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{ "description": "wanting to reach out to my grandmother who disowned my family and removed us from her will", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting to reach out to my grandmother who disowned my family and removed us from her Will?
My dad broke his back in 1997 and and had 12 spinal surgeries in total. He began abusing his pills to better relieve himself of his pain in 2008 and was taking up to 20 oxy, and 10 percs a day just to cope. My grandmother (his mom) cut him out of the family. My dad was always high, and his brain was fuckin fried. He b...
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{ "description": "breaking up with my girlfriend for being dangerously obsessed with BTS", "pronormative_score": 21, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for breaking up with my girlfriend for being dangerously obsessed with BTS?
I (16M) was dating a girl (16F) for a long while (about a year and a half) when she started to get into BTS, and it took over her life. She only talked about BTS anymore, she only posted and followed people on twitter that also liked BTS, it was all she would listen to, she spent all of her money on their merch, and st...
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{ "description": "refusing to put a strangers toddler on my shoulders at the zoo", "pronormative_score": 81, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For refusing to put a strangers toddler on my shoulders at the zoo?
Im 6'8. Very tall by most people standards. I get a lot of looks in public, the occasional joke. Some more enthusiastic strangers will call me big guy. But I have never been asked to be ridden around (by a stranger) before until this weekend. I went to the zoo with my visting cousin and her husband, plus my sister an...
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{ "description": "correcting my brother on Nietzsche", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 8 }
AITA for correcting my brother on Nietzsche?
I have a PhD in Philosophy, and my little brother Liam (19) is trying to read Nietzsche for the first time, never having taken a Philosophy class. He picked "Beyond Good and Evil," which I would probably not have recommended for a first-time reader, but he seems to be enjoying it. However, whenever Liam talks about som...
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{ "description": "leaving my ex-friend without telling him why", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for leaving my ex-friend without telling him why?
I know the title makes me sound like a jerk but hear me out (also I do think I was being kind of a jerk). Around the seventh grade I met this kid in my History class. We talked and at first I thought he was a pretty cool dude to hang out with. He was nice to me, never really made fun of me unlike almost everyone else ...
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{ "description": "not wanting to go overseas for my cousins wedding when they flew over here for my wedding", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 8 }
AITA for not wanting to go overseas for my cousins wedding when they flew over here for my wedding?
Long story short my cousins are from Italy and the whole family flew over here to Australia for my wedding last year. Now the cousins wedding is in July and I am expected to go. Honestly I don’t want to go overseas just because of the wedding and especially that I’ll have to take time off work which means I won’t b...
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{ "description": "breaking up my best friends relationship", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for breaking up my best friends relationship
Obligatory throwaway account for obvious reasons So this happend a little while back, my best friend let's just call him A was in a successful relationship (or so i thought at the time) with this girl we'll just call J why is this important? Well because we're highschoolers and unfortunately with the hookup culture in...
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{ "description": "not wanting to sacrifice my Easter holidays to take care of our kitten", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for not wanting to sacrifice my Easter holidays to take care of our kitten.
Around 5 days ago we discovered that a cat with her litter had moved in to our garage. Unfortunately she decided that one of the four kitten was to weak and didn’t give her enough milk to stay alive, so we took her inside our house and have been feeding, cleaning etc. She is gaining weight everyday and doing really wel...
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{ "description": "asking my wife who was putting our son down for a nap to check and see if I had something in my eye after pulling a larger piece of wood out of it", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for asking my wife who was putting our son down for a nap to check and see if I had something in my eye after pulling a larger piece of wood out of it?
I was weedwacking an area next to our house and wearing safety glasses, but something got past it and went into my eye. I pulled something out of the corner of it and it still felt like something was in there. I washed it with eyewash and still felt something. I then went upstairs to ask my wife quietly and ended up wa...
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{ "description": "showing disrespect and hostility toward my autistic roommate", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 8 }
AITA for showing disrespect and hostility toward my autistic roommate?
I live in an apartment off campus at a university. I was assigned a random roommate for my 2-bedroom place 7 months ago, and am halfway through the lease. I was randomly assigned a roommate, whom I contacted about 2 weeks prior to moving in. When I texted him the conversation was seemingly good, and he informed...
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{ "description": "not telling my wife that her brother relapsed before his death", "pronormative_score": 55, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA For not telling my wife that her brother relapsed before his death?
Been bothering me for a long time now. Discussed this with other anons who think im terrible, others who think im doing the right thing. My brother in law was killed in November in a mugging. Just suckerpunched and stomped to death before getting his shit stolen. He had almost no money to his name. My BIL was a heroi...
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{ "description": "refusing to vacuum around my desk", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 2 }
Aita for refusing to vacuum around my desk?
