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I ask my elderly, nearly deaf neighbor to turn down her television at night?
I live in a two story apartment building above a very sweet elderly lady. She is literally one of the nicest people I have ever met. Her husband died about a year ago from cancer and she has been alone since. Here's the thing: She's partially deaf and she leaves her television on all night. When I say all night, I m...
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{ "description": "confronting a man for disrespecting my wife at a party", "pronormative_score": 15, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA For confronting a man for disrespecting my wife at a party?
Me and my wife were at a new years BBQ. It was for our entire apartment complex so there were a lot of people we havent met there. Against our better judgement we decide to stay late into the night and drink a bit since we dont get out much. A drunk man who we've never met approaches us and leers at my wife, right in ...
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{ "description": "breaking up with my girlfriend for her best friend", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 7 }
WIBTA for breaking up with my girlfriend for her best friend?
My girlfriend and I have been together for 1 year, but lately we've been drifting apart. We have a long distance relationship, since she moved away from where I live about 2 months ago. Everything was still going good for us, until about 2 weeks ago, she would text back later and later, and become a lot more secretiv...
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{ "description": "not letting a child enjoy themselves in my store after closing time", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not letting a child enjoy themselves in my store after closing time?
I work at a gift shop where we sell little trinkets made in China, and we have a penny smasher. It's the bane of my existence. People are constantly turning the lever and making the *clink clink clink* noise all day, every day. Well, I was closing up the store last night when a family came in. I said "Hey guys, welcome...
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{ "description": "asking for my ex to keep a consistent custody schedule with the kids instead of going out drinking", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for asking for my ex to keep a consistent custody schedule with the kids instead of going out drinking?
Backstory: we have two kids, just into their double digits years, and my ex and I have a 50/50 custody schedule since the separation. 1 week with me, 1 with him. His friends are partiers/drinkers. Always have been, but he didn't go out with them much when we were together because they lived out of town. Since our se...
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{ "description": "telling people I had a biopsy", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA: Telling people I had a biopsy
I recently had a biopsy and have had to be on crutches. Without fail, 1 in every 4 strangers will approach me to ask if I had ACL surgery and then tell me about their MCL and ACL surgeries. Am I the asshole for responding that I had a biopsy done? My friends and family think that I'm making others feel like the assho...
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{ "description": "letting my friendship just die out", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for letting my friendship just die out?
Edited because I realized this mostly is about friend A and not the others. Originally wrote about 3 friends total, so if the formatting seems weird, that's why. I have 4 friends from HS that I've more or less kept constant contact with for the past decade. There were periods of times we saw less of each other, but I'...
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{ "description": "chiding my friends when they don't eat even though I'm anorexic", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for chiding my friends when they don’t eat even though I’m anorexic?
I just turned fifteen a few days ago, and my friends decided to take me out to an all you can eat buffet. I had a bit of a freak out as I was nearing my daily intake and hadn’t exercised or anything. Not wanting to spoil their fun, I go with them. They pay for my entry and I feel like shit already because I know I’m no...
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{ "description": "not being attracted to certain parts", "pronormative_score": 47, "contranormative_score": 1 }
Aita for not being attracted to certain parts
So this is something that happened a while ago and it came up in conversation with people and I don’t know if I was in the wrong. So I had a significant other a while ago who came out to me that they thought they were genderfluid. I told them that was wonderful and asked how I could support them. I did everything I cou...
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{ "description": "not providing as good a service for medical staff who abused me", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for not providing as good a service for medical staff who abused me?
I was helping out in my aunt's restaurant and some medical staff I knew and who abused me asked some food. I got it but literally pissed in their soup. I got a cup from the toilet and poured it in and served it to them. They used to say to me I was nothing and I was a bad person. And if I ever deserved a transplant I ...
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{ "description": "being stressed out for xmas", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being stressed out for xmas?
On mobile. Apologies for formatting. Just had a major fight with my partner on xmas eve. I own 2 companies and have had nothing but problems getting paid big dollars owed leading up to xmas. Ive bought the second company for my partner in the last couple of months that she really wanted (hairdressing) and added it to ...
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{ "description": "telling my depressed boyfriend he needs to do more with his dogs", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA If I tell my depressed boyfriend he needs to do more with his dogs?
My boyfriend and I (late 20s both) live together. He has 2 dogs, a 3yo German shepherd and an 8 month old Siberian Husky. They are his dogs, he purchased them before we moved in. I do a fair amount with them because I love them, including feeding, playing, and training. My bf has severe depression, and the last month...
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{ "description": "suggesting my friend pay her fair share", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for suggesting my friend pay her fair share
hey so i am an 18 year old college student. my best friend, who is 19, demands on splitting our spring break trip about 85% 15%. i am the 85 percent. my parents are well enough off- but so are hers. we went to Las Vegas for spring break, we are staying in my grandparents house that they recently bought (void of furnitu...
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{ "description": "wanting to stay friends", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for wanting to stay friends?
