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{ "description": "telling someone I'm not interested after they criticized my kissing style on the second date", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for telling someone I’m not interested after they criticized my kissing style on the second date?
Hear me out, the title seems like like I’m seeking validation but I’m really wondering if I’m being too sensitive or egotistical for ending things after I was criticized. Because constructive criticism can definitely be a good thing! I’ve [22, F] been texting this person [M, 24] on and off for a year. We met on Tinde...
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{ "description": "being seriously ticked off my upstairs neighbor won't stop coughing", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being seriously ticked off my upstairs neighbor won't stop coughing?
I moved into a new apartment in August. It's a small building (only 8 units) and I'm on the ground floor. All the apartments are singles and I've only met two of the other tenants in the few months I've lived here. About a week into living here I woke up to the light sound of music. Initially I thought it was video g...
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{ "description": "not wanting my brother to wear make-up in public", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 17 }
AITA for not wanting my brother to wear make-up in public?
Me (25 M) and my family live in a fairly small town. It‘s one of those places where everyone knows everyone and word always spreads fast. Of course that can be annoying sometimes, but oh well. Two years ago my little brother (16 M) came out as gay. Everyone in our family immediately accepted him, but of course that did...
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{ "description": "asking my boyfriend to stop smoking", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for asking my boyfriend to stop smoking?
First time posting, sorry for any formatting or grammar issues. Backstory: I've grown up around smokers my entire life, my grandfather used to smoke a pack a day from youth until the age of 60. My uncles, and aunts were also frequent smokers. When my grandfather turned 70, he developed problems with his lungs, deca...
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{ "description": "bringing presents to everyone but my SIL? I got my brother, two nieces and nephew personalized gifts. I was working on getting my SIL a present but lost employment. I do have a used Apples to Apples card game I could gift her. but it doesnt come with instructions, and is opened. WIBTA", "pronormat...
WIBTA If I bring presents to everyone but my SIL? I got my brother, two nieces and nephew personalized gifts. I was working on getting my SIL a present but lost employment. I do have a used Apples to Apples card game I could gift her. But it doesnt come with instructions, and is opened. WIBTA?
Edit: The majority of the judgement is YTA. Thank you all. I'm really not trying to be the asshole. Trying to brainstorm what I can get her that doesn't scream out "this was last minute so here" or "I just whipped this up, definitely personalized, but not as well put together." She does DIY stuff and branding. Maybe ...
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{ "description": "being pissed at my friend who has been bragging about being high for the past week", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for being pissed at my friend who has been bragging about being high for the past week?
So last weekend my friend was at a party. And without suprise there were drugs and alcohol. Before that party my friend was never high and alway wanted to try it out because he couldn't imagine how the things i told him about it felt. At the party he ate some brownies and was as he told me 'pretty high'. The day afte...
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{ "description": "not tipping at a restaurant because of my debt", "pronormative_score": 15, "contranormative_score": 36 }
WIBTA if I don't tip at a restaurant because of my debt?
From all the stories I have read, it seems as if the silent rule is to always tip. But what if I'm very tight on budget. A university student that wants to get rid of his debt and is still learning to cook. I've heard many stories of how people are still in debt from school after decades have passed, and I strive to ov...
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{ "description": "not wanting to date my transgender best friend", "pronormative_score": 47, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for not wanting to date my transgender best friend?
Burner account for privacy. Sam (not real name) has been my best friend since 3rd grade. We bonded over being semi-outcasts. We weren’t bullied, we were outsiders, introverted and liked nerdy things like anime. We’ve best friend and basically have hung out every day since middle school. We ended up going to the same ...
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{ "description": "possibly betraying both my friends feelings", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for possibly betraying both my friends feelings?
ok a bit of background: we are all highschoolers and both of these people are my best friends. the girl -lets call her sally- started liking the boy -lets call him Tim- about a month back. This was quite a big deal to Sally's friends and I started becoming the mediator between the two, Sally and Tim, most of the things...
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{ "description": "reminding my dad of a shitty thing he said to me", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for reminding my dad of a shitty thing he said to me?
So my dad has suffered with major depression and BPD for quite a while, and a few years ago he had a particularly bad episode. At the time I was 15, and he would often talk to me as a sort of 'therpist'. Around that time I started becoming more independent and isolated myself more from my family - a few years prior how...
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{ "description": "dropping this Guy as a friend", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA For Dropping This Guy As A Friend?
High school senior here. I've been friends with this guy since the eighth grade, and he's always been a little much to handle. He's the only student in the grade younger than me (he's 16, I'm 17) and I used to tell myself that his age was the reason for his attitude, but none of my other friends or people I know in gen...
