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"description": "asking about getting a car like I was told",
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} | WIBTA for asking about getting a car like I was told? | I’m 16 and about two months away from getting my license. I’ve never been a really eager driver, so the concept of having my own car is exciting but also nowhere near at the front of my mind. My mom, however, has been telling me for the last two weeks that I need to bring up the concept of me getting a car to my dad. T... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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"description": "breaking up with my girlfriend with mental health issues",
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} | WIBTA if I broke up with my girlfriend with mental health issues? | Title sounds pretty bad but hear me out. I’ve been dating this girl for about a month now. I like her a lot and the relationship is actually pretty good. We relax together, introduced each other to our respective favourite video games and as such spend a lot of time playing them with each other. Things have been good ... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
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XJwco2fNkOOt5OgigaFqJGDrscGfjYze | apl0jy | {
"description": "pretending I'm not home rather accept a neighbour's parcel",
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} | AITA for pretending I'm not home rather accept a neighbour's parcel | Drives me f***ing insane the number of parcels that couriers come around with for people who are out down the street. I cba to act as a postal depot just because I decided to work from home one day when everyone else is out at work.
But of course, it's great if my neighbour takes in one of my packages... | HISTORICAL | {
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DVzMykjsIQc6czKXP9t6WZu3H9YBp8vx | ammrgg | {
"description": "not wanting my family using my things",
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} | AITA if I don’t want my family using my things | This is probably the most bratty thing I have ever said, but Im honestly over it and I just wanna know if I have the right to be annoyed by it.
So I live with my mother, step father and my 4 younger sibling (all around my age) Im 16 and I have just gotten a low paying job so I have started buying my own things becaus... | HISTORICAL | {
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JOU25Ui0OhNp9yz36jkykvR6TQGf7VXx | b17f0k | {
"description": "wanting to kick out my brother again knowing he has no one left",
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} | WIBTA for wanting to kick out my brother again knowing he has no one left | This is a clusterfuck of a story, prepare. Throwaway because my friends know my main.
So I'm a 20y/o female with three brothers (all older) and live together with my mom and youngest brother. The main character in this post is my 32 yo brother, let’s call him Arlo. His life is really fucked up. His relationship fell ... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
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"description": "falling in love with a very close friend and deciding to end the friendship",
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} | AITA - I fell in love with a very close friend and decided to end the friendship | I met a person who I really connected with and they felt the same way. We started spending more and more time with each other and I decided to move things to the next step to which I discover she is an avid party goer and makes out with strangers etc. I know we are not dating or anything so I have no right to be upset ... | HISTORICAL | {
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Ap2e3K5YYrujSxpKdXgYvayvCYmoej2P | b9yi9s | {
"description": "wanting my college roommate's girlfriend to stop staying over",
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} | AITA for wanting my college roommate's girlfriend to stop staying over? | Throwaway because I'm unsure if they browse reddit or not.
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One of my roommates (I have two) used to never be around last semester. However, he now brings his girlfriend over every single day, and she spends the night every single night. I used to be okay with it, but they've slowly ate away at my nerves.... | HISTORICAL | {
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T0UxqzHUlzACBaCPHwTm1DsJjfj5JJSq | b7pueh | {
"description": "being mad at my sister for not coming home",
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} | AITA for being mad at my sister for not coming home? | First time post here, and I'm writing on mobile, so yee.
Cast:
M; Mom.
D; Dad.
BS; Big Sister.
Me: Mary Poppins.
So a bit of background, I share a room with my 18-year old, still not moved out sister. She's almost never home so I usually have the room to myself.
As you all know, it's mother's day. About 10 minutes a... | HISTORICAL | {
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qjkNeYm57CSOMDzfyOA7ZKIIDpGHWucy | b9vot2 | {
"description": "telling my mom she is shallow",
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} | AITA for telling my mom she is shallow? | I am 13. I have braces. We were getting our school photos taken and my mom told me NOT to smile with my mouth open during the photo so my braces don't show. I said okay but was unsure of how to look good in the photo with my mouth closed. (I'm not good at smiling with my mouth closed.)
When it was my turn to get my ph... | HISTORICAL | {
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"INFO": 1
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 162,
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} | RIGHT |
1BABR0LOUKny9yunb11XGXg9uNREwNcz | aaarwl | {
"description": "finding my girlfriend to be rough in bed",
"pronormative_score": 4,
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} | AITA for finding my girlfriend to be rough in bed? | My girlfriend and I (male) have been having great sex. However she has been wanting to try harder sex with her on top. She is only a small thing but she can be quite rough. I don’t want to put her off though. | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
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"description": "not wanting to invite my dad to my wedding",
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} | AITA for not wanting to invite my dad to my wedding? | Really quick back story: My dad walked out when I was 7. Cheated on my mum with a woman who he eventually married (I wasn't invited). He only saw my sister and I around birthdays and Christmas and I eventually stopped seeing him for years.
When my sister got married last year she invited my dad because she still keeps... | HISTORICAL | {
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"INFO": 1
} | OTHER | {
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} | RIGHT |
uz6vuYYgn2cth1EQHjAAV3n6NeKbS7l8 | b763gu | {
"description": "telling my family I don't want to move back home",
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} | WIBTA if I told my family I don't want to move back home? | I'm a senior in college and I will be graduating in a few months. My family lives an hour away from where I go to school and have been pressuring me to move back home after graduation. My relationships with some of them aren't bad but they aren't good either. The best relationship is with my mother who would give me h... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 13,
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GNy9HHDOj77WEoWQuv6YJDNOw5emeP6t | 9xb3ji | {
"description": "kicking my brother out of my house",
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} | AITA for kicking my brother out of my house? | Okay, so this is a bit of a read and I'm on mobile so, sorry in advance for shitty formatting.
I would like to start this whole wall of post out by saying I love my brother to death, I really do. In fact, what's so frustrating is our family loves him more than he loves himself it seems like. But anyways, let's get o... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | RIGHT |
egyV3qu3vemfEwg8hC9mGLyL9eAdwAPi | afbaev | {
"description": "ghosting someone and not telling them I miscarried their baby",
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} | AITA for ghosting someone and not telling them I miscarried their baby | Context-
This all happened from last summer over a couple of months, but its something that seems to be reintroducing itself into my life.