We got new carpet at work a few weeks ago and I suggested we hire cleaners fortnightly to vacuum them so they would get trashed by the abrasive dust people boot in. The manager did not go for this. Then recently the office manager (that I suggested the cleaners to) vacuumed their and their boss' offices and when she ...
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{ "description": "telling my single, female neighbor not to ask me for help anymore", "pronormative_score": 67, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for telling my single, female neighbor not to ask me for help anymore?
So Im 30 years old and I have been renting a house for 6 years with my wife and we have 3 kids, a 2 and 3 year old and 1 month old. I’m a self employed fabricator/welder and work about 6 days a week, all day long. I also am a professional handy man and do all sorts of skilled labor. I have a registered business and lea...
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{ "description": "wanting my dad to pay rent", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for wanting my dad to pay rent?
\*\*Sorry for how long this ended up being. I appreciate anyone who gets through the whole thing. \*\* Several years ago, I moved from OR to FL to take care of my father. He was a recent widow and fell into a deep depression that he would not acknowledge. His home could have easily been on Hoarders and he drank hi...
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{ "description": "being fed up with one of my friends", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being fed up with one of my friends?
I'll just cut to the chase here. So my friend group and I are all going to an aircraft mechanic school and all of us except one live together. One of them (let's call him E) thinks he's funny. He constantly makes jokes about my weight or my looks or the fact that I'm "smart"(I know, stupid). I've made a point to tel...
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AITA for this situation with my roommate?
My roommate and I share a very small room. He goes to bed at 10 pm more or less, while I use to study at night and usually go to bed around 3 am. He has a very light sleep and wakes up whenever I enter the room, even if I do my best not to make any noise. If I have to use my phone in bed, even with the lowest bright...
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{ "description": "making a Facebook post telling parents not to buy their kids live animals as presents", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA if I make a Facebook post telling parents not to buy their kids live animals as presents?
Hello all, so with Christmas fast approaching I’m expecting the usual round of well meaning parents to buy their kids a pet as a Christmas gift. A little background on me, I’m an animal lover and I own several exotic pets. I wouldn’t call myself an expert but I have a decent amount of experience with the animals I own....
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{ "description": "not caring about strangers' religious leanings", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not caring about strangers' religious leanings?
Me and my other half were watching Masterchef the other day and there was a lady with religious headwear on (apparently it was religious although this was never mentioned.) GF asked me what the lady was cooking and I said 'I think she has chosen the pork'. Cue other half calling me 'insensitive as she's clearly a Musli...
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AITA Dog hit by car
AITA? Our dog was hit by a car an hour ago. I am still in a daze. My mother told me not to take him out, as she already took him out. I took him out anyways, because he used the bathroom every time we went outside. He was trained to stay by our side all the time, but he saw a German Shepherd and ran towards him and was...
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{ "description": "blocking my ex-girlfriend from social media, even though we have nothing against each other atm", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if i block my ex-girlfriend from social media, even though we have nothing against each other atm
I was in a bit abusive relationship, she would always look through my phone and look at my messages and find something to be mad about. Even when we were not together she would look at my instagram, see who liked my pictures, see who followed me, see who i followed etc.. i always felt watched and judged all the time. S...
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{ "description": "not immediately telling online contacts I'm a woman", "pronormative_score": 58, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not immediately telling online contacts I'm a woman?
I'm 21 year old gal and play video games with voice chat, I'm in related discord servers etc etc. I'm also blessed/cursed with a voice that can easily be mistaken for a young boy and joke when asked the Professor Oak. I come clean to newer people if asked but never mention it unless related. I've considered myself a to...
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{ "description": "not taking the kids to school", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for not taking the kids to school
Mon-Wed I WFH, I drive kids and wife to work, then come home and start work. I skip lunch so I can then later collect kids and wife at the end of the day. Wife is off this week and on Sunday night asked if I can take the kids to school so she can have a lie in. I expressed how I felt this was unfair and reminded her I ...
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{ "description": "making an already stressful situation for him worse by breaking up with him", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for making an already stressful situation for him worse by breaking up with him?
Here’s a little background: we’ve been doing long distance since I met him on vacation in Europe (I’m in the US) a few months ago. Since meeting, we both have already taken turns visiting each other— I came to him around the holidays, he came after the new year— and everything was great. We made tons of amazing memorie...
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{ "description": "telling my friend that she shouldn't get a tattoo", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for telling my friend that she shouldn't get a tattoo?
I just got kinda blindsided today by my friend offhandedly mentioning in front of me, my friends and my Jewish roommate (who had to leave the room) that she plans to get a swastika tattoo. She claims that because it originally meant "good luck" or something, that makes it ok for her to get it as a tattoo. We all starte...