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{ "description": "not wanting to grant my suicidal mother-in-law's wishes", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to grant my suicidal mother-in-law's wishes?
Throughout my whole relationship with my wife, I've been stuck witnessing countless feuds between her and her dad. My wife's brother is also in the same toxic relationship with the dad. It has come to a point where both my wife and brother-in-law are fed up and have accepted the fact their dad will never change. In tur...
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{ "description": "never telling my wife I cheated on her", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 36 }
AITA for never telling my wife I cheated on her?
Last week was my 30^(th) wedding anniversary.Today I turn 54 and is the first day of retirement for my wife and I. My wife and I met when we were sixteen through friends and started dating shortly after. We were both complete virgins when we met so we learned and experienced everything together. We dated all throughou...
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{ "description": "telling my wife she'd regret not having kids", "pronormative_score": 19, "contranormative_score": 142 }
AITA for telling my wife she'd regret not having kids?
I've (M25) been married to my wife (F23) for a year now and it's the happiest I've ever been. I genuinely feel like she's my soulmate - I've never met anyone who I've felt so connected to. But last week we had our first big fight. Since before we got married she's always said she doesn't want kids. I do, but not enoug...
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{ "description": "defending myself", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for defending myself?
About three years ago I cut out my mother for good. It was necessary and I definitely don't feel like an asshole for that. I have stayed in touch with some relatives. Some of them have brought up how I "should get back in touch" with my mom. Nothing urgent is going on, this has been happening the whole three years....
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WIBTA: Got "invited" to this dungeons and dragons party and I want out
Hey guys, new account on mobile. I've got this dilemma that I'll try my best to explain. So at my High School, I'm a junior, and I know a lot of the people there. Since it's an alternative school, people go there for all sorts of reasons. I go there because of how immunocomprimised I get in the winter (Basically my im...
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{ "description": "being called a cheater, we weren't exclusive", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA Being called a cheater, we weren’t exclusive
For background “Dan” and I met through a mutual friend about a month before we started seeing each other. Dan had expressed interest in me, but I clearly told him I wasn’t looking for anything serious and that I was also seeing someone else, to which he responded that he was okay with that for the time being. I had bee...
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{ "description": "leaving a friend that tells other friends to leave me", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA for leaving a friend that tells other friends to leave me?
So I have a friend, who I get in arguments alot and he basically uses me for codes (Fallout 3, Nintendo Switch Online, ect) but whenever I ask anything for example: I ask for a crisp "Uh, no u/Indianaliam1, piss off" he gets really grouchy when I swear despite him swearing like a sailor, and when we get in any argument...
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{ "description": "being mad at my friend", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being mad at my friend?
I was going through a really depressive state and I was suicidal. He kept telling me to shut up even though I asked for permission before I asked to talk about it. It was really unpleasant. And even after I did shut up about it, he attempted to make me promise I'd never talk about it again. When all that was said and...
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{ "description": "telling a girl she is harming our class atmosphere", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for telling a girl she is harming our class atmosphere (in the class group chat)?
We have a weird class project in our school, every class has a theme and they decorate the class accordingly. It all ends in a school trip where we build a bunch stuff. So today the "manger" for the project said(in the class group chat) that she is dissapointed because a lot of people didn't stay to help decorate on t...
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{ "description": "abruptly quitting a job at a family business", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA if I abruptly quit a job at a family business
So for some context, my uncle owns about 50ish prepaid phone stores. (This isn't really relevant, just giving a full picture) I needed a job, and I needed one fast. He offered me a job and I took it, no questions asked (Regretting that now) for starters, the job is a bit of an incontinent commute. About 35-45 minutes...
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{ "description": "not wanting to share a room with a mentally handicapped person", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not wanting to share a room with a mentally handicapped person?
Back story, I am backpacking in Thailand and staying in a hostel. I am in a 6 bed dorm and there is a family of 4 staying in there one of which is a severely mentally and physically handicapped man. He is always screaming and smells of vomit. I don't know actually what is wrong with him, but I would guess a few things....
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{ "description": "calling out my grandmother for not watching children she insists on bringing in to our house", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for calling out my grandmother for not watching children she insists on bringing in to our house?
Mandatory apology for formatting and spelling because on I’m mobile. Tldr at the bottom The story is basically me and my mother live with my grand parents because we had a bad string of luck a few years back and are having trouble getting back on our feet, my two aunts on the other hand do not and each have children u...
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{ "description": "wanting a prenup", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for wanting a prenup
Sorry for the format, I am using the mobile. So a brief background. My gf (27) and I (28) have been together for 5 years and have talked about marriage more recently. Since than I've been thinking about getting a prenup as a precaution if there is ever a divorce. I don't think we will ever get a divorce but life happe...
