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{ "description": "getting mad at a girl for pulling my hat off on a date", "pronormative_score": 26, "contranormative_score": 15 }
AITA For getting mad at a girl for pulling my hat off on a date.
Hey guys I met this girl on tinder and we have gone out twice before our third date. Things where going pretty good and we where getting along well until our third date. We where eating outside at a restaurant and she leans out of no where and asks why I'm always wearing a hat and pulls it off without asking. I wasn't ...
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{ "description": "giving ultimatums", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for giving ultimatums?
Typing this on my phone, so I’m sorry about formatting. My SO and I love each other very much and although it doesn’t bother me too much, have a sort of dynamic I wouldn’t mind changing. We don’t really joke and play around the way other couples do (giving each other the business every now and then, calling names and...
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{ "description": "going out of my way to tell this girl that shes being cheated on", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I went out of my way to tell this girl that shes being cheated on.
Ill spare the details. I do not know this couple, they are a friend of a friends. All I know is that they are engaged and the guy has been cheating on his girl with one of my close friends and allegedly multiple other women. On one hand I feel like since I know nothing about these people I should stay out of their busi...
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{ "description": "repeatedly borrowing money from my mother", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for repeatedly borrowing money from my mother?
First off, I know the title immediately makes it sound like I’m an asshole, but let me explain. The job I have now is terrible, and 99% of my money goes to bills. I am still living with my father and his wife because I have absolutely no money left over to be able to move out. (I pay a third of all the bills at my dad’...
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{ "description": "exposing my ex to other girls", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 8 }
WIBTA if I exposed my ex to other girls
Back story: my ex and I broke up in December but since this is our last semester before we leave school for good there was no point in renting out a whole new place for three months. We began a weird relationship after the break up where we still have sex , help each other out and even got a puppy together. But all wit...
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{ "description": "laughing at my dying abusive father whilst a part of my family condemn me for it", "pronormative_score": 25, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA By laughing at my dying abusive father whilst a part of my family condemn me for it?
I say are "We the Assholes" because it was me, my brother and my mother. Im feel sort of bad but not at the same time, Probably because the hospital called us to ask if we were going to go back to look after him. Well earlier in the day, We had information that my Father was on his last legs and cancer was sure to de...
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{ "description": "dumping a girl I met online because she looked... ugly", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for dumping a girl I met online because she looked... ugly?
Quick backstory. I was 15 or 16 and this would be my first relationship ever. It was exciting, it was exhilarating, I’ve seldom talked to girls in my life before this and she would be the highlight of my day. It was such a new and wonderful feeling, talking to a girl who probably liked you back. She lived a few towns a...
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{ "description": "confronting a close friend about her unresponsiveness", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I confronted a close friend about her unresponsiveness?
My friend(18f) and I(17f) have been very close for 4-5 years, both of us have, at times, been the other's only friend. I moved a few years back and we barely see eachother irl, so our main mode of communication is snapchat, texting, instagram, and phone calls. We share a lot of stuff, and over the past year or so we mo...
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{ "description": "not tripping a delivery guy who called me an asshole under his breath", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not tripping a delivery guy who called me an asshole under his breath?
Ordered pizza for a night in with my son. The pizza guy shows up and starts pounding on my door, which freaks my dog out. In the midst of trying to wrangle my dog and my 3yr old, I only manage to grab $25 out of my wallet (the check was $24) as I only have cash on me. I step outside and grab the pizza and the drinks, a...
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{ "description": "hating my brother", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for hating my brother
My brother is in his early 30s (I’m in my early 20s) and my whole entire life he has made my parents lives hell, all the while he thinks that he is the one who is being targeted. He got sent to rehab when he was finished with high school, and has since become addicted to weed (you may think that’s not possible but he c...
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{ "description": "announcing my pregnancy on April 1st", "pronormative_score": 30, "contranormative_score": 12 }
WIBTA if I announce my pregnancy on April 1st?
I am pregnant and would like to announce it on April 1st, making the post look like my younger sister is playing a joke on me until the afternoon when I clear it up and say that I'm really pregnant (and the April fool is tricking people into believing she 'hacked me). My younger sister loves this idea, thinks it's hil...
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{ "description": "not being entirely open to rekindling a friendship after getting dropped with no contact", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not being entirely open to rekindling a friendship after getting dropped with no contact?
Conflicted about this one, mostly because another mutual friend sees no issue and is happy to be reconnecting. ​ I've had a friend who'd been close for years. They've got a tendency to go a bit quiet when stressed, but this most recent time it was massively abrupt. I was helping set them up with a new job ...
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{ "description": "not wanting to wait for my friend to get off work to go to the gym", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to wait for my friend to get off work to go to the gym?