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{ "description": "losing it in my husband this weekend", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for losing it in my husband this weekend?
My apologies ahead of time for the incredible length and possible bad formatting, as I’m mobile. Some context: This weekend (evening of 1/25-1/27), my husband’s parents came to town to visit us and my husband’s brother & fiancé (both boys live within 10min of each other, a fact that will be covered in “Additional ...
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{ "description": "putting someones stuff in a lost and finding", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA If I put someones stuff in a lost and found?
Okay so some context real quick, this stuff is not lost. So in my schools locker room everyone is given a locker and a lock and told to put there stuff in their locker. As the year has gone by people have been losing their locks (somehow) and the whole "use your own locker" thing has been losing popularity. When I wen...
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{ "description": "tracing over and re-coloring art", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for tracing over and re-coloring art?
Am I the asshole if I take someone else's art they made and traced, re-colored it for my own personal use as a profile pic? I don't claim to own it and if asked I say who the original author is.
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{ "description": "rejecting a 'friendship'", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for rejecting a ‘friendship’
Throwaway as my friends know my real Reddit account. So a couple weeks ago, I started dating this girl who I had a crush on for 2 years. She is considered to be part of the “popular” clique and is pretty integrated in it. I, however, have my own group of friends who are not connected in any way with the other group. ...
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{ "description": "not asking my best friend to pay me back", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not asking my best friend to pay me back?
Dumb question but my best friend for about 6 years now has a really bad habit of not paying me back right away or “forgetting”. I don’t really care about like 5 or 10 dollars but like when it’s more like 20 or above he seems to not ever mention it again. The main reason I bring this up is because 2017 Comic-Con we w...
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{ "description": "not helping my siblings clean the kitchen after work", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for not helping my siblings clean the kitchen after work
I have a part time job in fast food and normally work from 4:30 till 8 now when ever i get home at about 8:30 the kitchens almost definitely a big mess cause im in a large family of 9 and its always left for me and my two younger siblings 13 and 15 but they always get pissed cause i dont help out with cleaning up all t...
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{ "description": "wanting to leave my mentally unstable husband", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for wanting to leave my mentally unstable husband?
I could use a throwaway account but I don’t really care at this point. So here goes. My husband has severe mental health struggles including borderline personality disorder, ptsd, depression, and anxiety. These are all formal diagnoses. I’m not a saint, and I’ve had my fair share of fuck ups and I also struggle with d...
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{ "description": "being more direct and asking other tenets after feeling ignored about my living situation next year", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA For being more direct and asking other tenets after feeling ignored about my living situation next year?
I get along with my friend. However, he has a tendency to often forgets to invite me to activities we would both like to do. This makes me question if they really are my friend. So I always ask if they really want to take part in activities. When I bring it up he often says, "oh i will invite you next time" or "my bad...
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{ "description": "kicking my daughter out", "pronormative_score": 92, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for kicking my daughter out?
Search up my post history, I don't care. I'm at the end of my rope, she's at the end of her's and I can't do this anymore. A week ago, my daughter (who lives with me - she is turning 30 soon) and I got into an argument regarding custody over her 3 year old son. We'll call my daughter Annie and her son Tommy. I have cu...
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{ "description": "telling a guy I won't date him", "pronormative_score": 16, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for telling a guy I won't date him?
I'm a college student, nineteen years old when this happened. One day on campus, while waiting for my next class to start, a guy walks up to me. He asks if I know where the professors' offices are located for this building. I do, but it's hard to explain how to find them (there's a small staircase that's easy to miss a...
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{ "description": "not inviting a friend on a group vacation", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for not inviting a friend on a group vacation
A group of old college friends and I are going on a short vacation by the sea. We purposefully did not tell one of the group because - whilst they're a fine person and a good friend - they're a nightmare to live with. Without going into too much detail, they're very unhygenic and extremely arrogant. If they came, it wo...
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AITA In this conversation asking for emotional support on Facebook messenger
So I've had a whirlwind of emotions the past few hours about this conversation and I am not sure whether or not I am in the wrong here. Some context for this conversation: I had a falling out with a mutual friend of me and my Facebook friend. My final argument between mutual friend and I that resulted in no contact hap...
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{ "description": "not allowing my friends wife into my house and possibly causing her to OD on antidepressants", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not allowing my friends wife into my house and possibly causing her to OD on antidepressants?
Pretty long story, TL;DR at the bottom. Alright, so a bit of backstory before we get to the main event. My friend group consists of about 10 guys, about 5 of us (including me) regularly get together to play D&D every week. One of these friends (we'll call him Bryan) is married and his wife (we'll call her Lexy) wo...
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{ "description": "being terrified of my girlfriend being friends with her ex", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being terrified of my girlfriend being friends with her ex ?