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{ "description": "wanting to sell a painting to a higher bidder", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA for wanting to sell a painting to a higher bidder?
Soooo... First time on reddit... My Father in Law, after moving to the UK, left some shite at our house with the instruction to "Get rid of it." There's a painting with depicting two South African politicians, its satirical and what not. He had gotten the painting from the artist in lieu of rent... Ironically.....
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{ "description": "cancelling an employee shift", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for cancelling an employee shift?
Hello reddit, I need some insight in this situation. Some context: I'm the co-owner of a computer/copy center and we are quite popular in the area, we even have 2 locations and so we employ people to cover the shifts we(owners) can't. This week I had lined up Employee (E from now on) to work on sunday morning and he ...
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{ "description": "having sex with drunk girls", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 16 }
AITA for having sex with drunk girls?
I want to start this off saying I've had, and still don't, no problem with people whom I've done this with. Most were known to me for at least few weeks before we've done it, for obvious reasons. Didn't want any regret to turn into ruining of my life. But recently few of my friends have accused me of taking advantage o...
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{ "description": "stoping helping my friend apply for uni", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I stoped helping my friend apply for uni?
My best friend,Ellie, is applying to uni this year. I applied and started uni last year. We are also in the UK. Last year I applied when our school told me , and my year which included her, to apply and was helped by them. I attended uni open days with my family and applied to uni and student finance by myself. Elli...
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{ "description": "talking to a couple women at once but not dating any", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for talking to a couple women at once but not dating any
Title pretty much says it all, I've been taking to a few women as of late and my friend caught word and was pretty heated saying I was leading these women on even though i made my intentions clear from the start. My intentions from the start were to get to know said women and not make any decisions until I figured ou...
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{ "description": "threatning to leave me so", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for threatning to leave me SO
So I am 22M and my SO is 19F. I am for the most part an introverte. I don't often enjoy going out and drinking I hate when people yell and are confrontational. My SO is a very angry drunk whenever she drinks she yells at our friends and I. She gets upset about very petty things and screams at me that I am a terrible BF...
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{ "description": "wanting a new sexual partner", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For wanting a new sexual partner?
I’ve been dating my girlfriend for about a year (both women). She is my first GF and our relationship is incredible. Aside from a few small arguments we’ve had in the past our relationship has been pretty peaceful, except for the one we had a couple nights ago. We were laying in bed when she asked me what I thought abo...
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{ "description": "taking a neighbor's laundry out of the dryer and putting my own in", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for taking a neighbor’s laundry out of the dryer and putting my own in?
I put a load of dirty work clothes I need for tomorrow in my apartment buildings empty washer at 5:15 pm tonight when I got home from work, and came back to move them over half an hour later. When I opened the dryer, I saw another person’s load of laundry and then noticed the other empty clothes basket, so I closed the...
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{ "description": "not passing a turning vehicle", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not passing a turning vehicle?
I'm thinking the other driver is an asshole, but maybe I was actually in the wrong? I was driving on a road at a part where it merges from two lanes into one. I'm in the right lane because I know the left lane ends. I was behind a vehicle that was turning right, I wasn't in a hurry or anything so I just slow down as t...
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{ "description": "not wanting to be the shoulder to cry on", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for not wanting to be the shoulder to cry on?
I have a colleague who rains down every single problem she ever has on me and I hate it. Everyday it's always bitching about something. I've always been nice about it but I really can't keep this on for a while. I guess there's a reason people pay for therapists, because they get paid to listen to their shit.
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{ "description": "jerking off to my classmates insta accounts", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for jerking off to my classmates insta accounts?
I don’t make a point to do it or anything it’s just that the girls at my school are really hot lol. Am I creepy for doing this?
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{ "description": "deciding to ditch a trip with my group of friends", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA that I decided to ditch a trip with my group of friends.
Some backstory: We are a group of university students at our final year, and we planned to have a graduation trip at the end of May. Initially this trip only involves 5 of us. Let's call my friends A, B, C and C's girlfriend, D. It all went well initially as we discussed the places to visit, accommodatios, flight depa...
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{ "description": "not knowing", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not knowing?
Sorry for any spelling/gramma mistakes. I am Not an native speaker. At First some Background: My mother has a server depression for a very Long Time that was Just detected a few years ago. My whole childhood she was very easly angered, got upset about things she thought I said but never did and guilted me for making ...
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{ "description": "wanting to know if my theater teacher always get angry before a show", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for wanting to know if my theater teacher always get angry before a show?