I typically get off around 4 and I like to go straight to the gym to get it over with so I can come home and do homework and eat and whatever. She doesn’t get off work till around 5 and I have to wait for her to come home and get ready and we don’t usually get to the gym till like 530ish. I hate getting off work and wa...
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{ "description": "ending a relationship because it was getting toxic", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA I ended a relationship because it was getting toxic
I was in a relationship which was getting extremely toxic, we broke up many times for short periods of times and go back together because it felt right; to be with her - as much is it hurt me with her not showing interest until she needed i thought the positives outweighed the negatives, but unfortunately it was the ot...
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{ "description": "backing out of a plan with my girlfriend", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for backing out of a plan with my girlfriend
My (24m) gf (26f) has a college ball/formal next weekend, which we are attending. The original plan (which has been since September) had been for me to go to where she’s in college, about 2.5 hours away, on Friday night and stay until the Sunday, with the formal on the Saturday night. My local rugby team that I play ...
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{ "description": "telling my ex's new gf that we were sleeping together the entire time they were getting back together", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA to tell my ex's new gf that we were sleeping together the entire time they were getting back together?
The backstory is kind of complicated but I'll try to simplify. Me and my ex were together 4 years and broke up for two, in which time he moved across the country to California for a job and ended up dating someone else for a year and a half. Some time in the middle of last year, he calls me and tells me he's coming bac...
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{ "description": "reporting this person online to the police", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA if I report this person online to the police?
Hey, I just finished messaging this girl online. I initially sent her a like and message on OKCupid. Filtered to hookup I said “Hey, interested in a hookup since I saw you looking?” She said to message her on kik. We talk and she’s asking for donations for something school related and we could do “What adults do be...
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{ "description": "not wanting to meet my 'son'", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA for not wanting to meet my 'son'?
Hi there, throwaway account for those who are wondering. My friends know of my account and I don't want them to know about this very personal issue of mine. About three years ago (February 2015), I received multiple calls from someone (who I was unaware) who claimed that they were my son. I, being a single widower, la...
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{ "description": "not wanting to cover/swap shifts with coworkers who are 'sick' with period pain", "pronormative_score": 73, "contranormative_score": 103 }
AITA for not wanting to cover/swap shifts with coworkers who are ‘sick’ with period pain
I’m a girl and I work in a pretty laid back restaurant. The majority of our staff are also women. The environment is generally pretty chill and we’ve all become decent friends. We’re all happy to help each other out by swapping shifts/covering them if anyone is ever sick or busy etc. Get ready for TMI. Personally, ...
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{ "description": "asking my roommate if his gf could show up later in the week", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for asking my roommate if his gf could show up later in the week?
**Context:** My roommate and I live in a 2 bed, 1 bath apartment, split bills 50-50. *Every* weekend, my roommate and his girlfriend spent the whole weekend together (Friday noon - Monday morning) for the past two semesters, but because of work schedules, she’s at our place about 3 out of 4 times. They don't do much: m...
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{ "description": "telling my husband and his friends that they're not funny and their jokes were disgusting", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 51 }
AITA for telling my husband and his friends that they're not funny and their jokes were disgusting?
Apparently everyone who knows me in real life thinks I overreacted. Looking for some outside opinions. ​ So husband and I were over at his parents for Christmas. The day after Christmas he has a tradition of going for a morning hike with his childhood best friends and their respected SOs/wives. In the pas...
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{ "description": "asking out my crush", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA If I ask out my crush
Some backstory. I'm in high school and recently mustered up the courage to ask out a girl I've liked for a couple months, but haven't yet. Last night I asked a mutual friend if the girl I like was dating anyone and the first response was "Go for it!!" Soon after I was told that minutes earlier she started talking to an...
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{ "description": "calling in sick 20 min before my shift at my first job", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for calling in sick 20 min before my shift at my first job?
For some context I'm a 15 year old and got my first job about a week ago. Today at school I started feeling like complete shit but I couldn't call them as I was in class. As soon as I got off school I called in to let them know. 5 minutes later they let me know I was let off. When I called they were very passive aggres...
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{ "description": "not wanting to be close to my family", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to be close to my family?
I come from a very typical Asian family. I have been going to college far away for the past few years and I chose to go far away to get away from my family’s toxic behavior. When I was very little, one of my sisters passed away and my family took it very hard. We never went to therapy for it, so I’m assuming that the...
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{ "description": "not including my sisyer in my gift givng", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not including my sisyer in my gift givng?