Throwaway account for obvious reasons. Me and my girlfriend have been together for 3 years now. But before I came in, she dated a guy that harassed her and sexually abused her everyday for two years, and when me and her were dating he sent her dic pics at random. Early this year there was a big drama and we told the g...
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{ "description": "defending my homophobic parents", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for defending my homophobic parents
Me and a friend of mine who's still in the closet (he came out to a few of his close friends very recently, he hasn't told his parents yet) were hanging out the other day. At a point in the conversation I mentioned to him that my parents would probably flip out and disown me if I was gay and came out to them. He said ...
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{ "description": "wanting to break up with my girlfriend after finding out she slept with guys in every european city she visited on her euro trip? she previously told me she only slept with 3 guys in her life", "pronormative_score": 17, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for wanting to break up with my girlfriend after finding out she slept with guys in every European city she visited on her Euro Trip? She previously told me she only slept with 3 guys in her life.
Girlfriend and I have been together for a year now. We aren’t living together but have made plans to move in after our leases expire. ​ Her friend Alyssa was over at my apartment with her boyfriend and some other people. I was talking to Alyssa one on one and my girlfriend was in ear shot of us. &#x2...
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AITA bc I don't want to buy a book with gay characters?
So a friend of mine recommended some fantasy books by this author for me (18M) to read. So I look up some details on the author's most popular series (the Broken Earth trilogy) and found that there were many LGBTQ+ characters. This didn't bug me as I have read books with gay characters before such as Rick Riordan's b...
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{ "description": "having a crush on a girl, but I make her uncomfortable", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 11 }
AITA for having a crush on a girl, but i make her uncomfortable?
So, this my first post ever on Reddit, so bear with me. I have a crush on this girl (lets call her Emily) and we are good friends. Me being me, i am creepy in a joking way and tend to stare at her a lot. I never noticed that i was making her uncomfortable until i get a call from a friend. The 15 second convo was basic...
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{ "description": "resenting my parents", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for resenting my parents?
Hey, this post is gonna be a long one and I apologise for the fact that I'm terrible at explaining the things but here I go. Ok, for some background, I'm 15 years old, homeschooled, raised in a devout Catholic family with 3 brothers, a sister, and my Mom and Dad. My life is basically just doing school work, farting a...
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{ "description": "thinking my friend ITA for just dumping all of his online gaming friends", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for thinking my friend ITA for just dumping all of his online gaming friends?
For backstory. We have a small group of maiming friends. We aren’t streamers or anything or really that good, but we all get together for a couple hours most nights after all our kids and wives are in bed. We are all in our 30s except one single guy. We have all been playing games together for about 2-3 years on Xboxon...
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{ "description": "asking for advice", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for asking for advice?
Hi all, I just want to say everyone here can suck it. Today I was looking at different credit card accounts. I was getting overwhelmed with the vast amount of credit cards available so I thought to ask another human. This is where it gets interesting. Earlier my mom told me to wish my brother and his terrible wife a h...
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{ "description": "taking a trip", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for taking a trip?
I (20f) decided to take a week long trip to Los Angeles. I used to live there for about a year and half and hadn’t been there for about 6 months. So I thought why not go for a visit while I still had the time (I start school in the spring) I wanted to drive down there (17 hours) only for the fact that I wanted to retr...
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{ "description": "not wanting to spend time with my niece and nephew", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to spend time with my niece and nephew?
My older sister has a three year old and five year old. At 23 years old, I have no kids and don't plan to until after I get married within the next three years. They are constantly at my parent's house, which is where I am often as well, so I see them plenty. When it comes to doing things with them, I don't feel the ur...
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{ "description": "kicking my roommate out of our dorm at a summer camp", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for kicking my roommate out of our dorm at a summer camp?
So every year I go to a summer camp called So I Chior Camp, and one of the biggest things about this camp is that it's an overnight camp, and of course, we all had roommates. My roommate was a girl that I had been friends with since first grade. And for this year at chior camp, she did the following: Jabbed me, made fu...
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{ "description": "completely ignoring my ex", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for completely ignoring my ex
We only dated for like 2 weeks but she was really weird and I just didn’t like her so I broke up with her. She kept saying how we will be great friends in time and I just told her I don’t want to be friends anymore and I’m sorry. She’s texting me every now and then but I just don’t answer. Am I the asshole?
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{ "description": "not accommodating my friend's finances", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for not accommodating my friend's finances?
I live abroad and haven't seen one of my good friends, let's call her Jay, in about 2 years. I had plans to visit some of my family in a city not so far from Jay, and invited her to come spend a few days with me. I've never been to this city before and was really looking forward to exploring it with her once my family ...
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{ "description": "putting my autistic child into care and then having another child", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 15 }
AITA for putting my autistic child into care and then having another child?