Last june, I (at the time a 16 y/o trans male) had taken a break from my boyfriend (at the time 18 y/o cis male) . The relationship wasn't bad, but being young we decided to take s... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | RIGHT |
F9WuAt390vc34anfKUvRdRlqNyDxcdKy | as2090 | {
"description": "looking up my friend in a database to find out if he is a real person and if he has a record",
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} | AITA for looking up my friend in a database to find out if he is a real person and if he has a record? | I have a friend who is older than me and who I have talked to on the phone a few times and I've seen his picture. We recently found out that a few friends of ours are not real people so when I saw a background check ad on pinterest I got curious. I trust my friend but I wanted to know for sure. So I looked him up. He d... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | NOBODY | {
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bfDpCpe50WaMKab98Txr4HEqR0aIa7tY | 9xbt3g | {
"description": "yelling at my group member for changing my part of the group essay",
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} | AITA for yelling at my group member for changing my part of the group essay? | So I had a college group project which involves 3 pages of text shared amongst 5 group members. The project was due at midnight and I had work that night from 5pm-1am so I did as much work as I could before leaving for work. I did about one page of work on the project and no one else had started until about 2 hours bef... | HISTORICAL | {
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"EVERYBODY": 0,
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"INFO": 0
} | AUTHOR | {
"RIGHT": 1,
"WRONG": 3
} | WRONG |
lIoXJzGmQcgykQRr4HOK6BFbLGiAbKeo | b65kob | {
"description": "letting another girl who isn't my girlfriend sleep in my bed",
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} | WIBTA If I let another girl who isn’t my girlfriend sleep in my bed? | My friend (21f) is visiting me (20f) from out of town soon. My girlfriend (21f) asked where she’d be sleeping and I told her by bed. Ever since I had sleepovers even as a kid my guest would always sleep in the same bed as me. It was never a big deal. My gf was getting a little heated and started asking why she couldn’t... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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"EVERYBODY": 0,
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"INFO": 1
} | AUTHOR | {
"RIGHT": 4,
"WRONG": 19
} | WRONG |
Urqmr3G2RQWtJ3IzLLw71AWNiMMaOzi2 | atv7qm | {
"description": "telling a guy from my school to stop texting my 15 year old little sister",
"pronormative_score": 25,
"contranormative_score": 5
} | AITA For telling a guy from my school to stop texting my 15 year old little sister? | Basically I have a little sister who turned 15 two months ago, whose beEn getting texts from a guy in my highschool whose 17 about to be 18 in a few months.
I have seen how this guy talks about sex and girls and I get weird vibes from him. Ive told my sister this but she keeps telling me to butt out but I know this gu... | HISTORICAL | {
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"OTHER": 24,
"EVERYBODY": 3,
"NOBODY": 1,
"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 25,
"WRONG": 5
} | RIGHT |
yG1V2EP8GPT6BxcWipvC0gQ1YNKdrY4S | abk0i5 | {
"description": "outing for my cheating ex boyfriend",
"pronormative_score": 1,
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} | AITA for outing for my cheating ex boyfriend | Me and my ex boyfriend have been broken up for around a year, I have recently become single again and messaged him. He advised he had a new girlfriend and he was happy, however I invited him round and he accepted the offer. Whilst he was at my house we kissed, the next day I saw he uploaded a photo of him and his girlf... | HISTORICAL | {
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"OTHER": 1,
"EVERYBODY": 12,
"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 1
} | EVERYBODY | {
"RIGHT": 1,
"WRONG": 16
} | WRONG |
snLFIzQfdIf6YWYY6AAZnuRQJMWydeTt | aqz6eq | {
"description": "telling gf that I'm not going to give gifts for Valentine's Day anymore",
"pronormative_score": 11,
"contranormative_score": 5
} | AITA for telling gf that I’m not gonna give gifts for Valentine’s Day anymore? | So I got my SO some gifts for Valentine’s Day which I always do every year. I don’t expect her to get me anything but something would be nice. So she gets my gifts and says “I have something for you too.” And she sends it over and it’s just a pic of her butt with “happy Valentine’s day”.
So I responded with “not that... | HISTORICAL | {
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"OTHER": 11,
"EVERYBODY": 3,
"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 11,
"WRONG": 5
} | RIGHT |
Aye1xkNx58yUyQxGly7TpGdQzBIncLrM | amzbv5 | {
"description": "taking a break from my friend",
"pronormative_score": 1,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for taking a break from my friend? | Context: So... I have pretty high social anxiety. (I haven't been diagnosed but I've had quite a few panic attacks in my day) And I had this friend that we met through a mutual friend. We were fine until he started to snap at me for certain opinons I had that differed from his (like favourite bands). A lot of times I'd... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 1,
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} | RIGHT |
Y4KSu9WNWxUjnw9uIVrleFc9sy2Co4Tq | b41kft | {
"description": "not wanting my older, ungrateful brother to live with me",
"pronormative_score": 3,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for not wanting my older, ungrateful brother to live with me? | To give you some background, I am 17 and I live with my Mum. My older brother is 19 and lives in my Dad's apartment (Dad not currently in town.) Because of unpaid rent, my brother will get evicted and have to find somewhere to live. He could call our Dad and find another place, but I doubt he will be much help. So my ... | HISTORICAL | {
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"INFO": 1
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 3,
"WRONG": 0
} | RIGHT |
BCKPoyeLuAtqGYoKgpVH7fMCQ5gXeoLD | ai6kov | {
"description": "wanting to pack up and donate stuff from my childhood home asap",
"pronormative_score": 4,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for wanting to pack up and donate stuff from my childhood home asap? | My parents have been divorced since before I can remember but they stayed in the same town. I’ve grown up in said town and go back and forth each week between their houses.
My dad got a job six hours away and is gonna take it. He’ll need the house cleared out by the end of March. I wanna start making a plan for where... | HISTORICAL | {
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"OTHER": 3,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 1,
"INFO": 1
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 4,
"WRONG": 0
} | RIGHT |
BYpZUhR8nfGaNFQloeXl4vm4ZJB8NuoT | b3rhmb | {
"description": "not wanting to give my phone number to a national chain tire store where I'm having a slow leak patched",
"pronormative_score": 8,
"contranormative_score": 1
} | AITA for not wanting to give my phone number to a national chain tire store where I’m having a slow leak patched? | They want my phone number to start a repair ticket. I politely decline.
“I’m sorry, I don’t give out my number.”
“Sorry we can’t help you.”