Let me begin with the I'm on mobile stuff and some preface: I'm 15, the sister in question ( now known as I) is 13. I have 3 other sisters: E, 11; D, 28; and T, 31. Me and I are not very close but me and E are. My parents are split up and have been since 2013. I never walks either dog, does chores, feeds the pets (2 do...
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{ "description": "saying to my sister that I was an incel", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 27 }
AITA for saying to my sister that I was an incel?
So I (22M), used to be an incel. Operate word: USED TO BE. I stopped a year ago. I no longer have a case of woman-hating disease. Now my sister (25M) is a staunch feminist so obviously, it was more horrifying to her when she found out I was an incel (I told her). However she also can't seem to take a joke. Anyway ...
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{ "description": "putting up a present from another guy in my room", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for putting up a present from another guy in my room?
Background: Boyfriend and I (25M,F) have been together for a decade +. Being kids at the time and complete idiots, we broke up about 3 years into the relationship. I was single for a few months and happened to grow close with a male friend of mine during this time. We got along absolutely great and, pretty soon ended u...
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{ "description": "not reacting well to my friend being pregnant for the the 3rd time and still lives on state aid", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not reacting well to my friend being pregnant for the the 3rd time and still lives on state aid?
Ok we have been friends for 6 years now. She had troubles getting pregnant and just had her first baby 1.5 years ago.. she just gave birth to the baby she got pregnant with when her first was 5 months well her baby now is prob about 3 or 4 months and shes pregnant again. She refuses to use birth control she SWEARS she ...
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{ "description": "demanding my ex pay owed money at a time where she needed it a lot more than me", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for demanding my ex pay owed money at a time where she needed it a lot more than me?
Long story. Strap in kids, there’ll be a TL;DR and cookies at the end of the post. Backstory: me and my ex were together nearly 10 years, I’m currently 25, she’s 24. It was a long distance relationship for ages, which culminated in me simply up and emigrating to be with her. She broke up with me 4 months after I did. ...
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{ "description": "sabotaging my team while playing football/basketball in gym class for never \"allowing\" me to be a striker", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 5 }
WIBTA for sabotaging my team while playing football/basketball in gym class for never "allowing" Me to be a striker?
Sorry for the bad english. In gym class, we play a lot of basketball, and association football. In the last 4 years, i was always ordered to be a defender and if i asked them to "allow" Me to be a striker i was ignored/told that i was lame/not good enough, and my team mates never passed the ball to me. Even if they di...
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{ "description": "not acknowledging a girl who rejected me", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for not acknowledging a girl who rejected me
So, in high school, I asked a girl to Homecoming. She said yes, and we went together with her friends/dates. However, all of us had a horrible experience mainly because I was interested in her romantically and she was interested in me solely as a friend. She became aware that I wanted more when I paid for her dinner th...
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{ "description": "asking my boyfriend to return my Valentine's day gift", "pronormative_score": 22, "contranormative_score": 17 }
AITA for asking my boyfriend to return my Valentine's day gift?
We've been dating and living together for two years, both in our 20s. We exchanged our gifts last night and he gave me an expensive perfume. It wasn't my favorite smell but I didn't think it smelled awful either. I don't have any other perfumes so it's actually a very nice gesture. I know he spent a long time picking i...
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{ "description": "asking my dad's girlfriend to leave while my grandad was dying", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for asking my dad’s girlfriend to leave while my grandad was dying
**This is a repost because I needed to add more info** My grandad was in the hospital and a ton of family/friends had been in and out. My dad’s girlfriend was constantly there, even when my dad was at work or off doing something. I was there too. I’ll call her Betty. Betty had helped my grandad out a lot with grocery ...
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{ "description": "not letting my brother in law stay with us", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not letting my brother in law stay with us?
So long story short, my wife and I have had troubles being roommates with her siblings before. There's always drama, awkwardness with asking for money, property destruction in some cases. We've been on our own for 3 years now in our new home and our lives have been amazing compared to the tough years past. Her brother...
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{ "description": "not letting girlfriend drink on new years", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA not letting girlfriend drink on New Years?
My (m24) girlfriend (f26) wants to drink mimosas for new years and she hasn't drank for almost two years because she she was starting to become alcoholic. I'm considering her have a few drinks on new years. She would get faded get into fights with our roommates, broke out our living room window, called cops and lie...
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{ "description": "thinking my teacher is incompetent", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For Thinking My Teacher Is Incompetent?
I took a math test, and we have to do corrections after. After receiving the test, I realized that my teacher had made a mistake on one of the questions. Apparently it was a question that many people had gotten wrong. So, I got a 91%, but since my mom is really strict about grades, I had to do math problems for a while...