I fell pregnant at 17 and kept the baby because I was quite far along when I realised I was pregnant. Thr father didn’t want to be in his life and my family weren’t supportive. It was really hard but I coped the best I could. When he was around two he suddenly lost all communication skills, started banging his head aga...
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{ "description": "wanting to ban a uni acquaintance from a Discord server", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for wanting to ban a uni acquaintance from a Discord server?
So I've known this university acquaintance for 2.5 years, and we'll just name him *Kane* for simplicity. Kane was invited to my discord server that has 100+ people at the beginning of this year by a friend and at the beginning it was fine, no problems with Kane. Into second half of 2018 and that's when things start to ...
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{ "description": "calling out someone on their nonsense", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for calling out someone on their nonsense?
We're planning a trip. We had the whole thing planned, but before we buy the tickets the price goes up by a fair ammount. So we are deciding if we stick to the plan or see another alternative. One chick says "I have another idea for a destination, but I'll tell you all tomorrow" And I said "Waiting is what got us in ...
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{ "description": "going off on my sil after she assumed I have HIV because I'm gay", "pronormative_score": 36, "contranormative_score": 19 }
AITA for going off on my SIL after she assumed I have HIV because I'm gay?
Throwaway because my husband uses Reddit and I don't want him seeing this. I'm gay and have known my husband for 4 years, been married for 8 months. I'm also a nurse. On my way home I was feeling adventurous so I decided to pop in at my in-laws' to say hello. My sister-in-law and her husband was also there. They...
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{ "description": "refusing couchsurfing service for ugly girls", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for refusing couchsurfing service for ugly girls?
Some time ago my home was quite active in some kind of [couchsurfing](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/CouchSurfing) (I was not official registered member of that community), but I refused ugly girls to use my spot because of them being ugly . I accepted uggies only whent they came with prettier friends
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WIBTA for not hypocritically not sharing test prep materials for the medical school admission test
I'm at a bit of a conundrum. I took the MCAT (medical school admission test) last year and did incredibly well. That isnt a testament to myself but the vast amount of study material and resources I found/made. I have given this to every single friend who is taking it and am happy to help as much as possible. However,...
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{ "description": "not taking care of my sick girlfriend", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 87 }
AITA for not taking care of my sick girlfriend?
So I've had the flu the past few days, and my girlfriend has taken amazing care of me. She has put up with my whining, brought everything Ive needed to me as I have been bedridden, and overall been amazing. I told her she didnt need to, and that she would certainly get sick, but she selflessly took care of me anyway. ...
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{ "description": "being upset with a restaurant's owner (?/f) sending free beers and popsicles to my boyfriend when he order delivery food", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA being upset with a restaurant's owner (?/F) sending free beers and popsicles to my boyfriend when he order delivery food?
Yeah, it's seems nice, but I (22F) think it's not at all. It started when the deliveryman committed a mistake delivering his plate at wrong address, so he complained to her and she said she'll send a courtesy in the next order, and in the next order she sent a beer as said. Ok. In the third order, she sent a beer agai...
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{ "description": "trying to get my roommate to give away her kitten", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for trying to get my roommate to give away her kitten?
So my (22F) roommate (21F) has a kitten that is super energetic, friendly, cute, etc. I have two older cats (1-2 and 2-3 yo). I want her to take her cat back to her mom's house (she lived there before moving in). This is because she is never home and therefore the cat gets put in her room for days at a time without an...
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{ "description": "getting pissed at friends who chose some of their college application essay prompts at random", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 10 }
AITA for getting pissed at friends who chose some of their college application essay prompts at random?
First reddit post, so sorry in advance for any formatting gore/lack of clarity/inappropriate post length. I'm a senior in high school, and college application season is well underway. I was recently told that a friend, we'll call her K, decided when applying to a highly regarded public university system to write essay...
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AITA if someone tells me how to take care of my rabbit?
So, the other day I posted a picture of my rabbit after his bath on r/aww. Someone in the comments told me that rabbits can never have baths because they can die from it. I already knew this and rephrased that I gave him a "rabbit bath" which is basically rubbing them with a warm damp cloth because well... The bottom o...
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{ "description": "wanting clear boundaries", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for wanting clear boundaries?
About 10 years ago I dated a friend of mine and it was a long distance thing, but got along great. She visited, it didn't work out for various reasons. One of which was that I found out she was sleeping around and had lied about quitting several things she said she had and it just broke all trust. I don't think she eve...
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AITA My Dad Uses Death As An Excuse?
So basically within the past year, there has been a lot of deaths in my family. First my grandmother from some organ failure thing, then my mother from lung cancer, and most recently my father's nephew from a drug overdose. We have been starting to fix up the house for the past few months as well and he will never fini...