“Are you saying you don’t do business with people who don’t give you their phone number?”
“Yes”
“Is this company policy?”
“Yes”
“Can you show me in writing that you don’t send my ... | HISTORICAL | {
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"OTHER": 5,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 3,
"INFO": 1
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 8,
"WRONG": 1
} | RIGHT |
mMFmH4qEZQZ1KGJBPfOjIJhWM8hmjdb4 | aj2r93 | {
"description": "scheduling service on wife's day off",
"pronormative_score": 12,
"contranormative_score": 3
} | AITA for scheduling service on wife's day off? | My wife gets a weekday off from work and uses her time off to catch up on sleep, play games and schedule appointments, etc. She really does not like to do anything before noon and often sleeps in until 11 am or longer on her day off. Im totally fine with her behavior, since its her time and we dont have kids or anythin... | HISTORICAL | {
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"OTHER": 12,
"EVERYBODY": 1,
"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 1
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 12,
"WRONG": 3
} | RIGHT |
GFA9UyTRrfqOSCpbdouRPeQr9RS1AIIn | ajl6km | {
"description": "calling out my Spoiled Rich Friend",
"pronormative_score": 15,
"contranormative_score": 11
} | WIBTA For Calling Out My Spoiled Rich Friend? | So one of my closest friends of almost 5 years recently called me freaking out because her card kept getting declined. Her parents give her money every couple of months to help her cover odds and ends (food,books etc). We’re both 18 year old full time uni students and live at home. Her parents pay for her entire tuiti... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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"OTHER": 13,
"EVERYBODY": 1,
"NOBODY": 2,
"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 15,
"WRONG": 11
} | RIGHT |
Mk8gd9Yc10Lo0gFJDxLwtbKfzWpHSJ7P | ak7scn | {
"description": "telling waiter why I was sending back food",
"pronormative_score": 11,
"contranormative_score": 1
} | AITA for telling waiter why I was sending back food? | First Reddit post! I love reading AITA, and this is something that's been preying on my mind so let's do it. I'll TL;DR at the end.
My husband's work team had a social meal out a couple of months ago for everyone to bring their partners. I dont eat animal products so was a bit nervous about the potential of being "tha... | HISTORICAL | {
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"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 11,
"WRONG": 1
} | RIGHT |
Tbd8okqyt2OeHGzd5VyBrQciHKHQ0ZOF | anf8v4 | {
"description": "arguing with my mom first thing in the morning",
"pronormative_score": 5,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for arguing with my mom first thing in the morning? | Long time lurker, first time poster. Here’s my obligatory apology for any mistakes I may make, mobile formatting, etc.
For context, my mother and I have always had a rocky relationship. She was a single mother with a traumatic past of her own, who became a mother by surprise and (in my opinion) has had the best of in... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | RIGHT |
oZbvU6WnDQKGl31AiEEso6nLSYdcvBIs | 9v8kel | {
"description": "gaming and chatting with my ex",
"pronormative_score": 4,
"contranormative_score": 3
} | AITA for gaming and chatting with my ex | I (m22) have a girlfriend for a year now. A few months ago my ex started Texting me . never in a flirty way or soemthing. More like a buddy. To understand the situation im in/was in i have to tell u the backstory
We've been together 5 years ago. We broke up but i missed her so i told her that but she blocked me (helpin... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
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ep9PCbJfHJoMaZbntgsWAj4airebIoeS | af6byi | null | AITA for relationship for how she handles sexual advances work? | My girlfriend (32) and I (33) both work at a bar. Flirting is obviously common, but sometimes it goes beyond.
She rarely gets physically flirty with customers but she’ll often get physically flirty with coworkers. It’s a bar, so we all flirt with each other but they’ll kiss her, hold her etc. It’s too much pda for m... | HISTORICAL | {
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"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
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} | RIGHT |
eHxbMM7Aw3JFlO3rCO5elna8CbcYV68W | b3t71s | {
"description": "telling my mother that my future son will never be allowed at her house",
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} | AITA for telling my mother that my future son will never be allowed at her house? | My wife is 37 weeks pregnant, we are the first of our family generation to have kids so it's been a big deal and everyone is super excited.
My mother doesn't have a lot of money and she has started making comments about "getting the baby's room ready". I asked her to elaborate and she says "For my GRANDSON to sleep o... | HISTORICAL | {
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"INFO": 5
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 305,
"WRONG": 38
} | RIGHT |
AE8xxBhMYwPgaGLkBGSoHKz05DhqlOpk | b7rwt8 | {
"description": "snitching on coworker",
"pronormative_score": 12,
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} | AITA if I snitch on coworker? | I’m a college work study student at a school library.
I usually don’t work Sundays, but when I do it’s with the same girl, and she’s always late. One time she came in late, clocked in, and left for more than an hour. Today she’s 3 hours late as I type this, and honestly I don’t think she’s coming in at all. On Tuesda... | HISTORICAL | {
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"OTHER": 12,
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} | OTHER | {
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} | RIGHT |
GizTcrm9kMkExupaNYREp2DLb3UIgma4 | ay01ta | {
"description": "being upset that my BIL had a no kid rule at his wedding except for",
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"contranormative_score": 2
} | AITA For being upset that my BIL had a no kid rule at his wedding except for.... | ... the kids in the wedding party.
I get it. It's their wedding, they can do what they want. But when they tell my kids they are going to be in the wedding party, but never approach the topic with my husband or I and then the invitations don't specify "no kids", is it unreasonable to assume that nieces and nephews are... | HISTORICAL | {
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"description": "not getting a wedding gift / cash",
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} | WIBTA if I don't get a wedding gift / cash? | The thought right now is we just give them a card.
Some context:
-Couple's engagement and marriage is 2 weeks after they got engaged. We were invited to attend within two weeks.
-They said they started planning 2 weeks before that (4 week planning)
- As the question states: no reception, we are not getting fed.
-Venue... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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aOLNKvaMajyYbeFVf86JGqMJrUJ6Uf4T | a44f2b | {
"description": "taking property back that's mine",
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} | AITA for taking property back that’s mine? | 41, M, San Jose, CA
About 3 months ago, I loaned an old lawn mower of mine to my neighbor. It was an old Snapper riding lawn mower. He was supposed to have used it for one time, but it started raining while he was mowing and he stowed it in his shed to keep it from being rained on.