Please excuse spelling I'm on mobile. So first off I would like to let everyone know that I am in a theater program and it was two days before the show starts (it starts on the 29th) and we had beed rehearsing since after lunch until 5:30. Some kids were whispering during the rehearsal and some others were on their ph...
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{ "description": "not telling a friend she's getting fired from work", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA if I don't tell a friend she's getting fired from work?
I want to give you some background so you can get a sense of the relationship I have with my coworker, Mary.. we've gotten really close in the past 2 years and I've come to consider her a friend. When we first started talking she told me she has depression and suicidal tendencies.. I've tried to be there for her, tried...
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{ "description": "engineering my social interactions for effect", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for engineering my social interactions for effect?
I was diagnosed as an adult with autism spectrum disorder and schizoid personality. Schizoid personality basically means that I experience a restricted range of emotions and have what's known as a blunted affect, what emotions I do experience are to a much lesser extent than what is typical. Also, whatever part of the ...
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{ "description": "leading on a guy who I lost interest in after he attempted suicide", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for leading on a guy who I lost interest in after he attempted suicide?
When I was a Sophomore in high school I started talking to a guy who went to middle school with me and we kinda hit off well. After some time has gone by we got closer and he came out and told me about his failing mental health and how he constantly thinks about attempting suicide but can't come to do it. After that he...
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{ "description": "not lending money to my mother", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not lending money to my mother
My mom recently asked me to lend her 1000 dollars again, even though 3 months ago she asked for 1000 dollars. I gave it to her and it took her 3 months to pay all of it back. This time, I lied and I only have 400 dollars (I'm currently a college student) and she got pissed off saying that I was lying. I asked why she n...
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{ "description": "not wanting to accept my parents \"Gift\" anymore", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to accept my parents "Gift" anymore.
So let me just start by giving you guys a little background. I'm currently 20 years old and in my 3rd year of college. Growing up seemed pretty regular with the exception of a very emotional abusive father and stockholmed syndrome mother (Married 32 years). We weren't always really well off on money but my father's bus...
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{ "description": "saying my friends should be worried about our overweight friend if they're going to be worried about me being anorexic", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 31 }
AITA for saying my friends should be worried about our overweight friend if they’re gonna be worried about me being anorexic...
I’ve lost quite a lot of weight in the last 6 months and now my friends are saying they’re really worried and calling me anorexic. We had an argument yesterday because they kept saying I needed to eat and I looked like I was dying. I got really angry and said why are you constantly going on at me when Alexa is overweig...
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AITA have a relationship between friendship and a couple
Have a relationship between friendship and a couple I have a friend for approximately 2 years and like at the end of the first year of us she turned out to confess loving me. There's no problem in it because i'd been loving her since, but she said that we couldn't be ''us'' in the way i think due to her purposes about ...
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{ "description": "wanting my housemate to replace the scales he drove over", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting my housemate to replace the scales he drove over?
This happened a week or two ago. Background: A couple recently moved in to my spare room. The other day I was out the front of the garage maintaining my bike. On the ground near me was a pair of scales I was using to weigh some parts. My housemate came into the garage and started moving things around in his van, look...
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{ "description": "having higher Standards of friendship", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA Because I Have Higher Standards of Friendship?
Even though I'm going to be a lifelong bachelor (and am used to the lifestyle), I do entertain guests every once-in-awhile, during which time I do everything I can to make sure they're comfortable, in a reasonably clean environment, and that they aren't inconvenienced in my home. I was called up by an ex, and a couple...
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AITA? My boyfriend told me he was going on a 6 week boys trip, he changed it to 2 weeks because of me.
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{ "description": "telling my friend he's an asshole when he's stoned", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for telling my friend he's an asshole when he's stoned?
Names are fake for privacy. I've been living with Roommate for a few years and we get along alright other than the shit we give each other sometimes. Recently, Roommate has been going over to our friend Bill's house to smoke weed. Every time he goes over, he always asks to smoke, and his was of making up for not havin...
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{ "description": "not wanting to work a day I asked for off a month ago", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to work a day I asked for off a month ago?
I took off 10 days at my fast food job to study for a big test coming up at my school. Now I know that can be a bit of overkill, but I really need to do well on this test as my ability to get a higher education depends pretty heavily on this. Not only did I take this off to study, but I took it off for my mental heal...
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{ "description": "unfriending my long known friend", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for unfriending my long known friend?
(backstory) One day he tells me of a group chat he is a part of with his other friends and I want to join in; and after some time he lets me in. Most of the people on it are internet trash. After realizing it'd be impossible to be good friends with those people I decided i had enough of them and blocked most of them. I...