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{ "description": "being too nice with customers", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being too nice with customers?
So I just started working at a famous Japanese restaurant and since this is my first time working (as in, holding a job position), I try to be extra nice, and I am in a way. If a guest calls into our restaurant, we greet them, make the reservation and then ask if it's for a birthday or an anniversary. If one says it'...
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{ "description": "stream sniping someone who posted their twitch link in my game", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for stream sniping someone who posted their twitch link in my game
I was playing Blackout and someone posted their twitch in chat. So I did what he probably wanted people to do and went to his stream. He dropped the same place where I dropped, which was directly under where the helicopters spawn. We land, I pick up a sniper and I watch his stream on my second monitor. I think in my b...
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{ "description": "moving to slowly at the gym", "pronormative_score": 25, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for moving to slowly at the gym?
Earlier this week, I finished my run on the treadmill, and really pushed myself to finish my 5k walk/run faster than ever before. (Under 30 minutes this time around! I know not great, but it’s a personal record for me!) I was exhausted, but was still feeling motivated to do some weight training afterwards. I go to th...
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{ "description": "not loaning my brother money for his car anymore", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not loaning my brother money for his car anymore?
Going to try writing my first post as objectively as possible.Please bear with me. Some back story: My brother is in his last year of University and has vehemently wanted to own a car for reasons that are pretty legit but I may not agree with. Some of the bigger reasons are how public transports are wasting his time(t...
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{ "description": "hitting my brother with a Beanie", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For Hitting My Brother With a Beanie?
My brother has been consistently giving my dog little smacks across the face with things that he grabs that belong to my brother. My dog grabs things to present them to people not to tear them up or ruin them and my brother knows this. Tonight my dog grabbed his beanie and my brother told my mom to smack him with it. I...
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{ "description": "wanting my best friend of nine years to move out December 1st to DC or California", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA, I want my best friend of nine years to move out December 1st to DC or California
I am having some moral quandaries about this and decided to turn to reddit to let you judge my feelings. My best friend of nine years (met In high school) has recently moved across the country to the east coast. She had a job lined up in DC, but wanted to visit me for "ten days maximum" before going down to DC. Withi...
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{ "description": "hating my Ex and his new boyfriend", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For Hating My Ex And His new Boyfriend.
So, this is a long story, but I'll try to keep it showed. Now my ex and I are apart since a week now. Our relationship didn't work out. He's been pondering whether we should stay together or so for a week. It really destroyed me because I loved him so much. Now at that time I had a friend to which I used to talk as d...
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{ "description": "arguing with my girl about this I love her but when I found out bout this I was kinda felt weird", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 27 }
AITA for arguing with my girl about this I love her but when I found out bout this I was kinda felt weird
So recently I’ve found out that my girlfriend who I’ve seen dating for 5 years had a train ran on her before back in high school like she let 2 guys fuck her the same time. And ever since I’ve told her about it our relationship going downhill. In my opinion I can’t respect a girl who had a train ran on her. Am I the as...
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{ "description": "refusing to rub my boyfriends feet", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for refusing to rub my boyfriends feet?
I got all my wisdom teeth pulled today. He had to work 8am-8pm; so he had a long shift and I had been sleeping all day. He brings me home ice cream and makes me a milkshake with it. Very nice of him. So when he puts his feet in my lap and says that his feet need to be rubbed, AITA for being upset that he would even as...
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{ "description": "not wanting to engage with my roommate who annoys me to no end", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA if I don't want to engage with my roommate who annoys me to no end?
I would call myself a closeted asshole, but I try really hard to not hurt other people. Basically, I have two roommates. We all share one dorm room. Roommate 1, A is a really good friend of mine. Roommate 2, B and I aren't as good of friends, but we have been pretty civil towards each other and have never lashed out a...
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{ "description": "not wanting to \"Exchange Money\" with my Sister-in-law and her husband", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITAH for not wanting to “Exchange Money” with my Sister-in-law and her husband?
A little background... My wife’s sister is a couple years younger than her. She was in college when my wife and I met, and since then, I’ve only known her as being obsessed with image: Physically, socially, what clothes she wears (brand, in style, etc...). If that’s your jam, ok. She ended up marrying a guy who has th...
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{ "description": "leaving my girlfriend to wait for her train for an hour", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA for leaving my girlfriend to wait for her train for an hour?
Girlfriend’s train came at 6:40 AM @ Toronto’s Union Station (arguably the busiest part of Toronto), we arrived there at 5:40. I said I would kiss her goodbye right outside as I didn’t want to get caught in rush hour traffic back home (I live in the suburbs north of Toronto). Huge fight ensues where she occurs me of ...