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{ "description": "getting upset about shared photos", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for getting upset about shared photos
This is probably ridiculous to most, so prepare for overreaction drama! :) ​ Relevant backstory: I'm not a fan of being in pictures and absolutely do not want any to appear online. It's easy stopping myself, but less so other people - hence, I almost never agree to being in a picture and will usually eit...
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{ "description": "not tipping for food I ordered for pickup at Denny's", "pronormative_score": 15, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not tipping for food I ordered for pickup at Denny's?
Out of town on business. Dennys is near my hotel I am staying at so I called in an order of food and came in to pick it up to bring back to my room. The waiter who was helping me stood over me while I was paying and after I pressed "No Tip" on the card machine he very sarcastically told me "Oh great, I hope you really ...
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{ "description": "rting my ex-roomie's mail rather than forwarding it", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I RTS my ex-roomie's mail rather than forwarded it?
When my old roomie moved out after living together for 5 years I said I would forward her mail for her. Nine months have passed and I've noticed that my ex-roomie continuously gets mail from the same places and hasn't bothered to change the address as we are still forwarding the same mail (eg bank, DMV etc) which I bel...
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{ "description": "telling my coworker about how his partner cheated on me, though it was months in the past", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA for telling my coworker about how his partner cheated on me, though it was months in the past?
Here is a situation I never thought I'd find myself in. I am on crossroads. What better way than random internet strangers give me advice? This girl PC is visiting my city for six months. We meet on Tinder. We have a fling. Everything casual, none of us looking for anything more. She claims she is single. She goes bac...
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{ "description": "accusing my daughter's teacher of racism and getting her fired", "pronormative_score": 291, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for accusing my daughter’s teacher of racism and getting her fired.
My daughter is 9 and just started going to a new school in January because we moved. It is a public school in an urban city which is quite multicultural. She is half-Chinese and half-white. Although she is part Chinese, not many people can notice. Some have thought that she is Italian or Greek or even Irish for some re...
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{ "description": "complying with my friend's request and defending myself against a stranger", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for complying with my friend's request and defending myself against a stranger?
So to simplify a lot of back story, my SO has been going to this bar in our city for over a decade. I've been dating my SO about 2 years. We both know the owners and bartenders and regulars and were even at the house of one of the bartenders for superbowl Sunday. Everything has always been pretty good. Today we were d...
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{ "description": "not paying the rent", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for not paying the rent.
Hi there, I'm French so it might be a bit difficult to understand everything I say. So, with just the title I bet you're thinking I'm an asshole but wait a bit please. My girlfriend of 5 years and I broke two weeks ago. We were living in a city where she is currently studying at the uni and I was studying on my own f...
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{ "description": "ending my relationship", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA if I end my relationship?
TLDR: live-in girlfriend of almost two years ghosted me on my 40th birthday. ​ The story: I came home from work Thursday night ready to kick off a three day celebration of my 40th birthday (that Friday). My GF, who is prone to up and downs, highs and lows, starts unloading a pile of worries and burdens o...
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{ "description": "asking my friends to pay for their part of my birthday", "pronormative_score": 14, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA If I asked my friends to pay for their part of my birthday
So it’s my 16th birthday February, and me and my friends were planning on going to the cinema and then out for a meal afterwards. I calculated the cost of bus tickets, cinema tickets and the meal, and it came to around £30-£35. As I’ve never planned anything like this before, I am unsure if I am meant to pay for all of...
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{ "description": "not wanting to bring my family together", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to bring my family together?
For starters I dont use reddit very much so I'm sorry if I'm a bit out of the loop on things. I also apologize because this story is LONG. Before we begin this story, I'll tell you about the main people: Me- a 20 y/o guy who is basically the mediator between my grandmother and my mother since I'm the "good kid" Old...
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{ "description": "giving my little brother my school notes", "pronormative_score": 29, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for giving my little brother my school notes?
Next year my younger brother will be taking an honors English class with the same teacher I had 2 years ago. The curriculum remains the same every year and every class reads the same books every year and they write the same essays every year. Knowing this I gave my brother all of my notes for the class to help him out....
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{ "description": "refusing to deliver a package that was delivered to us when our neighbor was out", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for refusing to deliver a package that was delivered to us when our neighbor was out?
Actually it has gotten to the point where I just refuse to accept packages for them anymore... I work from home so all couriers bring packages to us when our neighbors are out. Happy to do it, much more convenient than having to collect from the depot or risk being damaged or stolen. All our neighbors collect the pa...
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{ "description": "wanting my parents to sell me a car they're buying", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for wanting my parents to sell me a car they're buying.
I couldn't really think of a better title than what it currently is, but it will make sense when i get into the story. So i'm a high school student in my senior year, I take the bus to school everyday, and won't turn 18 for another few months. So long as i pass my driver's test tomorrow, i will have my license. Even th...