About two months goes by and I had... | HISTORICAL | {
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Mb3fUyFyTulBF4BFXGJ4vaWK40UFsVl9 | b34ubt | {
"description": "being upset that I got ghosted by (what I consider) close friends",
"pronormative_score": 10,
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} | AITA for being upset that I got ghosted by (what I consider) close friends? | Ok so this might sound a bit petty, but hear me out.
Since middle school, I had a close group of friends that I would always hang around and play sports such as basketball with. We were all very close throughout middle school and were basically as close as a group could get.
Now fast forward to high school, where we... | HISTORICAL | {
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99obZxp7foRr9WBe7DKUit8jpK6l6uzB | asi3z8 | null | AITA am I an ungrateful daughter? | My mom has been helping me with my 6 month old daughter. Help I have desperately needed. Shes amazing. She comes over before work so that I can get ready without worrying about the baby. She sometimes helps fold clothes, wash bottles, watches her while I'm working and even brings her home. I am tremendously grateful fo... | HISTORICAL | {
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UA0APE7qQtVDgBevx00UfPFIus0TYRbV | abeh8y | {
"description": "getting a car towed on NYE that was blocking one of my driveways",
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} | AITA for getting a car towed on NYE that was blocking one of my driveways? | My parents have a large house in a private gated neighborhood. The driveway has two entrances but we exclusively use one of the entrances because it is easier to enter and exit. It’s basically muscle memory at this point when we back up because we are the last house on the cul-de-sac and no one ever is there at that dr... | HISTORICAL | {
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fS1mbXPdwE3CN9IoJRWOxqYNynFJ6dPU | 9z234h | {
"description": "trying to make a payment plan with my niece",
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} | AITA for trying to make a payment plan with my niece. | Long story short, my mom died, my niece was in a shitty situation and needed to get out so I lent her $5,000 dollars to buy a house. (We live in a very very rural state so this isn’t unheard of) anyways, it’s been two years since then and I’ve asked her to help me out a few times totaling maybe $100-$150 dollars at mos... | HISTORICAL | {
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8GzpKV8mm7CLxEXWCiPMtNnvVCJxzkVx | alowl6 | {
"description": "being emotionally distant from my mum after some shady behaviour",
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} | AITA for being emotionally distant from my mum after some shady behaviour? | My mother is not physically abusive. She's never hit me. However, she does think that make me feel like I'm being emotionally abused, even if she may not want to. For example: we have a fight about something and I make valid points, telling her what's bothering me, and her response is 'okay' because she is too tired to... | HISTORICAL | {
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jBtpkBnIHlcedc5erqBvyMpFbsR0MqJR | aavg35 | {
"description": "being annoyed at my friends for not telling me about my ex",
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} | AITA for being annoyed at my friends for not telling me about my EX? | So I'm part of a big group of friends who I met through my Ex. When my ex and I broke up, we remained friends and part of this larger group.
I recently found out that something is going on between one of my mates from this group and my Ex. (I don't know what is going on exactly). I also know that the others in the gr... | HISTORICAL | {
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fFFn3ZTKWa752thcEqB1O8g6AzDYiEfG | a3729p | {
"description": "yelling back at someone after almost hitting him in the face",
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} | AITA for yelling back at someone after almost hitting him in the face. | So im rushing through my frat house cause im late for something, i hurry to exit through our back door which is a big white door and isnt see through so idk whose on the other side of the door.
I push it open and this big dude whose also in the frat (i never talk to him) is on the otherside carrying cases of beer. I ... | HISTORICAL | {
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BgsmPi8gN6kEiHjD1zoM3jwvJ71Ksa7Y | ba3g7j | {
"description": "being annoyed by my cousin sister",
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} | AITA for being annoyed by my cousin sister | My cousin sister is really annoying sometimes. I recently lost all my friends, and it's a sensitive topic for me but she still does not stop talking about her friends despite knowing about it. She always wants things to go her way and is completely invading my space. I like being left alone but she just wouldn't give m... | HISTORICAL | {
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4F3YDLKslLD7przo7NUznnEDvdlkyAxM | b14cbq | {
"description": "not wanting to pay for my package",
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} | AITA for not wanting to pay for my package? | I use a courier service to deliver my packages that I order online (outside of the US).
However, they are *always behind on their service* as well as they also overcharge as the cost seem to inflate compared to what is expected and this frustrates me.
Anyways, a few weeks back I ordered a package and when they notifi... | HISTORICAL | {
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6lNuVbmtGKU2K8JanCbfkz5UT5huCrQM | 9xm105 | {
"description": "falling behind at new job and asking others to solve my problems for me",
"pronormative_score": 4,
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} | AITA for falling behind at new job and asking others to solve my problems for me? | AITA? I just started my first ever job recently. Its a job serving ice cream and dessert foods in a fairly busy store in the city, so theres usually a lot to do e.g. taking orders, prepping food, ice cream, smoothies, taking online orders from deliveroo etc. So last week I was only on my second shift, and it was pretty... | HISTORICAL | {
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yf52ldWB1RyFoShV1P6qLn55Hgouj1b2 | anot3i | {
"description": "suddenly leaving a phonecall with my girlfriend and her friend",
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} | AITA for suddenly leaving a phonecall with my girlfriend and her friend? | Last night I was in a messenger call with my girlfriend and her male friend whilst they played Fortnite. After a while they started posting embarrassing photos of each other in the chat and he posted a screen recording of a snap she sent him of her singing and generally acting silly.
My problem with this is that whene... | HISTORICAL | {
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1a59fFZAiPkJNGd9ypWdPPdhmQWZnGwY | afma8g | {
"description": "not liking the family dog and being open about it",
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} | AITA for not liking the family dog and being open about it | For the first time ever my family got a dog. I'm not a dog person and told them this beforehand because I figured it might make things difficult.
Ofcourse they can get one if they please so they did. Since day one everyone expected me to like it and get cuddly with it, which I don't want. It's a cute and sweet dog, I j... | HISTORICAL | {
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8RItEcHXYp82PCi39r3mJV5JNj8en9Ni | awjkmh | {
"description": "not wanting to carry my friends portable charger in my already full purse",
"pronormative_score": 3,
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} | AITA for not wanting to carry my friends portable charger in my already full purse? | My friend is visiting from out of state today. She is staying in my apartment with her niece, friend and boyfriend. We had plans for today but they were going to go without me because I had something come up and I couldn't go. That was totally fine, and I was okay with that.