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{ "description": "charging my sister more when I babysit her kids than when I babysit my friend", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for charging my sister more when I babysit her kids than when I babysit my friend
I babysit for a few people. My sister has one kid, and I babysit her kid regularly. My friend has 2 kids and I babysit them every now & then. I charge my friend less because 1. She only asks me to babysit every now and again. 2. We’ve been best friends for five years and she does so many things for me 3. My sist...
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NOBODY
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{ "description": "making a joke on someone's dead Uncle if I didn't mean it", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA if i made a joke on someone’s dead Uncle if I didn’t mean it?
My ex and I have a complicated story. We both were best friends before we started dating and after my ex broke my heart we have been fighting for two months on the most random things cause we try to keep the promise we made about still remaining friends of a break up were to occur. He was roasting me and making me feel...
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WRONG
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{ "description": "playing my music in the mornings", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for playing my music in the mornings?
Sorry I'm on mobile Context:I have two siblings and me being the middle child is kinda tough. I'm 14 soon to be 15 and for Christmas I got this real nice Bluetooth speaker, I barely have a good time to use so I usually play some real nice classic rock with the speaker(shout-out to classic rock fans!). Both siblings ...
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{ "description": "not wanting to text for hours with an autistic person", "pronormative_score": 14, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to text for hours with an autistic person?
There’s a person at my school that I’ll call S. Basically everyone teases him and makes fun of his anger outbursts, since he has autism. I decided to be a decent person and be a friend to him, and naturally he got very attached to me, as some autistic people do. He asked for my number, and I gave it to him. I kind of e...
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{ "description": "asking my girlfriend to stop being so violent whenever she complains about her problematic sister-in-law", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for asking my girlfriend to stop being so violent whenever she complains about her problematic sister-in-law?
Some background. Been dating my girlfriend (will be referred to as “Jen”) for about four years, since my senior year of high school (she is two years older than me). She has a brother (I’ll call him “Ben”) who has been in a pretty rocky relationship with his girlfriend (She’ll be “Pip”) for around two years. Ben is f...
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{ "description": "wanting money instead of favors", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For wanting money instead of favors?
To keep it brief, my twin brother has been borrowing a lot of money from me to pay for stuff because our mom said that if his bank account total drops below $1000 then she's withdrawing the money she gave him to give him a balance of $1000 in the first place. ​ He's been playing me back in small amounts at...
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{ "description": "being angry at my friend for pretending(?) to be interested in me", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being angry at my friend for pretending(?) to be interested in me?
I have considered a guy my best friend for about six years, and have had some feelings for him for several of these. He always seemed to be giving signs of interest, some really quite blatant, so like 3 or 4 months ago, I texted him to tell him how I felt (something I find incredibly difficult). His response was posit...
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{ "description": "telling my neighbour/friend she has the most annoying screechy baby voice", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 15 }
AITA For telling my neighbour/friend she has the most annoying screechy baby voice
My neighbour has a baby 5 months old and she has the most annoying screechy baby voice when she’s talking to him. Like it goes through me and I can’t stand it. “Ooooohhh baby boyyyy what youuu DOOOINGG” and it is soo annoying I just want to rip her tongue out so she doesn’t speak ever again. I told her “do you have t...
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WRONG
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{ "description": "refusing payment", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for refusing payment?
The garage I took my girlfriend's car to to get it fixed decided to fix the stereos wiring while they had the dash apart replacing a few gauges that stopped working. (NOTE THE STEREO HAD NOTHING TO DO WITH WHY THE GAUGES WHERE MESSING UP). We have a contract for the work that he was doing and the price. So when I go to...
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{ "description": "kicking my step-son out", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for kicking my step-son out?
My 24 year old step-son, let's call him Caden, used to be such a sweet, bright kid. We spent many a night talking about our favourite animes, like naruto and dragon ball z. He was the best kind of kid you could ask for. When he turned 18, I assumed that he would pursue his dream of being an animator, like he had tal...
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{ "description": "not lending money to a friend for an abortion", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA if I didn't lend money to a friend for an abortion
Her GF's IUD did not work due to a medical error. Abortion is illegal here but he got a doctor willing to prescribe His GF abortive pills. They did not work the first time, now they have to buy another higher dose. He's asking me to lend him $200 and he'll pay me back in a month (or so he says) they are both in no cond...
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{ "description": "thinking about studying something that won't make me earn a lot of money", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for thinking about studying something that won't make me earn a lot of money?
I'm 17 and I have no idea what I want to be in the future. My family (my parents and my 2 years older sister) is not financially stable, none of my parents have studies, and my mom was fired 1 month ago. They've always told me that I have to study something that will make me happy (even though I don't know what to stud...
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{ "description": "covering my nose whenever I'm near my father", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for covering my nose whenever I'm near my father?