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{ "description": "taking my coworkers Lakers tickets", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for taking my coworkers Lakers tickets? (that is essentially what happened but obviously more to the story).
I will try to keep this short... I work in a cubicle farm. My latest cube mate is this guy "Dave" who I just don't get along with at all. He's not a bad guy, we just have a lot of friction due to strict deadlines, not a lot of personal space and matching schedules. I am technically one level above him but I don't dire...
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{ "description": "not posting or commenting on social media posts about my so", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA when I don’t post or comment on social media posts about my SO?
So this has been going on for a little bit, and I just wanted some other opinions. My girlfriend (18f) is one of those Instagram/Snapchat people, she is always using it and showing me stuff on there, and that’s completely fine. She posts a fair amount has almost 2.5k followers, and now a lot of her posts are about her...
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{ "description": "arguing with my wife over a mattress, and in conjunction obligations to family", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for arguing with my wife over a mattress, and in conjunction obligations to family?
Usual disclaimers, really long, mobile formatting yadda yadda. Sorry, there's more backstory to this than the title would suggest. My wife and I have been married for 3+ years, together for 9.5. We 'officially' cohabitated about 6mo into our relationship when her lease came up. At that time, we made the choice to bu...
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AITA: Best friend yells at me— I’m upset
First of all, sorry that is typed out on mobile. I’m pretty new to this platform but.. I really needed to get this out. I’m a high schooler, and I have had a best friend Z who I’ve known since 1st grade. Z is a lovely person most of the time. But they can be really moody and have a tendency to consider themselves on...
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{ "description": "needing the toilet all the time", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for needing the toilet all the time?
I’m a 20 year old female and unfortunately have IBS (Irritable Bowel Syndrome). It’s a chronic condition affecting the digestive system with no known cure. As a result, I often have painful cramps, diarrhoea, back pain, and a frequent need to pee. I understand how annoying it must be to go out with me. Planning trips...
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{ "description": "not adding tip for carryout orders", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA if I do not add tip for carryout orders?
DISCLAIMER: I always tip at least 15% to servers/waiters/waitresses/bartenders/delivery drivers/etc if a service that delivers or brings food to your table is provided. I know their income depends on a smaller rate + tips, so that being said... I never really understood when some stores and places with a carryout orde...
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{ "description": "slapping my brother's face in front of his friends", "pronormative_score": 21, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for slapping my brother's face in front of his friends?
Background: i'm 20 and my brother 15 (since i dont know how it is around the globe, the legal age is 18 here). He have a need to prove himself to his friends, like a normal teenager but more extremely. He doesn' tolerate anything he would see as "less than the best in anything" around his friends, going as far as stea...
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{ "description": "hating my girlfriend's career choice", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for hating my (29M) girlfriend's (29F) career choice? (Or lack thereof)
I've been dating this girl for just 6 months or so and I’m having a hard time accepting her career choice, she is a preschool teacher. I know preschool teachers are greatly undervalued, and I’m part of the problem in that respect as I feel like they’re glorified babysitters. Before I get shredded by preschool teachers...
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{ "description": "telling my friend to give away his dog", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for telling my friend to give away his dog
Me and my friend where in his backyard when his dog walked up to him and sniffed him. The first thing he did was kick it! I got annoyed because the dog just wanted a pet. I started to tell him not to kick his dog and he told me he hates it so it’s fine and that it’s just a dog so who cares. He also told me that is how ...
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{ "description": "trying to stretch out my legs on an airplane", "pronormative_score": 56, "contranormative_score": 35 }
AITA for trying to stretch out my legs on an airplane?
I was on a 14 hour flight recently sitting in coach. I am a tall guy and my legs are long and generally flying on airplanes is an overall extremely uncomfortable experience. I try to book seats with extra leg room on long flights to such as exit seats or front row seats but there were none available when I was booking ...
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{ "description": "brutally motivating my gf's friend", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 21 }
AITA for brutally motivating my gf's friend?
A bit of context: My gf's friend who I will call,, Dia,, is really obese,normally I wouldn't mind it but she became my friend aswell and it's gotten to the point where it's life threating. I tried convincing her to keep a diet or come exercise with us (me and my gf go to the gym around 3 times a week), she kept sayin...
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{ "description": "telling my roommate that just because his family member died doesn't give him the right to be a dick", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 13 }
AITA for telling my roommate that just because his family member died doesn't give him the right to be a dick?
Ok so theres little bit of a background information that you should know so sorry in advance for the long post. We have been living together for 2 years now and for the most part he kept to himself with his girlfriend. He would mostly stay in his room with her and they would do there own thing and smoke pot in house( ...