So I’ve been friends with this guy for about 3 years. It was somewhat of an off and on again friendship since I was too busy with other things. We always had interesting and meaningful conversations. But recently we started to talk everyday and became more fond of each other. I went over to his place a couple times jus...
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{ "description": "expecting my boyfriend to feed me", "pronormative_score": 39, "contranormative_score": 21 }
AITA for expecting my boyfriend to feed me?
Some context: my boyfriend and I both live with our parents, but sleep over at each other's houses regularly. We're both students at the same uni, but don't have the same classes. My place is over an hour and a half from the uni, his is 20min away. The issue: when he stays at my place, I get myself up in time to get r...
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{ "description": "asking the gifted phone back from my girlfriend, after we broke up", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for asking the gifted phone back from my girlfriend, after we broke up?
Some backstory: i bought my (ex now) girlfriend a new phone and after about 2 months we broke up. Out of anger and heart broken after i figured it out that she was seeing another dude, i asked her to return the gifted phone so i can get the money invested back. The phone was probably the most expensive stuff i offered ...
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{ "description": "not allowing my middle schooler to take their laptop to school", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not allowing my middle schooler to take their laptop to school?
Because of behavior and breaking trust at home with computer usage, and slacking on school work at school (my suspicion is partly because of distraction of laptop), I've said my kid couldn't bring their laptop to school. They insisted they needed it, even called co-parent to have them demand the laptop go to school. I...
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{ "description": "being close with my girlfriend's sister even though she hates it", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being close with my girlfriend's sister even though she hates it?
I (19m) and my girlfriend (21m) have been together for a year and we met through uni. She has a sister who is 19. For the sake of the story, let's call my girlfriend Katie and her sister Danni. Katie is really close to her parents, so I met them three weeks after our first date. They're really cool people and we hit ...
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{ "description": "making my husband quit his new job", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for making my husband quit his new job.
My husband has brain lessons since he was born, which causes him to have grand mal seizures. I continuously complain about his work as a chef because you never know the hours needed to work. Well this particular issue started a few weeks back. My husband finally left his old job and got a new that pays him a decent a...
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AITA? Was I Overreacting Or Is She?
So it was two days ago, (Last Sunday), when me and my girlfriend (ex girlfriend now) were on the phone video calling. She was busy dusting and her phone was basically dead, (On one percent), and she said she'd put her phone on charge upstairs and that she'd call me back when she was done. I recall my first text to her ...
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{ "description": "being late to meet up with my gf on her birthday because I was baking her a cake", "pronormative_score": 17, "contranormative_score": 10 }
AITA for being late to meet up with my gf on her birthday because I was baking her a cake?
Ok so this happened a few months ago and we have since broken up (for various reasons; butted heads too much) but this still bothers me and I want to know if I’m in the wrong. So her birthday was coming up and I asked her how she wanted to spend the day; it fell on a weekend so we were both off and I’d be able to enjoy...
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{ "description": "wanting a break from caring about my Ex, also I insulted her later on", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA: For Wanting A Break From Caring About My Ex, Also I insulted her later on
(Quick rundown) The last two months I have been friends with this girl, (We became friends, then we started dating, then she broke up with me because she liked a different dude) I cared about her a lot, I would always let her vent her problems onto me, But we broke up two weeks ago, during the breakup she was complaini...
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{ "description": "getting a \"Roommate\" Fired", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for getting a "Roommate" Fired?
TLDR at bottom. Some background. I had moved in with some family out of state and was told everything was set. (Internet, food, power, jobs.) Surprise when I get there none of that was there. No one had a job. There was about 6 people living in a tiny trailer, 4 guys, 2 girls. Not including the people who would ju...
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{ "description": "joking around with my friend about a guy who likes her", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for joking around with my friend about a guy who likes her?
English isn't my first language, I apologize for any mistakes. So I'm still in high school, yeah we're just teens. I don't like drama and I don't like bringing drama upon myself. I had a friend, let's name her Faith. She told me through chat that another friend of mine, let's call him Giant, liked her. Typical crush s...
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{ "description": "getting upset with a friend for canceling plans with me three times in a row at the last minute", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for getting upset with a friend for canceling plans with me three times in a row at the last minute?
So I’ve been talking to this girl for a few months now (since october). We hang out usually once or twice a week. But since before Christmas, we haven’t had time to hang out. She was out of town with family, and so I was. Since the start of the new year, we’ve only hung out once. After that one time, I’ve tried to ma...
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{ "description": "thinking about myself, for once", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for thinking about myself, for once?
So, on December 29th, I (16) realized, after years of thinking, that I’m trans. I’ve tried gender nonconformity but it didn’t seem right. This does. I came out to my family in early January. After I told my mom she told my dad who then told me I was going to hell and that I’d get all my instruments and electronics take...
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{ "description": "not wanting to see someone who I used to loathe", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to see someone who I used to loathe?
So this girl was my babysitter's daughter so I had no choice but to hang out with her. Sh was the bully. She bullied everyone. Even the toddlers. Sometimes her brother. She'd often make the little kids cry. She yelled at me a lot, was low-key manipulative, thought she was generally better than me. Her mom kind of enabl...
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