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AITA Girlfriend wants to 'take a break'
My ex-wife and I have had various conflicts on and off ever since we split. Stuff that adults should easily work through, but she makes things unnecessarily difficult and withdrawals when we don't agree. Ex told my daughter 'her side' of the divorce and disputes, causing problems between my daughter and I. Ex has a...
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{ "description": "not changing my views for the relationship", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for not changing my views for the relationship?
Hello. My recent ex and I aren’t longer seeing each other due to many differences in opinion. I wasn't willing to change my perspective and neither was she, which accumulated at once I suppose. I was her supervisor’s boss in a medium technology firm for about a year, and we hit it off in a business trip. I knew she wa...
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{ "description": "cussing out a friend", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for cussing out a friend?
This one's a bit confusing, but I'll try my best to explain it all. ​ There's this guy who we'll call T. T and I have been really good friends for around 3 years now. Over those years we've had some complications, but we got over those and remained good friends. Here's where it gets slightly complicated - ...
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{ "description": "only using tinder for validation", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for only using Tinder for validation?
So I recently downloaded Tinder and have been getting a considerable amount of matches (~3 a day). At first, I would message all of them and try to have a conversation even though I knew there wasn't much of a chance of meeting up (I am a college student without a car). Recently however I stopped messaging anyone all t...
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{ "description": "thinking my spouse is over reacting", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for thinking my spouse is over reacting?
For reference this has happened before with us and I assured my spouse that I wasn’t trying to do anything. So my spouse was using the computer and one of my social media’s was open, my spouse check the messages and saw that I was talking (about 3 messages of nothing essentially) and asked me later on if I was in fact ...
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{ "description": "not giving my class the answer for the homework", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA for not giving my class the answer for the homework?
Second semester of college, statistics class. This is the second assigment and it is due tommorrow and is do’able in one day The class consists of about 12 students and we are all some kind of friends, and i am the kind of the class nerd, (not that much) but about 10 of the 12 students are similar to me So for th...
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{ "description": "feeling resentment towards my so", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for feeling resentment towards my SO?
Because this shits been eating me up So my GF and I are best friends. We love each other, have fun, spend time together often and don’t tend to keep much from each other. I’ve been having difficulties with her depression though. Now, I damn well knew what I was signing up for because she basically told me she has depr...
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{ "description": "not paying my abusive parents back money I owe them", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 4 }
WIBTA for not paying my abusive parents back money I owe them?
## WIBTA for not paying my abusive parents back money I owe them? 📷 I feel like I might be the asshole but genuinely want others opinions bc I'm struggling with this decision. On one hand I think you should always honor your word but on the other hand I really don't want to speak with my parents, and also am struggl...
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{ "description": "getting upset with my fiancé's parents for being overly accommodating", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for getting upset with my fiancé’s parents for being overly accommodating?
36M who recently proposed to my girlfriend (33F). We are in town for the holidays visiting her parents who have been very generous to let us stay in their vacation home an hour by car outside of town. There’s a train that goes into town but most days fiancé’s parents will drive us back and forth into town. Some nights ...
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{ "description": "saying we should split up because my 1 year girlfriend doesn't want a threesome", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for saying we should split up because my 1 year girlfriend doesn't want a threesome?
So, I met my girlfriend a bout 16 months ago. When we first got together it was super casual, and I we were talking about having a threesome, but it never happened. After a few months we started getting more serious and she got upset when I brought up the threesome thing again. She said she didn't want to do it in Russ...
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{ "description": "not understanding my girlfriends reaction during a conversation about our valentines plans", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not understanding my girlfriends reaction during a conversation about our valentines plans?
Title doesn't quite describe the full story. So a bit of background. I'm 25 and gf is 30. Been together seven months. We've had our arguments but we've grown because of some of them and to me she is like no other. A week ago she left her wallet on a train, subsequently got it back later that night but cancelled all h...
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{ "description": "working at an internship this summer", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA for working at an internship this summer.
There are lots of small details so hear me out. Last summer I was given a great opportunity by an ex girlfriend to work at an internship where her mother has a high position. I worked a long side my ex. We since broke up and tried to remain friends. I then met my current girlfriend, while still remaining friends with...
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{ "description": "leaving a party early because I thought it would be inconvenient to my parent if I waited", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for leaving a party early because I thought it would be inconvenient to my parent if I waited?
Ok, for context. I’m a high school senior taking the IB diploma(essentially all advanced classes) and the IB coordinator hosts an annual sushi party for the IB DP seniors to celebrate being done with our big projects. I brought a cake to contribute since it’s very quick to make and I’ve been complimented on it before(t...