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{ "description": "telling my friend I was removing myself from our friendship", "pronormative_score": 29, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for telling my friend I was removing myself from our friendship
I’ve had this friend I met online about 9 years ago. We clicked immediately and became friends. We were not overly far apart (half a days drive) and for many years I’ve considered her my best friend. Recently, her marriage has totally fallen apart - her husband was always awful, she just finally got the courage to le...
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{ "description": "being hurt that my girlfriend (accidentally) made plans on the day that I move to her city", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being hurt that my girlfriend (accidentally) made plans on the day that i move to her city?
Obligatory backstory: I absolutely love this girl. I can easily see myself marrying hey some day. For almost a year we've been doing long distance and talked everyday about how I wish I was there with her. Fast forward I'm making it happen. Sold car, informed work, leaving family, driving 500+ miles to move my life so ...
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{ "description": "flying without my gf because she doesn't have a valid Id", "pronormative_score": 21, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for flying without my GF because she doesn’t have a valid ID?
My gf has an expired ID and explains she can’t get one due to a green card/birth certificate issue. When we travel, she explains she has an expired ID and they still let her fly, albeit with extra search of her person and bags. Due to this, I always press for us to get to the airport two hours early in case they take a...
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WIBTA if my wife and I gave our cats away to live Philippines?
My wife and I have been in a dilemma of whether or not we should give our three cats away to live in the Philippines, my wife's home country. We've been wanting to for a while but are unable to because either 1. its too dangerous to fly pets overseas like that and we don't want to put them through that and 2. most airl...
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{ "description": "not wanting to surround myself with people who show signs of depression", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to surround myself with people who show signs of depression?
For the past year, I have been doing really well in terms of pulling myself out of a long term depression. I have been creating better relationships with my family, found closure where needed, feel accomplished with certain tasks at work, and have pushed myself physically to a point of health that I thought impossible ...
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{ "description": "getting frustrated with my sick boyfriend's constant bad mood", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for getting frustrated with my sick boyfriend’s constant bad mood?
So my bf and I have been together for about a month now (so it’s all very new) and more than two weeks ago he suddenly experienced super bad back pain to the point of not really being able to move. Over the span of the following weeks it was okay sometimes (we were able to go out together, he was kind of active) but it...
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{ "description": "watching porn", "pronormative_score": 107, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for watching porn?
For context, when my girlfriend of 3 months and I started dating she made it very clear to me and told me she wasn’t the kind of person to take nudes and send them to people (fear of them leaking). I’ve respected this boundary she set to this day and never so much as joked about her sending me a nude picture. About a...
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{ "description": "being cautious of my best friend's girlfriend", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being cautious of my best friend's girlfriend
My BF is 13 (so am I) and his girlfriend is 15 nearly 16 and really rich. When he started being with her, she was still with her boyfriend. She says how she's 'too pretty for him' and she should leave him. She also lives in America (he lives in UK) and could easily cheat. What really gets me is that they've decided tha...
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{ "description": "lying about my addiction", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 8 }
AITA for lying about my addiction?
3rd aita post of the week sorry fellas, a lots been going on, and this subreddit really seems to help me..anyways, onto the story. so i live with my boyfriend, have been since may 2018. before i moved in, i started smoking juul (i know im so rad right?) anyway, i developed an addiction to nicotine, a severe addiction....
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{ "description": "wanting my boyfriend to quit drinking while I'm pregnant", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for wanting my [29F] boyfriend [28M] to quit drinking while I’m pregnant?
I found out 2 weeks ago that I’m having a baby (yay!) and stopped smoking/drinking the moment I found out. I have expressed to my boyfriend several times that it’s hard to be around him when he’s drinking, and have asked for a little bit of support for the next few months. He says there’s no reason he should give up dr...
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{ "description": "only giving my boyfriend anal for our 3 year anniversary", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA For only giving my boyfriend anal for our 3 year anniversary?
He's never had anal before and swears it's an amazing gift but I just kinda feel bad. I wanted to get him something more but he is really hard to shop for. I already know he's getting me a real gift so I just can't shake the feeling.
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AITA my friend always smokes my weed and eats my munch
My friend always comes over and smokes my stash and eats my munch after. I'm very generous with it. I share with everyone and anyone who wants. He has contributed to the munch one time buying mac and cheese for everyone. He has been doing this for 3 weeks now. After a week or 2 i started dropping subtle hints, recommen...
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{ "description": "not caring about the girl me and my boyfriend are going to have a threesome with", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 19 }
AITA for not caring about the girl me and my boyfriend are going to have a threesome with?
So when me and my boyfriend got together he had this friend, I’ll call her Stacy. He and Stacy have never met in person, they started talking through Instagram and had been FaceTiming and texting since I met him. For him she’s just a cool person to talk to, but not someone he could see himself. When me and him got to...
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