My friend then decided that she was going t... | HISTORICAL | {
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FSqAvtb3Ik2xrXPRSmwxcLliNHBLUkjj | aritxd | {
"description": "not buying my brother food",
"pronormative_score": 12,
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} | AITA for not buying my brother food?? | Okay, so I, a 13-year-old, work small jobs for money. Rake some leaves for a neighbour for 5 dollars, mow the lawn for another 5. Really simple jobs that give me some money to buy what I want. So we were at the mall, and I wander off with 10 dollars and went to Subway. I buy a simple Meatball Marinara for 6.00, and som... | HISTORICAL | {
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ghAAMYnG9LRH0hACTS9hbK9AP752znFN | a7c1h6 | {
"description": "complaining about giving my friend a ride to the airport",
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} | AITA for complaining about giving my friend a ride to the airport? | I should have been firm in the beginning and rejected the favor but I accepted it. Later I complained how it was going to cost me 4 hours total to drive them to and from the airport by saying they don’t respect my time.
LOTS of words were said after that. I’m not sure if we’re best friends anymore.
This was days in a... | HISTORICAL | {
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tL9zAUjvlfpcHIRnR5wSz40zfMtQFyPf | ar59c2 | {
"description": "venting to my friend about another friend, only to have her tell him what I said",
"pronormative_score": 6,
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} | AITA for venting to my friend about another friend, only to have her tell him what I said? | I assumed that everyone gets annoyed at their friends at some point, and a normal part of any relationship is venting to someone about the things a friend does that annoy them. I don't want to actually confront this person and say that these things annoy me because it's just a part of who they are and who am I to try a... | HISTORICAL | {
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s2UBh6XUjHdcpHmPLj4cHmIJLAN6yPQQ | awubll | {
"description": "no longer being the shoulder",
"pronormative_score": 0,
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} | AITA: For no longer being the shoulder | For the majority of my life I have always been the person that was "too nice" and people would vent to me and I would always by default find something to sympathize about with their situation and immediately take.their side. Sometime over the past few years, I somehow stopped being the person. Probably a part of my gro... | HISTORICAL | {
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NLFgaX4U6UzhllSOxqeu3Ftigdo2oJ8j | amxwyo | null | AITA Relationship Troubles from my senior year | This happened a year ago, but I never found a good answer.
It’s my senior year of high school, and I’m a very involved student (I’m at school for 75+ hours per week between school, clubs and sports & was taking 4 APs my senior year, as well as XC, swim, and track) I’m also the one of the youngest seniors in my cl... | HISTORICAL | {
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wXS5fT2T3k6mejcwdiN9jeBfwSGF1y1p | afobpu | {
"description": "getting upset at my boyfriend for talking about other women in his sleep",
"pronormative_score": 5,
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} | AITA for getting upset at my boyfriend for talking about other women in his sleep? | My boyfriend and I have been dating for 3 years, we’ve been happily in love and prospering for the majority of our relationship. We barely fight, as we don’t have many issues.
Recently my boyfriend has been muttering stuff in his sleep, at first I ignored it but as of now it’s impossible. He talks so frequently in his... | HISTORICAL | {
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emL2IDKE8FeOYGRHUmoW9K9nIkdRQ99E | 9u2son | {
"description": "not wanting to go to a gay bar",
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} | AITA for not wanting to go to a gay bar? | I'm heterosexual myself and a lot of friends of mine are gay. We went out in the city, two bars just drinking a bit and talking (everyone in the group was gay except me). Then we decided to walk around when one of my friends suggested we should go to a gay bar close by.
I said to them that I didn't feel comfortable w... | HISTORICAL | {
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DFveFNJGhNawBANIt8j237ye1by4cjkL | aewl7x | {
"description": "not wanting to hang out with a friend of a friend who makes me feel terrible",
"pronormative_score": 4,
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} | AITA for not wanting to hang out with a friend of a friend who makes me feel terrible? | Recently a friend of mine got a new friend who attends to the same university we do. She was nice at first, but things changed (guess her true colors were shown). She constantly berates people, hates everything, is really condescending and judgmental towards other people habits and preferences, and, even though she is ... | HISTORICAL | {
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I9MHuSkKcr4bJxifXjxko5DL9tNpy2lt | b8m6rp | {
"description": "not getting excited about my friend getting engaged",
"pronormative_score": 10,
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} | AITA because I cannot get excited about my friend getting engaged? | One things my friends will tell you, I am fiercely loyal. My younger friend caught her live-in BF cheating several times, once with my help. She even had a fake OLD profile so she could catch him. A lot of it went on when she was pregnant, which was his idea.
She is gorgeous and could have any guy she wants. They got... | HISTORICAL | {
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cFcJEbMqVudztAEBsJSkIIPn8m4pULhw | abpsu8 | {
"description": "being annoyed that my family takes my room when they visit from out of state",
"pronormative_score": 10,
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} | AITA For being annoyed that my family takes my room when they visit from out of state? | I have a sister who lives in Louisiana and she’s married and has 3 kids, and every year for whatever holiday I always sleep on the couch and they take my room. I have switched rooms 3 times, but no matter where I go I always have to give mine up. Now a bit of a back story.
When it was just her and her husband before t... | HISTORICAL | {
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rnSj9nKxkoekXCuopDyyYL9e25ueWQY8 | a9o2jc | {
"description": "opening the discussion on restarting an old relationship, while we both have new relationships",
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} | AITA for opening the discussion on restarting an old relationship, while we both have new relationships? | Maybe this is a bit of a cliché topic, but it is one I have been struggling with for a long time. I can’t seem to find a way to deal with this, so I have discussed it with my good friends. However, they all have very different opinions. I’m very interested what you guys, outsiders in the matter, think about this, and v... | HISTORICAL | {
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dEtPthoPgJAe62t9LZZW9TIVrRXmmHs9 | agt18k | {
"description": "hanging up on my friend",
"pronormative_score": 5,
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} | AITA for hanging up on my friend? | So, this may seem sort of petty and small. But now that it’s over, I’m reconsidering if I am actually rightfully irritated about this.