So, a bit of context here. I'm 17, turning 18 in May. My father has been smoking since long before I was even born, (First child) and in fact was involved with many other kinds of drugs and alcohol and the like. Luckily, he cleaned up his act once I came around and now he only smokes his cigarettes. But the thing is, h...
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{ "description": "blocking and reporting transgenders on Tinder", "pronormative_score": 58, "contranormative_score": 147 }
AITA for blocking and reporting transgenders on Tinder?
I want to start off by saying I am not the least bit transphobic, I believe everyone should have the freedom to live however they want to. I may not understand it, but I would die to defend your right to live happily. However, when you sign up for tinder, you explicitly have to list your gender, and you have to list wh...
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AUTHOR
{ "RIGHT": 58, "WRONG": 147 }
WRONG
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{ "description": "'abandoning' my mother and not having any contact with her even though she needs me", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for 'abandoning' my mother and not having any contact with her even though she needs me?
This last month has been the worst month I have ever lived through in my entire life so get ready to read some drama. I'm on mobile so sorry for any typos. Also, I'm leaving some stuff out but I will answer with extra info if people ask about it. I recently turned 20 and was living with my mother until around two week...
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{ "description": "giving my dad an ultimatum and then cutting him out of my life completely", "pronormative_score": 62, "contranormative_score": 12 }
AITA for giving my dad an ultimatum and then cutting him out of my life completely?
This is somewhat of a long story so I’ll try to keep it as informative and short as possible but please bare with me. For context, I am an almost 25 year old woman and my younger brother is 22. My mom is 56 and my dad is 53. My dad had an affair with a random woman in 2011. My parents had seemed to work it out. My mo...
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{ "description": "not letting my friend stay at my place", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for not letting my friend stay at my place?
This has been eating away at me for a while. The story is kinda long and boring but I hope you can help me settle this. I have this very, very close and old friend, (fake name) Arya. I moved away from our hometown to a different country with my husband. We rent a place from some really nice people. I let her know she ...
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{ "description": "forcing my mom to sell the property she planned to retire in", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for forcing my mom to sell the property she planned to retire in?
My mom lives in a different state. I moved away from home awhile back and have lived in a different state for close to 16 years, let's say Oregon. She and I are the only family each other has - I don't have a dad, don't have siblings, she doesn't have siblings, that's it. She put everything she had into raising me, and...
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{ "description": "being a bad friend", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA I'm a bad friend
TL;DR my friend and I talk a lot, and when I don't reply to them quickly or to each message/sentence they sent(they send blocks of text) they think I'm ignoring them. My friend and I have been off and on about our friendship, at times we fight and disconnect altogether for a couple months. But even when we are friends...
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{ "description": "wanting to sleep in a bedroom", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting to sleep in a bedroom
I(24M) work early mornings, with my shift starting around 3am. My wife(23f) has a normal 9-5 job. As a result, I normally go to bed a few hours before her. Last night, we had a friend staying with us, I was filling out paperwork at the kitchen table, and decided I was too tired and wanted to go to bed. She was sitting ...
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{ "description": "trying to control my younger brother's breakup", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for trying to control my younger brother’s breakup?
So my brother’s gf of three years recently broke up with him. My brother (18M) and his ex (17F) made plans to return borrowed stuff and say some final goodbyes. At the time, my parents were out of town. So I was asked to drive my brother from our university to home since it’s a bit of a drive and he was taking the bre...
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{ "RIGHT": 3, "WRONG": 1 }
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{ "description": "not wanting a 3some", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting a 3some?
So my boyfriend and I have been together for over a year, both in our ealy 20s. We're both very open about what we want and what we've done in the past, such as the fact I've had a few 3somes (ffm) which is what he wants with me. Normally I'd say yes and be excited, but I'm not particularly keen on doing this with him...
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{ "description": "not wanting to pay for a work Christmas party", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not wanting to pay for a work Christmas party?
Title pretty much says it all- my office is really into Xmas parties, and everyone thinks I’m a Scrooge for not wanting to go....all said and done though, it’s like $70 after food, gifts, etc and I don’t want to pay it. Holidays are rough as it is, I’ve got big family changes upcoming, and I don’t want to pay to hang o...
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{ "description": "telling my friend that is weird she is dating someone 20 years her senior", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA For telling my friend that is weird she is dating someone 20 years her senior?
My friend is 20 years old she hasn't had a good track record of dudes that she has fallen for. She dated a Air Force dude that was in town for training who ended up being married. She dated another dude who ended up being involved with someone and had a kid. Dated someone who sexually assaulted her. My friend isn't...