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{ "description": "getting mad at my boyfriend for not wanting to hang out with my family", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for getting mad at my boyfriend for not wanting to hang out with my family?
My boyfriend [M25] and I [F22] have been together for a little over a year now and he always tries to flake last minute when it has anything to do with hanging out with my family. I would let him know a couple days in advanced and he would agree to do so but when the day comes, he tries to find an excuse not to go. He ...
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{ "description": "leading on my friend", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for leading on my friend?
It's gonna be a long one, but I really don't know how to feel about this and need some perspective. Tl;dr at the bottom. So a little introduction. I'm suffering from depression, and am taking medication for the past couple of months. I am dealing with the situation, and function better, but am not well yet. I'm ...
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{ "description": "taking a joke to far", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA by taking a joke to far?
So, I made a response to this post in malicious compliance. In the post towards the beginning they explicitly wrote, "English is my forth language, so just go over any mistakes." If it weren't for the fact that we were on malicious compliance, I would have glossed over that, but because of the subreddit, I went over e...
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{ "description": "not waking my partner up", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not waking my partner up?
This is such a trivial non-issue that I feel shame over it giving me as much difficulty as it does. My partner is a deep sleeper. This means that she tends to sleep through my alarms. I usually avoid waking her up for at least a half-hour in the morning after I wake up. This is partially due to some past trauma with ...
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{ "description": "avoiding my cousin because she has autism", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for avoiding my cousin because she has autism?
My cousins mother has really bad autism which clearly passed down to her daughter. My cousin was diagnosed with autism maybe a month or so ago. I started avoiding her because the autism really shows. She focuses on one thing for ages.eg- once she here’s the word poo she talks non stop about it for half an hour even aft...
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{ "description": "not wanting to know about my brother's sex life? NSFW", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to know about my brother's sex life? NSFW
My best friend is dating my brother and she talks about their sex life despite me expressing that it makes me very uncomfortable. She doesn't do it as often as she used to but she will occasionally talk about the things they do in the bedroom. She gets frustrated when I get upset because my other sister is perfectly fi...
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{ "description": "refusing to tell my bf about my n count", "pronormative_score": 19, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for refusing to tell my bf about my n count?
We (30F, 30M) have been together for sic months. one day, he asks the question: "How many men have you slept with?" My answer was " A lady does not kiss and tell". I told him I do not share that kind of info out of principle. I believe one has the right to personal intimacy that should not be violated at any cost. H...
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{ "description": "ghosting a friend group after bridesmaid selections", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for ghosting a friend group after bridesmaid selections?
I’ve always had trouble making friends (long story short, childhood neglect and lack of proper socialization). I’ve improved a lot, but still struggle really connecting with people sometimes. I do have a few close friends, but unfortunately all but one have moved away for some fantastic career advancement opportunities...
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{ "description": "telling a mother that maybe her teenage son needs to toughen up", "pronormative_score": 58, "contranormative_score": 73 }
AITA for telling a mother that maybe her teenage son needs to toughen up?
Earlier in the week the mother of one of my son’s classmates came over to discuss a problem between our boys. I guess my son has been telling her son that he stinks, is gross, and so on. I told her I would talk to my son about it and we exchanged numbers in case there were any other problems. I talked to my son an...
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{ "description": "blowing up at a girl because she cracked my phone", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 9 }
AITA for blowing up at a girl because she cracked my phone.
Obligatory, I am on mobile, sorry for mistakes. I am literally typing on the phone that she broke. So today during lunch at school, this girl comes up to me and my friend, and over and over again is being hella annoying and messing with my friend who was just sitting there listening to music. She kept screaming in h...
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{ "description": "spending time alone while visiting family", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for spending time alone while visiting family?
I’ll preface this with, I’m an introvert. I sometimes seem like you like extrovert because I’m extremely friendly and love talking to people. Unless I tell people they would never guess I’m introverted. No matter how much I like the people around me I need time by myself. It gets tiring and I want to curl up with a puz...
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{ "description": "telling a friend that his friend was secretly harassing him", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for telling a friend that his friend was secretly harassing him?
One of my friends in college was mad that our other friend wasn't spending enough time with him. He decided to create a fake identity that he used to harass our friend with extremely personal insults. He let me in on it because he assumed that I had his back. Instead, I told our friend about it in front of him. He ac...
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{ "description": "expecting to share finances - including debt - after marriage", "pronormative_score": 21, "contranormative_score": 11 }
AITA for expecting to share finances - including debt - after marriage?
TL;DR - I have about $50k in student loan debt after 3 degrees while my SO’s parents paid for his education 100%. He wants me to keep paying for it out of a separate checking account after we get married. My boyfriend and I are looking to get engaged later this year. We’re trying to be responsible and have all of The...