I got on a FaceTime call with one of my best friends today, just chatting about things going on at school, nothing too serious but it certainly wasn’t a dead conversation. Eventually,... | HISTORICAL | {
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9xQrpRgPbYfJQlnZgyHew15vNFd5cCZx | 9u3a4e | {
"description": "not agreeing with my (divorced)) parents oving between houses more often",
"pronormative_score": 9,
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} | AITA for not agreeing with my (divorced)) parents oving between houses more often? | After my parents moved to two different houses, me and my brother moved between houses (in the same area) on off in the week. Meaning Mondays and Tuesdays with mum, Wednesday and Thursday with dad, and Friday, Saturday and Sunday alternating.
With my exams I requested a week on, week off split to make it easier to rev... | HISTORICAL | {
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BTASWERlRnymVBYLhMJrPMH2TBFGN1YH | b748hs | {
"description": "calling out my friend for making zero effort to introduce his girlfriend of 9 months to any of his friends",
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} | AITA for calling out my friend for making zero effort to introduce his girlfriend of 9 months to any of his friends? | Throwaway account for anonymity. I'll also refer to my friend as "Jake" for simplicity.
Backstory: Jake and I have known each other since high school, and we're both in our mid-20s now. There's about 4 or 5 of us from high school that still hangout together regularly as we all still live in the same area.
Jake began... | HISTORICAL | {
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c7e9F1S38r9ZEMpqIvLPqfPlvmnBxSW7 | abi61z | {
"description": "asking neighbours to turn down music at 3 am",
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} | AITA For asking neighbours to turn down music at 3 AM? | This is a tame one in comparison to others but my wife and I had an argument with our neighbours over music last night. We are a youngish couple with no kids and they are late 30's-40's with a kid at university and another in secondary school so it seems weird we'd be the ones to complain...
We understand that last n... | HISTORICAL | {
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RJjEzot64knPommmbidhWwFookBdAXSQ | aep39k | {
"description": "not tipping delivery drivers if my food was made wrong/ruined in some way",
"pronormative_score": 6,
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} | AITA if I don't tip delivery drivers if my food was made wrong/ruined in some way? | For example, today I ordered a pizza and it came to me late and so shaken up in the box that it was nearly folded in half. I still took it because I was hungry, but I didn't tip the driver because of his lateness and the quality food. He called me an asshole and drove off.
I don't see anything wrong with this practice... | HISTORICAL | {
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8EJdRirhaPIIveWSkGNzMfIOnyjEDVLc | asmzaq | {
"description": "sticking up for my dad and telling our family friend to \"knock it off\" in a stern manner",
"pronormative_score": 10,
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} | AITA for sticking up for my dad and telling our family friend to "knock it off" in a stern manner? | We have a family friend who used to be our neighbor back when I was a kid in the 90's. Both my parents and I have kept in touch with him over the years and he's paid a handful of visits since we've moved to a different state. Over the past few years, the guy has become a rude and condescending jerk. My parents always r... | HISTORICAL | {
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1LZTVXwWbyJbFWHHbimUvfSx6u609LPf | af8tsq | {
"description": "thinking my girlfriend cheated on me when she stayed up for the whole night drinking with one of my guy friends",
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} | AITA for thinking my [17M] girlfriend [17F] cheated on me when she stayed up for the whole night drinking with one of my guy friends [16M] | I'm relatively new to reddit so just bare that in mind as this is literally my first post and this seems like the perfect sub-reddit for this.
​
So for a bit of context this happened just under a year ago now and at this point I don't like bringing it up anymore because I feel guilty for making 'accusation... | HISTORICAL | {
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gOttWo42cpPErTP900nqIMSctZC9HRbY | a2zpsv | {
"description": "going behind a manager's back at work and speaking to a higher up",
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I am one of the agents here who knows the most and I have a natural knack for training, so I have been previously given the task of training up new starters to the role.
Recently I was approached by the OPS manager and asked if I would be wi... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | AITA for telling my friend about an art haow he wasn't available for? | So, a teacher I knew from high school told me about some tickets that were available for this very exclusive art show happening near my college campus, and she said someone she knew had gotten donated tickets to it, and wanted me to go see the exhibit since I've been unable to get tickets. So this was on Wednesday, so ... | HISTORICAL | {
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2avwhQebZQ1A9QlkTKVey53bK0HeOKxy | a8iq8j | {
"description": "not wanting to hang out with my dad",
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} | AITA? I don’t want to hang out with my dad. | So a little info: I’m 17 years old, going to be 18 in a couple months. I work part time at a grocery store, and I have 4 siblings.
Am I the asshole for not wanting to do stuff with my dad? He texted me earlier saying he is going to bring me hunting in the morning (sometimes I go on my own if I want to) and I told him... | HISTORICAL | {
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"description": "not wanting to try anymore",
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Apologies for the terrible formatting and grammar as this is my first post.
Some background:
I met a girl through a friend and arranged to meet her at said friends party (in September), one thing led to another and we ended up having sex. We had a date the next day so from then we were dating, the date went alrigh... | HISTORICAL | {
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"description": "wanting to wait for my parents to apologize",
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} | AITA for wanting to wait for my parents to apologize ? | Little bit of backstory here, my boyfriend and I (let's call him Adam) have been together for a little over 3 years, own a home together, and are happy in our relationship. My parents and I had a rocky relationship while I was growing up, but I thought we were overcoming that. I've brought home some real assholes in th... | HISTORICAL | {
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"description": "marking down a collegiate debate adjudicator for penalising my team for using specialised knowledge",
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} | AITA for marking down a collegiate debate adjudicator for penalising my team for using specialised knowledge? | Ok, so I’ll provide some background. My team went for a debate tournament. Every debate was judged by an adjudicator. After that, we had to mark the judges based on how well they explained their decision. Based on the scores, the teams and the judges could progress to subsequent rounds. One of the debates was on a topi... | HISTORICAL | {
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"description": "postponing sex plans, or am I unwittingly playing games",
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} | AITA for postponing sex plans, or am I unwittingly playing games? | A guy messaged me on Scruff wanting to hang out. I said sure. The more we got to talking he started telling me he’d date me if the sex is good and we end up hanging out. Is it bad if that made me uncomfortable? I’m not opposed to dating, but we hadn’t even met in person yet. Regardless, I said nothing and I brushed it ... | HISTORICAL | {
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"description": "telling my parents that I'm frustrated they took out college loans for me",
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} | AITA for telling my parents that I’m frustrated they took out college loans for me? | I still have pay them back since the loans are under my name. My parents basically told me in high school, you go to college and take out loans. I owe about 30k with a 3.8% rate. I am an engineer making good money but started paying my loans with just the minimum. Yesterday I got an email saying if I continue with the ... | HISTORICAL | {
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"description": "trying to motivate my s.o to lose weight/get healthy",
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} | AITA for trying to motivate my S.O to lose weight/get healthy? | Just feeling a little exhausted & wanting some perspective.