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{ "description": "checking my gf's (now ex) phone after I suspected something odd and found she was cheating on me", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 9 }
AITA for checking my gf's (now ex) phone after I suspected something odd and found she was cheating on me?
AITA for checking my gf's phone after she started to behave odd? We already broke up now. We we're in a vacation two weeks ago. We were in long distance relationship in recent three years and were together for more than 5 years. We we're meeting after 5 months and we had planned 2 weeks long vacation in a new country. ...
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{ "description": "outing my best friend's cheating (now ex-) girlfriend in public", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for outing my best friend's cheating (now ex-) girlfriend in public?
About two years ago, in our last year of university, my best friend at the time got a girlfriend. She was his first everything: first girlfriend, first kiss, first sex, etc. It was long-distance (he was from the UK, she from Spain) but he was totally smitten with her. After they'd been long-distance dating for a few mo...
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{ "description": "not housing my \"retired\" aunt who has nowhere to live", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not housing my "retired" aunt who has nowhere to live?
Long story short, my aunt retired from a long museum career at 55 with no savings, very little benefits, and against everyone's advice (including my dad, who is a financial adviser). We all knew she would run out of money in a few years, and couldn't understand what she was thinking. She does have some health problems ...
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{ "description": "not letting my husband sleep on the couch", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for not letting my husband sleep on the couch?
When my husband is tired earlier than normal he never wants to just go to bed in the bedroom. He always wants to sleep on the couch and wait for me to wake him up at bedtime so we can go to bed together. Makes no sense to me but I think he cant sleep as well if i'm not in the bed with him. I hate when he sleeps on the ...
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AITA: The landscapers left a miniature basketball in the shrubs that had been sitting in a lake and I took it.
Today I was collecting rain water and potting a plant for my neighbor. The landscapers came to cut the lawn and clean up foliage. One of them left a small size basketball in the shrubs in the rear of my building that has been sitting in a lake which abuts another development where some discarded toys (mostly balls) fro...
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{ "description": "not making my son accept an apology and apologize back", "pronormative_score": 77, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not making my son accept an apology and apologize back.
My son (4 years old) has a classmate that we see at the ymca play area after school twice a week. This classmate is a good kid but a little wild and much larger than my son. My son likes to build buildings in this play area with the other kids. He is not a perfect child (has trouble sharing and has a potty mouth) ...
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{ "description": "getting upset at a friend for being annoying and condescending", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for getting upset at a friend for being annoying and condescending?
So I have know this guy for about 8 years. We met in high school and quickly became friends since we both were kind of the outcasts. He has always been the type of person who is kind of annoying but I never cared because I knew he was just trying to be funny. (side note, he has adhd) Well a few years after high school ...
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{ "description": "taking advantage of the fact that my girlfriend only likes sex when drunk", "pronormative_score": 25, "contranormative_score": 23 }
AITA for taking advantage of the fact that my girlfriend only likes sex when drunk?
So this is a complicated situation. Been with my girlfriend around 2 years and have lived together like a month. I love her a lot. Sexually though, we’ve had some issues. She’s down to make out, give head, handjobs, etc. But for whatever reason she’s not into penetration. I really don’t know why. She says it’s unpleasa...
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{ "description": "asking the garage to reimburse me", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA if I ask the garage to reimburse me?
Recently my car has had some troubles with the clutch (the pedal itself, not the actual clutch). I took it down to a fancy German car garage - I drive a small Audi, and while it’s not particularly expensive, it is my baby and I was willing to pay more to have my car fixed properly. They tell me it’s a pin, and the part...
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{ "description": "asking about his past", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for asking about his past?
A few weeks ago the bf told a funny story about his "almost hookup". Being the curious gf and also wanting to giggle a but more about it (was trying to steer the relationship to be alright to talk openly about anything, be it embarrassing stories or exes, and to show him it's no biggie). He says he doesnt want to talk ...
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{ "description": "riding the Choo-Choo train", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA - Riding The Choo-Choo Train
Okay, here's the scenario. I take the train to my state capital a few days a week for university classes. One of the days I sit down on the train at 6:45 am and I return home at 8:00 pm. A long day. The train I get home is a VERY popular service and is always crowded when we leave the Capital but after a few stops as ...
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{ "description": "refusing to help my father", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for refusing to help my father?
My father asked me if I could pick my brother up from school and then get picked up by my mother later in the afternoon. I refused because I had to study for a Mock test in three days and I had to post an essay to a college I needed to get in. He said he couldn't do it because he had to discuss something with the water...
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{ "description": "accidentally shaming two girls at a restaurant", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for accidentally shaming two girls at a restaurant?