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{ "description": "not wanting to pay for my mother", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 10 }
AITA for not wanting to pay for my mother
i was raised by a single mother. i still saw my dad every weekend. my dad comes from a wealthy family, my mum comes from a poor one. ​ growing up money was inconsistent. i went to a private school which my dad paid for. i would often go skiing and dad would pay for it. but there were also times where there...
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{ "description": "complaining about a fellow student to our course leader", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for complaining about a fellow student to our course leader?
So a bit of context. I'm currently studying chemical engineering in the UK. For those of you who don't know, we're given loans by the government. This includes our tuition fees plus a maintenance fee that they give based on home financial situations. We don't see the tuition fee, it goes straight to the universities, h...
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{ "description": "calling out a girl's wedding request", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 17 }
AITA for calling out a girl's wedding request
I was invited to the wedding of a girl I was friends with in high school. We've drifted apart in the last few years and we only talk occasionally. I've never met her fiancé. I was flattered she decided to invite me. However, in her wedding invite was a flyer that said, "Instead of gifts, please donate to one of these ...
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{ "description": "not wanting to be the only person who talks to my grandfather", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to be the only person who talks to my grandfather?
Hi all. I live away from my family and see them roughly every couple of months. My grandfather used to be relatively well for someone of his age. In the last couple of years hearing issues have started to set in; this makes having a conversation hard. He doesn’t always wear a hearing aid. A lot of conversations with ...
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{ "description": "taking my sometimes snappy dog to get groomed", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I take my sometimes snappy dog to get groomed?
My english pointer is people friendly and dog friendly. However, he was feral for a period of time before I got him and developed a few bad traits. Mostly its when he's sleeping you cannot wake him up by touch or he will growl and snap at you. He does not attack, but just defends himself until he realizes whats going o...
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{ "description": "using cancer in an argument", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 8 }
AITA for using cancer in an argument
So i was out drinking with friends and having a good time at the pub when some random brexit thing came on the TV and got them all going. I lie pretty much dead centre and most my mates lean pretty far to the left (we've taken those political compass tests so i'm not pulling this out of my ass). I started rolling my ey...
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{ "description": "telling my MIL I wouldn't make my husband's doctor appts", "pronormative_score": 31, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for telling my MIL I wouldn’t make my husband’s doctor appts?
My husband isn’t always great about going to the doctor regularly and his mom recently said to me, “You need to make sure he goes to the doctor, pineapplesounds. His health is too important!” And I said, “He’s a grown man. He can make his own appointments and he does when he needs to. His health is his responsibility.”...
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{ "description": "asking couple to pay \"fair share\"", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for asking couple to pay "fair share"?
I rent a home with another friend of mine. Two other occupants are leaving and getting off the lease. Another couple is set to take their place but I'm not sure who's being unfair here. The couple (of course) would be taking the master bedroom. It's approximately twice the size of the other two rooms. The rent comes ou...
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{ "description": "missing the morning madness", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA - Missing the morning madness
Ok some background, my wife and I both work full-time and have a 4 year old daughter. The wife works about 8 miles away and I work about 30 miles away. If I'm out the door by 6am, it takes me 35 minutes to get to work & I can then leave around 3pm and home in about 35 minutes. If I leave home any later than 7am the...
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{ "description": "being annoyed my partner only points out negative shit about me and never compliments me", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for being annoyed my partner only points out negative shit about me and never compliments me?
For example, I got a Brazilian wax last month. He never commented on how smooth or nice it felt. I even was like mmmm I like how soft my vagina is and he looks at me awkwardly and says nothing. Three weeks later he was like wow, did you shave recently because it looks stubbly like it’s growing back in? I was like what ...
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{ "description": "responding late in the group chat", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for responding late in the group chat?
So on Saturday a friend texted in our group chat made for everyone in a specific class. We're a pretty small group, so the chat isn't particularly active outside of class days and is largely memes/teasing/asking about homework etc. The friend asked if anyone would be attending a month or two away upcoming event relate...
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{ "description": "leaving my friend group", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for leaving my friend group?
I (17M) was apart of a friend group (5 people (also 17M) including myself) for about a year and a half, when recently I started to lose interest. The things we did weren’t as fun and hanging out with them wasn’t what it used to be. I started to talk to them less, and eventually stopped communicating entirely. They al...
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{ "description": "wanting to beat up a kid for not showing up to a project meeting", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA for wanting to beat up a kid for not showing up to a project meeting?
Ok. Second time posting here dont feel like explaining background on me again. Ok so basically in Writing Class we have to write and stage a play to record and present to the class. This kid has a history of not doing his work and kept up that trend for this project as well. We ended up writing the script without him. ...