I’ll start by saying that I love my S.O more than anything & he is the most attractive person in the world to me. This has nothing to do with his appearance, I don’t care what he looks like.
This has everything to do with concern over his health, his... | HISTORICAL | {
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"description": "sleeping with my married next door neighbour",
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} | AITA for sleeping with my married next door neighbour? | I have an illness which leaves me in bed a lot of the time. Because of this dating is really hard and I get really lonely. My neighbour works from home a lot and his wife goes out to work some days. Me and him would sometimes take our dogs on walks together. I’m 21 and he’s 43 but we get on really well. He invited me i... | HISTORICAL | {
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hng4TRs59pjzQkGloSUKT8dLl0SH93dd | aqexcz | {
"description": "not erasing my contacts",
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} | AITA for not erasing my contacts | I have been dating with my girlfriend for 6 months now. Our relationship was rought at the beginning, not going to lie, i did speak to some girls at the early stage of our relationship. But it wasnt anything like flirting, mostly in friendly matter. Eventually I let them know that i have a gf, and most of them stopped ... | HISTORICAL | {
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"description": "ghosting my old group of friends I've known since highschool because I feel I moved on from all those friendships",
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} | AITA For ghosting my old group of friends I’ve known since highschool because I feel I moved on from all those friendships? | So I had a group of friends since highschool. I’m currently 23 years old and some of them I’ve known for years. To tell you the truth, it got to the point every time I would hang out with them it was draining. Some of them do drugs, still partying and I just feel I’m on a whole new level in life. I’ve been traveling a ... | HISTORICAL | {
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"description": "telling close [friend] about suicide attempt",
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} | AITA for telling close [friend] about suicide attempt? | So this good (read non-romantic) \[friend\] and I have been close for a while, chatting every week and sharing a good amount about what goes on in our lives. We are both very busy with work (\[friend\] is particularly busy/stressed right now), and talked for the first time in about a month. A few days before this fir... | HISTORICAL | {
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"description": "trying to make a good decision for my family but leaving my mom in Colorado \"by herself\"",
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} | AITA for trying to make a good decision for my family but leaving my mom in Colorado "by herself"? | My husband and I recently decided to move to Texas as it seems to be a good decision for our family, we have two kids. The problem is my mom, who is in her mid sixties, keeps trying to convince us its a bad idea but mostly because she just doesn't want us to move.
Pros of moving: sell our house for a decent profit, c... | HISTORICAL | {
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"description": "wanting my so to defend me to his family",
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} | AITA for wanting my SO to defend me to his family? | His aunt and siblings all hate me - somewhat irrationally but I understand I’m dating him, not his family. The problem arises when they constantly bash me in texts and encourage him to leave me. For example, if they ask SO what he’s doing, and he says doing something with me, they make vomiting emojis and say shit li... | HISTORICAL | {
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c3AxrqSPpm2L5jZNrMIRH2763d48IMKD | b8k2ue | {
"description": "kicking my gf's roommate out of her room",
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} | AITA for kicking my gf’s roommate out of her room | This has been bugging me for awhile and I want to know peoples opinions on it. I’m currently in a long distance relationship. I see my gf about every six weeks give or take. When we see each other it’s usually by way of me flying out to see her and staying in her dorm room.
After not seeing each other for over a mont... | HISTORICAL | {
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7Trc9be4nw1KkkqNGxJASSBM33JZDUFm | b4dwd6 | {
"description": "quitting my job with no notice",
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} | WIBTA for quitting my job with no notice? | I've been at this job for a few months. It was okay for a bit, just a job. Regular schedule, regular hours, decent pay for the amount of work. I can't say I was too super happy with it just due to the nature of the work but it wasn't anything awful. However lately it's gotten so fucked. My schedule has been changed ... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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IfoUyVTrvxyyC1Ar5OsdECeLjDaOOXhM | awgatw | {
"description": "being angry at a person for not referring my resume to a internship within my career field",
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} | AITA for being angry at a person for not referring my resume to a internship within my career field | So a couple of days ago, one of the staff at a UX program I had graduated from reached out to me about a internship at this company because they thought I was a good fit for it. She gave me the email address of a person that could refer me for the position and deadline to send in the resume and cover letter. Now I am a... | HISTORICAL | {
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X97ZJJSJ0ubhTbvi38PoRjRfJe565r2w | a60qts | {
"description": "disliking my family",
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} | AITA for disliking my family? | I'm Indian, and my parents are the stereotypical Asian parents: never satisfied with anything I do, restrictive, controlling, etc. However, if I need anything, reasonably speaking, they'll try to get it for me.
This all came to a head a year and a half ago, when I was choosing where to go to college. I was picking bet... | HISTORICAL | {
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lIsMDt5k0zYwkGNGFvdt64dopUACi2WL | auxk2l | {
"description": "applying for food stamps when I'm not dying of starvation",
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} | AITA if I apply for food stamps when I’m not dying of starvation? | I live paycheck to paycheck and some nights I go hungry but I have a roof over my head and my college is paid for. It’s just rough getting by working part time and going to school, I make barely enough to survive.
I’m considering going on food stamps but I really don’t think I’m struggling enough. I don’t want to be a... | HISTORICAL | {
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vL2xUodx54hFfJWrMEnKCYOelaqGH0WY | ax9c9e | {
"description": "asking the parents of someone who owes me a lot of money to pay their kids debt so they dont get sued with huge court costs",
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} | WIBTA if i asked the parents of someone who owes me a lot of money to pay their kids debt so they dont get sued with huge court costs? | I loaned what I thought was a friend $1500 because her dream dog became available for sale and clearly she stated, in writing she would pay me back a certain amount per fortnight. This hasn't happened.
It's now clear she's ignoring me, the "won't even open your message while I'm constantly online on Facebook," no res... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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56vKsHrCwnxsqMWU03ATxbNIit1s7q7n | aqhj8x | {
"description": "not buying birthday presents",
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} | AITA Not buying birthday presents | I don't buy anyone in my family (immediate and extended) or friends a present on their birthday. I always make sure I see them or call on their birthday and if we go out make sure to pay for meal/drinks/whatever.