They were discussing the mechanics of oral sex at a nearby table easily within earshot. One girl insists that blow jobs look weird visually; her friend insists that "I'm sure he doesn't care how it looks" (and she's right), etc. I wasn't following their conversation but certain topics just grab your attention and afte...
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{ "description": "indirectly causing a co-worker's seizure", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For indirectly causing a co-worker's seizure
**Background** 25 Male, Manager at a Restaurant for 8 months. Co-worker is 19 Male, also Manager for the same amount of time as me. **Scenario** My Wife and I have been having problems with our house that we've lived in for 8 months now. Come to found out, there's zero insulation in the attic and all of our heat is ...
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{ "description": "abandoning my anti-lgbt family", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 3 }
WIBTA, if i abandon my anti-LGBT family?
So yeah, first time poster, i was wonding if id be the asshole in this situation. Im 15 and closet trans person (MtF) and very afraid to come out to my parents and friends My family is a very religious chistian mexican family who dont believe in the LGBT stuff Their reasons are: •God Thats it, their only point is ...
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{ "description": "ghosting my \"best friend\"", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for ghosting my "best friend"
I could go into more detail if anyone wants, but I don't want this to become a validation/shit post. Basically me and my "best friend's" friendship has been growing increasingly toxic over the last year, and I feel like she's just become toxic herself. The final straw was her and I hadn't talked for a few weeks, ...
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{ "description": "embarrassing my sister", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for embarrassing my sister.
So, here it goes. I was an innocent 10 year old, minding my business and such when I came upon my sister in the checkouts. She had, ( what looked like to be ) baby’s diapers ( at the time). So there I was, shouting a little too loud saying “ why you getting diapers?” I later realised that they were not what I perceived...
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{ "description": "refusing to take pics of my daughter during dance class and keeping my mom away from class time", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for refusing to take pics of my daughter during dance class and keeping my mom away from class time?
i know the title sounds bad, just hear me out first. my mom pays for my daughter to go to dance class every saturday. aside from the first class, i take her there by myself because it’s close to my apartment and my mom lives 45 minutes away. almost every week, she asks me to take pictures of her during the class. i k...
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{ "description": "refusing to go out in the rain and get carts at my job because they only send me to spare the females having to get wet and cold", "pronormative_score": 14, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA: I refused to go out in the rain and get carts at my job because they only send me to spare the females having to get wet and cold.
I work at your typical large chain retail store. Every single night that I close they send me out to get the carts up for the night. They blatantly have said multiple times Send him out he is the only guy we have up here and it’s cold outside. This last time it was pouring rain and was relatively chilly out, and I refu...
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{ "description": "having (legal) weed in the house", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for having (legal) weed in the house?
Internet friends. Let me regale you with a recent tale. There's no TLDR at the end, because details are important, although I do apologize for the novel. Pertinent info to the story: I am 27 years old, the youngest of 3 siblings who are both married, have kids, have steady jobs, etc. I am single, an avid traveler, don...
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{ "description": "leaving Mailman a scolding note", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA For Leaving Mailman a Scolding Note
A bit of background is helpful first. The mailman for my area frequently misdelivers letters and packages in my neighborhood, including several of my packages in the last couple months. For example, the Christmas present my wife bought me was misdelivered to a neighbor and we never recovered it. I also regularly recei...
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{ "description": "making a joke with a friend", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for making a joke with a friend?
First time posting here, be gentle I was at a summer camp for high schoolers and we had adult group counselors, right? One of the counselors was known to get very triggered over small things. So me and a friend were joking with one of our genderfluid friends about "identifying as an attack helicopter". (For the record...
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{ "description": "telling my wife I would no longer help take care of her father", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA if i told my wife i would no longer help take care of her father
So, a little background on me. I don't have a good relationship with my family at all. My biological father passed when i was 13, and my adopted father (my grandfather) passed when i was 21, and i don't have much to do with my biological mother or adopted mother. So, the scenario i'm about to describe will never happen...
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{ "description": "being jealous/upset of my bffs success", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For being jealous/upset of my bffs success?
I know, I know— The title probably makes me sound bad, but hear me out. My best friend and I have been really into drawing for years now. She’s been drawing for a bit longer than I have, although we’re on just about the same skill level. We both tend to draw a lot in class, especially classes we share together. ...
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{ "description": "sleeping with girls my ex doesn't want me to", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for sleeping with girls my ex doesn't want me to?
I(30m) was dating a girl (30f) for a couple years. Various issues made us both miserable, one of which was our sporadic / vanilla sex life. We agreed to take some time apart and not be boyfriend / girlfriend but still go on dates, starting over from a clean slate. Since then sex has been great, with us both trying new ...
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