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{ "description": "not fully understanding the demands of medical school and being upset I did not get more attention during my cancer treatment from my ex which lead to a break up", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not fully understanding the demands of medical school and being upset I did not get more attention during my cancer treatment from my ex which lead to a break up?
Tldr at the bottom. My ex and I started dating about a year ago. She broke up with me about six weeks ago after an argument we had. We were best friends and she started living with me and working with me a couple weeks before we called it official. She had been accepted to med school a few days before she started w...
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{ "description": "yelling at someone loudly doing weighted squats in the gym", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 33 }
AITA for yelling at someone loudly doing weighted squats in the gym?????
I was at the local gym and was really pumped to try a new workout routine I read about. It was about 5:45pm on a Tuesday, so the place was packed with after-work crowds getting in a workout before dinner. I was working on a quick circuit with a treadmill, some free weights, and a bench. I notice a pretty jacked dude ge...
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{ "description": "wanting to Hangout with my best friend's Ex Boyfriend", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for Wanting to Hangout With My Best Friend’s Ex Boyfriend?
Now before y’all jump to assumptions, I’m a lesbian. So I’m in no way trying to hook up with her ex. This is my first year at my new highschool. Prior to dating, both of them were in my classes but we never really talked. My best friend (who I’ll call Amanda) complimented me a lot in the beginning of the year. I later...
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{ "description": "favoring one sister over the other", "pronormative_score": 18, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for favoring one sister over the other?
Molly (21) and I (23) have never really gotten along, even as kids. As an adult, she's just kinda an entitled brat. Molly gets upset when the tiniest of things aren't exactly how she likes it. Like, she pitched such a fit about the tiniest of hard water spots on glasses at one point that my parents just switched to usi...
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{ "description": "leaving the dinner table early", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for leaving the dinner table early?
So I finish dinner and my parents asks me to stay. They say I should respect everyone at the table so even when ur done, you have to stay. I mean, I don’t really talk much at dinner so as my family. I try to explain to them that I’ve got more important stuff to do like homework, etc. My brother agrees but AITA?
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{ "description": "being mad at my friend", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for being mad at my friend?
A few months ago, when I started highschool I dated this girl (I'm gonna call her S) for a few months. In that time, I learned some very private information about her. Flash forward two months and I started getting close with a friend (she is A) and told her some of that information. After a while, S found out and I fe...
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AITA? Apparently being a teenager is bad
So theres been some conflict between me and my parents, and im scared that i might be wrong Theres been several incidents, but this one happened recently: so we sat down to eat and they pulled up a bad job application for someone who applied at their work, and started saying all kinds of stuff about how millenials are...
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{ "description": "embarrassing my classmate during a presentation wich resulted in him being suspended from our school", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA I embarrassed my classmate during a presentation wich resulted in him being suspended from our school.
In my school we were going to do a presentation about English grammar and it's meaning etc. They selected groups of two randomly so you could come with anyone in the class. I have very good grades in English but unfortunately i was selected to be with one of the worst students in the class (let's call him Chad). Chad d...
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{ "description": "sending my group a fake report", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA for sending my group a fake report
This was a few years ago. I signed up to take an ethics class to satisfying an elective for my major, but this particular class was a requirement for students in the field it covered. I was one of a few students in the class without any sort of background info for that field, so I went into feeling unprepared (I shoul...
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{ "description": "telling my girlfriend Im not interested in our relationship because of lack of sex", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for telling my girlfriend im not interested in our relationship because of lack of sex?
Long story short we are in a relationship for 2 years and we didn't have sex even once. We tried multiple times obviously but it's impossible. She feels enormous amount of pain when we try to do it (im her first boyfriend). We talked about it many many times, she said she's about to do something with it, like go to gyn...
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{ "description": "wanting to turn down a full ride to go to Stanford", "pronormative_score": 17, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for wanting to turn down a full ride to go to Stanford?
So, the two notable things about me is 1) I'm good at baseball and 2) I'm good at programming. My goal in life is to be a Silicon Valley entrepreneur. And of course, Stanford is like Ground Zero of all that: the location (in California), the CS program, the connections, the weather, all great. So of course it's my drea...
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{ "description": "not wanting to visit my crazy aunt on thanksgiving", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to visit my crazy aunt on thanksgiving?
The rest of my family wants to go visit her in the hospital (she lost some toes because she refused to go to the doctor (she didn't trust him, wanted herbal medicine instead) for an infection.) I really dont want to listen to her ramble about pseudoscience, her complaining in nicegirl fashion about her exes, her yellin...
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