I just don't see the big deal in buying someone something they probably don't really need or want just fo... | HISTORICAL | {
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2z6L3FM4Attk5mV3VFa0aLunRXEMzNqB | a6k8ls | {
"description": "not wanting to be more involved with my boyfriend's friends",
"pronormative_score": 4,
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} | AITA For not wanting to be more involved with my boyfriend's friends? | Hey, AITA. I recently got called an asshole and I'm wondering if it's true.
My boyfriend and I (together a year) like to play games online together, a lot of times MMOs. One of his friends, we'll call them Alex, tags along with us. Usually invited, sometimes not, but my boyfriend doesn't care if they tag along across ... | HISTORICAL | {
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BFZF0QZswLAoJcZERNVG1nvdK7PRZvUB | b54ndn | {
"description": "not wanting my bf to pay for his friend's vacation",
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} | AITA for not wanting my bf to pay for his friend's vacation? | My bf wanted to go to Berlin with his friends, but one of them is too poor to afford it. My bf just offered him that he would pay for the flight (he has quite a lot of money to spare). I told him I think he shouldn't pay, why spend his money like that, he might just as well throw it in the trash. He never even paid hol... | HISTORICAL | {
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ZmKdbChc2JDaaFyKySBZvBu41rNyqcZx | a1c3q9 | {
"description": "holding onto things my partner has said",
"pronormative_score": 4,
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} | AITA for holding onto things my partner has said? | Alright so a bit of backstory. My fiance and I went through some rough patches a little while ago, and my frustration levels were high. He has this problem with not thinking about how another person could interpret his words, so sometimes he'll say something REALLY offensive and genuinely not mean it that way. I've lea... | HISTORICAL | {
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HMeHWl2qJqKwgJiUq4zU1FfGUdikOoAG | auirsc | {
"description": "breaking up with a girl because she wouldn't talk to me",
"pronormative_score": 11,
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} | AITA for breaking up with a girl because she wouldn’t talk to me | Hoo boy, I don’t really know where to start with my history with this chick. I guess I’ll just contextualize the story by saying we’ve dated on and off a couple times for the past year.
A couple months ago me and my ex broke it off for the second time. It seemed pretty final, it took a lot of time and energy but I fin... | HISTORICAL | {
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G2QzXO3I57SuHxBpGvUnPwFp4dLkZyh6 | a8k89d | {
"description": "not wanting to propose to my gf on Christmas Day or her birthday",
"pronormative_score": 8,
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} | AITA for not wanting to propose to my GF on Christmas Day or her Birthday? | We've been together for nearly two years, and I will propose one day but I'm in no hurry. We're also saving a deposit for a house so at the moment, a ring and a wedding isn't an expense we need.
However, her family, my friend and our friends keep pressuring me into doing so. Saying that it's perfect time to do so, it... | HISTORICAL | {
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KZitS8d73aPYwUWLfgvJHT5H444fGKkv | a5b3w7 | {
"description": "not wanting to be friends with someone who refuses to get tested for sti's",
"pronormative_score": 2,
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} | AITA for not wanting to be friends with someone who refuses to get tested for sti's? | I've been friends with said person for over a decade, and while we were both young and reckless at one point, I've gradually grown out of the hook up culture and settled down, and have always tested myself periodically and used protection. She, on the other hand, has always and still refuses, to this day, to get any so... | HISTORICAL | {
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6ThVlahClFpYtbNPQRD1GzCijesjnwOl | a1ejky | {
"description": "not liking anime while all my roommates love it",
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} | AITA for not liking anime while all my roommates love it | 5 guys live in the house and 4 of them love anime. I’m the 5th that does not enjoy it one bit. I always walk home and it’s on and I just laugh and walk into my room. Problem is my room is right next to the living where all the anime is watched. I don’t ask them to turn it off, just turn it down. AITA? | HISTORICAL | {
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569nHc9RZ5xqBleUZYsdL2zXBrgzrRhh | ay64oc | {
"description": "playing explicit music for kids",
"pronormative_score": 4,
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} | WIBTA If I play explicit music for kids? | I gave birth to my first child a day after my birthday.
Instead of having a traditional baby one year old party for my daughter (who won't care cause she is a toddler and will still get cake) I am having a joint birthday party for her and me.
I have invited all my famy and friends and made it clear that it's for bot... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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4feUW5V3Pz1XY9Bws3K42ydGYXHnkbXR | b72n3f | {
"description": "cutting an oblivious and phone obsessed family in queue at Disney World",
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} | AITA for cutting an oblivious and phone obsessed family in queue at Disney World? | Long story short, this family of 4 was in front of us for a ride that had a 85 minute queue.
Every time the line stopped they would sit down and bury their faces in their phones and be completely oblivious.
This was not a single file line (Orlando, Soarin for those familiar). Shoulder to shoulder probably 5 adult m... | HISTORICAL | {
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Y63Zi9hbEMFtIcRxfXUDsl1oFYJThkX2 | 9xy4ei | {
"description": "being upset",
"pronormative_score": 1,
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} | AITA for being upset? | I have been long distance with my girlfriend for two years(the long distance part being a little over a year) and its been , a long distance relationship, but i have managed to call her every night even when she was 3 hours away. and that really meant a lot to me. the being able to say goodnight every night.
she has a... | HISTORICAL | {
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5PwU8h72V6a0yna29Vu7Y1H8RqBnN2dm | 9v1tfv | {
"description": "not trusting my girlfriend",
"pronormative_score": 6,
"contranormative_score": 3
} | AITA, for not trusting my girlfriend? | Reasons for not trusting her:
- we often agree that if I do something for her (that is greatly out of my comfort zone) she would do something for me. Everytime we agreed on something, I did my part, but when she was supposed to return the favour, she "forgot" and when I reminded her, she said she doesn't feel like do... | HISTORICAL | {
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UtkVWNOR0aVjrjLISrTfBqeLdy0QmmrS | b27ftb | {
"description": "calling out my mom",
"pronormative_score": 5,
"contranormative_score": 1
} | AITA for calling out my mom? | First you guys need a quick recap story.
My mom had an large gamble edition for about 5 years ago. She is over it now, but put her and my dad in big debt.
I got my self a job around 4 years ago and ever since they they have bin borrowing money from me when my salary comes along. They usually borrow around 250-375$ g... | HISTORICAL | {
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